346: Zane Finally Opens Up About His Parents' Divorce

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about the trip today but i'm definitely going to talk about it next episode though but jet lagged at all jet lagged like are you are you feeling like a little like loopy from that long flight kooky a little crazy something going on loopy kind of yeah a little loco more so actually relax because when i'm out of town that's when my jet lag hits me but when i come back home usually it like levels out it's really nice like when i come home i wake up like like early early early in the morning every day i love coming back home it's like the best for me no that doesn't sound so bad oh that reminds me um i am actually flying out to see you guys in two days perfect question when you come into town heath in the next couple days are you staying with me are you staying with remy because i i would like for you to stay with me because i can't stay at remy's remy's house does sound nice though like i take advantage of that if i were you stop bookie don't put me on the spot like that you know obviously i want to stay with you but remy she she got that palace you know what i mean take the opportunity to stay in the palace especially with the dogs there the dogs the hot tub the pool understandable baby you know what i understand that i get it her house is 10 000 times better than mine her ac is running through every room and um my guest house i get it it's like teeny tiny and i know you want a bigger space very nice movie theater her setup like that little like backstep and like the popcorn machine all of that would love to get the invite remy or cal to uh see that movie theater would you stay with remy if you had the opportunity x-rated content on that screen would be epic you know what jared you're absolutely right but you know what i think it's time to roll this intro zip it zip it let's run the intro wow very good awesome it's coffee talk baby let's hit it uh yeah welcome back to zany heath unfiltered i'm your host zane i'm heath i'm matt and i'm jared um and thank you again for coming uh here when you could be anywhere else you could be anywhere else i feel like i'm still playing anywhere else but you're here thank you so i'm so curious for our listeners for our viewers if you notice like our intro maybe sounded a little off the intro before the intro yeah the intro before the intro yeah i want to know when people caught on like i don't think i don't think anybody will catch that it's so tough especially the way jared i'm sure edited that i'm sure he's gonna edit it so smoothly where but if you left it raw people are gonna be like us taking like 10 seconds to think of a response we're sitting there like having to go through the whole outfit abc so yeah tell the people what we like basically just we pretty much we pretty much did that trend where it was it's called like abc and we're like we're gonna be like we're gonna be like we're improv so you start with a next person starts their sentence with b next c next z and we kept going until we hit the intro and i don't know we're just getting a little crazy today you know we're here with a bunch of goofy mood side quests a bunch of just like you're never gonna know what's coming you'll never know what's coming with unfiltered and that's how we like to run this show baby you know what my favorite game to play is it's really stupid and it's obnoxiously long but the i'm going on a picnic and i'm bringing apples oh i'm going on a picnic i'm bringing apples and bananas i'm going on a picnic and i'm bringing apples bananas and care like and you just kind of like oh you have to remember you have to remember that yeah you have to remember everybody's previous one before you say yours and it gets really confusing like halfway through you're trying to remember what everybody said for their letter we actually just played a game like that in croatia when we went and um i feel like you would know this game it's called what's the name of the game chump or something like that it's like and why do we play this game together and then uh clap tap yes then do your sign so everybody has like a certain sign it's and it's whatever you want but it's a non-verbal sign and then it's like the next person goes or you point at you point at whoever's next then they come up with they do their sign and then they point it but it's like a you have to signal you don't you have to do their sign for them to pick it up yes yeah so like if you start you point at me right after you do your sign i have to do your sign and then i gotta do my sign and then i point to the next person and then they have to do my sign then their person and it goes round and round until and then people like if you fuck up then they get yeah it out and then it goes it's like big booty like or have you ever big booty it's a big booty it's like a summer camp game you go all right big booty big booty big booty oh yeah big booty now everybody has a number so like jared could be like number four and i'd be like big booty number four and then you go number four number three and then that's heath and then he'd be like number number three number two and so you say your number and then you say another number and that person has to be listening and you just keep going until someone fucks it up i wonder if that game is easier than the non-verbal one because it's definitely like it was everybody's signs were so just out of pocket oh yeah we're getting these we're getting these we're getting these it was fun but we're we're playing that it was like a drinking game and we were like when we played this game it was fucking awesome because we were on this like tiny tiny island where we like docked at and we were the only ones on this island and they had like a little this little shack where this guy just worked at serving drinks but we were the only ones on this tiny tiny little like heath i mean tiny little island like the island was probably as big as like like five of these studios wow it was weird it's a core memory now like i'll never forget that moment did you see anything weird on this island no kids just us no i didn't see no blue stripes anywhere no creepy men what are y'all oh okay you know just a nice little episode what are y'all referencing yeah what is your favorite drinking game and what is your least favorite drinking game okay okay i i have mine okay what is it i think it's called ring of fire it's where everybody's in a circle around the table and then you have to like do the the the ping pong ball into the cup and then you give it to the next person and then it always goes to the right but then you stack the person or you get smacked away yeah rage cage that's what i was gonna say rage cage that's your favorite i love that i fucking hate it that is my really because you always end up drinking way more than you think and there's always that isn't there a nasty cup usually in the beginning it's usually just filled it's filled to the top usually it's just like yes but the thing is that it's only fun when everybody plays it properly like you know when it starts getting like real messy and people aren't playing it right that's like when it gets super annoying like i'm the guy that's just like all right let's start over like i don't like or you just boot people out that are not playing it properly but that game you always got to be paying attention though too because it can come right to you you don't get that moment of like breathing and be like hey so how are you this song's so great you can't have it next thing you know you're like fuck me and then and then the cups get so high and you're trying to bounce that ball just to get into it and then it falls over and then it's just a fucking game i suck at but i love it i just wish i was better at it it's that game where it's like four beers on each corner beer die on each corner of the table and then it's just a fucking mess and i just i suck at it i i suck at fucking getting that dice on the table and i suck at catching it if i was good at it something addicting about it beer is huge these days that wasn't popular when i was in college but i feel like frats and stuff like everyone's playing fucking beer die yeah it's a game you gotta like practice to be good at you know what i mean like it's not one where anyone can participate it's a great game for the beach because that was the first time i played it was on the beach i feel like you would lose that die in a second yeah because think about it you can like die for the dice you don't have to you're not hurting yourself it takes one accidental like push into the sand and then it's gone you know like yeah but we gotta you gotta come with a stack of them yeah you pack with a with a ton of dice but yeah or die sorry die but like it's also such a man game too like i don't think i've ever seen like girls playing beer die but they'll all respect to women who play beer die i just think you guys need more representation and more inclusion in the female community with beer die but i you know i love just the old-fashioned beer pong too i think it's a timeless i think it's perfect for all ages i've seen all ages play that game from literally like literally toddlers yeah toddlers can even play they can play with their fucking apple juice or sippy like it's such a perfect game for everybody you gotta play the classic at a table like normal i hate all the beer pong in the pool and you got the little floating triangle it's like just no get out of the water if you want to play i also like how much beer pong brings people together. too like if there's a party and i mean i feel like i've been to a ton of parties where nobody's talking to anybody but their own crew right like i feel like that happens a lot here in la as soon as a beer pong table set up people start coming to the table you're watching the game now you're friends now you're making friends you're you're conversating what what reminded me of how much beer pong brings people together was when alicia and remi went to that little event for that show that all the girls are loving uh not right now but like it was probably popular a couple months ago it's called uh surf's up no um surf's up oh it's the other hockey show it's not hockey though is it it's like a high school it's not it's the other one it was it's the new one oh it's like the straight off campus off campus yes alicia and remi went to an off-campus event but alicia didn't know like she doesn't watch the show but remi did and i think remi was doing something and alicia starts playing beer pong with the whole with like the whole cast but she didn't know she was playing with the whole cast and you could tell in the video they're having so much fun and i mean the video did amazing just because yeah alicia had no idea who she was playing with and i remember seeing that i was just like they did such a good job bringing that beer pong uh game into that event because if there was no beer pong there would be no like videos right or there would just be nothing winning never sounded so good what would you do if you won big at crown coins casino real people win real prizes every single day hi this is michael from dallas and i won 40k and finally renovated my home visit crown coins.com sign up in seconds enter code crown and get a free lucky wheel bonus you may win up to 10,000 sweeps coins crown coins.com that's c-r-o-w-n coins.com no purchase needed code valid for new users only void were prohibited by law 18 plus terms and conditions apply nothing viral or nothing like for people to look at and be like and beer pong it always is kind of like a perfect game because it does end up like getting down to one cup versus one cup and i think it's going to be a great game because it's going to be a great game even though like someone can catch a stride that whole time they're still not nailing the one cup so the other team catches up and it gets pretty uh even people are always watching when it gets a one one-on-one everybody like everybody in the vicinity is now watching especially if it's a long game everyone's like you know what but but i hate like a like a douchey beer pong guy or i think now we've matured out of it i'm not around those types of dudes but remember when you were younger there's just like a dude who's like uh-uh no this that like just sinking them yeah that's your fall back yes you're kind of a hot like only get one re-rack i also don't like not only that i fucking hate when they play like the the side fucking bonuses like the bounces and the fucking so i like i hate that and they blow or like girls blow guy's finger how about we just play the fucking game like they just bounce the minute you start bouncing it's like oh you're a loser you actually take this seriously god oh you're you're trying to get snake one by me oh you're 20 years old got it do you ever play troll rules what is so if you play a game of beer pong and you don't make a single cup the entire time you could still win but if you didn't make a cup you have to sit under the table for the entire next game i was like rushing a frat i'd like i thought i had to do that it was the worst damn that's actually that's actually really funny i've never i've never heard of that yeah troll you know what i'm gonna be that douche bag next time i see a beer pong table and i'm i'm gonna be like this troll whoever has to troll yeah wait the whole the whole table no just if you did not make a cup the entire game you have to sit under the table the only one i've ever heard of was a skinny dipping one which i was always my biggest fucking fear always my biggest fear is you have to get skunked you're supposed to like streak around the house around the house naked oh i've never heard that you know i'm not in like when i'm playing beer pong i'm drunk i'm not in a i'm not in a moment where my my dick looks good no and now i have to fucking run around and have everybody laugh at me when my penis looks shriveled up like that's not nice it's not fair i do love flip cup though flip cup like flip cup is just a clean good game and i'm damn good at flip cup but if someone though is bad at flip cup everyone just gets quiet it's just looking it's like britney come on and they're like and then they're like not even flipping the cup they're doing it the wrong way and you're like no but you know it's it's all nerves right if you miss it rest of the fucking time it's this weird thing where it's like all eyes are on you everybody is like first flip it's like that first one because once you miss it you're fucked and then you look down the line your teammates ahead of you are like this yeah yeah kill me like you're playing for money or something it's like this just super competitive and then i'm big about flip cup though keep your drink on the fucking table until it's your turn people who like sit up here and wait till it's their turn and they go for it it's like no the drink has to be on the table when it comes to you wait what do you mean you're not gonna do it you're not gonna do it you're not gonna do it they're flipping they're flipping but you're ready position the cup needs to be on the table some people just they nurse it right here and they're like oh my turn ah sorry sorry yeah put that cup on the fuck you know what i think start you kick people out of the party that's it you're gone that's you're you have to know yeah your fucking uber's been called you're gone bye well you know what makes us losers us talking about beer pong for the first 20 minutes of this podcast you know it's our target audience i feel like everyone's in college right now you know guys can you i'm so curious comment your age because i'm very curious like i don't know if i'm we're seeing 16 we're seeing 18 we're seeing 30 listening and watching this show i have no idea or if you honestly if you grew with us you are probably in your mid-30s real quick i gotta get it out there it's a florida story it's not well i guess technically it is a florida man story i'm glad that that's your like now that's your homework that you bring every week it's like you know that's what you need to bring why can't read there's this guy in florida that has a restaurant right and i guess in the past there was a private event where he had his restaurant rented out and it was like a nudist group that wanted to come in and just have a fully nude dinner for the restaurant night this is just a regular restaurant it's nothing this is in hollywood florida yeah it's called classica i believe class steakhouse or something like that not very classy steakhouse soiree and i guess the guy really he liked the event uh thought it was a great success and then he changed the entire restaurant and now the whole thing is just a fully nude restaurant and i guess i guess there's like like loopholes to be able to do this because they're closed shuts the windows and since all of the servers are closed they're not the entertainment so it's not like there's like a a pushback of like what the place is classified as it's just the customers get to wait wait it's every customer like do you can you choose to be clothed or not in this restaurant they they give you a robe if you want to opt out i don't know i think this guy likes to see a bunch of naked bodies everywhere he goes he goes to sit down like it's a chili's restaurant he puts his leg up so isn't that crazy i feel like his business is not it's gonna i think it's not do well i don't think it's all the time i did hear about this it's like kind of like you gotta like it's almost like an omakase experience you gotta just book it you know and i think it's like one maybe like once a week or once a month omakase like it's a sushi experience where it's chef's choice and it's like you have to be there at a certain time and you're sitting with strangers and got it okay so it's it's not every day it's just sunday imagine it's a bocce though when you got that oil splattering on you this food needs to be cold i don't want all that hot just stuff going on my skin so i'm can we can we see some of the comments i'm really curious to see how people are taking this this is giving swingers vibes yeah like this is like you realize how many swingers are out in florida and this is something kinky my first thought is are there cameras in the building and is it recording because ain't no way that's true a lot of these restaurants do have have to have cameras in there so and the seat covers like the sanitized oh yeah yeah i'm not sitting on a fucking seat that's like not wrapped like you know the toilet seat you're on that like parchment paper like just getting every seat has a machine where it's just like like the toilet seats and the airports yeah i'm there's no fucking way you know he's gonna have no problem trying to get people to work at that restaurant like everyone's gonna be like yeah can i work the the nude shift can you imagine those you know those like those fancy napkins what are they called the little uh that you wrap uh your silverware around what is it called like a napkin a handkerchief sure yeah can you imagine because now everyone's dude it's like you know like you know every here and there is like oh uh uh poopy stains on all the fucking napkins or like the waiters are gonna be like no what would you like you're just like looking at their fucking news like sorry i didn't catch that at all can you run that back one more time they're just so distracted by the nudity if you were that whole place gonna smell like surf and surf if uh would you work there as a server like could you be would you be able to handle it like yeah i think i could like definitely i mean that shift would fly right by I don't know like it just would be like it would take the mundaneness out of your job it's just because everyone's naked you know the servers are back in the kitchen like every comment pf diddy that is so good you know all the servers when a certain table comes all the servers go back go in the back and they go yo did you see the fucking thing on him yeah end of the table Just look Someone goes Bring your own meat. I mean, I bet everyone they're going is 65 and up for sure. Zane, next time you go home to Florida, you have to go there. Well, I'm just going to go. I'm not going to go naked. I'm going to go in my robe because that's an option. And yeah, 100%. I'm going to go in there and I'll tell you my experience for sure. You guys have to go. I think that's a great experience. I feel like your mom would think it's funny too. Oh, my mom would. She's like, no, I don't need a robe, thank you. My mom would go naked. Like, Jesus, mom. Who is it? Brooks Nader? Do you know who that person is? Yes, that's crazy. She was in Italy. Paparazzi caught her topless on a boat with her family and her dad. Oh, what? Like, she's like bare boobs out with her dad on the boat. What do y'all think of that? Oh, wait, wait, wait. I know some girls like to tan without their top on for sure. But I think I got to see the picture. No, the picture of the dad looking down is crazy. Like, I'm like, they're standing face to face. Like, you can see it's like the back of her dad. She's topless, but it's like her dad's back. I think go to just images it will have. Brooks Nader on the boat. Oh, that's her dad. Yes. Okay, maybe it's her stepdad. No, that's her real dad. Doesn't make it better. Where's his hand? That's what I want to know. That is, I mean, I understand if you're like with your sister, with your mom. Okay, like, I get it. You're in Europe. Go topless. I'm not shaming the toplessness. I just think it's like, it's just, that's a little comfortable. But I don't know if that's more of a European thing. Like, are Europeans? Are European girls getting topless in front of their dads? And are we just like so modest as Americans? We think that's weird. I think that here, think of like nudist colonies. If it was like a family of them, you wouldn't find it weird. Right? Right. It's like, I've met you. Like, you don't know. Yeah. Good point. I guess it's just like, well, that's like, you know, I totally get it. I'm also like not speaking my mind because I've met her a few times. And so I just feel bad. Even she knew what she was doing. It's not like she's being caught. Oh, no, no. I'm just saying, like, as soon as I meet somebody, as soon as I meet her, as soon as like I meet them in my head, I'm like, oh, fuck. I like, I'm too scared to talk about them. Like, I just feel bad. Yeah. I know what you mean. She was at, or she was at her Coachella house. Remember she came. So bring her on. Speak your truth. Explain yourself. I got questions. I mean, I guess. I just think in, in today's society, society with the issues with parents and children, like it just, it's easily avoidable. Right? Sure. Like, I feel like there's so many. There's so many weirdos out there that are, it's best to just avoid. It's really hard also to judge a picture. Like, like, I just want to, I wish I could see. Zane just wants to see it uncensored. No, no, no. It's really hard to judge. I wish I could just see. I just want to see like a 10 second video. Cause that could be completely taken out of context. It's not. It's not. What do you mean? It's not. Like, it's not like dad. Like, no. Did you see the video? I, not the video, but I guess I've seen, I've seen pictures from different angles. I, so you see, like to me, paparazzi, they're very strategic. Like they take a bunch of pictures and then they're going to post what it's going to be talked about. Right? Like, yeah, his hand is right there, but like, you have no idea what that video is. Right. It could have been like, look, he's getting on the boat and she's timeless. Like there's multiple angles of this. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. And once again, they knew, they knew what they were doing. Like this, they knew paparazzi was around. It's not like she would have was like, Oh my gosh, I've been caught. Is that her full like blood dad? Yes. Okay. So I don't know. I don't want to spend too much time like poking and prodding at this. I just think it's just so interesting. Maybe Brooke wants to explore the nudist colony route. You say, I'm going to play devil's advocate here. Maybe she wants to explore that. Maybe her dad is also trying to explore. Maybe this is their first trip where they're like, Oh, let's try being a nudist family. Hear me out. If you saw the dad nude in front of the daughter, see now that is a crime. But also like, we're also in a world where, you know, you know, like the whole free the nipple. Yeah, damn right. Free the nipple. Yeah, exactly. So it's shaming nudity. I'm not, I'm not even even shaming it. That's what I want to clarify. I'm just like, right now, like thoughts are coming in my head. It's like, Oh, actually if it was no pain, like no underwear, like completely like nude, maybe I'd be like, Oh, that's crazy. You know what I mean? It's still weird. I would never want my daughter. I would never, like, I would never want my daughter topless. In front of me, like, absolutely not, especially as an adult, like, you know what I mean? Yeah, like that's where it's just strange. But even as a child, I mean, there's just, but I'm also saying there's, there's a time and a boundary where it's like, okay. Or maybe it's like, you know, maybe what if it was like this PR thing where she's just like, Oh my God, this is, he'd be great for the show. Cause she has a show right now. Yes, this is exactly, it's a P it's a publicity stunt. Look, we're talking about it now. We're like, I got to see the dynamics of this family. I got to see the show. Yeah. Yeah. So I do have another. Florida story. If you guys want to hear it. Yeah. Let's hear it. Jared, could you, could you pull the, um, the article up? This lady was just charged for what's going on with her. Gosh, that's a big old cricket. Be nice. This lady was just charged for child abuse. And you want to say, I think the only thing that's being abused are the, um, what's really crazy is the fact that she's charged for biting. Oh my God. Come on. I can't even look at it. Go on. Go on. That's not her real teeth. That was edited. This is the actual, Oh my God. It's the actual site. I thought somebody edited that. That's crazy. And what's crazy is when I saw that, I just pictured like a shark bite out of a surfboard. Like I, I need to, Oh my God. I'm not laughing that it was a child abuse thing. Like obviously the child, like it's no, I mean, that's why I don't feel bad about making fun of her fucking gnarly ass teeth. Because she abused a child. So it's fair game. Yeah. I just need to see like, did what is a finger missing? Like what is God? This is so messed up. I need to see the damage, I guess. Well, if she hasn't escaped prison yet, her teeth are definitely trying to my goodness. She going to, she going to right through them handcuffs. But you know what? Like her eyebrows remind me of that one lady. Frida Kahlo. Yes. Frida Kahlo. It's like literally the exact eyebrows. It's like a Wallace and Gromit Frida Kahlo. Oh my God. That's who she looks like. The Wallace's girlfriend. Yes. In like the Curse of the Were-Rabbit. Yeah. Wallace's like girlfriend. You know that, you know that a video of what's her face from Stranger Things? Um, uh, fucking, uh, Eleven. What's her name? Millie Bobby Brown. Millie Bobby Brown. Did he ever see that clip where she's just like, it tastes even better. It's or is a carrot and it tastes even better. And then she smiles and then it immediately goes. The better. The better. You know what? I think she really enjoys these little memes that people make, though. I think she's very in tune with that world. Yeah, for sure. For sure. She leans into the living back and forth between the pictures. Jared, it's spot on. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. I like Millie Bobby Brown. I just don't like her movies. Well, did you watch her as a person? I think she's like, I feel like I'd get along with her very well. She needs to like level up and get some like bigger movies going. Enola Holmes are fun movies. I don't like them. Enola Holmes? No. The first one's really good. The second one's cute. And the third, I didn't like the plot. No, I was like kind of exhausted. And the one that she had on Netflix, remember she was like a princess and it was like a dragon or something. It was. Oh, yes. I remember that one. I remember that one. Yeah, she has such a big Netflix contract. I think she needs to be doing like Natalie Portman was doing. Yes. Get a Black Swan. Be in a David Fincher film. Shake it up. But she needs to be, she needs to like get that role, that perfect role because I just don't think she's gotten it yet. It'll happen with time. She's pretty damn good. Yeah. I think honestly it might happen for her when she's older. You think so? Yeah. Like when she like grows into her, like how old is she right now? Like 21? 22. My gosh. Yeah. She's still young. She has so much. She's with Bon Jovi. She's with Bon Jovi's son. Oh, yeah. I forgot. I can't believe she's a mother. Well, adopted mother. No, she's not. Yeah. She adopted a child. Oh, really? Oh, my God. Really? Yeah. Oh, is it because, can she not? Well, she's busy, but she has the money. Like, I don't know. Like, I think Millie Bobby Brown had to age pretty damn fast. Oh, my gosh. Yeah. In August of 2025, they welcomed a baby girl through adoption. Got it. But I mean, that's, you're young, but like, go for it. Crown cause for sale. Winning never sounded so good. What would you do? What would you do? You won big. At Crown Coins Casino, real people win real prizes every single day. Hi, this is Michael from Georgia. I won 40K and finally renovated my home. Visit crowncoins.com. Sign up in seconds, enter code crown, and get a free lucky wheel bonus. 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No, no, he doesn't need to look like. - You don't like me. just an arab baby because it would um it's easy to uh bring them to like our like our family my family's like okay household like you know my imagine bringing culturally get along with of course i think any sort of arab any sort of lebanese any sort of arab in them i think i would like to have okay that i'm adopting nothing wrong with that yeah and then you know some people can adopt a culturally different baby as well but like you know it's everyone's preferences of what they're comfortable with or i just get one of every race oh my god it's kind of like you collect them all type deal yes because then or or how about um of an adoption blind box i mystery box remy will be like oh my gosh come with me to adopt a baby and i don't know what it is just shaking it before it like opens it's a giant like uh crib has all the different races on the side like oh i really want to get this one hopefully i get it it's like terrible terrible terrible zane at what age like how do i even word this um like you're saying that you could like see yourself adopting like say like do you do you have like an age in mind where you're like oh i want to be a dad by this age like would you be like okay if i don't have you know uh like somebody that you're married to and like would you be single and adopt oh no i wouldn't be single okay do it uh like joint and share like an adoption with somebody yes like i i wouldn't mind if that was our only option okay you know what i mean like if we if we could not make a baby i would not mind adopting would you do surrogacy that i think that all depends on if she can make a baby or not right because what i'm saying like maybe like her uterus like can't host a pregnancy but she does have eggs but you get someone else to host your baby for you sure yeah would you do that over adoption oh um but also surrogacy is expensive and not everybody has the means to do surrogacy yes like yes it is expensive but but don't they have they don't have like plans for that for that for that like a payment plan not like even like insurance or they don't have anything like that like some sort of like way to help people i don't think so because like ivf is super super expensive too is that not considered like a like a need and when it comes to the world of no well it should be that i think i think there should be funding and we should be able to like help people you know they should have that right that should be like that that's something where like i feel like people should have more access to like if you want a kid and you literally can't like you shouldn't have to pay a lot of times people think there's like a like there's like a morality clause with like uh ivf and they think it's like wrong i think i think when you get into like designer babies that's where it starts getting like all right yes that also when you're able we don't need to do all that oh that's when like people go through catalogs and like try to pick like what they know no no like where you can like specify gender you could maybe pick like even recessive traits like eye color yeah like that where you're like literally like shopping oh that has nothing to do with like looking at parent or different uh families who to adopt your baby is that what you're thinking no no you know how like you go through a catalog you can choose a donor i no that's how i was born yeah that's all i was trying to get to i was like no that's fine right that's fine yeah you created like your eye color no no no it was just like my mom got a description of my dad she didn't see a things like height weight eye color you have no idea who this guy is right no i have no idea what he looks like would you like to know if somebody was like in this pamphlet i have a picture of your dad would you want to see it i think i would be curious to see what i got from him looks wise because i look so much like my mom but you would never care to meet him though no not really i oh my god i would like i would love to meet the thing is it's just like i've always had this mentality of i grew up in my parents house and i grew up in my parents house and i grew up in my mom was very honest from the beginning of like the situation of how i was born so it was never like one of those situations where it's like oh your dad's a deadbeat and he walked out on us she was like no it's just i'm gay and this was how i had to have a kid and so i never felt like i had that part missing from my life it was just kind of the fact of my being more out of like curiosity like i i would i would never like i would never want a relationship yeah with that person at all it's more just like i just want to be able to have like a lunch with him and have a conversation and see how many similarities i have when it comes to just like the way we act just that that's where i'd like but i would never after that i would cut it off i'd be like i don't think this is healthy after this like but there's a bliss to the ignorance as well of just like not knowing because the moment you do know like how it is in your head it could just could be different sometimes i've heard i've known people have been adopted and they've met their real dads and sometimes they like regretted it because they just there's a sense of like disappointment with the mystery of it and then it yeah then you feel like you have a relate now you have a relationship with them and then it's you have the guilt of like do i want to maintain that and even you could be kind of disappointed with it where i'm not trying to speak for you i'm just saying they just like i wish wish i would have just never known but sometimes they have met and been like that's great i guess i guess it all comes down to like the type of person you are right like like me i'm able to i'm able to uh shut it off shut it off it's very like to me it's way more just like oh curiosity oh how like oh let me see and then go away and that's it and you know what i think i'm the same way because i think i think my lack of curiosity is my is like a result of such good compartmentalization of that yeah of just being able to disassociate and be like yeah i just i don't know my dad and that's that you know i think also taking away the mystery not saying that you know even if his life went a different way or whatever but like my description of him from what his profile is that uh he was like a military serviceman um he was like a really good student in college and the reason that he donated was because his sister was like in a similar situation where she needed like a sperm donor to have her children and that had a really big impact and so he wanted to help people like his sister you might have a bunch of siblings out there too i have like oh six oh wow like half siblings that i know about oh yes you've mentioned this before yeah right you find out your dad your dad is a Rothschild you're like oh you know maybe i do want a relationship you know what none of your like a bill like a bill gates have any of your half siblings met him uh i don't think so okay no i think he's very private i think i'm with you where i would be hesitant about meeting my biological father but i would be open to knowing other people who share half of what i have and then i think i would like the tea from them if one of them wanted to go visit i'd be like i don't need to see a picture but how were they just tell me tell me yeah i think there'd be a bit of that i'd be curious actually i take that back i think i would want somebody else to meet them first before it gets to me because can you imagine like they look up my dad and he's like a fucking serial killer i'd be like that that would that would fuck me up like if i if i found out that this person was a Rothschild i'd be like oh my god i don't know he was like crazy yeah evil evil what if that would fuck me what if he was like fucking loaded as a sperm donor are you are you're not entitled to being an heir of his fortune i think i don't think so you know possibly if he dies and has like no other family and leaves and doesn't specify where his money would go or his assets which would never happen which would never happen in a rich family they would oh it's always going somewhere yeah it's never going to be in a situation where it's going to go to uh but what if he's like what if y'all meet me he goes you know what i love you you've been like a son to me and like i hate everybody in my life and i just want to give it to you you know just like that is a great plot to a movie yes my i'm on my fourth marriage i don't like any of our kids and he goes jared you're the only one that's ever tried to look and find me and i really respect that thank you he goes i want to leave everything to you that'd be all right let's find him um i have a i have a question um say a couple like gay or lesbian um they do the uh sperm donor route or egg donor whatever it is they decide that they want to like have this baby so like if it's say jared like your mom's situation if they go through that and separate do they pay child support oh yes yeah you're saying if basically if jared's parents got divorced while he was a child because they're contractually like still they're like legally their guardians and their parents yeah because then i don't know if it's like they technically don't have a biological tie like if it wasn't there like is there like a weird loophole in that adopted kid like yeah there's even no biological attachment to that child but they went in as a union of it right that's what i'm thinking like you should yeah people would people would get away with it all the time then yeah there has to be like a strict thing about even like adopted does brad pitt pay angelina uh like alimony or anything like that adopted it together yeah they because they adopted sometimes she is some of her kids though she adopted and even i've known other wealthy families where they have adopted kids but the mom adopted them and they're like oh my god Adopted the kid, not the husband. Oh, interesting. yeah that has happened like in certain where they take responsibility in a way yes individually yes yes i could see a situation where because angelina jolie is also super fucking rich and successful i could see her just being like i don't want him anywhere as a i don't want him in a part of our life even financially i don't need his uh support yeah either so she's in like a a good situation where she couldn't do that too a question for you zane you know your parents were divorced did your dad have to pay child support to your mom i'm sorry if this is like a personal question it's not at all um yes okay yeah because i was living with my dad okay my mom paid child support correct to your dad correct and she had a more she had a more stable job than my dad my dad used to have those jobs but his job was not stable which means he was home more which is the reason why he was able okay when us uh as custody as custody yeah because my mom her shifts it's like every pretty erratic pretty erratic as a firefighter so she just was and like 12 hours it would never work she couldn't afford like a nanny and everything so like it just that's just how it had to be uh yes she paid yeah she paid child support probably double two for you and ollie i'm sure they figured it out where it was just what they could afford because child support is all different by like the income how many kids there are it's crazy because my dad also like they we live pretty frugal like we're i remember as kids we're all sharing rooms and shit so like what's the difference between child support and alimony great question i always forget what well good thing we have a computer alimony supports lower earning ex-spouse while child support covers a child's basic needs and living expenses so okay alimony is like if you're the and you get divorced alimony is supporting your your ex uh with money not the kids which makes sense because it's like if the you know the husband makes a lot of money the wife is a stay-at-home mom you're now not up like you don't have your own career that you've been working towards or have the um i guess the background for like proof for like if you were to find a new job and things like that you weren't building yourself up so it's kind of like a this amount of money because you've been a mom for so long yeah okay so that reduces the economic disparities and maintain a lifestyle similar to the one enjoyed during marriage when your parents though got divorced as a kid were you ever like i'm gonna try i i have a question that kind of like leans into that which i've always wondered and you see it in movies all the time is like matt was what i thought you're about to say like did you feel like it was your fault no oh no that's not no i was kind of more thinking like of a parent trap situation where it's like let's try to get them back together oh no no no i thought you were going somewhere different because i've always wondered that too like you always see like the kids feel the guilt of thinking it's their fault not at all i was uh because when it happened i was way too young you're like this can't be on me with how and also how different they were even as a kid i was like oh yeah you know no no no shit it didn't work out because they are so different right like i i talk about this all the time i cannot believe they were even into each other and married let alone i can't believe it really makes no sense to me i was like not one ounce of me is like that that oh that makes sense winning never sounded so good what would you do if you won big at crown coins casino real people win real prizes every single day hi this is michael from georgia i won 40k and finally renovated my home visit crown coins.com sign up in seconds enter code crown and get a free lucky wheel bonus you may win up to 10 000 sweeps coins crown coins.com that's c-r-o-w-n coins.com no purchase needed code valid for new users only void were prohibited by law 18 plus terms and conditions apply i remember one time i brought it up to you and you're like i've never thought about that was that you know if ali was a girl oh how how different your situation would be because like obviously uh you're she would not i'd maybe have been growing up with like a strong of like i don't know the muslim faith like as well and how would she live between both households with your mom and being a female and just the whole dynamic between your dad culturally and where your mom was like what that would have ended up that's so interesting because i do think about that sometimes obviously for the boys there's not like too many rules right especially like growing up in uh between both households but for the girls obviously when you hit puberty you have to start wearing a scarf because of the dynamic between my dad and my mom my dad would have liked her to wear a scarf but like my mom would have won that fair and square like she would have won that argument of like no she will she will like do whatever she wants yeah like she will not be forced to wear a scarf because like can you be scarf light i want to reiterate i'm not saying all girls uh are forced to wear scarves my it's i mean let's be real parents are not giving girls the option to wear a scarf or not you're wearing the scarf i mean that's how it is in most muslim households that i've witnessed seen around me right it's like the girls are wearing it and then as you grow older that's when they start like deciding oh you know maybe i don't want to wear one because my stepmom's sisters half of her sisters wear half her sisters like don't you know what i mean so you definitely i feel like as you grow older you kind of just like because there's different like branches of islam it's like there's a lot of women that wear there's a lot of women that don't does one side think it's wrong sure maybe but in the end of the day yeah it would everybody yeah been interesting to see how that would have played out i think she would have definitely been more like me yeah yeah i think so it's kind of free-spirited kind of like i do what i want you can't tell me what to do and i think and i think because i mean me i feel like me and my brother are the same way he's definitely now my brother i would say is definitely more serious than me but i think she if i had a sister that was if i had a sister like my brother a brother and sister i think my sister would be more like me because i think i would have connected with her yeah because i just connected with the girls more in general when it comes to like my sense of humor yeah whatever so same here i mean i've always like clicked with i think girls more yeah but i never had a sister and sometimes i like wish i had a sister or it's just it's interesting how that can be such a factor in shaping who you are are sometimes like sibling dynamics and stuff but but it still turns out just fine but it could have changed genuinely who you are as a person based on that and because i was so shy when i was younger and like in middle school and high school when you're a shy boy i feel like you make more friends with girls than guys because i feel like girls will tend to like yeah they'll come to you and become for that kid that's pretty much what happened like i don't think i've ever went out and like try to make friends all the friends that i had back in my childhood it kind of like they kind of they came to me and they opened up because i was so shy and like i feel so bad for you how shy you were i know i mean i don't think i feel bad but i'm just like oh i wish i would have invited you to play i just yeah i i'm not gonna lie he's kind of opened up my um my came out of your shell came my shell a little bit but i would say like the like moving out here i i genuinely feel like i became a different uh person yeah it's weird because zane you're shy i think around new people especially like when we first met and started hanging out like obviously i knew him in high school but like afterwards like you you you're very outgoing within your group yeah like when you know somebody you like you guys are like you're very open and like fun and friendly and outgoing back then but i feel like now you've become more um what's the extroverted yeah it was like a complete flip and i think it was because i lived so and it was also like my surroundings too like i like at first i thought i was just because that's just how i was but i truly think it was the surroundings of my childhood it was like the it was it was my parents being divorced yeah having to go back and forth i wasn't really uh out a lot like outside of the house especially growing up at my dad's house the rules were so tight like you could not leave that fucking house that's just how it is too and especially in like the arab culture the only people with like the only kids were allowed to see were like friends of theirs and then their kids but that was also like rare too what do y'all think of homeschooling i don't know i have no thoughts on it because i'd never experienced it i don't know what the curriculum the curriculum looks like well the thing you can set your own curriculum i just like i think it can be done right and it could be done wrong right because sometimes like some parents will just promote their own agenda onto kids and do they teach them what they think that they should know which is and yeah but i also understand there's circumstances where maybe you do live in an area where like the public school system isn't that great you can live so far away from even like getting to school you know uh conveniently yeah where it's like you have to be like homeschooled in a way and it's worked well for some people that i do know i don't think i've ever met anybody that's been that was homeschooled or maybe i have i just can't like remember anybody that like i've met that was homeschooled i remember there was people in our sports that were homeschooled oh interesting so they would come to participate on your teams yeah okay that's i'm fine with that because parents still want them to like have a life outside of the house too so that makes sense but i just want them to develop such a sense of character and a sense of personality by being around other students because they're throughout you know the school day but i'm not gonna like i'm not gonna lie me being in school it was it was really it was it was tough for me Honestly, like I think I would honestly been better off homeschooled. I think there's, there's, there's pros and cons, right? Like, I think there's nothing more beautiful than being able to stay with your child and teach them. Like, I think that's such a blessing and a privilege to be able to like, yeah, I guess. I mean, you got, say you have both people in the family working that your only option is to just ship them off to school from, you know, seven in the morning until 3 PM. And it's just like some, I was in aftercare until my mom got off of work. So it was like, I was just at school all day. Yeah. Similarly, you go home, you go home, you do like the homework, whatever. And then it's like, it's bedtime and you realize you don't really have that much time with your parents at home, sad in a way. So I think it's cool to be able to do that. Right. Like teacher kid. Then there's obviously extremes of both. I think some people, you know. Some people homeschool. A lot of fear too. I think where they think like, oh, the world is like so corrupt. I don't want this school influencing my child. Like I, they, they want to mold the human more than like the world to mold them. Um, I think it's both. I think it's one like half is yeah. You don't like, you don't want to throw your kid in a school with a ton of, uh, just bad decisions or people like just like bad. And then also you, you want to make sure that you're teaching your kid everything. In the right way. Cause a lot like, dude, a lot of times like in school, it was really hard for me to pay attention in class. It was really hard for me to pay attention. I could never pay attention. I feel like I can never connect with what the teacher is teaching me. And then you only get like an hour. Our classes are so short where like, as soon as I left the class, I felt like I like nothing ever like stuck in my, like that dude. And that's why I feel like I don't know anything from what I learned in school. Cause I genuinely could not pay attention in class. Just jam packing your brain, jam packing your brain a day. If I had, obviously like, I don't think my mom or dad would be good at homeschooling at all. But like, if I had a parent that was really good at homeschooling, willing to bet all my fucking money that I would be much, like much, much better and much more educated. What I would ideally like is, I don't even know if this is like a, like a thing that could be done, but like a homeschooling within like a, a group of parents that could hire a specific teacher. Okay. That makes sense. Like a smaller private school community wise. Yeah. Give like a, like a, a teacher, like a really good salary. Like people all chip in and like say it's 30 kids. I don't know. Right. Which I mean, you're describing, I think things that do exist. Like there are like, like, I mean, there's like Montessori type, like academies and stuff that are very like focused on, I don't know. Let's just go back to one room schoolhouse. Yeah. Just don't give them a fricking package. Yo, you got to teach them face to face. You got to teach. Yeah. I'm speaking on behalf of the future of this nation. There's something, there's something really cool also about like, imagine it's the same fucking kids throughout the entire like school life. Like if you start them from like preschool, right. And like you start homeschooling them, like I'm saying, if you hire a teacher and then you have like a set of kids from a neighborhood and they're in the same class with the same teacher. Kind of crazy. Until 12th grade. Yeah. That's insane. Can you imagine? I wonder if that's good or bad. I don't know. I don't think so. I don't think so. I think you need to be able to be exposed to different types of educators, be exposed to teachers who are passionate about a certain subject rather than just running through all the basics of everything. I think it's a bummer how your experience, I wish you had a better teacher. Like the teachers are so. Well, it's not like a teacher. It was like, it was multiple teachers. So I'm like, yeah, sure. There was like, there was good teachers. There were bad teachers. I just think it was so overstimulating for my fucking brain. Just being in a hour session class seven times a day and also just fucking hating school and have no, like having no friends most for most of my school life. It was like just tough. Like the school was the last place I wanted to be in every day. And I feel like it's hard to learn when you're in a place where that's the last place you want to be in. Like your brain is just not open to wanting to learn when you're somewhere you don't want to be at. Like if I was home and I had like somebody teaching me and like I'm in a place where I'm in a place where like I enjoy, I think your, your brain is more open to wanting to actually learn and like actually paying attention. Like I'm an adult right now. And if I had to sit there for eight hours and just in a book, but also like a lot of it's important though. Like, yes, school sucks, but like it gets you in the rhythm of like having to pay attention and soak in information that maybe you don't want to, uh, you know, digest, but it gets you in a better sense of discipline of becoming a functioning adult, participating in society. When you go to like work. I've been working at a job nine to five at a desk work sucks, but like school in a way prepped you for life. Or is it programming you for that shitty future? Yes. In a way. Right. But it's, yes, I know what you're saying. Like, yeah, it prepares you for like a shitty future. And I think you should always be thinking about what your passion is and pursuing that. But in a way it just gets you in a better sense of discipline of becoming a functioning member of society. Honestly, I, I know there's probably a lot of people that were homeschooled that's listening to this and watching this. I would love to hear from you. I'd love to hear your guys' thoughts on how it was for you being homeschooled. I'm so curious. I feel like I've never had like a genuine conversation with anybody that was homeschooled. Billy and Finney is the only people I know who were homeschooled. Look at them. They're doing great. They were supported by creative parents chasing their passions. And now they're like the best in the world at what they do. I don't think they would have learned what they learned if they were just in like multiple different types of music classes in like public school. I don't know. You never know. But you look at Phoebe Bridger. She went to like Loxa and stuff. And like, she's a huge star because she was at a school that was tailored to their passions. Booker T. Walker. Which public school is not tailored to your passions. But it depends. Sometimes they have a law academy. Sometimes they have a fire academy. Like they have these ways, STEM schools. We're also talking about, we're talking about schools and methods that are more expensive. There's not a right or wrong. A lot of people don't have the privilege of putting their kid in a school like that or in any situation like that. In a monastery. So they have to put them in a public school that's free. So I get that. I understand that. Just pay teachers more. Yeah. And get AC in schools and give them food. Give kids free food. Food. Crown Coins Casino. What would you do if you won big? Hi, this is Chelsea from Dallas. I just hit the jackpot. Won over 1,500,000. Sign up in seconds. Enter code CROWN and get a free Lucky Wheel bonus. Crowncoins.com. No purchase needed. Crown Coins Casino. Good food, breakfast, and lunch. Yeah, I don't want to be eating honey bun from a fucking vending machine every day for lunch. Because if you give kids good food and, like, some cool air conditioning, they want to come to school. You know? I mean, I say that for schools that are struggling with enrollment and, you know, performance. And if you think about the environment that our school is putting in, security guards were having sex relations with the kids. So, I mean, it kind of gives you a good idea of what the fucking, what the vibe was in the school. Cool. I think from listening to. What your complaints were about schools, Zane. I feel like you really would have benefited from a Montessori type education. Because isn't third class schedules. It's like they only have, like, two or three subjects a day. And it kind of. It's at your own pace, too. Yeah, it's at your own pace. And so you would spend, like, two or three hours in math class. And then have, like, a science class after that or something. It would split up so it's not just, like, 50 minutes. Boom. Bell. Yes. And then you go to. You have seven or. Eight periods in a day. And there is. I know this is, like, so. It's just, like, unrealistic. I think I would have loved having the same teacher for each subject. I think that would have. Like, how. Like, how elementary school was where it was just. Yeah, your class. That was who you had the whole day. Yeah. In fourth and fifth grade, though, they. We would do. All of the classrooms were connected by a pod. Fifth grade, we started switching. And we started switching. So you would go to, like, Miss Carpenter to learn science. You'd go to, like, Miss Abernathy to learn. We had a Miss Carpenter, too. Really? We did. Shout out to Miss Carpenter. Yeah. She was a great science teacher. But, you know, I get all angles, though. I get it. I think it's just all depends on. But also, perhaps you for college, too. You're going to have different professors in college and stuff. And, like, and they're experts in their own field. But, yes, I think you could have benefited by being tailored to maybe one teacher. But, you know what? Look where life took you. Like, look, your sense of humor, your sense of passion and creativity, I think, except the beauty of it. Who knows if you had this perfect, like, education, you'd be working at Deloitte or something. No, no, no. Well, the only thing I think. Of going to school is the few the few friends that I've made and also meeting Keith, because if I didn't meet Heath, we wouldn't be here right now. So, like, that's I think that's the only that that's the only time where I'm going to thank public school. But if it wasn't for that, then. And it's crazy, too, because it's like you could have met somebody at public school. You could have met them at a community bingo night. That's true. Yeah, that's true. It's it's yeah, it's so interesting. Very, very interesting. But, yeah, no, I do. I do believe in that. Like, that's why I'm here right now. Yeah. If I didn't. to do public school i wouldn't be here right now me and me sucking at school is like what brought me here yeah okay i saw i saw this and it made so much sense um it was basically your whole life is just picking which regret you want to live with more oh or just like choosing your regrets and i was like that makes so much sense like because you're gonna you're whatever the like other option is you're gonna regret it yeah people are like oh i regret not having children there's people that regret having children, people that regret-- traveling more people regret not taking more time for themselves like right yeah it's just everything you do is a compromise yeah and you just have to live and accept what the regret i guess will be yeah but don't fester on don't marinate on the regrets though that much but just accept that they're going to be there and be at peace with it yes yes yes you could say i regret not going to a private school but then you wouldn't be where you are right now it's just like everything just kind of happens and it's just like yeah there's a million ways things could have played out but like if you did that who knows you might regret something else right it's kind of just like in a weird way just like finding peace in where you are yeah yeah and find your superpower and stick with it period no one's going to incentivize you to find their superpower and that means they might not have found it themselves but once you find it i'm just quoting timothy i'm gonna get that test but like yeah just find what your superpower is stick with it do reps do laps very good i love that it's important just find what you're good at find your passion chase it what did they say they say um when your hobby becomes your job or something like that that's when cashing in on your passion i mean just doing the social media stuff yapping this is like cashing on your passion i think that was like a gary vaynerchuk book but i was like on your passion cash in on your passion i just i always like try to tell people that but you know a lot of people you know they have jobs they have hobbies but it's cool when your hobby you're able to make like it could even be a side hustle or anything but i think people genuinely do find uh happiness and fulfillment when they are doing something that they love as their career yeah so it's a good way but then another thing too that they say is like your hobby once it becomes a career is no longer fun yeah in a way once it becomes your job you're like so it's like i don't know you can't it's also because it's because you're doing now you're what you're doing as a job is what you're good at and you're not good at it now i feel like now you like now you want to be a perfectionist and then that's when you will never be happy with something because you're good at it and you want to be always the best and it's awesome like for when you get to a place we can frame it like we get to do this we don't have to do this i love to do something it's like oh that's awesome even with your own body is you get to move your body like knowing that like you that you would do anything you would trade everything in your life to be back in this body right now so why wouldn't you like take advantage of that your body gets to do that it's able to do that so take care of it yes i think that way about the gym all the time like i saw somebody post it's like you don't have to go to the gym you get to go to the gym or something like that and it just kind of really reframed how i think about it like on those those lazy days and especially i just saw have you ever heard of the iron brothers yeah oh yes is that is that they made a movie out of it i think so i think there's a documentary about iron claw no no no um oh that that's what i was thinking that's what you're thinking about there is a documentary about it's these two i think they're portuguese brothers um and one of them was born with uh cerebral palsy and uh the other one was not but the one with cerebral palsy always wanted to do uh compete in iron man's oh my god i just cried at that video like three days ago and so the his other brother i think it's pedro and miguel miguel uh is the healthy one and he trained in order to bring his brother along with him did an entire iron man with his brother he's done several of them now so he's swimming you know 12 miles with his brother in tow on like a kayak or something he bikes a hundred some some odd miles with his brother in a cart behind him and then he runs an entire marathon pushing his cart and it's just like that's a good brother wow and so it's things like that where you know it's like i get to do this because there are others that can't and i'm so fortunate to be one of the ones that can't it's crazy how like good people are in this world i know it's also wild knowing someone your age right now it's their last day on earth today so enjoy it there's someone out there your exact age it's their last day i thought about that okay this is kind of lame compared to what i just said but i thought about that with the new spider-man movie here we go okay no no no because somebody somebody there was like an edit and then somebody said like it was a common it's like pour one out for the spider-man fans that never got to see this oh and it's like you constantly think about it you think about the thing that you're excited for whether it's a new movie or a new uh or your sports team's next season or something like that but you just never know when your last day is gonna be and it's a very morbid thing to think about but it also makes you appreciate when you do get to witness these things so yeah i think that's a good point i think that's a good point slow down and enjoy the magic you know yeah if you're moving too fast you're moving in fear if you're moving in fear you're thinking about yourself and if you're thinking about yourself you're not thinking about others and when you're not 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literally we're gonna walk out of this room i forget everything we talked about it's so hard for me to live in the past but i am constantly constantly looking at the future and i'm thinking about what worried about the future trying to worry yeah when i'm not like but then it can also switch on you too fans of unfiltered know the best talks happen nobody holds back your feelings deserve that same honesty talk space connects you with a licensed therapist by chat video or audio from your phone get matched usually within 48 hours you deserve to take up space talk space is in network with most major insurers and most insured members have a zero dollar copay no insurance no problem now get 80 off of your first month when you go to talkspace.com and enter promo code space 80 that's s-p-a-c-e-8-o one word match with a licensed therapist today at talkspace.com winning never sounded so good what would you do if you won big at crown coins casino real people win real prizes every single day hi 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my mom does it a lot but if you're nostalgic though that's the good nostalgia is a reminder that you lived a good past that you had a good uh thing going on and that it was a fulfilling time that's why you're nostalgic about it sometimes nostalgia can be a bit of a drug and bit of a problem where you're ruminating too much on the past because you should be enjoying the present more but if you're nostalgic about your childhood it means you had a good childhood yeah man i miss halo too i'm depressed about that hang them high they should bring it back they i mean it is back are you saying it should be like i don't know it's halo an active server i think so they also came out with like the whole remastered series where they went back and redid all the games people are still playing online though with each other right i think so yeah yeah i guess i just miss going to game stop for that midnight release that smell of plastic and cellophane getting my mountain dew and just having a land party whenever a new game came out in my head i always remember it was between 55 to 70 dollars a brand new game that just yeah i remember it was always like 60 bucks yeah is that was that like that's outrageous that's a high amount right yeah for them because in my head it's like they spend so much time making it but then again they're pretty much just taking this file and just dispersing it it's also the hype but then it was great when it would go to like ps2 greatest hits and it was 20 bucks after it had been out for like a year and a half yeah they would make it cheap that but the thing though you had you had something physical like you owned the game and if you beat it sell it to game stop yes get money back for your used game you had something tangible it's not like this downloadable content that you know you you have x amount of storage on your xbox where if you wanted the game you got to delete another game in order to download something new and then it's just like if you had a game 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