424: What Netflix’s ‘Toxic Love Story’ Left Out: SA Fantasy & Obsessed Ex? | Michelle Hadley
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Angela Diaz, a former lawyer and wife of U.S. marshal Ian Diaz, staged a complex web of lies to frame Michelle Hadley, her ex-wife’s partner, for stalking, harassment, and attempted assault. She created fake emails and Craigslist ads that falsely claimed Angela was seeking sexual assault fantasies, leading to a real attack by a 17-year-old boy who was lured by the posts. The story began when Michelle, Ian’s ex, had a history of financial and emotional conflict over their shared condo, which led to strained relations. As tensions grew, Angela began sending threatening emails to herself and others, using a virtual private network to disguise her IP address and falsely link the attacks to Michelle. Eventually, Angela’s deception unraveled when investigators discovered she had no cancer, no pregnancy, and had forged medical documents. She also staged her own injuries during a garage attack, which was later proven false by security footage showing no intruder. Her motive was rooted in a desire to eliminate Michelle and protect Ian’s property interests, as Michelle’s legal claim to the condo threatened Ian’s ownership. After months of investigation, Angela was arrested and charged with 10 felonies and 22 misdemeanors, including kidnapping and false reporting. Despite the severity of her crimes, she pleaded guilty and was sentenced to only five years. Michelle was exonerated and cleared of all charges, with authorities confirming she was a victim of a sophisticated scam. The case highlights how deception, technology, and emotional manipulation can lead to wrongful arrests and deep societal harm. It also underscores the importance of thorough investigation, transparency, and accountability in criminal justice. The story, initially covered in a Netflix documentary titled *A Toxic Love Story*, was later expanded upon by true crime journalist Annie Elise, who revealed critical details missing from the original broadcast.
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a jealous wife romantic rivals blackmail i don't know if anything that i know about her is true
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the truth. Hey, true crime besties. Welcome back to an all new episode of Serialistly.
Hello, hello, hello, and welcome back to an all new episode of Serialistly with me,
your host, Annie Elise, and also your true crime bestie clocking in for duty today. Now,
I hope you're all having a great Monday. Whether you are a brand new listener, you've listened to
a couple episodes, you've listened to every single episode. Thank you for being here with me today
and listening to today's episode because we have got a lot to talk about. Now, if you are brand new
or new-ish, let me give you a quick breakdown of what I do over here on my podcast. On Mondays,
I do a full deep dive into a singular case. It's going through all the rabbit holes,
the speculation, the theories, the facts, like everything that goes into it, the social media
lore, you know, whatever rolls into it. We go to all corners. Then on Thursdays, I do an episode
called Headline Highlights, where in that episode, I break down what is happening in the true crime
in real time that week. Case updates, breaking news, trial updates, whatever it is. And I will
say for those episodes on Thursdays, a lot of the times, the cases that I'm discussing are user
submissions from you listeners and viewers because it's cases you've been following, watching, and
you just, you know, you want to discuss it together. And so that is what I do, podcaster
of the people. Now, like I said, we have a lot to talk about today. And the reason why is because
I'm going to be talking about a new documentary called A Toxic Love Story. Now, you've heard me
say it before, but I'm going to say it again. It really grinds my gears. I hate that expression,
but I'm going to use it. It grinds my gears when Netflix does not include all the information.
And I mentioned this when I covered the Taylor Parker case, which that documentary,
if you watched it on Netflix, was Maternal Instincts. I did the full, like, two-parter
deep dive, which if you watched it and you want to know more, that is several episodes.
But I think I mentioned it then that it's not Netflix's fault, okay? Let me tell you how it
works now that I've seen a little bit behind the curtain of into the production world and all of
that. Sometimes Netflix does produce these themselves and, you know, they can have an
internal team potentially working on it. But more times than not, it's a third-party company
that puts these cases together with their own researchers, their own talking head,
their own fact checkers, or, you know, I don't want to say lack thereof,
but like their own fact checkers, and then they sell it to Netflix. So Netflix then buys it,
gets the licensing to it, publishes it, and puts the Netflix stamp on it. So it's not Netflix's fault
that, you know, sometimes the content doesn't include everything. Also, you can only squeeze
so much content into one episode, right? But that is what I'm here for because I like to do the deep
dives so you don't have to. I found myself always just like watching a documentary and simultaneously
things about the case on my phone. So I was like, you know, if I'm doing this, I'm sure other people
are. Why don't I just deliver all of that information in my coverage of it? And so when I
saw that a toxic love story was released, which, hello, if I had a nickel for every time I heard
about a toxic love story, I mean, we have covered so many of them on this podcast together. But
when I saw this released and watched it, immediately I knew just within the first 30
seconds that it covered a case that unfortunately, I know all,
too well. And when I tell you I went to the trenches of hell to research this case back
when I first covered it, I found out so much information, like all the lore, all everything
all the way back. And when I first covered it, it was last year. I was shocked by the sheer amount
of twists and turns and just the roller coaster of it all that I never saw coming. And I feel like
I usually have pretty good radar for what's to come. And this one, I was kind of like,
as I was researching it, and as I uncovered detail after detail, I was like, hold on,
pause, Annie, is this really happening? Are you reading this correctly? Are you
map timing this accurately? Like, there's no way this is real. Well, it is real. And so even if
you've watched the documentary, I'm sure that there is a lot of stuff that you don't know
about this case. And maybe that's even what brought you to this episode. So whether you
have seen the documentary or not, and maybe you've seen it, and that's what brought you
to my podcast.
Today, as a new listener, because you're like, I saw this, I need to know more, you started
searching, you're like, I need the deep dive. Well, fear not, I'm here, I got your back. And
I'm gonna break it all down. This is a wild one, though. There is stalking, very violent sexual
assault and BDSM fantasies, lies, internet deceit, threats, email, you name it, all combined into a
crazy love triangle.
So in honor of this new documentary being released, and this case's reignited popularity
and details that after watching this documentary, I clocked as missing and wanted to share with
you, we're going to reopen this case from start to finish so that you get the full story,
all the details, all the twists, all the turns, and what you didn't know happened because it
wasn't included. Buckle up, though, because it is a wild one. And I guess let's kind of just get
right into it. Picture this.
You're walking into your garage one night, whether you're coming home from work, from school,
whatever it is. And up until now, you've had, you know, a pretty normal day, you're just arriving
home. But then a few moments later, out of nowhere, you notice that somebody else is in the garage
with you. And they are there because they are planning to attack you. That's what happened
to Angela Diaz in 2016 in her home in Anaheim, California, which not for nothing, that's where
I went to high school. It's like a stone throw away from where I live. And it makes this whole
case up. And it's like, oh, my God, I'm going to die. And I'm going to die. It's all the more eerier. So she arrives home and gets in the garage and notices that somebody's
there to attack her. Now, after she called the cops and they came to help her, they found her
covered in bruises. She had cuts and scratches all over her neck. She had been very badly beaten.
And that was just the beginning. Angela told the police that somebody had in fact been harassing
her for months. They had been posting ads posing as her online, claiming that she had some sort of
fantasy. So basically, Angela Diaz was the one who was harassing her. And Angela Diaz was the one
Basically, this other person online had made these fake posts and had invited strangers to
come to her home and assault her. And the men who were there to attack her would believe that all of
this was just totally consensual, that they were helping her, you know, live out this kinky fantasy
that she had. Now, as wild as all of that sounds, Angela knew exactly who was behind all of this,
who had been setting her up, making these fake posts online, everything. She also knew why they
were doing it. But to explain how she knew all of this, we need to talk a little bit about Angela,
who she is and how she got here. Now, Angela was friendly and she was very well put together and
worked as a lawyer. She came across like one of those people who, you know, as soon as you meet
them, you want to get to know them. You want to be around them all the time. And Angela was married
to a man named Ian Diaz. Now, Ian was a deputy U.S. marshal, which is a very serious job, okay?
I mean, it means that he was responsible for things like enforcing federal laws,
tracking down fugitives, handling all sorts of high stakes situations. It definitely wasn't your
normal average nine to five job. It came with a lot of pressure and also a lot of risk. And it
definitely isn't a job for the faint of heart. So when Ian met Angela, they hit it off right away.
At the time, he was living in a condo that he owned in Anaheim and things between them
moved super quickly. I mean, just a month after they began dating, they ended up getting engaged.
And before you know it, Angela had moved in with him into that condo.
Then they got married and they started building their lives together.
And from the outside, it looked like they were just your
typical couple with big dreams for their future. And Angela's dreams were coming true. I mean,
soon after moving in with Ian, she ended up finding out that she was pregnant. Not only that,
but she was expecting twins. Life could not be better. So just when it seemed like everything
was falling into place for Angela and for Ian, things started getting a little weird. And it all
started with some weird emails. And when I say they were getting weird emails, that actually
might be understating it. And I'm just going to read some of these out loud because I don't think
that you really get the full impact unless you hear the actual words from these emails.
So here's part of one. I hope you are scared of death tomorrow. Be prepared. Don't sleep.
Be watchful of the daughters of God. We will steal your child and we will watch as it dies.
He is using you for everything. Don't you see this? He is obsessed with me. I am his treasure princess.
You are nothing.
Watch your back tomorrow. Now, as if that's not unsettling and unnerving enough, right?
The person who sent these also attached really sick photos to the emails. I mean,
I'm talking stuff of like women with their heads chopped off, being cut off,
being sexually assaulted, aborted babies. I mean, very disturbing graphic images. So
you get the picture. This was for sure scary and unsettling. And I've also got to imagine
that anytime someone sends that unhinged,
of an email, it's natural for your first question to be like, how can somebody even say something
like this? Who would send this? Like, what is wrong with this person? Yet that wasn't a question
that Angela or Ian were asking because the moment that they got that very first email,
they knew exactly who they were from. Later on, they told the police that they were positive that
those letters came from a woman named Michelle Hadley. And Michelle was Ian's ex. Now on the
surface, Michelle seemed pretty normal. She had a good job. And at one point, she even worked at
Disneyland, which is kind of cool, right? I mean, apparently Ian loved going to Disney. So that was
a major plus for him when they had been together. But it seemed like she had like a relatively
normal life. Now, before Michelle and Ian began dating, Michelle had been in another serious
relationship. She had actually been married to her high school sweetheart. It, for whatever
reason, didn't work out and they ended up getting divorced. And it had hit Michelle pretty hard.
But she also. She also knew that she was still young. She had a lot of time ahead of her, you know,
to have another shot at love and meet her soulmate and her, you know, next person that she was going
to be with. So then Michelle met Ian and they hit it off. But they decided to take things pretty
slowly. I mean, they first met in 2013 and it was a little while before they decided to move in
together. And in 2015, two years later after they met, they took the next step of buying a condo
together in Anaheim. And remember earlier when I said that Ian was living in a condo when he met
his now-dead wife? Well, that's not true. He was living in a condo when he met his now-dead wife.
Angela, it was the same condo, the one that he had bought with Michelle, his ex. And here's where
things get interesting. Michelle paid the entire down payment herself. She fronted all of the money
for their condo while Ian didn't pay a single dime. It's also worth mentioning that Michelle
was a little bit younger than Ian. She was in her late 20s when they met while he was 34 or 35 years
old. Yet despite that age gap, their relationship seemed to be going really well, at least for a
little while.
But eventually, they broke up. And when I tell you this was not a clean break, it was not a clean
break. In fact, it got downright ugly. And one of the biggest issues was that condo. Even though
Michelle had paid the whole down payment herself and had fronted all of that money, the problem was
both of their names were on the deed, on the title. And that meant that Ian was the legal owner as
well. So now they were in this really messy fight over who was going to get this condo. Eventually,
they ended up settling the
issue in court in 2015. And the decision? It was that Ian could stay in the condo, but he had to
pay Michelle back some of what she had chipped in already. And if he ever sold it, he was going to
have to split the profits with Michelle, which I have to say, that obviously seems fair. So when
all was said and done with the court case, Ian and Michelle went their separate ways. Now for most
people, that would probably be the end of it, right? But that's not how it worked out with the
two of them at all. See, after the breakup, it was like Michelle had completely changed her
entire personality. She turned into a whole different person. Before she had met Ian, Michelle's
friends and family had seen her as this like super happy person, the type of person who saw the world
through an Instagram filter. Just everything was perfect and nothing could go wrong. But now the
rose colored glasses were gone. Happy, cheerful, optimistic Michelle was nowhere to be found.
Needless to say, she was not taking this breakup well. She was feeling burned by the whole situation.
Like she had fronted all of this money for the condo. She was like, I'm not going to do this. I'm
going to go to the condo. He now was getting to live in it and she would only get profits from it
if he ever sold it. She also was now like separated from this guy. I mean, it felt like her world was
falling apart. And this once optimistic woman was now pretty pessimistic about life. And I guess you
could even argue downright angry. So at one point, Michelle had sent Ian a couple of emails just to
let him know how she was feeling and also what she hoped would happen to him. Now, these were some
very strongly worded emails. And they also said that she was going to be a little bit more
optimistic about life. And they also kind of had this odd sounding religious undertone to them that
was really intense, which let me read them to you. Your sins are many, including defiling me and my
family with your wicked and evil sexual acts, your financial coercion and irresponsibility,
your gluttony, your greed, your lust, your sloth, your wrath, your envy, and most of all,
your pride. I will bring the full force of the law into the word of God against you to judge you.
Again, like kind of bizarre and would definitely make me pause and be like,
what's going on? Who would write something like this? But as for Ian, he was kind of just left
scratching his head when he got these feeling like, what the heck does our mortgage have to
do with the Bible? And these emails didn't stop there. Here's another one. Your end will come
and you will relinquish the keys to the earth. Earth is mine and the title deed to earth belongs
to me. There will be no resolution outside of court unless you are willing to bow before the
Lord, your God. If you are not, then prepare yourself, Satan. So let it be written. So let
it be done. Please.
Explain to your real estate attorney that God's law is above all laws. Prepare yourself and prepare
your armies. I'm just going to say this. I mean, different strokes for different folks, but it has
given me some like serious Lori Vallow vibes a little bit in those emails that she used to send
to Charles Vallow in the early days before he was killed. I mean, everybody has their own religious
practices, which is great and fine and good. But when things get so extreme and there's like this
sense of like radicalism, it gets a little, I don't know, it's a little uncomfy to me,
just personally. I don't know. What would you, how would you react if you received one of these
emails? So eventually it just became all too much for Ian, which I totally get. Okay. So he went to
the police and he also confronted Michelle directly telling her that he was now going to get the
authorities involved. He had even sent the police copies of her emails and he had also sent them
to the U.S. Marshal service where I'm sure he had a lot of connections since he worked there, right?
He also said he was going to work on taking out a restraining order against her. But as all of this
Then his new wife, Angela, was also starting to get these emails. However, these emails weren't
from Michelle. These emails were from a bunch of different guys who said that they were responding
to a Craigslist ad that she had posted. The ads were super explicit and said that Angela was
looking for men to come to her house and let her live out a rape fantasy. And these posts were
basically an invitation for men to come over and force themselves on her, to ignore her if she ever
said no or tried to fight back. I mean, truly just, you know, it's just, it's just, it's just, it's just
awful. Every woman's worst nightmare, right? And according to these ads, if she said no,
it didn't really mean no. It was all part of her fantasy. Now, obviously, this wasn't really a
fantasy that she had at all. And I can only imagine what that would feel like being in a
situation like that, seeing that there are Craigslist ads posted that look to be from you,
where you're saying, come to my house. Here's my address. If I say no, don't stop. I mean,
that is terrifying. You would always be watching your back and being on alert,
right? And this was like the last straw for Ian and Angela. It was the straw that broke the camel's
back. I mean, after that, they went back to the Anaheim Police Department, and they finished the
last few steps that they needed to get that restraining order against Michelle. And in June
of 2016, it was luckily granted. Now, for those of you who don't know, when you get a restraining
order, the police do have to notify the person who the restraining order is against. Because again,
how can they know not to come within a certain distance of you unless they're notified? So a few
officers reached out to Michelle to tell her what had happened. And here's where things started to
get very interesting, because her reaction wasn't exactly what you would expect. She claimed that
she didn't send any threatening emails. Yeah, she admitted that some of the emails looked like they
were coming from her main email account, but she insisted that she wasn't the one writing them.
In fact, she seemed totally shocked at the language in them. Michelle also said that she had started
getting those login alerts from Google, you know, the kind where they pop up on your phone if
you want to access your account from a new device. And she said that she was getting these alerts like
somebody was trying to hack into her account. She said the same thing about those Craigslist posts.
Apparently, someone had used her email address to put at least one of those posts up. And we know
that whoever did also used Angela's email address at some point, since she was getting responses
directly to her inbox. But someone had put one of those ads up using Michelle's address too.
And I don't know if any of you guys have ever posted anything on Craigslist, but basically,
when you do, if you sign up for something or sign up to do
a post or whatever, you get this automatic confirmation email. And to hear Michelle tell it,
she just signed into her email.
email one day and saw this automatic reply saying that she had gone onto Craigslist and asked men
to assault Angela as part of this, like, greater fantasy. And according to Michelle, she said that
that was really upsetting and very disturbing because she hadn't done anything like that.
Apparently, she even reported the posts and straight up told the people who were working
at Craigslist, I didn't write that. So at this point, the police had heard two different sides
to this story. Ian and Angela said that it was Michelle who was sending them these intense,
threatening emails. But meanwhile, Michelle was like, wait, wait, wait, hang on a second. That's
not me. Somebody is out there pretending to be me. Now, from the sound of it, the police didn't
really believe her story about being hacked or being impersonated online, not for like a single
second. I mean, I'll be honest, how many times have I covered a case where someone gets caught
harassing someone and then later pretends it was somebody else who broke into their account, right?
It's the number one go-to excuse for all kinds of like creepy, nasty people. So the police didn't
listen to her excuses. And they pretty much didn't listen to her excuses. And they pretty much didn't
give her the time of day. They just said, this restraining order is going to stay in place. And
now you've been formally notified. So that's that. Stay away from them. And the hopes in these kinds
of situations is always that once you file a restraining order, the person who has been
harassing you will kind of like back off, right? They'll be a little bit spooked. You've put them
on notice. They know that you know what they're doing and you're not going to take it anymore.
I mean, in theory, that's what we hope happens. And for a month or so, that's how Ian and Angela
felt. They didn't get any more disturbing emails. And they didn't get any more disturbing emails.
They didn't hear from Michelle at all. But then that's when things took a seriously terrifying
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off. Angela was heading back to the condo on the evening of June 24th, 2016. As she later told the
police, she was walking into the garage, you know, the garage for the condo that Michelle had bought
with Ian, and somebody was inside waiting and attacked her. According to Angela, she didn't
recognize the man that was in the garage with her. She had never seen him before. But even though
there was no connection, no bad blood between them, no beef between them, she was still in the
the attack that he inflicted on her was brutal. I mean, she was lucky to get away. So afterwards,
right away, she called the police. And when they got there, that's when they saw that Angela had
clearly been through something pretty horrific. She had visible marks on her face, cuts on her
skin. She had other injuries that made it clear that she had been through some kind of struggle.
And let's also not forget, Angela was pregnant, not just pregnant, but carrying twins. The cops
also said that there was bruising around her eyes, marks on her neck, and cuts on her face.
So it was clear that this was a serious attack. And to all appearances, Angela was lucky to be
alive and not more seriously injured. So the police didn't waste any time once they saw the
scene and saw Angela's injuries. And in a surprise to no one, they zeroed in right away on Michelle.
She had a motive. She had a history with Ian. They already had those bizarre threatening emails that
had come from her. So she was arrested. But by the next day, thanks to her parents, she was able to
post a $10,000 bond and get her to the hospital. So she was able to post a $10,000 bond and get her
And guess what? When she got out, those emails picked up again. But this time, some of them
weren't signed by Michelle. They were signed by somebody named Jason. Now apparently, Jason Rayburn
was Angela's ex-boyfriend from a couple of years earlier. He was a state highway patrol officer who
lived on the East Coast, and they had met at a bar before sort of jumping into a super quick
relationship. So it was a little odd now for some guy from years ago, who had nothing to do with any
situation and start sending these emails. So was he jealous? And was he wanting to frame Angela's
new husband's previous girlfriend, hoping that it would like cause a wedge between Angela and Ian,
and he could work his way back in? Or was it Michelle, who was now spooked, and knowing that
they're on her trail, and she was looking for a scapegoat. And so she quickly googled whoever
Angela's ex-boyfriend was. The weird thing was, these new messages all had the same tone and
that were sent earlier. So right away, Angela was like, no, these aren't actually from Jason.
It made more sense that someone, namely Michelle, was impersonating this Jason guy to cover their
tracks. And then three weeks after Michelle's arrest, another Craigslist ad went up. Once again,
it asked for someone to come to Angela's house to attack her. And it said that no matter how much
she fought back, Angela did not want them to stop what they were doing and to keep going
through with the fantasy. And as it turns out, someone did actually respond to this new ad.
And they showed up to attack Angela. It was a 17-year-old boy. Now, the good news was,
Angela spotted him right away while he was still outside in the yard, and she called the police
immediately. So they were able to come stop him before he did anything. And of course, this 17-year-old
kid, he had no idea that these ads that had been posted were posted by somebody else or that he
was, like, caught up in this messed up situation. I couldn't find any record either of him being
charged with anything, and I'm guessing he wasn't because he was a minor. I don't know. But also,
so far, it's not a good thing.
He knew he wasn't doing anything wrong. He was just responding to this, like, kinky Craigslist
ad. However, I've got to imagine that this whole situation might have, like, spooked him a little
bit and might have left him feeling like in the future he would have to be a lot more careful
about who he's trying to hook up with or what kind of ads he's answering on the internet. I mean,
I hope so, at least.
So after this, the very next day on July 14th, Michelle was once again arrested for attempted
sexual assault. Now, even though Michelle hadn't attacked Angela herself, the evidence told a
the one who set everything into motion. She was responsible for the attempt, even though it was a
17-year-old kid who was doing her dirty work for her. The police also claimed that she posed a
serious threat to public safety, especially with Angela being pregnant with twins. They weren't
taking any chances, and I don't blame them. And Ms. Hadley was charged in a felony complaint
with stalking, with a restraining order, stalking, criminal threats, attempted assault with intent to
bring a residential burglary, violating a protective order, and a crime bail crime enhancement.
These charges carried a maximum sentence of life in prison.
It can take months for us to get an IP address back, particularly if the company doesn't believe
it's an emergency. As the DA mentioned, we tried to do those emergency search warrants,
but when those were coming back, those were coming back blocked through virtual private
networks and third-party proxies. So we didn't have that information.
And we had to then go through and unwind all of that stuff. And so we may have to serve a search
warrant on several different companies. All of those take weeks to months to get back to us.
So now with charges like that, Michelle's bail was set at $1 million. And that's not exactly
the kind of money you can just pull out of your back pocket, right? Even with help from your
parents. So obviously the hope now was that she was going to finally leave Angela and Ian alone
for good. If she couldn't get out of jail, she couldn't post any more disturbing ads online.
She couldn't email them. And hopefully everything would get under control. But still, even after all
of the emails and all of the Craigslist posts and now two arrests, Michelle still said she was
innocent, completely innocent. According to her, she never sent Angela a single email,
not a threatening one or otherwise. She had no reason to talk to her at all.
Apparently, Michelle's family thought she was innocent too. And they wanted to do what they
could do to help her, but they didn't really have many options. So they gave her a choice. They said,
bail you out, or you can get
a really good lawyer, but we can't afford to do both. And meanwhile, the media coverage was just
shredding Michelle to pieces. So Michelle knew that a short-term solution like getting out on
bail wouldn't help. Even if she paid the bond amount and got out, everybody hated her, and
she still was going to have to face the court system. And like I said, the public had turned
on her. Everybody thought she was this criminal mastermind who was setting up her ex's new wife
to be attacked in a sexual way. There was no way that she was going to be able to live a normal
life with that hanging over her head. So she made the decision. She told her parents to skip the bail
and to get a lawyer instead. Which I have to say was probably a smart move on her part,
considering how serious these charges were. Now, as a random side note, Michelle was lucky and did
not get a scary cellmate. In fact, she was staying with an elderly woman who she became very close
with over time. The woman was in jail on kidnapping charges, and I wish I knew more about
her backstory, but that's really all I know. But all to say that it makes sense that Michelle
was making friends, making connections on the inside, because it looked like she was going to
be in there for a long time. Meanwhile, the police were about to learn a lot more about Angela.
Now let's talk about Angela's ex, Jason. You'll remember, he was also apparently sending her weird
emails. He was the one who lived on the East Coast, but then after the first arrest, the email
started being signed from him, even though they were in the same tone as Michelle's emails. And
Angela was also pretty sure that those emails were not from him. So when she and Jason had been dating,
it started out like a lot of relationships. They realized that they had a lot in common,
and things moved very, very fast. But to be fair, there was a reason for things to move so fast
between them. Because Angela didn't feel like she had any time to waste. Early on, not long after
they started dating, Angela confided in Jason that she had been diagnosed with cervical cancer.
She was very sick, and she was not in a state to take care of herself. So because of that,
she and Jason decided to move in together. It wasn't necessarily a case where they said,
hey, we've been together for a while, let's take things to the next level. But it was more of a
situation where Angela literally couldn't be on her own anymore. So this new guy who really cared
about her decided to step up. And I mean, Jason actually seemed like a really nice guy. He even
had a special needs son, which that would have been a lot of work for him to take on even without
Angela in the picture. But he made room for her in his life as well. Now, right before her
treatments were supposed to get started, Angela made the brave decision to shave her head herself.
And according to her friend at the time, someone named Mary, Angela tried to be this happy,
upbeat person that she had been before because she didn't want this serious illness now getting
in the way of that or stopping her from living her best life. So she decided, you know, I'm going to
just take things into my own hands. I'm not going to wait for the medication to make my hair fall
out. I'm going to shave my head myself, and I'm going to kick cancer's ass, basically.
But here's where things started to get weird. Even though she was in the middle of chemo,
which can be so incredibly intense and hard on your body,
Angela didn't seem to be making the kind of lifestyle changes that you might expect.
She was still drinking wine. She was eating sugary foods. She had none of that loss of
appetite or severe fatigue that people usually go through. And of course, everyone's body is
different, and people are allowed to process things however they need. So even though Mary
thought it was odd, she didn't want to say anything or risk coming across as overly critical of Angela.
I mean, her friend had cancer after all. But then one day, when Angela and Mary were hanging out,
she said something totally out of left field. It was a complete bombshell. Angela said that
Jason had been abusing her. Now, something about that statement didn't sit right with Mary. I'm
not sure what exactly it was that tipped her off and had her feeling like she couldn't believe
Angela, especially because the sad truth is there are a lot of guys who seem nice in public but are
violent and dangerous behind closed doors. But for whatever reason, she kind of had a little
bit of pause and hesitation with this. It doesn't sound like there was anything specific in Angela's
story that was automatically a red flag. But between the alleged violence and the fact that
Angela didn't act the way that Mary would expect a cancer patient to act, Mary was starting to wonder
if, for some reason, Angela wasn't being totally honest with her about what was going on in her
life. Certain pieces of the puzzle just weren't fitting. It also didn't help that not long after
Angela shaved her head, her hair began growing back, and it was growing back super quickly.
Now, I am absolutely not a cancer expert, okay? I'm not a cancer expert. Okay? But I googled this to check. I fact-checked it a little bit. And apparently, it usually doesn't
grow back until after chemo ends. Sometimes, it can even take up to 12 months or more. It's even
possible for hair to look different when it comes back in. You know, thinner, straighter, patchier,
that sort of thing. But Angela's came back in much faster than it normally would. And it also
looked the exact same as it had before she had shaved it. And I'm not saying it's impossible,
but it was all kind of starting to be this bigger pattern,
with everything else. And it was notable. It was weird. And Mary wasn't the only person who was
starting to second-guess what Angela had told her. Jason was also starting to pick up on some things.
The biggest one being that Angela never asked him to drive her to the doctor's appointments or to
pick her up afterward. He would have been happy to do it. And since they lived together, it made
more logical sense for Jason to do that than for Angela to reach out to some friend or someone else.
And of course, it's not like she would have been able to get herself home from chemo. I mean,
she was feeling exhausted.
Right? But never, not once in their entire relationship, did Angela ever have Jason take
her to or from the doctor. Now, when Mary was having these doubts about Angela, she sort of
just let them nag at her. She didn't act on her suspicions. But Jason, he took things to another
level once he was doubting on what Angela was telling him. And frankly, he kind of took them
to a pretty intense degree. But I guess when you have big doubts, you've got to make big moves to
address them. I don't know. But he reached out to a friend and told her that she was going to
the date of Angela's next appointment, the date she was scheduled to go in and receive chemo.
And then he asked that friend to stake out Angela's house all day, see when she left,
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So as soon as Jason's friend told him that Angela had not left the house, she had not
gone to that cancer appointment, he was even more confused. I'm not sure what he had been
expecting his friend to say. I mean, if maybe he thought that Angela had been going to these
appointments, but a friend was driving her or something. But either way, Jason was totally
shocked to learn that a
number of people had gone to the hospital. Apparently, the treatments weren't happening
at all.
Now, when Angela was supposed to be getting chemo, she would always send Jason these photos
of what was happening, you know, like her hooked up to IVs, things like that. But these
were always photos of her arm or a piece of the equipment, something like that. Her face
never showed up in any of these photos. So now he did some Googling, probably some reverse
Google or image searching. And as it turned out, those photos of Angela were not of Angela.
She had been stealing other people's pictures, going to different places, and she had been
going to different websites or strangers' social media accounts and then sending those photos to
Jason to make him think that it was her who was receiving the treatment for cancer. And I think
the evidence is clear now that she wasn't being treated for anything. She didn't have cancer.
So Jason and Mary finally sat down and compared notes with each other. And that's when everything
really started falling apart. Because you may remember how I told you that when Jason and
Angela started dating, she told him that she was a lawyer. Well, Mary worked with Angela,
and she knew Angela's job title.
And while it was true, she did, yes, work at a law firm, it wasn't as a lawyer. She was a paralegal. And there's
nothing wrong, of course, with being a paralegal. Certainly not. But it was just one more lie. One
more lie to add to this massive stack of other lies that Angela had been telling both Jason and
Mary this entire time. So next, Jason and Mary went to finally confront Angela with what they
knew. And when they did, Angela doubled down. She swore, of course I have cancer. What are you even
talking about? She even told them that they could call her mom and ask her and that she would show
them the papers that she had from all of her different doctor's visits. But Jason and Mary
did not take the bait. And I also wonder if she had maybe forged some doctor's notes or if she
had lied to her mom and that's why she offered that specific evidence so quickly. I don't know.
But whatever the case, Mary knew better than to let Angela kind of set the agenda and
tell her what was what. So instead, Mary asked her if she could see her chemo port,
which is this small kind of little catheter type thing that lets the chemo drugs get right into
your body. But Angela refused to show it. Of course she wouldn't because it should be pretty
clear now that she didn't want to show it. But she didn't want to show it. And so she did. And so she
didn't even have one. So that's how Jason learned that Angela was a liar.
And it should be no surprise that the two of them broke up. And then after that, she eventually got
together with Ian. But speaking of Ian, Ian, her new husband, was about to drop a bombshell himself.
Because on September 30th, 2016, while Michelle was still in jail and while Angela was fearing
for her life, everything changed. Because that's when Ian finally sat down with the police and
offered to clear everything up. He said he was ready to tell the truth. He was going to tell
them everything. And Ian told the investigators that he believed that his wife, Angela, was
actually framing his ex, Michelle. Which, yes, you heard that right. The guy walked into the
Anaheim police station and was like, I think my wife is behind all of this. And then he kind of
just like unloaded a massive list of lies that Angela had allegedly told him. First being her
pregnancy with twins. It was total fake news. Apparently, she was never pregnant at all.
Apparently, Angela even showed him a sonogram. But then later, Ian found out that she had bought
it off of Etsy for like less than $10. And he said that when he figured that out, he was totally done
with her. He even annulled the marriage since they had been married for less than a year. And get
this, that wasn't even the biggest lie that Angela had ever told him about herself, which we will get
into in a moment. And like I said, guys, just when you think the twists are done coming, they are not
because we have still got a ways to go. Now, on the day that Ian came in and said that Angela had
framed Michelle, the police didn't know yet about Angela's past with Jason and that entire fake
cancer thing. But now they knew that she had been faking a pregnancy. So with that, they kind of
unraveled a whole knot of lies. It wasn't just the framing or the pregnancy or the cancer. Angela
had lied about basically every single thing that had ever happened to her. And I wish that I was
exaggerating. I truly do. But for her whole life, Angela had been constantly saying things that
weren't true. She told people that she had been faking a pregnancy. She told people that she had certain jobs when she wasn't working at all. She told people she
had a law degree, which she never got. And when the police ended up getting a search warrant to
check out her devices, things got even crazier. Angela had apparently been sending these
threatening emails to herself the entire time using a VPN to try and cover her tracks, which
a VPN is, it's kind of like a tool that makes it look like you're accessing the internet from a
different location, hiding your actual IP address. It's meant to protect privacy. But in this case,
Angela was using it to make it look like she was someone else, Michelle, and that Michelle was the
one sending those crazy emails. It's pretty much automatic. We start, in this case, Anaheim
Police Department started with getting search warrants, like emergency search warrants,
right away to start verifying where the emails came from. And then you start, you know, once
you go into that, it's not so easy to verify. Here, there's something wrong because, you know,
because the IP addresses were disguised. So that obviously required a substantially more,
much greater kind of investigation. This was all just insane. There was no
other word for it. I mean, truly just insane. So after Ian turned Angela in,
Michelle was finally released from jail. However, by that time, she had already spent nearly three
months behind bars. Three whole months of her life that she lost because of
Angela's just crazy vendetta against her. Because as it turns out, Angela had been Googling the movie
Gone Girl. I mean, you know, the one, the one about a woman who fakes her own death and then
frames her husband for it. It's not exactly the same story as what happened between Angela and
Michelle, but the broad strokes were the same in everything. And remember the time that she claimed
that she was attacked in the garage and then called the police who showed up and found her
with bruises and scratches and marks? Well, yeah, it turns out that whole thing was fake too. Angela
had staged the whole thing. And so, you know, it's not exactly the same story. It's not exactly the
entire thing. Remember when Angela supposedly got attacked that first time? She said that somebody
jumped her in her garage and that she managed to get away, you know, by the skin of her teeth. And
she called the police and she was covered in all those cuts and bruises when she got there. Well,
it turns out she really did fake that attack. And when she did that, she forgot to keep in mind that
there were security cameras all over the condo. Now, the police didn't check them at first. I
mean, they believed Angela's report and they didn't think to question it. But now, after her
had been lying about everything, they decided to go back and review that footage. There was no sign
of anyone coming in or out of the house except for Angela. No one broke in. No one tried to assault
her. And the police didn't actually see how she got all of those injuries either, but their
assumption was that she had done it to herself. Now, the second time around, when the 17-year-old
boy showed up, that probably was real. He was an actual person. And the police talked to him,
he was on the security cameras, all of those things. But the officials knew that the only
reason he came to the house is because he had seen that Craigslist ad. He thought that Angela
wanted to hook up with him. And as we now know, Angela did, in fact, lure him in, even if later
she said that it was something that Michelle had done to her. It was really her who set that trap.
It's also worth noting that this teenager never laid a hand on Angela. She saw him approaching
before he even got anywhere near the house, and then that's when she called 911. And that's when
the cops got there, he was still in the yard, and that's when they started talking to him. So he had
never even made it into the house. And that's when the cops got there, and that's when they
got inside. So she was never in any real danger from him whatsoever. Now, with all of these lies
kind of like coming to the surface, the biggest question was, why? What the hell was Angela's
motive for all of this? Well, when the police searched Angela's computer, they found two
word documents. One was titled, The Angela Diaz Story, and the other was Daughters of God,
The Angela Diaz Story. And these two documents, guys, they were movie pitches. As in,
she wanted to have her own Lifetime movie. She literally staged all of this, sent another woman
to jail, all of this complex craziness, so that she could be famous. Now, guys, that's not the
twist I was talking about either. Just you wait, because we're going to get there. Now, in all
fairness, aside from the Lifetime movie, it does sound like she did have one other motive. It's
in this awful situation, but it was at least a little bit more understandable. Something a little easier to
wrap your head around. And it all stemmed from that dispute between Michelle and Ian over that
condo, the condo that Michelle had purchased. Ian was desperate to stay in it, but he couldn't
afford to. The terms that they had settled in court also meant that Ian would have to pay the
entire outstanding mortgage, the amount that hadn't been paid off yet. And he'd also have to
pay Michelle back for some of what she already paid. But if Michelle was in jail, or say, in
prison, she couldn't come after him for any of that money. So once Ian and Angela were then living in
a condo together, they kind of both were in agreement that they didn't want to lose their
home or move out. So because of that, the natural conclusion to them was they needed to get rid of
Michelle, which is why Angela pulled off what she thought was going to be the perfect crime.
Instead, after months of police investigations, the truth finally caught up to her. So on January 6,
2017, Angela was arrested and finally charged with 10 felony charges and 22 misdemeanor charges,
including a kidnapping charge. I'm here to announce the
filing of a felony complaint against Angela Marie Diaz by the Orange County District Attorney's
Office. The charges include numerous felony charges, including two counts of kidnapping,
two counts of false imprisonment, perjury, two counts of forgery, two counts of possession of
a forged instrument, grand theft, one misdemeanor count of filing a false report
with an agency, and 21 misdemeanor counts of filing false police reports.
As important as the filing of charges against Ms. Diaz is,
the dismissal of the previous complaint and the exoneration of Michelle Suzanne Hadley
is every bit as important. I wanted to make sure, however, that Ms. Hadley is cleared
in every possible way, in the courtroom and in the court of public opinion.
It needs to be made clear in the media,
and in cyberspace. Ms. Hadley is an innocent victim of a diabolical scheme.
The kidnapping charge is based on Angela Diaz's, her activity in getting Ms. Hadley arrested.
And the police are actually operating as her agent, in a sense. They're operating because of her.
She's causing them to make the arrest and to take her to court.
to jail. So that's that's essentially it. That's what it's based on. Later that year,
Angela went to court, and she eventually pleaded guilty to all of it. And somehow, get this,
she was only sentenced to five years. That's right, five years. I truly do not get that.
And that was in 2017, if you remember, which means that the five years have gone by. And this woman
is now out there and free, the mastermind behind this whole thing. And the fact that she lived in
Anaheim freaks me out. Don't come for me, Angela. Don't come for me. 31-year-old Angela Diaz is
accused of 10 serious felony crimes in a scheme to get her husband's ex in big trouble. Prosecutors
say Diaz placed disgusting sexual posts and threats online while pretending to be Diaz.
She then reported Diaz to police, who arrested her. Police say it was a sophisticated plot
with fake IP addresses and special software. She tricked us. So we had all the evidence that
we had had at that point pointed at Ms. Hadley.
Um, but as we found out, it, uh, it now appears that, uh, Angela Diaz was the one, uh, behind
everything. Michelle Hadley was cleared of all charges on Monday. Well, that's not exactly the
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So what about Angela's former husband, Ian? Well, the police and Michelle both think that
he knew way more than what he let on when he went to the investigators and turned on
Angela and turned on his wife. In fact, to all appearances, he was in on the
scheme right up until he turned on his wife. Remember earlier how I said that Michelle thought
that somebody hacked her email to send those threatening emails to Angela? Well, it turns out
she was half right. The truth was that Ian had created new email accounts in Michelle's name,
and then he was the one who sent those emails to Angela for Angela to receive.
And this is how crazy this case is because apparently he and Angela even created an
email account which they claimed Michelle had created to impersonate Ian.
So in reality, it was Ian impersonating Michelle impersonating him. I mean,
it's like you need a Venn diagram and like a flow chart to keep track of all of this.
And get this, Ian was also the one who posted on Craigslist. All of those ads asking men to
come over and attack his wife, his pregnant wife, he was the one posting those. So in 2023,
he was also sentenced to over 10 years for cyberstalking, conspiracy to commit cyberstalking,
perjury, and obstruction of justice.
Which, I gotta just say, the fact that he got a bigger sentence than Angela,
she only got five years, I don't know if that really equates. I don't know how I feel about
that, and I'm curious to know your thoughts. But honestly, it probably shouldn't be all that
surprising that Ian was in on this. Especially when you hear about his history with Michelle
and what their relationship was like before they broke up. Because the details are disgusting.
Now at first, it seemed pretty good. Kind of like dreamy, actually. Just after a couple of dates,
they were apparently in love.
Eventually, Ian proposed to Michelle, and to do it, he took her to New York City. He got down on
one knee, right in front of Rockefeller Center, in front of that Christmas tree. I mean, just
insanely beautiful, insanely romantic. Then, they moved in together, as we know. And sometime after
that, in 2014, Ian started to get a little weird. Kind of controlling, at least according to Michelle.
She claimed that he started asking her to dress differently. As in, wear more revealing clothing.
Apparently, Ian had a thing for crop
tops, and he wanted Michelle to wear crop tops more often. Then, he wanted her to get her belly
button pierced. And it's not like this was a case where Michelle had already, you know, been thinking
about getting a piercing or toying with the idea, and then he encouraged her to do it because it's
what she ultimately wanted. No. Michelle, in her own words, was a self-proclaimed goody-two-shoes.
She wasn't into body piercings. But Ian wanted her to make this one very specific change to her
body, because it was something that he says he would like. So things were kind of getting a
little bit more complicated, and he was like, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't
know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't
And then after a while, Michelle started to get this odd feeling that Ian might be tracking her.
I guess he was sending her these messages asking her why she wasn't home on time for something,
or where she was, or things like that. Even if she was literally only running a couple of minutes
late, there would really be no reason he would even know that she was late somewhere. It's not
like she was a late person, and that that person would have been reaching out to Ian asking where
Michelle was. It wasn't anything like that. There was really only one way for Ian to have so much
information on where she was going and when.
And in Michelle's mind, Ian had to be tracking her somehow.
But that's not even the worst of it. Not by a long shot. Apparently, Ian had a fetish where
he thought that it would be hot if Michelle had sex with random men. Men that she didn't even know.
And that was not Michelle's jam. She didn't want to do it. But even after she told Ian no,
and that she was very clear in the fact that she didn't want to do it,
he just kept asking her, kept pursuing it, sort of pushing her boundaries. And it became very
high pressure. And the message was clear. He didn't care about what she was comfortable with.
He only cared about what he wanted. Well, on Valentine's Day in 2014, literally on Valentine's
Day, things changed. See, Michelle had a really bad cold that day, and she was taking all sorts
of medicine to try and get it under control. And I'm sure a lot of us have been there, right? You're
on the strong stuff. It affects your judgment. It affects your thinking. There's a reason you're
not supposed to operate heavy machinery when you're drinking cough syrup. There's also a
kind of in this sort of cloudy mental state. And once again, Ian asked her to have sex with a
stranger and to let him watch. And even though Michelle felt like literal garbage, and the last
thing that she wanted to do was just hook up with some other guy, she was also sort of worn out and
tired from constantly shutting Ian down and constantly telling him no. So this time she was
like, okay, sure, we'll do it. Well, Ian did not waste any time at all. He didn't even want to give
him any time. He was like, I don't know what to do with this. I don't know what to do with this. And
sober up from all that cough medicine and change her mind. So that very same day, he posted on
Craigslist, which, God, this guy loves using Craigslist, right? So he found someone who would
let him live out his fantasy. And he gave this guy his address and made all of the plans about when
this guy should come over. Then before the guy could even come over and, you know, do his thing,
Ian gave Michelle three shots of whiskey. Maybe he tried to convince her that it would help her
relax, maybe take the edge off of her nerves. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't
know. But it's important to remember that Michelle drank the whiskey while she was already woozy and
out of it because of the cough medicine. So when she added alcohol to the mix, she definitely felt
like she was not in a position where she could consent. Not that Ian cared at all. He even set
up cameras in the bedroom so that he could record the entire hookup and rewatch it later. I mean,
so that he could get to relive this whole fucked up situation over and over again. Truly gross.
And it was messed up. I mean, no question there.
Because Michelle had already made it crystal clear to him that she didn't even want to do
this in the first place. It just wasn't her thing. But Ian had ignored her boundaries and had pushed
her when she was sick, when she was vulnerable, when she was impaired. And not only just like
getting her to do it, but then going so far as to wanting to record it so that it was something that
he could revisit and rewatch over and over again. So once the stranger was done with her, they had
had sex, had it all on tape, you know, all the things, Michelle felt sick to her stomach.
She eventually went back to Ian and told him that for her, it wasn't this dirty, naughty,
fantasy, fetish thing like it was for him. For her, she felt like she was a victim of a sexual attack.
Which, I gotta say, yeah, she was. She was drugged. She was out of it. She certainly didn't
give enthusiastic consent. But when faced with the reality of what he had done, do you think that
Ian was apologetic? No, of course not. When Michelle told him how she felt, Ian became angry. He lashed
out at her for even daring to feel violated. Which, to me, I don't know the inner workings
of their relationship exactly, just what Michelle has alleged and what he was doing in terms of
tracking her and then the sex with random men, the Craigslist posting, all of those things.
But to me, it seems pretty indicative of escalation. And who knows where things could
have gone had Michelle stayed. But luckily, it should be no surprise that after all this,
the relationship eventually broke down. So that's when they broke up, and that's
when they ended up fighting in court over the condo. Then, after that settlement,
Ian emailed Michelle one time, telling her that he needed to see her, but he wouldn't say why.
All he would say was that he wanted her to come see him at the condo.
But something about this email kind of set off all of the alarm bells in Michelle's head.
She had this gut feeling that if she went to the condo and went alone,
and nobody else knew that she was there with Ian, that something bad would happen to her.
So she ignored the invitation, and she still couldn't shake the feeling that Ian had some
kind of violent intention against her, that he wanted to hurt her. So she basically uprooted
her entire life to put as much distance between herself and Ian as possible. She quit her job,
she dropped out of the college program that she had been attending, and then she moved in with
her parents. I mean, she was not the obsessive ex that just couldn't let go like Ian and Angela
had made her out to be. She was the one who wanted to get away from her obsessive ex.
So then, after that, came the harassing emails,
the supposed Craigslist ads targeting Angela. I mean, this poor, poor woman. Nothing Michelle
did was enough to keep her crazy, possessive, predatory ex away. And you can tell that this
all had a huge impact on Michelle. I mean, I can't imagine anyone being okay after living
through something like that. But she also spoke about how all of this made her feel in her victim
impact statement. She said, he purposefully deprived me of sleep. Because yes, let's just
call non-consensual sex what we want. But she also spoke about how all of this made her feel in her
sexual sex what it is. He stalked and spied on me, devalued and triangulated me, harassed me and
scared me and pushed me beyond the limits of my sanity. I was left with complex post-traumatic
stress disorder that was so severe, it caused deeply frightening and confusing disassociative
episodes. Something that had never happened to me before dating Mr. Diaz, and something that
thankfully hasn't happened since 2016 when this ordeal occurred. And then, as if what he had done
to my mind was not enough, I was able to get away with it. And I was able to get away with it. He would turn around and he would use it against me to paint me as crazy and unhinged. What a
classic move for an abuser, right? I still remember the day we were in his car driving to Los Angeles
and he told me about R3s or Romeos in jail. These were the R3s and the sex offenders. He described
their conditions to me. Not able to be outside or run, urinating and defecating without privacy,
hated by the other inmates for what they had done. He asked me how I would feel about it if I were in
that situation. I was able to get away with it. I was able to get away
That would be my worst nightmare, I told him. Not being able to run free outside, having people
believe I had done something so horrible. Yes, the condo was at the center of Ian's attempt to frame
me for sexual assault, but you've seen the video footage, your honor. This man did not just want
the condo. He wanted to ruin my entire life. I mean, what a complete psychopath, am I right?
Obviously, this has been a huge nightmare for me, the most traumatic experience of my life.
I'm glad it's finally over. I have a lot of friends and a lot of family who know me very well,
and when they saw this in the media, they already knew I didn't do it, and they believed it even
before the truth came out. So I think as far as my close circle, it's not going to be hard to
rebuild my reputation, and I'm hoping that that kind of, it just grows from there. And after all
of this, I really hope that Michelle is doing okay, because what she went through was unreal.
In late 2018, she filed a lawsuit,
against the city of Anaheim and also a few of its police officers, because according to her,
they should have seen right from the get-go that she was being framed. They should have never
believed, not even for one second, that she had sent even one of those emails or that she had
made those posts on Craigslist. According to Michelle, her innocence was obvious from the
very beginning. Now, in law enforcement's defense, some of the emails that Michelle sent Ian right
after their breakup, where she sounded intense and used religious imagery, those were from her.
And Michelle says, sure, she used more forceful language in those emails than she normally would,
but the fake emails had a completely different tone. And let's talk about the Craigslist posts,
the ones about Angela's supposed fantasy. When you post on Craigslist, you have to give an email
address, and the email that the poster used in several of these ads was Ian's. It wasn't Michelle's.
They were also posted from Ian's home address, the IP address, which the police would have known if
they had bothered to look into it. So, I think that's a good thing. I think that's a good thing.
the IP address of those emails, or if they had asked Craigslist for their records about who had
put those ads up. But the investigators didn't even bother to look that far. They just took
Angela and Ian at their word, and they said Michelle was the one who was doing everything.
And you'll remember that Michelle got arrested after that first supposed attack against Angela.
Well, while Michelle was still in jail, and while her phone was literally in police possession,
Angela got another threatening email that she said was from Michelle.
There was also a new ad that was posted on Craigslist during that time.
Now, obviously, Michelle didn't have any way of sending that stuff from a jail cell when her
phone was literally with the police officers investigating the case. But once again, the police
just believed Angela when she said that Michelle was still harassing her, even though it was
literally impossible for Michelle to do that. I mean, Angela and Ian did a terrible job of covering
their tracks, and it's honestly a little bit funny, or it would be, if this story wasn't so disturbing.
But they went to the effort, and they did it. And they did it. And they did it. And they did it.
setting up a VPN, crafting this huge elaborate lie. And then they were emailing themselves and
posting on Craigslist while Michelle was behind bars, literally incapable of doing anything to
them. It makes no sense. The aha moment for us is in about September,
we started getting a couple of these IP addresses back. And we realized that they
were returning to Ms. Diaz's condo. At that point, we realized, okay, we have something wrong here.
And our investigation really stepped up and went into overdrive at that point.
But that was the real aha moment in the case. It was a stupid move that truthfully should
have gotten them caught. And it did, eventually, but not until after Michelle had sat in jail for
close to three months for a crime that she didn't commit. And that's a big part of why she filed her
lawsuit. In April of 2021, the suit was settled out of court. Michelle and the city of Anaheim both
agreed to keep the case. But I gotta say, after all that she went through and some pretty clear missteps from the police,
my hope is that she came away with plenty of cash. I mean, she deserves it.
She tricked us. Hadley.
But as we found out, it now appears that Angela Diaz was the one behind everything.
The Anaheim Police Department didn't really take a ton of ownership for their wrongdoing here, but
they did release a statement that said,
We believe our actions were appropriate based on the evidence that was known to us at the time.
In addition, it was the persistent efforts of the detectives who ultimately uncovered the truth
that led to Michelle's exoneration. Which I gotta just say, uh, no, it was actually not the
detectives and their persistent efforts that led to the whole, like, you know, conclusion and
drumroll, everybody knows what the truth is. It was Ian giving them Angela right there on a silver
platter, turning on her phone, and saying,
Probably trying to save himself, but like, that's what cracked this whole case wide open.
Not your persistent work. It was him literally coming to you saying,
I'm ready to tell you the truth. It was Angela. And that's what untangled everything. I mean,
give me a break. Now today, Angela's whereabouts are a mystery. She's definitely kept a low
profile. And look, fair. I completely understand why. I would too. There are rumors that she's in
Arizona, specifically the Phoenix area, which was where she was at when she first got out of the
prison. So maybe she's there. Maybe she's not. I mean, it would make sense because there's roots
there. There's connections there, obviously. But who knows where she is. As for Ian, though,
he still remains in a federal prison. And he likely won't be eligible for parole until the early
2030s. Which I know that I said it before when I first covered this case. But I still can't
believe it. It is really insane to me that he somehow got more time than Angela even did. Which
it just the math.
Doesn't math to me with that. And look, I'm not a judge. So what the heck do I know? But it just
still strikes me as incredibly odd. So I don't know. Curious to know your thoughts on this case
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Podcast Summary
Key Points:
Angela Diaz, a woman who married Ian Diaz, orchestrated a elaborate deception to frame his ex, Michelle Hadley, with false emails, Craigslist ads, and staged attacks.
Angela fabricated a pregnancy, cancer diagnosis, and a violent garage attack, using fake medical images and stolen photos to deceive her husband and the public.
After being exposed, Angela was arrested and charged with multiple felonies, including kidnapping and false reporting, but received only a five-year sentence, raising questions about justice in the case.
Summary:
S. marshal Ian Diaz, staged a complex web of lies to frame Michelle Hadley, her ex-wife’s partner, for stalking, harassment, and attempted assault. She created fake emails and Craigslist ads that falsely claimed Angela was seeking sexual assault fantasies, leading to a real attack by a 17-year-old boy who was lured by the posts.
The story began when Michelle, Ian’s ex, had a history of financial and emotional conflict over their shared condo, which led to strained relations. As tensions grew, Angela began sending threatening emails to herself and others, using a virtual private network to disguise her IP address and falsely link the attacks to Michelle. Eventually, Angela’s deception unraveled when investigators discovered she had no cancer, no pregnancy, and had forged medical documents.
She also staged her own injuries during a garage attack, which was later proven false by security footage showing no intruder. Her motive was rooted in a desire to eliminate Michelle and protect Ian’s property interests, as Michelle’s legal claim to the condo threatened Ian’s ownership. After months of investigation, Angela was arrested and charged with 10 felonies and 22 misdemeanors, including kidnapping and false reporting.
Despite the severity of her crimes, she pleaded guilty and was sentenced to only five years. Michelle was exonerated and cleared of all charges, with authorities confirming she was a victim of a sophisticated scam. The case highlights how deception, technology, and emotional manipulation can lead to wrongful arrests and deep societal harm.
It also underscores the importance of thorough investigation, transparency, and accountability in criminal justice. The story, initially covered in a Netflix documentary titled *A Toxic Love Story*, was later expanded upon by true crime journalist Annie Elise, who revealed critical details missing from the original broadcast.
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The documentary explores a real-life case of stalking, online deception, and a violent love triangle involving Angela Diaz, Ian Diaz, and Michelle Hadley.
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