Gwyneth Paltrow hosts a powerful conversation with tech journalist Cara Swisher, exploring the ethics and accountability of influential tech leaders. Swisher argues that direct, unflinching questioning is essential for truth and progress, especially when confronting powerful figures like Elon Musk or Mark Zuckerberg. She critiques how tech moguls operate with unchecked authority, often prioritizing profit and innovation over social responsibility, accountability, or public safety. The discussion highlights how AI and social media platforms exploit user data, spread misinformation, and deepen societal divisions, with harmful impacts on mental health and democratic discourse. Swisher stresses the need for regulation, transparency, and public oversight to prevent monopolistic control and ensure equitable access to technology. She emphasizes that true progress lies not in technological advancement alone, but in human connection, community, and social well-being—values often undermined by digital isolation. The conversation underscores a deeper cultural shift: as wealth and innovation concentrate in the hands of a few, society faces the risk of losing democratic accountability and trust. Ultimately, Swisher calls for a reimagining of power, where technology serves humanity, not the other way around.
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When you are pioneering anything
or introducing new ideas to the culture,
you get criticized.
You do?
Yeah.
Did you hear about that?
I didn't find the one.
I found someone I respected and we made it.
The one.
In a sort of longing kind of view of love,
people understand each other as if by magic.
Nothing in itself is addictive on the one hand
and on the other hand,
everything could be addictive
if there's an emptiness in that person
that needs to be filled.
I now know that nobody changes
until they change their energy.
And when you change your energy,
you change your life.
I'm Gwyneth Paltrow.
This is The Goop Podcast.
Bringing together thought leaders,
culture changers,
creatives,
founders,
and CEOs,
scientists,
doctors,
healers,
and seekers.
Here to start conversations.
Because simply asking questions
and listening
has the power to change the way we see the world.
Here we go.
Hello and welcome to The Goop Podcast.
I'm Gwyneth Paltrow.
Today's guest is Cara Swisher.
Cara is a tech journalist
and has been covering Silicon Valley for decades.
She's interviewed tech giants from Steve Jobs to Elon Musk
and is not afraid to say
to hold truth to power.
In fact,
one of the first questions I asked Cara
is how she's so comfortable with confrontation.
We get into a lot today
from the increasing presence of AI
in the film and television industry
to how Silicon Valley
and the people who run it
have evolved over the years.
And of course,
Cara's new series on CNN,
Cara Swisher Wants to Live Forever,
where she investigates the myths and facts
coming out of the booming longevity industry.
So let's get to my conversation
with Cara.
With Cara Swisher.
Can I ask you something
that I personally want to know
for my own career development?
Sure.
How are you able to be so
direct slash confrontational?
Is that fair with people you. Not confrontational.
Yeah, you can use that word.
Well, I don't mean it in like a. I don't care.
Yeah.
I mean it in. Yeah.
Like I'm. I sort of. Like sometimes I want to ask somebody a question
and then I go to like,
this is going to be painful for them
or uncomfortable.
And so I don't. Like, how do you do that?
Because I don't think it's. I don't think it's rude
to be clear with someone.
Right.
Right.
And I sometimes. I don't like the people that say,
I don't mean to be a bitch, but. Right.
Because that's always the rude question.
Right.
But I think when you ask someone
something directly,
really smart people appreciate it.
Yeah.
Right.
And I do think women do have
an issue with being a good girl.
Right.
Don't. Fully.
Be a good girl.
Like, be polite.
Be polite.
Yeah.
But they confuse it with being. Saying what they want.
Like, same thing with money with women.
Like, when I used to manage people,
like, all the men overestimated.
Like, and I hate to be tropey,
but it's true.
Like, this one guy's like,
you know, I really think I need a raise.
And I said,
I'm actually thinking of firing you.
Actually.
Interesting that we have such different
viewpoints about your career.
You know?
And he's like, excuse me.
I'm like,
I've given you evaluation after evaluation
that I'm thinking of firing you.
And if you don't understand
what I'm saying,
it's really hard.
And then the woman was doing really well
and just. I offered a raise
and she was like, oh, great.
And I'm like, no, no.
You need to ask for more
because you deserve it
and you should know.
And it was really interesting.
But I just find it. It never hurts me to do that.
I mean, you should do that more.
And they won't expect it
from some people, right?
But it's not rude
to ask a direct question.
Yeah.
No, I think it's more just
like handling my discomfort
that's perceived, right?
So that's my problem.
Right.
So you don't want to make. But why are you. What are you making them
discomforted about
when you ask them that?
I think to your point around
having been socialized
to be a good girl.
The idea that I could
ask a question
that would make somebody feel like
they have to defend themselves
in some way.
Right.
And I guess because
I also have been
the brunt of that for so long.
Sure.
And we talked about that
when you came to code, right?
And I think
people do it to me
for like clickbait.
Right.
Like if they're not really
trying to get me
to an answer
that they think
they're going to learn
something from
or is going to enlighten them.
They're thinking about the clicks.
So I think that's why as well.
But you're not doing that.
No, definitely not.
So why do you put. So there's a difference
between rude and clear
or direct.
And I think
people play into it.
I mean, just today
it was really interesting.
I don't know if you saw
Reese Witherspoon
talked about AI
in a very fine way.
Like we need to learn about this
because women are 25%
the usage.
And she said it
and then everyone,
all these people,
especially women,
piled on how dare you do this.
And so I posted,
I'm like,
I'm not sure what to tell you,
but she's telling you
something that's actually accurate.
And I've been a huge critic of AI
and we need to regulate it
and AI sucks and et cetera.
And I said,
but she's telling you
women need to learn about it
because it's here
and you're pretending
it's not here
and you're dragging her for it.
And she and I
had had a discussion about this
because I did a morning show thing.
And she's like,
every time I say something,
I better not say anything.
I was like,
no, you're right.
Like, why are you not articulate?
Now she won't say anything
because she got dragged
because what,
well, she didn't say what you say.
I was like,
oh, so you're like going to police
the things she says.
Like, are you kidding me?
Like she's never going to be able
to talk about it.
And so I was sort of perplexed
as to why she got,
she got shit
for saying something
I say all the time.
Right.
Which is like, why?
Well, she was too peppy.
I was like, oh, really?
Did she not smile enough?
Like, what are you talking about?
And I'm, I'm, I'm worrying.
I'm, and then they come at me
and I was like, all right,
you want to fucking throw down with me?
Like, she's right.
And so anyway, it's just,
it's the same thing.
It's she, she is right.
And I, I think though that
this is the other thing too.
Certain women are expected
to present in a certain way.
And I think that's why I'm,
I've messed people up
so much along the way
because I was this thing
and then I evolved
into something else.
And I think, you know,
Reese is so brilliant.
She's working
across so many
different platforms
and she's beautiful
and she's wealthy
and she's blonde
and how dare she?
She can't say it
because she's wealthy and blonde.
I was like, really?
I'm not really clear why.
Like, you know,
trollish or ugly people can say it.
Like, I'm not sure
what your message here is
to someone like this.
And what's interesting is
one of the reasons
she won't do an interview,
she goes, I was like,
you're hiding your intelligence.
Like you, you really downplay.
You're a crafty lady.
Like from what I can tell,
she's brilliant.
She's brilliant.
And I was like, you are hiding.
You were pushing down.
But why would she?
You know what I mean?
If it's like,
if she's going to
slightly stick her neck out
to say something as innocuous
is like, hey, guys,
like we, this train
has left the station.
We better be relatively prepared.
We better educate ourselves
on something.
And she gets dragged for it.
Like, because you have
to break through that.
You have to keep going.
See, to me, you're not going to win.
I mean, I do, but it's like, so like,
and also, what do you care about?
What?
What do random, random people say?
I've come to not care that much.
Right, right.
I mean, I have Elon Musk dragging me.
So that's kind of fun.
A little bit.
No?
Yes, it is.
Yes, it is.
Yes, I love being called a cunt
every day online.
It's great.
It's so, it's a good thing.
How did this feud with Elon
and you start?
Well, actually, I talked to him a lot.
You know, I interviewed him
more than anybody.
I think maybe you even might have been
at one of the events where we did him.
You know, he's a complex person.
Let's begin with that.
Used to be much more,
human, and now something's happened.
And then when you get to be that rich,
I mean, you know,
even you understand that,
like people agree with you violently.
Like, oh, nice job.
Like they never give adequate feedback.
And so he started to get irritated
by people who had feedback,
like normal, critical feedback.
And so we had been talking about
after he bought Twitter,
what, what he should do.
And I had started some really interesting,
innovative live events on Twitter by myself.
And I had gotten a sponsor
and he wrote me, he's like,
well, how did you do this?
And I was like,
well, this is a really interesting platform.
You could really compete with YouTube.
There's going to be videos someday.
We attracted five, 6,000 people when I did it.
I spun it up in an hour,
which is a really nice number.
He goes, we should get to talk about it.
I was like, yeah, I'd be happy to,
because I think it's really important
to create new media organizations
for media people
and new opportunities for modernization.
And, and then I, there was a story about,
I had been at the French embassy
and a guy came up to me from,
and Ukrainian, as it turned out.
and said, can you
talk to Elon Musk about geofencing Crimea. I was like, what? Like he was part of the Ukraine
defense ministry. And he said, Elon is geofencing Crimea. Can you talk to him? I was like, what?
Why is he doing, why does, why is he making battlefield decisions? And so I said, I'm not
the one to talk to him. You need to talk to our government about this, but okay. And there was a
story about what happened here is he gave people Starlink and it's, this is going to be such a,
like a ridiculous thing to have gotten a fight over, but there was a story in the Washington
Post about working with him. And I felt he should have been paid for free Starlink to Ukraine. I
thought it was an incredibly generous thing to do, but he also shouldn't have purview over
battlefield decisions because he's an American, he's a citizen, right? Like this is not his thing.
And so one of the quotes in the Washington Post was Elon's going to Elon, he's going to do whatever
he wants. And I said, well, one, I think he should pay two and Elon's going to Elon, he's going to do what he
wants, but American citizens shouldn't, a private citizen shouldn't be making these decisions for
the US government, in my opinion. That's just, and his brother even was like, no good deed goes
unpunished. And I said, yeah, it's true. And then I didn't hear from him for a while. And then I
looked, I never look at my email and he'd sent me an email, you're an asshole for tweeting that.
And I was like, what are you talking about? I'm defending you. Like, I don't know what you're
talking about. I don't have that decision-making power. I'm sorry. I don't feel like that's like
of most. And he, and he said, I'm never going to speak. He had done this before once when he was
mad about someone, a friend, something Walt Mossberg tweeted. And I was like, do I look like
Walt Mossberg? You know, and again, the same thing. And he's like, you're an asshole. And I,
that was it. That was it. That was it. And then he started attacking when Paul Pelosi got attacked
by that crazy QAnon person and almost got killed. He started posting, um, that it was a gay
conspiracy, that he was his lover. And I was like, this is fucking heinous. Like, how dare you?
And then he kept doing it with white supremacist stuff, Andrew Tate stuff. And I was like, what is
wrong with you? And you had seen bits of it during COVID when he told me that only 15 people were
going to die. And I was like, um, maybe not. Like, I feel like a million is what usually happens
during a plague historically. And then he argued about when the government was closing his factories.
And I said,
look, we don't know what's happening. Maybe we should opt for safety over.
And he got all furious about that. And his mother got mad at me. And it was just weird.
Wow.
They're so weird and tetchy. Like, I, nothing I said was like, you look fat.
Like, I didn't, which you did, but that's fine. Like, I didn't do that. Like other people did.
That was, that was Ari Emanuel's picture, not mine. And I never made a comment about his looks.
I don't know. These people.
Yeah. Well, it's interesting to me too, because,
in a way you're sort of an instrument of their rise.
Yes, I am. A hundred percent.
You are the person. Well, you are among a top few people in a very early fashion,
identify these people right through, I imagine the work they're doing.
And you platform them, you amplify them, you give them prominence, voice, et cetera.
Right.
So how does that then sit with you?
I don't know. I don't see it as a PR thing. It's like, I covered them,
but I don't see it as a PR thing. It's like, I covered them.
Like I was the first person who covered a lot, like Jeff Bezos when he was poor, which he's not now apparently.
Really?
Yeah. When you can rent Venice, that really helps. So it's a little tone deaf, but in any case,
I don't really care. I don't really, it's not my business. So yeah, they were, they were all
nobodies, like really. And I was covering industry. Most people disdained, right? The media people
were like, oh, this isn't gonna like, we're the top dogs here. The media companies, whether it
be Tim Warner, whatever it happened to be. And I was like, I don't know, this internet thing seems
like it could affect everything. And I think one of the things they appreciated and why I called
my book, not just burn book, but a tech love story was because I was like, this is going to change
everything from newspapers to me. So I really was a real early, early, early understander of it.
And then who was going to be successful and who wasn't was really.
And how were you able to discern who was going to be successful?
I wasn't always. I thought initially I thought eBay was
ridiculous and it was in the end, but initially I was like, I don't get it. Like a lot of stuff
I didn't get. But I certainly, when I saw Google, I was like, oh, I see, you know, I see this. Or
when he's, when Elon first started talking about Starlink, I remember him telling me about it. I
was like, you're a hundred percent right. Like about these low earth satellites. Or when he
started talking about Tesla and stuff like that, it was like, obviously this is where history is
going. And I think one of the problems is, is they,
they don't have so lack of self-awareness that they, once they did one thing, they thought they
were good at everything and they were experts on everything. So now like, do I really care what
Elon Musk thinks about DEI? I do not. And nor should I care about, I like experts talking about
it. So initially it was very innocent in a lot of ways, but then it quickly became about stealing
your privacy, stealing your content, stealing IP. There were warning signals. Like I was walking
through Google once with Larry Page and they were, they had a
room full of dark televisions on the wall everywhere, hundreds of televisions. And I'm
like, what are you doing? Cause they always had weird things. Like all of a sudden you'd see like
a fish pond or something. They would have something weird happening. You've been to Google. Have you
been to Google? Yeah, once. I think our, we have a mutual acquaintance, my friend, Pat Keene. Do you
know Pat Keene? Yes, of course. Yeah. So Pat, when he was at Google, he took me through. Sure. It's
cool. It was cool. It was like, oh look, here we're making kombucha. And then over here we're doing
this. And so it was always something weird. There's gonna be like a, there was one time there was a
in the office. Pardon? They wanted to test out office things, Quonset Hut. Okay. They thought
it was interesting. Really? It was always like that. It was like, you know, suddenly there'd be
a horse. Like, all right. I feel like this whole wave of founders were all about like being
iconoclasts. Yes. Sometimes performatively. So like we're going to, we want to build a, um, a
chairlift in San Francisco to help people up the hills. I was like, that seems stupid. That's not
really. Well, both Gavin Newsom and I at the time he was mayor, we were like, they, in front of us,
and we were like, no.
Possibly no. Like, um, but they were, so we were walking through Google and, and he had all these
television sets and I was like, what are you doing? And he goes, we're taping television. Like he
talks like that. And I was like, all of, he's like all of television. And I was like, oh, for what?
And he goes for search. Cause we're learning how to search video and audio. And I was like, huh,
interesting. Did you get permission from the copyright holders of all those television shows?
Why do I need that? I said, cause
you're stealing. Like if, if you do it, no one else will. Same thing with books. They did the
same. And I was like, cause there's copyright. Everyone should have all the information. I was
like, but you didn't pay for it. They did. And, and at the time he was like, what are you talking
about? Information needs to be free. I said, but it isn't free. Like all these studios paid for
this stuff and they own it. And there's all these owners and well, they're keeping it from the
people. And I'm like, yeah, but now you're taking it and selling it back to the people. Anyway, it
is a huge issue, right? Like music. I mean, you know this, right? Exactly. I mean, all those
Napster fights. So yeah, I remember it well. And still to this day, I mean, that business model is
just completely, but they're doing it now. Like right now with content, like they scrape my
content. I'm sure they've scraped all the bots on goop all the time, all the time. Not just that
you yourself, but you, there's enough material to make a bot of you. Like here's Gwyneth when
it's AI essentially. Then can I fucking retire? No, they're
not going to give you the money, but they do it all the time. They make grammarly made a whole
Kara Swisher advice thing without Kara Swisher's opinion about it. And that's like, I threatened
to, I mean, I was like, I'm going to sue you fuckers. Like, what are you doing? But they can
do that. And then in the worst way you're as a parent, understand this they're doing. And it's
bad for our health too, by the way, is AI bots. And I've been interviewing the parents of kids
who commit suicide for years, for two years now and saying, this is dangerous. They are acting like
this. They're like, I'm going to sue you. I'm going to sue you. And a human being having these interactions would be arrested for what these people are doing,
but they don't care. They just put it out for 13 year olds. Like, and don't think they have
responsibility for their shoddy shitty products. Right. And what's the regulatory and what,
right. And, and it's sort of, they're, they're paying the bill. Now you're your favorite person,
Mark Zuckerberg and the impact that he's had on. Right. They've amplified and weaponized
almost everything. And then for their, their shareholder benefit. And that to me,
it's like, great. I love innovation, but excuse me, you don't pay the costs. The rest of us have
to pay. How did we get here as a culture? I mean, obviously there's so much revenue and profit
driving this whole thing. Of course, that's like at the heart of it, but like, how do you think we
got to this place in culture where sort of nothing matters? And, and now all that matters is these
kind of super rich white dudes who are breaking rules, setting rules, you know, seemingly like
caring so much about the downstream impact on everything. They don't think they're responsible
for the debt. Like I had an interview with famous interviews, Zuckerberg, where we talked about
anti-Semitism. And I was like, what you're doing at one point, he said, Holocaust deniers don't
mean to lie. And I was like, they do. That's the definition. But then I let him talk because I
need you to understand his mentality, which was, I am not responsible for everything downstream.
Like it doesn't matter. But if he was a chemical person dumping shit into the river, he gets sued.
I mean, initially, none of that.
of those people got sued. And it takes about 25
years. Because I don't think, how do we get here? I think we have an idolatry of innovators,
an idolatry of wealth. And if you're wealthy, you must be smarter. When they got all manner
of shortcuts, and the innovations that they took advantage of were paid by the American public,
by the way. The internet was invented by the United States government, not them. And it's
great to be innovative and make these things and this rocket stuff. I'm so impressed by what
SpaceX is doing. We can argue about the valuation of it, but it's still astonishing. And at the same
time, why do they get, why does a small homogeneous group of people get to decide for the rest of us?
Yeah. I'm fascinated by it because I feel like there's something so endemic to being an American
about this idea of like- Yes, of course. Go West, young man.
Right. And this idea that anybody can do it from whatever socioeconomic background and that-
Sort of true.
Right. And that we-
But that we can, we put this hierarchy where it's like, we're so hungry for a hierarchy in
order to make sense of our lives or something like that. And we imbue these guys like with
this extraordinary, I don't know, like-
Godlike.
Godlike.
Right. Right. But they're not. That's the problem is, is that when I was writing for
the New York Times, I was just doing Collins because I wanted everyone to hear it. Everyone's
like, why did you just do it for the New York Times? I'm like, because people, they pay
attention to it. And therefore I was doing it at my website and it got impact, but it
didn't.
It didn't have the impact. So I did a, the first story I did was talking about, it was called the
expensive education of Mark Zuckerberg. And it was about our cost, not his, right? He's learning on
the job, but he controls social, he controls communications. And he's really not very smart
about these big societal issues. Actually quite not-
Not smart how? Because he's-
He's not capable of deciding what, how to enforce free speech and what hate speech is. It should
come down to our elected officials could, should figure it out, right?
Our, our judges, our lawyers, our citizens.
I mean, it's in the constitution, right?
Right. Exactly. But it's one of the things that drove me crazy. I felt like, did you
read the first amendment? Because it says the government shall, the government shall
make no law. Not you. You can, you can control your products so that everybody, maybe that
you have to pull back on some stuff, but you make it safe. Just like beef. You know, there
is bad beef or bad food, but people have to pay, well, they don't have to pay enough for
it. But anyway, one of the things-
One of the things that I really got struck by in 2019, I wrote a column where I said
Trump was getting really dangerous online. I thought, and I reminded, I'd studied the
Holocaust. I'd studied all manner of propaganda in college. And I was like, what he's doing
is very dangerous to let him go on. And I get the whole thing. He's the president. And
so whatever he says, we're now used to whatever demented diarrhea he pumps out every day,
which is getting worse because grandpa's losing it a little bit.
It's true. It's diarrhea. It's what it is. It's like, and we're like, hmm, what does
this diarrhea mean? I'm like, he's old and crazy and racist. Like, why are we keep, every
time someone goes to me, can you believe what he said? I go, yes, I do. Yes, I do. Grandpa's
crazy. Grandpa's racist, crazy and addled. So yeah, I kind of, and also misogynist, sexual
harasser. Like we got, we got all the information we need on this fella. And it's always like,
I can't believe it. That's what drives me crazy about the left. Well, I think what people are saying is,
you know, this, no matter how real imagined, performative or not, whatever it is, like
whatever, whatever's happening, it is never not unbelievable. Which is good to say. Can you believe
it? Like that the strat, like whatever his strategy is, it's impossible to figure it out
and know what it is and sort of be able to rest your laurels on, oh, it's this or that.
The same thing happens around political discourse was I wrote a column,
or I said, and I'm not going to tell you the date I wrote this. I wrote a column saying
Trump is on par to start. What if he loses the election? I'm going to give you a hypothetical.
If he loses the election, he's going to tweet out to his followers or whatever platform he happens
to be on, Truthout, to, to do something about it. And in a physical way, stop the elect, stop the
votes from being counted. He will do something in the real world. And so online hate will jump offline.
I said, and there's going to be an insurrection. And I used the word insurrection, which was crazy.
And I said, what would you do? I pose this question to all these leaders and they're like,
well, we take them off the platform. I'm like, or we do this, we do that. And I said,
and they said, what would you do? I said, I wouldn't have let it get this bad to begin with,
because this is where it was headed very clearly. I wrote it in 2019, which was crazy. In the fall
of 2000, I was like, this is exactly where it's headed because you could see the movement.
And at the time I got so much pushback from Facebook and Twitter. They were like, how dare
you say we are insurrectionists? And I said, no, you're handmaidens to sedition is what you are.
And very willing ones because you make a lot of money. And so I was like, this is exactly what's
going to happen. Like it's, it's so easy to see and I hope it doesn't, but it's not that hard to
figure it out. And so that's the kind of stuff is they just allow an enormous amount of
misinformation and disinformation to go around. They benefit from it.
And then they, they are so rich now, so rich, crazy rich. Our legislators are unable to do any
legislation anywhere in the country. So states try to do it on some level. And the same thing
is happening now around AI. And like I said, these parents, these lawsuits that are happening,
they're not going to get out of it. Eventually they will pay the price, but boy, are they good
at like right now with AI. Trump is a coin operated president who was standing in the
seat of the president. Well, since elected officials, it was Jeff Bezos. It was Sundar Pichai
from Google. It was Mark Zuckerberg, all their various wives. And they were there. That's who
was sitting. Sergey Brin was in the back. Sam Alton was there. Tim Cook was there. Why were
they there? Because he's a coin operator. At least we understand Trump on some level. He's a corrupt
coin operated president. So not that I like that, but I get him.
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Yeah, sure.
Because obviously, he's an interesting figure.
So what is your take on Sam Altman?
I met him when he was 19.
When he had a company called Looped. 19 or 20, maybe.
See, this is what I'm saying. You meet all of these guys so early and you kind of get,
you know, adjacencies in these-
Or you understand them a little better. You saw them before in the before times. Often people
are exactly the way, rich, they're jerks rich and they're jerks poor, right? You know,
it doesn't really matter. Some people have all, Mark Cuban couldn't be a more wonderful person
now. He's a great guy.
Nice guy.
And, but he was kind of a frat bro jerk when I met him.
Yeah, we had a lot of fuck you texts back and forth. No, fuck you. No, fuck you.
You seem like you have a lot of those.
I do, but they end up being friends.
Okay, good.
I just had lunch with him. He's great, but he's doing all this stuff around prescription drugs.
That is great.
It's amazing.
Amazing.
Really amazing.
Does he need to do this?
No.
Could he be on a boat in the South of France enjoying himself? Certainly.
But some people are really motivated by solving problems. And then I think it's a,
it's a values thing, right? It's like, I recognize a problem.
Or I recognize an injustice and they sort of throw their weight behind.
Like a McKenzie Scott, right?
Right.
Perfect example.
And we'll talk about her later because she's been giving a lot of money to health initiatives
that are really important in the now for a lot of people versus themselves. And Sam is
complicated. So he, one of the few gay people, I mean, out gay people, there's Tim Cook,
so that's an interesting thing to take into mind because it's very, it's not misogynist.
It is misogynist.
So it's, it's, it's, it's a different kind of misogyny. It's not as
explicit, but you know, it's also, you know, to be homophobic, there's homophobia, there's stuff
like that. So in that time it was different for sure. And so I was always interested in him and,
you know, he also had a sort of a reputation for being manipulative, which I'm, you saw the Ronan
Farrow piece where they thought was pretty fair. Although Sam didn't, I didn't read it actually,
but yeah, it's an interesting piece. It's complicated. And one of the things he has is
sort of, he's an aims to please person.
At the same time, he can seem disingenuous at the same, which I'm like, I'm sorry, get in line.
You want to stack ranks disingenuous? I'm putting Peter Thiel up near the top, Mark Andreessen and Musk. So I don't know, which is a terrible way to live. But so he was really complicated. I like Sam. I actually do. At the same time, I recognize what he's doing. He's a real hustler.
And, you know, he's not as concerned with safety and less so. He and I had a back and forth in this series about that, about these kids, about the AI chatbots. I'm like, I think you're, I think someone should go to jail here versus, or take responsibility or at least be sued. So these parents get some.
You said that to his face?
Yes.
See, this is what I'm talking about.
So, you know, he's complicated. And I think Ronan, I think very fairly depicted the uneasiness around him.
Mm-hmm.
You know, in terms of who are these leaders who are running companies that are going to have such massive implications on our society. Now, we never knew the head of Lockheed or the head of whatever. But if you go back in history, Henry Ford had, you know, great industrialist, the car, thanks for the car, but huge anti-Semite.
He used his Ford dealerships to put out this Dearborn newspaper he put out that was full of anti-Jewish, anti-Black, anti-women, whatever.
He was just a miserable son of a bitch. Same thing. Like, he had a lot of impact during that time period because of his crazy. Yeah, and imagine with so much less distribution. Like, everybody has. Exactly. And so these people are making. So Sam is complicated, I would say. And I think I might predict he might not be head of OpenAI. There's a lot of. That's what I was going to ask you next.
Yes, I think so. I think there's some real questions. The Journal just had a piece about his. Investments. You know, I don't make any money from OpenAI. I go, oh, stop it. You're going to. There are benefits for you. He has other investments. They're a little bit opaque for people. And if you're a public company, you can't be this opaque. And so he's going to have to answer for that.
That said, a lot of his critics can be a little high-handed. Like, they're all making money. Like, I left OpenAI so I could be pure and do safety, and I just took $2 billion from Andreessen Horowitz. I'm like, oh, got it. Okay, you're helping the people.
But isn't there something. I don't know. For me. For me, I feel like he's sort of the fall guy for AI. Like, he seems like he can never win in the public forum, you know, whichever. Well, he's said a lot of stupid things. Like, he's like, do you see how much. Not that one he said. I mean, yes, of course, I've said dumb things. I'm sure you've had. Like, we've all said dumb things.
Sure, but I didn't say, you know, having children takes a lot of energy, so why are we worried about AI? I was like, didn't you just have a baby? First of all, he just had a baby, which I'm very happy for him. But I was like, that's really not something you should. Right.
That one. Zuckerberg's saying Holocaust deniers don't mean to lie. If you're in those positions of authority, you might want to, like, think carefully about how you put stuff out. And so I think. But at the same time, like, and I'm not defending anybody. Yes, he's not going to win.
But people are human.
Right.
People learn on the job, especially in a completely new sector.
Right.
People sort of discover who they are and what their principles are around it.
Right.
And, you know, where their boundaries are and, like. Except they have no price. Like, Mark Zuckerberg can't be fired. His children can't be fired.
Right.
You can be fired. I can be fired.
I can be fired.
You know, well, actually, I work for myself, so I'm not going to ever be fired. But, you know, whatever. It's. They don't have any accountability.
So there's no ability to do anything about it. And one of the things that I've noticed among all the tech moguls is they can't shut up about anything.
Like, and now it's extending to other people, like Bill Ackman, who's a famous hedge fund person.
Right. Well, they're empowered by their own success and lauding and. Why am I listening to him on something that he doesn't. He doesn't know anything about? Like, and so they really, you know, you'll see it with all of them.
They're sort of, like, I might as well tell you about this and that.
But the fact of the matter is they do have their hooks into all our legislators.
They have PACs. These money going to these PACs is insane.
I disagree with that, just structurally. I don't. Oh, no. There's. We've got to get rid of Citizens United, but not just that.
These PAC structures, like, it doesn't always work.
Look, Elon tried to affect an election in Wisconsin, I think it was, yeah, Wisconsin, and he lost.
He lost.
He lost.
He lost.
He lost $25 million because he's an incredibly unattractive spokesperson for the people, right?
You don't like the jumping?
No, the cheese hat did him in.
When I saw the cheese hat, I was like, it's done.
The people of Wisconsin do not like you frolicking in their cheese hat.
They like their cheese hats, but not on you, my friend.
And so it's really. It's the lack of accountability.
But I do think regular people, what they're trying to do is break us apart and show our differences versus our consequences.
Who's they?
The tech technologies.
Okay.
It breaks us up. It is meant. Enragement equals engagement.
It's true.
You know?
Yep.
Except that we have a lot in common.
And people are starting to. Like, look, you have Marjorie Taylor Greene agreeing with me about what we need to do about chatbots or whatever.
Because then you start to. Like, she was just. The other day, she was on Caitlin Collins on CNN with Ro Khanna and. And her were talking about the war and where they agree.
And I literally texted Ro and I was like, what the actual fuck is happening here?
Like, what is happening?
There was overlap.
No, they were agreeing, right?
And I was like, where are we?
And I was like, kind of happy about that.
Like, we're. Look, we're going to disagree.
And she'll go back to some stupid trans thing she'll say, which she can't help herself.
The rubber band always goes back to shape, right?
On certain issues.
Maybe she'll become enlightened about that.
I don't know.
I feel like that whole issue is such. It's such a, like, red herring.
Oh, it's a red herring.
There's like. It's so ridiculous.
I have interviewed so many. I've interviewed one guy who's like, this is the most important issue.
I go, how many people?
Please.
How many people?
But they know it riles people up.
Yes, it does.
And it certainly does because it goes to fairness, I guess, on some level.
But it's so stupid.
It's such a, like. This is what they're doing.
They're doing this with the shiny objects.
Yeah.
But online, the shiny objects become super toxic.
And it doesn't have to be online.
It could be Fox News.
Like, my mother called me about trans fencers recently.
And I was like, it's not an issue.
Was she upset?
Yes.
It's terrible.
You mean fencing?
Fencing.
How many are there, Mom?
None?
Oh.
Okay.
I think we can move along.
And by the way, you're 92.
It doesn't really matter for you, like, in the end.
I just think it's interesting.
Like, I always try to think. Plague of trans fencers.
We must do something about it.
Children's poverty?
No, no, no.
They're everywhere, trans fencers.
I just always try to think about, like, what is underneath something that becomes so. So motivating, like, so urgent for people, you know?
Right.
And is it. What is it?
What is the fear underneath this sort of drummed up threat of trans people?
I don't think it's actually there.
Years ago, I wrote a story, which was really interesting.
It was around celebrity stuff.
So, do you remember when Roseanne called Valerie Jarrett a terrible name?
A terrible. She compared her to. Remember that.
So, she got drummed out, justifiably, by the way, because she's crackers, I gotta say.
And, come on.
Don't know her.
Let's be. I'm just saying.
Watch her, okay?
Allegedly.
Anyway.
So, she got strummed out.
And then, Sam Bee, who I love, who's terrific, said something about Ivanka, called her name,
got in trouble.
Same thing.
Probably shouldn't have done that.
I don't like the name calling.
Don't like it.
Unless you're in Britain, and then you can use it freely, whatever that particular word is.
You know what?
Just, okay.
Don't love it.
I get it.
But I'm just saying, in Britain, it's sort of like. In Britain, it's less. Less.
But, like, any name calling, it's so juvenile.
Or at least do it with a British accent.
Anyway.
So, I'm just teasing.
It's not great.
So, she got in trouble.
So, there was all this online thing.
Right.
And I was like, this is a lot of online thing for something. I get it, but it was crazy.
So, I got this company that watches bots.
These are these bots that create situation.
What happened was, these bots said, can you believe Roseanne Barr?
How dare she?
But then, the same company. Oh, the company had a British accent.
Yeah, right.
Whatever.
That's. I'm doing what I think bots sound like.
Perfect.
So, this was a group. This was a bot.
It was like, how dare she do it?
But the same company was putting out stuff that said, she's right.
It's true.
Blah, blah, blah.
So, it was creating these fights.
And then, humans got involved.
But it was the bots who started it.
Then, the. But the bots should be illegal.
Exactly.
And then, the same company was on the. See, I'm being stuff.
So, it was the same company making the trouble.
And then, people. Like, it's attracted to an accident.
Those people are the see you next Tuesdays.
Yes, but it could be. It could be Iran.
It could be Russia.
It could be just companies just creating controversy.
It could be. It could be political things.
And so, that. We're human beings.
And so, we're going to be attracted to a traffic accident and immediately go into tribalness.
And so, that's. That's, to me, it's so. It's like so selfish on their parts to not understand the deleterious impact they have
on all of us.
I think they understand.
I think they're just. You don't care.
It's like Milton Friedman.
They just profit, profit, profit.
Well, the first line of my book was, so it was capitalism after all.
But what drives me crazy. I've never had a Hollywood person. And. Listen, I have lots of issues with Hollywood.
Go, I'm here for the people, Cara.
I'm here to help everyone through my. Some of them do it, but you know.
Yeah.
Like, I'm here for the money.
I'm selling the movie.
I'm doing this.
Same thing with like, I've never heard a banker go, what I really want is all of us to get
along.
I just. I don't expect it from them.
But the tech people always had to like, I'm a simple person.
I'm here for the people.
I'm here for. How many times did I have a conversation with Mark Zuckerberg about, he's here for the community?
And I was like, so why do you get. Why don't. Can't you be fired then?
If you're here for the community and we're all making decisions, why do you get a stock
that allows you to make every decision?
Have you talked to him?
him no not he doesn't talk to me he doesn't talk to you not after the second two times we did
interviews one he sweat if you remember the sweating one where he's sweating how to take
his thing off not my fault not not his did you make the room really hot no i did yes i did i did
i did everything and i gave him some chili peppers no he just had he's just had a panic attack that's
all that happened but i tried to help him by taking off his coat right and then when he did
the holocaust thing but i didn't say it i actually tried to stop him i was talking about alex jones
i was like we shouldn't go to holocaust right right right like it's bad and he did it himself
and also we treat them like children like they're toddlers like oh what did he say i'm like he's
really rich and he's really powerful and we're treating them like so what is the way forward
through this stuff like i i think some regulation but not to quash innovation things naturally tend
towards a monopoly they tend to but then you have these it's like company towns like shouldn't how
do we push innovation
in this area where ai should be there's a lot of cool innovations happening and how do we avail
itself it's like saying you know what like plain old telephone service was critical for economic
development or road the highway system what stuff is critical for the future of everybody and what
stuff and where should they be taxed on that like what if they had left telephone service just to
the private companies do you know what would have happened we wouldn't have had it like only the
private companies would have had it but we wouldn't have had it like we wouldn't have had it like we
wouldn't have had it like we wouldn't have had it like we wouldn't have had it like we wouldn't have had it
like same thing with health care the whole thing like why can only the rich benefit and why why did
they get to make decisions like i had a discussion a long time ago with mark when he was giving money
to the newark something he was giving they were giving enormous amounts of money and then they
want kudos for their generosity which i'm like thanks but really like don't that's what that's
what the money's for like that's how you can assuage yourself and and he was like well i think
it was generous i was like yeah but why do you get to decide like why don't you decide like why don't
we decide our priorities why don't we just tax you and let our elected well elected officials
don't know i go yeah but they're elected like i don't like ted cruz but he was elected right and
so shouldn't he have more power over i can't believe i'm saying this i've said it several
times on this tour but but he should no i know sorry but he should the text people texas picked
him you know even donald trump should have more say although he's gone overboard but he was elected
okay so that is a really good segue
to talking about your show in terms of like how the wealthy people are sort of you know even in
your telephone company example what would have happened if it was stayed privatized but before
we get there because i'm dying to talk to you about this tv show okay so right now it's an ai
free for all like all the vcs i have a small fund like everybody's we're ai this we're ai that
are there are you going bad af like i want one of those deals i had that deal oh you did oh yeah oh
in the 90s i had yeah yeah you were active you're a couple of you that were on board early no not
that i mean like oh yeah so you went out with him i forgot hello see that's how much i pay attention
listen it was like 30 years ago at this point okay you're excused but like you know and and and i
there's always i think it's investing is so interesting and it's a whole other learning
curve right because it's like what are the ethics of this and like we invested in open ai
very early not very well pretty early um and it's sort of like okay you know and and and i still think
the company has great legs and sam could yes do the right thing like i think he has a great
opportunity but who are the founders in ai right now that are not yet household names that you're
super interested in you know it's interesting because who is the uber of this who is the
you know who were who are who's going to be the ai for insurance who is the ai i've noticed a lot
of billboards oddly enough there's a lot of hollywood billboards but some of them are
suddenly there's the legal ai and jude law's face is right there so you were in that movie with him
um you know his face is there for legal ai oh really yeah yeah it's on sunset like i know it's
called listen i would buy anything yeah right exactly i was like obviously the expert on legal
ai is jude law but fine whatever doesn't matter it doesn't matter yeah he looks good he's a rather
large thing but so there's one for legal there's one for though so you're saying if you're looking
at ai as like infrastructure what are the
what are the interesting companies built on top early internet was yahoo you know google came along
later um some of the search engines but then there was all manner of business in each area
right whether it was software hardware whatever it happens to be so there's going to be a zillion
companies and they'll fall away they'll some of them will it's like most of them like there were
a lot there were like 400 railroads at one time and then there weren't right now we have shitty
amtrak like yay we win um but you know that's the that's really the problem is which one is
going to be it and so if i were investing i think who is the leader in legal who is the leader in
record keeping who is the leader in accounting who is it's going to be the boring ones yeah and
that's where the real money is going to be made okay i have to talk about this show because i'm
so but do what you know if you're making investments what do you what do what's something
you have made more efficient using ai i mean i would say primarily the most fundamental thing
is my bandwidth right like i have i use
granola to listen in on all my meetings like the my my enterprise ai is connected to everything
i get summaries i can it can look across my slack and tell me where there are bottlenecks on my team
agentic is how you use it exactly this terrible word they've made agentic yeah it's very very i
mean so and i'm i would say like i am i engage with ai all the time right and i find it
incredibly useful right but weren't you in the movie where they
showed it off with uh with the assistant that talked to him all the time oh yeah
think about that man yeah man yeah you were in that movie i saw you looked really nice in the
suit but thank you excellent coming from you yeah i know it was good well it's always good to wear a
metal suit that can kill people but that think about that character in the show that's how it
could be right and i think if you look to science fiction you can see where things where you go yeah
like just to wear a roadmap like a wearable like 10 000 steps what the fuck does that mean
well what do you think about that it doesn't mean anything right now but with ai you could go
what if something was in your ear like you had an airpod or whatever it happened to be
and you you ate it like i use this example you ate a donut and instead of like saying 10 000 steps
like what does that mean what is it it's it's in from it's data without meaning and it says you
know you just ate that donut what you really need to do is get up right now and go grab a cucumber
and go for a walk use up that blood glucose exactly like but do instead of monitoring it would know it
all coming i think monitoring yes it is but it's useful when when does it become when does it right
now it's all kind of fun and interesting but when is it when is it provably useful to your life it
depends on the person like i've worn an aura ring forever i had one i'm not wearing it today
because i don't what do i don't know what it's telling me right it's not telling me enough yet
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for me uh it tells me a lot and longitudinally it tells me a lot yes it does especially going
through perimenopause and these big changes
like i really rely on but i'm that kind of person you're you are but it has to become very easy for
people to understand why they're using it and actually a lot of science fiction does explain
like that ironman does i'm always like pay attention to jarvis because jarvis is how it's
going to be like it or it should be like i've looked this up for you but then it has to be
accurate yeah right it has to be scientifically proven it can't give you bad information and it
all manner of things behind the scenes and that's a lot of it is like if you look at early internet
sites everyone's like oh it's glitchy i'm like it's not going to be it's not going to be so what
are the applications that you could use especially in health that are actually actionable information
that you can use that are scientifically proven rather than just getting your information from
some lady on instagram right there's science behind why 10 000 steps a day more or less but
what,
because it has to be individualized to you, right?
And what you're doing that day.
And this is why it's about to get so exciting.
It is, 100%.
With the hyper-personalization of your data
or assessments made on all of our data cheaply,
like, and at scale,
we will have the power as individuals
to really positively impact how we feel.
It is sent out among everybody.
And that's the problem.
Now it's whoever can pay the price, right?
But isn't that how it starts?
Not always, no.
Because right now there's so much great information
out about people's behaviors and everything else.
It's being sold.
Our health is being sold back to us
in a way that it needn't be.
And a lot of the things, as you know,
that you do for health are not profitable.
It's not necessary, right?
It's diet, it's sleep, it's exercise.
10 minutes in the sun.
It's social.
It's water.
Right, exactly.
It's loving, yeah, social loving your people.
Social's number one.
I mean, someone was like,
what have you learned from this?
One of the things I learned
is like, don't be poor, be rich.
That helps with longevity.
Sorry to tell you, every study shows it.
And the second thing is social interaction
and being part of a whole and a community.
And a lot of what online has done to us
is hurt our health.
It just has, just demonstrably using AI.
Of course, we sit more, we scroll more.
It's not just sedentary.
We're lonely, we're isolated.
Men, you know, young men spend too much time with porn
and young women, the self-esteem.
I interviewed your. Scott.
Yeah, yeah.
No, that's his thing.
I'm going to talk about it.
He should go.
He should get the fuck offline so much.
But he did.
He went off Twitter.
He feels better.
But what's really the problem
is that it's not being,
it's being used to sell products to us
before they're,
first, before many of them are baked
and whether there's enough science to them.
And secondly, you're looking for these easy fixes.
But don't you think on some level,
like, and look,
as like an early pioneer in wellness,
we definitely got criticism for this.
Speaking of planes are covered with bodies.
But I think, you know,
because really we were always in integrity
and like the intent was not to exploit.
Like we've always gone, come through it.
But I do, but I do think there's a,
for a certain, like, and again,
it's like part of this American sort of. Let's try it.
Optimization.
Let's try, let's, let's, let's see how,
how much, how much we can be the stewards
of our own outcomes,
like across all different verticals.
And I think with, I think,
with wellness,
because of the pharmaceutical industrial complex,
our medical complex,
the way that this is awesome.
The diabetic industrial,
I agree with all those things.
The way that it's set up,
people are like, hey, wait a minute.
Like, I don't trust this.
And I understand that, you know,
there's all this, the, you know,
these big pharma companies are giving me all this data
about why all these drugs are going to help me.
But like, what if I just try eating better
or moving my body?
And like, from the experience,
the felt experience,
the felt experience of taking small steps
to improve wellness.
Right.
It's sort of, it all kind of bloomed.
It is.
But, you know, it's sort of like saying,
you know, there's a lot,
there's a quote I use in the book,
which was from a philosopher,
a French philosopher.
And he's like, when you invent the ship,
you invent the shipwreck.
When you invent electricity,
you invent the electric chair.
Why do we have to disdain the tech,
good parts of the technology,
which are really real,
like, and will help us optimize.
If that's the word you want.
I don't love that word
because it's always used.
I don't actually love it too.
Right.
But I struggle to find another word.
Right.
No, but it's to try to figure out
why not think about what's better
for the rest of us
and the way it's being articulated
to a lot of people.
And especially because
all these tech billionaires
are paying for it.
Some of them are doing it well.
Larry Ellison's doing it well
with institutes and science
and everything else.
What can we use?
How can we take science and technology?
Yuri Milner's doing it really well.
Yes, yes.
How can we take science and technology
and use it for the betterment of everyone
versus a small group?
And it's done in this,
because everybody thinks about it
the same way they think about
like trickle-down economics, right?
Like the rich people will do it
and then we'll all get it.
But it's not ever true.
It is not true.
No, it's never true.
And so what we do is,
you know, there's been a lot,
you know, again,
Hollywood's a good way to look.
Like there's a lot of movies
and I'm recalling
there was a Jodie Foster movie
with Matt Damon
where he's on the earth
and can't get the medical attention.
Oh, yeah.
What was it called?
I forget.
Up in the Sky.
She was a crazy bitch.
Up in the Sky, right?
You know, with all the medical issues
and they have to get the kid to the bed.
I can't remember.
Anyway, anyway.
So it's kept from everybody else.
And so what we're doing is
it can optimize for rich,
but this is not going to go down.
And then there's all these issues
about privacy concerns,
like around all this health information.
And so what prompted me is,
first of all,
I was at so many dinner parties,
which I suspect you were
at a lot of these,
where all these guys,
and they were all guys,
telling me about all their different things.
First, it was intermittent fasting.
There's a lot of shows
that some of that is good.
If it's done correctly.
Then it was soylent
for a minute and a half, right?
Remember that?
We're going to optimize our time
by not eating.
I'm like,
you are going to be
a joyless piece of shit
if you do that, but fine.
You know, a piece of bread is great.
I hate to tell you.
They tried one thing after the next.
I'm taking this.
I'm taking that.
Psychedelics.
Peptides.
All of which hyperbaric.
Let's look.
Do not do that.
That one you must stop doing.
I don't do hyperbaric.
Because it's not good.
Like if oxygen is good,
three times is better.
I'm like, no.
Incorrect.
Incorrect.
Answer.
If you have the bends,
knock yourself the fuck out.
Yeah, that's.
You know, you got a wound.
I'm down for you to get in there.
Climb on in the coffin.
And it's great.
But otherwise, not good.
Again, they're selling it to people.
So three, four hundred, five hundred dollars
to get in there
and do something
that's not going to help you.
Scientifically proven so far.
If it's proven, I'm down for it.
But one of the things.
So I was at these dinner parties.
And the first thing that struck me was
when women are doing these things,
whether they're sucked
into the diet complex,
which I think is
just as dangerous, right?
This one diet after the next.
When women, it's.
Which hopefully has been
now undermined.
Yes, it has.
Meaningfully by GLP-1s.
GLP-1s, yeah.
It's a combination, right?
It's going to be a combination.
So one of.
I'll get to that in a second.
But when women do it,
it's body dysmorphia.
When men do it,
it's body hacking.
Like.
It pisses me off so much.
It pisses me off.
Exactly, right?
Like repeating this stuff.
So I was sort of like.
Measuring their boners
while they sleep and stuff.
Yes, I interviewed him.
He's a poignant figure.
I can't wait to watch it.
You know, my son is really
intrigued by him and follows him,
which I.
Sure is.
Brian Johnson, who we're talking about.
But he's an experiment of one.
He's not going to help the rest of us.
That's what.
So anyway, so then they started.
He came, as I said,
came to my conference
and talked about brain health
and his depression
and everything else.
And so I'm fine with it.
But then it turns into
this narcissistic.
And he says it.
Brian Johnson says it.
Then I become this narcissistic
Patrick Bateman motherfucker.
And I'm like, yeah, that's correct.
Because what you're doing
doesn't help everybody.
Why can't I just put it out there?
I'm like, you can,
but you're not really helping people.
But I would I would push back on that
only because like my son
who follows this guy who,
you know, I don't follow him.
I I'm not his demographic.
My son, I now hear things,
you know, it's like
if it's coming from me,
like, hey, eat some greens.
It's like, get it out of my face.
But it's like, well, Brian Johnson says,
you know, I really need to,
you know, whatever it is.
Like.
And they're the right things
like sleep better.
Some of the stuff he says
is absolutely right.
Right.
So I do think that.
Except then he moves on
to hyperbaric chambers.
Then he moves out to like,
why don't you inject yourself with.
No, because he goes and does it.
Like, I'm going to go down
and put inject myself
with things that are very dangerous.
And so, no.
But like if that,
if he exists, theoretically,
if it's theater to sort of move
the Overton window over
or let people think about
the idea of access
access, if he's only
with those messages, I guess.
But, you know, you yourself
got slapped back to last Sunday
over a couple of things.
Right.
So I don't understand
why they're allowed to do this
when if you look at like RFK.
And we didn't even do anything.
Yes.
I mean, like when you look back,
it's like, oh, we talked
about gluten free food and.
But here's the deal.
Why do they right now?
The amplified weaponized
information environment
means people are getting
some really bad information.
I agree.
And that's the risk.
You have then a responsibility
not to.
And he says it in this interview.
He's like, I'm like,
but you're an influencer.
And he's like, yeah,
you have to play the game.
I'm like, do you?
If you really want to help people,
why not?
Why not back gold standard tests?
It'll help all of us.
Because a lot of times,
I would argue those tests
are never going to benefit
a large corporation.
Right.
So like a lot of times.
Why doesn't he pay for them?
Well, he should.
That's what I said.
He goes, well, how many can I pay for?
I go a fucking buttload, my friend.
Like, why does it have?
Like, you know what I mean?
Like, why is there money
spent on this stuff?
If they're really going to be generous,
look at Mackenzie Scott.
He would need a double blind,
like placebo-backed study.
On one thing would be
a measurable help for people.
Like, okay, you want to talk
about red lights?
Let's have a real study.
Like, it's very thin
on the studies, right?
So let's have, like,
I'm not dismissing it.
I'm just saying you're selling people
all manner of, what they do is
there's one thing applies
in a small way in health
that helps inflammation
or whatever,
and then it solves everything.
It, like, takes you out to dinner,
it babysits your kids,
and it leaves you breakfast
in the morning.
It doesn't do that.
Like, and so people,
it's the same thing
as the diet complex.
Like, oh, if you do
the grapefruit now, Gwyneth,
you're going to do this.
And it's one after the next.
And it's not,
it's not lifetime changes
that we need to do
to get everybody healthier.
And a good example
of GLP-1s,
groundbreaking tech.
Like, and then the other part,
first there's the misinformation
I was furious about.
Then there was all this narcissism.
a lot online, just the online, like in the wellness space, like there was two wellness
influencers and I called them and I said, where'd you get this information? Well, we Googled it.
I go, well, it's actually inaccurate completely. And I'm like, but you're saying it and people
are believing you. Oh, we'll fix that. I'm like, no, no, no. You're telling, like, you've already
done the damage. Like, how dare you? But they were benefiting and so was YouTube. And so I was
irritated by the misinformation, just like I am in the political misinformation. It's really
deceptive and dangerous for people. And so what I want to do is like, let's lean into marrying
technology with socially responsible things and our government who should be caring for the people.
That's government isn't there to make money. The government is there to help every allegedly
is there. And so that's what I was looking at. And then I tried all the nonsense stuff. Cause
it's funny. What did you try? Oh, I did. I got in the hyperbaric chamber and I came out looking
like a baby. Um, it's all definitely recognized. It's astonishing how fantastic I look.
From that single thing. Um, I did, you know, the red light, there's a funny scene of in like a
coffin of red light. Like it's a $70,000 thing. It's crazy. Like, and again, it's in one of these
high end health things and like promising all manner of stuff that it's, there's some promise
around inflammation. There's some promise around hair. We did, we did the PRP thing again, willing
to listen, right. Willing to see the PRP thing for my hair. It didn't work. It doesn't work for
some people. Some people don't like Rogaine cause it gives them heart palpitations. What,
we should be pushing this stuff forward. Sometimes it works, but now it's unregulated.
It's all these clinics that are everywhere. So what are people might be getting sold? Just like
in the old days, snake oil salesman, right? So I did, um, ketamine because it's a really interesting
thing. I saw that it was not great for you. No, I don't, I don't have trauma that I'm trying to
address. In certain cases, we should be doing these studies about how it helps. Um, especially
with SSRIs are so dangerous. Yeah, treatment resistance.
And depression. Right, exactly. But sometimes it doesn't work that long. Sometimes it does.
And of course it immediately, there's all these clinics unregulated. Why? If this is supposed to
be something so amazing, why not really deploy it to the population and not let the drug companies
run the, run the show, but we have them. So how do we work with them responsibly so that it'll
benefit the most people? Was there anything that you did that you thought, Hey, there's really
a couple of things. I did a sound pod with Scott Galloway, which was fun.
Which was kooky. What's a sound pod?
It's this new pod that vibrates and plays, you know, indigenous music at you. And then you
supposedly everything gets solved, but some stuff is obviously music has been helpful to humanity.
So what is it that you could do? It's around meditation. I think Scott fell asleep. So it
didn't really help him. No, that is, that is helpful. I was in the Equinox has these new sleep
sleep rooms, you know, which is like, I heard they're great. They are. But at the same time,
they cost like,
you know what you could do? You could put a shade on, put that fucking phone down and
lower the temp. I know, but like, there's such a Tam for this kind of like a hundred percent,
you know, like, I'm fine. If rich people want to do this, I'm good. Like take their money. It's
great. I just want it to be deployed for everybody. Like what should, and in, in an exchange with
Brian Johnson and I had, he goes, I'm just trying to give people things to do. Like you could eat
olive oil. Correct. You could do, you know, more strength training or balance training.
Absolutely.
Absolutely. Everyone can sleep more. And I was like, Brian, everyone can't sleep more. Poor
people can't, they have two jobs. They've got the homelessness. They have, they're worried about
healthcare. Well, there's a real like Maslow's hierarchy to this, you know, it's like, of course,
when you're talking about optimizing your, all of these things, you're talking about people
at the top of the pyramid. And that's probably what you're cynical about.
I'm cynical. It's because they're like, if only people did this, I'm like, you know, people can't
the same thing.
Like when everyone lost their frigging mind over Zoran Manabemi talking about grocery stores and
poor neighborhoods, like they're like, how did he do communism? Although meanwhile, Trump's like
investing in Intel and taking a dollar off of every vig of every deal that we do. Like, give me a break.
You know, he's getting money for that steel thing, whatever the hell he's doing there. Like, give me
a break with these people. But then he's like, we need healthy foods in poor neighborhoods and
everyone's losing their minds. And I'm like, you know what? They can't get an apple. Yes,
you're right. They need to eat an apple.
They need to also have it in schools to talk about nutrition.
This is, I think it's a great idea.
You know that. And I'm like, it's going to hurt the bidig. I'm like, is it? Because they're not
selling the apples either. Because it's not like, so we may have to fund that. Why don't we talk
about an apple? Like, that's the kind of stuff. Like that, that's doesn't, that doesn't, I'm here
to sell you an apple. Like, can you imagine? It's not really a great business, is it?
Probably, probably.
The Gwyneth apple will be beautiful though. It will come from the Gwyneth tree. She picked it,
she wrapped it and sent it to you.
Exactly.
I think you should do that.
I have Goop Kitchen, which is kind of-
Yes, you do. It's actually lovely. I love Goop Kitchen.
Thank you very much.
It's actually really well done.
Thank you very much. I mean, and that's-
But how can you then translate to cheaper, right?
Well, it's very difficult because-
It is.
What you're talking about is, I mean, we, in this country, we have made-
Industrial farming.
Industrial farming so pervasive and so cheap, and then forget about highly refined. And,
you know, it's like everything is, we've made food product. It's not food.
Yeah.
But those are people's expectations.
It's expectations around pricing and it's understandable. But, you know, I mean, I know
for me, I really wish we could go back to a culture around having your own garden, obviously
in the Northeast and, but, you know, before World War II, almost all Americans grew something.
Right.
And even just that act of like growing something that you're picking and eating.
You know, I mean, one of the things that's interesting, years ago, I interviewed a European
regulator.
It was amazing. And she said, you know, you Americans have traded convenience for everything,
like everything, because it's like a map or a this, and you've traded away. You've become
a cheap date for the internet. And I was like, we have, we've given us our, we've given us
all our information for what? A dating app and a map and they get all the money? Like
to me, I was like, you're a fucking cheap date. Why don't we get a piece of it? And
so one of these things around the healthcare is it's so important. Healthcare costs in
this country.
Are double. It's $15,000 per capita a year.
Insane.
And guess where we are at the bottom of every list. Mortality, everything. We're at the
bottom. Europe, $6,000, $7,000.
Obesity, diabetes, heart disease.
Why is that? So we're getting a bad fucking deal. And so that's my thing. I'm like, why
are we getting the, where are we getting the worst?
Because it's the perfect flywheel.
Exactly. So that's why that one thing, I feel like I had to say the number one thing, universal
healthcare. The basic level of healthcare.
And I think you should leverage your reputation.
Mm-hmm.
As the scariest journalist on the planet.
Okay.
I'm going to sell supplements now. I'm going to, I'm going to do the Gwyneth Apple.
No, not for that.
I want to do the fucking Gwyneth Apple.
Let's do a collab.
I think you should-
Gently place it in the beautiful handcrafted-
We can do like, we can make ceramics to hold the apple. I mean, imagine, but I think you
should wield your influence.
Smell the earth. It's a vagina in some fashion. It's like the next vagina candle.
Yeah, perfect.
By the way, my sons love their vagina candles. I gave them to them.
You sent them to me.
We had to stop making them.
Do not. Be proud of that. Be proud of the vagina candle.
I am.
Good.
But it was just-
Do not.
Became-
Do not let anybody-
People tried to-
Yeah.
It was like this great feminist statement.
I know that.
I love the vagina candle.
Let me just tell you, I'm friends with Jennifer Beals and we were in Las Vegas and there was
a flash dance. She goes like this against flash dance because she's so, and I go, own fucking
flash dance.
I love flash dance.
Own it.
Flash dance is the best.
I own the vagina candle. I love it. It's just annoying that people are so reductive that
they can't, couldn't get the point of it.
That sounds weird. My sons love it. They're so happy with their vagina candles.
Maybe I need to bring it back.
Bring it back.
The last thing you said, what worked? VO2 max was really interesting to find out what
that is.
You did that?
Yes.
Okay.
I don't think, it's expensive sometimes.
I've never done it.
But it's a really good indicator of longevity and health. And if you improve your VO2 max,
amazing.
Okay.
I start. One of the things Zeke mentioned was-.
Yes.
Doing things that you're uncomfortable doing, trying new things. So he's a cancer
researcher. He learned to make honey. He does ballroom dancing. He does short order cook.
Something you're, I just recently had a Mahjong party. Why? I don't know. I just did. The
tiles-
Believe me, this is like sweeping the nation. I-
Right. It is. I know. I know. It's pickleball of 2026, as they say.
Yeah. Don't invite me.
So doing things I shall not. But it was interesting. I spend a lot more time with my kids and quality,
real time.
I mean, you don't have to spend tons and tons of time, but it really, like my daughter and
I started making, I happen to like Instagram food videos. And so we made-
They're fun.
They're fun.
They're really fun.
We made butter. We made bread. We do stuff like that. We try, I'm making this staple
car with my son, like we saw it online. And so-
Fun.
That was kind of fun. I'm using online things-
The 23 year old, of course.
No, no, no, no, no, no, no. The 21 year old could build a car and run away. He's a technologist.
But stuff like that. And I think if people start to do that, and I do think absolutely,
and this is an opportunity from business, people are tired of extremely online. They
want to be with people.
I agree.
COVID made us crazy.
Yeah.
Crazy.
Crazy.
And accelerated online trends are, some of which are good, some of which are bad.
Some of which are bad, yeah.
And so people, I met with this bunch of students in, I met students, young people in Brooklyn,
they play games. It's a game night. I went with a neuroscientist who was explaining what
was happening from a cognitive point of view.
That's cool.
It was cool. And they're all playing games and they're meeting with each other. And they're
with each other and talking and no phones and that
That was astonishing.
I met with this group of people called Time, something Time to, you get introduced to six
people you've never met and you meet and play bowling and have dinner.
Do you know how hard that is?
I love it.
I would love that.
Well, that would be, they'd be shocked.
I mean, I should, I know it was time.
Something I always try to meet strangers though.
That's the other thing.
Like I always, you know, I, like I had a thing yesterday and I was like, I'm pretty new up
here and I was like, bring, just bring cool people.
I want to meet, I want to meet, I'm very into that.
But the last thing is interactions with people you don't know, even if they're brief, they're
so good for your health.
I can't even tell you if you have one health hack, meet, like when you're in it.
And my son taught me this because he's the friendliest person on earth.
Whenever he goes, he goes, he like, he's doing it like a minor with a cashier, barista, whatever
it happens to be.
He goes, Hey, how was your day?
This is what happens to people.
I've started doing it.
It is crazy how much it works.
People go like this, like this, because they don't get asked how their day is, but, and
then you have an interaction and it's a small thing, but I have to tell you, there's, you're
trading so many health benefits and it's not going to solve, it's not going to make
you live nine years more, but it is going to make you live a second longer.
And so, or maybe more, whatever, more fulfilled, whatever, in a more fulfilled way and it cognitively
helpful and it, it helps you, it helps them and it's kind.
And that's the one thing that you have to recognize.
Is that, that social interactions with people and not your phone and not people on your
phone.
And I love my phone.
My, this is, I love my phone.
It's crack.
I know, but it is.
And so that's the one thing is spend time with people.
And that's the real business opportunity, by the way, too.
Well, I cannot wait to watch the show.
Thank you.
It's been an incredible pleasure.
Thank you.
As usual.
I'm sorry we went over.
That's okay.
No problem.
It's up to you.
But you're just so interesting.
Oh, I am very interesting.
You really are.
All right.
I want you to watch K-Pop Deep in Honors though.
Fine.
Fine.
No, don't, don't.
I'm telling you.
I will.
If you have children, you know this.
It's like.
My children are grown up.
Yes, but you need to watch it.
You'll be like, thank you, Kara, so much for watching the show.
Really?
It's a wonderful show.
And by the way, the messages in it are very much, very important messages.
Very subtle.
Very smart.
Okay.
You watch Rivalry, right?
Correct?
You know, I haven't seen that yet.
Oh my God.
What are you doing?
I watch murder shows.
Okay.
Really?
Yeah.
No.
No.
I think it's.
What movie are you in?
You were in a new movie, right?
You were in.
Oh, you were in.
I was in Marty Supreme.
I have not seen that yet.
Well, so.
I am going to watch it.
That's your homework.
Okay.
I'm going to watch Marty, but I don't.
God damn it.
I hate to say it, but I don't like Timothee Chalamet.
He looks like a woman I dated.
You can't say that.
I'm sorry.
I know you're not supposed to.
I don't know him.
I don't know.
He's great.
I'm sure he's a nice guy.
And he's talented.
I get it.
He just looks like women I've dated many years ago.
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Podcast Summary
Key Points:
Gwyneth Paltrow hosts a conversation with tech journalist Cara Swisher, focusing on transparency, integrity, and the ethical challenges of tech power.
Swisher emphasizes the importance of direct, honest questioning as a form of accountability, challenging complacency and perceived politeness in leadership.
She critiques the concentration of power among wealthy tech executives, arguing they lack accountability and often ignore societal consequences of their decisions.
Swisher highlights the misuse of AI and data, noting how platforms exploit user behavior, scrape content, and prioritize profit over public good or safety.
She warns that AI and social media amplify misinformation, breed tribalism, and create harmful echo chambers that harm mental health and democratic discourse.
Swisher calls for stronger regulation, transparency, and public oversight of tech companies, especially in areas like AI, content ownership, and political influence.
She points out that innovation must be balanced with ethics, pointing to the need for equitable access to technology and health-related tools.
The conversation underscores the importance of human connection, community, and social interaction as foundational to well-being—contrasted with the isolating effects of digital media.
Summary:
Gwyneth Paltrow hosts a powerful conversation with tech journalist Cara Swisher, exploring the ethics and accountability of influential tech leaders. Swisher argues that direct, unflinching questioning is essential for truth and progress, especially when confronting powerful figures like Elon Musk or Mark Zuckerberg. She critiques how tech moguls operate with unchecked authority, often prioritizing profit and innovation over social responsibility, accountability, or public safety.
The discussion highlights how AI and social media platforms exploit user data, spread misinformation, and deepen societal divisions, with harmful impacts on mental health and democratic discourse. Swisher stresses the need for regulation, transparency, and public oversight to prevent monopolistic control and ensure equitable access to technology. She emphasizes that true progress lies not in technological advancement alone, but in human connection, community, and social well-being—values often undermined by digital isolation.
The conversation underscores a deeper cultural shift: as wealth and innovation concentrate in the hands of a few, society faces the risk of losing democratic accountability and trust. Ultimately, Swisher calls for a reimagining of power, where technology serves humanity, not the other way around.
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