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We Took Harper's Car Back From Natalie Reynolds!

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We Took Harper's Car Back From Natalie Reynolds!

The speaker recounts being left stranded after Harper took her car, claiming she "ditched" them twice and left keys in the vehicle. The speaker refuses to return the car without a direct conversation with Harper, arguing she should have been held accountable. After a meeting with Natalie and her boyfriend, the group agrees to a compromise: Natalie will be allowed to apologize on the podcast, but only if it’s a public, audience-voted event. The speaker expresses skepticism about Natalie’s sincerity, noting her actions appear performative and driven by content strategy rather than genuine remorse. The group debates whether to forgive or punish, ultimately supporting forgiveness with the condition that the pain and betrayal are not forgotten. A public vote will determine if Natalie appears, with the top-commented choice prevailing. The conversation also touches on deeper themes of trust, social anxiety, personal boundaries, and the power of public opinion. Ultimately, the speaker emphasizes that while forgiveness is possible, it must not come at the cost of personal integrity or emotional healing. The episode ends with a humorous reflection on aging and generational changes, noting that the group will grow older and may no longer recognize each other’s age.

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Oh my gosh. She actually asked Harper's car. Why did you take the car of the officials? Because you ditched me. Why? Because she's been threatening to sue me the last two months. So I'm going to figure out what's going on. And if you don't somehow figure out something where I can talk to her, because she's completely near me, then I don't want to get back the car. Because then I have no way of driving around here. I don't want to ever find myself. I don't know what's hard to figure out about that. Okay, they are actually crazy. Okay, guys. So Natalie and her boyfriend Zach agreed to let me pick up Harper's car. They said they want to talk for a minute. I don't know really exactly what they want to talk about, but they said they're cool to let me pick up Harper's car. I'm going to talk to Harper about it later, but they just randomly messaged me and said they're cool to meet up. So I'm here at the parking lot waiting for them. They said they should be here in like 10 minutes. So I don't know. We'll see if she should. Wait, wait. She's here. Oh my gosh, she's here. Okay, she's here. Oh my gosh. This is crazy. Okay, this is crazy. This is crazy. I've never even met Natalie. I've never met her boyfriend either. I got to act. I got to act like I'm not filming though, so I'm going to hold the camera up. Hey, hey guys. So, can I get the car back? No. Well, okay, so I. I don't know if you know but Harper left me here sharing the twice. And why did you take the car in the first place? Because she ditched me twice. And I feel like I had no form of transportation. I feel like, okay, I'm okay with giving the car back if I can like some on meet up with Harper herself. Wait, what do you mean she ditched me? She's not answering my call. She goes in the front door. You took it from her house. Yeah, because we were so sick flat. She's not answering me. It's like really bothering me. But you took it from her house. So, I'm coming here civilly. I don't want to serve her problems with you. I just want to talk to her. No, I get that, but you took it from straight from her house. She didn't ditch you. Yes, but she left the keys in her car. So, I just thought. How does that make it okay at all? What? I. Because she wasn't. How is it okay for her to leave me stranded? She didn't. You were at her house. What are you talking about? It doesn't matter. We were so sick of film. Did she say shit? I'm not giving the car back if you can't let me go. No, no. Wait, wait, wait, wait. This is my. No. Hold on. Wait, did she say she was going to film with you? Yes. Multiple times. On her birthday and a month ago. And she ditched me twice. So. And then you flew down here and then she said no. Yes, because I want to actually have a conversation because she's been threatening to serve me the last two months. So, I'm going to figure out what's going on. And if you don't let somehow figure out something where I can talk to her, because she's completely near me, then I don't want to get back to the car. Driving you out from Whitey's. I can't Uber. I'm too famous to Uber. People are going to recognize me. I can't do that. No one's okay. I don't want Uber by myself. I don't know what's the order to figure out about that. Do you get why she took it? Yes. Do you feel like she. I'm not giving the car back until you let me talk to her. Old Harper, talk. You want to call her? Yes. Nah, I see if she's giving her back until I'm sorry for. No, okay. If you agree. If you agree, see if you agree, so let me talk to her. Well, I can do what I can, but I mean, I can't agree that she'll talk to you, but. Well, at least, like, put me in the same room as her or something. Listen, like, I can have you, like, come on the pod, but if you come on the pod, she's. I'll come on the pod, yes. Okay, I think. I'll come on the pod, yes, right now. I will literally give you the keys to this car. Because that's me being nice. I will be nice enough to give you the keys to the car. And you take me to your house or wherever you do the podcast. I can't do it right now. But I can. Well, I don't got all day. I came all the way here. I'm not going to be sitting around waiting for Harper. Okay, I can talk. I'm going to sit around all day. Listen, I can talk to her. Yeah. See if she's going to talk to you. But if she says no, then I mean, there's nothing I can do. But I will at least do that. Okay, so you'll let us be in the same room, right? I will ask her if she's cool to talk to you and say, hey, Natalie, like, wants to apologize and Natalie wants to, like, wallow, wallow, whatever. And if she's cool and wants to, like, do it, then. Okay. Yeah, we can promise this, I'm up. But I mean, I can't. I don't want to be in the room. I'm just saying I can't promise you'll say, yeah. I just don't want it to be anything where I give you the keys and then you drive off of the keys and leave me here stranded in parking lot. So I don't want it to be two-for-two. You get ditched by you and Harper. That would be crazy. No. I'm not going to ditch you. But I'm saying. I will. Yes, I will have a conversation with her and see if she will. If she will, she'll talk to you all, but that's. Okay. That's the best I can do, I mean. But if she says no. Yeah, but if she says no, then there's nothing I can do. Oh, but you'll make sure. Just don't even tell her. I have to tell her, but. No, I have to tell her. No, just don't. Can you do me a favor? I'm doing you a favor by giving you back the call? Yeah, you're giving us the card. It's her card. I technically did not have to meet up with you and give you back the call. Yes, you did, because then. No. Her parents. I could have called the cops and said. What do you mean, call the cops? Her parents are being nice because you've messaged me and sent you to give the card back. So her parents are not talking to the police. But that's the only reason they're not even talking to you guys arrested, too. So sometimes. What do you talk about? You have me here stranded. That's like. What are you? Okay, listen, just give me the card. I'll talk to Harper and we'll see. Okay. Okay, let's go. I'd better be going upon the hot glass and not going to hurt her. Why do you want to. Just. Okay. Here. You swear? Yes. I promise. Do not ditch me. Do not ditch me. This is not funny. I promise it is not funny because you think you have the right to talk to her. But I promise you, I will ask her and that's all I can do. After that, I can. I'm still coming, so. Is that your car? I'll get her far away. No, don't get in my car. All right, just like Uber's support now. Okay. They are. Actually crazy. I'm going to talk to Harper and see. And tell Harper that Natalie wants to apologize to her, but I don't. I don't know what Harper's going to say that to be honest. Or her parents because she stole the car. But her parents agreed that it was fine. Or that it's fine if she gave the car back what she did. So I don't know. Oh, I guess I'll ask Harper, but that's the best thing to do. Also guys, I'm filming this. Hopefully we'll put this in a podcast episode. I don't know, but at least we have the evidence and we can. We'll do what we want. We'll do what we want with it for now. All right, well, we officially have the car back as you guys have seen. Harper's still not happy. Oh. Aren't you happy you have a car though? Yeah, at least it's not. I'm happy you have my car back, but she left. It fell to the room with trash and water burger trash. And she left it. Blue man, are you drinking there? So I'm drinking it, but it was. You're drinking after. What the? Well, I don't think it's like that big of a deal. I'm like, maybe she left a gift for me, but she stole money out of my car. I had like a hundred dollars. No, she did not. Yes, she did. I had a hundred dollars in my glove with the bar man. She literally stole it. I mean, like. Well, at least she bought you the bloom. I mean, that was kind. No, I'm kidding. But like the bloom. Can I tell you all the story about the bloom before we get into this? So this morning, I woke up. Cash was like, "Be here at 12-15." I was like, "Okay." So I woke about like 11. And I doored ash this for $15. No, you did not. Where are my life? Why did you do it ash order? Why would you do that? Why? Harper, we have bloom energy drinks. She didn't have a car. No, we have some here. I know, but I still. I guess I've got a car you gotta do what you gotta do. But I wanted it now though. That's okay, that's insane. Okay, wait. No, she does have a car. Well, now I do. Now I'm not this morning. Would you. Oh, 9/9/13. Wow. Wow. You're stupider than I thought. I don't know. I mean, everybody thinks I'm a big liar because I have lost my money conception. Time of money conception. Oh, that made a lot of sense. What is that? Now you money? Because like, I've been lying about all these charges. Yeah. But I'm glad that I'm my car back. I am. And I, uh, my. Also, I look very pale today except for my face because my whole makeup routine is brown and my body is extremely pale. So when I'm not tan, I. Your makeup routine is brown. Oh, no, it's like darker than my natural skin tone. But it is tan. I don't think so. It's tan and brown. But yeah. I'll be honest. I drove your car back when we picked it up and I didn't really think it was that dirty. Your truck is dirty. No. You can't really talk. Yours is just full of sand. And it stinks. Like wet sand. Yeah, it's only sand because I play volleyball but that's it. Everything else is clean. Like, they were just only. They were just a little bit of water burger trash I will say, which is pretty big back. That's about it. And I'm pretty sure the gas was on me. Okay, well, let's talk about. Let's talk about the. The gas was extremely low too and I'm so upset. But I'm glad that I got my car back and I'm glad that I don't have to put her in jail. But it's just like. Let's talk about the elephant in the room, though. Why? No, not cash, no. No. Why should we not. Or why should we. Wait, hold on. Why do we have a team now, we should? That was the elephant in the room I thought. I wasn't trying to be rude and calm fat. I was just saying. Oh, he's sure. That seems to understand it. I feel like it's appropriate. Yeah, no. Yeah. I made team Harper shirts because I wanted everyone to know where we stood. Yeah, and Kate went in, like, freaking made it legit and like, what's that called? Iron it. Iron did on, like patches. I'll just use Sharpie, which I think turned out better. Yeah, well, the funny thing is. It's kind of. That's not your handwriting, so Kate's not. Team Natalie. Yes, I can write good. No, you can't. Oh, so why are you wearing my shirt? I'm pretty sure you got help from producers. Yeah. Because that we're going for the whole prison vibe for Natalie. Sound like free Natalie, you know what I mean? Oh, free Natalie? Well. I get that. Wait, what was the elephant in the room? Well, the elephant in the room was in the video, Natalie's asking to, you know, come on the podcast. Yeah, and that's exactly why I am team Natalie. On the first half of our tour, tour, we tried making hotels work, and let's just say it didn't exactly go smoothly. All the guys are cramming to one hotel room just to play the Switch, and honestly, I didn't have a problem with it. Yeah, until we get noise complaints, 'cause apparently yelling at the game isn't hotel friendly. Personally, I just didn't like the cramp rooms, sepper floors, and no real space to hang out. It was tough to relax between shows. After a few cities, we decided to switch things up and book homes through Airbnb instead, and honestly, it changed the game. Yes, suddenly, the vibe of our tour was completely different. We had kitchens to cook, meals together, living rooms to chill, and even shared space for everyone to actually hang out comfortably. Even a little extras made a difference. Backyards for games, lounges for planning bits for the next show, it felt more like a home away from home. Yeah, being together in one space made downtime between shows way more fun, and it definitely made the live shows feel even better. We love going on tour no matter what, but booking it through Airbnb just made it all way better. Have you ever had Chris Bappel before? Yeah. It's so good. It's your favorite? It's not my favorite. Oh. Well, if you can't tell, it's my favorite. Did you ever be said? What? Did you just ignore us? I think she completely missed it. It's also like a Chris Bappel. I missed it. What did you say? Natalie wants to come on the podcast. So, that is why I'm wearing a team Natalie's shirt. You're going to-- You're so fake. What? Did you give her or address? No, I haven't given her the address. But-- If Natalie comes on the podcast, then I'm not doing it. Well, listen, hear me out. Natalie, when we were talking to her, when we were getting the car back, she was like, "Hey, can I come on and apologize to Harper?" Well, I don't know if she said apologize. Yeah, I think she did. She was like, "I want to apologize, essentially." Right? Mm-hmm. So I was like, "Okay, that seems like a good idea." Mm-hmm. So, what do you think? No. Sorry. The Chris Bappel went down the wrong way. Yeah, if she comes on the podcast, I'm not doing it. Like, I'm not going to-- No, no, I'm not going to be in the same room as somebody who stole my car. Don't you? Yeah, that's fair. Yeah, that was a little weird, Cash. Why would you-- Yes, but listen, but listen. She says there was a miscommunication. Yes. There was no communication. That's why I was miscommunication. She was trying to ask. She said, "Yeah, listen. You can think she's a little crazy." But she said she is. She was coming there to ask. And then, she impulsively thought it'd be good for content, stole the car, realized this is a bad idea. All I know is when somebody wants to apologize, you should at least hear him out. You know what I'm saying? So your letter apologized on camera instead of like a real apology? Just the two of them? Oh, that's good. She using me. Yeah. She's not using-- No, she's not. Nobody's using you for apology. Look, she wants you to look. Oh, man. No, she was wanting me to let her come on the pod. Well, yeah, no. She knows you obviously aren't going to let her. No, if she comes on the podcast, it's a 99% chance that she's not cut. Like, I'm not going to say hi to her. Yeah, I don't exactly trust her either. I don't want to see her in person. After I saw that video, I'm not seeing her in person. I wouldn't. But if someone wants to apologize, you need to hear them out. She can send a letter in the mail if she wants to communicate that badly. Or-- She knows where you live. What if we bring her on the podcast, but we keep her in chains? Yes. Yes. We change her and make her wear an orange jumpsuit. She should already be changed up right now. Wait, but would that satisfy you if we brought on the pod and she agrees to wear an orange jumpsuit with chains? No. It won't satisfy me. No. That would really satisfy me. It would satisfy me if she went to jail right now. Mm-hmm. So. Mm-hmm. Yeah, but. Or we could do the whole humiliation thing with chains. I don't think that's humulating to her. She, like, wears ankle monitors in her video. Yeah. In the public. That's true. Social anxiety fears her. Have you not seen the comments? That is true. That is true. They say, like, social anxiety fears her because she goes to, like, swall dreams and freaking dresses up, like, uh, freaking the simpsons and all the people. Yeah. Yeah. I can't even go through the McDonald's drive-thru and say something weird without, like, my whole body shaking, almost getting a wreck. Really? Yeah. Yes, one time we were having her try to do a prank at a drive-thru and she said, I can't. I just can't. I just drove off and we're like, we need to get a robot off of that food. She's like, what? I feel so bad for them. I have boogers on my nose. That's awesome. You can fill them when you want. I said we'd take the boat. Kinsey, what do you think? She can't do what I can't do. I can't do it. It drives off. I can't really come on if she agrees. If she agrees beforehand that she's going to apologize if she's sorry. You can't make me do sorry. No, because you can, like, fake that. Yeah. What? It's not sincere, obviously. But you've got to give her a chance. I say we bring her off for the views. Yes. That's, I've not even thought about that. Well, are you all going to think about me? That's crazy. No, I'm kidding. If you don't want to-- Oh, yeah, there's Harper. No, we don't need her off. And it's kind of crazy. I don't really want her at the house. I don't want her anywhere in my, like, I don't want her, like, we have her shading. Like, we have her shading order, like-- But imagine how many clicks that get. Yeah, I wouldn't-- No, I forgive her. I was kidding. You know, not the clicks. It wouldn't have been a lot of views, but it's just like, I don't want that-- Like, I don't want that to be the main reason why she's coming in, because I don't-- I don't want that. Unfortunately. Is there a world now, Harper, where, like, any world at all, where you and Natalie, you know? No. No. Befriend, dab up. That's questionable. Considering her car was stolen. I know, I know. I just feel like it's for-- like, if Cash were to steal someone's car, everyone would be like, oh, it's Cash. Right. I think it's just because everyone already kind of, like, has this feeling of hatred towards her, which-- And everybody that's fake, honestly. I woke up this morning and everybody's like, this is fake. It's not fake. It wasn't really fake when you were ordering your $15 bloom, was it? Well, it was $9.28. That's not very fake, is it? Yeah. When you have a pay $9. That's going to be a fake fake. It's been, like, halfway full since, like, 11 this morning, because I'm so scared. It's going to run out. Hey, guys, comment down below if you guys think, now, let's you come on. Comment down below. Actually, you don't got a comment team, Natalie. But you can comment, like, have Natalie on or don't have Natalie on. That was real clever. And whatever the top comment is, it has the most likes. That's what we're going to do. Or press charges against Natalie. That's going to be the whole thing. But you don't know where you should do it. Wait, members, hold on. Yeah, I want you guys to all stand-- y'all all got these team harbor shirts on. Put your money where y'all's mouth is, huh? Yes, you can be team harbor. Because-- I did not wish somebody to go to jail for their silly, like, content. Silly content? I know. Okay, that came out wrong. I know it was not right. But at the same time-- oh, that's what I was saying. If Cash were to do it, we'd just be like, oh, it's just Cash. I'll bring the car back. Yeah, that makes it way too far. I agree. But that's why you guys should at least stand firm. You should be a team led her apologize. Or b, send her to jail. It should be wanted too. You either want justice, or you want forgiveness? Yes, but here's the thing. I think she just wants to apologize, so she feels better. Huh? For her? Yeah, like she's still better. So you're saying we should send her to jail. No, you don't have to send her to jail, but you don't have to give her the satisfaction of being like, oh, it's okay. You don't have to give her that satisfaction. You don't have to say it's okay. I mean, you still forgive her, but forgive and don't forget. Yeah. Exactly. Forgive her, but tell her like. Forgive and don't forget. Still hurt. That's literally what I did with all my friends that didn't let her be dirty. Forgive, but don't forget. Yes. For instance, you might forgive her, but you won't forget to take your jeans. Yeah. Now we're gonna remember that now. So I'm scraping off the um. Oh, no. Don't share that. Whatever you're scraping, we don't want to know. She said that in one of our first podcast episodes ever. Are you chewing on the. Yeah. Don't choke on it. Oh. You're gonna cut your tongue. That's what I like. What? Wait, can you say it? I'd be like, are you chewing on a bottle can? Why would she? What? What is it called? A tab? A bottle cap. It's a tab. Harper, are you chewing on the bottle cap thing? No. Wait, why'd y'all just do that? No, we're reenacting it. Are y'all sure we did that? Yes. I remember it. On our first episode. Yes. Not our first, but one of our first. Oh. Somebody make an edit out of it. I'm gonna find it. Anyways. Kate, what's your opinion? Shouldn't we either want justice and send her to jail? Which isn't really up to us anyways. It's up to Harper's parents. Or. Shouldn't we let her apologize? Uh. If she wants to apologize, sure. But I think we just send her to jail. Yeah. Team Harper. I'm really ruthless. I got it. She is. Yeah. Oh. Yeah. Oh wow. Wait, wait, wait. Let me watch this so we can recreate it perfectly. Okay. No, we're just now we're doing right now. Harper, are you chewing on the. Yeah. Don't choke on it. Oh. That's what I like. What? What the heck? Your voice is so cute. That's right. That's right. That's right. This is a super past thing. Three, two, one, go. Yeah. Don't choke. That's what I like. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. Listen, we can talk about it more off camera if you guys want, but. I am kind of for some sort of arrangement. Yeah. Really? Maybe not her coming here. I have another shirt. Maybe it's a video call. You need to take that shirt off. You're a faker. No, maybe like a video call. Take your shirt off. Thank you. I did think that you should talk to her. I'm not being real. I think you should have a mature conversation. And then you never have to speak to her ever again. There's a lot of opinions going around right now. It should be live streamed. You don't deserve that. It is a lot of opinions. At the end of the day, it's up to Harper. So whatever you decide. I'm gonna back you up. Sorry, no. She's not coming on. Okay? She's not coming on. Unless the top comment says have Natalie on. Okay. Cash is just here for the piece. It would be a good clip. So possibly. But it's like, if she shows up. It'd be your chance to say your piece. No, if she shows up and I'm. If the top comment says it. If she shows up on canceling her. You're canceling her? - Mom is getting tired. - Yes. - Kisses. and it's not gonna be out of forever. - If the top comment says-- - Get a liposuction on this and then I'll-- - I don't need liposuction. It's pure muscle. - Yeah, there's already skin. There's a muscle up here, but there's skin down there. - No, that's muscle. - That's so crazy. - Hey, my hands aren't gonna be in for it. - I don't want us to shake your hand. - I wouldn't need it. It's kind of sweaty right now. - But-- - Yeah, you're definitely-- - Fine, fist bump. - No. - If that's the top comment. - Wait, what is it? If the top comment says, "Now I should come on," yes. But I probably will freak out. - Thank you. (laughing) - Yay. - And I want all y'all to stand by that. I stand by, but I do think it should be like, maybe a video call or something. I don't know if she should come on the pot. - Yeah. - I think if Natalie comes on-- - But you'll at least have a conversation with her. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - I think if Natalie comes on, you should be required to do skull crushers the whole time to work on your flab. - Yeah. - I don't have the whole time. - Oh, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. - The point really fast. I just went point really fast. 'Cause I shake too and also don't mind myself, Dan, I know. - Good point. - No, no, no, you can't flex. - Just point. - No, you're flex. (laughing) - No, you have to be normal. Like, you just have to point normal. - I am? - That's not a point. I'd be like, you there. - I don't know, does anybody not have that? - Nope. - Why is that the thing girls are insecure about? - I've never once thought about this. - No, we all have it, like mine shakes too, but passionately-- - You're sick a lot right there. - That's 'cause I got a lot of muscle. - Yeah, I know for sure. - Let me see. - It's an absurd amount. - Ooh. - Mine shakes too, it's fine. - I think guys have more because when your muscles are relaxed, they still shake. So I think guys-- - That's what I told you the other day. I said, like, look at this. - Right? - That's my soul. - Ew, that is a natural water bed. - That's an actual water bed. - Ew, that's one. - That's one. - That's literally a water bed. - That's kind of like a water bed. - I always wanted a water bed. We should get one on here. - A water bed? - A water bed. - I don't think our floor can support that. - Kate told me the scariest thing the other day. I need you to confirm if this is true. - Okay. - She said sometimes itches her ear at night and she accidentally sticks her finger in her ear. - And stabs herself? - Yeah. - And she starts bleeding. So you have to hold her arms down. - Yeah, so then we get-- - And then she won't quite either. So like, watch. - I'm like, I can't do this. - At your ear right here. I'm like, no, no. No. And then she starts hitting me back, trying to do it. She's like, it's just too bad. I can't. - No. - Okay, stop it, stop it. - Yeah, I sleep through the whole thing. - Yeah, and then she fights herself. No, even when you're awake, you fight me. And you're like, I take it back, I need to inch it. Don't stop me. - I had a friend, we were probably like 16 and she would have really bad night terrors. And her mom would find her the next morning with like scrapes and like bruises on her head. And they finally put cameras in her room. And she was waking up and like scratching her face and she like hit her head on the head. - Oh. - And so they had to like chain her down to sleep at night. - Oh my gosh. - Yeah. - Oh my gosh. - We were walking in their stories. - Tases handcuffed, she's like my ear. - Why did you say that so casually? She was like, yeah, it was bad. So then they chained her down to sleep at night. Anyways. - I had a friend also. I used to spend the night at her house and her little brother had night terrors. But he was like five. But he would go, they had to end up putting one of those, what are they called? Like baby gates at his doorway. Because he would walk around at night. But he would go up to the baby gate and he would just sit there and he would just scream. But one night I was staying the night at her house and we made a mattress on the floor in her room and her bedroom door was open. So my face is like in the bedroom door and across the hall is his. And this was the first time I stayed at their house and I didn't realize what was happening. And she didn't tell me. And I just woke up and he's sitting there like. (exhaling) Like screaming at the top. - Oh my gosh. - And I was like, oh no. - What did you do? I was just like, hey, hey. There was something going on. She was like, how? - He was dreaming of Natalie. (laughing) - I'd probably do that when I was dreaming of Natalie. No, one of my friends or one of my sister's friends, her brother woke up and he was foaming of the mouth. - Oh no. - Oh. - Oh. - It's kind of got the rabies. - Doesn't that mean you're like dying? - Yes. He almost showed, he was like, oh, I felt so bad. - Wait, that's sad. I thought you were kidding. - And then the next day his like toe got ran over. - Oh, I'm so rough. - Sorry. Let you run over my toe actually, yeah, man's been saying that - That's not funny. - The next day, toe got ran over. Always says it and then I'm like all right. Let me run over I'll lay out pepper spray me because the pain is temporary. I feel like I'll let me shoot you in the leg the pain Temporary. Yeah, the pain is temporary But that would like actually kill me about probably three to four months of pain Getting pepper spray isn't like pain. It's pain for like 30 minutes. No, I think it's like an hour like even when you go shower Like it just you know it's for sure gone. I don't know but I'll do it when you turn 18. I'll pepper spray you What can I pepper spray you? When I turn 35 You're just gonna walk out just like that. Yeah - Not by Pepper's for you. - No, listen, listen. And 10 years, you're gonna be 35, like around 10 years and I'm gonna be, I'm gonna be, I'm gonna be, I'm gonna be like 20, 28, 28. - No, in 10 years, you're not gonna be 23. - You'll be 27, in 10 years. - You'll be 27 and I'll be 33. We'll be like, actually the older you get. - Do you all think the podcast makes it 10 years? - Yeah. - It's already at three. We only need seven years. - Seven years. - We're on episode close, like episode 300. - This might be episode 300, we're really close. Think about that. We're almost a third away there. - You know what's crazy too? - That seems impossible. - Yeah. - We're over a quarter away there. - The older we all get to, think about this. People won't even know who's older and who's younger. I think by the time we're 30. - I mean the Uber driver thought I was older than you. - They did. - Yeah. - Yeah, that's what I'm saying, but imagine. - What? - Yeah, we were like, who's older and they were like, probably we're-- - Where is this? - A Uber driver? I don't know where he is now. - Where were you when this happened? on, were we on tour? - On the podcast. - Oh, oh, yes, yes, yes, yes. We asked him on the pod and they were sitting right there and we were like, who do y'all think's older? And he was like, definitely the girl. - Isn't that weird? - Definitely his voice. - Yes, that's not what he was also wearing that weird beanie thing that he always wears. - But it's not weird thing. When we all are like, when I'm like 35. - I'm 27. - No, you're not. - Or when I'm 27 and you're 35. - That's physically impossible. How do you know that happened? I'm 17 you're six years old there So when you're 30 I'll be 36 Yeah, and Kate will be held 33 34 34 34. What they'll be like 38. That doesn't even seem that bad Like it's like it seems like we said that's what I was saying the old everybody gets for like this y'all are like the same age You feel really old by like or I so feel old to you. I thought I felt less old to you now. No - Because she's in high school. It's like in my stage of life. - No, no, it's so weird. It's like, I feel like y'all are all my parents. - Where's the old one to graduate? You'll be like, dang, everyone becomes the same. - Yeah. - After you graduate, like everyone, all the way from like 18 to like-- - 'Cause when you close friends with Pape and Chase and they were 10 years older than you? - 10 years older. - And y'all were just friends, right? - They were going to Florida together just for fun. Yep. - That's so cool. - Him and Chase. - I mean, they're still 10 years older than us and we still-- - Not Pape and me. Him and Chase. - I just went to Florida. - Yeah, just me and Chase, we were like 10 year age gap. And even still we're like best friends. - And like five years y'all are gonna like settle down on your land, half kids. - And five years you could set it on half kids before us. - Heck no. - Good, never know. - And five years you'll be, what, 22, 23. - Technically you could get married and have kids in like two years. - Wow. - Why can't now? - A year from now, Harper is when Kate got married. - No, less than a year. - Less than a year, that's crazy. - 'Cause when's your birthday? March 20th yeah, so like in like nine months from now like 10 months or no You're you're basically married. I'm basically you're like you're gonna need to start worrying about retirements Yeah, you're basically Mary. You're almost at age. I wasn't we started the podcast Whoa, yeah, whoa That is so weird. That's so weird. It's like Henry danger when we like you know when we all like they all get old I dare watch everybody hates them because they're old and they're not cute anymore. Oh No, no, no, I thought hitters my crush. I have such a big crush on Harry danger. He's so hot sure you get him on the park He hasn't been active in two yeah two years now really where you at Henry? - Oh my gosh, seriously. - No, she's not coming. - Seriously? - No, she's not coming.

Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. The speaker was stranded without transportation after Harper took her car, claiming she was "ditched" twice and left keys in the vehicle.
  2. The speaker agrees to return the car in exchange for a meeting with Harper, facilitated through a podcast appearance or video call, to resolve tensions.
  3. Harper’s actions—such as stealing the car and leaving it in a messy condition—are framed as emotionally and morally problematic, though her parents have accepted the situation.
  4. The speaker is skeptical about Natalie’s intention to apologize, viewing it as performative and possibly manipulative, despite her desire for accountability.
  5. A public vote from the audience will determine whether Natalie appears on the podcast, with the top-commented choice winning.
  6. The group expresses strong disagreement on whether to forgive or punish Natalie, with some advocating for a public apology and others pushing for accountability or consequences.
  7. A recurring theme is the balance between forgiveness and holding onto grievances, with the sentiment that one should forgive but not forget.
  8. The conversation reflects deeper social dynamics, including public perception, influence of content, and the role of personal trauma in interpersonal conflicts.

Summary:

The speaker recounts being left stranded after Harper took her car, claiming she "ditched" them twice and left keys in the vehicle. The speaker refuses to return the car without a direct conversation with Harper, arguing she should have been held accountable. After a meeting with Natalie and her boyfriend, the group agrees to a compromise: Natalie will be allowed to apologize on the podcast, but only if it’s a public, audience-voted event.

The speaker expresses skepticism about Natalie’s sincerity, noting her actions appear performative and driven by content strategy rather than genuine remorse. The group debates whether to forgive or punish, ultimately supporting forgiveness with the condition that the pain and betrayal are not forgotten. A public vote will determine if Natalie appears, with the top-commented choice prevailing.

The conversation also touches on deeper themes of trust, social anxiety, personal boundaries, and the power of public opinion. Ultimately, the speaker emphasizes that while forgiveness is possible, it must not come at the cost of personal integrity or emotional healing. The episode ends with a humorous reflection on aging and generational changes, noting that the group will grow older and may no longer recognize each other’s age.

FAQs

Harper took the car because she felt stranded and believed she had no alternative after being left without transportation, despite the car having keys left in the vehicle.

The conflict arose because Harper had previously ditched the narrator twice, leaving them without transportation, and the narrator felt this was unfair and unjust, especially as Harper had promised to meet them.

Yes, the narrator claims Harper left the keys in her car, which allowed the narrator to access and eventually take the vehicle, leading to the dispute.

The narrator proposed a face-to-face conversation with Harper through a podcast or video call, insisting on a direct dialogue to resolve the conflict without further conflict or escalation.

It depends on the audience's vote — if the top comment says 'have Natalie on,' then she will appear; otherwise, she will not, as the final decision is determined by viewer engagement.

The group agrees that while forgiveness is possible, it should not come with forgetting the harm; they believe in forgiving but not forgetting, and that justice should be respected without being overly punitive.

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