teoria do tá barato

Hi, today we are going in this episode to try to discount a story, not in the sense of discount, but in the sense of trying to undo the effects that a story told many times has or may have lost about you, from what this story had about me. I believe that this episode is not exactly applied to everyone, but to those who are applied, I think it will fall like a cloud and if it helps a person to leave this place and experience life beyond it, I am already satisfied with this episode. If this person is for you, please do not forget to tell me. Next, if you feel unjustized about life, the point of this is to leave you with anger and low astral, the point of this is, many times, the subject you try to connect with or connect with other people, creates relationships with other people, from your pain for having been victimized for life in several cases, maybe this episode is for you and if someone sent you this episode, do not be offended, I understand that it is very difficult not to be offended by this episode, because in my place I would also be offended, but listen until the end because I think this person really wants your good. I personally took a long time to learn this, to be honest, I took 31 years, and it was only this year that I started, in fact, I started noticing this a few years ago without being able to act, and then this year something changed in me that I managed to live on the other side of this story. If you want to be happy, if you want to experience joy, pleasure, lightness, we need my friend to take you out of the place of victimization, and calm down, I hate when people come to me, very privileged, saying that you are being victimized when you are really in relation to this person, you are a victim of the system of life, social injustices, etc. and I am not saying that you are not or were not victimized in several moments of your life, when someone hurt you, when someone was really unfair to you, or when the system is unfair to you, we know that there is social inequality, we know that there are structural prejudices in society that make people go out of their way in relation to others. We know that there are several things and several ways of you being a victim of people, and of the system, and of life, and of occasions, and of the case, etc. That is not what I am saying, and I want to make it very clear that you did not choose to be hurt, or to be unjustified in any moment, that you felt victimized, or that you were really a victim of something, or something. And I think that this is part of the human experience, there are people who have more benefits than others, there are people who are more harmful than others during life, obviously, life unfortunately is not fair, but I do not want to put so much focus on what happened, or where you left, or anything like that. I want to put focus on what we do from that, because the way we tell this story to ourselves, and to others, can change everything, and we need, if you see yourself often sad, angry, unmotivated, despairing, for feeling that place of injustice, of victim, we need to try to change the way we tell this story. And then, specifically, about how many times we are stuck to this story, because it helps us to justify the good things that we have in our life. So, how much we feel that we need to justify the good things in our life, with love. We got to the point that I wanted to get to. I'll give you an example. The subject that we are going to talk about today is what I call the philosophy of Tabarato, which is a philosophy that I did not want to adopt, and then this phrase began to reverberate people around me, and then they started talking about this phrase, which is Tabarato, Tabarato, Tabarato. And this little phrase contains so many things that changed my life, and the people around me, which I really thought would be the case if I made an episode, because if this phrase could help, as I said, someone has already fulfilled their purpose. I'll give you an example of how to change the perspective, it really helped me and helped people around me to face very difficult times in life, in which they did not choose to go through what they were going through, but somehow this perspective helps. Last year, and I never said this on social media, and not even here, and I think those who were more attentive were able to notice that something like this was happening. But last year, my mother had cancer. In the middle of all those crazy things that happened last year, which was a very difficult year for me in 2024, one of the things, and I think the most difficult thing that happened was that my mother had this diagnosis of cancer. I even wanted to do a parenthesis. Do your exams, we are coming to the end of the year. If you haven't done your check-ups yet, if you have chest pain, etc., do ultrasound, if you have more than 40 mammography, do your exams, don't leave it for later. This can save your life. But back then, my mother had cancer. And we managed to diagnose very quickly, act very quickly, and after she did the surgery, which was more or less at the same time that I got married, so it was super difficult, anyway, it was a very complex moment. She started radiography. You have to imagine, it happens in a clinic, and then you have to go to this oncology clinic, where everyone is treating cancer. There are people with advanced cancer, there are people with more cancer in the initial stages, etc., and it's not exactly a very pleasant place, let's say, right? It's a place that scares you. It's a place that you have put, I keep imagining my mother. People, she took this situation from a way that I am so proud of the way she faced this situation, because she really faced it in a very practical way. But of course there were moments, like everyone else, when she had to face the fear, the uncertainty, the not knowing, and we were there by her side. I accompanied her a few days in radiography. And when we were there in radiography, many times I was imagining that she was being placed there, different from an hypothesis of what she would imagine that could happen to her. These people who are in a super difficult stage, almost terminal, let's say, in palliative care, and this scares me a lot. My mother, for those who want to know, is already 100% well, she was doing the post-training treatment, which is 5 years old, but she is 100% well, self-taught, as she always was, including a mother's kiss, because she heard the podcast. And then what happens is that we took a lot of traffic, and it was a very far place where we had to do this radiography, and we were talking, and many times there were complaints. For example, my mother had to do a surgery, she had to take a part of her chest, and then, of course, it matches with self-esteem, she didn't want to have to do that, she had to go through surgery, she had to face very difficult things, you know, things like that. And then, whenever she came to this complaint, like, "Wow, I didn't want to have to take a part of my chest," then I said, "Mom, let's think about it, it's cheap, right? Let's think about the alternative." I think taking a part of the chest is a good thing. Then we took the traffic, then we complained, "Wow, all this traffic to get there still has to be in the waiting room, with all that astral bass," then we looked and said, "Well, it's cheap." "Wow, if it was so expensive, I didn't want to have to spend this money now." "Well, let's think about it, it's cheap." And then, this was a phrase that I always said, but at that moment, like, my mother and I, my mother and my family, but I'm talking about when I and my mother were alone, that we were always repeating this phrase, "It's cheap," it started to be very clear to me, like, sometimes life throws things so complicated on our way, and to face these things, to win and get out, in this case, to survive this thing, or to win this thing, etc. We need to negotiate many parts of our lives, because we didn't want to have to negotiate, but putting it in the balance, we can get out of the place of victim, right? "Fuck, what the fuck, I'm going to have to take a picture of my chest, etc." Of course, you were victimized in this place, right? Of course, that's injustice, that's what happened, that no one deserves to go through this, etc. But when you see that you have the choice and the opportunity to do a treatment that, yes, it's not a pleasant treatment, it's a treatment that costs you a lot of money, a lot of time, a lot of... It's very expensive for my mother, it's a part of her body, etc. But you can choose this, even if it's at a price, and you think, "No, I'm going to choose this, because it's what I want, my desire points here, I want to not have cancer, I want to be able to get out of this situation, even if it costs money, a part of my chest, my time, this super difficult situation that I have to face, five years of medication, I want it. When you see that this is what you want, it's just cheap, the situation becomes a lighter situation for you. You say, "No, I know it's hard, I know I didn't want to lose a part of my chest, but surviving is more important to me, so if I have to pay for my survival with a part of my chest, oh, it's cheap, right?" And then I started, we started, my mother and the people in my family, we started using this "it's cheap" for everything. And then, now going back to my life, before everything that we went through, this situation gave me so much clarity to be able to separate things that were really unfair in my life, things that are really shit that happen when you say, "Fuck, there's nothing good to get out of here, there's no price I could pay, the price that was to not have to be in this situation, from what are the challenges of life that happen, or that sometimes you are born with this challenge, whatever the dimension it is, and you choose to prosper from it, choose to overcome it, to surpass it, you want to get to the other side of it and live with it, not necessarily despite it, you know? So this clarity of what situations are really bad and difficult and there's nothing good to get out of them, and what I was complaining about and focusing on the price I was paying without being able to have clarity that the price I was paying is because I chose what it would give me in exchange. And when you change this perspective, people, it's simply... I don't know how to explain to you the change that this had in my life. It was such a abrupt change and I see people around me yesterday, I was having a conversation with my friends and Olga sent me an audio, like, "Wow, this year I'm seeing you so light, so happy and being able to see the good, the full cup." When she said that to me, I remembered a text I wrote, and I'll read it for you now. I never thought I would read this text, but I think it comes very often. It was a text I wrote on September 5, 2025, in a situation where there was a person complaining a lot to me about a situation that she clearly chose. She was complaining about the price she was paying for a situation she chose. And then I saw this mirror, you know, when she was talking about it, how it was a mirror for me that said, "You did this during all these years. You did this because you focused on the price you were paying for something you wanted." Do you understand? Well, let's go to the text, I'll read it here. September 5, I wrote, "Suddenly, I don't think it's a good idea to make my pain go away. I don't think it's cool to use my difficulties as medals, to show the bad parts of being me as an exhibition of art. Suddenly, I feel ashamed to just talk about the empty cup and how it is pulled to be me. Suddenly, I got tired of being a victim and to use my tragedies as a spark of attention and it seems like a blow to me. Suddenly, I look at this mirror and I don't see myself anymore. When I wrote this, I was feeling that I was digging in stone like this. It's over, you're not going to be like this anymore. That's what it means to grow. You recognize things in you, for me, right? Things in you that are disengaged with who you want to be and be able to surpass them. And that took years. And I'm not saying that I surpassed them, but I'm saying that I'm much better already. So I ask you, and if you stop acting or if you stop believing that your pain is the most interesting thing about you, how do you think it would be your life? And I want you to resist the impulse, because while I'm listening, I see people listening and saying like this, but you don't know anything about my pain. Who are you to say that my pain is this? And then I want to make it very clear that your pain is important. It is very important to feel. You have the right to feel. You have the right to complain about your pain. You have the right to be sad with the prices you have to pay to have what you want to have or to survive this thing that was put on your path. I'm not saying that. But I want us to change the focus with what we're going to do from your pain. And not use your pain as something that identifies you as a person. As if it were your main characteristic. As if it were a risk to a subject. Or to get attention or empathy or anything like that with other people. I think this might be the most interesting because throughout my life I studied the history of many women. There was a time when I was very addicted I even had a picture on YouTube, someone here from my YouTube channel that I deleted in a crazy way with all the videos. There was a time on my YouTube channel that I had a picture called "Curiosidade". "Akalu" Now "Akalu" responds when I say "Akalu" responds with some sound. Let's see, the other day she put it like this. Let her put it. The other day I was starting with "Akalu" just a parenthesis. She said sometimes you talk to me and I respond with a click but I was thinking about putting a sound to respond when specifically when you talk to me during the episode. And then I thought about putting this sound. Girl, put this sound that you had put on. I don't know if it's a video game or something like that. Then I heard this and I said "Girl, what is this? It looks like they killed a cat." We laughed a lot and we still haven't found a sound for this. But anyway, "Akalu" that edited my YouTube channel too. But coming back, I had this picture that was drawing and talking to amazing women where I drew women and told their story. So, from the story of all the most amazing women that I studied, they were extremely unjust and I wanted to highlight that you don't need to be unjust to be an amazing woman but these specific women that I studied they had this pattern of having something very strict with them like Amalala, Frida, do you know what happened? Frida suffered an accident, Odara, Mayaangelo and other women had very difficult things in life and they created things from their pain from what they went through that didn't make them victims of that. But they made an alchemy and I think this is very specific of women, including they made an alchemy with their pain and created things that reverberated throughout the world, historically be it in a community, be it in a culture, through the years of the history of humanity, they created things from their pain. And when you see their story, you feel bad for what happened, but what the hell could they do? So, your pain is important you have the right to feel, you have the right to speak, it's important that others know the injustices that you go through or that your group the people you identify with go through. It's important to speak to the social injustices it's very important all of this it's important to mark it, it's important that there are people who keep talking about it but I really think it's more interesting what we do from that as people individually and as society understand what we can create from the pain that are scattered like this. If you have PET I'm sure you've already lived the despair of seeing them spitting and researching on the internet. PET spitting what to do. Or then he called him to walk and he didn't get up and already researched. Dog doesn't want to walk what does it mean? I understand you and I'm here to say, calm down you're not alone and not me. Yes, so once again here to talk about our beloved health plan PETLOVE. There are more than 7000 clinics and veterinary hospitals in Brazil, free microchipage home treatment and 100% digital hiring. Super easy and fast for the app or the site. And the best, during the PET Friday you have 50% discount on the first monthly use of my coupon LELA BRANDÃO 50 or you can take care of your animal with tranquility and save at the same time. So run to the PETLOVE site I'll leave the link here in the description of the episode and don't forget my coupon LELA BRANDÃO 50. Go there and guarantee your plan because you already know the health plan of PETLOVE. If you have PET you have to have. Thank you PETLOVE for sponsoring this part of the episode. Let's go back. And then recently you must have heard an episode I don't know if you've already heard but if you haven't heard, let's hear it. Which is the episode I recorded with Taís Araújo with Maísa and Nátaly Neri called "God in command" here on the podcast. And then I was interviewing them and the first question I asked for Taís Araújo, which was something I always wanted to ask her and I was very happy that I got to ask her, which is the following of Taís Araújo, people. Taís Araújo, actresses, I don't even need to explain. Her agenda, I was imagining, must be a madness. She makes movies, she records novels, she is an influencer, she works with brands, she gives interviews, she takes pictures, she is a mother and a lot of other things. And even so, she is always very happy. At least that's what we see, right? Always very happy, always very light. And then one day I was on Instagram, a photo of her in her carousel appeared, in which she spoke and showed that the bottom of her cell phone was the joy of having fun. And when you think of Taís Araújo, you think of a happy woman, what we see from her, etc. And I was thinking, how is it possible, how does she have such a dense routine of work, such great responsibilities, you know, huge things that she moves, and even so she can have this lightness, this joy and such. And then I asked her, it was the first question I said, how did she manage to stay like this in front of so many responsibilities? And then her answer, people, I really wanted you to listen there, but I'll give a summary and take the point that I wanted to get to, which is the following, she says that before, as she started out very new, she understood that that was a weight, that that could be a weight, but that she, with maturity, transformed this weight into responsibility and she even says, like, and I like responsibility. And then, from the moment she transformed the weight into responsibility, she felt that this weight was lighter. And then, the second part of this answer, for me, is the point I wanted to get to. And then we will reinforce with a speech from Rosalia, who speaks kind of the same thing. She says that things came organically for her, this talent she has, this affinity with cameras, with stage, etc. suddenly came organically for her. And then this gave fruits, right? So, she was the first woman to star in a novel of the nine, and there were several things, very special about her career. And then, when she saw, everything was very big, the responsibility was very big, many things, many things, but when she saw that what came organically for her, she would need to dedicate herself to run after that, so she would need, and then she says, study, dedication, all this to run after what was organic for her. When she made this decision, it came to me, I want this, you know? It came all this weight to me from something that was organic, but I want this, so I'll research, I'll dedicate myself, I'll study, I'll have discipline. When she made this decision, it was clear that that was a choice, she was choosing, occupying the place, this place, she was choosing. So, from the clarity that she was choosing, occupying the place of Taís Araújo, from the clarity that she was choosing and knocking and dedicating herself, right? And this was her wish, to occupy this place, this became lighter. She said, when I realized it was a choice, this became lighter for me, lightened up. The joy came from there, because you have clarity that it is complicated, many hours of work, there are bad things about your work, there are difficult things, there are, but I'm choosing because this price, in relation to my wish, to occupy this place, is cheap. And lightened up, she made the bills and saw that it was cheap. And this was so much in my head that the light comes from the clarity that it is a choice, from which place you are choosing, it was so much in my head. And then, yesterday, I was rolling my feed and I found an interview by Rosalia about her new album "Looks", which I'm recording on a Thursday today and it will come out tomorrow, Friday, together with my collection of Frida Kahlo. But anyway, there is a part of the interview that the interviewer asks like this, "Ah, how do you deal with the pressure?" Because there is a lot of pressure, imagine, you released an album that was a great worldwide rhythm, that made you go to the ring, and now you are releasing a second album, you had a deadline to deliver this album, how do you deal with the pressure? And then she said, "I let the pressure come to me. I knew what my mission would be and that none of this is free. I wanted it, I implored for it 15 years ago, I can't complain, it means I can, but I try not to complain too much, because I know that all this is part of my wish. Guys, this talk about her, I could not have made this episode and only this talk about her. Why? The guy is literally asking like this, "Wow, how do you deal with the pressure? What is one of the prices of being Rosalia? What is one of the prices of you being known worldwide, of you having projects with the range that she has, to enable projects of this dimension, of her being able to live the music that has always been her great passion, Rosalia is formed in music, I don't know if you know, and her TCC was her first album, which is "I don't want to" and then she says, 15 years ago, I was imagining Rosalia, I was in college and now I am Rosalia, okay? And everything I wanted the most in college was to be able to enable projects of this size and be able to pursue my passion, which is music, and be able to make a living with it and prosper from it and be creative and etc. And then now that I've arrived here, I'm going to complain about the price I'm paying, without what I knew, this is not free, wow, this is so powerful, because I apply it to my life, that's why she told me, damn it, I implored for this 15 years ago, and the price I'm paying for it is to deal with the pressure, wow, it's too cheap, it's too cheap, and then I apply it to my dear life, as an influencer, I know it's kind of ridiculous to put me in comparison with Taisa Rosalia, but hearing what they are trying to apply to my life, last year, I think I've already said a billion times, it was a very sad year, very bad for me, for a sum of horrible things that happened, but also because I think that together with these horrible things that happened, I lost the ability to see the full body and I lost the ability to understand that the price I was paying for what I was doing was very cheap, for me it started to look very expensive, this price I was paying, so as an influencer, and I already said to you without much to give up, so much of my standing as an influencer on social networks, sometimes I thought about giving up the podcast because it was very heavy for me, it was simply because I was in this position, which is a position that today I look and say, damn it, look at this here, people are stopping, an hour a week, to hear me say, hundreds of thousands of people, they hear me until the last second, what do I have to say, anxious to know what I'm going to say in the last second, they viabilize projects, today I can have a mass life because of my visibility on social networks, I occupy a place that many people would like to occupy, but above all what I would like to occupy, because I chose to be here, I couldn't see that, because I could only see the price, which was very expensive for me, that I could only see what I was doing, not doing what I was changing for this place, and today I see that most of me have done this and focused on the difficulties, and have amplified so much the power that this has in my life, the bad things to be an influencer, let's say, had an impact on my life, it was also a way to deal with my life, because maybe if I focused on the difficulties, the world would balance and give me the capacity to feel at peace, and this became very clear to me, including in a trip I made with Luzca in June of this year, because me and Natia were complaining about something of an influencer, I don't remember right, or I was complaining about something, I don't know, and then Luzca said like this, old man, this is the best job in the world, we post stories and make money to post stories, and people, it's obvious, it's surreal, but there are bad parts too, right, like everywhere has a price, like Razelia said, it's not free, this place is not free, but this ease of Luzca of having this vision inspired me so much to try to talk like this, damn, what more do I want, and I talked so much about it in the analysis, but I can't understand why I can't be happy, what more do I want, what more do I want, my job is great, blah blah blah, but what happens? I stayed when people said, I don't know, I'll give an example, wow, what a shit, you're going to do, let's support, a collab with Frida Carlos, if it were last year, a collab with Frida Carlos, congratulations, my automatic response would be, wow, I'm going to tell you, I did a lot of work, see, wow, how much I strived to get this collection of the paper, wow, how difficult it was, there were moments when I thought about it and it really is true, but this is the first thing that comes to mind when people say, congratulations, are you doing a collab with Frida Carlos? And today, for me, it's very automatic to say, man, it's very fucked up, right, very fucked up, wow, I don't believe I'm living at this moment, because sometimes justifying with the price you're paying gives you a book of like, oh no, so I deserve to be here, if I let it be clear that there is a expensive price I'm paying to be in this place, then it means that I deserve to be here, and then you think that this will bring you peace, that this, that the world will be balanced and give you the ability to bring peace, but this equation is wrong, it's wrong because the only person who is able to give you the ability to feel peace is you, there is no one who can give me the ability to feel peace, I need to give me this ability, and today, after all these processes, from my mother's cancer to the difficulties I went through last year, until really, there was a moment when I chose to give up and then I chose to give up, I chose to continue and have the clarity of why I chose to continue and have the clarity of the price I'm paying and be able to clearly see the price I'm paying and my desire and understand that this price is cheap, put me in a place today that I can be much happier in the good parts and even allow me to feel the good parts because I was so addicted to the bad parts that sometimes I turned things into good things that could be good in things wrong purposefully without knowing, unconsciously, but purposefully, so that somehow I have more bad things to say and justify to myself that I deserve to be here, I don't know, one of the things that my work gives me the possibility of privilege is to choose my schedules, I can choose my schedules, I'm the leader of my projects, I can say no, today I'm very tired, I can't do this on the day, but I can program myself to sleep until one day later that I know I'm going to get tired from the day before and then I do my schedule, work until a little later or then I leave to work another day or then cancel a meeting, delay something, I can do this, but I didn't allow myself to do that and I did it for a long time, I forced myself to have horrible work conditions just so that the price I was paying to the place that I am was higher and suddenly justify in the head of people the privilege that I have to occupy this place, but today I see all of this that I gained from being an influencer and being in my place and I'm saying this, I want you to put in the same way that I'm taking the story of Rosalinda, Taís Araújo, putting it in my reality, I want you to be able to take my reality and apply it to your own, even if you are in a position of higher privilege than me or lower, anyway, today I see everything that I gained and all the good things that I have for being an influencer, communicator, here they are, my community, which are you, which honestly is the reason why I keep doing what I'm doing, all the projects that I have enabled, that I could enable, we are writing a book and I didn't even go after the publisher, the publisher that comes after me, this is surreal, I have done projects like this collection that I did with Frida Kahlo, it only existed, it only existed because of my position as an influencer, because of my community, the financial part, the connections that I made, the feeling of connection with you and also the people that I knew because of this place that I occupy, all of this goes against the price that I pay, which is sometimes not enough, this discouragement of social networks, the hate, anyway, a lot of things that do exist, people, it's very cheap, it's very cheap, I would pay this price quietly like this, this exchange is very fair, in fact, I'm going out on an advantage, you see, sorry to interrupt here, here is Victor, if you don't know me, I'm Lela's husband and in addition I'm also Lela's financial partner Brandon Co and I came here to leave a quick notice, ok, if you always want one of the comfortable clothes for women that Lela always talks about, this is 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people who were lucky to be in the position, there are people who were born man, white, cis, hetero, rich, who studied at the best universities that the father was the owner of the company and that's why he has a company, okay, this guy may have given you some pain and such, but it's not the one who justified the place that he is, because there are other people much more qualified, much more amazing and much more capable of occupying this place than they are occupying this place, so forget it, because sometimes we create this thing so repeated for us that we internalize and say no, so if I'm in a good place, I need to be justified with a lot of pain, only from a lot of pain, I'm going to edify the place that I occupy and this story will only hurt you because you're going to unconsciously start to amplify your pain in a way that they really start to hurt you more and sometimes you'll even look for pain that justifies, which is my case, which I was doing with myself, that somehow can hurt you to the point of justifying the good things and balance the good and bad things than occupying your position or anyway, so my love, I want to end this episode by holding your hand and saying that I'm here giving you permission, giving you the permission to feel at peace, without needing your pain and despite your pain, you can feel at peace from now on you have permission, here we are at the coffee with God Mother, you have permission to feel at peace, to recognize and allow yourself to feel the pleasure of being who you are, to occupy the place that you occupy, even if it's a mini pleasure, even if you are going through a difficult moment, as Willow says, we are not going to make a banquette in the bad things, in the bad things, when beauty is a part of life, this is what Willow says, it's Willow the singer, because you don't know, I'm quoting a song here, whoever likes to cry knows anything, whoever likes to cry, everyone who is listening is, right, but whoever likes to cry in the roots of the first years, I'm talking about music like that, so, of life, but anyway, I'm giving you permission, from now on you have the permission to feel joy, lightness, without needing it to be a reward for your pain, imagine how delicious it would be if you could allow yourself to enter the mood of the lightness, of pleasure, of joy, of love, of expansion, without them having to justify internally and externally with pain, with fatigue, with exhaustion, with how it is like that, and it's not one or the other, these two things coexist, but the way you look at them changes everything, so my friends, my friend who is listening now, let's tell a new story, who are you, how would your story start if it didn't start with the hard one, I hope I have been clear, because the message I'm trying to pass is very important, but I think that the words sometimes don't reach my words, at least they can't reach what I'm trying to say, so I hope I have been clear, please comment here if you could understand what I tried to pass on this episode, I really hope yes, because that really changed my life and I believe that it has the power to change people's lives Let's go to the week's show, what happens? I used to always be in a love of buying, which was a brand of necklace for dogs, in fact it was a brand of accessories for dogs, but the main product was identification, and then I was like, one day I'm going to buy, one day I'm going to buy and then you know how much you get on the list, yes, you don't buy, I wanted to buy one for coca and for Billy, the necklace that they sold was not a traditional necklace, you know, those that are thick, it was like a adjustable necklace with a medal written in the dog's name and the phone, and I thought the coca and Billy loved it because it's a little necklace, not uncomfortable and such, and then I was filming a video on Instagram one day and an announcement appeared that this brand was going to close, and then I said, I'm going to buy, right, I'm going to buy the necklace before they close, I took the opportunity to buy a necklace for coca and a for Billy, okay, it arrived here, I went to put it on the necklace, when it arrived, we were so happy because I chose the color, it was beautiful on the necklace, I put it on and said, wow, son, how beautiful you are, wow, I don't know what, I made a party and such, and Billy's I hadn't put it on yet because Billy was with an allergy, with an allergy to the face and then I didn't want to put it on to not irritate, then I put it on the necklace, I was all happy, then I waited for Victor to get home, when he got home, I said, look how beautiful the coca necklace was, we were the most beautiful thing, so I bought a bright green, and so, people, I was a year old dating this, no joke, a year old, because my sister-in-law bought her dogs and I said, wow, how beautiful, one day I'm going to buy, and then I always left it for later, and then finally realized this desire, it wasn't a super expensive thing and that's it, but you know when you leave, anyway, that day came, I put the necklace on the necklace, okay, then Victor came to work, I showed him, the necklace, he found the maximum if you want, we went to Victor's room and then I stayed with Victor and Billy, we were talking about how it was your day, if you want, and the coca was here in my room, when I and Victor and Billy were together, the coca never stays alone, you know, he's always kind of with us, but we didn't realize and he was in my room, when I get up, people, look, the coca gave a way, I don't know how he did it, but he gave a way to take off his necklace and stole and destroy the necklace, a way that doesn't have how to fix it, the necklace that I stayed for years dating, that I finally bought and put on the tree, it lasted 8 minutes, 8 minutes in the mouth of the coca, 8 minutes and the store closed, so guys, a dream that I have grown over the years ended in 8 minutes, thanks to my dog, which is great, I didn't even put Billy, I'm afraid of what Billy will do when I put him and he's still allergic, let's see the next chapters, let's go to my current obsession and with this current obsession, I have an announcement to make, which is the following, it is the end, it is the end of my obsession with super-faturated coffee, we arrived at the end, it was years with chemical and emotional dependence to ask for super-faturated coffee in delivery applications, to pay much more expensive than I would like to admit to be able to have coffee at home super-faturated every day, it was waking us up and opening delivery applications, the first thing I did was open delivery applications to ask for coffee here at home, because finally I got ashamed, finally I did a serious research and finally I realized a dream for years that my dog will not spoil in 8 minutes, which is my own coffee shop, guys, I don't believe it, look, if I count the level, I'm here drinking my coffee here, I made it myself in my coffee shop, I bought a coffee shop that is not the one there crazy that I told you that it is like 100 million reais, but it is a coffee shop expensive, I made the accounts and if I and Victor, we take it that Victor didn't ask for coffee, okay, but let's pretend, if I and Victor we take a coffee made in this machine every day, the price I paid for it is justified in 55 days, it's cheaper than buying this coffee shop asking for delivery coffee, and now I'm in my barista era, I understand everything about grains, coffee, pressure, I bought a barista balance that is like this, you have a weight, chronometer, I'm completely dry, I sleep and I wake up excited to know what coffee I'm going to do, I bought a vanilla ice cream to make ice cream, vanilla latte, now I need to learn to make art that I still couldn't learn, but you can do it in this machine, and I'm living my big dream, every day I think wow, I'm going to open a cafeteria and then I think I can't turn all my hobbies into work and then I try to be satisfied with the fact that every morning I make a coffee for me in my Italian coffee shop and I'm living a dream, I'm completely dry, I just think about it, I think about what type of coffee I already sent to Victor today, tomorrow I'm going to make you an ice and shaking espresso, yesterday my neighbor came here at home to see something that we are concentrating on, then I asked, can I have a coffee? No, I didn't want to, but I wanted to have a coffee, can I have a coffee? What is the opportunity? I want to get coffee for people because I am obsessed with the art of taking coffee in my coffee shop, so I'm going to post on my Instagram a video making coffee for you to see the size of the coffee shop and the beauty of the coffee I'm getting from this machine. My people, that's it, I hope you enjoyed the episode, I hope it has helped someone, if someone is you, please don't forget to comment down here on Spotify, I love reading your comments, I read all of them, I can't answer all of them, but I read all of them. If you don't follow me on social media, I'll post there the coffee video and also cut this episode, etc., follow me there, it's @lela.brandão, if you don't follow me, it's @lelabrandão.co or www.lelabrandão.co, we are in Black Friday, this is the moment, if you always think "Wow, I really wanted a dress from Leila Brandão Co, would I be the same as I was with the necklace?" This is the moment, just stay away from your dog, so he doesn't do the same thing as mine, keep your feet away from the dog, if you see that the dogs and cats love our pets because they always smell, then I always received photos and videos of the dogs and cats inside the box, but anyway, take advantage of Black Friday, don't forget to go to our WhatsApp group, the link is here in the description or you can look for it on the channels, "Como Gostosas Também Choram", all the information, references, audios, aleatórios, I send everything there, so you have an experience, "Como Gostosa" and "Chorona Completa". And that's it, my people, I hope you enjoyed it, see you next week, a kiss and bye! If you stayed until the end of the episode, you, my friend, are part of the Celeto Grupo das Mais Mais. Guys, I have no words to say how much I love the Celeto Grupo das Mais Mais, because now I meet people on the street, instead of them saying "Oh, I hear your podcast", they say, they speak very low, so I'm part of the Celeto Grupo das Mais Mais. You are wonderful, I hate that I have that, but anyway, you are part of the Celeto Grupo das Mais Mais, that live inside my heart, my biggest ones. But hey, guys, I love you very much, I'm very passionate about you these last few weeks, I'm sorry. And then, for me to know that you are part of the Celeto Grupo das Mais Mais, please comment with a coffee, for me to know that you stayed until the end and are knowing my new coffee shop. For me to be the iced coffee, I have a iced coffee emoji, right? Or a hot coffee cup, then I already know which is your favorite. When you come here at home, I'm already touched by which coffee I'm going to pass on to you. Today I'm drinking Iced Vanilla Latte with Granulated coffee. Wonderful, better than any coffee shop, a modest part. That's it, my friends, kisses, see you next week!