Trisha's K-Pop Charts Take Over + Calling Out Worst Ex Ever... | Just Trish Ep. 279

No, I hated that so much. I was like you're such a loser and like you're just like you contribute nothing Like you said he's not rich. He's not how he's like contributing nothing So also you're not a good father on top of that like you you have to pick you have to pick one you have to pick one thing that you're like Good at and you're good at nothing. You're literally good at nothing That's what everybody thinks she's just Hello, welcome to the Josh Trish podcast. I just come back from class the pond and it was amazing Although I don't know if it was amazing because we've filmed this a couple days before I've even been on my show But hopefully it's good. I don't know. What do you think man miss honestly your accent eats? Oh No, thank you I hate when he doesn't want to do an accent with me. Thank you for doing it. You're welcome What do you think of when you think of a British accent? Like what's the first sound that comes in your mind right away? I think Palais. Oh my god. It was in St. Pirates of the Caribbean even though it's like Caribbean But like it was they were from England. I think half of them well. Yeah, Commodore Norengton That's what I think of though. She was everything Karen. I leave away. Oh my god. She was like my everything the national treasure of the UK And she's what you want to have a straight hair, you know, okay She's what made me what I remember when they did pie it's like every night. She had a 20 inch waist I remember being like I need to have a 20 inch waist. No, that's like a Barbie Yeah, I don't know if that's ever gonna be possible for me But we love Karen. Ily and she was so good in love actually. Oh, I wasn't say love actually She was anything British was here and I think for me. Yeah better like back in like she was that's what I'm saying She was London. I know. I hope hopefully it won't go anyways if you guys saw me as at the royal hour wall and Yeah, I'm probably flying back now. Well the merch is tea the merch is tea. Yeah, it's the British invasion I hope that it was good. I mean the merch was good the concept is good in my mind I think it's gonna be really good. I think it's gonna be great. I think so too. We're having a string quartet It's your first time performing over there, right? First time performing over there I'm gonna be singing my new sawdung hey live I think a lot of people are like but can she sing this live? I would sing for you guys right now But maybe just come to the show and then I do but I have full confidence in that song more than anything else I practice that song more than anything, but first time live gonna do a little sweet Todd I'm opening the show with like there's no place like London. Did you ever see sweet Todd? I so funny that you say that because I constantly quote Sweetie Todd why I don't know why and I don't think anybody understands like like where I got it from what Did you love it? I don't know how I'm around I always sing bad. I don't shake good one. Wait what down you how did you watch it? I watched it. I remember watching I literally watch it with you But I watched it first in 2007 after I got out of the hospital for three weeks my dad found me in my apartment Just covered and like feces and stuff anyways, and he took me to the Riverside Hospital I don't know how that even happened I don't know how we even we weren't even talking me my dad I think my neighbor Superman who was like literally Superman at the time r.i.p. Christopher Dennis I think he was to call my dad or something because I was just like in feces or whatever and then my dad He's me to Riverside Hospital in 2007 in December and I remember like getting out of the hospital And he's like do you want to go see a movie and I remember with Sweetie Todd and I remember getting me like will to live I was just like I want to be in this world. Okay, good a little dark though I mean he was just like literally killing people and like cooking them into meat pies I felt the pain though. I felt I felt it because he was doing out of vengeance He lost his daughter. Yeah, Alan Rickman. We love R.I.P. was Judge Terpen But he was keeping her as his ward but also like his lover. I don't know. It was a very weird It was like he was kind of like into Joanna and did you know Vecna was I feel you Joana. Oh my gosh I didn't know that but I do love him. Jimmy Campbell Bauer. I wonder if he's over there anyways I'm gonna find a bunch of people. He's actually having a meeting I heard um I would Cry I would actually cry that would be everything by the way my sisters here as the co-host today Ellie is here Yes, um, we had a pre film ahead of time and Oscars coming this afternoon to help me for my Thursday Because I'm gonna be gone for a week. So I was like to switch it up because there's always very different topics Oscar is like the smartest person ever when it comes to hot topic I'm always just like what tell me and I love like learning things My sister right away. The first thing she said is like not even hot topic. Do you need a cuddle straight now? It's very different. This is a very different hot topic So we're switching up only because we're filming we have to film the hot topics in the same day There's only so many hot topics literally my sisters like well, hopefully something happens before that mask gets here I'm like don't worry. We he already has like his his hot topic He has hot topics if there's no hot topics But I'm excited to hear your hot topics today. Are you prepared? But I'm here. It's like more of a key key and I like that But like we're trying to get the hot topics. But yes, I am excited But we don't get started right away on the hot topic. You should go the recap You look great by the way. You look fabulous. You look like care nightly. You used to like care nightly You used to do the um, oh, I love it. Oh my god. Yeah, you know what? Okay, so I know she got like Blamed for it on the MacGala Can I leave no Rachel. Oh, and I We didn't talk about that here. I was like I put it in the mouth acting. I was like It's giving here and I leave everything. Skinny mom does that. It's giving like look at my jaw Yeah, and you know what honey? I was looking at that job That's what we do always you put the tongue above your mouth and you're like You have to like you have to do like giving care nightly people were just you look familiar with her mom game No, they don't know. They don't know her mom game because she Outlaws everybody and she is so good I know we didn't talk about that enough because I was like people list love to hate on a girl who serving and she was serving so much And that is a great and you and me there's like oh my god here nightly like it reminds me of like that jaw Yeah, get it. She'd be like Pane Yeah, but pirate's right. You have to say Pane means this. It's like also very hard. I was so jealous of her She was gorgeous. She's with Orlando Bloom and Johnny Dup. Oh, but not in real life in the movie. Yes She knows both. I remember she went on like Redis and Kelly were like one of those shows and I remember they were like what was it like to kiss a Johnny Dup and Orlando Bloom? Which like it was quite nice and I was like I bet it was girl I don't know where she is anymore actually just living her life in England town. She probably makes hell of residuals honestly with pirates and love actually I wonder I do wonder Yeah, love actually was so good Yeah, so Alan Rickman too. I miss him. Do you ever had an Alan Rickman? Yes for real I feel like people like oh, I love Alan Rickman because of like Harry Potter But like I was like the original Alan Rickman stand before Harry Potter. I know I loved him and die hard as Hans Gruber You remember that? Hans Gruber and die hard No, you never said die hard The first one. Yeah, get the guy gay motherfucker. I live really watched it with you growing up I said like back then when it came out that I remember that that's like the The classic when someone comes to America they watch die hard because they just think that's like so like Bruce Willis and like fighting I don't know he's fighting I don't know if I'm terrorists. I have no idea. I don't know I was like so young watching that with you because like because Alan Rickman Yeah, because you were obsessed with Alan that was when you got obsessed with someone you would have to see all of their like All of their movies all of it and remember they made a soundtrack or if they made an album You would have it any kind of merged posters. Whatever. Maybe it's so much Alan Rickman posters You like an Alan Rickman from my memorabilia is insane. Oh, I like loved him from everything Do you remember the most obscure Alan Rickman movie we watched? Because we would like rent movies and I would watch so many of these I don't remember if you say it all remember Do you remember the movie I think it was called blow dry? Yes. Oh my god. Yes. It was Heidi Klum and I loved that movie actually And they did like it was a hair show. Yeah, and they did like I a hard love hair. Yes. I love that movie And they did like crazy styling and I just like loved that movie so much. That was so much. Yes, that was cute I'm not seeing that movie. You have to see it. It's really good. I was seeing Alan Rickman in that he was also in dogma And I remember he was pantless and I was like I he was like my sexual awakening I feel because I was like Oh weird like for 18 year. Do you remember they like Alan Rickman is pantless in this one But like he was like he was almost like an alien I guess like there because it was kind of like I guess he was like an angel in dogma I'm trying to think of how that worked because he was like I don't remember So he kind of had oh was Jay inside of Bob's like first movie and I remember being like yeah And he kind of had like a it was covered. It was basically just like a almost like a vagina without the slit I guess I don't know. It was kind of that also galaxy quest I didn't I don't remember that one. I know I know. I know. And he had the crazy and he was like signing at Comic-Con's They were just actors who were in like a Star Trek show But real aliens came and rain Wilson was one of the real aliens. I got it and they like come to space with us But they're like we're on a TV show. We don't know how to do this You don't remember it. I did not like any kind of sci-fi movie growing up But it was like on there. Yes. Oh my god. Alan Ringman had such a good Disgography is that what it's called. I don't know. He has such good. I know you guys might like I'm from the Harry Potter Which he was great in Harry Potter. Yes, but there is so much that he's done. Obviously like Sweeney Todd was so good I love actually I mean he's so good too and that I mean those are like his mainstream ones But I like a deep cup. I like a Michael Clayton if you will like I love a deep cut of Alan Ringman and he is Moses gave me Alan Ringman a little bit when I first met him I was like, you're giving I made him prove he's frustrating me. Yeah, he's giving everything He's kind of like Jason Momoa. Oh, he's kind of like Alan Rickman. I was like, okay That's why I'm here. I mean, I'm gonna be a little bit of mom at this. Okay. Sounded like him. Who? Yeah, do your impression You remember what silly incantations in this class. Oh, okay. Just doing the whole model. Oh, that was close That was great - Like, where was the-- - It was, um, oh god. It was a TikTok trend, it was, and I don't know, I can't remember either. Possibly. Like, there was something about Blake. I know. We need a TikTok sound. And da-na-na-na-na. Yeah. 'Cause it was about the water. That was the water. Oh. Okay. Well, it wasn't you. Why did you leave you? No, you didn't find out. He was pretty good. Yeah, you did it good. Do yours again. I don't know the first part, or silly incantations in this class. Well, such. You know what? That's a trend right now on TikTok. Because, like, they have these dogs running around, like, 'cause you know how I put blankets on my dogs or whatever, and then they get up, and like, it looks like they have a cape when they're running. Oh, no, I know. So they use that sound. I don't know. It's like, "Professor Snape, what is big?" Ah. Yes, I remember we used to know that whole, like, model. Oh, my God. It was kind of everything. How is Mucky? Update on Mucky. Mucky is doing okay. You know, he's got kidney failure, but-- But how's he? How's his spirit? He's good. You can drink. No, I'm not. He's been a joke. He said he can't drink, 'cause he has kidney failure. Right, alcohol. Right, okay. No, he's drinking water. He's surviving. I totally don't know this fear. Yes. That's always amazing. But no, when I-- I'm gonna say, "Can I give him my kidney?" I know. That's crazy. But-- Can they do a kidney transplant? They said that it's not very-- Not you. It's not successful. Dog to dog? Yeah, it's not very successful, though. There's Mucky. I know. Mucky. Let me know what you mean. Let me go. No, because that's like the lovely bones, or my sister's keeper, or what is that? I don't know. I don't know. Remember, like, they had another child to-- Oh, no. Because the other one needed a transplant. And I'm like, "Could you imagine being born just to give your sister-- I think a lot of-- I think that happens a lot. I know. No, it's awful. I think it's awful by you think it's awful. That's like if I were born-- It wasn't movie. Yeah, I don't know what it was called. Well, it was a book, but-- But yeah, it was-- If you were born, well, we had different dads. I don't know if you could give me your kidney. I don't know how that works. You have to have, like-- Oh, maybe you can. You able, like, the same blood or something. Oh, no, maybe not. Because like, synagogue has got a kidney. And I think-- We have to have the same-- We have to have the same-- Yeah, you have to have the same, like, blood, or if you're opositive. What are you-- I know. Our sponsor today. Well, that's why I'm, like, opositive. It's, like, the neutrally universal blood you could donate to everyone. Opositive? I think it's opositive. I'm apositive. I know that. Because I really don't know what my blood type is. I know what that is. Yeah, I know. I don't know how to figure that out. Go to the doctor. Blood. That's where you-- That's where you lose me because I don't like any of my blood. You should get a blood panel just overall. You are-- I usually do. I usually do. I don't know your blood type. Oh, my God. Yeah, so I was, like, I'm in need of anything. I don't know anything about my health, so. Well, let's get-- Knowing about it. Yeah, probably. Well, I'm glad Mucky's doing good because they were, like, saying he was sick, but he-- It's not good spirits when we see him. He is in very good spirits. My dad just visited recently. And, like, when he came in, like, oh, my God, he wouldn't even think that he was sick because he was just, like, jumping all over the place and so obsessed with my dad. So he loves-- he loves boys, huh? Well, we don't have a lot of male figures in his life. Yes. So he gets excited. So when there is one, he gets really-- I mean, even when Moses was first coming around, and I would bring Mucky over to your house. Yeah. He would be all up in that hair. I don't know if Moses was into that. I'm like, hey! Yes! Yes, we were boiling crab. We made it to boiling crab, by the way. If you guys watched last week, it was, like, if we were going to make it to boiling crab, we did. By the way, boiling crab is insane right now. They even said, like, we haven't seen you guys in a while. It's because last time we went to boiling crab with the two girls, when I was pregnant with Aquaman, it was, like, literally, we get there. Okay, boiling crab opens at noon on the weekends. We got there at, like, 11.30. And it was already, like, literally, like, 30 people outside. We were waiting in the hot sun. Then it happened again yesterday. They opened at 3 p.m. on Monday, and we get there at 2.30. And we're, like, now we're, like, one of the first couples there. But by the time that kids let in, too, it was, like, so hot, and then everyone behind us. But they said, usually, it's a two-hour wait. Like, if you're not there at rope drop, that is, like, a two-hour wait for the rope drop. Yeah, the rope drop. We're boiling crab. We're there. There's, like, 50 people at the rope drop. We're boiling crab. We want to get a booth. We want to get in there. We're boiling crab. There's any connection to get me, like, a VIP card or something. I would love to, like, have a number because we do love it. It's so, it's so, so, so expensive. And it's packed. And I'm like, how do people, it's like a, it's like a bougie thing for us. Like, we were celebrating something. So I was like, okay, let's go to bullying crab. But, like, 160 bucks. And we got some crab legs and some french fries, which are literally-- I love the crab legs. But the crab legs, and then we only got, like, two crab legs last time. And I'm like, oh, this is insane. But, like, everyone eating there, like, six tables of six to eight people. I was like-- I think most people are celebrating something. Yeah. Or they get the different things on the menu. Yeah. Some things are-- Because you like the wings there, right? Or the chicken-- Like the wings. Oh, those were good. We did get chicken wings, yeah. Deep fried, those two. Oh, we got fried oysters, too. Okay. Oh, we did get some-- No, no, sorry. Oh, okay. I had a hard-world day. I would spend some around after that. But they have new-- But they have new many items, too. And they have those sandwiches with fries. So they have lunch options now. They're cheap. I just want to go there. I got to get some crab legs. I did think of you. You had to-- We had to wait in line. Like we got there at 2.30. And we had to wait in line for a half hour. So it's like this whole thing. Whilst it was like a meagre, we had a lot of fans there, I got straight. Like when we were lined up, people were like, can we get pictures? And then when we sat, everyone was like, great. We were eating. And as soon as we got up, everyone was so respectful. Everyone was like, then I got-- Literally, I got like a little bombarded. And I loved that. They're like, oh, my God. Can we have a picture? I smell like crab. And I was like, I'm so sorry. But I did love it. It was fun. It was like a little meagre. I love this so much, so obviously they need to look like a crab here. I mean, it's close. It's like 10 minutes. No. No, no. They need one closer. That's crazy. And the Ventura. We drive 30 minutes ticket into Benihana. That's true. I mean, we drove an hour. We drove an hour and a half to get to the 10 and a one, which was worth it. It was so-- It was so-- Yes. No. San Anita. Okay. Well, same thing. It's not the same thing. It's so-- Yeah. There's like so many names for that area because we're like-- My mom dated someone in Arcadia and she was, oh my god, this was like the worst to get to. But then she loved the little peacock park. That was there. That was actually so cute. Yeah. We showed up on the kids because they were like, there was little peacocks. I wanted to go to the park. I wanted to go to the peacocks. Yeah. It was cool. She did like that part of it anyways. It was an adventure. You know, it's our bonding time, though. Yeah. We don't see each other as much. And so we had an hour and a half bonding time. We got the big fish bowl drinks. Shout out to Benihana. Go get that. Trish trio. We got to see the sign. Everyone was so nice there. The general managers. Everyone was just like, a vibe. And it was so much fun. And they were so nice. And they offered up a surprise room. And I was like, no, I need to sit with everybody. Like, I love to just sit with the people when I go to Benihana. You know what I mean? Like, yeah. And that's the experience. And it's fun. So go get the Trish trio. Thank you guys, everyone. Seriously, for everyone who goes out there. Like, that's so nice. It's so weird to see, like, humans-- Like, you see numbers. You see comments. Yeah. And it's really cool. I love seeing all the TikToks too. It's so cool. And people that go-- They're like so happy about it. They've never ordered for the past 30 years. It's a show in a dinner. Yes. And it's the best one. And it's quality food. It's really cool. Yes. And it's a show in a dinner. Yes. The filet mignon with that truffle butter and the shrimp. You won't leave hungry, that's for sure. Oh, yeah. You guys have like leftovers for days after. Yeah. We had a whole box of them too. I always get so full on like the soup and the salad. Yeah. And it's good. Can I say? You know, I don't like soup. But that soup is so good. I don't have hers. I have hers. No, I don't have hers. I do eat some of it. I don't eat all of it. I do like it. It's a little mushroom soup there. It's pretty good. It's really good. Um, anyway, so thank you for all the love on that. The UK show just ended. But the Vegas show is coming. Chisholm Tana Vegas coming. Uh, yeah. I'll come. Yeah, I love the Vegas moment. I love a Vegas moment. You can probably be in it actually. It's a whole show. Like we're having so many people like. It's a very busy show now. I'll probably be there. Yeah. Well, maybe I'll be there. We're going to come out. We're doing a variety show. One thing with Tana. And I love this about her. It's because I'm so the opposite. But I love it. Like I love when people bring us out. It's like more people to butter. Like Tana will travel with like 20 people deep. I do love that. I just have them a part of everything. And I'm so happy because I'm so such an isolated. But I even Google because there's something wrong with me that I'm such like an isolated person that I'm just like. Always wanting to be alone. There's just two different types of people. It's what I find out. It's just a personality trade. But I do love. I will say when I wanted Tana. Tana went on well together. I do love. Kind of the camaraderie where everyone's just like trying to like squeeze into one car and just like. Oh, we're all going here together. Like there is there is a vibe to it for sure. Yeah, like let's all go get lobster tails at the golden steer and Holly so great too. She'll be in Vegas. And it's just such a fun vibe. So I'm funny everybody. I said, do you want come to? I'll come. You know, I love you. June 12th. June 12th. Right. At the Cosmo. Play. And she loves you too. She loves you. I love Tana. I actually was like, ooh. Let's let's like channel our Tana with this. You are giving Tana what they had. I love it too. So much. I was the last time you were here. I figured this was the great update because you're on this episode. Oh, the dumpling. You got the glitter dumpling. But I thought it was going to be bigger. This was my $600 stock. That was a $600 dumpling. It was supposed to be the big one. Can I see it? Can I touch it? I don't know. I'm just kidding. Call you the mom in the car. I know. Wow. How do we feel? It looks good. It's good. I don't know how sticky it is. Okay, Malbo. Anything sticky. It's a rice crispy. It's sticky. It looks like it's literally oozing out. Oh, you think it's a knockoff? What's happening? Oh, maybe not. No, I don't know. They verified it. I thought he was going to be a little more sparkly. Let's see. I thought they were big. It was like an implant. Well, there is. All right. And it does. Oh, it is sticky. What did you say? Yeah, I thought this would be a big one. I'm so bad with sizes. You know, I like you're so bad with sizes You're so bad with quantities You're so bad at knowing if you've already ordered it or not. Oh, that part. Yeah, I'm always getting You had one time you had two of the same Prada person we did sell one on and you're like oh well, I'm like no, I will try and return You don't need two of these. Well, that's what I that was when I was like you're like, I'll just take the L I'm like This was like crying on the Maybe the proto store needs it more than I do, you know, maybe they need that So I was trying to help mr. Prada. He probably has kids too people forget about the I mean he's doing quite well. Well, we don't know where mr. Prada is you want to see this over there? My little dumpling probably Well, that's sticky. Oh, okay, everyone's just like first reaction, but maybe that's the The realistic side of it. It feels like one of those like car cleaners like in the vents that you like Push it on and like it's all the dust off. No, a car cleaner like like it's where the keyboard. It's like a sticky utensil that you use to like pick up all the Dirt and debris. Oh, they do that with slime - like slime picks up slime. Ew. I hate slime. I'm a slime hater Can I just say that? Well, you're bad. And this Malibu Malibu wants to play slime with me and she's like You can you get this? How I'm like, oh, can we play? Oh, I do what she asked me to get the slime I do say. Oh, I'm so good with that. I just like don't love the consistency of it I was like, you know, he doesn't love the slime. I know they don't get everywhere But if you go to the slume we like the slime museums like they do tell you that slime takes off slime So if you get slime on it like I'm sorry There's a road to do on my hands that will never come off. I'm not surprising. They like slime because Malibu even if it's like a sticky like rice Krispie she's like sticky so I'm surprised she likes I know I love it. Thank you so much to no CD for sponsoring today's episode of Just Trish with may being a mental health awareness month that is super important that we talk about mental health and be open with how we are Feeling you may hear your other term OCD and think that doesn't really apply to me, you know I'm not obsessive compulsive about cleaning. That's what I thought for a long time But sometimes OCD can also mean Intrusive thoughts wanted thoughts getting the best of you and sometimes when you talk to someone it can help make those Intrusive thoughts less powerful and have less power over you you guys know I'm super open about my mental health and everything I go through online sometimes yeah that means a moment of me crying on the kitchen floor that might turn into a meme But honestly sharing all that stuff has helped people see what mental struggles can really look like and reminds people that they're not the only ones going through it I am very thankful for that while I get embarrassed sometimes of my past struggles being so public I am appreciative that I can have a visual to what a lot of people feel internally and a lot of people say it's so relatable And sometimes you can't tell just by looking at someone what they're going through, but a lot of us relate to these same Intrusive thoughts or other mental health issues that we have to work through every day and work on every day And you don't have to do it alone and that's why I want to talk about OCD right now because it is a mental health condition That's so misunderstood and a lot of people struggle with it without even realizing so the stereotypes Let's get those out of the way OCD is not really about being just organized and liking things clean Like a lot of people I think it's not funny. It's serious and can actually show up in ways you might never expect OCD could look like having terrifying on-one to thoughts that you're going to hurt someone and even though you never want to do that The thoughts feel so real that you still avoid everyone you love just to be safe Or maybe you're constantly doubting your relationship asking your partner over and over if they're really happy But still feeling unsure no matter what they say or playing a conversation on repeat in your mind for days Because you're convinced that you did something offensive and feel like you can't move on until you're totally certain about what happened That happens to me all the time Relationships overthinking etc. And those could be symptoms of OCD when you have OCD You get unwanted thoughts and create intense distress and you feel like you need to do certain things to try to combat Distress those thoughts can latch on to your relationships your health your morals literally anything you care about That's why it can be really debilitating But it doesn't have to be that way because OCD is actually really treatable with the right kind of specialized therapy And that's where no CD comes in no CD is the world leading provider of OCD treatment all of their license therapist Specialized in ERP or exposure and response prevention therapy Like regular talk therapy, which isn't recommended for OCD and can actually make it worse ERP was designed specifically for OCD and it's been proven to be the most effective treatment Which is I can attest to this as well. 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Yeah Slime and sand they have all kind of sand Yeah, it's fun to play with the clean. No, it ends up everywhere. Yeah, well. We have a sandbox now It's high they can just go to the same like the turtle one the old school turtle one. Yeah, there's a sailboat Oh, have you not seen it outside? No, I haven't and for all this is birthday made I got our trampoline like he's always I think we're gonna run our back yard. Yeah Eight-foot is it up? Not yet. Oh my god. Are you on the ground? I Think it's about ground. No, it's because it's a kid. It's kind of like for kids No, it's big. It's eight feet. Oh, is it? I don't know what that means as we know I'm bad with dimensions. So I mean you can lay in it Are you wait? What's eight foot you know? No, I'm a little bit less than six. So two more feet. I can lay in it Okay, they'd love a trampoline. I love a trampoline. Oh, yeah The house with the slides had a train. I'm a ring ground one. That's been my dream. Oh, that's gonna work at that one day I love that I love the slide house. Well, I was very excited for the birthday present then So I can oh, yeah, well her birthday was just literally yesterday. So that's why all this is yeah, that's right I was birthday ring. No, I was supposed to ring. Um, I have gifts for her. Well, I'm sure you'll see her right That's a boy. Yes, we'll be here Did you the new Michael Jackson movie? No, but I heard it was really good No, I don't see movies usually you know this about me gosh, but the Michael Jackson I know that was my other hyperfixation as a child was Michael Jackson. I really really loved him He was just even read. You love him. That was your first one, I think Like your first everything. Yeah, cuz it was 2000. It was Michael Donnie I mean Alan I'm in somewhere in there Alan might have been at the Byron house. He might have been earlier Michael Jackson. I think how do we might have been for Michael Jackson really Michael? This was a little edgy I remember when I found him I was like, whoa you love that was like your hardest crush I think it still was I remember when he passed away we were living together in Sherman Oaks and I was like Devastated He passed away and then Brian passed away like a week later And I'm remembering that that was like June of 2009 as like this like the worst month ever was so awful I was like I was so sad about it, you know cuz like I Think people who have like delusions like I really thought I may marry Michael Jackson as a child I did go to the never never land run all the time with my dad We'd always go up there and just like hang out hoping to like CM and stuff like that. We'd always go up there and yeah, I really thought in my mind he may want to Marry me and so when it became an actual hospitality once I became 18 I was like okay, I'm in California. I'm living here like this could be a thing I went to his all his court cases up at the San Maria court house He used to go and like hang out there and just I mean there were so many fans, but you had all the colors of the heartbreak Album invincible album. Yeah, but it had there was a song heartbreaker Wow, so you were Michael Jackson fan too cuz invincible is kind of a deep cut Well, of course because I wanted to be like my big sister too. Wait did you like her? Where did that song go? Wait, oh, no, that's invisible Oh, mom, let me look at that break. No, it's like That was a good album. That was good cuz you what were you seeing it? What song were you just singing? Oh, yeah, but that's invisible though. No, not after you do I'm still gonna be here. You can try to stop me cuz um There's unbreakable there's unbreakable Invincible. Um, I think Jay-Z was on unbreakable. Wait. I don't even remember remember butter was it butterflies on that one? No, you give me butterflies. Oh, no, there's another okay. Tell me the invincible album Butterflies inside inside and I just want to do your touch. I swear butterflies on that one heartbreaker It's giving Brittany. Yeah, a little bit that girl. I can't take her. I Was a happy God. We love that one. I didn't love that. Oh my god and play the There's their one called butterflies. What's like a slow so? Yeah, it is it is This is a good album. I was such a good one. Yeah, that was so good rock my world I wanted to be that girl and rock my world so bad Remember Chris Tucker. He's like oh my god girl right? - Right there, you know she's fine. She's like, I can get her. No, you can't get that girl. - I can get her Chris, I can get her. - Well, show 'em on then, and then he's like-- - He got over with his arms. ♪ My life, I'll never be the same ♪ - God, he was so good. He was really good. - He didn't go see the new one 'cause his nephew, Jafar Jackson, plays him, and he's uncanny, Michael. - Really? - His eyes, the way he looks, I've damped him all the time, so come on the podcast. I'm like, can you please come on the podcast? - Please, I-- - So you say it. - Yes, actually, was gonna go, actually, almost was by myself. I think Moses thought I was going with you or something 'cause the Moses, I had two tickets for me and Moses, but Moses had to go take care of something and I was like, can you make me, he's like, I don't know if I'm gonna make it, I should go get groceries. I'm like, all right, I'll just like watch, and I was literally in the theater by myself. I was like, I guess I'll just watch it by myself, and he's like, oh, I thought she was like, sister was coming and I'm like, what now? - That was like, what are you doing? It's like, I'm gonna watch a movie. I was like, usually when she says that, it means she has a plan with you or your mom or something. - And when it asks to go together, that ask me, do I go watch a movie? - Wow. - You're just like, I'm gonna watch a movie. - But you should, doesn't know that I go ever. - I was like finishing up something. I was like, you know what, I might actually make it. So, anyway, the guys were installing something. - What were you doing? - We were installing something. And then they were like about to clean it. I was like, not like to clean. Just wrap up here and believe it. - That's the reason why I was saying that, Michael Jackson. - Well, 'cause you know what I did, I sent him the ticket. I was like, in case you can make it. So I already had the ticket. So he was like, oh, I thought you were, I guess I could have asked you. But I did. - Yeah. - Because I do like Michael Jackson. - He was just, and now you know. - Favorite Michael Jackson song? - God, I did my top four and they're all ballads. I love Michael's ballads. - Which ones? - Give me your one. Just give me a top two Michael Jackson song. - I think I like, hold on, let me, let me look. 'Cause I do like a lot. I like Heavenkenweight and, oh, Heavenkenweight from what album? From that one? - Yeah. - Oh, and then Earth's song. - Earth's song, okay. So that was one, Michael. - I love Earth's song. I love his vocals. I love the music video. I love Earth's song. - We are the world. That was a really good one too. - Did you see that? Try and dial over TikTok? - Yes. - When you're down and out, there's no way we can fall. - And if you just believe, that's the way we can fall. - Okay. - Well, we realize that I save it all. And Michael's just like looking in the back, like, what the-- Did you ever see, like, they are like-- - I haven't seen that one. - I was like, hey, the one that's okay. I mean, I remember the song coming off, of course. - Did you feel healed? Were you like, the world was healing? - Yeah, I mean, I love the song. Yeah, the song was like a moment. - Earth's song, though, it was like-- - It wasn't as good as, like, you know, the COVID song, we imagine, but it was pretty good. - They were trying to be, we are the world. - What about you? - What about you today? What about us? - I love, I love, I love, I love, I love, I love, I love, I love. - No, but I do love Michael. - It's so good. - I love Michael, too, anyways. I had to go deep into the Michael lore with you, 'cause we didn't really fully get into it, but the movie is really, really good. I do think he should win. And I'll skip. - Have you been seeing John Travolta's Bray? - Yeah. - Bray. - And new face. - I had a new face. I was like, wait a second. I'm loving this new face era of face love. - Oh my God. - Oh my God, he looks so good. He looks so good. - You didn't see him in the picture. - With his head, he's like this, and me when I tip my Starbucks Brewster. (laughs) - No. No, I think I saw a picture with him in his daughter, I believe. I think he's good. - Oh, what is he? - Does he have a daughter? - He does, yeah. - There's a picture of him with someone. - Randomly, and that's when I was like, oh my God. - He looks so good. - He kind of went away for like a couple of years and I was thinking about-- - But we can see that he's dying his beard and then something, people think he got some work done. - Does he have hair now? Or is he still bald? - We hasn't wear a brace, but I don't. - Oh God, you. - I do love the bright, and he said he was wearing the bright 'cause he's trying to act the part of a director. And I love that, I love a cosplay. I couldn't find my bra as someone. - Oh, I see the bra, the white bra. - He has a white and a black, you have to see the black bra with him like being posing and he's kind of doing a little impure, you know? He's doing like a little, like, don't you know where? - I saw him. - I saw him. - Well, you can cut this one. - Recently? - He was on the front row of the Scientology, like, 100th anniversary or whatever. - Why were you there? - I wasn't there, I saw the picture on it. - I was like, "Why would you let me know where I saw him?" And I was like, "Yeah." - Are you one of those kids that framed the building? - I think I'd be much more successful if I were a part of the building. - Wait, why, Kare, are you scared they're gonna come get you? - No, I'm not scared. - Oh, it does, that picture gives, like, does something to me. - Why is he not playing a director? - I think he plays a director in his new movie at Khan. - Oh, I see. - Yes. - Have you been keeping up with the Khan Film Festival? - No. Ever been to the South of France? - I've never been to Europe at all. - Oh, really? Why do I think you did? - You've been to Asia. - Only Asia. - Oh, I need a desire to go over to Europe. - No, I don't, I mean, maybe, maybe, but I love all of the more tropical places destination. - You went to Bali? - I went to Bali. I went to Billy Bali. Oh, I love that movie. And I've been to Singapore, Bahamas. - Left your phone in Singapore. - Left my phone in China, my network. - Oh, yeah. - Oops, Bahamas, you were trying to get into the Australian tour of Arizona. - I was, I was like, what is going on in Australia? - I was going to Australia. - You do love an Australian, but yeah. So, the Kuala's, I just wanna hold a Kuala on. - You can visit the Kuala Ward. - The Kuala Ward is where? - Yeah, they have like a-- - In Australia, yeah. Are you gonna go to a Reverend Irvine's? - You sound like Mom Irvine's Irvine. - You should go visit Robert Irvine. I was like, I don't think you just go hang out with them over there. - Oh, mate. - I also think he's like over here doing dancing with the stars and all that stuff. - Is that still going on? - What? - Dancing with the Stars. - Yes, it's been going on for 40 years. What do you mean? - He was, he won, right? - Yeah, he's like hosting the news, but he's hosting the spin-off the Dancing with the Stars search for the pro. - Oh, I don't know. - And he's aisle tour. - I'm a little responsible. So. - When we went to the tour here in LA, he was one of the dancers that came out with like Andy Richter and stuff. People went, that was like the loudest applause I've ever heard was for Robert Irvine dancing. Like it was, they went insane. - You loved him. - It's, yeah, no, I love him too. It's just so interesting. - How amazing though, like to be loved and like your dad was super loved and adored. - Yeah, I have that memory go on forever. I love that for him. - And continue being a good legacy. 'Cause like Steve Irvine was like so problematic. Everyone loved him. And that's kind of like the new generation of Bindi and Robert. Like everyone's like loves them so much, you know? - Yeah, they seem like they have it all together and Terry, his wife, she'd never remarried. She said, "Once you have like the greatest, you can't remarry." - Right, so that's, I know, and it's so sad. And then your kids turn out to be so good. Hopefully there's like a heaven and you can actually like, you know what they say? They're watching. I really hope that's true. I hope like our souls or something can like watch. I don't know, I don't know how that happens, but that's a whole deeper subject. Let's see, I'm looking at my, have you been doing the AI baseball trend? You haven't seen that. - No. - Where the girls use AI and they're just like beautiful in the baseball stands. - No. - What? - Oh! - Yes. - That's on the jumbo trend? - Yes. - Yes, I have seen that. - And she's like serving face. I'm also like mad about it, but I'm like, if I knew how to use AI, maybe, no, I shouldn't. I can't. - No AI is not very, it's not good. - Don't use AI. - Right. - I am against AI. - I don't even know how to, honestly. People be like, "Oh, I put it into AI." And I was like, "Where do you put it?" - I don't know. You had to like sign up for something, but they're popping up everywhere. Speaking of AI, did you hear that Alexa is, or Amazon is gonna have an Alexa Plus where you can have, you can put in a topic and you can have a podcast on demand. It will AI generate a podcast and have AI voices host the podcast for you. - It's just like not gonna be good. I just feel like you can't get this on AI. - You can't get this. - You know what I'm gonna say? - You never know what we're gonna say. - And that's the part. It's just like, "Oh, did AI predict that I was gonna do a K-pop song?" No. Like if you typed in "Church of Paita," they're not gonna just give you "Church of Paita singing Korean" unless you type that in the box. In which case, I'll just do it. So I feel like, yeah, they don't know. And even though it's like AI fruits, since I thought I used to like, it's kind of like even that good. - No. No. No. No. No. No. No. No. The AI fruit dramas. You never watch those? - No. - We're like the fruit banana would be cheating on the strawberry. And then when they had the baby, it was like an avocado? - No. I quite literally don't even know anything about that. And now they're getting crazy 'cause it's like AI like tampons with like a menstrual pad and they're like having babies. - On YouTube? Where is this? - TikTok. - Oh my gosh, no. We don't support them. - No, I don't. - Yeah, you're right. - No, I don't either. - Yeah, my dad sent me, 'cause we had, I had baby hummingbirds in my backyard. And he sent me a video of a baby hummingbird. I'm like, dad, that's AI. He's like, is it? I'm like, look at the thing you're friends on it. You can tell. - I fall for it too. - Mom, she falls for it all the time. And she's just buying stuff. I'm like, okay, mom. - Oh, I know. She'll be like, can you dispute this with the card company? Like, it was, was it the dinosaur? - It was a 3D dinosaur blanket. I'm like, mom, why didn't you, you need to start asking me if it's real. Otherwise, I'm like, you could've made your own. So some freaking stuffed animals on a blanket. Boom, you got a 3D dinosaur blanket. Did she keep the dinosaur blanket? - She did, she didn't send it anywhere. - Oh yeah, she didn't know where this came. I don't know where this is in Illinois. I'm like, okay, well, it ended up all being fake. - And then I'm like, where did you buy it? Why did you even find this from? She's like, Facebook, I'm like, oh my God. - Oh, all the Facebook. - Oh my God. - That's a problem. That's the target marketing for those targeting elders 'cause they don't know any better. - You're just people on Facebook. like it makes me so sad. - We don't know. - Or like even AI like articles and stuff, like are just so not true. - Oh yeah. Well actually Facebook and general Facebook Marketplace, I think Tan talked about the set and not love lines. She got like scammed with like a car, like this like blue convertible. And this guy was like, hold on. - I'm right there. A car on Facebook Marketplace. Tan, I forgot what the scam was. Check on all of it, I don't remember. But I guess you know what it reminds me of. - What? - The Lambo on offer. - Oh my God, yeah. My Lamborghini was stolen. The guy sold it on offer for $10,000 and then a fan of mine bought it. And he's like, is this your superior to Lambo? He's like, yeah, I'm selling it for her. Like this guy that sold it in like broad daylight. And then the guy, that's how we found it. But I felt so bad. And I couldn't communicate with the guy 'cause like obviously you can't like give a reward 'cause then it looks like insurance fraud or something like that, like you just can't. So I was like, I had to stop communicating with him because they're like, well, this is not like a criminal investigation. - Right. - And I felt so bad. - But that's what I was giving. - Like a car on Facebook, marketing. - Oh right, yeah. And this guy would be like, this is my like baby. I love this so much that I never want to part with him. Like a part with it for you or something. And she said she felt something, like something was off and she ended up like not getting it 'cause something like was weird. But I guess he was like in this business of just like selling like the same car over and over. - Okay. - But like wasn't selling the car that before, yeah. - I don't know, I don't really get the Facebook marketplace. She does love Facebook marketplace. But I'm like, Oscar does too. He'll like meet someone like in the middle of like a mall parking lot to get a little boo boo. And I was like back when the boo boo was worth it. Which they're canceled now. But you guys are canceled. - The boo boo was like a canceled? - I think just, they're over it. - They're over it. - Expired. - Expired. - Okay. - Yeah, what a craze. And that lasted, that was such a short living. - They made their money. - And now they're, they bounced out. - Yeah. I'm sure people still buy a little boo boo so. See, this is why you don't go with the trends 'cause I don't have any. - Well, I was gifted one, but that doesn't count 'cause I never bought it myself. - What one were you gifted and where? - My friend Jenny gave me one. It was just like a great one with like the rainbow. - Oh, that was like a rare one. That's like a rainbow. That's like a really ultra rare. - Thank you so much, draft King's Casino for sponsoring today's episode of Just Trish. 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Pennsylvania, West Virginia, only voted in Ontario, eligibility restrictions, applied knowledgeable spins issued at 50 spins per day, it's for 20 days, felled from the set games, only in expire each day after 24 hours, see terms like casino.draftking.com/promos and is July 22nd, at 11.59 p.m. Eastern time. Thank you so much to draft King's for sponsoring today's episode. - I do have the Lefufu that you gave me with the wig. - Or Oscar, a fan gave us one, that one podcast. - Oh my God. - She's got a Curlix and a Awful. - Oh, she's fair. - She's fair, a CF bust down. - Yeah. - That one was a good one. That was a good Lefufu. - Well, that's the difference with win. Something fast, no more. - Here we go. I thought that thing would come right now. - This is real, let's say this is true, real love. - Where did you get that from? Where did it come from again? - What do you mean? - You just means to shift it on this. - You gotta have Barnes and Noble. - No, but I mean, it was like last year and now it's still here. - I know, of course. - I know. - Of course, 'cause that's what I'm saying. It's not like people just get the Lefufu's and don't care about them anymore. - And is that an Arby's hat on it, still? - In shirt. - Yeah. - I do love that though. - I still want that. - I still want that girl's where Arby's shirt. I have one, I think it's sold out, I have one, but it's a double-accel on your tiny teeth. - It's okay. - I'll take it. - How's your streaming going? It's going really good. - We've got to give you a shout out at the beginning of the episode, but let's do it right now. - Callator 143. - Callator 143, Hoffa and I are you streaming? - Five days a week. - Do you have any collabs streaming collabs? - I use to, but a lot of the time viewers just want me to talk with them. - Oh, like not play a game. - No, no, we were always playing again, but like, but yeah, no, I haven't done a collab in a while. - Any streamers, you want to go on their stream on a little kiesinette, I show speed. - No, clavicular, neon. - No, none of those people, eight in a row, absolutely not. - No, none of those people. - You wouldn't do like a. - Vanilla maze. - I would do Vanilla maze, yeah. - Vanilla maze, KDB. - Okay, but I don't hear about these girls. - You know what, I don't have a Jimmy. - Shout out Jimmy. - You did, what was the collab? - Jimmy and Oscar, we played Fortnite before. - One time. - No. - Multiple. - Mm-hmm. - We had no notice that work. - Who won? - Well, there's, we're on a team. So, did you guys lose? - I'll think we won one. - Oh, okay. - What? - That's okay, you don't have a sign. - I didn't carry them. Sorry. - You didn't carry what? - Carry the team. - Oh, with Fortnite? - Yes. - Well, maybe you need to play on their field, like Animal Crossing or Pokemon. - Um, I'm done? Yeah. - But like, that's not a, that's not a shooter game. - Like a competitive game. - Yeah, that's not a competitive game. That's just like a. - Hangout. - Mm-hmm. - Okay, and give me a Minecraft all day long. - Oh, I love a Minecraft. - Oh my God. - Oh my God, I would love to have a Minecraft server with you guys. - I feel like they like Minecraft too. We need to get on it. Maybe not Oscar, by the way. - I think we got to replace it, but. - Jimmy definitely does. He did like an edit that took two hours of me playing Minecraft or something. - Yeah. - It's literally so good. - Is this the one for E312? - Uh-huh. (light music) - Do you love Minecraft? - Yeah. - We play it all. - Like a movie, but I don't know what they're doing. - You do Mario? - You do? - You played it. - What? - You haven't even played Minecraft. - Um. - Minecraft X, Trish, when. - You tell me. - You tell me. - You like Mario? - Uh, yeah. - Do you watch the movie? - I don't. - I watch the first movie, but. - I don't like to support Chris Pratt. (laughs) - Why? - Yeah, it's so random. - He's problematic and I just don't like him. - Oh, 'cause of his right. - Yeah. - It's something that his first son, he doesn't really acknowledge as much. - That and just, there's a lot. We could go on a deep dive, but we won't. - He's a politician now. - Now he's not a politician. - He's married one. - LDS. - What's that? - Mormon. - No. - That's two different things. A lot of these things is different than Mormons. - This is the same thing. - No, it's not. - Yes, it is. - Someone Google it. Yes, LDS refers to the Mormon faith. - What's the other one? - And the Mormons are like, don't call it Mormons because it's a slur. I'm like, okay, calm down. - Who said that? - You, which Mormon? - Well, the Mormon lives, didn't it? - Well, the Mormons. - So the actual Mormons got mad at the title because they're like, oh, they're getting us a bad name, and da, da, da, da, da. - Oh, right, 'cause they're not practicing Mormon. - Right, right, right. So now they don't even want to be called Mormons. - Okay, well, I think it's a risk factor. - The term Mormon typically refers to members of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, LDS Church. - I'm thinking of something else. - The largest branch, which follows Birgum Young, it was also-- - I think that's not God. - But it can also be independently religious secular and non-practicing. - Well, anyways, I think that he owns a house that was on like a plantation, it's just like knock-advives, or maybe that's Blake Lively, and I think that's where it rentals. Oh, no, you know what he did? - He tore down a historic house. - Chris Pratt? - Yes. - Okay. - Yeah, so my came for him runs-- - Oh my God, I didn't know I don't hate him, but I don't want to support him. - Who would you rather support? Chris Pratt or James Starles? - Oh, God! Oh my God, that's. I guess I'm gonna have to go with Chris Pratt. - Wow! - Yep, that makes sense. Yeah, he doesn't seem like he's making fun of people who lose their jobs or anything. He doesn't like do inappropriate things with underage children. - Right. - Yeah, young boys, yes. So, speaking of awful people, the Valley. - Oh my God! - Did you watch The Hases or Watch For You? - Probably said it. - I love that she started from the beginning. We try to start from the beginning, and I was like, let me just get into the episodes everyone's talking about, because from the beginning is a diabolical. When you're like, do you watch the show? I was like, it's a tough one. Moses was tuned out, he was like, no. I just, it's not a good show. - It's not a good show. - It's, I was bored. - But everybody loves it, so I'm like, you know what? Let me, no, everyone does not love it this season. They did love the first season. They're like, how is someone worse than Jack's? I guess apparently Danny and Luke, Luke, that's the name, the one that's married, the one who just had a baby with a curse Christian. - Yes, Luke. They were kind of like, beloved the first few seasons, 'cause I think they didn't talk. - But the season, they were diabolical. - They opened their mouth, that's the problem. - Har, I think Jack's on the first couple of seasons. I don't know, I don't know Jack's as a Brittany, and I just know he seems like, he looks like I don't know him, I don't know him, I don't know his vibes. - Yeah, well I would, he looks you episodes of Vanderpump Rules. - People love that one. - And PPR. - That's why people like the Valley, because it's them now grow up, grown up, and like married and have children and stuff like that. - Well that, to me kind of got me, which I like by the way, I'm not like hating on this. I like that they're like my age. I kind of like that they're like millennials, 'cause I thought everyone was like young and hot, not to say they're not attractive, but it's like, oh, they say people that look like me and act like me and I, I think it's a show geared more towards you because it's definitely about like young families and like navigating the new relationship with the new baby and like struggles with postpartum and stuff like that. So I do see it for that audience, I don't relate to that. is like, right, it is kind of like my era, but I think it's also like, maybe you watched it to feel about it, about your own life, because that's why I'm telling you, I did feel about it about my own life and my decisions. I'm like, if this is trying to make me want to have a try out of me, I don't, try out like no, for sure. No, and that's what I said too. I literally start off my TikTok. I was just like, 'cause I never make TikTok so the thing would really upset about something, and I was seeing all the clips of Danny and Nia. And I was just like, this actually is the reason people don't want marriage and don't want babies. - She's so good with it too, and he just looks like, oh my God, he reminded me of like an old smurf. - No, like a soap opera actor. - Oh, okay, he's got that look. And I'm just like, he also kind of looks like a pug. - Kind of. - But so sorry to the pugs, 'cause pugs are pretty cute, but-- - But when they, he's like a human friend. - And then I'm like, okay, maybe he's like rich. No, they just moved to Santa Clarita. I'm like, no hate on Santa Clarita. - It was very, very cool. - It is affordable living, but she was like, not having it, she's like, I'm away from my friends, and who's like, I'm struggling with postpartum too. That I can be close to them, by the way. - Well, she also has been pregnant like me for like literally, like, all her kids. - Well, she has poor kids. - So she's been, she says she's been pregnant or breastfeeding for literally like the past five years, six years. - I don't know how she does it. - It's, yeah, I don't know if that's, I'm not like hating on it. I don't know if that's like a recommended thing 'cause your body, like I feel like needs like a dime to. - It takes time to. - The hormonal adjustment, like reproduce some milk, replenish your body. I think it's recommended to usually wait a little bit. - I think you are even worried that you had gotten pregnant so fast. - The third time? - Yes. - I'm like, I wish it was C-section. They're like, you're supposed to have at least a year, they recommend like a year and a half, and like, two okay fine. You're only supposed to really have three C-sections total, but also back to back. Like, when you told me that, - I know. - No, same. No, I would, we didn't even record our reaction. We have reactions to our first time. - I wish that you had that reaction of me because I'm like, what? - I know. - I was like, you just had a baby. - No, but like, it was so hard to have both of those babies. Like, we did the HSG test both times, and if you guys don't know that's like, when you clear out your tubes, we did it both times, and you get like, if you have troubles like infertility, like, it's the first step when you take your fertility journey to like do IVF or something like that, to kind of check and clear all your stuff, and like a lot of people do get pregnant for those tests, and those work. So if you're struggling with something, might I recommend, they don't usually recommend IVF to you, or I'm sorry, IVF, HSG test before IVF, because it's less expensive, it's only like $600, so I think in general, they kind of want to like make more money, so they can sometimes skip that, but I would ask, if you're struggling with infertility to ask for an HSG test, we learned that from Tiffany. We learned that from someone else too, that I was like, let's just try this out. So, it's worth for good enough. - And they'll use it, yeah. - And they'll use it basically as a test before they do the IVF. So it was even hard to get it, 'cause we went to the doctor, the doctor was like, wait, why are you here? How'd you get here? How'd you get this test? - We snack in a little. - So we're like, oh, our doctor recommended it. And say, yeah, we're going to the IVF, but we want to do this test first and then go for it after the test. - I see, sure come, you know? Although by the second time we went, they're kind of like, okay, you're recognizing. Yeah, well, we got pregnant. The first, so let's try this again. So sometimes they're good and they will, but like, yeah, a lot of times they don't want to tell you that, whatever, and we recommended to some people, we know and I are all, and it worked for them, and they were like over 40, so that was great. But all of that to say, where was it going with this? - Well, I was just saying it was still back to back. For Elvis and Malibu to the HSG test, because like with Elvis, it was taking like a little while like longer than expected. 'Cause we went in back to back just 'cause of age, our ages and seven, my age, particularly. And then so when we got pregnant with Aquaman, it was literally like one time having such, and it was just like, the floodgates were open, apparently. - I guess so because also it was like way out, we were, I was actually like tracking and I was like that week of ovulation, like not even anywhere close to it. So this was like right before my period, all of a sudden like that, I was like, oh, this is whatever, it's fine. Insane, that wasn't the most insane thing. And yeah, like they, again, I'm not a doctor, but what I've read a lot is you're really only supposed to have like three C-sections and definitely like wait a year in between because you, something where it like needs to like rebuild. Like you're, 'cause you get a huge structure. - You have a scar that's healing and there's like six different layers. - Yeah. - Even if after getting your boobs on, it's like six months. - Yeah, yeah. - But here you get another pregnancy, which means all of those cars are gonna stretch now. So you need them to be fully. - It's also like you risk uterine rupture. Like that can happen. And so you have to like really monitor really well. I think even, I mean Aquaman came so early, but that was the, not problem, but like I had such a traumatic birth because his head was like really like far down already. And I think they did say it was really thin, whatever the layer was, was super thin. And that's why he had the fetal laceration, which was like cut in his head and stuff like that. So it was just like, well now he's got a perfect head. So I think that's not perfect head now. It is wonderful. Well, nicely, babies are resilient. We talked about this, like I think yesterday on Hot Topics, talked about how resilient they are. But I think Oscar talked about, he accidentally dropped a baby on that, or no, it was baby fellow. I don't know something, but I was like, maybe they're resilient. But a while ago when he was a little kid that now, anyways, got it, got it, got it. But I was like, they're resilient and they are. So don't be too scared of a baby. Obviously watch them. But if they get a little bump, they're usually fine. But all that to say aside from the physical aspect, also just like emotional hormonal, everything's just like, and it's a lot. Tell you not being, I'm 10 months postpartum for the first time. I've been pregnant for the past since 2021. Since December 2021, I've been pregnant. Or yeah, like postpartum. And I only had like three periods in the past four years, which is like so crazy. But not being 10 months, which is still not fully out. You're really kind of fully out at like two years. So like you kind of start feeling yourself again. But even now, just like energy in the way I feel, I was like, oh my gosh, like you really are like a different, like you feel like a human again. Something when you're pregnant, I loved it. But it does feel very surreal and very abnormal. And hormones are crazy. And you are like just, it can be odd. Like as much as I love being pregnant, I also realized that I was this a little bit out. I felt bad for you during postpartum though. I saw it all the time. But I can't tell any, you can't tell a woman about postpartum, you know? Yeah. And sometimes you don't know. It's sensitive. It's sensitive. For sure. I was trying to be respectful of you. And like your feelings are valid too. Like, yes, yeah, yeah, yeah. But your emotions are super heightened and it just felt so bad for you that I would be on the verge of tears because I'm like, I see my sister suffering. No, it's a lie. It's a lie. People don't realize I think also people like online. It's like when someone just had a baby because people like are really respectful when you're like pregnant. They're always like glowing like this. And then like they forget like the aftermath is like. It's so funny that you say that Kristen on the show. Yeah, I said, oh my God, everyone was like, oh my God, you're pregnant. When are you doing that? I had to like the store. I was being praised and everyone was being nice to me and then I have the baby and then they forget about it. Everyone just quiet forgets about you. Like just, I'll go, she's fine now. Like whatever she's had the baby. But it's like that's like the hardest. And then you also just care of a baby on top of that. We were talking about last hot topics at LC Hewitt who just had a baby with Pete Davidson. Oh, yeah. Apparently he's a deadbeat dad. Right. We talked about that yesterday. Yeah, allegedly, not allegedly according to Halsey. She's like, I'm doing this on my own. And she's just like, she's not around like financially supporting or physically supporting. And it's just like, you just had a baby. All your hormones are out of whack. And then on top of that and she put out an Instagram story. I'll see you looking for like a mommy's helper, a nanny. Like she was looking for this. Like he's not helping her. He's not going through an agency to get like a nice nanny or something like that. She's posting all this alone. And I'm telling you, you are the worst kind of person because it's like, even if you don't like each other. Because usually guys, we always say this. Well, we saw it from the Valley back to the Valley. Was it Luke who was like, oh, I don't get any intimacy or any like sex? And she's like, my body hurts. Like my body, I just don't feel good in my body. Like what do you mean? Like I don't want to have like, I just don't want to sex with you right now. Like I have this baby. Because not only that, you have to take care of the baby. But then when your man is a baby too, when the father is also being a baby, which is both Danny and Luke. Luke, I give a little more pass. I guess like first time dad, he like maybe it's a little shook that he's not getting all the attention. But Danny, it's your fourth time around. And you don't have to swaddle your baby. Like you have to like, and then he's like, Matthew, she's eating a sandwich. And I was like, did you see on the train? So, okay. So the Valley is, okay, they worked at Vanderpump rules. That's what it is, and now they're like grown up. Some of them, I don't know if Nia did. I don't recognize some of them because I watched the earlier seasons of Vanderpump. Okay. I don't really recognize. Where does Tom stand up all of it in this role? And this role. He was on stand up all of it. So he was on Vanderpump rule. He was with the group like Jackson Brittany. Yes. Okay. And Schwartz and Ariana and Katie and Lala, all of them. I do like Lala, I love her. She was the one that came out and was like, I'm not comfortable with the way you're speaking to Danny. I don't like Danny. Danny to Nia. I think that was a parent. Drunk. Yes. Yeah. Absolutely. And like, he was just so weird. The fact that like, I don't see them together as like a couple. Dania. Yeah. It is. She seems so much more like together and he seems like a mess. That's what I don't get either. I guess he was like a child star or something like that. So maybe she thought there was like some appeal there that he was like famous at one point or something. I don't know what his deal is. I don't even know what he does now on the show. I don't know either. I have no idea. I mentioned it on the show. Yeah. I don't know if he's like and then you want to go get his like, his vasectomy or whatever. Did he? Yeah. I didn't see that. What episode was that? Was that before after San Diego trip? Before. Oh. Yeah. And what did he say? Oh, so that's good. At least he got that done. Well, then he's like, the doctor was like, oh, um, first of all, he's very crass about his genitalia. What did he say? He's just like, oh, my god. My balls are so big or whatever. I was like, I don't care about that. Okay. Like on TV. Yeah. Like she's like, maybe they're like trying to play it up for the TV, but like honestly, it's very off-putting. It's off-putting. Cause I think you don't need to play that up for the TV being like, no, no one cares about your balls. Maybe Nea does, but I don't. I certainly don't. Nea does the intentos down for him. Cause I feel like next episode, but well, she's so meek and like, like, so like. - Like, you know, quiet, maybe. - It gives someone who like, kind of like what you were saying, who doesn't know their being. I don't, I, abuse is like such a crazy term, but like, doesn't know they're in this like manipulation cycle, this like gas sliding cycle. - But I think that she does. - So she kind of just is like, I don't wanna-- - But what I'm gonna do, she's got four kids with him. - That is the hard part. That is the hard part. - And of course, we don't know how their relationship is out of just this one segment, but it is not, look, it doesn't all look good. - He was saying that she is the one who wanted more kids, that he was like good with like two of them. - She was the one that made the vasectomy appointment. - Oh, okay, I don't know where he is from. - Okay, so maybe, I don't know either, but that's, yeah, four kids. - There's a lot I always say that. I always say three kids is a lot. Four kids seems insane, but more power to you. - But going back to like the vasectomy appointment, when he got, the doctor told him like, you won't be, you'll still be able to, your sperm will still have be able to create a child after 35 times of ejaculation. Then you'll be sterile. - Oh. - I don't know. Is that true for all vasectomies? - I believe so. - Good to know, good to know what vasectomies and be like, we're pregnant again. I'm like, well, maybe know the fine print. - Right. - I don't know that, but. - So then he gets home and like, she's struggling. She's always, you know, breastfeeding or doing something that poor girl. And like four kids on a forum was, right? - Oh. - She's like trying to like have a serious conversation about like how her, she's feeling, how she's been feeling about like away from whatever her postpartum. And he's like, well, you're gonna be a lot bussy because I put 35 days of sex on the calendar. I'm like, you're so, no, I know what people say that. It's like actually so gross. Like that's not what I'm thinking about at all. - You're so gross. - Yeah, and that's, that's what you're saying is someone who's like trying to open up and be like, I'm kind of struggling right now. - It's like juvenile, like, humor. - I know. - And they're like, they're like marriage, right? Like middle age. - Older, he's older. - You see, 14, I don't know. Let me look it up because honestly, I hate that guy. - I do hate that guy. - I do hate him too. No, my blood boil. That's why I was like, this is why women don't want to have kids with men. And like, I don't know, say I don't blame them. Like, it's, it's, I don't know. I don't know. I would, if I had kids with anybody that I wanted to have kids with before, I probably would have been like 42. - Yeah, your way too old and too grown. And it's not cute. I said, I get it if you're like trying to play it up for the thing, but this is not cute. But what people were saying is like, if this is you on camera, like, imagine, all of a sudden. - All of a sudden. - Right, yeah. - About like, if this is how you talk to her in front of people, how do you talk to her behind closed doors? - Yeah. - And then he's like, instead of your business, I was like, you're in a communal house that you're all sharing and you're being loud. I hated that episode too, when she was giving the makeover to him and he was being so like condescending. He's like, you know, just put it on. I need it to be perfect and I need this. And it's just like, you're taking the fun out of everything. I'm just like, you're being performative right now. I'm like, you're being performative at that. - He's insane. - Remind me of an accent, I think you know what I'm talking about where like a switch, like, yeah, where, you remember, we were like all on the set of the music video and then he was just like, so grouchy. And as soon as someone came around, he was like, turned in a line. - And I was like, that is giving Danny and that was giving Psychopathic tend to see in my opinion. And that was like so scary to watch and then calling her performative. I'm like, without the kids, she's probably so happy. She's probably trying to like, you know, you're trying to get the energy up. Like, okay, we're out without the kids. - Yeah, we're gonna do like, and to like, throw it in the face. - And the fact that she had to explain to him, like, you've only been around me for the last five years when I've been with kids. - Yeah. - And so this is me without kids. - Yeah. And it's like, he didn't know the difference. And she just had a baby. So she's also still going through like the postpartum changes and everything like that. - Yeah. - The fact that he couldn't grasp it. - What it really was concerning to me is that like, I forgot who mentioned it, but someone was like, they don't air their dirty laundry. They very much keep it at home. So I'm like, who, Danny and Nia, who said that though? - I don't remember who said that, but like, someone had prefaced it. So the fact that he is doing this like so openly, I'm just like, oh my God, what are they dealing with at home? - At least like that's out there and people can like see it now. And I think it's good. Honestly, it's giving like 16 impregnant where it was like, you know, the, the, the teen pregnancy rates, like, dropped greatly after 16 impregnant. I feel like that's gonna happen with this. It's like, girls will stop, or women will stop having babies with like loose men, you know what I mean? Because the lowest it's ever been. - It's it. Yeah, if you aren't, it's like, I'm not gonna have kids. - It's so extensive to have kids too. - Yeah, it's very hard to find a partner that's willing to help you raise a family. The men are actually like so worthless in this like partnership. Like that is actually like so crazy how you can't help at all. When she had the baby in the carrier on the train, bouncing, trying to eat a sandwich. And he is laying back, getting a massage. I want it to, I want it to like, I know. - Shake him so hard. I'm like, what is your problem? Take the baby or something, feed her the sandwich. Like, what are you, like, what? And then she's like, can you take the baby? He's like, I'm gonna get a coffee. And then she's like, okay, well, when we get, I said I was gonna get a coffee first. I was like, I, like, and she doesn't see it. Like you said, like, I feel like Lala will get like chewed out for like, you know, say any of that stuff because she like, doesn't either see it or like, like you said. - Lala has her own past. So she recognizes Lala has shares of baby daddy with one of the other people, right? - No. - No, that's another person. There's two girls who share a baby daddy. - No. - The blonde. - Oh, yes, Lacy and Michelle. - Yeah, yeah. And they're like cool. - But they don't have a baby together. Lacy and the other guy. - Oh, okay. They don't, they're just dating. - They're just co-parent. - They got it. - Okay, the other, okay. So, so no one shares a baby daddy. But Lala had a face abuse of or manipulative, whatever kind of narcissistic relationship with a Hollywood producer. And, okay, yes, I did see something like that. - So she has experience in seeing like, shifts in men. And like, so she gets very triggered. - Yeah. - As she said. - And then that, Danny, just started taunting her with the triggered word. He's like, oh, I missed trigger. - Miss trigger. - I missed trigger. - I was like, actually, no, you're just a dude. - He's actually, yeah. - Oh my, no, like, you're actually the worst person 'cause it's one thing to do it to your partner. And it's like, all right, she has to deal with it, not me. But then you're doing the other people on the cast in the house that are obviously all down there at the same purpose. - No, I hated that so much. And I was like, you're such a loser. And like, you're just like, you contribute nothing. Like you said, he's not rich, he's not hot. He's like, contributing nothing. So also, you're not a good father on top of that. Like, you have to pick, you have to pick one. You have to pick one thing that you're like good at and you're good at. - Nothing. - Nothing. - You're literally good at nothing. And that's what it makes me so bad. - Mom is around a lot of the time too. And then on that trip, they brought in Danny. And it's just like, what do you do, though? - What do you do? - Except for complaint that you have to put the baby down and her eyes are waking up. - Your eyes are waking up. I'm like, first of all, sir. I don't think that's what you say that. You say, I can't get the baby down. Not her eyes are waking up. - Her eyes are waking up. - And I'm like, English is not my first language, but I would not say that. - That was, we saw that. That was the clip you were watching. - You were saying it over and over too. Like, I don't think that's the right way to say it. - I thought you never have put your baby down. Like, you know, no, when her eyes are like open and she's just not sleeping, like, what? - He's like, he's so, he's like, never done this before, ever. - That far like scared me. I'm like, this is your fourth baby. I get it for a second. Okay, but like, your fourth baby? You can't put your baby down. And then he's like, well, we have to sit there like, what does she have for us? She's also like cleaning the nannies, like, cleaning stuff and everything like that. And there's three other babies. I'm like, you were so mad at me and the nanny. And he's like, well, why did we get a nanny here? (laughing) But they show her like, doing the bottles or something. Like, she's cleaning something else which she wasn't doing. Like, he's just, oh my god, you're eating a sandwich. I would be like, oh my god, I'm gonna, buy your head off next. Top of that. Don't ever come in on my food. - That bar. I was like, wait, what do you mean, you're so upset? And she was getting like a little huffy and stuff and I'm like, understandably so. But it's like, God, just one thing after the other and then the makeover and then this. And I'm just like, this person is awful and people do not want him on the next season. And I think this overall, this like, I actually don't really like a lot of the people on there. - I like the girls. I like Shwart. - I like Lala. - Which are shorts. - I like Tom and that's gonna be controversial. I'm sorry. - Which one is Tom Schwartz? - The one that's single and he's, he's on there now? - Yes. - Was he on the trip to San Diego? - Not actually. - Yes, I think so. - He's gay? - No, he's very much straight. - There's the gay one. Zach. - I like the gay ones. - I like Zach. I do think that he gets into everybody's. - Well, that's his character. - I guess he's like a, if there is an issue, Zach's right there. - Yeah, I like, that's why we need a sassy gay all the time. We need you in the weeds. You need to be in the mess. - I just, I, he's like in everything. He was, he was at the appointment with Danny getting up and said to me. - Oh, see, that's what I'm saying. He's just there for the tea. - He's there for the time. - Yeah. - And I love that. That's why you need that in the, okay, so I like that they have it. Like the more and more needed to get. - But you know what I mean? - It's not even that he's like in the middle of it. I feel like people go to him for issues. Like, Kristen and Luke, like they were both points of reason. I'm like, why don't you go seek a professional maybe? - Well, maybe he is. What does he do? - He's in professional. - Do we know? - Yes, 'cause he said, you guys need to go see. - When he working at Banner Pump, I don't know. Like I said, I didn't watch the later seasons of Banner Pump. But what happened to Pump? What happened to that restaurant I love with the lobster pasta? - So the show couldn't keep it alive. - We were like, where's Tom Tom? - Tom Tom, I think. - No, it's down. - Really, I think. I don't know if it's down. I think Jack. - That's as far as down. - Jack's had a bar in the valley. Maybe that's why. Was it in the valley? Was it in the street city? - I think it was in the valley. - Oh, yeah, it's like, oh no. - But I think Tom Tom's still around. Because I think they had brunch there or something. - Okay. - In the show. - Well, Jack's not on the season right. - No, thank God. And you know what? I never understood why Stasi and whoever it was, Kristen maybe, Kristen date him? I don't know. One of the girls dated him. - He's not right. - They were fighting about him. I don't think he was hot. Like even it is. - Like, Tom did a lot of hot back in the day, but on the day, but he's not. - Yeah, I don't get it. At all, Brittany is hot. Brittany is hot. I still think she's hot. Obviously she just had like babies and stuff like that. But she was also very hot, which she was like, she was always the hot one in that relationship, so I don't know what happened. - The value would be fine if there was no men on the show. - I think that's the, that's why we're gonna say that's what Brittany is being. - Because Brittany is the man who's also pissing me off too, which one was he? - Brandon, it's a new thing. And like, by the next episode, he was like being in everybody's drama. - You're new here. - You're new. - That's more new here, yeah. - That was like, - Laila is on issue. - Moreman wives too. Like, he was new and he was like, telling her like, you're being manipulated by your kids. I'm like, you're new here. Like, who are you? You're like a 24-year-old, no kids. Like, why are you, I hate when that happens. - I hate you're the new kid in school. - Yeah, don't come in here. - You're amazing, cute. - Lazing and let's try real housewives or something like that. Yeah, it's 100% with you. I'm 100% there. - Yeah. - Yeah, the winner, what is this one called? - Valley, the Valley. - The Valley. It's giving, like, I like the women. I do like the women and I do love. I like what you said. Like, you're not in that era, but I do love that it's like showing real. And I love-- - Yes. - That they do wear like no makeup. 'Cause that's like me having a time, like no makeup hair down. - I thought really bad for Kristen though. They, she went out for like, breakfast with some of the girls. And like, she just had to break down about like, how she doesn't feel good about her body and herself and her self-image is like-- - Yeah. - I'm all really bad. And I do think that's really positive to show other women that are at home that like-- - Yeah, don't get to see that, you know? - Oh, I've been loving the conversation on it too. I like, hit a pen and tear, just went on Jay Shetty. And she was talking so much about her postpartum depression and they diagnosed it at its alcoholism. Like, obviously, she was like drinking at the time too. She goes, "But they didn't even tell me that it could be postpartum depression." It was just like, "Oh, you're an alcoholic. We're gonna treat you for that." Like, not tying in, like, maybe the reason behind the drinking and stuff like that, which was the postpartum depression, which is when she like signed over custody of her daughter kind of unknowingly, like how like she wasn't gonna like get her back and out her daughter from the Ukraine. And now they have a good relationship and stuff like that. But it is so wild when, and she was young. She was like 25 when she had her daughter. And it's just like, I do like that people are talking about it 'cause it's scary to people judge. Like, hate a pen and tear. It was like, you know, she's talking about her mom chick. She was scared she wouldn't be like her mom. And the thing is, is like, everybody I think goes through it even if you don't know it. Like, I feel like with Elvis, I felt like I had a perfect postpartum, but I was just also like, maybe not like looking back, 'cause you just don't know. You don't know when you're in it. But certain things can like trigger you. And it is a crazy thing. Like, I was pretty happy. I had so much support from Malibu to Elvis Aquaman. I had so many people, but it's still like one of those things that's just overwhelming. And it's a change every time you have a baby. - Also, even if you have people around, he doesn't make you feel, sometimes that doesn't make you feel any better either. Like, it's the eternal thing of yourself, you know? Like, you're dealing with some of my bones. You're dealing with your thoughts. You're dealing with your, your new body and stuff like that. - That part. - The other people can't, you know. Your body changes like so much. And even if you like snap back whatever, just like the internal of everything, like your body changes. So I do appreciate the valley for that, because it is giving like realness. And it's, 'cause you know, there's the housewives, right? But there are a lot more than me. And it's like, they're a different lifestyle. They're all like, you know, whatever skinny, rich, everything. The valley gives more real. And so I don't know where any of these people are. But I like it. And that's why I like about it. I kind of like, I love the things people are just on there. And, but the fact is, - I feel like Brittany, though. She is very, it's a good range. - I love Brittany. - What can I do for you? Like, 'cause she knows she's, she was getting a mommy makeover. I was kind of like, I need you as my friend. - Yeah. - She's taking care of everything at the house. I think she's just like paying for his taxes. - She made a whole sensory room for her son. I was like, that's so true. - And no, I like to go on that sensory room. - And me too. We all need a sensory room. I think that's so, yeah, she's so special. I just wish they would show, like, I do love that they show like musty-dusty men because that is the reality. That's so many women. - I don't think there's one man on there that I like. - That's what I'm saying. I wish there was like one person kind of like, Connor with Whitney on, there's like one guy that gives you a redeeming hope, like maybe one day. But you just see all these pieces of shit and it's like, we get it and we like that. - And you know what's crazy? - Here's the crazy part. Janet is not a favored person on the show. - Yeah. - She was pretty much alienated from the group because she called out Danny for being inappropriate. - What season? When? - This was like, early in the episode. - Early in the season. - No, like previous season. - What did she say? I didn't know that. - Something about like her, like him being grabby. And so I'm like, wait a second here. - They tried to like, and so they alienated Janet, which honestly, I don't know much about Janet 'cause I only watched the season. - She's not on the season. - She is on the season. - Was she at the same day at your trip? - No. Oh, yes, she was. - Oh, which one was, okay. - Was she on that or maybe she was at a different party. Anyways, but I thought it was very interesting as she called out Danny and that always happens. When you're the one to call out bad behavior, they try to extract you. They try to be like, oh no, they protect the toxic one and then they extract the person. But then it's like, that's the problem. And we were talking about this the other day too on Hot Topics is when you're the first to call out. Someone everyone sees you crazy. They were talking about this because when I called out James Charles back in 2021, Oscar read me the list of people who were like, yeah, get her, eat her up. It was a dream, Charlie Demelia, like all these people. And I was just like, let's ask their opinions on James Charles. Now, you know what I mean? But when you're the first to say something, that's why nowadays I am being a little more me can mild these days. I know shocking, but it's like I just kind of like to sit back 'cause I can't come from the thing. You can have your own thoughts. I know, but if it's like a James Charles, I'm like, why I've been saying this out James Charles, but yeah, I try to like, yeah, the cats are already in fun. Yeah, and sometimes the messenger, it's like maybe okay, maybe not for me to hear, maybe to hear from someone else, which makes sense. Like when Jackie Aina called out James Charles, everyone's like, oh, you know, because they listened to her. What makes sense? She's very respectful, never in drama. We love her. She's a queen. And honestly, I don't think maybe Jackie or Jackie, Janet was wrong. Because-- About Danny Wallace. Yeah, because look at how he gets when he gets drunk. He gets-- Oh, the troll. Yeah. Oh, I don't know. Yeah, I haven't. I don't know about Robbie, but I'm just-- We believe it. Or we're believing her because context clues is like he seems a little-- Mm-hmm. I used to get it together again. I can control it. It's also like under the influence. You are like parents at the end of the day, and it's just like, you know, obviously you can like lose and make mistakes and all this stuff like that, but like also like, you know, your kids will see this one day. Like, I don't understand how you're just-- also the way you treat their mom. It's also just like taking care of all your kids for you. Like, what? Like, it's so weird. But anyways-- Well, yeah, I'm glad that you don't like Danny either, because I was looking at it, and I was like cringing. I don't want to see the reason I started watching the show, but I guess I had to because I was just seeing clips. I'm like, there's just no way. This must be out of context. There's no way he's this bad. Also, he's that bad. Just don't ever comment on what a woman is eating ever in your whole life, OK? Not what she's buying at the grocery store. Not what she's putting in her mouth, nothing ever, never ever comment on it. And you didn't learn from love is blind. How many years ago? With the clementines. Oh my god. [LAUGHTER] Well, we can't-- Well, we're going to have a dinner, then. Well, still, don't, if she wasn't-- He was joking. He was joking. I know. I just remember that whole scene. He knows. Well, he knows, he knows. He knows it's me, and I like-- Nothing he ever did. I'm very sensitive with food. When it comes to food, it's like, nope. Don't even question if I'm hungry, whatever. But you've always been good with that. But some people-- Is not that way at all. And they need to get it in line. It's like weird. But it's weird what you will put up with, because I had access, like, obviously, who had issues with me just eating in general. And it's like so insane what you put up within thinking, like, oh, it's like cutesy. It's like, laugh or whatever. Sometimes I'd be like, side-eyeing. But I was like, you have to realize if you have a partner-- Oh my god. You with the chicken nuggets. Hello. Yes, amongst other things. But even, like, just eating like a simple Panda Express meal, like, I can't believe you would eat that. I'm like, but if you have a partner who says that's up to you, just knows, like, projection. Like, they have issues. They got some issues with their own food and body and their intake. And so they're trying to project it on you just because you're just like eating like a normal person. If you're eating, you're fine. You should be eating. Like, eat what you want. Eat what you crave. Eat what you want. Eat what you crave. We lose that. Like, children know so well when they're hungry, when they're not, when they're full. Like, they just know. Like, and it goes in spurts with children with adults too. Sometimes you're like so ravenous and you just want to eat a lot because that's just your body going through it. Sometimes you don't want to eat a lot at all. Like you just listen to your body and don't come out on people's food. And if someone is commenting, they're projecting their insecurities, Danny with your shortness, Danny with your ugliness, Danny with your lack of anything, like able to provide for your family, like all of it, like you can't even clock it. Hunter gather, like you can't do either. And so I think that insecurity he's projecting on this woman who's literally a goddess who's starring on a show, who's burying all these kids for you and taking care of them. And caring the show. I guess it makes for good TV. I don't know. I'm kind of hooked on it. I guess I kind of have been like seeing what- - I know what I didn't actually like it. But I'm like, well, now I gotta see how it goes. - I know. - I see it for these women. I need to see them through, but I'm here for it. Well, maybe they'll be on the next season of my warstacks on Netflix season three. - Okay, I hope not because that's terrible. - Oh, right, right. Okay, that's- - I was like, that's a bad transition. - Yeah, I'm trying to be ask her when he's not here. I'm like, let's transition. - That is a very good at that. - I know. - That is a quality I don't have. - I don't have any that me be like, maybe they'll be on my warstacks so I was just thinking they'll be an ex. But you're right, this is about killers. And they're not killers. That's a very different. - And I guess you can be a little abuse. - So, yeah, well, I only watched the first two episodes of the new season. Jeffrey was on the second season. - Yes. - He was episode two? - Yes. - Or episode one, maybe I don't remember. But regardless, he's only- - He said one was weighed. - The new season. - My sister's a true crime girl. Which I don't know. - I know. - Which is so funny because you texted me super late last night. - Yeah. - You're like, well, I don't know what, I wasn't even not late. I think it was 8.30. I was just like, I was going to bed when I said, "I don't know how late you stay." Well, I was about to go to bed. So I'm like, I said, let me switch to watch it up. You better read like 9 p.m. The day before. - I don't know before. - Oh, I already know that story. I watched the crash on Netflix because I really wanted to talk about it. I don't think Oscars watched it yet. And then on Hulu, they had one called Mean Girl Murders and she was also featured on that. So I was like, oh, watch the crash. To me, I was like, I'm in my documentary area for sure right now. I'm like, so like, captivated by documentaries. I know. This is crazy because like you were not messing with that. I never liked that. My mom is always like watch Donutty. I watch Donutty. I watch Donutty all the time. Yeah. If it's not somebody feed Phil, it's a documentary true crime. Yeah. You guys have been on it and you like already knew about that story. So well, where do we go? Where's my worst ex? I said in my worst ex. And then the crash. Okay. Which, who is, I was going to say who's worst, but I guess I'm in my worst ex. Well, obviously, these guys, it is crazy because right, comparing, not to compare the two, but like obviously the crash, I do think it's horrific and I think she's like not held accountable at all. And like if she was like the 17-year-old girl and you're just like, what is wrong with you? Like you slammed your car and killed these two people. And I think intentionally, in my opinion, but these men on my worst ex and I watch it because grown man though, grown man, Jeffrey has kids, it's like several kids. Yeah. And you're just like, are you a monster? They look so. He has a monster. Well, wait, it doesn't look normal anymore, but like did look normal at one point. It's like Jeffrey, very unassuming, I only watched in, in his stardons are not starred, but he was like in the, yes, he was a main character in 90th Yonsei. No, I'm not on actual acting shows. What show was he in? Oh my God, I got to look it up. But really? Yes. He was like, he had speaking lines in actual shows, like cop shows or whatever. What? Oh my God. Before 90 day or after 90 day? Before. Because he always wanted to be famous. Did he even watch the thing? Yeah, but I didn't know he was acting. Yes, it said it in there. Oh, and the, I did not watch this full episode. I had only had seen the Wade one and the watch clips of the Jeffrey one because Jeffrey's a heart attack. I mean, Wade is too. Yeah, Jeffrey is hard to stomach for me because I had an ex exactly like him. So you saw the, I was like, cringing the entire way. He was on fatal attraction episodes, like those kind of like shows. But it was scripted? Yes. Oh, that's so weird. I didn't know. Yeah, I watched it because, well, you told me, I don't need to cry. I don't need to cry. You like, you know how they do flashbacks? Oh, I do remember that was he doing like a reenactment? Yes. Twice, right? I was in the hospital. I was a detective or whatever. Ironic, because now they're going to snap about you because it was, it's so insane. I remember talking to him on Instagram live. I remember you talking to him too. Oh, my God. Like, he was on 90 fiance. And that's what's kind of like scary, right? It's like, so he went on 90 day fiance. He had just did a assault, like a physical assault on his, was his girlfriend, not wife. Yeah, I'm fine. fiance where he took a warning, like it's obviously like domestic abuse where he like smashed her head. But he said, even before that, he had charges. He had so many charges before, because it's like one thing shows, okay, it was six months before he left for the show. So maybe they didn't know hers. But like, there was so many like charges prior and they still had them on the show, which is like risky because again, like you show him girls are hitting him up, which obviously we know from my worst acts as like, that doesn't stop anyone. The Wade, what's the name? Wade Wilson. Yeah, they are very, usually abusers are very charismatic and they're very like good at schmoozing. That's how people get hooked into these relationships. And then they get stuck in these relationships because the hardest part about, it's like leaving, that's the hardest part is leaving. It's the most dangerous part in a relationship. Of course. Yeah, it's hard to get out of it. But on top of that, these, some of these like Wade, they know what he's done and they write to him. Yeah. I mean, when he went to the same prison the second time after killing the second girl, he literally took his flooded with like, he's so hot, I don't understand that that whole mentality of like, this man is an abuser. He's killed women. Like, violently. He's hot. Like, no. He's psychopath. And it's like one thing to be like, that guy's hot or whatever, but to like write him and be like, "I want to have a relationship with you." But on his books, girl, you look so desperate. You actually look like a clown. Okay. I think a clown is damn, like I don't, and being so openly public too, like, people have, like, made tick talks about it. Why would you make a tick talk on that? Yes. And then, they're jutting around with you, actually. Well, then Jeffree's current wife, Varia, is like still supporting him after hearing all these stories because they show his Jeffree's acts that he, uh, physically is halted. And like, she's telling the story in graphic detail. And how he was, like, trying to, like, get away with it and stuff like that. And Varia's, like, still supportive of it. And I'm just like, I guess, because he's in prison and she's just, like, peace. I have no deal with that. She doesn't have to deal with the repercussions of him, I guess, but because he has, is he have life sentences? What is his, uh, no, he doesn't, because he didn't kill anybody. But I thought that was, like, the get, because he, I thought he didn't have life sentences for or not, even though he didn't, or am I just, like, getting that wrong? Like, I thought he had, like, consecutive ones. Right. He didn't. Uh, 2037. 18 years. Oh. Mm-hmm. Which is more than, still pretty good for non-murdering someone. Yeah. That's pretty good that he's in their 18 years. Well, that's so wild. So will he be with Varia when he comes out, I guess, like, I should be like, maybe he's still around. If he's still around, no one's promised tomorrow. Oh, my God. But yeah, uh, it was crazy. I had an ex that hid his son from me and I didn't find out until, like, that hid a son. Yes. Yeah. Which, is this your first one or second one? First. Remember? Oh, no, I don't. So what? Yeah. I remember him, but I didn't know, 'cause he had a son. So he had two. So he had two. And I only knew that he had one. Oh, get a toy. Oh. And, like, two years in a relationship, he was like, I found out that he had a second one. And I'm just like. Then it, like, you start, like, thinking, I'm like, oh, my God, I don't even know this person. No, that's terrifying. That's terrifying. If it was, like, by the way, I had a kid, like, oh, my God. I would be like, I'm sleeping with a stranger. That's what I was dealing with. Like, when they mentioned that he had, like, these two teenage boys over and like, the fiance was there, they're like, oh, these are my friends, kids or whatever. And then come to mind now. There are his kids. I was like, girl. Yeah. I was like, how are you lying about that to someone that you're like dealing with? I'm really multiple men do it because I've experienced it too. Yeah, you're so bright. That is so scary. That is so scary. I'm really good. Actually, I'm really good. That's the consensus for a lot of women online and I feel the same way if anything happened to us. I don't, I don't think I would, like, it's so scary because like, what do you mean? Like, what even people who have been married like 20 years, oh my god. We go on hikes and like, because you just like sometimes they're like, oh, they were married 15 years. And then he just pulled her scoop. But I mean, she like got, there's one in Hawaii when they went on vacation and the husband, like, gave her an injection and tried to push her off the mountain. I just saw one too. And like, Indonesia, he like threw off a train. And I was like, the husband. And I'm like, because like, she took her, took her purse off to help her and then just like threw over and I was just like, what? And it's, you know, not all men, but always men, because if you look at like the females who have done some of this stuff, like, there's usually like, there's a reason. There's either like a monster, you're Charlie steroids. Yeah, like, there's always like, some provoking. Yeah. And people protecting their children. That part. I've seen so many women on like death row. And it's like, they literally like shot someone that like killed their daughter or something like. That's in your health defense. Yeah, or also just like, you should be able to like, if you, if you did something to my daughter, I should be able to shoot you if you did something. Like that's so insane, especially when you're under a, so yeah, or self defense or any of that stuff. Like, it is wild. Yeah, mom should just be able to do that period. But yeah, these men do it truly just out of nowhere, like random people. And you're just like, I don't, I don't, I don't get it. Like, that's why I don't like watch. I don't like can't watch true crime too much because it does like freak me out. Even the case, I don't know her name from the crash, but she's like the 17-year-old girl. Okay. Mackenzie. Mackenzie, Sherlock. Mackenzie, yes. Um, even watching that, it's like obviously not as like eerie, but it's also very much like. Those kids were very young. I mean, he was like, she was 17, I think at the time, but he, like, Dominic was like 20. His friend was like 20. And it's just like. The dangers of really just like your child. Like, who was the, I'm sorry. I don't want to get his name wrong. It's Dominic. And who was the friend Davie? Davie on. Davie on. Who was like a friend that, like, just, like, just knew them and just was like, who, why he was in this car, but it's like, you also have to worry about your kids being friends with people who are like toxic with each other because you could end up in that backseat of that happening and stuff. And it's so, it's just so scary. And these are children, right? She's in high school. And it's just like, you just don't expect it. But maybe he did. Maybe that's why he brought him. And it was just like, I don't really like trust her or whatever. And it's just, I don't know. And then the fact that there's parents like hers that were just, no accountability. They are so toned up. Still until this day. To this day. And that's the thing. It's like, take some accountability. Yes, she was like underage, but still like, take some accountability of where like you went wrong. You can just tell she was just like, caudal like this her whole life. And it's just there's zero. Oh, she's not a murderer. And like, let her go. Those were her family. Those were her people. It's like, what? No, no, no. Some people said that they were trying to shift to neutral and then back to drive. And they were like that they may have been trying to like fight. We get it. We'll never know really the truth. And but that's I think at that this point very like least now is like, if you are so, if you are remorseful and you're so sorry, like tell the truth to the truth. the family, so at least they have the closure because it's just like not. And she got two very different edits on the Hulu versus the Netflix one. I think with the Netflix one, I think the family thought 'cause I think she's up for what is that called? - She's not up for parole yet. - She's not, or is there like a retrial happening? There's something. - She's trying to appeal it. The first one got denied. They're trying again. - So I think they thought this might make them look good. It actually made them look. - And like, the appeal is based off of making one of the victims look bad. And I'm like, this is not what you think it is. - Yeah, no, that's the thing. It's like, why are you victim blaming it all? Like, your daughter was recklessly driving regardless of why the intentions were I wish. - I can't imagine going 100 on the freeway. Imagine doing that on like cross-trees, like little streets. - There was somebody doing like 100. Like, they already went to trial in this area too. And same thing and they were trying to like plead like that they weren't even reckless driving. I'm like, what do you mean 100 mile? - Like, that's so. - It's so fast. First of all, a car going up 100 miles an hour. A lot of cars will shake because they just can't like handle going that fast. But also, what's really triggering too is that like, she was like, they thought that she was under the influence absolutely sober. Yes, she had THC in her system, but like that stays in your system for a while, but. - Oh, right. There's someone phased by her like smoking. - Exactly. - And it's like living with your boyfriend when you're 17. - Yeah, like, that tells me everything about the pain. - 100% is the parent's fault. I mean, she is a product of her parents. And we can see why she is the way she is. And Hasel has like zero accountability. And also like zero remorse and just like cold blooded and all that shit. It's like, that's why like obviously the parents were like neglectful in some way. Like you're just like letting your lover the boyfriend. Oh, you're not like shook by her like smoking like, the fat is joint. Like it's just so it's so crazy. - Right. And the fact that yeah, watching them like in the court also still trying to like defend it all is not like that. Cause it's like one thing to love your daughter. But you're, oh, Deviant is a new friend. - Yeah. - Just sit down. - I know. I was like stalking. Cause one, you're not making it good for your daughter. And two, you sound like a fucking idiot. - Yeah. And there's like their families are there. And you can't like give them some sort of. - And so absolutely tone deaf. - Yeah, your daughter is still alive even though she's the one to cause it. And it's always the case of the one that caused it. But I do think my opinion, I feel like it was intentional. I feel like it was like an intentional murder. And that's cause who goes that fast under that with those pretenses. - Yeah. - So I just, the documentaries are crazy. But I guess also it's, it's good that it's out there again. Awareness for everyone, for parents too. Like to not let your kids like drive to tell them like don't drive with other teenagers. - That's a law. That is a law too that I wanted to bring up too. Once you're, if you're under 18, you have, if you're driving with another underage person, you have to have someone I think like of the age of 25. Or you can't drive out. - That should be it. I didn't know. Is that a lie? - It is a law. - It is. - It's another neglectful parent issue. - Yeah. And it really does come down. Honestly, they should be tried too. It's like a way they can't try and for it. - Yeah. - Well, she was tried as an adult, but. - Oh, she was. - Yeah. - Yeah. Cause I mean, 17 and also. - Yeah. And it's just good awareness. I think for also people in toxic relationships, don't get in the car with, you know, and that's not there, obviously. But it's just. - Well, the saddest part is, Davian was supposed to go home with someone else to help him do something. And he's like, I just want to go to home and like get some sleep before I go help you. Oh, that just, it's so hard. - And also, the other people on the road too, it's like one thing with them. But there's like other people on the road. And it just like is, yeah. And there's no, you know what? There is like no solution. That's what like sucks is like, these people will continue to do it. They'll continue to go to prison. There's people who are in the same prison or her at the time and saying how, also she was and how she like, just thought she like got away with stuff and everything that's like, no, girl, you're in prison. - Also, if you are younger and watching this. You do not have to go fast. Whatever you're going to can wait. It doesn't matter if you're late for work, for school, whatever. - Yeah, 'cause a lot of times people do it. You're right. They try to go home and like rush home and it always, I see that too. - I know a lot. - Everybody. - Yeah. Yeah, nothing is worth risking your life for other people's life. That's what I'm saying. She had just, I think she had malice 'cause she, it's not remorseful. If you're really sorry, like you give closure, you give admission, you give something, but she's not and she's still trying to like, get away with it and the parents too. - Yeah. - And yeah, it's, it's, it's awful. - I heard Korea loves you. - After your new song. - Oh yes. - They've been like tweeting or like commenting about you. - Yes. - Next show for you. - Go to Korea. Go to South Korea, I would love. That's like the goal of all goals. I would absolutely love it. I know the response has been really nice and I've got a little yesterday. So I won't get too much. But there's not something like super nice 'cause I'm just not used to people. I love making music. I will make music and music videos forever 'cause I just love it so much. Even if like no one cares about it. But like this was so much fun. And I like love learning the language and people were like really supportive of it. And do you like the song? - I love the song. - So long, eh? - Mm-hmm. - I think it sounds good. - Yay. - Finally McQueen, people. - Breaking news, it's. - Breaking news. - US K-pop chart, it's number 45. (gasps) - How did you find out? Just on Twitter? - Stop. - K-pop chart. - K-pop chart. - Oh my god. - 45 is crazy. - Wait, you, okay, just, just you understand. - I have shit. - So my hair's beating so. Number 47 is Demon Hunter's strategy. Like one of their songs. - What? - Number one is Golden. So you're like 45. - Oh my god. - I think between the hunt tracks. Oh my god. - That is so. - Thank you. - Congratulations. - Thank you. - I appreciate it so much. - So by the time you watch this video it might be number one. - Imagine. - Oh my god. I would cry. I literally was telling Moses. Like I'm being, I was being so serious. I'm like, are we ready to go to South Korea? Like are we ready to go over there and like perform? Like, because I, I love it so much. And I have other Korean songs in my roster. They're not like fully done yet. But I have other ones that I've like started working on, like before all this came out. Cause I was gonna do an EP. But I was like, let me just see how people are liking it. - That's the water. - Yeah. - And I'm glad people appreciate it. Cause I do it always out of like, respect that I love the culture so much. I love the language so much. Like I, I appreciate K-pop and all this entirety. As I said before, it's like my kids like love K-pop so much. So I'm just glad people liked it. Cause I, you know, again, it can always never know. But it is a good song to an shout out to Alex right for writing it. It's like really a really good song. But yeah, and Amy, who was helping me with my pronunciation through it all, she would send me like voice memos. If I needed help with something and she was like, so proud she was like sending me it to Chicago. He did so good. Like, and I think, I don't know if I mentioned or not. Maybe I mentioned, but yeah, I think I mentioned it last, well, I'll just like touch on it again. But like, yeah, a lot of people were saying maybe do like some English in there. But a lot of people appreciated that I did all Korean. And that was just important to me. I didn't realize how it was important. That important to like the K-pop world that there was more Korean in here. It's all Korean. There's no English words in it. But like for me, it was important. Cause I just, what I really wanted to challenge, but I still just think it's a really beautiful language. That is like, okay, if I'm going to do a K-pop song, I want it to be all in Korean. And I'm glad that people also appreciate it better as well. Cause I just, I love the language. I always have, I love languages. I don't like, yeah, always you do. And, and specifically Korean is like such a beautiful language. So I'm trying to learn a more as I go. But yeah, I really, I appreciate it. Well, congratulations. Thank you. Yeah, cause I saw all the craves. There were like, you know, streamed a song now. Let's get it up. Cause it was like 57 this morning. It's an hour ago. Wow. 45. Oh, my God. That's so cool. That is really, really cool. I'm really. And I've never said this happened to me like Instagram. I'm just scrolling. And it's like it's all different people reacting, like different accounts. There's a lot of, you know, obviously, fans of K-pop accounts and all of them are just your song and the video and everything. What's so crazy is actually Oscars, like you should create, do the dance, like a dance trend. So people start like recreating your dance. Like, oh, I don't know. Like I don't want to just do it myself. He's like, and then afterwards saying, maybe she like pay people to do it. And I was like, I don't know. I think literally this morning, we woke up to people just doing the dance on their own. Like, I did not pay. I did not like reach out. And they have like 20,000 likes on it. Like there is, you have to show her that one. I'm sure. There's three people who are doing it phenomenally and doing the choreo exactly. It's. I don't know. It's so wild. Oh my God. Crazy. They're eating. Awesome to do it. Wow. Oh my God. Oh my God. So sometimes I'll scroll and, you know, it comes up somebody watching the video, putting a post about it and Elvis will hear it. And she runs to me. She's like, demands to watch it. I love him. I just want you to put on the TV. And she stands there and she watching, she learning, yeah, she learning the dance and the words. She's so focused on it and get learning the words of it, which is like, so close as they do with like deep, deep. And as I know all of it, um, it gets it's wild and I won't get better. Oh my God. Just like, even the encouragement where it's like pronunciation is not bad where people like, it's actually pretty good. Like I understood like 80% of it. It makes me just like, want to do it more. So I've been like, really, I was telling Alice to tell me, Amy, I was like, I really want to like get with someone to like, really learn it. Because now I already loved it as is, but now with the encouragement, I was like, I really, from Native Korean speakers, which makes me feel really happy and I want to do it even more. And I want to just be fluent in it. I want to be fluent in Korean. And that's my new goal. So thanks. I appreciate that. I love that. I'm gonna go into music bank music bank. I'm gonna come there. I'm gonna be there I would love I will fly over tomorrow Sometimes I want to play your music videos on stream and I'm like I might be happy right it I don't think so. I think mine are No, you leave yourself. Yeah, you usually might open like I think I leave it away listed I think all of them do this maybe different because I do have different producers on this so maybe they do But all my songs you can use but maybe this one is different. I don't know. We'll see I guess we'll find out Did you see the Bethany Frankl shoes scandal? Juice candle. She wore a pair of shoes From another housewives daughter. I think her name is Dina from real housewives of maybe New Jersey I don't know. Yeah, Dina's daughter has a shoe line called New NOU like no new shoes and no shoes and she gifted a pair to Bethany Frankl Bethany wore them. She does outfit of the day is She tagged a dupe Of the shoe and so then the daughter who made the shoes Called out Bethany and then Bethany's like I don't usually respond to this But I'm gonna call out because bad business practice. She's basically like why would you post a link to the Gotham for free I get to him to you. Why would you post a dupe where you're an affiliate and then Bethany Frankl called her out and Send his bad business practice because she's like everything I wear sells out Gap jeans all the stuff like that. So she thought her calling her out was bad business practice and that it wouldn't do well for her small business However the gag is the shoes are now available and I guess they I guess they were sold out Bethany I think said you they were sold out and people want to get the shoes now so she found the dupe Because I also think when I went to go order the shoes because I like the shoes that they were cute when I went to go order them It did say like six to eight weeks. So I think it was like a pre order So like I kind of understood what Bethany was saying where it's like people want to know what the shoe is now because we're asking what the shoe is We'll wait though. Yeah, and she could have tagged them and people could just find out they're on back order or whatever fine-dubes on their own Yeah, I think I think I'm with you on that one. I think her do like linking a dupe with a little tacky your gifted shoes She she used she wore the shoes a few times. The first time she didn't take anyone anything Right, and then later on she was asked and then she started taking tagging but not the person that sent her the shoes and Then when they called her out she was like she said well, I get the PR all the time no obligation to post Obligation, I do what I want with it. She sent it for me for free. So I do what I want So it's like you know, it's it's it's nice to acknowledge who sent you the thing Yeah, especially people are asking she did say she had made the content saying what the shoes were But it was banked meaning like it hadn't been posted yet And I think she ended up posting that video from that same day So you see she's in the same outfit saying glam seemed like New York stoop and she does shout it out So she did have it bang. She does say these shoes. She takes off the shoes. She looks at it from new or something So she did say it, but it did kind of been posted yet So she's like I already did I did shout it out, but like I hadn't posted it yet So I think the girls issue was like she tagged the dupe I think if she just like never said anything or like posted it later or something like that I think it being upset because I do feel like they're also mutuals because if her mom was a housewife too Yeah, we probably know each other so she probably was like this is annoying and she's a small business a female run business She's like, you know what I have my business. Don't want to happen to females supporting females that part in the business industry But it did work because everyone is now going to these new no new old new shoes I know you shoes. Did you look up the shoes? They're kind of cute. Um, I didn't pop up. You did You took me for any fringal shoes and didn't have this was everywhere. Where did you find it? I they don't show the shoe They just show they just tell me about the is it like a peep toe. It's a peep toe It's a black peep I see it her website. Does it curate things or is it the shoe itself is hurt? It's a shoe itself I think oh, yeah, I think so I think it's a shoe itself. I think she's a shoe designer. It's a good shoe It's like during a few bucks or something. It was so it must be good quality I don't know how it feels for white feet, but I should look it was me why you wear crock a little time I'm like cuz they're made for white feet. That's why I wear them. Of course. I would love a shoe for a white foot But I suppose it's a niche. Maybe not pile up people You know what you buy dance shoes. You can wear them all the time. Oh, that's all I wear on stage are the good Peasios Well, I wear them if I go out a Peasio. Yes a character shoe. No, well, no, no, no, no, I like the like the theater shoes Oh, what do you mean like dancing shoes like dancing with the stars shoes? I'm meant to be flexible I'm the one wearing them all the time that is a good life hack You can't wear heels those itty-bodies to let those get some dance heels. They're super flexible That is a good hack. I find a pair of heels. What did I wear that were comfortable? I found a pair of Jimmy Chu chunky heels that were pretty comfortable too. I warmed to you for you. I wore them everywhere Yeah, that's good about those like they're flexible a lot of shoes are they've got that stiff sole that so are you team Bethany or team? new designer I mean They didn't have a contract. I get it from that standpoint However, like if her daughter if Bethany's daughter wanted to business she and did that with a House I've you know she would be down their throat. That's true last true like so and she is a business woman She had a penny if she was on the other foot no pun intended Yeah, and she could argue. Well, I know business. I would never let my daughter do this out of that but like regardless Whatever but you also know business and you know that would help yeah so much She took that fun because I would imagine Bethany gets lots of PR Yeah, so you know, it's like you have she probably has a garage full of boxes lots of PR Mm-hmm, and when you send a PR you feel so personal. You're like I hope she gets it I hope she uses it. I hope she tags me but it's like lottery. Yeah, the chances are A small percent and you'd be thankful if one of the 10 includes you send it to actually does it So it's a tough one right you have a lot like a lot of emotion invested in it the person sending it Yeah, and the person receiving it has zero emotion into it It's one of a hundred boxes. They received to them. It's like you know, you're like I'm even showing it kind of thing So it's like it's a tough one. Yeah, but she didn't wear it and she did like love it So it's like damn, I would have loved a little tag as a tag and go well, but it seems like she was about to so in theory If she was holding back a little bit her motion, waiting a minute The tag would have happened things would have happened so it's like but I understand also the emotion you're like so emotion is out It's a tough one. Yeah, I guess also when you link something else Usually all of the traffic I will swear yeah, in that case I would just send a nice DM saying like hey Thank you so much for using my shoe by the way tag the wrong one. Yeah I know I know it was sold out, but now it's back in stock if you can update the link sound like I would just try to make Her aware of that yeah, definitely not blaster. Yeah, so bad. We were supposed to the Disneyland recap at the top of it because I was supposed to do Elvis's birthday Elvis's birthday was when I was performing my UK show on the 24th and originally we were all gonna go over there together So I thought I'm gonna execute a little tea party theme for her and then it just didn't work out because we just couldn't find anyone help us over there My dad was couldn't go for that on period of time. It was just kind of complicated But anyways, so we ended up like staying back and I so we sell for Elvis's birthday early at Disney, which we love at Disneyland experience We love it so much. I guess my only hot topic from Disneyland, which is not really a hot topic is I've ever been to that bird Tiki-sams It's a Tiki Tiki Tiki Tiki Tiki room. I love Tiki room. Why? I love the Tiki room. I feel like I'm transported in Maui. The Tiki room with robot animatronic birds. You like pirates. Don't even come for me. Well, you're just sitting there watching these birds. Maui was like so dark. That room would be in here. Oh my god. I literally doing what you just did and they're like They're but they're above you and you can't really see what's going on and it's just kind of like loud and then it's just like Maui was like isn't done And I'm like no, but you're in there for like 15 minutes and you can't get out because the doors are all like Closed around you and you're just like what is happening right here? And all I wanted some dull whip and we have to sit through these birds Just a yapping and it doesn't stop. Yapping. It just we like birdie tweets tweet tweet tweet And I'm just like what and then it starts raining and for no reason I'm gonna see you're in the rain forest. It's giving rain forest cafe, but at Disney without the food And it's just over at the end. I guess. Do you like it? I love the teak your room. Well, I love birds in general So that doesn't make sense. Actually, we forgot to talk about that. You saving a bird Moses found a baby bird and was holding it at the Stonehouse the other day and we were at lunch and this bird and both Malibu and Elvis are obsessed with they just want to touch the bird You know, so they chase the bird's all around everywhere we go the lake the and then Suddenly I see like below Aquaman. There's like a little baby bird. It was a baby and I was like, oh wait a minute Let me so I picked up the baby and then I got Malibu and Elvis to come and they could finally touch a bird Yeah, yeah, yeah, and there were so like yeah, it was like so cute because the big bird couldn't fly and was it a fledgling? I don't know what that mean. A fledgling is like when they're learning how to fly so sometimes you'll find that It was really young. It was really little it had some feathers and some still like a little white feathers sticking out So it was really tiny and Malibu even because she gets a little nervous Elvis was about to pick up that bird right out of your hands like let me get the bird. Yeah, I didn't want her to squeeze it too hard Yeah, I held it and I let them touch it and then I'll and then Malibu did it on the back. It was really cute So you say the baby bird but birds are not my thing So that's why you thought the teaky room would be fun for them I think the teaky room seems like more like a place to stop reset cool down Yeah, you can sit down in the shade for a minute. It was our first stop though, and I think we were just too I was too anxious to get to like dumbbell and stuff I feel like Mickey's is on pirates because it's dark and scary. Yeah, I want to though. That's my fave But we can really get a say yeah, I think we're building up towards it. It didn't like the dressing the dress up No, too dark. No, but they did love this time for the first time the mermaid's right They did love the mermaid and small. Oh, that's a dark one too. Yeah, it's dark It's all dark when you're in there, but then she gets a little nervous at first and then after she like I want to go again It is pretty in there. It was fun. We love Disney and then real quick. Sorry guys. We're like I was on a little time frame today May as much as the awareness month and I love Marchor has been doing a bunch of interviews. Have you seen this about? I just saw his documentary on Netflix too. Oh There's a documentary on Marchor. Yes, it was so And it's so nice as he's such a great human like he just Uses joy and like it really shows in the Because they have like old fit footage of like him hanging out with friends like Eugene Lovey and Bruno Harrah and like it's just like genuine friendships and it's just like all the kids know each other and I did see that like those clips Without them and genuinely it's like back in the day when people would just be friends with people just to be friends It's not like youtubers or just Clabbing what can we get the cloud all of a sudden and like oh, let's start drama for beef like I just love back in the day Where people would just be friends with each other because you Martin was in it too and like he's had a hard Life with his parents passing pretty like young in his life and his wife and now his daughter Mm-hmm, and I liked what he said about his daughter She has she had borderline She took her own she took her own life and he said she struggled for a long time and he said it is Like a disease like cancer like he equated. He lost his wife to cancer and he lost his daughter To you know mental health struggles and he said it is a disease and I thought that was like so important So I like hate and talking about stuff like it is so important to Recognize it because people show on TikTok to even just people that I don't know will show like This was him two days before he took us and they're like laughing and smiling and stuff like that So it's just it's important to like check up on yourself of course But check up on the people around you because it is it is an illness It is a sickness. It is a disease just like cancer like you can fight it so hard And he said she did he said his daughter did fight it so hard and Sometimes you just lose the battle just like cancer you don't want to and Just with it being a mental health awareness month is to just check on yourself check on others And I always say this the thing that helped me the most is like asking for help and Sometimes I had family too, you know, sometimes you have family around and you're like family's a guy I wish they would talk to me about it But sometimes you just don't feel comfortable sometimes just getting outside help is Also the answer. It's great if you can talk to friends or have support or something that but if you don't feel comfortable with it Like sometimes just talking to others because they can help so much and at the end of the day like Warren said it is It is a disease and and It's just something you have to fight every day. I fight it every day I fight it every day while I have good days and bad days like it is something that you just have to really Actively work on and have to check in on yourself and know your trigger is know your breaks and give yourself that grace And I wanted to like go into more about it, but And I know it's isolating It may feel isolating, but just know everybody has some sort of mental You know struggles everyone does yeah ever alone and just even though it may feel that way and for those of you who are still here that have also The had the struggle of wanting to live just just hang on hang on because it's you know You leave behind so many people who like love you and I don't know. I just I feel like if you can just hang on it's it's it's the answer a life is short as the Martin short documentary says like life is short As it is, but it's also like a gift and it's I know it's hard. I know it's hard, but like man If you can just like survive one more day like it'll it'll get better. There's highs and lows and sometimes going through those like dark times Make you appreciate when like the light times come and as someone who obviously has been there as well like the Light the happiness I feel now is something that I never thought I could feel my life from my first 30 years. I really thought I was just A doomed to always feel like alone in this world even if I had family around me even if I had that and um the happiness and the joy that I feel now is like Thank God. I made it through I would have missed out on like so many core memories and I just want everyone to like hang in there and hang on and it's it's really tough and You know the people you you leave behind it's it's it's it can be really painful and um there's always solutions and It's just hard, but Anyways, I say all the people who have lost someone I've lost someone dear to me too for to taking their own lives There is American foundation for suicide prevention that will can provide support if you've lost the one or if you're someone going through it There's hot lines out there and there's people who will help and support groups for it all but Never stop sharing your stories and I'll continue to share mine and I appreciate Martin shorts sharing his it's very tragic his his life, but um or his losses But uh keep going keep hanging on there and I want to talk more too because I know you've gone through stuff too But well save it for the next one Hold on for one more day They had it right Wilson Phillips, okay, they really did work with Charlotte hold on if you feel like letting go All right, that's it. Okay, we love you guys and I sorry Had I like cut this off short abruptly. Thank you Cali for being here. Check her out for me Cal Gordy Caligator 143 check out Moses. He's changing all the things right now Moses cooking videos We love you guys. Thank you so much for the support in England I think Australia might be happening as soon as I'm very excited. Well in the near future and maybe South Korea Maybe I'll just pop over there in between love that love you guys Thanks for watching and we'll be back with hot topics with Oscar for the next one And we'll recap England for real after I have come back with my my old fish and chips we will And have a spot day of brings up to you back for you - I always do. - I always do, all right. - Pip, Pip, Juryo.