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we need to get out more - ep. 17

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we need to get out more - ep. 17

This week we get into how we pack and prepare for trips, why being out and about in New York feels so different from life in Los Angeles, and our ongoing mission to get out of the house more. We also talk about Vic surprising Doni, love languages, and why missing each other might actually be a good thing. Basically, a very random episode filled with travel thoughts, relationship realizations, and a reminder that we probably need more friends.   0:00 Living with Family 2:23 Content we Consume (Anxiety from Euphoria) 9:57 Our Gucci Cruise Trip & How We Travel 16:46 NYC vs LA 22:26 Vic’s Surprise for Doni 25:59 Love Languages 31:15 The Best Night of Our Lives 35:00 We Need More Friends   Baddie 2 Baddie Phoneline: Need advice only a baddie can give? Have some tea to spill or a story to share? Send us a voice note to be featured on the show: https://sayhi.chat/baddie2baddiebetterhalf   Follow Better Half: https://www.instagram.com/betterhalfpodcast/?hl=en https://www.tiktok.com/@betterhalfpodcast https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61588018913258 https://www.youtube.com/@betterhalfpodcast   Follow Stas: https://www.instagram.com/staskaranikolaou/?hl=en https://www.tiktok.com/@stassiebaby?lang=en https://www.youtube.com/@Staskaranikolaou   Follow Vic: https://www.instagram.com/victoriavillarroel/?hl=en https://www.tiktok.com/@victoriavillarroell?lang=en https://www.youtube.com/@victoriavillarroel   By submitting a voice message, materials, or story, you understand and agree that your submission may be featured on this podcast. You grant Better Half with Stas & Vic a non-exclusive, perpetual, irrevocable, royalty-free, worldwide license in any and all media to use, edit, publish, and distribute your audio submission and any related name/information in our podcast episodes, videos, and promotional materials across all platforms. You represent and warrant that the content you submit is solely owned and controlled by you, that you have the right to grant this permission, and the permission of no other person is necessary for our use. You acknowledge your voice message, story, and materials shall not defame, disparage, invade the privacy of, portray in a false light, or violate the rights of any person. You will indemnify and hold harmless Better Half and its parent corporation, partners, producers, and talent (including Stas & Vic) from any claims or damages that arise from our use of your submission. See omnystudio.com/listener for privacy information.

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getting to a great idea is hard in college nonsensical essays cringe-inducing presentations and seemingly unsolvable problem sets but then the first thought becomes a final thesis jumbled slides transform into a polished keynote and that midterm assignment gets a lot less mid because the road to great ideas is littered with bad ones you just have to keep going until something clicks great ideas start on mac find out more on apple.com slash college this is matt rogers from lost culture east us with matt rogers and bowen yang this is bowen yang from lost culture east us with matt rogers and bowen yang you know when people try a new food and suddenly it's like okay hold on i got a new favorite food that's the reaction a lot of people are having when they first try cupi mayo yeah it's the one with the red cap and the little baby on the bottle you've probably seen it at the grocery store and this mayo is different most mayonnaise uses whole eggs cupi only uses egg yolk which gives it this rich umami flavor it's smoother deeper almost buttery once people try it they start putting it on everything egg sandwiches fries burgers chefs use it restaurants use it people who really care about flavor use it put it on just about anything then you'll understand cupi the original japanese mayonnaise amazon pharmacy presents painful thoughts of course i see my co-worker in line at the pharmacy can you tell i'm picking up prescription hemorrhoid cream i'm probably standing waiting weird why is he smiling he knows he's gonna call me hemorrhoid lloyd tomorrow i know it i gotta quit my job next time avoid awkward conversations and get fast free delivery with amazon pharmacy health care just got less painful jan on the street hi it's jan from toyota summer's not over at the national sales event so i'm taking to the streets to see how people are keeping summer fun with a new toyota excuse me how are you making summer last longer with your toyota driving my bz to the park to play kickball with friends kickball is life love the passion jan on the street event ends august 31st dealer inventory may vary see your participating toyota dealer for details toyota let's go places this is danielle official from pod meets world back to school shopping used to be so simple and then my kids developed opinions apparently not just any shoe will do luckily famous footwear makes that part easy because they carry all the brands they actually want like nike adidas new balance jordan and more everyone gets the shoes they want i get great prices and we can cross one more thing off the back to school list that's a parenting win in my book right now it's bogo buy one pair get one half off at famous footwear shop in store to get ten dollars to spend this fall some exclusions apply plus join famous rewards to get their best benefits including free shipping welcome back to the better half i said that i have whatever that doesn't matter our brains aren't on full capacity right now we're honestly a little hungry but we were decided we were gonna eat our dinner after we filmed yes so we're both drinking water i think yeah do you have anything fun i wish i had like a crisp coca-cola sounds amazing i'm just having water with electrolytes okay let's talk current events how has it been having chichi live with you chichi's been so fun i'm trying to turn her into an influencer which a girl with your mom with your daughter no i'm just throwing her in all my content and she's just so funny and we're having the best time we just went to bulgaria together for like a a project that i can't really say what it is yet but you guys will just have to wait a few months but she came to me as my plus one and it was so fun she flew first class she loved it now it's gonna be hard going back for her like once you experience a little luxury oh it's hard it is and it's just been so fun speaking of i need to see my shiloh bear it's been a while since i've seen him yeah how is it for you having alexia gone to nashville you know it's really hard but i'm trying to i try not to think about it because i feel like they'll come back a lot do you tell the pod that they left i don't know if i told the pod i think i only told the vlog but basically my sister obviously we were born and raised here and i'm trying to think about it because i feel in california and she recently just moved with my nieces and her husband to nashville and it's been quite the adjustment i know of not seeing them every day and they had sold their house and they had an overlap of when they sold their house and when their new like mortgage or like whatever they bought their house when it went through in nashville so they were staying here for like three weeks so i got to see the babies every day you know it was amazing amazing also really hard combining our schedules and the baby's schedules under one roof but i miss them and it's sad yeah are they coming back soon um i think she said end of august so that'll be oh yeah it's a while four months we should go to nashville i've never been what with what time girl i don't know we'll find some time and euphoria are you watching it i saw it i saw it i know he died i saw yeah i saw that too on tiktok but then i saw that episode he was giving me a lot of anxiety that's why i couldn't sleep him being trapped you'll see he's like he's like in the coffin or something but he's underground and he can't get out in like a little coffin like that's like my one of my biggest nightmares yeah i would just like and do have no sanics around no so like so like it's you your thoughts and until you like until you like lose air and or dehydrated because he's like there's a hole that's open and he can yell to the top and but he's obviously no one hears him there's like a little top oh so they gave him air so he died of starvation and dehydration no i'm not gonna tell you how he dies you need to watch it anyway i'm gonna watch it tonight have you started off campus yes i love it i love it so much actually no no no no it took me back to college and like did i do it right i mean i didn't go i know but like oh my god like it's just so obviously it was written by a woman for a woman yeah because that character does not exist yeah yeah yeah right i think so i don't i don't think yeah what episode are you on i'm on five i finished like in one sitting i couldn't you did well i'm waiting for gm me and my cousin's staying with me because she stays with me during the summer when i travel a lot so she could be with the kitties and she's staying with me and every night like we're trying to find a time together to watch the show and it's some like last night i had to re-watch two episodes with her so that we could watch the one that i hadn't seen see it's hard and then i realized that when i got my better july v i thought i was totally fine watching it and i didn't remember anything a whole episode victoria i don't like committing to people to watch i know i'm a single watcher because now we go downstairs and we watch right put on our show and we like wait for each other to watch it it's like a cute little i'm selfish activity i'm selfish when it comes to shows i'll watch them when i want when i want like if he gets mad like we'll re-watch it but i'm just like i need to finish it like if i'm super addicted i just can't stop and wait especially if the whole show is out it's out yes have you started the dutton bethen yes obviously i haven't started that so good too i like it did you see the crash i saw the crash i haven't seen it either she definitely did it right i haven't seen it oh well she definitely did it i think it's hard to prove obviously because i wasn't never we'll never know we'll never know oh my god you guys we were watching off campus me and my cousin and like she is 19 i'm 10 years older than her oh my god i'm 10 years older than her anyways that's a lot so we're sitting there and obviously it's like it's not even just like the sex scene if you watch the show this if you haven't watched the show this might give a little spoiler it's not even the sex scene it is the scene where they're like fucking masturbating in front of each other and we're sitting there on the couch like not making eye contact and i can't tell if she's uncomfortable or not watching this with me and i was like you know for me it's like i don't give a fuck to watch it but i'm like i need to break the ice somehow so i'm like could you imagine filming this it's so crazy and she like broke down and started laughing and was like we broke the ice but it was so funny because i was like is she uncomfortable watching the sex scene with me or do you think she's fine and then like the toe curl part we were like oh my god she's like she's like she's like she's like we're dying like once i opened it up she was like because at first she was being so quiet yeah and then once i made the joke she like started making comments about it like how funny it is i was um speaking of the show please you followed the boys i saw well i follow them yes they both have girlfriends it's not like that but i'm gonna follow soon but that's not even the point the point is i'm watching the show and i'm i'm you know i'm a little high when i'm watching the shows and you know what's happening to me a lot recently what when i'm high like yesterday i was crying laughing because i'm like this act there are actors everywhere they're just memorizing lines and i'm like and then but then i start to really like and i'm like oh wait he's definitely trying to remember what he you know like let's say two people are talking you're like clocking i'm like wait he's definitely thinking what he's gonna say next like so everyone's just acting and when i remember that everyone's acting he just whatever i'm going to no no no i don't know if i'm making any sense because i'm a little high now yeah the one time i got high I remember I put, not the one time, but what I remember time i got hi i put vampire diaries on my favorite show of all time i can re-watch that show see every episode and i'll still bawl my eyes out i put it on and i was like shocked i couldn't watch it because i was like how are they filming this their actors like imagine going up to someone and pretending like you're a vampire and biting their neck like i was i took me out of the show fully i was like how are they doing this i would be so mortified and embarrassed like imagine i was like action do it again and it's hard i couldn't watch the show i can't i i don't so i don't know how you watch off campus high because that would be like no no it happened it didn't have it was like the finale because i was traveling i started watching it before i left bulgaria so i watched the whole plane ride the last two episodes i watched at home and that's when i smoked i couldn't do it but off campus it happens for for example off campus i don't know that they're new actors right yes so the fact that we don't know them it makes it easier exactly just like heater rivalries all new people yeah it's harder when you like when you've seen them and you're like oh well you've acted in this one thing i don't know when this it was making me spiral last night speaking of weed people want to know what the weed i smoke oh yeah which i still need to try it's been i'm just scared i would i would i wanted to do a giveaway but they told me i was like i'm gonna get a package i don't think we can send weed right and if we're wrong comment down below but i really don't think we can but my favorite is cbx yes i like this one called cereal milk and that's what i smoke and i have lots of it at home so every time someone comes like my the girl that does my nails i always send her home with a joint or two that's your little gift from for visiting for vicky i have my joint and my side table you have an open girl when was johnny's birthday the whole podcast knows february no january so it's been five months since i've had this joint girl is it still good i don't know just check maybe it's less strong if it's expired and that's good for me stars people want to know what shoes you were wearing on your central park dump oh i was wearing my ripetto ballet flats victoria nice oh well it wasn't me it was a fan that asked okay i have a pair of ripettos and they gave me crazy blisters really that's what kylie because kylie gave me those ripettos because she was like they give me blisters and they fit me great interesting they're really comfortable for me i wish maybe you need a size down maybe because my because i think blisters when they're too when they're too when it's big and it's rubbing oh so maybe you need a half size down okay next time i'm in paris i think she needed a half size down that's what and they fit me good got it got it let's get into our new york debrief let's do it gucci reached out to our teams and invited us to the gucci cruise show we both got invited separately obviously it's so exciting when that happens when we get that email on the that subject on the email inbox you freak out i freak out she freaked out we both freaked out and then we like text each other in invisible ink like oh my god i got invited to the show and she's like me too so then the excitement begins yes we start planning outfits and our itinerary and our travel we want to be on the same flight but then we weren't no we were yeah we were planning our you know sorry everything's getting mushed in there literally i know we did okay anyway so we got invited we said yes we said yes to the dress we said yes of course we said yes and then we started prepping for the trip which is always a long process the way that me and vick prep for a trip is so stressful well you she stresses me out to be honest no no you stress me out because i'm like let me know what you're wearing so i can plan my outfits because i want to know like i love how vick styles herself so i'm like i want to go on the vibe that she's going to go on so that we look like we're on the same vibe together and so let me know what you're going to pack are you going to wear a dress are you going to wear jeans like are we going dressier are we going more casual well stas usually gets a stylist so she'll have fittings yes and then she'll send me photos by the end of the fitting but i am i am the last minute she's like last i'll pack the night before and i'm just making out like an hour before the screen in my room in my room is a mess and it's hard to like keep her updated until i'm done with everything and i'm like are you taking photos to show me what you're packing and i'm like hold on like let me just finish but then she likes all my outfits yeah they're all so cute but then i i have this girl megan that's helping me she's helping me pack sometimes when i leave town is that crazy it's nice to have someone that's organized when you're not it's nice is she type a she's super type a and she makes me like she made like i'm like i'm in the room putting on putting on outfits throwing stuff and she's like catching things i'm packing them by outfits and it makes it so much easier to travel like that because my brain packs really bad and it's nice to have help sas she'll ask me like what are you wearing on the plane and i'm like girl i don't know like i'm gonna decide tomorrow after a shower she's like at 3 a.m and i'm like yes and then if i get to the airport with something that she doesn't have she'll be like what is this why didn't you tell me you were bringing a blanket on the plane why didn't you tell me you and i'm like sorry first tell us like i'm just you know i like to be planned like i lay i'm the type that lays my outfit out the night before on the plane my travel bag is packed i have all the documents in my travel bag my outfit my underwear my socks my shoes are underneath on my dresser ready for me to shower and then put my outfit on and leave the house so are we bringing blankets because if she's gonna have a blanket and deal with the weight of carrying an annoying blanket i'm also gonna do it because i want to be cozy as well but i don't want to have to be dealing with a blanket if she's not dealing with her blanket lately those planes have been hot those planes have been hot but you know what vick did and it's the best thing that it's ever happened to me the barefoot dreams poncho because you don't have to carry the blanket you just wear the blanket wear it throw it over throw it over put the hood on and then you're in a barefoot dreams cocoon on your flight it's the best especially when the plane is cold yeah this one time victoria what did i do chose the pod over like she was trying to choose the pods single solo pod over sitting next to me on the plane always and i was like i did to my mom in bulgaria and i gave her a pot too i said experience the single pod yeah it's just nicer even if you're traveling with someone else you just have more room and if it's available why not yeah ain't that the truth sister especially if we're gonna be sleeping or locked into our ipads that's one thing that i do and i cannot i cannot get on a flight with without my ipad fully charged with a thousand options a thousand options series tv shows you name it everything princess diaries lizzie mcguire movie inception like i have like a variety of things downloaded so that in your mood when you're deciding like what you want to watch you have the option noise canceling headphones oh i cannot donnie travels with the wired and i'm like oh i travel with both no no i need them i need to because i hate the on the plane that you can hear throughout the whole flight yeah yeah the engine the engine i don't like i don't want to hear it so i just put those on earplugs i have to put earplugs when i sleep on planes you do yep it makes a world difference wow i didn't know that a big cozy eye mask the one from amazon that we have so good you need hand cream you get so dry up there hand sanitizer lysol wipes then wipes i was doing them wipes but i kind of spray like the sos yeah tower 28 something to get the eye patches yeah you name it we got it yeah yeah oh we did travel bags are so damn heavy no we have everything everything you could imagine um we did land in new york city and we took a shortcut home we took a helicopter from the airport to like the landing strip to get to our hotel quicker because the traffic in new york city when we landed was so terrible and we had to get to the airport and we had to get to the airport had a chase car because you can't take luggage on the helicopter so the chase car got our luggage and drove it to the hotel yes and me and victoria we checked in we had a full dinner and we were leaving dinner and that's when our bags got there that's how much earlier like how much time we saved helicoptering i feel like people don't a lot of people might not know about blade yeah i don't know because everyone like that i talked to like my family like what do you mean i'm like it's a helicopter uber yeah they i think the price is what's how much it's like 350 350 to to 400 or something so it just depends i think businessmen use it a lot when they have yes there's always there's always there's always a man with this uh always a man on that helicopter but it's so quick you get in go up fly for like five minutes five minutes and then you land in the city it's really right there they have two locations too so you can pick which location is closer to your hotel obviously i always i've done it twice only the expert this is matt rogers from lost culture east that's with matt rogers and bowen yang this is bowen yang from lost culture east with matt rogers and bowen yang you know when people try a new food and suddenly it's like wait that's the reaction a lot of people are having when they first try cutie mayo it's the one with the red cap and the little baby on the bottle you've probably seen it in the grocery store 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Plus, join Famous Rewards to get their best benefits, including free shipping. I've done it twice. And the two times have been perfect, beautiful weather. Not a cloud in the sky. Yeah, I don't think it works if it's like I did it when it was a little windy once. That's when he was choppy. We had to take a little break because we needed a nice cold glass of wine to tell you about the rest of our festivities in New York. I love New York City. I feel like it's so much more like I have. First of all, I care about looking cute. And I feel like in LA, I just always wear what you see me in. I get excited about putting on cute outfits, taking cute photos. I'm just being out. I'm feeling like Carrie Bradshaw from Sex and the City. All you want to do is have a martini outside. Here, all I want to do is smoke weed and go under my sheets and turn in a movie and like hug myself like. Yeah, but when it's a warm summer night here, we're not doing anything. It gives me some like when me and Aria went to that cute little wine bar, Studio City, and we sat outside tank tops, warm summer night. Sun was sets late and we got wine. Wine tipsy. That gives me so much joy. We just don't do it anymore. We're not doing anything. And I feel like there's so many cuter places. Well, I'm just saying even that bar we had fun at. I feel like we just have to leave the house. We don't leave the house. How do we leave the house, you guys? There's so many cute bars, like so many cute, even restaurants. Like what's that place that we like? What's it called? Oh, I don't know. Think, think. You've been there. It's going to bother me because it's such a good restaurant. Best restaurant. Hold on one second. In Venice. Dudley Market. Dudley Market. Dudley Market. You guys, it's such a good restaurant in Venice. Cute vibes. What's it called? The organic wine people like? Orange? Orange wine. Orange wine, lobster, you name it. Like it's so cute and it's by, it's on Venice. So it's just like, it's a whole community out there. That's what I want to do for my birthday. Okay, perfect. Dudley Market dinner. I want to go. I want to be day drunk in Venice all day. We should go to RVR. It's a Japanese restaurant in Venice by this, from the former Jelena chef. Okay. In Abu Dhabi. What can you eat? Apparently it's like the cutest little place. Look how good that food looks. Like you're not liking that roll. I'm not going to eat that roll, but I'm going to eat this. I'm going to eat the rest. Like those yozas. We're trying to figure out what to do for my birthday because I was supposed to be gone for three weeks. We're leaving in two days. No, we're leaving in one day. We have one more day before we leave. Yeah, we don't have that much time. And I was supposed to be gone for three whole weeks, but now I'm going to be gone for two weeks and I come back for the three days. Reset. Reset. Work out. Of course. Have my birthday in L.A. with my friends. So much better. And then leave again with Kylie and Victoria afterwards. So now that my birthday is happening in L.A., I'm going back and forth on do I do the same thing that I've done, which is like my birthday tradition of having it at the nice guy and inviting however many people to come and have it be a bigger thing. Or I could do another sort of room with cocktails and past food and like have it be a little bit of a smaller crowd. Or I could just do a dinner or like Soho Malibu, like get day drunk all day at Soho. Be fun. Like get the private area and then walk over to Nobu and have dinner drunk. I would say that's a cute idea. I just think we've got to get out more. We're not doing much. We're always I'm too comfortable at home. But you know what? I pay so much for rent. Like I want to spend I want to enjoy my home, my home. And I don't leave and I like it. I'm such a homebody when I'm in the house. The way I just caught that. I need that on video, by the way. Get a clip that. But yeah, I just think we're going to get out more. And that's why I love being busy and traveling is because I feel like I'm the most outgoing and social when I'm out of town. I know. But why do you think that is? Because I feel the same. I think I'm just tired when I'm home and I'm we're just overstimulated from everything and we just want to be cozy and like lay in our bed. Yeah, we have our doggies, our pets. You have your cats. Look at you giving me so much love. And like Donnie, my boyfriend doesn't go out that much. And I'm like, we're like young. We should be like I feel like people in Europe. They're always, always out to dinner. Always. Everyone's always together. And I'm like, like even like planning nights that are at each other's houses, like even not fully leaving, like we don't do that anymore. I'm excited for our next trip and I'm excited to be in the sun. I'm just relaxing. I wish I could bring my weed. We could never do that. But I wish, you know, you know, when you wish you could bring your weed everywhere. Sad about loss. Sad about loss. The loss. The loss of the weed. The loss that it's against. Oh, the loss. The loss. I thought you said sad about loss. Oh, no. It's like the loss of your weed. No, the loss. The loss. I mean, loss. Loss. Loss. Please. I guess the reason why we're always home is because it's hard to walk places where we live. Maybe like there's if I walk, I got to walk down a hill for so long. Did you walk more when you lived in West Hollywood? I mean, I made a little bit more. Yeah. Because I feel like when I lived in like the flatter side of the hill, I walked more like I would walk to my Pilates class and I would walk to get coffee and stuff like that. Yeah, you did. But now it's when you live like in the hill area. Now we do a loop and we'll walk. Vic has a loop that she does around her neighborhood. And I haven't found my loop yet, but my cousin has. But there's so many. I know she's going to take me on the loop that she found. I mean, you can just explore. You'll find your loop. Or just go down, turn around and go up. That's a loop. I haven't found my loop yet. Girl, get out there. What? What? Start walking. We've been out of town every week since I moved in. I know. It's crazy now. It's really crazy. And that's maybe why I'm home is because I like to slow down and be present because I always go, go, go, go. And it's been like that for us. And also Donnie, too, has been go, go, go. And I feel like it's hard for us. That's why if you saw my TikTok and if you haven't, that's OK. But we hadn't seen each other for like 10 days and he was coming home and I was like, we miss each other. Right. Like we were so excited to see each other. And I was like, I want to make it special. So I made a whole night. I had to cancel my movie night with the girls, with Kylie and Stas. And I said girls. And then I made like a pasta amatriciana for Donnie. And then I filled the bathtub with bubbles and petals and rose petals that people were like, that looks weird, but whatever. They were dehydrated rose petals. And then the whole house, like upstairs, I was playing like I was playing. The Wuthering Heights soundtrack. No, I changed it. It was too aggressive. I changed it into movies that make you feel like you're falling in love. Instrumentals like it's such a good playlist. And I played it. All candle lights upstairs. It was dark. All candle lights. The songs on Sonos playing. I had an amazing outfit on. Cinematic movie scenes. So it's like. So he walked in all dark. This music playing. Send me, please. I will. And then this is a. Oh, my God. I would actually. I'm not crying. He was. Oh, my God. Was he crying? He like got so tear. He was. shocked i had the he's no it's crazy i had his favorite beer saporo i put it in the fridge when he landed because he likes i'm gonna cry i know but it's okay it's coming it's coming oh my god you're a lash lift i'm so cute but it gets cuter you want to hear more yeah oh my god i don't think i've ever felt lonelier than just now it's just you i know that's sorry i don't even want to send you this playlist okay so then i put the support in the fridge and when he was like okay i'm 10 out seven out i was tracking him and then i went downstairs i got the supports opened them went upstairs i told him when you walk in do not turn a light on because that mother loves turn lights on and i hate bright lights my house is always dimmed i just i like like cinematic lighting i like candle lit candle light like pretty lighting like yellow like that comes and goes i don't like and he he can lay in a room with like bright lights and i'm like so i said you're not allowed to turn a light on and he was like okay okay then he walked in and he went upstairs and i was like sitting in the bed and i had the two supports freezing cold and i had his favorite chocolate in the bed with a little note welcome home baby the song's playing candle lit and he was like shocked his eyes were watery and he was like this is so sweet and then i he's like okay i have to shower and then i took him to the bathroom when he saw the tub and he was like babe and i was like i know i know i'm kidding anyways it was so it was so good and we got on the tub together and we're just talking no phones just the two of us like you know like in movies it was like a movie with still like the soundtrack i'm gonna link the playlist below for you guys because if you want to experience want to feel it makes you it's just it doesn't have to be about romantic love it could be about everything yeah but it makes you feel something we love to feel we love a good soundtrack yeah my love language i like words like words of affirmation and touch touch physical touch i love physical touch and words yeah what do you like i think the same like physical touch and words and quality time yeah but i think mine is gift giving and quality time i think mine that's what i that's what i do i like to do you do or acts of service i do acts of service i do it too but we're women i feel like we're just like the best to be like that we're the best all of the love languages we literally are the best i haven't asked donnie what his is but his would be but him quality time should we do a call-in yeah let's see if he answers let's see if he knows hello hi this is matt rogers from las culturistas with matt rogers and bowen yang this is bowen yang from las culturistas with matt rogers and bowen yang you know when people try on new food and suddenly it's like wait that's the reaction a lot of people are having when they first try kewpie mayo it's the one with the red cap and the little baby on the bottle you've probably seen it 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would like to it would make me feel good to also give nice words of affirmation and little gestures and um touch as well you're perfect babe we love you okay i love you too i love you donnie too love you star i'll call you after okay okay i'm eating some nasty ass food right now love you but um i mean yeah he's but that's why he did it i'm like he's such a good guy i know he was missing me and i was missing him and i was like i gotta sometimes you gotta do something a little special yeah we don't do it often because we live together you get comfortable we're like but you don't want to feel like we're roommates but how was the 10 days like apart because i remember in my last relationship the longest that we had gone without seeing each other in like the two years we dated was what was like three days oh god this was the longest it's been for us but i also was like ahead of time i was you know i was like nine ten hours ahead and i was working all those three days and he was so busy that i feel like it kind of like we just talked as much as we could and yeah i mean you were so busy that we were so busy but i was so excited for him to come home but i got home and he left so we missed each other and he left again yesterday and we see each other when we're back from our vacation so it's gonna be another eight days but it's it's nice i think it's cute to miss each other and to want to like to think because then you do those like cute like yeah romantic but now he's like we need to do and i know he's preparing something for me when i get back i mean he has to i mean he just said like that was the cutest thing ever he was like my want to like my but i've been so busy i know i know he told me he said i'm gonna he said when you're back i'll i was like you don't have to like do the same thing this was like for me but i know he's like i'm gonna do the same thing now like he's gonna do something he always leaves me a note when whenever i come home he always leaves my little note he's really good at like little details little notes and stuff those that makes me feel good too yeah also it's really hard with three dogs yeah in the house in the bed with us like we're like hugging and we have three dogs three sausage dogs everywhere it's a little hard yeah so sometimes we have to like when it's the two of us on vacation that's the dogs when i get home lock the dogs we did and they're they don't need to be away for a little bit we need to have some time just as we did we put them in their playpen it's the only way if now we're like i cannot even get near him because the dogs just come and attack with love okay so i just saw that oh you haven't seen obsession nevermind no i haven't seen it so i couldn't go because i was having my beautiful night with donnie yeah you're right and i don't know who's gonna watch it with me now i'm gonna have to wait i'll re-watch it with you really yeah so that's things i'm toxic i like her what didn't you say i had to make a tiktok me and don no no no oh there was this tiktok i was like chris like didn't want to watch the movie with us didn't she walk out she kept she kept walking in and walking out but before we started it we're like come on it was funny kendall said she was laughing the whole time like it's scary and there's definitely moments that pop out but it's like you know funny and i was like they're making people are making tiktoks and it's them sitting there with their phone and they're looking they're like me watching the obsession movie with my boyfriend and i keep looking at him after she does something that i've done does she do things that we have done or are they a little bit crazier no i mean it's like a heightened crazy extent okay so she's clearly obsessed with him yeah okay i need to watch it but you need to watch it stars we can't forget to tell the listeners our most the best the best night the best night of our lives except for last night that i you talked about already this was i mean disneyland for us it was such an incredible experience we were obviously in new york we have our two friends simon and phil who live in new york and they have the most beautiful townhome it is styled to perfection the vibes are incredible they do these like monthly cocktails apparently and it's like them and all the gays and they get a bartender and invite all of the gays and everyone comes out inside outside terrace walking around amazing we walk in and we are in candy land me and victoria and 50 gays 50 hot hot intelligent smart chic elite gays elite of nyc i mean simon runs simon is like the mayor mayor the mayor the mayor the mayor simon is the mayor of new york city he like he just runs i've never experienced like you go somewhere with simon and you're like of course come on here sit here got here this you're perfect you just you can turn your brain off you can he's honestly one of my favorite people he is so funny he's so quick with it he reminds me a lot of myself yeah he's very you okay like he's very witty and quick with the joke he's so funny and like that's maybe why i enjoy his company so much it's because all we do is laugh laugh we sit down and we're just like it hurts that's how i feel really yeah oh my god so the way you feel with him that's how i feel that's amazing wow so special but we just walked into like she said candy land it was gay galore everywhere and they were all sexy and all of them were giving us beautiful attention but not sexual attention it was like we felt safe we were drinking i spilled a whole drink in simon's living room blamed stars all over myself looking i went to clean up the spill that she spilled all over my the bottom between my foot and my shoe i was stepping in puddles so i went to the kitchen to go clean my toes by myself she didn't come with me after she spilled all over me i was drunk and for sure i come back and when this guy comes up to me he's like i heard you spilled and i said i spilled and you also tried to blaze blame it on grace and grace and yeah that's me i was drunk and then grace and i was like no it wasn't me and i was like then it was me but it was so fun i never wanted to leave based off that night i don't understand how i don't live in new york i'm happy i live here chill whatever great weather but we made a decision that we're gonna spend a lot more time in new york like enough like let's just go for um a week and we can film an episode there like even i think i feel like a whole week we'll be so tired because we're gonna go out every night and then we'll come home reset and then go again you know i just think we should go more get a cute airbnb with a rooftop or something so fun i don't know how much that is but let's figure it out we should spend more time there before i'm pregnant yeah because vick's not being careful but after i'm pregnant like after the baby comes out i'm back yeah i'll be only gone for nine months this shit right what am i gonna do i don't know we're gonna have to do some uh auditions we need yeah we i don't know what's going on we need more friends in la we really do we're taking auditions i don't know what's going on how do we i wish there was like a dating app for friends i know there's bumble friends should we try it yes should we try it bumble friends let's do an episode where we download bumble friends and we invite someone from bumble friends that's i'm pretty sure i'm pretty sure bumble i'm not kidding download bumble friends and find someone that's cool and we need someone like we need like more we need more friends like that we could go out with every like friends are down down go out to be fun like that bring us out of like a rut yes new york was so fun because we were out with a bunch of people that were kind of just like us that that brought the energy out of us that wanted to be crazy yeah have fun and i don't know i feel like maybe here well i feel like our friend group we've been friends for so long we've been friends for so long we've been friends for so long we all know each other so well and we're all just like it's like the relationship thing like we're so comfortable so it's like we just want to go out till dinner and then it's like okay we hang out with each other all the time and we talk all the time so what is going to make it different if we go to this bar and get drunk together yeah i think we have to expand our group yeah like i just want like a cute like chic cute friends i don't know people that i really enjoy their company and you know people that you feel like you learn something you know like a pera or like a sophie's friend mackenzie yeah you can sit and they're actually listening and they look and you have a good conversation yeah i just want i want that i want good conversations i want to just like i don't know i love i love when i'm talking to someone and they're asking me questions and i'm asking like them questions and you're just learning off of each other and it feels more than just superficial or you want to get on your phone stimulating yes yes very stimulating sophie has a lot of good friends we should hang out oh my god yeah let's hang out with sophie sophie has good friends mackenzie we love her let's go to her house in let's go to her house in venice full circle let's call her hello honey you're on the pod oh my god we were just we were just talking about how we just love you and we love hanging out with you and how we love having conversation and we want to hang out with you more so we're coming 100 agree so we're coming to venice mommy rut yes well we're in a rut of just like never leaving our house so we're like we need to come to your house in venice and we need to go walk around venice and go to bars and have fun absolutely i need to put on a cute outfit girl we'll do it all um i miss you guys we miss you we're a little drunky what i'm jealous it's okay we'll do we're leaving town but when we're back let's do a venice i want to go to the rvr place oh absolutely yeah i'll make us a reservation and then we'll do that and then stas wants to go on i want to do like yes how do you know i feel like that's your birthday tradition oh well we're not going for my birthday we could celebrate celebrate there a little but we want to go and do like a i i don't know why i've been thinking and wanting to do this for so long and it's probably going to be like i might hate it but i want to get on one of those cars where you sit and you pedal have someone like guiding you and you do bark bar stuff and you have to pedal oh my god that would be so good like wouldn't that just be so funny if we if everyone tapped into it we need to be like seat belted down yeah yes you need a nanny that night yeah i do need a nanny so my nanny blew out her mcl so i am full mommy mode right now oh well me now we'll plan stasis and i'll send you the details and then we can do it and then we also have to do rvr in venice and have like a silly venice walk around have good conversations the cocktails are good there too which is important very important amazing very important wait stas it's your birthday it's my birthday's on june 9th oh my gosh so we're starting celebrating now i guess yes obviously obviously okay perfect okay we love you mamacita yes love you both love you she's probably like what the fuck we love you but she's a good example we're gonna expand yeah anyway this episode was kind of all over the place from new york to us realizing things and um love life and love languages love languages and growing up that's okay it was random but so is our brain yeah so welcome to our brain a big brain dump yeah we love you guys so much make sure you guys subscribe to our channel and we'll see you in the next one bye bye comment subscribe all of the all of the above we love you we'll see you next week love ya this episode sponsored by she's birdie You lock the hotel room door, then check it again, and maybe one more time. 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