The Most Ghetto Couple In Financial Audit History

- To watch episodes of Financial Audit a week earlier, check us out on YouTube. This house has holes in the walls, stab wounds, and abuse every other week. - He knew what the he was getting into when he met me. - No, the. - Getting stabbed? - I did not. - He met me two weeks after I got out of the, no. We first hung out after I got out of the psych ward. Yes, I got out of the psych ward, and he asked me- - There should have been a disclaimer that I had to sign. - She's tearing apart your car. - Oh, tears it out. Yeah, she destroys stuff. This is literal, actual domestic that you're in. - He said he regrets meeting me. - I do, I mean, after all this shit, her cheating on me first, her stabbing me. - This is not something to joke around with. This is not funny. She's laughing about it. She doesn't care. - Well, maybe, I mean- - No, shut up. You need to leave. Dollar Wise is about to launch its biggest update ever. 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Go to calebhammer.com/apply, or click that link in the description below. - Hi, I'm Mercedes, I'm 19 years old. - Hello, my name is Jay, I'm 20 years old, and we are from Lexington, Kentucky. - And this is Financial Audit. - Thanks for coming down to Austin, guys. I really thought Jay would be younger. Bro looks like, you look 20, maybe younger. You look. - How old is she? - 32 or something. - You're kidding! - I'm unfortunately not. Mercedes, what do you do for a living in Lexington at 19? I wouldn't expect very much, I'll be honest. - Well, I'm a stay-at-home mother. - You guys have kids already? I mean-- - Yeah, one. - I mean, before, I guess back in the day, that would have been more normal. It's a little less common for sure today. Fuck, how old's the kid? - Nine months. - Okay, this is new, this is fresh. Are you guys married? - We are. - Geez, how long have you guys been married? - Unfortunately. - Unfortunately, great. Yeah, that's what I want to hear, parents of nine months old, that's wonderful. That's fantastic. - Well, we've definitely got some problems. - Yeah, I mean, that's why you're here. What is, how long have you guys been married? - Not even a year. - Yeah, not even a year. - It immediately got into the kid? Was that the intent? - Well, the kid was before the marriage. - Yeah. - Nine months old, that doesn't make any sense. Oh, it was born nine months ago. Okay, so you got knocked up, which means you had to get married. Is that what you thought? - I mean, her family, you know-- - She definitely pressured me into it, and so did she. - Pressured you, her family? - Yes, yes, her family's religious. - Okay, but you already got the baby in. - Yeah, so they didn't want to-- - It's not like the marriage changes that. - Well, I guess she kind of thought that the marriage would fix our relationship. - Are you-- - How would that fix? How would a piece of paper being signed fix a relationship? - Young, dumb, broke, maybe-- - You're 19, you're broke, you're on financial audit. - Exactly. - And trust me, you're dumb, I assume. - Yes, very. - I mean, okay. - I don't know, I thought it would fix something. I thought it would keep him loyal. Clearly not. - It didn't fix the baby weight. What do you do for a living? - I'm an electrician apprentice. - Okay, apprentice. - Apprentice, yes, apprentice. - What are you making? - 18 an hour. - Okay, fine. In Lexington, it's probably on that lower cost of living. I will accept this. - Not fine, wouldn't call it fine. We definitely struggle. - Well, yeah, but I mean, buddy, at 20, I'm glad you're making 18, not 12. So how many hours a week are you getting? - 40. - Okay, so what's coming in per paycheck? What is that per paycheck cycle? - Every week, I'm getting anywhere between 550 and 600. - I don't know, we'll do, yeah, we'll do 575 then. That's weekly? - Weekly. - Okay, times 52 divided by 12. When does electrician apprentice become electrician? - I'm planning to start school here soon. I just filled out my FAFSA. - School, I'll get you, why school? Wait, what school? I'll get you an electrician certification through CourseCareers. What school have taken that and converted them into six figure jobs? - I didn't know about that. - Okay, well, I got you that for free. What school are you about to do? - The school, it's a community college, but it would be a degree in applied sciences for electrical, and it would go towards the time that it takes to get my license. - Yeah, that might be a play, but I mean, are you gonna make money while he's in school? - No, she won't. - No. - He answered for you. Okay, so he knows. - No. - Okay. - I mean, stay at home mom's fine. You just have to be able to absolutely pay the bills and keep a roof over the baby's head. Now here's a weird thing. I'm just gonna let you in on some lore. This was very odd to me personally. Security, usually at the front of the building. My producers requested security in near the room one time before, but the producers requested that. The first time ever in the history of the show, the security officer yesterday, and I still don't know what this episode's about, but yesterday said, I'm going to sit out of the door. I'm gonna go sit out in front of the door. I don't know the why. And that's weird. You guys don't look weird or dangerous, just old. But besides that, there's, what the is going on? - Well. - I stabbed him. - Yeah. So she originally applied to the show. - What do you mean you stabbed him? - That's exactly what she was. - Not like literally. - No, literally. - Literally. She stabbed me. - Did you not see him limping? - Actually? - Yeah. Through the side of the knee. Yeah. - He's got four stitches. - With a utility knife. - When? - Saturday. - Show me. - Saturday morning, like, - Show me? - Or do you want to see a picture? A picture is easier. - Uh. - Show him. - Yeah. - Show me. Let's see it. - Yeah, let's just see. Well, here. - Let's see that twink leg. - Oh, my twink leg. We had a bone to pick with you. - Yeah. - Oh, my gosh. - Okay. - About your chicken legs. - Maybe focus on. - Yeah. - My chicken legs. - Maybe focus on getting the out of your chair. - Yeah. - This might take a minute. - 'Cause it hurts? - Oh, yeah. It hurts. Definitely. - He was fine when he was swimming. - So, there's the stitches. - Oh, my goodness. Go over here so the camera can see it. - Can we see that? - Oh, my gosh. Okay. What did you stab him with? - A box cutter. - So, my god. I must have heard about that. - I'm sure he did. - Yeah. He took my tongue scraper. - Huh? - He took my tongue scraper. - Fuck. He's that cautious? My goodness. Tell me what the happened. You guys are young. You do have a kid. - Yeah. So, she wasn't there. - Thank. But you guys still have a kid. - Yeah. - Yeah. - This stuff happens when she's not there. - This stuff happens? - This is regular. - Oh, there's way more. This is just the tip of the iceberg. - Hey, that's not normal. - I know, Caleb. That's why. That's why we're here. - I can fix people stabbing each other? What the fuck are you talking about? - No, but maybe. - You can fix her, dumbass. - No. - Hopefully. - No? - Not me. - Well, we went to a party. So, Friday. - You stabbed him. Okay, yeah. Tell me. - Friday, we went to a party. This was just over the weekend. Well, originally, we were supposed to go to the state fair, okay? We're already broke as. We're planning to go on this show, right? And she wants to go to the state fair. She's begging me to go. We get into a huge argument because I'm like, I don't think we should go. We don't really have the money. - How'd the argument go? About the state fair? - It wasn't even really about the state fair. It's just the fact that we never, you've never been to the fair. You're always either in jail or in North Carolina running from the FBI. - Well, it's a fucking fair. It's a fair. We have a baby. Why do we need to go to the state fair? - Why can't we take her to the fair? - She's not gonna, she's nine months old. What are we gonna do? Walk around and get a corn dog? - I guess. - What the fuck are we gonna do at the state fair with our nine-month-old? - Fuck you and your corn dog. Yeah, you're right. We get into the argument about the state. She's crazy as. So we get into the argument about the state fair. And I was like, I didn't wanna hear her mouth anymore. So I was like, let's just go. Let's go to the state fair. And we get about 10 minutes away and I try to get gas at a gas pump and the gas pump froze up and put a hold on all my money in cash out, okay? - Okay. - So I was, we're stranded at this gas. - No, he's acting like I'm the only crazy one. He's a psycho. He blows up at the gas station, hits the. Hits the gas pump, blows his lid. - Huh? - A psycho. Just 'cause his card is locked 'cause he can't get money. - Okay, no. I didn't go psycho. - You're beating the gas pump? - No, no, no. - You guys look so normal. - Like, you know, I'm hitting the button. Like it's not fucking working. I'm hitting the button. - He's hitting shit, slamming car doors, going inside, yelling at the fucking- - Other people's car doors? - No, ours. - No, no. No, but I mean, the gas pump put a hold on my money, so. - Yeah, 'cause he didn't have money probably. - No, no, I had the money in there. It was a hundred something, right? We didn't have much, so it put a hold on all of the money. 'Cause it puts a hold on like 175. - Fuck happens. - Literally, none of this shit matters, listen. Okay, point is, we argue, stab him, whatever. He goes to the hospital. - How'd you, where, why'd you stab him? - I have no idea. Listen, I have literally black- - Because we were arguing and she goes blackout drunk. She gets blackout drunk and she does whatever the she wants, so. - Is this a reoccurring thing? - Yeah. - Not- - Not getting stabbed, maybe. This is the first time. - But getting just blacked out and crazy? - Yeah. - You have a kid! - She's never there with us. - That doesn't matter. You are the parents of kids. You laugh about that, that's funny? No, you're a horrible mom. You're stabbing the father of the kid, your husband. - Yeah, yeah. - No wonder he said he regrets it. Regret's marrying you. So what, you run and get the box knife and just charge at him and stab him in the leg? So I think she was about to leave or something. I have no clue where the box cutter came from. He said he last remembers the box cutter was in his hand. Yeah, that's what I remember. That's what I remember. The box cutter was in my hand. I don't know how it got there. We're both wasted. But we were arguing and then. Boy. Black eye. Close your eye? Okay, I'm hoping this one's from you, though. No, he slammed a car door on my face. I think that's a reasonable reaction to getting stabbed, if you ask me. I could have stabbed her back, but I didn't. I've never had someone from a black eye from their spouse on this show before. She stabbed me. It's not like I punched her. After I stabbed him, I tried to leave. I got in my friend's car. I was in my friend's car. Bullshit. He came to come get me. I have the text from my friend. She admitted all this. He came to get me. I was trying to go with her. He slammed the door in my face because I wouldn't go with him after I stabbed him. I was trying to leave. I was standing at the car. I was in the car door with my leg cut open, bleeding. There was witnesses there that night. There was. Why were you not going to the hospital, dude? I don't know. I was still arguing with her. She had her friend's car door propped open, and we were arguing, and she starts putting her hands on me from the car door. We already accepted you to come on financial audit before this happened. Yes. What the fuck are we doing? What is happening? This happened this Saturday? Yes, this Saturday. After. Six days ago. Yeah. What the fuck? What are we doing? Okay, so what happened? Did you. Why are you together still? He f***ing stabbed you, and then he f***ing beat you. We're on a break. We're on a break. Oh, as of Saturday? As of Saturday. Yeah, after getting f***ing stabbed, I would assume so. Well, yeah, after getting stabbed, yeah. After what? After getting out of jail. The second time. Not even for stabbing me. For public intoxication. So, okay. Wait, did you get arrested this weekend? Oh, my f***ing dress stabbed him. When did you get out of jail? What? Saturday? Saturday morning? I don't know. It is not normal to go to jail. You are a mother of jail. Where is the kid in all this? My mom's. It's members. Anytime. That poor, poor mom, man. My mom will watch her, and then we just always get into some shit. I don't know. Then stop. That's the plan. Is that funny? It is. How? Because we can't. Can what? Can't stop getting into shit. Yeah, but keep the. Because if the kid being gone is what gets you into shit, then stop giving the kid to your mom and just lock the f*** in. What are you doing? What shit? What shit are we getting into? Does it always start with drinking? Yes. Then stop the f***ing drinking. He buys the. He buys it. Stop. Well, we like drinking. We like to party. We like to have fun. I mean. So, okay. I've never had a. Oh, f***. Okay. This makes so much more sense why he was there. Probably thought you guys were sort of wailing on each other. What the f***? So, I've never had a spouse coming with a black eye recently from an ex. How would you get that specifically? After she stabbed me, I went outside, and she was trying to grab me through the corridor and I was like, f*** you. I slammed the car door and I guess the car door hit her in the face. Slammed. No, like my whole entire face was in like. Slammed into the door. I slammed the door and I guess the door hit her in the face. Didn't they call the cops on each other? Yes. Yeah. Oh, yeah. She's went to jail for domestic violence. After I stabbed him. Oh, I did not call the cops. Yeah, that's insane. That's normal. That's not normal. Let's not pretend like stabbing is just a thing that happened. I drove myself to the hospital. I went to the hospital, got my stitches, got out. They wouldn't let me drive back because they thought I was drunk. Probably. He was drunk. No, I blew a breathalyzer that morning. Yeah, after you went to the hospital. Right. I wasn't drunk at the hospital. I was at the hospital for maybe 30 minutes. When you blew the breathalyzer, you were still point something. Point zero zero one. So whenever you were at the hospital, you were drunk. They were accepted before this all happened. This wasn't even like their f***ing story. No. What the f*** are you. What is wrong with you? So after I leave the hospital, I get my stitches. I have to walk home. So I'm. It takes me like an hour and a half. Mind you, while he's driving to the hospital, I'm drunk out of my mind. I'm walking to the hospital, walking all over f***ing our city, just walking around. You're not a victim for being drunk. You chose to drink. Like, what the f*** are we talking about here? So I'm trying to get to the hospital. I'm trying to see where he's at. He's discharged from the hospital because it takes me so long to get there. I don't care. I tried to get there. So I walk back from the hospital to my house. I'm looking for her. I don't see her anywhere. So I walk out looking for her again. She's nowhere to be found. I come back. I have my roommate take me to the hospital to get my car. And this is at, you know, seven in the morning. You know, this happened all about four in the morning. This is about seven in the morning. So I go looking for her and I find her on a little street next to Speedway. Okay? Okay. Did you press charges there? Are you pressing charges? No. He's looking for me to bring me home. I was looking for her. I don't give a s***. Well, I was worried. She stabbed you. Don't be. I don't care. Do I care about the ending of this story? Oh, you picked her up. Congratulations. Then what? The ending is jail. I didn't pick her up. So I found her and she starts flipping her s***, throwing her boots in the road, screaming at people because she's wasted. She's wasted. Because I'm pissed he wasn't at the hospital when I got there. You're insane. I am. And she's screaming leave me alone and all this. So somebody calls the cops and they were going to let her go home with her family. I called one of her family members to come pick her up but she wouldn't quit cussing out the cops so they took her to jail. That's going to be horrible parents. No. I'm going to be a great parent. No. Yes. You slammed the door in her face and gave her a black eye. And cheated on me two months after I gave birth and while I was pregnant and before that. Like you haven't cheated. It wouldn't be a financial audit. Okay. Yes. I did at first but you decided to stay. Wow, man. I'm sure we'll get into that. How long have you guys been together and not the marriage? Two years and four months. Not even three years. You're really counting. Okay. So you regret being with her? I regret getting married. Yes. I definitely regret getting married. He said he regrets meeting me. I do. I mean after all this shit her cheating on me first her stabbing me. You're getting stabbed is not a normal thing. Definitely not. No. He knew what the he was getting into when he met me. I did not. He met me two weeks after I got out of the no. Yes. I got out of the psych ward and he asked me and I told him that I went to the psych ward and he still wanted to fuck with me. There should have been a disclaimer that I had a son. Why are you still with her? Because we have a family. You're separated. A family. The kid's never there. You guys just get fucked up and like blow up the world. Well what we want we want to be happy. That's funny. You laugh every fucking time. You're pathetic. We want to be happy in a good family. What are you laughing at? It's just the fact that it's true. I don't. It's true. You're a bad mother. I'm sorry. No. No. She is insane. She is insane. No that's unacceptable. How is that okay? No. When I'm with my kid I'm not a bad mother. Okay but she is. For the 50% of the time that you're actually with him? When we have the baby she is a great mother. I can say that. Whoa a whole week. You're at the weekend. His mother begs to take her. I'm like what did he say fuck me for? From you. From you. I'm not a problem when I have my child. She is a great mother. I can say that. I'm not a problem when I have him. Has the mom ever had to call cops on you guys? Yes. Yeah. That's not funny. Why are you guys actually laughing? No it's not funny. It's not funny at all. Seriously. It's not a joke. What is wrong with you guys? This is a kid. No no. There's never been cops called anything to do with the baby. While she was there. No. Or while she was there. How many times has the mom called cops on you guys? Just that one time at the old apartment. The one time at our old apartment because she was losing her shit and destroying the house like she normally does. This one? Yes. Anytime she decides to lose her shit she wants to destroy everything. She's destroyed my car. She's destroyed a What the fuck? Why have you not pressed charges on this? That's a good question. I mean I It's time to know you're separated I'm sure. Why do you guys keep getting back together constantly? Because we're mentally ill. leave me alone. I don't know. I'm sorry. She's a four. Like you're a decently attractive dude. You gotta take care of your teeth but this guy like there's something wrong. It's Kentucky. So you're saying what? No no. Lexington's a big enough city. You'll find. He tried to add bitches and none of them want him. He's not cute. Well he was clearly able to get with someone while with you. Bitches who hate my guts. No just bitches that wanted him in their guts. None of them wanted them in their guts. They did not want him in their guts. Okay says the cheated on spouse. Come on. Shut the fuck up. So why was why was she destroying shit? That day that your mom called. Postpartum depression because he cheated. He's never there. Hold on. Postpartum Let's specify cheating. Was it postpartum depression or because he cheated? Both. Mixed together. Makes sense. Mixed together. That's a destruction. Caleb what do you define as cheating? That's up to the relationship. It could just be as simple as talking to someone. I mean as married I think texting other women is cheating. Yeah I would say so. Yeah. Were you guys open? But anytime she's done it anytime she so she's a cheater too. I don't know. What do you want? I mean she is a cheater. You're both horrible. You're bad parents. You're like objectively bad. I'm not a bad parent. I'm not a bad. How many times have you gone to jail? Once. Hey. Before the baby talking about before the baby doesn't matter completely unrelated. While I was pregnant carrying the child you went to jail. Because he ran from the Marine Corps and had a federal warrant out for his arrest. What the f*** go? Here we go. Here we go. Okay. Here we go. Sure. You're in the Marines? Slightly. For a period of time. I mean not for long. What does that mean? About a year. About a year. He graduated boot camp and got discharged. Pretty much. How's that fleeing from the Marines? Well he got discharged after. After AWOL. Dishonorably? No, no, no. No. Just a general discharge. But I did go AWOL a couple times. A couple times? A couple times, yeah. What were you doing? Tell me. So. Um. I mean, I graduated high school, met her, left for the Marine Corps three months after I met her. Was she ever cute? Yeah, she is. I think she's cute. Yeah. I mean, I wouldn't be— He has glasses. He doesn't wear them. We wouldn't keep getting back together if I thought she was ugly. I do not think that's why you keep getting back together. Glad I'm not from Lexington. But, yeah, so I go to the Marine Corps, come back on my boot leave, which is just a 10-day period where you leave after you complete boot camp. I go on recruiting assistance, so I'm home for an extended time, like three weeks. During that time, I had Snapchatted another girl. After boot camp, I Snapchatted another girl. It sounds like him cheating first. Well, we didn't start from the very beginning of our relationship. Did we want to start? Do we just want to tell the whole story? No, no, just keep going. Just keep going. So I get back from boot camp, and I Snapchat. I had this other girl that we went to school with. Sure. Snapchat pictures. You know, there was no conversation. There was no— Save pictures of her in the chat of her arching her back up, trying to look cute. Let me see. They're gone. I mean, that's long gone. That's just long gone. He deleted that whole Snapchat account. The account? You deleted the account? Yeah, we've had Snapchat on and off because of trust issues and— Oh! Yeah. Who would have thought? Oh, that's funny. You laugh at everything. You're a pathetic person. Continue. So I was Snapchatting the other girl. Relationship was shit at this point because I didn't trust her. Has it been good? 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I went through his phone. Yeah, she went through my phone and seen it on my Snapchat. I didn't hide it. He wasn't trying to hide this. He wanted me to find it because he wanted to be done. At the time, I probably did because I thought she was crazy. She's crazy as f**k. Stop playing with that. So she finds it and what happened right there? That was the first time you put your hands on me. That was the first time she put her hands on me. I had my grandmother's house. We lived. What did she do? Pushed me into a dresser. You pushed me first so I hit you in the face. Bullshit. I did not push her first. That is straight bullshit. I had your phone and you were getting all mad so you pushed me so I punched you in the face. No, no. Yes. No, I did not. I have never once. I put my hands on her first. And the only thing that's happened from her putting her hands on me is me slamming the door, the car door, and I accidentally hit her in the face. You pushed me at your mammy's house. After you f**king stabbed me, by the way. But no, at my grandmother's house. At my grandmother's house. No, I did not touch her first. That is a lie. No, I did not. Okay, so what did she do to you? So we broke up. We broke up after she found out about that girl. I go back to North Carolina. But she hit you, you said. Yeah, yeah. She hit me in the face once, like kind of close-handed. okay so i go back to north carolina and we're broken up at this point um you guys have broken up and on like 50 times yeah i can clearly tell crazy amount of time go on um during that time that we were broken up she goes to a parking lot party it's kentucky so there's nothing to do but rednecks with trucks in a parking lot i guess that's fun she thinks that's fun i don't that's bullshit that's not so you can probably get easy dick there i don't know well yeah that that was the plan so she texts her she texts this guy that uh she was friends with before our relationship um she texted him to pick her up so she goes to this parking lot you guys were broken up yes we were but at the time she we were not supposed to be everything he's saying is i we were broken up we're broken oh but the shit that i do while we're broken up is a huge problem but you were whatever keep going so were you you were promising that we weren't talking not at this point not this night well anyways she went and sucked some other guy's dick because she was mad and was it good i was good what's that mean meaning she swallowed that shit quick did you did you swallow it yeah she's not a quitter well uh this guy's a little bitch and if i see him i'll out of him anyways we'll take a turn after the show um so she sucks this guy's dick and then she goes and sleeps in the same bed with so this at this time this was about a week uh right uh right around a week after we'd broken up and we were for sure you were broken up so i really don't care okay but we were talking and saying that we weren't talking to other people right and she goes and sleeps with this guy that she used to buy weed from sleeps at his house and gets drunk and swears to this day that they didn't have sex and all this doesn't even matter you already sucked the dude off that day so it's like does it even matter exactly does it okay well she's just lying about not having sex i didn't have sex with him your acne scars are crazy that's pregnancy you had that before pregnancy but no i didn't you had acne before pregnancy not scars like this well um she's uh the the sum of this to sum it up she's just a liar she definitely slept with this dude yeah okay i didn't she slept in his bed and drunk i don't even know like five six all probably well with him right no i've actually never had sex with someone else while we've been together just well you were broken up at that point anyway okay yeah yeah but i've never had why'd you go awol i was asking this okay so i i get to north carolina you know we had broken up so there's a ton of stress in our relationship because he cheated and he was begging for me back well because i was outside you created all the interest issues before why'd you stay with me if i cheated first why'd you stay with me if i cheated first why'd you stay with me why'd you get back together with me well maybe there was a point uh of you finding something on my phone and you you're the one that went insane that night and wouldn't let me leave you and all this but then you broke up with me after you went insane and tried to run away through a field what does he won't even mean though what do you mean you ran from the base without leave yes okay so you just left the base i left one yes okay and you're in kentucky yes i flew back and your base was in north carolina right correct okay that's all it was my goodness it was 10 minutes well so what the is wrong with you you know i went awol for five months um yeah were they looking for you yep yeah they were i mean not actively looking you know there wasn't people out there searching for me they knew where i was at and if they wanted me that bad they could have came and got me okay what's the consequence for this it varies i mean my consequence was just a general discharge it wasn't so they found you in the discharge that's down the road but after i went to jail because this guy sucks he's a retard okay he ran away from the marines probably like three times in total for why what reasons to come home to me you're pathetic this whore i know it cheats on me that black guy is crazy it was way worse caleb it was a lot worse i'm sure it was it was like a week ago now this is crazy yes anyway he runs away comes home to me the very last time he thinks he can get away with the shit he's at valvoline working oil change place whatever he gets off of work the cops are waiting for him as he's getting off work they follow him all the way to his house and he's like i'm gonna go to my house and i'm gonna go to my house and i'm gonna go to mammy's house pull him over right in the beginning of the neighborhood they're like okay fbi warrant discharge you're coming with us you don't have a choice take him to jail mugshot that's that that's that yeah i mean i went awol a couple times they caught me on the second time with the federal warrant and i went to jail they extradited me better not be on disability all while i'm pregnant by the way oh she was pregnant that's wonderful me why'd you impregnate her an accident yeah i want to know were you on birth control no or are you having sex with a condom no were you coming inside of her yes yeah that's not an act okay well we did that's not an accident we didn't mean to have a baby obviously but you were coming inside of her with no birth control shit works like what the is one but she blames it on me she's saying well i was nutting inside of you but she was spreading her legs is that you could have told me you didn't want the kid and i could have okay it was it was on both of you like you were probably like come in me and you were probably like okay she was all right exactly you did it it was on both of you guys it's not just me it's not just my responsibility huh there's she definitely Has some responsibility in the past. We both do. You were fucking sensually. Right. Yes, I would say so. Okay. Okay. Jeez. She's the one that set the tone for the relationship. Bitch, bitch, you stay. What are you talking about? She fucked somebody days before we got together. Never told me about it. We were dating. We were talking. Days before you got together? We were talking for weeks. I'm sorry, but days before you got together? It was not cheating. No, it's not cheating. You're right. It's not. It's still fucked up. You're going to go fuck somebody else? But I set the tone of our relationship because I fucked someone before we even dated. Well, no, what probably set the tone was- He gets mad at me for talking about the big old nasty fat bitch that he fucked before we dated. Ew. A year before. We weren't talking. We weren't talking. Ew. We weren't talking. Stop it. We weren't talking. Hypocrite. We were talking. We were talking. Besides the weird earring situation, you are not an unattractive person. Yay boy earrings. What are you doing? You are a bit of a- Like, come on. Why are you fucking fat bitch? I was drunk. I was drunk. He loves fat bitches. I was fucking drunk. It was the one time. One time. The one time. I was drunk. It was one of those regret ones, you know? I'd rather you get stabbed, man. This makes no sense. I wouldn't. This shit hurts. I would not rather get stabbed. So is the fat bitch on you. So is the fat bitch clapping back on them balls. It didn't really hurt. I don't know how he found the pussy with how many rolls that bitch had. Okay, you're getting- You're close to obesity. You're not there yet, but you're close. I'm like 145. Mark the Springer Machine. Give me your phone while you do this. Open it. Okay. How much do you want to bet she's talking to other guys right now in your moment of immediately breaking up? Springer Machine, go ahead. What does this mean? I doubt. I doubt she is talking to other guys right now. Lots of people on Snapchat. Mostly women, though. Whoa, you have no ass. That's incredible. I've never seen anything like that in my life. Did she use? She has more than- No, that's crazy. She did. It's five under, though, so add five to it. Add five to it. Hold still. She keeps having an ass and getting rid of it while she's up there, and it's going crazy. Okay, she's snapping like 50,000 women. Oh, yeah. I mean, because I think- But that's okay. Yeah, she does snap a lot of women. I mean, she spends all her time on her phone. What is it? 152.8. So it's 157.8. No, it's five under. The scale's five under. Okay. What'd you say you were? I thought I was like 145. See, you don't know shit. You're getting fat. Oh, my gosh. Okay, let's get away from all these streaks. Okay, why are you seriously snapping this many people? I've never seen this in my life. I would like to know that. Why do you snap so many people? They're all women. Except for Caleb. Black Caleb. He's gay, which probably has a crush on him. Are you gay? No. Are you bi? No. What are you saying? That's just one of her insults. She, you know. He just looks gay. He looks gay. And a lot of men cheat on their wives with men. Do they? I think what it is is she might be insecure because she might be gay. You knew I was gay before I met you. You're gay? Bisexual. Oh. What woman isn't gay? Honestly, it feels like it. There is a Josh from five days ago. Gay Josh. They're all gay, huh? Literally. I'm not allowed to talk to a man that isn't gay. Well, yeah. I mean, that makes sense. You guys have cheated on each other, right? And I'm seeing if, uh, you know, there's guys. That's my little cousin. Well, Kentucky. No. That's not even a joke. No, that's disgusting. You snap an insane amount of people. How do you know all these people? Do you? Most of them, yeah. Where's even him? Probably not pinned. No, she don't talk to me. And plus, half the girls on there, he's probably. What do you guys. Is that true? Yes. No. Yes, it is. Half the. Wait, what did you say? Half the people on my Snapchat, you've probably. Who? There's thousands. Yeah. Sorry. Yeah. Um, okay. So, what do you guys want from me? Because that was a shit ton of yapping of, like, insanity. Like, I don't know where we stand, guys. What's happening? I need to know if. If there's any chance that we can fix our relationship or if she's just completely off her rocker. What the f***? She literally just stabbed you. And also, no, the mom didn't. Your mom didn't call the cops on you one time. It's been seven times, dude. Every time she loses her shit, the mom calls. I think there's been seven times in total, but she only called once, I think. Maybe twice. Maybe twice. The rest has been somebody else or me. Or him. How many times have you had to call the cops on her and you want me to fix the relationship? Four to five times. See, what are we doing? Why would you want to be with someone that stabbed you on Saturday? That you have domestically abused and she's domestically abused you and you've cheated on each other. Why would you want that? I mean, we. Seriously. We have a family. I mean, it's hard when you have a baby with somebody. I feel like we still love each other. It's just. There's just a f*** ton of issues. I mean, there's a lot of issues. The big issue is you blame all the issues on me even though you're the f*** problem. I am not the f*** problem. You're not the problem, but you're going to be with someone who's. Who stabbed you and made you get stitches. Do you want to be with him? If he can f***ing change. If he can get a f***ing medicine. What do you want him to do to change? Okay, I find you guys. Psychiatrist, medicine, I don't know. Anything? What's wrong with him, I'm asking? What is right with him? What's wrong with him? No, no, no. I need specifics. This is bullshit. Don't f*** with me. You're never there. You don't care. You've beat him and you've stabbed him. You've cheated on him. I have to. What the f***? You have to? There's no other way. You have to stab him. I mean, no, but. There's no other way he'll listen to me. There's no other way he'll change. I don't feel like there's much about myself that I need to change. The biggest things that I've done in this relationship are the infidelity and. And when was that? When did you do that? A couple months after our baby was born. And before. Okay, that's insane. What happened? That's f***ing insane, buddy. He cheated on me while I was pregnant, too. He texted two of my best f***ing friends. Her best friends? We weren't even together. Together. So how is that cheating? She says cheating. Okay, her best friends while she's pregnant is kind of crazy. It's every time. We're not together. And we were. I was in North Carolina and we were arguing back and forth, on and off. And she. I don't even remember what it was. She had done something to piss me off. And I wanted to piss her off. So you went to her best friends? I mean, I just texted them. And them bitches were ugly, too. You're calling your best friends ugly? Well, I'm not f***ing best friends with the bitches anymore. So what did he do? Tell me. He was just f***ing drunk, flirt texting with them. And they were all. They were all making fun of him, calling him disgusting. I don't even. What were you texting them? Were you trying to f*** them? I mean, at the time, I was probably trying to get some pictures. At the time, I was probably trying to get some pictures or something. I don't know. But it was to make you mad, probably. I don't. Yeah, because I was in North Carolina. And we were off and on. We were off at that time. Okay, so while you were pregnant, what did he do? He f***ed someone? I wasn't getting any attention from her. I wasn't getting anything from her because our relationship. Why the f*** would I give you f***ing anything? I don't know, because I pay your f***ing bills. I don't take care of you, regardless of what the f*** you say. As you f***ing should. You impregnated me and thought I had. Well, after we f***ing struggled for months, I think you should get a job, but you never f***ing do. Well, if the mom can watch the kid. She works. We have plenty of. There's definitely ways that we could figure out for someone to watch the baby. And I tried that. I got a f***ing job, and he took all my f***ing money. And handle it. Bullshit, you barely got paid anything. Anything you got paid went to bills. Because I had to f***ing quit because you were trying to bring our kid around a f***ing crackhead. No, I was not. No, the f*** I was not. Is that who you're trying to f***? Yes, probably. My friend moved in with us. His boyfriend moved in with his f***ing ratchet-ass girlfriend, and he wants to f*** them both. She's literally. I don't know what's real and what's not. No, that's just bullshit. I don't know. Guys, you confuse me so much. My best friend moved in because I need help with the bills because she won't work. She can't hold a job now. Who's going to take care of our kid? Babysitters. With what money? My mom. That works every single day? Every single day? 12-hour shifts every day? Who can't stay awake? Who crashed her own f***ing car? You had two jobs that worked around my schedule. The first one I quit because I found out you cheated on me. And then the second one I quit because you were trying to bring her around a crackhead. What's the worst she's done? Talk to people. Well, you suck the dude's dick. Yeah. We weren't together. Okay. So you guys have never f***ed anyone while you were together? No, no. I don't think. I mean, I think she's lying about the dude she slept in the bed with, but. It doesn't matter. I mean, I don't. I don't know. Listen, guys, this is a mess. And you want me to see if I can keep you guys together? Nobody wants us together. His mother literally tried to f***ing beat my ass. If he'll f***ing grow up and man up the balls. That doesn't make sense to me. I don't. That part confuses me. I understand the things he's calling you out about. I don't know. Make enough money to not have another man live in our house that took our daughter's bedroom? The only reason I have to f***ing do that is because you won't get a job. Who would watch the kid? Her excuse is, get a better job. My mom. We could put her. That works every f***ing day. assisted daycare. There's a really good daycare near us. I'm not putting her in state-assisted daycare. Why? I can stay home with my kid and not. It's a religious daycare. You're trashier than them. Not with my kid. It's a nice daycare. My little sister has went there. It's a great daycare. See? It's fine. Yeah, why do we do this? It's just a f***ing demon. No, she's just a little kid. Your kid will be. Look at the house the kid's growing up in. There's no way. That's why we're trying to figure out if we need to just split up and do what's best for the baby or if we can fix our relationship and. I'm supposed to determine that f***ing. How often are hands being put on each other? Every other week. And what is typically the reason? Alcohol. I understand you get drunk, but what is triggering it? The cheating and, yeah. But he's not cheating, so all the built-up resentment and anger comes out. Guys, if you never move beyond the mistakes that were made in this relationship, you'll always fight about the past. I can't. I can move past it. You're the one beating him. He won't move past it either. He puts it up in my face, and then I'm supposed to deal with it. So she gets drunk, you put that she cheated. She gets drunk, and we just, I mean, so what usually happens is we'll get into a tiny argument. We get drunk, he has trust issues. We go somewhere, he's, you want to f*** him, you want to f*** him, you want to f*** him. You're a f***ing little insecure bitch. No, we go to a f***ing party, and she wants to do nothing but run around and shake her ass. There's nothing to shake. Literally, that is the flattest ass I've ever seen. Exactly, so why are you so f***ing obsessed? Our whole relationship, she bases her whole existence off of whether other people on social media approve of her or not. I mean, she needs approval. She has to have approval. No one is right now, I promise you. Everybody on social media hates my guts, so what the f***, what do you mean? Including millions. It's just, you blame me for the times that I've talked to other people for attention, but you do the same thing. Have we ever considered just not drinking on the weekend? Is this an option? I mean, we need to not drink, yeah. Just stop buying. If he stops buying, are you saying you will not drink? We live in Kentucky, what else are we going to do? That's the same thing for literally everywhere you are. You make up what you do. Everyone can say that about every town, every city, everything ever. Have you been to Kentucky? I've driven through. What did you see? Beautiful hills. What the f*** are we going to do with the hills? What would you do in Austin today? I mean, if anything, I would ride a scooter around the city. What did you guys argue about this morning? What even was it? See, it's pointless s*** that we can't even remember. What was it, though? It was the fact that he got mad because he went through my recently deleted messages and found dudes that I was talking to, and he shut down and got mad. Well, that's fair! But he wouldn't talk to me about it. Show me your recently deleted. Oh, I'm excited for this. Go ahead. He already deletes everything out of his recently deleted. I didn't even, whenever we were broken up this past week, I haven't texted anybody. Is that all of them? Yeah. Oh, f***. Now, see, this is what I was trying to f*** see. What did you delete with him? No idea. What did you delete with me? I have no idea. How do I get in there? I think, just recover them all. Go through all the messages. Okay. Okay. Okay. Including his mom. Because that seems to be a big thing here. Okay, and then I'll get back to them, I guess. Bring up his. What have you done? I have nothing to worry about. You recently deleted somebody. No, he has nothing to worry about. Because he deletes everything. I didn't f***ing text anybody. There's nothing to delete. Exactly. It was all on Snapchat. Okay. Here. Here's another place where we can find things. Oh, you'll find a bunch of s*** in there, especially the videos of her going insane. What? Oh, anytime she loses her s***, I take videos. I make sure I record videos. Well, I don't know where I'm going. Which ones were deleted recently? There's nothing in my recently deleted. Okay. Oh, things are usually in this as well. Open that. I know we might see some other things. There's definitely a. Stop. 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All you need to do is head to GamersHubs.gg slash Caleb or click the link in the description below. I meant, why was ya with ya ex to get a black eye? See, this guy's calling. He was trying to f*** her. He's calling him your ex. Oh, I know, I know. But see, what I don't get. I mean, I do get it. You know, it just sucks that she stabbed me in the f***ing knee. Why was you with ya ex? He got me pregnant, she's saying. And I'm a walking checkbook. I mean, that's to pay your bills. What? Oh, yeah. You're a walking checkbook. Or she don't want to work. That's one of the big reasons. Oh, she's sending, like, titty pics. It was a contact photo. Come on. Oh, I didn't know about that. What did you send? You can literally see it. Can I see? Titty pics? What are we talking about? No, it was like this. Like, it was clothed. But it was, like, with cleavage. It was a picture. It was a picture that I took in our f***ing kitchen. You stabbed him in the leg, so he can't really work. Oh, my gosh. Oh, yeah. I got put off of work for a whole week. Or, I mean, we're on a show about bad finances. Then who are you talking to here? Just random people. Who is this? Random people. No, but this is definitely dating. How old are you again? 22? Are you religious? This is dating app talk. Yeah, it's Facebook dating. Facebook dating. So you are talking to guys. Yeah. That's cheating. We aren't together, are we? Not at the point of talking to him. So did you talk to any of these guys before? Yes, this guy. This was all whenever I got out of jail. Okay, let's see. Saturday. Yeah, Saturday morning. Yeah, she immediately started texting. She went on Facebook dating the next day. Yes. What have you done with anyone this last week? Nothing. Nothing texted. What have you wanted to do? Nothing. No lie. Really? Let's be honest. I haven't wanted to do anything. I'm sorry. If I break up with a relationship, I go for a rebound. Maybe on the weekend, but I had my child the whole entire time, so I could never plan to do nothing. That's why she was so adamant. She was adamant. She was adamant about asking me if my mom was going to take the baby this weekend. So she was definitely planning something with somebody because you sit there and ask me over and over, is she going to take her this weekend? Is she going to take her this weekend? So what was your plans? I'm being told he downloaded Tinder immediately, though, too, right? Ah, here's her recently deleted. What's going on? There are things in here. There's a lot of things in here. What are you deleting all these photos for? Just so Jay wouldn't see them and go crazy. So what's in there? Yeah, what is in here? Just try. Just be honest. Anything and everything. Come on. Text with other people, text with your family, pictures of other people. Pictures of other people, like what? Like profiles, pictures of them. I don't have nudes of anybody in there. No one's. I'm not after nudes. Things being hidden, there's usually more interesting things. Also, we've all been in a locker room and we've all seen. Who really gives a. You know how many dicks and tits I've seen? On the show now? Yeah. I was like, who cares? What is this? Now, here we go. What is it? She's texting a random person. You murdered your own fetus and want to talk shit about someone getting pregnant? Fucking easy slut. None of your friends or family fucking love you. Who are you texting? Shit, your own father. That's why I killed girlfriends. She got an abortion of his kid? Not his kid. No, no. I've never gotten anybody else pregnant. I've never. Oh, you bitch. You had sex with a tampon and you're sick. And she says, this person said, if you touch me, I'll file charges and your kid will be taken from you. Who is this? She loves to be with his old girlfriends. Oh, another one of those? My goodness, dude. You guys are crazy. Crazy. Oh, yeah. Yeah. I don't know who your boyfriend is who told you to hit on, hit me because he didn't. He slammed my face into the door and I said, what the fuck? You're texting so many women about him. That's his own family. The fuck is happening? Let's not forget. All the videos are going crazy. Oh. And yes, I am. I'm going to see stuff, but I don't trust what you have in there. That's the same thing he has in his hidden. Yeah. Yeah. I'll see what else. Put it on camera. Okay. Nothing else. Yeah. Okay. You also have no butt. Let me see the videos. Now, these we will put on screen. Yeah. So. Okay. No, just let me watch. Right now. Come get in the car. Let me see it. Liar. You're a fuck. Come look. Let me see. Are you going to get in the car? Get out. This is right after being stabbed. Get out. If I do, will you get in the car? Get out. Get out. Get out. Get out. Get out. Come look. Please get in the car. Leave me alone. I'll scream it. I'll scream it like a fuck. Fuck. You don't give a fuck. you just let me walk home from the hospital with stitches in my after stabbing me can you please get in the car can you please get in the car who's she talking to random people on the street what are you guys doing just wanted him to leave me alone why didn't you walk away he would have followed me in the car going to walk away and i did because she's walking around the town just wasted walking out into traffic called my dad walking out into traffic just being belligerent and and i was actually trying to stop her for being arrested she's tearing apart your car tears it out yeah she destroyed stuff i didn't even call the cops that morning by the way somebody else did the video is like stuttering you're still going you're still going i was literally just trying to stop her from going to jail because i knew she would go to jail for public intoxication please get in the car you like saying slurs very homophobic even though he looks at he is gay what did i even do i don't know what to do with my life i was she's she i don't know she it's like she goes into a fucking trance and she's like fucking demonic she's like possessed you are going like a whole other person like it's insane and then the next day she'll just i'm so sorry for acting like that inward wait are you black i can't oh yeah i guess you can say it okay there's plenty of more videos i mean show me show me the most egregious and then we'll move on this we really do have to get into finances this was while i was so i had just been stabbed and i was sitting on the floor or i was drunk so it's hard to remember it was before or after but it's around that time no i think that was before i think this was right after i got stabbed i was sitting on the ground okay can we announce something you must give the best head that has ever existed because i'm sorry the most insane top tier yeah she gave me some last night it was pretty good okay now after that get rid of her one more time and then done i can't i i can't i've tried i can't i can't i simply can't it's like you might need to move dude okay what's that sound he's crying i mean yeah my leg was killing me i'm sitting there on the floor stabbed i mean yeah i was crying yeah we literally didn't know who stabbed him he kept saying he stabbed him and then he said because i said that because i was scared of you to go to use yeah there's the uh okay uh trigger warning three two uh blood one boom boom boom put them all on screen all those photos yeah that's crazy mocking me mocking i think i need you to understand right now this is literal actual domestic abuse that you're in you this is not something to joke around with this is not funny she's laughing about it she doesn't care i mean no shut up you need to leave because your kid will get hurt at some point it always translates what are the holes he's punched in the walls and all the screaming he's done at least at least it's not your body there are degrees it's not good i have punched holes in the wall yeah i'm not defending that either but this is clearly right by me and our kid's head it's a at night wall it's me and our child here and when did i punch a wall while y'all were right there i have the pictures of the what is that night time she was not there mad because she wouldn't go to sleep that is no the god did not punch a hole in the wall because i was mad she wouldn't go to sleep there's that is a straight way nine you get pissed off with these videos and shit with these videos and shit i don't trust you maybe but if it wasn't your insanity if it wasn't for all this i maybe trust you but i can't let's see then we'll get into the finances because what's happening here uh there's a there's a medicine that i take my medicine medicine that i'm supposed to take for you know for depression but um but you weren't prescribed it no and he takes it every day no so i don't i don't know the night's one of those hidden videos yeah i think i stuck my phone in my pocket no she's hiccuping because she's so wasted all right show me the next most egregious thing and then because that was the only video i don't want to sort through and you find all of this funny and just because he has the one up on me because he gets the chance to take videos and pictures of everything he's just lucky i don't get to what do i do that you need to take what i don't destroy the house i don't put my hands on you you've literally tried to run me over when did i try to run you over whenever i was standing behind the car and you just go in reverse you're when when was that whenever we were about to go get our kid when was that like two three weeks ago were you trying to stop me from leaving for some reason we were both going to get the kid and you were behind the car i was outside of the car trying to ask to get in the car when you were just standing there locking it unlocking it standing there locking it you have the video yeah fine i don't know what you're talking about so okay uh no i didn't try to run her over i mean there's been times when i wouldn't let her in the car and she's literally hanging off the side of the car or i only have one windshield wiper that works because she was hanging off this video what are you doing i'm trying to find the video where is it in a hidden is it no no no no no they're just all in your camera yeah okay okay fine you guys destroy each other i get it man i don't know what to do um to try to see if we can get you back together is the question you're answering no you shouldn't be together you shouldn't neither of you should be you shouldn't be together i mean we we have a family so it doesn't matter this is a destroyed family the family's already destroyed this is come like you don't think this is we're able to come back from this do you guys not see what your relationship is there's domestic abuse every other week at a minimum you said on average no have you guys seen those videos she has stabbed you this isn't even just slapping you she has literally stabbed you you guys are cheating on each other she you guys the moment you broke up you went on tinder to start bitches and she went on facebook marketplace to start sucking dick okay which i mean like just see where you guys are we you you will never this will never be a healthy relationship i've tried to make it work and you have and guess what it has failed you guys are done okay i think the i mean she would have been gone a long time ago if it wasn't for her using me for bills and stuff because she don't she don't like to work there's no you right that's right i'm not that you would have been gone a long time ago if you would have just said get an abortion and i had the kid well abortion is illegal in our state and okay well that doesn't like you can't travel or get a pill you're right yeah i could have i could have said get an abortion i guess and we could have been done but i didn't and we're here now our relationship was gonna be in the beginning of it so why i'm not the only one i guess i guess i could have fixed it because yeah so in the beginning i mean it was the first time i was able to get an abortion and i was able to get an abortion in the first couple weeks of our relationship i we were still in high school and we're going to go to prom together and she was sending videos of showing off her ass to some sugar daddy what ass some sugar daddy to pay for her dress and i mean i was in boot camp huh how old was she how old was you at the time 17 17 this guy see i have no clue about this guy i don't i don't know i don't know what between 25 and 30 not great guys what do you think your individual financial scores are because i'm honestly no you should not be together and i'm gonna separate this what do you think your financial score is zero to ten zero being the worst, ten being the best? Zero. You? She has nothing. I mean, a four. Okay. Get yours at calebhammer.com. It is free. It just takes a few minutes. You can see where you stand in the world of finances. It's been redone. If you've done it before, you should take it again. Now it's much more detailed in each category, and we've redone the score. So check it out. And if you don't want to be like a guest who ends up on the show, make sure to download the Dollar Wise budgeting app. It is the best budgeting app for the average American. You can take a free trial to see if you like it. And if you do, which most people do, they take the annual version because it saves nearly 50% on your money, and you get a physical version of my 30-day meal plan signed by me, mailed directly to you, and the digital version of the cookbook as well. Okay. DollarWise.com links below, or just download the app. Question them. I mean, clearly, whatever you're defining as him getting his shit together, he's not. And you're a horrible, evil human being, disgusting bitch. If he wasn't the one paying for the bills, would you be with him today? No. Why are you with him? Because even when we try to break up, we're both begging for each other back. There's something wrong with us, clearly. Yes, you're attracted to each other, but that's it. That's it. I don't know. There aren't other people out there you will be attracted to. I think all the shit that we've done each other and been through together, I think we're some, like, somehow. Okay, you guys are 20 and 19. Like, there's so much f***ing life, you don't even f***ing know. Just shut up. Guys, neither of you can legally even think yet. The thing is, we're going to go back home and be together. We're going to be together. Don't be. You have choices. Go live with your mom. Kick her out. She's done. She's a domestic abuser. Use that video. Get full custody. Move on with your life. Find a woman who loves you that you can make more kids with. She is a great mom. She really. Have you guys seen the last hour and three minutes of this conversation? So, we definitely have issues. She is a great mom. Would you definitely have issues? We can defend that. We definitely have issues, but she is a great mom. Guys, you've had more issues than anyone on this show. She loves her baby. She loves our baby more than anything else, and she is a great mom. Not enough to not get f***ed up every single weekend. I did. I f***ed up when I Snapchatted another girl while she was postpartum. I f***ed up. But, I mean. I just. I can't do the physical stuff. That's. I think our relationship would be better, easier to manage if it wasn't physical. The physical shit. It'd be easier and better to manage if we didn't drink. You don't have to drink. Dad, don't drink! He wants to drink! Just because he buys it there, he buys it, and even if he wants to drink, you don't have to drink. It's usually her that wants to drink, too. You don't have to, even if there's alcohol there. Yeah. Okay. But why not? Because it results in this. Yeah. Well, if he wasn't there, I wouldn't. Does she ever lose her mind when she's not drunk? Yeah, if we argue, yeah. Well, there we go. So, it's not just the drinking. You're just an insane, crazy. The drinking. The drinking definitely amplifies it. What does she do around the house when she loses her mind? Besides hit you. I mean, she's destroyed a TV. She's destroyed blinds. I saw her rip it apart. That was on video. It's in this video. I saw. I mean, she'll wreck stuff, you know, just throw stuff, sling stuff off. It's just destructive. Like, it's. I don't know. Okay, you owe money to your grandma. Mm-hmm. What are we doing, guys? Why? Because. Because. It doesn't work. Well, how, when, where, what car? She had a car. She totaled it. Drunk? Yes. Yes. So, um. You're disgusting. We still owe her grandparents $1,500 for that car that I was paying for for her. So, $1,500 for the car. Why do you owe your grandma that? Because it was her car. You totaled your grandma's car. She can't drive anymore. She's 100 years old. Is she 100? Yes. Great-grandma. It was my great-grandma's car. You took from a 100-year-old and told. No, she gave it to me. Did she know she gave it? She's very here, yes. You won't make it. Not even close to half that. Huh? I can't make anything. No, you won't make it to 100 is what I'm saying. Oh, God, no. I know. God, no. That's not a good thing. That's why you're a bad parent. Okay. I don't want to live to 100. What? Why would I want to live to 100? Maybe their kid wants. Maybe your kid wants their mom to. I mean. Is it a girl or a boy? I don't even know. It's a girl. Her name's. Refer to it as like the fetus or the child or an abortion. Our baby. Our baby. We refer to it as our baby most of the time, but it's a girl. She's a girl. Okay, so 1,500 you owe to your great-grandma? Mm-hmm. When? When did you total this car? Before we get too deep. So why do you owe 1,500? Because we didn't pay it. No, no, no. I don't understand. Is that what she owed on the car or what was the. No, no, no. So what happened? We agreed to buy the car from her for $1,500. For like a deal for 1,500. If I would have like went and bought that car anywhere else, it would have been like, what, $10,000? Good. So what's the agreement now? Are you on a monthly payment? Are you in with the grandma? No, we just. Does the grandma know you were drunk? No. No. Maybe she should. Well, she's probably going to. She'd probably croak over. Does she even know that it got totaled? No. You told me not to tell them. So who do we owe the 1,500 to? My great-grandma. No, but she knows it was totaled. The great-grandma. No. Not your grandma? Nobody knows. He told me not to tell my family that he sold it. Wait, how do you. I told him. How do we know you owe 15, then? Because. Is that just the number you made up in your brain? No, no. We owe her $1,500 for the car. She gave us the car. Oh, with the agreement for 15? Yeah. Yes. Okay. Is there an agreed-upon minimum monthly payment? No, we haven't paid her. What was it? It was like $250. $100, $200. I'm putting that in the budget. That's what it should be. You should be paying that, $250. Okay, for the baby, $400. Why'd you have to borrow $400 from Nana? Well, after I got out of jail. Which time? This Saturday. Hey, what was the first jail? Domestic violence and public intoxication. What did she do? That was when she. Punched him three times in the face. Yeah. What did you do? We got into an argument. What did that argument start about? What did that day. That argument start about? Something f***ing stupid. Who knows? The fact that you got whatever. Someone I messed with was at Seven Brew. We were going to go to Seven Brew, and somebody that I'd messed with before was there, so I was like, oh, I don't want to go anywhere. It's not his fault. No, but he made it a big deal. I didn't. No, what'd you do? How the f*** did I make it a big deal? I was like, are you sure you want to go? And you were like, no. And then after you got all mad and quiet and distant, like you always do, so then I asked, what's wrong? You, nothing's wrong, and you make it a big deal. You're looking at me like I'm. So why'd you f***ing. Boom, boom, boom, triple. Because later, okay, we separated that day because when we fight, we separate because we know it'll turn into s***. I just launched the brand new Hammer Elite app available on every major platform. So you can watch every show, anywhere you want. You'll get three exclusive dedicated shows every single day, Monday through Saturday. Refer a friend after you sign up and you get an additional 30 days of Hammer Elite access for free. Download the Hammer Elite app by using the link in the description or pinned comment down below. This is the best membership you'll ever join, and that's a promise. Guys, just real quick, don't forget to take your Hammer financial score at calebhammer.com. See where you stand, where you got to do better, where you're doing s***. Listen, it just takes a few minutes and it is free. Figure out where you stand in the world of money. calebhammer.com. I went to my cousin's. She got me alcohol. Oh my goodness. Bad idea. Two fits of Fireball that night. Two whole fits of Fireball she drank that night. I'm assuming that's a lot. I'm not a drinker. I don't know. Yes, it's a f***. I know, Fireball's nasty. Yeah, it's disgusting and she drank a f*** ton of it and got drunk and went to a concert with her cousin with no f*** clothes on. So we were texting. At the concert? You went naked at the concert? No, no, I mean, she had clothes on, but so we were texting and we were, we agreed we can still have a good night. You're missing the whole entire point before this concert. The cops told us to separate. The cops got caught. Why were the cops already involved? Because I decided to come back to get a few things because I knew we were going to spend that day separated. So then I came home. He wanted to make things right. I was like, no, I just want to be alone, have a good day. So I go off, go crazy. He calls the cops. What? You wanted to make things right so you go off, go crazy. No, he wanted to make things right. So you go off, go crazy. What did you do? I wanted to leave. I wanted to go to the concert. I want to have fun. Why were the cops called? Because I went crazy because he wanted to scream, yell. Who called the cops? No, why did I call them? No, there was something. I don't know. Because I think I poured sweet tea on the floor. Why are you so physical? I don't know. So the cops got called the first time. Mark, you're in for something lucky after this filming, buddy. You're going to come quick. So the cops got called the first time and they told us to separate that day. Well, we were texting and agreed we can still have a good night. So we were like, so I came and found her at the concert. As I'm walking up, I literally see her boobs slip out because she's wasted and, you know, jumping around and she has no bra on. It's just like no f*** clothes. But I mean, I got a glimpse in that hidden folder. Those things, unfortunately, are sagging down to her f***ing toes. It's impossible. It pissed me off. So I'm like, why are you out here with no f***ing clothes on? And that starts the whole argument up again. And I had somebody drop me off because I was drinking. I didn't want to drop. So. At least someone's responsible, I guess. So I get dropped off and I'm telling her if we're going to go We were gonna go to another little concert with her cousin so we get in the car with her cousin it was like the 3rd of July live music video go on go on it doesn't matter so we get in the car and we were already mad at each other again because I had said something about what she had on and it blew up in the car it's just a little argument blows up we start screaming and cussing and then the next thing you know she's punched me in my face three or four times so where'd she hit you just in the jaw closed fist yeah oh no this was boom boom boom what the f*** is wrong with you a lot so I called the cops and she went to jail that night for domestic violence and public intoxication good so you got out of jail and you had to borrow 400 from grandma mhm for what was it bail no 400 well I borrow money from her for a lot uh okay here's the 400 uh Mercedes said she found out that Jay cheated on her after she gave birth about two months and they gave her 400 for for what I don't understand oh for the baby it says for the baby well after I found out you cheated on me then we probably yeah we probably did separate so what's the agreed upon for the 400 for the payment to the grandma just living expenses no is there is there is there a minimum payment no okay 400 okay bail 1500 now that one was for the jail yeah grandma bailed you out did she know she bailed you out I mean yeah okay so what does grandma think about that what the no she's disappointed obviously whoa she's disappointed they're all Christians so they all think if maybe you should be too if we could just go to church our relationship would be fixed you might need that girl you're broken I've been trying you're broken in every way I've been trying to get him to go to church and he'll say he'll go and then we get ready to go and then he doesn't go I'm not super religious that's fine I think she needs something though yeah and if you wanted to why not just sit in church I don't care what anyone like you do your life but it's like she needs some kind of help I have seriously got to go piss or I cannot continue I do not care like seriously I do not care I seriously have got to go piss open up that gamer subs and finish yourself off I am finishing this episode money owed to your cousin now you're borrowing from your cousin I have to borrow money from everybody everybody everybody why'd you have to borrow from your cousin because she won't get a job or she would have her own money yeah but what was it for probably gas vapes everything vapes you're borrowing from your cousin for vapes you are the most pathetic mother that I have ever witnessed on this show I like a vape you prioritize that over your future kids no yes if you're borrowing money and not getting a job and borrowing money instead of getting a job yes you are can I get help with a babysitter can I get a job you had two jobs that worked around my schedule so I would be home which I had to quit both of them because of you you did not have to quit because of me you would go to work for a day and complain my feet hurt I worked at two hours my feet hurt this place sucks I hate working I shouldn't have to work I stopped serving at the country club you should pay my bills because you told me it was a shitty job and I have to flirt to make tips she was bringing home nothing literally nothing you're lazy you're a drunk you're an abuser you're an addict apparently apparently apparently dude it's been an hour fifteen minutes that's what I'm doing that's that's what you are unless you have anything else I tried to get a job what'd you try to get a job I was a server at a country club rich white people you'd think you'd make a lot of money potentially and I did for banquets okay banquets I did make a lot of money that was like a hundred fifty hundred seventy a day why'd you borrow a thousand from your dad that's just random he just gives he just gives me money why are they enabling you why are they enabling you to make all these bad decisions and face no consequences for it Kentucky I don't know no that's not an answer it's just my family I don't know my family what the is there an agreed upon minimum back to your dad back to your cousin no they just help me out what do you see in her that you like besides your somehow attraction I don't get it cause like it's I'm not suggesting you're a good person but she's objectively like one of the worst people I've ever met you need to take the kid and be gone it's the family no but only it's just her you can still be a family with you the kid whoever you meet and your parents you would get full custody most likely well I don't want to yes I would care but I know with all the evidence that he has he would absolutely 100% get full custody I'm not gonna do that I'm not gonna take it cause she the baby doesn't deserve to be raised without her mother no the baby does not she also doesn't deserve to be raised around this you're right she doesn't but take her even if we split up okay you're 20 I think you're just too immature man you don't know the consequences in bad life that can happen I don't think if we were to split up and co-parent that she would be continuing I think she would I realistically think that she would get help for her baby maybe not for me but for her baby I think she would get better she hasn't in the 9 months did you drink at all during the pregnancy be honest did I drink while I was pregnant no she didn't okay well you get fucked up every weekend so that when she's not there yes I know that no one's arguing against that point this house has hole in the walls stab wounds and abuse every other week and blow up fights come on and money that has been borrowed from family this is not good no it's not that's why we're on the show so no shit why you don't need to clarify that I know why do you think I I think I'm saying you need to leave that is the conclusion I have come to it's just not gonna happen then what are we doing what's the point okay if you wanted my opinion then what the cause that's the objective reality you're gonna learn it you're going to learn that you've been together for a couple years you're gonna be 25 and you're gonna realize this is the worst mistake you've ever made sticking with her I might but it could get better it could get better no it could get better in what world maybe I need let's bring in Brandon I need a man I need another man to speak to him clearly I am not breaking through and I'll bring in Mark to stick his penis in your mouth oh like you're not looking for one to suck right now anyway you guys are broken up anyway we are speak some sense into this man cause clearly I'm not getting through why the he will not leave her I talked to you guys before the episode started did I not yes I asked you is this the first time that she's beat a man she said you're number four yeah I didn't know that you've beat four of the men you're 19 years old you f***ing crazy you've beat four boyfriends they weren't boyfriends okay doesn't that's even that's actually even worse that's assaulting random men what what happened alcohol you just get drunk and hit random men no most of them deserve it what did they do how has he deserved it you beat the shit out of him and you've stabbed him oh I guess what has he done to deserve it not maybe he doesn't deserve stabbing maybe I don't deserve the stabbing maybe I don't deserve it really maybe she provides nothing she birthed she birthed a kid she did do that she birthed a kid on accident I'm very grateful that she birthed my baby that's a hard thing she carried that's all I did she carried my baby for nine months while I was AWOL and I'm sure I provided crazy amount of stress but that's the only thing I can say that she's done that for me exactly so get the f*** out you can't have a bright future you said electrician's apprentice yes you can have a very bright future you can make a ton of money the money's in the trades right now I know yes the money's definitely in the trades right now and all the money owed so far is to her family she refuses to work she refuses to be a mother she refuses to quit beating you she stabbed you on Saturday well I just I've tried I've tried to leave I just I can't I don't know what it is if he gets a taste of just anyone else that is actually like above a four like do you understand that you hold the cards in this she can't do any she has no money she has no support system she has no money you hold all the cards I just can't I've tried I've tried to leave you can't I've tried to leave I don't know what it is she already admitted in this show that if it wasn't for your income she wouldn't stay I know I know she's told me that so you're being a pathetic cuck I know it is pathetic she's told me a lot of this shit to my face you know that it is meaning if she ever gets any kind of independence she's gone anyway so you may as well bite the bullet it's just hard I've tried no one said it's easy you're 20 years old I get that you have a kid I get that you want I can tell that you want the family to be together you want the family to be whole I do I think everybody wants that regardless of how she feels I think she wants her family whole too you had two parents growing up no no I mean I had two but not my two you probably want different for what you different than what you had you're not going to get that with her dude buddy I know I know hey have you ever watched any like true crime anything ever yeah yeah my family's told me before that it's going to lead to that who said that my family has told me before that they're scared that you know but you've already gotten stabbed once in your leg imagine if that was in your throat it could have been that was an inch away from this isn't a joke this is a real thing it was an inch away from an artery less than an inch there you go you will probably die with her she could have killed you six days ago like just where we're going this doesn't get better this escalates to killing I just can't I've tried I can't leave but why are you risking your and your child's life you're being a dog shit father by keeping your kid in that situation I think if I think the best course of action would be for us to separate, but I don't feel I should take full custody city i don't okay so that's your big sticking okay we'll talk about that let's at least that's progress made let's leave that there you owe on usa a 694 dollars and 35 cents you didn't make a payment and your minimum is 151 you have a late fear there you're making money why not at least pay your credit cards it goes you've been everything goes to bills everything goes to bills everything goes to this is a bill other bills living i mean water rent uh electric now now now that i have a roommate that's moved in it's definitely gonna make it easier his crackhead girlfriend is it actually crackhead or are you just jealous it's just an insult i'm not jealous of her okay then why are you saying someone's a crackhead because his ex crack at first we didn't know her know where he admitted he didn't trust her anything okay i feel like i if i'm gonna bring so this whole this whole thing's a situation because i was gonna bring the baby back to the have a job i wanted a job i applied for the job i got the job i wanted to go to work i had him as a babysitter i didn't know who he was bringing my child around he didn't either he admitted 10 000 hours in medical um i went to the hospital there's a few things uh when i went to the hospital and stayed 10 days for crones they're being stabbed um you're in the psych ward for what drinking oh good fuck why the do you still drink why not oh you suck if that isn't the biggest like just she's never gonna change she doesn't want to he doesn't want me to stop drinking he's never just been like hey let's stop drinking i've definitely said let's slow down i've never i don't think so so the drinking isn't the problem there's an underlying issue that the drinking amplifies and when she gets wasted you know drinking is fine but she gets wasted blackout it's not fine wasted blackout i don't drink it's not fine because if we just drink a little nothing like she doesn't this doesn't get amplified they're too young you know maybe we should be infantilizing people i was not this year 20. we the the drinking is not is not what the underlying issues is what does this the drinking just amplifies it the drinking brings it all out do we drink that's a good question there's nothing else to do in the house i guess and it's an addiction i don't know here's the reality you have additional collections of verizon 1 709 more collections 288 548 953 655. you're not paying your own bills you're not taking care of your own household you're allowing her to drag you down just because she's good in the sack this makes no sense obviously the kid was a mistake but it wasn't an accident you were putting raw loads in her buddy you should go find people you need to go to rehab you need to get help go to aaa you need a date i promise you will find someone you just met her when you were young and you feel like you should be with how many women have you f***** up you need to get help go to aaa you need a date i promise you will find someone you just met her when you were young and you feel like you should be with how many women have you f***** up i don't i haven't kept account maybe five six there we go i promise you you will find one that you're more attracted to that you are happy with yeah that's that's not a lot okay i it's just it's hard you know i can't no it's actually not i don't know why i come back i don't know why well she doesn't even want you to except for the bills you have family to go to i might need you to actually like just get away from lexington i know with the family and the kids situation that one's hard but i need physical distance between you guys how am i going to do that with the exactly it might be hard we might have to brainstorm but the thing is you have some you therapy to get out of this situation you need to get away from this crazy everyone already hates her in your town for a reason she's insane a lot of people do hate her yeah and everybody knows she's insane everybody knows that she has the craziest eyes i've ever seen on a person she keeps looking over here and it's genuinely you should wait until she gets into that mode where she goes crazy and it's like her pupils are just she's just demonic some of it on video and that was actually insane yeah that was terrifying it was definitely and in this chicken account listen i mean you had fees that must have been an overdraft you have like nothing in there and it's vending machines and getting some bullshit and bullshit and vending machines and taco bell and getting some bullshit getting energy drinks getting energy drinks and smoking vape and energy drinks and raising gains mcdonald's apple bill cash app papa john's uh walmart energy drink cash express is what is that that's from me borrowing money yeah payday loans i got trapped in that cycle for a little bit just let it go to collections you're done just like you already in collections just quit the cycle by just stop paying at this point i mean they could sue you and you could get garnish could they might i'd say there's a good chance good chance i guess netflix bullshit bullshit apple getting some bullshit bullshit taco bell bullshit energy drinks and bullshit bullshit energy drinks mcdonald's cash app cash express again bullshit bullshit market firehouse subs bullshit bullshit hey you spend more on energy drinks than it takes to actually pay back these cash advances so just don't get payday loans and energy drinks and you won't be in the cycle i'm trying to get out of the payday loan cycle get out of the energy drink cycle and you won't be borrowing payday loans oh i wouldn't have to have energy drinks if i could get sleep if we had a normal life easy pay easy blame that on me drink liquid assets from gamer subs it's a powder it's 40 cents a serving it's that's a solution apple bill bullshit energy drink energy drink energy drink energy drink energy drink apple bill spectrum bullshit energy drink energy drink energy drink taco bell bullshit bullshit and yes you are overdrafting for those energy drinks and her cash app is when you're on facebook dating what are you intentionally trying to do right make him mad is that it why did you download tinder to talk to people to talk to other people you're not trying to talk to people on facebook no she what do you want right now she talks to other she doesn't talk to other people just to make me mad no pause woman you said if he wasn't paying the bills you wouldn't want him there so why aren't you talking to other men to have fun but that's not the only reason why i do want him is just the bills what you just said you you just said if he wasn't paying the bills you wouldn't want him there you said that earlier like having a punching bag she goes she goes back and forth she goes back and forth you're just getting a lot of bullshit for me sometimes she doesn't sometimes she's a bit yeah you said that four times we had a kind of what do you guys think do you guys think i'm manipulative honestly you both probably are i i think i probably have been but it's gotten to the point where i question you just have videos and pictures and evidence that's all you have plus a stab wound which i have a black eye that's after you gave me a stab wound we both each other up real bad what's your rent 800 a month what do you get from the first a month his boyfriend pays 400 now it is you're just so weird like is there joy ever like what the having a boyfriend even if it was your boyfriend may not be your boyfriend exponentially better than having i think she's just jealous because this guy's been my best friend since we were kids and has he ever stabbed you no huh yeah i probably want him at home too listen with your 2491 in grocery this is not a hard budget you get groceries for you and the kid kick her out you can pay for this rent he pays half already utilities probably a couple hundred bucks you don't have a car payment you don't have all this stuff all you have is your usaa to catch up on and you're done you can budget with an extra thousand hours left a month i bet what about the collections start negotiating them but i think you have a thousand hours left save up a couple month emergency fund negotiate the collections pay them down with your thousand dollars left you can pay off your collections in six months this all depends on if i can leave or not no you don't have to leave kick her out you can afford your rent i don't know she's not contributing and then do the government thing for the kids it makes no difference if she's there or not she doesn't bring any money in okay but you can easily budget this it's a reality if you have you have an extra thousand dollars left you can pay off your collections you can have a six month emergency fund and you can 50 30 20 until you retire but the thing is i will make this easier for us to actually conclude and get her ass out because i have something she does not know about and we even extra confirmed she doesn't know about before filming in this envelope and i'm gonna open this in the post show and honestly you're done uh yeah this is the end of you and that's it so we're gonna do that in the post show so we'll see you there for an extra 20 minutes join hammer elite the best membership on youtube that's why there's over 130 000 monthly members three premium shows every single day six days a week you can click join to join on youtube or or that link below or you can go off platform on the hammer lead app or hammer elite.com wherever you want to be same membership on both platforms see you there i hope you guys know that there's no way i'm going to be able to leave her she could have killed you on saturday why do you not really dude she could have killed you i don't know and i've left but then it'll always end up coming back or letting her back well then make your decision well let me help make this easier for you what do you think's in here pictures pictures of what probably him cheating you want pictures of me cheating to be in there and make it easier for us to be done let me show you i just launched the brand new hammer elite app available on every major platform so you can watch every show anywhere you want you'll get three exclusive dedicated shows every single day monday through saturday refer a friend after you sign up and you get an additional 30 days of hammer elite access for free download the hammer elite app by using the link in the description or pin comment down below this is the best membership you'll ever join and that's a promise i want you to be on the next episode of financial audit right here 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