When Learning Becomes Procrastination: How Brilliant Minds Delay the Work That Matters
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The transcription revolves around a discussion on various topics related to personal development and productivity. It begins with a focus on accountability and freestyling in practices, emphasizing the importance of being neutral and consistent in one's approach. The conversation delves into setting up hedonistic rewards as motivation for accomplishing goals. Strategies to combat overcommitment and overscheduling are discussed, including a ruthless meetings audit and simplifying tasks to achieve better focus and flow. The impact of hard work on ego development and self-identity is explored, highlighting how one's strengths can also be their weaknesses if not managed properly. The speakers share personal anecdotes and insights on these topics, providing a holistic view of balancing productivity and personal growth.
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We ran everybody's data through CHET, GBT, and came up with the four biggest issues people faced in this class and turned them into topics for conversation. And so we have Dr. Sarah Sarkis, who's probably, in my opinion, the smartest clinical psychologist in the world right now. Scott Barry Coffin, so we have three different peak performance perspectives. I figured we'd just go in a circle. Four through four topics and then open it up for questions. Does it make sense? So I wanted to start with accountability and freestyling. So the topic one was accountability, both to self and to others. And by freestyling, usually what I'm at is people will start in a new practice and then very quickly go back to old behaviors. Very quickly go back to trying to rather than staying with something new. So when we're facing accountability challenges and freestyling challenges, what do you do? And what do you do? Okay, so first I would say that we're all human and like humans do this. We like try stuff and then we fall out of habit and then we get back in. So first I would be try to be very like neutral about how I interpreted my accountability because I don't want shame to get involved and that will like further derail your motivation to get back in. Right? So first is I'm going to try to be neutral with myself. And then the way that I do it is I try to break it down to the smallest increment, the smallest viable increment. I assume it's an energy management issue because if I'm you know you have to say like am I passionate about this if your answer there is no move on. You're always going to face accountability issues, but I would try to get down to the to seeing it as an energy management issue. And I would try to do the smallest viable dose repetitively because you need consistency to get that like dopamine kind of rolling around in there for some wins. And then I would I would replicate that. So like let's take movement for example, right? So when I find myself falling out of like my comfortable commitment with movement, I immediately bring it down to doses that feel like just doable. So like 15 minutes versus telling myself it has to be some kind of like grand gesture. I just force myself into the 1% dose that I can repeat consistently because you're probably trying to rely on discipline. And you could rely on something cheaper, which is consistency. And if you dose it to consistency, you'll often get yourself out of your kind of call it a rot, even though I'm suspicious. It's not always a rot. Sometimes people's expectations are wildly wrong, right? And so all of that could be helpful. I love that answer. Yeah, another one that's really common in the literature. I will then answer to you. Another one that's really common, which to me just seems obvious, but really setting up a time where you get to do something hedonistic. If you accomplish a certain goal, you know, like, but I'm not, you know, going to be able to have that ice cream. Unless I do these three chapters, all right, these chapters, but have other people hold you accountable that you're not eating the ice cream, you know, but that works for me if I have like a hedonistic goal. Yeah, that's a great one. Like I actually got through the E triple P license doing that. I would like study for 45 minutes and then give myself a 15 minute reward, like a maximum 15 minute reward. And you can, it's sort of like trick your brain into some feel good chemicals when you're doing something you kind of don't want to do. I took it at the end of a really hard task before a break. So I'll, like, I'll write for four hours, right? Finish the morning writing and I'll try to replicate that. Yeah, but I'll stop it like 20 minutes early and then I'll do the thing that I've been delaying because I've already gotten all the focus from the thing that I'm trained, my brain's trained to focus while writing. And so I'll cut the writing early and I'll take the extra focus and put it towards the thing I'm not wanting to do because then I don't have to retrain focus for it. When I came to your flow for writers in 2016, the best, I mean, there was so much, but one of the things that really stuck with me that I thought it was like it never dawned on me. You were like, stop writing the train to the station. It's greedy. It's greedy. Get off of the focus and concentration and I'll put train 20 minutes before you hit crash because that's credits in your energetic bank that you can later use strategically in ways that you want to. We have a certain amount of energy that we can spend for the things we feel interested in. So that sort of that philosophy, even more tweaked and I like it. It's a flow idea also. So usually by the time you notice you're in flow, you're actually coming out. You don't tend to know when the spirit, when don't mean starts getting replaced by serotonin at the tail end of a flow state, tends to be when you pop back into consciousness. It's also when the feelings tend to turn back on because flow is an emotionally neutral state because we don't need emotions to guide us if we're performing at our best. You tend to notice I want feeling really good sort of at a certain point when that shows up. It's usually your brain telling you you're starting to slip out of the flow state and if you kill it at that moment, you won't exhaust your all your neurochemistry. So the next time you try to get back in the flow, it'll get it'll be easier. This is a writing idea that goes way back. It was Hemingway, who everybody credits with talking about it first, but he used to quit writing when he was most excited. Because there's nothing harder than facing a blank page, so you stop writing when you're most excited, when you come back to it the next day, you get that energy back. But he would literally stop in the middle of a sentence and just like break off for the day. And we just I just ported it in and started looking at it. All right. Good. What do you mean by free styling? Free styling is yeah, I mean, so one of the things and almost every single person that I worked with did this a couple of times where we would assign something and the whole goal was we're all going to train the same thing together. So we can talk about it and we can co-train those are the commitments you made to yourself and other people and I talked to most of you about two weeks after we made those first commitments together and all the things that people were doing. At least three or four people were like, oh yeah, I tried the impossible, but it really wasn't for my thing and I like this app better and I went back to the app and I've been using that instead. The app wasn't designed to work synergistically with everything else, but it was what you were very comfortable with. So people a lot of people went, okay, I just spent a lot of money for this course and I'm in it, but it's 10 days in and now I've returned to my old habit and nobody in the group actually caught it like nobody was like, oh yeah, I probably shouldn't have done that. It just everybody sort of returned to the medium, so that's what I mean, they're free starting. This is why I love humans and I'm why I have job securities that we all do this, right? We all like eventually show up to who we are, right? So that is awesome. That is like exactly why humans are so fascinating because we will, we like have something. She says fascinating, she sort of means like a bug under a microscope. Of which I'm under the microscope too. There's a great literature looking at it between harmonious passion and obsessive passion, but Valoran does. And they find, so there's some nuance here, the extent to which, so having identity can be incredibly powerful and motivating, but it depends how it's integrated with the rest of you. So if you were to tell me to just, if you were to force me to wake up tomorrow and have I am an athlete, and then I look at myself in the mirror and I know damn well I'm not. It's not going to motivate me, but if I really start to see some earned progress towards that and then decide, you know, I authentically can integrate that, and it also makes me feel good when I integrate it, doesn't make me feel obsessive, it makes me feel harmoniously integrated. You know, it feels natural that I'm integrating this into my identity, then it actually can be a huge motivator, but it depends how it's integrated. In our impossible, I talk about the six different kinds of grit and how they all sort of need to be trained differently. So some of it is just like standard perseverance is trained, you know what I mean, like you trained perseverance by instead of doing 10 reps at the gym, you do in 11th, right? But like a little bit, it's a tiny dose, as Sarah said, tiny dose repeatedly, because what you really want to convince yourself is that you're the kind of person who can do that 11th rep, right? And move that, but grit's interesting in that way, because it tends to be fairly skill specific, so you have to sort of like train each of the grit skills, right? Resistance is very different from training weaknesses, right? Which is a different kind of grit. That's often of the grit skills that tends to, in my experience, you guys might have seen stuff different, that tends to be the hardest one I've seen, because it's the most unpleasant, right? Our weaknesses exist for real reasons, but also it's the one that as you start to make progress and it's sort of amazing. But it's always with training week, at least my experience, two steps forward, one step back, right? Because you're always going to slip with that, it's going to take a lot longer, which is why I still can't speak French. I had a student ask me in class the other day, a really good question. I was like, I want to ask Steven this question, because I was talking about dopamine and how it has a motivating force on us. But he's like, well, what do you make of these like podcast bros who fetishize hard work? But what's motivating them, because they don't have the, you know, there's something that some people have where they just, like, in a sort of masochistic way, love a hard work, even when there's not the dopamine pumping through their system? It's easier when you have the dopamine motivating you, but what if you really don't, like for most of us, if we're not feeling the good going to gym, it's really going to be a slog, but there's a minority group of people where they definitely feel that, but they're like, I'm going to do it, and then I'm going to brag on social media about it. So maybe there's a social media. Yeah, there's a real war, right? There's a real war, but it's on the other end of recognition. How can we engineer that for ourselves then? That also tells me that they're much more addicted to the pro-social neurochemicals, right? Yeah, if you were to like, ask them what drugs they like, I'll bet you're going to end up with MDMA much more than cocaine, right? You're going to get, you're going to get, yeah, I don't think he's done, yeah, I don't think he's done a lot of drugs. I don't think he's a lot of drugs. He's also, but so with you, or man, this is the other thing, you're going to get a skater. He grew up as a skater, and most skaters are wired for mastery. That's their drug, right? Because they skating is about, you will, yeah, to learn any, any trick you'll fall a thousand times before you actually execute it. So mastery tends to be that drug, which is also dopamine, but it's much slower released. Yeah, Stuart Brand. There's a, this I don't understand, but Stuart Brand wants me to comment, and I think I talked about it with you guys, that the only sustainable happiness is the satisfaction of a job well done. And I think he's kind of right, but I also think the rewards that you get for like, after a job well done, like a long project, that kind of, which really underpins great, it's dopamine plus, and I don't know what else you're getting. And I don't think people have, like it hasn't been looked at that as far as I can tell you, is how do you study long term success? It's tricky. I also wonder about interact. I'm fascinated with like neurochemical interactions. I know you are as well. I think dopamine and testosterone is a fascinating combination. Or massive person. Yeah, yeah, for sure. It leads to some very unique effects, where you, yeah, there's like a motivation to dominate. It's mixed in with, yeah, yeah, but anyway, it's, yeah, and to repeat, right, to over and over again. What is mastery? Master is dominated. Yeah. Master is dominating, not a person, not a person itself, but dominance. And the process. Control. Well, yeah, but control is the, I mean, control tends to be the ultimate high anyways, right? One of the reasons flow feels so good is that sense of control and control immediately at a level of mythology is safety and security. So right, control is really about safety and security more than anything else. All right, we're going to move forward. Over commitment and over sketch. Oh, wit for this group. I think this is everybody in this room, except for a son or who may be over committed to travel right now, right? Like, yeah, room full of over achievers. Scott, Sarah, how do you deal with it? So I know you got a lot to do. You go, you're all excited. Yeah, the over scheduling is like the, it's like the death of, you were not sovereign on the over scheduling, right? So all that real estate is just eaten up doing things that aren't moving you toward the thing you're focused on. So one of the things is do a ruthless meetings audit. That's like one of the first things that I'll have people do. And there's like three categories that I want you to look at. One is like meetings that you somebody else leads, right? So on those ones like high-hard goal agenda, all the things that will help that time not be squandered because time is the only thing that's always running out on us. We can have more money, more travel, more everything, but time, it's gone when it's gone. So first is like those meetings have to be run with a strategic priority to engineer flow and peak performance in your workplace, right? And in your life. Second is cut every meeting by 10 minutes and don't schedule that 10 minutes. You will accumulate, by the way, now that the meetings being run tighter, you have those 10 minutes. You will accumulate by the end of the day an amount of time that you can both use as micro breaks to feed back, to feed back the debt of exertion in flow. It's very expensive to be in flow. You have to pay that back. That's why the fourth cycle is recovery. So you can do all kinds of their super interesting stuff on micro breaks. So that's the second one. And the third one is that you are going to tell everybody that you're cutting these meetings short, why you're cutting it short, and you're going to ask that they not schedule anything else in those minutes that they get back. And then you're going to do things that help your body, literally your body, have a better access to peak performance or flow. That scheduling thing, you should be able to clear a significant real estate. Then we go, oh, see number one, when we start free styling again, right? And then start over, do it again, start again. Okay, you know, assume you're going to regress to your mean. And then start again, because it's that real estate of time, time and energy is the equation that we're trying to get back. And that's not easy in busy lives. Thank you. Well, that was just great. And I don't have much to add from a practical viewpoint and just philosophical viewpoint. When we talk about flow, over commitment is really one of the greatest enemies of flow. Simplicity and is the greatest thing you can do for focus. And the way our consciousness works, the way working memory works, the more you can just clear out of your working memory. Even if I could give any practical advice, it would be unlawed as much stuff as possible onto paper or out of it, get it out of your head before you start engaging in a task that you want to get into flow to. Spend all the preparatory work before the flow, you know, period, just getting whatever crap is in your head, your concern, even just like journaling about your mother is just going to call me today. And then this and that and whatever. I don't know where I got that example, but I'm just saying like, I can't talk about my mom. No, I'm sorry about my mom, I was talking about my mom. But this guy, he got in mafia mode all of a sudden. Have you ever seen Stephen in mafia mode? It's cute, it's cute. But I do, you know, just get ungold as much as you can. Just think of it from a working memory perspective, like as a cognitive scientist, simplicity. And it's like, I have this one thing, and this one thing only that I'm going to focus on for the next hour is the most conducive thing you could do for fun. I guess I would just say one more thing that, you know, these are tactical and practical and they're very helpful, encased inside of us as a psychology. So you're often going to find that inside the crime scene of over commitments, you're going to find all kinds of psychological tendencies that you have. And those tentacles run deep, you know, they're not surface-based, that's why we keep repeating them. So, you know, when you find those, when you are aware that, oh, it's me, oh, I'm the problem here. When your fingerprints keep showing up that way, you know, you can tackle that psychologically. And it's really worthwhile because it amplifies the behavioral things you'll do, like getting your schedule to look civilized. I think Dan Sullivan has a phrase, I might have said it to some of you guys, if you're always putting out fires, you might be embarrassed. It's great. Yeah, it's a really good phrase. And the thing I've noticed with over a schedule, and I saw it a lot sort of in this group, people are really good about it until they start getting a lot of flow. And when you start getting into flow, productivity goes through the roof, and people will be like, oh, my God, I'm so productive and they'll over schedule. And then, you know, life gets in the way and knocks you out of flow. And suddenly you've got a schedule that would be fine if you were in flow all day long, but if you're not in flow, you're going to not be able to get through it. So I always, I like to keep extra time in my schedule, just in case shit is going to go wrong, right? Because sooner or later, it's very rare that any of us get through a day, let alone a week without some big fire. Yeah, gravity always wins. It's called a rule. It's called a rule. There's an ego boost that comes from hard work, right? For me, for sure, it was one of the first things, like when I was sort of building my ego and wasn't good at a lot of things, the fact that I could work hard was something that I could build on. I could build my sense of self on top of that identity got built out of, I may have added everything, but I'm just not going to fucking quit, and I'm just going to keep going. So I think, you made it. Right, but you made it, but you get to a certain point where like what got you there isn't right what you mean. So have you chilled on that significantly now? What's the arc of the trajectory? Me? Yeah, I haven't. He told me, he told me four years ago he was going to take a year off of writing a book, and he published six. So now I tell him, I'm like, this is your, you have a condition. Yeah, so I was going to say to that you were saying it is good for the world, but you know, you'd say, oh, and you made it, but you know, everything costs something. You will find there are an endless array of both, typically it's an unconscious drive that is pulling people. And the really wild thing about our best attributes is that when you flip it over, it's our worst quality. So you can't take a sledgehammer to it. Like you have to work with a scalpel, you have to work, you know, within the bounds of your own psychology. So you will find stuff there that is a recurring pattern for you. I'd look for themes. Themes in your life, emotional themes that keep coming up. That's what I'd be listening for. In your own process, I would pay attention to where you feel stagnant or that you're here again, like this kind of feeling of repetition. And there's data there for you. Scott gave a great hint that like that loose journaling. You know, we want to get down to where like the unconscious and intuition and like all of that is purpleating. And you'll find your patterns, they emerge. And one should, the unconscious is one direction. Like when it's unconscious, it's completely unconscious. Once it's conscious, it can't be unconscious again. You can deny it, you can forget it, you can numb it, you can move it away in all kinds of ways. You can compartmentalize it, but it is conscious now. You are working around a conscious realization of like, huh. And that's powerful. And it moves in stages like in increments over time. And I'm vague because I don't know you. But that process unfolds for humans agnostically to the, yeah. I also think we underestimate the extent to which emotions take up resonance in our working memory. So I think journaling can also be a really good tool for processing emotions in a way. So it's not such a big burden on your mental load. It's just very hard to get in the full state if you're your mental burdened. That's a good way emotionally burdened with your thoughts. Since working memory, most people tap out at four concepts. Do you think I'm going to miss out on that? Are you wrestling? Do you think emotions take up more space than a concept? Yeah. Me too. Yeah. Yeah. Because of their resonance, like, because the intensity. Okay. So I'm a humanistic psychologist. So I look at it from like a role made. What is your demonic? I think it takes over the whole person. It's not just does it take up more. It takes up all of you. If you're in a state of anger because someone else has a different political opinion than you, that becomes who you are in that moment. And it's all of your working memory. It's like all that you care about. It's like, you know, it hijacks the system. Oh, great way of putting it. We don't only get, I mean, hijacking is terrible for flow, right? It's both nor up in effort, right? Full curiosity, excitement, anxiety, it's all nor up in effort. So it's really about how much, how much nor up in effort is in your system and how you're framing it. How do you frame it? How can we decide to? Yeah, the context. And most of nor up in effort, whether this is important, it's mostly bottom up, right? So it's mostly an automatic thing that you can't touch. Yeah, with the stronger the fear, the harder it is to sort of reframe because there's less ability to get in there because it's so bottom up. Well, and this is something I was going to say what you're getting to, which is that because that nor up in effort, like narrows the options we can see. The options are out there. We just can't come up with them. I often think that if you go neck down to relieve the, so try not to solve like a thing that's up here with a thing that's up here. So I often think like that's why breath work, movement, change of scene, like literally getting up and doing something can often not just with anger, but in general when you are up here. You often have to disrupt it from a neck down solution. I find like just anecdotally people get better results with it to get unstuck. All right, we're going to move on to the next one, which was a bunch of people and we're all geeks up here. So I think we've fallen prey to this as well, where research becomes a form of procrastination. Like how do you know when you've learned enough about the thing that you're researching to do something with it? I have a whole system that I started developed as a journalist. Well, for me, I looked for two things. One, I looked for, I always like to peer, this was a thing I got to do as a journalist, so I could talk reach out to experts. And I always felt I knew enough when experts were telling me I was asking good questions, which meant I could think inside the subject. I was thinking properly inside the subject, so that was always sort of like the first thought that once smart people started saying, these are really good questions, I felt like I had learned enough to like turn it into an article to write about it. That sort of thing, that was one of the things I really looked for. I was wondering what do you guys? I have a basic philosophy about procrastination, that it's like the original Neutropic, you know, it's like driving urgency, right? So anytime you're engaging in something that's avoidant like that, what you're probably trying to do energetically is get the Neutropic that is urgency, which makes us then, right? So procrastination as a philosophy is a great bone yard to go looking around at, you know, where you are delaying starting, because you're looking for a cheaper, low hanging source of motivation, okay? And that's in the urgency, okay? But it burns dirty, right? So it takes a lot from us on the back end of it, you have to pay back this debt from procrastination. It isn't actually worth the time you got between wanting to start and starting, right? So that's just like a basic philosophy about procrastination, but the like over-indulging in research, like just needing constant analysis, what's the phrase? Analysis paralysis? Yeah, yeah. I think if you start to see it as another form of trying to delay, delay, delay, you can move through it, and then the other thing which sounds trite, but just start. Again, minimal viable dose, whatever it is, you're probably up against something about, I'm not ready, I'm not perfect, it's not perfect, I don't know what I'm doing, and all of those things to some degree are true, and will be even when you know what you're doing, and think you have a plan, and all of that. So it's like a fight for control, and if you untangle it that way, often you'll tire of yourself and you'll start. You know, this may be more writing specific, but one of the things I see a lot, people don't want to start writing a thing until they really fully know the thing. And in my experiences of writing this, maybe this is a writer's experience, or in my experience, how I come to know a thing is I write about a thing, right? So very rarely at the front end of a big writing project, can I actually know the thing that I'm like, I don't know exactly, I know enough, I know enough to ask the right question. The next 15 minutes are pretty clear, right? It's like, okay, I can write for these next 25 minutes about this, and then you get to that 25 minutes, and you go, I think I have 25 more minutes in me now. So you go by those minimal viable doses, and also, like, again, there's this fallacy of being ready. Just aren't really ever going to be fully ready. I'm always ready. Why are you talking about that? Okay, okay, that got sexual fast, but anyway, we're glad you're there, so I'm sorry. We really underestimate the value of emergence, and when we, for me, getting into a faux-state happens organically once I jump in, it never happens like beforehand. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, it's like, I jump in, I was like, there's a conky sentence, there's another conky sentence, but then, oh, that's stimulated something that I never would have known was going to be stimulated before. So being open to the unknown, and also separating, this is very like something I've learned from mentalism, I just see the world differently. It's an artificial separation that there's research, and then there's not research. It's usually the thing is not as scary as it seems. But then, also, once you jump in, all sorts of other things are teaching you things. They emerge. That's why you use that word, yes, exactly. Does that make sense? Yes, the diving in, and so the more you can cognitively remind yourself with procrastination of all forms, even if it looks like productivity on the surface, which it's not. If you just keep reminding yourself that you're likely trying to take an energetic hack, and it's going to cost you more in the end, if it had a spreadsheet, you would never invest in that. But it just doesn't have dollars and cents attached to it, so we squander that energetic dough like it's endless, which it's not awesome. Have you guys ever jumped out of a plane usually? No. The first time? How nerve-wracking was it? I'm not this type of population on this, but I'm terrified of heights, so it was hard, but bungee jumping was a lot harder. Oh, I think. Because skydiving. You had somebody on you, right? No, I jumped. When I was 17 years old, you used to have to climb out the door of the plane and hold out of the wing and balance on a little step. It was really sort of nuts what you had to do, but you also had no choice because you can't get back in a door, you'll crash the plane. So they were like, "Look, if you don't jump, we're going to have to kick you off the wing." So we were motivated. Wow. I think there's also. I mean, I think you procrastinate for two reasons, right? Either the task is too hard, so you need to chunk it down to that minimal viable thing, or it's too boring. There's a lot of stuff we procrastinate because it's too boring and we want that sense of urgency because it's easier to get into flow with. You can avoid that by simply making the task harder early on. I think this is a story telling flow for writers, but when I was coming up as a journalist, I was super poor and I had to write 50, 60, 70 articles at once just to pay my bills and make sure I had enough. And not all of them were fun. Like a lot of this stuff, you know, you could tell me I would write anything. Like I just wanted to get paid. Oftentimes, I used to do this for a while. I do a lot of the wired front of the book, magazine, like the short 500 word articles, but they would require massive amounts of research to get crunched down. And I would often do something, why I was very specific rules for how to write for wired, and I would do something like try to write a wired article in the style of Charles Dickens. Because the challenge went through the roof, but suddenly it was like a fun creative challenge, and yeah, I was writing a story on data caves. And it wasn't particularly interesting, but now I was actually trying to write a story like Charles Dickens about data caves and then sneak it past my editor. So I got a lot of really funny articles like in print, where I'm like, yeah, that was me trying to write like flow bear. You like hacked the fun, the fun, the play system. Yeah, I used to play. Yeah, to get ahead of. Also a challenge. You created constraints. Yes, yes. My friend, David Epstein, is writing a whole book on the value of constraints for creativity. Yeah. Oh, it's so good. Yes. So this book rise above is my attempt to really talk about what we can do. So we have more of an internal focus of control over our lives and not feel like other people are writing our story. So in that regard, I do think I do differ from support. I got into an argument with Robert Suppolsky on my podcast. You can watch that. I also have had. I have had vociferous debates. No, vociferous debates. I love the word vociferous. I've had that with Sam Harris as well and we had to have a whole two-part series. And where I do think there is a will and a free will worth wanting in us being able to create ourselves. So some of it maybe does bring in a little existential philosophy. Yes, of course, genes, influence and create constraints. But these guys are not these guys. But like, Suppolsky, they're way too deterministic. Way too deterministic, yeah. By the way, it's unlimited, right? And just how much the unconscious is our solution to neuro-efficiency. It was like, oh, you only have this much like critical hardware bandwidth. We'll have this thing called the unconscious where it's endless. You can endless reservoir and you can pull from it. And its relationship with intuition is so valuable because intuition is best we can tell like this unconscious data recognition. It's like it's sifting through millions of pieces of data and then pushing it up before you can even have a conscious thought. So it's a fascinating relationship of which both Scott and Steven have studied and written about. And Steven's really looking at intuition in a meaningful way. And it's really super, super interesting. One of the things that's interesting here is, so the orbital peripheral cortex is the part of the brain that mostly does intuition. Right? It's sort of the oldest portion of the peripheral cortex. So intuition, if we're correct, it's proto-consciousness. Right? Once you have agency and a couple memory and a couple other systems, you can start to develop consciousness, right? And agency in a sense is proto-consciousness, basically. Agency plus the ability to make decisions, right? Like that's the end-learn from them. You have to be able to learn from them. That's the loop that gets you there. But it's interesting with the OFC sort of optimized for. And I don't know if this is all intuition, but it's really what we see the other is coherence. So it finds coherence or incoherence. So oftentimes, intuition is always a path-finding system, right? It's a directional and what it's looking for is coherence versus incoherence. And it evolved at a map, literally, map-making machine, right? It's the reason the OFC has tied the hippocampus and the antorinocortex. That's sort of your intuition circuit. And the hippocampus and the antorinocortex, which are memory, everything's what is memory. That memory evolved from map-making. Where's the right fruit tree? Where's the cave with the cave of saber to tiger? Right? Like all that's what it evolved for. So literally, what we call intuition is it's a map-making system. It's the brand saying this way next or don't go this way. That's the pattern recognition part that we're experiencing. It's a mapping. And yeah, yeah, yeah. It's a probabilistic map-making system. Which is mentalism. Well, my whole PhD dissertation. I don't know why I said the word. Dude, you're like the only one. Let's say two volume set. Two volume set. It's a lot. It's a big comedy goal. It's a beast. It's a beast. That wasn't fucking her idea. It's like, no, I'm just going to outdo four times the work. Yeah. That's the proof how smart I am. Well, no, no. What me in special ed, fuck you. In case anybody wondered if spiked could get you far. But they're not wrong. They're not wrong. But the dissertation is about unconscious intelligence. That's what my PhD dissertation was about. And I argued the field of human intelligence research for 100 years have ignored the power of unconscious intelligence. You know, you give IQ tests and you ask them to do conscious reasoning. And I was able to show that people who were off that even like the highest IQ in the world people could come up with conscious patterns when I gave them unconscious patterns to solve crickets. So you could have the highest IQ in the world. And I give them some of my implicit learning tasks and they can't learn that at all. So some people call it tacit knowledge, some people call it. But it's probabilistic learning is what it is. So our unconscious is far more greater at being able to do that. And being able to know when in your life you should rely on your probabilistic learning system that we all have through evolution or try to deliberately consciously reason through it. Being able to know when to do which is what I argue is intelligence. How does ADHD affect intuition? What a great question. That's not really an interesting question. You guys are at a really good question. That's such a great question. I'm super curious. How did you select a group? Interviews. Were there any people? Yeah, yeah. Yeah, we were really bizarre. That's how you get this group. Skewed that way. Well, I've studied ADHD. ADHD is not the same as ADD, right? We got that. But I've studied the brain network called the default mode brain network, which I call the imagination network. That's my reframing of the imagination network. And I find that people with who score high in ADHD traits tend to have an overactive imagination network that they just can't suppress in normal life. But often, like meditation researchers view that as a bad thing. And I've been really critical of meditation researchers because they're all like zombies in my opinion. And my argument is that like, yeah, okay, if you want to be a zombie, then get rid of your imagination network. That you can just be in the moment at every second of your life. I'm in the moment of the moment. But like, you're also boring. So what we want you to be, if you want to actually have a rich life, we bring in the imagination network, which can be on call at any moment, and is able to make a connection with something. Like you said, 42 now is like, oh, 68. My imagination network is always on call, on call. And people with ADHD have a more on call imagination brain network. And I think that can help them with their intuition. Yeah, 100%. And I think something you're saying is so valuable for people to hear because it repurposes what, it's even in the title of the air quotes disorder deficit. And actually, what I love that you're saying, because it's true, is that there's a whole benefit side of it that is it's available and on call. It's available to be called upon. And I think, I hope, something that he's saying that isn't getting lost, is that you can sort of practice this skill. You can practice meditation. Meditation can be helpful. It can be. Don't get me wrong, you're just saying the research around what you do with the default mode network. If you read, there's a big hate. There's a lot of hate against the default imagination network. In the meditation and the psilocybin LSD. So Paulin wrote his book on his journey. And the last chapter was defeating the villain, which was the default mode network. He said, I went to the brain scan. And after all my years of work, we found that I had a completely silent imagination network. And that was considered the greatest thing of his book. And I've been a vehement, a disagreeer. Yes. That is, that he's viewing that in the ring. The sub-toe for that book should be psychedelics for vegetarians. What's the herbivores? I think it's psychedelics for herbivores. Because literally, never has a guy spent so much time. It's like Woody Allen does mushrooms. The guy spent so, like, I did mushrooms the first time when I was 11. Or 10, right? The guy spent so much fucking time trying to like, what should I do? What should I do? You said that in front of a shrink. 11, we won't talk about it now. But we will later. I'm flagging that for follow-up. I mean that for follow-up. So funny. But I will tell you, like, so this is weird story. I had an intuition about the neurobiology of flow, which I actually put into print in West of Jesus. In 1996, I wrote down in that book what I thought was going to be the neurobiology of flow. And it's a guess. We don't, like, two-thirds of it is a guess. We don't even know it. And at this point, I don't even know a whole lot about neuroscience. I'm really early in my career. And when we published the first few seconds of flow, a friend of mine called me and said, you know, I've read this already. And I was like, what do you tell you about? And she said, you know, you wrote this in West of Jesus 30 years ago. And I totally had forgotten that I had done that and I opened up the book. And I was like, holy shit. I spent 30 years proving what I wrote down, like, without having any idea. Yeah, I mean, it's basically like the exact same thing that we proved in the first few seconds of flow is what is in West of Jesus. Scott said, we do all these things to, like, sort of forget it, like, to avoid that hunch in the rational mind. And also, when we think about energy, that's really expensive. In that spreadsheet, on that energetic budget, the fuel you burn trying to avoid things you know or feel or are in that intuitive realm, they are not free. They are expensive. So the more you can cut weight on the useless burning of fuel that you're doing. And test the experiment sooner. Have the hunch and then verify as what Stephen said. That's how you'll, you know, optimize our energy. Is it like, it's an inch by inch? The autism spectrum is an interesting one because people in the autism spectrum see things concretely. Whenever one else sees, you know, a lot of fat around stuff, they can kind of see, but also schizophrenia. I don't know if we can, can we count schizophrenia as a form of neurodiversity? But there's some really cool research where we've seen that people who are prone to psychosis don't fall prey to some illusions, like legit illusions that have bottom up processing. Most people see something. With schizophrenic mind, they see it as it is, not as everyone else is seeing it. And yeah, there's a real, I used to teach this in my cognitive psychology class. There's the solution of like a dragon that looks three-dimensional, you know, but it's not, you know, but most people see. But people who have schizophrenia, they actually see the reality. So there's fun little like reversals in that, because we always view people as schizophrenia as being, "Oh, you're crazy, you don't see the reality." But there are certain situations where they have an advantage in not seeing the world in the same way as other people see it. And autism has some interesting examples as well. And I make that joke. Yeah, because I've done a lot of work on the link between mental illness and creativity. Like when I give talks, I'm like, "If you scan the brain of people we put in mental institutions and the crazy people, you actually find no difference." So I make that joke. But then I say there's nuance there. Yeah, there's nuance there. And there's no difference in the imagination brain network. But there is a difference when you look at interactions between different brain networks. And you find that people who we don't put in the mental institutions, the main defining difference between them is that they're able to dip their toe into the sea of madness. But they're tethered to the beach. So they can come back. That's the difference. Whereas those with mental institutions, they don't come back. But these people still have a mind open enough to go there. So there's this. I think I talked about it at this group. It's a really weird finding in the longevity research that openness to experience. Like they were looking at correlations between big five personality traits and mortality. And they wanted to know, is there any correlation anywhere, right? And the only thing they found is that a year to two years before you die, openness to experience plumage. So about a year before we die, we lose our openness to experience. I don't know. Now, my question to you was the relationship between latent inhibition and openness. Is there any correlation between. Oh, no, they're correlating. Yeah, but it's the correlation between latent inhibition and longevity. Wow. Okay, that's a great question. No one's ever looked at that. Okay. That's just what I'm wondering. Like this problem, which a bunch of you ran into, right? Where like you started getting into flow a lot. And you started committing to a bunch of stuff. And then life got harder. Or life happened. Or somebody got sick or et cetera, et cetera. And then you're massively over committed and it ends up leading to disaster. And my point is the disaster slows you down so much more than just. Like, instead of doing ten things every day, you do nine or eight and a half. Just knowing that at some point, usually within a week or two, life is going to happen. And you're going to actually need that extra space to deal with the crisis. So what I'm trying to do is actually allow you to do more and not get derailed. What a lot of us, a lot of us who work like that and myself included, right? We'll over commit, over commit, over commit, and then get really derailed when you get sick or blah, blah happens. And then you're going to lose two, three days a weekend or whatever. And that's what I'm trying to avoid, right? A lot of the way I think about things is little changes. Bit by bit by bit that end up paying off much bigger. So it feels like you're doing less when you're doing nine things every day is to ten. But when shit goes wrong, that having that extra space built into your calendar is actually the savior bud. When you come through a long project or a long career after you've done one thing for a really long time, for me like after I finish a long book, there's a peer, there's a recharge, right? Like there's nothing I can really do. It's or after a long project where it's going to take a year or two to like read enough new stuff and fill the tank up again before I have anything else to say. And it doesn't change the fact that it sucks on the inside. And I feel totally unproductive and I'm not doing anything. Oh God, all I'm doing is just like watching talks with people I'm a little interested in reading books. It doesn't feel like work until it all adds up into, oh, now I'm writing a book. That's what I would, I get it now. And honestly, I don't think there's a fix for it other than I think at some point in your life, you have to like be just willing to be uncomfortable for longer than you would normally be. Just I get once again to sort of get there. All right. Scott Berry-Coffman, ladies and gentlemen. [APPLAUSE] Thank you, daddy. Yeah, thanks for everything. You have a real honor to be here. Thank you.
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Key Points:
Discussion on accountability and freestyling in practices.
Importance of setting up hedonistic rewards to encourage goal accomplishment.
Strategies to combat overcommitment and overscheduling.
Impact of hard work on ego development and sense of self.
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The transcription revolves around a discussion on various topics related to personal development and productivity. It begins with a focus on accountability and freestyling in practices, emphasizing the importance of being neutral and consistent in one's approach. The conversation delves into setting up hedonistic rewards as motivation for accomplishing goals.
Strategies to combat overcommitment and overscheduling are discussed, including a ruthless meetings audit and simplifying tasks to achieve better focus and flow. The impact of hard work on ego development and self-identity is explored, highlighting how one's strengths can also be their weaknesses if not managed properly. The speakers share personal anecdotes and insights on these topics, providing a holistic view of balancing productivity and personal growth.
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Try to be neutral about interpreting accountability to avoid shame. Break tasks down into small, manageable doses for consistency and wins.
Setting up rewards like having ice cream after completing certain goals can motivate and incentivize progress.
Simplicity can help clear working memory, leading to better focus and flow during tasks.
Overcommitment can lead to scheduling issues when not in flow, impacting productivity and causing stress.
Hard work can shape one's identity and provide a sense of self-worth, but it's important to balance it with other aspects of life.
Addressing underlying psychological tendencies can help prevent repeated overcommitment issues and improve overall behavior and scheduling.
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