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Taylor Swift’s OUT OF TOUCH Wedding Backlash? + Trisha Outs the Minions as GAY… | Just Trish Ep. 291

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Taylor Swift’s OUT OF TOUCH Wedding Backlash? + Trisha Outs the Minions as GAY… | Just Trish Ep. 291

Khaleesi shares a lighthearted yet insightful reflection on life, fandom, and personal experiences. She opens with a humorous, fictional story about surviving a whale swallowing, setting a tone of playful exaggeration. The conversation shifts to Halloween excitement, summer vacation memories, and the joy of family-oriented events like a full Halloween tree setup. She reflects on childhood trips to animal parks in San Diego, contrasting them with today’s more structured vacations. A central focus is Taylor Swift’s wedding, where she discusses its scale, public reaction, and criticism over extravagance, while noting the emotional toll and media frenzy. She also opens up about mental health, particularly OCD, and highlights noCD as a trusted, evidence-based treatment option. The episode includes humorous anecdotes about celebrity relationships, such as Carly Claus attending the wedding, and the cringe of millennial-era fan culture. It concludes with a promotional segment on Seeky for concert tickets, emphasizing deals and ease of access. Throughout, the tone balances humor, personal vulnerability, and cultural observation, making it both engaging and relatable to audiences who share a love for pop culture and deep personal connection to celebrities.

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I'm Khaleesi, and that's my dragon. I feel like I'm probably gonna go home. - Oh yeah, I got it. I would have gotten the biggest, I got the biggest nickname. - Imagine if I called you my dragon. (laughing) - How come more people don't talk about that? Like if I survived a whale swallowing, I would never shut up about it. (laughing) - I didn't believe the second one. - Yeah, it's so cool. I bet with a life, my movie, my TV show, my podcast, like why do I never hear about people surviving a whale? That's crazy. (upbeat music) ♪ Your name is Trisha's got the definition of a ghost ♪ ♪ Feel the risk really in big hot topic ♪ ♪ Queen is that's what everybody thinks she's just true ♪ (laughing) - Ooh, it's spooky season here. ♪ Happy summer ween ♪ ♪ It has started ♪ Jimmy has ghost going around Oscar. Ooh, and Mike, where is it? (laughing) - I wanted to get it this morning. Michael has Halloween stuff and it looks so pretty. There's like sparkly candy corns and Christmas tree, huh? - We are, it is Halloween. - Wait, how did you know that? How do you know that was where I was going today? Or was it always there? The ghost find you. - No, I just put it today, 'cause all we can do is send me stuff like to go get Halloween decorations. - Wow, you look. - And it's like, what do you mean? It's not even Halloween yet, like. - Wow, wait, things to be like looking, 'cause I send you 5,000 things. I'm surprised you've seen that. Wow, I'm in Halloween spirit. It is Halloween, it's summer ween, it's here. Worth it, guys, gone. What's next? Halloween, that's what it is, according to my kids, even though we have Aquaman's birthday and Malbo's birthday, and Moses's birthday before Halloween. But it's a Malbo, Halloween is next. And that's what we're starting. We're gonna get a Halloween tree this year. We're gonna go full out. It's Elvis's favorite holidays. Dancing fruit, shout out Dancing Fruit for making a Halloween theme, because that is her favorite. She loves the pumpkin. She learned how to count with those pumpkins, the little witch strawberry she's obsessed with. So, I don't think that's AI either. I think that's animated, right? The Dancing Fruit. I think that's before AI. Yeah, so shout out, go watch The Dancing Fruit Support that and not the orange eating orange, although she does love it. But because she watches the orange eating orange, she'll take a spoon to Moses and just start eating. And I'm like, oh, well, okay, that's kind of crazy. But anyways, here we are. Happy, happy, happy Tuesday from the gesture screw. July is very quiet around here. Have you noticed? Not here, but like, town. What? Because, like, what are the gym? And it's like, nobody. Like, ghost town. I was like, what, is it New Year's? What's happening? Oh, see, July 5th, it was empty for me too, but. Even last week, I went and nobody was there. We go to movies, no one's there. Traffic, there's just no traffic. I went into, in Sino the other day, and it took like 20 minutes. There was like, last week, and last week was just last week. Mine was like, last week, like, nobody. Actually, Ari had to go down to Anaheim. Took her an hour to get there today, this morning. I ate a clock on a Monday, 8 a.m. Okay, I think everyone is in Newport Beach. Oh. Yeah, I don't know. Fourth, July. I know. But, yeah. I don't know. But. So, have you been in traffic? I haven't left that much to be honest, but I think it's in, for LA, ending New York too. Usually, this week, everyone's like on vacation. At least in my office, everyone's on vacation, so I assume, that's like the norm, yeah. All my creatives, I was trying to do a music video this month because I was like, oh, I have time this month to a music video, like, "Cedric's in France, Andrew's in Michigan." Like, everyone's just like gone, and I was like, even Aquaman's birthday party, like, everybody's just gone. I think we have like three people coming because everyone's just like taking their summer vacations, which I guess I grew up, maybe I grew up poorer than I thought, because like, we never took summer vacations. Like, we never took vacations. I was really trying to think about it. I was like, my dad, we're like, drive us to California to come visit him and like, sometimes he puts on like Southwest or something to come out here, but like, we got here and we like stayed in his office and just like slept in boxes, like the whole time. Because like, we, people go on, like, even us, that was our summer camp just being in a box, which was, I mean, at the time kind of fun, but people ask us to like, oh, we're guys doing summer vacation. Which is summer plans. Like, that's the question. Summer plans. I know. And then like, we'll go to like the lawyer's office on Friday and they're like, oh yeah, we already took our Hawaii vacation. And now we're going to this day. I was like, damn, while you're really affording it, because also like us, I was just like, I don't know. I don't know. I don't know the concept. I guess of a summer vacation. I've never been pretty to that. Well, I think if you're in a nine to five, you get a certain amount of weeks, a year that you can go on vacation. So it's very structured. Like a school to like your school, but like, it's very structured, but for us, I had nine to five parents. We have like three under three and for us vacation is not having to pack all the bags and travel everywhere. Yeah. We went somewhere overnight this weekend and just for one night and packing the bags felt like we were packing for a three week vacation. It was just like a lot. It has a lot with like bottles and stuff. Yeah, it's a lot. So the vacation is a kid as a kid. As a kid, our summer trip would be, we'd go down to San Diego and see a place where dolphins etc. Oh, yeah. It's a kid. We would go to the San Diego, go to the zoo and then go to the place like, I have to stop saying the place because I keep getting targeted ads for it, like the propaganda because I talk about whales too much. So I keep getting targeted ads to go to the place where they keep whales. And I'm making it old to myself to stop mentioning it. But we would go to that place as a kid. That was your summer vacation. That kind of fun. Yeah, it was always like the end of July, like around like, we go there for like three days and we do like the zoo, wild animal park and the other place. Well, the wild animal park is that different than the zoo? Yeah, it's like the San Diego zoo, they're in the enclosures and the animal park, it's just open and then yeah. And then why? You just go running around with the animals. You just see them from afar, but they do have like a little, like, so far you can go on where you go in and then they drive you around and you can like feed a giraffe or something. You can feed a giraffe a carat. It's actually really curious. That's fun. Okay. What one would you recommend in general for people to go to? I like the wild animal park because it feels, I don't know, it's just like, it's cool because it's open and everyone's kind of like the animals are just running around so it's cool. But San Diego Zoo is also a great zoo. It's like very ethical, they help with like endangered species to like keep them alive. Oh, okay. This is good to know because Malbo has been wanting to go to a zoo for a birthday and I was like, well, I'll see if they're ethical. That's good to know. The wild animal park, can you sleep over there? Is there a hotel in there? No, no hotel. They do have like ten set you can stay. Sleep in. Yeah. I think my dad was telling me about that. I think Nick Cannon just went with one of his kids' family. Look very fun. Yeah. That was our, we didn't stay in the tent. We didn't. What'd you say? The day's in. Oh. Which one's better? Like which one's? I think the tent is more of like the experience. The elevated. Okay. Day's in kinda sounds fun though too. I guess I'm just not used to a summer vacation, but. Yeah, tea. I'm happy for people to go on them. That's fine. I'm jealous. Yeah. I realized too, it was like my vacation days from my 9-5, I usually will use like if, like for the RB shoot, I'm like, oh, I have to take a vacation days. So I usually use it for here when I need like a day off. So if we have like an extra shoot or something, because I was looking at my days off, I have like two. I'm like, okay, well. What does that mean, too? What does it mean? I have two days of crew, so I can't go anywhere. You can't take two days off though. I have two days in the bank. Well, what if you take five days off, what are they going to do? I guess I could require, I just, I have two paid days off. So like. Yeah, they pay you to take your time off. Well, it's my, that's crazy. That's crazy. I think you get like one day per month, basically, is how they accrue for us. They, oh, how many paid day and half days off do you get? It depends. They just keep accruing as I work there. Like every month I basically get like one added to my, my bank, my days off bank. Oh my god, that's kind of cool. Does every job get paid day off? I think a lot of like corporate jobs do some better than others. Like some just, you just get like automatically get like two weeks or whatever, ours and comparison to others, I guess, not great, but I guess it depends how you look at it because some jobs get none. So if you get none, it's good, but if you get a lot, it's mid, so. I think that's cool. I didn't know you got paid at that. If you just didn't show up, you don't get paid, but damn, if I run that a day, so then I would get unpaid. Oh, okay. So you can still take time off. You just don't get paid. I think it will have to get approved. It's a whole, a whole situation. Yeah. Kind of cool, but also, I guess, when you work for yourself, it's like probably cooler. I don't know. Maybe not. I like the idea of pay time off, too, like or maternity leave. Like I like you get paid maternity leave if you're working for corporate job and you get pregnant and have a kid, they pay for like six months, they should pay for longer. But the fact that they pay for what, three months or something, it's kind of good, right? Yeah. I mean, some places are better than others because it's, yeah, it's like an option. I don't think benefits are, it's like a spectrum. Oh. Yeah, I don't know that much, but it sounds cool and scary, but I don't know. I think theory with good benefits is great, because that's why you love your job, right? Benefits. Well, I think one of the issues in America is that so health care is so expensive that a lot of people are forced into a job just to have health care, because otherwise they would not be able to afford it. Yeah, that's some messed up. It is, right? That's crazy. How are you not just making it free isn't Canada like free health care for everyone? Like, it's literally like, you literally could just drive up to Canada. So it's like, just translate it down here, we're not even that far removed, it is a weird, it seems odd. But anyways, and before I thought was it, did you celebrate, do you watch fireworks? No, it was really quiet. I was, uh, I was going to go to Jake Weber's party, but I was, I was, Taylor Swift's wedding really did a number to me and then Darian was also like really tired too. So I'm like, and Jake Weber's party, I didn't realize really early. It was like, I got 11 and that's really it. - Love it, yeah. - I love it, yeah. - I love to go into that party. - Alright, I think if I was, If I didn't I have to work the day before I would have been more adequate. There was a hot day probably pool party It was definitely a pool party One day I will make it to a Jake Webber swore. I love that he keeps inviting me like I Always respond to his invitations. I'm like I'm gonna try to make it. You never stop So what did you do on 4th July 3rd was the Taylor Swift one a what did you do on the 4th? I had to work More post Taylor Taylor Swift post Morton in the morning and then yeah, just like more stuff That was coming through and then anything I saw nothing like I was on social media this weekend I like there was nothing to report. There's no pictures. There's nothing to report To the wedding some statements released about I mean you saw like pop rods pictures of people leaving You're like, okay is that news when you work entertainment news, baby. That's the news Was it high? Was it hot news hot off the press? It definitely was the biggest Wedding of the of the year for sure. I definitely felt like a America's Royal wedding in a way really yeah, well, it was the world. Why didn't it be televised and you would see pictures like For the live streams outside of Madison Square guard like eight Associated press was live streaming from like a helicopter outside Madison Square Garden Just like watching cars going to the so boring. I saw it and I'm like this is boring It was Yeah, love it even with that little heaven helicopter like there's literally nothing to see. I know That's what's so weird. Like you're just kind of staring at a building. It was Funny, I guess I was stressed out covering it from like the work perspective because It was a lot of unknown, but then once that their itinerary leaked because they had to apply for all the permits and stuff so once they Once it was all public record in the itinerary leak then I felt better because I was like okay It's definitely rehearsal dinner this day wedding this day. I At least know what's coming a little bit. So that helps what was the rehearsal dinner mass square garden? Same place Yeah, that's a big turn around who's cleaning it? Who like got it ready for the next day? I imagine their staff of like what 500 Mass square garden staff she actually or she they're a union stop is a union building. So Yeah, I think to rent Madison Square Garden was a million per day And they had rented it for three days. So This is not that bad. I think Logan Paul said he spent like four million dollars on florals or something for his wedding. That's crazy We'll just wait to hear how much they probably spend. Yeah, well, there's no Real numbers yet because we haven't seen the inside, but it's like Based off of wedding experts wedding planning experts. They estimate between 10 to 20 million for the whole Shabang Who was the plan our Mindy Weiss? No, I think his name is Eric or something But he is known for never saying anything about any of his clients because I think yeah, never been heard Yeah, yeah, I love that that's real. Okay. That's good. Yeah, I was I was really anxious about it But then once it started happening like once guests started like leaving the hotels and going in I thought I it was fun It was like a spectacle for me. We worried nobody's gonna show up or I was just so worried about how we're gonna do this How we're gonna cover it? So all from like the work perspective I guess, but like the editing part like what am I even gonna post like I just have no idea what I was gonna have What did you post? Well, we had three producers for ET at least we had three producers go to New York to be boots on the ground It's so funny. That's why to me it's so like over the top and dramatic people are real mad at her But I'm like I kind of expect a killer. They think it's like all too much like too much attention It's tacky etc etc. To me, it's like kind of funny because the girl who's been running about songs about getting married since she was 16 I was like of course she's gonna have the most like over the top like insane wedding because like this is the thing She literally wrote songs begging for like a course is gonna want it. This is her big moment. It's a moment. Yeah So I I expected all the hoopla, but it's honey We have like three producers go like they're at the different hotels where like they knew some of the guests are staying at so they just waited outside Yeah, we're just like yelling at the guys that come here and it's not weird. That's kind of weird. No showbiz for you. Oh, no club. She'll I'm either No club. She'll I'm a she was shading Taylor. I was like girl. I don't know if you're We're gonna see her Twitter. Oh, she's we need any filler I don't even know if I follow her, but she she'll show up in the FYP. It's kind of like sea world like I talk about it enough that I know you said it You were doing so good. Now it's gonna hear you. Oh my gosh. Yeah So we had people at the hotels getting video and then yeah, the paparazzi were kind of everywhere to and no one got any of Taylor Travis No, they they drove in really they there was some leaks from This like I guess one of the workers who worked at Madison Square Garden leaked a short video of the inside To the daily mail. I think they made they definitely got fired, but they made at least like 600,000 from the Yeah, there's a pay a little more. Wow, and we only saw a little bit of an inside where it was just like a garden on the inside with like a lot of florals and trees and stuff Yeah, I'm excited to see what the hell actually went on in there I mean, there's a lot of like reporting now because it was a thousand people who showed up and obviously a lot of them are gonna talk and then So we've learned a little bit about what went on who taught everyone kind of how's loose lip Everyone like the Swifties at least were very much like the weakest link because there was no phones allowed you to sign the NDA And then you had to turn in your phone before you went in Everyone was counting on Selena Marie who loves to be on that iPhone and she loves to be posting things everyone's like Selena Get in there and leak some photos. We want to see what the hell is going on a little main card or something Something Selena and then my did you see outside like after they got married Madison Square Garden posted like a billboard That was like just married just teensy people were like mind you that was Selena Gomez going into the coach The coach on her I'm like, sorry That girl I know she like anything. No, well, she posted on her way to the rehearsal dinner and her like car And everyone you like she's in New York everyone knows she's dressed in like black tie We know where she's going and she's putting on her rare beauty lip gloss Going somewhere in my rear beauty my girl. We know From our own line. Oh my god. That's so weird. Oh my gosh. She was doing Michaela's Michaela con maybe she went She learned she learned how to do it. How to be an input. Was that happening? Was that this weekend? I don't remember Wait, so did she post something like Benny wasn't there like was she was here or something or was that fake? No, she did post something which I was with Benny right now But then there was a video of them getting ready for the rehearsal together So I think she was just apart from from Benny for like an hour. Oh, he was there as far as I can tell It's hard enough for sure because like there's just some paparazzi photos and videos of people coming and going But it was a thousand plus people and the guest list was obviously nuts So there's definitely more people that we haven't seen. I don't know. Well, I think it'll be like a year-long Venture of finding out who was there and who wasn't I was gonna say is she gonna post anything? You think Taylor will post pictures or anything. She I was gonna see she has she's probably gonna make a book a book. Yeah, really so photo book a wedding photo book You said you'd think so or no. I don't know. I'll buy it Exactly everyone's like evil capitalist. I'm like I hope so I buy it. Oh people speculating this people like oh Capitalist. She's probably gonna sell the movie that Disney plus and have it at AMC. I'm like I hope so would you I sure damn hope so but when there's a royal wedding in England, I mean it's the same thing Yeah, it's elevized and that the criticism was crazy because I was covering it and I was like oh, this is kind of fun It's like a spectacle and then I shut my laptop off and then a couple hours later I open like TikTok and everyone was so mad. I was like what is going on? Why were they mad? I feel like a lot of people start at being mad at Taylor Swift And then work their way backwards to find the reason if that makes sense like yes, we're gonna be mad at her And then we're gonna find out why the big thing I saw was people were mad that she uh Is using Madison Square Garden and then shut down New York for two days or whatever But I'm like she rented a public event venue or she is a private she rented a private event venue and Had an event there. Yeah, it's not the craziest thing to me And yeah, there was like two blocks that were shut down because of the event but like That happens all the time like in the in LA. We have premieres like movie premieres all the time Yeah, like the spider-man premier is gonna be here in a couple weeks That's gonna shut down like half of Hollywood Like two days. Some people just mad at her because it's yeah people like how dare she shut down New York I'm like it's an event and premieres happen Film shoots happen TV shoots happen when you for a film to like near my part my old apartment complex in like 2022 or something And it shut down like three of our block. I couldn't even park in my own street Yeah, like it happens, but it's like I wasn't I rate and like screw use in there. You know what I mean like pretty I rate though I used to live at a Hollywood in Highland and when those Oscars would happen I was so picked because they would not let me back to my house and I'd be like So I get the annoyance, but it's also people in New York who are getting Yeah, yeah, but you're not mad with her I'm with the city the city allows it's whatever the city allows Yeah, so you don't go to the person that got the permit. They're allowed to get the permit. It's much the city Well, that's about you go to because that's who's forward-facing Like I met the Oscars because of Oscars. It's not no matter you should back. I know what you're saying You should be mad at LA, but Stay there you're wearing New York so I guess you're in support of it still Thank you so much to no CD for sponsoring today's episode of Jess Trish you guys know I'm very very open about my mental health And I feel like we should normalize Distigmatize mental health and the issues for ground to get because you can thrive with any sort of mental health issue mental disorder OCD has a stigma around it that's just like a clean and obsessed and like all this There's a lot of other symptoms of OCD that you may not know you have a lot of people may struggle with OCD without even realizing it OCD could look like having terrifying unwanted thoughts that you're going to hurt someone and even though you never want to do that The thoughts feel so real that you still avoid everyone you love adjust to be safe or constantly doubting your relationship asking your partner over and over if they're really happy But still feeling unsure no matter what they say or playing a conversation on repeat in your mind for days because you're convinced That you said something offensive and you feel like you can't move on until you're totally certain about what happened These intrusive thoughts can be a debilitating and they can really just Destroy your quality of life because you spend your time consuming and obsessing over these thoughts that may not even have any Merit or truth to them when you have OCD You get unwanted thoughts that create intense distress and you feel like you need to do certain things to calm that distress Those thoughts can latch onto your relationships your health your morals literally anything you care about That's why it can be really debilitating But it doesn't have to be that way because OCD is actually really treatable with the right kind of specialized therapy And that's where no CD comes in and I'm super super proud to have no CD as a sponsor I think this is something that's going to help a lot of people no CD is the world leading provider of OCD treatment all of their license Therapists specialize in ERP or exposure and response prevention therapy unlike regular talk therapy Which is it recommended for OCD and can actually make it worse? 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So you are gonna be I am but also But I also have my own brain like I don't think she's above criticism I just think the criticism people brought to a lot of it is like it's because it's specifically wanting to get mad at her It's all kind of silly to me. I mean, I'm not either way, but I yeah, yeah I don't think she's above criticism I think we just got to find the right criticism maybe I would think people are just kind of maybe sick in general over the top Spenders is no, but people have said it it's so rich that it should be a nicer wedding They said like that having it in Madison's work. Who's saying this? Everybody all of us. Yeah, everyone was like she's a rich person, but she has no taste It's so tacky to have it in the middle of my god. You're deep in it. It's the it's like literally every comment It's kind of crazy. Yeah, I think again There is valid criticism there to have like an over-the-top wedding, but like it's a the criticism just a little all over Yeah, let's let's rain it in. Let's focus. You know, they act and like she flew her private jet into the world one trade center I was like you guys like let's like really rain it in let's focus here Let's narrow down and then people are mad that because the leaks are like a lot of photos are her and Travis like out of the entrance And then a lot of the comments were like she's so obsessed. She has photos of herself at her wedding What was leaked so they're in the entrance in the tent where the guests came in there was photos are her and Travis like Photos of them every day and then people were mad that there was so many photos of the two of them and At their wedding. I was like Pictures I know I it was like really blurry to leak. Okay. Maybe from slay nut. No just kidding, but Sleemed it. I yeah, I really want the full fantasy. I want to see what it looked like inside the elite from the leaks It looked fierce but yeah the garden the garden of the garden. Would you put pictures of yourself up at your wedding? I fear I have too much dysmorphia that I would I would not we could tune it Yeah, I guess if they were tuned and approved probably probably because you have photos weirdly no I mean now that I'm a bumping photos myself anywhere, but I No, we didn't I don't know why I didn't even cost my mind to do that But I like that idea because I need to see these photos like I like it. I like it obviously I would do it because I think it's fun But it's like what is it kind of just like welcome to our wedding? This is us What is giving? Okay, I like the ice sculptures like I went and want we got too expensive And nothing wouldn't get anything, but like I like ice sculptures that look like the people. I think that's kind of fun I didn't see much of any of this so I don't know I thought I knew it was like a big deal and then I kind of like nothing seemed to happen Well, I am, but I got your deep into it. You saw are were you seeing this where you are in the Taylor Swift wedding? I support her. I'm not as sweet to you The discourse. I didn't see this. Yeah, so is it true that they donated? Yeah, like over 20 million dollars for yeah, they donated 26 million dollars before I think because they knew that We're gonna get a lot of hate like yeah, like let's put it out that we don't need 26 million Yeah, it sounds to me like they tried to do everything right Yeah, it is their happiest day and they deserve to have one and that's all like it sounds like they did everything right I don't think it doesn't sound like they Went over the top in ways that really like the crisis PR team over here for Taylor Swift Because I'm not I don't I was happy for her I like don't carry the way either. I guess I can see that point of people just being like a husband out here They don't you know people are like rich people right now because it's a lot higher. I see that I just think do a leap but also have like a multi-million dollar wedding like two weeks ago And she like closed the whole town in Italy and like did not Taylor Swift having an event Wait, so what did the 26 million go to you said she donated? She picked different charities. There was like yeah, it was and there were a lot in New York I think about 10 million ish was charities in New York, but then there were some in LA some in Tennessee Yeah, I know that everyone's gonna be throwing their tomatoes at me because I'm in the trenches with this wedding But you know what that's okay because I'm standing by my truck and this is my truth as of right now I don't think it was that crazy of a thing. Yeah, my big thing was Carly Claus I knew she was gonna be at that damn wedding, but it's still gagging me seeing her There is so much lore with Carly Claus TLCR TLCR and like 2014 Carly Claus and Taylor Swift were like inseparable like they were best friends They did everything together. They were posting photos together They took a getaway to Big Sur together and everyone thought that they were dating that They were watching each other's boxes that they were a couple that they were a thing Then they ended up having a big falling out God, what year maybe like 20s around reputation maybe like 2017-20 Yeah, I mean 2017 where it was Speculated via Pres Hilton and then also Taylor's friends liking Pres Hilton tweets about Carly Claus going behind Taylor's back and Giving Scooter Braun like secret information about her dealings and about her albums and stuff And so Taylor felt betrayed then they had a big falling out where they just like did not interact So it was like set up your with this person everywhere posting the other non-stop to the opposite and never being there again and then Carly Claus went to the air store, but when all the other celebrities got like VIP tickets and had it being a tent Carly Claus bought a seat and she was up there on the rafters with everyone else. Well, that's nice. She's like supporting Yeah, T. But everyone was like Carly don't be coming around here because You were ex-communicated now you're trying to come right back. You think they're not on speaking terms But she just went and bought ticket on her own accord and Taylor didn't know. I kind of think so By some big romantic gesture or something and now she got the invitation to the wedding Like that kind of so they talk if she invited to the wedding. I know, but that's that's a guy everyone wants to know what happened Like how does she get invitation Jennifer Lawrence has also tried to launch an investigation and to figure out what happened between Carly Claus and Taylor Swift because like What did happen? Which influence air she was and I'm dying to know what Jennifer Lawrence found out in her investigation And cuz she was literally boots on the ground And then that so that gag me because then all the all of the old friends like jea Abigail Anderson who's like Taylor's friend from high school free followed Carly Claus So she Carly got her way back in with with the group and I'm so curious How that happened like what conversation and then the gag too was No Blake lively, which I also knew, but the tabit confirmed that oh well She's the worst. It's just so crazy to have like a thousand people The most random people I'm like my hawks dad is there Ethan hawk I could remember I was typing to my coworker. I was like do we care about my hawk's dad being there. He's like Ethan hawk That is random. That is like why was he there? Okay Jenny Han who wrote the summer I turned pretty books I'm like as like the most the most random people are here I'm like okay work, but like the girl that you are best friends with like a decade and you're like godmother tears I mean she like leak all the texts. Yeah, I see they had a whole falling out That's insane because it was like the biggest like a scandal I guess like what would you call the lawsuit the like lively the biggest? I think scandals and then you bring Taylor into it who's like pretty private and trying to be unproblematic And you're gonna put her in the center of it. Yeah, I think I'd be pissed. I would be pissed I'd be doing a whole new album about her And I think also in that one text to Justin where she called Taylor like her dragon like she I'm Kaleesi and that's my dragon Oh god I already got the biggest I get the biggest sick imagine if I called you my dragon I hate that so much and also Taylor's way above like lively so you're my dragon like what the hell that's so weird why would she why would you say that it's so yeah our dynamic is weird because it's like Taylor's obviously more influential that's why you're like bringing her into this like you're so weird but you're calling her like you're a little pet that's like weird yeah I don't like lately let's let's but she should be more the public enemy than Taylor god why people like oh she's I guess she's not as popular I guess I don't know damn no hey don't tell anybody but damn she needs to rethink some things if you lost your best friend that is like getting unfollowed basically because that's like the biggest like we're not friends anymore I I was kind of embarrassed that I didn't get an invitation and I I met her for maybe a cumulative like 20 seconds but I was like well damn all these other people are here why not me Oscar Cray said you declined because I didn't want us to next to Sombra I love the spin thank you to Oscar Cray and it's Sombra Sombra ending was so close Benson Boone being there I'm like Fergie I think Benson Boone Benson Boone Benson Boone was doing backflips while Fergie was doing cartwheels I think that's my theory and why Adam Salar I don't even know who's officiating what's that time that was a gag to me yeah what and who said that who leaked it it wasn't leaked it was in the comfort in the press release how does he tie into them Travis was in happy Gilmore - but Adam Salar's daughters love Taylor so he's been like seeing them live with the kids since they were little they're really well-versed they love Tana Mojo and they love Taylor Swift he kind of gets around because he gave out Tana at the premiere and he is that Taylor specific I miss me nice being a nipple baby that's so me oh thousand percent oh my gosh I have that pull is like so cool to be like oh yeah you want to go I'll officiate their wedding that's so cool I would too I would use all my nipple powers oh 100% that is the ultimate gag I'm so intrigued by what would know it's actually best that I didn't because they would have a problem trying to rain me because I would come up here and spill out everyone's - yeah that's the problem because Camila Cabello went and also so a carpenter went and they beefed over Sean Mendez what's he there no Sean as far as we know but I'm so curious like what that dynamic was like like there's just so many weird miss like connections I don't see your see like if there's a thousand people the chance of you like having to run in to each other you probably don't see because I saw my wedding in the century which is like so old I don't know one care I know you definitely don't know but when Liza Manelli married a David Gaston 2002 in New York City I was so obsessed I'd love Michael Jackson the time I loved him so much but Rosie O'Donnell and Donald Trump were at that wedding and so I'm just like how the hell does that work but then I was thinking it was the same kind of thing where there's like literally they had like two thousand people at their wedding and it's like they probably just don't run into each other and they've always not like each other even before president oh yeah Rosie because she's like OG New Yorkers she's been she's been on Donald Trump for like a long time she's from the beginning saying he's the worst so they were both at the sweating and I was like oh that's so much maybe it was a thousand maybe it wasn't two thousand people but I would assume we just don't see each other maybe she and C Carly Claus Taylor's well you know what I mean if there's that many people you're like also do you need Taylor uses the same bathroom as everyone else or do they have their own about their own especially Madison Square Garden there's like a hell about oh yeah they probably like they're on green room yeah and he can't even use his her bathroom I feel like no that's what I would think no sometimes and I am I on a court but sometimes I'm music videos will be like Trisha Trisha only but it's always like someone's always in there and it's always like I can ever use it and you're just like and I was one of that with the other stuff I'm like I wonder if she like really had to go pee and someone's like in there like is that annoying or does she not care I mean because I like okay the three million on wedding is crazy but I mean at least have your own bathroom that's like a perk of being a celebrity I suppose is getting your own place to be asking the real questions I feel like no one no other journalist has brought that up because it's just like you know I think the back alley where they all take like selfies in the bathroom and it's like what are they to see Taylor in the bathroom I mean because our wedding I would use the same bathroom because we had to go upstairs I'd use the same bathroom as everyone else of course I don't care about it but it's just like funny because people want to stop and take your picture with you even at your own wedding in the bathroom so I'm like is someone stopping her is she peeing I'm sorry girl one second I think so I think so that's like I want to know that dynamic I can't wait to see the pictures I'm sure she'll post right I feel like she must yeah because it was like she was not shy about everyone knowing it was happening obviously I think with Madison Square Garden it was about like control like controlling all the aspects of like what people saw and I just I think she will end up posting I feel like she knows everyone is invested you know they for a good reason or bad reason it is funny because I hate to take hate really is like a bridge that unites both sides yes because there is like a liberal like leftist being like she's mega boots and then there's like the white house and conservatives dunking on her for being liberal so it's funny that like they both sides have like the same hate towards her so she is kind of uniting people if you love where are you hate her that's kind of scary though yeah like both sides hating on you then it's kind of like oh yeah I'm I'm choosing silver lining like there's hope for us that we can all be united I'd say so if these are probably more powerful than any liberal or conservative honestly they're pretty they're pretty intense no I feel like we're we're losing the the culture war for sure I think really yeah I think it's swifty as I'm as out it wasn't in a risk or like you were popular for your swifty now it's on the way out but it's it's in my DNA I've been with this girl since 2006 baby nothing could make you a band of years no I mean there's things where I just choose to ignore like sometimes like when she does things with Travis like the new heights episode with it that they did together and it was kind of cringe because she was like just so in love with them and they give like cringe couples wait why did you ignore the high I think that's kind of cutesy I like that it just like I get a little second-hand embarrassment I'm like my sister's boots but yeah it's just like I love it she's so like millennial cringe but like I get it because like I'm that way behind closed like I'm definitely cringe with Darian like when no one's watching the problem is I'm watching so I still a little you know I get couple cringe that's why I know people think like I feel like with Moses I love we're cringy behind closed doors but yeah in front of people I'm always like I don't know because you don't want to be too crammed but we're pretty crammed mab was always like stop hugging stop can't see each other it's not this so funny but then she joins in sometimes when we do when we are in a hug train do you remember that millennial cringe couple that's like sometimes I have a love search and I just get so crazy and then the god you remember and then the guy like wait what do I come do it I mean do you remember this you remember this and this is what we do and honestly love search is very addictive a millennials know this because Malbo and Elvis will join in on the love search you remember this one from 2020 people hated this couple on TikTok okay can you see us are ready okay all right so sometimes I just get a love search and I'm just so just so high on love I just search together oh my we just I love me yeah it was a cute moment it was giving very Tavis Tavis you can actually watch us now too oh yeah we have a Spotify shot out to Spotify and I see do you want to post about the video on Spotify I'm like I guess I don't know there's a lot of things to post but he's really in all that like if there's a new thing placed to post he's like oh let's post there I was like okay I don't know I don't know anything that was one I love a lot of her I love Daniel cringe I was trying to remember what it was it didn't fully know what I'm supposed to do that you did it right anyways I love Millennial cringe if there's one thing I do like about Taylor Swift is that part cringe millennial yeah yeah I kind of like cringe being back probably gonna have a revival once babies true a revival of what he said she was on the up and then on the down and then like the audience is changing mature and some people love like you like the romance yes see her as a mom you know either way because sometimes like you have babies and we love it and sometimes you have babies who is it so Fia Grace is that her name for Ellen yeah she has her third it's like her third like three to three like us or something and people maybe she's so young maybe I don't even know how she is I would assume she's young but yeah people are like upset or even like the Mormon rives right like the whole thing if like if you get oh who is it the one we don't like oh Jen Affleck Jen Affleck you know what I mean like sometimes people don't love when you continue to have babies or like Rihanna right now people are always afraid that she's gonna be pregnant and yes and people get like really pissed about it so it's really interesting and yet people like we're excited for our babies I don't know it's very you don't know which way could go at the beginning they weren't when I was first pregnant there was the whole like she's gonna be the worst ever like you know so it goes either way I think people like the Taylor Swift of it all I think like having babies I don't know but then sometimes I'm trying to think but then sometimes you think like oh the hell babies in the like won't be touring anymore you know what I mean I remember I'm Britney Spears had her babies I was like really young she was really young and I remember being like oh she's never gonna make music again so I think you go both ways I mean babies are 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I will be a big fan of Taylors when she has babies because then it's like something relatable where it's like, oh, we're both having babies. I think definitely she's someone who like everyone is telling to like shrink and do last and she keeps doing more to me. That's kind of funny. Even to me though, I think around football season, I'm like, okay, girl, not every game. Damn. Okay, so you have your moments. Oh, I definitely have my moments. Yeah, but I think at some point she's got a really ton of downsides. It is getting so, the backlash is getting crazy. So I think she's got to like go away a little bit. Yeah. I think between music releasing so much music and then also just being very involved with Travis. It's been like a year round thing of her always having something going on where like, you know, actresses like Zendaya's like after this year, I'm in five things. So you're not going to see me for a while. Right, right. I'll be after Barbie said like the same thing. So you kind of have to like let people miss you a little bit. So I think she's got to work on that. She was kind of gone for a little while, I feel. I feel like this past year, in my radar, she hasn't been up. She released their album in October of last year. So she was doing a bit, yeah, the first part of the year, she was a little bit quieter. Oh, the show, her album was last year. That kind of came and went. What were we doing? Why? Because I remember eating those donuts and stuff, but it kind of was like, we didn't talk about it that much. Or did we? I don't know. We did like an episode. I mean, there's not. There's one, you know, hot topic. Then we keep it moving. What else can you say? The Taylor Swift episodes. How many Taylor Swift episodes have we done? Probably three. The second one was a Taylor Swift episode. Oh, yeah. Life of a showgirl. This one. This one's Taylor Swift episode. Yeah. I mean, I'll mind it. It's a hot topic. It is. It is. It is the hot topic. I'm glad people, you know, it's good people have passion. It's good that people care about something, right? I think that's kind of fun. When people just have care about someone so much, I don't know. Yeah, it is. I got a little bit of a kick out of it. I think also because I'm grown. If I was younger, I think I would probably take more offense. Because I saw one tick talk that was like from this like gay boy. Usually, you know, those are my people. But he's like, swiftyism is a disease. Like, if you're swifty, you're mega. I worked for it. I gave out who was swifty. And he had the worst taste ever. Like, his taste was so bad. So it makes sense. Taylor is so tacky. That's terrible. I'm like, not too much. Not too much. Like, I think we need to relax a little bit. Like, why am I in it? Why am I getting straits? You were in it. Oh, it was like big disease. Yeah. And they called you out. Yeah. I'm like, oh, I have no taste. And I was a mega. I'm like, girl, I think we only need to take a break. That's crazy. And let the girls just like the music. Yeah. Not everything has to be so deep. Like, relax. But I think if I was younger, I'd be like. More upset. I'd have the Twitter fingers. And I'd be in the comments. And, you know, be going back and forth. But they just say, so I'm like, let me just keep it moving. I'm supposed you don't do more individual tick-tock rants about things like that. Because you're so passionate about it. I was like, damn, we should have said this all this weekend. People would really, you know, obviously it's still heated. But. I think it's so incendiary. And also it's like, uh, it's just how I'm going to keep it moving. Like, I know I'm going to be getting. I'm going to be you in the meditation tick-tock live. Like, they're going to be spending the 5 cents on the tomatoes. And you know what? That's okay. That's. Yeah, that's it. That's not true. You know, I'll take the tomatoes off. Take the lashing shore. Um, oh, my favorite thing today was Dave Portenoy interviewed some other football enthusiasts. And they were mad that they didn't get the invitation. I was like, Dave, you were talking about her a week ago. What did he say? He was going on. Oh, he was sick of her being at the, at the next game. He was like so mad that she had a. But I thought he loved Taylor. Yeah, that's kind of the guy. And then he was mad he didn't going to invite. I was like, girl, I don't know if she knows you like that. I hate when old men are creepy. Like that's who young girls like it's just like, it's fine if you like lover, but then it's like. It kind of what you say about the love hate you like love something so much. You like begin to hate it when she doesn't give you attention. You know what I mean? And it's kind of like, like creepy. I think he just wants to be included in everything and feel relevant. I kind of think he thinks he's more relevant than he is no shade. He definitely, well in his world, he probably is like the big headhuncho cheese dog. Uh-huh. But I, uh, I don't think the influence goes that deep no shade. No. With love, I say that. Actually, no, I don't know. Who's influenced by Dave? I guess pizza, pizza people. Even that, I'm like, yeah. Is that, you know, it doesn't do much for me. No. Some people get excited when he gives pizza a good review. Not me, but hey, you know. Same. All the pizza does not look good right now. Uh, due to the lady and speaking of Dave Pornet and Taylor Swift, uh, the girl, the, just like influencer went to Montauk, you know where Montauk is. Catherine. I almost, I have to take that in my dress about this. And I am obsessed with this. I am obsessed with this. I am obsessed. You know where? Do you know where? I have no idea what it was. I love what it's lasting. When I open TikTok, I can get dropped off in the middle of, like, advertising, influencer, controversy. I'm like, oh, this is gold. I have two dresses ready to go where I was like, when I was angry and when I was a little more, like, let me give advice. But then I'm like, do anyone want to hear from me about this? Probably not. Like, you know what I mean? Like, I just like, let's not do it. I don't know. I'm seated for your. Okay. What is your tape? Okay. Okay. I guess for context to you of this influencer, Catherine, she was going on vacation and her fourth of July order for groceries at Sam's Club got canceled last minute. Mind you. Mind you, everybody. She placed the order three days in advance. And her order got canceled. So she was forced to go to a small, rinky dink, local grocery store. And it was the craziest thing she's ever done in her life. What's she next to Montauk? Is that where she was going? Upstate New York. So I think so. Okay. So even that is not like middle of Nebraska. Mind you, she's showing Minnesota. I'm like, I'm going. Rage bait then. Okay. Maybe. That's what I was thinking to when I made it. I was like, maybe she's just like wanting to rage bait people as a troll. A former troll. I was like, she's just wanting attention. And I don't want to give it to her. But I was annoyed. And I was like, a piss. Yeah. So she was in the small town grocery store. And the whole time she's filming just her face. So her phone's on her face as she's going into this store. And she's like, like, she walks in. And it has one of those things where like, you know, the wind blows to keep like bugs from flying in or whatever. She's gagged by that. But it's a little run. Yeah. Look at this small town. It's just so crazy. I was like. She's right. She's right. Minnesota. You're from literally nowhere. Like, you are from nowhere. Don't act brand new. She's wild. And she's like, where are the cards? Oh my god. There's no cards in here. The cards are outside. This is a simulation. Like what? It can't be real. Now that you're saying it, I think she can't be real. I think she was being genuine. It's also just like not cute though. Because even if she was like trolling as like, I don't have a former troll. It's just like not cute. Do you really want to be known as like, the dumb. Doesn't know what a grocery store looks like. Like, it is so weird to me that all beef hot dogs and all that stuff. I'm just like, you just look dumb. Like, who wants to work with you? Who wants to be your friend? Who wants to date you? Who wants to put you in anything? Because you just look so stupid. And the grocery store was actually just a normal grocery store. Like, it wasn't even anything crazy. Like the produce looks so gross. And I was like, a produce in a small grocery store is way fresher than a produce that we love. We love Ralph's. But like a Ralph's because it has like crossed the country. You're going farm to fresh. You're going, you know, right? No pesticides. No people like peeing on it. I've been there. I've been in a stock room where someone peed on the vegetable. And it's like, you know, in that small one, they're not doing that. Because they're not going to do it. Then a small town maybe in New York City or something. But like, I was so annoyed. I was so annoyed. And she's like, just made her look dumb. It makes her ugly on the outside. Like everything about it made me. It just pissed me off. Because then people were talking about like the filler and everything. Because she's only like 29. Honestly, that shows like my age. But then people going on the filler. And the other reason people are attacking your awful fillers because you're giving an awful tape. You're like, you're kind of small business. You're like, pretending like you just don't know what a grocery store is. You're like, you're from Minnesota. You're from Farmville. You're from nowhere's bill. Like, you're like, you're nothing but acting like this is nothing. That's why people are coming for this girl. And like attacking. Then they start attacking. Again, I know. But you know what? That's what I'm saying. If it's real, it makes me even more sad. Because we have actual dumb people in this country. And that makes me sad with influence. Because she has 1.2 million followers. 1.2 million people like you. Even if half the people like you. It's like, wait. What? And you're influencing all these people to be like. And it's like weird. It's like, just if you're on culture to say it. Like, I just hated the whole thing. That whole thing made me. And I was like, we really need to take away. We really need to de-influence influencer. I really feel like less people need to be influencers. Or happy now. Like the TikTok opened the floodgates. And yesterday we'd gotten some iconic TikTokers. And it's, you know, gave us a lot of great influencers. But it's also given us. Thank you. - Ron, great TikTok influencer. - I would say TikTok made people like Mandela Mae's super popular, so we've gotten some queens. We've gotten some queens that got super popular from TikTok, Addison, The Music Slides. - Okay, okay, two. - We've gotten some, Charlie. Charlie, come on. - Charlie. - Demelio? - Well, nice girl. I don't know if it's like giving powerful influencer thank you, TikTok, you know what I mean? I think we're, we've got more dumb asses from TikTok that we have influences, you know what I mean? Like TikTok should be able to delete your account if you say something stupid like this. Like if you're just so, I'd educate, yes. - Exactly, if you're just, okay, you can admit, TikTok should like flag it and be like, I was actually just trolling. You get three trolls, you get three dumb asses, and if you were like, no, I actually firmly believe this, then it's like, you should be deleted from TikTok because you're giving this like influence to these people and it's just like, you just look stupid. You just look dumb, I don't know. It's just, and this is why people pee on the tomatoes. I've been, I had a store one that peed on the tomatoes in Sherman Oaks and I was just like, so it's in my head that this happens and that's why, because probably people like that are like these produce aren't fresh enough so like I'm gonna pee on your tomato. So, yeah, so that's why I'm saying, Ben Sherman Oaks, I worked at a grocery store and they peed on the tomatoes. - That was TikTok, that was beyond it. - Well, that person is on TikTok actually, so it's, yeah, it's, anyways, and I, yeah. I just, I hate people like this too. I just like, oh God, it just, it actually makes me mad and I get it guys. I was like, right message, wrong message, okay, got it, but like, it just looks so, you just look stupid. And you do end up feel, this is the last time, nope. Honestly, filler does make you look so much older. Look at me back. Jimmy, answer a picture of my blue lips. Just type in, try to paint his botch lips on Google. And I was 27 and I looked like a, I looked like a Riga Mortem duck. Like when you get puffy and insulted in your body, that's what I looked like. Is there Riga Mortem? Is I say right? You said post mortem, I don't know, Riga Mortem. And I get puffy and I, that's what I look like. And I mean, I do think the ugly comes from the inside sometimes because I'll tell you why also, because I've been sick to see how to go up. And it's like, no, I just became like a better person. I just have to say you stupid, and stop being ignorant to the world around me and just like start getting educated and not posting stupid shit. 'Cause I was also like, worth it is a worth this is what makes me think she did a follow-up. Sorry to this girl, by the way. I mean, you're probably nice, but if you're trolling, stop it. If you're not educated, get off TikTok, I guess. I don't know. I don't know what's happening. Educate yourself, learn. I'm not sure. But then she did a follow-up, right? - Well, I saw her statement in the comments. She replied to someone. She's like, oh my god, you guys. I was not grossed out because of the grocery store. I was grossed out because there was so many people around and it was so busy. - Oh my gosh. - The video, like she doesn't show that it's crowded at all. She just shows herself being grossed out at the selection. - No. - And also mind you, it's July 3rd, ahead of 4th of July weekend, and you're as gonna be picked over because everyone came into town. - Yeah, she actually did a video too. She did a comment, she did a video too being like that. She was actually, I was just annoyed that there was like nothing, the selection wasn't, and that's how much you said in the video. - We also. - And we also, and who is going to July 4th, shopping on July 3rd? Like what, like a part, anyways. I mean, I was gonna say she's young, but she's not 29, you should know. You should know. You should have some basic life skills knowing July 4th is coming. If it's Thanksgiving, you're not getting the turkey the day before. And if you are, you're gonna be stuck with the last of it, the last of the pickings. And it just actually annoyed me. And I was like, this is one that I was like, rightfully, so I'm glad TikTok was like doing its thing. 'Cause I feel like people had some pretty, just valid, you know, like you're, you know what enough people tell you, like you're dumb. - Yeah. - You like learn, hopefully. - I don't know. - I don't know. - She was also a little too patriotic if you catch my dream. I'm using a kid rock song. - Oh. - I'm like, oh. - I see where this is going. (laughing) - Oh, okay. - Like I see where this is going. - Yes, okay, okay. - Yeah, okay. - A little too Yankee Doodle Day and B for my taste. - Oh, yeah. - I suppose. - Okay. - Yeah. - It sounds like the worst, fourth to lie. But Montalk, I think, is where Dave Pornoy is. I think he's out there. - Oh, it's not the connection I see. - Yes. - Maybe she went out on the kayak or whatever with him. - What's he on the kayak? - Was he, does that thing where he talks in the ocean? Right, he, like goes out in the middle to see the kayak, right? And he, like, talks, he gives it. That's his thing. - No, he doesn't mean to see me. You know, he goes out there. He rolls. - No, I've never, he was filming him kayaking. - When he was talking about Alex Roe versus Alex Cooper, he goes out there in the boat. - I don't think he was on a boat. - Am I crazy? - I don't see him sunburned on a beach. But I haven't seen him in a kayak. - I thought he kayaks out there or something. - That's kind of everything. If he's doing that, that's kind of cool. - Something goes down the ocean and he films his hot takes or takes. - Just in the middle of an ocean? - I think. - Or like, I have no idea the geography or what he's up to. I just, actually, I'm like, okay, Dave Pornoy. What the hell sure, you know? - What if him and Montalker are all together? - They give me similar vibes. - Yeah. - They would be friends. - I think he would give similar energy out there. - Thank God. - Similar interests, let's say that. - Who's playing Kid Rock into my 26? - That's a 29-year-old. - Caffernab's in Donald Trump. I keep in those streams a lot. - He loves Kid Rock too. - Oh my God. - And he will air Kirk for you tomorrow, but. - Was air Kirk at the Taylor Swift wedding? - No! - Did you see that? - Oh, what? - Did you see? I was like, what? - I fear of the way information spreads and energy is nuts. I'm like, "Terry is thinking that you're the bi-ticket." I said, "Mike, I'm like people." Like, come on. - So she was not there. Damn, I thought everybody was there. So I was like, "Well, could you imagine that be crazy? "Black Lively doesn't get in my bear Kirk does?" (laughing) - Oh my God. - That would have been wild. Well, crazy weekend for New York, I guess. Did you watch any fireworks? - I heard 'em. We fell asleep really early. - What time? - Eight. - Like, 8.40. - Everyone did fall asleep at 8.42. We were out and everybody fell asleep. So it was really just me and Moses awake watching the fireworks. Everybody else was like falling asleep. - It's like actually Malibu watched it too, but everyone else, well, it was the first time ever watching Fourth of July fireworks. Watch fireworks, wetter, wetting, but it was the first time watching Fourth of July fireworks ever. - I wasn't that exciting. - I was kinda like, hmm, not that exciting. And a lot of people for nothing. It was like 20-minute show. - But there was another big event on the weekend. You remember I brought up this moment called Kelsey. It's a U-row Kelsey. And she started her journey from California to Hawaii. And she, I think, same day of the wedding reached Hawaii and she broke all the records. She did it in 44 days. - Damn. - Which was faster, 10 days faster than the, she was going for the female record and she broke the male record too. - Wow. - So she got there in 44 days. 10 days faster. - She got overshadowed. - On the teleps way. - To the peak of the day. - Yeah. (laughing) - Just delayed it a little bit. - She was just growing. She didn't know what was going on. - She broke all the records for solo, female crossing in a kayak, basically. - It is great. She went through a log. - You know her. - Yeah. - You were following it. - We did. - Like four times. - Like every day on, I mean, every day on TikTok. You're just gonna. - Maybe she ran into Dave Portnoy and his kayak. - These are wrong ocean. But yeah. - Oh, is it? What is he in? Which one is she in? I don't even know. - She's in the Pacific. I've been shooting these in the Atlantic. - Okay. - I was thinking, oh, 'cause where was she going from LA to where? - Hawaii. - It's a long. - It's from Monterey. - Yep. - That's where you go. Monterey to watch the was? - Yes. Yeah, I see. Oh yeah, maybe she's got some orcas. Babby Fairies. - Definitely saw dolphins and there was one bird that kept her company for a little while. - That's sweet. - Okay, stuff. - Well, they're so big. I remember kayaking one time in Hawaii. And they're just like. - They're huge. - Like they can knock your little kayak over. And I just remember being in the middle of ocean and being like, why the hell are we out here? Like, they're so big and you go. - They can swallow you, I mean, if you're. - That's what I'm saying. And this like excursion was to see the whales. So I don't know if they put something in the water and make all the whales come to you. What? Because all the whales are coming to you. So it's like, what do you mean? Now like, I don't want this many whales. I thought we were gonna see one humpback or something. And then all of a sudden they're all swarming your boats. And I'm like, do they put fish food in here? Like what the fuck? Like it's so, it was so scary. Never have you done that in the middle of ocean. - No. - It's terrifying. - Well, it's their migration. Like winter in Hawaii is when all the whales which one humpback, right? Yeah, the humpback, yeah, humpback whales, I believe come up to Hawaii. So you can like, they're just everywhere. They don't have to. - No way. Really? Yeah, 'cause we went in January 'cause it's cheaper to go. And it was so many whales. - January everywhere is when they migrate. - Oh my god. It was the scariest thing. 'Cause they like rock, obviously. They're rocking the waves. And you're like, what am I just saying? This water with the whale. Like that was actually so scary. That's the ocean is kind of scary when you hit the bottom. - Oh yeah, 100%. - There's just, so there's a whole world on there that you don't know. And it's scary. - I saw a tick. So this like expedition that you can do in Hawaii too, where it's like free diving with sharks and like cageless diving whatever. Which obviously exists, but it's like, they specifically go to look at tiger sharks. And it's also specifically people who are like, not as swimmers. - Oh my god. - And I was like, that looks horrifying. 'Cause literally it's just like old, like you know, just people who are not like swimming every day. Like not the most active people trying to swim with like a shark in there. I was like, how no. - Did you do training or anything? - No, they just take you there. And I'm like, that seems a little nuts. - Yeah, like how are they holding their breath? How are they? - I think they're all holding onto like this rope. - No. - I know, I really know. - I love the ocean from above it. - Yeah, I know. Same. Even the place we're not naming, but the place where they have whales and captivity. Like even those excursions, did you ever do that where you can like hug a beluga whale? (laughing) Like that to me was scary. Like all of a sudden they're just like, they do something, I got this one, they do do something. We're like, do do do do do. And then like the whale comes up and you're just like hugging it for the picture. And you're just like, what the hell? that's blue could drag me under. Like, why are we doing this? Going on a dolphin fin. Like, this dolphin's like, get the fuck off me. I did one in Cabo. I'm not endorsing any of this now, obviously. I think it's awful, but one in Cabo, where the dolphin, like, it's like a big pool and it like drags you to the bottom of this like 14 foot pool. Like, it's so deep. And I was like, what if your hair extension gets caught? What if you're like, what are we doing? Why are we doing this? Like, for a 30 second ride with a dolphin, like, it's just so messed up. The captivity is crazy. I mean, they're beautiful animals, but admire them in like a poster or something. Do you have a poster of a whale in your house? I feel like you would. I'm an art prince. Do you? I didn't see it in the tour. You know, I think, yeah, I have an art prince of Orca. Very McKayla via with her horse. She has a giant horse in her jacket. I have a lot of horse art work to you. I missed all this. You have to do an art tour and art gallery tour. I didn't see all this one. Oh my gosh. I love that. Oh my god. Yeah. Yeah. I would be too scared. That's why I kind of think you're braver than me, because I would be too scared to kayak out there during whale migration. Why didn't know? It was whale migration. They're like, oh, you're going to see like a whale or something else, right? They go real close. They do. Really close. I'm like, look at your boat over. I wonder if that many times they've knocked a boat over. I'm sure they have. They've accidentally swallowed boats a few times, for sure. With people in it. Mm-hmm. And they get spit out. They spit you out, though. Yeah. Because they're not coming for you. They're going up, you know, and they get all the plankton, but they go up, and then sometimes they don't see who's up there. Mm-hmm. How come more people don't talk about that? Like, if I survived a whale swallowing, I would never shut up about it. I didn't believe it was the second boat. Yeah. Oh my god. I bet with life. My movie, my TV show, my podcast, why do I never hear about people surviving whale? That's crazy. Do people talk about what it's like inside of it? Like, did they think they were dead? Did they have no air for a second? I mean, their story is all the way from the Bible. Are you suffocating? Like, what do you know? No, you would know. And recently, last year, I think it was somewhere off of South America, someone got swallowed by a whale and spit out. And then what did they say about it? There's nothing crazy. There's nothing where swallowed and spit out. But you're right. Like, are you insane? Do you feel like drowning or something? Yeah. Like, what is that sensation? Is it warm? Like, do you think, oh, this is it? Or like, okay, there's going to be us soon. Well, the throats are-- you're just in the mouth. The throats are really narrow for a whale. You would think it'd be a bigger throat, but it's really just like, your arm is the throat. Oh my God. You have to like, slide down. Has anyone actually been successfully eaten by a whale? Success. Have they been swallowed? No. I think it's not successfully. So it's kind of like choking like for a baby to kind of like, throw it up. They're like, I can't get this down. I'm going to just be like, oh my God. That's so wild. I mean, and they eat like, you know, krill and plankton and stuff. So the things that they eat are really small. So they don't really need a big old throat like that. Wow, but to be inside of a mouth of a whale is kind of crazy, right? Wow. No, I'll never do that again, especially if I know that they accidentally swallow boats. That's actually even more scary. I thought, well, they know, they-- whatever, but no. Is there a lot of people out with you guys? Thank you so much to Rowe for sponsoring this episode of "Agestrish." I'm Shisha Paitas, and I'm proud to say that I am a Rowe member. I have been using GLP ones for over two months now. And I've lost 30 pounds, which is so insane. I have been working with Rowe for such a long time if you guys have been a fan of the podcast. You guys know, for years I've been doing grow ad reads but I can never give a personal testimony. And I am so proud and more than ever to do that today. You guys know I struggle with food noise my entire life. 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And it was just like literally us and like the instructor and like two other couples. And it was so scary. Oh, but that was the other thing too. We kind of got like left behind. Like we were so far from the rest of the group that we didn't even know where we were going 'cause they like just go ahead of you. They were so fast. And I was like, not a kayaker at the time. Not that I think I'd be a kayaker now. (laughing) I know it was a really out of shape. I was really not exercising. I really was like, maybe now I can do a little kayak maybe. But back then I had a rely on someone to just do it all and that person also was not fit. Everybody was just a mess in this and we could not move. And I was just like, how are we gonna get? And I think a part of the excursion, maybe when you got closer to short is you like jump out and you were supposed to go see the sea turtles, but we were so far behind that we'd like miss that part. So like by the time we got dragged back in, which we definitely had dragged back in, we had to bring another kayak to get us in. I think we had a miss that excursion. 'Cause like now you go see the sea turtles and I was like, well, we missed that part. We were too busy getting stuck with the whale. And it was scary. Specifically, that's what it was. Not that I'm thinking about it specifically 'cause we couldn't move the kayak. We did not know how to move it over. We were like stuck. And it is like very scary to me. - It was just a whale circle. - Literally like a shark attack. Like it was so, it was. It was like, well I'm more terrifying than I remember. I think I have like PTSD where I maybe blocked out a little bit. 'Cause I was like kind of think of it. It was like the day before we were leaving. Yeah, it was awful. And then I wanted to like, relive it. I was like, let's go out and do it. And then the good thing we didn't, I guess it was a sign. - That is wild. 'Cause even when I went whale watching a monoray, it was a boat. It was like a small boat. And like the first whales that we saw, we got in the middle of like a feeding frenzy where there was just like a whole, the ocean was like surrounded by like, krill and plankton and stuff. So there was a lot of seals and sea lions eating the birds were there and then the humpbacks. And they're humongous and there's so many of them. And there's like, we're like in the middle of all the food. So I'm like, what, the concept of this whale just like accidentally landing on our boat. - Oh, they were sprinkling the water for your guys now. - They crossed. - Like they drove us into the middle where all the krill were. - Why the all in one spot? - It's 'cause there's so much food there. They go where the food is. So if all the krill just like gets with the waves, gets and the current brought into one place. - So why don't the krill spread out? I mean, it's like, you know, tiny little things that don't, it can't be good. - What is a krill shrimp? - I guess so. - Kind of, but it's really small. - Yeah, it's tiny. - I don't think they even know whales exist. - They know whales. - No, it's just the whale is so great. - The crops are great. - It's video. - Do you think that was that shrimp don't have brains? That they're like little bottom feeders, like little bugs that they don't have it, right? - I mean, the bottom favorite, but doesn't mean they don't have a brain. Actually, that's a great question. - Do krill maybe not? - Maybe not, you said they don't even know what's happening. Which is kind of nice. - I'm saying that in the sense of size, like whales are so big that I don't think they can perceive them. - They do have brains. - How big is that brain? That would be the tiniest brain ever, I'd imagine. - Pretty small. - So they probably don't know what's happening. - But have you ever seen how the whales hunt or they-- - Yeah, it was there. They were hunting me. - No, when they do the bubbles, when they go-- - No, no. - So they'll make bubbles in a circle, so then all the fish gets kind of closed in that wall of bubbles, then all of them come up at once and eat the fish. - You saw that? - Yeah, and the waves were so big. - Oh. - It was really rocking. I remember looking like just ahead of me, and the way it was like above the boat, just like with how the water was moving. I was like, this is a little terrifying, but I was determined to see those damn workers. If I didn't see the workers and I went through that, I would have been pissed 'cause I was quite scary, but yeah. - Are you eating on the boat? - They had chips. And like snacks. and stuff. So you eat before, after? I think after, before I got really seasick once in Hawaii, when we had a dinner cruise, like I was like, I was like, we went around like the harbor, whatever, and we ate food. And I got so seasick. So I didn't eat before. I had to take a drama. I mean, I went in very prepared because I was like, this is an eight hour excursion in the middle of the freaking Pacific. I'd better, you know, eight hours. Is there beds? I'm just watching anything. I couldn't watch a movie for eight hours. That's a lot. You're just watching whales just sitting there. Not even whales, like, because I would say it's like seven hours of nothing and then like one hour cumulative of like sea life. You liked it, you would do it again? I think I would do it again. Just I love seeing the workers, because that's like the only ethical way to see them. Really, you know, once you've got a cruise like Antarctica or something. Tea. Yeah, there are like, I get a lot of whale watching TikTok, where people go just in Antarctica, just to see them. I would love to do an Antarctica. Maybe my Jojo see what crews will be in Antarctica. We'll take off from where Alaska, where to man my monoray. How long will it take to get an Alaska for Antarctica from Monoray? Oh, Alaska? Oh, boy, it's Alaska. I guess I'll have some more. I guess you would feel like you would have to leave from like Seattle or something. Okay, Elwoods. Did you watch it? No, El, I didn't watch it. I did throw it out as a suggestion for Darien and I to watch. It takes three to five weeks. We have boat right to Alaska. Oh, it's Antarctica. Oh, it's Antarctica. Right, right, we say to Alaska. Yeah, via boat. I don't even know. Antarctica would be a whole, it's 8,500 nautical miles. What does that mean? 30. It could take up to 45 days. Well, how are people doing Antarctica cruises then? Where are they taking out? Yeah, I don't know where they're going to fly up there and just you just usually fly something around. Yeah, I would do it. I love it. I like the idea of like seeing the penguins and they're not going to have to act. I love a penguin to whales. Just not kayaking with them. Yeah, from a sea from afar. Yeah. I think that's the way to do anything. Iceberg's question mark are there too many icebergs? I would think. I mean, they have boats. That's true. Women and children first. So I guess I'm good. You guys. Good luck. That is interesting. Yeah, I wonder. What do they do by icebergs now? Because I guess you see it now. Back then, they didn't have lights, but radar or something. I would think, right? Technology, I guess. So let you know, it's to be like, Hey, that'd be crazy if that happened again, though. Like twice on the just trash cruise. Oh, my God. Now we can't go. It's been cursed. Oh, my God. That'd be horrible. When people have a Titanic, that's actually crazy. And people make jokes about it. And you're just like, guys, like so many people died. Like froze to death in an ocean. Everyone's like, I saw someone over 4th of July. And they were like, look, I've done it too. I'd say whatever. But they literally just like recreated the Titanic where people were just like floating on their floaties in the lake. And the girl was like on the boat. And she was like letting someone go off her paddleboard. But then all the family was like kids and stuff too. Like we're just like floating in the ocean. And I was like, this is weird. Maybe it's because you're an extra in that movie. They were trying to recreate it. I'm not an extra. How do you remember me and James Cameron. He directed me. I remember supposedly there's little kids in there. And I was like, oh, I could have been one of those little kids for sure. I was around the age. Did they do a Titanic too? Was there a cheap one? Yeah. What's a sequel? By a sequel? I think there was. I don't know what it's about. Oh, you're right. 100 years later, lightning strikes twice. Damn. What year is supposed to be? 19. This is the horror version released in August 7, 2010. Released to critically negative response. Okay. I feel it looks like one of those directed DVDs. Who's it? Girl, no, it could have been you. I would have done it. Shane Van Dyke, Marie Westbrook, no, no one I recognize. Trash. Everyone go watch Titanic too. Another risky thing. People risking their lives. The Daredevil couple who climbed the Empire State. That happened right when we broke last time. I know. I was so mad. We messed up. That was the damn crazy. I was going to say something. But last time? Yeah, because it happened as we were like, is that something? Yeah, that's like literally the biggest breaking news that happened last week. They climbed up to the top. But no, that's crazy. Because no one knew who they were at first. And I was like, how did they get up there? Who's climbing to the Empire? Because that's the tallest point in the, that's the tallest building in the world. Empire State building. No, the world. I know because they climbed the second tallest building. So I thought this was like the number one. So they're okay. So what did they do? They didn't even achieve anything then. I thought it was like the tallest and they did it. No, they did the second tallest building. So this is a downgrade for them. It's a six tallest in the U.S. and the fourth tallest in NYC. So it is kind of a downgrade. Yeah. Yeah. Why did they, what's up? Okay. And what was the point? Just the symbolic building. What was their flag? What are they, what were they promoting? Or are activating? What was their thing? Oh, yeah. Let me see. I thought Ro changed it to being like GLP ones are not easy hacks or something. And I was like, oh, I love that. I love everyone just like Photoshop. I know. I did become like a meme. That was kind of fear. I forgot what it said. When the power of love beats the love of power, the world knows peace. That is a beautiful message. When the power of love beats the love of power, actually, they ate with that. The love of power. And what's the last part? The world knows peace. Okay. So no one should desire power, but just love. Just love. Yeah. Love people not power. I thought. Yeah. That's a message. Why did they do it? It's just a proposal. Were they filming something because they were on a TV show, right? They were on the Netflix show. Yeah, they're in Netflix's Skywalkers. I love story. So they they be doing this, I guess. Fierce. I mean, love can make you do many crazy things. It would never make me want to climb the Empire State Building. Or any building to be frank. I wouldn't even climb a house to get to the root. No, absolutely. That part. Like why are people climbing anything? She did it with acrylics. He had the ring in his pocket. Like, how do they do it? I can't even think about the acrylics. Right. We climbed the June of, but we weren't climbing with our hands and feet. Pretty much. I guess was a just proposal. Was it just to have something crazy? I mean, if the show is love story, then this is the climax of that love story. There were definitely professional shots of the whole thing and drawing and whatnot. Yeah. And they did have to appear in court on July 2nd after climbing the Empire State Building. That's how they get a court date so quickly. I guess it's so I broke my leg. That's crazy. Let's keep this up. It says prosecutors alleged that Ivan Birkis, the guy told police he made the climb because he wanted to do something special for the engagements. Well, it's cute. I guess. I mean, right? I know. Let him out. Let him go. I think they probably will still face some kind of charge or something. Because I mean, I think it's a, you don't want to set the precedent that anyone can go ahead and climb them. By the state building, you know, Scott, for you, but what is the crime? Do you know what I mean? Like what do they charge? What is the charge? They charge them with a long Okay, give me the highlights. Okay. Some of the criminal complaints, alleges, the officers found a broken lock on a security door. So it's breaking and entering basically. Mr. Meiner. I mean, that's not bad. Access to the 102nd floor observation deck requires a key card. So did they steal a key card? So, yeah, there's a lot that they look at. It's not like it's anything. It's not like a felony. But there's the New York. I'm sure, you know, there's some big crimes going on. Yeah. But can you imagine that because I know, you know, when you plan to propose all, right? Can you imagine he was telling her, hey, let's do this. And in the morning, he's like, you know what? I don't feel like it. Like, you know, you should really go and climb that building. You don't think she can. By the way, put some makeup on. You know, you want to, you want to look good for this? Yeah. You know, she probably know. I don't want to ruin the illusion, but she probably, yeah, I mean, it was fully planned. Yeah, I think it's like, well, maybe, I mean, maybe in that from the video, she's kind of surprised for a second. I just feel like they can let them go. There's no example to be sad. Who the hell wants to do this? Like, he was like, I'm going to go do that next. It's like, you want to die? Like, I love these are professional people doing it. I don't think anyone's like motivated to go do this, right? But look how they reacted to the proposal in Disney. Oh, right. I almost like buddies lend them down to the floor. So don't violate Disney or Empire State or the sand dunes because that was where we got in trouble. I guess the whole point is just do the minimum for your proposal. Because doing these grand ones, we got in trouble almost. They're getting in trouble. The Disney person. What is your proposal? When? What? When? If you want to tell us. I don't know either. Well, when I last time we were in Hawaii last year in the fall, when we went on the helicopter tour, the tour guy was telling us, oh, like after this, we have a private one where the, I guess, the boyfriend planned it with them, where they're going to switch them out and they're going to stop that. And then he was going to help them do the proposal. That sounded sweet. So I like that. Well, it's not in the helicopter. - Are you not scared of helicopters? I feel like there's a big phobia on helicopters now. I mean, I've always been a little scared of helicopters on our line. No fear. I mean, you shouldn't be. I don't want to know. - Oh, yeah. I didn't really think about that much until now that you're staying in. I'm like, there are a lot of helicopter incidences. - I always see like Mike Maylach's like, never take a helicopter. Like everyone's just like, never take a helicopter. But I mean, people are still taking a helicopter. So, Mikaela loves a helicopter. She's always in New York taking a helicopter. - What? - With Cody and Zach. Someone said she took the exact same helicopter flight with Zach and I should do it with Cody 'cause both of them never saw it in New York. She's like, we're gonna take a helicopter to go see New York. But I've always been a little scared of a helicopter and then obviously like, yeah, there's a lot of sad. - Incidences, yeah. We did the helicopter tour. I can't remember if I was really that scared or not. I don't think I was that scared. I mean, that's the only time I've been in one. - 'Cause mine is not even like, what could happen? It's more of like the high, to me it's like falling over or like, I don't know, like falling out of it. I don't know. - Oh, I wouldn't do the open air ones. 'Cause like that was an option where it's like, it's no doors, like you know, you're just open or whatever and that really scares me. - Yeah. - Okay, so you're closed in? - It was the closed one. - I don't like, I went on a wild helicopter. I don't like that they weigh you. And like, what do you mean this could like, go down for too heavy? - Danian was in the skinny row and then I was in the big boy row. It was like me in like a 300 pound guy and then I was like-- - What do you guys want the same row? You should've been on opposite rows. - Yeah, it was his? No, he was above me. It was like the pilot and then the guy's wife that I sat next to, it was like a senior citizen couple. He was like-- - Driving the helicopter? - Yeah, driving, it was like three couples that were in the helicopter. - That's big as helicopter. - Yeah, and so we were in the, it was me, this other guy, and then this other guy, we're in the big boy row. And then like this petite ones were up front. I was like, damn. - Which is kind of crazy 'cause my situation was, there was only a four people helicopter and the pilot and the guy was with, we're sitting, tandem, and then I was by myself in my own row. (laughs) 'Cause like that didn't even have to wait. So that's crazy. They put all the big ones in the back. (laughs) They should've put you guys more in tandem. I'm like, well anyways, all my whole thing was, I guess my fear manifested itself because I literally, we took it to Santa Barbara. This guy was so weird. He was like, we didn't take a helicopter Santa Barbara to have dinner and fly back. I was like, okay, and some mind on my ass. Like, I'll pay for it, whatever. And then on the way back, we had to do an emergency landing, and we had to Uber the rest of the way. And they didn't tell us why, but I was so scared. And I was like, never, never. And this was like 20, 17, this a while ago, but they just scared me a little bit. I don't know. 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Anyways, that's what rules. You should do it. (laughing) Do it in the alley copter. Do you ever think, like, when you guys see all the wedding content, especially like, 'cause who is it? It's like Selena Gomez is getting married and Taylor Swift is getting married. I hear her like, damn, we should probably get married. No, it's like, the concept shows me out. Both of you are just you. Probably more me. I got, 'cause I'm like so busy that I'm like, I'm so focused on like, how should I just survive the day? That's my mentality. One more thing on your plate. Yeah, it's tough to plan so far in advance and stuff. I'm like, I'm really bad at making decisions too, when it's not immediate. Like, when it's stuff that's so far down the line. I see. That's what the wedding is all about. It's constantly making decisions. Yeah, I was horrible at that too. So all of that stresses me out. But everyone does like cour house weddings now. That's like the bougie thing to do is go to the cour house and be like, look at our, you know, 1960s wedding photos. Tea and I wouldn't be super opposed to that. But then it's like pre-nups and stuff to figure out. Like so many like, logistical things to figure out that. So that's what holds me back really is the logistics. But engagement is engagement. But that is like something that you have to, that's like, hopefully the one in, I'm not sure, Michaela, I'm sorry. But it's like the one in, the one in done. Like, so, I love multiple proposals by the way. My mom proposed to like five or six times. I think it's kind of, I always thought was, she was always like embarrassed by us kind of like, damn, we had five people wanting to marry you. That's kind of, that's kind of, I wish I had that many proposals. I think being the one dude, I don't wanna have to do it so many times for me. I think if people, if it was to me and then like, that's kind of fierce, you hold all the power. But like, if you're putting yourself, both knees on the floor. You need to do that. When you propose, just go to Master's in Malibu. We're at a Shannon Ryland made history. I do love it. I just thought it was funny 'cause they did it at nighttime and they didn't get a professional photographer. So it just looks like they're black. I was like, well, they were in a beautiful cliff in Malibu. - Actually, Martin from Sleshing Nubes, he recreated it and that was for the bit. - Oh, yeah. Did he propose that way though? - I think he did a real proposal, but his proposal photo shoot, he did it. - It's iconic. - Yeah, apparently. - Both knees is so crazy. I wonder what he was thinking when you did interview him. I have so many questions like, why, or do you think he wasn't thinking he was nervous? - Yeah, he was just being comfortable. That seems less comfortable to be balancing on two knees. That's like a Pilates pose where you just would be like, release core and stuff. 'Cause otherwise you have like this to hold your stuff up. - I probably just forgot. 'Cause also I could see a world where I would do this thing. Like, you know, you just like so many thoughts in your head. You were just like, I know I have to get on the floor and then you kind of just forget it's one versus two. - And it is kind of like, I love it. I think everyone should propose on a knee or two. But it is silly. It's like, damn, okay, now I gotta get on my knees to ask this question. - I'm getting back up after-- - That's awkward. - I'm getting up all of it. Moses dropped the ring in the sand. We were got engaged in sand dunes and in the video, you see him drop it and I look back and there's a sand dunes. So like if you drop a ring, like how the hell are you gonna find it? You found it pretty quickly though. - 'Cause I noticed quickly enough that it was not there. - You never drop anything. You're the least comfortable right now. - Well, 'cause we were wearing a costume and there was no pockets. - Oh, really? The robe didn't help me. - So it was literally in the waistband of my pants. - And he felt it. - Suddenly it felt like something is not pushing against me there. - Oh my God. - And I was like, that was crazy. - He was like quick. - It looks bad. - Just like something underneath. - But when I looked back and I saw this sand was kind of like, 'cause we were going uphill. And the sand behind was going down. - Oh my God, that would have been so crazy. That's stressful. Propose are just stressful 'cause they had the cops had come because my photographer Isaiah was like, I'm here for this shoot. Obviously he thought it was like a music video 'cause we were doing music videos. And so then we had the police, where the police were the patrol. I don't know, there's like a patrol person that came and then most of that tell him like it's just a proposal. Like it is just stressful. I was stressed because like we don't have a flag and the ATVs were going, so I thought, oh my God, we're going to get hit. Like it is just like stressful. The whole thing is stressful. The knees, I can, I like it, but it is like silly. But I guess in the moment you're just both there. You're just both being cringed together. You're like, okay, this is what we do. This is how we do it. I love a proposal. I think proposals. I feel like even if you never get married, I feel like you should always get proposed to at least for dinner. - Oh, it would work. That's smart. The engagement is the best part. And then like whatever, you know, like you said, all the logistics stuff happens. Even the day of the wedding, you're signing like contracts, you're just like Jesus. Oh my God, they're like signing your life away. But or technically you are like signing my life over. You can make like decisions from my one friend, not to whatever, but I have a really good friend that like one of his really good friends died and that person had no family or spouse or anything like that. And like no one can, he can't make the decision. Like he can't give her a burial or funeral because governments like you have to be related to give a funeral. And I was like, what do you mean? And he's like, yeah, though, just gonna, 30 days claim the body and then just put her somewhere because she's in that family, which is so she's trying to track family down 'cause he's like, I wanna give her something. It is crazy. So you literally sign your life away in more ways than one. And it's a little stressful, but they get you 'cause it's the right, right before you go down the aisle, he's like, okay, you guys sign this and this and then you're just like signing all this paperwork and like Jesus, like, it's a lot of day poor and I've got divorced for that reason. - Oh, I forgot about that. - Yeah, he's still married and it is a big commitment, I suppose, but that's something just gonna engage. Then you're kind of like, look guys were engaged, but you don't have to actually get married if you don't want to. - Yeah. - There's a lot. - Yeah, there's a lot to think about. I mean, Jenn McAllister's engagement got me excited, those are like, that's cute. It's cute, the photos, then people stop asking to like, no, you're also being like, so when's the wedding? - I know, well, that's true. I know. I do wanna go to a wedding. We've never been as a couple to a wedding. I wanna go to a wedding. I've only been one wedding besides ours. I've only been one out of the one hanging. I'm gonna go to a wedding. Just have it. Even if it's at the core, I'll be so fine. I wanted to get cute photos. Kind of like the David guest wedding, where it's like Michael Jackson and Elizabeth Taylor and all the people in it. It'd be so fun to just have your random group of people that you know. Next to you. You need to do it! Pink Texitos. - Are you planning it? - Yeah. - Did it change the season? Your guy's an invitation. Was it the snow globe? - Yeah. We had a snow globe. Did I know you? We knew you. No, we weren't here together. - No, I was, I was with Joey when he got his though. - We were Taylor Swift just inviting everybody. (laughing) That's so random that we invited Joey, that's so funny. (laughing) We really did kind of invite everybody. - Why? - That's crazy that he got one. 'Cause those were so expensive. They were gonna be even more expensive, but we had to tone it down. It was Twilight, I think, when he opened it. It played PDD, PDD, PDD, PDD, PDD, PDD, PDD, PDD. Yeah. We were inviting everybody. - Yeah, I was at his house when it came in the mail, I think. I remember, he was like, he was guy. He placed it in the dining room at least. - Yeah, it was featured, a featured decor. - I don't know. - I love it so it was worth it. Those were so freaking expensive. Our whole budget was on the freaking invitation, so I didn't know. It was crazy. I love the invitation. I love for wedding. It's so fun. Just the engagement will be fun. - He didn't end up going, but you know, at least he got them. - Right, I think he said he was-- - He was in England, of course. - Yeah. - We had a good turnout on our wedding, it was good. Weddings are fun, but they're kind of a scam. I mean, money wise, you know what I mean. I'll keep asking, I'll follow up next month if you're gonna get engaged. - I think you'd be the first to find out. - Really? You're gonna send me a picture? - I mean, you're definitely gonna be performing at the wedding, but maybe the engagement as well, I don't know. - I love that. I'm a game of party. - Let's do it. We can do it up here. Would you both wear rings? - For a engagement. - I think so, yeah. - I think so too. I think that's like-- I was at was weird when the guy, like, when you wouldn't want-- where I want to make-- we should both be wearing them, because we're both taken out. We're both fiancés, you know? - I'm usually daring and is more Moses-coded, but I am, and the sensory thing with jewelry, I'm very-- I never-- - You were friends sometimes. - Sometimes, only for show, and then I take them off as soon as I'm done, but also when I wear my-- I fidget with them a lot. - Yes, same. Yes. I-- I don't wear any of that. I'm always just scared of, like, getting lost or stolen or something like that, so I just don't wear them. - Yeah. - But they are, like, yeah, I forget to put it on. But at least for the first, like, year, it's fun to wear it. They look-- I'm married. - Yeah, and he loves picking out jewelry, yeah. - Married couples who wear them all the time for, like, my dad's worn his for, like, 25 years. I'm just, like, you never take that off. It's just always on. That's-- it has to be annoying. Especially the girls with the diamonds and stuff, like, that-- it doesn't get caught on your pantyhose, like, it just-- it doesn't-- it seems annoying, rings seem annoying. I don't know. Because people will say if people are not wearing their rings, it's, like, oh, they're not together anymore because they're not wearing rings. I'm like, who the hell wears wedding rings? And why? To be like, I'm taken. It's never stopped anybody. In fact, I feel like most girls would be, like, it's a challenge. Like, I don't-- I don't really get the point. I'm about to take one. I like them, but it is dumb, huh? If you've worn rings for longer than 10 years, why? Tell us why. - Let us know. - Let us know. - Let us know. Yeah. I think I found your next acting role, though. - I'm ready. - I'm self-tapped. Ashley Tisdale is starring in a dark comedy series, "Toxic Moms," following her viral essay breaking up with my toxic mom group. I have a feeling she did that essay so she could have an IP. Because nobody wants to make a TV show or movie unless you have an IP. And that's why people do books and this kind of stuff like that to get it turned into something. So I think she just, like, wrote that to be, like, look how powerful this is. She might-- she might want the toxicity. She probably started the toxicity to be like, "I'm gonna get me a TV show out of this and it's gonna be real and people gonna rally behind me." Because the general consensus was that she was the problem, right? Is that what we gathered from everyone else's accounts, like Mandy Moore, and Hillary Duff, like, she kind of was the toxicity? That-- yes, in a sense. So she just created her own drama to make a little TV show or a big TV show, maybe. I'll be in it. Ashley, I love you. But it seems a little-- like, kind of orchestrated. I guess so, right? Because it was an op-ed that kind of came out of nowhere. No one was really talking about it. I don't really ask for it. She's just of her own volition, wanted to share this experience. So now that you say it, yeah, I didn't think about that, but that does kind of make sense. Because like, no. She had to know. She's in a celebrity mon group. She had to know it would make waves, right? Yes. You're kind of spilling. Who bought it? Who picked it up? Netflix. So it was gonna be big. It's gonna be big. Yeah. And she's sorry, get it? She's gonna be-- she's expected to start in it. She's also producing it. And she's teamed up with Sabrina Jellies, who did "Made in Season and Search" party in Alley Wong, who did "D" yes. Well, that's gonna be good. I think that could be good. That's all Alley Wong would be like-- Is she writing it or just producing it? I think-- I feel like she'll probably end up writing it. I like Alley Wong's things that she writes. So she's so funny. I do too. So funny. Definitely knows women and it's dark comedy. Uh-huh. Perfect. I love it. I feel like it's gonna-- it's gonna stop. Even if you're like, ugh. Like if you were-- I was seeing, you know, Hillary team Mandy and everything. It's always, yeah. But I fear I'm seated. I fear I'm seated for this. I think it's gonna be good. No director, no one attached. Nothing yet. Right, Murphy, get on that. We could have an all-spirer. I don't know. I love why Murphy. Why we don't like him now? He's being canceled. No. I think he's just spread a little thing. I think he has, you know, he has too much. Because he has the Netflix shows. He has FX shows. He has all the-- Okay. He has too many things, or I think he's spread a little thing. I mean, someone really lock in and like-- I'll drag it. Work. I would love. I'll cash Meghan Trainor. Scott Hoing recently just became a parent. He could be in the talkroom. Oh, oh. I think he told us that he was gonna join the Meghan Trainor mom group. That's fear. Okay, is that your ticket? Yes. So I'm gonna infiltrate that. I think that's where it's gonna be. I have ideas for this. And I think we could use some real mumps as I think Meghan Trainor needs. She definitely needs a redemption arc. So maybe this could be it. If she's like a really good actress, you know, like that and it really gets into it. Who else could be in it? Toxic mom group. I thought you instantly. Because I'm like, okay, you're a mom. You can definitely do this kind of like, campy drama. Yes. Whitney. Whitney. I'm really good. Oh, she's an actress too. Yes. All the production company probably would want to produce it in the already happened production. Oh, you're so right. Maybe get, um. Genatholic. No, not genatholic. Well, she's toxic in a mom. It's two methods. That's two methods. Okay, material. Okay. But as a Hodgons for a little reunion. Oh, wait, wait. Vanessa would be good. X's and the, uh, oh, they. You never saw her in Ashley Tisdale do that cover. Oh, they're back yard sessions. Yeah. I love that one. I love the guitar and everything. Yeah. Did you know Orion, that from high school musical, the actor Lucas Gabriel is not gay. I know. I just watched a whole eight part series on the talk about it. What? Like what? And that's why someone did a whole thing why he never became successful. And it's like, it was like the opposite. He was like in this gay character and he wasn't gay in real life. And so I'm more just on as. So he always played gay, I guess, after that. Because people just saw us. That is shocking. Shocking. Like, what do you mean? You're. What? It's how. Yeah. Not real, but real. I mean, it's odd on TikTok. Oh, my God. What an interview him. Yes, he is straight. Wow. I know. Okay, great actor. Because I was like, what? Are you sure? He auditioned for the Tray Bolton character. Whoa. Yeah, actually, no, you're going to play the little gay kid. Which is crazy. And he also wasn't a kid. He was like an adult at the time. And even on the show he did after, I think it was like secret life of American teenagers and like that. Look, one of those shows. He was like 30 playing a high schooler. Like, he just contemplated the game high schooler. And he was straight in male and 30s. That is fierce. Oh, switched up burp. Yes, I remember that. Yeah. And he was like supposed to be this like big thing. And then just. That really got me. He was really got me. I never seen anyone play so gay. That wasn't. Like, he was just, and it was kind of like the character. We didn't know was gay. Because we didn't. Wasn't he with the little piano player in the movie? Oh, Kelsey. So they kind of made him see like he wasn't gay. It seemed like he had a crush on Corbin Blue's character. That's what I. The third one. Oh, T.A. The second one. The boy's like, I don't dance. I know you do. I think that was. Okay, work. I think they were queer rating, though. Because he was with Kelsey and the other ones. You're right, you're right, you're right. I mean, I guess he was just so flamboyant. But I guess if you are a sharp haze brother, you're going to be flamboyant. Like, you have no choice. Yeah, it's okay to be. So they were kind of making it seem like that he could be straight in those ones. Yeah, but he did the backyard sessions with her too. He was in high school musical, the musical, the series with the Olivia Rodrigo as well. Who do you play? The teacher? I think he played, no. He played Lucas Crabile. High school student. Oh, because it was what? High school musical, the musical, the series was a Disney plus show about the school where it's meta. It's like where high school musical was filmed that school in in Utah. Yeah. It was a like a series about kids in that school who were putting on high school musical, the musical because it was filmed out there school. So like, oh, so they had the real, I think they're the ones come back. I think it was just him. Oh, yeah. And maybe the girl pop and lock and jam. Oh, Casey, Casey Stroud. I don't know her everywhere. She is, she is like the biggest high school. And coach voltage wasn't in it because he's always doing high school musicals. Oh, I think he was an engineer. You know those three are always down to come back. Which I love, I would do it. But no, they made a lot of like, Vanessa. What are you saying just now? Pop and lock and jam and break. Oh, I was just saying pop it, lock it. Poke and die. I was like, I like it. Stick to the status quo. Not to be confused with. Yeah. What pop, what's that? Pull down, throw down. I like the pop and lock and jam and break. No, no, no, no. Is that even legal? It's just dancing. Sometimes I think it's even cooler than homework. not another word. I love that part. That was, that was great. Look ♪ Gami and what do you see? ♪ ♪ Intelligence beyond compare ♪ ♪ But inside I am burning something strange ♪ ♪ It's occurring, it's a secret I need to share ♪ ♪ Open up big way down deep ♪ And that's why it's all I like to pop. But no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. We could do it, we could re-create it. - Well, we could do our own high school musical, the musical, the series. - Who would you play? Troy, I'll be Troy, who are you? - I fear I would be Ryan Lucas Grayville. - No, just 'cause you're gay? No, you could play Sharpey. - Okay, fear. - I could see you as a Sharpey. Moses, you could be Darbis. Do you know who that is? - Does he play basketball? - No, the coach, the director of the play. - Oh. - I mean, if you want to play basketball, I guess you could be who's Troy's friend? - Chad, part of the screen. - Either guy with a curly hair or something. - Which one do you wanna be? - I guess I'll be Zick. - Oh, the banker. Oh yeah, he does say that. What's his line? - Something about Crembroulet. Crembroulet, things. Keep your voice down low. - Oh yeah. - No, not another sound. Everybody quiet! - Quiet! - Yeah, that's right. Damn, that was a good song. - That was good. - Who wrote those songs? - Was Adam Shankman? 'Cause he, yeah, I think, maybe-- - He wrote it. - I think. - And can you take a direct hit? - I think. - Can you take a directed Michael Jackson in his last tour, before he died? He really got around, he's everywhere. - Oh no, David Lawrence and Fay Greenberg. - Shout out to them. - Shout out to them, they wrote a banger. - They were all such good songs. I love high school musicals, my favorite. Favorite series, I think, ever. Not the one that was on Disney Plus, but the original. Three. - The Disney Plus series was really not bad. It really was. - 'Cause we like Olivia Rodrigo. - It was good. It was before she took off, though. It was before driver's license. - And you liked it, then? - Mm-hmm. - It really was quite good. The music was good. - I guess we could try and watch it, 'cause we did watch all three of the high school musicals. And man, Moses watched all of them when we met. - Maybe you guys liked the music. - That's true. Did you like high school musical 3s? So they could like, they could like it. Is it more for a little kids or no? The TV series? (phone ringing) - For adults, you know. - My twins, I guess? - Yeah. - I'll put it on. - Yeah, it's a cute scene. - And Olivia, I wish we would go back to acting, but. - Who'd she play? - She played like the Vanessa Huggins-esque character. - But who'd she play in the play? - Vanessa Huggins. - Oh, okay, so she was Gabriela, I'm playing a Gabriela character. - Yeah, yeah, yeah. - Who was the, who was the Troubleton? - Joshua Bassett, who she wrote driver's license about. He was trying to be the Troy, but it ended up being like the hot football player guy. And that was like the contention, was that she was playing the romantic lead with this guy, but she was dating Joshua Bassett's character. - So did they ever show their final performance? Did they ever get to like sing the song to the original? - I think so, 'cause it opens with them auditioning to get the parts and then the whole show, they're like in the outfits and stuff and auditioning. Yeah, I think so. - Okay, thank you. - It's been a while since I watched, but. - Do you remember the sweet life episode where they did high school music? - Yeah, of course. - That guy is on Hacks. - Yes, and he was an ugly buddy. - Yes, he's so great, I love him. I remember some at the after party at Hacks, the assistant to Deborah Vance, and he was in high school music. Well, he was in the high school music school. - And then like in the brush her teeth. - Oh, I am a loss without my loss. - I told him that too, I was like, Mark and Delicado, he was an ugly buddy. - Oh, damn. - And he was the ugly buddy's nephew, gay nephew. - Oh, that's cute. - What if he's gay in real life? - I don't know. - So 'cause he was gay. - Is that great? - Oh, ugly buddy. - And gay is hell in Hacks. So if he's not gay, I'm gonna be really upset. That would be like what? - I feel like that is happening a lot now. - Mark, let us know. - Oh my God. - Oh my gosh. - Always a cancer, he's two days after me. - Oh. - To our 16. - Oh my God, it's coming up. It's gonna be a birthday. - Me just googling Mark and Delicado get yes. Open the gay. - How you sure? - Very good. I mean, that's what Google says, but we don't know. - Yeah, T. - I'll DM him, we are- (laughing) - I'll see. - Are you gay? (laughing) - Can you ask that anymore? I don't know if I can. Can you ask a person if they're gay? Just in real life, not like a hiring situation. - That's a great question. Like you meeting Benson Boone, but like, you're gay, right? - I always kinda like, I will like, suss it out. So if I'm with someone, well, I usually know nowadays that they're gay, I'll be like, oh, I have a date. Oh, like how long are you talking to him? And then see what they say. And then you're just like, oh, six more. And they're like, okay, I knew it. So you kind of confirm it without confirming it. - I feel like it's safer in our space, to assume gay versus assume straight, right? Like, and obviously in the day, point and white bar stool situation, I feel like assume straight, but for us, it's safer to assume gay because either you are gay or you're straight as such an ally, that you would be flattered to be called gay, you know? - That's true, that's true, that's true. - People do like that. It's like kind of a flex now. - Yeah, the straight guys we associate with, I would be, you know, would think it's crazy. - Would love it, yeah. - It's very, in the L Woods, she, this one girl, she like, oh my God, she called you a lesbian and she like, yeah. She like, but like, aren't you upset that like people think you're gay and she like, I am gay and she like, what? Like she doesn't know, she's not a gay, are. - You watched it? - I did watch it, I thought it was pretty good. And I kind of like the fact that she had no gator 'cause then the lesbian was like, if the whole world had no gator like you, it would be a lot safer place and it was like really cute. It was kind of cute, see, I actually liked it. I thought it was good. People I think are just haters. She looked, I mean, she sounded, it looked just like her. I mean, she was just like, exactly the same. I liked it. Does it make sense in the universe of, who cares, you know what I mean? Like, it's fake, none of it's real. - You a week ago. - Well, now that I saw it, it's actually pretty good. It's actually pretty clever. We loved it, it worked the first time let's just do it again, you know what I mean? - Right, but two from like other reviewers, they're like, if you just think of it as like an alternate dimension or something like where it's unassociated with legally blonde. - Or a daughter of L, someone said if it was like L's daughter, like you would get it. - Yeah. - I didn't think of that. - I know, that's what I'm gonna say. And that's how I looked at it. I was like, oh, this is feeling like her daughter 'cause she was like giving the exact same mannerism the same thing and she had, you know, the same, it was very like woken. It was just very like a different, it was like the modern day of what's in it. And I like it. - It was worth it. - I was influencing you. I never wanted to watch any new like teen tween show. I'm not into off-campus any of that stuff, but I was like, I need to watch this. - Off-campus shade. - What? - Be serious. - 'Cause I mean, what is it? (laughs) You don't even mean no one's talking about it. There's a lot of-- - Everyone's talking about off-campus, yeah. - I think even bad hype is like hype because I was like, I'm gonna watch this now. It's kind of like super girl. I really wanted to watch super girl too. I was like, I didn't get to the theater this weekend, but I am gonna watch it because it's like, well, if everyone hates it, like let's watch it and see what it's about. - It'll be on digital only two weeks, so. - Tomorrow. - I think they said July 30th, it'll be out on digital. - Yeah. - It's a really serious-- - July's going fast, right? What is it, July? Seven, six? - Fit, six. - Wow, oh damn. - Oh, so what are you gonna do for your birthday next week? Are you going somewhere? - No. - I mean, I'm going to Comic Con the week after and it's for work, but I also like love Comic Con, so I feel like that would be kind of birthday-y. - That's fine, yeah. - Maybe we'll go to Benihana. 'Cause I went to Benihana once for my birthday, like three years ago or four years ago. So I feel like that would be fine, okay? - Oh my god. - I never had-- - I hope they still have the Trish Trio, like, insert. - So I'm going to put it in the end. - Oh, we just made the cut off. - I know. - Well, so before stealing the inserts, what if we have 'em? - I don't know if we're stealing or what, but we go and like all the inserts are gone and I was like, wait. - I'll give you one, just take it, we do. - Oh, I'm putting it in the menu. - Right, you know what I'm saying? It's like just a case they don't have them. We'll just stick yours in there. I'm like, no, but that's the fun part is getting to open it and be like, you don't see no one yet. - It's just so fun. Oh my gosh, just get the Trish Trio. I hope the sign is still there 'cause it's like right off the interior, you just see like this big pink sign. It's like so cool. - I'm surprised no one stole that. - We were playing on it. - I tried. - That is kind of a fun idea, right? - I got caught. - That's like your Empire State proposes those things. - Just stealing all the signs. What happens if you do? Are you allowed to or is it private property or is it property? I mean, what's stopping someone from stealing a street sign? - That's he. I mean, I know for like stores where they have displays, like, I think Target, they just had a Pokemon collab and people were stealing the Pokemon sign. - Are you not allowed to? - I think that's technically still theft, but I mean. - What are you gonna do? I think it's up to $1,000 in California, right? - Yeah. - So. - How much is the valley of your sign? - You can do with that information. - Kind of priceless. - Our (beep) close down here. The one where we always ordered our spicy nuggets from, I'm actually really sad 'cause I was like, for old times, we should've gotten some, I know it's Moses, he was the one who was like. - His enemy. - Down about those cheeseburgers and it probably closed. I'm so sad. - In the middle of the minions meal too, I was hoping that would give them a nice boost. - A little research. - I did see the minions movie, minions and monsters and the minions are gay, the two minions. - No way. - So I feel like now you have to be nice to them. - How do you know? - They're like in love. Like it's Henry and James are the two lead minions and they have a deaf friend. So it's also like, it's like Wilka's hell. - I love that. - And the other minions in the little group are mac as they stay up giggling and reading books together and like encouraging each other's art to make directorial debut, like they're making a movie together. It's gay as hell. - They're probably all gay aren't they all men? I mean, there's no female minions. - Oh wait, you kind of ag me with that. - I thought that was the whole thing. So eventually they all got to. - That's kind of key. I didn't even think about that. I mean, these ones, in particular, are very romantic Henry and James. they're more of the flamboyant. point gaze. Well, they're just like so in love with each other. Like they're just a couple. Okay. That's cute. Because I've seen the other Minions movies and you know, I never really thought they were like they had romantic chemistry. These Henry and James are taking it. They have such good chemistry. I like that. Yeah. So I think now you have to be nicer to the Minions career. It's homophobic if you're not. Honestly, you sold me on it. I knew it. Once I realized that we're gay, I was like, wait, she has to love the Minions. No penetration. Shown. There's Minions sex and millions of months. I don't know. I don't know. They're gay. You're just like just because they're friendly with each other. I like cuddling each other. They stay up all night, cuddling and reading a little book and looking at the stars. Like it's fierce. Did you get the Minion meal? No, I don't I do. I kind of want to because they put the little Minion and the little big tails. And that's fun to me. They recommend the son. Remember the son, uh, porches. I think sons that one has it. Like the sunroofs. Yeah. That was great with the yellow biggies. Yeah, I'm getting a lot of nostalgia core TikToks. And that was like one of the things that keeps getting brought up. Like things we missed from the early 2000s. And I'm like tea. I do miss that. I have mine from like the 90s and it's like the Flintstone push-up pops. Do you remember those? It's so good. The King of Rue, the Dunk of Rue's, those were so good. Good time. I need to bring it back. I love nostalgia. Oh, kind of related. Dick Van Dyke, who is 100 years old. Well, did you? I didn't know this about. You know how old his wife is? 54. Like what the hell are going on? What part? We're against it. We're for it. What? I'm passed 30. You're good. It doesn't matter the edge gap at that point. I'm like, what the hell are they talking about? What part? What part? What are you gagged by? I just saw like I read it. I saw an article that was like Dick Van Dyke 100 takes a walk. I think it was showing how old he was and how the crap he was. Dick Van Dyke 100 uses walker during rare outing with wife Arlene 54 was the headline. And I was like, wait, 54. Like that is a whole day. They're both old. That what do you mean? That makes sense. That is crazy. But what part? Because it's like they're both old. What is she supposed to date? What is he supposed to date? A 90-year-old? Like, yes. You have a date younger at that point. That point is like you have no choice. When do they get together? I mean, that's a good question. I don't know. It's just years ago. That is crazy. Because I'm like 54 to 100. It's just, it's a big difference like conversational. Like what do y'all even talk about? No. I mean, you're all old. You remember Ed Sullivan. She's not that old. I mean, it is, babe. 15 and 100. I mean, I'm going to be 15 a couple of years. Yeah. I can't even imagine being 100-year-old. What do you mean? Yes. You know so much about that culture. And you could talk about everything. A hundred. Somebody that's a hundred. Now, leave a different life. You know what I'm supposed to say? Fantastic Van Dyke. Oh, what was like being on the Maritime and more show? What was like having a female lead as they are like protagonist of the show? What was like dancing and like, you know, Mary Poppins? What's Julie Andrews? Like, how did you guys meet? Like, what was like being a musical singer back in the '50s? But you're like old guys, so. Wow. And then when I'm 50, I feel like it's more appropriate because now I'm old too. Me and a 50 and me and a 100 and you're older. I would love to talk to any of the hundred. Mel Brooks just turned 100. I'd love to talk to all of them. When did they get together? She was 40 and he was 81. Over the hill. When you're 40, you're over the hill. Yeah, I guess. 40 to 80. I guess just 100. A hundred or so. Wow. Oh, kind of amazing though. 40 to even 40 to 80 to 81. Like, my mom said, yeah, because when I was young, my mom had me older. So like, I was pretty young when she was in her 40s and she still like felt young. So like, I couldn't imagine her with an 80-year-old. Like, if my dad was 80, that'd be kind of weird. I could picture it. Well, you were with 80-year-olds and you were like 20. Oh, yeah. That was bad. The 20 to 80 pipeline was bad. But now that I'm 38, easily. Like, Mel Brooks is still on my dream end. That would be like, if I wasn't with Moses. I mean, I probably was writing letters at some point being like, I would love to marry you. Like, that was like my dream. Like, because they're just so knowledgeable, they've been around so many. They've been around how many wars, like your survived Vietnam, World War II. You could just ask. Yeah. It's like being with a literal dinosaur, which is kind of fun. But then you don't really know anything about technology, and then he definitely does that. That's not true. We're just saying old people adapt AI more than anyone. Okay, all the old people in our lives, the older men in our lives, or older people obsessed with AI. And we're like, yeah, but they definitely know like the ramifications. Of course, they don't care. They're going to die. They're like, whatever, who cares. But that's what I'm saying. They almost adapted more. He's, you know, he's on chat GPT. He's like, looking up all these things. Because that's, you're on the way out. You're just like, whatever, you know what I mean? Like, it is crazy though to be 100. I think it's great. I would love to be 100. I would love it. I would love it. I'm manifesting that for both of us to be 100. But like, how crazy is your day-to-day? Where you're just like, is this the day? Yeah, any second now. Yeah. I mean, that's so scary. I know. Or going to bed. It's really going to bed. And you maybe won't make up. Yeah. I don't know. It's so much a while. Because there's a lot of happy people at our 100 now. And it's like a really crazy thing. It's good though. It's good people are living longer. I suppose. He seems happy. Dig my deck was just I'm asking her like a few years ago. At like 98 years old, I was like, damn, that's pretty impressive. It's pretty good. You didn't even have to wear a mask. What? What does that mean? Like people don't know who he is? I love massing her. I'd be on it at 98. I wonder if I'll still be around when we're at 98. I hope we will have to be 98. I think the worst part about getting that old is also just seeing so many people die that you know. Like, if you imagine I'm 100 years old and just like, everyone's just dropping and you're just like, damn, all right. It's kind of like all the YouTubers getting canceled and irrelevant. That's the equivalent. Right. Very much like that. It is crazy. When he sent me that David O'Brick, TikTok, I was like, oh yeah. I forgot about this little cockroach. I've never seen him. Like, you know, like, I haven't seen the visual of him in a long time. So I was like, well, we reacted to his YouTube video like a month ago, but oh yeah. I'm scared. I just associated. I knew here is voice. Oh well, I don't anymore. I selfless into it. I really did selfless into it because I was like, I'm rather on that Stephanie Sue Rotten. I don't know those into true crime and bodies than that because I was like, I cannot listen to this anymore because they are, they should give the girlfriend one talk. Let's talk about like stupidity. Like, they all just sound so stupid. And I'm like, this is the stupidest conversation I've ever heard of my life. But anyways, ask me a TikTok of, I do like her. She asked a lot of people if you would get with a big girl. That girl like known for doing that. And she asked David O'Brick, like, would you have a day to big girl and him just like lying through a seat. But the comment's calling about two being like, he's lying. Yeah, his response was, I would get with anyone who wants me basically. Okay. Okay. It's giving Noah back when he's like, do I date black girls? I like humans. I don't know about their colors. It's just like, okay, defensive. Like just relax. Like, it was so crazy. I was like, David O'Brick hates fat people. That's what I wanted to comment on there. I literally was going to be like the most fat phobic person I knew. But okay. I almost did actually. And then you know, I just, I just stopped myself. I'm like, let me just, I don't need to put that out there. I need to put positivity out there. He was popping up on everything. He was watching like fireworks. And I guess it was in, like, I don't know. These guys were like, Oh, look at David in this like more rough part of town, I guess. And yeah, I figured out where he was. They should like prove Avenue. But all the guys were like, Oh, he's here. And yeah, he went up to, um, I'm random person filming the fireworks, right? I was like, Hey, can I use a guy's bathroom? Oh, is that what it was? That's one I saw. I don't know what he's doing with his life. I was like, okay, he's just, he's just so, he's just everywhere lately. And it's too much for my liking. The worst. You kind of, um, derailed my transition. Oh, sorry. I thought you were talking about cancer. I was going to go from, you know, dying at 100 to the concept of past lives. Love that. Okay. I love a past life. Well, Millie Bobby Brown talked about who she believed she was in a past life. And she believes that she was a closeted gay soldier who was killed with a sword. And it was like, the most Trishian thing I've ever seen in an interview. I love them all the homes three pressed for every interview of Millie Bobby Brown tickles me lately. I think she's so, um, she did an interview with Capitol Buzz and she got asked about, uh, she believes in past lives. And she said, Oh, I actually know exactly who I was. Because I have a birth mic on my lower back, the very bottom of my spine, which is obviously meant to be the way that you died in the past life. And she says in war, well, I don't know if that happened a lot, but to kill people to make them have a painful death, they would put swords up people's spine. So they were completely paralyzed, but they would obviously die. And that's how I think I died. So I might have been a soldier. And then, uh, she said she was definitely a man, but hopefully a closeted gay man. Why closeted? I think because gay people back in the day weren't allowed to be in the, well, she having sex as a gay man or she's just like completely suppressing. I think she just wish like if she had to be a man, she would hopefully prefer to be gay versus like a straight one. And you had to be closeted to be in the military. So, yeah. But I think like way back in the year 300, I think they were definitely openly gay Roman soldiers in the movie 300. She didn't specify what time era or what war like what empire we had the Roman Empire because they were definitely gay. I don't know what she knows either. She's just basing off the war. Yeah, you have good follow-up questions. I mean, it was her and her co-star, Louis Bartridge, who were like interviewing each other. Oh, yes. So he just said, I don't believe in past lives. And she goes, okay, well that ends that. But she was so like, yeah, like play with it. That's just stupid answer. She was so impassioned. She was like, hopefully a gay, a closeted gay man. Hopefully, like she was so, - He killed the vibe, he definitely killed the vibe. - I want to be like a super gay man in my past life. Like a really, who's like the most openly gay? - Ooh, like Leslie Jordan. - What? - Rest in peace. You remember Leslie Jordan? - No, who's that? - He's in Will and Grace. He was like the young, I mean the young, the short, like gay. - The leprechaun and look at the Irish. - I think so, yeah. - I think so, yeah. - He kind of gives me like, was he super gay? - Jay Chene in like 80 or 80s, yeah. - Was he super gay? - Yeah, it's Leslie Jordan. - I didn't know. - Oh, wait, how do you know about him? That's so weird. - I don't know, he was in Will and Grace. He was always on RuPaul's Drag Race 'cause he was just so holy and flamboyant. - Oh, okay, I love that. I think he more like Freddie Mercury getting a bunch of ass. - Okay, work, yeah. - Sex with everybody else. I was thinking more like that, but I like that too. You could be Leslie Jordan, I'll be Freddie Mercury. Which openly gay man would you be in your past life? - Thank you for the resentment. - Oh, I like that you're thinking about this. It's good. - I would like to think that Paulion was gay, maybe in a Paulion. - Oh, why is he gay? - Just give it the vibe. - What do you want to do? I don't even know anything about a Paulion. What did he do? - He was conquering the world. - Oh, conquering some ass. (laughing) I like that, okay. Well, you don't really know that he's openly gay, but I like that you chose someone who could be closeted. - We can out him now, I don't think he is. - Shakespeare definitely I think was gay 'cause he was writing just all men in his plays. If he were meant to be a girl, you're a man. If you're meant to be a dog, you're a man. You're just all men. I like it. He's tied up to the openly gay man out there. - And the closet engaged too. - No, come out, it's a much better. I would say, of course, it should be saved now unless you're in Arkansas or something. (laughing) I love Millie By Brown, please come on the podcast. We love A No La Home. I should watch that show. I can't find new shows to watch. She doesn't know what's on right now. - There's three of them and they're quite long, but give it a try. - And it's about Sherlock Holmes' daughter. - I guess, yeah, yeah. - I think it's fierce too because she gets a lot of flack because she's playing this old-timey kind of character, but she refuses to be de-glammed. Like, she still has acrylics and extensions in full glam and she got asked about that too. She's like, "That's so boring. Like, if you're mad at me for playing historic beats and still having makeup and extensions, like focus on the artistry." And I was like, "Yeah." - I love her. She doesn't give me. - Lucky, and then, God, I forget his name, but there's this gay reporter who, I think, I forget what outlet. Maybe it's like the advocate or something. I think his name is Ricky, but he does like all the gay, like he goes to like the RuPaul's Drag Race events and like just asks like the craziest gay questions. I think it's based on Las Vegas too. And he'll sometimes do like the morning news and like just have a key. Like he cuts up with like the other anchor for which being so gay. But he interviewed Millie Ballu Brown too and he was like, "Millie, everyone wants to see you like be a little lesbian. Like when are you gonna play someone queer?" - Yes. - And she goes, "Yes, bitch, okay." - No, she's not playing a lesbian. - She talks like mom, group, she's a lesbian. That should be it. Oh my God. - Oh my God, I forgot she's, I forgot she's a mom too. - Yeah. - That would be so good, very, what does that show? Hunter Wives or something? - Oh yes. - It could be named Millie. Probably she's young. - She's like 23, but. - It could be like the lesbian, like, kind of like in hacks, right? There was that like lesbian couple. It was like the hot, you know what I mean? I forgot their names was kind of like that. It's like the Debra Vance and the A&M. - Yes. - Sure. - I'd love to play a lesbian and something actually. That'd be great. I just love them. - You might have to write it yourself. - Maybe that's the next book. "The Adventure of Lesbian Trish." I love it. - You probably don't remember when I brought it up, but the new gay dating app that tried to get Daryan to promote it, Goose. - I do remember this. - Other words, yes, they hold up. - Well, E.J. Dickinson, who did "The Rolling Stone" - Love. - Interview. - I also wrote a book about being a mom. - Oh, wait, she did. - Yeah, it's 'cause I was supposed to interview her. I don't know what happened. I was supposed to do like an interview. Probably might have messed it up or something, but yeah, she's great, I love her. - She's fierce. And she did an investigation into the app. She writes now for "Wired", but she did an investigation into Goose because- - No way. - You think she watched the podcast. I thought it was like, I never knew who was five years old. - She was talking about Goose. Nobody. I never heard of it. - She said that Goose has been using a network of AI-generated instigate accounts to lure dudes onto the app. So she said she heard about it from a few friends that received messages from random hot guy accounts that just followed them, inviting them to the app. And the accounts were all created in May or June, and they were all just like hot guys. And the language and the messages were all very similar. They went, hey, okay, this might feel random, but felt you'd be interested. And part of the team behind Goose, a new gay app that just launched, it's basically a curated network of guys and key cities across the US who want to actually make plans and meet people at IRL. We're handpicking who gets in and honestly, just thought you'd be a great fit. And it's like a way to skip the quote-unquote approval process. So the AI instigate bought accounts. We're all inviting other gays to be a part of the event. - Wow. - Ambassador program. - Oh my gosh. - I know. I'm hearing AI'd. - I kind of do. I mean, the messages was like the same too, but they were asking them to like promote it as well. Yeah, I'm so weird. - I wonder how they find, like how come they didn't reach out to you, like how do they find the people? - I think they reached out to a specific looking kind of twink/twink. - So AI is like programmed to find only hot people? Like that's crazy. Wow, so advanced, it really is. - I know, I know. She reached out to the founder Derek Chadwick for a statement, but he has not responded to the request for comment. - Yeah, reach out. - Did you reach out for a statement? - No, but I showed, huh? - You're a journalist. - She said that a lot of the gay members of the gay community, she talked to who already criticized the app for lack of diversity in its marketing and promoting toxic body image standards were already upset. They said, on one hand, I'm flattered that I'm their target audience, one user told her, but the need to essentially bait gay guys in deciding that feels really sketchy, which is true. - Yeah. - But yeah, it's all like the idea of the app or the concept of that is just like premium selection of gay guys, I guess, it's supposed to be not hook up focused, but like when you sign up for the app, you're greeted by a photo of Derek Chadwick like in his underwear. So it's like-- - What's Derek Chadwick look like? - He's like, they're super model, yeah. He's like a tall muscular super model. - What's he known for? - Being hot. - And he started this app. - Yes. - Smart, you must really love money. Have you invested in the app you looked into the app? Have you tried to join? - No, I have not tried to join. - Did you see what it is to like give a little around? - They're making a premium, you have to get approved because it's supposed to be like all hot guys. They've been like, they were already getting flack before because they've been getting like small gay TikTokers that all look the same, like all these twinks basically. It's like, make ads for Goose, but not disclose that they're ads. So it's like, oh, is it true? Derek Chadwick is making a gay dating app and it's all these twinks, like, forcing about it. - I think I'm paid. - They must be getting paid a little bit. Or I think for Darian, when they reached out to him, they made it seem like you can hop on a Zoom with Derek Chadwick as if it's like, you know-- - I hate this so much. - And then it also was getting a lot of flack to you because in the terms and conditions for the app, basically when you join you sign away allegedly, you're right to anything that you upload, like your likeness, your voice, all your photos, like they have the rights to, which-- - What? - And they can, and there's a statement there too, like they can do any, they can basically make AI versions of you based off of what you upload to there, which is like very sauce too. - I think the next investigation should be by the FBI because like, what do you mean you're gonna see on my likeness? Like, you don't own my picture. Be careful on joining me. - It's crazy. - I like the name though, Goose is good. That's used to, we used to be able to call if he grabs someone's butt, you'd say the Goose J. - Oh, so maybe that's where they got her from 'cause the icon isn't even a Goose. - What is it, a buckle? - Two like stick figures holding hands. Kinda abstract. - Skinny's only. - It is very much, no offense, no offense. It's very that. - Is that what people say? - Yeah, I'm great. - Mm-hmm, mm-hmm. - Damn, the fatties really got it bad, huh? - Yeah, 'cause the fatties we have to go to Scruff, and now Scruff is being taken over by like, you know, it's, no shade, 'cause you can never call it a twink a twink 'cause they will get upset. Like, if you call it a twink a twink, they are gonna be in your face about it, 'cause every time I call it a twink a twink, they're like, I'm not a twink. - Who do, who do, who was the last person that got upset with you for saying that? - Probably, maybe my friend. Maybe not a fri from TikTok, you know. - You call them a twink and he hit it. - I call them a twink, he's like, I'm not a twink. I'm not skinny, I am muscle, I'm like, okay, relax, you're still spanky, are they? - Oh yeah, I love fri. - Two twinks get upset if you call them a twink, 'cause they want to be like, muscle, they want to be twunk or whatever. I'm like, relax, it's not a slug. - Yeah. - Coming from a gay person, not a slur. - Right. - Sometimes straight people be using twink in-- - Of course. - In place of the ass slur, and I'm like, I, I know what you're doing, but yeah. Goose's twinks, twinks, I guess, hunks. But-- - Hunks sounds better. - Hunks, yeah, but you have to be beefier, to be at home. - I mean, you can be at home. I mean, you can be at home. - Anyone can be at home. Most of the time, you're at home. - You're at a gay standard. - Oh, wow. - In the gay and the gay label. - Gays lower your standards. - Oh, wow. - There he is. - Wait. - It's not true. - Yeah. - Like, anyone can be a hunk. Everyone needs a chill. - But everyone started migrating to scruff, because they didn't want to be-- #NotLikeTheOtherTwinks, and then they were all in there. So then you had to go to growler. And now-- - Growler's crazy. - Growler was crazy. That was for the big-- the biggies. That was on there. It's a-- - Really? - Yeah. - Yeah. - And now there's one now. I forget what it's called, but it's for eaters. - I love that one, what's it called? - I forgot what it's called. Yeah. - I love that. - One of my unfi is talked about being on it. I forget what it's called, but it's like either you are like a gainer, like for guys who are getting bigger or you want someone to feed. I have no idea. - It should be like the trough or the cookies come to eat. (laughing) - I love that. - I've been embossed. - I'm trying to pierce the trough. - They show that for heterocouples too, because I feel like that is very big in the heterocommunity as like feeders and eaters. I had a lot of, even unknowingly, when I was like younger, there'd be a lot of feeders at a big order of three meals, order that, and I was like, oh, I love this. You know, you just think I can order all this food. I can take it home. I was just, I didn't think of any of it, but I said, wow, they were really like, they were feeders back then. - It's beers. - They just like want you to get bigger and bigger. - I would just like the food, but you know. - I loved it. I just took a home and had it for days, the cheesecake after. That's when I used to live by the cheesecake factory and I was like, oh my god, there was a P.F. Changs there back then. I used to just take like three meals home. P.F. Changs is slowly going away. - I know, it makes me sad. - I love P.F. Changs. - They've been trying with their marketing. Their TikTok has been popping. - I know, I love all the marketing. - Yeah. - They sent me a gift card ones and that, I got, that took me very far. I got so much leverage out of that. - Is it still up at the, Topanga? - Yes, our local P.F. Changs, it's kind of the last remaining, literally like the whole entire strip mall has been demolished and it is the one building. - That's crazy. - So you pull into it and you're surrounded by rubble. Like, no, I'm getting dramatic. - Really? - Take a video when you go home. - I want to see. - 'Cause you literally surrounded by rubble. Like, no joke, 'cause they demolished. It used to be like, you know, it was in the parking lot and then in the same parking lot was the theater and a mall, and they demolished all of that. So, it's just rubble, like where the money is. - It feels very apocalyptic but like, oh look at the P.F. Changs and the rubble. - It is very that, it is very that. - The bar's got turned into a fogoed chow. When we moved to there was a P.F. Changs and I was so excited. I was like, oh my God, we're gonna eat here every single day. I don't know, fogoed chow, it's just so disgusting. And I love me, but like, I do not need like meat plotters just walking around, like serving me meats at every like five minutes. It was like not it. I really wish something else. That's what the air one's gonna be. They're building apartments there. They need like a capital grill. So also in beers coming to cost, hell, basses. - Oh, wow. - So excited. But I guess you're close to the other one too. So also in beer, a Benny Han out here would be great. Like something. - Ah. - The fogoed chow's not it. I hate that that's everywhere. There's a one near you too, right? - Yeah, I don't even know what I mean. I dry past it. I don't know what it is. - It's just meats. It literally is just like meat on a steak like bridesmaids where they get sick, you know? It's just like meats on a steak. - Oh. - And like, they're not bad. It's just like. - Oh, I just get them like it. - You're like sweating meat when you come out though. - Oh, I don't like, yeah. - And I love meat, but that's just-- - I don't like meat like that. - Yeah, you would hate it. You would hate it, for sure. (laughs) But keep the P.F. Chang's alive if you see one go to one. - Did you see the rumor that ice spice and Toby McGuire were making out at a party? - I thought it was pictures. I thought it was real. I thought it was fact. - I thought so too, but then someone from the show, "The Breakfast Club" reached out to ice spices. Rep and they shot down the viral story and said that they were just sharing a vape. - Oh, that's kind of, that's an intimate. - I did see a TikTok of normal people talking about this. How he went on a date with a girl. They went on a double date and he was on a date with the girl and then they went on a double date with her best friend and another guy and she got pissed at him for taking a hit of the girl's vape. And so half the comments were like, yeah, be pissed too. What the fuck? I was like, oh no, she was like overreacting. He thought she was overreacting. She like the more on the text, like that's like a boundary. Like that's weird that you did that, but half the comments were like, no, it's not weird. And the other half was like, yeah, that's like pretty intimate. I think that's intimate to share a vape with someone. If Moses just like told Tana, like, let me hit that vape, I'd be like, what the fuck? That's weird. Like, right? It's kind of like, if Daryan's like, okay, Daryan's like, Jimmy, let me hit that vape. - What's in the vape? Huh? - Well, anything, but your mouth is on the mouse. - No, but I can tell you like maybe the guys like, you know, weed head and he really wants. - A weed head is for me. - Above, I don't know what you call it. - What do you mean? - You were the biggest weed head back in the day. You don't know what they call it. - So by accident, we used to smoke weed. Like, a joint. - I thought that. - But I like weed head. (laughs) - Good, it's a vape. (laughs) But I like that. I can understand if somebody really really wants some, and then like they don't really see that it's a girl. Like, it doesn't matter who it is. There's a vape. They want to hit that vape. - So Joe McGuire had the vape, where I spiced had the vape. - I feel like I spiced. It's probably the one that had the vape. - Okay. - The vape did not clarify who was in possession of the vape. The photos just seemed like they were close face to face. - Yeah, I saw it. - And everyone kind of went with that summary of the, they were caught kissing. But, yeah, when's, Droneless had a breakfast club reached out to her rep. They said they were just sharing a vape. It still looks very close to it. - Yeah. - I guess the equivalent for the non vape was like, the way I connect it in my brain is like sharing a drink. Like, yeah, like sharing a drink or-- - Yeah. - But anyway, I'm like, I don't, I'm not gonna share food or drink with you. I do think that's off-putting. Is that a hot take? I don't know what you're taking on it. It's like, if it's someone, you're like, if it's not my sister or my husband and someone's like, oh, can I have a bite of that? Don't you think I look like weird? Like, if you offer it's one thing. Like, try some. But if someone's like, I'm out to dinner with you, I'm like, can I have a bite of that? I mean, maybe not. Is it weird? I think it's weird. But maybe it's not. - I don't think it's that. I guess it depends. - Are you a trial? Are you a test? I guess they're just different. - See, I am too anxious where I would never ask. Like, even if it looks so good and I would want to try it, but I would kind of drop hints that I want to try it. - Okay. - I'm just like, oh, that looks really good. - So if someone's like, try it. - Yeah. - You'll try it. - Okay, maybe I'm thinking with you, I guess, yeah, I would be like, okay, try it. Like, I had a hot chocolate in London and I was with someone that I'm like, close to, but not super close to. And I felt bad 'cause like, the hot chocolate was like, you know, I only had like a sip 'cause it was so rich. And then we sat there and we were about to leave and it was like an hour later, we were about to leave and he's like, oh, can I try some of that? And I was like, well, I would've offered it to you, I suppose, 'cause when it was hot, 'cause now it's just cold chocolate and that's like not the same. But I'm always kind of shocked, I guess. I guess I don't care. I don't know, I'm trying to think. Maybe just if I like the person or not, 'cause I wouldn't have cared. I would've been like, oh yeah, try it. But I guess I wouldn't think to offer it because, yeah, sharing a hot chocolate, with someone that I don't know that well. I do know, I don't know. But that's also different. I think food is easier 'cause they can use their own fork or whatever. Like, say if I'm having a dessert and I'm like, oh, it's, and like, it is rich. It's easier for me to just like, oh, dip it a little fork versus drink. 'Cause then it's mouth to mouth, right? That's how I-- Yeah, I guess so, 'cause I also think I guess when I got to eat with some people and like, my biggest peppy was like, when someone like, doesn't order food or they're like, you know, like a salad and someone else orders like a burger and fries. I'm like, I'll just have some of yours and then they end up like just eating the person's fries. I know someone, you know who I'm thinking of. I know someone who does that. They're like, I'll just have some of you and they just eat the whole thing. I'm just like, well, just order your own french fries. I don't, they, one or two, I don't know, I hate that so much. But I guess it depends, like you said, it's case by case. Like I would share food with you. But if you don't know me, don't ask if you could share. 'Cause I actually don't want to eat it anymore. I don't know why I'm always just like, well, I don't want to eat that anymore. I don't know you that well. Maybe that is another me thing. I love sharing food with you and Malibu and Malibu and Malibu. So I find a compilation of couples where, let's say it's a birth and girlfriend, they go to order like ice cream. So she orders first and then they get to him like, what do you want? It's like, oh, I'm not going to have any, and then the girl just turned in like the biggest to be trailing the world. You should do that for me, because I do love those compilations. Yeah. It's like, what do you mean? Like, I hate that too. No, we're having some. Oh my God. When people, yeah, like if you're like, we're working at ice cream and then like, yeah, when you say you're not going to have any, be like, or I see ones where you ask if you're like hungry, like, uh, are you hungry? I see ones where I was like, uh, I was like offensive to my girlfriend. She asked if I was hungry. And I said, no, this she took those calling her fat because it's like, yeah, I say I'm hungry. Like, you're going to be hungry too. Like, we're going to eat food together. Like, don't be like, oh, we'll get food for you. I don't like that. No, we have to get it together. Always. Like, would you just go to ice cream with Darian and just like, watching me to ice cream? No. No. No, no, so the only time where it's like, oh, you can like, sometimes what eats like, if we're at the, like the AMC, we leave the movie and then it's at the mall. So we're like, he wants like sushi or something. And I'm like, I don't want that. So I'll just get something else. But we go to different spots in the food court. Yeah. At the same time. That's like the most. Yeah. That's fine. We do that sometimes too. Like, if you want sushi and I want something else. Yeah. But we, yeah, we've never like eaten that separate times. Yeah. I guess we don't either. Yeah. And even that's like, okay, but if you're like going out to eat at a restaurant like P.I.P. Changs and he's not going to get anything. He's like, oh, no. There's no point. That's even going. Yeah. Yeah. Because that's how they are. They're like in an ice cream shop in the girl will get ice cream. Yeah. I guess when you put it that way, like we're going somewhere specific. Yeah. Yeah. Especially ice cream. That's such a specific place. It's like, why would I come here if you didn't want any? You always go. You're always in a line with me if I go and get a job. But you still get one too. And like, most things you like, I like to. Most. You don't like the rookie from Domino's and that bothers me. It's not that I don't like it. You never eat it. I have some food. I'm like once a week. I can't really do after like, I'll eat one half a half a bite of one. I love it though because I'm less cookies, I'm more chocolate and just pure chocolate. But it's a rookie. It's a brownie cookie. Chocolatey. It's a chocolate brownie with a chocolate chip cookie. It's really good. Damn you into a rookie. I like the Domino's one. Actually, but like any rookie to be honest, the Domino's one is so good. I get it like once a week, like every Sunday I get it as like a little surprise for me and the girls, it's so good. - It's a surprise to you. - To the girls. (laughing) - Oh my goodness, that's a surprise. And now Malbu knows. Malbu knows it's the Brookie. She's like, "That's the Brookie." I was like, "Yeah, that's so good." - The last thing I had it in my, I feel like you're not gonna reveal it, but I watched Spinel Sash's video about Brands Safe, where Tana said that influencer refused to put her on the PR list, and then was an Alex Earl. But I really wanna know who it is. - Oh, I don't even know if I know this. What was the law? I really don't. - I feel like I'm gonna tell you, you can believe it out. - I was told there was an influencer brand, but the influencer refused to put her on the PR list, or give her any product, and people thought it was Alex Earl. And so once she posted it, she had to go on TikTok and be like, "You guys, it's not Alex Earl," and whatever her athlete's like, "What is it called?" Alex, what is it called? What is it called? - It's like real active. - Yeah. - She said it wasn't real active. But now Malbu, the hell was it? - I don't think I know. I think she did tell us to run out of love light, or was it my episode of Brands Safe? - Your episode of Brands Safe. - Yes. I don't think she ended up telling me after, 'cause I think she was like, "I'm gonna tell you after," I would tell you and then bleep it out. But like, she said all her friends in the house got it, right? All the guy, they got all the PR, but it wasn't her and Dan. I'm not really trying to think who that is. I'll have to ask her. I get to ask her and get the tea. What did Spill Sush say about it? - Just that, she rebuked that it was Alex Earl that was shading her. - That's so funny. It's funny that Alex Earl was the first one she thought of. - I think people automatically thought Alex was wrong. - Oh, why? - Tana had to make a TikTok saying, "It's not Alex Earl, you guys." - And they just all assumed that. I wonder why they assumed that though. I don't even, I don't even correlate them together. - I don't think Alex Earl kind of be feeding with everybody. She's feeding with Nina Dobrev right now. - Why? - Allegedly over Braxton, her ex-boyfriends. I watched one TikTok on this and I was like, pretty uninterested. No shade to the rolls and whatever the show was called, but they just again kind of give like, on the season to me and like, they kind of bore me. - I like Alex Earl, the show sounds awful. Especially when it's like a dad manager, no, sign me out, sign me out. 'Cause it's always like, my dad's negotiating this, my dad did this. I was like, I don't like it. It's like giving demiliality to the dad's, yeah. - I don't even say, yeah, yeah. - Or, I just didn't raise dad or. - I'm like, I don't know. The drama just seems like kind of boring to me. - We're gonna finally figure out about the Alex Super drama like a year later. The cure doesn't be addressed yet. - I'm already like, I'm already over it. I'm more intrigued by the workers. Like, you know, the workers having their complaints against. - All right, new documentary. - Yeah, that's kind of the tea that I'm intrigued by. But, yeah, people thought Alex Earl, and then, yeah, I suppose just talking about her, not working with Jordan anymore. And then I forgot that you worked with Jordan at 1.2. - Yes. - That was lower than I completely thought. - I kind of went through all of Tana's managers. I think I had another one too that she used. And I was like, oh, Tana's doing so well. I'm gonna, they never did well for me. I, every manager I had flopped. It was never, got me nothing. Literally nothing, cost me money. - I did a tour once with Jordan and it cost me money, so. I'm having to pay. - I only remember meeting, no, I feel like when I did a show. I definitely remember him coming with Tana when I interviewed her at Axis Hollywood, again, right before Tana came in. And he was very excited for Tana Con. He was like, you guys need to come out. Like, we'll get you there. You can cover it. Yeah, he was like, Adam, and that we could be the ones to cover Tana Con and be like the exclusive outlet. But then we didn't hear back. And again, seeing everything unfold after it made sense. - Just not organized. - Yeah, yeah. - That's the next big horror movie. A24, get on it, bloom house. - T, it really needs to get on that. That's why when you said the Just Trish Crews and we got a hint, I was getting hit by the iceberg, I was like, it does, I guess it would at least the silver lining Tana Con would be the second worst influencer disaster. - What's the worst, Just Trish Crews? If we had the techniques, well, we definitely can't do it. We're gonna manifest a good event for our followers and listeners. But Tana Con will always go down to his dream. Much like the Titanic, that literally went down. No one died, there's a couple sunburns. - Oh, I turned it gone. - Yes. - Yeah, from sunburns. - All the teas. - Now it's weird sunburns are like chic now. And I don't know how this happened. - Day Portnoy. - Is it out of it? - Is it out of it? - Yeah. - I don't know if anyone's dying to look like Day Portnoy, but there's like a filters in like the app I used for like filtering photos. Like there's a sunburn setting. - Oh, okay. - And prequel, like you can like make it look like you have a sunburn. - You know what? - That's so weird. - That's been popular for a while. When I first met Moses during quarantine, I used to do my makeup sunburn. I used to do like pink here and freckles. And it was supposed to like give you a sunburn look. - I feel like that's kind of the idea - A little bronzer. - It has an everything too. But it is, it's so weird to see like, I'm assuming it's an AI like a factor and some things to make it blushy, but I mean, sunburn-y. But it's so specific. Also, but it's not even just the face. It's like. - Oh, the tan lines. - Yes. - Oh, I do not like that. I do not like tan lines there. - It's so weird. - The trends, what comes around. The side parts are coming back. Cringes is coming back. And sunburns apparently. That's good. It's sunny out. So you can go get it this weekend. - Well, where are your sunscreen though? - Yeah, oh yeah. I'm a hot visor under the umbrella. Kinda curly. Sun is scary. - Well, you guys, the hot topics are hot. With the sunscreen all, happy Halloween. I wonder what are we gonna be this year? - We have to lock in. I got invited to a Halloween party. I forgot to say that. - I gotta go. - There's a Jake Webber's. - Jake Webber's. - But he should start inviting people earlier 'cause he only did like three days. - A little prepare. - Yeah, yeah. And we have to go in hot. Like I can't be, I can't be flopping this Halloween. - Like you wanna be a sexy something. - I just wanna have like a fierce, like a gaggy costume, like impressive almost. You know, like, oh, how'd you think of that? That's just a good quality costume, I know. - It's hard 'cause it's like, you love obsession, but like, how are you gonna go with that? - Yeah, yeah, especially bearer is kind of boring. Like, girls are definitely gonna be nicky. She's easier. - But like, how? She's just-- - She's gonna be bloody and like wear a tank top, I guess, and that I'm sure it's tough. - Yeah, there's no like, topical movie to be. That's pink. Like, there's nobody in pink in a movie. Not yet. Maybe there will be one. We good was so good 'cause she was always pink. - Oh, yeah. - We'll think of one. Mario was last year. And the Princess Peach, I see that one all the time. - You can be a super girl. - She's not pink. - No, but how is that? - Oh, in real life, I have ours figured out. We figured it out yesterday as pressing Moses. He keeps switching his and our family costume. We're doing a Peter Pan family costume. We keep switching which character he wants to be in. - Oh, he keeps switching, I just said I didn't want to be the old one with the belly. - But that's the one you did want to be. 'Cause that was gonna be comfortable. So I was like, okay, I'm gonna get you this me costume. - And then you're sure you're gonna be Captain Hook. I thought you didn't want to be Captain Hook. And I was gonna be Captain Hook. So now I'm like, well, we gotta lock this down, but I show 'em one, that's me with his belly out. And he's like, I don't wanna be that. And I was like, well, you don't have to have belly out 'cause you have your striped shirt. So that's why I was like, you switched it. - Well, I think I was, I think you were trying to sell me on being that 'cause it's comfortable. - No, I don't want you to be Captain Hook. It makes sense, you'll be Captain Hook. You're the guy, you're dark hair. Like, you have the features of a pirate. I would have been so good for you, but you were against it, so I thought, okay, you don't wanna be the stereo type, okay, so you can be me. - No, I mean, why am I Captain Hook? - I don't mind being Captain Hook. 'Cause obviously the kids have to be Peter and Wendy and Tika Balik. I'm not gonna take that away from them. So what's left is the crocodile, Tiger Lily. Obviously, can't be that, or Captain Hook. So I was like, well, or it could be, I guess, like a John or Michael or those people at the top hats, but I'm down to be me. I'm down. I just wanna make sure we are locking in on that, that you are gonna be Captain Hook. You're gonna go through with the sensory of the collar and the wig and the hat. - You see she's doing it. - And the hook. - Gender to turn me. - No, I won't. I mean, if you think Peter Pan, and whose mom is gonna be, what'd you think Captain Hook? - Yes. - That's where I was. - I saw being Captain Hook. - Yeah, I think that's the perfect one, but you were adamant not to be him. You're like, I do not wanna be Captain Hook. I was like, oh, hey, damn, I'm like, I thought that was like a trigger for you. So I was like, let's not have Captain Hook. - A trigger. - When was it? - I don't remember. - I was just me, and I was like, all right, whatever, all right, I'll be, I'll be just me. Anyways. I love you. What do you think I got a couple's costume too? I'll have to figure out a couple's costume this year. And then we'll figure out our group one here. - Yeah. - Oh, you could be good. I mean, there's a lot of characters in that, to be like a mushroom or something. You know, I mean, I'm pretty much a speech, of course, but Jimmy could be in his little shorts and be a little gay mushroom, I guess. Right? Little shorts, right? Can we say that? - I don't know what we can say anymore, but I love, I love all the gays, closet it or not. Shout out to all the people who are gays in past lives, really Bobby Brown, you, me, Moses has the pulling against. And I love you guys. Thanks for being here. We'll see you in a couple days to celebrate July 9th. I don't know. I got late. I think this wig is in my crush on my head a little too. Okay. But we're going to go to the Patreon. I have so many hot topics to share. You would it is. I don't have any water or any drink. I think this whole episode I was like, I just realized it right now. No, it's fine. I think that's what it was. Okay. Bye.

Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. The host, Khaleesi (a playful alias), shares personal anecdotes about surviving a whale swallowing (a fictional or humorous reference), highlighting her passion for unusual stories.
  2. Halloween is a major theme, with excitement around decorations, themed events, and the upcoming "summer ween" celebration.
  3. The conversation touches on summer vacation experiences, contrasting modern ease with past childhood trips to wildlife parks, especially in San Diego.
  4. A detailed discussion of Taylor Swift’s wedding, including massive scale, media reactions, and criticism over extravagance and exclusivity.
  5. The host reflects on personal mental health, particularly OCD, and promotes noCD as a treatment provider for effective, evidence-based therapy.
  6. A satirical take on celebrity relationships, including the rumored return of Carly Claus to Taylor Swift’s wedding and the cringe-worthy dynamics of millennial-era fan culture.
  7. The episode blends humor, personal reflection, and social commentary, with mentions of music, concerts, and fandom culture.
  8. A sponsorship segment promotes Seeky for concert tickets, emphasizing deals and user experience.

Summary:

Khaleesi shares a lighthearted yet insightful reflection on life, fandom, and personal experiences. She opens with a humorous, fictional story about surviving a whale swallowing, setting a tone of playful exaggeration. The conversation shifts to Halloween excitement, summer vacation memories, and the joy of family-oriented events like a full Halloween tree setup.

She reflects on childhood trips to animal parks in San Diego, contrasting them with today’s more structured vacations. A central focus is Taylor Swift’s wedding, where she discusses its scale, public reaction, and criticism over extravagance, while noting the emotional toll and media frenzy. She also opens up about mental health, particularly OCD, and highlights noCD as a trusted, evidence-based treatment option.

The episode includes humorous anecdotes about celebrity relationships, such as Carly Claus attending the wedding, and the cringe of millennial-era fan culture. It concludes with a promotional segment on Seeky for concert tickets, emphasizing deals and ease of access. Throughout, the tone balances humor, personal vulnerability, and cultural observation, making it both engaging and relatable to audiences who share a love for pop culture and deep personal connection to celebrities.

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The speaker uses the idea of surviving a whale swallowing as a humorous and exaggerated anecdote to highlight how extraordinary survival stories are often overlooked or under-discussed, emphasizing the need for more people to talk about remarkable experiences.

The term 'summer ween' is a playful, informal way of referring to Halloween during the summer, blending 'summer' with 'Halloween' or 'ween' (a slang term for Halloween), reflecting a festive and spontaneous spirit of celebration.

The speaker recalls her childhood summer vacations involving trips to places like San Diego to see dolphins and wildlife, contrasting them with today’s reality where vacations are often stressful and expensive, especially with kids and packed schedules.

She prefers the Wild Animal Park because it feels more open and adventurous, with animals running freely, while the zoo is more structured and ethical, especially in its support of endangered species.

She notes that many people earn paid vacation days that accumulate monthly, which can feel generous, but she also points out that benefits vary widely, with some jobs offering little to no paid leave, and that health care costs are a major issue in the U.S. workforce.

She discusses the controversy and criticism of Taylor Swift’s wedding, including accusations of extravagance and lack of taste, but argues that much of the criticism is exaggerated and that the event was well-organized and generous, especially in charitable donations.

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