In this conversation, Rob Snyder discusses his "pull quick start guide," a blog post that serves as a concentrated essence of his thinking on product-market fit (PMF) and the pull framework. He explains that many startups get stuck in the "pain cave" because they focus on downstream activities—like perfecting discovery interviews or sales tactics—while ignoring upstream fundamentals, such as why people actually buy. The guide presents a hierarchy of importance: first, understand the pull theory (what causes purchases); second, define the ideal customer profile (ICP) based on who has pull—people who are stuck and will eagerly pull a solution; third, develop a product that fits that pull, even as a simple mock-up; fourth, adopt the right sales mindset, which is about helping and observing rather than convincing; and finally, apply tactics. Rob emphasizes that the ICP is the most critical element because everything else flows from it. He contrasts traditional ICPs (based on static characteristics) with pull-based ICPs (based on specific stuck situations). The overarching message is that by getting the upstream concepts right, founders can avoid wasting time on irrelevant downstream details and more effectively achieve PMF.
Hey, Rob, how's it going, man? Good. Good. How are you? I actually think I'm a little more alive than last week. Which is crazy, given that your daughter is like having sleep, sleep issues. But, Rob, this is an epic, epic post. Like, this is one, it's called a pull, quick start guide, applying pull, willing to in the show notes. It's one for folks to bookmark. It's kind of like, I was thinking of, I was like, what is this thing? And the closest analogy I have to it is like, you know, orange juice concentrate. It's just like everything, like sort of, and then you add water to it. This is like your writing concentrate version. And, you know, there's a bunch of things that connect to it. A bunch of places to go, but it's like, if you need the essence of like Rob Snyder's thinking and understanding pull and understanding PMF and how to deliver, this is it. So literally like bookmark this thing and come back to it every once in a while. Why don't you give us context on like, what is this thing and why is it on your mind? Yeah, so we are almost done with another round of PMF camp. And the thing that I keep noticing, all right, that I worry about, is that people will come through with, there's, you know, five sessions that cover kind of every single part of product market fit and sales that is relevant to pull. And I come out of it worrying that people have learned a lot of things and are applying a lot of things. But that they don't have a quick start guide or like a, here's what's most important. Here are the, you can take away a lot of different things from here, but there is a almost like hierarchy of importance. And so I actually wrote this as an internal doc for the like PMF camp folks. But I was like, you know what screw it? I wrote it while on a plane just on my phone. And I was like, you know, this, this would actually be a helpful thing. We can put in a blog post. Maybe we can, we can just open source it. And I think it will help specifically one of the common error modes. I see, which is being right about things that are downstream and wrong about things that are upstream. And that is actually a massively important concept that I think plagues basically all of entrepreneurship thinking and a lot of business thinking as well, which is that these are, these are, we are very right to a precise degree about something downstream that is irrelevant because of what's upstream. Yeah, can you give an example of that what, what, what could it feel like to be right down or maybe it's even like focused on getting something right downstream that's. Or downstream that and while not fixing the thing that's upstream or something like that. But what does that look like with? Yeah. So like the classic example is like being super, super rigorous about your discovery interviews. Where you're, you know, you're doing, you know, this is what a ton of founders do, which is you've been told to do discovery interviews. And so you get a super detailed interview guide. You do it. You like analyze it with claw. You do like a ton of analysis on it. And you get super good at discovery interviews, which are irrelevant are generally irrelevant because they miss. Just a fundamental thing. Why do people buy things and given that that upstream concept. And you would not be doing discovery interviews like they're like, if you understood that upstream thing, you would not be doing this downstream thing. Yeah, a couple areas that I've reading through this hierarchy. I was like, yeah, I did that before I did the thing before it or the things six things before it. One was building supply like overbuilding supply before like really understanding the ICP. And identifying pull because pulled tells you what the supply has. And then another one is there's like certain things that you get kind of hung up on. It's like, how do I price this thing when it's like, who cares? Almost like until you've until you figured out what they're trying to accomplish and how to sell to them and stuff. It doesn't it almost like doesn't matter. And you you articulated that in this post in a way that was like kind of light bulb moment for me. That's just one one example of that. I wish it would have been light bulb 18 months ago. But you know, unfortunately it's light bulb today. Let me give another example to this. This is a this is one that I've seen actually very, very common in our world, which is there's a lot of sales advice out there. And there's, you know, you have to be really good at sales, which I don't disagree that you should be good at sales. But being good at sales is downstream of something that is way more important upstream. And so like I wrote about this this week online where it was, you know, I've watching a sales call probably the worst sales call you have ever seen. Just unbelievable. You do like any experienced sales person would watch it and probably want it. And it didn't matter. It like yes, they should improve. Yes, I, I like nearly punched this person. But it didn't actually matter because what was upstream was that there was somebody who was so stuck. That they would have eaten dog food to buy this. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, or I got through waterboarding or a bootcamp with a like a marine boot camp in order to purchase a product. You know, there's there there's one thing I'd like to call it before we get into the hierarchy. I thought this is a really clear articulation of basically what you're doing essentially. And you wrote, we don't know what causes not PMF to PMF. So it's unclear what to do pre PMF. This is what I call the pain cave where infinite things could work, but it's not obvious what will work. We can live along in the pain cave forever because basically every startup spends time in the pain cave. And then this is the thing and startups that escape the pain cave figure out one specific thing pull and that that connected a couple of the things that you've written and then I've been around that maybe like intuitive like sort of something. But it was like, okay, the predictive path to getting to product market fit is actually the pull the pull framework, which you've probably said that 15 times Rob. I don't know why it's it's taking me this long, but you know what I read that I was like, oh, it's like it just simplified kind of everything in that. So this post is that as you mentioned the hierarchy of things targeted at that getting out of the pain cave and like understanding pull so that you can execute on it and find product market fit. Do you agree with that? I don't know if that is that a fair characterization of it. Yeah, yeah, 100%. That's exactly how I think about it. And it's right. And so what's happening though as you're doing that, which is, which is really interesting. Because right, I've said this before, but I haven't, but either I haven't said it or you haven't internalized it in the stack in the hierarchy of things right or you put it somewhere lower in the hierarchy of things. And so what I'm like, what I'm trying to do is figure out how product market fit works, how to make startups take off. And specifically that requires this hierarchy of what is most important that nothing else is upstream of. Yeah, because if you get something right that's downstream or right or or worse that feels right, but is actually only true post product market fit. And then you're just going to be totally wrong in unpredictable ways that will make no sense to you. And so that's the real, this is the real challenge of this like stupid exercise that I've been on for the past decade. And this is like that it's, you know, it's trying to figure out what is causal upstream and what's the full hierarchy from there. And I just like you just shouldn't wish this on an enemy is so awful. Yeah, you're you're you're in the like pink a part of articulating the causality and startups. Rob, why do we let's hit that hierarchy and I actually made before that I think this is right basically all founders that are trying to understand how product market fit works. It maybe founders that are in the middle of the pink cave or what's not so it's interesting. I'm getting called into like doing executive refinements on pole at like companies that are big, which is interesting. And so basically everyone is trying to understand this hierarchy and like the the why are some of our products taking off and others aren't and why can't we seem to predict that in advance. And so it is like this is a think of this as a way to boot pole thinking into your brain in the correct sequence. Love it love it. I'm going to start calling all of our meetings executive briefings for. I was I was you can start telling people.
I was in an executive briefing with kids and family media company. And it was really like you and I were hanging out having a drink. Anyways, so let's get into the list. Let's take it from the top or how did you think about the hierarchy before we get into the elements themselves? How do I think about the hierarchy? So what I thought about was first you actually need to understand the theory behind you have to understand the the pole framework, what causes a purchase and what doesn't. What makes somebody weird not to buy when everybody is like most of the time weird to buy. And that's the like there's it and like what are the kind of general implications of that. So you have to have that in your brain. Otherwise, you're going to be in push mode and everything you do and you're not going to kind of you're just not going to understand it's not going to become intuitive. Then the next step on the hierarchy, I've realized that the kind of like number one step on the implementation side is the ideal customer profile, the kind of who you serve. Everything is downstream of that. All your sales tactics, your like your product is downstream. Like all of everything is downstream of the person that you choose to serve. And they're like the way you would typically make an ideal customer profile as you'd write, you know, I sell to people named Rob who live in Mexico City and do in, you know, like media. If you're honestly, if you're if you're a taco seller, that's actually a really good starting point for this. But it's, but so you're going to define it in terms of just kind of like static characteristics. And everything is going to break downstream of that because you define it in terms of static characteristics. Instead, you have to define it based on pull. If you define your ICP based on who has pull, who has a high probability in anyone given moment of having pull, then it's life. It's super clear like everything downstream of that just like will work or is relatively intuitive is based on that because it's really like everything is downstream of finding somebody who is stuck trying to do something but blocked by their current options. Yeah. That's interesting. So if we maybe to contrast the two, a traditional view, so for my company, we we produce family media and then we sell it. We partner with businesses and stuff like that to that one. I'd be in front of families. I don't know that's like sort of so as a not the right way framing it. But a previous way of framing it in a more traditional route is like we sell to mid-sized brands that are trying or that that sell to moms and dads in the United States, something like that. It's like just a description of a product or, you know, and the a version of it that is aligned to pull would be there is a brand marketer who is under pressure to improve performance because meta is declining and getting more expensive. They're looking for alternative creative partnerships in order to do that. But they're having a hard time because XYZ reasons that we don't it's like they're am I internalizing the the difference? So you can you can define your ICP in a variety of different like so in your case, you could have defined it just like as a general kind of like company attribute. What most people will do is they'll do a step worse than that because you've already kind of you already have the pull framework in your brain. So you've kind of defined that the worst version of that is which I think you've also done before is who do I want to sell to? Yeah. Right. And it's it's great. That's cool. They don't want to buy. Yeah. And then the second layer on it is who could we add the most value for or who would benefit the most? Who should want it the most? Who has pain points and problems that we couldn't solve? Right. And it's if you get if you do any of those things, basically nothing else is going to work very well downstream of that. And so that's why the ICP definition based on pull is the top of the hierarchy. Yeah. Interesting. Even even before like outbound or it feels like something like some of that, like kind of goes hand in hand like who you're doing outbound to. Yeah. It's it's yeah. Or because this this is going to determine what method you're going to use to get in front of those people. If the people with pull are Fortune 500 CEOs who are stuck in a very specific situation, you're not going to be doing outbound. Yeah. Necessarily, you're going to or you're going to be doing a very weird approach to up. But maybe you're going to get intros from some other like you're going to your your entire business approach and product approach is downstream of this. Yeah. Fascinating. And I love it. I'm not. I was going to say it's not always stupid. Why don't we continue from the ICP down into you call it product here, actually, which which kind of like threw me for one. I was like, I thought we talked about supply. But you said product and the number of the sees are supply to their demand. You write are actually before I say that, why is that the second? Why that? It's surprisingly that that was this high that product was there. Why is product the number number two thing here? We have to have something. That fits. Pull. If we don't have something or some shape of the thing that could unblock them, then it doesn't matter. And like nothing. Nothing else matters. And so that's where it's, you know, you have to find somebody. You have to have some. It doesn't need to be something fancy. It doesn't need to be fully built. But you need to have at least the concept, the high level requirements. What we'll talk about here to to as something that you can at very least put in front of them show them or say the words to see if they actually pull. It makes me that makes me think of, what is it cyber starts? I'm forgetting the name of the VC firm that we talked about. I don't know, maybe two months ago or something like that. And they started with the first one, which is an ICP. They had a very clear, they had a very clear kind of persona, I would say, which was chief security or information security officers at companies. And then their first step was that first one, define your ICP. And they were essentially filling out pull. And then they figured out supply. And so it wasn't that they were doing them at the same time. It was actually like they would spend I think like six months or something like that, which ended up being a formula that worked with. Is that how you internal like interpret them? It's like, even if you don't. It's not that the first thing is the ICP and at the same time you need the product. The first one could actually be understand the ICP and then start putting the product in front of them in the form of like a description, a one page mock up. Like it doesn't, it doesn't necessarily mean I need to code something. And I need to be able to pull up like an actual product. Yes. Yeah, exactly. It's in it's if you define your ICP in a way that fits. Right. Like you're there's not actually product. Or a service shape as part of it. Right. Like what pull is product agnostic? It is this thing you're looking for out there, which is I'm trying to find a person who is stuck trying to do something, which is not by a CRM. It is. I'm trying to organize my sales date. I'm trying to whatever it is. Yeah, who is stuck because their existing tools methods, these options are not good enough and they are so stuck that they will pull something out of your hands. And then we have to kind of just say, okay, what's this something? What's the shape of this something? And that's kind of you have to have a rough shape of that for them to say, yeah, that's that's what I'm looking for or even just buy it. And this I think this is a spot where founders get really uncomfortable. Maybe companies in general get really uncomfortable around this because it's like, how can I have these conversations if I haven't built the thing? You know, that's something that that's popped up with some of the founders in the last couple of weeks in the conversation. And it's just like, how do you talk with founders about getting comfortable with a, like your version of an MVP is so simple. It's like, you know, you ran a business out of Google sheets. You, you know, it's like, don't worry about coding something until you validated your ICP and their poll. How do you, you know, what do you tell founders when they're like, how, how could I possibly go sell something before I have a, like a, a product that they could open up and go into a portal for whatever it might be? Yeah. What I, what I've typically done is write out the poll framework with them. And then say, okay, cool. If somebody's stuck in this situation, what's the thing that they will rip out of your hands and then, okay, can we just write that on one slide and maybe mock up a visual of it or just a flow chart of it? Yeah. And that's your MVP. Yeah. Yeah. That's.
That's essentially under your tutelage. What I've been doing in Galley, it's so much simpler. Let's continue. You then go sales the vibe. What do you mean by sales the vibe as a third most important thing? Yeah, so it's actually your approach to sales. The way you think about sales is more important than literally anything you do in the sales process. Because if you get the approach right, you'll intuit. You'll intuitively do all of the rest of the things. And like downstream of that are tactics and what not. And those are useful. But if you come at it with the wrong way of thinking, the wrong theory of causality of what your role is on this call and what their role is on this call, then you're just going to mess everything up. And the ways that people mess everything up or they try to convince people, they try to interrogate people, they, you know, I don't know, which we craft. I've realized actually most sales decks when I see them first are making a legal case for purchasing. It's like if you agree with this logic, you will buy our product. Yeah. I'm guilty of that. I think you said that verbatim to me. I got a couple of cases. Gotcha. I backed you into a corner. You can't not buy my product now. Right. Oh, you have agreed that you have these pain points. Yeah. Now I have unveiled my product and you have not it. Right. And so if, and so if you're thinking about that wrong, you're going to do everything else wrong in the sales process. And it's, and worse, you're not going to get the signals to improve. You're going to misinterpret what's happening, which I have done. And so you have to get, you have to get your mind right. Yeah. And the way to get your mind right is in this case, chill, don't do the legal case. You write, show them the product or it's basically like articulate pull to them, understand their pull, show supply that fits that pull. And if it works, they'll pull it out of your hands. And most upstream of that is like, again, if they have pulled, they will pull. You have to chill the heck out. Calm down, stop trying to convince them. See like the goal here is to see if they need help. Yeah. That's it. Do you need help? And what form do you need help and what ways are you stuck? How could I possibly unblock you? And you, if you're approach it as like, I'm here to see if you need help. If you don't need help, I'm not bothered. Yeah. It's a, just a totally different mindset than coming in like I need to convince you of this. Yeah. Yeah. Which is loading yourself with pressure over something you really don't have control over. But it feels like it should be zero percent stressful. Yeah. Yeah. And I'm still in the path to achieving that. Rob, how do we want to keep going through this list? Do we, are there a couple ones that we want to make sure that we hit? No, I mean, I think the, the, then it's like, okay, cool. I'll just talk through the hierarchy of the rest of the things. So, okay. So once you have the kind of like vibe or approach to sales, right? Then it's like, okay, cool. How do you execute a sales call? Well, discovery is you have to fill out their pull framework and there's like some tactics that you can do there. You can't, you can't pitch and demo effectively until you actually know this person's pull framework. And so that comes down street. Then if it's like cool discovery demo, this seems like a fit. Your approach should be, okay, let's optimize for velocity. Let's not try to sell everything at once. We're trying to just get something done relatively quickly because we want to optimize for learning. You can only learn once we've delivered and see how, see what happens post sale. And so that's what I'm kind of optimizing for a sales process takes form based on that. And then like, okay, cool. Then there is, and I wasn't quite sure where to put this in the hierarchy is how do you get people to talk to you? Yeah. Again, that, that I think is still, I think that's downstream of the kind of like sales process sales. It's definitely downstream of the thinking about sales because if you think your job is to convince people, you're going to send terrible outreach. Like you're going to do, you're just going to make a massive butchery of the English language in your, in your messaging. And so, and there's people pre and post. Yeah. You're going to offend people and feel gross when you, when you do it. And so, yeah. And so there's pre before you've figured out pull ways of getting people to talk to you. And after you've figured out pull ways of getting talk to you. This is again super important. But also you can just get warm in chose. You can just go places. And it's like if you can't do, if you can't like figure out what people want and offer, offer something that fits again, you can do tons of conversations and it doesn't really matter. Yeah. Yeah. Interesting. And so, I think a couple other gyms in here we won't spend a whole lot of time and I actually hope you'll write about some of these. I've got, I've got a running list while I was reading this and I was like Rob should expand on this. Rob should expand on this. Oh yeah. And if you're, if you're, well, one of the three people listen, actually now people have, I have multiple people retail claiming to be the listener. So either I've never looked at the analytics here. I've been taking it a word. It's an AI persona. That's it. That's it. That's it. But if there are pieces in here, and I'll write this in, but if there are pieces in here, you want me to expand on, let me know. I have plenty of things that I could write about. But yeah. Yeah. A couple of my favorites are how about how to work with the champion and deal strategy. What you write there about pricing, I think, was very insightful. And actually, is something I've been thinking about lately and making a big mistake on end the way you articulated that was, was illuminating. Anyways, Rob, what should founders do with this? Follow the hierarchy. If you're not, if you haven't defined your ICP, is it related to pull? Do that. That will inform everything else. Yeah. Yeah. Awesome. Well, like I mentioned at the start, this one is called the pull quit start guide applying pull. It's bookmarked on, for me, it'll be out on on Friday. I highly recommend not just listening to this podcast, but like take 10 minutes and actually read through it. There's going to be something in there that jumps out to you. And if there's nothing else, Rob, we can let folks go. Cool. All right. Awesome.
Podcast Summary
Key Points:
The "pull quick start guide" is a concentrated resource for understanding product-market fit (PMF) through the pull framework, emphasizing a hierarchy of importance.
A common error is focusing on downstream details (e.g., perfecting discovery interviews or sales tactics) while neglecting upstream fundamentals like why people buy.
The hierarchy starts with the pull theory, then the ideal customer profile (ICP) defined by pull (who is stuck and will pull a solution), followed by a product that fits that pull, then the right sales mindset (vibe), and finally tactics.
ICP based on pull—finding people blocked by current options—is critical because everything else (product, sales, pricing) flows from it.
Sales success depends on a mindset of helping and observing pull, not convincing or interrogating; the goal is to see if someone needs help, not to force a sale.
Summary:
In this conversation, Rob Snyder discusses his "pull quick start guide," a blog post that serves as a concentrated essence of his thinking on product-market fit (PMF) and the pull framework. He explains that many startups get stuck in the "pain cave" because they focus on downstream activities—like perfecting discovery interviews or sales tactics—while ignoring upstream fundamentals, such as why people actually buy. The guide presents a hierarchy of importance: first, understand the pull theory (what causes purchases); second, define the ideal customer profile (ICP) based on who has pull—people who are stuck and will eagerly pull a solution; third, develop a product that fits that pull, even as a simple mock-up; fourth, adopt the right sales mindset, which is about helping and observing rather than convincing; and finally, apply tactics.
Rob emphasizes that the ICP is the most critical element because everything else flows from it. He contrasts traditional ICPs (based on static characteristics) with pull-based ICPs (based on specific stuck situations). The overarching message is that by getting the upstream concepts right, founders can avoid wasting time on irrelevant downstream details and more effectively achieve PMF.
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It's a hierarchy of importance for achieving product-market fit, focusing on understanding pull—what causes a purchase—and prioritizing upstream factors over downstream tactics.
Everything downstream, including product and sales, depends on serving the right person. Defining ICP by static characteristics fails, but defining it by who has pull—someone stuck and blocked by current options—makes everything else intuitive.
The pain cave is the pre-PMF phase where infinite things could work but it's unclear what will. Startups escape by figuring out one specific thing: pull.
You need something—even a rough concept or mockup—that fits the pull and can unblock the customer. Without it, nothing else matters.
It means your approach to sales is more important than any tactic. Instead of convincing or interrogating, chill and see if they need help—show supply that fits their pull and let them pull it from you.
Write out the pull framework, identify the stuck situation, define what the customer would rip from your hands, and mock it up on one slide or flowchart. That's your MVP.
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