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The special person

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The special person

The transcription is a reflective monologue about love, relationships, and the search for a special person who truly cares for you. It describes this person as someone who always thinks of you, supports your endeavors, makes you laugh, challenges your thinking, and goes out of their way to make you feel special, even when you see nothing remarkable about yourself. The author notes that while many people actively seek such a partner, they believe you should instead become that person for others. They recount their own experience of unexpectedly finding such a connection, which felt like a "whirlwind of fun and rainbows," but also warns that these moments are temporary and can be ruined by jealousy, someone taking your place, or rushing to define the relationship too quickly. The text advises self-protection and mindfulness, emphasizing that everything in life is fleeting. It touches on the pain of separation, noting that memories often outlast the relationship itself, and suggests that after a breakup, you must "kill them on your mind" and move on. Practical advice includes being content without expecting messages, dressing for yourself, and creating a new present after loss. The author also shares insights about loyalty and communication, questioning why partners put each other in positions to doubt trust, and concludes with a reminder that if someone truly loves you, they will fight to keep you; otherwise, they will let go. The overall tone is cautionary yet hopeful, serving as a meditation for the author and a warning for others.

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The person who don't want to see you sad, person who is always thinking about you, reply to your intriguing statuses, want to support you in everything that you do, person who feels at home with you, can take picks of you and send you later and always finds a way to make you special. Go out of their way to make you happy even when Tari's nothing interesting about you, tells people you're smart and you've done so and so and you have your own way of connecting. Are you luckily to have that's person? Who make any type of excuse so can come and see you? A. you guys don't know anything about the person. While you are busy looking for that's person know you should be the one who becomes that's person to another person the rest is history. In lucky I've once had that's person in history rarely repeat itself in this lines of life. This person start to become like your other half and you cannot picture a day without them. They want to make you laugh and motivate you in the same time, challenges you in debates and change your old way of thinking. Grow! Personally I didn't seek this person in my life they just happen and as we speak somany alike is showing a hand now I have to think how this phantasy ends or I want to live in the moment and trust me you don't approach this one and that's complicate things a bit but if you get so much good emotions why ruin it? Okay after all that said and done protect yourself when you find yourself in this world wind of fun and rainbows. Right now I wouldn't turn my life upside down for anyone although that's happens while unaware now just pay attention because in this world everything is temporarily never forget that's. If a person dies well that's beyond our control other than that's if you get separated with this person you will have to kill them on your mind. Let alone seeing them on a daily basis now that's some really nasty stuff their memories end up lasting longer than a relationship you had and they're happily moved on and you can't tap into their feelings no more. I write this as meditation and a great wharneling for my future self and for anyone who has never been in my position before so they will know there is another exciting life out there and can be ruined by two things, jealousy and someone taking your place. Or three you got too excited and make the relationship something that's wasn't. Eel close with this coup I heard on Instagram if you could sleep without expecting a message or look good just for yourself you know everything. The other important message I got from a guy who got a divorce online he said after the divorce try to live your life and forget about what's was and all the past and create yourself a new present and enjoy your life. Follow us on all social media's as it being a dolege and its bliff entertainment thank you oh bonus points. This episode is also available as a blog post htts colon slash slash bingadolge.com slash 2022 slash 04 slash 05 slash the special person slash lot of things has been said about love and relationships even cude on cude if a person loves you will do their best to keep you but if not they won't fight hard enough or they will let you go. I don't know which is which but in my experience other people sacrifice other relationships to make new ones work and as a person you can tour all it so much and when other person doesn't see things the way you do then there is a problem and they expect you to trust them and see things their way. Why put me in a position where I should question your loyalty in a first place. Why not confront me about your feelings about my action and when you do why do I have to be a jerk about it. It's because one of us no longer care enough and see a potential danger in a new routon might be a third person or a friend who's not seems to be heading in the same direction we are. Advertisements

Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. The text describes the qualities of a special person who cares deeply, supports, motivates, and makes you feel valued.
  2. It suggests that instead of seeking such a person, you should strive to become that person for someone else.
  3. Such relationships can feel like finding your other half, but they come with risks, including jealousy, replacement, or over-idealization.
  4. The author advises protecting yourself, as relationships are temporary, and separation can leave lasting emotional pain.
  5. Practical advice includes living independently, not expecting constant messages, and creating a new present after a breakup.
  6. The text ends with reflections on loyalty, communication, and the importance of recognizing when a relationship is no longer mutual.

Summary:

The transcription is a reflective monologue about love, relationships, and the search for a special person who truly cares for you. It describes this person as someone who always thinks of you, supports your endeavors, makes you laugh, challenges your thinking, and goes out of their way to make you feel special, even when you see nothing remarkable about yourself. The author notes that while many people actively seek such a partner, they believe you should instead become that person for others.

They recount their own experience of unexpectedly finding such a connection, which felt like a "whirlwind of fun and rainbows," but also warns that these moments are temporary and can be ruined by jealousy, someone taking your place, or rushing to define the relationship too quickly. The text advises self-protection and mindfulness, emphasizing that everything in life is fleeting. It touches on the pain of separation, noting that memories often outlast the relationship itself, and suggests that after a breakup, you must "kill them on your mind" and move on.

Practical advice includes being content without expecting messages, dressing for yourself, and creating a new present after loss. The author also shares insights about loyalty and communication, questioning why partners put each other in positions to doubt trust, and concludes with a reminder that if someone truly loves you, they will fight to keep you; otherwise, they will let go. The overall tone is cautionary yet hopeful, serving as a meditation for the author and a warning for others.

FAQs

A special person is someone who always thinks about you, supports you, makes you feel at home, and goes out of their way to make you happy, even when there's nothing particularly interesting about you.

Instead of actively seeking that person, you should strive to become that special person for someone else, as such connections often happen naturally.

You should protect yourself and stay mindful, as everything in life is temporary, and getting too excited can lead to making the relationship something it isn't.

A relationship can be ruined by jealousy, someone taking your place, or getting too excited and misinterpreting the relationship's nature.

After a separation, you should try to live your life, forget the past, create a new present, and enjoy your life, as memories can linger longer than the relationship itself.

If you can sleep without expecting a message and look good just for yourself, it indicates you've reached a level of self-sufficiency and emotional independence.

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