Who Knows Who Better: Husband vs. Wife

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I'm like, no, you're not, dude, you need to take it now. - We started literally walking back to hotel and he goes, see I'm happy now. - No, no, but then we should have been like, no, you're taking a nap, bro. Like you're so. - I tried to tell you I was like, he's lined us. He's not happy. - Anyway, okay, well, that's a life update. - And then that's screwed. - Guys, again, we're going to be seeing who knows the other person more. And we have a bazillion questions you get through. So we better get on with all this. Again, place your bets. Who do you think it's going to win? Go ahead and comment those. And for the first question. - I took a spa day right after getting back from Disney. So I'm feeling more rejuvenated than you are probably. - Well, yeah, can we talk about that? - I just left you and the kids. I was like, bye. - Wait, no, we got to talk about the night where you were sick and you just went to your parents' apartment and left me at home with the book. - I am not even kidding you. The sinus pressure, pressure. I feel like it's a specific to pregnancy thing. Like it was the sinus pressure in my head and conjunction with the pregnancy. I was literally like nothing will push me further to like breaking than that. And I was on like day 15 of this. And I was just also just like under all these lights after recording one day and I was like, I'm checking out of my life. And you know what? It felt so good to go be a kid again. What a blessing that is. I can literally just go to my parents' house. - And your dad wouldn't pick you up medicine. - And my dad went and got me medicine from the store. He could have surely just gone to our house. - They let you pick out the TV show. You're watching on the TV. - Whenever I wanted to watch, they watched a whole season of love on the spectrum with you. - Which by the way, can we interview more of the people who love on the spectrum? - Please, Madison and Tyler. - Can someone, if anybody knows Madison and Tyler, can they please let them know we would like to interview them? - Oh my gosh, I cried. Matt, I cried. I think all the America cried. - Yeah. - Anyway, they watched a whole season of that. They got me dinner. They bought me dinner. They literally, I just checked out. - Also, I fully support Abby taking a break. I think mom's out there know what it's like to be sick and then being a mom at the same time. It can be a little crazy, crazy. So I'm very glad that she was able to take a little bit of time for herself. Because this lady literally carries the team on her back all the time, okay people? So we gotta let this lady live. - Thank you. - And I'm so glad that you're able to celebrate Mother's Day with your mom and just do some girl stuff while I hung out with the kids. You deserve that. - Yeah, it was for Mother's Day. - For Mother's Day, okay? Can we go ahead? Mom and I have done this many times. - I'm so glad that you're able to celebrate Mother's Day. - Thank you so much to Cash App for sponsoring this portion of today's episode. We are currently raising toddlers. There are so many traps and pitfalls when it comes to taking on certain types of debt and not understanding all the ramifications that can have on you financially well into your future. We just really want to equip our kids to set them up for success as adults. - And for all the parents out there with teenagers, we know you're already trying to keep a million different things under control. 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And then I'm like, my brain's like, you have to pee. And then another side of my brain is like, no, you don't. And then I'm like, it's like, no, you do have to pee. And then I go, and then I don't have to pee. - But I feel like that's a thing, even when you're not pregnant, though. - Too shy. - Oh, I was awful. - I mean, I'm mini ninjas today. I peed twice in a 45 minute class for the kids, so. Okay, so no points for Matt so far. - Zero. - What is my weirdest pregnancy craving this time around? - Weirdest pregnancy craving? - There really aren't any weird pregnancy cravings, honestly. I can't even think of one. - Think of one. - Think of one? - Think of one. - Frick. I can't think of it. - Happy. I literally cannot think of anything at all. - You got it? Okay, three. - I'm gonna try to read. - One, none. - None. Thank you. Gosh, okay. Does that count as a point? - I don't really think I've had any cravings. - You have no, yeah, you've, there's no cravings. - No points. - Maybe some rules of rules that you're saying no points. - What? - Maybe spicy foods? - You don't even like spicy food. What do you talk about? - I do. - You've not been getting spicy food. - Now I do. - Like what? Name one thing? - I got, I put hot sauce on my breakfast tacos at snooze. - Was that like three weeks ago? I already remember that. - I remember that. - Time. And I got spicy curry. - When did you get spicy curry? - What has that my parents have? - Oh my gosh. - Okay, well. - Okay, so Matt's not doing so well. - Yeah. - If I were a red flag, what would it be? - If you were a red flag, what would it be? - If you were, what type of question is that? - What is my red flag? - What is your red flag? Maybe. - Wait, let me write it down. - What? - Yeah, and you come up with an answer for this one. - I'm not coming up with an answer. I can't think of a single one. Here's the thing guys. I can't think of a single red flag for this woman. - Okay, what's your red flag? - I don't want to get any red flags. - You're so. - I said I'm a hothead. - I was gonna say that. That was good. That was good. - I totally was gonna say that. - Your point is still for Matt. - I still have zero points. - What's something that gives me the egg? Oh, let me write a novel. - Oh. - Okay, wait, let me write it down. - Work, brain, work. Kid, they have anything today. I can't. - Oh. - Okay, I got an answer. - It's right here. - What gives you the egg is probably. - You can't think of one. - Entitlement. I'm gonna say entitlement. - Oh. It's not entitlement. I hate ego. Someone with a big ego that x me out so bad. - Dad is another one. - But entitlement? That's not something I would think of. - Really? - No. I said you're snot-thing with your throat. - You're snot-thing with your throat. What the hell? - What? - Look at me. - Okay. Here's thing. Here's thing, babe. I come from a family. - Where do you go? - You do that. He literally makes that sound. - Sometimes I do that. - I live with a boy. - Because I have congestion in my body. And I'm trying to breathe. Sorry. I just want to be able to breathe out of my own nose. - I know. Sometimes I catch it. And I'm like, I know you have to breathe, but this has to stop. - All right. - I mean, that didn't get that one right. If you just said ego I would have given you a half point. Because that is my biggest dick. That's like a more serious dick. - Yeah, ego's a big one. - But like, my smaller dick is your throat thing. - How would you rate my ego on like a scale of 110? - Let me give him a five. So I'm just like a normal ego normal normal normal amount of you go. Okay. That's good. All right I feel like that's five and a half. Okay. I'll put you the 55 percentile. Okay. Okay. What do I think is your best quality? Let me write it down. Okay. I feel like we should use your personality or physical thing. What is wait? You're you're thinking of my best quality. You're your best quality. No, I'm what's my favorite quality about you? personality and physical. Okay. Physical. I'm gonna say probably my chest. That's what you used or my butt is what you've told me in the past. What have I ever said? That's your favorite quality of yourself. No, that's not true. I just keep getting convinced on it because I weighed 24 pounds and I did a year ago. Oh, it's my cheeks. So there's that. Caleb, we're talking about that. Caleb was saying that I have a dumb truck now. So shocking. I tried not to vocalize. Okay. Okay. Okay. Okay. You got the physical one with my chest. Yes, I do it. That's why I'm hitting the bench right now. I'm trying to get all this try to move all this all this mass from my my butt cheeks to my chest. It doesn't work like that. Chest area. Okay. What's the personality one? Personality is the friendly friendly guy. Happy. Oh, I love that. Gold retriever energy. It's not the one I said though. I just like would talk to it. I talked to anybody. Talk to the driver. Talk to drivers. That would be friendly, but I didn't say that one. You are very friendly and I love that about you. I said you're passionate. Ah, yes. That is also one of them. So did I get a half point? No, you get a point. I get a point. I get a point. I get a point. Yeah, amazing. Okay, now it's your turn to read. All right. Now my turn to read it for Abby. So next up, I'm asking Abby questions. Um, this is round one for me. What is my biggest pet peeve when it comes to your morning routine? Uh, I don't even know what that would be. I have no idea. Do I even have a do I even have a pet peeve? I'm so not annoying. Okay, I got it. I got it for my morning routine. Yeah, got it. Oh, wow. Is he going to do something about my stinky eggs? Nope. Something else that's sneaky. What? What is it? I don't know. Something else that's stinky. But see, now I feel like an A hole free. Oh, my breath. We can just we can just my stinky breath. Let's just edit that out. We don't even need that anymore. I don't care. Is that what is my breath? Okay. Here's the thing that's that's kind of a sum about that though. Is that in the mornings? Matt's like begging to kiss me and I'm like keeping my mouth closed because I know I have stinky breath. I just had to pick something, babe. I actually don't really care. Like I like now you're not going to get any kisses. And that's why all morning. I'm going to know I just did that. I just screwed myself over. I'm an idiot. I sleep with my mouth completely closed. And so it's just not good for air flow and circulation. I don't think I'm going to get a point. What's something I say all the time? Oh, it wasn't that you say all the time. Oh my gosh. So many things, but they're so niche. You repeat yourself a lot. Yeah, I do. And I'm like sometimes I actually have to stop and be like, do you know that we've had this exact conversation about four times? Got it. You say what do I say with the boy? I'm going to help you out. What do I say with the boys all the time? This is like me and you and Griffin when you're playing just just it's like a celebratory phrase that I say. Booyah. No, that's what you say. Oh, that's what I say. What do I say with the boys? You say. Three words, I don't know. Oh, that's three words. Three words. Three words. Yeah, three words. Oh, yeah, baby. Oh, yeah, baby. I think that counts. We'll give it. Okay, thank you. You do say that. Booga, booga, booga, booga, booga. Okay. What do I always forget? What is something that I always forget, babe? Everything. Matt lost a whole iPhone and did. Oh, Frick, I did lose my entire. Yeah, yeah, it was Abby's old phone that we were using. No service airplane mode on airplane mode. So then we had all of our YouTube video on it. Yeah, an entire YouTube video that we filmed and like bought the hotel like stay with guys. These Disneyland hotels are freaking expensive. The calf, the grand calf, we're in over a thousand dollars a night. Okay, so it's like we're vlogging this on an iPhone. Not worth it at all. Sorry. That's at a spoiler for our YouTube video. Oh, yeah, pretend you didn't hear that. Pretend you didn't hear that. Go watch our YouTube video. Okay. Anyway, what's something that you forget? Yeah. So many. Oh, I know what it is. The most common thing that I like lose. I was commenting that you lose. Oh, your AirPods AirPods. Ding, ding, ding, ding. He might have three pairs. One for you. And they broke and then one for me, and then I lost them somehow. And then, uh, no, no, I think we've only had, I think fully bought in two pairs. I'm like, no shot. Yeah, I feel like you lose those all time. And next question, what do I complain about most? Like as far as like what I do, what the kids do, what our dog does, or just in general. I haven't thought of it yet. I'm trying to think of like what I complain about the most. I'm thinking of some things. Just give me one. Let's see if you can read my mind. Like the heat and air zone in the summer. That's true. I do complain about that. But it's gotten better now that we have a pool. Uh, you complain about efficiency. Yeah, I like to be efficient. You're right. But you're not very efficient. I'm working on that. We're trying to get better. Uh, you can plan about, you're not a big complainer. So I'm just like thinking of like what it could be. Yeah, I don't really identify as a complainer. Honestly. Yeah. Okay, let's go on the next one. This one. Oh, no, you can plan about, you can plan about like wanting to like have your physique. That's a new thing that you've been really. I guess as my new fixation is I want to, I want to be absolutely shredded is that for me. Honestly, what? I just, I know that I'm have no time to work out once we have another baby here. So I'm trying to get my, my fitness time in now, you know, that was actually, I had this idea like, Oh, yeah, I'm gonna go to the gym once I'm like a dad. No, no shot. You know, yeah, no, no one can think that. Yeah. Do I get the point? I don't think I don't think I just don't think that you're so hard to play game. I think that question works. Okay, next. What is one thing you do that always makes me laugh? I know what it is. Aw. Yep, I'm writing it down right now. Some, I'm thinking of something like silly that you do think Lucille ball sort of like physical comedy. What do you mean? Oh, I wrote down butt slaps where you're like, where you go to the side and you're like slapping your butt on the, you know, that's me. Yeah, that's super niche, but I have a video of you. The first time we went to Hawaii together. Where you're at a blue bikini thing, I've been doing it for a long time side of your butt. Like on the beach when I'm gonna be sexy. Yeah. You were yeah, I think that's what that's actually what you go to when you're trying to be sexy too. If you do that. Doesn't work. No. Your biggest drive like take it seriously. It's a little glimpsed in your romantic life. That's from it. Yeah. Anyway. That is special. That is a special thing. I would not have guessed that one. Yep. Okay. After round one. What do we have for round one right now, Adi? We don't know. We're tied right now, babe. We're tied. Thank you so much to bless you for sponsoring this portion of today's episode. You really like your silk pillowcase? I know you've been trying to take it. I know every night when I put it like underneath my head and like double stack the pillows. You know, you just take it right back. Give it back, man. I need to get you on your own honestly. Yes. That's why everyone's talking about silk pillowcases, you guys. 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And then the drink, you get a diet coke. - But at Chick-fil-A. - You get a diet, I feel like you get a diet coke anywhere though. - No. - You get the diet lemonade at Chick-fil-A? - Nope. - What do you get at Chick-fil-A? - A diet doctor pepper. - Diet doctor pepper at Chick-fil-A? - What other sauce? - What other sauce? Probably ketchup for your french fries. - Yes. Okay, you get a point for that. - Okay. - I guess you're going to Chick-fil-A as my favorite fast food. - Was that wrong? What's your favorite fast food? - No, I think that's right. I think that's, oh, no, I think of another one. - What? - What's my favorite fast food? I especially like it at airports. My mouth is actually watering right now. Addie knows it. - Oh, shake shack. - Yeah. - Boom, shake shack. - Shake shack is so good. - And when you go to shake shack, I think you just get a, like, you just get a plain burger. - A plain cheeseburger with ketchup and it's so good. - And french fries. - Why is it so good? - We usually split the fries usually. - We usually split the fries because it's a lot of fries. - All right. - Okay. What's the exact way I like my eggs right now? This is way too easy. - The exact way you like it. You just want to do hard boiled every time. - Yeah. - Hard boiled. - How many? - You three hard boiled eggs. - What do I do to 'em? - You poke a hole in it before? - No, but once they're prepared. - Once they're prepared, you like to eat them warm. You don't like 'em cold. You don't want to make 'em too chilly. - Not too chilly. What else do I do to 'em? - You put salt in that product. - Absolutely nothing. - Oh, okay. - Thank you. - False. - Did I get that, does that? - You get it. - You get it. - I could feel like I get that one. - I literally just don't do anything. I literally just send my car, eatin' eggs. I literally saw a guy. - He let me get in, I'll be like. - Cheers to you, good sir. - I've also caught onto your egg thing. I still have two of my hard boiled eggs to go eat out. - I know, I know she didn't eat your eggs today. - I need to eat those. - Err. Okay, what item do I always carry with me besides my phone? - What, I don't know. - This is hard because I don't carry a lot of things. - You know? - Oh my God, I got it, I got it, I got it, I got it. - Your water, your water bottle. - Yeah, that's everywhere. - You have that thing, the thing's a weapon too. - You never wanna mess with Abby Howard. This girl has her freaking hydrojug and she will wag you down your face. - Just like every other white girl. - She will send you, yeah, you don't mess with white girls these days people, okay? 'Cause they got their metal hydrojug that day. - That 40 ounce or fully filled is. - It'll knock you out, pull. - It'll knock you out. - You were crushing it, but I just feel good. - You were crushing round two Matt. If you lost me in target, what section would you find me in? - Ooh. - The probably the babysit, probably the baby clothes section. - Yeah, probably. - Yeah, probably like the kids looking at the kids close. - Yeah, yeah, kids close. I think you wouldn't that one. - Yeah. - I'm not writing these down anymore, is that a problem? - Yeah, I think we can just-- - Okay. - We can read each other's minds. - Okay, here we go, here we go, here we go. Where do I buy most of my clothes? - Oh man, wait, yeah, it's been-- - You don't want one answer here. - Oh, vitality, you just get, you've been getting a lot of your clothes at vitality. One, but then what's my other one? - You just put in the massive order from Abercrombie. I think you spent like $500 at Abercrombie. - I didn't spend that much, but I did spend a lot. Nothing fits, what are you gonna do? What are you gonna do? - Okay, you crushed round five. I think you got all those, right? - All right, now we're on to Abbey. What was I wearing on our first date? I don't even know what I was wearing on our first date. - Oh, it had to be one of those make tops. I know what it was. I feel like it was that purple and lime green Nike one. You know what I'm talking about? - Oh my gosh, yes. Wait, yes, you're right, you're right. Yeah, it was the, yeah, the purple, yep. The purple, the purple make top. - Yeah, with the shorts, I didn't match their black and teal. - We have a picture of us from when you, I think it was when you asked me to your prom, and I'm wearing, I think I'm wearing the hang top, I think. - Yeah, you never had the best. - See, why do I still think that's a cool shirt? (laughing) That just shows you how lacking by silence. - Well, it's how personal preference. - What was the first video we ever filmed together? - Our wedding video, unintentionally. - Yeah, actually, no, no, you're wrong. Wait, I'm giving you the answer right now. You gotta try a little bit harder. You just made a frowny face. It was before our wedding video. Wait, no, I lied. The wedding video was our first video. - Yeah, I was like, what's it possibly record? - That's the first one, yeah. 'Cause the first YouTube video we ever posted was of us doing the Taste of Chicago. - That's so funny. - Yeah, wow. I can't believe that was almost seven years ago. But the wedding video was recorded before that. We just didn't post it last week. - We didn't go back and watch that video. - Yeah, we'd be kind of fun to do a series of like rewatching all of our old videos. - I'm too afraid, revisiting ghosts of my previous self. What did I want to be when I was younger? - So many things, but I feel like first and foremost, you wanted to be a Broadway performer. - That's true. - But I feel like we could also put in there pro skateboarder. - Pro skateboarder would also have less. - Pro skateboarder. Just going pro, you know, making a big splash somewhere. - What was like, what was like the big thing though? - A singer. - Yeah. - Always. - Yeah. I've got like videos, I think you took videos of me when I would like to serenade you on some of our first dates. - Yes, that we weren't actually even technically boyfriend and girlfriend you were singing to me and your parents living room with a guitar. - That's true. - I was spoon. - Those are good times. What pet did I have as a kid and what was its name? - Why do I not want to actually, can we cut that one out? 'Cause I feel like this is like the security question, like all my fake accounts and stuff. I feel like we shouldn't boast that. - You chose that one as your security one. - It's like, what's your first pet, you know? - Well let me say it and then we're gonna bleep it out 'cause I'm getting this point. (beep) Name (beep) - That's gonna get me scammed. Don't say that. - I got that right. I know that. - You're right, you're right. What Disney character would I want to be? Or what Disney character would I want to play? - Aladdin probably. - Yeah, actually yeah. - Yeah. - You know, I wasn't Aladdin the musical junior. Aladdin junior when I was a kid. - I feel like you just want to kiss Jasmine. - I did want to kiss Jasmine. (laughing) - What were you even Aladdin junior? You weren't Aladdin. - There's always pictures of me like. - Were you like it? - There's these pictures of me like flexing my muscles. Like I'm trying to look all tough and stuff. - Well you were Aladdin? - I wasn't Aladdin. - Yago? - No, I was just like a town's person. Like I didn't have a role. My first role in a musical was playing bundles. - Cute. - Yeah, I played bundles. - And stick her into anything. - Exactly the whole thing. Actually I just read Aladdin again last night because I saw him up to date on all the characters. - That's right. - 'Cause he was flipping out. That's the only thing that would get combed down, reading him a book. - That's sweet. - It was sweet. The Genie would be a fun one, but you're not that type of character. You're more of an Aladdin. - Yeah. - Okay. (laughing) - You were two even 77. - We're still even? - Right. - Okay guys. Yes. - Brown two is easier than round one. - Okay. That's crazy. I can't believe we're still tied right now. - Round three. Ding ding ding. Am I a morning person or a night person? - Definitely. Wait. Wait. - He's like, I don't know. - It used to be, I feel like we're, I feel like you're a morning person. - Yeah. - Yeah, you're a morning person. - Yeah. - Yeah. - Yeah. - Last night it was like 915 or watch a show. I sleep. - Yeah. You were like, "Baby, it's too late. I gotta go to bed." He was like, "You have a really bad o'clock." - I was so tired. - Okay, and I'm putting the morning, I feel like I'm like sharp as a whip, you know what I mean? - Yeah, we're both up at six. - Yeah. - Well. - That's when our kids wake up. - That's so. - It's sunny out. - Yep. - And I'm more introverted or extroverted. - You were definitely more extroverted. - Really? - You're an extrovert. - Okay. - I would say, I think so. - Yeah. I would agree, I guess. - You're very social. - Very social. Very social girl. - Yep. - Pool or beach, for me? - Pool, you're pool. - Yeah, probably more pool. - I moved into the beach, baby. You wanted to move back. - I love the beach too though. - I think you do, yeah. - But the beach is just so much more work. - Exactly. - When you gotta pack everything, whereas like at the pool, you already got a chair on umbrella. - Yeah. - Then drinks accessible. Yeah, maybe pool. That makes me lame. I wish I was more beach. But I like both, okay. What's my favorite genre of music? I actually have one, so. - Jazz. - Ooh, okay, that might actually be it. - You're lacking a little Louis Armstrong. - That wasn't my answer though. - You also like, what's the guy who wrote the song Mrs? - Leon Bridges. - Leon Bridges, you like some Leon Bridges. - I do like that. What else do I like? - You just, you love Ben Rector, like you love that like sweet, like love song. - I was gonna say like, hold. - I kind of like a folk vibe too. - I took a history of jazz class. - I changed my life. - That's so sweet that you took a history of jazz class. - What's my hidden talent? Oh, I have one. If you don't get it, I'm running it down. Don't look at this. If you get this wrong, this is a secret talent that people would not know. Listeners probably don't know this, but, all right. - Now I'm like getting so nervous. I forgot what it is. - I'm gonna put a win in the competition at this. - No. - I don't know if Adi knows it. - Oh, you can win any competition. - No, you're pink. - No. - What? - I can never do a spin, and that's why I always lose that pink. - Oh, hula hooping. - Yes. - You're a great hula hooper. - I'm excellent at hula hooping, but something I found out is that when I'm pregnant, I can't hula hooping. I tried with the kids, I remember at the Dollar Tree, and I was like, "Give me your mama hula hooping." And I couldn't get you. I was like, "Let me show you how it's done, boys." And I literally couldn't-- - I'm funny. - So the belly got in the way. - Okay, wow, you crushed that. - Next up, Abby, question for you. Who would be my dream person to meet? - Dream person to meet. I'm probably gonna say like Justin Bieber. - That's literally the first-- (laughs) That's like the first person that popped into my brain. - Yeah, okay, I got it right. - I will say, as I've gotten older though, I feel bad for that guy, you know? I feel like he went through some serious trauma and then smoked a ton of weed, and I think he's like on the other side of it now, but I think he went through some hard stuff. - Yeah, I'm sure he did. - Just to be in the spotlight as a young kid. Like, yeah, I don't know. I don't wanna get too deep into that, but anyway. - Well, doesn't he have a quote recently of saying that the industry cared a lot about his skill, but not about his soul or something like that? - Ooh, that's good. - I can't miss, I'm gonna miss quote him, but I think he said something along the lines too. - I think any person that's ever had any income of fame-- - That would be crazy. - Good, relate in some way. - That would be crazy to grow up like that. Like I have a child. - Yeah, oh yeah. - Yeah. - And it's hard to understand what that's like. - I remember the time that they had a video, like there was a video of him circulating around, he was just at church, and like he came out and there was a bunch of paparazzi, and he's like-- - Goodness. - I'm just like-- - I love the audio's now of him, of him like, you were like going off on paparazzi, it's so fun. - It's like I couldn't, that would be so suffocating. - I love how the internet's on his side too. Like I love-- - Oh really? - There's a famous audio that's circulating right now where people were just like, there's some random paparazzi that was going up to him, and he just went off on this guy, and it's so funny. - Huh. - I can't even think of what he said. - You were all like just-- - Is it, it's not clocking to you. - That's an old one. - Yeah, I don't know. - Standing on visit, but there was a new one though. There was more than-- - Yeah, there was a new one. - Just from like-- - It's like you're not under state, or it's like that's not like, I don't remember what it was. - He's like, I'm a dad, I'm a daddy. - Look, I think that's what he says. I love it. Anyway, who would play me in a movie about my life? - We're not going to say the same answer on this. - I just thought of somebody, the first person that popped in my brain, who do you think it is? Like, new actor, just saw me in a movie. (laughing) You're like, you're literally-- - You know why I actually want to play you? - Who would you want to play be? - What's that guy's name? - He played Tony and West Side Story. - Oh, yes, that would be good too. - I want him to play you. - Yeah, that's-- - Anzal Elgort. - That would be-- - Is that him? - Anzal Elgort. - That's what I want to play you. - You know, okay, if-- - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - Maybe what I need to do, babe, is maybe I need to pause social media and like fully pursue Broadway again. I would love to play Tony and West Side Story. - You'd be such a good Tony. - I would love it. And like randomly sometimes-- - Give them a little-- - Give them a little-- - Maria. - Wait, no, what's the-- - What's the-- - Win your reject, your reject from your first cigarette. - No, what's the-- I used to sing it for auditions. It's not Maria. (singing in foreign language) - No, gosh, I can't think of it right now. What are the West Side Story songs? I can't think of it. (singing in foreign language) (laughing) - Is that Aladdin? No, that's West Side Story. - No, that's West Side Story. - I get-- I do every song. - Officer Cromky, we're down on our knees. (laughing) No one likes to follow with social. - Oh. ♪ Tonight, tonight, won't be just an end ♪ - I love West Side Story. - I love West Side Story. ♪ Tonight, there, yeah, that's the song ♪ I think that's the one that I used to sing. But I sang that one, I was like, I think I sang that before my voice changed. But-- - That, okay, the challenge for West Side Story-- - You're still working through that transition. - I know, well, sometime that my falsetto, I need to work my falsetto. I get like, I get a little nervous on my falsetto. - That still freaks me out a little bit. - But, no, you'd be great. Okay, wait, who were you gonna say? Who was just-- - Oh, Ansel, no, no, no, no. Jacob Alority, he's like the new, he's like the new like-- - You do kinda look like him. - I feel like every woman wants that man. - No. - He's a good actor too. That's what I respect is like, he doesn't, I don't even think he has social media 'cause he just doesn't give enough. Like, he just cares about acting. He doesn't care about, like, the game time. - I don't know, in Frankenstein, I was kinda like-- - I didn't understand why they cast him in Frankenstein because they, it was just CGI the whole time. - We still need to finish that. - Gosh, that movie was horrible though. I don't like it. - Let's go finish it. I think it gets better on the second half. We were just like an hour and a half in. It was my birthday. Okay, let's go, keep going. So I got that one right or wrong, really wrong. No, I didn't say Ansel, I didn't say-- - You had that one wrong, actually, sorry. - Okay. - What video game/fictional world would I want to live in? - I don't know either. - Probably thinking Minecraft. (laughing) - I don't, I'm gonna give that point to you. Like, I wouldn't actually wanna live in it, but Minecraft is the best game of all time. Can we just be honest, like, me and my middle school buddies, when I was in seventh grade, that game-- - When Caleb and Abby are were your brother. - Yeah. - Like, me and Abby are just downstairs. I'm like, where do they go? And you guys are just upstairs. And then Caleb likes to play the music for Minecraft. - Yeah. - Me. - He likes the volume of it, even though the volume doesn't even do anything. - The soundtrack of Minecraft is so relaxing. - No. - And it's just, it puts you at peace. And it's just, it's just, with, you're with the boys, and it's just so good. And then now-- - The boys, your brother. - And then we have two remote, remote that our kids will use, and they think they're playing with their actually not. And it's so fun. - You guys have really hacked the dadding sister. - We really did, yeah. Yeah. What tattoo would I get if I had to choose one? - You would get Emerson's name. - Yep, where am I gonna get her name? - That's what you can never decide on. - That's why I haven't gotten the tattoo yet, 'cause I've gone back and forth on where to get her name. - Why do you get it by your heart? - See, that's the thing, is like, I wanna have it by my heart, but I think I want to, but then, like I think that's where you want me to have her name, but then I think I want it on my arm. - Okay, then put on your arm. - I think I should just go ahead and do it. Like I've overthought this for so long. Yeah, that'll be cool. It'll be cool like every single time I look down on my arm, it'll just see what-- - Dude, when we go to Tahoe. - That'd be so sweet, 'cause my dad wants to get the same exact tattoo to remember Emerson. So we'll have to do it and get it on the same place, same location. - I don't think you have to get out of the same location. - I guess we don't. I guess my dad can do whatever he wants, but we did have a phone call me and my dad talking about the tattoo and where we want to get it. I like that. I like that a lot. And I want it in your handwriting. - That's right. - You have beautiful handwriting, 'cause I want it to be in your handwriting. What is my dream car? - I'm a cyber truck. - See, that, like, that's the thing is, I feel like I got my dream car. Like I feel like just having a Tesla, like when we got married in 2019, I had like, just learned-- - You're not a car guy. - I'm not really not a car guy, but I just learned like what Tesla was and I thought it was cool that it was like a self-driving car. And so yeah, we got, I feel like, I don't think I'll ever experience that excitement of having a car ever again, 'cause I remember like I was just freaking out when we, it got the elevator to our house, you know? I could give you a half point for that one. - Okay, you be. - Okay, that was the end of that round. - After three rounds, he's at 10 and a half minutes at 12. - Oh my God. - That's some BS. That is some crazy BS. - Support for today's episode comes from Square, the business platform that helps sellers become neighborhood favorites. 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Right now listeners can get up to $200 off-square hardware when they sign up at square.com/go/unplanned. That's squ-a-r-e.com/go/unplanned. Get started with Square and build a setup that works the way you do. Okay Matt, round four. What restaurant would I pick if I could only eat at one forever? - Well, it would not be Texas Roadhouse. - No. - That's for sure. Which is sad because I really liked the role. - Oh, I got my answer. - I'm not gonna lock this in, but I was about to say village in 'cause it used to be like a village in chocolate chip pancake scurly. - So niche. - What, what, wait, this is for every meal? What's the question again? - What restaurant would I pick if I could only eat at one forever? - Oh, cheesecake fact. - Yeah, think about that menu. - What's freaking, go! - I would never get bored. - Yeah, how could you get bored at the cheesecake? - You'd get it morbidly obese because every meal there's like 4,000 calories. It's crazy. - But they, what about the skinny lychee's menu? - Oh, that would be-- (laughing) - I can have breakfast lunch and dinner when I'm feeling skinny. - Oh my god. - I'm feeling like a big bag. I got everything. - That's so funny. - I got everything I need. Right there. - Everything you need, right there, baby. (laughing) - Gosh, we need to go back to cheesecake fact. - It's been there. It's been at least a month since we've been. - Been way too long. - That used to be our date night spot every week. And then we just stopped. - Then we stopped one on dates. - Why do we stop going on dates? - We forgot about each other. - Been doing to-be podcasts. - If I'm upset, what treat would you bring me to make my day better? - Probably, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. - Don't think about food, honestly. Think about what's something that I need every time I'm upset. - Any time I hear a upset? - Anytime I'm even slightly inconvenienced, what do I need to do? - To reset myself. - You see, you wanted the gym, you know- - Oh, that's true. - But that's not the one I was thinking of. - You're just feeling anger. - That's true. - You're going to go to the gym. - That's going to go to the gym. - I need to go to the gym, but what- - If I was slightly inconvenienced, any inconvenience in my day, it's like, I got a reset, or how do I reset? - Take a bath. - Yeah. - Yeah, you have to take, this is a, yeah. - Sometimes I have to take more than one a day if it's like, really. - I feel like, okay, I will say, I'm in the lead right now, but I think Abby's helping me out on these answers. - You think? - You kind of just led me to the answer. - Oh, sorry. - You also changed it. Like, it was supposed to be like, what's the food you want, and then some of that went up on bath. - Okay, what treat, what physical treat would you get me? I think I'm thinking of one, two. - Probably just chocolate. Probably, no. - No? - No. - Uh, Diet Coke. - No. - Okay, that's the right answer sometimes. What do you think of- - Also, the fact that you're saying Diet Coke is I'm just like letting it go, but I'm Coke Zero, so. - Sorry. - Watch it. - That, that, that is embarrassing. You've been a Coke Zero girly for- - And Earth. - Also, I'm gonna be a girl now. (laughs) - Here, root beer, you're a root beer girl. - I had to update my syllabus for you about myself. (laughs) - Okay. - Okay, what treat, go, Earth, go. Earth, ice cream cookie sandwich from Trader Joe's. - That, yeah. - No, sorry. - Good. - Deathly, delicious. - But see that, like that, ugh, yeah, you're right. I'm wrong, I'm wrong. - What's the most random thing that makes me emotional? Oh, I got it. I don't, usually just like a random Instagram reel or a TikTok, you're like, I'm just catching balls right now. - But that's not random, that's normal. I feel like a lot of people just start crying right now. - It's like emotional. - On reels. - Like it's, especially the ones where like you see the, the grandma grandpa, and then their kids, and then their kids, and then soon there's like a family tree of like 75 people, like on the field, you know? That's the type of video that gets you every time. - It gets me. Now what I'm thinking about, this is a random thing that makes me cry. That's what the question says. What's the most random thing that makes me cry? - What happened to the lost colony bro? I don't know. - It's making me cry, that makes me spiral. - Which they did find out what happened to them. - Yes, I did announce that. - You said that I don't always hear. - I didn't say that I don't always hear. - I love that. - Okay. - I hope that was accurate. I announced that to you like a week ago, I came running up into our bedroom and I was like, "Babe, they found, I was scrolling through." - You didn't even know that we had talked. - I was scrolling YouTube and I was like, "They found the lost colony of roo-no." - Just a puzzle piece. - Yeah. - Old couples holding hands. - Oh, I should have had that one. - You really should have had that one. - Yes. - That is something that I was really ran out of to cry because I'm just like, "I just hope one day of mad, and I can be old together." And still be in love and holding hands. Holding hands is just also just such a precious thing. - Yeah. - Like it's so precious to hold, especially when you've been together your whole life. - Yeah. - You're gonna cry right out. What movie makes me cry every time? What? We got a lot of crying ones. That's okay. This is who I am. What makes me cry every time? - For me, it's up, but for you, would it be the different movie? - Wait, let me think. Let me think. - Do you even know what the movie would be? - So many. - Coco also got me. Like, remember me. - It's the Pixar ones for Matt. - Yeah, Pixar knows how to do it, man. I almost started crying when the Pixar band at Disneyland started playing, remember me. They just transitioned and do it out of nowhere. And I was like, "Oh, just hit me in the freaking soul." - You were like having a visceral reaction to that. - Yeah. - Yeah, me. - A movie that makes me cry. - The last time I watched up was after we had our miscarriage and then that part of them losing their baby was like literally had me on the floor. Like, so sad, so, so sad. I hate that we know what that's like. Yeah. - Yeah, I guess we can both stay up, but I can't remember why I'm not thinking of one. I haven't cried during a movie in a long time. Just kidding. I have cried a lot in movies. - You cried, weathering heights was like awful. - Yeah, it was brutal. - That was like horrible. Ruined our date night. - Ruined date night. - That's why we stopped going on date nights, honestly. That's the date we stopped going on. - Honestly. - I don't think we've been on a date night since that movie. - I think we just figured it out. Yeah, weathering heights ruined date night for us. Thanks, weathering heights. Thanks, Jacob, Alority. The frick. - We're doing date night every week. - And we just stopped. - We're not doing it every week. - Okay, every other week, for sure. - I don't know about that either, but. - Once a month. - Once a month. - No point? - I don't know. That's not really fair for him, but no point. - No point. - I see how he has like a calculator, like a website, but. - I know, I think that's a chowly, it's been a long time. - That's so fun. - You've got a scorekeeper. - You've got a scorekeeper website, that's so funny. - What's the matter, cheers me up instantly. - Probably taking you to Disney, I guess. I don't know. Wait, no, it's so much simpler than that. Flowers, no, flowers don't really do it. Last time I got you flowers, you didn't notice. - You didn't say anything, you just put them on the counter, I said, who gave me? - I wanted to see if you would notice, you didn't notice. It's okay. - No, I noticed I just had no idea where they came from. - I was gonna walk into, you're always here recording, but then I'm like, I don't want to like, you know how, if you like do it for like the attention of it, then it's like, it's kind of takes a little point away. - You just know we're all the crap out of it, and then I know I did that, you got me flowers. - Yeah, so then I didn't show you that I got you flowers, then you'd ever do it. (laughing) - Okay, um, probably taking a bath. Probably that. - Sure, good. - That works every time. Yeah, that's a good one. Okay, your turn. - Yeah, what's something I've been overthinking this week. - And for real. - You're right, ding-ding-ding-ding-ding. - Pre-five. - For your whole life. - Everything, literally everything. What is my most irrational fear? - Oh, they were moving on. (laughing) That was correct. Most irrational fear. Tiny shards of glass getting in your body. (laughing) - How are you so good at this? Wait, get out of the store. You gotta tell the store. - Which one? - There's so many things. - For the last time that this happened. - The last time that's happened, I think Kayla accidentally broke a glass. - It's an OCD thing. - Yeah, kill, accidentally broke a glass, and then I warned everyone. I warned Abigail across from me. I was like, hey, he's gonna be cleaning this up for the next like hour and a half. And then sure enough, you have the vacuum. Next thing out, got a broom. Next thing, vacuum is back on. Like you're just like, then you're spraying and wiping. - Yeah, I don't want any glass to get in my kid's feet. That would not be good. - Glass. Also, if he thinks that he might have accidentally eaten a container that has chipped glass. - That's true. - Internal bleeding is gonna be on his mind for the next 48 hours. - What is one of my biggest regrets? - Maybe, behind our Airbnb. - Is that too serious for you? - You know, I learned a lot that. - Leaving Hawaii. - Sad. - Hey, man, that got a little too deep. Do you fast? - It's been five years, almost. - Hey, that's the end of the podcast. All right. - I hit the nail on the head. - Oh gosh. Well, two more questions. What's a baby name I love, but you hate? - I feel like we agree on baby names. - I know, I feel like we're baby names. - And anything I like more than you like. - Yeah. Well, you're the one you've picked out of our baby's name to not just like kind of like signed off on them. - Yeah. - You've been like approved. - I mean, I feel like I don't hate it, but you want to name one of our kids after you. - That would be kind of, well, why do I think that's kind of fun? - It's just so confusing because my dad's Matthew, your Matthew, then if you have another Matthew. - Yeah, and then also something about that like, I don't know, I've gone back and forth. I'm number 48. What is my favorite physical feature of yours? - I'm gonna write it down. - You're gonna write it. You can even say it for a podcast listener. - No. - You could use the, oh gosh. You wouldn't write for it. - Wait. - If I write, don't say it out loud. - Yes, I mean, yes, yes. - Okay, okay. - But I mean, I was thinking more of like a, like a, like a. - More physical than that. - I was thinking more PG than that. - My eyes. - Yeah, let's, let's go with those. Let's go with those. I like your eyes. - Okay, well, did I get that right? - Well, yeah, we'll give it to you. - Okay. (laughs) - We have been doing this too long. - This is so serious. - Abby, you're about to 15. I'm about to 15 a half. - Oh. - The half point. - Okay, I will say, we do need to get a mic in here 'cause people have been requesting that you have a mic. - Okay, I'm just talking longer. (laughs) - No, how do you say it? - Saying 15 and 15 and a half, I'm winning. What's my love language and how do I actually like it expressed? - Huh, um, your love language is acts of service. - Yes. - And you like it expressed by me, like just like cleaning our house. - Chor play. - Chor play. Chor play, baby. - Yeah, I think you're at the right. - I've never heard of that. - Chor play, you've never heard of Chor play before. - That's funny. - Seven years of marriage, we'll do that. - Chor play. - Only seven. Okay, what's one thing I wish you did more of? - War Chor play. - Probably War Chor play. - And if you do do something, you're like, look what I'm like, it's not actually the fact of seeing you do it, it's the task done. - But I'm like. - No, so we get together, it's so romantic. - No, I do love doing it. - It's romantic. - I genuinely love doing chores with you. - Yeah. - I wish he got you at-- - My favorite thing. - As excited as it does me. - What's something I pretend not to care about, but actually do. - You wish you could sing. - Yeah. - That's really sad actually. - That's so sad for me. - Maybe you could help me be a better actor, and I could work with you on your singing skills. - No, I tried. Seven years of private voice lessons. (laughing) - At my best, it was-- - I-- - Pretty bad still. - On the real though guys, I would love to see Abby in a movie. Like I think she would crush it. Like, y'all, she can act. - That's so nice. - She can act. - Also my nose. I pretend not to care about it, but I don't like it. I'm just really sad. - Yeah, just putting it out there. - I think you're beautiful. - It bothers my mom when I say it. But I don't have her nose, so I say it to her. And then my dad has the same nose, so we can talk about it together. (laughing) - See, I think parents need to be aware of what they say, because your dad roasts himself. - And I'm like, I am saying it's not the same, I'm like, it's the same nose. - Because if you talk negatively about yourself, and then your kid hears it, then they're gonna like, pick up on that, you know? - Yeah, but also I feel like it doesn't really count. - Same thing with like, like with way, and with just like anything with like appearance, any of that insecurity can go on to your kid, you know? - What's something I judge people for but won't admit? I got it. I guess I'm admitting it. - You judge people for it? - Yeah. There's like a couple acceptable answers here. Gosh, I'm so judgmental. - Okay, probably. - This is something I would be like, oh, I wouldn't do this, but I tell you about it, but I would never like, it's not serious enough to bring to that person, you know what I mean? - Gossip, gossiping. - That's a good one, that wasn't what I was thinking about. You'd be kind of hypocritical to judge someone for gossip, I feel like. - Yeah, gossiping about something. - Yeah. - That was not what I was thinking. - But see, we're safe people, like we can tell each other. - You're no fun to gossip too. - Why not? - I'm not sure that's not true, it's still not okay. (laughing) - Maybe people get, I don't even know. I'm sorry, I'm gonna play the, I don't know. - People being mean to their kids. - Oh, yeah, not. - Or, okay, and I also say being mean loosely, like sometimes if I'm like, that was just way too, like that was way too much. - That's a big one for me too. It makes me so angry, especially if we're in like, Disneyland or Disney World and people are being like, like yelling at their kids. Like, can you just take a chill pill? - Like it's just supposed to be fun. - Yeah. - Yeah. - It's supposed to be the most magical place. - I'm gonna say the one, another one I was thinking of is like laziness. - Oh, yeah. - Just do it. - Yeah. - Get off your butt. - Yeah. - That's bad, 'cause I'm also, gosh, I'm on my butt a lot sometimes. So that's just, that's why I don't breed up to you. - You work hard though. - Thank you. - You get a lot done. - Thank you. - Thank you to Ladder for sponsoring this portion of today's episode. Have you ever found yourself at the gym where you're just kind of doing whatever? You don't really have a workout routine. You don't really have a program. You're kind of just really nilly doing, you know, some push ups and then maybe a couple pull-ups and then you're walking on the stair climb and you're like, what the heck? 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I've decided to just let go of those, but what's one? - Oh, this makes me so sad 'cause I don't see it at all. It's your belly button. Like for some reason, like you get all upset about like your belly, your belly, which is so, but it's so beautiful. You're going our, you're going our baby. - You must stay hidden. - I love it. You gotta show that thing off. - That's why I'm like. - It's a great belly. I like it. - I like it. - I go to the pool. - You're beautiful. You look so beautiful. - I could just get a one piece. - You're a hot mama. - How was the point for you? - All right. Well. - These are the same questions. - Gosh, we've been playing this game for so long. Are we gonna stop? - I'm gonna stop. - Oh good, you're having a good time. We've got one more round after this one. - I'm gonna start writing them down again. - Okay, now we have what's my love language and how do I actually like it expressed? - I do have to write this down. - Oh, I know what it is. Ready? No, I'm supposed to be the one writing it down. Oh my gosh. - Physical touch. - Physical touch. - Got it. - I was thinking of something a lot more PG. It was just you playing with my hair. Just you playing with my hair. - You like it? - Yeah. - I like it. - So I got that wrong. - Just scratch you. Oh, it's so, keep doing it. I like it. - That is so weird. - No, you got it right. I mean, I'm not, I'm not gonna stop you from that from the physical touch, but. - I got right, so do I get a point? - Yeah, you get a point. - Scratching your head, Matt, how are you? - I like it. - Okay, wow. Good to know. - I love being hugged. I love just being-- - You love hugs, I say hugs. - Like, I'm a physical touch guy, you know? What's one thing I wish you did more of? Oh. (laughing) - Then what I wrote down? (laughing) - You get ting, ting, ting, ting. (laughing) - Okay, nice. - All right, what's something I pretend not to care about, but I actually do. - A lot of things. - Show me, yeah, a lot of things. - Everything. - I don't know, I wanna say-- - Wait, say it, what is it? - What is it? - Just look at me, what's-- (laughing) - What did that do? - What was funny? (laughing) - I, I, I, I go say it. - Okay, say it, what is it? - I'll write it down. And then I can let you know if it's okay to be said. - Oh. (laughing) - Let's give that one to ourself. We don't need to share that with the internet. - Okay. - All right, all right. - But am I right? - Yeah, you won't. - Okay. (laughing) - Okay, damn, we're just getting so open, so open today. - My balls are down, they've been down for a while. - Okay, what, what's something I judge people for, but won't admit it, the won't admit part is throwing me off, 'cause it's like-- - You will tell people straight up, I mean. - I feel like I'm a pretty open honest person. - Well, also, I don't really think you're judging anyone. You're not judgmental. - I don't think I'm, yeah, I don't think I'm judgmental. - Oh, I know. - What? - How they spend their money? - Oh, see, I will admit that though. - Okay, I will admit that. - I'll tell them to their face. - They're like, that's not a good thing to do. - Yeah, especially, especially like, the rules of money are simple, but it's easier said, I will say it's easier said than none. Wait, easier said than none. What blows my mind though, is the, oh, sorry, I'm sorry. What I will say, what's fascinating about money is like, it does not matter how much you make if you don't learn to keep some of it. You're never gonna have anything for yourself. And that's the most important rule of money. It's not about how much you make, it's how much you keep. - It was really good. - Yep, that's a rule from the, it's called the Richest Man in Babylon. That's a whole book about that. Go read it. - For just a minute. - Go read it. - Dave Ramsey likes that book too. - Dave Ramsey too. - I love Dave, it's a great guy. What's my current biggest insecurity? Do you know what it is? You're riding it down again. - I don't think this is a new one. I spelled that wrong. - Your personality. I think I like my personality though. - You told me that you were not, you were not confident about your personality. And that made me sad. - No, I like my personality. I think I'm just insecure. - Just in general insecure. - Yeah, I'm gonna work on that one. - So did I just roast your life by saying you're a person now? - Yeah, maybe a little bit. - Did you or did you not tell me that? You're like I've always been confident about this, but I've always been not confident about it. - Yeah, I feel like, I'm in therapy right now guys, 'cause I wanna be the best version of myself for my life. my kids, so that they, like I think your kids just like, do whatever the frick, they don't do what you say, they do what you do, they just copy you. I think there's like great qualities about my parents and I have nothing, I love my parents, they're great people. I just think like I just wanna like try to be the best for myself so my kids can follow that, you know? - Can we just clear my name that I didn't just try to roast your life, you did say that to me. - When did I say that to you? I don't know. - Oh my gosh. - Maybe I'm just stupid and I just forgot that I said that. - Can I just pull that out there? - I probably said that while I was feeling it's a year. - Don't make me, don't make me the asshole here. - All right. - So no point there? - No point. - Okay Abby, you're up. - At the five rounds, that 18, Abby, 19 and a half. - Oh, Abby's winning, going into the final round, Abby's winning, guys. - I haven't beat by one and a half points. Okay, let's see, what's something I've changed my mind about recently? - You really don't change your mind much, honestly. - I think I do. - I feel like you don't. Can you think of anything that you've changed your mind on, there we go. That's exactly my point. - Am I a stubborn old lady? - Yeah, you are. - Are you okay? I love that about you. - You do? - Yeah. - No, I feel like I've changed my mind about something. - You're Vicki Bizzwell, but in a younger version, you're like a younger version of your grandma. - Microplastics. - Microplastics. Yes, Abby would not let me heat up my frozen peas in the plastic bag the other day, in the microwave because of microplastics. - I don't want to know why. - Abby gets a point. - Abby gets a point for that one. - He gets a point, I guess. I guess I'm stubborn old lady. - I get a point for that. - Yeah. - Okay, what's my current hyper fixation? - You know, that's like a thing that I do, so I don't really know what that would be for you, but I'm thinking probably microplastics. - No. - No. - What, what would it be? Do you even know what it is for yourself? You even know what it is for yourself. - Yeah, I do. - No, you don't. What is it then? - Like, audiobooks? - No, that's all even a thing. - Podcasts. - No, that's so general. - Yummy protein shake. - No. Eggs. - You've done eggs forever. - No. - Eggs, what? - Reading. - You've always been a reader. You're funny, I like you. - Stake. - Grilling, I grill a lot more. You started letting me grill again. - Yes. - And Abby admitted it guys, he realized that the reason I got fired from grilling duty was because she ordered the wrong meat, so she got wild salmon rather than farm-raised salmon. - There's something you should know. Is that wild salmon? - Tastes. - Gamy. - Tastes like you're literally just plucked a fish from a pond. I'm not kidding. And farm-raised salmon tastes way better. - Yeah. - And I accidentally one time must have bought wild salmon. - Yes. - And it tastes like you're eating cat food. (laughs) - Yes. - And I thought Matt muffed it up, but it was actually, I just brought the wrong meat. - Yeah, but I'm back grilling again. I grill steak. - He's back to grilling every night. - I grill salmon. I'm grilling chicken tonight. - And salmon. - And salmon. - How many cavities have I had? Okay, let's actually narrow this down to. How many cavities did I have after my pregnancy was griffin? - I want to say there was, was it four? You had four cavities. Yeah, four cavities. - Four cavities after my first pregnancy. - Ding, ding, ding. - They had to do it in two different shots. Like they had to do one half one day and one half the other day. - Yeah, that's crazy. So if you're a lady that's pregnant, get your teeth checked. You could have some cavities. - Well, they can't even do it while you're pregnant. - Wait until after you're pregnant. - And then get your teeth checked. - What's my proudest moment? - Probably becoming a mom. - Yeah, that's so easy. - You were so. - It's so cute. The video of you finding out you're pregnant with griffin, you like have this little hand go up. You're like so happy, it's the sweetest thing. - So I think you dreamed of that since you were like a little girl. - Forever. - Yeah. - Where is my dream vacation? Don't ever think that it's what's my favorite thing to do. - Your dream vacation? - Yeah, my dream vacation. - Do you love to go to the lake and go to your late girl? No, you. Oh, oh, I'm overthinking this. I'm so overthinking this. The spa. You like to go to the spa and get a massage and just relax. That's true, that's true. But I was just gonna say, just me, you, and Cabo is like our favorite place. - Cabo, yeah, Cabo, we love Cabo. - It's just unlimited food, rest, and relaxation, and we just get to be married. - Yeah. - Just get to be married, not be parents together, which I love being parents. But it's just so special after having kids to have that like two days of alone time. - Yeah. - So special. - That's good. - Oh yeah, that's the end. I don't think you got that one right. - Okay. - Yeah, no, I don't think you got that right. - All right. - Spa, spa's kind of right. - What were you thinking? - Well, we go to the spa. - You don't have to go down and talk with you. - Okay. - What is my biggest pet peeve? (laughing) - She was on the table, she was on the counter. - That does piss me off, yeah. I was just waiting for you to say something 'cause I can't even think of any shoes. - She was on the counter. - She was on the counter, piss me off. I don't like that. - She was in the house. - Yeah, I don't like shoes. If you were in your shoes in the house, take your shoes off, okay? - Okay. - We don't wanna hear your German in this house. - If you think that you have touched any bit of poop. - You gotta wash my hands at least 17 times. (laughing) - Yeah, I think those are, that's pretty all inclusive of your. - Yeah, that's pretty good. I'll give you a point for that one. (laughing) - What's my proudest moment? - In the YouTube Play button. - I actually was, that was like pretty crazy. Yeah, the thing that came to my mind was mirroring you. (laughing) - I'm gonna cry. - I don't wanna get a vote on this podcast. - What? - Why, I just love you. I just think that that was like. - You did pretty good, marrying me. You really think about it. - I did, I really, I married out on my league, so. - Stop, that's not true. - Pretty crazy. - That's true. - You're just like the whole day. I remember just like thinking about how lucky I was and I was just trying to like enjoy every second of it. It was cool. - That's sweet. - Don't you forget it. - What is my favorite Christmas movie? - You don't like Christmas movies. - But if I had to choose a favorite one, which one would it be? - Okay, four Christmas's. - Not the one that I was thinking of. I was thinking of Elf with Will Ferrell. - What? - Yeah. - You never have ever asked me, hey, let's watch Elf. - Will is a funny guy. - You read the Polar Express book to the kids every single night. - I do, you're right. - And it's April. But I haven't watched that movie in a long time. I don't know when. That's just because it's a shadow book and I project the book onto the wall using my flashlight on my phone. - I got that wrong. - What is my hidden talent? I just came to my mind, I know it right now. People might know what this is, but most of the internet would have no idea that I could do this. - Your hidden talent? - Yeah. Most people, most of you would have no idea. People that like really know us would know because of our background and the arts. - So you can tap dance? - Yeah. - I led you to that answer though. - No. - Just so that when Abby wins this game, - Matt's a really good tap dancer. He really, he really actually. - Wait, why'd you say that? It's kind of funny. - Do you know what were taps you still? - Dude, that actually means so full. Should I like tap dance right now? - No. - No. - Not now. - I actually, maybe not right now, but I do have. - Not now. - I thought of this video like two years ago and I still haven't filmed it, so I'll just tell you what it is. Like waking you up in the morning by tap dancing? - Never do that. (laughing) It immediately beats out. - That would be so funny. Like you're just like yawning and waking up and I'm just like. - You wake up me and you're. - I'm doing a triple time step on a wooden platform. - That would actually be kind of funny. - Okay. If I were a red flag, what would it be? - Your mouth breather. (laughing) - You got it right. How did you know? That's exactly what I was thinking. - This man literally buys special tapes to take a close-up night tap dance. - I do. I do buy tapes to show my mouth. - And here's the thing. It's not a problem that your mouth breather, it's the residual problems of you being a mouth breather, the fact that you can't chew with your mouth closed 'cause then you won't be able to breathe when you're eating food. - Right. - If you have a cold, it's just a nightmare of a different sort. - That's right, yeah. - And your chronic overthinker. - I do overthink the frick out of literally everything. You're right. - And not very decisive. - You are correct in that. Well, now that Abby said all my reflags, thank you guys for listening to another episode of Unplanned. - Matt got 21. - Matt got 21. - Matt got 22 and a half. - Oh, Abby won. - That is, that is only right, honestly. - Congratulations on winning. - Thank you. - I love you. - I love you. - I'm so happy you're my wife. Thank you to KTBY99 for leaving us review on Apple Podcast. If you guys could leave us a review that would really help us out on Spotify, on Apple. Wherever you're listening, please leave a review. 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