Tana Accused of Shoe Theft & Taylor Frankie Paul Needs to Log Off | Just Trish Ep. 296

I'm taking a shortcut and be like I'm hopping out of this car like I'm gonna take my chances It's almost like second locations or the thing. It's like I'd rather survive jumping out of a car and survive the second location I don't think he's kidnapping you. I don't think he'll be turning on Google maps Then you're like what relopsers that way like you know, but I will see you guys if he was the total opposite direction Then maybe I would have a little depressing the turn. You're gonna just go past it. So we're gonna turn around some point I Hello, and welcome to the just Trish podcast. I am summer weaning it up today I went out got in and out in a pumpkin onesie. That was so much fun And I'm in a peak skeleton shirt for our audio listeners because it's summer wean. It's also Trish mists right now Trish mists tickets are on sale. Well, technically they're on sale Friday. Do the artist pre sale and I'm not sure But on Tuesday we had an artist pre sale for just Trish It might still be going if not you can get your tickets tomorrow, which is Friday, July What's today shall I 24 on Friday? Yes, Friday, July 24th that you can still get tickets to Trish mists and Florida You better come out because I've never come to Florida. I don't know if I'll be back Maybe I will I'm gonna manifest a really fun Florida trip I'm gonna get all the oranges no gators except if it's Caligator and I'm really excited and you guys are really excited because the pre sale happened on Tuesday and all my floor Radiance were like I'm showing up even the East Coast people are usually like New Jersey They're coming to New Jersey and they're also like I'm also gonna go to Florida support People are really excited about being in St. Petersburg. I've heard of St. Petersburg for them. I have but I've never been Yeah, never in my life and we're from the Midwest and they love a floor trip in the Midwest They do go to Orlando or Tampa for a lot of deal Miami Well, I'm going to St. Petersburg. I'm going. I think Jacksonville. I'm going Orlando and Florida. So I'm going everywhere and well those four cities and get your tickets today They'll be there December 3rd, 4th, 5th, 6th and then I go tonight anchor falls and Atlantic City, which are my two casino shows and I love a casino show. I love my casino show Oh, just casino. They already were like hey, they already posted. They love it. I love them It's everything made up I think a casino residency somewhere. I'll do it in Niagara Falls I'll do it in Connecticut. I'll do it in Vegas. I'll do it anywhere cuz I love casinos They're nice and cool because it's frickin hot and this is art feels like a casino here dance like nice and cool You get so many food options. It's just like everything's in one place You don't know what time it is you can just sleep and have no guilt about it You can eat and have no guilt about it's great because you know, it's our just the best place ever So come see me Trish miss 2026 and also pre-order crying on the kitchen floor my memoir I got my advanced reader copy. I'm very excited about it. I'm recording the audio book this next week Which I'm very excited about and I'm filming lots of content around there And there's a lot of special perks to the audiobook. I might be doing a little ASMR tease I might be doing a little speed reading. I might be doing you know a little ad-libs here there And then for my UK readers I might even have tavern Trish come by and do it until Reading my publishers idea and I was like, you know what? I'll do it not the whole book But there'll be like little tidbits in there. So get the audiobook as well because I'm very excited to start recording that I've been signing copies of so many copies of the book. So it's all really fun and wonderful go to patreon.com/trishris for bonus episodes Today we have a bonus episode with our guest co-host my sister. Cal it would you look beautiful. I Don't know we were stunning today. I don't know summer. We and I'm just summer over here So that's my bad. It was my bad. You know, I'm summer wean every day over here. We are summer weaning it up The Halloween trees and the for you. So what I want that. I did see that when I was like, oh, okay I know it looks a little like a dead cat right now But it's gonna be beautiful It was the store display. I was like, why did you get a store display? I'm like it was the only one left It's a whole thing, but you look as it broke me Michelle or you kind of also look like Catherine Haigle Both the looks and I was going Oh my god, you're giving thank you. She'll have like the white I think they had a cherry dress. I think Michelle did and Then you have a high go have that hair with the clip in which a pot of star But also, I was like kind of looking at myself and like why is this kind of giving Jennifer Coolidge a little too? Okay, I mean we loved Jennifer Coolidge. Yeah, I love it. It is giving maybe I'm trying to think what movie I don't know like maybe I don't know at the Roxbury. She was a cop though, but I don't remember what she wore at the end She was when she was young. She had this like look at something. It is giving me Oh kind of like um, I think best in show Was she in that? Yes, she was Seen it all the way through. I remember like Catherine Haira's in it and yeah I should watch it. Maybe something like that. You have Burkin's Docs on it with socks and so does Moses and I think this is a I should do a little B right on my phone I should a little B roll for my view right now. I walk in and she goes you look like your dad and then Moses goes what's wrong with Burkin's socks and we look over I'm like, okay, he got the memo. That was crazy I've never seen you with Burkin's socks and socks, but my sister's Danditoriously always wore socks and Burkin's socks and maybe it's not a weird thing Maybe maybe my mom just thought it was weird because I remember just being like okay love it I mean it's not weird. It's a little weird for summer because it is like a hundred degrees But well like my toes get cold, but I want the convenience of sliding something on you know feels cleanlier. Yeah We're gonna plane tonight as I should probably pack some socks. I like you should try it the Burkin's socks and socks Yeah, because then you can slip them off and just call it the Burkin socks. Okay, well Like blood blends yoga shoe socks. Those were horrible though because it's like it's kind of hard to get your whole foot in a sock It's easy to just slide sock on in the shoe, but maybe maybe go on Shark-Tank Pitch it. No, I'm just saying that's how we should call Burkin's socks. That's how we should call it. I like it. You look just so cute. I can't make it over. I know I feel like I'm always like rushing to get over here and I'm like half done, but wow This is like I was like full glam today. I was getting full glam today And I don't know why you know like days. It's so funny. Like I like lose weight every single day when I have a single day But I'm like, you know, I'm like on my health journey. I'm like really taking it seriously yesterday. I felt like I had a really good day I think it was a morning. So I'll just wake up and you're just like I still feel bloated So I'm like I'm just gonna wear a t-shirt and and it's like my period is ended. So it's not that it's Everything is interacting. I still have the hemorrhid situation going on. It's it's off, but it's the recovery So it's like the gods is still up there got me cis removed. Oh my gosh. Oh my gosh. It was rip the black head. Oh, yeah Well that that literally okay, so trigger warning pimple popping which I think is so disgusting and it's so disgusting But if you're into it watch if not skip ahead to I'm into it You're into it. That's why I was like, okay, I'm saving I saved the hemorrhid talk for you and V. I am so honored. I love to talk about that. I know I was like I have to give you a bit. So what's underneath the band-aid? She literally like cut it. I wanted to know just so kind of so she she I was so painful I don't know. Did I show you the picture of it yesterday? You didn't show me the actual picture. You saw it last week I guess yes, and then yesterday it was like like so unbelievably painful I couldn't even sleep like if I just like bumped it on something just lifting it. I was like this is so painful It was so weird, but I had gone like a year ago and she had told me it was just like a cyst underneath and it was like Yeah, this like black head, but like weirdly when I went a year ago She was like not concerned about this not not concerned, but she's like oh the cyst You could just like take out if you want but it's like not really anything and then the black head though I was surprised like she don't want to like pop that black head last year But that's when like was it even poppable was even a black head like why wouldn't it definitely was a dilated poor because it was always coming back And you have one on your back, but that was that one's not that one's but it was but was not possible the arm one You could do it a little bit out, but it was so days I guess it was just so deep I guess, but yeah, you think she would have been I mean I love my dermatologist and I love my Proctologist I love love them so much most came with the Proctologist with me and he's such a cool guy And then he like called me on like a Saturday. I was like how's the hemorrhide like great I said I actually had a bowel movement the night the first night. He's like wow. That's great. Yeah, he's like that never happens That's you're an A+ hemorrhide recover. I was like thank you. I was yeah I was very weird and then I love my doctor here too of my dermatologist at my age just so weird like doctors Just seemed like they should be older and then I'm older and we always have this conversation Yeah, I guess I'm an older person, but I'm like and she quit the same age and I was and she looks really young She looks really young and she was cool and she's great She reminds me of you where she's just like ah we're gonna get this little guy get out here Come out here. She's the way she talks about it is so crazy And she was so so funny and then I was like just telling her I was like oh my god I think this is like more painful because that's me a baby I was like I think this is more painful than my C section Could you imagine me as your guy? I don't just be like get out of here a little sucker. I was like yeah, she was We're gonna pop that baby in you Literally she said that she's like you're in a birth this is tonight. I was like oh my god because I was like I'm so in so much pain. I feel like I kept saying the child birthing and she said I was like such a baby They even like laid me down and put me on my side because I'm like I think I'm gonna pass out They didn't numb me in the numbing even her there was like seven shots of numbing that I have to do it all around No, I must have and I must have like been in there into the I guess assistant is like a bass pimple underneath I don't know what it is, but it was huge and it felt like it was just like stinging like shooting shots of like Stinger in there and I was like cry, I was like I don't know why this is so painful Like I literally had like three epidural painful epidurals that were missed and C sections and I just had my hemorrhage removed and I was talking to Jeff yet last night And he's just like you know, you're the kind of friend that you can never blackmail with information because you just like He's like You're just like yeah, my hammer got out. It's still bleeding. It's like like well I was like this was breaking news. I open it and it's like in news is reporting on your hammer. No, not the butt doctor Whiz butt doctor Triapeta celebrates butt doctor removing in her bolder hemorrhoid with luxury gift herself. - What a headline is that? Was this recent or was it, what happened on Friday? - I haven't seen it 'cause I get Googlers for myself. - That's so funny. - It wasn't a bolder. - Did I say bolder? - I don't know, it was pretty big. - I know as you talk so fast. - 'Cause then the second slide is your Tick talk about it. - Okay, that is so funny. - Sometimes what? - Sometimes you talk so fast, I don't even think that you remember what you say. - That's true, and I also, I did take a pain pill after, 'cause I was so scared of feeling pain, which honestly, I should have even pain pill for this, because I'm not into antibiotics now for this. I'm just always on something now. But I didn't want to take a pain pill, but I was like, let me just take one, 'cause I'm scared to feel the pain, 'cause I wasn't feeling anything. So I think when I made that Tick talk, you were in the mall, you were getting lots of spruzzles and my shoes, and I was just like bored until I was like, I'm gonna make a Tick talk, and I don't really remember what I said, which is why I don't take pain pills, 'cause I literally wanted them out. So, yeah, the hemorrhoid was crazy. But that was great, though, that was a good experience, so all of them were great experiences. Doctors are amazing. - Do you have to ever get a colonoscopy, like, as soon as I was trying to sell me on a colonoscopy, in tandem with my hemorrhoid removal? He's like, well, you would have been out. That's what he said. He's like, then you're out, and then you don't have to think about it, but I was just like, maybe when I'm like 40, I know he should. I don't have a history of colonoscopy. I get my boobs because of my grandma, my dad's side, and my mom both have breast cancer, so I get my boobs squished. - I love everybody at one point how sick it is. - They do, but maybe the four, I guess get it whenever. I might be on the lowly on side. It's like a face left. It's like maybe my four to each get it. Maybe I could do a double face left in colonoscopy in my four days. - I don't think that's how that works. - They just pull it from back there. - Okay, my God, that'd be tight. - That would be very tight, tight, tight, tight, everything. Oh my gosh, most of the time when it was happening too, I was like leaned over like a wedge. - Oh my God. - Did they put you out? - No, no, no. - It's topical. - It's just, I mean, it's-- - They numb it. - It's actually less serious than what they did on your hand. - Well, I feel that. I think this is the most-- - 'Cause when you went to-- - She was just going to get the antibiotics. That's what I knew. I didn't know that we're going to actually open your arm and take that out. - Oh yeah, she sliced it with a scalpel. - I would've gone with you if I knew that. - I actually didn't either, 'cause it was like the very last appointment they closed at five, it was like 4.45 and they're like, well, but I can't remove it because if it's infected, like it's dangerous, so she'll probably give you like a medicine or they said a shot. And I was like, I don't know. One gave me five thousand shots. And yes, she was like, oh, we gotta get that baby out. And I was like, okay, yeah, 'cause her reaction was, this is bad, I was in pain. I'm flying tonight, I'm going for 17 hours to Atlanta and I was like, okay, I'm gonna be on like a red eye flight. I don't wanna be in pain. It is a relief today, but oh my God, yesterday, so she scabbled it. As soon as she scabbled, she had goggles, like flings in her eyes, so she's like-- - Oh my God, scabbled. - She's like, oh, just like when he's like chopping that guy and the blood's like splattering up, it's like that. And then, as when she goes in, and I couldn't feel the scalpel, obviously. And she's like, can you feel, can you feel it? It's very C-section vibes and I'm like, no, I can't feel it. But obviously to push it, she does the pressure. How are you, who is you? Love it. I would love you. - I'm kind of like having formal that I didn't go with you. - Oh, I know. I was like, how are you not setting up a video for this because they're reactions to it where that's if it happened for the first time. They go, whoa, did you see that one? And we as, then she did, then she did the one where she was like, push it out. And it just spilt, once again. - No way. - Americans go splattered on the wall, white shooting out, blood on the, I was like, what the hell's happening? So crazy, I was checking out a little gunk on your shirt, whatever. And then towards the end when she was really getting it out, which thanks to your zip popping, because I guess we should put trigger warning at some point of this, because it's like, - Oh, she's gonna say, yeah. - Yeah, the end of your thing. Jimmy put some trigger warning at the beginning. - Yeah, put trigger warning at the beginning. Okay, I'll say a trigger warning now and Jimmy could put it at the beginning. Okay, trigger warning, but you gave me practice because she was really trying to get the last of it out. And I'm telling you, we were squeezing and pulling and stuff for probably like 30 minutes. She tried to get the last of it. Just a little, I can't get it out whenever I'm like, I'm like, do you want to push against you? Cause that's what I do for my sister, like I resist back. - And as soon as it happened, it came out like so well. - Yeah, she loved it. She said, yes, do that. So I pushed against her and it was have really crazy experience in the assistant that was in there too. Everyone was just like, this is wild, this is crazy. And yeah, by the end, I think at some point, cause it was so painful at some point, I literally like, I just, I think I just became numb to the pain. Like, I was just like, laughing at that point. I'm like, I don't know what's happening, but my arm is going to be so bruised and so. But I think we got it out. Honestly, the incision this morning when I went to go shower and change my bandages, like wasn't as bad as it, it felt like they like, erupt my arm out. Like, you know what I mean? It felt like so. And it felt like a little stingy too. Cause they put the patch on and it felt stingy and I was like, really worked. But there was anything, it's, it's pustin for about a week. It is going to pass for a leak for about a week. But I know, nice. I know everyone wanted to, Tan, I wanted to pop it. She was like, I want to pop it. But I don't want to hurt you. And I was like, my sister tried. Yeah. I think that's how I got the cysts, not to blame you. But I think that's how I got it. I got it a little blamed, but that's fine. I remember when you were trying to do it that day with all your tools. And I had to have faith in you cause you get all of them. But I think that is where the cyst started. It was when the push, but that happens. Sorry. But you know what I like about now. It was mine. It wasn't your fault. It was like, but that's yes. Well, I was googling. I say that to say where do you just come from and sometimes it can be from pressure or that kind of stuff. So it's not gone. I have to go back in a month to get the cyst removed. So they just hopped it and raised it. Cause it was the infection around the cyst. Yeah. So I was supposed to get the removal next week. I'll come with it. Well, I don't think it's as exciting because they're not going to pop it. Yes. Oh, they don't mean. Oh, yeah. Like, who's she? Uh, she's here for my observation. More support. More. More. I got to see. I guess it was. I was going to watch my hem right here removed. It's music. I'm. I'm. You're talking about work or retrograde. And how everything is happening. And I feel like mine. I was like not feeling it because like, Tanna was feeling it. You were feeling it. All this stuff was happening. And I was like, I was really feeling it. And I was like, maybe all this stuff like extracting out of me. It was just like, okay. My hemorrhage is coming out this. I does feel. I'm talking about energy. I just feel like an energy is is taken out of me looking a good way. Like some sort of like negative energy is coming out of the cyst out of the thing. Cause they're so ugly. Right? Hemorrhage, ugly and sister ugly. And I just feel like, ooh, something ugly was taken out of me. That's good. That's a good way to think about it. Yeah. But the hemorrhage removed before you're 17 hour flight or not 17 hour flight. Your. Big 17 hour flight. Yeah. Big 17 hour trip. Yes. Exactly. Same. That was also very painful. It was also something I was avoiding. And a lot of comments on my TikTok were like, you're inspiring me to get it off. Cause a lot of people have them and they don't remove it. Yes. And it's like, yeah, you'll have to remove it unless it's bothering you. It's what they say. Unless it's bothering you. And mine was just kind of, it was just enough to bother me. It was just like knowing it's there. You just feel like you feel ugly. I felt later after I got it off. I didn't feel, I felt like I had like a literal tail like every time you wipe a shave, you feel it. You're just like, what the hell is this thing? So I feel much lighter. I just, you just, you know, self care is going to the doctor and the dentist. I felt better after I got my teeth fixed. I got it. It's like a miracle thing. And the recovery from the hemorrhage was easier than the uncomfort you had from it on a daily basis. Yes. That's true. Like how did they do it? Well, this one was external. So they just, they literally just cut it off. They give you a shot. Both of these things gave me a shot of numb numbness because I always thought that they did like a rubber band method. Like they put a rubber band and it would just fall off. I swear. They raised that method. Okay. Yeah. I thought it was crazy. That existed. I think, I think the difference was she had a blood vessel in there. That's the difference. Oh, maybe that was it. Yeah, because he said that. At least someone was singing your doctor's appointments. I know. I was watching like a hawk and everything. Okay. Whoa. Hang on now. No, I was on the side of you. So I didn't see the event, but I was watching the doctor. I'm like. Okay. Okay. Okay. The doctor was cool. You like the doctor. The doctor is very. I love him so much. Very cool. He kind of look. I guess I can say it doesn't matter. I'm like, what? He kind of looks like wolf. It feels like an SNL skit because he looks like wolf arrow, like just like wolf arrow. And he like a pathologist. So he's a doctor, right? Like he went to school. But it's kind of spiritual hippie. He kind of has like evil eyes and stuff like that. You're kind of like those two things you don't make. So it's kind of funny. What are they going to find that? They're going to Google all of that and then it's pictures and just pop up. No, he's probably his thing. Can I say? Right. He didn't say he has to blogger, like a mommy blogger. He's like, oh, if you want to like talk about it, she goes, I can't talk about my hemorrhage. There's something like that. Yeah, something. And that's like part of life. I know. I would say it would give a shout out. More people don't talk about it. I don't want people to swarm too hard. I don't know because it's like, what if I go back there? I guess it's fine. First of all, he was great. Ten out of ten did his job. And he was super nice and super accommodating. And he loves his job. He's got little poop things everywhere in his stuff. He got little butt things. He got rose water. He's like, I really think that rose water is really good for your. Really? I guess I guess. I don't know. That's good to know. Let me take some of that. He has like, guess how much poop is in the jar. So it's like little chocolates in there. He's got flashlights. To look at your butt, he gave me people. Oh, okay. Yeah, I was just. Oh, I'm excited. He got little butt lights. So on a key chain, everyone can take one and be like, you can look at your butt with that. It's so cute. And he has like a bubble head of himself in there. And then he's got like, what's a fart book in there? It's so funny how like, you just decide to go in which one, like, which practice. Like, he's so passionate about butts and poop and whatever. And he's been doing it for so long. And can I tell you your story or no? What is my story? Just the fact that you had a hemorrhage removed once. So mine was like many, many years ago. And I just described to him what my doctor looked like. And he immediately knew who he was. His name and everything. Well, the most like, oh, I went somewhere like a long time ago in Beverly Hills. He's like, oh, what's the doctor's name? I don't know, I don't remember. And then he's like, but he was really big. He was like a giant, like really big, you know? And he's like, oh, I'm sure it wasn't Santa Monica. And then most like, actually maybe. And then he said the name. Oh, yeah, that's the one. The key news. Yeah, I worked with it. Did you want for good? When you look at the doctor. And that's what was nice. your doctor like mine was like intimidating your he's looking up and like like it feels like an SNL skit it feels lighter it must be like this is not happening yeah yeah that's like the all that this is real right now it was funny he is a funny guy I like I like to have my my dermatologist I really like all my doctors I loved my OB like he's so funny yeah they're all doctors are just funny your doctors are so serious like era not even like getting healthier but like even taking care of like everything your body oh my god everything you're but you're thank you so much a time for sponsor days episode of Just Trish are you tired of ridiculous fees at your bank are you winning your paycheck early well finally there's a bank on your side and that's time I know for me personally I overdrafted a lot when I was in my 20s this would have been so helpful for me in my 20s and everything overdrafted I got a $35 fee and then you overdraft a little again you don't even know 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so good you know how they are you gonna do like a fat transfer are you just gonna do nothing or that's a good question have you been like thought about that well I've only gone to one concentration and they had suggested putting a small airplane which I really don't want to do I'm gonna defeat the purpose of an ex-plant yes and then fat transfers I like the idea but if I like want to continue losing weight it's gonna like just deflate my boobs again um I don't know maybe a limp some people have said a lift not doctors but people I talked to were saying they got the lift I want to say bunny exo got the ex-plant but I think she got a little implant book back in after I think originally she was trying to go on natural and then I think she might have gotten a little because it's hard when you're like young I don't know I'm trying not to be like vain or superficial about boobs and it's like when you're young you're kind of like oh I so I'm like look good and like a top and my boobs as you know are already like flap jacks they've been flap jacks since I was like literally a child like I literally had a de-cup and a be-cup and they were floppy and floppy and they've always went down and just like I've had through two lifts and they're just not good anyways and um you've had traumatic experiences with your breasts my boobs are just there I just remember taking care of you one day and I'm just like I felt so bad like your one scar was your one incision was just like split open I'm like I don't think that's how it's supposed to look oh my god that's so crazy to have that so when I was going over legal for my book they literally were like do you have anyone that can testify that your room was split open after that trip to Palm Beach I bring you I fed you mashed potatoes and bad yes and I was like well my doctor he was like in New York obviously he called in antibiotics as we infected and obviously like my mom and sister were training my dressings and they saw it and it was right when I came back from that trip so like that's that's it there's proof of that but it's so funny so that cuz I was like yeah actually I do have proof all there I go yeah it was yeah that was infected everything was affected so I'm trying to get them out I don't know and maybe I'll try and get them out and see if I like it and then if I don't maybe I get another implant pretending I don't know I'm like trying not to I guess a fresher implant is better than an old-ass implant I don't know but maybe fat transfer or maybe just let it out until I lose the weight I want to lose and then get a fat transfer yeah I kind of don't want to wait cuz we had talked about like maybe waiting till like you know you get down to your like your goal weight then you can like tell me talking all stuff like that but I kind of don't want to wait cuz I'm just like yeah they feel heavy and when I work out it hurts like all that you're back my back and just just the boobs in general they're still like they're going to wear you said like oh you want to look good in a top like I sometimes I don't feel good in a top I want to wear cute flowy things and it looks like I'm just like attend some time oh interesting wait why cuz like my boobs are pushing out they're like oh well yeah I would get small ass ones if I did but that's why I guess I should look to see how my boobs are with a lift or something after cuz cuz I mean I love mine when I first got them done but then I gained weight and now I'm losing weight so now they're like but do you feel I felt I don't feel sick I don't feel like any type of boy like that mine are like older I also feel like in photoshoot I did one for Trish Miss where I'm in like a sexy scantan I'm like when you're so snatched but then I just have this like big old cow at her is and I'm just like oh I don't like the way they look but I don't like the way they feel I'm gonna get about this year's at some point maybe around Christmas I'm trying to get more on Christmas cuz that's the time I have a break but yeah I'm going to all the doctors I feel like I have another doctor appointment for something else good for my health and I can't remember maybe got the malasma root I got a chemical peel you got a chemical peel yeah I'm getting a laser next week I got fire skin looks so good thank you all I need to do that too I just got Botox today with your makeup on now I'm so busy this morning I went to the post office I went to go get like a light spray tan wait would it after I once go get Botox and then I came home oh my god I'm ready for this then I had to try and take some notes for the podcast yeah so would you get the spray tan for just to feel good um I'm going on a trip exciting I know I'm so excited oh my gosh that's exciting but yeah I was like I feel great I know it takes like two weeks to like fully kick in I'm like I feel frozen already oh I love going to I loved going like right away and just feeling it just be like I got it done and I don't get it that often I get it maybe once a year for a treat I think the same way cuz I like a little movement to my face yeah like I don't want to be like have nothing on my face like when I'm in my 40s but I also would like to not have like a huge like line yeah we have those genetically the little lines yeah eyes exactly whatever it takes to make you feel a little better a little good it brings such as your hair this is my hair wow thank you I love a natural hair too I did my hair yesterday too I did like my highlights I did a little trim yeah you look fresh you look fresh you look amazing thank you don't do a marathon with us and no I won't be passing on that why everyone's doing it it will take me 48 hours to finish that now if I can do it you will know we only have eight hours to finish it so at eight hours someone has to get you with their car and imagine I don't finish in eight hours it's like okay well did you really find it did well a half marathon is only 13 miles are you doing a marathon or a half we're doing 10k six miles okay because every time I keep asking what it's a marathon so you can do I would do six miles this is a one K for kids which is kind of cool too we can do like a one K but okay so I would do that I just take the kids mill okay the one K I'll take all the other I'll take the kids yeah that's actually kind of cute actually but yeah that's a dream thing I guess now we can bring them but but no I would not be running 26.2 miles well that's you know I think our brother did the marathon didn't he oh my god and he's like even trained before he's like I just did it I was like that seems crazy I need like to drink the night before I'm like okay I'm all right half a marathon or a marathon it definitely was one of those and I was like I have to figure out which one he did no I think it was a marathon I think so too I'm like you're not related to all I say don't think we should do the treadmill for like five hours a night after oh my god when we got that treadmill he would be on it and like just play his video games for like five to six hours and he lost a lot of weight we never saw him who's just in his room in the basement and the basement with no windows just no trouble he had a little window like you know those like one like that go it's still underground you're just like seeing a little peep in there which is like yeah but during the summer that was where to be because it's so hot I know he got to be nice and cool but yeah well for the summer I mean if it's a 10k I could probably do that okay sign up Kelly we're having a whole I know it's gonna be fun I'm excited I'm really excited for it we'll sign you up thank you shout out but wait not sponsored but Cody except me this Lola Blanket which I'm so excited about we're actually sponsored by Lola Blink it's on not love line but not on just trash Lola Blankets we love you over here too but he sent me like a Lola Blanket with their little I love them I feel like I'm gonna be a spokesperson for Kodiak pretty soon but because have you had Kodiak? - I'm not smart enough. - I am. - I'm trying to be. Like they have so much. - My god. - They've got granola, they've got like pancake mix. They've got-- - Well, when your brother was a whopper. - Yes. - Yeah, those bidoes, the protein was. - The f-- yes. - Yeah, they have the frozen waffles. - Yeah. - Forget those eggos, baby. - Yeah. - Not sponsored by either one. But I didn't get paid to say that either by Kodiak. I just like, they're so good. They're like chocolate chip one. They have like blueberry muffin in a cup that you can do. I love the granola, this is a fresh one, but the cookie butter granola, you guys have seen it, maybe, on my thing, oh my god. - I love cookie butter too. - Try it. - Okay. - So I usually put this in my yogurt, but I can have it straight up granola. - Anybody want a little protein granola? - Nice one. - I'm on with you when you come over. The protein coffee. - What's the protein coffee? - It's so good. - You know, I'm so about the protein. - It's so good. - It's, what do you have it with? Is it plain? - No, like yogurt. And I put a little chocolate protein powder in it, and then I put bananas and a little bit of honey. - And peanut butter. - A little dollop of peanut butter. I made it on my TikTok before it's yet. - Which is like, Ian's different from growing up because he used to use, what was it? Nutra, no, it was a nutrient. Was it a nutrient? Those little pellets? - Grape nuts. - Grape nuts. I'm like, how do you like that? - Well, that was before Codia. 'Cause it was all those work that was healthy to us. - Now that's, at least that's full of flavor. - Back when I did a yo-play, I used to do it in the yo-play, the grape nuts in the yo-play. - They're so good. - They are really good. - It's like a teddy-gram cracker. - Oh my god, it does. - Mmm, man. - They're good with like, oh well, cracker. - You know what got me on the Codia? And I think that's why they sent to me. Honestly, they didn't even ask for my address. I didn't even know how they got my address. Or maybe they did. I don't remember. Maybe a long time ago. Was that guy for any supposed to be their spokesperson? - Oh, really? I actually didn't know that. - Oh, he was so, I thought I'd figure out when my Zach Efron obsession, we're about to embark on another Troy Bolton Haskell musical and music video very soon. But I think it's, I want to be him more than want to be him 'cause that's why I'm obsessed with Zach Efron. And I'm like, when I saw him in the Codiac ads, I was like, I want those arms. - I'm coming for his brand and brand Zuh. (laughs) - I know because he's no longer Twink Zach Efron. I gotta go back between now. He just all bulky Zach Efron. But like, I got a personal trainer because I wanted my arms to be like Zach Efron. And I have, I love my Plotties girl and I love her. And I was just like, she was like, oh, you should get a trainer because then you can get those arms. I want to be literally Zach Efron arms. - Okay, I can see it. - I'm starting with Codiac. I'm starting with anything possible and I was very excited about that. But on the note, because that's what we're going to talk about earlier, we're planning, yes, a trip back to, back to Utah to go back to East High. I don't know if they're going to let us film. I'm hoping they're going to let us film in the actual school. Maybe on the weekend. - Oh, I thought you were going to redo the same video. - 10 years anniversary. - Well, it's only been seven. No, I haven't ever been triple to what in mine. And I'm really excited about it because I'm going to be ripped by then. It's going to be in a couple of months and I really feel like I'm going to be really ripped because I've been like getting my gains and doing my protein, working out all of that. And we were doing a, like, you know, maybe a road trip because it's, what was it last time? Like, you have to drive eight hours, I think. - I think six because wasn't it two hours in Vegas? - No. - Oh, was it six or, I don't know. I think we've always inflated it. You did the thing I do where I'm going. I was like eight hours, and I always thought eight hours in my head, but my dad goes up to St. George in that area a lot. And he's just like, oh, no, it's only two hours in Vegas. And I was like, that kind of makes sense, I guess, 'cause that seems to be where we were. - I guess, but I always thought it was five hours in Vegas. - No, I think it's only two. But I think there's a weird thing too where it's like, you had to fly to Vegas and then run to cars so we just ended up driving the whole way. - I was like, well, maybe we'll drive the whole way and when we were talking about doing, oh, it's stopping at the right, it would stop in Vegas and then maybe stop at the Grand Canyon, 'cause that just seems like a family vacation spot. But what were you gonna say? - Oh, I was just gonna say my favorite moments of that music video because I was hair and makeup on that. - That's right. - That's right. - You were one new. - Oh my god, that is so right. - You got the wig installed, but I was like, making sure it was going good. - Well, I slept on the wig, 'cause we went on a good day before, so I slept on the wig, so you had to like make sure it was, I know how that wig stayed on for days. - Days. - You loved that wig. You didn't even want to take it off. - That's what I wanted to do it again. I'm like, oh my god, wait, but I want to go back being like, and I wasn't pretty good at shaping that video 'cause I had just had the knee injury a couple of weeks before, but I was like in really good shape at that time, but now I want to be in like muscle, you know what I mean? That was more just depression. Now I'm like, let me get some muscle in that. So I'm really excited. Well, you're welcome to join us in a car round two. - Round two. - I'm gonna be with this sprinter van, Utah. - I'm like, I love Utah. I do love it. - It was really pretty, I will say. Like the mountains and like the golfers are really pretty. - It's a St. George, Utah. It's beautiful. Maybe the Mormon wives, I'm squeak up there. - Oh my god. Did they live that St. George? - I don't think they live in St. George, but they don't live any. - It's all in Utah. - Yeah. You watch 'em? - No. I don't. - You don't watch it at all. - I don't. - You don't have a lot of TV. - With TFP. I try to. - You try to? - Well, I try for the sake of, in case I need to be on here. (laughing) - Well, she has a lot of updates. I mean, what's the latest, you know? - I heard that like she, her mom was trying to get custody or something. - Oh. - I actually didn't hear that one. - I don't know if it's like, the validity is true, but maybe she's not. - Her mom's in the TikTok comments. Her mom is everywhere in TikTok comments being messy. And I'm like. - Yeah. - Mom's, she's just like, I think she's trying to have her own, like, claim to fame. - Always gives me. - Trying to secure that spot on the Mormon wives. - Oh, I know. I'm just like, I'm over it. As soon as when he's gone, I'm over it. I'm like, I don't know. Although I do like the other girls, I like me, C and Leila, and like everyone else too. But I think sometimes those shows have fun, it's course. - Do you think so? - Maybe not. - I guess people like 'em, so they'll keep producing 'em. - Do you think they'll ever show that Bachelor Red? - Or no. - Well, they said they were going to, but I think now with the latest, I mean, DCFS is coming to her house, and yeah, like, there's just so many crazy claims. It's very sad. And the whole thing is sad. And like, more video comes out and all this stuff like that. It's just like, everyone looks horrible. Taylor just loves to always comment. And sometimes it's just summer. I was like, great. - You just gotta let it go. - You gotta stop reading. - Yes. 'Cause even though she says it's not a crash out sticking it for yourself, it just looks like a crash out. Like, I know, I know, I know how bad it is to want to like, define yourself and everything. I thought, you know, Bruce Lee. - Bruce Lee. - Yeah. - Like, yeah. - Yeah. - A reaction star. - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. - He had a good quote about peace. And someone's like, how did you find your peace? And he's like, you don't find peace. I just retweeted this too. - You did. - Yeah, I was like, you don't find peace. Peace comes to you when you stop giving your energy to like, things that don't serve you or stop giving your energy to like, negative things or something like that. And I was like, that is actually so true. Because yeah, it's like, you don't really find peace. It just comes when you just like, let things be. - Let things go. - I think people, truth comes out. It does or it doesn't. But everything works itself out. Everything comes to light. Like, I always say everything happens the way it's supposed to. - Do you want to hear it? I love this quote. - How do you find peace? You don't find peace. You choose it by what you ignore. By what you release. By what you stop giving energy to. That's the shift. - Wait, pause it. So you choose it by what you ignore. What you release. And what you stop giving energy to. - I love that. - And first one, Taylor, Franky Paul, I am me. You gotta know what you ignore. And it's like, it's so hard. 'Cause you just want to defend yourself. And you're getting it wrong. Show is saying nobody knows everything. It's taking that context. And it's like, but we don't need to know. And always, always in these cases too. It's like the one that Silent is always wins. And I think that's always. - Yeah, it's like, it's so hard, it's so hard. But I just think it's hard to watch her. 'Cause it is, yeah. - Because that's like a double edged sword too. Because if you want people to keep knowing the truth, it's like then more people are gonna pry into your life. And like, if you truly want peace, just like, live your life for you. - That part, yeah. 'Cause people just rip apart everything you say. And then you just keep going back and forth in the comments. And it just becomes a thing. 'Cause I think the backdrop was going to air, but then maybe not now. 'Cause like, I forgot what the latest thing was, but also just something. - When it keeps, like when it's not calming down, it just keeps. - Yeah, escalating. - It's like, okay, we're gonna put a lot of energy into trying to bring it back. And then again. - And she said that something big just happened again. Maybe it was the DCFS thing, where they came to like investigate. And she said it always happens when it's like, something big and the same people keep reporting it. And so it's like, well, yeah, but like, there's obviously stuff to report and stuff, which is like, you know, I think it was like her, like one of her eight-year-old was like, she needed the diapers of the two-year-old. And then she did a response, which makes it look worse. And I know the one need to defend. She wants to defend 'cause she's obviously a mom and you always wanted to defend yourself as a parent. One thing I learned about being a parent though is like, don't share any of it online of how you're parenting. Because there's no one's gonna always, no one's gonna agree on the parenting styles. So she had said something and people take these words, right? So they just said it and she had said something like, why don't force her to change the diapers? She just wants to be mommy's helper. So then people are like, okay, well, why is she changing the diaper? Like she said, you know what I mean? So whatever and how people parent, whatever you do in your household, I guess like, you know, someone really told me to, it's like, there's no, there's no right or wrong way to parent. Like if you give someone advice and like, oh, you shouldn't do that, like they can just go online and say, is it okay to do this and they'll find an article that says, yes, it is okay. And then the other person would be like, well, I found this article of what I said and they can find an article on that too. It's just like-- - Oh, always, my TikTok is a big debate. Like Ipad kids versus non-ipad kids. And it's very much like, there was like one TikTok that I just went viral recently and it's like someone being like a bear, like this child was being feral in a restaurant basically, like just like wild like on the table, like a waiter had hot food like in the TikTok and the child's like going like right underneath their arms or something like that. And it's like, just please bear with us. Like we're raising non-ipad kids and so then all of us, all the comments of the people at Ipad kids is like, like just because, well, oh, so the non-ipad kids people are like, well, just 'cause they don't have an iPad doesn't mean they have to run feral like this. And then the Ipad people were just like, [BLANK_AUDIO] They should have an iPads with like a sit down or something or like coloring or a different alternative But this person was like this kid was like running muk anyways It goes back to the parent sharing the child on time just running a muk at three years old Like I mean no matter what if you're an iPad kid if you're not iPad kid like they're all gonna be running muk You know most of the restaurant and then but then you have the parents that are just better than everyone and just being like They'll show their kids just like politely eating dinner and they're like this is what it looks like when you raised on iPad kids and it's just like Who cares who cares what anything is like I just just I don't know that's I just don't share they happy are they healthy Yeah, oh my god, because people just sharing so much and I and I get like wanting to like share a cup of all the like personal stuff I'm like oh my god, it's so crazy, but Yeah, the parent I never will I never even like showing like what they eat all this stuff like that because people again You think you're doing something healthy right you can get like a pre-plan kid's meal and you're like oh like they're they're healthy Jards but no, they're not healthy look into this thing. She's like oh my gosh. I don't know. Yeah No one can ever win, but also like if it wasn't that healthy They wouldn't be selling it in the market which part like if a jarred whatever. Oh jarred wherever I mean I guess there's like the argument that yeah, there's like maybe some non-healthy like cereals or something I don't know, but it even goes back to like one Billy eyelash. This is a while ago when she said if you don't homeschool your kids You're lazy. Nope. Well, the homeschooling is so I learned to never talk about that either like homeschooling so but you're like but you can't come on People don't have that luxury either. Oh sure. Yeah, maybe someone is not like Confident in their own knowledge to teach their kids, you know, yeah, most parents work Yeah, both of them work so there's not like they can be with the kids the school is basically helping them Baby see the kids so they can go to work and support the family and some people want to go back to school Like a lot of kids will be like I want to go into high school Yeah, they don't want to be homeschooling like there's benefits to both obviously the socializing and all that stuff you can learn at school I also think there's so many benefits to homeschooling but I'm just like definitely luxury for sure cuz it's like someone has to be home with the kid and you're with them and it's a whole thing too Yeah, I think in general and I learned it I learned I was one of those people before kids that was I was so judgy as like wow You're a bad parent cuz I think if you like don't have kids it's always a say and I'm like once you have kids It's just like so I obviously want you have kids. That's why you never judge now I was more judgy before I had kids. That's very much like wow bad parents. Well, I don't Mom had three jobs growing up and like we were in public school like that was like pretty much our only option We I wish I wasn't but yeah, okay, like I wouldn't that anything like my bad fair But like sometimes like that's your only option for sure. Yeah, we definitely kind of I mean at least we went to school Well, we both did homeschool in high school in high school. Yes, so we went the opposite way We got ourselves out of public school. Yes, I think that like so we didn't like public school Well, no, we didn't like the kids. I didn't like the teachers. Oh, I like my teachers. Okay, I didn't they call me like four eyes They call me gorilla They call me fat. They I always got dressed coded though like in fifth grade because I'm in sixth grade or whatever and I'm like at one point I got so It's so stupid because I was like she gets to wear these tiny ass shorts and just because I'm built a little different To put it in perspective when I was in fifth grade they My my gym teacher made us all go out one by one in the hallway and wait ourselves with the same gym teacher Is this the same one you can say same one bleep it. I can't I don't even know who cares. I hate that guy I'll never forget it skinny and one fifth grade he's like well, you're overweight the being look at this chart. You're overweight I hate seeing that there was like a guy that was like six two and like 210 pounds and he's like I'm technically My BMI is technically obese. Like I'm morbidly obese. I'm like, oh my god. I'm so over this BMI I was five three at the time. I'm five three right now. I was 125 up until I was like 27 How can you say I'm fat as a 10-year-old? No, I'm 10 and two. I was maybe 13 when I was told I was fat by the doctor and like he For how it was I went in for something and like that's why like fat people hate going into doctors because the doctor always should say it's just because you're fat And I got that when I was like 13. I wasn't even that fat. I remember I was like a size you weren't even fat at all I was like a size 10 dress but then the size 10 just didn't fit when it came to that eighth grade graduation And so I get a size 12 and I didn't want to cuz I was gonna like start myself and my mom's like it's two days away Han I think we're gonna stuff to get a bigger size and I was like, okay, and then the black and pink dress It was I ended up wearing the black and pink dress Well, that dress that was the one it was stretchy. Oh, I returned one that was like fitted I had to rip it around its waist and that one I had honestly that other one was way more iconic yours I look so slain in it too. I remember I wore it. I feel like I was since Sixth grade or something. Wow, I loved it. Where'd you wear to? I don't know. I just tried it on I think I'm just like fun. Well, I thought you are always beautiful and snatched and queen energy. I just want to be like you Oh, thank you. I love anyone else's. Oh, I do love little sister energy I see that with Elvis so much like wanting to be like Malibu and it's so cute and anything Literally what they were doing the other day like Malibu was like on the bed We're all in bed in the morning. Well, we go like we went from like their bedroom to our bedroom We kind of like shift. We're all kind of like in the same bedroom But then we shift into our bedroom because it's just brighter in there and then we were watching TV and Malibu like Elvis was being so cute. She just wanted to be next to Malibu Malibu was sharing her game with her or whatever and then she was like I make Malibu know no blankie or whatever like that You know after the when you first wake up so she's like Elvis can you put my blinky over there? So and we're on the steps of the bed Elvis has to go down the steps puts it on the couch and then she's like Elvis Can you put this over there like another thing over there and then she does that and then she's like Elvis come give me a kiss Elvis give me a hug Little sister is I know and everything she asked her when she's like Elvis go do it over there and she's like sure And she was just like so happy to do it and it was like so cute But it's just like so funny because she just wants anything Malibu related if Malibu asked her to do it Yeah, we want to be included. It was really it was giving that same energy, but it was that's so cute Yeah, it was really I was looking through my camera roll and I'm just like I was watching them in the back and they were holding hands. I'm like you guys are so cute and so sisters I love sisters as you love holding hands with each other. They hold hands to go to bed They hold hands to go down the stairs like they're always holding hands with each other It's actually they wouldn't let the girl like in the car after I'm buckle one Yeah, they're and they get off the chairs holding on to get off the car And I'm having in the car and sometimes I was the one that has one home Malibu Sam Malibu is like I was holding hand If maybe Alvis is like tired in a mood or whatever, she's like no, I was like oh my hand. She gets like so sad about it And so it's like really going out the slide. They hold hands. She wants her everywhere. Malibu went to a slime I don't know what a slime museum I guess today and she's like Slankitchen Slankitchen and she's like I want to make one for Alvis too So she was like making like a little yellow one for Alvis of course Malibu gets the pink of everything and then she gives sure Well, she knows what colors Alvis likes and she does like yellow She like like she made it in her mind like she Yes, with the charms that she knew Alvis would like and I wonder if Alvis really likes yellow or Malibu just told her Well, she has changed like now. She likes more purples and other colors, but yeah, that was the first color She said and she used to really like yellow like that was her thing Maybe she like loves it, but there's there is a discussion about like am I the pink sister or the purple sister? Oh really? Yeah, there's a whole discussion about that. Every older sister is the pink sister. I think you give pink vibes and I'm purple vibe But I wonder if it's because I chose that because Malibu chose it really I think yeah, that is true You had the pink and purple heart room and I had like although I did really love my daisy room You had a yellow and lime green and lime green and yellow and like daisy stickers that we got from limited to and I did love that I mean that was my vibe Yeah, but was it thrust upon you or did you actually choose that? I like the daisies. Did you like the pink and purple better? You know, I like them both. I think the daisies fit me more though. I do like I don't know Yeah, you know, that's me now I would say interesting because I do I always like wonder that I'm like a wonderful I just do this with the say like this is well I think if you looked at our rooms now well like you know if you had like back then you would love all the pink stuff and whatever Yeah, I was like well, I kind of want just neutrals and like airy and like whatever that better now now So wait, so let me tell you what the okay, because it's a personality trait So you tell me which one you think you actually work. There's a lot of people. We're not what they thought they were Okay, so take a look. Where did you see this? Where did you see the results? I said on tiktok and then even I just had a handy by the way It's like a whole discussion, but So the pink sister of purple sister dynamic was kind of a viral tiktok personality theory But the theory suggests that you're a signed color defines whether you were neat girly girl the golden child Or the bold messy free spear that's still blame So the pink sister personality No, wait, yeah, I think you will discover look at my closet upstairs. It is so perfection. It's perfectly me Okay, I'll give it like a store anyways. Okay, so the pink sister is Often of you does the golden golden child goody to choose classic girly girl Typically neat organized and pathetic and compliant I'm pathetic Pathetic just throwing her in there tend to avoid conflict follow the rules and cover for their siblings ending the purple sister. I do cover for you. I do The purple system often see the headstrong rebellious tomboy sibling traits Free spirit it says see independent and sometimes unorganized. It's a sea for sure Yeah, okay, I can see that I am very tired. You need I am neat. Well God, I try to be when I am on like that mindset of like I'm keeping everything clean Mm-hmm. Oh in the last thing though - might get into more trouble, but are fiercely protective and loyal to their pink sister Oh Inaction, you are very loyal. That is true forever and ever. I am. Yeah, I'll be here for you I know I always see those family members that go on and like I like the McBroom's I think there's like some other like siblings in YouTube that like the sister will go on and like Expose the other sister so I'm just on random TikTok to like a sister's like actually while they're not sisters So that doesn't really find McBroom awesome. McBroom and his brother land in are exposing each other all the time people always go on Yeah, but those are brothers. Those are boys. Those are men like I think of a sister one there has to be a that's true Yeah, maybe okay. That's why you can't think of one social media sister is that turn on each other Yeah, I don't think so maybe not that would code there's a code with sisters. Yeah, just be like Yeah, that's true. That's a good point actually Well, that is that's pretty accurate to us because I always think to like I didn't know if you actually loved like Ashley Simpson or you're just like well, I guess that's really Ashley Simpson, but more of the Jessica Simpson um, I mean I fit Ashley more because I like that style of music anyway, but you don't because I was like I'm Jessica. I don't know I put just to be in Uh, a domino doesn't he remember they did that other competitors commercial. Yes with the wings Yeah, I want you one for don't know. I'll never forget Ashley saying oh god They look like a boy The same and then the mom was trying to judge the hair because they're trying to be like it just doesn't Yeah Yeah, the same hair stylist like cat famous was doing both them like I was just out touching her I think and then she had the shirt that was billowy and just got was in the tube trying to like Yeah, she's like I look fat from the side. I don't say from the side honey like whatever and then she like oh Jessica gets to be hot And I'm like I'm the boy and the boy sister like hi. I'm just a good sister Jessica buffalo zone have wings So like why did he make her like that? I think she had to be that too because she was blonde when she started And I think like you're just gonna have to go and be the alternative sister. Well because you know what? That's crazy that you say that because I was the alternative. I had a pink and dark hair Something I think maybe you thought you chose that but I think it didn't I think it chose you Maybe you have to like immediately after that. I'm like I'm going bleach blonde play. May I want to be like Kendra Wilkinson Girls next door I'm not gonna be like actually You did have that pink hair. We did that was kind of cool at the time But yeah, you're the piercing as I'm saying I think you had to be the alternative Because that just yeah, I had to break out of that. You know, I'll be the purple sister right now But I had to break out and be my own person Actually since the song about it Oh My god, you knew all of it. I was like she just gets me. I am living in the shut up for the purple sister is out there I mean that's good. Everyone needs one for sure Everyone needs oh sisters that don't like each other and feuded. Haley definitely really tough They talk about each other on the media And actually it was always kind of more Haley and then Hillary just said something not like talking but kind of like Yeah, so I don't talk to my sister anymore. It was kind of like oh damn So if you like if we never talked I want to be like yeah, I never talked to my sister. I'd be like oh damn Just have what we don't say anything. Just no, that's not gonna happen family. No, yes We always talked to each other, but I wonder what happened and they do that one movie together Wish we could do that. We've kind of a each other that We could be the older version. What was it? They were like they were like struggling They lost all of their money my shed at cosmetics. Yes. Yes. What was that called? God it was no one's probably even watched that movie We shade. Well, I mean like since like an hour. I really feel like it was like Hillary Duff in her mom being like Okay, you're gonna get Haley in this and it's like and that was actually the reverse because Hillary was the young one It wasn't like she was trying to be like a bigger career Yeah, that's kind of rare. It's usually the one that's older But don't worry. I don't feel like that. I could never do what you do. I get to stay try all the time Which is very much happy You're a streamer. Yeah, but like I'm not on stage. You might never do that stand-in for the pro commercial you were my stand-in also not on camera I was on camera to like set up lights and lenses and you were serving everything is all you in a shot You were like you were serving you were giving and they even set that truth like wait this feels like Trisha It was so great. That was so fun. Can I say I had so much fun. It's a really compile. Maybe you didn't get more gigs where you need Need a stand-in. It was really fun. Also, do you have a stand-in because that meant like I didn't have to stand there for the first shot You were out for like a minute and then you came back and you're like you must have did so good because I was done Okay, so people don't know like a stand-in I actually had one for hats Which was great. I think that's the only other time I had a stand-in but usually for obviously for my music videos Because a budget and stuff like that. I'm just standing in for the lighting and what that means is like you have to get there like Probably like 10 or 15 minutes before the shot so they can get obviously in your case the real commercial like a budge So they were like really doing it like more But like for my music videos we stay in there for 10 or 15 minutes while they're just like moving cameras Maybe like okay, Trish will be ready in like 15 minutes just like standing there and you're like then by the time the shot comes around You're like not tired, but you're a little like all right guys. Let's just do it or whatever because you would have to sit there Yes, so then so that's what was great then about the rogue commercial my sister did the stand and like the walking Formation of me being like I love tracking it on a road like all that something that she should she hit the mark Where the land they had the mark there literally took me two shots. Yeah, I was like I check my app on right and it was like It was so fast. It was so quick. It was actually amazing. I was so happy Because I think they were trying to get my stand in from hacks I don't know if she like wasn't available or what now just like you know my sister's kind of my stand and she's kind of like You have lost a lot of weight too, but like we're similar shape size. Yeah coloring. Yeah, so it was um But also I think a lot of people were like they would tell me like what to say so they could kind of get an idea of like how my head movements were And since we're so similar with our gestures and like our like mannerisms They're like oh, yeah, that's Tricia sister. Were you spinning on the bed? Did they spin you on the bed? They spin you on the bed. Oh Yeah, that was fast. This was like I just went on the bed. I did like one rotation. I'm like only on row. I know the whole like Of the week in the I made me do that whole line. Do you remember I came from um Actually, I don't remember the line, but like You were like went like this with the dress. Yes, and then you went like this and then the other shot you'd be like You look at the camera and then up and wink. Yeah, as you were really crushed it, but you were my stand-in in The freaky Spanish version you were my stand-in and beetle juice You were my standing suddenly see more suddenly see more dead and gone This commercial. Yeah, you're just never I guess let's manifest more things for you to be standing for because it's and you vouched for me So thank you. Yeah, you ever my sage mom I know why I was also just saying because I knew it was gonna be like a long day And I just love having people there. So it was like fun to be like in the trailer with you It's like that too cuz San is also stiffer than stunt double cuz I just stunt double in hats We also had a stand-in in hacks and um Yeah, it's great because then you kind of just go and do your lines and it's It is a luxury of That was great. It was wonderful. I was having fun. Yeah, it wasn't a big budget like the craft tables were like They would have like bougie breakfast and then they had all of the bougie snacks and then they would turn around like smoothies Oh my gosh, that's right. And then like in the afternoons they would you would have lunch and then in the afternoon They would have like little like Dumblings and a cup with a cute little mini fork. I'm like Yeah, they were everything Anything like this honestly that was the the fanciest commercial I've ever been on and I felt like this is everything And it just actually inspired me to work harder cuz I would love to do another row commercial when I'm like 30 pounds down But still on row, you know we love row and I do love them. I really do. I really is great I'm I'm still loving it and I feel very happy now at my dose of it 10 milligrams set bound And I feel really good. I think it was down this for a while cuz I should feel Perfect on it. I'm just you look great. You always look great though. I'm just happy that you have your energy back Like cuz I was in the same boat. Yes. Yes. That's all that matters. It's all that matters I really was fine with the way I looked like obviously you look back when people do before and I'm like oh damn I was like as a big or whatever But I was actually fine way. I was always wearing like hot outfits and so like that. I really didn't think much of it But the energy is a big one my knees feel better my running Yeah, and your confidence, you know, it is I thought I had confidence when I was 265 - but your confidence does get better And I love it. It's great because we struggle with the same thing. I wish this episode was sponsored by row It's not but I am a row partner But like yeah, just you know your whole life where you're just like you eat and you're still full You're still hungry and you still think about the next thing I never think about it. I'm gonna just like damn I'm just good actually. You're bored. You're just gonna have like a little snack if you're yeah And it's like it is the craziest thing I promise I'll stop talking about it because people are like over me talking about it But like it is the craziest thing because we have like so many chips in her house like her kids love chips and stuff like that Like I used to be so obsessed with chips I could eat like a whole bigger chips and it's like I could be hungry and I'm like looking for a snack And I'll let go in there and there will be like fresh bags of chips and I'm like it just doesn't like doesn't even sound good Which is so crazy. So are they still sound good? I love my pastas. I love all this stuff like that Pizza sounds good to me once in a while But like chips. I really have just been like an inversion to where I'm just like Yeah, I don't know. It's like very we actually yesterday when we were going out to lunch after the podcast We should go to pizza and pasta place and it's kind of like I kind of want pizza and pasta. I kind of want like Stake or something. Which is very crazy. Charlie Sheen's daughter. You ever see her in TikTok? I have Sammy Sheen. Mm-hmm. Oh F girl. Yes. She recently got a place kind of a nice place and all the comments right, it must be nice to have daddy's money. So she responded, this is again, the power of not responding. 'Cause every time you respond and I can't say what, but I swear the Bruce Lee quote was so real. I swear when you can ignore it and it's so hard. And obviously I have a gossip podcast so I can't ignore everything, you know what I mean? But when you can, it's like, it is peace, it is peace. 'Cause if you give nothing, then there's, it's like right like nothing to give back. Right, like if you're boxing someone and they're just like, that's it. There's no more boxing match so. But I do like Sam machine. I think we met her at Tana's Tarte party. I think we met her. I think. And she, so then she responded to the comments and being like, no, I make my own money. My dad hasn't given me anything since I turned 18. But then she talked about how he gave the other daughter, her sister, I think they're both these Richards. Like he bought her a car. He bought her a car. And so then she was like, well, I don't want a car, but like, can you buy me a horse? And he said, no, have equal value. Okay, I want to see your initial reaction 'cause the comments were kind of split. My initial reaction was the same as yours. I was like, that's not fair. But that's not fair. But all the comments and then I started reading and I was giving me how it was with my brother when he got a Corvette and a private college tuition and I was kinda like, where's my Corvette? You know what I mean, like it's kind of one of those things. No, I'm still, I think it's not fair. Okay, 'cause I was like, not fair. But then, okay, you explain and then I'll tell you what the comment said and then kind of what I think. Well, because you're always gonna feel like that's the favorite child. And then you're gonna have some weird animosity towards your parent. I mean, unless you hate them anyway. But like, because our brother did get a car before the Corvette, Corvette. He got a brand new Jimmy, it was still around. Jimmy, it was called a Jimmy. It was like a mountain near Jimmy. Oh, I didn't know what it was called. Shout out Jimmy out there. (laughs) There was a Jimmy, yeah, it was called a Jimmy. I don't know what it was called. And like, you didn't get that. You did not get a car. I don't like to live out of there for a second. That vocal stem was like, I went into the yogurt and I didn't get it. That's just like it, that was crazy, which I love. Okay, so that's what I'm saying, okay, so yeah, like. Yeah, and like, so you felt like, you know what I mean? Like, you felt like you were the less loved one. Even though you loved him. Anywhere. Or the less obedient, right? 'Cause usually parents use money and there's a control mechanism. So if the child-- But I was at 16, I was, I was cool with my dad. Yeah. If the child does what they won, they-- But I did. Oh my God, I was like always seeing my dad. I was always like, when did I ever see me? I was like, so down as a kid, I was. Yeah. I layered it became defiant because of that, really? So at 16, you could have got a car. You could have drove a car. You didn't get me a car. He got my brother on his 16th birthday at brand new Jimmy mountaineer. It's like a SUV back in the day. It was like this, like, bougie one. Blue and blue. Blue and blue. It was right around September 11th, 2001, 'cause that's when my brother turned 16, right? Was that right, 'cause I remember-- I think so, yeah. Okay, and I remember he drove-- He drove it back, that's what it was, 'cause my brother's birthday, September 18th. And my dad drove back the car, and then I was like scared from to fly back. So I think that was around September 11th. So he got him a brand new one, and I was like, oh my God, I can't wait till I turn 16. Like, oh my God, I'm gonna get a bug. I'm gonna get all this stuff like that. And then 16 rolled around and nothing, nothing. And then I start, then I start, whatever, my junior year, I guess, after my homeschool. We didn't even get into our homeschooling. No, I know. Home school, but I didn't go to school. So, but I didn't go back to school. You were just in home. I was just, I was just, I didn't mean to. Working, I changed. I know, I think Nick did my Spanish paper at one point. I was like, I don't know what happened to me. I didn't realize that as soon, and I'm like half-assing in. And my mom's like, just let her pass it. Or did she say that too? People, people, I'm the administration there. So did you graduate? Yeah, from high school. Yeah, I am okay. I'm a Where was the diplomas? I play the Academy. I don't know. Okay. My I was in Georgia. My oh my I think was in Georgia My I was in North Carolina. I was seeing University as like a or seeing Catholic school I don't know what the hell was it was something yeah, but I didn't finish because I was like I don't know but then I then I put back into school Yeah, and then my mom did get me a $2,000 Jeep Cherokee But it broke down and then I would be so mad at my dad like I broke down on the side of the road on the way to freeport Illinois And I was just like so scared so it was just like then I drove mom stick shift I don't know. It was a mess. Yeah, that was bad. Everything was a mess, but yeah, you I had resentment I was resentful for you as well. Okay agreed I totally agree and then my brother was college and he gets a corbat What do I get if I go to college or go to Mountain East Center? He went to like this pipe when I'm going to like mountain. You said go me. There's always roll the tattoo Yeah, there's always rolls attached to it too like you had to get a job. Yes, you had to work at Target. No, damn it was crazy. Well anyways So I did hold on it and I agree with you on that, but It was like a car for a car. She is asking for a horse all the comments on tectok were like Okay, girl to horse like I would say no to Why cuz you don't need a horse you need a car. Okay, I think give me a car. I'm gonna try it in I was like take the car and sell it for a horse Like what doesn't even matter like that? That's the same thing. I think parent logic. I Would I would be the same way if I was like, okay, I get Malibu Most of the promised Malibu pink car at 16. So I had 16. She thinks about now. She can't wait for pink car I'll tell him I'm gonna do the pink car. It's like okay damn right love that. And yes, I'm down for it to Maybe I'll get it first and then I'll give her like a hand me down car You know like that way, so maybe I'll get the pink car and then give it to her Pink cars are kind of dangerous. She can only drive it when we're around because then people like know where you're at Yeah, anyways, okay, we get our car and so then Elvis turned 16. It's like okay We're gonna get a car too, but if Elvis like actually know instead of a car. I want to go a backpack in Europe I'm like, well no like why not that would be a great experience because you're 16 and like if you need a car You need a car to get to school, but like er, to get to your job or wherever you got to go, but I think my sister can try me I mean, first of all, I think you know, this is 14, 13 years from now. I don't think cars will be the same thing They're gonna be flying space you know, it's all self-driving cars. You just hop on enough of them Okay, like ownership of a car is gonna be different. I don't know But in general, but in general, it's what they want it's not about us. It's not like oh my gosh If he got her $25,000 car. She wants a $25,000 horse. You're gonna be like okay. I Would give the equal This should be equality like he can treat one kid the one way I think it's oh my god, that is a crazy coming but that's but that's but that's your That's your opinion about it but the our opinion has nothing to do with it. Well, what? Our opinion has nothing to do if I at 16 I'm so passionate about horses that I'm like I'm gonna walk in LA everywhere So I can have this horse Then you're getting that horse, you know what I mean? That's why I think it's she cared so much about a car She would ask for that car. I guess like another term, right? Okay, my brother gets like a fancy private college tuition or whatever it's like okay, give me that $40,000 so I can go buy a condo in Hollywood. It's like well, okay? No, you're kidding an education I don't know A university of course, but I would have loved and I would have loved the No, because here's the reason you always wanted to be in Hollywood. Yes, and who helped you? My mom exactly no, of course my mom gets a little special shot out of the book at the end Well, she gets a lot of shots, but I always say special things for giving me like literally you're all your money I always say that. I always say my mom gave me everything. So it's like you had the the means to do that for you to get you a jump start like You know what I mean? No, cuz look at you now agreed agreed and I mean that might be a little bit different I guess if like Malbo's like I want to be a model in New York and it's like if you have to mean to help you of course Yes, I don't want it to become a hooker on the street. Obviously like a me. I was like no, I would I would do it I guess the horse Jewish is different. I think it's just maybe she wants to be one of those things called the Equestrian. Yeah, Jackie. Maybe maybe all the horse like at friends that have horses like it's their best friend It's like it's a real Person, you know horse. It's not even maybe they want to do horse racing Maybe like the the key is to know things are like I told myself early on What like I know they're gonna put me in uncomfortable situations because I think I'm gonna be a great dad They're gonna get whatever they want everything is gonna be fine But I know they're gonna come and ask me for something that I'm not comfortable with and that's gonna be the challenge is to take away myself And see them for they are and give them but what does that mean so you're gonna so you'll say yes There will be things that we are not Comfortable with because we are a different generation. We have different views. I have no idea what I'm saying that it has to be an unknown Yeah, because everything that we know So instead of you going to like a university he takes that money and like puts you in acting classes Okay, yeah, that's a good equivalent. Okay Yes, I think horse is different though. No, it's not I think what if she wants to train them what if she wants to like Race them or whatever it's like luxury. I think a car is more of a necessity acting school some trade schools and necessity If it's beauty school fine our car is also not a necessity But kind of is not like not really anymore. You see can you bring yeah, but that's dangerous Waymo dangerous. I'd rather I can drive themselves. What was the cost of the car? 25,000 I mean that's a luxury but are a $2,000 car. Okay. Well if it's well $2,000 cars break down because that's what I had I think it's just like Cars are cars. Yes sure, but like I guess the she would ask for a $2,000 car. He would have given her a Maybe not Parents use money to try and get their way with their life's kids and they shouldn't do that Because it happened to me too. It happened like I did things that I wanted to do that my parents not necessarily wanted me to do so they didn't support me Had they support me, I would have a much easier journey getting to exactly the same place that I met Right, so and you with that $40,000 I would have been a $4 million condom when I probably would have been in a measurement anyway Especially that area that really went up everything got like built up nice the Yeah, I don't know I see it differently. I think if I think if I get a 16 year old girl my 16 year old Malibu 16 year-old Elvis wants a horse. No, I think you would be more I think it would be more dangerous for a 16 year-old to be behind the wheel Then a horse. I think I think more than more dangerous No 16 years are kind of crazy behind a wheel, but I wouldn't be an dependent Everything's dangerous when you think about it. No one's even getting their license anymore They wait till they're 18. That's true. No one is getting their license. That's like a whole bunch of people. I don't drive I guess it's fine. I love driving. I love it. I hate driving, but I'll be a passenger princess I love it. We both love driving somebody. I'm driving. I like driving. I feel like in control of it or something I don't know. I don't get car sick although Was I you with the Google maps? I just can't though. I don't do Google maps. I do maps. He does Google maps What's the difference maps is horrible maps on your phone? Google maps is that I Doesn't even matter what app you follow because you don't even follow the map that will map is horrible There's a road closure like they're not that updated so you can always go to the wrong place What if you're on a date? Let us know below what you guys think about this because I don't know But I think I know I think I'm on the right on this because let us know maybe most in Kelly if you're on a date with a guy Speaking of maps and he has the location on and the maps, but he He keeps he's going his own way. He goes off off the grid with the maps like she like oh you missed the turn Oh, you missed the turn. What are you doing? What are you gonna do? Wait a person you don't know like a first date or second date Third, first or second or third or is it your boyfriend? No, okay, boyfriends They're going to let's say a restaurant. I think this person was a second date But they're going to a restaurant. They're going somewhere that they both know where they're going outside the TikTok thing So like literally it's just like she's like he was like such a nice guy I hope I'm not getting this mixed up with another trick up. I think it's why he was like such a nice guy He was such a nice guy and like he was like really great and stuff like that But the thing that was like the red flag and she stopped going on date with him It was like the second date or something like that He was following like they put their like location They were going to dinner or whatever and he just kept he kept not going that he had missing the turns Okay, turn left turn left and he wasn't turning left. She was saying what are you doing? He's like oh, I'm gonna go a shortcut And she was just like absolutely not but anyways, I'll tell you how that ended tell me how it would be For you if he just kept missing I don't want to take a shortcut to dinner Why know that if you miss a turn? It's like annoying for me. He's like are you even paying attention to the road? That's annoying for you. Yes, but I mean I guess you have one time with Moses. No with you. Oh with me We were trying to go to the movie theater. I'm like, uh, I think it's this one. You're like Callie I got it and then it's like redirecting. I'm like You're just pissed. You're not even scared. Well, no Well, yeah, I probably I'd be pissed Okay, so you're just like yeah, why would you like? Why would you even put it in if you are already? No way are you going all the way to dinner? Are you gonna see him for a third day? I'm not gonna see him for a third day, but you'll have the dinner. I'll take the dinner So you'll keep going in the car. Yeah, mo. How am I what am I gonna jump off the car? That's my first instinct. I would be like, okay, I was like, oh, you're I'm taking a shortcut and be like I'm hopping out of this car like I'm gonna take my chances It's almost like second locations or the thing. It's like I'd rather survive jumping out of a car and survive the second location I feel like he's kidnapping you. I don't think he'll be turning on Google maps You're like what relopsters that way like you know, but I'll see you know if he was the total opposite direction Then maybe I would have a little bit missing the turn. So we're gonna have to turn around some point I don't know. I guess like I guess oh Call I'd probably call someone. So what if you make it safely to red lobster? You still not gonna go in a third date. No That pissed you off that. I hate that. Don't even put it in if you're not gonna follow What if he's just in the conversation and he was like this Moses Lazarus. Well, okay, that's a little different And there's so many different scenarios of how this can go so I'm not you're not immediately alarmed You're not like I'm gonna roll out. I'm not a media alarmed, but I know like Why aren't we going this way? And if I am alarmed, I'm just gonna call someone And are you in the back of the front on a date? Well, I would hope that I'm in the front seat. Oh interesting. You don't want to be chauffored The Maybach who was in the back seat because your car Is designed to be chauffeur the whole car is about the back seat. It's like a first car You like to film it About being chauffeur and about being in the back and just being like chauffeur to round like that one time your dress was too big That you can't see in the front. Oh, yeah, that was. Yes. And the rules. Yeah, I don't Lotty for princess in the frog. So I feel like okay, you need to get on the back because there's no room for So foring her home. I liked it. I like being chauffeur. That's what I'm saying. Okay, so you're always in the front on a date I'm always on the front. Yeah, unless it's a role. How are we talking to each other? Yeah, go in the back Drive to here even in a way mo. No, I don't ever want to go in one of those Why I don't like that Self-driving it's a future. I think that is the future. I don't know. I just like it. I like though women's only rides though Yeah, but then you have worry about like Trafficking well women who get stuck in traffic and I can I can take a bitch out I can do it. I believe that. Thank you. I think I could do once again. And honestly, they're the vulnerable ones in the front seat boobers click their ears. Okay. No I'm going to stay safe safe vigilance. Yes, I'll be kind of on a swivel. That's crazy. But analogy, keep your head on a swivel It means like make sure you're aware of your surroundings You've never heard that I think of game of thrones and how Ned Stark was on a swivel No, that was a spike Moses You don't remember It was a snow if it's a swivel or a spike. Oh my god Anyways, if you would get to the the how did it end or what would you do? Well, you're gonna thrust yourself out of the vehicle Actually, I don't know how that ended on hers. Oh my god Because I was gonna say if I'm like in my hometown. I know the way to a place Let's say sometimes Google maps will tell you go a certain way, but I'm like well I'm more comfortable going that way. Then I'll go that way, you know what I mean? So it's like Easily happened that I'm not following the direction. I have a really good driver that takes me on a contour It takes me to a marathon. He's my favorite driver. He's like the safest driver anytime We need to go into LA or something just like driving. We always have him He's like my favorite driver in the whole world In fact, I just want him like full time for me because I love him so much. I need such a good driver And I remember actually it was hacks He picked me up from and it was like kind of like a kind of like a dangerous part It was like during the day But it was a little sketchy part of like LA because we were like downtown kind of out of the USC And I remember I wanted to go get this like Taco place and he's like and I was like oh come here Like go get tacos like I sent him the thing or whatever like that And then I realized like he's not going to the taco place and I was like oh, man We're gonna tacos and he's like he goes. I think it's too dangerous He goes I and usually he like waits for me like if we go into raising gains like wait out the car for me Like wait for me. What up, but I think it's too dangerous for you and for me, and I was like oh Sometimes yeah, I guess people just know instinctually or also traffic. Maybe they were a morning traffic. No, he said it was too dangerous I went the scenario Yeah, I guess he's just like here's a short cut or something like that. I don't know well I just roll out of the car girls if you see going the wrong way I don't know or don't have him pick you up. I mean that's not a good option I do love a meat their option. I think on a first day. I mean Moses to pick me up Although I give him my mom's address. So I was like well, he won't There was a lot of apartments. It was a complex man was a house at the time and I was like, well, I wouldn't know where you guys were Also, she's But also if she did get kidnapped she's like, oh, he drives a red Ferrari. No, he did not Okay, thank you for that information Looking for him and they're like and like oh no, it was a red Porsche. I was like no, it's a red Ferrari and then it was like He's a gold again. They're like, I think that's it. I was like, oh, yeah, okay. I know I didn't know You just have me a picture of it. I was just like I don't know I can't get your report again Because I knew you love that car and he feels so bad about you can't have that car and he's so sad It's not that I can't have it. It's just a two-seater when you have three kids and not exactly I'm too big for it. That was my thing with your Porsche. I could never get out of it It was so low to the ground like you don't hurt my knees if I don't go in and out the right way Do you know that tick-tock of you getting out versus me getting out probably I was so fun I was like I was like I was like 200 pounds back then and I was like pretty not like tiny for me And I like couldn't get out. I was just like, but you were like so effortless about it. You were so like I felt like it's getting out well But you can also carry pepper spray or taser or something like be safe Because I think if it's if it's that yeah, because if it's that early on in a meeting somebody Yeah, meet them over there like be responsible for yourself. Let someone have your location. Yeah Yeah, I think nowadays a lot of people have locations locations. Yeah, just - Do you drive yourself or something? I don't know, I don't like the pickup. I don't want you to know where I live, my address, willy-nilly. - It is funny to think about it. It's almost like a military operation. Somebody's going on a date. All the friends are like, "Okay, check in locations." Oh, they're wearing off the road. They're not going on the way to the restaurant. - Yeah, I probably would be. Did you have a realization? I was gone for such a long time, and I'm like, what was just, you did? - I did when you were, I saw like MD. So I knew we were at the top. - And this was before, so I think you were in the car for a while before you went in or something, to the doctor. - Oh, weren't you like concerned I was gone for so long? 'Cause that's especially a CVS. I was sitting there for like an hour and a half and I'm like, weren't you like-- - No, 'cause exactly, CVS. - An hour and a half a CVS? So I just got out and that was the blood pressure machine. 'Cause I literally wanted to go get my thing and I like fell for a CVS. They still have those. - Yes, they still have a blood pressure machine. And the guy knows me, the pharmacist knows me. And he's like, I'm going to rush a free like 10 minutes or whatever and I was like, great. And as he was like, did I just like, what in the like, fell piece first? He's like, oh my God, are you okay? And I was like, I mean, I don't know. And then so they had the blood pressure thing and I said the blood pressure thing. They'd give you like suckers or something. I said, do you want a sucker? And I was like, actually, I would love a sucker and then I also open a Coke. Did I pay for it? I paid for the Coke. I don't know, I've got a double chart. I think I did. Yeah, I was like, pass out first. - What was I saying? Had I know they were going to do the thing on you, with you've gone away to you. - Well, I wasn't gonna care about that. I was saying I was a CVS for a long time and I passed out and I was like, well, no one even knew. I need one of those like alert things, me like I fell. Well, the pharmacist had shot off the pharmacist. He was like, you want a sucker? I was like, yeah, actually to help have sugar if you pass out. I was so light out of from this wound. I'm like, telling you what was like the most painful thing ever. I was just like, oh my gosh, what is the whole? - Did they didn't do it on that arm, though? - Do what? The blood pressure? - They didn't take my blood pressure. - Oh. - I went to the blood pressure machine to get a sucker. I felt like let's take your blood pressure. - I thought you passed out because you were getting your blood pressure taken and then they did it on the same arm that you just had your cyst taken out. - No, I just had my arm cut open and I got this whole scenario. It's just gone off the rails. - Nobody was there either. It was like, eerie. It was like 5 p.m., no one's there. Like why is no one getting their prescriptions after work? Like it's 5 p.m., like why is no, oh, I guess by that time it's like 630, I guess. Anyways, it was, but you know what, you were fine. That's true, that was a good point. I know I have to, because I've traveled today, I'm like, I really hope I can make it traveling. But I felt much better this morning. I felt more there. Weddings happened this weekend. - Yep, influencer weddings at all. - Weddings. - Free big weddings happened over the weekend. - Really? - I had a Healy. - Oh my gosh. Okay, yeah. - Paige Lorenz. - You know her? - I don't know her. - She's Sullivan. - Is that the, is he like our age, she's Sullivan? - She's a girl. - Oh, then no. But I did hear about Maddie Healy. - Wow, you did not hear, the Paige Lorenz and she's Sullivan were big because it was like battle of the dresses. One had a very classic like sleek wedding. The other one had more of like, I mean, they both were beautiful dresses and expensive weddings. But here's the internet once again divided over who had the better dress, which wedding would you rather have? So kind of like, are you a purple or pink girl? Are you a Shay Sullivan wedding or are you a Paige Lorenz wedding? Are you looking at up? - Chase and Paige versus Paige. - Shay Sullivan. - Shay. - Shay. - Shay. - Shay. - Yeah. - Were you thinking I said, Shay, like Shay Covera? - I thought you said Shay's like, Shay's lounge. - Okay. - I see what I do, but think Chase then, yeah. - Did you like their wedding photos? - Yeah. - Oh. - Which one are you looking at first? - It's like side by side. - Oh, wait. Let me see the side by side. What did people put? - Side by side. - Who had the better wedding? That was my TikTok. - No, people are. - But I love this. I love when TikTok weighs in on just like things. - Well, I know which one you're gonna choose and I'm gonna choose. - Oh, pink and purple sister. Which one am I? - I mean, I would choose the same one as you. - Oh. - Wait, so why did you say you knew which one you would be? - No, because you and I are gonna choose the same one. - Oh, which one? - I like a glam. Just because I was a purple sister, because I'm gonna be a purple and a pink sister. - Well, these are friends is the clean girl glam. She had to look good. - I'm not. - I don't like that. - I hate up to. - Oh my God, I was thinking I'm sorry. - I'm so mean, damn. So that's the thing. - I'm just saying though, like for me, I wouldn't want that. - I'm with you. I think we do have like a weird adversion to look back. - Yeah, I do not like it. - But it's very in and I'm with you on that. We have a weird thing with like updews in general. - I don't know why. - I mean, I just don't want like a fat face either. But also, I just like something a little more like with character. - We like the bigger hair. - That's so crazy. Because I was like, people would be-- - But even the dress, I like better. Like, I don't know, what am I trying to be? Audrey Hepburn, you know what I mean? Like what, I don't need to be timeless. - Oh my God, you don't need to be timeless. - No, I'm not for them. I think that this is pretty still. I wanted to choose it for me. - He said I was so strong, they're like, I ate. (laughing) - Well, I mean, I just wanted to choose it for myself. Now, I like this other dress. - Well, I can't see the bottom of this dress. - They have two more dresses, let me see. - They have a lot actually. So they have the like this one. - Yeah. - Also, it looks like the person that did our wedding dresses did this. Our bride's my dresses. - Oh, right in Walt's dress, doesn't it? - I don't think it is, but it does kind of, I know, I don't know. - It gives that vibe. - I love their stuff. I was just talking to Walter the other day. I'm like, I'm gonna dress from my next spot. - And then like, this is a bad picture of this. But like, this looks okay. This looks like more of like a personality, I think. - Oh, interesting. Yeah, I do think it is just preference. I mean, people were like, this is the, they thought Shay, they called Shay's tacky. Then of course, a lot of people love Shay's 'cause she got me in like Lake Como. And then, same, then people love. - Like, I love that. - Page. - I love that. I love that little veil. - Yeah, it looks beautiful. I mean, that looks beautiful too. - I mean, it's just not my style. And I think that's okay to say. - Yeah, I think that's what it was like, the internet was so like heated over this. Like, who had the better wedding? And I was like, this is so funny 'cause people were, it's like, it really is just a preference thing. Work's going to feel though, finally felt redemption because she wore a slick back bun for her wedding and everyone came for it. Like, it was a slick back bun and she was page. And then page did get a lot of love for the slick back bun. And I was like, wow, it's so elegant. - Yeah, I mean, I think it's like, it's your wedding day. You should have it, like how you want it. - Yeah, who cares what anybody else says? - I just go based off like, I would have something different. - What would you do? Was your. - Mine was always like, oh God, your Maui dress. - Was like my dream dress. - Oh, the lace one? That one was really pretty. - I thought you just, I love a mermaid look. I always want, if I ever got married, I always wanted to have like a yacht that we had the reception on. And like the, you know, I thought it would be really fun. - Or you got married and had the reception on a yacht and you were beach. - Yes. - And she loved it. - I would love that. - She told me that I'm like, that is like my dream. - Yeah. - So that kind of vibes, like loose waves down. Like, I don't know, very mermaid. Mermaid, boho, easy vibes. Not like so much structured. I don't know, I'm not that kind of a person. - I did love a big gown. Like I love shades 'cause I love how like, I guess there's like cupcake dress. Mine was a cupcake dress. But I'm not gonna have a cupcake dress if you're short and stout. But, yeah, I thought I was gonna like mine more and then I look back at pictures and I don't really, I didn't love it. Like I thought I loved it at the time. I kind of like, it was giving a little Ursula. I not thought I'd mind Ursula, but it was giving a little Ursula. But I wouldn't necessarily have that other one's dress either. - I just paid. - I prefer it over the other one. - Oh, you said you wouldn't have her dress either. - No, I wouldn't pick it out for me personally. But I did like her hair and her makeup. She did her own makeup too. - Really, she has some jewelry hair. Yeah, she's very pretty. I like watching her on tiktok. Should I just like on tiktok? She's just known for being pretty and having good blots. I mean, maybe she doesn't. I don't think that's, I'm not saying she doesn't do more than that, but I think that's like what she's known for. She's being, you know, one of those people just has like a really pretty face and it's like, damn. She's like 25 and she's like a son and I don't know. She seems cool. I don't know anything about her. The grooms always, the grooms have more like, I don't know who you are. - Yeah, I don't know. - I don't know why. - I don't like influencers too, but you're kind of like, for what? What are they influencing? - I don't know. I don't know what to call too hard on them, but it's kind of like these girls are so beautiful and so, I don't know. It's giving dad talk a little bit about you. I don't know who my judge actually don't know who they are. They seem fine, I guess. I guess the one guy seems nice. I just don't know, I don't know who they are. - I don't know either. - To enough to judge, I don't know. - That's true. I guess tiktok is meant for that. Matt Hilly's wedding. Did you like his? What's Hilly York, I think? - I thought, didn't he and Billie Eilish just break up like not too long ago? - He did really Eilish. Didn't he? - Why am I like to Moses as if he knows? - Well, I feel like he's a fact checker. - I can't if he did. - I'm pretty sure they, yeah, they did. - Ooh, what? - That was like the, oh wait, maybe not. Is he from my, 1975? - Right. Is that right? - Yeah, I think so. - He dated Taylor Swift. - Oh, maybe not then. - Who did she date? - Someone from the neighborhood, I think. - What neighborhood? (laughs) - Band. - Okay, well he said it's not like, oh the neighborhood. But no, I, whatever. I don't really care for him. I don't know him. - How'd you say the wedding then? - 'Cause it came up on my 4U page. - And what did it say? It was just like to get married? - Hey, I married this weekend. - Like the dress, her dress. - I don't want to go long sleeve. - But like I said, I think of wedding dress just as supposed to go with the personality. Mm, okay, so you liked it or you didn't like it? - I don't like it for me, I like it for her. She seems like that's, oh my god, she's giving it like personal vibes. - I kind of like a long sleeve, 'cause I always hated my arms. It's kind of a smart move actually. I think, I think Haley P, where I have long sleeves. - I have a long, I have a long sleeves. - Oh, maybe she did. I liked her dress. - Her dress. - You don't always dress, I did not like. But like, and it's not even her personality for me. - Who? - It doesn't fit her. - It was the parents' health and dress. Yeah, I agree. I think like I love Paris and I like her style I was like a kind of like shocked by her Especially that main one the lace one and didn't she have her hair up to she loves to suck back bun to She's like a suck back bun girl I know we left her her down But I think that is something specific to our family. I think mom and still about like we obviously like go with it I'm from a young age mom's like updoos are like old ladies, and I was just like oh, yeah Okay, so I think I think that in my head and I'll always want to do an updo and I just look at myself like you know I'm glad time had an updo oh God yes, oh my god, I had a meltdown and we're never doing that again. I'm likeosis. It's a real not psychosis Well, you know, I was actually just thinking about this because I have the picture like coming up my stairs anyway I have me and Malibu, and we have like this beautiful shot It's like your child. It's like here's me and my baby. You had to get an outfit change I'm like, well, I'm a good job, but I remember things at the time I was like when you came up like you didn't even like your hair And then you're like oh my god, you saw this picture of me and Malibu like the best photo of the day She was smiling at all and you guys were so smiley, and I kept saying I didn't want my hair changed I'm like map was only gonna be good she was like three months. I mean she's only gonna be good for like another like 20 minutes And she gonna be out, and I'm like I need to get up there and like I don't know I could not get up there And I was just I was three months plus part of I was like in the worst part of the post-war I felt so bad. I felt so bad and I was like so and like we didn't have a lot of money at the time And I was like I spent money on this dress I spent money on this photo shoot as I really just want these pictures and I just felt ugly and I just like had this like full Blown cry meltdown break down. I feel like everyone was scared to me for a minute I'm like we had a female photographer for feel Mika was at the end of shit because I don't know what's happening I was like I feel so bad. I like couldn't stop it. That's the thing with post-partum Post-partum in general. It's like your feelings and emotions. It's almost like you can't it's like not you Yeah, and I remember like being like this is so stupid like why am I crying over my hair like the hair look fine Why am I crying over this? This is like so Dumb why am I crying because my sister got a good picture with Malibu like none of it made a sense It wasn't that. It's just like oh man. I should have been up there because yes That was like I could that could have been like our photo like you know what I mean because yeah She was just so and then she was she was like getting tired after that when you came up Yeah, and I just remember you get such a short Yeah, she was It was the first baby so like you didn't even know like how short it was gonna be or whatever Oh my god, and everyone was like laughing upstairs having fun and like you were just like all of a sudden you just like I filled with rage I post from rage. I think it's also what I had. I think I have a little rage of the first one and you weren't even mad at anyone though You were just so upset upset and you just can't control it because I remember in the photo I remember we're all outside taking the photo and I'm just like trying to smile and just like tears are just coming down I'm like I can't do like I'm just sobbing and I just really was trying because I'm like okay You spent money you got the dress you at the glam like just for could take these photos and I just could not help myself And I just like started crying which um that woman's case is coming up her name is Lindsay Clancy, you know her you know this case her place is coming up I think she wanted to try all enough in a day. Maybe look this up. So I don't get it wrong. Okay. Okay. I think it's trial There's something happening trial live day one trial live a live trial. This is the second day today. It's happening Oh, there was one yesterday mm-hmm Oh, I haven't seen anything about this. Yeah, you look and watch it Yeah, so it's I think it's televised or like on YouTube or whatever. Oh, I haven't seen this like anywhere Maybe not don't quote me on that Wait, she a trial or no. She has that trial. She's uh 12 out of 18 jurors seated after day two of Lindsay Clancy murder trial I wonder how they choose the jury for this. I hope she gets a fair trial Because like how do they choose the jurors for this like can you be like I'm sure you can't be a mother to be on that jury I think it should be a mother actually actually all the mother should be in the jury. I think the um I think each of them can go through like which one they want and they'll like dismiss who they don't want What do you mean to them like each like the defendant and the the prosecution? Oh, they pick up mm-hmm to in order for them to all get a fair trial Hmm Okay, so Lindsay Clancy is the chairman on this one too. I talk about this. Okay. I'm just like I feel like I talk about this To raise like the awareness of postpartum But like here's the sad part about so Lindsay Clancy really really sad to her warning obviously talks about child loss um, she was a mom of three and When she after her last baby, I don't know how many months postpartum she was she maybe eight months she strangled all three of her kids Slit her wrist and throw jumped out a window on the side of floor of her house Now it's crazy about the story obviously you hear that and it's like horrific and it's like yeah, that's that's insane. That's an insane thing But what's so crazy is because I've been on the side of tiktok is like Because I'm like I like to talk about postpartum because it's like it's good to like so you're aware the symptoms of signs that get help but she was like Telling your husband. She told her husband. She told doctors There was even a point where she was on so much medicine. They gave her so much medication the wrong medicine Like this high dosage of it so much that I'm on such a high dog I'm gonna check myself in to like a postpartum care facility like a like a mental facility and for postpartum psychosis and they're like um, no like they didn't consider it ppp because they were like Oh, you're on medication for this so you're not postpartum so they center back though you can't stay here for this like we're gonna send you back home Told her husband. She had auditory hallucinations She told people she thought about harming herself and the kid she's like yes This this person this thing is telling me to take all the kids so we can sacrifice them and get up to heaven or whatever like something So she's telling people all this stuff doctors were prescribing it postpartum people her husband and it's like It's it's just wild to me because you know how quick I was admitted to or not admitted What's that called when they force you it's 50 but what's that called it's like they force you voluntarily voluntary Yeah, they like I think it choice. I literally said like I'm gonna I was like I'm gonna off myself like whatever And this was after I had the Adderall after I was drinking and on drugs all this like that They still were like your ass is going to a mental health facility for at least four to seven hours And you were there you came to visit and me and I was just like I'm not crazy I shouldn't be in here and like whatever but they still hold you because they're like well, I you might be a danger to yourself. So it's like She verbally said this to so like to husband medical professionals. They were put on these wrong doses. It's like How especially all like do people just not take it seriously that it's like your real things postpartum depression It's real postpartum reges real Obviously, we know now postpartum psychosis real because it's not the first mother that did this to her children and like Most and they all have something in common. They all just had a baby, right They're all in the hormones hormonal stage all this stuff like that. So that's obviously A real thing you see videos of her when she was in the she was in a medical field before she had kids And she's like talking very clearly about it and kids and how much I kid She's just very smart about kids and very intellectual and also like that. So it's like obviously now we see her in court Like in the wheelchair and obviously she's like the shell of a person still like obviously the shock of it or whatever but So that's why I'm like worried about like the trial because I'm like, okay if We failed her that way like everyone failed her that way It's like how is she gonna get a fair trial that people are gonna just look at it and still not take it seriously Just be oh she's a monster and just like walk her up whatever and then this continues to happen I don't think people think that way. I think not a lot of people do not want to talk but I think Like um people in the medical professional and legal profession and like they they do they try to set her up as like I don't know as as because they don't want the blame placed on them. That's what it is Yeah, because those they should be held liable if you've turned someone away that actively is like I am not okay And like I want to admit myself. They're like no, you'll be fine Come on How much more of a cry for help do you need I know well the comments are saying that too like comments say that the comments are saying like The husband left her alone. Yes, and he knew about he knew that she was a threat to the children because she was hearing these thoughts and he she he went to go pick up food or she sent him away to go pick up food in our way and he did it He like just like left her with three kids alone when that all happened and it's just like I don't know it's it's a tough one because it's like obviously you don't want to blame anyone else She did it and it's obviously like horrific and also like that but it's like at the same time You know, I don't know how much more she could have done. I don't think she could have done anymore. I think I think she's no one's helping her and she's just like in this psychosis and you have to like Not to blame the medical field, but like I do think I placed blame on them because a lot of medical professions Professionals like don't believe women and that's like a bigger like argument to the story Like even me like I can't find a diagnosis of what I have like do I have PCS? Do I have endometriosis? They're like oh, you're fine. Just take birth control like even something as small as that like they don't really believe women and You know that even goes hand-in-hand with like the Me Too movement like no one believed women They're like no, it's just like whatever Right, I guess they don't you just think doctors. I've just had such great doctors I guess so where it's like when I go for those checkups like they literally ask you about your mental health and they're literally like If you even put like a there's like sad faces if you put like a little mile face like they like Do a follow-up they talk to you they refer you to people to talk to you and so like that so it's like we also live in a state where like mental health is very like serious And like there's avenues for that like yeah, maybe they don't have that there I mean and also people medicating her and but more of the facilities she went to that kicked her out was like you don't have I mean if I go to a mental health settling and like I'm I'm crazy. I'm like I'm gonna hurt myself Like I'm think there because even when I was in that one I wasn't a bad one I was in one I was like a little janky or whatever like that But like I'm ever even going in there and it was like even if you had a slight like I still think about like hurting myself or something That they keep you in yeah, yeah, sometimes it's yeah, it's like they really just should have kept If you're like I'm gonna I don't know especially when it's like children. I don't know I do look up the husband a little side-eyed and be like Supporting your wife. Where were you maybe think she's being dramatic or she wouldn't do it or I'm saying yeah No one really gives the no one believes women a lot of the time and it's really sad I do feel really bad for her. I'm sure she feels terrible. Yeah, I think most people do think like I'm sure she's just absolutely like distraught how if that were to happen like I I wouldn't be able to smile I wouldn't have any Lifetime I probably like I can't I'm I can't believe I did that. Yeah, what are she's like processing like does she talk? It's like such a weird thing because like I would be three years now, but has she like come to know Where it's I would think but like are you still every single day of your life? Yeah, yeah, that's it's it's awful. It's like it's really Really sad it like you said she's like not enough resources. I guess what they are resources is crazy because it's like There's people it's like schizophrenia like and people take that seriously Yes, they call them crazy Even though that's an awful word to call them. Yeah hallucinations are usually taken pretty seriously like whenever I've had them or I've told people about them and stuff like that like it's usually all of a sudden people write them off and they're like It's just interesting. Thoughts is just this it's like well, even if they are it's like I'd rather have help for that then like not help It's just such a It's such a sad thing. I think the whole thing is But it's real, but it's real and I until I bring it up. I want to say like it is so real and If you don't have the people around you that believe you that's a big one. That's I think that's the biggest one. I think like I had a pretty bad with Malibu or like Post-war impression. Not this. Yeah, it's not a no, but I was lucky that Moses took it seriously and researched everything and then by the time the second baby rolled around We were like you were so much better. You knew like I think you kind of figured it out And then even Aquaway and even though my hormone levels dipped like it was always like you just kind of knew the plan It's like okay get extra help get something It's like but if you don't have that or if I had someone like gaslighting you or something Or just being like I'm sure a lot of guys are just like your dramatic also the fact that mothers have to do Most of the child care the formula the feeding the breast feeding all stuff like that like I did not like again Moses was great, but like I think that could have been such an added stress to be up no sleep black of sleep black of Neutritions for yourself like it's really uh and a lot of times left alone in that situation Yeah, oh my god. Yeah, like you know as when it goes to work you'll have to learn three kids in that case And it's just like oh and that three that that three number. Oh my gosh It can it gets overwhelming. It's overwhelming and like if you don't have someone I mean and I tell you all the time like it there. It's ever never overwhelming move. I'm just like okay Overwhelmed like you're really good at it, but it's um. Yeah, if you have a Yeah, I think like him like leaving her not to say again like it's his fault, but it's just like such a crazy thing where it's like I mean I don't know. It's order that food in or something, but oh It's awful. It's it makes me it makes me so upset and I think I just think there's such not enough Discussion in her defense. I suppose but not even her defense and just more of the awareness of like look at all this I didn't know all of that. Yeah, I was like oh damn this mom did this and that's crazy. Yeah, it's insane But and you have to be I mean you have to be mentally ill to do something like that, right? You have to like there's no question she's not somebody that woke up one day and she's not a murderer But that's what I'm saying. I don't think so if you look at her beforehand I don't think she has she's a medical professional. She like went to college like in this field She's like totally go here. I really think it was the post I think it was really the hormonal imbalance that shifted after her pregnancy that she It really put her into a psychosis. I don't even think mentally ill Okay, that's what I mean like are not or nothing a sound mind when she did it. Well, of course Yeah, yeah, that was so in that sense. I don't know even what they're trying her for because you know the murder They're literally yeah, it's like yeah, yes, it is and it's just it is that sad too and those poor kids It's like no one was like protecting them and it's just like And it doesn't know it doesn't matter even what punishment she gets. She's already in a leaving hell Yeah, she is already yeah right now leaving with this everything Yeah, I guess it's like if she if she was letting that psychosis or some kind of like imbalance Two-three years after that you step out of it So she kind of like wakes up to a hell hellish of a life Which is only there because nobody helped her. No, so I'm saying I'm ultimately not trying to like care She gets justice one way or the other because it's like I don't know She should deserves justice because she did do that and you know like what it whatever but It's more like what are we doing? Learning from this and what are the laws being put in place like what can we do psych evaluations like to check on moms? Because what if like people are too scared what if they're too What if you should go to someone's house and just do those checks? Maybe routine checks like you know Even when we went to our check-ups like they would give you those mental health things to figure out which was great And I loved it, but It might be career Japan like I see this all the time or maybe like Malaysia or something like that like The Asian countries I think it's end up to you when I was when I was going through my postpartum like literally after they have the baby They're like stay in this like really beautiful like hotel almost kind of place that the government does pay for with like whatever government money tax money whatever is over there and they have like round clock care and like the baby's always in the room with you So like the care comes from like those the nurses coming in bathing you bathing your child feeding your child also like that and it's not like a hospital setting It's like a really bougie like maybe it's even like Dubai or something like that and maybe those are like whatever But I think it Asia specifically like everyone does it so for like the first like two months after you get birth You're in this like really nice Facility was surrounded by people surrounded by support and it's like you and the baby are in there And you can do activities and you can do lunch and it's like we need stuff like that here I think we need stuff because it's like yes, like education is important And like obviously I have a really good husband, but like obviously there's people who are the husband's like you said have to go in Nine to five or work overnight or this is not whatever not possible to or they don't have the capacity because it is hard and it's I really think it's like providing More support for the moms after giving birth also if she was like if she had any more I don't know how old her youngest was, but like you're losing sleep You can hallucinate based on that alone. So if you have like that very scary like Psychosis will not sleeping that's like a really bad recipe for disaster Awful the lack of sleep is that that yeah, that's what I'm saying. It's almost like You should be give it a night nurse for the first year or something like that You should I don't know just something to make it hobby set the whole issue like daycare and also so expensive It's like why is it so hard to raise a child and there's no other help Then this stuff it happens. It's just like yeah, it's like they should they should send Somebody something because it's like too much and no one talks about it And I guess it's just like a good PSA that it's it's so real and even though like it is at the time I didn't really even know as a post-war impression or those kind of stuff. It's like damn. It's like just I Don't know just know that it happens and try and get a lot of support and no one talks about it And then you all these babies and then you're just like what the hell no one said the severity of it And you just look at people like that and you're like oh she was crazy or that one happened to me or whatever But she was a completely normal person the complete normal family like a husband kids like oh my god This is like a this is like a bathroom episode. I'm so sorry a bad trigger a trigger warning to you I know I know I know I'm surprised you want to talk about this stuff. Well, cuz I Cuz it's like about you. I'm actually proud of you like you before you could not handle any if someone farted Il they're gross. I mean No, I will obviously having kids and just so much poop all the time You're just like well, we just it's not really a hot topic, but it's a hot topic I want to know because I feel like this is something and I think there's no wrong or right answer I'm just so curious to know your bathroom etiquette blowing up Someone else's bathroom or you're in a public space like okay, just blowing up someone else okay come to the house You share a hotel room. You're sharing a bathroom space. You go into an office with one bathroom like you're a trailer with a bathroom Whatever there's one bathroom and you go it you blow it up What is the etiquette? Do you do do it? Do you hold it? Do you do just do it be like sorry guys you you warn people you close the door let it air out. What are you doing? I'm using? Pupari you carry it with you all the time. I do you have it with you right now? Not in my tiny like it's your my I didn't plan on going to the bathroom here in blood. I have I don't even want to talk about it It's just like for my work. Oh, I don't want to wear anything bougie At work, you know anyways, okay, that's on the point No, it didn't bring it with me today because I didn't plan on blowing up anyone's back What's in my house? What's fine? No, I would never though People blow up our bathroom a lot. Well, I would never because I don't know what it's fine I don't want to be like oh my god. She like it's just it's just we have so we feel it's specifically down here because we have it's like an Separate entryway so it's like all the podcast all the glam all everything like it's just like a separate way And it's kind of like the guest one and whatever. I mean we have you can use any bathroom I'm not that person was like don't use my bathroom Whatever bathroom, but um it is so funny because so different people have different Well, I'm not that I don't have that well I if and in conjunction with you have to do a courtesy flush That what's that mean I don't do crazy. I mean maybe what's that? I could try to teach her Through like you're done. Well, you do that you flush and then like if you have to do more you flush again And then you wipe and then you flush Okay, I guess I don't do that because you're trying to get rid of like the smell the smell of it. So it's It doesn't linger so you're just not letting it stew in there. You know what I mean? And one flesh doesn't do it. Well in case something else comes out of the water. - The science of it is if the reason you have the water is the poop falls in the water, then it doesn't smell. There's no smell. If your poop just sticks a little bit off the water, that's where the smell comes from. - I just most completely, 'cause he's never, it never smells. When we go to a hotel with one bathroom, he's never, never smells. - I don't let him talk on, I'm still trying to teach her. - What part? - He said I'm still trying to teach her. - 'Cause I said to her. - To flesh. - To flesh, to flesh as you go. Not to just wait to the end of the flesh. - What do you mean you're trying to teach me? - Because when, if a toilet gets clogged, it's usually because it's a buildup of poop toilet paper, like all of it it wants, and it just sits there in the plate. But if you flush as you go, then it's not that much, 'cause she uses a lot of toilet paper. - I know, she doesn't make it. - It's the toilet paper. So, I'm just saying that's why it's better like, flush as you go, then we don't get. - I think we're different wiping techniques too, because I can know. - Well, I used to be there, so. - Because of the space. - Well, not even that, but I just know, I crumpled it up, and that was like, no, fold it. I was like, oh, someone's folding it. - Oh. 'Cause I'm like, what are you doing? So, I will get toilet paper and she makes it into a ball. I'm like, why would you make it into a ball? You want to make it as wide as you can so your fingers are-- (laughing) - So, suddenly I see Malibu, like a little Tricia. Like, take it off, thank you. - That is like me folding, and I'm like, both one, the little tissue, the one piece of tissue we're folding, I was like, oh my God, okay. So-- - But wait, before we even continue, but that pooper is not allowed in his house. - Poopery, I know, he hates his mouth. - He hates his mouth. - It makes it worse. It actually makes it worse. - And you-- - Someone's phone is bothering me. - Oh, oh, they got it, it's on me. - 'Cause you-- - That's so scared of me yelling at you all the time now. - Anyway, it makes it worse, 'cause then you have that perfumey smell. - Oh, okay, fine. - Mixed with a poop smell? - I wouldn't anyways, because you hate all the smells. - That's true. (laughing) - Everywhere, like he took us weeks to get rid of that one time that he used it upstairs. - Which one? - Okay. - The poopery thing. - That's a lot of his way. - I probably used a spray. I was sprinkled by his way. - That's spray. - It was something. - But it was sprays, or whatever. - I love the spray. - That doesn't work. - Airwick. - No, that doesn't work. - Flashes you go the safest way to go. - Yeah, yours never, ever, ever, ever, ever. - Flashes you go, I like that slogan. He's gonna get, he's gonna get an ad for Charmin right now. - From me there, I mean, I'm the biggest. - No, no, I'm poopery. - I'm a Charmin. - I'm a Charmin. - He's been trying to guess what I mean, too. - I would love a bidet. - But that's not again, no. - Oh, we're at the doctor, at the poop doctor. He's like, she's a bidet, after this thing, no, it's fine to wipe. (laughing) - Well, almost a valid question. She has a wound, I didn't know if she should-- - That's fair. - I didn't know if she should-- - It'd be less friction. - And they didn't even think she should be the one we have upstairs, more like the douche, you know, one use the cuff to pregnancy. - Uh-huh, uh-huh. - You have that for the portable, for a whole lot of time. - Not the shh. - Yeah, yeah, I wouldn't like-- - Okay, back to blowing up other people's toilets. Not in any way, yes. I do have a courtesy flush. You should do a courtesy flush. Don't let, don't just let it stack up. - Turn the fan on. - Turn the fan on if there is a window, open the window. - There's much to do. - You know what, no one ever does. And I feel like, and you know what, oh, here's another thing. I always keep the fan on and close the door behind me. - Yeah. - And if anyone yells at me or comes to me like, oh, why you keep the fan on? Well, maybe you know why. - Who's yelling at you about the fan? - I don't know. Someone is. (laughing) - Someone will. - That's so weird, okay. - So, well, if I do it here, like, I'll keep the fan on, I'll close the door. - So it's so weird. - Don't ever open the door after. That is so rude. - No, close the door. Because we have like photoshoots, so there's like, you know, photographers, background, costumes, talent, producers. - Then I will try and weigh to be the last. - Because people, it's always on a day when we have a ton of people here. And it's like, obviously, you have to go in and use it and stuff like that. But one thing that people who love the bathroom never do is tell you. And I feel like they should tell you. So you can just tell people. - I'm not gonna go tell somebody, I'm gonna leave five minutes. Like, put a little post, if you like, wait five minutes to enter. Because that's better than going in there and being like, oh my God. And there have been some more, like, Jesus Christ, what just happened in here. Like, do a courtesy, wait 10 minutes. - People try to, like, not be seen. - But we know what, I saw who just came out of there. I'm always in the playroom. - Well, they were hoping either one, you won't see that. - They didn't do a courtesy flush. - They throw their Chipotle in the trap. I know where that Chipotle ended up. It's now in this because I'm smelling both Chipotle and the poop that came afterwards. And it's fine, people poop. But give me a little notification so I can tell other people. - No one's gonna tell you what else you're gonna do. - You're gonna see how she's my bathroom. I don't care. I'm gonna say, I'm gonna put a post down there to be like, hey guys, wait five minutes. Because you've been in there and it's multiple people. It's not even like whatever, multiple people, and it's fine, it's fine, and I'm not judging, and it's totally fine. And I've gone to, you know what I do, and this is maybe bad, don't do what I do. But I just like, if I go to other people's houses, I'm just not pooping. I'm just not gonna, poop. I'm just gonna just hold it. I will hold it until I get home. Like, I'm not gonna poop in your house. - Oh my god. - What if it builds up? What if it's like, there's just so many things that could go wrong, and it's like, I'm just not gonna do it. - Yeah, but I've noticed some people are just very comfortable pooping wherever they are. They have no problem. - I can never. And I never, like, I had one friend that's like, everywhere we went, he's just going to put it like everywhere. - Why are you doing it right when you come to my house? Any time, could be morning, could be afternoon, could be night. It's just like, he's like, I'm gonna come here and just like, poop in your toilet. And I'm like, and massive, and massive. - No, I feel like, what? - I feel like you have like some sort of trauma, because in one time you, someone's toilet. - Oh, I mean, that sounds familiar. What do you do to know? - I don't remember, but like, I do, I probably did, and I'm so bad at what I'm doing. - I need to know how to, that's what it is. - Yeah. - I don't know the plunge, so I would just keep flushing, and it would just be like, you've got like a complex. - Yes, maybe. - I don't like it. I don't like pooping. - And that's why you want everyone to tell you when they're gonna poop and when. - Yes, please. Or just, I would, if I was in someone's house, and I never would, because I would never poop in your house, only because, like, I'm so conscious about it, but I would at least say, let's put a little sign on that, and just be like, don't come in for five minutes. I think that's a plate. Do some body spray. - No spray. - No spray. - It makes it worse. - It's like spraying upstairs all the time. Especially because, like, when I'm showing the bathroom a lot, it's like, I'm gonna just spray. - It makes it worse. - No, only to you. - Well, I'm the one that lives there. - That was always the most good. I was like, it was more like good or whatever, like that. - For a second. - Yeah. - I think it's more good for a second. It's crazy. - All right. Final hot topic. Well, I mean, this was kind of one that got traction, but we love to talk about Tan on here. - Tan and Louis Castro. Did you see this one? - Oh, I did. Yeah. Louis Castro has accused Tan. It's so funny because you were talking about spill sash, and I was like, and so I just like, you know, I haven't checked it. I used to always check Tan and Louis before hot topics. I had checked it in a while. And today, I literally was like an hour ago, and it was like, Tan and Mojo accused of stealing. Did you see anything about this before? - I didn't click on that because I didn't know if we were going to talk about it or not. - I did. - Well, I just saw it because of Tan and Tan talked about it over the weekend. And to talk about Mercury and Retrograde, that girl's Mercury and Retrograde is, she's in the hospital. She's having like, and she said it like last week too. She was like, I really am feeling this Mercury and Retrograde. And yeah, she's like this whole thing. So, yeah. So, I, and I don't know, Louis, like that, but I just know him as like an influencer. And he, I guess, accused Tan of, because they were in that reality house together at the key in NJC. Do you remember that show? Do you watch it? - I never watched it, but I do remember it. - I was on the first season of it. And I think I was, was Tan on season two, I don't know, I was on like another season where I feel like Tan was there. A ratio of season three. Season three. And I guess they were in the house together and he said when she left that, well, he, when he was leaving the house, he's like, my shoes are gone and he's like, I need to see the footage. And then they said, they saw on camera that Tan took these shoes, which were size, not her size. Like 41 or 42. And at the time, she was like a 39. So she's like, why would I take shoes that don't fit me? But then she was saying she had like a panic attack because she's like, what, if there's like footage and I actually did, did just like, you know, not thinking about it, like your back. Because she, she talked about it, how she was like in this house and she said it with Fusy Tube. And it was like uncomfortable and she was trying to leave in a hurry. I've accidentally taken people's things all the time like that. And you just like realize, oh my god, I took this thing or whatever like that. So then she started to get panicked to check what it there is because she's like, there's no way it would be me. There's no way it would be me. The way he said it to, I think there's a thing about podcasts because it's all Louise podcasts. I talked about it. It's like podcasts. You do just be saying, yeah. And the way you say things because you're just being, you're trying to be funny, you're trying to be like dramatic, you're trying to get those clips or whatever. And the way he said it was very much like, Tanna, like you owe me for those shoes. Like you still just do like very much like Tanna stole my shoes. Yeah. And then Tanna and her piece of air, she's just like, why is this being brought up? It would be bad. Like I would think that too. Like if a young influencer, they might be the same age. I forget Tanna so young too. But like I feel like someone was like 10 years, like 10 years ago, a treasure stole my thing. Where are you right now if you have the footage? Yeah. I guess it. I wonder what the context. That's the other thing with podcasts. I'm like, what is the context? So you can get some views. It's like us today not having hot topics. I'm like, what's the story that I can tell? It's like, I was really trying to think I'm like, what story I can tell about myself. And I'm like, I don't have one. So we're doing this one. But yeah. And then it's like 10 years later. God, there was something that was brought up too. And it was like something old to mine from like 10 years ago. I'm like, why would I try about this now? But anyways, it was because it's relatively whatever. Yeah. And it's like, if you had the footage, you think you would at least show the clip. Or make it a funny version. Just be like, oh, my God. This was so crazy. Yeah. You know, stole my shoes to get the headline. Like, did he have a clip of her stealing it? Oh, I don't think so. Because I feel like, well, he said he saw it. I don't know if he has the footage in hand. Well, it's her board versus us. But I know. Yeah. It's a weird thing, too, to like, I guess. Yeah, I don't know. I guess more. It was like, maybe just a story. I don't know the context of it all. But. So when was that like sitting on it and waiting this long? 10 years ago. - I'm not, no, it might have been, no, 'cause like reality house that I was on was like seven years ago. - Oh, okay, okay. - I would have to say maybe like five years ago, which is still a long time, yeah. - It's still like, you would think if you're doing a story time or a TikTok or something, like it would be. - We've got some people on, nah, it sounds so bad, but like we've seen some people like take things, you know, but not in the stealing way, in a very much like, oh, they might, they probably don't want this kind of way or something, so you like go on the camera to see what happened, 'cause you're just so, 'cause you're just like, so good viewers, like, oh my god, what happened with that or whatever, but I would never like call someone out, 'cause I'm like, oh, they probably just thought, it's never like something like deliberate, like they didn't steal a chair or like a cup or something, it's just something like, oh, they probably thought it was like trash 'cause they were sitting by the trash and they were like, oh, I'll just take this, whatever. But I would never call someone out for it. I mean, I've had, it's like that watch that I lost. - Well, I didn't lose it. - Oh, yes. - Someone took it. - Because. - But we never had footage of it. - We didn't have footage and that's why I never said it. Like, I've always, we've always bleeped it. It was an influencer, yes. It had to have been because that was all that was back. - That was a tough one because, but that's like the funny footage and I can't do anything about it. - It's kind of the same thing too, 'cause it's like the reality house is kind of a tough one too, 'cause it could have been, it could have been. - Well, I guess you're saying he had footage, okay, so it's different. 'Cause your specific thing was at my show and there was like, not a lot influencers, but maybe like five influencers back there. So like, there's one that like has a history. - Yeah. - And it's like, but do you accuse the one that it's like had the history of stealing. - Right. - It's the only thing or. - Yeah. - I believe him that he has the footage. First of all, he doesn't have the footage. - Well, he said he saw it. I don't know if he had it. - And it didn't sound like he saw it. He sounded like he asked them and they told him that when they looked at the footage, that's what he saw. - So here, do I want you to send a video? - If there was footage, or he saw the footage, he would be more descriptive of what he saw. 'Cause to me, it's very interesting. Like, okay, she's rushing to leave. Let me gather my stuff, push it in a bag and leave. Were there shoes next to her? They shared bed next to each other? Or there's footage of Tena going to my stuff, getting shoes out of my stuff, putting it in her bag. - Right. - Very different situation. So to me, it's like, he made it vague enough that anyone can, it's been long enough that she can't refute it. But then, I don't know, that's to me. - Well, I just felt bad 'cause I feel like she got into like a little anxiety. And obviously, Tena is my friend's soul, maybe like bias forever. And I really like Louis, so I like his art. And obviously, it's what they made TikToks together. They're like fine and everything that. But I do know Tena's like anxiety over these kind of things because it is like a drama they want to like pile on. It's not so much like the influencer influencer. - Yeah. - As you believe, it's like the audience. That is gonna come for her. - Yeah, yeah, I think she really is trying to be in this like peace era. And as she said, like the brand safe era at all. And it's like, yeah, it's hard, and it's hard. Especially when it's something that is so, one, it could not be true. Or two, it could be like kind of silly. It's kind of like, well, she didn't maliciously be like, I'm still in these. - Or being seen, like, you remember that girl that got shoes on Poshmark and returned them used? But then you saw all of her pictures. She was using those shoes. - Oh, yeah. - So Tena, like he's showing in here's footage of Tena with my shoes wearing them too. This is like, I don't know. It just sounds a bit. - Yeah, maybe just a little bit fabricated. I'd have like a story or something like that. - I don't know. - At any episode where she goes to this party and they tell her to take off her shoes. And she doesn't want to 'cause she was wearing the outfit. Well, when she went to go put back her shoes, they were gone. - Now. - That's so interesting. - I think one that was Jack, it's too. - Yeah, so she's like, well, you told me to take off my shoes and I feel like you're responsible for paying for them. - Oh, in real life. It was a success in the city. - No, I think this is real life too. I think something happened like this. But go ahead, yeah. - And so she's like, they wouldn't have been stolen if you didn't ask me to take my shoes off, whatever, whatever. So if he really, really wanted those shoes, he would have asked whoever was there last. And he'd be like, hey, do you have my shoes or have you seen my shoes? - Yeah, I wonder if he brought it up for you. - Can you check your bag? - It did sound like he brought it up to her at the time either. Like it is kind of like a weird timing. And it's like, yeah, and I get both sides. Like I totally get him wanting to like pop a story. I feel like I'm definitely sure about influencers. I'm like, I'd like to share that for drama purposes. No, but then I also feel, you know, for her 'cause it's like the anxiety. 'Cause I think she, I knew she was doing the anxiety 'cause it's like, what if there was video, whatever. And I didn't think it was a different time in her life or whatever, obviously before she was sober. And then on top of that, you could feel tell she was feeling something. 'Cause then they went over the top and then they did like a TikTok collab. They go shoe shopping together. She's buying a mat. She bought up a pair of shoes before. She like knew the brand he liked. She got them these brand. Then they went and bought matching shoes at this like, they really went full out on it. I was like, damn. - He's a matching of whatever. (laughing) - What are those called? - I don't know. - Yeah, did they get matching ones with those? (laughing) I don't really find it. - I think they have the same size now. I think that was the gag of it all. 'Cause I think Tana's foot has grown and stuff. - I don't know. - But then I forgot how, what her size was. And I was like, oh wait, maybe they could have fit her. - Yeah. - She's got her sheer figure. Mind you too. I just have the tightness for like, size six, and we're literally eight and a half almost nine now. 'Cause that's gonna order a pair of like, ugg slippers. And I was like, I think I like nine feet now. I think they really do grow. It's actually good though. 'Cause when I got those shoes for Tana, I got a like these toes one for her birthday because shout out, Marry. I love a friend's when I'm like, hey, can you help me out? - Shout out that he actually knew. - Yeah, that he knew. And then he told me, a lot of people are like, don't, whatever. And it's like the fact that he knew she loved them. Those were crazy. I honestly were so cute on her. - They were cute on her. - I remember when I was like, those are crazy. - But it was the only pair left. That was your popular. 'Cause it was the only pair left. It was in her size, which is like a size 40. If you ever want to get Tana to shoe, you get the size 40. And European. And I was like, it's kind of good though. It's a little bit bigger because now no one's going to have those. - Yeah. - But I'm glad I was resolved. I'm not here to be like, whatever. But it's just like, when you have a podcast, you're going to say, I think that's why a lot of people should have podcasts. - Shout out to everyone. - Probably me sometime too. That's why I'm very much like, you know, just, you just talk. You talk for so long and you just say like whatever. Sometimes you don't mean to take it out in a certain way. Sometimes I can like start drama. And you're just like, dammit. Probably never meant to be that serious, which I'm assuming. He probably thought to hence why he like went over to, I mean, he was like in a g way. And when he pulled up at Tana's house, I was like, well, he seems to be doing well. - Everyone's doing good. - Yeah. - She's doing good. But that was. - Mercury retrograde, please stop. For Tana's sake. - What's your third? - Kali was one. - Oh, is it? Okay. - 23rd. - Kali's sake too. She was telling me all her Mercury retrograde. And oh god. I walked out of a job. No, no, no show. - Oh, wow. - Yeah. - That was another incident and a different job. - But that was really your new job during this time. - Yeah. - You are your job era. - Yeah. - Yeah, but it's just been all along. - Always. - Okay. - Just dropping the bombshell at the end of the episode. - Is it a relationship? - Yeah. - Okay. You did tell me a little bit about it. And I'm very excited for you. - I did. - Oh my gosh. - I'm gonna go visit her on next week. - Oh my gosh. - Oh my gosh. Are you so excited? - Yeah, I am. - Oh my gosh. I am so excited for you. I was so happy when you told me and you were like, no one else else. Oh my god. I love it. And I was like, oh my gosh. I love that for you. I'm so happy. Yeah. - That's it. I was like, wait, you look so like good. And you always look good. You always do your hair and makeup. And I was like, wait, what is it? I know you've already lost weight. So I wasn't that. So I was like, that's what it is. It's the happy love glow. I know when you posted the flowers. I was like, I love it. We'll have so much fun. I know. 'Cause next week-- - Hopefully we've prepared you for your-- - Yes. - 'Cause if-- - The fantasy boys-- - She doesn't die. (laughing) - And if-- On the way to the restaurant, she gets the wrong girl. - That's here. Wow. There's so many things. - This whole episode was-- - I love a location tracker, just in general, because like-- And it's not ever our gotcha moment, ever. 'Cause I'm just like, whatever. And if you know when we turn it off or something like that. But I like to have it. I should get my mom's too. 'Cause it's just like, I kind of love it actually. Just to make sure-- - Yeah. - That passed out. - And it helps finding the phone that we learned. - Oh yeah. My dad showed it how to pinpoint it exactly in the house. - What? 'Cause I always lose it in the living room. - Oh yeah. - So I just push on her location. And then there's find my phone. And it literally kind of guides you through the house. - Oh yeah. - Until you-- - Oh my god. - On top of it. - On top of it. - Yes. - Like a human was on top of my phone. - Somebody was sitting on it. - And most like-- (laughing) - Underkey. (laughing) - It was like-- - It was like-- - Yeah, but it's so funny. 'Cause it leads you, leads you. And then you get to a person. It's like, you have her phone. It's like, no, I don't have her phone. It's like, so get up. (laughing) So that's so funny. - It was really funny. That was the way you said it too much. It's, you know, it's delivery. It's just-- - Anyways. - Okay, the end of that episode. It gets a little loopy. It looks a little crazy. But shout out to everyone involved for the happy ending of Shougate. And, you know. It's all good. It's all good. It's all good. It's all good. I sometimes ask some of her stuff here, 'cause I'm not leveling some of her stuff. Just gets left here, 'cause we, everything's leopard, everything's matching. - Yeah. - It gets mixed up. - All right, well, I was great to have you. - Thank you for having me. - And we love you so much. - I love you guys so much. - You guys check out CalGator 143 Set Your Streaming. - Yes. - Did you see your Gator, Litigator shirt? - I am so excited for that shirt. - Don't forget that shirt. - I'm not. - And go subscribe to our Patreon at patreon.com/justtrish. If you guys wanna see some bonus, we're gonna play a fun little game with this little trio in here, because we're already set up in the light-camera action of it all. And you guys asked us, "Your would you rather?" And we're gonna play it for you on Patreon. I love a game. - I love a good game. - It's gonna be so fun. It's like high school, except all of us graduated in different years. That game's really all of us, but that's fine. All right, love you guys. We'll see you soon. Bye. All of us. All of us. We wouldn't have even gone high school together, 'cause we weren't home school, but just the home part. Home school might as school. All right, bye.