VBAC, Mood Swings & Skipping Our Babymoon

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Täällä on järjestöä. Täällä on järjestö. Täällä on järjestö. Täällä on järjestöä. Täällä on järjestöä. Täällä on järjestö. Täällä on järjestö. Täällä on järjestö. Täällä on järjestö. or pregnancy aversion that I did in the first trimester already again. What's going on? I think it's just you're hitting that time. Why so early? What was your bot like? Am I just becoming weaker? And I don't think you're becoming weaker. I think I am. I think you're just getting hit with all those symptoms and all those feelings all over again. And I remember with the last the last pregnancies that we've been through or the last time that you were in the third trimester at least, I remember just how much you were saying get this baby out of me. Was I saying that? Yeah. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. You said that so much with Griffin and with Oggy were just so ready in the third for the baby to come out. Yeah. Well, I'm also really going to have literally been pregnant for a year now. Like we found out we were pregnant with Emerson and June of last year. And there was just that time, I don't know how long it was less than two months in between. And that was still like a postpartum similar experience. So I'm like, I've just been, I'm over it like right now. I'm not over it. I don't even want to say over it because I'm so grateful to have like a big bump and to be like this far along because I'm telling you after the loss, I literally was like, that will never be me again. I can never see myself getting to the third trimester again. Yeah. I can never see myself like getting to the point where we're like actually making birth plans like X, Y and Z. But like the fact that we're here, I'm like so grateful, but I'm also like, wow, that's like taking a physical toll like all of that, like it's a lot back to back to back. So you've been pregnant for so much of your life the past couple of years. Yeah. And do you feel like depleted of resources? No. Well, does it feel like your body needs some like recharge? No, I feel like I felt good and then I just like ran into a wall where I was like, no, I don't feel good. I'm not good. Okay. Or something recently though, which we can get to more and more later, I guess, that might have been why. Yeah. Well, actually, before we get too far into it, we want to say thank you so much to those of you that have subscribed to our channel. Yes. To the unplanned podcast, we really, really, really appreciate it. We appreciate you watching, of course, and liking and commenting and also just subscribing really just seals the deal. And especially those that leave reviews on other platforms too, if you're listening on Apple podcasts or Spotify. So we want to shout out Bay 504 who said, thank you five stars. I'm incredibly grateful for your podcast has helped me heal a lot over the past year after my loss knowing I have a supportive space that I'm not alone means a world to me. Thank you for making me feel not alone and guilty for having another baby after loss. It's really sweet. That's really sweet. I do want to read another review because it's really sweet too and I feel like you'd relate to it. One from Maddie MP 22, she said such a good distraction. I've been a silent follower since they first started YouTube. I look forward to the podcast every week. I recently got diagnosed with ADHD as an adult and postpartum. So this is such a nice distraction to zone out and listen to when I'm doing the dishes where my son is asleep in the car. Thank you guys for your conversations and you all are so inspiring. That's so sweet. It's so nice. Actually, I should say that's a really great thing about traveling is that gotten to meet so many of you that I never thought I'd get to meet like in places like New York or when we were in Hawaii or when like all over, yeah, I was so tall, so cool getting to meet you guys. 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We've been working on this project for a couple of years now so we can get a lot of information about it and we can get a lot of information about it. We've been working on this project for a couple of years now so we can get a lot of information about it. I feel kind of guilty because since I hit this point, I ran into the wall, I'm going to call it the. that third trimester wall. I ran into the wall seven weeks early this pregnancy. You've been really picking up some slack and I am so grateful that I have you because I mean, a lot of people don't, like there has been, first of all, isn't capable of filling in or they just like because of work or whatever, like that you have that flexibility because of like you guys essentially, like that we get to do this. But then also that like you do it so seamlessly, the kids literally don't even notice a difference. They're like, oh yeah. Like in fact, they prefer you. So I'm like, this is what am I here for? - No, they love you. I think wasn't AUGI. He was like going back and forth on who he wanted to get out of bed this morning with him. He said me and then he said you, and then I wanted you to sleep so I convinced him. - Yeah, I be doing that like every morning. And then you do it. So you've been doing the morning routine and the night routine. Are you so sick of me being a lazy bum? - I have our boys. You do it because you love them. - For the best. And I love you. - Thank you. So yeah, I've just been hitting a wall but my second trimester was great. I feel like the whole second trimester was amazing. I feel like that's a tale as old as time though. - Yeah. - Everyone has an easy second trimester. - Yeah, yeah. - I shouldn't say everyone, but I feel like that's just like, you know, legend has it. That's when you're like glowing. - Yeah. - You feel good, you have a cute little bum but you're not uncomfortable yet. Like the nausea's gone. But the pubic pain isn't there yet. So that was good. Yeah, I definitely hit it like literally right at the third trimester. I was like, "Mah." - I don't envy you and I, I'm honestly, it's amazing what you women are able to do with caring around a human that big inside your belly. It's crazy. It's actually insane. - I like, here's the thing. I don't even want this to be like complaining because I'm so happy and I'm so grateful. But it is like, I've just kinda gotten to the point where I'm like, so overwhelmed by the amount of time left. Like I know it soon, but it also feels so far. But I'm also grateful that it's not that soon because we have a lot to do. In fact, I actually told Matt yesterday, I was like, we can't go on a baby moon because we have too much to do around this place. Which like, he doesn't see it because he doesn't have the nesting hormones. But I'm like, this whole house needs to be upended. Like get all the junk out of here. Get organization bins in. Who is that lady who like makes you be a minimalist and like has baskets for everything? Need her, bring her on. - That'd be great, yeah. - Bring her on. - Bring her down for that. - Just kinda shake out this house. We need to get, we need to probably get a bassinet. We need to get. - Yeah, speak to like, - Bottle stuff. - What is your, do you get bankies probably? - Tell me more about what your mind and body's telling you about nesting right now. Like what's the main issue that you're seeing? - There's so many issues with the house. - See, the problem is I don't, I, I, I, we gotta get the boys, we gotta get the boys zero to three months out and probably also the three to six months out. Wash all that. And then we gotta find a place to keep this baby's clothes and pajamas and stuff. We need to set up a bassinet. We probably need to set up a bouncer. We need to get, I don't know, this time I want all the gadgets that we never had for some reason, like a bottle warmer. That would be amazing. We need to get glass bottles this time because now I'm anti plastic on only some things and other things are okay with plastics, apparently. And then we need new bankies. We need to choose which swaddle we're gonna get. I don't think we need to pack a hospital bag yet, but I mean, that'll be down the line. We need to figure out where to store diapers. We need to organize every single cabinet in our entire house, including the mudroom and the kitchen. Go through all the kids' toys. - And that's why we're not doing a baby moon this year. - Yeah, there's just too much to do. - We, so Abby proposed this idea to me. She was like, "Hey, what if instead of a baby moon, we do a nesting moon?" And so we dropped the kids off at grandma and poppas and we have the house to ourselves and we can just nest for the whole weekend. And I think that's what we're doing. I think, I mean, according to everything you're saying now. - It's less fun, but it's very necessary. - But we have gotten to do some fun travel. We just haven't done-- - Yeah, we've done so much travel. It's like, it's not necessary. - All the travel hasn't been, maybe we need to find, we need to do our consistent date night once a week again. I feel like-- - Well, we haven't been on date in so long. - We haven't. I mean, we've done double dates with people. - That's true. - We've done, we've done a lot of, like, hang out with family. We've done family trips, but just the two of us, I don't think we've had the two of us in, gosh. When was the last time? Maybe when we flew somewhere to do a podcast, we had like a little date after the podcast. That's at least good, but I feel like we need to bring back the weekly date night, you know? - Or at least monthly. - Buy weekly, even. - Buy weekly would be great. - A buy weekly date night would be awesome. - Yeah, buy weekly date night, and then we don't need to worry about it, baby, and we just need to do a nesting moon. And we just need to shake our entire house, like, it's just needs to be, I need systems in place before we bring this baby into the world. - I like it, I like it. - And maybe then, physically, I'll miraculously feel better. Right now, my body's like, no, because we are not ready. - Yeah. - And I know it's not necessary, but like, they call it nesting for a reason. It's because you do experience it, and it's happening. And I just, yeah, I want all the creature comforts this time. You know, by the time you have your third, you're like, let's just make things as simple as possible. - That makes sense. - That's what I try to do. - I like it. Should we dive into this game? - Yeah, who do you think is gonna win? - Probably you, I mean, you're the only-- - I think I'm gonna have a strong advantage. - Yeah, do you want to explain to everybody what this game is? - Yes, we are doing the ultimate pregnancy quiz husband versus wife addition. We're just gonna do some trivia questions about pregnancy, all things babies, and birth, and all those things. And, you know, I have a slight advantage having experienced it myself, and Matt will never be able to experience it. Does it make you sad that you can't be pregnant? - Not really, actually. - Really? - That seems giving birth. I've seen you. - See, I've sat here and meant such a whiner, but like, it makes me so sad that the thought of ever being done doing this. - See the what? - Yeah, no, I don't ever wanna be. - Would so like it, you want to be done, but then at the same time, you don't want to be done. - Well, I also, if we're gonna be out. - If we're gonna be for real for real, like get really serious per minute, it's really, there's a lot of anxiety also. Like, I feel like I've never had this much anxiety around like fetal movements and stuff, because given like our history, like, so like, when we were driving back in Taha, I was like, "I don't feel a baby." And I'm used to feeling, he's a pretty active guy, which is such a blessing. And I like love that. But then I was like, "Oh my gosh." There was like five minutes in the car, where I was like, "I can't feel him." And it really freaked me out. And it happens often. Like, I'll just be laying somewhere. And I'm like, "I haven't felt him." And I'm like, "And then I start to freak out." And like, it's really panicky. And then I'll eventually like, obviously, I feel like the hacks are having something sweet or having something cold. And then sure enough, he'll move and it's like, but there's just a lot more, I don't know. It's so good that you have that like, check in, that ability to be like, "Oh, baby's squirming around." I mean, he's good, he's alive. And then there's also like, the fact that like, okay, well, if you don't feel him for like, a short amount of time, it can make your heart sink. So there's that. But yeah, no, I've been complaining way too much, but the thought of ever being done makes me so sad. You know, I just, but I do feel like ready to hold him in my arms, you know. - That's beautiful. Imagine setting your makeup, then forgetting it's even theirs. Gel to mist technology locks in your look for up to 24 hours, with flexible all day comfy grip. No tightness, no stickiness, no residue. Just plump, dewey hydrated skin. That still feels like your skin. - Maybe it's Mavily. - The first time you've been working on a new groupie setting, you've been working on a new groupie setting mist from Mavily New York. You've been working on a new groupie setting mist from Mavily New York. - So, it doesn't make you sad that you can't be pregnant? - No. - Why would I want to be pregnant? - Because it's so cool. - It's cool, but it's, I mean, there's the joke about how if men had to have the babies, there wouldn't be babies because of, you know, maybe I'm just, maybe I'm just weak sauce. - But you don't want to, you don't want to do it? - Maybe I'm just weak sauce. - Give birth? - Yeah. - That's, that's a lot. - No, it's fine. It's great. - I just, I'm thankful that I get to be a dad and that I don't have to give birth. Like that would be so hard. - So apparently I'm not really representing pregnancy well because I feel like I actually love it, but then I, yeah, I just like, sometimes there's some downsides. - It's hardcore. - It's hardcore. - It's definitely hardcore. - I think that's the thing. There's no breaks from it, you know. - Yeah. - The last stretch. You can kind of forget that you're pregnant and you're like, "Oh, I feel great about this." At the end, there's no forgetting, except for the first thing when you wake up in the morning, my body feels perfectly aligned and so relaxed. I love that. And then I'm like, "Oh, gotta get up," and then you're certainly reminded when you have to flip. Oh, flipping in bed? No. Yeah. That's crazy. Okay, we're going to do this quiz. What is this? It's the ultimate pregnancy quiz, but it also includes newborn and birth. Okay. Whoever gets the closest, what's the ultimate in here? I don't know. The loser. Gets a back rub. The winner gets a back rub. And I'm not. The loser gets to give a back rub. Ah. Okay. Okay. These are high stakes. High stakes. I really want a back rub. I'll give you a back rub. Okay. The first question is, how many diapers does, by the way, I can't see the answers. Many are producer and sister-in-law behind the camera has the answers, so she. I'm not cheating. I promise. How many diapers does a newborn go through in a day? I'm going to say about seven to eight diapers. That's a pretty good guess. I'm going to say eight or nine. The answer is around eight to twelve, so I think Abby got that right. Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah. Did we ever change twelve diapers in one day? Yeah, sometimes. Because when you think about how many, you're changing in the night, too, because it's not like they're sleeping through the night. Every time they eat, you change your diaper, and if they wake up three or four times. Sure, yeah. Wow. During the day. That's only for a short period of time. Yeah. I feel like really quickly, our kids went to six diaper changes a day, because they did seem pretty good. Yeah. Yeah, because I remember when we were packing for trips or travel with our kids. That was the number we figured. Yeah, we'd always pack six. Which maybe that's bad. I don't know. But that wasn't. They weren't newborns. No, they weren't newborns. This is for newborns. Yeah. Okay, one point for me. No. At what temperature should a baby's bath water be? I'm gonna say. 99. Yeah, I was gonna say 99. That was literally. That's right. That's it. Okay. What is it? 98 to 100. 98 to 100. We both got a point. Okay, that's one of those things that we were freaks about with, Griffith. It's dumb. You just made sure to feed. We took the temperature of water. A bazillion times. A gazillion. We would leave it in the bath the whole time and keep it switched. And guess what? If the water is 97 degrees, I don't think they're gonna care. Yeah, I think that was something that was the second. You were like, "Okay, we can do a good judge with our elbow." With our elbow. Yeah. Exactly. Yeah, we really freaked out. I think we even traveled with thermometers for the water for Griffith. Yeah. Because, you know, your first, you're just spooky scary. You want to put a baby into hot of a bath or too cold, that's sad. I feel like you had a lot of nervous energy with our first. Yeah. Yeah. And I think I took that on because my brother was making fun of me. He was like. You had nervous energy in the eye. I took it off. He was saying that, like, the second that there'd be like, "I would just, like, sprint to the room." I kind of made you do that. Yeah. I was like, "No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no." Yeah. It was giving me anxiety. Yeah. Well, I mean, I was a nervous wreck. How long is a woman technically pregnant? Ah, we're sick. We're going 40 weeks. 40 weeks. That's right on the money. Yeah. Is it? 40 weeks. Yeah. Okay. That's the exact amount of weeks. And then what is colostrum? You've taken this first. So it's like the. it's what you get before the breast milk. So you have to have your colostrum go to the baby first and it's like really super rich nutrients. It's a teeny tiny amount of this like thick, yellow substance. Does it look like breast milk necessarily? It's like yellow and thick and full of. Yeah, it is like an egg yolk. That's what colostrum is. It's like super nutrition and nutrition. Nutrient rich. It's like the first milk. Quote of coat. Sometimes you get it before the baby comes even. And that's when we were getting that cheddar cheese milk. Yeah. That was crazy. Um, yeah. Cheddar cheese. What are we? Is that right? Yeah, the first nutrient dense milk produced before mature breast milk arrives. What is amniotic fluid mostly made of later in pregnancy? Water? Uh, yeah, water. Yep. What? Okay, wait. Let me ask again. What is amniotic fluid then? It's mostly made of. Babies. The. Vernics? What? What is Vernics? I've never even heard of that. What is it, Abby? It is baby urine. You, that was my second guess but I didn't say it. That's gross. So then the baby's dream? I actually did not know that. The baby's dream. Oh, gosh. No, they don't drink it because they're fed through the placenta. There's definitely how they're peeing through the placenta, right? No. They can't. I mean, they're getting their liquid through the placenta. They're not peeing. They're liquid through the placenta. I didn't realize that they pee and poop in there. I thought that that was all happening through the placenta. Thank you. I guess I forgot that, yeah. But they don't drink amniotic fluid. It says babies begin peeing in the room around 10 to 12 weeks of pregnancy as soon as their kidneys form. This pee is made up of the majority of amniotic fluid. The baby then drinks the fluid and pees it out again and it continues. That's disgusting. That's a sickle that helps develop the lungs and that. See, that's amazing but gross. That is. Yep. You said it perfectly. I can't believe it. I can't believe it. I can't believe it. I can't believe it. I can't believe it. He opened his eyes in an ultrasound. We both did that. We both ran her on pee in the womb. Everyone has. No. You've drinked a pee. No, it's not that weird about that. It's weird that I didn't know about it. How do you ever drink her pee post wound? Absolutely not. No, me neither. Unless I was doing like a bare grill survival. That's what I think about. Like, if I had to survive, would I do it? Yeah. During pregnancy, approximately how much does the uterus grow? Oh, like a thousand times its size. Oh, is it a thousand or a hundred? I was going to say. I'm going to say a thousand times its size. I'm going to say a thousand is way too big. Yeah. I'm going to say, I'm going to say the uterus grows 80 times the size. It's 500 times. So who's closer? I'm closer. Really? Yes. You're right. You're not. Oh, you're 420 away. I'm 420. I'm 420 away. You're 500 away. How do you not beat me over that? 500 away. 500 times the size. I'm telling you mine went a thousand. 500 times the size is crazy. Mine went a- 500 times, Matt. That's so big. Have you seen the illustrations? Goodness. It was so small. Why did I have it in my brain that it was 80? Have you been wondering why I have been peeing so frequently? Yeah. Your bladder is getting squished. It is. Everything is squished. There's no space for that. It's a thousand times the size. What is the soft spot on a baby's head called? Oh, we should know this. I don't know. I really have no idea. It doesn't. Um. I don't even know. I'm not even a guess. The little little. Oh, I'm going to be so mad. He just always called the soft spot. Fantanal. Fantanal? Who the heck knows that unless you're a doctor? I've never heard of parents. We should have known that. Because one of our kids took a long time to close up. But it closed up. We didn't have to worry about it. But I don't think I've ever heard a parent use the word Fantanal. I'm going to start using it. Really? Check out on his Fantanal. You're not using that word. Yeah. You know I'm going to be freaking out about me because- I'm going to make fun of you if you start using that word. I've got names in this household. How many centimeters is considered fully dilated? 10? Yep. I was going to say the same thing. How much is 10? Show me right now what 10 centimeters looks like. 10 centimeters? Yeah. Well, two and a half centimeters is an inch. Like this? 10 centimeters. Yeah. I think- That's crazy. I think about this. It is 10 centimeters. But I don't know. I don't know. What is lightning crotch? You go first. For you, I know you've gotten that in the past. And that's just where you feel like a jolt of lightning down there. You know, you're just kind of walking and jubbering, you know, kind of just hits you. Wait a minute. I just thought you had me ever experience a similar sensation. I don't want to talk about that. I don't think that this is isolated of pregnancy. I mean, this type of feeling is very unique to pregnancy. I've gotten a jolt before- But yeah, I feel like- But not on my- I feel like it also experiences outside of pregnancy just really- I don't know what that comes from. Every once in a while. It's a little zing. I'm like- Look, oh gosh. You just kind of hits me, you know? Oh, it creates an audible reaction. Yeah. Oh, no, that's never had that. I'm like, whoa, what was that? Yeah, I would say it's like- Maybe the baby gets in a position that there's like a pressure point that gets pushed, and it's like, feels like a, you know, a lightning bolt to the crotch. It's a sudden sharp shooting or electric shock like pain in the vagina pelvis or rectum. Ooh. It's a very brief sensation that strikes quickly. It typically happens when the baby grows larger, drops clear into the pelvis and presses directly on the cervix or sensitive pelvic nerve. See, why have I felt that before? Yeah. And I've never been pregnant. Yeah, it is a different feeling, but I feel like that's the most you could compare it to. But yeah, I feel like I do kind of get that feeling more in the rectum area. You get more in the rectum area. I do. So that's- I felt that before, but I don't really know why. See, we have more in common than we even realized. I'm so proud of us. Look at us being vulnerable and sharing about our lightning crisis. It has been so vulnerable. I feel so bonded to it. How many bones does a newborn have? Well, first of all, how many bones is there? don't have 52 300 no it's 368 you actually know the number no okay so I'm just gonna guess how many bones newborn has probably at that point probably about at least 202 I'm gonna say 250 250 bones that is closest it's around 300 today is your question the average adult human body is 206 bones you tell me we lose bones as we get older they fuse together that's freaky what you're looking at me right now okay that is not what I would have expected so newborn babies have more bones than adults but they fuse together into stronger mega bones hey who's impressed that I had a pretty good grasp on how many bones that was good you actually moved stuff you helped me out yeah oh this one's rough how many contractions does the average woman experience during labor oh contractions oh my god I feel like you're getting them it was like every was it every I had potosan was it every 30 seconds every minute yeah by the end it was like they were less than a minute apart yeah so I had potosan so if that's 60 and one and it took about 24 hours and then so I'm gonna say what's 12 times 60 6 times 12 is 72 so 720 contractions that feels wait what was your math there I did one a minute for 12 hours that's more that's yeah I'm gonna say 500 500 seems pretty good I'm gonna go with 400 it I really want to win this I see I would love a back rub from you shot oh I've never received one and I've never received that in my life so okay I'm gonna go for I'm gonna go 400 what wait it's only a hundred honky wait there's only 100 I can get through 100 really latent labor contractions are mild space five to 30 minutes apart and typically last 30 to 45 seconds this phase can last six to 12 hours or more translating to about 24 to 120 contractions active labor contractions become much stronger and more regular occurring every two to five minutes and lasting 45 to 90 seconds active labor generally last three to five hours resulting in about 35 to 150 contractions okay so we're already way over that 100 who's active labor is 35 contractions yeah what this feels wrong I'm gonna say this but also my labor was about 27 hours so and I had maximum puttosen maximum puttosen for yeah I'm gonna say that somebody I think AI did a little blunder there I feel like I feel like that's not true so who was closer I guess technically me how do you feel about me beating you at this game here's my hot take I feel like the like the worst contractions are more painful than pushing really yeah yeah why why is that I don't know because I think you're just so ready to push like it feels good that you can do something about it whereas like before I felt like my body was at war with itself when I saw you push so I feel like that was when I saw you in the most pain maybe maybe I just blacked out I actually did blackout I had my eyes open I couldn't see anything how many pounds but it's great I want to do it again okay last question what is it last question how many calories does breastfeeding burn per day uh 350 to 500 yeah that sounds that sounds pretty good I'm gonna go with that answer it's the pregnancy brain though you just can't help yourself to answer right away so yeah so I'm gonna get that point okay fine you get the point where are we at then in the game if Abby gets the point and I get no I have individually has three he answered correctly and forgetting that one to Abby then I guess I win that's what Griffin would say do I get a back rub no I'll give you a back rub thank you imagine setting your makeup then forgetting it's even theirs meet new grippie setting mist from mavelin New York gel to mist technology locks in your look for up to 24 hours with flexible all day comfy grip no tightness no stickiness no residue just clump do we hydrated skin that still feels like your skin try new grippie setting mist from mavelin New York maybe it's mavelin shenan maldenado käsin tehtija artessaanitua teita myyven jauhi lahia kaupan perustia valitsin Shopify koska alustoja testa testa ni totesin sen ehdottomasti yhdeksi helpokäyttöisimmistä alustoista minulo oli tärkeä pohtia kehittymistamme tulevaisuudessa kaikki myyntiin tarvittava työkalut kuten varaston suunnittelu ovat katevasti dashboardissa aloita ilmainen kokeilu Shopify piste kom siebosh tolle i would have to shout mad out he played with my hair less than before even moved his hand physically to do it and or asked him usually I just have to ask you but you just did it last night your hand just I thought you were already asleep and I was like gosh dang it and then you just walked it over I know that you love me playing with your hair that's what you should do when i have the contractions I feel like that could actually really calm me down see when we get one of these like humanoid robots one of these days and this thing can um play with your hair then I'm screwed you're just gonna this is the biggest turnoff that you're just gonna get rid of me this is why on my list of turnoffs of my husband gives me talking about humanoid robots is up there with AI and god when when the humanoid robot can put with your hair I'm screwed I'm not letting a robot freaking touch me but I ain't having I'm gonna clip this one day you're we're gonna be like 20 years from now we're gonna have a robot that like no no you're not gonna ever allow robot under house not around my children not around my what no ever no we already have robots in our house babe shut up our phones can listen to us our phones can listen to us our vacuums our robots our car can drive itself there's robots everywhere our google home I don't want a humanoid robot our google home mini you literally talk to our google home mini I don't want a humanoid robot okay sorry draw the line but then I just have a vision of this freaking robot standing over our bed at night and I wake up we lock them in we just lock lock them up at night you know certain things you don't need to outsource okay being a human we can't outsource out to robots I think you're just a little too I think you're just a little spooked I think you're psychotic I think AI's freaking you out see I think he just gave me a live on camera think about everything that I could do you know that I don't need it to do anything anything you can think of did you know that see this is why people are losing their jobs because of these things yes well the whole idea is that they can allow for humans to work less and have more fun you get you got to work working is important true true but some people work more than 40 hours a week and that overworking is not fun so what if you could use leverage a humanoid robot to help get some of the work done for yeah no I think you just need to hire another actual human that's what people that don't love robots would say yep okay moving right along we've been talking about contractions and what match to do during labor which should be your indicator that potentially our plans for having a scheduled c-section have changed so backstory for those that may not know with my first um I was induced and because of they were concerned about size and I'm a fairly short girl so naturally my odds of like shoulder dystocia with a baby being bigger like they were like what at 39 weeks like we'll just get this process going and sure enough his shoulders did get stuck and they broke his clavicle and he came out and there was not like um no long-term damage done to him but it was marked as a severe shoulder dystocia so after that my doctor at the time recommended that when I got pregnant soon after that with our second to do a scheduled c-section and I remember being at the time very very thrown off by that because you had I had no frame of reference for other birth experiences like I was like that was great he came out woohoo and they're like no like I'm glad everything's okay but that was less than ideal and that could have potentially put the baby at risk for um permanent nerve damage and so we had an elective c-section with our second and it was great both experiences I feel like were I mean I wouldn't say dream birth experiences but I mean they were good experiences I wasn't like oh I hate c-sections I'll never do that again or I hate vaginal deliveries I'll never do that again and neither of those happened so I did just kind of assume though since our [BLANK_AUDIO] second baby was much bigger than our first that we're just, I don't know why I just assumed that we're just gonna continue trending upward and there's no chance that I will probably ever have a doctor that's comfortable doing a vaginal delivery ever again. I just never thought that would be the case. - Until now. - Until now. So this baby, our third boy, is measuring significantly smaller, he's very healthy and doing great. - Not a concerning amount. - So actually, he's actually just exactly 50%. - Yeah. - He's just right at the, well, just depending on the day that we've gotten, we've had a lot of extra scans, this pregnancy, but he's always measuring like to the day of like how far along gestationally we are. So for us, that's actually quite a bit smaller than what we have before and so I brought up with my doctor, hey, since this baby isn't like, it's significantly measuring significantly smaller, what do you think about a V-back and she was, my OB was very open to it and I was kinda surprised by that and she's like, we'll just continue to see how things trend and we'll reassess every appointment. So I wanna be transparent and knowing, like, you guys, I know that me talking about my birth plans will just, just from my past, I know that this stirs up. - It could trigger something in somebody. - So many opinions and I have to just acknowledge that even within my own care team, I have had three different opinions all based on my own medical history and my baby's set of circumstances. Like even within our own care team, everyone's slightly different. Like the high risk doctor or the MFM, maternal field medicine doctor, recommended something different than my OB recommended, who recommended something different than this doula I consulted. So I'm just saying that there, I understand there are so many opinions, even given my own history and also our baby's set of health conditions too. Because I should also add that our baby's also, as of right now, in a favorable position, meaning like he's head down facing backwards, I guess is the way to say it. I don't know if he's in a good position, which could also change. But then also, the placenta is also in a good position, which earlier on in the pregnancy, that wasn't the case either. And yeah, I also, he's also much smaller. So everyone seems to think that there's a different perfect way to go about it and you can never really, really know. So that's why I've just approached this delivery, we're just like very, I'm trying to approach it open handedly as possible, meaning like, you know, case to raw, raw, whatever will be will be, but I will set myself up for probably just like, take the span of opinions and like, this being the most medical intervention and this being the least, we're just gonna funnel this birth plan right down the middle. Now, everyone's gonna have their own opinions on what they wanna do. - Can I say something as well? - Yeah, totally. - Well, I think the reason you're saying that is you spoke to a doula who encouraged you to potentially do this birth unmedicated, and then you've also had people in the past, especially that were like, oh, you know, just do C-section, whatever. So you're getting these like two extreme fields of thought of C-section, unmedicated birth, C-section, and it's just like-- - Well, and also I should say that probably the doula would also recommend not being induced. - Yeah. - Whereas like, you know, with a scheduled C-section, the baby's coming early. - But I think what your doctor ended up telling you is we're not inducing, but if we get to 40 weeks and the baby hasn't come, we're going to induce. - Yeah. - Because according to the medical research and everything that we learn from your doctor, - Well, just what work person is comfortable with. - It's just not ideal to like, let baby hang out in their past 40 weeks. Now I know saying that could probably - People do it, and they have amazing results, and they feel strongly that way. - And I love that, I love that for them, but we're just gonna go with what our doctor-- - We're going right down the middle. - We're going, we're following what the doctor says. - I really, I should say I really do trust my OB, and I have a good relationship with her, and to be fully transparent, she's the same doctor that delivered our daughter, and on like the literally the worst day of our life, and through that experience like I just, like I can understand having gone through loss or go through an experience like that, like where you'd be like, I never want to go to that hospital again, I never want to see that doctor again, even though it's not there fall, like it's no one's fault, but you just, like there's just so much trauma associated with your relationship with that person, and like that time of your life, but I feel the opposite way where I'm like, that really built a like a deep trust with my OB, that I have, and so I really just think that she has like my best interest, baby's best interest, and also it's just considering me and you, and like our desires for this birth and delivery, like and so yeah, as of right now, we are gonna go about a V-back, but the birth plan has to do a V-back. The ideally, I will go into spontaneous labor before 40 weeks, so we can avoid induction, but if need be, then at 40 weeks, we will go in to be induced. Which wouldn't be the worst thing ever, either though, because I was already induced, and my body did respond to the Potosan and stuff, so we have that history as well. Go ahead. - Feel like the concern that people listen to this right now is probably, what if you're uterus ruptures? What if there's a rupture of some sort, because it is a risk, and if you look at the data, it's about 0.5 to 1% of women that do a V-back end up having a rupture. So I mean, that is legitimate. If you take 200 women in a room, that's gonna be one to two of those women out of 200. - Yeah, that is a risk for sure, and I also do have a higher risk of a reoccurrent shoulder dystocia because of our history, but I do think that risk has been diminished because of, like, lessened because of the baby size, but it's still a risk. - And I think for you, from everything that I'm hearing, you know, it sounds like you got a 99% chance of this going the way it should, and then you don't have to deal with the extreme intense recovery after C-section, which sucks, and you've done that, and- - Honestly, I didn't have a terrible recovery from C-section. - Really? I feel like you hated it. - It was definitely harder than my vaginal delivery, but I also, I'm like, I didn't have a terrible recovery. I think what's hard is if it's your second or third birth, then you have other kids to care for in the house, and that postpartum experience looks entirely different because you can't pick up anything, but you're newborn for six weeks, or like drive a car for two weeks, or something like that. Like there was a lot more restrictions on what you can do when that feels like that. That freedom's hard to get taken away when you have just a newborn, but it's really hard to have that freedom taken away when you have other littles in the house that need you and rely on you. And so ideally, that would not be the case, and so we're just gonna go about this, and I feel, I honestly feel really positive about it, and I don't even think it's like, I don't think it's dumb confidence. Like I feel like we have, I feel really confident about how this is gonna go. I just keep telling myself that we're gonna spontaneously go into labor right around 38 weeks, and it's gonna be beautiful and amazing, and we're gonna have an epidural that works, and it's gonna go fast, it's gonna be great. - Yeah, it's been sweet hearing yourself, people too. You told my mom and your mom, and you've been so excited to share with everybody that you get to do a V-back. I know very few moms get their ideal dream experience, but it would be really cool to go into spontaneous labor, to have my water break, to go to the, like not know when you're going to the hospital, and then you go, and then you like, it would just be really cool to have all those things happen. And so I'm just believing that it will happen, and it will be amazing. But I do think for the first time we're gonna hire a doula, we're so back and forth, because I feel like the majority of people I know that have hired doulas, it's because they pursued an unmedicated birth, and that's not a part of my personal birth plan. But I'm like, it would just be nice also to have someone else there, especially because it is a V-back, and it has certain risks associated with it, to just have someone else there to advocate, and to kind of speak for us, 'cause I just remember so much of our first delivery, we were just alone in that room, and I was like, what's going on? You're just kind of left in the dark. Obviously, I know more now, but I still am not an expert by any means. - The majority of women that you talk to that have experienced an unmedicated birth. - Yeah. - What's the stitch? Did they like it? - They're badass women. - Are they glad that they did it? - Are all of them like, yes, I'm glad I did it. - Yes. - They are. - Okay. - But they're also like, usually there's a long period where they're like, I'll never do that again. And then they do it again. - They do it again, unmedicated. - Some of them do, yeah, again. But some of them, they're like, one was plenty. - That's hard core. - They are, they're better than me. I gotta just say it, they are better than me. I personally-- - That to me, I feel like the people that do that, I kind of think of the people that run marathons. like to anybody. tell them they don't have to do that. They don't have to do that, but you know, there's also just like, there's so many, there's so many fields of thought around this, you know, like, their epidural comes with risks, for sure. And all it also limits you, like what you can do when you're in labor. Didn't you say that when your grandma gave birth to your dad, she was even knocked out? Yes. Like the whole way that birth works in America has changed a lot. Yeah. She was under general anesthesia. They're not doing that no more. Not ideally. It does happen in some. Oh, really? Yeah. And the baby just pops out like your body's kind of does this thing. No, no, no, no, no, no. They were. Oh, that, wait, your grandma didn't have a seizure. Yeah, I know. She was knocked out and I think they did four subs, which is crazy. Yeah, that's not good. Is that okay? No. Yeah, I didn't think so. No, no, no, they don't do that anymore. Um, so, you know, it's just one of those things where it's like I fully know that me talking about this online is going to, um, elicit some opinions and I feel comfortable with knowing that there's a lot of different opinions of people. Like, hey, you know, I, I disagree with this or it's like, that's okay. You know, we have our own care team that we trust. And, um, I'm saying we personally feel really confident with this plan. And it's like, it's also just really cool that we never thought that this would be an option. And I was, I was so content and resolved with that for years, you know, ever since we had all, yeah, I was like, yeah, this is just our, what we'll do. And it'll be great. But it's cool that this is like an option now. And, um, I'm, I'm thinking it's going to be good. How do you feel about seeing me go through labor again, given our first delivery, not going as like smooth as possible? Are you scared? Yeah. Yeah. I'm just going to, I'm just going to try to be a little traumatized after that. I'm just going to do my best to just be there for you and love on you and do whatever I can to be. So we do a birth prep class. We could, I mean, we've already, we've already been through it, though. So I don't know. I feel like the people that do those are usually people that have, I know, I feel like I feel like we could learn something. I'm sure we could learn something, you know, maybe watch some YouTube videos about birth. You know what's really crazy is that for a period of time in our first delivery, we accidentally did hypno birthing. Yeah. We, you turned on, did I tell you to turn these meditations on or did you just, I can't remember if it was me that found the meditation or you, but you wanted meditations. And it freaking worked. Yeah. Like I fully believe. So this duo that we've talked with does hypno birthing. And I was like, no, no, ma'am, I fully believe in what you guys do because I experienced that whenever we were in transition and something was up with my epidural and I was going nonverbal. You locked in. I locked in on this meditation. And I don't know what happened. I just, what I do. I just didn't talk for hours. What happened? Your brain went somewhere else. My brain ascended. Your consciousness, yeah, left your body and you just breathe and listen to this lady talk about breathing and feeling peace. Yeah. I did. And also we use that tens machine. We did a couple of like crunchy methods. They do a couple of countries that, yeah, the tens machine, that was cool though. When you were feeling contractions, I would like jolt you. You're like, you're like, it's coming. And I'm like, I think, I think this time though, you might want to just get the epidural a little bit sooner than last time because I think you waited too long last time. No. No, I think you're going to push it. You're going to try to go. What if I just go and make it? Oh my gosh. Okay. You do whatever you want. I'll be there for you with whatever you want. You're just, I worry about you big. I do worry about myself. I've seen you being a lot of pain and it like it hurts me to see you in that much. Well, maybe if I had some training, I could handle it better. Also, I'm thinking in my head if we don't have patosin, it's going to be a different ballgame. It'll still be incredibly incredibly difficult, but the speed and intensity and which things were happening. And also patosin makes your contractions less productive. So like those contractions are more painful closer together and they're also not progressing your labor as well, which is also probably why our estimations for contractions were so high. Like I was not patosin for about 24 hours. Yeah. That does something to you. Indeed. So I don't know. Maybe we just start getting the coms out. Have you seen people do that? They like squeeze coms, like it pinches their hands. Oh, that way they don't, it's like transferring the pain to other parts of the body. Maybe we just try to do this crunchy. This is the first time you're saying this to me. I don't think I can. Are you serious right now? I don't know. I guess maybe think on that. I'm going to think on that. Maybe meditate on that a little bit. I'm going to turn on the meditation. Yeah. Go. Let's see if there's something to see me. I know that if I had the right person in my corner being like, do this, then I would just get competitive with myself. But then in my head, I'm like, no, no, no, no. Let's not do that because the epidural actually helps progress me with our labor in the first. I don't know. We're back and forth, but we're really just planning on going straight down the middle here and doing a V back with potential to be induced. But I mean, we're going to really do all the things to try to make that not happen. But I know people do all the right things and then it still doesn't happen. So we're just holding this open handedly, but that is a big change to our birth plan in the final quarter of this pregnancy. Yeah. It's a home stretch game plan decision. So we are excited. 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I didn't do the fresh test for those that I don't even really know what the fresh test is. It's just a healthier glucose drink. They only offered me the hummingbird juice and I drank that and even after just an hour and with the 50, what was it, 50 grams of sugar drink, my glucose was still like off the charts like low. So I think I have low blood sugar. In which case, I just decided I took it upon myself, no one advised me to do this. But just to have like a full sugar body armor or like even just a full sugar soda in the afternoon when I was like starting to get headaches every single day. And I haven't had a headache since. You just needed some sugar? I just needed some sugar. Mama needed some sugar, okay? Well, because you have a friend that had, I've several friends, I had gestational diabetes. Gestational diabetes and then you realize that your levels were much lower. Yeah, which is not great either. What? I speak to the levels. What was actually worse to have gestational diabetes? I will say. What was your number that you got when you took the test the glucose test? I think it was like 63. So it's not crazy. What is 63 of what? My glucose was 63. I don't know what the units are. I don't ask me that. But then you had a friend that had like 150 or something? Like 190. Oh my gosh. Yeah, pull up what it is and read it out loud because I feel like I don't know. It could be. It's nothing that's crazy. But it is data that I 63 is in milligrams. What is that? Milligram. It says mg/dl. Yeah, I don't know. I don't know what that is. Milligrams per desoliter of blood. So you have 63 milligrams per desoliter of blood. And I will say that was the test. That wasn't fast. I didn't fast before that and I drank the whole drink. Okay. So yeah, that is that is pretty low. Yeah. So yeah, no one advised me to do this. But after I saw that I was like, okay, well, maybe I'll just like have a little bit more sugar in the afternoons. Are there any sodas that you want to buy now that you need more? I've just been really liking a strawberry banana body armor. Really? Yes. Or just like full sugar. Root beer? You've been in a root beer this pregnancy. I should do that. But I've just been having like full sugar like electrolyte drinks. Okay. And it's been really that is weird that it just like actually fixed it because I was getting so many but they would hit ever on like 4 p.m. So I was like maybe my full sugar was just dropping too low. Everyone's like, do you feel like you're going to pass out? No. I don't feel like. that way. So maybe I'm just consistently like a little lower. But, um, yeah, no, I feel much better now. I'll talk to my doctor about it our next appointment. Like, hey, I kind of did this thing because obviously it's not like I needed to consult her before I started having more sugar, you know. But, uh, and then she'll probably get me some more advice. That's more medically sound than this. But yeah, everything looks good. I accept all my numbers that are related to hydration are messed up because I have, bathroom problems about six, seven times a day. Oh, yeah. And I'm thinking of it in the night with them. Which I'm like, yeah, it makes sense. I can't keep up with my water and take here. I feel bad for you having to deal with that. Is my just a stinky girl? No, I just, I mean, I don't know if I got it from you or if it was just something unrelated, but I found myself in the bathroom. So to speak the other day. And that was painful. Yeah, I'm getting that six to seven times a day. That's so much in a day. You've had a lot of sympathy symptoms. Now I think about it. Yeah, I know what, let's speak to my sympathy symptoms. What are you noticing? Well, a little bit of, I'm getting a little chunkier. You said that yourself. What? You said that. You said that. I was just saying it as if you were saying a little bit of sympathy weight gain, little sympathy weight gain. I think you wear it well. It looks amazing. Thank you, man. Um, did we notice something else happening with your aerial as well? You did point out to me that my aerial is are bigger. You pointed it out. I think you pointed out, I think it was body shaming is what it was. No, uh, you said, wait, are my nipples bigger? And you confirmed it, which was basically like you said, and I was like, maybe just a little bit. It's just sympathy. But I will say guys, I have a buddy whose wife had a baby in the past year and he gained and lost 30 pounds all in a year because of four months alone. He said he didn't change anything about his diet, his exercise. This guy is in touch with his wife. And I think that means we're in touch. I think our four months are aligned. I've even having mood swings. Probably. I don't know. I've been having them. How does that feel? What is it like from your perspective to have mood swing? Like I am aware that it's happening, but I also just feel like I'm at a loss of controlling it. And so you just kind of like let it, let it rip? Yeah. Yeah. Just today. I'll work on it. What should I do? Maybe next time if I'm feeling rage, just give me a hug. Maybe we need to just consult Daniel Tiger and say, take a deep breath and count to four. One, two, three, four. I feel like this is dangerous advice, but I feel like you should try it and just see how it lands. Wait, say that. What I know. Oh, okay. I think you should say, hey, this feels like a big reaction. I don't think I can say that. You're pregnant. And thank you so much for growing my baby. Can I give you a hug or do you need space? That feels a good idea. I could try it, but I will say in the past when I've tried to do hugs, hasn't gone over well for me. I know. I understand that. I do understand that. But why don't you just give it a shot and we can see how it lands and then we'll workshop it after the moment. So what is my line? So your line is. Don't do that. Don't do that. Don't do that. That would be really bad. I understand your pregnant. Thank you so much for growing my baby. So appreciate it. Would you like a hug or some space? Okay. Let's practice that right now. Hey, that seems like a big reaction. I really appreciate you growing my baby. No, no, say you're pregnant. You're pregnant. I understand you're pregnant. And you're growing my baby. Thank you so much. Thank you so much. Would you like a hug? See, that's the thing, like the specificity of the words. I can't get that down. Let's write it down. I'm gonna have to memorize it. It doesn't matter. I hate to say it doesn't matter. Hey, that seemed like a big reaction. Growing my baby. Thank you so much. Would you like a hug or just some space? That's perfect. I feel like this could go really well. I'll report back in that works. Terrifying. This is, I've got to tell you how it feels like how it pregnancy, like hormone mood swings feel in my body. How would this work? It feels like I have an angel abbie and a devil abbie. And then angel abbie gets too scared to say anything to devil abbie. And so then devil abbie just like takes over. What would devil abbie do if husband, you know, were to say, take a chill? Kick the crotch. Swip kick the crotch. Oh, yeah. This one wasn't, this one was when I was having a swing that was like more like sadness. Okay. It was different than rage. Rage is scarier. Okay. Sadness is just pathetic. But Matt made, I have three hard boiled eggs every single morning of my life. For a really long time. Matt made my eggs the other day. Wrong move. I didn't want that for breakfast that day. You could say abbie, you eat that every single day and you have for months, maybe even years. And I would say, yes, but I didn't want it today. And then he's like, what else do you want? But we didn't have anything else. And so I just start crying. And Matt was just silent and scared. He just had three eggs. But he already had his eggs that morning. So we didn't know what to do with them. And did I eat them? What happened with those eggs? I can't remember, actually. See those eggs might have gotten tossed. I should have just ordered some shake fly for you. Actually, at that point, that's a good game plan. Unless it's Sunday, you know, can't get shake fly on Sunday. It's just one of those things you can't predict when it's going to take over. But I just feel like having this conversation and putting it all out in the open, that feels like, that feels like progress. Yeah. I think now you have some more tools in your tool belt. Oh, yeah. I don't give myself some credit. I feel like I didn't get crazy until week 30. Okay. Yeah. Totally. Totally. Yeah. Thank you. Thank you. Great. I wouldn't even say, you know what? I would say that's not kind to yourself. Don't call yourself crazy. Thank you. So yeah, any other thing, any other symptoms happening? We haven't really sat down and talked about this pregnancy that much. But I just really hope it doesn't come across as me complaining because I can't tell you how grateful I am to be here because like I said, I just I'm telling you there was a long period there where I I just was like this will never ever happen again to me. You're just uncomfortable. I'm just a little uncomfortable. And what a gift it is to be uncomfortable right now. Like seriously, like I am so grateful for that. I'm so grateful to play the role of pregnant lady right now. Like it just feels so great. It feels amazing. And also challenging. So I also think that this baby is just in a different position than I've ever carried before. And so I'm just like not used to that. And it's a different type of uncomfortable than I experienced before, whereas I used to feel it like all of my ribs, now I'm feeling it and my hips, my pelvis. And it's just a different feeling, you know. The mobility is different, more difficult when it's transitioned to this location. But we're still doing our walks. We're still doing our stretches. I got those cat cows going pretty soon. I want to start having some dates and some raspberry leaf tea. And maybe some pineapple juice. I don't know. Well, you're a rock star. That's the only advice my doula had for right now was she was like, just look up a bunch of positive V-back stories. That's funny. So I've been watching a lot. But then a lot of these people that do V-backs are unmedicated. And I'm like, wait a minute. I don't like watching this. Well, your doctor, your doctor recommended that you do it with the epidural because then she said in the rare case that, you know, something where to happen, they don't have to go in and like, I mean, they would have to do local anesthesia, right? They wouldn't be able to do general anesthesia, like you go to sleep. Yeah. So it's a lot safer from my understanding having the epidural in already. It's not necessarily safer, but then you guarantee that you'll be awake when your baby's born and you'll be like coherent. Okay. Oh, so if they're using, if they put you to sleep, yeah, you're asleep. You wouldn't be awake for the baby being born. You're waking up a few hours later. That makes sense. Okay. That makes a lot of sense. Yeah. I did look up though. I was like, I thought for sure that if you're a uterus ruptured that I'd be like game over for having kids. It doesn't it doesn't mean that you can you can have kids after. Yeah. Which is crazy. You would think that that would be like a game over situation. But it's not. So, you know, case of roster rock. Yeah. Well, thank you everybody for tuning in for yet another episode of unplanned guys were approaching 200 episodes of this show, which is crazy. I forgot to say that my milk came in my left armpit two months ago. Wait, you're kidding me. No, I told you that yesterday. And your left armpit. It's just like a bulge. Is that what you're noticing? It was already puffy, but now it's full of milk. And it hurts a little bit when I stretch it. I'm sorry. That's so uncomfortable. I remember you getting that in the past. I remember when I had to get an ultrasound of it. Now we're not alarmed. Yeah, just milk. Pit boobs. You've got that. It's going to take. That's crazy. It's going to take a lot more to get a rise out of us over here. It's amazing to me that there's a little armpit boob. Having a boob in your armpit is crazy. Is that considered a third boob? If it's in your armpit. Effortentially. Is it connected to your main as it connected to the main boob? No, I don't know. It's not connected. It's not wouldn't it like go through your armpit though and it like goes through. Oh, the milk. Yeah. Well, I mean, you have milk glands all the way up through there. Are you serious? Yeah, that's what we learned. You have milk glands down here by your belly. Okay, remember when I got got the ultrasound they said like a cat you know cats have like like a lot of animals have like nipples all the way up. Okay. We also have milk glands all those places. That is. But we only have two nipples. It's crazy. So or actually some people might have more. Are humans related to cats in some way? I guess we're all mammals. We're all just trying our best. It's getting weird now. That is getting weird. Yeah, it's it's there. So that's here's a thing. That's that's that's old news for us. Goodness. Well, Abby has a third boob and you look it looks great. 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