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The #1 Reason Why Most People Fail (And How to Fix It)

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The #1 Reason Why Most People Fail (And How to Fix It)

The episode focuses on how founders become the bottleneck that limits their company's growth. The host explains that early-stage heroics are necessary but become destructive as a business scales, because owners get addicted to being needed and sacrifice high-value work for urgent tasks. Three bottleneck archetypes are identified: decision bottlenecks where every approval boomerangs back to the owner, delivery bottlenecks where quality or sales depend entirely on the founder, and direction bottlenecks where the business runs on gut instinct without dashboards or scorecards. Historical examples illustrate the point: Henry Ford's obsession with control nearly destroyed Ford while Alfred Sloan's systematic approach at GM led to 77 years of dominance. Michael Jordan won six championships only after trusting Phil Jackson's triangle offense, yet later failed as an NBA owner by reverting to micromanagement. The host shares a personal example of hiring a chief of staff who reduced a dev team's monthly cost from $74K to $12K in 90 days, proving that systems outperform individual heroics. The episode emphasizes that owner-dependent businesses are worth significantly less—research shows businesses without owner dependency are valued at roughly 4.5 times profit. The key takeaway is that founders must build systems, delegate authority, and remove themselves as load-bearing walls to create a business that can run without them and command a higher valuation.

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Speaker 2Do you know how the greatest retail in American history got himself arrested? He was crawling across a Brazilian supermarket floor with a tape measure. And that was Sam Walton, the founder of Walmart. He was so obsessed with monitoring every single detail that he could fly a two-seater plane over his parking lots to count the number of cars outside of Walmart. But the part that you got to realize is that it almost killed his company. That's the trap most founders, owners falls into. To put kind of more simply, you become the bottleneck and that's how good operators actually kill your business. So today I thought we'd do something different. I'm going to tell you the three archetypes of bottlenecks to avoid becoming. And then I got a little four-step test that gets you out. This is the Big Deal Podcast. Let's go. Let's start with one sentence. I'd like you to tattoo on your face. Don't be a hero. If you are in business or in life and you think that being Superman is the fun game, you are actually playing the wrong game. Like, you know, you should delegate. And yet if you're anything like me in the early days of building a business, every week waking minute, basically ends the same way with you solving everything. And I totally get it. You know, when your business is brand new, your heroics are like, that's your only option, right? You're dead otherwise. And if that works to keep you in business, you think it works to make your next millions. But that's not true. All right. So here's what happens as your business grows. So does the list of problems to solve and each time you swoop in and try to fix things yourself, especially where those problems are outside of your unique subject matter. Your expertise, you basically remove the highest dollar use of your time for whatever seems urgent, but is really just in front of you. That's not how you build a business. Because what happens is you keep diving in front of every problem and your brain gets rewired neuron by neuron to prefer being needed to winning, being free or making more money. And that's not good. Like great owners scale, but they don't scare scale just with themselves. Your business needs systems and people that run them and like I've learned this a hard way so many times. So maybe the like one of the more embarrassing moments of my life as an entrepreneur happened years ago. So I got invited by one of my favorite entrepreneurs of all time. Richard Branson. Now, why do I like him? Because he basically lives this adventurous huge life while also running multi-billion dollar businesses. So he invited me out to Necker Island and it was with a small group of other entrepreneurs. That's what I wanted. I wanted to become sort of somebody who did crazy. Things and also built some of the biggest companies on Earth. It's really rare. It's not normal to be like cross-continent ballooning while you have a multi-billion dollar airline. And so when the invitation came from him and his team like you would think wow, this is a bucket list item. You're going to drop everything and go right Cody and instead like I remember specifically looking. He sent like an agenda of what we were going to be doing and it was like water bicycling. Whatever that is bioluminescent snorkeling. He actually had a line in there like you will spend as little time as humanly possible on your phone. And I literally cringed. I thought there is no way, you know, my company cannot afford to have me offline for that long. And it's still a regret of mine to this day because I thought I was being the hero and I was going to save everything. Everything was fine. I could have been gone for two weeks. But the next time something breaks in your business, I want you to actually say like why might this be a good thing for me? And how can I train a long-term fix as a system a teammate to handle this as opposed to do it myself because if a small part of you lights up like you just get hot and bothered when the phone rings and only you can fix something. You're being the hero and that actually means you're an addict. You're addicted to your own supply. And so this week, you know, I want you to do something totally different. I like to call it the rescue tally. So every time you jump in to handle something your team should own or that an AI tool these days can solve. I want you to just like have that little sticky note that you wrote the quote on and make a mark every one of those marks. I want you to start associating with time and then you're going to save that and you're going to start to think about after saving day after day. What is the cost of all of those little checkmarks? And this is really important because when you think about one of the most famous manufacturers in American history, we talked about Sam Walton. Well, I've got any of your even crazier story for you about Henry Ford. Like we like to think of these people as innovators and incredible builders and they are but the same things that made them their first dollars are actually the things that made them miserable and and Henry Ford actually was that like in the beginning of Ford. If you don't know this, he owned more than half of the US car market. The Model T was printing money total innovation, you know, he'll his little face will be on entrepreneurs version of Mount Rushmore. But his instincts were the entire business in the beginning. He was the best engineer in the building the best salesman. Maybe the only one in the beginning made every decision himself. Then the company got big like really big customers then start wanting color, you know custom colors and options and credit but Ford kept betting everything on one black Model T and the game was changing. He didn't realize Ford had basically this choice learn the new game or double down on the old ones scale his business. So it could really thrive prophetical crazy or run himself into the ground. What did you do? He doubled on running everything himself. Then he doubled down again and again and at one point he got so crazy about control and maniacal oversight that he would send inspectors to his own workers homes to police their private lives. Like when did they leave? What were they doing in their off time? How many drinks did they have a night by 1931? So flash forward like a decade his market share been cut in half the company almost died because of the guy who founded it and you know, what's cool about this is you may have founded something incredible but what you need is a guy called Alfred Sloan. So he basically walked into Ford's biggest competitor General Motors and he walked in when that place was total chaos and Ford was rocket shipping GM basically had all these. These little fiefdoms and separate companies with little maniacal Kings all running their divisions totally different and he said nope. We are one company now and we operate on four principles Authority accountability reporting and a predictable rhythm. We do the same thing in owner beyond my book where we talk about we run on a predictable rhythm 90-day Sprint's we run on accountability aka your KBI is an operator scorecard. We run on reporting. That's your P&L review. And the score of your company. So we run the same thing and what that did when Alfred started running. This was free GM from kind of all these one-off Heroes throwing a massive fit. So by that 1931 day GM had passed Ford. They're the number one spot for how many years after that 77 years straight and this fork kind of keeps showing up in every size and every industry like okay. Let's say you think you're better than Steve Jobs is an entrepreneur. I know I'm not well. Steve got fired from Apple because he couldn't stop playing that same game. He was maniacal in charge of everyone screaming at everybody on the time being crazy about if you if you went up in an elevator with Steve Jobs. He would look at you and ask you what exactly do you do for the company determine if that was good enough what you did for the company and then fire you immediately. If you thought it wasn't and that didn't win and so he left the company came back 10 years later and built the most valuable company on Earth and then. Obviously brought in people like Tim Cook who are pure systems guys. No innovation. If you think about like Travis Kalanick just moved to Austin but built uber into a 75 billion dollar company and the board had to prize fingers off the wheel. Now whether that was a good decision or not. I'm not sure because I think Travis is a stud but the principle here is that your Heroics should not be the reason your business succeeds because you're going to add more people and then products and then more zeros and you're not going to be able to predict what's happening next without a system. So. As you scale this basically means that your business becomes a nightmare for you and you don't need Ford's market share basically to hit the same Ford wall like you could be a contractor right now who crosses seven figures and discovers that your next big project. Okay well I can't do it by myself I can't do a seven-figure project stored in my head or you might own an agency and realize that like oh wait all the graphic design work was my personal taste. Now when I'm not the one doing it it looks totally different when somebody else does the design work for you and so a question I would ask yourself now is like how do you know if you've hit the wall. Well when you become the bottleneck or the choke point it's usually one of three reasons and we call them the three bottlenecks. The first is the decision bottleneck which basically means every question in your business boom around boomerangs right back to you I sort of visualize it like a boomerang every approval you goes through you when you disappear. Everything stops because nobody's there to catch the other side of the boomerang the second is the delivery bottleneck and this is like all right the thing that we create doesn't get delivered if I don't do it myself right the client asks for you by name the quality drops if you're not the one executing no sales happen if you're not selling and the third is the direction bottleneck which is like you're flying on gut if right now this is a hard question to ask yourself do you have a business dashboard and scorecard do you have a business dashboard and scorecard. Do you have KPIs and do you run a 90-day sprint on your business? just instinct and hunches and none of those things, then you have a decision bottleneck. And once you understand where this bottleneck exists, that's where you build the first part of the system. So decisions typically need written authority so people know exactly what they can do without you. Delivery needs SOPs, documented processes, so somebody else can run it start to finish, not you and you don't have to be miserable all day. Direction needs a scorecard the whole team can read and try to figure out, oh, do I understand the vision of where we're going next? And the thing to think about is like, if there's a task that touches you more than twice a week, it gets a written system or a named owner and I like you to do it by Friday. This is really important because most owners, you actually have a ton of jobs, right? You're like, I'm the janitor, I'm the salesperson, I'm the marketer. And if you genuinely can't tell which one you are in business, ask your newest employee because they'll basically see, oh, well, you're kind of in our way on sales and fulfillment and whatever. And I think one of the things that you probably should be asking is like, if every owner knows the fix is building systems, why do so few actually do it? One, most systems suck. Just because you have a system, it's sort of like saying, I'm successful in life because I have a system that I run my life on, but I'm not happy or rich and I wish I was happy or rich. That's not what we want. Instead, you need a system that's proven, that's been utilized many times and that's been followed through on in your industry. And if you're not happy or rich, that's not what we want. That's actually why I wrote my book, Owner Beyond, because the idea is we needed 15,000 businesses to go through this process. And inside the book, they use the outcome of this process, our 12P diagnostic. So that's where we actually score your business on 12 pressure points that lead to making more money. It tells you which two are killing you right now. Then it helps you fix those in 90 days. And then it helps you figure out what your next one is. You know, chapter 10 is actually all about bottlenecks, what we just talked about. So if this episode, if any part of this like sort of stings and you're sitting on vacation and wishing that you could actually take time off, this book is for you. Like I learned these exact systems building multiple nine figure businesses, and then I stole a bunch of them from Wall Street. So actually, I'm going to give them to you free at our live virtual event. It's called Owner Beyond. If you show up, you get our free scaling tool, which is really cool. I've never given it away before. And we're giving a million dollars in cash and prizes that entrepreneurs will want, but you got to be there live to get that. I think the only fair warning I'll say to you is like, if you love being needed, this book will ruin that for you. Like it will stop you being addicted to the heroine of heroism. And so if that is you, I want you there. You can actually hit the link below or hit the QR code. It'll take you right to the launch. And maybe I want to end with like going back to the main question. Let's say you know, in your business that you need more systems. How do we actually get you the right one? And underneath this answer lies every excuse you've ever given. So tell me if this is you. I've certainly said it to myself. Nobody can do it as well as I can. My clients need me specifically. Peel those back. And if the fear is actually, what if the business runs without me? What am I even good for? Then you know you're in the right spot. Like somewhere along the way, I think every owner has this like moment in the dark where your identity gets fused with the company. And you have to remove yourself from this idea that your business is a part of you. We kind of call it the amputation, which means that you've got to cut off these things that stall your company. Because most owners don't have their business fail because of not enough cash flow or because they can't generate enough profit. It's because they give up. And this problem has nothing to do with talent. It's really that you're too tired to go in this way. And I like to look at Michael Jordan for this. Like I think he might be the most obsessive winner in the history of sports. Like it's a man who took, he would take it so personally when a teammate missed a free throw in a preseason game, which I'm not a big sports person as you guys know, but matters less from what I'm told. And he would take it so personally when opponents scored on him. And so personally when somebody didn't actually execute on their part of the play. That he would make them practice more with him afterwards. And one of the reasons that I bring this up is like, even though Jordan averaged 37 points per game, even though he took all of that so personal and made his other teammates work super hard at it, he still couldn't win a championship alone. Like the best individual player alive scoring at will, he lost every single year until he got with coach Phil Jackson and convinced him to trust what's called the triangle offense, which is kind of technical. You don't need to know that, but that let his teammates actually carry a real load, not micromanage them every seven seconds. And what happened next? Six titles in eight years, the greatest run of all time, all unlocked by giving up the ball and trusting in the whole team. And like, what's actually crazy is if you skip ahead a few decades, Jordan actually bought an NBA franchise. And suddenly the man who won six rings by trusting a system, he was a nightmare in the front office, burned through six head coaches, trusted his gut over every expert and posted the record in the league. In fact, Phil Jackson went on to win more rings without Michael. And it kind of shows you that sometimes it's actually the coach and not the player. Like the second the game changed from basketball to business, he reverts right back to his old ways of playing every position. And I'm sure I don't have to say this, but I'll say it anyway. Like Michael Jordan's a total stud, obviously, but if he couldn't build a basketball business on his talent, do you really think you're going to be able to do it without following proven systems? Like this switch just requires something different and you need to let yourself expand beyond your talents and your skills. So, you know, a good example would be like I hired a chief of staff this year at Contrarian Thinking. And I've had chief of staffs for many years, but I had never hired one at Contrarian Thinking. I had two assistants instead. And what I thought about with this one is I knew I was going to be pregnant. I didn't want to work as much for this last portion. So I really introduced him specifically as my second brain. And the reason why is I told my team to go to him first before almost ever coming to me. And that was really difficult for me. But the benefits have been amazing. Like before Azad came in, we actually had part of the dev team that was burning, I don't know, 74K a month or something like that. And that dev team was basically benefiting from the fact that I was too busy and not overseeing it. It went through this like vendor layer. We were paying agency margins on top of the actual and slower turnaround for it. And what's interesting is like, I don't think I'm a total idiot at business. I've built a lot of businesses by now, but I just didn't have the bandwidth to manage all of these devs. I bring in Azad. I'm overseeing a couple other projects, but he handles this one. What does he realize? He finds that he has to immediately offboard the agency, screens over 40 people to fill out the team, built a team around senior engineers, does all of this offboarding and onboarding inside of 90 days and gets the cost down from like 74K a month to 12K with internal hires. And I think this part is so important. He is not a better operator overall than me. I have no ego about the fact that he did this when I couldn't. It's just that your business can only grow to the size of your current self in any sector of the business. So if right now, let's say you run a 500K business, well, you probably can't run a $5 million business with the same habits. Like the higher the altitude, the rarer the air, right? And so you're going to have to learn how to breathe differently. Your team will watch to see whether you'll expand your capabilities before they bother to expand theirs. So if this freaks you out, I'd tell you to go give one of your top clients to one of your best team members. I'd tell you that nine times out of 10, it's not going to matter. I'd tell you that you want to exactly what you do to have this other person hit it. But if you are the only person driving revenue, profits, sales in your business, then when you leave, you don't have a business. You just had a really stressful job with a terrible boss who was kind of miserable. So the difference between your business being worth millions and basically nothing is that you think of your business as yourself. And that is actually the worst thing you can do. Most owners don't know how to plan for exit. That means like 80% of the average business owners don't know how to plan for exit. Net worth is locked inside the business. You guys don't pay yourself enough. And so four out of five dollars that you're worth is trapped in an asset that only pays out if a buyer says yes, but they're not going to pay for it because you only have a job. You don't have a business. So if you look at some of the research, like Value Builder scored 80,000 companies and found the exact price of being irreplaceable. The businesses that did not have what's called owner dependency, they were worth around four and a half times profit. Like that's fascinating. And so in your business, how can you actually be worth more by doing less? Isn't that crazy? It sounds like an infomercial somebody would say, but why does a business owner, why is a business owner able to run a business by doing less and make more? Because that means you actually know how to operate. You're no longer a load bearing wall. And if they pull you out, the roof doesn't come down. Nobody's going to pay full price for a house that has a dude standing that has to keep the roof up. That will never work. So the distance between what your business makes and earns and is worth and what your actual valuation gap is, usually the distance between those things is how involved the owner is. And so this idea of, can you take one of your biggest clients and give it to another one? Can you remove some aspect of the business so you don't actually have to lift the weights? Can you have your best people make decisions that make you minorly uncomfortable? If you can do that, your business will be worth more. And that is all in the bottleneck chapter. To close out, I like to write notes to myself on Twitter. And most of the things I write on there is a reminder to myself of the things I know I need to do in business. And I think one of the most important things for you to realize is that the ultimate life hack is deciding you can just wake up one day and say, I'm not doing that again and completely change your life. And the same thing is true for business. You can just decide right now you're never gonna do that again. You're not gonna be the hero and you're gonna have a whole slate of heroes who can come in and save the day so that you don't have to keep being the only one to take the punches. That's all Owner Be Owned. I hope to see you guys at the live event. Let me know what you think in the comments.
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Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. Founders often become bottlenecks by solving every problem themselves, which rewires their brains to prefer being needed over scaling the business.
  2. There are three bottleneck archetypes
  3. Henry Ford and Michael Jordan both exemplify how heroics and control can nearly destroy or limit success, while Alfred Sloan and Phil Jackson show that systems and delegation unlock massive growth.
  4. A practical test is the "rescue tally," where you mark every time you jump in to handle something your team should own, then calculate the cost of those checkmarks.
  5. Businesses without owner dependency are worth around four and a half times profit, so removing yourself as a load-bearing wall directly increases valuation.

Summary:

The episode focuses on how founders become the bottleneck that limits their company's growth. The host explains that early-stage heroics are necessary but become destructive as a business scales, because owners get addicted to being needed and sacrifice high-value work for urgent tasks. Three bottleneck archetypes are identified: decision bottlenecks where every approval boomerangs back to the owner, delivery bottlenecks where quality or sales depend entirely on the founder, and direction bottlenecks where the business runs on gut instinct without dashboards or scorecards.

Historical examples illustrate the point: Henry Ford's obsession with control nearly destroyed Ford while Alfred Sloan's systematic approach at GM led to 77 years of dominance. Michael Jordan won six championships only after trusting Phil Jackson's triangle offense, yet later failed as an NBA owner by reverting to micromanagement. The host shares a personal example of hiring a chief of staff who reduced a dev team's monthly cost from $74K to $12K in 90 days, proving that systems outperform individual heroics.

5 times profit. The key takeaway is that founders must build systems, delegate authority, and remove themselves as load-bearing walls to create a business that can run without them and command a higher valuation.

FAQs

They become the bottleneck by trying to solve every problem themselves, which removes the highest-value use of their time and prevents the business from scaling without them.

The three bottlenecks are the decision bottleneck (every approval goes through you), the delivery bottleneck (work doesn't get delivered unless you do it yourself), and the direction bottleneck (you're flying on gut instinct without dashboards, KPIs, or a scorecard).

Sam Walton was so obsessed with monitoring every detail that he would fly a two-seater plane over parking lots to count cars, showing how his need for control almost killed the company by making him the bottleneck.

Henry Ford's market share was cut in half by 1931 and the company nearly died because he insisted on running everything himself instead of building systems and trusting others.

Alfred Sloan introduced four principles at GM: authority, accountability, reporting, and a predictable rhythm. This freed the company from one-off heroes and helped GM become number one for 77 straight years.

The rescue tally is a simple exercise where you make a mark every time you jump in to handle something your team or an AI tool should own, then associate each mark with time to see the true cost of your heroics.

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