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Victoria's Secret Fashion Show Was A MESS + Trish Predicted Bryce Hall's Downfall... | Just Trish

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Victoria's Secret Fashion Show Was A MESS + Trish Predicted Bryce Hall's Downfall... | Just Trish

The episode blends personal transformation, cultural reflection, and lighthearted storytelling to explore themes of identity, self-care, and community. Trish shares how GLP-1 medication has revolutionized her relationship with food, energy, and physical health, allowing her to live more fully and participate in activities like running and parenting. The conversation takes a playful turn with humorous anecdotes about Halloween costumes, including a viral moment where Trish is mistaken for the vampire Nandor the Relentless, sparking discussions about perception, humor, and self-expression. It also addresses critical issues of representation in fashion, particularly the lack of diversity at Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, where Trish expresses frustration over the continued focus on thin, Eurocentric models and calls for more inclusive, attainable beauty standards. The episode highlights the power of digital platforms in fostering community, with Trish promoting Grindr as a space for genuine connection and love. Through a mix of personal stories, satire, and social commentary, the podcast celebrates queer visibility, body positivity, and the joy of living authentically. From fall season rituals to queer cultural moments, the narrative emphasizes how identity is built over time through conscious choices and shared experiences.

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fall never arrives all at once first the air then the light and slowly the things you love begin to find each other a jacket meets a dress a hoodie slips beneath a blazer an old cap finds a new scarf because you don't simply step into the season you create it layer by layer until it finally feels like fall find fall your way at ross what about me and gret i know we're not all about the fatties but like i'm losing weight but if you don't put it as soon as you pull over it's just not as good it loses the flavor when people eat cold cheese fries on tiktok i'll make you are a felon like go to jail like her name is trish she's got the fish and all the gossams filthy rich pretty and pink hot topic queen and says what everybody thinks she's got the fish and all the gossams filthy rich pretty and pink hot topic queen and says what everybody thinks she's just hello happy halloween spooktober has started here on the just trish podcast today you have zara larson it's a midnight sun kiss my hips my chest nailed it and we also have pink panther us in the house my name is pink and i'm really glad to meet you i really want okay i know that sound yeah is this illegal hey this feels illegal we're gonna do today for a tiktok that's a great one i have so many ideas once i put this wig on the ideas really started flowing like none other you are giving pink panther is on her days where she's not with zara larson is that what you said right she loves a plastic i'm starting to figure out you guys know i'm really bad with pop girlies even zara lover like i just i'm so bad with pop girly aesthetic i just knew like zara wore a lot of pink but ironically not too much pink in this outfit today but i was like she wears pink i do know pink panthers because jimmy and me are like hardcore stans we love pink but i don't know her like what she wears so are you here on a casual day um this is like her normcore aesthetic for sure yeah she loves the gingham granted some liberties were taken but i don't know what she wears so are you here on a casual day you can but i feel like the essence of pink is is here with us do you feel her i feel her i do yeah the second i put the mary jane flats on i'm gonna have to do a little shoe cam shoe okay actually yeah i should do like a little pov from here because you have these like you have the cutest capris on and i was like wait are these your everyday capris because they actually look so fierce on you my everyday your calves are giving if i had those calves i'd be wearing and then you have these really cute mary janes which is like so adorable it's very biblically accurate pink panthers the full outfit mary jane you look so good the odd look at you i love it it's giving and then yeah the you said the wig is from amazon but it looks so cute it looks like quality i know i was kind of gagged i did expect another she threw that wig up in the air and ran under it moment which is kind of synonymous with my brand but i put it on it was kind of gagged i was like oh she's kind of giving puss she's kind of giving like craigslist inviting dl trade over like it's the cd moment if you know what i mean no you know i wish i was dl trade today i mean that would be our halloween costume for sure yes back in the day this was a very popular and they kind of loved like the campness of it though because like back on craigslist in like 2006 like it really was like my friends would be like like yes giving what'd you call it puss yeah a little bricky a little bricky but also puss at the same time i was gonna say but they kind of love that like the dl trade loves a beard like the dl trade loves a little like like brick wearing a skirt and some stockings and a shake and go like dl trade can get into it you know honestly i get that all the time that's just like my natural brick form um you look great i love it you're wearing a wig so you're gonna be extra sassy today that's what i was gonna say the girls can't take me in a wig they really can't especially a good one like kind of forget about it i think it's over watch out i don't know who our our subjects are today but they better all be prepared for oscar in a wig because you can't identify oscar in a wig the next week and a half are all wig outfits right so everyone better be on high alert it's a cold right now do you have one for wednesday because that was kind of a toss in the air like this week i was telling mosaic's most like what's the costume i was like well next week they're like the group costume so i didn't really plan i was just like i knew i wanted to be zara i knew i wanted to be lucille ball and everyone else was like good luck so do you have one for wednesday i do and it makes no sense thematically but it's still a wig is involved for sure yes okay i can't wait to see that and then the surprise the sleeper costume i was like what's the costume day i was like oh just i'm just being zara i don't know what is this part of it oh okay veneers oh my god i thought it was ludwig von beethoven i thought it was savannah banana from dancing with the stars in the best way love his teeth oh my gosh i'm nandor the relentless what did you hear it you just can't talk with that nandor the relentless nandor dorientis relentless the relentless you know that it's um what we do in the shadows oh okay i do know that it's a show yeah well i just i had a tiktok that kind of went viral and i kept getting those comments that i look like nandor the relentless so i went to see who it is it's actually an actor we saw as an option of who will play me who was the actor was the isaac um novak no the bj novak kaivan no kaivan novak he's like a iranian actor and he came up when we were looking at somebody oh and he plays this character so people they may have connected those dots and i was like okay let me see what i have in my closet is it from the spiderweb tomato soup video yeah they all said you look like nandor the relentless and that that's a crazy comparison why you look i mean you just sent it to me okay i see it a little i love that you just have this in your wardrobe because you didn't even have anything planned at 6 a.m this morning wow you look just like him oh i do see it okay wow i mean people you know they're always right that was a great one you look great you could go on like royal court in that outfit that's kind of what it's gonna be oh yeah yeah welcome nandor the relentless well we're happy to have you here on the from the hit show what we do in the shadows what do we do in the shadows what is what do they do there well i'll have to catch up on this show i mean he's i guess a vampire he's old he's like 700 years old so you're gonna be like he's old he's my age got it so i still have a lot of episodes to catch up on so i'm gonna have to catch up on this show well thank you for being festive i didn't even think with the new balance it really is a great wow i don't see my right thank you for dressing up i yeah halloween always just comes up on us like last minute like and then it's like oh my god you did get ready for it in july so and still i'm not prepared enough and i did like yeah i didn't have a different costume in mind but i was just like because i was i was going to have my goggles and my headpiece burning man theme and tooth brush oh tana mojo as bethany frankel yes that was that's very gay halloween i forgot i gave tana my goggles i couldn't do it that was great the crossover was was real at that one yeah they didn't have it at target but i found this this morning so that's how that's fair is that what you went out for this morning yeah that's so funny he's like i gotta run around i'm gonna do a half hour before um you look amazing you look great yes i this is a week of halloween costumes tomorrow we do not love line halloween edition kids next week for halloween uh and jimmy our very own grinder streamer of the year nominee will be here next week i said shorten those shorts let's put an extra inch on that mushroom head i don't know if he's gonna be a mushroom but i don't know what it's gonna be again hr yes no no we're not no no we're not implying that we're not asking them to wear shorter shorts we're trying to help him win that's not the mushroom she meant no the grinder okay oh yeah we are doing mario i meant because the mario the little mario mushroom he's being something niche i think with that one but um you guys the just rich podcast nominated for grinder podcast of the year i want a shirt that at least says grinder podcast of the year nominee or something like that like i need the merch i went to grinder.com to literally buy merch and all they have is madonna merch like i need a grinder merch i was so gagged i was like i saw shout out trish crave trish crave being the first to post it and i was like this can't be real this can't be real and then i'm like how do i figure out i was trying to tell most of me how do i find it he's like i don't have grinder i was like we'll download it now because we need to verify that this is real you can vote either on the app or on the website jimmy found a link for that as well so excited i feel like we've campaigned so hard for years for years to finally be recognized it means a lot i mean we're up there real the grind was real we love grinder i had like literally the gayest week of my life last week i did my queer dating show which was so much fun it was the best experience of my whole entire life i loved every single person so much we had some tiktok famous people we had influences it was like really really fun and i think we found love because they all hung out at the end afterwards they'd be going to weho together because we filmed in weho so i think we found love that was super fun obviously my dl trade posts from last week i have coming next week i may be back in my troy bolton core that was super fun i'm gonna be back in my troy bolton core i'm gonna be back in my troy bolton core i'm gonna be back in my troy bolton core i'm gonna be back in my troy bolton core i'm gonna be back in my troy bolton core That was super fun. To end it all, on Saturday, we got the Grindr nominee. And I was like, nothing is just, nothing beats Grindr. Is that what it says? Well, yeah. That's pretty good. Yeah. I saw Oscar Crave asking his husband if he could download Grindr. Did you have to ask permission from Darian? No, I didn't have to download Grindr, luckily. Oh, you didn't? Yes. I didn't. No. I was researching. Luckily, it's the best app ever. You should be privileged to have that. You're right. You're right, too. Well, I did my time with Grindr. Okay. I was a paid member for several years. Okay. Yeah. So, I was there. It was there. It was rare. I remember it all too well. Like, I was truly on the front lines of Grindr, giving them $15 a month. You know, a lot of very humbling moments. A lot of very educational moments from Grindr. Humbling? I feel like that is one, like, a free-for-all, where people are just like, they love everything on Grindr. Grindr is just like, no holds barred. Somewhat. I mean, it depends on the time of night. It depends on the mood, you know. Location. Location makes a big one. Convenience is definitely a big part of it, as well. Listen, I've had a lot of. Grindr hookups come over, and I would have the escape route in my head. Like, okay, there's a weapon over here, just in case someone gets a little crazy. But nothing happened like that on Grindr. Nothing happened like that on Grindr. And, gag it, Grindr was my most successful of the apps. More than, like, a Tinder. More than a Scruff, even. I know. Can you find love on Grindr? I think you can. I mean, obviously, it is a hookup app, but you never know the kind of connections, you know. We found love in a hopeless place, and that hopeless place is Grindr. That is so beautiful and so real. That's how I felt about my Grindr. That's how I felt about my show, too. Last week, I felt like, damn, I thought this would all be, like, fun and just gigs. But people finding, like, real connections. And I was like, wow, I feel like a matchmaker. And now with Grindr and our podcast on there, I feel like people will download the app to vote for us, but then they just might find the love of their life. Exactly. And kind of read away, you know? And even if you are a girl, get on that app. You can find a gay friend, you know? Are you allowed? Because they didn't allow that back in the day. Just lie. I did. I did. Okay, I don't know if I've ever said this, but I don't know. It's fine. I wasn't banned. I definitely was just, like, either blocked or, like, shadow banned because I did try to create a profile in 2016 after I found out my boyfriend was gay. But I really wanted to, like, replace him. And you know how you always, like, find the next one and you're like, I want it to be just like my ex. And so I was like, let me go on Grindr. But it was really hard for me to find people. I also think back then, I don't know if they had a non-binary identification, so I think I put, like, probably the wrong gender for myself. That makes sense. And then I got people pissed at me. So I apologize. I think back then there was no NB on there. I could be wrong, but I can't remember that. And then I just was like, yeah, I love, oh, God, I love it. Can you find, they should do that, like, Bumble has BFF. They should have Grindr BFF. They really should when you think about it. But I want to find a little horny, slutty little gay to be friends with. Because all my gays are just so mature now. Everyone's, like, in relationships and staying home. And, like, I'm like, okay, well, where's all the tea? Like, where's all, I have a couple of that still. But it's not, they're not the Grindr route. Everyone's like, ugh. Anyways, hopefully they'll get back on Grindr for sure. I also found out over the weekend that, oh, also, Jimmy Wetzel nominated Jimmy Wetz. Nominated gay streamer of the year. Stiff competition up against his own boyfriend, Dallas. Which I didn't, I didn't even realize that. I know. Dallas and Jimmy are nominated? Crazy. And also up against a mother of mine, Jennifer McAllister. And Vanilla Mace. And Vanilla Mace and Doja Cat. The competition is fierce, baby. Like, that's tough. That's tough. It is a Sophie's choice. I told him I cannot pledge my vote to him because Jen McAllister is. Oscar. Oscar. I told him it's going to be rough for me to decide between the two of them. No, no, Jimmy. I might have to throw a couple votes each way. Jimmy's like your real life friend that you hang out with all the time. He still is my, like, literally, like, best friend. Oh, my God. I would be like, if you voted for someone else, you're like, well, Brooke's Big Feelings is also nominated. I would be like, what you would do. Fuck ass. You would, yes, you would do something like that. I would be like, what? No, you have to vote for Jimmy. Oh, that's a tough one. Jimmy Wetz. They forgot the L. But honestly, I, because I saw a screenshot of it originally before I could verify it was real. I think it might have been just a script or something like that. And I was like, there's no way. Honestly, it looked a little photoshopped because they forgot the L. And I was like, they must have photoshopped this or whatever. I didn't realize. I guess I did. But, like, I don't fully grasp it because I don't watch streaming. But I guess I didn't realize, like, what a massive streamer he is. I know. And he's very consistent. He streams all the time. He'll edit and then stream right after. Very odd times of the day. Could be morning. Could be night. He's very committed. He's been doing it for a long time. He was, like, emotional, too. I was like, I'm so proud of you. And it feels like us being up there, too, with, like, a Trixie and Kiki and, like, all these people. I was just like, Benito Skinner. I was like, what the hell are we doing there? So we will be canvassing in the streets of West Hollywood. We'll be going door to door with an iPad. So sign people up for Grindr. Yes. And we will be canvassing. We'll be hitting those streets hard. Oh, yeah. We'll be there. Peaches, Tropicana, be on the lookout. Wait, who? Peaches. Peaches, Tropicana? Who's Peaches? Not one bar. We should go to the Abbey and find the people that steal all the phones and ask them to vote for those phones. You're so, like, gagging. They steal the phones and install Grindr. Yeah, yeah. Who's stealing phones? We talked about this before. You know, WeHo. Those streets of WeHo are mean and fierce. They're kind of sweet and cute now. I went out on Friday after the show wrap, and they're kind of cute. And I found out an update with the Abbey because we did have two of the Abbey dancers on the show because it's, like, a show where you're dating with your BFF. So, like, one of the dancers, they danced at the Abbey. And then they had their best friend, who is a girl, and she also danced at the Abbey. And I was like, hey, what's up with the Abbey and these drinks? And they're like, no, now they offer testers. And they said it doesn't happen anymore because they have, like, new owners. Mister, shout out Mister. I did, like, one brown deal with them, like, five years ago. But, like, I love Mister so much. They, like, own it now. What? Yeah, like, whoever owns Mister or, like, so it took over, like, new ownership. They said it's really safe now. They said, you know, they offer, like, testers because people have that preconceived notion, but, like, it does not happen, like, anymore that they know of. And they're like, it was really cute. And, like, everyone, like, went out there, and it was, like, a really cute vibe. And I just felt very, um, I felt safe walking the streets of WeHo at 9 p.m. on a Friday. I felt pretty good. Not to say, obviously, I was with a group of people. So, you know, be with people. Be on alert, yes. Or just be not by yourself. Or be on alert. That's a good, too. Honestly, it just was a vibe. And so many people hadn't been to West Hollywood before, so they went out after. And it was just, I really loved it. I forgot how, like, many gays were out there. I know. It is fierce. It is fierce. It is fierce. It's kind of fun. It's, like, if you only want to be surrounded by gay people, it's, like, go to West Hollywood. And it was so much fun. It was the best, um, best three days of my life. I was just, like, this is where I want to be. And it was so great and so much fun. And I get to announce it very soon. It'll air in December, and you'll find out where very soon. And it's very, very fun. And the challenges were fun and all that stuff like that. But, uh, anyways, that's our queer news. Or do you have any more? Our queer news segment. I'm like, hmm. Queer news segment. I mean. I think, yeah. I think that. There's everything. My house is very girly and gay, though. So, it is kind of a, you know. Well, before. I always forget to plug this. You guys, guess what? I'm going on tour. I'm going on a Trishmas tour. Oh, wait. Another one? Or is this the same one that you've been plugging? I'm going on a world tour, actually. I'm going to be gone all next year. The world tour? From January. January through December, I'm gone. So, no Trish. No, I'm just kidding. I know. It's the same one, but I keep forgetting. Trishmas, you guys. I was like. I'm leaving again. I'm leaving on a book tour, but that's already sold out. Then, I'm going on Trishmas, okay? I keep forgetting to talk about this, but Jacksonville, Florida. Jimmy, put it at the top of the page, okay? Like, Jacksonville, Florida. There's tickets available. I don't know what y'all are doing, but come get tickets. Most of the other spots are almost. Tickets are almost gone, but there's still some tickets available. Atlantic City, New Jersey. I'll be there December 11th. Then, I'm going to Niagara Falls December 12th. Then, we'll be in Orlando, Jacksonville, and Tampa, I believe. We'll be there. Oh, St. Petersburg. We'll be there. We'll be there in December. So, go get your tickets today. Also, I'm playing my first ever arena tour in New Zealand and Australia. I'll be at the Spark Arena in Auckland, New Zealand in February, and then I go over in March. My first arena there will be in Melbourne at the Rod Laver Arena. I hope I'm saying that right. I keep pronouncing, mispronouncing Rod Laver Arena, and I'm very excited for that. So, these are arena shows. It's going to be my bigger, bigger than ever eras of Trish. There's so many eras. It's going to be in there. So, watch out for that, and yeah. Check it out. Okay. Thank you so much to Rowe for sponsoring today's episode of Just Trish. As you guys know, I'm Trisha Paytas, and I have been on GLP-1 and a Rowe member since May of this year, and it has completely changed my life. I have struggled with food noise my entire life. That is no secret. I have been very public about how I could just never feel full, how I always was thinking about my next meal. Food really controlled my life, and even to the point you'll read in my book that, like, food was causing problems in my life, and it was actually really scary because it was something that I felt like I could not control, and thank goodness for GLP-1 medications. They have been around for a very long time, but I personally just started doing it this year, and I was hesitant at first. Of course, I had my own reserves. Oh, will I not enjoy food? Will I not be happy because I get my happiness from food? Am I not going to feel hungry? Are my taste buds changing that much? Is it going to affect my mental well-being? And the whole thing with my GLP-1 medication, I'm on the Zepbound pen, it's actually just freed up so much space in my mind. I can just relax. I'm not constantly thinking about food. I'm eating. I'm eating three meals a day. I'm snacking when I'm hungry, but I'm stopping when I'm full, and it really cues those hunger cues for me that I wasn't able to experience before, and it just eliminates all food noise, and I feel like I finally have a relationship with food where I'm not restricting myself. I'm not going on a crash diet. I'm eating what I want just in a regular-sized portion, and I'm not overeating, and my body is, like, feeling full, and it's just the best feeling in the whole world, and I wish this would have been around when I was younger, but it's never too late. At 38, I've never felt better. The inflammation in my knees has gone down drastically. I could actually run around. I picked up both my kids this weekend at the Halloween nights, and it was great. You know, they were tired and couldn't go to the car, and before, I'd be like, Mommy's too tired, or Mommy can't do it, or I'm not strong enough. enough and mommy was able to do it this weekend and i really owe that so much to my glp one because i'm able to lose the weight and also get in the exercise and feel better and have the energy to do it so it's changed my life completely and if this is something you're looking towards i would highly suggest looking at row because it is an all-inclusive it's a membership program so you're getting support every step of the way they're letting you know which one is right for you they offer it in pill form in wagovi they can help you increase your doses take you back on doses they're really checking in with how you're feeling how your overall mental well-being is how your physical well-being is they want to know if you want to keep losing weight maintain the weight like it's really interactive and you're talking to a medical healthcare provider and a professional at all times which is just really wonderful and really reassuring you may be thinking like are glp ones even affordable well that's where row comes in as well they have a free insurance checker to see if your insurance covers these glp ones and if they don't they find that the lowest cash pay options available for you they really want to make it available to more people because it is so life changing and it really shows you how much money you can put into it so if you're looking for a glp one you can get a free insurance checker and you can get a free treatment for your glp one and you can get a free treatment for your glp one and you can get a free treatment for your glp one to see if you qualify go to row.co/trish that's r-o-c-o-t-r-i-s-h to get started on row for side effects of glp1 medications including box warning go to row.co/safety for more information thank you so much to row for sponsoring today's episode back to news did you have any news you want to plug anything moza cooking channel i just made some tomato soup and this week it went viral on tiktok has 1.5 million views damn in a day it went to a million i never had it's because you look like rod the relentless what is it called the door nandor nandor the relentless i think that's why they probably thought i was like oh we didn't know he's cooking but people call you the bob ross of cooking that is the nicest thing in the world oh you love that yeah okay because he's a very positive figure and what happened to him i don't know what happened today he was just teaching art in a very calm and relaxing way and people loved it he's still alive probably not i feel like he must be dead no shade pass away no shade no shade well everyone has to yeah pass away at some point okay well all right he died in 1995 mama oh yeah on july 4th how did he die it doesn't matter that's the more okay you're not really supposed to ask that i don't think well i'm not him so i know i know it's so like people just want to know oh my god how did he die okay well well anyway more more um halloween themed fall theme or something i don't know i don't know anyway more more um halloween themed fall theme or something i don't know i don't know i don't know cooking videos are coming up so what are we making this week well first of all i'm editing the one i did cook a chicken and a whole pumpkin like whoa i bought the whole pumpkin that's actually really fierce it was fierce it was fierce and it was so tasty it was fierce it was i mean i was proud of myself because it was like a very adventurous thing to do just get a whole pumpkin and cook in it but it was so tasty that's gaggy like after i eat the whole soup i actually ate the pumpkin from inside it was just so tasty i was gone 4 a.m to like 9 p.m and i would get updates from moses you did a lot actually in those three days that i was gone there was so many updates happening at all times you were getting bobo with malibu one minute then you're cooking chicken and a pumpkin the next and it was just like so much happening and i was like and then you were down in like santa monica picking out like fabrics for something else it's like damn you were really really busy we don't have the podcast when we pre pre-filmed a little bit last week it was yeah it does it does but when you were away with the kid it's it's yeah it's kind of like the days are so packed because you're trying to get everything done yeah i didn't see aquaman for three days because he would be asleep when i left and he'd be asleep when i got home i saw the girls when i got home but i didn't see him for three days i don't know if he recognized me on saturday i was like i'm mommy remember when i came home and troy bolton and he was so scared he was like crying he had the deal trade wig on and he was just like crying yeah literally i was like oh my god i gagged him like i was like that was so crazy there's only one man in this house that i know yeah that was he was so scared but anyways i did love it it's my second week or week two weeks i guess is coming lots happening are you going to any parties yes i'll be going to don't say jake and johnny because you always say you're invited and you never go i did get invited but i didn't even attempt because i rsdp to um misha and evan's halloween party in july misha and evan they're fierce friends of the show um i went to their party last year but i had a bad case of wig dysphoria last year so it was kind of a mess i saw i was in like a charlie xcx wig and then after that it's all kind of a blur like it was just the wig was big everything was kind of a mess so this year i'm going in more subtle everyday girl costume you're doing this i'm mentally prepared no i'm going very normie core i think this is kind of normie i mean i know pink feathers is like diva but like the wig i had such a bag with bad wig dysphoria that i'm like let me go in no wig no wigless you know i need to be recognizable so that way because misha and evan didn't even know i was there last year they saw me talking about it here and then they texted me they're like oscar we didn't even know you came because i was so i also might suggest going up and saying hi that might be helpful now that's a great tip i the wig literally i didn't even recognize myself it was so out of body it really did it to me what was the wig i kind of don't remember i think i was some people thought it was napoleon dynamite i was trying to be minecraft which one um i think i was just black black and i think i had a random ass wig on because my um the costume i was gonna wear ripped in the photo shoot so i'm like i can't wear this i see yeah so it was kind of a mess this year i'm going in much more this is great though like you you actually do look so cute like you look like someone that i'd be like best friends with or something like we actually like look like each other it's giving cute moses thought you were we had drip dome here today and he thought you were with drip dome he's like oh bye the girls were walking out to move their cars i was like i thought there were only two of them now there's three he saw he saw me in the mirror and the vanity and he was good yeah i was gagged too i saw it i was like wow you actually i think it suits you too this wig suits you the best of any other way like it just looks very he looks like a supporting character in a early 2000 movie very bad like the hot chick or something oh yeah sleepover one of those yes oh my god you're so right yeah it's like the best friend and i'm living yeah i love it i feel like um i could be in the sleepover too wasn't there a girl the one that played aquamarine wasn't she in there too sarah paxton yeah i feel like her with this blonde ass hair you are getting sarah paxton tees yeah i'm so skinny i keep seeing so many tweets of one of your tiktoks about being skinny and everyone's tweeting it and being like damn i need to lock in like you're really shaking the girls up because they're like damn her body is so t like i've been sleeping by the way this is my starting weight before i got pregnant okay i'm not even like skinny this is my weight i've actually haven't like lost a bunch of weight i just was humongous being pregnant for three years i was just like ginormous so i think people are like wow she's so skinny but like it's really just my starting weight i'm still locked in at that 190 but i mean i would love to be 140 but you're shaking the girls up i guess so i did see that one i saw one that's like i got locked in and i was like period it's that girl i love that i always talk about i think her name is oh gosh is it kate katie ann or something crystal ann and she always talks about did i tell you this or tell my sister no she's like a corporate baddie and she's always like showing she goes if you want to be a skinny bitch like me and she's actually skinny and that was the sound i was using she's like your your stomach is the size of your fist so when you get your food to only eat the size of your fist so she'll get a fettuccine and she plates it to just be the size of her fist very whales as well whales also have a throat the size of a fish yeah well that's us too we also we have a throat us equals we should have been whales for halloween i guess for our post halloween in november we're adela and then we could also be whales period yeah because whales are kind of fierce that would be fun which whale would you be i'd be jonah the person or the whale oh jonah was the whale i mean okay i'll be the whale i ate jonah what's his name moby dick period was it no it's a fictional whale i like free willie too i do love a willie and i just saw whale fall with austin abrams i was one of maybe 10 people who saw this film because no one really saw it that's what you wanted to see so yeah i'm gonna go ahead and go ahead and go ahead and say that's what i wanted to see so yeah i'm gonna go ahead and say that's what i wanted to see so yeah i'm gonna go ahead and say that's what i wanted to see so yeah i'm gonna go ahead and say that's what i wanted to see so yeah fitting for the gay themed episode yes as well as a sperm whale that should be your halloween costume a sperm whale yeah that is very gay halloween yeah one is the sperm one is the whale that'd be cute okay fierce sperm whale yeah um yeah he got swallowed i don't want to give the spoiler away i don't think anyone's seen it no one gaffed at all no he got swallowed he has to get his way out of there it was kind of nuts did he get his way out is it fictional or is it documentary it's based on a book but it is fictional yes you told me someone got swallowed there have been people who have been in kayaks who have gotten in the mouth of a whale but to be swallowed by one is kind of difficult because blue whales which are the biggest they're the ones with the really small tails because they eat like plankton and stuff so sperm whales technically have a throat in which you could potentially get swallowed but it's kind of a one in 10 billion chance of that happening i think also they're biting on the kayak and they're like oh speed it up yeah they don't want that you look so fierce you actually look like you should work in a newsroom too like you're giving like this is the details of the whale sperm that came through and i was like so cute we're giving giggly squad we should have been them they got 150 million dollar deal we need to start cosplaying them people get us mixed up although i love that were they on the grinder nominee list no they were not period we were definitely the like nominee of like what are they doing here because it's like obviously like christine katya like they're like netflix like royalty like they're so popular kiki's mainstream Who are the other ones? - Owen Theol. - Oh yeah, Owen Theol, like how are we supposed to know we how are we even up there like owen thiel had hayley bieber on his podcast like what like maybe it was our either it was our jesse it was our jesse and benji week because that was pretty like for the gays yeah we had benji chavez and then we had jesse draper giving us like bajillion views that week it was like a double whammy yeah that was like emmy's week we were so busy and we made it happen that was our four-year consideration that was our four-year for sure that was crazy so i don't know how we got up there but we are giving um whale sperm so you didn't see you saw the will sperm but you didn't see now you see me now you see everything you can see everything because i was about to say that's the other thing that kept coming online oh yeah you as elizabeth holmes in 2022 can i remind you before the podcast before but i'll bring it up on patreon there's something else that came up with this is it a sound no it's a tweet that you made at 2013. oh oh okay teaser for the patreon it's not appropriate for youtube so oh oh oh god i need to start deleting every tweet how do people do that you know when people just like delete every tweet that they ever did i was like how the hell did i need to do that i honestly should just delete twitter but gay twitter just keeps me up there you know what i mean yeah it's kind of fun to like log in for that they did say we should be nathan fielder and elizabeth holmes but because you have the headphones you could wear them around that's what he was wearing in the thing i can probably learn how to talk like him i definitely want to see the movie i mean it's raving reviews yeah everyone is talking three hours long and i saw a couple that have kids too i mean i was just gonna say that how to see kids how to see a movie when you have kids and no child care for the weekend because we never have we never have anyone to like help us on the weekends so we're like you know we do stuff with the kids i saw a couple hacks on that one so the woman was like my husband went to go see it fall never arrives all at once burst the air then the light and slowly the things you love begin to find each other a jacket meets a dress a hoodie slips beneath a blazer an old cap finds a new scarf because you don't simply step into the season you create it layer by layer until it finally feels like fall find fall your way at ross they really she's like i really need to see this before their spoilers they really wanted to see this movie that was me with prime time i was like bye i gotta go like i just like i gotta but um yeah she he went to go see it first and she stayed with the kids and then she went to go see it and he stayed with the kids and then at night they deliberated over it they kind of did a debrief at night time which i'm like then it does feel like you saw the movie together but would you go see a movie by yourself i know i would would you i don't know it's hard it's hard to think about it i don't think you would i mean it has to be something i don't know because even like i love the mandalorian but i just watched it at home with aquaman you know what i mean like i love watching anything mandalorian with the kids yeah and i mean now elvis running around saying baby coda baby coda she like gets on top of his shoulder and it's like baby yeah um so i don't know but when i saw the tick tock i was like oh no is this another one that put a baby monitor facetiming their phone or something i didn't i didn't expect that there was another hack in the comments someone's like you know what i do and it was a four-year-old and i was like oh malibu's four they're like i just go see the latest movie possible and then they fall asleep next to them in the movie interesting yeah true i mean they just they just crashed and fall asleep i was like i guess yeah but then it's like as long as it's not a horror movie or something that's scary because right this one could be did you not see it are you not interested in seeing it i'm surprised you didn't see it i want to talk about it about it because it is doing really well like the reviews have been really good and the box office actually has been really big too and it's been driven by gen z like when they do the exit polling it's all the age range of like gen z also a lot of white people but a lot of young white people just demographically okay which is a little bit demographically okay which is so interesting how do they know what the race is that by the ticket they do like exit polling so it's not like 100 accurate but fairly they're like y'all are white okay they're just going yeah yeah a lot of white people in here okay i've never heard that statistic they do interesting interesting yes yeah um but i do know there's a full frontal in there but i just i did google the full frontal though so nathan billy or elizabeth billy BILLY! he's the villain of it huh? he is the villain yeah and everyone's saying he's like because he's kind of duplicitous and very narcissistic that he was very willing to go full frontal because he was proud of what he was packing what and what first of all ew anytime anything i don't want to see any full frontal but why also they like have a kid which i get it like the kid's probably not in the room while he's going full frontal but like you still have a child like i'm so like ashamed of like all my like nude stuff out there before my kids i couldn't imagine having a kid and being like time to just let air out the goods like it's why was he doing that this kind of movie like yeah it's not even a artistic i have no idea the context of said scene i know that it is a shower scene and it is flaccid i don't know why the camera crew was filming him shower he probably requested it in my opinion i think he was like come get this one out he wanted the grinder bulge of the year i guess she's going to prison so he was trying to i guess just advertise himself you know get the good word going yeah well yeah i mean not to be this person but anyone married to her obviously is crazier than her although people could say that about you i suppose so i don't know not trying to judge too much but moses isn't doing full frontal in my documentary i think in the he had a company before her that was similar to what she was doing so i don't know i mean i haven't seen the movie i just know that detail so it might be that he is the origin of all the trouble of their in their lives you know well i think she's the origin she was doing all that crazy stuff before she met him i don't know yeah i think he also had you remember she was dating the naveen andrews character well i don't know his name okay i don't know sorry was there a spider i don't know okay maybe the star finally fell down from the sky something scared me okay maybe it was my wig i don't know something happened sorry but i did see uh an interview on the news with the guy the whistleblower which suddenly i remembered the story of like you remember there was the kid that his grandfather like he was the intern and he ended up being the whistleblower so there was a whole interview with him that was so interesting about the movie and everything and well i guess she thinks she did nothing wrong so yeah and he was like no she's lying and she knows she's lying her husband said that no the whistleblower the whistleblower i wonder if the husband is like in support of her because you know you would support me no matter what i could just be like you're always like you did nothing wrong so i'm like i wonder if her husband's samely same but she she actually hurt people that's the difference yeah she actually like people they they give them false diagnoses of like you have hiv or you have cancer or you lost a child no they were serious you lost a child that's crazy and everything they claim that the machines can do they could not do at all and that's why and even in the movie he said when she's showing the machine he said that's not the machine like it's completely different one so she's gaslighting everyone all the time layers on layers of lies and and now she's a star see america is making everyone famous gypsy rose elizabeth holmes abby lee miller just monsters amongst us but but she's different because she was at the top you know like a multi-millionaire at the top and now she's in prison where the other ones were in prison and then became celebrities or some well-known people so it's not she has kids and she's in prison like so she is just going to prison actually will make you a star it seems because abby lee she went to jail too right she did yeah um you just go and then they're like fierce fierce is fierce yeah which i guess i guess if you're like not hurting anyone like what did martha stewart do to go to prison tax taxes i mean that seems not as crazy as like killing your mom or something you know yeah t so i guess if it's something or laurie laughlin that's kind of need to go to prison that way yeah of all the places of all the reasons too i'm saying if i had to pick i guess that would be my like you know yeah a 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I did. I was, you know, I mean, this is one that I'm just just so bitter about not being that action was going. I was like, women should not be seen like that. No, no, I love love the Victoria's Secret Fashion Show as everyone else does. Obviously, I'm millennials. Like I really grew up with Victoria's Secret Fashion Show being everything. But I will forever be a little jealous, very bitter that I did not get invited because like, everybody's going the pink carpet is beautiful. The pink carpet stunning with the pink backdrop. Everyone's going in there. Victoria's Secret Moses, can you attest? I order Victoria's Secret once a week, like I am Victoria's Secret. I mean, New York, you walk to the store and you came out with bags. The Victoria Victoria's Secret is my everything and millennials like love Victoria's Secret, Victoria's Secret pink, like I love it so much. So always offended. I think more than even Dancing with the Stars being overlooked. It's like Victoria's Secret. Dancing with the Stars you only get like, okay, like 12 each season. Victoria's Secret brings out all the influencers. You could be the most micro influencer and you're there and I'd love to see it. But also what about me? What about me and Greta? I know we're not all about the fatties, but I'm losing weight. Maybe it's the boobs. My boobs don't fit in their bras. Once I get these implants out. I don't know something else to give next year because I really would love to go to Victoria's Secret Fashion Show and I was not there. But I love it. I'm set seated for it. I was gagged for everyone. Highlights. What did you love? Did you watch? Were you seated? I did. I covered it yesterday. You did? You were? Yes, yes. On the frontlines of Victoria's Secret Fashion Show. Streaming at YouTube too, which I love. I know. I love that that's becoming like the platform now. Well, first and foremost, so last week we talked about Romy Stride, who was not invited back. She was a Victoria's Secret Angel in 2018. And she did like three fashion shows and she wasn't invited back for this year's. And originally I felt bad for her, of course, because you know, she is kind of a legacy angel. But as the TikToks continued, it really took a turn of like people being upset that like a beautiful, skinny, white, blonde girl didn't get invited. But then the show had like, a lot more women of color, some curvier girls, some trans girls. So like, I feel like Romy became the Jesus on the cross for the girls who just want skinny and Eurocentric. So now my girl, I'm off the bandwagon. Sorry, Romy. There was plenty, the girls are acting. Like it was whale fall. Like literally every girl was humongous. They are literally on TikTok saying it Victoria's Secret needs to be aspirational, unattainable, glamorous, fierce. Where are the skinny girls? Where are the supermodels? I mean, no, I love a skinny girl, but they were all skinny. Like 90% of the models who walk are all still Eurocentric, skinny, long legs. I mean, insanely skinny. I mean, Ashley Graham is the only one I'm thinking of that's like maybe curvy, but also like not fat. Yeah, they throw a bone to like a few of them. There's Precious Lee who's like younger and she's a little curvier. And you know, there's some athletes and stuff who have just like more muscle or something. But still 90% of the angels who walk are all still tall and skinny. Nikki Blonsky's not out there. Right? Like I mean, that's what they're saying. Like, they're acting like literally everyone is a fattie. Ashley Graham is like still unattainable. Like I'm like a big girl. I'm not gonna look, I'm not gonna have that flat stomach like her. Like that's still unattainable. If they're trying to get like the fantasy. All those girls were giving unattainable. Like all those girls are ungodly beautiful. You can't change the face look like them. Like they all they all were that you know what I mean? Like I would love a Nikki Blonsky. I'm saying as he has, I would feel seen and feel represented. But um, I think like they still have really beautiful people. Oh, I didn't know that was the discourse. Yes, there's so much discourse about like, we where is the glamour? We need to go back to the unattainable, super skinny. I'm like, it's like, first of all, I did ask the Sonny like, just like, you're on a Lima just like, it couldn't be more beautiful and more skinny and more of an attainable know. And there was one Victoria's Secret Angel. Her name is Erin Heatherton. And she left Victoria's Secret Fashion Show in 2013. So she is very much like the early to the late 2000s, like early 2010s. And she said she had to leave because she was obviously being very unhealthy to keep that body and felt so much pressure to maintain that physique. But then she also felt bad. Because women were coming up to her and like wanting to, you know, get a body like hers. And she was going very unhealthy ways of like ED and drug use to be skinny. And she felt like she was lying to everybody. So it's actually like, great that there's just a little bit of diversity. It's not like the woke Olympics were like, you know, it's just ugly down the catwalk. She's a hateful person. For anyone. She didn't attack them all. You know, fierce, and I think she's like, so gorge and like, I would say like, she is a more relatable body size, like out to me, Ashley Graham is something that's unattainable or something like that. But I love her so much. And I've seen her all over gay Twitter or just Twitter in general. It's like Gabriela Sidibe doing the fashion that you love Gabby, like just fear is gonna be me on my press tour, because she looks so freaking good. And she has lost a lot of weight since pressure. So if you're talking about like, oh, trying to be healthy, whatever I mean, she lost a lot of weight, but she's still like, you know, like a regular body size. And I was like, would love to see her. Anyways, also a mother you guys could have playdates. Yeah, a mother. Yeah, everything unproblematic. Like again, he wants to be like, hateful and awful. So that's why I keep using her as the like, example. But um, okay, back to what you were saying, I guess they still have the skinny Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. So it's still you know, the gorgeous the supermodels, the Alessandra. Yeah. Can you imagine Gypsy Rose, Nikki Blonsky, like that's what these that's that's what they're acting like on stage is crazy. Like, yeah, everyone really is gorgeous. And I've seen almost every single one. Obviously, again, as children of the 2000s, like, when Victoria's Secret Fast show was on CBS back in the day, like that was required viewing for us. Even me not even being a consumer or customer of the brand was like, fiercest fears. Like, hold on, let me see these girls on that catwalk. Oh, the glitter, the sparkle, Justin Bieber, Taylor Swift, like everyone just performances. So good. And I feel like since it came back after their few years of cancellation, I feel like at first, they were trying to be super woke, where it was like, we were missing some of the glamour, some of the campiness. Right? Like we had no fantasy bra for the past few years. And this year, the fantasy bra finally returned. Thank God staple. And gag it Kylie Jenner was the surprise fantasy bra wearer. Again, some people were mad about this, because it's like, why is an influencer wearing the bra instead of like an OG angel? I struggle to call Kylie Jenner influencer. I was like, influencer. Like, why are influencers wearing the bra? I was like, wait, they didn't want influence. Kylie is definitely not an influence. Maybe just influence on the world. Joel. Yeah, she's like, I mean, kind of, I would say one of the most A-list celebrities that are out there as far as like, getting the interview getting obviously, she's not like an actress or singer, but like, she's pretty top tier. I mean, above Kim, I would even say, I think so, because she's more mysterious. And then she's also dating Timothy Chalamet, who is such a respected actor. So then but also, they're very private about the relationship. And he's front row. Yes. And I understand that, obviously, we talked about before the Kardashian, you know, being tired of them, or whatever. But their impact, whether you like them or hate them, is undoubtable, because they drive so much traffic. Like, yeah, from the media side standpoint, like when you cover a Kardashian, you get so much traffic, because it's either people commenting, I'm so sick of them. Why are they always are you paid to talk about the Kardashians? No, baby, you're commenting on it. Therefore is giving us engagement. Like, you are driving the engagement. You are why we have to cover them so much. You're talking about them, you know, they gag everyone because Kylie is 10,000 times more beautiful than I mean, she is the most beautiful one out there. Like, obviously, when she came out, everyone was gagged for a reason. Everyone was like, the body, the face, the hair, like the boobs, obviously, is a big part of Victoria's Secret. Like, she gagged everybody like a surprise that was so well kept because there was not a single inkling. Yeah, of her attendance. Yeah, it was crazy. They really kept that secret locked up tight. So that's why it really gagged me. And then even when Timmy and Kylie, Timmy and Chris were in the audience, like front row, we were getting videos of that. And I'm like, why? I was so confused. I didn't it still didn't click to me because I never in a million years expected Kylie. And then of course, there's also like, the questions. Well, why not Kendall? I think it's got your dab Kylie in the fantasy bra than Kendall Jenner. 1000% she gives more Victoria's Secret Kendall obviously is beautiful and a supermodel. But Kylie, especially if you want old school, if everyone's like we want the OG models, they all had huge as big boobs like that. With the big hair. That's the classically beautiful Victoria's Secret girl. And Kendall's done the vs before to like she's been there done that. So I'm glad Kylie got her moment. And it makes sense for her like, I don't know. She's just like she has more boob doors. It makes sense that she would be the one that boobs were boob and they were out of control. They were so good. It was. Yeah, that was beautiful. I wish that was me. I wish it was me. I was like, oh my god, that looks so good. She looked so, so amazing. I thought everyone did. I thought like, I like the mix of like models and influencers walking like the original adrenaline. Lima. I loved Quinlan back black while walking like I love that. I love that there was influencers in the crowd. Obviously, Haley Bailey, Shay Sullivan, like I loved all seeing them. So I I thought it was fun. I thought it was great. I thought it was a fun show too. And I had a lot of old like nostalgia glamour to it. I think the runway could have been good more glittery. Like that was probably my biggest critique. I do miss the glittery - We're gonna be at Catwalk, yes. - Next year, on that glitter. making big strides yeah next year just glitter on that damn catwalk idgaf what happened like no matter what you have to do they advertise a glittery runway but there was glass over it so you couldn't really see it i want it to look insane we want to see the sparkle and shine from like all over um your sister your country music sister megan maroney love her she had humongous ass wings and that was another moment she kept accidentally whacking the girls they're having to really duck around her and it did remind me of when i think 2014 is when ariana grande was performing and she kept getting whacked by the way so it's kind of the opposite where like the performer is whacking the angels which is kind of crazy the angels had a it was like whack an angel it was like ducking around and it kind of reminded me of america's next top model challenges i think because you have to rename like fears yeah but also not fall over and they did no one fell right and did yeah no mishap barbara six weeks postpartum i know she looked amazing also again to the body positivity talk too i didn't really notice this until it was like brought up and like in perspective but for so long about and especially like pre vs woke era barbara palvin was considered like the plus size girl really yeah and like 2015 to 2018 and then uh someone put a montage of all the time she was on the runway before and she would her belly was always covered and i was like i really someone wrote like oh i really didn't like how they always forced barbara to have her belly covered because she was considered too curvy or whatever i'm like oh my god she had it covered last night too she had like a pink lace which is crazy i mean maybe she wanted to because she was like postpartum but they should have like especially back like when she was before like 20 20 years old like that's crazy i mean definitely the back in the day they were fat phobic like for sure and they had to become woke and it's great and now we'd love to see it but it's also like yeah it's like abercrombie or all those lululemon yeah they were all was it lulu or no was it brandy melville that was the other one oh yes brandy it was one size only yeah and abercrombie was like we specifically don't cater to fat people yes it's so interesting and i feel like with the influencers too obviously i get the argument like we want models on the runway i think they did a good job of at least putting them in the pink uh section of the show which is like younger and more girly pop yeah quen got her runway redemption like she looked really good what happened before well her debut last year people were clowning on her walk and this year you can tell she really practiced because she was so confident yes and so it was like a moment when quen walked on the runway cat's eye was performing and she like stole the freaking show she looked amazing and she looked good as hell but she is a model like the first time i ever saw her i remember i was like the face magazine and she was there and i didn't know who she was because this was like four or five years ago before she like really popped off and i remember being like oh my god she's like stunning like oh she's like a really famous model and like she is a model i mean obviously she's like shorter and stuff and doesn't do runway all the time but like she is a model so i don't know why people it's like she is the gaggiest of them all like i do love seeing that like and all the influencers that went on the runway i mean are model-esque you know they're like obviously no one's like clunky walk-in or yeah give him brick yeah no one's really that bricky some of the girls like styling on some of them was a little nuts but like that's victoria's secret for you like the runway shows are always gonna be a little crazy and people have like nostalgic glasses on for like the ones back in the day but like some of the looks in the early 2000s when it was like candy themed and the girls had candy like glued to their bras like that was crazy but it was camp and fierce you know yeah i wish it could be a little more over the top but you know we can't have everything at once strides though yeah everybody had their men there because i did see dylan was it dylan or cole dylan sprouse dylan sprouse in the front row um josh richards was not there though he was watching from home he's like what about to tune in and i was like why aren't you sitting front row with everyone else like what is yeah it was odd i was like why weren't you not there it's also in la so it's not like it's somewhere like exotic yeah i was like go sit there dylan again gives moses vibes he's very much like very much gets excited when he sees his wife on the runway it's so like he is so moses yeah et interviewed him and in his interview he's like yeah it's just so funny whenever like barbara does normal things like does her dishes i'm like you are too pretty to be doing dishes like you shouldn't have to do that and he's saying like he's like and it's the worst thing is like when she wakes up she is really really pretty and i wake up and i have drool all over my pillow yeah my hair is all over the place my belly button has a lane and i look over and she's the most perfect girl in the world like i don't know how the hell i did this and it's like he's very sweet he's very cute when he dresses up and stuff like that but yeah i mean she is kind of like just like she's perfect yes did you hear about how they met they have like such a funny story she it was like one of the like young hollywood parties or something and they were gonna get their photo taken and she cut him in line because she was like wanting to get it over with and he's like uh hello like you just cut me and then she gave him the up and down with her eyes and was like why you dress like a hot dog on the stick employee where were they was he dressed like what he was he was wearing like red and blue like a really crazy outfit and like stripes it was a little nuts and then he's like that's the one yes exactly that they ever since i love that yeah how long have they been together for god i think 10 years now he like loves her i saw a reporter asking him like obviously besides your wife who are you excited here to hear to see he's like no one don't care about anyone else but that was like a weird question for him to ask obviously because the first question he's like i'm only here for barbara i love barbara and then she's like okay but besides barbara who you're here to see he's like no one and then it was true on the runway he was not looking at anyone else like he would just be like this this this and then she comes out he's waving blowing kiss phone i was just like oh so cute it was so cute and then everyone else came out didn't even look and he's the cutest yeah i do love them together he's very he has uh he's opposite of nonchalant like he will scream from the rooftops yeah yeah although i did i mean someone did ask him a question about uh watching the kids and he's like uh he said or a baby they have one baby right yes and what is it sylvie pretty name um and they're like how is it to take care of the baby when barbara's working and he's like well i'm good at entertaining the baby but i'm like not good at like getting the baby to relax i was like like put the baby to bed like you don't know you can't put the baby to bed like that was like he's um i was i edited that one so thank you oh you did yes yeah i love the dylan's i was in it i did a lot of them he was saying how he is really good at entertaining but he is bad at turning it off like because he loves like put on a little show and make her laugh oh is that what he was saying yeah he has trouble like getting into the relaxation mode to put her to sleep for we gotta figure that out you have a baby that sleeps all the time he's like yeah she was an hour and a half longer in the wake window i was like okay we need to we need to learn that a little better but other than that love to see i'd love to see how you try to take care of the baby on your own but a little worrisome that you can't turn it down for your baby a month one month they don't need to be entertained that much really they really just need to be fed and changed and put back to bed but love that i love him as he's gives the number one but timothy chow may also look very excited to see kylie so i just love christian i'm also god that was sweet always well she's always like go kylie go it is very much she was giving yeah i love supportive uh supportive people i love everyone loved victoria's secret fashion show this year it used to be back in the day it would just be like women used to like hate on it and be like it's so misogynistic or something like that but now women love it and it's so funny how it comes around too because now people want that back they want like only so many people want only skinnies unobtainable like fantasy when so many years it was like this is unobtainable this is terrible right the pendulum is crazy it always will just never be happy with everything yeah and also i don't want to hear any man i'm so sick of the men why are fat girls on my mom it's not for you like are you going in the mall buying panties some of you are some of those conservative men definitely are buying panties for the deal trade for sure yeah exactly but if you're not i don't want to hear from you that part that part like we're going and we're buying the lingerie and i they sell it every year i always look for fashion show stuff online and it always sells it every year but i saw i saw youtube sent people like adeline moran got to go and i was like and they got cute gift bags i was actually i had a lot of fomo i had to like kind of turn it off for a moment i was like i need to just not be jealous in this moment but congrats to everyone who got cute gift bags i'm really really jealous but i'll continue to buy except it was sold out and so therefore i can't buy but i love it victoria's secret has my heart forever and we love a good event we love like a show a super bowl as the girls say yeah it is girls and gays super bowl for sure we were seated the other show that caused a lot of drama was dancing with the stars man always always in the drama what a kerfuffle over there over the past week wow i've been i've been glued to this drama for sure i'm all i'm in once i think the stars that's my super i'm like locked in i'm locked into the drama and no i love drama as someone also bitter that's never been on the show i'm very much just like love the drama you should have had me i would i would have been problematic i would have been respectful i would have been just whatever yeah i i'm locked to me it's like i don't even really watch the full show but i cover it now for work and know of everything that's going on because of that and it's very much giving like uh oh do you live here no but i am part of this community that's how i feel with dancing with the stars because like i am very much in the weeds now also quick side note fib uh fibula i do love i really came out you girls really clocked it fibula is my winner if he doesn't win we're rioting he is cutie not actually dancing with the stars bans me forever they're like you said rioting in this political climate you really gotta be clear just kidding we are just gonna be upset if he doesn't win no he's such a cutie he gives his all he's so sweet i love everything about him i was very skeptical at first was not familiar with his name but dang what a cutie no he deserves to be there i get it i get the hype now i do and he's doing great he's improving every week he's doing good yeah not getting scored fairly for whatever reason i know i don't know what the hell's going on the influencer hate but damn but it all happened last week when Carrie Ann and Naba clocked Jenna and Harry Shum Jr. for having a lift in their performance. She hates the lift. I never understood. I guess it's against the rules, but damn, she hates the lift every year. She's like, lift! It's like, can we just have it? Like, I don't know. No one really cares except for you, but I get it. Okay, it's the rules. Yes, because in the samba, part of the rules of the samba in particular are no lifts, so it was kind of an awkward moment with Carrie Ann and Jenna when Carrie Ann clocked it, and then she read the definition of a lift from her paper, and even watching that moment back, it was like, this is kind of uncomfortable because Jenna's kind of shook up by it. It turns out Carrie Ann also clocked Jenna for a lift a couple seasons past, but it also turns out with Robert Irwin, Carrie Ann and Naba said, I don't even care that you did an illegal lift. I'm giving you a 10, so the inconsistencies really were crazy. Oh, I didn't know any of that. Yeah, so I think her inconsistencies is what really made people upset. Oh, okay. Oh! Yeah. Oh, I would actually be pissed, too. Okay, because I thought, like, okay, it's just the rules. Like, why is everyone being, like, so hard or whatever? Yeah, because Jenna's like, lift, and then she's like, lift, according to the, and then Derek didn't make it any easier because then he followed. He's like, ooh, I felt like I got scolded, and I was like, okay. You could have just eased the awkwardness and been like, okay. Okay, so she has it out for Jenna with the lifts. I think Carrie Ann is just, she has the reputation. Again, I'm just, I don't really go here. I'm just part of the community. She has a reputation of very much flip-flopping on her rationales for the scores because, like, Connor Wood was getting scored really low, but then he was at least on par with the other boys, like the guy from The Bachelor or The Banana, and they were scoring so much higher. So, like, the scores are just very much, like, all over the place when it comes to Carrie Ann. And then after the whole lift thing and then Fall never arrives all at once. First the air, then the light. And slowly the things you love begin to find each other. A jacket meets a dress. A hoodie slips beneath a blazer. An old cap finds a new scarf. Because you don't simply step into the season. You create it layer by layer until it finally feels like fall. Find fall your way at Ross. Same when she literally said, Oh, I don't care about if you did a lift rubber or when like you're getting a 10. So the inconsistency. The audience was already like coming for her though. So I feel like the audience was already giving her the heat. But where things took a turn is when Val Shmiervkovsky weighed in on the drama as well. Because he is married to Jenna, who is the pro in question. And he commented on a TikTok that was calling out the drama between Carrie Ann and Jenna. And said, put some respect on her name. She's tripping talking to her like that. And then he updated his TikTok status to, You almost saw Fresh Prince enter the ballroom last night. Which alluded to the Will Smith Oscar slap moment. So now it's getting a little too nuts. Because now you're wanting to slap Carrie Ann Inova? That's a little crazy. I felt like I saw it. And I was like, I just saw the keep your name out of it. Keep my wife's name out of your mouth. That's what I thought. I didn't think like, he's like, I'm about to slap this bitch. Like, I think it was very much like defending your wife. And be like, keep my wife's name out of your mouth. Like, I feel like that's how I took it. But what do you always say about men getting involved in the wife's business? A la Hilary Duff's husband. I mean, hate that. Especially Val. I don't like Val at all. But like, if I was. No, you're right, period. Me being Carrie. I'm the Carrie Ann Inova of this show. Just flip-flopping all the time. No, yeah. It's definitely, ew. You're right. You're right. Because who else was that? There was another person and they were defending their wife in a competition. And it like, made it worse. I don't know if it was Whitney. I don't know what it was. But someone was defending their wife. And I'm just like, can you just not? Because it makes it worse, 100%. Yeah, it's better just to not say anything. But I didn't take it as an act of violence. I also didn't even think about the Will Smith, keep your wife's name out of your mouth. I didn't think about that at first. I thought Fresh Prince. Truly, I swear to you, my initial reaction was like, Alfonso Ribeiro on the show. So I thought like, I don't watch Fresh Prince. I watched it a little bit, but I don't know the lore. So I was like, maybe there's like a reference in there that I'm not getting. That was my initial thought. Because he didn't say Will Smith. He didn't say Will Smith at the Oscars and you're Chris Rock. You're Chris Rock. I'm Will Smith. Like, you know, I don't know. I wasn't, that wasn't my initial thought. However, I do not like Val. And he is, him and his brother Max. I mean, Max was the worst on the show. He also had a mouth on him. They are just too rowdy. They're saying too much. But I didn't, I don't know if he should have been banned for performance week for it. Yeah, so it did go multiple ways. So the fans were very split on it. Some of them were like, oh, obviously. Saying, keep my wife's name out of your mouth. Other people were like, no, it's clearly a threat of like violence or something with the slap. So it really was split both ways reaction wise. Okay, and your initial reaction was like, okay, you don't have to go through this. I guess I get it. I guess overall, oh, it was Hilary Duff's man. That's who it was. Yes, Matthew. Overall, yeah, the men trying to defend your wife. It's like, it's not about you. Stay out of it. And men are always a little aggressive, aren't they? They're always a little like, especially when it's between two women. It's like, just, it's fine. Jenna obviously was like, and Jenna. Jenna has a really good chance of winning. And so do you, Val. Like, I don't know what the hell you're doing in this conversation. Like, just, I don't ever say this to people. Like, when they're at the top, it's just like, just keep the mouth shut. Like, that's what I'm learning in life. It's like, goddamn, I'm finally doing well in life and I'm doing successful. I'm like, let me just keep my mouth shut in so many situations when you want to clap back. It's like, is it really worth it? The internet was kind of on your guys' side. They kind of were like, even Derek. You don't have to convince anybody. That part. It's like, sometimes we're our own worst enemies with our mouth. We just be saying stuff and it's like, damn, now you're banned on dedication week, Val. And it's like, what the hell? This is the week that everyone's very sentimental and like, she really needed you. And now it's like, you're, because he's with Jenna, right? Yes, he is with Jenna Dewan. Which is like, a very great competitor. And like, this was, this was the, who's going in for her? So, the pro that will be filling in for Val is Alan Burstyn. Oh, he's married to Emma? I think so. Emma Slater. Or they're dating at least. And Sasha used to be married to her. I love the whole romantic lore. With everybody, too. Yes, yes, yes. Dating Emma Slater. So, well, he's good. I like him. I like him as a pro. Oh, yeah. And how we got there, too, was Carrie Ann Anaba posted a screenshot of Val's TikTok status to her story and was like, this is what we're doing now. And then Val did have to apologize. And then over the weekend, BBC Studios issued a statement that Val will be suspended for one week. And then, again, that had a whole argument of like, people thinking it was blown out of proportion. Some people thinking one week is not enough. Damn. Divided. The Dancing with the Stars community is divided boots. I guess I am, too. I guess, like, yeah, you shouldn't threaten. I also feel like Carrie Ann, OK, you're also inconsistent, so just own up to that. Like, also take a little bit back because it's like, you're also inconsistent. What do you expect? Like, you can't just be like, I love the boys. You guys can lift. And then, like, the girls, you're like, and the way she said it, too, was like, was sassy and, like, not that nice to her. So, it's like, I would be pissed, too. And it would be whatever. I mean, also, the real victim of all this is Jenna. Damn. It's like, she really was just like, I don't know. She really was just like, I feel like it's like, yeah, she got the brunt of it. I don't think a technique was a lift. Like she said, she didn't lift him. Yeah, that's true. It was the dancers. Yeah, so I was like, I mean, I don't know the technicalities. At the end of the day, allow a lift. If you're allowing it for Robert Irwin, we've got to allow it for everybody. You know what I mean? I don't know. I just think, but I like Carrie Ann, too. No disrespect. She's been there since the beginning. So, I love, I mean, just being like, I want to be judged. If I was on the Dancing with the Stars, you just got to take it. That's how you got to judge. If they give you a five, you're like, all right, I respect that. But people really do get pissed, huh? People get heated. Specifically like the pros and stuff. They get pissed. And it's like, I mean, it doesn't matter. You come back. You're dancing in the troupe. You're going on tour. Like, you're on the biggest show ever. You're getting brand deals. Like, I don't really think we need to be all that pissed. But thank you so much to Lola Blankets for sponsoring today's episode of Destrish. Oh, my gosh. Oh, Lola Blankets. I love them so much. I am obsessed. This is my all-time favorite one. 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And I feel, yeah, after doing my High School Musical video and injuring my knee yet again, I was like, I don't know if I could do Dancing with the Stars. I literally jumped an inch in the air, an inch forward, and I just busted, my knee just went out. Everyone's like, oh, and I was like, and it hurt so bad. I was like, oh, my God. I'm like, I don't know if I could be doing Dancing with the Stars either. So I would probably be in it for a few weeks and then hopefully. Or who got eliminated? Oh, was it Conor? This Conor Lovett got eliminated right away. First, yeah. He was the pork chop. It's awful to be the pork chop. Is that what they call him? The pork chop is crazy. The first eliminated on the show was the pork chop. I guess someone has to be the first to go. I don't know. Wild. I'm seeded for it. It's Dedication Week. Julia Stiles and Ezra are dedicating to Heath Ledger. Some people are also divided on that. Like, okay, now we're doing too much. But I don't know. I'm like, well, you know. My least favorite, I will focus and shift that negativity to Tyler from The Bachelor, Tyler Cameron, who is dedicating his performance to mothers. Oh. Just mothers. Just mothers in general. Do you have a mother, sir? To an Ed Sheeran song. Oh. Read the room. Read the room to Supermarket Flowers. And this political client, like, Jesus Christ. To mothers and Ed Sheeran. Not even, like, his mom. Just mothers. Is his mom not going to dance with him? I have no idea. Because I know Savannah Banana's mom's dancing with him. That's sweet, I guess. So maybe, hopefully, the mom will at least be dancing. Hopefully. But I'm like, just make it about your mom. Like, why are we making general? Let me be dedicating it to, like, whales. And then all of a sudden, I have, like. You should dedicate yours to whales. Tonight. I hope that. You come dance with me. The whale. The whale would be really beautiful. That would actually be really cute. Because the whales need love, too. You could donate. Dedicate. Not donate. Dedicate your performance. I know. I want to make it to dedication night. Because I would love to dance with Moses. Whitney danced with Connor for dedication night last year. And I, like, loved their trio. Oh, I forgot about that. That was cute. And most people don't dance with their husbands. They either dance with, like, their kids. Or, oh, Malibu would. Because she would eat it. But you're a really good dancer, too. I guess dedication night is, like, the person that, like, changed your life the most. So, aside from the kids. Although, it would be really cute with Malibu, too. I don't know. Oh, it would be hard. And Malibu is a trained dancer these days. She is in dance training. Elvis, too. Elvis is a little bit of a wild card. Elvis is a great dancer. But she is wild. But you would be. You could do the lifts. And by that time, I'm going to be real skinny. You could really lift me. I feel like that would be really. Oh, no. We can't do lifts. Carrie Ann will yell at us. Only a samba. The samba. You can't do lifts. Just a samba. I swear there's other dances, too. There probably is. I just know with Jenna and Harry Sheum Jr., it was a samba. And in that one in particular, lifts are not allowed. Dancing with the Stars is so unserious, though. It really is. It's just like. People get very impassioned. And, again, respect. Love the people who care that much. But I'm like, it is Dancing with the Stars at the end of the day. You know, like, it is. Was Colin Gosselin on Dancing with the Stars? Colin. I don't know if Colin was. I don't think so. Are you sure? Because someone's like, oh, he did better than Kate. On Special Forces. Oh, Special Forces. Yes. Special Forces. Got it, got it. Because I saw someone from Dancing with the Stars on Jay Shetty this week. Ezra. I forgot his last name. French? French. Yeah. He's on Jay Shetty this week. And I was like, damn. How's he doing Dancing with the Stars and that? Busy. I don't think it's that hard to do Jay Shetty. Well, they do, like, 10 hours a day. So where are they going to. No, Jay Shetty, I think, takes a while. It takes a couple hours, I think, to film. But, yeah. It's still, like, in the same vicinity. It's not like he's going out of town. That's true. But, damn, after 10 hours of dancing. Well, the banana is having to perform with the bananas and then also do Dancing with the Stars. Banana's over. Banana season's over. Oh, it is? Yeah. Oh, it just finished, though. It finished. And Dancing with the Stars was in the finale. Like, all the troupe members and stuff. So they're like, this is the synergy. Yeah, it's the synergy. I heard that, too. That conspiracy theory. Which makes sense. Because very, I don't know. I don't know if Jackson Olsen has, like, stans like that. Granted, you know, I've seen some clips of the bananas. And it is quite impressive. It is good. And now there's stans. Now we love Jackson Olsen. That's his name? Love him. You love? Yeah, because people were making fun of his teeth. And then he's like, actually, guys, I got my teeth knocked out by a baseball. And I had to get them all replaced. So now you guys should feel like assholes. But you had to get them that big? Like, you can adjust the size. No shame. No shame. But you can control the size you get. Well, I guess sometimes you don't know. Like, Tana's teeth. She's like, I didn't know they were going to fall out all the time. You got to go to Chris Olsen's gay dentist. Because Chris Olsen's gay dentist got him veneers. But, like, made sure they were appropriate for a mouth. Is the dentist gay? Yes. He's, like, a gay TikToker. He's a TikToker dentist. Orthodontist. I love that. Is that why he went to him? Allegedly, they were just friends. Like, they were friends when he was in college. And the gay dentist slept on his couch when he was in college to get his dentistry degree or whatever. And the gay dentist said, you know, when I get my practice going, like, I will do your teeth or whatever. Okay. Well. Do I really believe that story? I believe there was. Oh, my God. Oh, my God. In your opinion. In my opinion. Allegedly, in my opinion. Yeah. So, that's what I think. Did he need his teeth done? Chris Olsen said he had really bad teeth and was quoted a lot of money when he was younger. And then he just never wanted to do it because he was afraid and it was so expensive. And his gay dentist friend, they were just roommates, and said that I'll do your teeth. So, he was holding out for him to do it. I think hot take, everybody. Don't get veneers. I think they look horrible on everybody. I don't think I saw one set of veneers where I'm like, and this is someone who really hates my teeth. Like, I always said. I had baby teeth. I had crooked teeth down here. Like, this is someone. I always had, like, gray ones. I finally got them, like, filled. I had, like, gray cavities. And now I got them huge and white. What are you doing here? If you had those teeth. I worked so hard to. I don't know if I could ever be close to you ever. I don't think I could kiss you. I don't think I could do anything. I would still be married, but. If I did it like Jonathan Bailey. Oh, let's see that. Let's see the, let's see the reenactment. You can't talk with this. You weren't here when we talked about the audible. You can do a little bit. You did give Jonathan Bailey, actually. Now there's a day with Dracula. Let's see. And then the bite was succulent in there. And I wanted to sink my teeth into this and just go. Delicious. Oh, he did some tongue stuff in there as well. Oh, must he? I wasn't looking. I should have been looking. I was too focused on it. I can't wait to watch it back. Wow, that was actually kind of hot. Love it. You sold me on it. I was trying to follow your audio. You should. That should have been your costume. Yeah. When I asked you what you were, you should have been that Jonathan Bailey as Dracula. Because that was a great one. It's all, it's everything moving so fast, you know. You know what I meant? The people who did my audible, that director of my audible directed that one. Oh, really? Because I was like, I'm a big fan of audible because they have Kiki Palmer read a lot of books too. And I love her readings because they do dramatization. And then I said, I love the Jonathan Bailey one because it was the same week. And like, oh, actually we worked on that. That's fierce. Yeah. And I was like, you guys nailed it. I was like, give me an apple because I'm about to bite into it. That was a great one, actually. But no, veneers are awful. They're the worst. They fall out all the time. They don't look good. They look fake. They're too big for everyone's mouth. And I just think we need to stop doing it. If you already have veneers, I'm so sorry. Keep them. You look great. If you don't have veneers and you're thinking about it, don't do it. They're expensive. Unless you have a Jackson Olsen, your teeth fall out and you have to. But then just go size down of whatever you're thinking. Just ask Tana first. Right. Don't go to her doctor because she also is like, this is the worst decision. She's always in teeth pain. Like, everyone thought Selena Gomez got her veneers out because her teeth look different. But obviously. You can't just pop them out. So the consensus is because she made an appearance for the Rare Beauty Benefit Fourth Annual Foundation. Oh, yeah. And. You're giving a little Mikayla in this, too. Because she went there. That's what made me think of that. Let's give Mikayla. Oh, it is giving Mikayla at the hand of Montana a little bit with the bangs. Yes. Also, it's bangs in general. Sometimes when she goes blonde, she starts in this little, like, honey color. Oh, period. Yeah. I'll take a Mikayla. Yeah. Love her. But Selena made an appearance. She was going back to her roots. As far as, like, the glam. She had, like, a red dress on. Her mug looked amazing. And people noticed her teeth looked different. And people were hoping her voice sounded a little bit different, too. But it did not. And. Well, she said that was from vaping or something. Yes. The teeth, though. I think the speculation is she had caps on or something. And she just removed the caps of her teeth. Oh, okay. Because her teeth do look different. Like, more natural. She looked amazing. I thought Selena looked great. But, yeah. She did address her voice. Because I think people were expecting her voice to sound different without, quote, unquote, veneers. Or caps. And she did post an Instagram story yesterday. And said that her voice sounds different because she was a vaper. I mean, I believe that. Right? Like, I feel like it ruins your cords. Yeah. It does ruin your vocal cords. She said, I've gotten this question a few times. The voice thing. Sometimes things happen. I get weird. My throat kind of swells inside sometimes. That's all. And she talked about how she had trouble quitting vaping. And I did remember in her wedding photos. There's one photo of her and Taylor Swift. And then she was holding a vape in her wedding dress. Very Tana Mongeau core as well. Oh, okay. Yeah. Just a little too addicted to it. So, she was a vaper like that. The voice does sound crazy, huh? Like, when you hear her when she was younger. Because I didn't know her voice before. I only knew her from Only Murders in the Building. And you're just like, is this a character voice? Is this what? I thought it was a nervous tick. Is what I was. Because she was doing it in, like, press and stuff. So, I'm like, oh, maybe she's just, like, anxious on the carpet or whatever. But, yeah. I guess vaping. Don't vape either. I mean, even Tana will tell you she's, like, a vaper. And she's like, do not vape. Because it's just, like, I mean, the coughing. And, I mean, obviously what it's doing to your lungs if you're coughing like that. Like, it's so crazy. And, again, I do a lot of vices as well. But it's, like, the vapes. I mean, it's just, like, not cute. Not attractive. Like, I can't imagine. What are they vaping? They're vaping weed or nicotine or both. It's nicotine, yeah. There's different flavors and stuff. but i have someone i have a friend that does it with weed yeah you can do that as well and then there's also like nicotine free vapes to help you wean off of it darian had a vape thing too for a long time he had to go nick free vape for a couple months and then vape free it's such an i almost think it's kind of worse than cigarettes because it's like chemically like i would imagine because it's still nicotine or tobacco whatever the it is in there but then it's also like chemically going through this like vape thing and all the flavors smell a little crazy some of them smell kind of good when you're like walking through it i guess but it's a little fruitiness it smells like really cheap like fragrance spray like that you would find at like a drugstore you're right and it's like very highly concentrated of like some crazy and you're inhaling that and like again tana's the first to tell you like she really does try to quit it she's like i've quit everything she's been sober and she's like i cannot do it so it's like really addictive as well like it just seems there's a lot of liquids going into your lungs too and it makes me really sad the gas is it something that addictive too and it's like you can't stop it and it's like they try the patches they try all this stuff and they can't like get rid of it i mean it's like they need to come out with like a glp one but for people who are addicted to you know i was addicted to food and the glp one like made me stop it's like they need that she tried to hypnotism i mean she tried like everything and it like does not work and it's like i know we sound very unk and mom and dad right now but it's the truth gen like gen z's love a little vape they love a little a cigarette jake shane i see you smoking flopcast or page i see wait really smoking i'm like you girls girls girls come on like literally the worst let's roll it back let's roll it back yeah stop there's another celebrity that said he's oh young hamish joseph zada he's like yeah i quit and then he was at the academy museum gala smoking walking with mckenna grace i'm like you got gen z let's get it together you guys and you're not only just harming yourself you're harming the people around you okay secondhand smoke is also very deadly and i swear to goodness when i was pregnant and someone was smoking around i would literally like go up to them and like snatch out their hand and be like truly it happened one time with someone in public like they were just smoking like just like just letting it rip and stuff like that we were waiting i was waiting to get my lotto tickets granted it was outside of a tobacco store but but this person was like letting it rip i'm like are you in line to get your your cigarettes now why do you have a cigarette while you're waiting in line to get a cigarette like what the hell and they and the door had to be open and like whatever i don't know what was happening and i was just like the person was just blowing the smoke while i was inside and they're blowing it out and i was like can you not and they literally wouldn't stop and i was like so pregnant i literally took it out and like did the little grease thing i stomped on the floor i was just like that's what the is your problem like my baby's gonna have like a deformity because of you like what the hell like could not believe it i was about to fight that lady and i didn't even care i like saw red i was just like let's not it's actually so gross and so disgusting and you're like harming they always somehow give you attitude like we were in a party you were pregnant we were in a party and there was like and it was dense you couldn't move you know it's not like you could just avoid the smoke and they were just smoking willy-nilly like that and i always say yeah and when we told them something they had like attitude about it i'm like oh my god i'm gonna die i'm gonna die i'm gonna die but i'm like no you don't get to 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working against you the uh the coloring as well like tv cameras are very flat and then have to be fixed in post-production yeah so michaela confronted et reporter danny directo for the hannah montana moment i don't think she remembered which outlet oh she remembered it and when i saw that danny was going to be there i texted her i was like i don't care what the hell you have to do you better bring in a ring light for this girl and you better smear the camera with a layer of vaseline you will so you had her back you're like we're gonna we're gonna get i wanted that interview no matter what so i was like i don't care if we have to rub vaseline on the lens of the camera so she just has like a glow she looks like a ghost like i don't care what the hell you have to do to get this interview i don't care if it's audio only like you have to do it and danny didn't have to try because michaela just went right up saw the mic flag and was like i have a bone to pick with you no publicist needed i'm coming up to et sydney slays didn't even have to step in sydney slays the goober herself who was also there didn't even have to control it i know because uh they tapped my hairstylist jason to do their hair for the event he was they did their own makeup i was finding all the details he's like michaela asked me to do her hair are you cool with her because you know we're we're cool with each other and he's like are you cool with her like should i say yes i don't know and i was like absolutely like she's a queen i need to know all the details like go do do the hair so he did her hair and sydney's and michaela was gagged for it he even saved it because like the next day she she had her hair like a zendaya braid is what they called it like a little zendaya braid in her hair and then she took it out the next day and she was gagged so he shout out jason jason you know she has these she has the bangs yes but he basically like took the bangs and blended the extensions like really because michaela's like only problem with her hair in the past has been the blended extensions which i've been there too girl like blended extensions are so hard but jason's a king and i'm glad she like got him because he like blended it all the way to the top that she even the next day she took her the braid out and it was just wavy and it blended so perfectly you couldn't even see her bangs which she clocked and it looked so so good and everyone's like this is the best your hair ever like so shout out jason hair you were amazing and he said they were very sweet and you know all the other thing is like influencers try to ask for like a deal oh can you give us a rate can you do exchange they'll try to do a net 30 for an hour oh and tipped well and he's like and that's not everyone knows how to not everyone does tip well because like especially when you get your make like hair done like at a hotel like they're coming to you it's a service it's the valet it's everything like that so um he said she was um amazing and a key and sydney slays as well he said they were both really great he just slicked back on sydney and i was very excited i was like wow i feel one step closer and he said to her he's like you really should do trish podcast and she said we've been we've been trying but our schedule's never lying which was true she did ask she's like i have this one day free and it was the one day i was doing my dating show i was like oh my god i'm so excited i'm so excited i'm so excited i'm so excited girl i would have made any other day work i know she's like so busy but girl we love you so much and like literally again pretty much any other day as long as i'm here i was so sad i was like damn that would have been the end all be all i'm sorry i love mckay flower i know that's a little polarizing in our comments and i was like we hate mckayla i love her i don't know what to say i do love her i have a little soft spot for her i do too i don't know problematic fave for sure i get when people are mad at her sometimes sometimes there's a little dtm sometimes people are dragging something that really is not that serious i'm with you guys with the chanels oh my god girl we need to stop buying the chanels fall never arrives all at once first the air then the light and slowly the things you love begin to find each other a jacket meets a dress a hoodie slips beneath a blazer an old cap finds a new scarf because you don't simply step into the season you create it layer by layer until it finally feels like it's over and you're like oh my god i'm so sorry i'm so sorry i'm so sorry i'm so sorry it feels like fall find fall your way at ross but other than that rage baiting rage bait yeah i just want to hear her say get ready with me to do the jazz trace broadcast yeah uh would die would actually die i know i always have like i always i always have like an issue with like her like buying all chanels but then i saw a clip of um brianna chicken fry saying she had an issue with like the way influencers spent money and my initial thought was like why does it why do you care and then i was like oh my god that's literally me why do i care because she'd be like it stresses me out the way influencers spend money and i'm like girl why is it stressing you out relax and then me with mikaela every day and i was like honestly it was like looking into a mirror and i needed it i needed that reflection and i was like damn why do we care at the end of the day let them spend money let them go broke or not let them flourish maybe she has like so much like maybe she's a billionaire at this point who knows but i was hearing her talk about i was like i hate this and i was like oh my god it's me so i'm screaming yeah but mikaela looked fierce you need to bring back the my strangest addiction celebrity version she does have a chanel oh mikaela that'd be all of you no wait wait wait i'm going somewhere with this i had an idea no no i realized that one day there'll be a documentary about the girl that was addicted to doing music videos but it is an interesting documentary it's not an addiction i have a tour babe i have an arena tour these are my set pieces but it wouldn't be interesting well you could also do a tour without music no you cannot mine as my set that is what my sets are i'm looking at it from the perspective of like it's interesting it's a good thing it's not a bad thing it's like because you have like how many music videos babe instead of you work so hard you you you skip the rolls royce you skip the g-wagon you deserve to do a music video for your tour that's what i'm saying you're sacrificing other things to do music videos but that's my tour because you're addicted no but that's because i mean those shows all of a sudden that's not an attack i was thinking last night i don't know why i woke up i don't know why you never brought this up to me ever before this that's last night i was up at four in the morning thinking about like an interesting documentary and it's about somebody that loves making music videos that's what you were thinking and then i saw it all like interviews with andrew behind the scenes the sets how you choose the themes and the music like which you know there's the beetlejuice era there's the troy bolton there's the there's so many different arts about this because i have another one coming up friday i think that you just waited for his moment he's like well she's been in a bad mood this past weekend now time to bring up on the podcast that is funny no not at all i was really thinking so much but that's what i'm saying yeah yeah you try being a music video creator for a day but that's what i'm saying from me back you guys my dad asked me about oh did you get the g-wagon no baby there's gonna be no g-wagon this lease is it's lasting till 2029 even though he's gonna take it back and the pink rolls where it still calls me we got it already ready to ship i'm like okay well we're just we're taking a pause anyways sorry tlc if you're doing a documentary that's crazy well i do tour and i need new songs as they do when they come out that is funny i i'm telling you that documentary is going to happen i i'm moses waited to say that this whole weekend i was like oh my god no no no it was not expected i thought maybe weekend i literally this morning i was up it's like 4 30 in the morning until since we're having conversations on the podcast i also would like to apologize for you are right you are right you did ask me if i wanted dinner when i came home at 9 00 p.m and i did say don't worry about it i ordered food to the house so i apologize i wasn't even upset i was like oh i was starving friday and you're like well i offered to cook and i was like well when do i not want food and then he's like well sometimes you don't sometimes you eat i said no he's like well sometimes you don't sometimes you eat sometimes you eat sometimes i said no he's like you were eating on tick tock what was i eating and you're right i sometimes do something sometimes i get capital girls sometimes i get bruxies you asked me saturday after the halloween nights light thing we went on and i didn't eat that night either and i was also annoyed and i was just like damn i'm hungry right now actually could you go whip a cajun chicken pasta at midnight like it was giving that vibe where i was like damn i am hungry so i think every time and i meant to apologize yesterday after we ate dominoes because i was feeling so full and i was like i need to apologize now because you were right on that situation and then i felt bad so i'm sorry thank you but you don't even need to i know i felt bad i did feel bad and you do always offer you always offer to cook and you're like i can have something ready for you because usually i would it's just it was so late at night that i really didn't know if you're walking in the door straight to bed because i was i was tired yeah you were up like every day she would wake up at four in the morning and you'd be on set at six in the morning and then you'll be back at home at like nine pm yeah so you would like go straight to bed so i just had no idea and the problem is i'm skinny throughout the day so i like i literally would be like i have a chicken caesar wrap for lunch and like that's it i eat like half of it but then i'm starving but it is like 9 30 and it's like i should the night before i did stop to go then the second night i did get bruxy's delivered and i ate on the way home and then friday night i just didn't i just should have eaten and i was just so hungry yeah and i think i i just know that it's more like you have an issue of asking because for me it would have been fine if you were like living in the set and just text me like hey can you just like because i even asked i think like do you want me to boil some water which means you know throw in some pasta yeah no you did ask that you did ask that too and i said no you're right but i know you have hard time asking for food so that's well not this week i gave you the menu i gave you the right yeah that's the best that's the best when we know exactly the meal plan yeah because i think in my mind it's like kids and babies they have such a like they need the routine yeah and when the routine was broken last week yeah yeah it was tough it was like my dad we have a um one of our we have a babysitter who's a filipino and um my dad was like he could he's my dad's very much like me as you can tell you know where i get my food issues with my dad is he's like me we just have food issues right can be like a little bit you're very skinny my dad's very skinny and stuff like that but could be like a binger whatever a bear that and like we have a we have one of our babies we love so much and she's filipino and my dad like could help himself he's like oh have you ever like made like lupia oh my god were you there how did you know this and she's so sweet and she's like oh my gosh like she's like oh my god yes i actually can cook it whatever and then she made us lumpia and she all you gotta do is drop them in the fryer and i'm just like oh i'm just thinking about that lumpia for tomorrow that sounds so good oh my god that literally but my dad is very much like me like oh you're from the philippines and he's like but she does actually cook really good lumpia so she's like actually i'll make it and then she sent me a text like i made you lumpia and share some with your dad too and i was like oh my god it was like really really nice so me just thinking about food because i haven't had a home-cooked meal in like a week because i've been gone for 14 hours a day and it really is a love language and it really is like you spoiled me because you know i like i can't eat out now i just like i just what what are you gonna do panda express i couldn't even really eat that because moses makes such good like rice and chicken i know i was really excited to eat it and it was fine but i was like it just doesn't hit like moses's chicken stir fry with the water chestnuts and green things so it's very difficult for me to eat out now but for me well you always had a good cook no just here like you know going to school when i went to college it was hard when it was like i was working all night going to school all day but it's like i would just go out on the street and be like what's out there just a quick meal it was always well you grew up with like a really good like home-cooked meals so i think that's why the difference is i always grew up with like mcdonald's and so i switched up we did domino's yesterday and that was really that's when i was happy and i was gonna text you and i was just like not text you i was gonna talk to you we were in person and i was gonna talk to you about it but um yeah when you have kids thin crust pizza is a lifesaver if you need it like fast and it's like a little snack like a little cracker it's only 500 calories for that whole pizza and we all have a little piece the kids all love it it's so tiny you love a thin crust from domino's i do but i like their hand toss yes and they're dominant the domino at domino's is really good domino's is my favorite this is not sponsored go to my instagram or tick tock you guys domino's is hosting an event with me in november 9th in new york city and there's a chance to win you guys can um read i'm gonna read the memoir and you guys can eat pizza with me it's really fun the contest is going on now but go to tick tock and instagram for those details because i don't know what i say on here but um they really just have my heart they really like it feels good to be recognized right because a part of my little spiel on there was like you guys every time i cried on the kitchen floor domino's was nearby which is true jimmy i'm not going to make you do it but i have at least two dozen domino's of me on the kitchen floor and i was like damn i was so excited they wanted to do this event with me so shout out domino's and i do love their domino one i do get that a lot because that also is tiny it's like a little personal pizza good i love that domino kind of sounds great i do have another food hot topic that's a great transition sorry oscar just like me like oh this is like couple therapy or something yeah i'm so sorry i feel like we've been good i felt bad about it all weekend because i was you were you were being in a fun happy mood and i was being in a pissy mood moses chocolates went missing too but that's a whole other story that's a whole other story his brand new box of seized candies it's very niche and i won't bother you guys with the details but it was wild and i felt bad like i have that thing when you're chocolate at night and he was ready for it he's like when you go there and the box is not there but you also like don't sleep a lot at night so you think like have i misplaced it did i do like you know you thought he was going crazy yeah it was a brand new box and like he loves to seize candy and i'm like do you have one every night he's like it's my thing i have a couple every night i was like oh i'm i felt so bad and then you were being in a good mood about it because it was so funny what happened with these chocolates it has nothing to do with our kids or anything like that it was something else it's it's dubious it's niche but um but you were like in a great you were in a silly mood about it because it was so ridiculous and then i felt bad for you i was like no i know you really wanted those chocolates no i'm more in just shock about it everything. Anyways, if you want to know the chocolate story, maybe we can go into it somewhere else. It is crazy. It plagued us all weekend. It was making us like, anyways. I think it's going to be in the next book. The start of the next book. Case of the missing chocolate. Yeah, sorry. Thank you so much to Fabletics for sponsoring today's episode of Deathstress. I have been obsessed with my Fabletics sets. Okay, you guys know I'm a Pilates hottie. I love my runs. I'm currently training for a 10K and a marathon. I am so obsessed with working out and thank you so much to Fabletics for finally making workout clothes that are catered to all sizes from extra small to 4X. There is something for everyone. They have great support if you have a larger chest. They have a no rub policy on the thighs with their leggings. I will never chafe again thanks to Fabletics. They also have the bands for the tummy that do not roll down, okay? No more just like pulling them up constantly and feeling uncomfortable. 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C's needs to sponsor James. I haven't seen everyone doing that. That is kind of funny. I don't know if C's needs to sponsor him. No, no, no. We love C's. I almost DM C's because they've DM'd me in the past before. I almost DM'd them. Yeah, they did. This really traumatic experience happened to my husband. It was like previous Halloween, right? Yes. Yes, they sent me one before. And Moses loves C's. If C's responds to anyone, it should be Moses because we are a C's family. We go there at least twice a week and he picks them out. He picks out chocolates one at a time. He's very meticulous about it. No nuts. C's if you're going to send them. We do not need that. It's not an allergy. It's just a preference. We take our C's very serious. What's the flavor they have right now that they always, you know, they always offer like an Irish cream around St. Patrick's Day. What's the flavor now? For Halloween, what do they have? Oh my God. We love a free sample too. They just had lots of packages like Halloween themed, like for treat and treat. Oh, they don't have like a special flavor? There was a box. It wasn't it? Yeah, I was like, mom, let's get this box. Oh, did you? Because she has a little like, it's like a gumball machine for jelly beans. And I refill it once in a while. She does love the jelly beans. And shout out C's for always giving out free samples to everyone. Because even if you have no intention of buying something, like we'll always see high school kids go in there and they just give out like free samples. And then they're always kind of like, when we're like, oh, we're going to get a box. Like, oh, great. Like they're always kind of surprised. I think people just go in there and get free samples. And more places need to do that. Like McDonald's should give out a little machine so college kids can get French fries for free. What? Yeah, I read an article. It's a new thing that they're rolling out on some college campuses. Oh, my God. I think that's the most like, what's the word? Not patriotic. What is it? What's when you get like give philanthropic thing you could do right now. This is what the world needs for French fries. Because their fries are bomb. If there's one thing I'm going to get, I always, you know, if I'm at a long distance, you can track me, Moses. Because it's usually for dinner purposes. Like he's like, when I'm going to be home. But he'll always see me at a McDonald's. He'll always be like, get me an extra fry too. Because I'm always going to get a Diet Coke, a small French fry, and the vanilla ice cream cone, but kid size. It's so good. And it like makes me want to cry a little bit that they're doing that. That's actually so sweet. I love that. Oh, my God. That should be the biggest hot topic. That's great. Wow. Love that. Well, there was an investigation into the burger brokers. It's the black market of In-N-Out delivery services, which I thought was so interesting because In-N-Out, uh, famously will never put their food on a delivery service. So you can't Uber Eats it. You can't Postmates, no Grubhub. I hate it, but I respect it because you got to get it fresh. Like it just doesn't taste the same. If we don't eat it as soon as we pull out of there, or sometimes we're restaurant people, we'd like to eat inside. But if you don't put it as soon as you pull over, it's just not as good. It loses the flavor. When people eat cold cheese fries on TikTok, I'm like, you are a felon. Like go to jail. Like, why are you doing that? Like, that's crazy. Okay. So yeah, they've vowed to never offer delivery services for their decision though, is more on not so much the taste, but the direct customer to In-N-Out employee interaction. Cause they say that that's the best part of In-N-Out is that you go and you interact directly. It is great. It is the founder or the CEO of In-N-Out says the main reason is because part of what makes In-N-Out and the experience so special is the interaction and the customer service that we're able to get. So it's like, I don't know, it's like, I don't know, I don't know. I don't give the smile the greeting the warmth and feeling the culture love the community but it's so real have you ever eaten inside of one inside no yes of course but it's it is the best they give stickers to the kids every single time the kids will put stickers on the table and i'm like don't put stickers on the table because it's hard to get off and then they're always like it's fine if if you like even when we start throwing stuff away we got it they'll bust the table for you like anything anything you want to swirl the shakes you can't do that on like the food delivery service that like you know like you can't ask for custom things like that like they really are the best the spoons for the like they really are i agree it is an experience and it should be saved as such well there is a black market mostly taking place on facebook marketplace where multiple people have placed orders with people who posted listings on facebook marketplace who offer to pick up food from in and out for buyers but a lot of the reports say people pay up front as much as 50 for deliveries and then they you know never receive their food and because the service isn't officially offered by in and out or like a postmates or an official platform a lot of the times they can just ghost and they're getting zelda cashed up up front and then just of course what do you what do you expect on facebook oh could you go give me something now yes send me 50 bucks okay never see you again like i what do you mean like that's on them that's on them 100 like that's so crazy what do you expect now i guess if you're physically not able to leave their house and then they should offer that delivery service but like other than that it's like just don't be lazy just like go get your internet it's an experience it is an experience it's just like you wouldn't like i guess chili's is on there but it's like you want to go for the in benihana right the habachi experience like that is the equivalent like in and out is the exact same way you just go for the the fresh the experience the customer interaction i was salty though because on sunday i was going home and i had to like work so i didn't i wanted in and out but i didn't have enough time to stop in and out oh yeah and then i was like oh i can just order it and i was like oh wait no i can't and i didn't have that moment of like you in and out like just put your food on postmates but you are selling me on it like it is good fresh yeah it is a good experience the time constraint's hard yes the time constraint unless you're going at 10 30 which is a hack that trisha k pay to stop me 10 25 like yeah if you get there bright and early it's super easy but anytime after 11 it is rough those pepperoncinis i was gonna say even if you wait too long in the drive-thru the food gets cold and it's yeah that is true yeah it's it's it's but it's worth it it's a challenge but it's worth it if it's worth fighting for it's worth having you know i some maybe like maya angelou or something okay i do love that yeah nevertheless she persisted that was a good one too you have great quotes all the time don't they have food trucks like in and out food trucks i mean i think that's the solution i just seem to kind of drive around town and have certain spots that day we should get one for our christmas party because people used to do that people used to do that where they followed food trucks you know when the hype was of the food trucks yeah so that's that's the solution you know like well seven o'clock they'll be around our street so we'll go down and get it or something oh i loved a food truck back in the day me too but now food trucks are more expensive than restaurants a lot of the times and it gets to a point it's just the inflation of it all like everything's just so expensive yeah it's cool gas is so expensive now too it is hard out there i know damn i need to get this economy yeah back on track that also reminds me of something that i was talking about I didn't prepare this, but I did see it, and it annoyed me, and it's related, But there is a very famous Twitch streamer. His name is Stable Ronaldo, who seems very nice, all things considered. But there was a clip of him because obviously he's live streaming. But one of their delivery drivers from one of those delivery services, like a Grubhub, asked, like, hey, like, I keep coming to your house, like, multiple times every day, but you never tip. And, like, gas is getting really expensive. And then he talked about it on stream and, like, was – because it had just happened and then was, like, laughing about it. But I'm like, no, you make millions of dollars. A hundred percent. If you're a streamer, influencer, making, like, literally millions of dollars, like, a hundred percent. I always – I don't even do the 25 percent anymore. Like, if it's, like, a Starbucks order for 40 bucks, something like that, and it's, like, a $9 tip or whatever, it's, like, I always, always do 20. Like, think about $20. Like, that is, like, minimum. Like, that's, like you said, there's gas, there's the conditions, there's the thing. Like, minimum if you're, like, an influencer. I do think tipping should be kind of based also how much money you make. I do think if you are someone making just, like, $100,000 a month, like, you should be tipping, like, 20 to 30 bucks. Like, minimum. Because it's – If you do $100, you know I do a $100 tip for every one of my cash. A hundred. She'll put 30 percent at least for Postmates. And sometimes, let's say, it's a Mastro's $300 thing. You know, it's $100. Mastro's Ballet, I'm giving $100. So, I always – I don't care how much. They're always appreciative and happy. But the thing is, if you're a streamer and you're sitting, you're working, right? You're saving. You want to work for that hour instead of going to get the food. So, you're making money in that hour. How much are you making in that hour? It's only fair to, you know, tip the person that's helping you do that. A thousand percent. Because it's not like you're – sitting by the pool. You're literally working. You're making money in that moment. So, it's – Yeah. I think you should definitely tip based on, like, how much you're making. And that's a great point. Like, if it's costing you your time, that's the whole point. That's why people have assistants and all that stuff like that. Because it's more your time to pay someone else to, like, get that stuff done so you can continue working. So, you're weird. And then also to, like, talk about it and, like, make fun of it. You're weird. And I don't know. I want to say I hope they spit in your food. I'm just saying. Give the good tip. And I get it. Like, I get it too. I was like, ugh, people – Yeah. And now tip culture gets – people get very weird about it. But I think particularly if you are making, like, a million dollars a month. Yeah. At least hundreds of thousands a month at least. He's very, very, very, very, very popular. Yeah. You can tip. You can afford to tip. I do the 50. That's how I felt about James Charles not tipping. It's like – I know. If you're, like, making content, you're also making content around not tipping. So, it's not only you're doing it in secret. That's – whatever. That's one thing. But if it's part of your content, if you're not tipping, like, that's – Yeah. You're just a shitty person. Yeah. Yeah. We hate you. Oh, another bad influencer that you also had a Trish Stradamus prediction for, Bryce Hall. I know. That was crazy. I mean, I would say it's crazy and I am intuitive and all of that. But, like, he's a piece of shit. It wasn't that far of a – Yeah. I was like, well, he's been a piece of shit. But I love that everyone was like, oh, she's so psychic. I know. Sometimes I am. I feel like anyone with common sense probably could have seen that. That was me with Charlie D'Amelio's dad. But, again, it's, like, it's not really being, like, intuitive. It's just, like – My eyes are open, baby. I'm awake. I've been awake for a while. I'm 38 years old. Like, you know what I mean? Like, it's – I could tell that in my life. But I do love – I do love that. I know. I just saw one TikTok. I loved this guy. I really liked it. But he's like, Trish is like a prophet. And I was like, period. I mean, I'll take it. I am – I am rarely wrong. I will say that. Like, I am very rarely wrong on people for sure. But, damn, yeah. And I got it to the time, to the T, five years, I said. That is – And it was five years since the clip. That part is crazy. I was like, five years, prison. Yes, because he – Bryce Hall is facing felony charges after his ex said he threw her onto rocks during a dispute over a Roomba. What a piece of – It is a crazy – I've hated him from the beginning. I hate this guy so much. He is kind of the worst. And I never really thought he was attractive. But especially now. It's like, how are you going to have a terrible personality and also be ugly? It's like, literally. Yeah. You can't have a bad personality anymore because you also, like, look chopped. So you can't – Exactly. Have a chopped heart as well. Like, you're not hot and, like, cute. He threw her, he said? Yeah, so that's the charge, the allegation. He threw her over – So they were breaking – They broke up in July. She – This is obviously all alleged as of right now. They broke up in July. She went back to his house to collect her belongings. And one of the things that they were arguing about was the possession of a Roomba, the little, like, robot vacuum. And he – Bryce allegedly blocked her. He blocked her from entering in to get the Roomba. And he forced her out physically, allegedly, and then threw her onto the rocks that are, you know, like, landscaping rocks that are outside. Oh, my God. Yeah. So he allegedly physically picked her up, threw her down, and she landed on the rocks. Ew. And she was recording on her phone. It was in her pocket, but you can hear the audio. So the audio was reviewed. And that's how the charges ended up coming to light. Although – Although Bryce's attorney said these allegations are false, and we look forward to the facts coming out in court. Wow. Okay. Did he get arrested? He's facing a charge. He will have to show up in court. The hearing is scheduled for December 1st. And it's just the initial hearing to see if there's probable cause to see if it goes to court. So it won't say if he's guilty or not. It's just that initial hearing to see if there's enough evidence there that he is – Possibly be guilty. And then it will go to court. And she's out of your recording or something. Yes. And she also said she had a friend witness as well. Yeah. My bets are – I had a – And his argument or his legal argument is that they were afraid of her because there was a knife behind her where she was standing. These guys. And – But they're bullshit. Okay. Yeah. So that's his – So he had a – That's what his defense would be is that he was – He had – she had a knife. So he's like, let me go closer to her and grab her. It's like, okay, that makes zero sense. Dumb ass. I hate him so much. Okay. Well – And I guess he posted about his breakup in July and said it wasn't a pretty breakup as well. So I guess there's been drama around it for a while. His reputation per season. Let's say that. Yeah. No interest in this person. Honestly, I like Josh Richards over this guy. Aren't they from the same group? I have no idea, but I would definitely take Josh Richards over. At least he is nice for his girlfriend. Although he didn't show up to Victoria's Secret, but whatever. I know. As far as we know, he's at least nice for his girlfriend. At least he's supporting from at home and not throwing her over rocks allegedly. And Tana Marie, listen, I will forgive a lot of things for Tana. That's a sister to me for sure, but Team Paparazzi on God. I switched my costume. I was going to be Tana, Team Bryce on God because I love her outfit. I love how like she looks. Team Paparazzi, Team Bryce on God. Yeah, I loved it. But then I was like, I'm not about to say Team Bryce on God, so I'm switching. Did you see my Tana outfit in there? No. Oh, yeah. Shout out Eddie's online. He's been doing all my costumes. He made a great recreation of Tana's outfit. I know. I said it too. Can we just wear it? I love it. I just love Halloween time. I love the time. No one dresses Bryce Hall. I guess he's a streamer. What's he doing? I don't know. Is he a streamer? I see him on Twitter all the time just fighting with people because I believe it's because he has a blue checkmark, so he fights with people over like misogyny, immigration rights. Basically, he just says everything very conservative and problematic, and he goes back and forth. And I think it's just to get engagement so he can collect a couple pennies from a blue checkmark check. Sad. Yeah. A sad way to live for sure. He's very odd and ugly too, so just all the way. Pick a struggle. You can't be it all. Yeah. But damn, yeah. You go from getting like Raising Cane sponsorships to like fighting with people. When he was with Addison, I think they were kind of like a powerhouse for a minute. Raising Cane's loves giving a check to just about any old problematic person. I love a Raising Cane's too, but yeah. I do love a Raising Cane's, but again, it gets to a point. Your bread is good. I can't handle another Dave Portnoy sponsorship. Yes. No shade. Where's Dave Portnoy? I guess he was promoting his book and then he just bounced. He's like, I'm out. There was some weird, there was a drama of him and this girl who her thing is like it girls. I saw, I tried to tap in for this drama, but I was like, Dave Portnoy just annoys me too much. So I'm like, I need to protect my peace at some point. I make a lot of sacrifices. I investigate many different communities, many different dubious people. This one we could skip. I don't know if anyone's that seated for a Dave Portnoy hot topic these days. He's just kind of annoying. Although the girl that he was fighting with. He showed all the DMS trying to like, so make her look bad. And she was just dragging him. She's like, you are disgusting. Like you are just a terrible person. Like nobody takes you. It's like, she was, it was his evidence was him getting read to filth by this girl. I'm like, okay, well you're just making me like her more. So I guess Corey King, when Corey King is like white face, it's like, I'm mixed. Yuck meat. Oh yeah. So good. Her, her diction, like the way she talks like Jeffrey is like, so spot on, the hair, the hair, just being like. Anyways, no shade to Jeff. I like by to Jeffrey Corey and getting yak meat and then just the freeze. God, I just, Corey star is crazy. Yeah, it's actually Corey star gets me every time I've seen it all. But every time there's a clip, I always am watching it again. It's not funny. She's truly my fave. I just, the dedication to these cosplays too, like really gets it down. And I'm just like, damn. And I know how expensive that all is in the detail. It's like not easy and she's crushing it. Honestly. Yeah. Shut up. Because the shade is playing Dawson is insanely accurate. I keep seeing these fan cast of the drama get in movie. Yeah. And I've seen like a Robert Pattinson for Shane Dawson. I looked like him and the one I saw too, when they did side by side, I was kind of, okay, I could see it. I could just playing everybody. But playing Dawson is so vividly accurate that I'm like, that should be it. I gotta give it to playing the drama. Get it. Remake for sure. Maybe. I can't wait to see what Dawson can play Shane. You know, the more serious. I see it. I see it. The more serious Joan. But it's so good. And we'll have. What's his name? Nor the relentless. we'll have him play Moses even though I'm still going for Devin Dell have you seen this diagram what is it oh my god I got tagged on this too oh you saw what is this the biblical breakdown of YouTubers I did not see that far it's a biblical breakdown yes you are you're the center it's really good oh my god that is so funny what's your title again the Holy Spirit I'm the mother oh you're the mother I'm the mother this is the mother the daughter and what's Jane the Holy Spirit what's it and then there's there's a Lucifer so Jeffrey Starr is Lucifer is Judas James Charles James Charles is Judas crazy Jesus is what's her name who what one oh Jesus oh Jenna Marbles Jenna Marbles she's Jesus that's so funny yeah I guess she was sacrificed the 12 apostles I mean Emma Chamberlain's in there right yeah and man I don't know all their names I mean I love being in the center of that Garrett and yeah you don't know all the names you know Garrett that's pretty good I'll give you that they're like third generation Shane had like a series of friends all the time he was like a David Dobrik where like his friend group really elevated him I mean Shane was funny of course but like they all elevated him and like from when I knew him I think Garrett and Andrew were like the third or fourth generation of friends that came through the Shane because everyone's like this was the group and I was like I mean originally it was like Steve Green Brie Lisa Schwartz God I forgot about that Shawna Malcolm yeah Shawna came around so then it was like kind of Shawna me and Drew we were kind of like second gen and then I think it was the Ryland administration I suppose the Ryland administration is crazy the Ryland administration oh my god not to say Ryland not it's a weird transition but Kola Skola was doing interviews where were they at with the Academy the Academy Museum Gala on Saturday night and they were talking about like I think it was is it Variety the one with the white microphone yes I love that guy he always interviews me on the cover too Mark Malkin shout out he's great he always has like a good energy and I'm always like he feels like a celebrity anyways Variety asked Kola if they would do a movie musical and then they said absolutely not nobody wants that and I'm just like and then had the hair the Chanel the blonde thing I just love them so much they're one of my favorite people oh okay I did have a quick David Dobrik segment just cause I knew this would rage bait you and that kind of made me laugh okay thank you love a good rage bait so I saw a clip on Twitter and I was like of David Dobrik meeting Heath Hussar's baby for the first time Zan and Heath? Zan and Heath the Heath of that Heath? yes what's his last name Hassan? Hussar Hussar? yes oh my gosh is he Middle Eastern? I never knew that was his last name Hussain? Hussar Hussar? yes H-U-S-S-A-R okay his name's Heath Hussar I never knew that okay sorry okay I don't know I was your friend baby that's crazy I just know I met Zan and Heath the day Heath had a baby? oh yeah I kind of remember okay wow oh wow okay it's just crazy to think because in my head they're all like 19 but I guess they are probably like adults now okay that's exciting and David I wouldn't want David holding my baby I always think about that when I'm with my babies if we're in Hollywood I'm like please please if David I'm going to shield them as if we're in Bird Box or something don't look don't whatever that sounds like so scary for a child to experience anyways okay do you want me to give you the synopsis of what the greetings were the greeting gift was to the baby or do you want to see it for yourself and be shocked I already pissed I'm already pissed that he's like around the baby but I you saw this he got no I didn't see it David brought the baby some toys some questionable toys I mean there must be sponsors first of all so we got to think surprisingly not sponsored okay not like so it's not a little Tesla no a Tesla I would have been gaggier I guess was it filmed of course it was filmed the baby so it was sponsored for him like it was I'm surprised he showed the baby because they're really blur face but oh but even so they're pretty like protective yeah I guess for David Overblock yeah you gotta if dad David says jump you say ha ha okay here's the baby it's like okay hi buddy oh my god welcome welcome to Nashville how are you okay it's cute can't hear nobody Tony you're a real father I know wow I love how close it is to the living room this is a good hallway that's the nicest way of calling my house small oh my gosh I just love I love how close the rooms are to the living room what the he got you he's funny he's funny oh here we go you could be like him look at this what is this cigarettes a cigarette pack that's so nice show them show them what what after we just did our whole cigarette segment are they chocolate or what it's a it's a dog toy technically there you go look at this a budweiser a six pack of beer you are what the what's wrong with you also he has like a drinking problem like nobody talks about it like I'm not even being funny like I think he quit I want to say he quit because I you know I used to listen to unfiltered but I don't listen to it anymore I promise you I don't listen they got too boring for me but I do remember him saying I think he like quit drinking and stuff because it just was like too much because they had like a serious problem like I don't know if Zane did I think Zane still drinks but I remember he was talking about it and I'm like good for he like getting his like life together getting married having a baby but like what the f*** is your problem first of all even if your dad didn't have a drinking problem which he does and he talks about and that's like nothing to be like ashamed of but it's like what the f*** is your problem like David is so like and to film it I guess it's one thing if you're like this is like an inside joke or a little group pass or something like that but you're like filming this and putting it on your vlog and it's like you're so weird it's giving Eric when he's like can I borrow your baby and do a kidnapping prank and I'd be like no what the f*** I just had Malibu like three months ago like why the f*** would I do that with my first born baby like you're so weird this is weird David is weird and you know David is gonna do that without asking he's gonna prank them and replace them with a little bear cub or something wait what what replace Steve's baby with a bear cub you know they go to the nursery and they're like where's the baby and there's a bear cub and they're like you gotta be like he did this hypothetically you're thinking he could do this yeah I think he's gonna do that in his opinion okay that was okay but he's actually doing something horrible this is weird why are you filming it why are you doing this when obviously like Heath has issues with this too it's a baby it's like again it's very much frozen in like 2018 and Heath's character still is the drinker and the smoker so I'm gonna give his baby like it is so no that whole thing was giving me 2018 like the laughing the jokes to me the laughing because I didn't see it I just heard it and I just heard the constant oh it triggered me right away I'm like back I'm like oh like why are we still stuck here like it's like David and Natalie and some other loser in the back and you're just like what the f**k is happening like are we still in 2018 that this is our gig aren't we all like grown David is at least 30 now I'm sure I'm sure they've all aged you know what I mean like I'm sure everyone's age is like how have we not grown up like Heath has clearly like we're seeing him at a house like his did he say he's in Nashville like it's like he's in Nashville he has like a baby and he's protecting the baby that's great what the f**k are we doing and Heath what the f**k are you doing doing this with David still you have a great podcast on your own you have a podcast with Remy and Alicia the queens of being unproblematic like we don't need David anymore you've elevated you've got Remy and Alicia in your corner these are our brand deal cuties they will get a sponsorship with Domino's they will get a sponsorship with Guess Jeans like this is what you need to be Disneyland I don't think David's doing anything David is with Snapchat David's got a Snapchat he's got a Snapchat brand deal it's like Anne doing what are we doing Heath and it makes me sad and this is why I'm like damn we're all rooting for you but also like we're still doing this like it's not cute is it worth it it's not worth it it's not worth it because David Dobrik is a flop these days and it's like no one people have more impact if you're collabing with Remy and Alicia than you were David like you do not need this like I don't know what you're doing and if it's loyalty keep it off camera you know what I mean yeah come visit Nashville no filming I just had a baby we don't need a film that's weird Heath I'll give you a little credit but David you're weird for this Heath I'm side eyeing a little but I'm rooting for you as a dad and you know what it's so funny because like seeing Heath with a baby I'm like oh okay yeah like you know you do think like automatically you grow up a little bit but seeing Dave with a baby I'm just like someone help that baby get that baby out of his arms that's the first thought I was like oh my gosh get him out maybe I'm biased am I biased I don't know maybe you guys can tell me in the comments below is this weird maybe it's because I hate David it really is the first time meeting Heath's baby and like you're instantly idea is to make it a bit it is like it gets to a point it's very much it gets to a point first born too like this is their first baby like six months old like it's not a prop it's not something you just like film and it's like even if Heath's like okay with it it's fine if it's Heath and Heath can do whatever he wants with the baby obviously but like if someone's like can I film this your baby I'm like no like I can film my baby you can't like it's just weird I would have a different opinion if it was even if it was just like an earnest him meeting like that is such a big milestone like a friend that you grew up with who you never thought would like settle down is Mary has a baby and you like whatever you got permission to document it in the vlog that's one thing but to make it a bit giving it not even like it's a dog toys cigarettes and beer like there's so many layers like why are you giving a baby dog toys why are you giving a baby dog toys in the shape of cigarettes like it's all very weird and who's watching it thinking it's funny like who's because they think okay somebody's gonna think this is funny this is hilarious I'm like who the tweet that I it came up with for me too it was posted as like a pod like a funny clip from like one of those it's like a twitch clip account like on twitter or whatever i was like because it was a crying laughing emoji with a cigarette emoji i was like what this is so weird well i guess like what we're saying is like it's a 2018 joke of like he loves to like drink and smoke so they're like what age is their followers to think it's funny like to see this and be like oh my god i think the it doesn't exist i think the followers do not exist anymore i think they're bots that are from snapchat no i think it's like kids obviously it's like kids obviously who else is like i don't know anyone who's like this is so funny let's clip it it's weird all of it's weird and he's just not funny i think it is outdated i think it was funny for people in 2018 i really don't know anyone who finds like i never see clips of this on tiktok and i'm on tiktok i'm online like i'll see clips of like shane and his canceled screening or something like that but i never see clips of this you know what i mean and i'm on that my phone hears me i'm talking about david as we do the podcast yeah you are a listener yeah yeah i i did i used to listen to views a lot and i literally don't anymore because literally it got actually the most boring thing it was 40 minutes of them just be like damn wait to fill 40 minutes damn let's get 500 people in here literally they'll be like there's 20 people in this room right now not one percent interesting i just stopped i was like i actually had to like delete my that's the only thing i wasn't that's why i'm deleting this i did love stephanie sue but i like stop so anyways whatever nobody cares and i love it i love that nobody cares but i do love that you show me these little clips because i do love to get my moments of like maybe david's changed oh no he has not he actually still awful he's giving bryce hall where it's like oh five years later you're still the worst like you have learned nothing from you're not you're still the worst like you have learned nothing from your your anything the jeff incident all these women that were like you're you know this is not great sense of humor it's like you still do the same content seven years later and you're still awful would love to see a change and grow from david would love to see him become philanthropic is it bill gates who does it who gives money out to everybody someone please marry david to the baby like here's a college fund there's something something for the future or i don't know like here so you want to be like i steal a snapchat making jokes exactly here's the future we're going to put you 100 000 you know how they tell us like put 100 000 in and it becomes a million by the time they're 18 like do something like that he did all those tesla stocks something please someone marry david so you can divorce him take his money and do something good like melinda gates and then we're going to champion you you could be the the you know previous mrs dobrik who's taking that money and doing good and we'd love to see it so someone start that start the scheme now we want to see it all right you guys that's been our hot topic yes well i just saw this update to end on you don't need to deliberate on it but i just literally saw this as i hit back on the david dobrik tweet rosie o'donnell cast as abby lee miller and and wait for real the unauthorized dance mom's music no no it's pop cream i'm a rosie apologist she could be cast as david dobrik in the musical and i'd be like yes absolutely love her eat it up okay it could be camp rosie's great i i have no no thoughts on that other than i can't believe i believe he's getting whatever and uh christian chenoweth will play kathy nesbit stein that's not real from the candy apples next door no way there is no way this is real this is where i'm going take my money i guess damn and abby lee you know it's going to probably be making some money off of this damn it well it is unauthorized so maybe she won't yeah period love the casting who can i be jojo how do i get in this somehow that was funny shout out to broadway killing it all right you guys that's been our hot topics leave us a comment was i too harsh maybe i'm too harsh maybe i'm too biased i will admit bias in the last one david dobrik and stay away from those veneers and the cigarettes and those cigarettes and clock oscar's tea today because he's looking so so you're looking so tea you really are you look so good i they need to see full body for sure you need a full body head to toe moment you are looking great and you are looking great too babe thank you guys so much for being here happy halloween and we'll see you in a couple days

Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. Fall is not a sudden arrival but a season created layer by layer through small, intentional choices like clothing and atmosphere.
  2. Trish reflects on her personal journey with weight loss and improved well-being through GLP-1 medication, which has helped her regain energy, reduce inflammation, and build a healthier relationship with food.
  3. The podcast highlights Trish’s creative and playful approach to Halloween, including a viral TikTok where she is mistaken for "Nandor the Relentless" due to her costume, leading to humorous and heartfelt discussions about identity, humor, and self-expression.
  4. A major theme centers on inclusivity and representation, especially in fashion and media—Trish critiques the continued dominance of skinny, Eurocentric models at Victoria’s Secret and advocates for diversity, health, and relatability.
  5. The conversation touches on the growing role of digital platforms like TikTok and YouTube in shaping cultural conversations and community engagement, especially around body image and queer culture.
  6. Trish and the podcast team celebrate their involvement in LGBTQ+ culture through events, activism, and public visibility, including a campaign to promote Grindr as a platform for connection and love.
  7. A recurring theme is the power of community, with guests and fans sharing experiences of finding love, belonging, and connection through shared experiences and self-expression.
  8. The episode blends personal stories, humor, and social commentary, emphasizing joy, self-acceptance, and the celebration of individuality in everyday life.

Summary:

The episode blends personal transformation, cultural reflection, and lighthearted storytelling to explore themes of identity, self-care, and community. Trish shares how GLP-1 medication has revolutionized her relationship with food, energy, and physical health, allowing her to live more fully and participate in activities like running and parenting. The conversation takes a playful turn with humorous anecdotes about Halloween costumes, including a viral moment where Trish is mistaken for the vampire Nandor the Relentless, sparking discussions about perception, humor, and self-expression.

It also addresses critical issues of representation in fashion, particularly the lack of diversity at Victoria’s Secret Fashion Show, where Trish expresses frustration over the continued focus on thin, Eurocentric models and calls for more inclusive, attainable beauty standards. The episode highlights the power of digital platforms in fostering community, with Trish promoting Grindr as a space for genuine connection and love. Through a mix of personal stories, satire, and social commentary, the podcast celebrates queer visibility, body positivity, and the joy of living authentically.

From fall season rituals to queer cultural moments, the narrative emphasizes how identity is built over time through conscious choices and shared experiences.

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Fall doesn't arrive all at once; it builds gradually through changes in air and light, with familiar items like jackets meeting dresses or caps finding new scarves, creating a season that feels personal and layered.

The wig moment symbolizes a fun, playful transformation, with the host joking about being 'gagged' and 'giving puss'—a reference to the internet culture of 'dl trade' or 'giving' in online communities.

The host felt like Nandor the Relentless because of their appearance and the viral comment that led them to discover the connection, which was later confirmed by others who thought they looked similar.

Grindr is highlighted as a platform where people find both casual connections and deeper relationships, with the host sharing personal experiences of finding love and being part of a community on the app.

The GLP-1 medication has significantly improved the host's mental and physical well-being, helping them manage food cravings, lose weight, and regain energy, allowing them to exercise and enjoy daily life more.

The host expresses both nostalgia and criticism of the show, noting its glamorous past but also highlighting issues around body image, with many models being extremely thin and unattainable for average people.

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