Write Down the Stupid Thoughts with Jon Stewart

What was the feeling like because it is a crucible like that you feel the weight of that house in every room and every Piece of furniture that exists in that house and the responsibility I imagine is It is a weight you bear every day that you walk through there The day you walk out is that is the experience one of Liberation is it one of exhale? Are you are you now interviewing me John? No, no, this isn't gonna make it into the show How you doing? I am doing good. I'm a little chilly You know, I will share with our listeners that our little studio our spot is freezing cold all the time It's freezing. You know, that's interesting because I'm usually the one who's cold Out of all four of our foot us left in the house. I'm the one who gets cold, but I'm not cold Yeah, I'm freezing. I think it's because I'm sitting maybe I've got more lights warm in me up So I don't think that's it. No But anyway, tell us about your Airbnb this time. I'm really big. It's small It's it's actually more manageable. It's more manageable this time around and I But you know, I like this place because off every single room. There's a balcony So no matter what time of day you can find the sun Have you gone out on the balcony? Yes, I do and I've been out there a little chairs If you like taking a cup of tea is there a view? What are you seeing on your balcony? That's the beauty of Airbnb It's all furnished. So everything is set to go so every part of the house you can live in. So what's the best view? Of the city. Oh, you get a city view. You get a city view now. We're not that high up So It's a little obstructed on the sides, but right out of the back you can see Most of Hollywood that's cool. Yeah, you are really an urban adventure. Yeah, I love it I've been a city kid my whole life so proud of you. Yes. Thank you. Well, we I'd say the Robinson House holds going to be really excited about those because everybody's gonna be excited about this one Yeah, Austin and Aaron for those of you who haven't listened to our show I talk about them all the time, but they are 16 and 14 so they're just getting to the point where they watch Newsy type shows and they love John Stewart. That's who we have y'all. We have John Stewart here with us today. I know that yeah He is now in the guest seat. Let's do an introduction and get John. Let's get him out here. All right, John Stewart is one of America's Foremost voices in political satire known for his 16 year run on the Daily Show and his recent return as its host and executive producer and Monday nights are perfect because The boys stay up to watch the Daily Show Monday through Thursday, but Monday it's on for an hour The rest of the day is a song for like half an hour, so I just thought I'd throw that out there. I'm just letting you talk He is also a dedicated social activist whose efforts were instrumental in passing landmark legislation including the Pact Act and the 9/11 Victim Compensation Fund Bill securing vital support for veterans and first responders He currently hosts the podcast the weekly show Okay, and without further ado John Stewart Thank you so much. That was lovely. I was listening back there to what you were saying and I thought oh my god, did I die? It's like you know you are no you are alive. We're happy to have you here and thank you Greg Obviously for letting me stay at the Airbnb. I'm so appreciative. It's really nice, isn't it? It's lovely Although I have to tell you that no disrespect, but if you are in an Airbnb where every room has a balcony That's called a hotel So I apologize. I don't know what they told you. I don't know how much they charge But you you're living in a hotel They're being done. Yeah. Oh my god. Well, yeah. Yeah. How are you doing? How are you guys doing? It's it's lovely to see how you guys are great Thank you. You look healthy. I feel too. Yeah, yeah, you're doing better than we are because you're only working one day a week Take something that's the if I know that or if I know that that like the daily thing is kind of a ripoff It kind of it ground you down to a nub a little bit, but this one day a week thing has been revelatory. I can't that when I look at you know Talk shows comedians folks who are on every night. Yeah, I can't imagine. That's the first thing Ellen used to say you should do a talk show. You should do. Yeah, I was like there's why why would I go from what I was doing To another thing that is really scary and hard. Yeah, it's hard for me to explain to you the kind of pressure That you know comedians in talk show host phase. It's not something. I don't think you'd be able to bear up to you And uh, so I agree There's a lot of time a lot of people say what's the most important job in the world And and they go I don't know whoever took over for Ellen But it is hard. I mean you've got to come up with something you've got to have an opinion about the world every day Especially your commentary. But not hard. It's It's a real get for performers when you come up You know, there really is there's a ladder and you really do make your bones Doing the hard work the kind of grunt work of comedy like you know driving from Rochester to Buffalo and then you know Down again over to Hartford and and doing all those comedy clubs and all that. So when the opportunity ever presents itself for A regular gig Where you can live in one place and maybe like raise a family. Yeah, it's it really does It feels like kind of you made it to The island you've been in the life raft, but you've kind of made it to the island doing that open. Now did your mother say Well, that's wonderful, John I'm so glad that you are it's just a question And also that idea like you know, did your parents encourage you and I was like Now say that again. What's that? What is that word encourage? I mean they knew I lived in the house But and I also I had the advantage of my parents split when I was probably 10 years old So at that point You really are your mom was holding it down. She was holding it down. Yeah, her mantra was we will not lose the house Yes, you know, because we had this was 7172 so this was just in that era of I'm okay. You're okay Feminine mystique Suddenly there was a consciousness in America for women that oh If my husband is an ass, I don't have to take that right And so that's what happened Uh, had she worked before what she was a special ed teacher so she she taught Uh, gifted program special ed program. She was a teacher and then she'd also taught younger kids. Yeah had done that in Uh In New York City in the in the Bronx well where she grew up in Washington Heights as well She did it for a little bit in El Paso when my dad was in the army She taught in Texas for a little bit and then a little bit When she came back, but So we were only there was only we only knew of two families that had divorces And the other family lost the house. Yeah So we weren't gonna lose the house and she To her credit Didn't lose house put it on her shoulders and went out and became What they called a teacher of teachers she began to give seminars to other teachers and they became like an assistant principal And then and really worked her way Through there Did you did you know that about your mom when you were you had 10 when your dad left And he left you all high and dry right? Could you understand The situation that you guys were in at the time Were you glad that the honestly like that the yelling had stopped. Oh, I mean honestly It's one of the greatest things about and it sounds counterintuitive to talk about one of the best things about divorce Yeah, yeah, yeah, if you're ever in this position get yourself one of these divorces the fantastic um You know that feeling when you're trying to sleep and a car alarm is going off. Yeah And there's no real rhythm to it. You can't quite get into it You can't even use it as white noise The feeling that you get in your soul when it stops. Yeah, that's what it was like. Okay. That's it I wasn't aware of the psychological trauma that she had been taken that you You're just glad the noise has stopped See I was gonna ask you which one of them is funny, but now that doesn't seem appropriate The one that drank See if you can guess But do you think your humor developed out of sort of as a coping mechanism or, or were they funny? My grandfather probably was, was a pretty funny guy, but I don't, my eternal grandfather, Nathan, my son is named after him. And he was just a character, lived to be 94, died when he got a stroke, a playing poker with his friends in an OTB at 94 years old, smoking. He's just one of those dudes, born in China, raised in China. Family was wealthy till the Japanese took over China, and then they had nothing. And he used to say to me, "When I had the money, I lived very well, but without money, I did not." And I was like, that sounds right. So, but I, I mean, it's like anything else. I think sometimes, I think it's just how I'm wired. And I don't know that it was a response to anything more than it was just, these are the genetic wireings that I've been given. What's your, your relationship with your siblings, were you guys tight growing up? Well, so I have two, so my father had two other, so he remarried, and then I have an older brother who, and we have a very good relationship, so we're very close. But I never lived with, you know, the other guys, and it was born of such complexity. Yeah. I don't know how your family's history is run, but like, "Oh, everybody's got a history." Yeah, it gets. Yeah, yeah. It's, it's, it's gnarly. It happens. Yeah. I will tell you this, I can remember, as an 18-year-old, doing the landscaping at the apartment because I was, I worked for a landscaper in the summer, doing the landscaping at the apartment building that my father lived in with his new family that we had not been told about. That's how complicated. That's how complex it can get. Yeah. Yeah. And I hate to say, yeah, I know a few people were in that, you know, but, you know, you, when you grow up in the world, folks do some stuff. That's right. You know, but I bet you were pissed. Oh. If you think I did a good job on the last day, then you'd be, believe me, there were some divots. Yes. Yeah. You know, you don't, I think, I think to a large extent, I did not clock any of the damage until much later. Mm-hmm, the damage to yourself or to your psyche or to your soul or any of those things. You don't really reckon with it until much later. And I was relatively oblivious to a lot of it. We also come from a generation for nobody talks about anything, nobody. Kids are just, you know, like they don't, there was a generation where you thought kids were just, they weren't taking in anything. And that if you didn't talk to them about it, it just didn't bother them, you know, it's the same thing our parents weren't worried about what we were doing in life. Well, you know, now you drop your kids off to college, they're college tours, you take them, you unpack them, you take them to lunch. None of us. It's like, you go to college and it's like, how am I going to get there? You know, and I luckily I had him, so my dad was dropping him off, you know, but they're, you know, there's just no coddling, no conversation. Do you wonder, you know, there was always a mindset for me, which was I was going to remedy that, that when I had, because of the feeling ultimately of being estranged from your father, which is, you know, for a kid, it's a big deal. But once you have kids, it becomes a bigger deal. I think that's when I really started to reckon with it because you go, wait a minute. Yeah. So I love, I love this thing this much and to just walk away from that and do that, yeah. Insanity. Yeah. But I keep wondering the steps I've taken, immediately, what, well, what am I doing wrong? How much margin of error do I have? How will my seeking to remedy those wrongs create new wrongs? Yeah. Yeah. It's like we're, you know, going too far in the extreme. I think that's something that our generation has to reckon with. And now we're over parenting in some ways, you know, and I also think, and they had this, you know, my dad was a, and, you know, he was depressive and, you know, and I make no, you know, I've come to terms with whatever it was. And I can remember when he was dying, he had dementia and I remember we, and I were estranged. And when I knew he was passing, so I went to Sam. And I remember thinking, you know, I felt badly for him, this man who was going through this difficult time and the family that clearly loved him, that we're going through this time with him. But I did not feel as though that was a part of me in any way. I just felt like this poor man, these poor folks, I hope it's not too bad for them. I hope it's not too bad for him, but it was a relationship that, you know, when you talk about bitterness or anger or those things, I didn't, it was a relationship drained of that through a strangenment in apathy, and it just, it, it, it withered. 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Remember FDIC, equal housing opportunity. (upbeat music) Did you always know you wanted to be a comedian or when did that, when did that start? - It's a great question. It started right after I was fired from everything else. (laughing) Where they were like, you're unreliable. - You can't do anything. - And Glyb. (laughing) - Which is a really-- - What was some of those jobs? - It was like Glyb on top of that all. Man. - Joking about your unreliability. I had always, I was raised in that same era as you guys where there was no social media. There was no aspiration to influencing. So it was never in the ether of this idea that I'm gonna, you know, I'll go into show business or I'll be, but I knew I wanted to create something. - Okay. - And I started working in this punk club in Trenton, New Jersey called City Gardens, which was this, you know, warehouse in the middle of Trenton. And all these bands would come through like Black Flag and, you know, the Ramones and bad brains. And just really incredible performers and creative people. And they would be going there only because they were passing between New York and Philly. - Yeah, yeah. - But it opened up this world of possibility. - Okay. - And one day I just decided, you know what? I'm a sell-all, I'm gonna get in a car and I'm gonna drive to New York and I'm gonna live that life. And that's kind of-- - How were you when you were working in Trenton? - So I was 20, 20 through 23 or four before I decided to move up to New York City. And not, no one was waiting for me. No one was encouraging. It's not like I would tell the guys in the bar, like I'm gonna be a comic in New York and they'd be like, that makes complete sense. - Yeah, yeah. - It was more like, all right, seeing six months. - So this was right after college then. - Now right after, so I lived and worked in these bars and for the state for a couple of years. - Okay. - After getting out of school. Yeah, yeah. Living with a bunch of friends and trying to-- - Yeah, yeah. - When you were first getting started, like what was that like? Like when you were-- - Oh, when you were just coming out, you were just coming out. When you left Trenton-- - I mean, you hit the road. - Yeah, brutal. - Yeah, that's terrible. - Can you talk about that because you-- - Sure, you don't. - You don't, I apologize. - Yeah, there's no other one. - You know, well, like anything else. So unlike things like sports or, you know, a lot of other things that you do, there is no doing, but you learn your first time on stage, nobody gives you grace with the idea that like, oh, I bet this guy probably sucks because he's never done it before. And I was up in New York for, I ended up getting a job at this Mexican restaurant on McDougal Street called Pinchitos. And the bitter end was right up the block on Bleaker. And they used to do the thing about comedies, you have to work in a club, they have to accept you. It's called passing you. - Okay. - So you perform there and the major clubs, comic strip, catchurizing star, comedy seller, have a hierarchy. You can't just walk in there and be like, "Guys, you're not gonna believe this." - I'm here. - I know you've been, I know you've been waiting. And part of the structures, so then there were open mics beyond that where you could maybe get some stage time. You'd put, you know, 50 comics would show up, you put your number in a hat and they'd pull 'em out. So if you had a high number, 48, 47, you're performing only in front of the three other comics that are left because everybody else did their thing and got out. There's a place called the bitter end, more famous pride from music, but Cosby, and Carlin and prior, I used to work in those clubs as well. And they would do an open audition night, but after like four doors cover bands. Like it was, you know, one o'clock in the morning. And so that was my first 1987, May of 1987, got up at the bitter end with my little, had written a whole little thing out and got up about 30 seconds into it. A guy goes, you're terrible. - Oh. - And I hit him full barrel. I was like, no, I'm not. (laughing) And then he was like, that's it? And I was like, what? And he's like, well, this, even this is terrible. And I was like, well, according to you, you know, boom. And so you can imagine everybody's like, this Robin Williams here? Because this is, no, it's awful. You know, I lasted probably, I didn't get back on the horse for like another six. I'm like, it was brutal. - Oh, really? - Oh yeah. - Oh, oh. - But I realized like, the urge never went away. The desire, the waking up in the middle of the night and writing down stupid thoughts never went away. And so I just started, what you learn is, there's a process. And so if you immerse yourself in the world, if you get yourself in trouble, the people that are around that process are great guides. They're not mentors, but they're guides. They tell you, generally what you wanna do is you wanna hit this, this, this, and this. Good luck. But there isn't anything to it but to do it. So that's how you, and I got really fortunate about a year into it, the comedy seller, which is right up the street from the Mexican restaurant that I was the day bartender in. Who's the day bartender in Mexican restaurant? - Yeah, true. Now that you've pointed out. - You just make margarita mix for the night guy to clean up with. - That's right, but aren't you happy there? - Oh, I actually loved it. And so this woman named SD, who was the booker at the comedy club, and this guy Bill Grandfest, who was also one of the bookers. They put me on every night, Sunday through Thursday, wasn't allowed on the weekends 'cause I was one of the good people went. And they made me the last person. So the shows you usually start eight or nine o'clock and they go to whenever the last person left. So it could be two in the morning, could be three in the morning. And that's how I learned the thing you wanna learn as a performer, which is, who are you? What do you actually think? What's your rhythm? What, you know, stop doing an impression of Seinfeld and start doing who you might be, and that's the ground. You know, that's how you sort of, and it's growth. - Who were you, when you first started discovering who you wanted to be? - Yeah. - Who was that, John? - You don't have the confidence to know if what you're doing will have any kind of staying power as a skill yet. So you can have a night where you're just killing it, like on top of it, and you're just thinking, like, I am Robin Williams, and then the next night, nothing, same stuff, nothing, and you're feeling like, I am the worst person to ever have done it, and you, this is the ride you go on those early years. The win is when you establish a baseline of where you go, like, oh, I'm starting to develop this at, like guys like Jerry, who are such, he's maybe the best craftsman, probably since Carlin, like, to do, like, just of craft. When you start to feel like there is a craft to it, and you're not going, just joke to joke anymore, that's when you finally develop that confidence a little bit. But it takes a while. - Yeah, how were you when that happened for you? - So what time is it now? - Okay. I think it was, I don't think you ever cross a threshold. It's that you suddenly realize I'm not riding this roller coaster as hard as I was. - Yeah, yeah. - And part of it is, comics talk about their development in terms of it's always, the metric is always time. You don't ever say like, I've gotten funnier. You say, I got 10 minutes. - Oh, yeah, yeah. - It's truly a function of time, okay. Because to make money, you gotta have a power. You can do 15 minutes, you can MC. That'll pay $600 a week. - Wow, wow. - If you can do 35, you can middle. Now you're going out there for 900, maybe a thousand a week. If you can do 45 or 50 and do it in the middle of a check drop. - What do you mean, a check drop? - So a check drop is, so when you go out to a club and there's not so much in the city, the same, but when you're working like an improv in another city or a yacht, or any of those kinds of things, if you're the headliner, well, everybody that's sitting there got to pay at some point. - Yeah, okay. - And they're not going to wait till after the show, 'cause they're going to turn it over. - Can you keep the attention while the room is turning over? - So that's called, in the city it's called the check spot. - Yeah, yeah. - So once you get to a point where you have a certain amount of time and you can handle your business during the checks. But that's when you go, okay, now I can make a living. And that's, those are the metrics that you wanna hit as you go and that's all it was about. - Any girls, any, you know, were you cute? Were you, you know? - I think we all know the answer. - Oh, no, no, you. - I would, you know, I didn't meet my wife until I was 32 years old. - And you didn't date before then? You were just hustling? - No, I had a couple of girlfriends. But the girls that you basically ended up going out where the waitress is at the comedy club, 'cause that's your whole life. - Yeah, yeah. - You know, you don't, most girls, at that time, wanted to go do things. And most girls, you'd be like, so here's my day. We're gonna get high to four in the morning and we're gonna watch a ton of three-studious movies. And then I'm gonna sleep till around one. Then I'm gonna disappear. But I wander around trying to think it's some jokes. And I'll meet you, I guess around three in the morning at the kettle of fish bar. - And we'll do it again. - And we'll do it again, baby. And a lot of girls, as you can imagine, would be like, "Simeo, it is not a lifestyle conducive to the healthiest of those kinds of relationships." - You make a good point. I never thought of it like that. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. Even when I first met my wife, she had a regular job. And so she had to be up at seven. And I'd roll in two-thirty in the morning. - I hate honey, honey, honey, honey, honey. - And when you met her at what stage of your career were you? - Oh, I was in, I was freshly canceled. I was, I met her. I had had a talk show on MTV. - Oh, yeah, right. - Famously known for it's. - We know that. - A talk. MTV was this, we know it first. - For a hot talk. - They were, and it went real well. And then our sineo retired. Side of you wanted to do his show anymore. And Paramount, who owned MTV at the time, got the great idea that what makes more sense than making me the next or sineo. So I took that time slot. And so you can imagine the confusion. - Didn't work out. - That's exactly right. So, and we knew it wasn't gonna work out pretty quickly. You get the ratings. So I was visiting friends who were filming things in a Greenwich Village. And on one of the sets, there was a makeup artist who when I came in said, "Do you have a girlfriend?" And I said, "No." - Of course you. - She said, "Well, I've got this girl." And she describes this girl in ways where I'm like, "This is a lie." "Is it funny, it's sweet, it's smart, you'll decay." She's the pebb of, so I'm like, "All right, I'll go out with her." So, she writes the number on a dollar bail. She gives it to me, I go home. I call, who turns out to be my wife Tracy. And we have a long conversation. I mean, like two hours. - On the phone? - On the phone. She, and the kind of phone. - Not at all, right, we're all like, the kind of phone that's in the wall. - It's called a telephone. - The kind that had a cord on it. - That's right. - We could wander around. - That's right. And she's lovely. Funny, smart, we're raised in sort of the same area. And I'm like, I'd love to take you out some night. I'll call you on Friday, and I'll take you out. Well, at the time, I was a pretty heavy smoker and cigarettes cost money. And some of the money that the cigarettes cost are the ones that I had written her number on. - Oh, John. - Okay, okay. - Oh, man. - Not call her. - Oh, yes. - I was going to call her. - That's the, I get it. But the story has a happy ending with life. - I know, but that just hurts. I mean, it just, like, out. - Yes. So that was our original part. So what I ended up having to do was go back to that movie set, because I knew they were roommates. So when I found their call sheets, I saw her the number of the makeup artists. So I knew that was the number. So I was able to call, but it took a lot longer. - Too long. - So when I called her again, it was a lot of, like, "Hey, what's up?" So it took a little while to get back in. - Yeah. (upbeat music) - This message is a paid partnership with Apple Card. You know, I like keeping things simple and that's exactly what Apple Card does. When you use Apple Card with Apple Pay, you can earn up to 3% unlimited daily cash back on every purchase you make, no matter where you shop. And let's talk about fees because honestly, nobody likes those, which is why Apple Card doesn't have any, no annual foreign transaction or late fees, no fees, period. Plus, when it comes to security, you can shop with peace of mind knowing Apple Card is built with the advanced security of Apple Pay, including Face ID and Touch ID. So you're the only one who can use it. Apply in the wallet app on your iPhone today. Subject to credit approval. 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Or no, Lou Pays, Lou Pays East LA Kitchen. - We don't know the difference. - And I could make up anything. - You could. - We went to a list, sir. (laughing) I said this woman deserves the most expensive meal. We stopped first at Tiffany's. (laughing) No, I figured first day, quesadilla. And so I sat, and I ate my delicious burrito and heard delicious burrito. - Oh no. - And all the drinks, and talked, and thought, this woman cannot stand me. - Oh no. - And we're walking home, and I thought, we're going by this one bar that I liked. It's not if we'd stop in there have a drink. Two scotches in. She comes alive. - She is. (laughing) - Two scotches in, she just went. (laughing) - She was so ignorant. - And I was, I was smitten. That was it. - Wow. How long did you guys date? - How long was it? She knows the answer to this. I believe she said it was too long. (laughing) She said, we dated too long. I asked your mommy, probably. Three and a half years in, so we've been going out for three and a half years. We lived together for a couple of years, and had all the dogs and all those things. How long did you guys know? How long did you know? Did you know with your. Which one? The one that stuck. No, I didn't know right away because I was going through a major divorce. Oh, and we don't have enough time for me to tell my favorite story of meeting my wife, so I'll save that one for you, but when I met her, because I was going through this horrible divorce, and I moved back in to our family's apartment that we lived in growing up and my parents had moved, my mom had moved downstairs where my aunt lived. But short of that, he was living at home with mom. I'm back at home. You're older sister. Just put you in your place. It's like, what are we talking about here, you know? So whenever I would go out anywhere, my mom would be like, "You meet me, buddy." And I'm like, "No, mom. I'm not interested in meeting anybody." So I met my current wife, Kelly, and didn't ask for her number or anything. I just met her, and I was like, after my mom asked me that when I came home, I was like, "Maybe I should have gotten her number." He's such a slow burn. Right. He's always that way. I understand that. You're recovering. So, I waited till Thursday, because she told me where she worked, and I looked it up, and I saw her phone number there. And as I'm dialing her number, she sent me an e-mail at the exact same time. Oh, really? The kids met of the digital age, but then we dated for five years before we got married. Yeah, yeah. But it was, it was because of how long before we introduced her to you. I'm bad with time. It was probably within the first year. It was definitely the first year. Yeah, it was the first year. I mean, whenever he was ready to, do we meet her before the kids met her? Oh, yeah. Yeah. So, did you know that when you met her, did you go like, "Oh, yeah, this will. " Well, because he was bringing somebody around. I mean, I don't know. My brother is a slow burn. I mean, he's had like three girlfriends his whole life because he was a basketball player, right? So, he was always, you know. Yes, basketball players, famously monogamous. Yeah. You can't shake a stick and find a basketball player that is a dedicated to whatever relationship he has at the moment. He was also a very monogamous young man. Yeah. So, he was very young. He's a good man. Oh, that's nice. So, if he was bringing somebody around, it was like, okay, how are you feeling about the state of our nation these days? You know, I'm glad you asked me that. Thank you. I'm going to tell you something. And this is recent. I don't know if we're making news here or not. I'm really beginning to sour on this president. I feel like, you know, you know me. I was with him. You know, then I remember after January 6th watching the insurrection and watching the police being sprayed with bear spray and being beaten with poles. I remember thinking to myself, I don't love this, you know, I'm thinking of maybe not supporting him next time. But then obviously he won me back. But, no, I mean, I don't even want to. Because I imagine for you and your family and having been that it's a surreal experience for you guys because of the effort that you put into building something up and to watch it be corrupted to have this perversion of leadership. I imagine it's especially difficult to digest. There's a surreal quality to it. Although I have to say, you guys left money on the table. I'm a, I'm a shell meme coin. Didn't even know it was possible. There were so many things. You guys didn't do a pumping up. You know, really, you left some money on the table. You know, we could have been, we could have had a Netflix deal a decade ago. That was tough. You could have had a weapons company. You could have sold missiles to yourself. Don and Eric have a drone company. I didn't even know what to say. You know, it's the level of corruption that is, in some ways, maybe it's doing a favor by making this, the current power structure and dynamic of this country untenable because of how explicitly corrupted it is. Maybe that's. I don't know. Well, it's sort of, you know, what do I say? What we were saying about the rolling back of women's rights, I mean, you know, if, when things are okay, you know, it's easier to take what you have for granted and to think what, you know, there will always be somebody there who wouldn't possibly do this, you know. Right. We've never had somebody who would do this, right? And you just assume that's going to be the way it is. Now, I think at some level, we were there as a country, just a little unclear, just a little, like, maybe we can get a little more, you know, maybe I can get more of a tax break, you know. I mean, maybe we can get richer than we are. You know, maybe we can get rights changed faster than ever before, right? Because, you know, our kids didn't witness much of the struggle at all, right? They didn't experience it and that's, you know, that's the kind of growth you would hope for for the country that each generation, everything gets better and better and better. And that was actually happening, right? Until we get to a point where there's a generation that didn't even remember what was wrong in the first place, never saw it, right? I mean, you think about all the young people who only have known, only new Barack Obama is their president. Like, that was the America. There is that truth, too, right? What was the feeling like? Because it is a crucible, like, that you feel the weight of that house in every room and every piece of furniture that exists in that house. And the responsibility I imagine is, it is a weight you bear every day that you walk through there. The day you walk out, is that, is the experience one of liberation? Is it one of exhale? Are you, are you now interviewing me, John Stewart? No, no, this isn't going to make it into the show. I'm just, I would never be interviewing, that's not what we were for. I was just curious. No, no. I mean, I've, so I wrote about this in, in becoming, I mean, when we got on that plane after, you know, the election and the, you know, the outcome and the disappointment and young people and, you know, all of it. I got on that plane and that last trip on Air Force One, and I barely remember much of anything. But the minute I walk through those doors, I burst out in tears and I think I cried for like 30 minutes straight. And for me, that is a, a show of, a release of, it wasn't sadness. It was, thank God, we made it to the other side of that experience because it's not just the responsibility, but as a mother, as like, okay, my kids are whole, my husband is whole, you know, it didn't, there was no guarantee that we get to this other side in one place. We were proud of what we did, but it was like, it was over. Yeah. It's like, you, you know, and I, you know, who would know that? There were 40 some odd people who've ever had that experience. Right. And it is a, it's, it's a weight because it's, it's not about you, right? You, you are responsible for every, every emotion, every sense of, of a young person's being, you know, I mean, everything we were doing, we understood what we were modeling, you know? And it's like, you don't want to get it wrong, you know? You don't want to. So you were cognizant of the effects your policies and what it might have on the lives of others. That's so interesting. So your saying is in the middle of, let's say a war, you wouldn't necessarily bring out, I don't know, the specs for a ballroom. John, let me tell you as, as, as their brother, or her brother and brother-in-law and all black people, we were, it feels like I was holding my breath for eight years really because of the magnitude of what they had in front of them and how, if they had somehow accidentally or maliciously done the wrong thing, how it would've affected the entire race, right. That's people don't talk about that, right? And you know, the Jackie Robbins. It's the, it's the, it's like, well, that's it for, that's it. That's it. I was your turn. That's it. All right. Let's try it, you. But, but it's, you know, so not that you asked me, but I was relieved on that at the end, relieved on that. One interesting part of it too is to be the family, but to not be in the house. Yes. Also, because you're not in sconce, then you're on the outside, feeling all of the outside noise. I imagine the house can somehow function as a bit of a, right, right, but I'm out, I'm out in the streets like a civilian and I'm dealing with all that. Now, as the, the, the brother was it hard to hold your powder when, because I know, listen, noise is noise and everybody hears it. So I would imagine, you know, I, I think the, at the time I was still coaching. Right. So what I always said to people was that as long as I know they're in there, I know they're trying to do the best for the most people. Yeah. Yeah. So what the noise I was hearing wasn't that bad. Right. And plus people were telling me I couldn't coach and needed to be fired anyway. Yeah, your own noise. No, no, but it, it, it, I had the utmost confidence in them. So I wasn't worried about the noise because it didn't mean anything. Right. I've always admired people who bet on themselves. 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Sessions average $21 with insurance and some pay as little as $0 depending on their plan. Visit growtherapy.com/IMO today to get started. That's growtherapy.com/IMO. Growthherapy.com/IMO. Availability and coverage vary by state and insurance plan. Did you know you would be doing what you're doing with comedy at this level? I mean, was there always a political curiosity, a passion, and finding a way to incorporate it into your comedy? Well, yes. We talked earlier a little bit about your first 15 or 20 minutes. It's almost always biographical. Then you move into kind of observational. Observational can be the behavioral from the minutia to the trivial to something more consequential about relationships or things like that, but I was never particularly interested in those dynamics. I was interested in power dynamics. I was interested in the way that the world functioned and it always been that way in school and everything else. I think if you wanted to feel like you were being authentic, you try and write material that reflected your passions and interests and that's sort of where that all came from. Then how did the whole daily show come about? The daily show came about the Doug Herzog and Madeline Smithburg and Elise Roth were these two producers and then the head of at the time Comedy Central, Doug had wanted to do what's the Comedy Central Answer to Sports Center. What would make this network feel like it was a sort of living entity? The daily show is what Madeline and Elise produced to that end. They had a host, a basketball player, Craig Kilmer. He had decided to go off to do network. I'd been out of work for a wide written book and did some other stuff and kicked around the clubs and done some incredibly memorable independent film roles. I wouldn't happen it. They asked me if I wanted to do it. I had said, "Let me think about it." I thought about the way that I saw that the show was and the way that I wanted to make it. We had discussions about. I thought that it could be a vehicle to explore those themes of power and politics and the distance between, I was always really interested in the room before the room. The room where the meeting took place and then the politicians would go out and they would give their speech and you always wonder, "Okay, as you know, everything's purposeful. Everything is intentional." So how are they designing it? Sometimes now you just have a guy wake up at 3 in the morning and go, "I think I might be Jesus." Point is this. But that's what I wanted the show to be. To deconstruct what we see as power's reality. What's the reality? behind that. And that seemed like the right form for it. And also this surrounded by just great writers and performers and, you know, and the list of them is endless. Speaking of, you know, we had Jessica Williams on. Oh, God. She is amazing. She's amazing. She's the best. She's the best. Oh, she is. You're an internship. She's, well, she's very proud. Listen, it's like you don't want to screw that. Like, it's, she is such a rare. I watch videotapes all day looking for talent. And, you know, and you watch them with sort of that idea, it's like scrolling on before you're just doing this, going through. And then every now and again, you go, huh? That's Jessica. She, and I mean, like, not a produced, like some low-rent, old Sony handicapped, like, nothing video. And she just explodes off it. And is, and what a lovely person and, but a talent that, I mean, she's obviously doing, but, you know, we knew that the minute you saw, and she was, I think, 20 years old, 21 years. Like, it was crazy. We couldn't even believe that. And she had never done it. Never done it. Came in and was just, she's, she's certain people vibrate with no delay. Like, in an, like an electrical, she has like an electrical. Yeah. And so it's the synapses just fire. And she's that as a talent. And the best thing that I tried to do is try and find the most talented people I could and let them be them. I'd love to say that it was like my guidance of that. Like I was, well, you wouldn't say that. But a lot of other people have said that about you. I mean, that's very, that's, you know, they have talked about you being the leader at that table. I mean, you know, the table that they were surrounded by, there was still your work ethic. There was still the example of your, and I'm, I'm using the words that I've heard. Right, right. You know, it was still your work ethic. It was still the tone that you set around that table. And you know that there are tables. Other comedy tables. I've been at some of the tables. Where, you know, no, it's just the opposite. It's a little rough and nobody's rooting for you. And there isn't the, you know, so I don't know whether that's a question because you won't take it. You won't say, how did you do that, John? How did you feel? What's I read? Some shoes are a boy. I think I'd been in a lot of places that were not healthy. And, and when I first got there, I don't think it was healthy. I think it was rough. And, and quite toxic. And that people's ambition was, I think it's hard for people that sometimes understand. And maybe in this show is that if the show's good, we all win. Yeah. And so if we all, the energy that it takes you to create toxicity or selfishness or to be overly combative is energy that you're not using to elevate. Listen, America. Can you say that again? Yeah. There's only a finite amount of energy in the day. So I had to learn how to parcel that energy for myself, but also for the staff to understand that like we're in some respects, it's a refinery. And we're taking raw materials in the morning. And we're trying to create a process that can refine those materials. And so something that we feel is, and I don't want to say great, not great thing, but the greatest execution of our aspiration or intention. Every day has to set an intention. And, and that's why for me, it's almost more fun to work on the process. Because the process was so crucial in creating the product. And that was what, that was the gift of having people around me who also really sort of dug that idea. Like let's sit and talk about, because five minutes at 9 AM is 45 minutes at six o'clock, but now there's an audience waiting there. So if we can figure out how to create a process that's repeatable, but not stifling. That was like, it was this great dynamic of challenges. And what I loved about it, I felt like it was the first time it used every part of anything that I thought I was able to do to its totality. And that's why it was so nice to be able to come home to my family completely drained and spent so that I had nothing left for them. I think the answer here is this, work hard, deplete yourself, have nothing left for others. For your family. Well, what was family life like for you before you realized that you were, you know, I mean, which Tracy patient with it? What she getting pissed off about it? What did she understand? I think that it's hard whenever you have young children. And this is probably for just me, Craig. Dumb boys. Dumb boys. Is when you walk into the house, when there are two young children there, and you've been working all day, the first thing you might not want to say is how tired you are. Yes, you can't do that. So no, no, you know, and that's, you know, that we should put that on a t-shirt. Don't say how tired you are. Don't, don't, you know, don't do it. But she's also like, she's just a rare bird, like incredibly supportive, but it took me a while to understand and to really, and really understand it, how hard it was for her in those, in those years. It's really hard. And the person that's coming into that that you've been discussing at the whole day is also can come into it as the amusement park. Oh god. Yeah. So you can walk in. It's been a long day of tears and limits and trying to set, you know, get raised them to be responsible the day. And then this one comes in as like, who wants to ride on the back? And you, you know, you're a wrecking ball in this entire operation. And you think it's, but I don't get any time with them and I do this. And so, you know, dealing with all that is it can be really, it can be really fraught, but what's so interesting is as they become autonomous. And, and obviously the, you know, those, those old ways of raising them when they're little, you know, that it's, you know, nice to be important, but it's more important to be nice, you know, and then, but as they get older, you're like, you know, they put fentanyl and coke right? Like, just, yeah, you know, be, be aware, right? Like, but then it's just the two you get. Yeah. And it's a really kind of lovely, like it's a comfort, like you've been through all these wars. And now you're kind of just together again on the couch and you obviously miss, you know, the energy and excitement of the kids being around is so incredible. I don't, I love them. I'm going to see them tonight, tonight for dinner. I love them. But I, you know, Brock cried when they went to college. I was like, bye. Goodbye. Now I, now Friday nights aren't wrecked with terror and fear about where are you? Where are you? Right. And I, I love their emancipation and growth. And the thing I miss though is the job. Like don't you miss, see your kids are so high school, so it's still a job. Yes. Like the, it gave a, a meaning and like pattern to my life. I'm good. Yeah. I look at all the meaning. She's different. I have a wonderful pattern. Oh, man. I love my kid's schedule. I love it. There's something about the schedule. I love the schedule. I love my schedule. I have a great schedule. And it's all my. But I think fathers can be that way because you weren't there from six and now you missed a lot of it. I mean, I've had so much quality time with my children. That's so fun. So much. Yeah. Yeah. I know them inside and out. It must drive the crazy. I'm sure it must have driven my wife crazy when, when, when I first left the show. And so it was all about then driving the kids to school and driving a moment. I'd come back with them. They were in the car and they were talking about this. They were laughing. You know, I never occurred to me. But I'm sure my wife is thinking, how lovely. Yeah. Yeah. You just soak it all in. But we, at that time too, we moved out of the city. So we went through a kind of a strange, I don't know if you guys are very experienced. But so when we were in the city, we went, they went to school in Grantedfield called, a little school called Little Red, literally like the school Pete Seeger went to. Yeah. Yeah. I've heard that school. And it's with, you know, honey in the rock feed all the children. We all hold hands and somehow just levitate. You know, it's all just mad. And we moved him out to Jersey, and this was 2015, I remember dropping them off at school and the first bumper sticker I saw was Hillary for prison. And I was like, OK, I don't think honey in the rock is how this thing is going to go. But that was a big adjustment. And they, in some ways, I'm really glad that that happened because we were in sconce in something that was really eccentric and kind of coistered. Yeah, do you think comedy helps or hurts the political climate? Oh, wow. Because here's what, you know, like, I mean, sometimes I just can't watch anything. Sure, sure. Right, especially then because it was like, is this, is this funny? Right, right, you know, or is it, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, um, but I, I, you know, I, I wonder what you, you think because it's it. Sometimes I think is it, is it good that most young people are getting their news from the daily show or that they, you know, they want you to run for president or, you know, I mean, I mean, we're in that position of where, you know, especially with social media. Right, it's like, the funny guy has, look, I think the shows that we do now, they go out on social media on the thing. But to a large extent, because we are infrastructure heavy, we are, we do, we are in some ways, a relic of a previous era where it's sort of like I'm running a blockbuster, a video store inside of a tower record. So you know, I mean, like, it is where people just be like, so you sell what house, yeah, but in other ways, it has more reach because social media places that everywhere. The question is, what does, I, I never confused cultural power with power. Yeah. I learned early on that the, one of the frustrations of one of the joys of it is catharsis and being able to express yourself and do that thing that we talked about, like, what do you want to be as a comic? I want to be, I want my personal thoughts and dreams and whatever to be filtered through whatever art form it is that I'm pushing through. Second item up it is, but it's impotent. And, and does it, is it an opiate? Is it creating a, you know, and having worked on some of those things on Capitol Hill and all that, I know the difference now, which I didn't before. The difference between activists who are in the trenches doing that day-to-day work, trying to bend that arc of the moral universe slowly towards us. It's not realizing there's a bunch of people trying to bend it back. And so, you know, I wish there were metrics. I'd almost, I wish there was a double blind study where you could find out, like, am I hurt? Like, does this help? Does it corrode? Does it pervert? Is it something to be, is it ultra processed? You know, food that's given the country a kind of political diabetes? You know, I don't, I don't know. I think, I also have to step back on, it may not be an honorable thing we do, but we do it as honorably as we can in that it is not in bad faith. So, the way that I try and judge it is, any good faith, art, material, speech, taught that goes into the universe, I feel like, is a win. There's so much bad faith. Yeah. And, and I try to hold that, but I can't sit here and honestly answer like, it's a win for society. Like, what I've done over these past 25, you know, I don't, I'd, I'd hate to think, obviously. Yeah, yeah. But there's many people on social media who would tell me, you know, that that is the case. And, and the other side of it is, you have to be agnostic about, you don't get close to the people like, the relationships with political figures are always fraught, or with media figures. I always just say to people at the show, look at the people around you. Yeah. When you leave here, if we do this right, these will be your only friends. Right. Right. Yeah. Yeah. One of the things about them, sort of media industrial complex and the political media industrial complex is the associations diminish the purpose of what some of those disciplines are. They can exist in that. Yeah. And so that's hard. Yeah. You know, um, because you do feel there are people you really like. Yeah. You really admire, but you know at work, like, you're going to have to, and I'm sure for you guys, there's people you might like, who do those things? And you go, I think I'd like to punch that kind of face, you know, that kind of. Well, and to answer my own question of you, I do think the cultural impact is important. I mean, I've always thought that, you know, that that power is, it's not the same, but it's really important. Right. I mean, I felt that way even when I was first lady, you know, and I think our administration understood that there was the, the, the Washington power, but it's like, if you wanted to talk to anybody, if you wanted anybody to hear you really, you needed to go at it from the culture. Right. Right. Um, where people are and not try to buck it. I mean, I didn't do one interview with face the nation or meet the press. Right. I never sat down with the New York Times editorial board. Right. But I came on the daily show. Right. And we never tried to have us arrested. Oh, I didn't. I didn't. Otherwise, if I knew I could have, or taken off the air, or no, but it's a function of, it's a function of a confidence in your worldview. There is nothing more, uh, I think fragile than someone who wields real power, who feels that, that power will be diminished by satire or commentary. You know, it's kind of a shocking fragility. I don't, any, for someone who wants to, you know, project alpha male dominance and yet be so incredibly, you know, wrecked by something that happens at 12 30 at night. I mean, he's made all of our shows relevant again in a weird way. Well, um, I thank you. Listen, I thank you guys for coming over. It's been such a delight. Now, you know, I turn this room. My book club is going to be here. It's true. Are you enjoying the podcast? The podcast? Oh, the one that we do. Yeah. Yeah. You know, the one where you should be interviewing people. Yeah, it's, I get to talk to all kinds of different people and I get to do it in my house. Yeah. Which is just that's perfect. Yeah. That's so cool. And it's also a way, you know, as you guys we talked about earlier, I am not, uh, the most social, uh, socially inclined individual. Yeah. That was the, the most surprising thing when I met you. Oh, really? Oh, yeah. I mean, oh, he's so shy. And he's extremely, extremely anxious about the work. Yes. That is correct. But is it true that you keep your Emmys in a box in a, uh, yes, I'm sure in a, yeah, I've never been attached to, uh, material or awards or any of those sorts of things. I've always, my wife found me, uh, when, when she found me, I was, uh, I lived out of those milk crates that you used to get along. And I'm barely out of those barely out of that. So, uh, uh, but no, this is, it's been, it's lovely to talk to you guys. Well, you know, we have a listener question that we need to answer that very quickly. Sagittarius. Your fire girl. I don't know where that is. I don't know what camera. I'm in surround sound. All right. Who's our listener question? Who's our listener? All right. So this is from Eric. Hi, Michelle and Craig. My dilemma is this. I am certain that fixating on politics and political conversations right now will not improve the negativity, divisiveness, and hopelessness that I have and that seems to be everywhere. At the same time, it can feel naive to ignore things all together because so many things are in the world right now. The economy, loss of rights, deaths at home and in wars overseas, the environment. So where does that leave the average person like me who both wants to escape or at least ignore the nightmare of our current political landscape, yet also understands that doing nothing won't actually improve anything. What is the kind of work we can be doing? And what are the conversations we should be having that might make a difference, but also allow us to keep our sanity from Eric in Vermont. Okay, Eric. You're listening to Mr. Deep. We do something like this on my show and it's always like, what's your talk about order? Are you a chalupa guy? Eric's going through it, man. Yeah. I don't think you're going to mean answer this. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. That's right. I turn to it's right. Craig making them like this. Like you're the answer. Let's see what you got. We'll we're all jump in, but we don't we want to be polite and let our guests go first. Action is the antidote tank side. And I've always felt that but he's the existence. extension of anxiety is something you can never get your hands around, but you can get arounds our tactile. It's so funny that this is coming up. So I'd had this conversation with Trevor Noah about anxiety and that's why like woodworking I like, I've learned how to play the drums. There are things that are, they're mechanical, they're tactile, they are rhythmic, they are repeatable, and they are grounding for me mentally. Now he just sent me this, apparently Winston Churchill felt the same way. He sent me this thing about, Winston Churchill used to be visited by depression, I don't have that, but he'd be visited by depression and he would call it the black dog and when the black dog would visit, he had to do things with his hands, he had to make things, he had to, and so Trevor was just sending me that, you know, this is your coping mechanism put to explicit eloquence by Winston Churchill and then I just wrote him back and said, that's so crazy, it explains why I always feel like I want to bomb the Germans, but I would think, you know, young people feel this way, you know, in the olden days, you got rid of that with booze, like that's kind of how people dealt with that existential anxiety because they couldn't talk it out. But I don't know, like that was very, anybody that I think that is able to articulate it in that way can get through it, because that's a gaming it is one of the hardest things. Yeah, yeah. I mean, one thing I totally, totally agree, because some of you, you just got to work through it. And I totally agree with the tactile piece, I mean, I knitted my way through COVID. I played tennis like three times a week, and the repetition of the thing, because you're on there, it's like, I have to run and hit that ball. I can't think about anything else while I'm doing it. I'm trying to figure out how to hit the ball better, and I can do that for 90 minutes. And it, you know, that's 90 minutes of not thinking about anything except for that thing. Right. So I completely agree with that. The other thing I often say to people is, yeah, I think we run into the challenge of thinking that all change has to be big change. I think young people think that too, you know, when you hear about the young people doing something, well, I, you know, I got a thousand people to vote or I raise this. I mean, it's just like they, they, they're often biting off so much. Yes. You know, how do I end drug dealing in my neighborhood? How do I fix this huge, gigantic problem right under my nose? And the answer is you can't, you know, what you need to do, first of all, is just focus on what you can control, you know, focus on small right now, especially young people. Right. Right here. Right. You know, it's like, are you in school? Stay in school. Right. Do your homework. You know, that's, that's, you know, that's some power right there. Absolutely. That's sort of the quiet activism of living pleasantly, like in the sense of everybody that you encounter in your world, whether it's at a deli nearby or when you go to the thing, if you interact with them in, in a way that recognizes their share humanity, I'm telling you man, that makes it work. It works. It's kind of huge. It works. And it's funny, it's funny that Eric is in Vermont because that goes to what, what I was going to say to Eric, you know, you, I probably never told you this. But when you all were first running, I used to be a surrogate. So on son, I'd have practiced during the week and then on Sundays, they'd send me somewhere. Oh, wow. And I'd give the team off and then we practice late on Monday. So I'd be able to travel back. Right. And one of the first places I went was this small town up in Vermont, really small right by the water. And I remember is a small little general store that I got dropped off at to be picked up by somebody else and be taken somewhere else. And I went in the general store and I'm like in a suit and everybody's wearing flannel shirts, right? And the sky says to me, you know, from around here, and I was like, oh, you figured that out. I got to come on. Oh, it's just the suit, you think? No, I didn't say because I was black, I said it's because I had the suit on because he knew why I was there. But he pretended that he didn't know. And he's like, you know, we got a lot of politicians coming up around here. You got anything to do with that? And I was like, yeah, I do. I happen to be coming up here to talk about Barack Obama and then I went into the soul thing. He's like, well, I don't know about that guy. And I said, well, why not? He said, well, he hadn't done much. And so I went into this very calm and quiet discussion about why you have to every now and then give a chance to people who don't have the same experience that other people have because they haven't had the same opportunity, real basic stuff. But it was quiet and it was calm and it was an hour of it. And by the end of it, he was, I don't know who he voted for, but he acted as if I had convinced him. Right, right. And I say this to Eric, to John's point, there's nothing like conversation with people. And to your point, Misha, it doesn't have to be with a thousand people. Just hit him one, one, one person at a time. Right. And talk to him about how you feel and how you think and if you're, if you're smart and can put a few sentences together, people will listen to you. How crazy would it be if that guy, Eric, is that guy, Eric, that would be him. I was just like, oh, I had the question. I wanted to ask him in the store. I can do it. No, I got to wait 16 years. Yeah. I was thrown in there. Eric sounds younger than the guy. Yeah. Well, Eric, hopefully that helps you out a little bit than anybody else who's listening. Thank you, John Stewart. Thank you, guys. You're a very intelligent young man. I heard there was a PA job available. I saw the fruit. We don't pay much. I just want to point out the difference when you do a podcast with a former first lady and her brother, the fruit selection in their brain room puts basic cable to such shame. I was literally marveling. Is that a rash thing? The exotic nature. It's only for the guests. Thank you, John. Thank you. Thank you. Thank you. 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