The episode celebrates Black excellence through the inspiring story of Reed Curry, a Florida engineering student who built a functional wooden motorcycle from Home Depot materials to navigate unreliable public transit in Miami. This act of practical innovation—driven by necessity rather than ambition—demonstrates ingenuity, resilience, and resourcefulness, resonating deeply with audiences. The segment also explores broader cultural moments: Kendrick Lamar’s historic Grammy wins, Shaboosie’s controversial speech about immigration, and the importance of acknowledging Black history during Black History Month. Critics point out that Shaboosie’s statement downplaying Black contributions to American history was inappropriate, sparking a discussion on historical accuracy and intersectionality. The show delves into personal relationships, addressing emotional challenges from failed dating dynamics to communication breakdowns in partnerships. Listener letters highlight the value of therapy, self-reflection, and accountability, with advice to prioritize personal growth over seeking reconciliation. The conversation underscores the need for mutual respect, open dialogue, and emotional honesty in relationships, especially when trust is strained. Ultimately, the episode blends personal stories with cultural commentary, celebrating resilience, innovation, and the ongoing journey of self-discovery within Black communities.
Do you want me to yank his ass?
I ain't scared.
I will straight yank his ass.
You want me to?
What's that from?
The Color Purple.
You didn't even try that.
Harlem Nights!
Harlem Nights!
No, it isn't from Harlem Nights.
Oh, okay.
Then I don't know for real.
It is directly from Two Can Play That Game.
Welcome back, everybody out in the world and, you know, the rest of the galaxy.
Because I do believe that some of y'all out there are listening and you just laugh like,
oh my God, these people are so ghetto and stupid.
We're baddies for other places.
Yeah, we are.
Welcome to the show.
I'm Vivica Fox.
And I am back in the studio away from my hell.
Hell.
Hell.
Hell.
Hell.
Hell.
Puppy.
And I could not be happier.
She's a hellhound.
Oh, I didn't even think of that.
She is hell.
Oh, my God.
But this is the read.
Thank you for tuning in.
Jesus.
It is indeed.
Here we are.
In Black History Month.
Mini month.
The shortest.
Indeed.
So let's get our shit off while we can.
While we're allowed to.
Before they turn this into National Mega Yacht Month.
Let's start with some Black Excellence, shall we?
This week, I would like to give Black Excellence over to one Reed Curry.
Now, this report is actually quite old.
I didn't hear about it until recently.
And I haven't spoken about it on the podcast.
So Reed Curry is an engineering student.
He goes to school in Florida.
This is good news.
This is good news.
Out of Florida.
Amen.
Thank God.
Yeah.
For small favors.
Somebody going to school.
You know, that's all we can even ask for.
Big steps.
Big steps.
Down in the sunshine.
Wonderful.
So Reed Curry was making some waves on the social of the media recently because he needed a way to get to school.
Didn't have a car.
Money for a car.
So this gentleman decided to build a car.
Build a motorcycle, all electric, out of wood that he got from Home Depot.
And I am dead ass serious.
Two by fours made of cedar and a dream.
No way.
This nigga made a real murder bug with wood from the Home Depot.
So what are you doing with your 24 hours, you lazy bitch?
What the fuck are the rest of you niggas doing with your day?
Is you ungrateful?
This nigga.
This nigga really got a wooden bike, but like.
Made.
Made.
Excuse me.
Didn't get.
Right.
Created.
He constructed.
Wow.
Holy shit.
Fully automobile.
I had to Google this because I just knew you was shitting.
No, this nigga made a wooden motorcycle.
And here's the guy.
He got a little truck in the back.
He basically was like.
Oh, that's where the motor.
That's where the brakes are.
He said like.
Oh, in the back.
That's not even like.
Oh, I thought that was.
Yeah, that's another.
That's like another contraption for.
Wow.
Operating.
Oh, put him in an engineering school right the fuck now.
He is an engineering school.
Okay, look at God, look at God, because what?
And the gag is he was the, he really, here's the biggest flex.
He essentially said that this isn't like a passion project.
He just needed a way to get to school.
He said on Instagram, this bike isn't a masterpiece.
It's not even my main project.
It's just my daily commute.
Wow.
I've been riding on this rig for over a year.
It's still a work in progress.
Is it you?
You get to and not from what I write.
It seems like a working vehicle to me, but I'm not an engineering.
Nothing.
I'm not even sure I can spell engineering properly.
Um, when I say I'm just a guy, I'm no genius.
Anything you see that's good in me came from God.
Please understand this.
Thank you for all the support.
Oh, that is so sweet.
Isn't it?
And amen, brother.
Thank you for bringing the state something sun shiny.
Yeah.
This nigga really.
Reed Curry, Miami, Florida.
Are you from the same city as me?
I hit a thousand miles today.
What?
In the wooden bike.
On the wooden bike that he fucking made.
And the Florida police ain't pulled him over and harassed him yet for this.
That's what's really.
What's illegal?
Well.
What are they going to say?
Like, oh, the bike's made of wood.
They don't need a reason.
They're going to pull you over.
It don't have to be legal.
Don't have nothing to do with it.
But wow.
The fact that he was like, I didn't even really try with this.
You guys, I just had to go to school and I tried to take the bus in Miami.
It don't work.
So I had to figure something out.
Oh, that's incredible.
Go off.
Oh, I rely on the bus in Miami.
Miami transit.
You might get to your class 72 hours after.
You're not going.
You're not going.
You are simply not going.
It's not Miss 115 coming.
It's Miss one.
Right.
Two hours.
You just don't.
That's not.
Yeah, it's the same in Oklahoma.
So I just this is incredible, though.
Wow.
Wow.
Wow.
If I could do this sort of thing and have it just be like no big deal.
Like, that's not even one of my main projects.
I swear y'all would not be able to tell me one fucking thing.
You really you wouldn't have time.
No.
Hey, you wouldn't have space, time or opportunity to tell me.
It's like, yeah, I made a bike that was zooming by you on my hoverboard made out of Sprite cans.
He's fucking ungrateful, bitch.
You stay your ass at home and watch Love Island.
Oh, man.
Right.
While you bitches are sitting around talking about come get your body chain.
I'm actually using the brain and the body that God gave me.
So.
Wow.
This is really incredible.
Hats off to you.
Our helmets.
All right.
So let's get into the pop culture segment.
He got a life.
You are everything.
This nigga.
Oh, yeah.
He's not.
He made a vehicle.
Like, he's not.
Yeah.
I'm sorry.
I can't get.
I just I'm all over his Instagram because this is incredible.
But yes.
Yeah, we can.
We can move on.
I'm going to close the window.
I'm gagged.
I'm gooped.
I'm gobsmacked.
Oh, he calls it the wooden horse.
Yeah.
Well.
That's probably that's probably like some smart ass reference that I don't get because I don't know history or engineering.
But.
Maybe like a literary.
It probably is.
Giant book.
Oh, and he has a.
Oh, he had a fundraiser.
But then it was.
Oh, yeah.
They took it down.
The man said I just needed a waiver.
Wow.
I need to get to school and I have it now.
Yeah.
So thanks so much.
Not looking for a hand clap.
Didn't even think that this would go viral.
I just needed to get to school.
Amen.
Oh, ingenuity at its finest.
Under God's living eyes.
Isn't that so sweet?
Every now and then you look at something on the news.
You see how he didn't start texting a bunch of women talking about.
Are you taking me to school?
No.
He figured it the fuck out.
Incredible.
Yeah.
Go on and get that degree.
We really are aunts and uncles now.
Mm hmm.
Mm hmm.
Leaning into it.
Let's get into a pop culture segment that we call.
That's fantastic.
You were motherfucking right.
Kendrick Lamar matches Stevie Wonder with most back to back Grammy wins.
Stevie Wonder.
Pretty big deal.
Braids on the back.
Legend and icon.
Okay.
Where's this going?
Nothing.
I'm done.
Okay.
So this this brother Kendrick Lamar won five Grammys on Sunday.
I didn't watch.
No, I was in the club.
Okay.
I was.
Thank you.
Um.
So yes, now 27 plus wins.
To his name.
And, um, that was for me.
I don't care.
You guys haven't, don't have, you don't need to have ever heard of God to be real.
Just.
You're doing yourself a disservice.
So yeah.
listens to him for winning these awards that he
deserved and for being out
there with legends
at this still-read-till-young
age. And shout-out to him for going out there with a
pick in his head. I liked that.
Yeah, record of the year back-to-back is
really crazy.
Well? I did see
the clip of Cher announcing
and saying that Luther Vandross
won because the song's called Luther and I guess
she got confused.
It's actually an honor.
And if you think about it,
he kind of did win, too. He kind of did,
right. I mean, again,
there wouldn't be no song without
Luther Vandross as a state of laughter.
He's on the record. Right.
You can hear it all over the place.
I see where Cher was at.
Oh, Luther Vandross!
Oh, wait. Okay.
That's not him that's walking
up here. She said, oh, damn. Oh, no, no, no.
She said, oh, no, no, no. Luther!
Kendrick Lamar!
Cher is an icon, though,
so it is, yeah.
Yes, she is.
That just made the show all the more better,
I'm sure.
Shaboosie won
Best Country Duo
slash group performance
and is
facing Black American
backlash because
he said
during his speech that I didn't hear
that he
wanted to dedicate. I mean, I didn't
fucking watch it. I'm just reading the news.
Okay.
He said in a part of his speech
that he wanted to dedicate is one to
immigrants who literally built
this country.
Shaboosie is
American of Nigerian
descent.
This is no,
you know,
lockdown, bunkered up secret.
But, you know, some Black folk were like,
um,
hello?
Um. You forgot somebody.
Excuse me.
Right.
Shaboosie
posted an Instagram story
press release.
IG.
He said,
First and foremost,
I want to express my deep gratitude
to everyone who supported
and celebrated my journey as an artist.
I also want to
acknowledge the conversations surrounding
my acceptance speech.
To be clear,
I know and believe that we Black
people have also
built this country.
My words will never intend to dismiss
that truth.
I am both a Black man
and the son of Nigerian
immigrants.
And in the overwhelming moment
of winning my first Grammy,
my focus was on honoring
the sacrifices my parents
made by coming to this country
to give me and my
siblings opportunities
they never had.
At the same time,
winning this award
on the first day of Black History Month
and becoming the first Black man
to win the Best Country Duo
is Black history.
It stands on the foundation
laid by generations
of Black people
who fought, sacrificed, and
succeeded
long before me.
This moment belongs to all of us.
My entire career
has been rooted in lifting
people up, honoring
where we come from, and
expanding what's possible.
I'm proud to be
part of this legacy
and I intend to
continue doing
that work for the rest of
my life with love.
That's it.
Thoughts?
Well, I mean, he was
incorrect in saying that, you know,
immigrants built the country
and Black people were certainly
not immigrants, so.
And my parents are immigrants.
Right.
So that's just not correct.
I can understand, though,
getting caught up in the moment
of winning your first Grammy
and misspeaking.
I think that's really what happened.
I can understand that.
I completely agree with that.
He is close to,
he wins this award,
he goes up there,
breaks these barriers.
He's probably thinking of his family.
He's thinking of his heritage
and he's thinking of what it means
for them to have come over here
and him have this opportunity.
I think he misspoke.
He misspoke.
And I think that this
IG press release also kind of
gets me back.
Because let me tell you what a lot of
Caribbean niggas,
a lot of African niggas
would have otherwise
told you to hold their nuts.
But yeah,
I think it was like a,
oh my God, I'm hype.
I said something wrong.
Right.
So I, you know,
I saw the backlash
and all the controversy about it.
I saw these apologies.
I think this,
I mean, it's not even really an apology.
It's more like just clearing things up.
Again, I think his explanation here
makes sense.
And so that's fine.
It's just more,
I think people would have appreciated
a flat out,
I misspoke or whatever,
or something like that.
But yeah,
I get being so excited.
Speaking of excited,
I'm sure you saw that clip of
Duran winning his grand pin,
running to the stage
and being so overcome with emotion
and just having the best speech
and embracing his parents and all that.
I can understand being so caught up
in that moment that you just kind of say shit.
And, you know,
you're riding on an adrenaline high
that most of us will probably never know
anything about.
So as long as we all understand
that enslaved Africans
forcibly brought to this country,
built this bitch for free,
as long as we all understand
and acknowledge that,
then, you know,
I have no interest in picking apart
a Black man for this,
you know, otherwise.
And I think that
that can be true
simultaneously
with immigrants
having a lot to do
with the, like,
sustainability
of the. Because there really is a lot of immigrants
who have come here
and basically helped
keep things afloat
alongside the indigenous people
and enslaved people
who created the foundation for it.
So it's not to say that immigrant people
have just been coming over here
and chewing gum.
But what he said was not correct.
Right.
I mean, you know,
immigrants come over here
and work hard
and deal with racism
and all that.
Like, sure.
All that's very valid.
It's just what you said.
And you said it
during Black History Month.
So niggas was. Well, niggas is extra sensitive right now.
You have to understand
that we really not
standing for anybody
getting our history wrong
during our month.
So I completely understand
everybody's feelings about it.
But I, you know,
I think this statement
goes a long way
towards clearing up
where his mind was.
And this was certainly
not deliberate
or intentional erasing of,
you know,
Black American history.
Also, super proud of Durand.
My God.
Mm-hmm.
Oh, his speech was so good.
And then his parents
up there with him,
I almost cried.
From Skyping with this nigga
in our parents' house
to God's destiny
that we both knew
was always there.
Congratulations, my nigga.
I could not be more proud of you.
You didn't deserve this.
And it's just
the fucking beginning.
If they didn't know. They know now.
The girl with the forever voice.
That doll baby.
That original baby.
Okay.
Keke Palmer told E! Online. Oh, no.
She said on Today
that she,
even in marriage,
has no desire
to live in the same house
as her romantic partner.
She joins many
Black diva
who have said
these very same words.
She, in fact,
cited one Whoopi Goldberg
saying,
I just feel like
Whoopi Goldberg said it once.
And she said,
I don't want nobody in my house.
And I feel that.
She said,
you can be in the guest house.
We can even be on the same land,
but I'm over there
and he's over here
at best separate rooms.
Um,
Lakeisha
and Palmer.
Why don't I make this?
I simply agree, bitch.
And you know what?
Yes.
He has his towels.
I have my towels.
Girl,
at best,
is giving,
you know,
I'm on this floor,
he's on this floor.
And I think that's fine.
And I would even,
assuming it's like,
oh, I plan to be
with this nigga
for the rest of our days.
I still want to
spend the majority
of time with you.
Like, I don't never
want to see you.
But I also,
it's like,
whoo,
is that 8.30?
Is that 9 p.m.?
Well,
you might as well
go in here and go home.
Well,
it's getting to be that time.
Big yawn and stretch.
Whoo!
Well, I have to get up early.
Don't know about you.
What you doing?
What you finna do?
Now that the credits
are rolling
for this latest
heated rivalry,
I feel like we might as well just get there.
- It's the kind of times that just go on and on.
And I should get to my bed.
Yeah, going to my bed in my home.
Yeah, I don't think I need separate houses,
but I would prefer a house big enough
to where we can both have our own space.
Yeah.
You have your own room for you to do things in.
I have my own room for me to do things in.
There's a separate office for business-y things
and then a bedroom.
Like, I'm thinking at least four bedrooms
and then we ought to be able to make it work.
But, you know, Kiki's very rich.
She probably can have a compound
with a couple of little houses on it.
She's like, I'm staying in the big house.
You stay in the casita.
And I stay in the house.
Oh, I'm sorry.
There's no argument.
This isn't a democracy.
It's Barbie's dream house.
Not Ken's mojo dojo cafe.
Oh, my gosh.
She was getting Ken together.
Yeah, she was.
And it wasn't even on purpose.
And so sweetly.
You want to come over for her.
You want to spend the night.
To do what?
To do. She said, oh, but it's girls' night.
And he was like, oh, yeah, girls' night is every night.
And she was like, right.
Greta was dragging.
That nigga wanted to spend time with her so bad.
She was like, but why?
Why don't we hang out?
I saw you all day today.
We beached.
Yeah, we beached.
I'm finna go brush hair with President Barbie
and stay up with the girls.
We're going to have a dance party and then go to bed.
What do you mean?
When the little girl asked where the Kens live
and she was like,
I honestly don't know.
It never occurred to her
that she. To even think about it.
That's me.
I think that's the last thing.
I don't know where that nigga go.
What?
Ken has a home?
I never thought about Ken living somewhere.
I don't know.
Oh, that was a good move.
Fierce.
Very cute.
It really was.
Okay, so you remember when Kayla Nicole
dressed up as Toni Braxton for Halloween or some shit
and I guess the Swifties got mad.
How could I forget?
It's like, oh, he was. Well,
you could recently find video footage
of the same Kayla Nicole
dancing as part of Toni Braxton's backup
for He Wasn't Man Enough.
Toni Braxton had Kayla Nicole get up on stage
with Toni Braxton
and tell these white women
that they can kiss both of their black titties.
I just. This was so great.
This was so great.
This was so great.
This was so great.
If you haven't seen this video,
you have to go find it.
It's so good.
Pettiness aside,
this show looks tea.
Yeah, it does.
I'm like,
how come I didn't know
that Toni was on tour?
Like, do I need to get tickets?
Right.
Toni Braxton still looks incredible.
Also,
on top of everything else,
you know,
sounding good.
And she coming to Newark on February.
She'll be at Barclays on March 14th.
There it is.
There it is.
I think you need to go.
I think I do too.
Yeah, that moment was so cute.
She was. Kayla Nicole was just so excited and honored.
I mean, who wouldn't be?
Like, it's one thing to do a TikTok.
It's another for Toni to call you and be like,
girl, come be on stage with me.
But yeah, you know,
she killed her little choreography.
She had a cute little moment and all that.
It was. Yeah, it was great.
Toni posted on her Instagram too
and said, thank you.
I am Kayla Nicole for everything.
You were spectacular, niece.
Imagine you dress up as this
icon
or whatever.
Get stupid, unnecessary,
mad-ass reactions for it.
And then said icon
invites you to come do some of the
sickest dances I've seen
in a little minute on the stage
and then refers to you as niece.
No, I'll just evaporate.
Thank you so much.
You just jacked up as this lady that we all love
and now she's your auntie.
And now she's your auntie.
Yeah, and you are just right up there
in Toni Braxton history.
I live.
Yeah, y'all really would not be able
to tell me shit.
This Toni Braxton tour is actually
new edition.
Boys to Men and Toni Braxton.
So it's going to be all the old hoes.
What?
Yeah, yeah.
I'm going.
I am going, bitch.
Boone's Farm and every cut.
I live.
That is going to be the day.
Yeah, oh God.
Of course, it's mostly sold out.
But anyway.
And I guarantee she already did L.A.
This was probably the L.A. one.
Oh, yeah, it probably was
because I'm sure Kayla Nicole lives out there.
I don't never get to have.
She's going to be in Oklahoma City on the 6th.
Oh, that's cute.
Yeah, Chicago tonight.
I'm seeing all of that.
I do believe you have missed out on Los Angeles.
I do believe.
Damn, this lady is gorgeous.
Yeah.
What a moment.
That's really cute.
Congratulations to everybody involved.
Love that for Kayla.
It was giving me like, it was giving me like, what do you call the.
What do you call those girls in the back?
Blackbirds.
Yes, blackbird girls.
It was giving me like Fosse.
Yeah, a lot of shimmy.
Yep, yep.
A lot of draping materials and all that.
It was very cute.
Bob Mackie.
There you go.
Little shimmy.
You're saying all the names.
Okay, so let's discuss how Lil Wayne is preparing for the NFL's big day.
And by big day, I mean Bad Bunny's Super Bowl licks halftime performance.
And the Super Bowl game too.
Why would he be preparing for that?
Oh, because he.
He has a big performance that's going to take place just two days before on February 6th.
He will be having a show at the Clash Royale Arena.
Now you might, like myself earlier today, be asking yourself, what's the Clash Royale Arena?
That was exactly my question.
Thank you so much.
Because I thought that was a video game.
It is absolutely a mobile video.
It is a video game.
Wait, is he performing in the video game?
Crystal, I wish I had an answer for this.
I really do.
When I tell you, I had to actually just move on because I was like, I have other shit to do.
I don't know.
This is, folks, if you haven't heard of Clash Royale, it's one of them app games that have like a commercial.
This is like saying Gucci Man is performing on Candy Crush.
It is.
I don't know how this is going to work.
So what?
You download the app and then there's a tab where you can just click and watch Lil Wayne perform?
I guess.
Why would they call it the Clash Royale Arena?
That's not a place you can go to.
That's the name of the game.
But, but.
But I don't know.
But.
Crystal.
Okay.
He said music, sports, and gaming all in one place.
Y'all know how much I love being at the center of the culture.
Clash Royale is at the center of the culture?
Does Clash Royale.
I'm turning.
Do they stream music on there?
I have no idea how this is going to work.
This is for kids.
I'm turning the Clash Royale Arena into the most lit concert of the week.
Tap in February 6th to see what we got in store for y'all.
Tap in literally because what do you mean?
Yeah.
And so what?
You just download Clash Royale?
I'm going to do it.
I'm going to do it.
I'm going to do it on my business.
Why?
Because I don't know.
I need to understand how this is supposed to work.
Do you have to subscribe?
Do you have to like pay something to see this?
Or is it just going to be.
I think Clash Royale Arena is free.
Epic multi.
No, but you.
I'm sure they have in-app purchases.
So maybe there's like a.
If you want the Lil Wayne concert, you know, it's $20 or whatever on the in-app purchase.
But how the fuck is this concert going to work?
Is this going to be a streamed concert?
Like he's on a stage and then they just stream it because why would they do that on this game?
I legitimately don't understand.
Like I, I, I really don't get this.
I can't give no other context.
He's just like, yeah, that's it.
Figure it out.
I will not be involved.
Like the gamer that I have an embarrassing amount of games in my library.
One day, maybe I'll announce the number, but it's sick and I will not be 10.
Feet near this.
What are you talking about?
Fortnite has caught, uh, concerts quite a bit.
They had an area on a Grande concert.
They had a Travis Scott concert.
I feel like black pink or somebody did it.
The real people.
It wasn't like little Fortnite.
No, but it's like animated to look like the celebrity and Fortnite is a more 3d open world.
Matt.
So they could actually, the Travis Scott one was actually so crazy.
I've actually was very, very.
impressed on how
they did it.
But,
If you have ever seen Fortnite, you could probably make out.
And it isn't real people.
They just animate, like, oh, here's Ariana Grande.
Here's an animated Travis Scott.
And they put them on a, like, digital stage.
Oh, nice.
And then usually there's a whole bunch of, like, bells and whistles
to make it, like, more than just a regular concert you could see in person.
But that's Fortnite.
Like, if you were saying that. Because, yeah, they play their music.
I mean. It's like watching. It's not even live, though.
Like, this is. It's just, like, a recording of them doing, like, a mashup.
Yeah, those aren't. They're like, oh, it's going to take place at this time.
But, of course, it's all. Right.
It's all pre-recorded.
It's all built before the, you know. And I imagine the same thing will probably be the case here.
Yeah.
I just cannot. I can't picture this. see how it's going to work with this game.
Because I've never played this game.
Or why it's happening.
I've only seen. I've only seen, like, commercials.
And so. I'm playing some other game.
And then here come an ad for this one.
And I'm trying to find the X.
But you've got to wait 30 seconds.
It's a top-down tower defense game.
Yeah, I don't get it.
Okay.
I am going to. Auntie's uncles.
I'm going to figure it out.
This is like. This is like fucking 8-Ball and MJG performing on Galaga.
This is Trina performing on Ms. Pac-Man.
I got this.
What are we talking about?
I don't understand.
Maybe Noah can explain this to me.
How this is even possible.
I doubt she can.
I bet you she can't.
I just don't get it.
I bet you she can't.
She's not going to know what. She's going to say,
What's Clash Royale?
Who's the winner?
Damn.
Young money need money.
Sha'Carri Richardson and Christian Coleman got locked up.
Sha'Carri for speeding.
Christian Coleman for resisting arrest.
And having weed on him.
And that he dropped, I guess.
Well. So, separately or coming from the same incident?
Okay, so Sha'Carri was pulled over.
They said she was going over 100 miles per hour.
Girl.
There's unfortunately even body cam footage of her about to go to jail.
The cop talking to her and stuff.
And she's just like crying and begging.
She was going to get arrested or go to jail.
She did.
Mm-hmm.
Mm-hmm.
Now, Christian Coleman, her boyfriend,
got arrested because apparently he pulled over
when she got pulled over and got out the car.
And when he got out the car. Why did you get out the car?
Girl.
Niggas.
Why would you get out the car?
Not only was he not supposed to get out of the car,
the police apparently told him to leave.
He did not.
Oh, my God.
I guess at some point when he got out of the car,
they say that he dropped drug paraphernalia,
which. The description, it sounds like it was just like a weed bowl.
Like a glass bowl that you smoke weed out of.
Oh, nigga.
So he got arrested for, I guess,
possession of that and resisting arrest without violence.
Which I'm assuming could either be because of the refusal
to get back in his car and leave.
But resisting could be as simple as they putting handcuffs on you
and you move your arm because it's uncomfortable.
But resisting arrest, especially without violence,
could be a million things.
Anyways, they both went to jail because of this.
I think they were bonded out for $500 or something
and then they have to wait for an arraignment.
Shakeri, be careful, miss girl.
Over 100 miles per hour is wild.
Yeah.
I'm begging you to come home.
But you look great in this mugshot.
Amazing skin.
Great complexion.
The braids are fresh.
You look good.
You need to come home.
Please be careful on the road.
You need to call a therapist.
Real bad.
Real, real, real bad girl.
Do you know how dangerous this is?
Do you know how dangerous driving is?
Do you know how dangerous driving incredibly fast is?
It's not just. You're in a wrecking ball.
You could kill so many other people, girl.
So many other people.
It happens all the time.
The back tire was under-inflated
and that's why she was speeding.
Girl, 100 miles an hour!
That's what she said to the car.
Which makes it worse.
Why wouldn't you be going slower?
That's what I'm saying.
Right.
This is it.
And then this nigga,
like,
have you never had an interaction with the police?
I would have pulled over too,
but I would have remained in the vehicle
and just recorded everything.
And then once she's getting arrested,
hello, officers, I'm with her.
Can I know what station you're taking her to
or whatever, what precinct?
Like, why would you get out
and try to plead the case, nigga?
They clocked her going 100 miles an hour.
She's getting arrested.
They're not letting you off with that.
Higher than Falcon TV.
And then you get out
and what, your bong falls out, nigga?
First of all,
I thought Sha'Carri was gay.
What happened to that?
You know, she said I'm queer.
So, my switch is flipped right now.
Leave me alone.
Maybe that's the problem.
Maybe you need to get back with. You need to get back with that, yeah,
get back with that young lady.
Because this is,
you and this nigga,
every time I hear your name,
it's something ridiculous.
Getting in,
to shit at the airport and. Oh, man.
Okay, well. You know what,
you're on my heart.
You know what I mean?
Let this be a loss, man.
So, he's 29.
She's still only 25.
Yeah.
I'm telling you, Sha'Carri,
she's like. She's a baby.
She's like
that dumbass
that's fucking around with Papoose.
What's her name?
Eau Claire.
Yeah, she's like Clarissa Shields,
where it's like. I just get the same vibe from them
that you made it to an incredible place
after some really fucked up shit
happened to you when you was young.
And worked hard to get there.
And now you're dealing with being rich and famous
and having all of your shit that's coming up
and you trying to manage it
on top of everything else
and you're not really doing that great of a job.
I want both of y'all to get therapists.
Real bad, girl,
because it's not. When you in the news,
it's like not great headlines, baby.
I really do want better for you.
You got to work through
whatever you got going on.
You know who I didn't know was gay?
Portia Williams.
She not.
Don't worry about it.
Okay, thank you for terrifying me.
Because I'm like,
Portia, what?
I'm sure she didn't say she was gay.
She probably got a little girlfriend,
but she didn't say she was gay.
Okay, she does have a little girlfriend.
Yeah.
A lot of the girls get girlfriends,
so it don't mean nothing.
Sorry, no shade to the girlfriend.
This nigga is cute.
Yeah, she is.
So, like,
I could definitely see. So, you know,
when the girlies be like,
oh, my God,
and they meet a, you know. Mm-hmm, yeah.
A fine little somebody with a backpack.
Right.
Yep.
It's very easy to fall.
It is.
But until Portia says out of her mouth,
meeting this person made me realize
that my sexuality is more complex
and I now identify as bi
and, you know, whatever else.
That's a great point.
I'm not putting that on her.
So, no.
Good for you, though.
I mean, again, she is cute.
Yeah.
She really, really is.
Well, who we know is gay
is your statty, Queen Latifah.
My dad!
Who?
Not statty, that's sexual.
Oh, yeah, you just say dad.
That's my dad, yeah.
Yeah, that's right.
I forgot what you called him.
Mm-hmm.
Um, she had a beautiful congratulations
for her lover, her partner.
My stepmom.
Ebony Nichols,
who I guess was a part producer
of the Grammys this year.
She said on Instagram,
Ebony Nichols,
that's how you know that they love each other.
I couldn't be more proud of you
for being a producer on this year's Grammys.
I love watching.
I love watching your dreams come true, baby.
Major shout-out to these other people.
You are all elevating the biggest night in music
to a whole new level
with pictures of her lady.
I love it.
Mm-hmm.
They are really sweet together,
and seeing my dad finally feel comfortable enough
to openly, you know, talk about Ebony
and embrace her as such an important part of our lives
is just, you know, it's heartwarming for me
and my family that we're at this place.
And even her. Her daddy posted, like, on Instagram
the, um, like, her pictures and stuff
from the Grammys,
and the caption was, like,
20 years of CoverGirl,
and I'm like, I literally remember 20 years ago
when my dad got that deal,
and still now is, like, just. Oh, my God!
Can you believe we're that old?
Holy shit!
Time on a blast from the past, bitch!
Yeah.
Skinting!
Still on CoverGirl payroll over there, okay?
Taking care of all of my school bills, et cetera.
But, yeah, this is, um, just really sweet.
Again, I love Stepmommy Ebony so much, so. Yeah.
I really do love to see it.
It's a great time for her.
Your parents are doing really good.
Yeah.
Yeah, this set of parents, they're doing great.
Yeah, that's right.
I mean, I really am happy to see Queen Latifah
in this place that's. Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
Yeah.
so many queer elements didn't ever get to do, I just,
love it.
And I love that the queen did it
on her own. I was exactly
about to say that. Yes.
That she was able to do it on her terms
when she felt comfortable. Y'all wasn't
going to force her out the closet. Yes, everybody
knew, but y'all still was not going to force
her hand and make her say or do
anything she wasn't comfortable doing. It's
literally all been on her terms.
Ah!
And what you can do
is sieve.
I love it. I'm so happy for her. Me too.
For both of your dad
and your stepmom. My dad and my
stepmom. She's the best.
I'm going
to wrap up the hot tops there. Okay.
We'll just end it on something
positive. Yeah, for once.
For once. Usually not.
My
God. I can't tell you how many.
I was looking at shit today and I was
like, I don't feel like it.
No. Girl, please.
I was just like, so many things.
I was like, this is some negative
bullshit I really don't want to talk about.
This is some stupid ass shit that I don't
want to talk about. Okay.
Nikki's brain is somewhere in Wonderland
still great. Oh my God. I'm just like,
I'm not talking about
any of this goody.
I saw the Nikki Minaj shit yesterday
and I was like.
I just don't care no more. It's nothing.
It's something new constantly with that bitch.
But yeah. Yeah, it's like every week.
She's not. I mean,
what else can even be said? But yeah.
You got a lot going on
with the, you know, the NBA trade
deadline and everything. So I'm sure you've been busy
in all of your. Oh my God.
So busy. I can't even
tell you the amount of like
boots to the ground research
that I've been doing. Oh yeah. And
reporting and
journalistic work
in general. Yeah.
It's really crazy because this particular
year in sports has been
just such
a hectic and monumental
one. I don't know what I'm going to
do with my price. Yeah.
You know, the girls already can't
afford me, but
either way, you girls at home can expect
nothing but the truest
rawest and most
factual coverage of
sport ball athletes.
Do you know where Giannis is going?
Or Draymond for that matter.
Up. Up and up.
Up the
ladder and through the roof.
In Jesus name. All right.
I don't even know why I asked.
And with that, we're
going to take a break.
A fool.
Hello.
We're back. It's time for your
listener letters. Indeed.
Send your questions to asktheread at gmail.com.
We may read them aloud
on the show. Our first letter this
week comes from Macy
who says, I've been seeing my current
therapist since I was dealing with postpartum
symptoms after giving birth to my second child
over two years ago. In that
time, she has been instrumental in my growth around
so many things, including the loss
of my dad and taking my mama
off the pedestal I put her on and
just seeing her as a human being.
That's a big one.
I really cannot overstate
how impactful my therapist has been
to me. She informed me today that next
year she will be stepping into a more clinical
role where she will be helping aspiring
therapists access the tools necessary.
to break into the industry so she won't
be seeing clients anymore.
Honestly, I think that's perfect for her and I
told her if that meant there were more social workers
like her out there, then I couldn't be mad at that.
But honestly, I'm devastated.
I'm already grieving
the end of our time together and I'm not looking
forward to having to start this process all over
with a new therapist. I'm considering
just ending my therapy journey altogether
when she steps away, but I'm not sure
if I have the tools necessary to do so.
Have either of you ever been in this
situation? Any tips or encouragement?
Would be much appreciated.
Thanks again. I have loved the show since the
beginning. Take care.
Macy.
Macy. Macy.
Macy. I get it.
I get it.
I love that you
acknowledged the benefit
of what your therapist
plans to do.
Right? Because that's exactly
what I was thinking. Like, oh god, this
sucks for you as a therapist.
Someone who's
benefiting from therapy
at the same time this thing. She's not
like, she didn't leave because
she's auditioning to be in like
Cats.
You know what I'm saying?
The streets could use
more people in the field.
I think
I had a similar experience when I
moved to California
because I had to get a new therapist.
Psychiatrist.
Specifically. Because I need
people to write scripts.
So I had
to get a new therapist
slash psychiatrist.
And I damn near
cried blood. I mean,
I was just like,
how am I supposed to leave this
lady? I don't want to start
all over.
What is even the point?
And in the way that that lady
was like,
my fairy godmother.
My therapist now is like my fairy goddad.
Love him to death.
So, all that to say,
I get it. It's fair.
It's not
an unreasonable or
irrational thing at all.
I think this is something a lot
of people feel
when they have to change therapists.
Especially therapists that they really like.
But I don't think you should be
discouraged. Especially if you feel like
it's, you need it or
you're really benefiting from it or it's been
really helpful. I'm
always going to encourage you
to stay in therapy.
It sounds like you might have some time
to find
someone else that, you know,
fits for you or someone else
that you're comfortable with. I wonder if you could get a good
referral. Because that's what
my psychiatrist did in New York. They
helped me find one here.
So,
yeah, I think it's fair for you
to feel and
maybe even talk through
with your therapist in preparation
for finding someone else. But I think
you should give someone else
a chance
at helping you. Because I think
in the long run, you'll benefit
and you'll build a new relationship with a great person
who loves you and
wants to help
you figure your stuff out.
Yeah.
It's great that she gave you so much time
to get ready for this
transition.
I agree with everything Kifiri just said.
But also, don't be afraid to ask
her for a referral to other therapists.
And don't be afraid to ask her
when y'all get down to like the last couple
of months or so, ask her
what she thinks.
Does she think you need to keep
going or does she think you're in a good place where
maybe you can spend the next three to
six months or whatever, you know,
trying to figure things out by yourself.
Or just see, you know, if
you're in a place where you don't really need
that kind of weekly support anymore.
She would have
probably some great insight. It sounds like this has
been such a wonderful relationship
for you.
And the way you feel about your
therapist has so much to do
with whether therapy works.
The provider
client relationship is really
really vital in
the therapy process.
Hopefully she can
refer you to somebody that you
also end up feeling
this same kind of great bond with.
But I've never had
this happen as a client, but
I have been the therapist who had to
cut things off with
clients. And
yeah, I mean, that sucks.
It's hard.
I high
key wanted to keep seeing people
for free even after I graduated.
And it had to be like,
girl, if you
are not going to
go take these exams
and then start working on externship,
you cannot. I just didn't want to
stop seeing my clients. You know, they were doing
great. So
it's hard for sure, but
I think you have
some options here for
either finding somebody new or maybe
taking a break and then getting back to it
if you want to do that.
Yeah. All right. Good
luck, Macy. Let us know what you decide
to do. Our next letter comes from Amira
who says, I'm a 28-year-old
woman who was recently dumped by a guy
I was dating. Long story
short, I jumped to conclusions about two
different situations and said some things that
I should not have said while I was upset.
This man had already
This man
had already told me before that
that type of behavior was a deal breaker for him
and after I did it a second time, he
did indeed end things.
I got my ass down on bended
knee asking for a second chance, but he
wasn't having it. He said that while
we were a match made in heaven when my feelings
aren't hurt, he didn't think we were
aligned overall.
I know I was there wrong for how I acted.
Growing up, I saw my mother exhibit
the same type of toxic communication pattern
and it's something that I know I need to work
on. My feelings for this man are
so strong that when he ended things on
Tuesday, I immediately booked an appointment
to talk to the lady on Thursday. LMAO.
Work!
Do you guys think there's any way I can work
on myself and work on being a better
communicator to convince my
boo to give me another chance? Or
should I just take this L and move on?
Thanks so much, Amira.
Thank you.
first of all not lmao yeah um
amira i think that you should take a piece from both of those those options i think that you
should um do the the self-reflection and the work and the accountability and the evolution
and you should take this l and never talk to that man again yep you really should
you really should because first of all you should not be doing any of that work
to get a nigga back like you tossed me out the window over there like i'm baby
that's not what that's for at all so you get that out of your mind
please you get that directly out of your mind you go and get help for yourself
for your and the fact that you even um referenced your mom having uh traits like this negative
traits like this you're acknowledging that there is like a younger you in there that
reacts to certain things because that's how she that's what she was taught that's what she
lived around so you do that for you so that you can be more at peace and you can
learn more about yourself and do better by yourself and then the next person who enters
your life from a romantic uh standpoint you'll be better prepared for those types of things but
this nigga let him go into the wind baby you said you 21 28 girl oh 28 still shit yeah 20
you said she was 40 yeah amira if you're going to therapy in the hopes that one day this man will take
you back no because the the goal of therapy needs to be happiness peace within yourself
living a good life that you can be proud of being the type of person you want to be
working through your shit for yourself doing all this with the hopes that like after a few weeks
you can call him or text him and be like oh my god i've been in therapy i'm doing so much better
asking him to come to a session with you and all that and i'm like oh my god i've been in therapy
and all this i actually am if i were you i would honestly be a little embarrassed that a man was
more mature than i was i would honestly be a little ashamed but shit it sounds like this nigga knows
his worth and he's not playing no games he told you the way you sound like to me childish and
ridiculous he told you it was a deal breaker for whatever reason you let yourself get swept up by
these fantasies you had in your head again jump to conclusions said things that were based on the
conclusions you jumped to conclusions you jumped to conclusions you jumped to conclusions you jumped
to and not in reality and that nigga said i'm actually not dealing with this that's great
mind you after the second time right which means you crossed the boundary before yes him off yes
and he decided to pay it and keep moving forward and you did it again and he told you he told you
this is a this is deal breaker yeah he wasn't even overly strict girl because i would have cut
you off the first time he wasn't even overly strict he was i would i would the shame of a man
more emotionally mature than me would probably send me to therapy i'll be like we have to talk
because how come this nigga is better at taking care of his feelings and and having boundaries
than i am yikes and on top of that outside of along with discussing your your reactions to
things your temperament or whatever i would also talk to this lady about why i am so goddamn
attached to this thing or any other one that this that you know what i mean my
attachment to them is specifically why i'm sitting here today also in hopes of getting it back yeah
i would really urge you to speak on that as well because there's something to tell something in
there tell the therapist that when he broke up with you you got down on bended knee and begged
him to take you back boy listen bended knee was she right listen when you read that i was like god
i hope this is a metaphor i hope she's she's just she said i am
on my knees physically got on your knees my god
ask it for a second chance you mean a third chance that man had already gave you a second chance
he told you this was not cool and you for you were in that situation that probably felt
uncontrollable again bring this up to your therapist i'm sure if you had been in your
right mind thinking clearly you wouldn't have done this but you weren't so you need to ask yourself
why you take things that far mentally why do you jump to conclusions and then act off of those
assumptions before you know the truth why do you do that a therapist will help you get to the bottom
of that um but again that's something you need to do regardless of whether this man takes you back
do you ever want to be in a healthy relationship then you're gonna have to figure that out
do you want to have good friends this ain't no three strike program it's really not it's
we're in no goddamn call center
you're in no goddamn call center
one one strike yeah what is it this was fully once shame on you fool me twice
no girl no you will not get it you simply won't get a third chance no because that means this is
just how you act and when you get mad you're gonna use this as an excuse like well sometimes
when i get mad i just do blah blah i hate it ain't yeah it's simply not
acceptable you're not gonna treat me like that i don't know who you finna do all that with maybe
your mama you go to your mama's house and do all that but you're not finna do all that with me
shout out to him that nigga said i know my worth and i'm adding tax amira figure it out so
yeah i think you gotta just stick with the lady
and and watch how all aspects of your life improve not just dating like things will clear up for you
in so many different ways but you got to call that lady and be real about what went wrong okay
we are wishing you the best of luck our last letter comes from robert who says i'm a 33 year
old black gay man in a relationship with another black gay man who's the same age
the other weekend imagine that
i'm sorry the other weekend i went out with some friends to a bar i'm a person who loves to have
fun and twerk with friends this particular night i was drinking quite a bit because it was in a
associate's birthday i was really feeling the liquor and a few of my boyfriend's friends were
also at the bar i was dancing with everybody child i danced with them and another guy that
my boyfriend and i both know i'm well aware that i was probably having too much fun drinking and
twerking and it probably looks like the dancing was something more than what it was of course
it probably girl come out and say it why is she dancing i'm sorry of course me twerking on everybody
got back to my boyfriend through his best friend who loves to exaggerate shit my boyfriend spent
two days ignoring me before we had one five minute conversation where he said that he was ignoring me
because i didn't tell him i was going to the club and because i was dancing all over some guy and
everybody saw it i'm usually pretty good about keeping my boyfriend updated on my whereabouts
but when it comes to friday and saturday nights it's more of a challenge because wherever i'm
going is usually not planned out so it slips my mind to tell him if i decide to go out
knowing my whereabouts makes him feel secure and i try to respect and honor that but if i don't
it's hell to pay it's now been five days without contact except for that five minute conversation
my boyfriend his friends and i have all been out together before and i've danced the same way with
them and even arguably worse sure those friends were girls but it's still the same i think the
difference is the embarrassment quote-unquote of people seeing it and the and the extra seasoning
that i know his best friend put on me and i'm like i'm gonna go out and dance with him
put on that story
i feel a little complete she did a lot with that i feel horrible that i made my boyfriend feel
embarrassed but i also feel misunderstood as usual because he's treating me as if i fucked
that man on the dance floor i did speak with my friends who were at the club with me and they
confirmed that i was just twerking all over the place like i usually do child do y'all have any
advice thanks robert
hmm
this is interesting it is because he said based on what robert is saying the boyfriend
said in the five minute conversation it isn't about him dancing on these people
which i was wondering okay and then he's like you know i've danced on them like this
arguably worse when he was with the boyfriend so yeah it sounds like the reason
he's upset is because this was happening when he wasn't there and people were in the position of
saying you know this nigga was dancing with such and such when when you weren't there so i mean i
get how he feels i think five days i'm not talking to you behind it is a little too much
so i suppose
my
i suppose my uh response to this would be
a
flat-out text or call or voice note or whatever the fuck that's like we need to sit down and have
like an extended deep conversation about what's going on here because you know me you know what
my intent is and like it isn't to harm you or fuck you up or run your names through the streets so
like can we just have a conversation because this is going on for too long i think that's what i
would do in this position and if i still get the cold shoulder or what have you i would just assume
i'm single yeah once you go three days without talking to me i am single so i don't care no i'm
not well maybe i don't care but i am single at this point we have one five-minute conversation
and then you went back to ignoring me not speaking to me because you're so mad um
i i don't care that you're mad because i was at the club
twerking on somebody like i'm sorry i don't consider that to be a big deal
i'm like you know i do and we've never cared about right so i don't care about that um
yeah the this idea of like there's hell to pay if you don't tell him about your whereabouts i
don't like that either because what do you mean right i'm grown nigga what do you mean i don't
have to check in with you i don't have to ask permission like it this honestly sounds
like a long distance relationship it sounds like he wants to be kept up to date because he's not
in the city because why else would you be tripping like but did robert say that no i'm guessing i
don't know for sure i'm assuming that's not the case because i feel like he would have i feel
like robert would mention it probably don't you yeah it feels like this nigga is just controlling
it does you pull you also pointed out a huge red flag yeah like
police sirens this nigga talking about um oh i need to uh he needs to be aware of my whereabouts
or he's uncomfortable the only gps going on over here is the girl police system you're not gonna
tell me i'm like you need to know where i'm at bitch are you cool yeah do i look like somebody's
13 year old daughter he feels insecure when he don't know where i am that's a him bitch goodbye
right uh can i recommend growing up healing whatever your attachment
issues are stop trying to control me out of fear or whatever else like that i'm sorry that's weird
behavior why would you crash out or have a meltdown because you don't know where i am
knowing my whereabouts makes him feel secure what i'm sorry there's just certain things
where if i feel like i'm genuinely in the wrong or i can see why you would be pissed even if i'm
not in the wrong then i'm much more willing to have a conversation give some grace here but
i was at the club twerking twerking not you saw me
not you saw me fucking not you even saw me giving out my number or flirting you saw me twerking in
the club drunk and you're not talking to me for people i've done this bitch the answer is no that
is people you know what people you know it ain't no way i'm not i'm not trying now outside of
controlling your whereabouts he's trying to manipulate your feelings and make you feel guilty
even though he probably doesn't know what he's doing but he's trying to manipulate your feelings
i don't even care no more but it's just like another position no dead ass he like it's just
another position of power that some people just like get off on to like control your feelings and
make you feel bad and and feel guilty and you do because you're writing into two of the rudest
black niggas in the world asking us for advice about it when i would advise that you question
this nigga oh who the fuck he thinks he is on this blue and green bitch are you like
who are you talking to who are you talking to you need to know my whereabouts only whereabouts i need
to know about are links zary thomas there's now i'm walking around like where the hell is this dog
going out into the front i don't see her come back around this bitch poking her head out from
underneath the bed why are you under the bed and why did you scare the shit out of me when i was
calling you it's cozy under there she was playing games
you know you're cute how did i know it wasn't prowlers yeah somebody could have
i remember that oh yeah i need to know your whereabouts that is a giant red i'm not having
that's a huge goodbye i'm not having that no you y'all had a five minute conversation and then he
went back to not talking to you for the for another that is so weird yeah no i'm single
i'm single as fuck actually and i'm going right back to the club
i was just about to say that i was just about to say that i am back
bus another club another club bus another club yeah and i'm going live on tiktok too
since you don't like me twerking it's gonna be all over the fucking place what
throw that ass in a circle yeah i mean i'm going i'm leaving back to the function i'm not taking
i'm not and now i'm twerking with intent right
because how are you embarrassed over that like i'm sorry i just at this massive age i can't fathom
being embarrassed because my partner danced at the club drunk like i just don't care about that
i really really don't i don't i don't you have to actively cheat for me to care right if you
would have called me and been like you know such and such a lover of your thrown ass on such and
such i've been like girl why did you call me for that i want to say like i'm watching wonder man
exactly what robert do child every time i can't take that nigga nowhere that nigga twerking the
kroger he twerk at the fucking part of him he just twerk let him have he just twerks babe thank you
for telling me i appreciate you looking out you a good friend but don't let me be i'm from south
florida baby we came out as soon as those legs unfold oh yeah we are twerking so it's just not
something that i feel insecure about at all i don't care about it like you said if your friends
called you and they're like i'm talking about
tongue down esophagus right they were kissing for but then i might be like why don't you have
people busting down my phone telling me that you kissing people how are you yeah no kissing is a
line you can't cross with me but dancing is fine i'm just not and then we talk about it for five
minutes and you go back to me ignoring me okay girl the five-minute conversation we i mean he
i i think it's an issue when people don't talk to you about
in a relationship especially and you have something you know there's something like
this going on he's mad about it but he won't say nothing to you about it for two days and then he
like okay well i'm at you for these reasons and then go back to not speaking like so at what point
were we supposed to communicate about the issue at what point were we supposed to hash it out
and figure out where we stood with each other because we could have had this conversation
three days ago and definitively broke up and i could have been back in the club
two nights ago but now i'm over here hanging in the balance waiting to see how you really feel
and if you're gonna hit me up it's a there's you don't get to ignore me for days because you mad at
me you do not sorry i will be single so fast and over something so damn right over something like
something dumb right now they didn't call you like oh my god i saw him building a bomb out the bed
like he was doing what he always do bitch please yeah
it would be different if you caught me cheating in the club and your friend sent video of me you
know rubbing up on some dyke in the club talking about what's in that backpack let's go out back
you know that would be different that would be like tmz did to that divorcing light light skin man
like tmz did to that and whoever that lady we still ain't really figured out whatever the
fuck that was supposed to be whoever that lady was that lady said girl i just met him at the
club and he was fine and so we started
that right you ain't never made out with nobody in the club huh weird right you niggas lame
yeah my advice is to just go ahead and send him a you don't get to
not talk to me just because you mad this relationship is over uh text and then block
him so that you don't have to worry about him responding and then make plans to go to the club
that's what i would tell you to do because you
me fucks up with this silent treatment shit nigga fuck no fuck no um but good luck robert if you do
decide to try to work on it with this nigga because it sound like he's deeply insecure and
this is gonna come up again so i'm manipulative as fuck if you want to start rearranging your
entire life to make sure he always feels secure and never is worried about what you're doing then
you feel free to put all that work in i'm not doing that you either trust me or you don't
and i'm just not gonna give you a reason to distrust me but i don't think dancing in the
club is a reason to distrust so um all right babes good luck with you and your man let us
know what you decide to do that is going to wrap up the letters this week again if you have a
question for us send us an email to ask the read at gmail.com we'll be right back
we have returned it is now time for the read i will begin because mine are truly
short. We'll see.
I don't know, that might have been a lie.
one nintendo oh non-nerds which is mostly all you maybe could just skip ahead i don't know
like 60 seconds because you either not gonna know what i'm talking about you're not gonna give a
fuck nintendo what are you doing taking all these people's money and giving us nothing in return
why have you not upscaled so many of these games many exclusive nintendo games for the nintendo
switch to now you just released a switch to version of animal crossing like two weeks ago
that old ass covet era game that she should have launched with a nintendo switch to
what are you talking about ultimate alliance 3 there's so many nintendo switch exclusive that
should be upscaled to the switch to
you
by now but instead every day you got some ai hentai bullshit up on the nintendo e-shop
why is that even allowed to be up on the damn stove ai games every two seconds everywhere you
look but nothing to the y'all getting on my nerves why did i buy this system day one for what
i'm finished with that secondly
with all due respect
i can't with the like earnest glorification of that white man who went to go get don lemon
i'm glad that was cute the way you niggas have been glossing yeah we have this caucasian
we have we don't get out of my system
i can't
i cannot with this like what what now we're shimmy shaking over the white girl scooping us up
i'm lost because i feel like if this is your husband you locked over it up over some disgusting
like horrendous injustice bitch you better come get me as a what was he supposed to do kick it
bitch you better go get your nigga and you better be pissed about it
why why are we giving this gas we did why are we giving this we did a lot i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm i don't buy it he should have went to go get his husband and he should have been pissed many of us were pissed and we not married to the nigga
yeah
bitch about oh if my man don't pick nia from jill looking like this then he ain't my man that's because your man would never come and pick you up bitch
bitch
he'd probably be in there with you what are we talking about you want to kick
um sparklers and fireworks out for this caucasian it won't be me
i'm finished i would as one of those ones i won't hear it
i'm kidding
it's really the looks on their faces it's like perfect it's meme i know perfection it really
is mean perfection but we have been giving that white man a lot human he is and don lemon
look at like a little is like he tucking his 30 inch bust down behind his ears like
thank you to my man
thank you to my man yeah i get that the like the facial expressions were our partner yeah
but there were like meme jokes and then there was like oh my god white man yeah it's like
okay now y'all going too fucking cruel
stay focused yeah catch the plot yeah
i'm done it was uh y'all we have been given that white man a lot y'all we have but
he was supposed to go get that nigga he absolutely was supposed to use every drop of his white
privilege financial privilege whatever the privilege he got to get don lemon out of jail
and fight whatever the trump administration is trying to do to him so uh but i but i understand
it was i had a good time with that he walked out there looking like like sailor moon and and
tuxedo oh lord he was skipping like
sorry it really is it's uh it's don't get too close to my man now it's the little smirk on
his face like yeah my daddy came to get me i knew my daddy was gonna come well
um
like
like hair flip tremendous hair flip
oh stop my daddy wasn't gonna come get me
but amen amen what the fuck did you i know why but
it was fun it was fun we had a good time yeah it was there a lot of them were funny
um so as for me sorry first of all um america officially took over tiktok and
now tiktok is just what please please i don't know yeah i don't tiktok has really fallen off
drastically as far as like the for you page excuse me and all that over the past week or so and
i don't know if it's the trump administration's fault or if everybody just decided to delete
after these new terms of service came out because it was like yeah you will be giving the american
government all of your data including your exact location
and your sexuality your gender identity your social security number so it's like yeah a lot
of people are just off of it but i mean i tiktok was genuinely my favorite social media app and i
am devastated by it why does america keep fucking with your clock like it was bad enough and
honestly it ain't been the same since it since that first shutdown a few months ago where it was
like oh yeah
yeah the word trump threatened and all that and we was gone for like 24 hours and all the rest of
the app was like oh my god we missed the american
it honestly has not been the same since then but there's been another shift over the past
week where it's like y'all really just don't want me to use this app no more like
it's sad because it's my favorite but anyway that's not my real read this week
um can i say something real quick about that though of course you can
tiktok is one of those apps
now where people are getting here's the hard truth about these fuck bitches like immediately
yeah he meet like the second of yeah and oh would you like the history and then it's even
white people who got the little background like black history are like you know indigenous
americans and how they could smell these white people from miles away like all of that yeah
so i'm not surprised that america is fucking with your clock app because they want to you know
get the streets together yeah you know they want our data and they're gonna do horrible things with
it and i should probably delete my accounts but i'm also supposed to be like promoting my shows
it's like i don't know probably should keep it but at least not scroll on it all the time i don't
know i don't know but it's sad because i do genuinely like tiktok's just been great and
so what's the for you page looking like now well mine is giving me weird religious stuff
like oh yeah there it is sounds about right yeah and like rage baby stuff and it's just like
take me back to my old old algorithm where it was just like gay shit and steven universe and
you know the random tick like dog videos and stuff like it's just gotten weirder
steven universe lo-fi ah the key to my so good oh yes yeah um
but uh the epstein files are out i have not looked through them i will not look through them
um because i know that they are too much for me to handle i will wait for journalists to report
on these stories a lot of them have been extremely disturbing the deepak chopra shit
the steven hawking shit it's just the anyway i don't even want to get into details um
who i know i don't even and actually i don't even think he is doing this because of epstein files i
think this is because of that white man who got murdered in minnesota but andrew schultz recently
went on i guess this is brilliant idiots but he's with charlemagne but yeah that's probably
brilliant so he starts talking about how he never thought any of this shit with trump could happen
and he always thought that the systems in place
congress and the constitution like would check trump and he would never do anything this crazy
and now ice is out here killing white men well he didn't say that part but obviously like ice
killing a white man affected andrew schultz in a way that none of the other shit trump has done
actually came through and made an impact but he started talking about how um the liberals it just
makes all the liberals and their catastrophic whining and crying that they did before the
election and all of a sudden they're like oh my god i don't know what to do with this
it makes them look like they are completely reasonable rational people and they were making
total sense and i just can't defend this anymore you know i thought these people were out of their
fucking minds but actually you validated everything the liberals said about you by you know
using ICE to do this and not deporting any bad guys.
You're going after citizens and just basically saying that Andrew Schultz now understands
with anybody with half of a functioning brain has understood since 2016 that Donald Trump
is a lying piece of shit who is going to use America to make as much money as possible.
And if that means bankrupting America, then so fucking be it.
He don't care.
But he is going to sow as much chaos, confusion and turmoil on this country as he possibly
can to better his own bottom line.
Now, again, this has been very fucking obvious for a very fucking long time.
But since this video came out, countless people have tagged me talking about Crystal Ben told
y'all I can't wait for her to say something about this.
Crystal told y'all Andrew Schultz wasn't shit, you know, 10, 11 years ago.
True.
I did.
Andrew Schultz.
I actually did see one of those.
Andrew Schultz is.
He is.
In the new Street Fighter.
I'm joking.
Let me.
Isn't he?
Isn't he like Waluigi or something?
Yeah, he's in there.
Waluigi.
Crystal just keep going.
I don't think that was a joke.
I didn't keep reading.
Waluigi.
Yeah.
And like Smash Brothers or something.
But anyway.
Andrew Schultz is unique because he has the money and the platform to, you know, interview
Trump and help Trump get elected.
He has the influence to sway certain people to also support Trump or support Trump's ideologies.
It's crazy to me that he's that popular.
I honestly had no idea until I could.
He's huge.
I had no idea until the.
What was them niggas?
The British niggas.
The Inet niggas.
And they went on his show.
They went on Andrew's show.
And Andrew starts.
Oh, I don't know their names.
Shits and gigs.
I didn't know Andrew was that fucking popular until the shits and gigs.
Shit happened.
And then Chris Morrow was like, oh, Andrew Schultz is.
He's out of here.
He's up there with Joe Rogan and shit.
Yeah.
I had no idea.
So he's unique in that way.
However, there are a lot of people who have been pro-Trump or trying to tell us, more
importantly, that we're doing too much.
We're overreacting.
We're just being crazy and sounding the alarm and being extremists.
And it's not going to be that bad.
And then our institutions will save us as if we don't have eyes and have not already
experienced this shit before.
Like, it's not even new.
It's not even new.
You campaigned for this nigga recently after his first term in office.
He was bad then.
I don't know why y'all thought he needed the space and opportunity to do even worse.
Be bad again.
But that is going to be one of the history of the planet's major questions.
Yeah.
And you will not have an answer that makes sense because for all of you, it boils down
to ignorance and bigotry or both.
Yeah.
It really does.
Because you're both stupid.
You either don't know what you're talking about or you willingly embrace some of the
horrible shit that he says and believes in and does.
Or both.
So I don't want to discourage other people from coming over.
Well, and I won't even give him all that.
Because.
Because I can't say that I believe that Andrew Schultz is genuine in this.
Like, I think he means what he's saying, but I don't think he's going to turn around and
start, you know, being a leftist and campaigning for, you know, ending capitalism or whatever.
I think he's just realized that you there is no defending the ice shit and it may even
be having some sort of impact on him financially at this point.
I really don't know.
But I don't want to discourage all the people who are now trying to.
I don't want to divest from Trump to from doing that.
I do indeed want y'all to get off Trump's dick.
Stop supporting him.
Start getting out here in these streets, connecting with your neighbors and caring about other fucking people.
But you have to understand that the rest of us are going to have something to say about it.
OK, people going to get it off.
They fuck all the time.
We don't get it.
Because this was so goddamn avoidable.
And yes, you can sit there and take.
And I told you.
So or two, when you reelected this nigga and put him in the position to do this shit now.
Right.
You can take it.
You can take a.
Well, goddamn.
How is it?
How is it that a white man had to be murdered by ice for you to decide to start giving a shit?
That's a fair question.
And you should have to answer it.
You don't get to be mad at us for saying, well, what the fuck took you so long?
Or.
Rolling our eyes at you, bitch.
Look at what we're dealing with.
It's horrible out here.
Everything is worse.
All the shit y'all said y'all cared about that you were voting for Trump.
All of that shit is worse.
Groceries.
Worse.
Gas.
Worse.
Rent.
The worstest.
It's all health care.
Y'all saying your premiums go up two, three, four times what it was in previous years.
Taxes.
Through the roof.
Regular everyday people not getting tax returns no more.
And you just now realizing it.
All of a sudden you make $48,000 a year and you got to send the government more money at the end of the year.
And you wonder what the fuck happened.
It's Andrew Schultz.
It's Theo Vaughn.
It's Joe Rogan.
It's other white men with microphones on podcasts having this sort of influence.
Not caring what they do with it.
Actively advocating for somebody who is going to harm the majority.
And you simply didn't give a fuck until somebody who looks like you was on the wrong end of the gun.
So no, I'm not glad you finally got.
I'm not like, oh, yay.
Oh, Andrew Schultz.
Yes.
Yeah.
No, I'll be.
I'll be on your show.
Let's talk about it.
Let's hug.
No, it's still fuck you, girl.
Because we didn't have to be here in the first place.
And I'm not even going to say that all you had to do was listen to black women because, duh, all you had to do, but genuinely, all you had to do was open your goddamn eyes and pay attention from 2016 to 2020.
How was the insurrection not enough?
How was grappling by the putter not enough?
If the sky were to crack open right now and a chariot came through, black women would be like, oh, my God.
Black women would be the first.
They would still be like, I told you, bitches.
I told y'all.
I told you.
So suck it up, buttercup.
It's not.
You don't even have to listen to us.
You could have just looked at what happened the first goddamn time.
I mean, I thought that's what was going to happen.
The fact that he was even allowed to run again, much less have this much support like y'all.
I mean, word.
Yeah, you don't get every bit of this.
Wow, nigga, the fuck took you so long?
You don't get every bit of that from me.
And I don't feel bad about it.
I feel like people should be like, oh, yeah, of course, because this.
Like, I don't even know.
Anyways, I'm not a white person.
So I guess because my black ass would be like, oh, yeah, I'm going to get dragged for this for a while because I was stone cold wrong or all in hell.
But I do want to see you dragging yourself and talking about how stupid you were for this and how much you regret it.
I do like that.
You can keep talking bad about yourself.
And what a fuck.
Fucking idiot you are.
That's great.
But it won't be no open arms.
Oh, come over.
Oh, yes.
Oh, well, we don't have to talk about the things you did.
Wonk.
Let's hold hands and walk together.
It won't be none of that.
You need to do your work to undo the bullshit you did or try to repair the bullshit that you did.
I've been over here.
You think Kamala would have had ice going?
Going around, picking up American citizens, shooting people in the fucking face.
Falling out of coconut trees.
So, yeah, fuck Andrew Schultz.
Still.
Still.
Good for this one thing.
But I don't even like I said, I have my doubts about whether he's even being completely sincere about that.
So I'm never going to give a white man.
Well, other than Don Lemon.
His husband.
I gave him a lot.
But but he's the only one.
Damn it.
Tim is it.
And that time has passed.
Did you see that SNL sketch from this past weekend of the.
Oh, it is.
I think it was the first one of the show.
It was.
What's that tall white?
It's a tall white actor.
Some man.
I forgot his name.
I think it's Swedish.
But it's.
Oh, I think he's talking about.
Alexander Skarsgård.
Yes.
Skarsgård.
That's it.
So.
But anyway, this sketch was like a Trump supporting mom who is trying to tell her for like millennial kids,
Gen Z kids that she is changing her mind about Trump.
And now she's realizing that like is one line of like the way they talk about guns is different for different people.
And they didn't see.
They wanted me to get mad about trans people.
but now I'm realizing I don't see what the big deal is.
And the kids are all, like, trying not to go, like, they trying not to drag the fuck out of the mama.
But then she throws a big temper tantrum, and she's like, you gotta let me have my space.
Do you want this to be real?
All right, give me grace.
Like, she's throwing a fit because she just wants to be able to say, oh, yeah, I was wrong, and nobody push back at her or talk about the harm she has.
It's so funny.
It's so funny.
I think the girl's name is Ashley Padilla.
She is so good.
Yeah, I think, I legit think it was the first sketch of the night.
It should come up pretty easily, but that. Did they say, lie from New York at the end?
No, no, no, it's not the intro.
It's, like, a real sketch.
Oh, you mean, like, the sketch after the monologue?
Yeah, yeah, yeah, the sketch after the monologue.
Yeah.
Oh, here it is, mom confession.
Yeah, I'm gonna watch this later.
No, it's so funny.
But that is basic.
I am her children screaming back.
Look at Andrew Schultz saying, how could you not know he was gonna do this when he explicitly said he would do this?
You platformed the man.
You sat down in front of him and gave him a big laugh and endorsed him.
You voted for him.
You didn't read Project 2025.
You didn't pay attention to what that nigga is actually about.
You were thinking about yourself.
I bet Trump smell like pennies.
You're a rich white man.
Kamala Harris would have raised your taxes.
That is the long and short of it.
You didn't want to believe that he would do all this evil shit.
Or you wanted to lie to yourself about it.
Or you just want to say something to us now so people will get off your dick about it.
Because I'm sure you're getting harassed all the time about your support of Trump.
Whatever it may be, you're gonna get this pushback.
You're gonna get this, what the fuck took so long?
Because you deserve it.
I'm talking about the fact that you have to understand.
These are groups of people who are tired of not being heard.
Like, niggas are tired of screaming into the clouds.
Hey, hello.
And being ignored.
And then you get to like, oh, common sense.
And you want fireworks.
Bitch, if you don't shut the fuck up.
It's just like, what do you expect people's reaction to be?
It was right there.
It was all written out.
Published.
Published on the internet for you to see.
Donald Trump, every time he opens his mouth, said something hateful or ignorant.
Or that was going to be going against the majority of the American people.
Like, all you had to literally do was read or listen.
You just, you had to even remotely want to know what the fuck was going on.
The nigga was in office before.
Y'all don't remember that?
Yeah.
Okay.
Okay.
All right.
So now here.
Here we all are suffering like fuck.
Because y'all wanted to ignore what was right in front of your faces.
You, Andrew, at least had a financial incentive.
I don't know what the fuck is wrong with the rest of them crackers.
The broke ones.
Y'all scared of trans.
Like, wait till you see the sketch.
Oh, I'm watching this as soon as we go.
She was like, uh, I think maybe drag queens are hilarious.
Anyway.
Um.
That's it for me.
Yeah.
I was, I was trying to think if there was anything else that was, um, that came up, but no, I've seen a lot of allegations about some other people in the Epstein files.
Again, I will not be looking through those to see for myself.
I will be checking, uh, respected journalistic, uh, news sources for the breakdown on all that, but I will not be going through that for, for my own benefit.
interest in my own best interest for my own mental health i will not looking at some of it
and no they said there's like 2 000 videos there's a there's a lot of no fucking thank you
i actually don't even need to read that shit nope whoever was out here uh forcing themselves on the
kids you can go ahead and throw them in a burning pit of whatever's burning you can go ahead and do
that that's how i feel about all of them go ahead and do it um okay and i think that will wrap up
this week's episode of the read check us out um online all over social media we are at this is
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Podcast Summary
Key Points:
Reed Curry, an engineering student in Florida, built a fully functional electric motorcycle from wood sourced at Home Depot to solve his daily commute problem, showcasing remarkable ingenuity and practical resourcefulness.
The project was not a passion project but a necessity due to unreliable public transit in Miami, highlighting real-world challenges faced by Black communities in urban areas.
Curry emphasized that the vehicle was a work in progress and not a masterpiece, underscoring humility and the value of practical problem-solving over grandiosity.
The viral reaction to Curry’s story reflects widespread admiration for grassroots innovation and resilience, especially within Black communities facing systemic barriers.
The segment also addresses cultural moments, including Kendrick Lamar’s Grammy wins, Shaboosie’s controversial speech, and the celebration of Black excellence and historical awareness.
Concerns are raised about Shaboosie’s statement that immigrants built the country, which was criticized during Black History Month, leading to a nuanced discussion on historical accuracy and intersectionality.
The show highlights the importance of self-reflection, emotional growth, and accountability in personal relationships, as seen in listener letters about love, communication, and therapy.
A critical conversation about relationship dynamics, control, and mutual respect is shared through Robert’s experience, emphasizing the need for open dialogue and emotional honesty in partnerships.
Summary:
The episode celebrates Black excellence through the inspiring story of Reed Curry, a Florida engineering student who built a functional wooden motorcycle from Home Depot materials to navigate unreliable public transit in Miami. This act of practical innovation—driven by necessity rather than ambition—demonstrates ingenuity, resilience, and resourcefulness, resonating deeply with audiences. The segment also explores broader cultural moments: Kendrick Lamar’s historic Grammy wins, Shaboosie’s controversial speech about immigration, and the importance of acknowledging Black history during Black History Month.
Critics point out that Shaboosie’s statement downplaying Black contributions to American history was inappropriate, sparking a discussion on historical accuracy and intersectionality. The show delves into personal relationships, addressing emotional challenges from failed dating dynamics to communication breakdowns in partnerships. Listener letters highlight the value of therapy, self-reflection, and accountability, with advice to prioritize personal growth over seeking reconciliation.
The conversation underscores the need for mutual respect, open dialogue, and emotional honesty in relationships, especially when trust is strained. Ultimately, the episode blends personal stories with cultural commentary, celebrating resilience, innovation, and the ongoing journey of self-discovery within Black communities.
FAQs
Reed Curry, an engineering student in Florida, built a fully functional electric motorcycle out of wood from Home Depot to solve his daily commute issue. He created it as a practical solution, not a passion project, and has been using it for over a year.
It showcases remarkable ingenuity and resourcefulness, demonstrating how a simple solution using everyday materials can address real-world problems, especially in areas with unreliable public transit like Miami.
He said the bike isn't a masterpiece and wasn't his main project—its purpose was simply to get him to school each day, highlighting its practicality over artistic value.
Shaboosie mistakenly said immigrants built the country during a Black History Month speech, which sparked backlash. He clarified that he honors his immigrant parents' sacrifices and acknowledges Black people's foundational role in building the country.
Many felt it was historically inaccurate, especially during Black History Month, but Shaboosie’s follow-up explanation showed awareness of the moment’s sensitivity and respect for Black history and contributions.
It reflects a growing trend among Black women to maintain personal space and independence in relationships, emphasizing self-respect and emotional boundaries over traditional cohabitation norms.
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