TikTok’s Most Hated Mom and Her Toxic Husband

How do you want to split it? Actually, dinner's on me. Okay, big money. Well, I got a Venmo balance that I can spend with my Venmo Debit MasterCard, so. Well, I Venmo'd you three times last week, so it's kind of on me, actually. Yeah, you send it, I spend it. Did my money get, like, reincarnated? Yeah, it's chicken shawarma. Want it back? I can't believe you, like, ate my Venmo. Spend your balance instantly with the Venmo Debit Card. No monthly fee or minimum balance. Venmo balance account required to get a card and use a balance. This Venmo MasterCard is issued by the Bancorp Bank N.A. It's Diet Coke chicken night. I'm gonna add my ketchup. Just season it with some water. Get some butter in here and stick it into the turkey. The worst cooking mom on TikTok has been secretly leaving messages or, like, leaving messages in a really subtle way on her videos for years until things got so bad that she had to make a whole video addressing it. And last time we talked about a cooking mom, I think it was two years ago, and that became my most popular video. So when people click on this channel, they go to, like, the most popular, they think I'm, like, a cooking mom account. Like, I talk about, like, what people should feed their kids. Hey, everybody. Welcome back to another video. Today's recipe, Obsessions, special. A sandwich with cat meat in it. But first, I want to show you why they call her one of the worst cooks on TikTok. And she was trying to convince her husband to let her be a stay-at-home mom, and she made him steak dinner. Oh, damn, I sounded like James Charles there. Get ready for me for my birthday dinner. Um, I think you gotta. Defra. I think you might want to defrost that. Because it's not gonna. Yeah, I think. Is she gonna. Oh, my God. Steak seasoned with microplastics. Me, when my mom tells me to take out the chicken from the freezer before she gets back home, I'm like, oh, my God. So, I forget, and then the last five minutes, I speed run the whole thing. So, I just put the frozen chicken in, like, really hot water, and then pray to the gods that it start melting really quickly. Have fun at work, love. Yeah, you are not being a stay-at-home mom with this kind of shit. You had one job, and you messed it up. Hey, I can relate to that. I mean, it's not bad. What is that? So, I've been buying mushrooms for, like, the last three weeks with the intention of making this meal, and I kept putting it off. So, yeah? Um, I have three different mushrooms, and I'm trying to figure out which one is spoiled and which one's the one I bought last week. Oh, my God. Option one. Is this normal? Like, in there? Yeah. That's part of the mushroom. That is part of the mushroom? Yeah. Those are the gills. Mushrooms have gills. Oh. Did she just ask her husband if the mushrooms are normal or if they're spoiled? What is the cooking exactly? Oh, my God. Holy cheese. Cheese? What? Cheese? Yeah. So, it's just frozen steak. Is that like a galop of cheese with just potatoes? Oh, my God. Oh, hell no. Yeah, don't forget to set that alarm for tomorrow morning, sweetie. You're going back to work. My husband has no idea how good he has it. Frozen solid block of steak, spoiled mushrooms, and pound of cheese? What's wrong with that? At least he's not starving. Okay, maybe not one of them. I don't know. Maybe he's just trying to get some of her best recipes. But hey, you know what? After all these years of the hate comments, she still has the motivation to cook. Maybe on this one, like, maybe you should just listen to the haters? I'm just judging here. Let's just go to the next recipe. I'm sure this is going to be better. Has she ever heard about, like, taking stuff out of the freezer before she cooks it? The package says not to thaw, so that's why we're cooking from frozen. Okay, so this recipe, I guess you have to keep it frozen. What does the packaging say? Must remove from packaging before thawing. Do not refreeze. Sweetie, I think you need to put your glasses back on because this is telling you not to remove from packaging before thawing. It's not telling you not to thaw it out. How did she read this in full confidence? I wish I had her confidence. Me looking for where it says not to defrost before cooking? Hey, maybe it said that on the back. She didn't show us the back, so it probably did say that on the back. Yeah. It never says not to thaw, just to remove from packaging before doing so. Where? On the back, people. What are y'all talking about? I'm going to start with a little bit of water, some lemon. Okay. A little bit of Mrs. Dash. Okay, we got some seasoning in there. It's a little bit stuck. Oh, it was stuck. Okay, okay. Now we're cooking with gas. I'm going to do a few butter slices. Okay, so you're just going to- And additional lemon. Lay on top of butter? We're going to do some asparagus. I'm going to wash it off first. That was the recipe? Because I had this rack up really high, because I moved it when I put my phone in the oven for that video the other day. You put your phone in the oven? Why would you put your phone in the oven? Let's go up and see what happens. All right, and here's our dinner. And here's our dinner. All right, here's our dinner. Asparagus and rice look amazing, 10 out of 10 on that, but that fish is just the most plain white fish I've ever seen. Imagine my mom watching this video. My mom spends hours in the kitchen. Imagine if I told her, "Mom, just put some butter and seasoning and throw that shit in the oven, and while you're at it, throw your phone in there for some seasoning as well." Okay. I'm just joking here, and her TikTok account is not that bad. So next, let's move to her family's favorite meal. And she captioned this, "As you guys know, this recipe is a regular meal for us. We love it. Diet Coke chicken for my family." Oh, my God. Oh, my God. So at the beginning, when I looked this woman up, I was 100% sure that she was rage bait. And I kept looking at her videos. But with more and more and more and more digging, I have never been so disappointed to know that this is not rage bait cooking, and this is actual cooking. Good chicken and bad chicken. Wait. What happened to her eye? Coke chicken night. James gets free pop at work. And whenever he brings home a couple cans of Diet Coke, I know that's kind of my cue to make Diet Coke chicken. I'm going to add my ketchup. I've gotten, like, so good at this now, I just kind of eyeball it. Ketch? I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. I don't know. Why does the ketchup look so red? It's really all about consistency. Did you see that ketchup? If you want to know exact measurements, just type in "Diet Coke chicken" in any search engine, and it'll pop right up. It's a pretty popular recipe. Which one of y'all nasty? Who's a popular recipe? How did I not know this shit? Oh, sweetie, we are good. We don't want the recipe to your mom's peach cobbler. Bitch, we don't want the recipe to your mom's peach cobbler, bitch. I'm going to go ahead and add in the ketchup. I'm going to add in the ketchup. what is that green thing what are we pineapple i'm scared to ask like where this is going i need more butter good job so proud of you what was that her son just walked in while she was making christmas dinner mommy i pooped good job i love kids the fact that there was an event he had to announce to his mom that he pooped brown sugar pineapple juice what is this a sauce did she just put pineapple on the ham best way to do these i'm not even gonna ask what this was dude is this a turkey with pineapple why is the pineapple just slapped on there like she's working on a project and she's pinning the pineapple on the project chef at this point just open the window and let the breeze season it the wind probably has more seasoning than the water what happened to seasoning with spices why choose water i mean those are some like good looking spices and whatever but have you heard about water the most organic seasoning that's out there because these are all chemicals if you think about it i mean water is technically h2o and whatnot but nothing tastes better than water if you ask me also just a quick psa we're doing a store cleanup so everything i have ever sold including the original merge that i did last year the dolulu stuff they're all on sale we're running a 25 discount on everything so basically we're selling everything that we had in stock and i think there's only like nine happy depressed hoodies so good luck who ever gets to the website first okay okay enough with the cooking now back to the main topic this all started in 2024 when she started changing the captions of her tick tock videos and this one says dinner for the family of four as a mom in a bad mood and it's her doing another amazing cooking that we like go holly we love you oh she's she's sighing here and panting what is that holly what's going on sweetie holly stop holly what is that oh my god holly it's leaking out sweetie i mean it doesn't look bad at least there's some veggies you know it's not bad i think so the vibe on her videos shifted completely when a few months ago she posted a tick-tock called dinner when everything is rough i'm in a bad mood so i'm taking it out on the potatoes the microwave still looks awful when james caught it on fire and in the description of the video she says i found out last week that james which is her husband has been messaging my sister behind my back to complain about me every time i log on here people are leaving nasty comments about my appearance work has been difficult i feel like a fool for caring so much about everyone everything is just rough and i'm honestly heartbroken that's all besides the nasty comments about her appearance which i'm like you must be a sore loser to go on the internet and leave a comment on someone else's post about the way that they look but this post was mainly about her husband because she was starting to tell people how her marriage was not doing well and then to everyone's surprise seven days a week after she posted that video that she was having a rough time she makes another video with her husband announcing their divorce hi hi rather than call a bunch of people text a bunch of people we just thought we'd film a video to share the facts of what's going on in our life and just send it out to everyone just to make it easier why is james staring at me like that like for the entire 15 seconds that we just played i feel like james is staring into my soul right now like i'm the one who caused the divorce rather than call a bunch of people text a bunch of people we just thought we'd film a video to share the facts of what's going on in our life and just send it out to everyone so james and i have decided we're no longer going to be together um we're just at very different places in our life right now and it's just not fair to each other to keep pushing for this um when we get to the point where we're going to be together it's just not fair to each other to keep pushing for this um when we each have completely different needs okay i feel i'm at a place where i need less responsibility and i need to focus on my health why do i feel like i'm their child we just sat down and they're announcing their divorce to their child um i'm ready to like buy a house have babies um deuce life and um he just isn't ready for that responsibility so is james okay james seems so upset with me that i'm like watching this video right now should i not be watching we're gonna play mario kart after this okay you're gonna leave us see us together around um whether it be like at a family thing or if you watch my videos you'll see him there and that's just because we're we're gonna play mario kart yeah friends is james an adult i can't tell if this is a skin or not is james aware he's alive sorry to hear about you and grew really y'all come on this is the amount of info i need every time people break up thank you like when people break up like divorce whatever's going on you are fighting with your partner i'm right here give me all the info all the details i will be your therapist i will not say a single word if you don't want me to like just over share with me give me every like i know i'm a stranger on the internet but like if you're breaking up right now hit me up i'm right here i'm just kidding i'm sorry and the videos that she was dropping after this one was just her being very honest and saying that james was never really there for her and because she's been doing a lot of fertility treatments she says that james sitting back not contributing while i'm the one only one who has to make all of our plans and do all the work as many of you know james and i have been doing fertility treatments to have a baby the past four years i had dozens of procedures have been through endless pain spent thousands of dollars just for him to decide that he wants less responsibility in life and sadly the signs were always there that james wasn't really a good husband because two years ago in 2024 she posted a video saying it's my birthday and my husband didn't give me anything let's eat our feelings at golden coral this is so sad so now that they broke up and they're gonna get a divorce james ended up moving to a hotel temporarily until he can find an apartment and holly offered to give him some furniture for the new apartment that he's gonna get and she also says that her mom also wants to help with furniture and other things that he needs but he ends up refusing everything and this is when holly gets confused she was like wade i thought you didn't have any money because he also told her that he doesn't have any money in his bank account so like where are you gonna get the money for everything and this is when she learned that he was lying about a lot of stuff i have an update lots of people asking for updates he's gone okay i'll try not to overshare this time no no feel free to overshare sweetie give me every every single detail that you got give it to me james told me he had no money he had 300 in his bank account deposit on an apartment and i'm feeling bad for the guy you know i um offered him my furniture i was like if you take my bed and dresser i'll figure something out sleep on the air mattress my mom offered him a box of stuff from her place i haven't been asking him to contribute to extra things because i know he's in a tight spot and then yesterday he texted me well i liked the apartment i can move in whenever i want and i was oh okay that's great um did your family give you money or something and he doesn't reply to me instead he sends me a picture of spinach saying hey i got your what i love that she included the picture of the spinach here like we needed to know that it was an actual spinach you know what holly i do appreciate the details when someone's telling me how they broke up with their husbands and i want all the details this is what i mean every single detail okay so obviously something nasty is going on here and i'm not talking about that spinach because no one's eating spin oh that's nasty so she offers him help because he said he only had 500 in this bank account and then he immediately says hey i got the apartment how did you get the apartment when you had 500 in your bank account with 500 you can even get an apartment in a poor country where are you getting an apartment for 500 and then as soon as she asked where did you get the money he's like uh so uh here's the picture you can get an apartment for 500 and then as soon as she asked where did you get the money he's like uh so uh here's the picture you can get an apartment for 500 and then as soon as she asked where did you get the money he's like uh so uh here's the picture he's like uh so uh here's the picture you can get an apartment for 500 and then as soon as she asked where did you get the money he's like uh so uh here's the picture of spinach oh okay makes sense thank you saying hey i got your spinach out thawing for you for dinner tonight like i didn't just ask him a question so i was like well anyway like let me know if you need any of my furniture i'm willing to help you out and he's like oh my family's gonna help me get set up a Oh, my family is actually here. Do you mind cooking this spinach for me real quick? I come home, and he's just acting weird, right? Uh-huh, uh-huh, uh-huh. Like, something's going on with him. So I start asking him questions. Long story short, turns out when he looked at the apartment yesterday, his mom and his aunt drove down here and looked at it with him and gave him a check for $5,000. Oh. I think it's great that his family's finally being supportive of him, helping him, good for them. But then I'm like, why didn't you want me to know that? Yeah. Like, you know, now you have your deposit and stuff. And then he says, my mom and aunt told me not to say anything to you because then you would probably expect me to contribute towards things. I haven't been asking him to pay for stuff. I've been so nice, and here he's lying to me about money just to see what he can all suck from me, what he can take. The fact that you were hiding that information from your wife because, oh, now that I have enough money for an apartment, my family doesn't want you to think that now I can contribute for you and my child? Like, what the f- Dude, you're an adult with your- with your child. Does the family realize that the husband needs to contribute to the family? Like, there's bills that- How do you want to split it? Okay, big money. Well, I Venmo'd you three times last week, so it's kinda on me, actually. Want it back? The Venmo MasterCard is issued by the Bancorp Bank N.A. Need to be paid? Keep in mind that Holly already does mostly everything. She has a job, she takes care of the kids, she cooks, and on the side, she also does content. Like, she already does everything and offering to help him when she doesn't need to because he's a grown-ass adult. So, anyway, it just left me feeling used. He's made comments over the weeks about, like, splitting bills, like, what would be the way he could pay the least. And it's just making me feel taken advantage of and he had to go. So, I asked for his keys. I don't want him sneaking in here in the middle of the night, you know. I got all of his keys. Oh, okay. And I sent him on his way. If his mom and aunt want to help him out financially, they can certainly pay for a hotel. That's fine by me. Thank you. How about the mom and the aunt come take care of the child real quick and also pay for his expenses? And because her husband, I'm sorry, let me correct myself, her ex-husband has been acting differently recently. And she also says that he has been really mean to her. She figured that maybe it's not him. Maybe he's struggling with something mentally. So, she booked him an appointment, a neuropsychological evaluation, to see if the guy was. If the guy was actually okay or if he was struggling with something. He had his neuropsych appointment today with his, like, evaluation results and there's nothing wrong with him. It turns out he's just autistic like the rest of us. I love how she said that, "Oh, he's just autistic like the rest of us." There's nothing wrong with him. Well, Alice, it seems we've both got autism, haven't we? Yeah. Like, autism may explain certain behaviors, but it doesn't excuse you being mean or disrespectful towards your wife. He doesn't have any cognitive decline. He doesn't have anything like that. So, when he's been being mean to me and stomping around here and stuff, here that's just him. I felt bad. I thought, like, there has to be something wrong with him for him to be treating me this way. But apparently there's not. There's been no cognitive decline since I met him five years ago. He's the same person as he was then, at least medically. Yeah, so they found out that he's on the spectrum and I feel like that's such a general term. So, this entire time when he started being mean to her, she really thought that he was going through something, like, mentally. But no, that was just him being mean and it had nothing to do with autism. The guy simply did not want responsibilities anymore and he was done. And it's so sad because in the caption, she says, "Sigh, I know the relationship has to end. I'm just going to miss having a friend to do stuff with. Holly, if you live near me or, like, if you ever want to connect, please send me a message. I am here. We can talk any time." Thank you for including the picture of the spinach. I came with receipts. Actually, I came with spinach. I'm sorry. It's okay. I'm just going to do it. I'm just going to do it.