[Music] Well, hi. Happy Black History Month. While it's still happening, I am just shaking my cleavage. And I am Kim Fields, and this is the rate. Thank you for joining us. You're welcome. Yes, thank you indeed for joining us. It is these two podcasting niggas back at you again. It's a darn normal thing, a regular thing. And in the name of the month, we'll start with some black excellence. Even though we do that every month. This month, black excellence is going out to the upcoming president of the American Medical Association. One, Dr. Willie Underwood, the third. Straight out of Gary Indiana, by way of Morehouse College. That's not how Byway works. But when to work, Morehouse College. So he's one of the alumni. I know a lot of y'all who listen are from Morehouse. So congratulations. All here doing amazing things. He was an elected president in June of last year. So he'll be inaugurated this upcoming June. And he's been working incredibly hard for the majority of his life, especially academic life. Says that he earned his degree in biology for Morehouse. Then went to sunny upstate. How do they say it's sunny? That's right. Yeah. That's where he got his medical degree. I went to University of Connecticut for surgical training, University Michigan for a master of public health. Shout out to all y'all. Wow. That's seven different colleges. He was a lot of schools. Yeah. He became one of first five urologists ever admitted into Robert Wood Johnson Foundation, clinical scholars program. And he's got more than 25 years of experience in urological surgery. So who better than this esteemed like to run the American Medical Association, which if you don't know, is an association that helps unite physicians nationwide. So they can figure out how to help us in this bullshit that we're dealing with. And my guy, what do they just do show up and sweat? Pray first. Shit. Anyway, shout out to you. Indeed. Again, Dr. Willie under the third. Congratulations. Let's get into some hot tops this week. First of all, oh, girl, it's too much to be bitch, which is okay. Well, thank you. No, I will not take my. Oh, I'm not sure I could hear. Okay. Amen. First of all, uh, Preston piece to the big rev Jesse Jackson, 84 long years. I think he was sick. And he was having health complications. So. Rest in peace are. So the Belka Lee's tour is off. Um, oh, I was like, what? Oh, it's taken off. Yes, yes, it has to go go go. Right, right, right. Ready sent. Yeah. So, uh, from what I've seen so far, it's, it's been a beer getting dragged. Uh, blue face draws dragging off his ass. Cardi fall not the stage and blame in the government. Tyler coming out to do that song. I hate. Um, Kalani. Oh, yes, Kalani was there. I feel like she brought someone else out too. I forgot. But. Woo, Tyler. God, I hate that. Fuck it. I'm sorry to not hear ever again. I don't even know what song you talking about. I didn't know they had a song together. They don't have a song to get. Oh, I'm talking about. I'm saying that me. You ain't been me. You know, saying that me. You ain't been me. You know. Oh, I didn't know I was her. Awful. He is horrendous. Exit you. Why would you? It's so bad. Okay. And I gen, I generally like her musical. I was like, what happened with this one? Right. This one's just singing a miss for you. Yeah. Okay. Well, it'd be like. Um, meanwhile on the other side of the fence, Stefan Diggs got about eight. Nine cases at the same time. Somebody's doing him for defamation now. Really? Three other things. Oh, yes. Oh, God. Yes. It's going down for diggy digs, bitch. Defamation. The defamation to go out. Why? Let me pull this one up. Oh, it's not even just defamation either. It's like, I think it's his former. Oh, wow. This was right before the Super Bowl. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Oh, you'll see. Defamation, civil conspiracy, aiding and abetting a salt and bat. Oh, God, nigga. Oh, God. The chef is also speaking out now. Okay. Yeah. The chef that accused him of strangulation or whatever. Right. Well. Um, so there's that. And, um, I suppose in the meantime, we'll just be allowing this allowing. We'll just, you know, keep our eyes on the prize, Miss Cardi. Yeah. At least she seems to be focused on her shows. And not whatever that nigga have going on. So, yeah. Good night. That's blue face panties and, um, that song. I'm like, entire little escape. Uh, it looks like what I expected it to look like. I bet I figured you'd say that North West apparently has a fashion line that's coming out. North West is 12. Now, the other day when we were talking about her, like, I don't know, having black teeth and a piercing in her finger, I thought North was like 13 or 14. Okay. Do you really need to be piercing anything but your ears after 12 or underneath 12? I mean, I'm not saying like throwing a pit or fire on my girl is raising her. It's just like, hmm. Oh, there's 12. Is it also a fashion line? No, but look at who our parents are. So. I mean, of course. Of course. It's giving like, um, you thrusting yourself into adulthood before it should be like, you're a kid, right? And I'm just not sure how much of a childhood you get to have when you grow up on the Kardashian shows, you know, like she's never known a life that could be even remotely normal. So. Colley Jenner literally grew up on that show, watching her sister look like that and be like, oh, you're a little likely one. And she was like, whoa, oh, my drink. Right. Oh, all of my lip gloss. I got some. Where you ask? Damn, she did. Immediately when she did. She sure did. Yep. And blew over all of them. Yeah. Yeah. Sure did. Yeah. Anyway, um, North's mama has already applied or submitted, submitted applications for three different trademarks in relation to this line that I suppose is going to be called north. I think it's pronounced. Nori. Hmm. But it's N-O-R-E-Levin. Oh. I'm pretty sure they call her Nori as like her nickname. Right. Um, okay. But the N-O-R would be North, obviously. And I think they say the 11 is when she came up with the concept of having a fashion line. When she was 11 last year. Yeah. Last year. Okay. Uh, well, I mean, is this just trademark applications or are there actual plans for clothes? Because remember when blue was born, Beyonce trademarked everything and she ain't sold no one item. Yes. So nobody else will play in our face. Right. Right. Right. But it sounds like they fully have. Okay. Intention to do this. I mean, it could be something like that technically really just like before when the obvious play. Right. Um, but especially since this is specifically a like trademarking this turn selling. Right. Like they have specific plans for this. And again, like you say where her mom and then being who they are. Who shot when she be right. Oh, let me start a fashion line. I am interested in what it's going to look like. I think it's going to be a lot of black and a lot of baggy stuff. Yes. All to rock wrap. It's, it's giving like limited to Spencer for kids like my, my thought is limited to you remember limited. This is like where you go get your ear pierced. No, limited to was like a, not Claire's limited to was like a clothing store for all I am thinking of Claire. Yeah. Yeah, this is not giving me. No, I feel like Nora is going to give you Spencer's hot topic. But for kids. But for kids. But for kids. That's what I'm hoping.
Well, I'm hoping so, but no, of course not, but I'm hoping for it because I think that's actually a very profitable idea 1,000% clothing for adolescent girls Oh, right. G close for the baby, but not too edgy. You know tweens. I mean edgy just in like ooh look at this Look at the Swarovski crystals on these oversized baggy denim. Yeah Skulls on overall Yes, that type of ship vans and shit northwest vans something like that Yeah, so I do and if it's priced you know at a normal, you know, regular it's not like Supposed to be luxury or whatever. Oh God bless and they throw it in Walmart or Target or something like that I could see that being really I'm not joking. I could see that be a real Or even H&M or something like that who will let that girl be found data Walmart girl. They're so okay I don't think him Kardashian is allergic No matter where it comes from. Here's the thing the reason that you say that I'll give you tarjay I will give you tarjay. It's a possibility because remember when Marricade, nationally, and then used to be in in Tarjay and all that shit And the girls just be like Tarjay and American actually used to be Tarjay and Walmart as well as Ross bitch because we want money Yeah, that's what I'm and then the girls were like oh here goes another five billion for the Olsen Yeah, I guess they were yeah, so you might be right That it would be because then I'll talk about it. I mean, I guess I guess I guess a lot of it online Yeah, other way there would start probably, but I think most parents of girls at age would rather buy shop in person so kids can try it on They're constantly growing and all that I just wouldn't be shocked if they put it in a mass retailer I just wouldn't a bunch of cheap shit. Maybe you put it on target. You can know I'm not buying shit. Well, that's one I wouldn't always but yeah It's not a Walmart very near by me. I do enjoy a Wally world because I'm not just walk around there and wait for somebody to start fighting. Oh my god Walmart as somebody who doesn't live in a city that has a Walmart or Wherever that one is deep in Queens or whatever girl. I'm not going out there. That's a I'm not right like they're saying it. I've never actually seen it But when I go back to the South and I go to Walmart, I just walk around that bitch. It is a marvel. I can Real It is just they're so Everything in that everything is there you go by your tombstone of Walmart Every everything is in that fucking warehouse of a store. I Be feeling like baby D when I'm in there because I'm like they got all the new snacks They got this with a butter on it and their chin and cheese like it Walmart, it's crazy. I think I'll take me to that. I'd be in there like y'all got all these different body washes like they got every Scent of the body like they just have it all every deodorant. It's just you know in New York Pringles make a pickled egg flavor Walmart Don't give me started on the chips. It's just so much shit. You can get Actually, it's great that that one is far from me because I would just walk around there and buy chips Chips and candy. It's probably for the best that I'm not near right It's probably for the best that I'm not near one, but I feel like a foreigner every time I go in one like this is for real like I feel like a European It's like If y'all ever been to Universal Studios where they have their super Mario Land You walk through this Mario pipe and you come out on the other side of it and I'm like bitch. I'm in I'm in super Mario Where how did they what was it like? That's what I'm like incredible Juvenile has a new song and it's called BBB for big booty bitches. It's just fantastic I love it. I have adopted it into my bloodstream. It is all that I know in terms of sound at this moment So thank you, Juve for just being classic and I guess unstoppable in your reign of hip-hop music Specifically of the Southern variety So I bring that up to say that not only is it fantastic, but the Tik Tok girl is the clock app girl is in otherwise are demanding that Megan the stallion Thompson Exactly don't that she jump on a remix it is. Yeah, no, absolutely Usman that Bentley. Oh my god. Oh my god. That is her man. Please. Please everybody just stop playing. They are that is divine Megan They want Megan on the remix to this. I mean if you have heard it Duh. I mean, it's kind of a layup. It's really like and if you haven't heard you go hit play and then you'll be like okay Duh. I saw Juvenile a comment somewhere that said he at her and then said loading. Oh, so don't play me it might be in the works Don't like with me because that song is really and now I do want to do it. It is so good on its own So cool, but if there's a remix of this song I'm begging on it. They're gonna chew. It's so good. Yeah Oh now see now my hopes are up and she somewhere they I mean I didn't realize their birthdays are so close to each other How lucky that they've been over the all star break but Like that lady somewhere with her man Did you see her up on that yacht uh squatting above his crotch? I was like hey Megan with clay blending into the yacht Just hands behind his head. I'm like I don't think lens the wood Ah, you really can barely even see clay in that picture And I mean who's looking when Megan has her ass out, but yeah, yeah They they are so cute and I just really love it from I'm gonna start talking about them because I'm we're gonna curse them like we do everything No, who are they? What do you make? I don't know either one of y'all but I believe in y'all's love Okay, so let's talk about Fantasia her triathlon as that so Fantasia I guess was performing and I forgot with city and her husband Came upon stage and did like a rep proposal Uh to her and basically said that he wants to give her the wedding that she deserves that sort of sense right a lot of couples do that Um, you know specifically couples who just didn't get the wedding that they might have wanted or didn't have one and like oh Maybe do something now right? I'm very sure whatever. I think it's cute. You know, I'm not interested in marriage myself Yeah for y'all who do it and last long enough to be like hey Where have we spiced it up? Yeah, anyway, so Fantasia got on God Fantasia daddy got on God's internet and it was like well I lived my daughter very much, but I just I knew that he's taking advantage of it And he don't pay for this and he just watch a lady baby, baby Fantasia Fantasia daddy Do you know that we know who you are? Do you know that we have heard Fantasia speaking about you before Oh, I haven't actually what did she say about her daddy? That he tried to sue her take her oh Okay, never mind rarely present I was about to say because I remember the movie and I don't remember seeing too much about a daddy in that movie So who even is this man? Well, all right, all right Furthermore, why don't you pick up the phone and call your child if you can do that and say hey, I don't feel good about this Then again, right why are you running to the mother fucking internet? First of all, who gave it to you and how do you know how to use this phone? That's one two Why are you running to us to tell us anything about your daughter's husband and this moment that people were seemingly happy for them She seems happy You her fucking father decided to come on the internet to us Yeah To do what? Interesting stamp on that that peace and happiness So I'm talking to you the same way that I was talking to bro Rilla and Leave us out of it and talk to the lady because you're wrong Even if that nigga is a gold digger or you know Todd Tucker or whatever. Why are you telling us? That's what I'm thinking. Is it possible that two things are true? Yeah, that maybe this nigga is trying to steal your money, but also your daddy is not no better If anybody was going to bring it up, it shouldn't be this nigga like yeah If I have a family member our loved one that I feel like is in that situation Last thing I'm gonna do is at the say to him and be like that's true That's true because if if we can't talk like why are you bringing the fans in the general public into it? What are we supposed to do about it? We have no we don't have that lady phone number. We do not know where she live What are we cannot email for? We don't even know if you're telling the truth. Yeah, so why wouldn't you?
reach out to your daughter. And if you did, and she was like, damn, nigga, you didn't even raise me mind your fucking business. I can make whatever decisions I want to. Then that's fair, sir. That will, again, why are we being brought into it? Damn, okay. Yeah, that's what you're saying. Girl, the streets are saying that Todd ain't paying no goddamn bills in that motherfucking house. Candy didn't accuse the nigga of squatting to the judge, damn. He is accusing her of motherfucking unlawful eviction or some shit like that, which is, no, unlawful eviction is so funny. Fantasia clap is back at her father. Oh, did she? Okay, we'll hold on. We can't move on yet. We got to go back. Okay, so she posted his mug shot. No, she did two years ago. Yes, did all work. Missed a meaner crime of domestic violence. She captioned on Instagram. I wasn't going to do this, but this has gotten out of hand. Joseph Verena can't even call you dad or father. You are a donor. We have covered for you long enough. My mom and me have made you look like you were an okay man. But now you have come from my king. Well, well, good job. Sorry, I didn't meet the life at the point. Tonight, I will go live and behind me will stand all who know you. Oh, don't go live. Please, please don't go live. And tonight will be yesterday. Please don't. Um, it's not I'll go live. Please, please don't. I hope somebody can change your mind. How can someone steal if Fantasia Taylor is the CEO and my king, Kendall Tainer is the president of our company? Well, very easily. Well, that's yeah, you can do. All Fantasia. Oh, God. So two things can be true. What you say? Like I just said, this thing is shit and possibly for money. It's not looking good. Actually, for either one of them, but I'm not shocked that she's like, yeah, my man, my man, my man, because nigga, who are you? Who are you? Literally a sperm donor, literally a last name donor. And that's it. Oh, well, not shocked. Oh Fantasia tonight. I should help you finish the war. You started. No, you, you don't have to do that. You've really done sister. You, I think this Instagram caption or whatever you wrote, you cleared, okay? Yeah, you really ate that's enough. The mug shot, you don't have to give it for this nigga who was 60 something years old with them charges behind it. You could have just said, you could have just posted the frog emoji with the little T next to it. Right. I promise you, we all believe your daddy is garbage. You don't have to convince none of us. None of that. Anything else to this. Please don't believe it, girl. We saw the movie and he wasn't in it. Exactly. Well, so yeah, child Todd Tucker is over there talking about candy trying to put him out and it's not right. And they threw his shit out without consent or or core intervention and shit. And, you know, she's in in New York working on Broadway shit and he's been at in Georgia taking care of the kids. Candy said that he ain't paying shit to take care of them goddamn kids. That house is mine that I had before we got married, which you know is true. Right. And I allowed you to live in my mother's fucking guesthouse. And you ain't paid not an air bill. You ain't bought nobody no cheeses around this bitch. You ain't bringing nobody a twizzler mouth up. You ain't paid for no t-bow. And you want us to keep staying here? Did you only pay for no socks to put on a some blaze feet and you want it? You're going to get out. You have to get out and find someplace to make money and work and live. So do you know how divorce works? Like you can't we don't you don't get to still live in my home when we divorce like you. It's candy whisper. You don't get to still do that. I'm not sure what what's not clicking for Todd. Like you we're getting divorced, nigga. Why wouldn't you be removed from the main house? Why wouldn't you be removed from the property altogether? The fact that you were allowed to stay in the guesthouses. Okay. Oh, look at the clip of of Candy and Mama Joyce walking out somewhere. I was just about to bring her up. So Mama Joyce, what do you think of this messy divorce? Girl Miss Joyce could barely say two words for candy up here. Almost teleport. There we go. Into the shot and was like, no. She did not need a mic. Please, please. Joyce can not get on a mic. Mama, you better get your ass in this suburban. Correct. Because you are going to bring her up because you're you because you are also living off of candy. So just get in the car. Just get in the van. Just get in the van and hush because you. I mean, this is honestly kind of sounding like the fantastic store except, you know, obviously Mama Joyce was like a present parent. But like you. You warned about Todd because you didn't want nobody dipping into your phone. You didn't want the potential access to candy's money. You didn't want none of that to be impacted for you. I'm sure and your daughter, yes, you love and care about her all that. But I'm sure you were also looking out for yourself. So yeah, you go and then just get in the van. Just get in the suburban and let's go. Did. Can't you ever have a boyfriend that Joyce liked? I have no way of knowing. I'll go look running for Congress, shall. Who? Luther Campbell, Uncle Luke of Miami, Florida. The reason we have rental advisory stickers. No, he's not. Big booty hoes. Yes, he is to live crew, the king. Yes, he is. He is sure. The United States Congress, like, no, or Florida. He's running for Florida. What what do you mean? What are you saying exactly? He's running to be a state representative or oh, oh, oh, oh, my God, we've easily said he was considering. He now plans to run for Congress in 2026 midterm election. No way. Yes, girlie. Okay. Okay. So the United States House of Representatives, you are really okay. All right. Hmm. Why? First of all, you have to make a run. He can. He's allowed. And the gag is? You better not. You better not. Don't even say it. I think you do a better job than a lot of current Congress people. What? What has he done to give you that sense of, uh, to make you feel so sure about that? Um, he's pretty active in terms of youth and, you know, overall community in South Florida. Yeah. He's like a big philanthropist in terms of South Florida. Yeah, he's like a football coach. He's always front on the line and shit. Okay. But I think most people just know it for being uncle looped. It's not like he bounce around always on Instagram talking to run his mouth like I don't. I can't just, you know, adorn him in medals because I don't know a lot about his personal goings on or even policy to be honest with you. But just the very bit that I do know about him and the current people in office. I'm like, you're gonna be worst. I know he's running because whoever is currently in that seat is being indicted on fraud charges. So 15 federal counts for whoever this lady is, uh, miss shirtless McCormick. So yeah, you probably write about that. He probably is going to be better at least as far as that measure is concerned, but I just going to I wouldn't say could be good. Okay. Okay. Okay. Well, you know, I, I just can't really, I'm having trouble visualizing this. Yeah. But I do think if he could, I mean, I don't know how to say this in a nice way, but like Miami would be the city to do it. Miami would be the ones to put Uncle Luke in office like. I don't think we have the power to do that. Furthermore, Miami. Well, I mean, what, what, what, what do you, Steven, I Smith is talking about running for president. So it's like, I, I don't know. Steven, I Smith is a lunatic. Well, I, I did not know. Uncle Luke was like, had like rehabbed his image and was out there trying to, you knew Steven Smith was a lunatic. Yes. And so I didn't take that seriously. Same what you just said. Uncle Luke was running for Congress. I did not take that seriously. That sounds crazy to me. But all right. I'm not taking it super seriously either. It's fucking Uncle Luke running for Congress. But I could see Miami doing it. It's crazy. And things have happened in Florida. Miami will never make this man. They will never put him in office of anything. He is black and a former rapper that is not going to happen. It's just not. But the lady who have young ass like dumb ass white Latin people who were on that fucking boat over at Bayside talking about Donald. So they made like a whole song for Donald Trump. Latinos for Donald Trump. Yeah. Well, there's a black woman in there in there now. What the fuck they got to do with it? Okay. That would mind. I'm, I'm trying to make it make sense that now I've run out. silo.
Buf got his ASB down to the Mardi Gras. They say he was doing absolutely too much. Everybody was over his ship. He got throughout about throughout about three different establishments. There's an allegation that one of the bartenders who seek his shit taught him to go find some holes to dig or some shit. Living footage of him getting his ass cracked outside of somewhere, shirtless industry, getting his ASB by seem like the same people who are trying to get him to calm down. Like there were, there was a clip of this one hulking brother who was strike holding him down on the ground and shy about his literally rolling around like a toddler trying to I guess get back up and keep fighting or whatever. And this man eventually clocked him two good times on the head. Oh, he looks terrible. Yeah, he doesn't look. Oh, damn. Right. There you go twigs. Yikes. How crazy does his last name is at the beef? All right, let's talk about Michael Jordan and the Daytona 500. They're asking why he's touching the big. I'm sorry. Yep, I better do. Um, so Michael Jackson Michael Jordan. Um, his owns a ask our team or something. Cause his team. Okay. Right, right, right. Why not? Right. Hockey, like I'm surprised he doesn't all the money. It's not enough. He needs more. NASK. Anyway, that's big money. You're right. That's it. And that's all he cares about. You're fucking. You're so fucking right. You are correct tonight. So him and his girl is one of Daytona 500 over the question. I guess that's the big bad bitch. Yeah, I didn't know they wanted. So is the empty 500? Is that horses or is that cars too? I'm pretty sure that's cars. It's just in Indian
apolis instead of Daytona. That's why I figured. Oh, wait, wait, Indiana Derby is the horse is. That's the horsey girlies that Kentucky Derby, the Kentucky Derby is the horse girlie. That's the horse girlies. Yes. Oh, there is. So yeah, they won too. I just looked it up. Oh, I was close. Oh, yeah, Mr. Sports star. Um, so yeah, they won the Daytona 500 over this past weekend. Uh, Tyler Reddick took them to this win. That's correct. Oh, I guess the team is called 23 11 racing. It's the 23 for him and X, I guess those are Roman numerals. Okay. Whatever, 23 XI racing. Yeah, they won the big old goblet of fire and shit and, yeah, and so there was a clip of a Michael Jordan. I guess like grabbing on to Tyler Reddick's secure old son, like on his, the back of his like leg and made it seem like he was like poking his butt. Yeah, playfully, I guess, but still struggling, but it looks very weird the way he's kind of grabbing it's weird, but and then scratching on the back of his knee is weird. Like of all the, I'm just saying it for the fair around. And I'm kind of disturbed. Like why, right, why you wouldn't just toss a limb on the fucking head or something? I'm like, why would you grab it? It's, it's weird to even picking them up and you know, hold them to the side. Anything other than grabbing at his butt and then rubbing on the back of his knee. Like, why are you doing that little, that was, I saw them. I was like, why are you doing that to them? I've never, I've never seen that as a form of like. Yeah. You know, loving on a kid or playing with a kid. I've never seen like, Oh, scratch the back of the knee. And I see that people do that with a right, right. It's just strange. Anyway, um, Tyler Reddick actually addressed it recently. He said, from my perspective, I've gotten to know Michael and his family very well over the years. I've been with 23 XC. I don't see what other people see when it comes to this. For me, it's a huge moment. This is the biggest moment in my career. It's huge moment for my family and for his family. And I just put that off to the side and think about the look on event space and now his Michael's wife. And the whole family and this whole group when they got to the victory lane to just how happy everybody was celebrating together. So that's where I'm at with it. This sounds to me like he was like, no, Shay, I don't like it either. Outside was weird. Let's just focus on the fact that we won. Okay, I mean, it kind of sounds like I just put that off to the side. Yeah, what do you mean? I just put that off to I don't see what other people see when it comes to this kind of sounds dismissive, like, y'all, like we're being weird about it. But I'm looking at this video and I'm not the weird one. This is strange. Look, it's weird for this grown man to be touching your your son like this sorry. And I get that, well, I understand that being more critical about it is certainly going to lead to professional repercussions for you. But I mean, if that's really, I just can't picture me as a parent being okay with somebody touching my child like this. I can't and I can't I also can't picture choosing my career over my child's safety makes you sound crazy. Right. And I just don't I really don't look at anybody. For me, it's a huge moment and the biggest moment of my career. It's like you immediately deflect to the wind. Right. We won. Not even just yeah, he says my career. Then he's like, it was a movie moment for my family, for his family, I put that off the side. I'm looking at his wife's face and how excited everybody was. It makes people crazy. Like I would love for Michael Jordan to explain what he was trying to do in this situation. Like, why did you touch that little boy? I don't see and now I'm very uncomfortable. And I'll be looking at Michael Jordan sideways for a very long time, because I don't understand why you would. I mean, right, when you were just, you know, an asshole to other grown overpaid athletes, I was whatever. I didn't really give shit about that. But now I'm now I'm locked in because what is this nigga? What are you doing for real? Like you trying to get the little boy to act excited or listen, saying like if you were really trying to like touch on a kid, why would you do it in front of this giant trophy with a million cameras and all this like it. That's why I'm saying it looks weird. And I'm not going. I'm not saying, I don't like it. When I was six, I didn't want nobody besides my mom and daddy and granny and them to touch me. It would be like a family friend or anybody would just be like, Oh, and touch my head. But that was me as a show. I was not friendly. I'm still not. Why didn't really want nobody rubbing on me like that? Like everybody can just not touch me. Like I don't mind about like in ways that normal people do. Yeah, rubbing your head. Don't touch me. I don't like you to touch me here. Right. Not at that age. My buttocks. It's just. It's weird. And then rubbing on the, I've never had when I was a kid an adult rub on the back of my knee randomly like that. Like what? No, I'm sorry. My granddaddy would win. It got the pistol. I don't like this. Sorry. Don't like my auntie did. My auntie did you support me on the railing go woohoo. Well, we do that to like toddler. I hate that. You know supposed to do it when kids are old enough to remember it. Right. You got to do it to toddlers with their little round bellies when they think it's a door. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah, I don't like this. Toddlers in their little round. Yeah, this is pretty gross to me. Sweet babies that don't know the world is trash yet. Yeah. Very nice to them. Please be so. It's all nice to them. And don't put your fuckery and all of your trauma on them. Then fuck them up for the rest of their lives because you don't have help. I freestyle that. Well, I mean, it's a that's it for the hot talks. For this week, we made it. We got out on the other side of this. I didn't think we would be able to shout out to us how much time? Oh, girl. Yeah, you sped right through that. I scared it. What else you want to talk about? Well, I'm I'm I'm actually still kind of disgusted by Michael Jordan. Like I don't like. Cool. Furthermore, Tyler, I would have been like, this was the biggest moment of my career. Everyone was really, really excited. And this is fire. Thank you so much for the God for the fire. I will be drinking fantasy out of it tonight. And I also quit. This is going to be my last day, work at the country XC. And God bless everybody involved. Shout out to space jam, great film, the first one anyway. And yeah, I think that's I think we're about we're done here. I'm going to hop into my sports car, whatever. And I'm going to hit the gas, babe. Yeah, I hope that I never worked for this person ever, ever again. And I would never ever come out and be like, yeah, that was weird. But you know what, girl? I don't really, really worth talking about.
- My win, my career, and this trophy. - Yeah, that's really what it is. For me, I'm praying there's some context here that we just don't get, you know, in this seven-second clip. (laughs) - I don't know. Like I saw on this website where I found the video, they said that they had been dumping ice and stuff, you know how they dumped water and all that. So that Michael was trying to brush ice off for the child's shirt and all this. - On his butt. - Right. - I'm like, and we don't talk, how can we don't see ice falling down, man? That's when I'm like, please let's just be, come on, man. I don't want to think nothing. - Are people allowed to say no comment anymore? - Of course, they usually don't, but they can. 'Cause no comment, I think anything other than blowing it off and being like, y'all making a big deal, whatever is nothing, we're all just so happy about the win. Anything other than that would have pissed off Michael Jordan. - Well, I was thinking about whoever was trying to say that, oh, he had ice on his hands. - Oh, well, you know, I think people are-- - My bitch, are you cool? - I think people are really trying to make this make sense, 'cause nobody wants to believe Michael Jordan was touching on a little boy and-- - You know who could help make it make sense, Michael Jordan? - Yeah. - Unless he couldn't make it make sense either, 'cause it's nonsense. - Yeah, others have noted that both shirt was wet after getting ice water dumped on him. In the six-time NBA champion, we're just trying to get ice off the six-year-old. That's not what I see. - I literally don't see that, ah! Okay, okay. Yeah, sorry, I will look. We can call her wrap that up. Pretty disturbing though, far as I'm concerned. - Yeah, I think we're just gonna go ahead and end it there. I was gonna talk about Barbara Lugan, but-- - For what? - She's really right. - I think what she gonna be on in 15 minutes. - Right, and we don't. We really don't, ah, not baddies. What's the, what's the studge show I love? - Oh, hoochie daddy. - Hoochie daddy. - Hoochie daddy. - Guess what, it is on the tip of my tongue. - Was it? Okay. (laughing) And with that. - Got on the collar, booty. - Ladies and germs, where are they at with the next season? 'Cause that show was T. - Oh yeah, no. I mean, and there was a season two. I'm not sure if there's a season three though. - Yeah, with that third. - Right, third. - Oh, hoochie daddy season three is confirmed and currently in production. - Let's get two girls now, let's get two girls. - Amen. - All right, that's gonna be it for the hot tops this week, praying for most. We'll come back with your letters. Well, girlies, it's letter time. - Oh man, yes it is, send your questions to
[email protected]. We may read them aloud on the show. We do have an update this week from Anisa. If you remember, Anisa's man had mice and then tried to guess like her about that mouse being in her car. - Well, an absolute me diabol. - Oh wow, so Anisa said, woo! I was not expecting y'all to read me like this, but I get it. My boyfriend called and confessed the day before your show came out. He said what you guys expected. He was ashamed and embarrassed and explained that he had hoped the situation was taken care of and wanted badly for the mouse in my car to just be a coincidence. (laughing) - Girl, what is wrong with them? - I'm like, you can be talking about. - Ooh, let me just hope this bitch got mice too. - He did take measures to take care of the situation before I came to see him. However, the apartment complex delayed calling pest control. So he went ahead and got Lil Jon, which is the cat. - Oh, it's a cute name. - But to make matters worse, Lil Jon has a disability, which affects his hunting. So that didn't actually help much. (laughing) Lil Jon said, you thought you was bringing me in. - That cat said, what? - Mice, I don't know, child, but get out of here. - What? - Get out of here. - Um, anyway, I still felt upset. But we agreed that he would come see me that next day, all that morning I thought about how much more fucked up my situation could have been. What if I missed my flight or gotten to a car accident or worse brought that mouse into the airport? I got dressed and made lunch for us before my boyfriend came over. When he parked, I met him outside and told him that it was actually best for him to leave. - Can you imagine that you're flying back to New York? - No, I can't. - No, I can not, no. - And there's just, I'm mouse. - No. - You're a 30-some odd feet. - No, thank you. - Here goes this mouse that we all have to figure out. - And it's just scrambling around in the over-hit compartment. (laughing) - Everyone's screaming now. - I broke down while making lunch and realized that my boyfriend never actually cared for me. I kept hoping that if I expressed how upset and inconvenienced I was that he would make things right, but he didn't seem very interested in that. He was upset and showed his ugly side. He tried to toss me $80, quote, unquote, "for my troubles." But I told him he has more problems than I do. - I know as I need to cover that damn dry clean. And girl, let's be serious, Anisa. - I wanna thank you guys and shout out to my home girls who sent me flowers to cheer me up on Valentine's Day. I'm single, but I'm not alone. Thanks, Anisa. - Damn right. - You got Jerry with you. He's got time. (laughing) I'm so sorry. That girl is trying to heal and move on. Here you go. - I can't believe this nigga waited until like, however long it'd be like, all right. - Okay, technically, yes it was. - No, nigga. - Ow. - After arguing with you about it. - And blaming the cat, the cat got a learning disability. So it don't hunt like it's supposed to. Nigga lit a cat out of his. - I thought that mouse would be a coincidence. Are you okay? - As soon as I said it's a mouse in my car, why didn't you say it? So technically, I do have mice. Like why would you think that was a coincidence? Why would it be a coincidence instead of what makes so much more sense, which is that it came from your home? Why would I even call you if I thought there was a chance the mouse came from my house? - Insane. - I'm glad you're single baby. You can do better than that nigga. Best of luck to you. All right. My first letter this week comes from Anthony. Anthony says, "Hey, Chrislyn Fury, I'm a 45 year old straight black man who was raised on hood logic, hood sensibilities, hood rules, and hood spirituality." - What the fuck are you doing over here? - I started getting into the read because Charlemagne kept shouting y'all out as one of his favorite podcasts. - Even more shocking. - When he was going through his therapy awakening, meanwhile I was deep in my therapy bag as well. So I pulled up to the read. Now let me be real, in the beginning me and Crystal used to have full, blown, one-sided arguments. (laughing) - How'd you know that? (laughing) - I'm talking walk around my apartment with my hands on my hips like, "Yo, this chick is out of line." Meanwhile, it was just me yelling into the air at a woman who did not know how existed. - I'm glad that you said it out loud. - But therapy will humble you because now I'm not along like yeah, Crystal got a point at least 87% of the time. My friends clown me nonstop. I mean, it's low, but you're doing better. I'm simply not good. (laughing) - My friends clown me nonstop talking about here, he go taking woman's side again. And honestly, it is what it is. Healing has turned me into a low key feminist and I accept that. - Work. - Anyway, the issue is that as a true Gemini, I got different squads for different vibes, different groups for different versions of me, but I have one best bro, Sean. We met in our mid to late 20s and instantly bonded over exactly what young dumb niggas bond over. Hose, money, and music. - Yeah. - Sean has been that dude for almost 20 years. He's solid and loyal, 10 toes down. Oh, oh, it's not top three. - Okay, yeah, that's true. - He's been there for me through every high and every low. Every why did I smash her and every bro I'm never drinking again. The problem is that I have grown up, but Sean has not. I've done a decade of therapy, shadow work, introspection, ego death, all that shit. I am not who I used to be. Meanwhile, Sean is still moving off the same 2008 operating system. Same logic, same habits, same priorities, even his style permanently lives in the late OO's. Bro never let that oversized clothing look go and now hit it, it has actually made a comeback. - Are you really tired, isn't it? - Now, because I've evolved and he hasn't, we bump heads more and more. And he swears I'm trying to therapy him to death, which might be true sometimes, but damn, I'm trying to help. It's given to the point where we're not as close as we used to be and that's the part that's things. I always thought Sean would be the one constant in my life. No matter the jobs, the women, the drama, or the growth, he was always the steady one. So now I'm asking, is it possible that I have just outgrown my bro or is there a middle ground where I don't abandon him, but I also don't shrink myself to match a version of me that I'm just not anymore? Please help, thanks, Anthony. - Oh, right, Anthony, shout out to you for your work. - That really tickled me, 'cause men always do this with me. They always do this with me, it does. - So, welcome to Sense. I think that it is completely possible and also incredibly normal for you to have outgrown
grown apart from a close friend. - Absolutely. - At a little time, it happens to most friendships. - Yeah, it just, is it hard? Is it suck? Is it something that you don't really want? Of course, especially if you've been friends for an extended time and you've shared all of this personal stuff as you said that you have. But I think, especially in cases like this where you are more just mentally, emotionally, and/or spiritually, sound, sure, evolved, situations like this can either agitate you or hold you back. Because you, I mean, you already agitated. You talk about this nigga still dressed like you in 2008, which is hilarious. And I can see it. But, you know, outside of that is like you, look at, think about this. You are acknowledging that this nigga is not much word in almost 20 years. - Yeah. - And it frustrates you, but you still are trying to figure out a way to keep him in your life without shrinking yourself. Why should you have to? You can let that nigga from afar. You can let him never talk to him in here. So, I think you've probably just grown apart and you have, it's probably for the best that you figure out how to accept that without placing blame. - I agree. I think, I don't like to use the word abandoned when we talk about grown people because words mean things. And I don't think you can abandon someone. You don't have an obligation to take care of. But, there is a middle ground between like, I just don't fuck with him no more. And I'm pretending to be something. I'm not in order to be friends. And it is reclassifying where he is in your life. He can just simply no longer be that extra close. This is my bro, you know, tentals down, bestie type of thing. You can be like, okay, this, I'm not in that place no more. We don't share the same values and stuff like that anymore. First, I have that level of comfort. So now, Sean is somebody. I'm cool with, we met, you know, back in college or whatever, so we cool. And you know, I call Sean when I want to go to the strip club. I call Sean when it's time to celebrate birthdays or, you know, Super Bowl parties, shit like that. But I'm not turning to him for best friend type of shit because we're just not on that level anymore. I think that is the middle ground. And you just have to, like if you already said, you have to be in a space of like, being willing to do that. 'Cause yeah, sometimes you do outgrow people, especially if you go to therapy and they don't. Girl. Girl. Yeah, that'll do it real quick. 'Cause you realized that the stuff you used to put up with or tolerate or think was okay is just not anymore. And sometimes we are leaving the people we love the most behind in that journey and that is painful, that is hard. So you sit with that, the fact that it's hard, but also this is what's best for you. And yeah, I mean, I just, it's sad that he hasn't grown up, but the reality is that most people really don't. Most people don't really mature the way they shoot it. So. Yeah. Yeah, sometimes you just have to celebrate the relationship for what it was, like damn, that was my best friend for 18, 19 years. And yeah, now we just cool and that's okay. It has to be, 'cause it's not the wrong with you for growing up and you can't force nobody else on their journey, like, you don't want to be that person who's just like spreading the good gospel of therapy, but at the same time when you do go through that process, you will naturally start to change the way you talk, the things you believe, like it will come out anyway, even without you being like, let me take everybody, let me pay for everybody's first 30 therapy sessions or whatever, it will show in your beliefs and the way that you move and carry yourself. So yeah, I think you just have to reclassify his place in your life and move on from there. Sucks, but it's part of this. Okay, good luck to you. Our next letter, oh, here's a nice short one from Harold, says, "I recently listened to an old. " Again, sorry. You would, you would. I recently listened to an old episode and both of you mentioned how journaling has helped you. My delimit is that when I start to journal, I end up having a conversation with myself instead, then I realize there are only actually five sentences on the page, which makes me upset. - You mean me. - Because I really wanted to get my thoughts down on paper. What advice would you give to a person who's trying to get better at journaling? Thanks, Harold. - Well, Harold, yeah, this used to be me big time when I started journaling specifically as an adult. And I don't know. I think sometimes I still do struggle with it, but I'm not really sure what it ticked for me. I think it just kind of, I think maybe I just started with, I'm going to type as I'm thinking about this, or write as I'm thinking about this. I'm like, I'm free-stopping. I'm not really even going into it with a plan for what I want to talk about necessarily or what I want to write about. Oh, and I don't expect or need for any journal entry to be like, I'm going to pitch this. - Oh, yeah. - That's right. - That's right. - There's some entries I go back and read, and I'm like, - Were you sober? - Oh, you were a big man. - Mm. - And that? That's a typo. - It's just a typo. - It's a typo. - Yeah. So yeah, I think that it's probably just about, either just freestyle and go for it and don't overthink it and don't get into your head. Just let that pin stay on the paper or let my hands stay on the keys. Or have the conversation first and they're right. Mm. - Shit chat with yourself, 60 seconds, 120 seconds to be like, oh, yeah, being a dada, and then just write, don't think about anything else. - Got it, yeah. - Or you can meditate first. But there's our whole different beast that not everybody likes or understands. And that is 1,000% okay, understandable. - Yeah. - But sometimes that helps for me. - Yeah, I actually still do this, Harold. I start journaling and then my mind just starts going and the next thing I know, I'm having a whole debate with myself. And I find that it's really okay because normally I'll realize I'm doing that and be like, okay, back to the paper. You know, like back to what I was trying to say. And so sometimes I'll go back to it and I'll just write like a summary of the conversation I just had with myself. - Right. - Like while I was writing this, I started thinking about blah, blah, blah. And so now I think maybe this is this but also the point is to help you process what it is you have going on inside, right. So if you start writing and then you start talking out loud to yourself, I don't even really think that's a bad thing. Like, right. I think as long as you are feeling better or feeling like you have the space to get things out, like you might need, you honestly might need to get evaluated for ADHD 'cause this sounds very ADHD for you to get distracted by your own thoughts. (laughs) - Okay. - And start having a whole 'nother conversation. So that's possible but-- - No judgment here, babe. - I, you know, journaling is not even something I do regularly but when I do it is, it almost always goes that way. And I'm just trying to get it out. Whether it's on the paper or just out into, you know, the ether out into the environment around me, you know, I'm telling Laney who could not give less of a shit about anything I'm going through. I tried to talk to this nigga last night. She rolled her eyes inside. I'm like, I'm sorry, do you have to get up in the morning? Like-- - That's just so rude. - Am I, am I bothering you? Am I interrupting your bedtime? You have fucking nothing to do. Like, what? I'm just trying to talk to you, mind you. I'm not even expecting you to talk back. And you still gotta add it to it, okay. - And she's like, guess what? You will do nothing as well. - Yeah, she's like, but we could be silent. You could shut the fuck up. - And think about it to yourself. Like, no, nigga. Only one of us is paying the bills over here. But-- - They're so rude. - Yeah, maybe, so try that what I said about like, when you realize you're getting distracted, go back and write a quick summary of whatever it was that you, the conversation you had about yourself, but also maybe don't, if you're being hard on yourself about this, maybe just don't, 'cause however you do it is fine. And if you're seeing the benefits from having this practice, I think that's what matters more than anything else. - It's your journal. - Yeah. - It's not the Bible, it's not a physics test. It's your book about what you got going inside. And I think Chris made an excellent point of, if you feel it, let it happen for a bit. Get back to writing. And I think before you know it, it'll just be, like, oh, a little bit easier. But also, except that like she and I say it, we still do it. - Right.
I mean, turbo, this is, I, one of the biggest lessons for me over the past several months has been the need to make things work for me instead of trying to force myself into what it is I think I should be doing. - Amen. - Like, well, I shouldn't have issues with attention. I shouldn't have trouble motivating myself and I shouldn't, but I do, but I do. So let's figure out what I need, what accommodations, what steps I have to break down or change or whatever else to get me to do the fucking thing 'cause trying to tell myself, well, you should just be able to do it is not working. So. - And not fair. - And not fair, 'cause I, this is the situation I'm in, bro. You want me to magically be different or you want to help me get to a place where I'm like functioning better and feeling better about myself. Like, what is really more important? Like, when Dr. Joy came on Christmas couch, that somebody was complaining about their child's father not understanding that they need a break from the kids and they feel like they shouldn't have to say it 'cause you should know. And Dr. Joy said, well, do you want to be right or do you want a break from the kids? Like, which one's more important here? You write that you shouldn't have to say it, but do you want to stand on that? I shouldn't have to say it or do you want to get the fuck away from these kids every now and then? Like, I have to do what is going to work for me because trying to force it the other way, like I've been trying to do all my life isn't working out. So however you get to this journaling process, as long as you get there and you're starting to see the benefits from it, I really think that's, that's what matters more than anything else. So, best of luck to you, bud. Our last letter comes from Angel. And Angel says, recently my fiancee and I broke up after five years together. Long story short, I looked through his phone and discovered he had gotten a girl's number on Instagram. Now I know that snooping is wrong, but I can't explain the intuition in the back of my mind that was telling me there was something I needed to see and I was right. What I found was him and his friend laughing about it and his friend joking that he should ask her for news and make her a side piece. Now, yes, damn. Oh, yeah, that friend is not, he do not give a fuck about you. So gross. Now, yes, my fiancee did laugh it off, but as my partner, why were you not shutting down this inappropriate behavior? Why was a girl comfortable enough to even offer her number to you in the first place? Are you on his page or should I guess your problem? After I read the messages, I confronted him and he originally tried to act like I was crazy and he didn't know what I was talking about, but finally he confessed. He said that he had just met this girl and it wasn't anything serious, just conversation. But if that was the case, why would he lie about it to my face? The part that's really confusing to me though is that he says, "Because I look through his phone, we can't be together anymore." And that me looking through his phone was a violation of trust and he can never trust me again. - You mean like when you got this bitch number and then last far on my back with your homie about getting her nudes? I've seen like a violation of trust, too, since we're on the subject. - After I confronted him, he went completely cold. He didn't want to tell me any details and didn't want to reconcile even after I offered to go back to therapy or do couples counseling. Am I missing something here? The only reason I went through his phone, please. The only reason I went through his phone, even though it was wrong, was because I followed my instincts and my instincts were right. But now I'm feeling regret over even mentioning it to him and granted this isn't the first time this has happened. In the beginning of our relationship, I found out he was talking to another girl on Instagram, but he played it off like they were just friends. Before this happened, we were doing so well. We had seemingly open communication. Our days were happy or at least I thought they were and we were in the process of saving up for our wedding. Now I feel like I'm mourning the life I could have had and the only person I thought I could trust. I'm waiting till June for the least to end so I can move out on my own and start my new life, but I'm scared. I moved to this city with him because he promised to marry me if I did and now I'm here alone trying to figure out how to move forward. Was I in the wrong in the first place for even going through his phone or am I being gaslit to believe that this is mainly my fault? Thanks for your help, Angel. Oh, baby. - Yeah, a lot like what we're saying about Fantasia's father and husband, two things gonna be true. - Well, come on now. - It's gonna be true. We've said this before, if you're instinct, if you're, you know, your chakra or whatever is telling you something, ain't right? That's enough. - Yeah. - That's enough. You don't need to go search through his phone, search through his chest of drawers, go on a national treasure hike. They go, you know, oh yeah. Now that we're on top of Mount Everest, it's true, like I can see the truth from up here. You honestly don't need to go through this phone to get confirmation that this nigga was she not you. You knew it, you felt it, and he's done it before. So, you know, I don't even know why we had to get to the point of this nigga breaking up with you because you went through his phone. You should have had all your stuff packed up by the time that nigga came on. She'd been gone. Out of me gone. I'm so glad I'm never gonna like a nigga this much. - Ever again. - Are you sure? - Oh yeah. - Oh, okay, you said that whole thing down. Going through your phone never. - Oh, okay, okay. I thought you meant like-- - You're knowing that you playing with me. - Oh yeah, yeah, yeah. That's not even about liking so much. That's other shit. Yeah, yeah, yeah, you right, you right. So, I think that's sort of my issue here. Angel's same thing if you're touched on, which is like, I don't really have an issue with y'all going through phones. It's that you don't have a plan for what you gonna do if you find something or if they find out that you did it. Like, you have to know, you have to have something in place. It sounds like you thought you were gonna go through his phone to confront him about this. He was gonna apologize. Y'all were gonna work it out. Like you, you found evidence of him being inappropriate with another woman or cheating on you or whatever you wanna call it. And yet you, what you still wanted this nigga? Even though this not even the first time it's happened, I'm really confused. So, like, if you wanted him that bad, why did you even go through the phone, yes. So, this is the sort of thing you have to ask yourself before you go through the phone because you can never undo, because if you do, let's say you go through it and there's nothing in there and he finds out now he's gonna be pissed and rightfully. So, like, I would also break up with you for going through my phone. This nigga is just a jackass. This nigga is definitely a jackass being like, oh, well, the trust is violated and now we can't be together. No more, like, yeah, but the trust is, let's not do that. It honestly sounds like he was looking for a reason to break up with you and you going through his phone was like, okay, I'ma just use that thing 'cause that's as good as it's gonna get. It sounds like he was looking for reason to not be engaged. - Them long lighters. - Oh yeah. - Yeah, from the grocery store. - And I would have just picked the first thing to set a blade. - This is a crime. - I'm setting a whole house. - This is a crime. It's called how dare you play in my face and then lie on top of it. And then try to be like, oh, bitch, you ain't shit. - Right. - Because you went through my phone ho. And now the trust is broken. - Right. - Niggas meets you. - You're gonna miss DMs for five years. Girl, are you cool? - Yeah. - Now everything gotta burn down. Now I have to burn everything down. - Yeah. - I, I'm not gonna go like that, like a nigga that much. He said I was like, I literally would have just been gone. - At this point, you know, due to age and therapy, honestly more than age, I'm just not, I'm not doing, I'm not going back and forth with you no more. I'm not doing it. - But he's, this is really a fucked up person. Like, he, this is, I don't even think you should want him back, baby. Couples counseling, fuck this nigga. It's crazy that he tried to turn around and put it on you, using an excuse or using a rationale that would be valid if he wasn't actually cheating on you. But it sounds like he either was or had every intention to. So again, you have to know before you go through the phone, what it is you're gonna do if you find something and you have to be willing to risk your relationship in the case you don't find something. Like it, before you even pick it, like yes, your intuition was correct. But you didn't have no game plan for like what you was going to do with that. I think it is really, I can't stress enough that y'all have to, when you decide to go through a phone, you have to be willing for the relationship to end. You have to be willing to leave or for that person to leave you. 1,000% and you need to be like intuition, real quick, so since we're on the subject, what do you see me doing? I'm just fucking a gang should. Right, right, right, right. 'Cause you're right, it is a lack of trust. And without trust, you don't have nothing and y'all started off on a bad foot. Girl. So yeah, I a y'all engaged. And he playing games like that and got his Tommy Cole ass friends being like, just nude.
The friends don't even respect the fact that he's engaged. That man has probably been stepping out on you. I hate to say that, but probably, probably. And so, - What's the saying? - Do I think you're wrong for going through his phone? Not like, you know, morally or whatever. Like it is a decision you make. I think where you fucked up was not being ready to leave him once you found evidence of what was going on here. But yeah, he's absolutely tried to make it seem like the relationship is over because of you. - No, you. - No, nigga. Like I'm gonna give you at least 60% of the blame here. At least. At least, sir, because you were absolutely being inappropriate knowing you plan in a wedding with me. But got this girl's number. Talk about we just having conversations. So why I don't know nothing about it. Why I have to go through your phone to even find out about it? But then, no, that goes back to you. Have to be ready to leave these, nigga. So I think even though this person has treated you really horribly, he gave you a big gift by breaking up with you and not taking you back because you wasn't gonna leave him and he was gonna keep playing with you. So thank God that he, thank God that he did you like this before you signed paperwork and made him your legal spouse. So now you can just leave. If you not on the lease, then fuck it. Let him pay that rent by himself and go home. But if you are, you know, I understand not one to fuck your credit up and all that like that. But I think this man, once you have gotten away from him and the dust settles, the smoke clears, you're gonna realize that him leaving you was a gift. 'Cause you wasn't gonna do it and this is not a good person. This is not a relationship that is aligned. So, yeah, I'm trying to think is there anything else here bless you, angel, but no. This is really an asshole, baby. You're better off without him. I know it hurts. - So much better. - Yikes. Look at how niggas will try to play you, turn around and make it show fault. Like, okay. - You sure you don't got mice? Do you want me to come back? - Oh my God. - Come back over there. - This is just like that. - Baby, and you see how a niece has said, you know, at first I was going in a time the conversation and then I realized, this nigga got me fucked up. And you do not really, you gotta take a page from a niece's book, realize this man really never had your best interests at heart. And somebody needs to. And that somebody has to be you, baby. - Girl. - Good luck to you. The read is wishing you the best of luck. All right, we're gonna wrap up the letters right there. Again, if you have a question for us, send that to
[email protected]. We'll be right back. We are back. Folks, it is now time for the read. And I will begin because this will probably take a while. - Okay. First time. - I'm just flipping it on and stuff. - Yeah. Okay, psychology. - Yeah, so hopefully you won't. So first up, Tyra hot ice cream banks. Come to the front, come come, step up to the front, ma'am. Oh, it needs to be said. It needs to be said. - Why did you even waste every body time coming on this goddamn documentary? For what? So waste every body time and confirm that you are out of your goddamn mind. You haven't heard there is currently a docu-series on Netflix that is called Reality Check inside America's next top model. Where they go over a lot of stuff that people have been discussing on TikTok over the past few years, mostly people who were too young to have seen this show. And we're going back like, or some people who did grow up watching this show and were like, "God, damn, this show really frustrating!" - Yeah, yeah. - So in this Netflix, Netflix documentary, they go through a lot of the bad and a lot of the ugly, couple cool things. But they have quite a number of former contestants from the show who came on to discuss their experiences. Why these women really, really went through bullshit? Not only on the set of that show, but afterward. Winners included. - So first I want to talk about Shandy. - So triggering, in case you haven't heard. - This was crazy. - So I do not remember this. Like I kind of remember this whole thing about her cheating on her boyfriend or whatever, but. - I don't think I watched that season. I also don't remember it, but I was horrified at what was in this documentary. - So Shandy at the time of filming her season, which I think was like two or three. - Oh, never mind. I definitely watched it. I just don't remember it. - It was very early, I believe. - Right. - I remember it, I remember it. - No, it was. It was cycle two. I just looked at it. - Okay, so there was a point where they were out in Milan during their season. I think someone said it was like the first time where they took them overseas on the show. And for whatever reason, messiness. Production is like, oh, let's have these Italian men who rode you around on Vespas earlier day. Let's have them come over and drink wine or whatever with you. So they all are drinking, many of them get drunk. I think Shandy said she probably, I think in the documentary, she said she drank probably two bottles of wine. So she was very, very drunk. And one of the guys that she was, like everybody, a lot of the girls and these guys were in the hot tub at one point and like kissing and stuff in the hot tub. But she says in the documentary that one point, she was in the shower, she was barely, she was so black out drunk, she barely remembers being in the shower, but she was in there alone. And then eventually she was in a bed. She says that she, she says she like knew what was happening, but she didn't like, she didn't remember all of it, right, but she kind of knew what was happening or something like that. So essentially she was right in, on set of this show, they filmed it and then they made a story out of it afterwards and that story being that she cheated on her boyfriend back home. They like, it is fucking heinous. But hot ice cream. The director or whoever behind the camera at some point asked Tyra Banks to her green eyed face. Do you remember Shandy's story or the story about Shandy? Tyra Banks responds, I do remember it, but I can't talk on production 'cause that's not my territory. Over her screen on the face, full name. - Right, exactly. - Tyra Banks, lower third, creator and executive producer. How is territory, how is production not your territory when you are a producer of the executive kind, executive and creator of the program? The whole thing is your territory, madam. Furthermore, you afterwards, went on this lame ass like coffee sip and tea siping girl talk thing with them afterwards and was like, oh, you cheated on your boyfriend? Oh, that sucks. And did you, but you know, did you, did you, did you, did you? - Yeah. - Her rendus, and for the fact, for the, the fact that you filmed this whatever, late last year, early this year, whenever the fuck, are you sad in front of these cameras and say that you remember it, but you can't talk about it 'cause it's not your territory, your show. - Girl. - Wow. - Why you can't talk? - I said, it'll make sense. - They speak just literally out of Marvel. - She doesn't have one marble that she's completely bereft of Marvel. - She's a villain. - What she did to Danielle. How Danielle said that she got, closing her gap after she said she didn't want to a number of times, essentially forcing her to, because you know these girls don't want to go home. And you're telling her like, you'll never be a model with that gap, turned around gave somebody a gap of some seasons later, later. On top of the fact, there are several high-fashion models now that have gaps, and it's like, oh, eat it up. Granted, the fashion industry has kind of started to embrace people that just ain't skinny white, because as much as you know, they can be skinny and. - Right. Things have definitely changed in that industry, for sure. Yes. Either way, you hot ice cream are someone who allegedly erected this show to expose young women who were interested in being supermodels, into the harsh realities of fashion, while also embracing them, showing them how to get past certain critiques or certain experiences. And this is a goasy, and this photo shoot is really hard.
and they're just dying, people are gonna do whatever. But, hmm, I got you and here's how I did it. - Right. - No, you just perpetuated the same bullshit that you went through but worked. - Yes. - Did you ever get hypothermia? Did anyone, did anyone ever blame their rape on you? - Right. - Did anybody make you get medical procedures? - Girl, come on, Tyler. - Bitch, are you cool? And it's like one thing for it to have been something that happened on the show and it's just wild on the show and what's wrong. It's worse that you are in your big age, A, trying to sell us ice cream this high. And B, coming onto this fucking program, willfully. And deflecting at every single thing that they ask you that makes you look like the person that you are, which is horrible. Danielle said that after she won, she could barely get any work. Nobody was supporting her. Like they were basically like, we're not giving you no work 'cause you come from top model and not trying to have no reality show do this. Then she says that Tyler Banks on a phone call some 15-hoverment years, 20 years later was just like, I knew that was gonna happen and I did nothing about it. - Yeah. You know the fashion world didn't take reality TV seriously? The whole point of this is exploitation. The entire point of reality TV is to exploit people who choose to be on that program. That is that's literally what you do. - It's one thing to be like, Natalie Nunn. - I have to say some wild. I feel like Tara is worse. Is one thing she ever done and be like, she is worse. - Okay, come here and beat each other up. And then, you know, God bless you on the other side. Like those girls know that they are going to go there and be harmed by one another. And they are not promised this like grand, queer in their dream and within their passion. These girls are promised that they're gonna be cover girls and high fashion models and supermodels of shit. They could not get any work. You knew that you ain't give a fuck. Let's talk about Tiffany and how they're saying, even Jay said that they edited out a lot of what you said to that girl when you were hollering at her. And Danielle just, I mean, Tiffany just got on the internet. I saw today, it was dragging her ass backwards in forwards. And she also said that you were talking to her like a dog and they did not keep that shit in the full edit. And then you were talking about her making all kinds of below the belt personal comments. You are a nasty, nasty individual. And it is clear that you, by the fact that you came on this fucking documentary, didn't take accountability for shit, didn't acknowledge shit, make excuses backwards and forwards. And they're talking about, we'll see you for Cycle 25. No, you won't mad at 'em. We need to see you for Cycle 24, man. Are you not, you don't remember that they replaced your ass with Taiki Wattiti's husband? I mean, why? Y'all brought Rita Ora out of nowhere. Thought we was gonna look at that, child. And, okay, no, go ahead, yeah. Ken Mark, you also stepped up. - Oh yeah. - 'Cause you were also making all kinds of wide wild ass. Like, everything was just, well, it made for great TV. Good or bad, it was good TV. That's all y'all cared about. Was this wack ass TV show? - Yep. - That's all y'all cared about was this wack ass TV show. White lady from UPN, you step up to the front. Two. You step up to the front as well. Talking about UPN didn't have nothing to lose, but everything to gain. Off of black backs, of course. Of course. And then immediately, we saw her as about three times and they kept a cut of her gain up by her seat and walking away. As they were talking about UPN walking away from them. - Good job. - And they see you say CW vying it or whatever. Both y'all, and I know there are plenty of the other people who involved in production of this show, who involved themselves encouraged, you know, this bullshit. But, for the two of y'all bitches who came and sat here and making excuses, just, oh, well, the TV show, the TV show. It's very clear that Tire Banks just wanted her own piece of something that was allegedly fashion, where she could also then like haze these young girls. - Right. - Yep. This is exactly what she wanted. - You and that Ring the Alarm trench coat can get the fuck out my goddamn face. And you have a lot of living nerve coming on here doing these fake ass greens acting like you never did nothing to nobody. But you are psycho. And that's coming from someone who is big in the bin. You need to go back to Australia or wherever the fuck it is that you're trying to sell people fake cold stone and never open your mouth up about modeling our fashion again. Please don't. Please don't. - Yeah. - Pam Bondi, Pamela Joe Bondi, you step up to the front. Speaking of wasting time, why did you even go down to that congressional hearing? You are the attorney general. You are the head of the Department of Justice. They were here talking to you about people who are in these files over and over and over again in these Epstein files. Who are just walking around, Teddy Wagon, just do whatever they fuck they want to, just playing golf and smoking cigars, not giving a fuck because who the fuck are. And they said your ragged Republican Floridian swap ass to the motherfucking so sitting in this place and basically play a political game of, I know you are, but what am I? This bitch literally thought she was Gretchen Wieners down to the program being like, well, let's talk about this convicted felon in your state. Yes, convicted. He and the jail. Let's talk about your bitches that are not. And let's talk about this stringy bleached air while we're at it. I'm sick of you screaming over everybody like this bitch was all watching what happens live. - Right. - How do you think you want brothel? - I didn't believe that shit. - A circus, just a circus, just fuckery, fuckery. You right? Just a glaring. Example. Just a wide open bright middle of the day exhibit on this joke of an administration. These bitches sent Kim Zolsey act to go down there and talk about Epstein files. - Please. - I mean, to not talk about that. - Right. I cannot believe I was watching this shit. No, I was like, I guess I, I guess I should just go watch Zeus. What's the difference? - Am I out of my mind? - Right. - Oh boy. - You are a rabid fucking maniac. You Tyrod ice cream Kenmock. Oh my God, Miss Jay. Did you watch it? - I haven't finished it, but I know about Miss Jay having cancer. - I, a stroke. I. - A stroke, sorry. - What, like I cried. - Oh. - Because there's a part at the end where we're Miss Jay, Miss Jay and Nigel. - Oh yeah. - Like I'll sit together and Miss Jay who's still not walking. They saw him and just got emotional really, really quickly because they were just like, also good to see you. You're talking so much better and it's very clear that like it fucked with his mental health and stuff. He's just really down about it, obviously, for obvious reasons. When he, baby, when they were loving on him and he broke down crying, I too broke down. - Yeah. - And thinking about the fact that those three individuals were just thrown out into, you know what I'm saying, into the ether. When that show, that thing got picked up and Tyrod was sitting there face like, I think they still believe that it was for me and it didn't come from the network. Why wouldn't they believe that it came from me? Even if it did come from the network. Of course I don't believe it came from you, girl. You terrorized all of the people. - And when you're the executive producer, the buck stops with you. Like that whole production thing, I can't speak on that because I wasn't involved. Like, girl, nobody saying the EP is first, like the first one who needs to show up every morning. And it's, you know, you're not warming up the cameras or nothing, but you absolutely can speak on the decisions that production made. You are the executive producer. Who the fuck can speak on it? - It's not you, girl. - You're the EP, you're the creator, and you're the host. - Right. - There isn't anything that's coming into this edit that you don't see, don't get into, do not approve of. - Right. - Why do you think all of them goddamn photoshoots were so fucking psychotic and deadly? - You. - Right. - The girl. - You and Ken and all the story editors. - The temperatures weren't sane. They couldn't even take the temperatures nowhere. - Yeah. - And why would you want to when they was dressing you up as an elephant after calling you fat for however many weeks or having you dress up or as a gunshot victim when your mother was literally paralyzed from a shooting and they know that. These people are fucking disgusting. Are you talking about a cycle 25? Bitch, you better ride a cycle back to P. Sherman while you're at 60. - You and your warm ice cream. Where's I did?
I've ever heard Tyrone this last but not least yeah, this one's a nerdy one this one makes me feel a little bit lighter. One piece live action season two is headed to Netflix in like next month. The girl he's got a trailer. The trailer's adorable. The trailer finally showcases the character named Chopper. Chopper is a cute I'm gonna try to do this really really quickly. Chopper is a cute little typical anime character. He's a cute little reindeer thing and he can transform its all other kinds of reindeer superpowers depending on his thing. Right, really cute. Recurring joke in the manga and the anime and stuff is that a lot of people call him something besides a reindeer and it gets on his nerves. Even his own homies. His other straw hat. Straw hat pirate homies we'll call him like a raccoon or a dog or something like that and he's like it's like a running joke. In this trailer, the teaser of the trailer, the lead character Luffy I guess sees Chopper for the first time. He I guess it's after he comes up like a hot spring or a shower because the actor is in like a towel. A couple of the actors are in towels in that scene and the lead has like a great body. Like I guess they weren't prepared for his abs and muscles and stuff and being glistening I guess. So this is the shot where he finally sees Chopper and he's like what are you? What's going on? And Chopper who's usually shy and doesn't like attention is like hiding somewhere. So adorable. The comments on that little clip that from the trailer that Netflix for whatever reason decided to put on the on the fucking Instagram page. These comments were just lusting after him after the actor. I even commented and I said I think it is so funny that we have been waiting 84 years like Titanic to see Chopper finally in this live action and now we're seeing him in a y'all are just like that's fine. Look at y'all. Let's talk about this young man's abs. So this one girl black girl left a comment that was like it literally made me scream. She said, "Hey, nobody looking at that damn rabbit. I hollered because if you watch one piece, you know that that is a running joke on top of the fact that she said ain't nobody looking at that damn rabbit. It made me hollered." Now here's the read. It was far too many y'all because obviously that comment got like a lot of likes and it's up at the top of the shoe. Oh yeah. It was far too many y'all being like, "He's not a rabbit. Excuse me. He's a real kid." Oda would be so disgusting because he did all of this work and you don't even need a real kid. Bitch, what are you talking about? Are y'all who like I actually jumped into them comment and said, "Lead this bitch along. You wrong. Have you watched one piece?" And that's a very common internet joke. Like it's a very common like somebody five post something like, "Growing nobody looking at that bunny or whatever." Like that's very common. It's what people say when you're super fine. Like pretend like it's something else in the picture. But it was that as well as an in-house joke that would I literally was like chopper would scream like she was making two jokes and the fact that y'all alleged to be like die hard. One piece fans who tried to come up with this girl talking about he's not a rabbi. Bitch that's a joke. I don't know about what the creator would think. The creator would be laughing in your goddamn face if not spitting at your shoes because how did you miss the fucking joke? Now I'm finished. I made it. Amen. Well I am. Horror banks in that man should be tarred and fed. They're not seeing the kingdom of heaven for the shit they put them girls through and they know that. So I am actually going to pass my read this week. I had a feeling we would be talking about the top model thing. So I just wanted to add in one more quick little message. This one comes from Nyland who says, "Hey, Chris Lynn West. I almost forgot about that." That's funny. I was a bit behind on the show and just now her. Crystal talking about the Beckham mess and I need to give Brooklyn's wife her lashings. Crystal, I don't expect you to know. Oh, Beckham, Beckham. Yeah. Crystal. That should be mad. Apparently so. I don't expect you to know who she is. But Kim Fieri, I just want to let you know that Brooklyn's wife, Nicola Peltz Beckham, is none other than the little white bitch who begged her daddy to force M. Night Shyamalan to cast her as white Katara in the infamous The Last Airbender movie. So as far as I'm concerned, anybody on her side is automatically wrong. Brooklyn, I'm sorry. If this is how the universe or someone's got to finally get made look back for the atrocities, we were forced to endure on her behalf. No, I did not know that. I would have met girl if we all erase that movie for our minds. I just don't. I hope. And obviously I didn't look at it more than once. Right. Holy fuck. I hope co the face dealer steals our face that never uses it. I hope the spirit vines follow her wherever she might lay her head and invade her space like she invaded the water tribe with her fellow Eucubian devil. This is hilarious. I pray her diet coke. Other side of a nerdy thing. Right. This is great that they are always flat and her guts are always bubbled. The war between her and good had damn sense is the only war publicly recognized embossing say I was going to say Stevie Wonder could see that was a hot mess. But I convinced he not really blinded her first place. So tough. Well, I have to do stop that. Stevie water is blind. But anyway, boom, boo that white woman. She going to get to them perligates one day and she's going to have to answer the prince Paul and Peter for her crimes. And let me let you in on a little secret. She's not getting in. So if Victoria was doing all that on a wedding day, well, it's not in me to defend a rich white British family. So I won't be doing that because Victoria no she a damn fool. But a good deed cannot go unnoticed. May she continue to do the good Lord's work. What did he say? Before I forget. Well, Jackson Rathbone for playing white Soca and that Confederate soldier vampire. All in the same year. May your future roles continue to be so insignificant that they don't even have a wick of media. Lameo. Flameo. That's how they signed it off. I don't know what that is. You you've outnerded me. Um, so sincerely, I guess nylon. Nylon. That is one of the funniest things I've ever heard in my life. So yeah, apparently Brooklyn's wife is white Katara. I don't I don't understand. I didn't understand any of this. But I think you would actually really like Avatar the last airbender. You keep saying that. I tried. I think you will actually like it. You said that about Sailor Moon. And you remember I tried. And then I just had so many criticism. You were like, leave my show alone. It was wrong. That was when I just grew up on. Yeah. Terry wants me to watch that too. And I'm like, I'm going to try and I just it's very sweet. It is very well. It's like Steven Universe with sociopolitical elements in a very adorable child with powers greater than he even understands more sociopolitical elements because Steven Universe is already pretty. You know what? When you're right, you're right. I'm rewatching it now. So I have the whole thing. It's so good. Oh, the Blu-ray box. Did you see they're putting the the score on vinyl? The score from. Oh, I did see that. I wasn't proud when I did it. I said, yeah, let me go and get that. Um. Wow. That was um. Thanks, Nyland. That was treacherous. Or sending that in. I did not know about that. Brooklyn's five is fat. I guess. I would have never. But yeah. Where do you? Is she British? She's full of York. Yeah. No. But the family. The the Beckham's are British. I know that. Well, so that's what Nyland was talking about. Like I'm not going to defend Victoria. But anybody who lashes this nickel up girl is on the right side of history as far as y'all are concerned for what she did to the last airbender. And I'm just going to let you know she didn't do shit but want to be in it. This is M nice. That was M nice charm once folks. You directed it. He wrote it. Oh, um, I know you wrote it. Everyone who produced. Hell, Nickelodeon for allowing it. Caram out like that was a failure. That was far bigger than. Uh, Brooklyn's baby. Okay. Yeah. Well, thank you, Nyland for your past the read. If you have one that you'd like to send on over to us, then you can do that at pass the
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