The Power of Ho Tactics

Unveiling the Tactics of Male Players and Their Game You don't just read a book like Ho Tactics in one day, you read it and put it into practice. You don't just listen to an audio book like Ho Tactics once, you play it each day until it seeps into your subconsciousness. Ho Tactics changes the way you look at love, and Ho Tactics too, takes it to an entirely new level in showing you how to get your happy ending. You guys, I can't wait. Hoe Tactics 2 by GL Lambert coming very soon. Speaker 2 Welcome to Hoe Tactics Gold Edition bonus section How to Outsmart Men, written by GL Lambert, narrated by Patrick Stevens. Speaker 3 You can spot a player a mile away, or so you have led yourself to believe. Men can't spot smart hoes because as you just learned, they move in silence and make themselves invaluable before ever asking for anything materialistic. Male hoes, AKA Max or players don't have to move in silence or endear themselves. They use the kryptonite of attention and interests. What do typical Tinas want out of life Love. Daddy wasn't around or didn't care. Mommy was too busy competing or judging you. Ex boyfriends loved conditionally knowing these women are desperate for validation. A male hoe double S down on the compliments on promises and works hard those first few weeks or even months to be consistent until a woman loses herself and the potential that he may be different. Even when a woman is cautious, the hope of true love can blind her. Male players don't win because of looks or rely on persistence. Most utilize charm, confidence and wit to lure a woman into his lap. What is game? It's not a series of pick up lines and jokes, nor is it acting cool and unbothered. Game is the ability to read a woman's vibe, put her into a category of like minded women he's known or experienced, and then muster the courage to invade her personal space until her attitude is diffused and the guard is lowered. When you see the cliche image of the smooth talker walking up and whispering in a girl's ear or making some Bill Bellamy inspired sexual innuendo, you only see a small part of what a male's game truly is. Not every woman reacts to dirty talk or sensual conversation. Players know the game, be they white, black or green. It doesn't matter the race or culture, these men make knowing women their business. He can look at the woman in the business suit and know that she isn't going to react to jokes the same way the younger woman in converse would. He can tell from her response to hey how are you if she's defensive yet interested or if she truly doesn't want to be bothered. Women pretend to be different, but they have many tell signs that give away how they really feel. An average man gets intimidated, he gets annoyed. He only has one gear to shift into unless a girl is receptive to generic what's your name beautiful game players have several gears which makes him a chameleon when cruising for ass. He can quickly adapt his verbiage to make himself into whatever he feels this woman is looking for in a man. In the end, all he needs to do is get one smile or one flirty comment returned and he knows that the hunt is all but over. You've experienced the corny stereotypes of guys asking for your number or the tired lines from men that direct message you online and feel that's as deep as it goes. Max, slip through your defenses because they know how to inspire excitement in a world full of hey texts and I'd love to get to know you come on lines. You're looking for someone that can make you grin no matter if you've sworn off love. Think you're too busy? Speaker 2 Or are still. Speaker 3 Healing a guy who comes correct will make you think twice because 90% of women who claim they don't want anything serious still imagines finding Prince Charming. Therefore, you will see a man like this who knows how to talk to women as a breath of fresh air. I routinely get messages about how a man stood out as different and the women who send these emails are often coming off a bad relationship or a long stretch where they couldn't get a man to look their way if they were standing naked in a hardware store. These girls are what I call open because females tend to judge their appeal by the last man that tried to talk to them. Max don't always get the women they go after, but their batting average is insanely high because they have good timing. Most of the women reading this understand that coming off a bad drought or a shitty relationship makes you vulnerable. Your confidence is lowered and you desperately need someone to chase you in a way that isn't lame or overly sexual. Male hoes understand this and look for that kind of opening because a woman on the rebound or sick of dating is ripe for the picking. How to Identify and Expose Male Players on the First Date In the previous chapters you learned all the hoe tactics there are to learn. You've seen how Maria manipulated the fuck out of her mark and got in his pockets by using her in depth knowledge of lust against men. Put that in perspective with these male players because so-called hoes are nothing more than female Max. It's only when men feel threatened do these women get labeled derogatorily. Maria and women like her are after money, status or material goods. Max are after sex, money or material goods. Men will always be driven by pussy, even those that are smart enough to see their own savage urges for what they are. Society toasts the male players while we openly tell little boys to respect women as if they all were mom. We secretly pat them on the back and tell them to go out there and be a heartbreaker. Men love to see younger males exploit women because it's a victory for all of mankind. He got the pussy means we all got the pussy. There is and will always be a brotherhood where females are seen as the enemy that is haunted for sport. There are more male hoes than female ones. They just don't have the stigma attached to them because this is a man's world. There's nothing wrong with macking or hoeing or whatever you want to call the ability to use what's in your head to get what they got. The same way that a mark gives a hoe what she wants freely, women give these men what they want without a gun being put to their head because they chose to. It's not a crime, it's not wrong, it's on that person for being a sucker. Now that you understand what a smart hoe is, it's time to protect yourself from the male version. Some of you won't ever use hoe tactics in a real way. You will choose to go after an authentic relationship with someone who can at least pass the headphone test. I want you to use this chapter to sniff out any man you date, no matter if you're looking for love or come up or just bored and entertaining him. At least one out of the next 10 guys you meet will be trying to play you using the same tactics we've discussed but in a male centric way. Exposing him on the first date. Let him pull you. Too many women think the best way to protect their heart is to live closed off and assume every man that walks over is full of shit That's just as close minded as men who believe all women are holes looking to play them. You can't win if you don't play the game. So instead of rolling your eyes and not giving any man whose family members you don't know a chance, hear them out. All you need is 1 date to expose a male hoe, so why not play along and test them? This trial by dating won't cost you anything but a night out. And let's face it, you most likely want an excuse to wear one of those outfits in your closet that you never get to wear. Mastering the First Two Steps: Let Him Sell You and Set the Date Step one, let him sell you. You must have an appreciation for good game. It's an honor to be approached with something more original than excuse me, miss, you've been courted by guys who probably say, hey, what's your name? I'm trying to get to know you. That is horrible game, but some of you entertained that. To hear a man speak eloquently or intrigue you with a challenging line of conversation is like night and day. Go on that ride and wait for that feeling. The feeling I'm referring to is that tingle in your shoulders or chest when he says something so cold that you can't even muster the brain power to fire back in your normal way. A man like that deserves your number. But after you give it up, test him to be sure if he's legit or one of these guys who gets his confidence from Reddit forums and pick up artists websites. The first step is to let him think he's winning. It's OK to play the role of the helpless damsel that's impressed and gives out her number, but remember you are playing a role. I've talked to women who are extremely shy around boys and they describe this freezing effect a cute guy has on them that reduces them to this groupie like state where they can't think of anything interesting to say. I want you to channel that energy. Let him believe he's blowing you away and that the war is already won. What this does is lull him into a false sense of victory, boosts his confidence and give him incentive to move on to Step 2. Step 2. Let him set the date. When you're hoeing, you let a man set the date to see what he's working with. In this instance of hoe hunting, you still let him choose where he wants to take you. The purpose of this is that you still don't know if he's trying to play you, so you don't want to punish a genuine man by making the first date all about eating on his dime. A player won't pay too much for pussy, but he understands that he needs to invest in a place where he can further unleash his conversation in order to exploit you. In his mind, the first date is all about sizing you up because you are the mark. He wants to be able to tell if you're going to be first night sex, first week sex, or a woman who has money that he can siphon for months to come. Let's set a scenario where Ricardo the Mack tries to work you with his Dick tactics. Imagine that you met Ricardo at a normal place, gas station, elevator, he held the door at a store, doesn't matter. The point is you popped up on his radar and he was a perfect gentleman, but also funny and engaging to the point where you said why not and exchanged information. How do you get in a person's good graces? By being different. What do men do when they get a girl's number? They text a reminder of hey, this is such and such, and then they begin to bore the fuck out of you through text. The reason this works is that if a guy's handsome, you see those dry texts as amazing lust blinders. If he's not that cute, you put up with it because it's something to do. The point is, men under the age of 40 will generally text 1st and you accept that as just how the world works or expect it because you've grown accustomed to using your fingers more than your mouth. Male hoes use their mouths not because they can't text, but because it's the best way to mind fuck a person. Ricardo calls you the day after you meet and continues where he left off. What sets him apart from the average man you know besides actually calling, is that he doesn't press for some. When can we hang out? Lazy date? Ricardo knows his fellow man and he knows that they want to get you to the level of come over and chill. You're expecting laziness and he gives you real courting. Most women are already head over heels off that tiny bit of effort. Where do you want to go, beautiful? I don't care if I got to put you on my back. We'll go. Chivalry mixed with humor. Feels genuinely like he wants to make you happy. This PUA does want to make you happy. Happy enough to drop your guard and spread those legs after the dessert course. Again, you must tell Silver Tongue Ricardo to surprise you by picking the date himself. He will already be prepared for this because most women in real life are indecisive when it comes to answering the question. What do you want to do? Shoot down his first suggestion to throw him off balance? He will reach for a place that's comfortable and where he works his women. Often. You don't want to be on his home turf, so reject his first idea as if you don't like their food or don't feel like doing that activity. Pickup artist like hoes are taught to go where they can be free to touch restaurant tables, block hands, and separate, so he'll most likely try to steer clear of dinner. Steer him back to dinner, but do this in a way that doesn't seem picky or bitchy. Make him understand that it would normally be a good idea, but you have a serious hang up with the place. He'll probably struggle to think of a backup because you threw him off his square, but when he does find a new place, accept it with open arms and be excited. Ricardo now feels as if it's only a matter of time. But then Step 3 happens. Turn the Tables: Hijack the Date and Expose His True Intentions Step 3. Hijack the date. Ricardo has taken you out for a dinner date at a medium price restaurant where he can sit next to you, order drinks, get you loose and mind fuck you into falling in love with him in three hours. This is the part that takes real effort because unlike most girls who get scavenged by players, you will go left where they would have gone right. He's going to focus on you, you you. What do you like to do for fun, your family history, your last relationship, your girlfriends and coworkers, your dreams and aspirations, etcetera. What men do is read you like a textbook, take mental notes, and then based on all the information you just gave away, rebuild their lives as if it's compatible to your own. By the end of the night, he'll be referencing things you mentioned as if you 2 have so much in common and actuality, it's game. Do not give this man the rundown of your entire life as if he's a therapist. He hasn't earned that. No one you've only known for a few days has earned the right to know. You hijack the date by turning the tables back on him, him, him. You want to know his story because unlike the average desperate woman, you didn't come On this date to vent and get all of your life's so unfair relationship stress off your chest. A player will tell you that he works a good job, then give you an idea of what he does, but not the specifics because he's lying. Next he will talk about his expanded plan to be his own boss or tell you that he already has a side hustle. Basic bitches are his side hustle. Getting loans, getting them to invest in his ideas, using their credit cards. It's so easy for a man to live like a baller and impress new pussy. When spending another chick's money, don't pay attention to the moves he says he's making, the people he knows, or the pictures that prove that it may be true. It's a smokescreen. Next he will talk about his mother or grandmother depending on who is in his life more. A man knows that women see respect and love for mothers as a good sign that he was raised properly and cherishes women. Again, blow past that stuff and dig deeper. Do not accept the information he volunteers because players are like politicians. They have their talking points and they will go Sarah Palin on that ass and redirect the question the moment you ask about something that's off limit. No this strategy. Speaker 2 Feel him out by listening to his clean cut answers and get him off his game during the first half of the date by not talking about your past and present life in ways. Speaker 3 Other than simple statements, instead always be asking to know more about something he shared. Now you go in for the kill. Unleash the Squirm Questions and Discover Your Own Flaws Step 4. Three questions he must answer. Ricardo is not having much fun. If he's a player, he's a normal guy who has a genuine interest in you. Then opening up about his life in a real way is new and interesting. Remember that girls usually do most of the talking, so it will come as a shock when you come off as interested in what he has to say about his life. Guys love to talk and throw opinions out. It's a part of the male ego. The difference is some regular guy will talk about his love of Star Wars versus a player that's not talking about personal loves, just his big moves so he can come off as impressive enough for you to think you hit the jackpot. Players brag about what they can do for you, how they're living, bring up the issue of money or luxury, things they own. Every 15 minutes. Make a mental note of this as a conversation about pets will randomly go back to his income or his business moves. Pay attention to what's coming out of his mouth. Don't just rush to talk about the things you do. It's not your interview or your time to vent. It's about exposing him. Let's assume for our experiment that Ricardo is on his heels trying to get the conversation back to a point where he's winning you over and flirting. Now it's time to unleash the squirm motherfucker questions that will test his true honesty. How long does it usually take you to fuck women on average? No man is prepared for this question because ladies don't ask about sex. Ever. You've just taken it to Maria, the host status, by being this forward about fucking. Ricardo will try to play it off and either turn it into a joke or try to make those women he's dealt with in the past not as special as you. Mind you, this is a serious question that you want an answer to, not some wisecrack about jump offs. Second, he doesn't know if you're a freak or a St. so any question that makes you out to be different is bullshit. Get a real answer. If I told you I wanted to get down tonight, how would you fuck me? This will make any man squirm, even a Mack, because no woman returns fire like this so randomly on the first date. You are, as the Internet would say, trolling him to shock him into speaking his mind. A normal guy would be stumbling all over the place trying to understand who the hell you are. A Mack would try to keep his cool and play up the role he's been taught by the pimpology peddlers. If his follow up is some dating show answer about how he would take you back, lay you on his Egyptian cotton and lick your belly button, then keep trolling him. Ask him if he eats ass, likes to take a finger in his ass, or if he's had a golden shower. Your job is to see if he ever breaks character. These men are not sincere. They read a script and stick to it. Once you throw them off it, they will keep trying to get back to what they know. His refusal to be real proves what kind of person he is and saves you the trouble of getting to know this loser. Why are you gaming me? This is the final question after he's done trying to recover. Keep it real and let him in on the secret that you know he's just spitting game trying to get you open. He'll play you like crazy and stick to his authenticity, but don't buy that. Let him know that it's OK, he can be real again. He will stand strong in the pocket, but this is where your whole tactics come into play. Diffuse his anger and aggression about being called out by stroking his hand. Put him back at ease and ask him about how he usually operates. Is the way he picked you up normal? Does he come to this place often? How much pussy does he get with this act? You have gone from prey to friend over the course of dinner and he will warm to that after the embarrassment wears off. This goes back to men liking to talk. Speaker 2 Why is the Mafia nearly dead? Speaker 3 Because men like to talk about their hustles much more than the old school guys did. You are exposing him. You're coming with the tactic of teach me O wise one and he'll brag all night. Step 5 What flaw did he see in you? At the end of the night, ask him one last thing. What flaw did he see in you when he approached you? Was it the looks, Was it the way you were dressed? Or was it just his own ego that made him try to run game? At this point, if this guy is a real dude, he'll keep it 100 and tell you why he chose to go at you and not the next woman. It may have been as simple as you were the first girl he saw that day, or it may be revealing like you are a little on the chubby side and those are the women. Speaker 2 He runs Game on most successfully. Speaker 3 The reason you ask is so that you can take a closer look at what you project in your day-to-day life and improve. The next time someone who goes to the same pickup artist forums as this guy or has read the same Macbooks he has studied tries to approach you, it won't take but 5 minutes to recognize his hustle. Even the best Dick tactics will fail if you know how to take a man off his script. Some of you may think this is a simple exercise, but when it comes time to go on a date and go left into the realm of random questions like those I laid out, you will be afraid. Women freeze up when trying to apply Spartan techniques from Men don't love women like you and this is no different. In order to expose these male hoes, you have to be willing to open your mouth and challenge them. If you try to hint, beat around the Bush, or freestyle what I just wrote to create a less direct method, you will fail. Most of you are involved with men whom you can't figure out, no matter if it's date one or date 5. Throw this monkey wrench in his machine and watch how he responds. It's better to aggressively expose a man and let him prove your suspicions wrong than to keep your mouth shut and get worked like a mark. Using Ho Tactics to Revitalize a Stagnant Relationship Chapter 22 Using HO Tactics to Save Your Relationship It's time to take these tactics out of the realm of tricks, treats, and sponsors and turn them inward on your current relationship. All relationships hit rough patches where someone feels unappreciated, bored, or as if a distance is starting to build. For those of you with partners, the idea isn't to suck them dry then move on. It's to establish value or create a spark. I don't care if you've been together for nine months or nine years. The dates should be exciting, the birthday gifts should blow you away, and the sex should always be phenomenal. Here comes the butt. But most women who come to me for relationship advice have endless sob stories. He would rather play video games than come to bed at night. He jumps to go hang out with his friends but drags his feet at date suggestions. He buys himself whatever he wants with no budgeting. Then penny pinches on birthday or Christmas gifts for you. When he does get in the mood for sex, there's no foreplay, no creativity. He just goes in with a semi hard Dick and finishes just as fast as he started. Who wants to live life like that? Being able to brag about having a man means nothing when you aren't doing shit but growing bored together. It's time to stop holding on to mediocrity and start hoeing up. Why doesn't he take you out? A man in a relationship is more likely to take a New Girl he meets on the side out to an expensive restaurant than a woman he's been with for years. Why? Because 1. He has to impress to fuck, the other he doesn't even want to fuck. Your goal is to get your man to see you in the same light he used to when you first started dating. For those of you who have never been taken out or treated to nice things even at the start of your relationship, this isn't for you. If you're coming from a history of a man never showing you value, then it's clearly over and I suggest you switch to MD. Speaker 3 L. Speaker 2 WLY to hit reset. For those of you that were treated with value at some point, who allowed a man to win you over through actions, not words? Continue. Look at yourself in the mirror. One of the first rules of hoe tactics is to look good enough to want to fuck yourself. When you get into a relationship, you're no longer on the hunt. You don't do as much clothes shopping, get your hair done as much, you stop working out and settle into home cooked meals or take out. All of these things affect your physical image. You went from sexy to looking committed and plain. Once again. Look in the mirror. Do you still look like the woman he first met? Do you still turn yourself on to the point where you stare in the mirror and think, damn, I should take a picture? Or has your look become blah? Men are liars. They won't tell you that you've put on weight, that your hair is a mess, that your fashion sense is lacking, or anything that will cause an argument about sensitive topics of a woman's appearance. He will keep giving you lip service. He will keep telling you he loves you, but his actions prove what he's really thinking. He's not going to take a woman he no longer thinks is sexy out on weekly dates or even monthly dates because you lost your trophy aspect. The New Girl that he's eyeing at work, or the front desk chick at the gym. He'd take her to the moon just to see the looks on the aliens faces when he walks in with a bad bitch. You're no longer that in his eyes. More importantly, you're no longer that in your own eyes. Hope power is dependent on sex appeal. I don't care what your excuse is. You had a kid, you work long hours, you're trying to save money. Fuck all that you have to bring your sexy. Speaker 3 Back. Speaker 2 The easiest way to start transforming yourself back into a sexy beast is to start doing your hair. Go big. Don't just switch the ponytail position or where bangs literally change up the way you wear your hair. We men don't notice much, but anytime a girl changes her hair we'll think damn she's looking good. Won't know why until she points out she went from brown to red. But it doesn't matter that we couldn't pinpoint the change. The magic is that internally we feel a shift because a woman's hair quickly turns her into something new. The next step is to upgrade your wardrobe around him. This isn't about going out and buying new clothes for work, it's about when you 2 are in the same space. Put on a show those old sweatpants or faded shorts that he's seen for months if not years. Toss them. Buy cute little things that highlight your body type. You don't want your man to be on the couch, watch you get up to get some water and think they're her flat asses and that Victoria's Secret pink crap again. You want him to look over and say my baby's looking good in those leggings? Stop being ordinary and switch it up. Loungewear is inexpensive, it's the effort that costs. Go out, try things on, accentuate your positives and he will notice. Things like losing weight and going a dress size down take time, but if you looked in that mirror and feel as if you've let yourself go to the point where you're unhappy, it's worth it to lose the weight. Regardless if you look like old Kelly Clarkson or new Kelly Clarkson. The 1st 2 steps will get you to where you want to be quick. Don't fuck them. Remember that this is ho tactics. You get more by not giving a man what he wants too fast. Your new hairstyle will make him want to get it in that night. Wearing new sexy clothes around will make him want to push you against the kitchen counter and get it in. There could be no sliding of the panties. Don't push him off with the standard I'm tired routine. Use your hope hour and seduce his hard Dick. Kiss him, touch him, pretend you're down, then pull back. When you're in a relationship you aren't going to hurt your man's feelings by saying maybe. If you're a good boy. The idea is to Rev him up by coming off like new pussy. If you give in, he'll come and you'll go back to being normal. Give it a day or two of him trying to get some, then you hit him with the death blow. The common mistake women in relationships make is telling a man to take them out instead of inspiring a man to take them out. Telling a guy you want to go to Ruth Chris may get you to Ruth Chris that once. Then he'll put his feet up like his job is done for the rest of the year. So at this point, with him full of lust over this new you, show him a dress you want. Doesn't matter if it's an expensive one from Sax or Fashion Nova clearance. Go sexy and tell. Never ask him that you want to wear this on your date. What date exactly? He's taking you out and didn't even know it, and now he's about to buy you this sexy dress with his debit card. To dismiss you with when I get paid means that he's not getting sex and you're not going to keep looking sexier and sexier each week. If he plays dumb about a date, Same routine. The point is to lead this horse to water. You're looking good. You're going to be wearing a sexy dress. He isn't getting any lately. That's incentive to not only take you on a date, but to take you on a nice one. Once you get this one date, the whole part of the hustle ends and the relationship part begins as you, as his woman, must have a legit talk about what you expect going forward. Humble Your Attitude and Train Your Man to Give You More Why doesn't he trick on you? Men spoiled to impress the guy at the bar that buys you and your friend drinks without asking for your number or trying to hit on you. He's not doing it for sex. He wants you to think highly of him. Older men with money are notorious for giving away thousands of dollars to young women even after their Dicks stop working. Tricking isn't about sex, it's about the male ego. For those of you in a relationship, you'll fall into two categories. Men that don't trick because they don't have it, and men that don't trick because they don't need to impress you. You know your boyfriend or husband. You know how much he makes, how much debt he has, and how much he spends on himself. If he doesn't have a pot to piss in then you're not going to get much, nor should you try because taking from him is like taking from yourself. If your man has a surplus of money and isn't paycheck to paycheck, then you have a right to get in his pockets. One e-mail I received wasn't even ho tactics related, but it showed the power of other women. A married woman of two years found out that her husband had been seeing his best friend's little sister, some cute little 22 year old. The affair wasn't what broke her heart, it was that her husband had spent over $1000 on Christmas gifts for this girl. What did he spend on her that year, $50.00 gift card and some Walgreens $20.00 gift set of Jlo perfume that still had the discounted price sticker on the bottom. Why would her husband treat the rugrat better than his wife even after he had spent months fucking her? Because he wanted to impress that little girl with the idea that he was a big shot and could take care of her. To get tricked on, you have to roll over and play the game of male ego stroking. You don't do that because you want to be an equal, a partner, someone that brings something to the table. As I explained earlier in this book, that independent woman shit doesn't excite a man nor endear him to spend on you. It tells him that you don't need him. I shouldn't have to ask or I can buy it myself. Doesn't get you spoiled. Daddy, can you please buy me? This does wonders no matter what level you're on. Women hate to ask for things because they hate rejection. They hate to seem weak. They hate to come off as needy. The other woman plotting on riding shotgun in your man's car and fucking him in your bed doesn't have a problem submitting to get what she wants. It's all an act. You can still be a strong woman, you're just pushing buttons to manipulate a man into thinking you need help. Seeing as though you do want more than you're willing to buy yourself. Is this such a bad game to play? The first step is to humble your attitude and dial down your independent streak for a few weeks. Start small things around the house. Ask his help instead of being Diana Prince. That jar you can open yourself? Ask him to do it. That cabinet you can tighten yourself? Ask him to do it. The laundry you can carry yourself? Ask him to do it. Then it's in the way you ask. Pout, frown, speak low and always invade his personal space by hugging him or resting your head on his shoulder or chest. Make him feel as if you need him for small things. This is priming him the same way Maria primed her mark. Remember, you have to know what works and what doesn't. Starting small allows you to perfect your acting skills and determine what works given your man's personality type. Speaker 3 The coup de grace comes after you figure out how to pull his strings to do things for you with the working knowledge of what He can afford you. Push him to 50% of that. Speaker 2 Some of you who are in relationships for love and not money may date men who toe the line of poverty. This tactic will work and has worked even with poor men and I'll prove it. If your boyfriend is making $15 working a 40 hour week after taxes and normal expenses in a non coastal city, he can still afford that Xbox game or pair of Jordans because that's within his budget of $200 leftover as disposable income. Your job is to get at least $100.00 gift to prove that he does care enough to give you what he can spare. The more money a man has the higher that goes obviously. So if your man is making 80K per year, you raise the cost of the gift. If he doesn't spend the money you know he can afford when you see him spending it on himself, then you need to reconsider the relationship you have. If he does spend, then like any good trick, he'll spend again. This is where you begin to train him like a smart hoe. The purpose isn't to escalate your gifts. This is your boyfriend, not someone you want to put a strain on. Even at $15.00 an hour, he can afford to pick up a $50 a week expense of getting your nails and toes done. So that's what you ask for next. Make it his bill, even at $15.00 an hour he can afford the 70 to $100 phone bill you have. Ask for that. Once you break him into being a giver, start getting what you need from the relationship, be it bills paid, beauty maintenance, or even monthly shopping money. Don't feel bad, he's going to blow that money on dumb shit he wants anyway, so why not finesse him into spending it on you? Alternatively, if you're worried about his future, then maybe the money you ask for is for you to put in the bank under the cover of a joint savings account. A woman earlier in the year took this advice and asked for $75 every two weeks that would go towards a vacation. The truth was there was no vacation. She knew her boyfriend was bad with money. Over a year later they were in a bind and that $2000 she got him to trick overtime. Save them from being evicted. Poor people don't save, you know this. They see an extra few hours of overtime as throw away money they can spend at the bar or on food and don't put anything away. This way, if he does lose his job or has to get his car repaired, you have that money plus interest ready to give back. Regardless if you're being a team player or getting your needs met, you shouldn't be in a relationship where you aren't getting anything out of your man. If he's working, he should be giving. If you're working, he should still be giving. Ho tax. Why isn't the sex good deep into a relationship? Sex should be electric lovemaking that puts even the nastiest ratchet novel to shame. Your man knows what you need to climax, and you know what makes him react to thrust harder and deeper. role-playing, shit talking, daring each other to whip it out in public. Nothing is awkward. Speaker 3 Because you 2 are comfortably in love. Speaker 2 That's the perfect world. The reality laid at my door is populated by hundreds of women who hate the sex they're having. You used to go rounds, now it's more like half round. You try to spice it up, but he doesn't seem engaged. Watch porn, put on wigs, wear lingerie, and his Dick still doesn't get as hard as he used to the first time you offered up a blowjob. Even on a good night, you're not having an orgasm. You're reaching for the pillow with thoughts of smothering him because you can't remember the last time you got to finish first. Your man doesn't need Viagra, the sight of crotchless panties, or for you to do a British accent. He needs new pussy. How do you upgrade an old vagina that's always there? Unlike the previous section on getting back with an ex who hasn't hit in over a year, you aren't going to withhold sex for that long. So what now? Psychology is your friend, so the first step is to analyze who your man is and what drives him sexually. A mistake I witness consistently are women who think on the level of me, me, me. What is it about me that he doesn't like? As selfless as women can be, few rarely take time to look at scenarios from a man's point of view. Therefore, she thinks sex is about what she's lacking, not what he's searching for to rekindle his libido. You can turn a man on. You can change physical things to fill him with lust, as proved in the example above. Nevertheless, being aroused isn't the same as being able to perform well in the bedroom. A man's penis isn't like a finger. He doesn't control it at will. What he does do is pile on stress and anxiety to the point where it blocks him from being all he can be. Again, I say psychology is your friend. The same way we went over phone sex with strangers in terms of testing the waters of dominant versus submissive, talking versus moaning, etcetera. You have to pre plan your whole attack by getting a handle on what your man needs as opposed to what you've been giving him. The next time you have sex, talk to him like you're directing a scene. He's your actor. You have to motivate and lead him to put on an Oscar worthy performance or just come. This first session is all about cause and effect. You talk, he comes. I don't care about what he says back to you or what sounds he makes. I need you to pay attention to one thing. What did you say right before he came? For example, if you're on the bottom and he's pumping away, don't say all that stupid. Oh baby, you feel so good. Bullshit. Direct him. Tell him to choke you, He'll oblige. Tell him to choke you harder like the little whore you are. If he gets into it and comes 20 seconds later, it wasn't your vagina, it was the idea of dominating you and being able to fantasize that you're some closet freak. Let's say you're riding him nice and slow. Don't just rub your tits. He's seen that act, it's played out. Go the opposite direction and call him a little boy. Tell him that you're going to get a real man to come over and finish up after he's done. If he returns fire talks his own shit, cool, but that's not what we're looking for. If that belittlement makes him come within a minute of saying it, you're on to something. That's the research portion of this initial planning stage. Communication is the next to bat. This is a relationship. You can't change a weak sex life with spontaneity alone. Couples don't talk about sex unless it's to complain. One woman told me how she had enough and told her boyfriend of three years he needed to put in more work in the bedroom. He broke up with her. Telling a man he needs to please you is like telling a cat to go shit in the toilet. Men don't know what you want. They have been having sex the same way for 10 plus years, same stroke, same tongue tricks, same aggression level and it's gotten them this far. If you can't communicate in specifics what you need then you're basically just telling him his Dick is weak sauce and that's the ultimate insult to a male. The communication I need you to lead with isn't about I want you to do this twist motion my college boyfriend used. He had me climbing walls. You need to communicate by way of schedule. Men are nothing but grown little boys. What excites boys games every Saturday night will be fantasy night where you 2. Get to be as nasty as you want. Nothing is off limits when you're in the bedroom. Each week you switch off fantasies. His turn, then your turn to lead. What this does is make him look forward to something new. It's still your vagina, but mentally it's rebranded. The first time you do this, go without sex for at least five days prior. Really make him want it. When it's his week, do whatever he asks. Submit to his game. If he comes quick and the entire build up seems lost, keep at it. It's not one session, it's the entire night. Stay in character if he had you being a sexy nurse. Even after he finishes, remain that sexy nurse. Keep yourself warm while he recovers. And unlike normal, when he goes to sleep, he will be ready to go again because his mind is uplifted by you being this other character. When the next session comes the following week, aim your fantasy at what made him come during the research stage. Why should you make this all about him? Because you're restarting his sex drive, not yours. This is ho tactics, which means you give a man what he wants, only to get what you want. By the second week, you will notice a change in his sex drive. He wants to go more often. He's always giving you that look, and his erections will be stronger. You've given him something to get excited about, something to look forward to, and that spreads to his subconscious, that part that actually controls what makes him hard and what makes him soft. Once you have his Dick on a schedule, he's a slave to using it, just as we were as teenagers masturbating multiple times a day. At this point you can start pushing him to do things on your fantasy list as his body is primed to need sex on that day. If the chemistry starts to die out, use the early morning special technique. A man's penis has the most blood flowing to it in the morning. Why? Because it's not in the process of digesting food to break down what you eat. Blood flows to the stomach in the morning. On that empty stomach, the blood flow is abundant, not preoccupied. In ratchet terms, you're going to have a rock hard Dick to bounce on during this window. Take it without warning. Be a wild woman. And unlike other times when he's just getting off work, has a headache, or his team just lost a game, his focus mentally and physically, will be right for you to have great sex. Minus the gimmick of fantasy night, this instills confidence in him. He doesn't need you to talk dirty or set a scenario up in the morning crust in his eyes. He can still renovate that pussy by laying strong pipe. That's the key to this instilling confidence. Men are people too. They know when they're not giving it their all sexually and it's a point of shame. Instead of correcting it, they just hide behind apathy and the bad sex continues. By using your hoe charm to rebuild his self esteem to make him out to be this stud that has you turned out, clears his mind and boosts his sex drive naturally. Relationships require constant rejuvenation or both parties become bored or complacent. It's not enough just to point out the problems or wait for the other person to fix it. If you notice it, you handle it. That's love. There are so many things hoes do that revolve around other women's boyfriends or husbands. And it's not about lack of love, it's about lack of inspiration. Be inspiring. Hijack his mind in the same way these hoes do, and you can get anything you want from your man. Better gifts, date nights, good sex, and the list goes on. You can't be too prideful or too shy to exercise your feminine Wiles over your man, because if you don't mind fuck him with love, another woman will mind fuck him with the fantasy of something new. Talk to How to Be a Sugar Baby Without Giving Up Any Sugar Chapter 23 How to Become a Sugar Baby Without Giving Up Sugar Are you a sugar baby or are you an escort? Are you hoeing in the ways laid out in the first half of this book where you have yet to take off your clothes? Or are you still living in the dark ages where a man comes to you with cash in hand, fucks you, and you brag that you just got paid? Secret arrangement sites are not ho tactics, they're fancy forums for prostitution. Having some fat guy eat your box in a hotel for tuition money isn't being a sugar baby. You're pay for play. If the only way you get is to give sexual favors, then you're not using this book right. Any woman that is down with her back against the wall can use these steps to dig herself out in less than a month. Fact. However, you must separate real life hustle from Internet fantasy. Girl, I got a friend that pays just to eat dinner with me every two weeks. Step your game up. Basic bitches love to embellish and make the art of trading sex for money sound fancy by claiming the romantic title of being a sugar baby. But few of them are actually sugar babies. Their escorts are side chicks that must perform for that money or risk being cut off. They use their bodies, not their minds, which goes against the core of this book. Speaker 3 Google the term. Speaker 2 Sugar baby and you'll see hundreds of hits for how to be a sugar baby without giving up any sugar. Most of you aren't against being given things by men you don't like, so why not actually get what he has to give instead of daydreaming as if working these tricks is out of your reach because you don't have the confidence that you can pull it off without crossing a sexual line. But you can. I'm about to be a stripper. Why does that cross so many minds? Because the art of dancing naked for money, no matter how moral or high class you are, seems like an easy hustle when your education, paycheck, and the broke guy you're in love with fails you. You don't have to be in the best shape. You don't have to know how to dance. All you have to do is smile and rock to a beat, occasionally crawl to the guy tipping the most and I fuck him like he has a shot so you can squeeze an extra 20 out. That's the two fantasies I should strip or I need to find a sugar daddy. Fuck the fantasy ho. Tactics is a legit way to earn without having to dance, suck, or get touched. Each one of you can use this book to make more than the strippers that floss trash bags of money online or the fake sugar babies that failed to reveal what they're really doing for Grandpa Millionaire. I don't care if you currently dance for money or let your former best friend's dad feel you up for Coachella tickets. There is always time left to reset and revamp your methods and exercise your power over these tricks. You're a goddess, not some wealthy man's prostitute. This chapter will help any woman that's ever been disappointed with her bank account balance and thought about going to the dark side. Using examples I've gotten since Ho Tactics was first released, I'm going to show you how to be a sugar boss without giving up a fraction of what these rookies give up. Speaker 1 Let's pause it right here. To listen or read this full bonus chapter, go to farfrombasic.com. What are you waiting for? Go and level up. Speaker 2 Welcome to Home