The speaker discusses how to achieve a "soft life"—a lifestyle of minimal stress, comfort, and luxury—within the context of relationships and daily living. She emphasizes that soft life is more than an aesthetic; it requires genuine peace, which means surrounding yourself only with relationships that are easy, supportive, and free of drama. If a partner, friend, or family member brings constant arguments or anxiety, they should be let go, as this is essential for maintaining softness and femininity.
Key practical advice includes learning to say "no" to obligations and people-pleasing, as this alone can significantly reduce stress. She also encourages accepting help from men, noting that presenting yourself as more feminine—through softer clothing colors, grooming, and demeanor—invites more assistance and kindness from others. The speaker advises against everyday cursing, viewing it as unfeminine, though she allows for justified confrontation.
She applies soft life principles to work and chores: tasks should be optional or made pleasurable, like her own business packaging, which she enjoys with music and pretty decor. Using money to outsource stressful duties, such as cooking, is also recommended. Finally, she suggests maintaining humor and being "unbothered" in difficult situations to preserve inner peace, and creating a living environment that reflects your tastes through compromises with partners. Overall, soft life is a deliberate choice to prioritize peace, ease, and self-care over obligation and stress.
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Good afternoon,
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everyone.
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Thank you for clicking on, Welcome to the channel.
So, I'm going to let a few guys get in and we're going to be talking about soft life and
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relationships.
You just just back a little that.
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So, soft, life and relationships.
Sometimes, if you are attempting or trying to live a soft life, leveled up life, you know, a life of comfort and less, Grass and things like that.
Your relationship also has to allow you to live that soft life.
Hey y'all sprinkle sprinkle.
So a shout out to the members, a goddess while red Sophie, how are you and living, a soft life is more than just the clothes you wear or, you know, the things you don't do or the things that you do.
It's about having less stress, less worry.
S issues.
Less Problems is literally the opposite of living a hard life.
So if your relationship is not allowing you to be stress-free, living a easy or softer lives and not having to do so much that you don't want to do.
And if it takes you out of your feminine a lot, then that is not the type of Relationship that you will do well in if you're trying to have soft life, right?
So if you're constantly arguing, if you're constantly having issues, if you're constantly, not at peace, you know, that is preventing your soft life from
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being
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soft, because you're always going to be worried, Matt upset.
Emotional dadada, Dada.
So a lot of ladies use quote, unquote sauce, Soft life as an aesthetic, you know, the clothing, the decor the sayings, you know, all that kind of stuff posting on social media, but if you aren't really able to live in that, you know, feeling of softness and femininity, then it literally just becomes an aesthetic.
So that's why some people have to take it to the next level and And allow all the relationships in your life.
Whether it's your significant, other, your family members, your friends, your colleagues, whoever is in your life that it needs to be peaceful soft and easy types of relationships.
This is why I'm so easy to tell you guys to dismiss them to move on on to the next because that's literally how you get to live a soft life.
You don't waste time or energy.
She and unnecessary stress on people that aren't making your life.
Better softer, more feminine or beneficial.
Okay?
So y'all write that down because that is one of the steps in order to really accomplish living that leveled up soft life that most people want.
Okay, I'm going to take my licks her Elixir
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If y'all want to try my elixirs of the link is at the top and the live comments and I'll link it here.
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Yes, and I'm this
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level to y'all, I'm still on it because I love this level.
So much this level 2 gives you so much energy, creativity and just want to go and get it done.
Baby stress-free WorryFree, it's just like automatic.
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So
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if you all have done level two, or phase to yall already know, okay?
That's that's my favorite one.
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Literally, You
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said can we troll?
No, not yet.
Give me about 15 more minutes and you can you can
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start trolling.
Thank you.
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Okay.
So, you know, I also like having a soft life and relationships, you know, you need to be able to laugh at yourselves.
You need to have a sense of humor.
You need to lighten up a little bit, you need to be able to have, you know, to be able to laugh at yourself sometimes because nobody is perfect.
Now that doesn't mean your partner or your relationship is.
Going to be perfect.
If you have a soft life and you're not entertaining anybody that's making it, you know, full of issues.
It just means you're at peace.
You're able to forgive your understanding, you have a sense of humor, you don't take things super seriously and you don't stick around when things aren't what you want them to be.
You just either cut it short or, you know, you make the best of it without any drama or issues, okay?
Because that is what literally We'll help you, sorry about my cats back
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there.
She has allergies.
Here.
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Kitty.
She could be happening at furballs, you know, she didn't get up.
And I'll say Z, okay.
Yeah, it's springtime.
And she goes outside sometimes and sniffs on the Little Flower.
So she has a little sneeze,
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Okay.
So
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Yeah, cut off the fake friends.
Exactly soft life is also saying no to friends or family members that you feel obligated to or people that you are stressed out about pleasing all the time.
You need to just say no sometimes or all the time, if you don't want to do anything that they want you to do.
So don't be afraid to be called.
Oh she's acting funny or she's not the same person to used to be.
You're right you're living Soft life.
So your life is not going to be exactly the same as it used to be.
You're not going to be stressed out about doing something you don't want to do.
You're not going to be, you know, feeling obligated or forced to do something just because so you're not the same person so accept that you are changing into a softer person and saying, no, sometimes is the best way now to make that soft life a reality because some people, their life could literally be soft right now.
If all the did was switched from being obligated in a people pleaser to say, no or no, I'm not comfortable with that or maybe another time, just those couple of sentences can change someone's life, from being highly stressful to a lot less stress, just those three sentences.
So if you're unable to figure out where to start like to have your leveled up soft lies, living a life of comfort and luxury.
Start with just saying, no, Or some other time.
And you'll see that feeling is so freeing, okay?
It really is.
Jay nine-and-a-half sprinkle
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sprinkle
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so your are you unrealistic?
Because you don't want to work like at all know because I was the same way and I don't work at all unless I'm doing something that I created, you know, my only work consists of my Creations.
So maybe YouTube is would be considered work to some people, but it's not work for me.
Maybe answering emails, three emails a day.
A is work but some people do that anyway until get paid.
So I feel like, you know, it's not really work for some people.
It's what they would do for free
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anyway.
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I don't clock in.
I don't go anywhere and I never liked working.
I never liked working.
I'm telling you, I just like the money and when I figured out that you don't have to work in order to get money or you don't have to work for someone in order to get money, I figured out a way how to not have to do that anymore.
So it's all about, you know, Being a plan, a sitting down seeing the realization of what you can do with what you have, and how you can, you know, switch things around.
So, where you don't have to work or you can take a shortcut, you know, we are women, we are feminine and Men literally want to help us, they always asking us, do you need anything?
Can I help you?
Is there anything I can do what you like, you know, and we have all of this and we don't realize it and we're pushing it away.
A lot of the time So a lot of times guys just want to help you, they want to help you move furniture put stuff together.
They want to help you with some information, some, you know, they want to help you open the door.
They want to help you do all these things.
So allow people to help you Instead of always being deficient and saying no, because sometimes people just see a feminine woman and they just want to help because that's their masculine nature.
So let them do that.
And if you're not meeting guys that want to help you need to be more feminine, okay?
Like be more feminine more feminine.
You are the more of an want to help you literally I'm not joking like you can go out and do this experiment.
Go out and like Some masculine looking clothes, some jeans and t-shirt and some sneakers, right?
Go go out like
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that
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and walk around go and, you know, go into stores going to places where there's doors and things like that.
And then try this the next day, put on something really.
Pretty address.
Something pink.
Get you.
Some little cute slides or slippers or flats or heels, whatever you're comfortable wearing.
Do your hair and your makeup really pretty and feminine, make sure you look and smell really good and do the same thing.
Walk around, go somewhere here, go somewhere there and you're going to notice men rush to open the door for you or they smile at you or they, you know, look at you more, or they treat you nicer.
Like, if you're dealing with them in a customer service type way or an employee type way they're good.
They're going to go out of the way for you.
Sometimes you might get free stuff.
You never know.
So I definitely see that.
Living a soft life work.
Requires you to be in your feminine and when you're in your feminine, you're able to accept help and free things and special treatment with he's okay.
And let me tell y'all, Wearing light and feminine colors are more inviting.
I love black.
We all know I got my clock with a hat is half black.
Most of it but I also know the power of lighter colors as well.
They're more inviting men will approach you faster and lighter colors, okay?
Because they're more inviting.
You look softer.
You look sweeter.
You look less intimidating.
So where the softer colors and you'll see you might get approached a lot more and make sure when you open your mouth and you speak it matches the
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outside, okay?
You're
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not going out of your way for others.
I only do what I want to do.
Well, that's great.
That's wonderful.
And I like that no, that's a great mentality because it does allow you to live a more stress-free softer.
A life.
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Also,
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make sure you're taking care of your body.
Men care about body shapes and sizes.
Take care of your entire self.
Yes, that is definitely true.
Because living us off life will give you the time energy motivation, and the means to do whatever you need to do to keep yourself at your best self, you know, back in the right.
So, You say you dress for wealthy paid?
Only ha.
Ha, right?
What do you think about cussing?
Swearing is that not going to?
It's not feminine at all.
Unless that's your job and you get paid for it.
I don't see a reason why people do it.
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Okay.
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Yes, I think I think people that like if you know, people are raised different Some people are raised around people that curse a lot.
Some people think it's part of their culture.
Some people think it's a way of showing like camaraderie or whatever, but I don't I wasn't
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raised that way like
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People didn't cuss around me when I was growing up so I didn't grow up in that type of environment so to me it's a no no it's not good.
So my kids don't do that either you know.
And so I don't Think cussing is very fit in, unless you have to cuss somebody out because they stepped out of line.
Then go go, go for it,
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baby.
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But not just in regular speech.
And every day, you know, conversations, but if somebody deserves to get cussed out, I do believe that you should be able to do that.
But I don't believe it should be part of your everyday vocabulary if you're not needing to use it on that level, we all know.
Me.
I'm sweet until I'm not.
Okay, you said how often do I cook?
It depends like I'm plant-based and vegan.
So I only pretty much cook for me in the children and they know how to cook for themselves.
So sometimes they cook for me, it's very rare.
Maybe once or twice a week at the
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most And
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sometimes no times a week, sometimes, we were ordering doordash and things like that.
So it's not something that I feel, I am obligated to do so.
Therefore, it's less stressful for me as a woman, and a mother and an entrepreneur to not have to worry about, what am I going to cook tonight?
You know, so living a soft life.
Also means you have options and you don't have to be obligated to do a certain chore every day if you don't feel like it, okay.
You know, that's what money is for.
That's what living a soft life is for.
That's what dating in a relationship with a man who doesn't, you know, have their hand out.
You know, when it's time to pay bills, you can use money to solve a lot of your issues that cause stress or that cause worried or that, cause anxiety, or that causes wear or burnout.
So, a lot of women don't like cooking every day.
It's too stressful.
You got to go to the grocery store.
Figure out what you're going to cook.
Not everybody's going to like it.
Throw money at it.
No order some doordash, tell their kill your kids to cook, you know, by something that's easy to warm up and eat.
But at the same time it shouldn't be an obligation.
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Mmm-hmm
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she would don't you package.
Well, I do my level of orders and yeah, I do sometimes when I get large bulk orders, I'm probably in there for about 20 minutes, packaging my orders, but I do it at my only so, for example, I might take 20 minutes before bedtime, if I have a couple of orders, and instead of scrolling on Instagram or whatever out package the orders, print them print out the stuff from my computer and then take it in the morning, you know, but I don't
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have
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well when I when I have sales and stuff, I do get a lot of orders but
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so it's not like a big
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deal, it takes 20 minutes out of my day at the most Yeah, and I enjoy doing it because I have such a beautiful setup, like I have a really cute desk and it's all pink and I have like all my little favorite stuff on there.
I have a little wax burner, I put my favorite scents in, I play music or watch a YouTube video while I'm doing it.
My packages are pink and pretty and I write pretty.
Thank you cards to all of the people that order my stuff so it's like I'm having fun.
I'm doing all the things I love.
I'm listening to nice music or I'm watching a video.
I'm writing.
Letters or thank you cards.
I love writing letters and and I love stationery and pins and stuff.
So I make my work as pleasurable as I can, so it never seems like work and all my packaging is really pretty and cute.
And so I feel like I'm sharing this with my customers, you know you're my lip glosses and I feel like yes you know these are so pretty.
They're going to love the it's almost like giving gifts except people pay for them so you know have you ever like around Christmas time or people's birthdays?
You are you know packaging their gifts up and you're writing their card out and you're like oh my gosh they're going to love this.
Imagine getting paid for that.
That's how I look at things.
That's how women with soft Lives who run businesses should look at their business.
They should love what they do.
They should feel that way.
Yeah.
And I feel like we as long as you have a point of view and a way to feel about what it is you're doing and you love it, then you never really work a day in your
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life, okay?
That, you know, imagine if I had a large Social Circle and I had a lot of friends and people were inviting me to birthdays anniversaries.
I probably do even more work
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For free and have to spend my own money on gifts.
When this way, I feel like the same thing.
I'm packing up gifts from the people that support me that I talk to probably daily on these lies.
Like, God is wild red, little bunny j9, sprinkle sprinkle how y'all doing, and a lot of other guys Sabrina.
So Cynthia.
And so, I feel like I'm sharing a part of me with you guys when I ship out.
You know, the products that you guys order and I do put a lot of energy and effort into it and writing out your cards and I hope that, you know, when you get that you like, you know, like oh wow that's so nice.
You know.
So I feel like it's not really worked for me at all because I like doing it.
You said, thank you for the found out.
Sprinkle.
Sparkle y'all.
All right, so, so soft life is also loving what you do, if you have to do something, love it.
Surround yourself with the environment and the tools that make you feel good.
And you know, and that goes as far as relationships to, you know, when you live with someone, you know, decor and all those things are going to be, you know, a struggle.
If that person is not allowing you to express yourself through your environment, so, you know, your color palette, how you want the house to look?
If y'all have your, you live with a man and you can't decide what colors to go for, maybe go for a neutral palette that's both masculine or can be just neutral, you know, because a lot of women want to put all this, you know, pink and frilly stuff around the house and a man or like, I don't know, I can't do that.
So go for a more muted palette.
Eyelet, you could go for like a cream, a beige, maybe gray, and then throw some accent pillows during, you know, different seasons.
But, you know, make sure you're allowing your no soft life to affect both of you guys that way, he'll be more supportive of you, doing, whatever it is, you're doing to create soft
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life.
Okay.
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You said is it possible to even feel this way with a masculine job if you find a way to make your masculine job seem feminine and you learn to really like it of course.
So there's always a way to reason something.
Okay?
Yes, Y'all become a member hit, the little arrow down there under the video or click join and y'all can become members and you get shoutouts, special emojis, and all that good stuff,
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okay?
so, I have a Call coming out tomorrow.
Yeah,
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alcohol coming out tomorrow like in the morning time around 10 and I was I was going to wait to show you guys some of the stuff that James got us for Valentine's Day and it's going to be in that blog.
So if y'all were curious about that James surprised, all of us meet Layla and Sasha with a nice gift for Valentine's Day and then me some extra stuff.
But
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I put what we got in there and it's also some other stuff leading up to Valentine's Day and all that kind of stuff.
So it's about a week week ago, stuff that we were doing a week ago in the blog so if y'all were interested is coming out tomorrow at 10:00
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Central in the morning, 10 a.m. in the morning so and I also have no that's I'm so sorry.
I'm so sorry.
Scratch that
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I'm so sorry
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Monday.
Monday.
Okay, and I think it might come out at noon on
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Monday.
All right, sorry
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or could be 12.
I don't know.
I'll let y'all know.
I'll put the link in there.
I'll post it.
Okay, I can't remember because I have it scheduled and to come out on YouTube so I have to have to remember that but okay, I also have a sheet in Hall That is probably coming out tomorrow.
I think or today, tomorrow, or today, probably tomorrow, and I have some cute stuff in there and y'all see that too because a lot of you guys always ask me where I get in stuff from and I want to share.
So that's going to be coming out soon as well.
How do I stay soft when someone's is finding you or put you in a stressful situation?
I laugh and make a joke out of it.
Darling sprinkles for because You know, laughter, he's a stress.
So I make whatever situation that feels - to me.
I make it funny and I laugh at it or you can ignore it and be unbothered, like Lulu, says yes, if you can't laugh at it, then being bothered by it.
Don't let it stress you out, okay?
If you can't turn it into something good, then don't even acknowledge it, you know, part of a living.
A soft life is allowing yourself to be unbothered or to laugh at certain things that are meant to try to come against you, you
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know?
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You said, you laugh at everyone and everything it's fun.
It's liberating
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literally
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would wearing a pencil skirt and a nice blouse during happy hour.
Be decent attire to it.
I'm sounds cute to me.
Sprinkle
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sprinkle
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Yes.
Let me read some of these comments.
You said that's a gentleman that happens to be your husband and father of your daughter's.
Yes thank you for clearing that up.
And I was surprised because he didn't just buy me something nice.
He bought them something icing to me.
Like, when a man becomes
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a father, And he just spoiled
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and me or I need you to do something nice for all of us, not just one of us because I feel like they need to see how it feels to be treated like that as well.
Especially as daughters as girls.
They need to know what it feels like to be spoiled by a man as well because when they grow up, they not going to accept nothing less,
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okay?
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And so if you are, you know, if you have daughters, if guys y'all are listening Many men, you have daughters who need to spoil them at a young age and a teenager age, and then as a grown woman because all you're doing is making their standards higher so they don't end up with a Dusty.
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Okay?
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Your daughter's father never gives her anything for me today that even for her birthday.
Well he need to do better or some you know some somebody stepping in for feel that that job.
Okay sprinkle
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sprinkle
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and that only that I when I tell you guys when men see the look on your face when you receive a nice gift, they want to buy you War because as soon as they got their gifts, he saw a reaction on Her face and that they liked it.
He went and ordered another gift just because from you know, the same
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place and you know, so
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just because because he liked the reaction so I think and they're you know, they're at that age now where they like the Finer Things or nicer things.
So you know before you just give them a gift card or you know, some money to go to Walmart or Target or spend on Amazon.
But now the gift The luxury or you know the higher end for like their age.
Yes.
Okay.
And that's also living a soft life learning how to receive learning how to say, thank you, learning how to appreciate gifts and show gratitude.
It's not, there's nothing wrong with that because the more you are able to do so the more they want to give you okay?
And that's part of having a soft life like part of my rules and soft life or leveled up life.
It's not buying yourself super expensive.
Civ gifts, but allowing other people to do that because it's more meaningful, you take better better care of it and you're not coming out of your pocket and they want to do those things for you to impress you.
So even though I could buy the stuff that someone else buys me, it, it feels better when it's received as a gift and you feel more loved and appreciated and data, huh?
And so it makes you feel softer naturally.
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Okay, you said James seems very sweet and he is, he's, you know, he's gotten to be a really good considerate.
Sweet kind, Family, Man.
And wants to do everything possible to please his family, which is good.
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When I like a man, I tried to so hard to make him laugh.
How do I shut this off?
Masculine trait.
I like to make myself laugh and I like like, honestly, I like to laugh.
I love to laugh.
I like funny.
If you can make me laugh, I'm in, you know, but I also feel like sometimes like maybe you feel like that man is too serious and can't relax or is taking things like You don't, you know, a lot of times people just want to make you smile.
So I feel like instead of making someone laugh, maybe make them smile instead, maybe make them smile and stick, you know.
It's the same.
You're getting of the smile, you're getting the reaction.
So figure out how to make a man smile versus making him laugh.
You know, maybe a compliment maybe just some eye contact in
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a little,
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you know, smirk or something.
So less. but I like to laugh, I mean y'all do I make myself laugh a lot of times And a lot of times, I feel like women feel like if they can make a man laughs, I mean will make them laugh back.
But sometimes men aren't that.
Funny, we have to pretend.
They
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are.
So
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you said how how to show we like and appreciate luxury when we don't get it for ourselves
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links.
Baby
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links, y'all know, okay?
Let me tell y'all what I do.
I have, you know, the notes section on your
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phone.
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I save up when I see something.
I like, I get the link and I put it in a note labeled what I want for gifts.
Okay, GIF.
TS.
Okay, and I'll link all the things that I want for a gift.
And whenever James asks, me if I want something or if there's a holiday coming up, I go ahead and I send that to him Autumn links.
Sometimes I get more than one thing on there.
Sometimes I get all the things on
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there but I send it okay.
That's how they know because a lot of men aren't going to guess.
A lot of men aren't going to say well maybe she would like something luxurious.
If you got to tell these guys, most of the time, especially if you're in a relationship but if you're like, when I first met James, I told him what I think.
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Couple of months after we met was my birthday, right?
And I told him what I wanted straight up.
I said I want that Louis Vuitton backpack.
Girl, it was watching.
K.
Okay, so tell me what that Louis
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Vuitton backpack
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for my birthday and I got it only knowing him three months and he's already paying bills.
Didn't have to work anymore so you just got to open your mouth baby.
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And also have the right target.
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And having a soft life means being comfortable in your relationship to okay?
They have to feel like you're comfortable are.
So if you are going out, if you're being seen in public, you have to feel comfortable at my baby here.
Y'all, I have more detail earlier and okay, y'all going to laugh but like I do my Pilates and stuff.
My hair be all over the place.
So I have to stick it down gel it down and these shorter hairs in the front and always, like, stick up.
So I After I had the baby hair up down today.
Or where that what you call it that headband that someone talked trash about and the comments want to do.
I look like I was getting ready to read some cards with that thing on.
So yeah.
Like I'm going to be coming from doing, you know, yoga and pilates.
Some of these days and y'all are going to do, they're going to get with y'all get.
But I tried cute for y'all.
So, you know, a lot of times, a lot of times when You're out feeling comfortable with who you chose and you know, that comes also with soft life.
Because if they feel that you're comfortable, that you're happy, that you're proud to be there, they're going to, were you going to treat you very soft and ladylike and they're going to be more protective.
They're going to make sure you're happy and giving are getting everything you want because you're actually enjoy it.
So living a soft life and having a relationship, you get more.
If you have to enjoyed a lot of ladies ask.
Well what if I don't want to be seen out in public with this person or what if you know how they're the age difference and what if they don't look like I wanted to look it doesn't matter.
How do you want to be treated?
That's how you act okay.
Because even if you're not serious about that person other people are watching.
Other men.
See you.
If you should go back to that place or wherever at a later date and someone recognizes you from being on a date with someone else and saw how A gentle, you are how gently you were treated, how kind you were treated?
They already know, they don't have to even ask, they already know you're high
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maintenance, they already know you're the prize.
So a lot of times it's a good practice to act this way and you get more way more, okay?
You got a hard copy of my level up book.
Thank you.
Yes, y'all get leveling up to your best life.
The links are in the description.
All my books are, there it is on Amazon, I would appreciate it.
Thank you.
It's a, it's a really good book for adjusting your life to live a life of comfort and luxury.
Even on any budget, you don't even have to be paid.
Like, literally, you can start Where You Are.
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It's all about attitude and decisions that you make and how you choose to navigate your life.
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Okay,
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you have 20min will spoil you.
If you already act spoil Okay.
And that's another part of living, a soft life.
You have to look like you only accept being spoiled.
Like, it's not like I'm wearing soft colors.
Cute little, you know, 90 pearly stuff that pink nails.
I got a little headband on.
I have this really cute little skirt with this tool on it and this little pink top and some little dainty slide shoes on.
They know they have to spoil.
Any may not about the sport is just by the way.
I'm dressed.
Best.
Okay, so look and act like the life you want, that's it.
Pretty much it.
Okay, I'm going to take a sip of water now, out of my giant, I didn't have time to change out my cup.
So I have my water bottle.
Speaker 2
All right.
Speaker 1
I get all my water in
Speaker 2
y'all, okay?
Speaker 1
How to track a real high value, man.
At the gym, see what kind of car he drives when he roll up first.
That's first and foremost.
Good, find a gym with some windows.
I'm telling you and get you a machine next to the window in the parking lot.
Then when he walk in and be in Deauville, do the spymaster in front of him.
Something her drop something, you know you know how to do it.
You got to get that parking lot window view.
Okay sprinkle sprinkle
Speaker 2
You said of gay guy.
Thank me for listening.
Yes, I think I think even gay man.
Appreciate when women are in their feminine. because it's like, You have all this energy, you have all this power and a lot of ladies don't want to knows who they are understands their power and uses it in the correct way.
You know, people are cheering for you.
Speaker 1
You said, Okay, God, I told you, if you, if he were a woman, he wear dresses and skirts
Speaker 2
everyday I want.
Yeah, I'm sure so.
Speaker 1
Read some of these questions femininity is Beautiful.
People crave seeing Beauty?
Exactly Sariah you are correct.
You know, I feel like a lot of people don't realize that it is a pleasure and a privilege to see a woman in her
Speaker 2
feminine.
Speaker 1
It's almost like they want to clap for you.
Because you're doing it right?
You're being a woman the correct way.
At least in their opinion.
Okay, there's no right or wrong way to be a woman.
I'm just saying, at least in the opinion in the eyes of the one who's applauding Do you know a lot of people will say, well, there's no right or wrong way you're correct.
Because, however, they feel is the correct way or if they are moved by Brightens their day?
Exactly.
Could you imagine being a guy and having like a stressful day or a hard day or whatever?
And then all of a sudden you look up and there's this beautiful feminine woman in front of you and then you realize what you're doing all of this for so you can have one just like her or similar to her or maybe a chance with her.
So a lot of times when men look up and see this very feminine, Pretty Woman, they go back and they like this is not so bad because now I know what single life for life, you know it.
It and I know it and I can hit them for a few tacos.
Well if that's all you have, thank you for the donation by the way, but if I fall you can afford as a few tacos been
Speaker 2
great.
Speaker 1
At least they will go hungry and anyone who gives it to you for a few tacos.
You know maybe that's what they wanted.
Was the tacos and not you.
Sprinkle sprinkle You know, pick me.
She like tacos too, baby.
And single doesn't mean lonely for women.
Women that are single on paper, they may have three dates a week or more.
You know.
They may have three guys paying their bills and not committed to none of them or any anyone.
So, single life can be very lucrative and profitable for women if they navigate it correctly.
Speaker 2
I know, I know of all final.
Hey, okay.
Speaker 1
Get me on some singleness.
I'll show you how to get this money.
Speaker 2
No.
Don't do that.
The kids need their father.
So
Speaker 1
That's just that's just a recipe for getting
Speaker 2
more talking about.
Speaker 1
You said you've done all your
Speaker 2
research Sistar, okay?
Speaker 1
Got y'all better not challenge people these days because we know how to get it now.
It's not lonely in the mornings lucrative.
Sprinkle sprinkle The difference between a woman being single and a man being single is money, we can get it from several.
We all remember that, when y'all try to use being single as an insult, it's not an insult that she that's a way to get
Speaker 2
paid.
Speaker 1
See, married women, most of the time I only have just one source of income from a man but single women can have multiple sources, even some are women, but hey, you know, you know how it is.
You might be to tell, you might be the appetizer and her real date might come
Speaker 2
after.
Speaker 1
Okay, he's got think they'd be getting away with stuff, taking women out, buying him, tacos and sleeping with her but her real sugar.
Daddy?
Right behind you.
In his nice car with his envelope, full of
Speaker 2
cash.
Speaker 1
And you was appetizer, baby.
Speaker 2
so, you know,
Speaker 1
you say you have had people telling you stop being seductive girly.
I'm relearning my power.
Thanks to your channel.
Exactly.
Why would they waste their breath?
Telling you not to be seductive and
Speaker 2
feminine.
Speaker 1
Because they don't want to compete with you and
Speaker 2
okay.
Speaker 1
Where am I from Houston?
Texas, baby.
Y'all can't tell I'm from Houston,
Speaker 2
okay?
Speaker 1
I thought y'all knew.
Okay.
So how do you reserve your warm energy for those who value?
When you feel like you've gotten enough from them?
And all you have is energy to reciprocate, then you reciprocate to them.
So that means having so much love and appreciation from someone that when you open your mouth, it just comes right back out and kind of.
So those are the people that Deserve it, it will come out naturally from you, you don't have to try.
It will just be
Speaker 2
natural.
Okay?
Speaker 1
Do I believe that testing a man bad makes him like you more.
Speaker 2
I don't know.
My the whole lot, the whole relationship is going to be a giant test and he always going to be trying to pass because that's how you have to keep him chasing.
All right, the whole relationship is a test baby.
Speaker 1
That's how you keep them chasing.
Speaker 2
Okay.
Speaker 1
This is a woman's value, depends on how many children she can have not in this Century Sparkle Sparkle.
Not in this Century, Italy.
She at least she's a surrogate.
I don't know.
What do I think of hair color?
I'm thinking of doing.
Okay, it depends on.
I wouldn't permanently change hair color.
I would experiment more with wigs versus a drastic color change because you can just snatch it off if you don't like it, okay?
Me and my spouse are both young and coming up and coming up.
Do you think I can use your techniques and he will become a problem.
Girl, you 21, he 23.
Is he is he planned a lot of lottery every night?
Has he going to be
Speaker 2
a provider?
Speaker 1
What kind of Lifestyle do you?
I don't look.
That's a boyfriend.
Y'all are 21 and 23.
In five years from now.
Are you going to want to live in that same lifestyle or are you going to want to get married?
Have kids boot to a suburb driving, a nice car, go shopping and go on vacation because I don't think what will he be in five years.
But 28 year old is going to be able to give you all that.
Speaker 2
So figured out, all right.
You're going to have to sacrifice having all those things later on in life, unless you are contributing to the relationships like 50/50.
And I don't recommend that.
All right.
Mhm.
You said your provider said he's really depressed.
In might stop working.
Speaker 1
Well, tell him that, you know you're sexy when you go to work.
Speaker 2
Well,
Speaker 1
I hope you got that AARP, girl, and then Social Security and he could still afford you.
Sprinkle, sprinkle, so, Platinum, Elite why women scared of playing Jane without makeup?
This is why I got my passport.
I like pretty women.
No, make look okay, great and they like your money.
Makeup or no makeup women like money baby.
Sprinkle
Speaker 2
sprinkle
Speaker 1
Women are afraid to be playing Jane.
Let me tell you why, it's not really fear.
It's more of an empowerment for women to look and feel their best.
And if a man likes you plane and normal, then he needs to be able to afford you to be able to look like that.
That means you can sleep.
However, like you want, that means when you wake up, you can look Plain Jane in the house that you walk around in and live and lounging.
And he can see you playing Jane looking very natural in his home that he pays for you to live in.
Speaker 2
Okay?
Speaker 1
Now, when it comes to being out in public, okay?
If you are not committed to that woman, you're not paying them bills.
If you're not doing any of this, you see she still need to look her.
Best in case you mess up and she got the I have all these other dudes, okay?
The only time you need to be able to really want to see your woman playing Jane is.
In the comfort and luxury of y'all's old home relaxing on your dime, okay?
If you have to leave the country to see someone playing drain, you ain't doing it right sir.
Speaker 2
Okay.
Speaker 1
Start over.
Figure it out.
Because I'm playing Jenny when I wake up in the morning and I will lounge around this house till the p.m. looking like that and if I feel like getting dressed or putting on some cute, you know, makeup and whatever, whatever I will.
But either way, you know, I get seen both ways.
You said going all the way to other countries to see.
Plain Jane.
Well, that's what it is.
I have no problem with you traveling.
I mean life's short.
You need to go
Speaker 2
travel.
Speaker 1
You know, you spending all that time, working, you might as well go enjoy your your life and if you like the women wherever you are traveling to Great, don't know problem with that men like the women right here.
Oh Black Barbie sprinkle sprinkle you got your passport when he was 12 good for you.
Girl.
You
Speaker 2
been sprinkle sprinkle
Speaker 1
how long before before you show your husband.
What you look like without makeup.
Speaker 2
Not that long,
Speaker 1
you know, after he can pay some bills and stuff.
Yes, I'm trying to try to think of this.
Thank you for the donation by the way, I'm trying to figure out when he first saw me with no makeup.
Hmm.
I want to say when he walked in on me, after taking a shower, and my hair was wet and I was like a towel and have on a
Speaker 2
makeup
Speaker 1
and he still said, I look better than anybody ever date itself.
You must follow the okay good, but I'm still putting think up on.
There you go.
You said you're not hot and neither is your mother.
But somehow you got to deserve sir, somebody thought she look good in the dark.
I look good enough baby to get the job done.
What was your name, Robert?
The only person that needs to think I'm hot as the man paying my bill sir, sprinkle sprinkle
Speaker 2
I sent him
Speaker 1
because me being hot to you if you ain't giving me no money, it don't matter.
Okay.
Passport is nothing new.
I know it may be all up in a post office.
Smiling trying to get I'm good I got my passport, so cold places.
Speaker 2
Anyway.
Speaker 1
So you know, living a soft life also means like it's especially when you're in a relationship, if that person that you're with is happy with you satisfied with
Speaker 2
you or whatever
Speaker 1
and they payin bills and gifting you given you whatever you want.
Then you know, don't be so hard on yourself to look a certain type of way.
Don't be so hard on yourself to try to please other men.
They don't have two pennies to rub together.
You know what I'm saying?
So like, if you look good to him and he paying on a Bills, going to buy you Ooh, gifts your kid, you know, you're y'all's daughter's gifts, bending over backwards to do everything in their power to make sure you're comfortable and happy and that's all that really matters.
I mean, you know, as long as you can get with are trying to give you
Speaker 2
your good, Uh-huh.
You was wondering what
Speaker 1
the point.
What is the point that get the ring if you don't really?
If doing really great financially, okay?
So if you have a lot of money, And you don't really need to get married.
If it's not something that you want to do some women, want to get married, just for the wedding, I'm winning someone want to get married just for the ring.
Someone would want to get married, just for saying you're a married couple.
Some people want to get married for insurance tax reasons, whatever reason you trying to get married, you know, make sure you weigh the pros and the cons and go for what works best for you.
That's all I say.
Okay.
Now Platinum Elite sprinkle sprinkle tell me why women refused to take off the makeup they tell me I will never see them without makeup even in the show, why you listeners.
I can't thank you for the donation.
By the way, some women will not take off their makeup in front of men.
Because makeup is their power makeup is their confidence and there's nothing wrong with that.
Like makeup has been around
Speaker 2
forever, okay?
And I feel like
Speaker 1
If if they aren't comfortable taking off makeup in front of you, they probably don't trust that you're going to like what they look like under the makeup and so they're not going to take it off in front of it.
So you know, that's probably why they don't trust that, you're going to like what they look like without the makeup.
Speaker 2
Okay,
Speaker 1
Abby literally they're not going to trust you.
Would you be comfortable if a woman asks you to show them your bank
Speaker 2
statements?
Speaker 1
Like, if you asked her, hey, let me see what you look like without makeup.
Would you be just as comfortable showing her, your bank statements, and your taxes, and your, you know, credit score?
If she just straight-up asked you to let me see that?
What are you
Speaker 2
hiding?
Speaker 1
Would you be embarrassed?
Would you be more embarrassed in her sitting there bare faced with no eyebrows or cheekbones?
Who would be more embarrassed if you were standing in the room with your bank statement and her bare face?
Who would be more embarrassed?
Because I think it would be the man, okay?
Because no matter how ugly she looked with no makeup on.
If your bank account is uglier, she still leaving.
Okay, and she going to put that makeup right back on and get somebody with a bigger bank account when going to ask for such a stupid question and then she's going to get their money.
So if you're not comfortable showing us that bank statement and that credit score, then don't ask a woman to show you her bare face if she's not.
Speaker 2
People with that either.
Okay,
Speaker 1
write that down.
Sprinkle sprinkle
Speaker 2
you have a friend of mine,
Speaker 1
who wants to be a roommate, you're currently for a place trying to move out.
Okay.
Well then save your money.
Let her be a roommate.
Save up your money.
Level up.
Little soft life until you can get your own place.
I don't know, or moving in with some dude.
That's going to pay all the
Speaker 2
bills,
Speaker 1
should mandate or Court unattractive, women.
If that's what you can afford.
Yes, Sparkle Sparkle.
I think men should date whoever they want.
As long as their money can handle her.
Because ugly women need stuff to ugly.
Women need provisions and protection as well.
No matter what she look like, she still don't need some bills, paid the struggle, doesn't end whether you look good or not woman, still need their bills paid and they
Speaker 2
dating Okay.
I promise you ugly woman will appreciate you a lot more.
If you paid a bill
Speaker 1
Okay, you might even try to get cute for you.
She might even try to say, you know what?
I feel pretty.
Oh, so pretty this man.
Paid my bills today, then she gonna go in there and she going to like start picking how cute outfits cute clothes getting her nails.
Dead trying to do to my eyebrow, you know, she gonna be looking better than she did because now she feels feminine and pretty and appreciate it, but you might start looking better.
You start paying some of her bills.
She might look less stressed less tired, she may have time to go get, you know, a smoothie or you know, instead of going through the drive-thru trying to rush to work.
She might have time to make a smoothie.
You don't know.
So, allow a man to date whoever they want and see the
Speaker 2
difference.
Okay.
Speaker 1
I definitely say, pay any woman's Bill, they'll appreciate
Speaker 2
him.
Speaker 1
You said these men are angry on payday.
Oh, you signed up for yoga class and you took your face 1 Elixir and you are high on life.
Yes.
Yes Man.
Sparkle Sparkle, we're leaving the soft life aren't we and you know, these elixirs definitely help you get out of your own way and stop overthinking and get stuff done and enjoy life.
Definitely.
Speaker 2
And
Speaker 1
sometimes don't like the idea of soft life.
Let me tell you why, because they think it means that you're not going to be a barber, the Builder that you're not going to contribute that you're not going to want to go 50/50 that you're not going to want to play games and put up with drama and stuff like that.
Does that sound so bad?
You know, they don't want you to be happy.
They don't want you to live your most feminine and soft life.
They want to complicate things in your life.
You know.
They want you to be handed out half of your chick to a grown man at build time.
They don't want you to be in your true power which is your femininity because they know that is the
Speaker 2
most powerful.
Speaker 1
So there are a lot of men are against these tossed life women because they Don't Take No Mess, they treat themselves like they want to be treated and they don't have, you know, the low standards that a lot of other desperate, women do who aren't living the soft life, but are trying to live a hard life.
So a lot of guys don't like that.
They see you looking like you're in a soft life, they bypass and go look for the bonnets or, you know, Pick Me shows or people twerking and stuff.
That's what they going to look for the hard life.
Excuse me / - almost using a word that I should have you the hard life chicks.
Speaker 2
Okay them
Speaker 1
damn lucky is that was on the back of Jay-Z album and it's a hard knock life.
That's who they're looking for,
Speaker 2
okay.
Okay.
Speaker 1
Robert.
Thank you for noticing.
He says, I gained weight.
Yes, thank you for
Speaker 2
noticing.
Speaker 1
You know, someone asked me yesterday if I got filler.
And I told them, no, this is natural.
People pay for this.
Okay.
Sprinkle sprinkle so Platinum Elite sprinkle sprinkle thank you for the donation rate yourself and don't use 7 1 to 10 are 11 sprinkle sprinkle There you go.
Living.
My dress size is the size that I buy.
When I purchase.
Okay, besides you can't afford sir.
Sprinkle sprinkle so I rated myself in 11, my dress size is the one.
You can't afford.
Here you go.
So you don't even need to worry about it.
Cuz you ain't going to take me shopping no time soon.
And no matter what I write myself, that's how I feel about me.
Not how you feel about me and I'm always being 11.
Sprinkle
Speaker 2
sprinkle
Speaker 1
no matter what, when I'm 95 years old, I'm gonna be in a
Speaker 2
living
Speaker 1
Because that's how I believe.
That's what I feel.
I am.
You said he a hater on a scale of 1 to 10.
What is your bank account, sir, and don't use a seven.
How can you approach a man that has?
That is w three men at a table, what?
With three men at a table?
First of all, you don't approach
Speaker 2
a man
Speaker 1
and your name is Lady.
You shouldn't be approaching.
No man, you're a
Speaker 2
lady.
Speaker 1
You don't you you drag them across the room with your eyes and your looks okay.
They don't get up from that table and come get you that.
You don't even bother baby.
Sprinkle
Speaker 2
sprinkle
Speaker 1
you said they think they came when them taxes, hit ground talk to no, do that, be asking you to rate yourself.
I'm always right myself, super high, no matter what, no matter how I look no matter what time of day it is, I'm always going to be an 11.
Okay, so don't waste your
Speaker 2
breath.
Speaker 1
You have a wedding to go to this weekend where all the wealthy people are going to be, should you wear pink?
Black regular, I wear pink sparkle Sparkle.
Black is for funerals.
I wouldn't wear red to a wedding unless the colors were red.
I don't know.
Pink is probably nicer as plus.
It's almost spring, you're good.
You will take me to Walmart and Taco Bell for three tacos and then to the Motel 6.
Okay, I don't go to motels.
So you have to scratch that off the lid, I will take you up on Walmart and Taco Bell because I do like tacos, but I'm gonna have to leave you right there and go, you know?
Thank you for a nice friendly five.
Figure shopping spree at Walmart and, you know, those veggie tacos that I like so much because I do like some Taco Bell, but it will have to be in the daytime and that would be about it.
But the Motel 6 scratch I can't and I wouldn't even consider it a date because you're, you know, five figures does not equal the date.
So I couldn't date somebody to make five figures.
So we would just be out as friends but you still gonna pay, all right?
Sprinkle sprinkle I'm just going to give you enough enough, hope to keep it
Speaker 2
going.
All right.
Speaker 1
You said, I'll settle for Taco Bell.
Yeah, we going out as friends because there's no way I'm a date.
You making five
Speaker 2
figures.
Speaker 1
I'm saying five to be generous because I'm thinking more like
Speaker 2
four.
Speaker 1
You said, are you going to take me shopping at Walmart?
I think you at least got five
Speaker 2
fingers.
Speaker 1
He said, what is my order at Taco Bell.
They have vegan options now or vegetarian options.
Now you guys, but I haven't eaten there in like a couple of months, so, yeah, I had to go see what's new on the
Speaker 2
menu.
Speaker 1
Well, you know, the money you dropped in the chat robber time ago, I'm gonna use it.
Thank you.
Appreciate you.
Sprinkle, sprinkle, you know, I'm time, I turn it down to a shopping spree or no free food, but it's not going to be no date.
Okay.
We should have a dust police since this does free zone, okay?
He said, how would I Define sex appeal, depending on how much you've been drinking?
Sprinkle sprinkle, because when you go, you could be with somebody that you find blah, have a few drinks, you know, who you're looking kinda
Speaker 2
good.
Speaker 1
So depending on how much you're drinking,
Speaker 2
okay?
Speaker 1
Is it why he not working?
I don't know.
Maybe this is his work trying to do research on how to be Dusty.
I don't know.
Okay, so You don't reduce the researchers is a occupation.
These days, okay, YouTube has made it
Speaker 2
so
Speaker 1
Your man is at work where he is
Speaker 2
supposed to be.
Okay grace.
I'm
Speaker 1
wonderful.
He bringing he bring home the money.
Okay.
So Platinum Elite sprinkle sprinkle women like you talk all that stuff but y'all be doing the most after the club closed.
Okay?
After the club closed
Speaker 2
I'll be drunk.
Okay?
Speaker 1
Like the last time I was at a club and the clothes I was drunk.
Speaker 2
An app and I'm still asking what
Speaker 1
kind of car you drive drunk or
Speaker 2
sober?
Speaker 1
I'm still asking who you are.
What you do?
I ain't that drunk.
Speaker 2
Okay, I'm
Speaker 1
still I'm still the same.
What kind of car you drive?
I can't can't be seen in public in that, sorry.
Speaker 2
Yes.
Speaker 1
Are, you know, sometimes I, when I was younger I used to wait in the club until the lights come on, cuz it's just to show y'all, how good I really look.
Okay.
Oh, Starlit Sky.
Sprinkle sprinkle she wrote can a woman be bold and still be in their feminine energy.
Of course, you just have to do it in the right way.
All right.
Do high-end bars and restaurants.
No clothes.
Okay.
Well back in the day you know Y2K early 90s mid 90s, it was the club.
VIP baby.
I out like I was one of the people that always got to skip ahead of the line.
Get free into the VIP all drinks on whoever was buying drinks or the person that owned the bar.
It was always me.
That was that was me.
So I had no problem. yeah, you just took me back to the memory lane when I was, you
Speaker 2
know,
Speaker 1
living living a life baby.
Speaker 2
Yes.
Mmm.
When your boyfriend
Speaker 1
arrives late, do you dress?
Well and got mad, he apologized a lot of
Speaker 2
good.
Speaker 1
His income tax hit.
Now she want to show off, go off game.
Like honestly I don't have anything against me and like men, men can try to take advantage of women all they want.
But eventually, women are going to take advantage of them pockets at some point in your life, okay?
You might get away with sleeping with somebody and taking the Taco Bell but eventually some women don't get your pockets.
Whether it be your baby mama your wife.
Speaker 2
Somebody somebody
Speaker 1
you would love with, don't love you, somebody go get them
Speaker 2
pockets.
Speaker 1
It's only a matter of time, okay?
So just going to be too bad.
Allow yourself to understand that it's going to happen.
It's natural thing.
Prepare for have your savings ready?
Have you a back-up
Speaker 2
plan?
Try not to
Speaker 1
be in your feelings too much.
And just let it happen naturally, because it will.
Just just let it be baby cuz you know it's coming.
Just like, okay, just like all women.
Say, all men are cheaters going to cheat on them eventually at some point all men cheat.
But just think about this all women.
Get your pockets, okay?
All women can get the pockets sooner or later, so just let it be like you can't get mad about it, you know, it's coming, you know, she's scheming it.
You know, she got a plan, just, let's be have some backup, cash, have a savings.
And that's what living the soft life is.
Like, I don't know.
Like men have you want to make your sci-fi if you want to make your life easier have some money if you want to make your life easier.
Stop.
Stop always trying to battle women.
That's very feminine you know stop trying to debate women and asked why they can't do this and why they can't do that because they don't want to.
And they're a woman that's enough, you know, if you can't make their lives better by being in it then don't be
Speaker 2
in.
Okay?
Speaker 1
If all you want is sex and and all that kind of stuff, they have sex workers for that.
You can go pay for that.
You don't have to, you know, date a woman and take her shopping at Walmart or Taco Bell.
You can take all that money and just go by what you want.
Okay, it's it's out
Speaker 2
there.
Speaker 1
And that's a guarantee.
Okay.
You ain't got to Hope and wish that after shopping at Walmart.
So I'm going some going to happen.
Take that money and put it where its most needed.
Okay?
Now, if you just like the thrill of the Chase and, you know, whatever, whatever you guys some money that you throw out at Walmart and Taco Bell, great.
But I don't know what type of woman you really going to catch going to Walmart and Taco Bell, so the joke will be on you.
Speaker 2
Okay.
Speaker 1
Where do you look for feminine coat of Burlington?
Has some really cute coats.
I've seen go to
Speaker 2
Burlington
Speaker 1
and they should be all on sale right now because it's getting ready to get hot at least in the South anyway.
Speaker 2
Burlington Mmm-hmm,
Speaker 1
you said Zara as well.
Okay, not all wealthy men by the best cars, though.
The millionaire comes to my job all the time, and he drives.
How do you know, he's a millionaire though?
Does he does?
He say that he was a millionaire?
Do people say he's a millionaire?
Does his reputation precedes, his car?
Sometimes you don't have to see that.
They have a nice car.
Their reputation will tell the story their reputation precedes them.
So, You don't need to see his car, you know, he got
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money.
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People will treat them differently.
Like if you ever noticed a millionaire that's driving a plane regular car.
They're going to have a special walk like a confident.
Walk people are going to treat them nice they're going to be more respectful towards them.
So you got to really pay attention to how people are treating them as well.
Because somebody going to know, And that will be the giveaway.
A lady.
Sprinkle sprinkle you missed opportunities because being flirty is scary.
Okay, well, being flirty is a little bit scary but sometimes you just, you know, you just got to be scared and go do it.
That's all you gotta do is like, is it scarier?
Maybe it's scary or not to ever know what could have been or you don't care?
So either either way, How can you start YouTube videos?
You're lonely and need Auditorium, but you don't know what content makeup, sup girl people on YouTube doing stupid stuff and still getting
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paid.
DIY
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grow.
There are women on YouTube that just stick a camera on the counter and just start cleaning a kitchen and speed it up and get paid and talk about cleaning with
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me.
Speaker 1
I don't know, I don't know what to tell you do.
ASMR do a lot of stuff until you find something that gets a good response.
Like whichever video is getting the most clicks.
Definitely go with that genre and if you put out a video all the time like every couple of days then your audience will definitely grow, okay?
Sprinkles Platinum, lead and dropped him old hours, all right.
Well, after watching you 6, soft tacos, because your back is bulging out.
You like to eat men with money, don't like that.
Why am I sending you more money?
Because you like that?
Frank's working.
You just answered your own question.
All right.
What I think you really like is to see my reaction to what you thought was an insult.
I think it's wonderful that I can make that much money as you say.
With looking how I look steal from a man who claims not to like me.
And also, for my husband.
So I feel like I'm good.
I just made money so you could.
So you could insult me.
I told the only way a man can insult me.
It's, if he's paying me and I'm still not going to be
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bothered.
Speaker 1
So thank you.
You've proved my point and
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sprinkle, sprinkle
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he loves you, how much he has donated so far, I now lead to secretly.
Over.
Yeah, that's what you are.
You know, he's secretly and losing me.
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All right.
Speaker 1
That's that's one of that's one of my flaws.
I think most men are secretly in love with me.
It's just something that keeps me.
Smiling each day.
And when they throwing money, I know it's true.
Okay sprinkle
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sprinkle
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Okay, they are.
How could they not be?
I know you won't.
Give me that much money.
You just pay me more money than stripper strippers in the ghetto club, for table dances.
I ain't took nothing off.
Okay, I made more than a stripper in the ghetto.
On three table dances.
I'm
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good.
Okay.
And they skinny probably.
Okay.
Oh, he don't pay me 50.
I know you living.
Now, I never said, I didn't like you.
You cool for a married older woman.
I'm a fan and not type because you got an attitude, that's why I am your time.
Because I do got an attitude, Sparkle Sparkle.
What is your type young skinny but I know what your type is.
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The type who can't
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afford.
Speaker 1
So as I know I'm you type sprinkle sprinkle.
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All right.
Speaker 1
Well, thank you for showing me love today.
I truly appreciate it with my old married self.
Speaker 2
Okay.
Speaker 1
He better keep sending money.
All right Debra Debra oh so he better keep sending money.
And see if Distributing any more
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cash.
We all know how this works.
So, Let me put
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my cash app down because when you if you're not online and I'm not online and you just want to send me some money sometimes, sir.
Let me just go ahead, give you the cash app, baby, if I know you love me.
All right, Dallas Stein, Shira seven, capital S capital.
R capital s He secretly loves the in so I know he do.
He got to Can you do videos about investing money?
I don't, I don't know anything about investing money.
Either baby, I invested in my own self.
I invested back into my own business, invest back into myself.
And I feel like if you are an investing like have someone that knows what they're doing because unless you're just investing small amounts or if you know maybe invest with your bank that's probably better.
If you have a bank go over there, they will help
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you.
Speaker 1
If you had a bank going there.
So I want to have open an investment
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account.
And there you go,
Speaker 1
they do all the hard work for you.
You just put the money
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in there.
Speaker 1
I'll plant them early another one.
I'll sprinkle, sprinkle I'm starting to call you DJ.
Khaled, why why you think we broke?
You need to come to my channel and chop it up.
I don't do that.
I don't, you know, if you invite me somewhere, I need.
It needs to be luxurious.
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Nice to make
Speaker 1
too much makeup and you married a simp.
You funny though.
Money not an issue over here.
Well I'm getting it from you and him so either way I'm
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winning.
Speaker 1
So I don't see why I have to change.
Sprinkle Sparkle, thank you.
I'm not going to your channel.
I ain't dropping nothing up that sound ghetto.
I'm you know, the only way I'm trapping something up is if you paying me to cook, you know, I do have a degree in culinary arts but what I don't go on other people's channels. but you can cash out, me sprinkle sprinkle And I have no problem.
Embarrassing, you on your own, on your own channel either.
So you know, but see if I go on there, you're not going to be sending me no money.
So that's not very
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lucrative for me.
Speaker 1
So send me some more money and I think about it,
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we don't we'll see.
All right.
Speaker 1
Yep.
Yep.
Yep, we'll say life if I if I feel like you serious, I might
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okay.
Speaker 1
We keep telling y'all, we love since they get families from us.
I also made tomorrow.
Sprinkle
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sprinkle there will be that will be hilarious, whatever, it's the ghetto over there.
Ha ha ha.
Okay.
Okay.
Iola peaches in the house.
Oh, God is why I read, I got your package today I have to open it up.
Sprinkle sprinkle on when I open it up,
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I'll let you know how I'm gonna sing.
You a little thank-you card.
Thank you, girl.
Sprinkle sprinkle she sent me something from my wish list on Amazon.
I was my birthday gift.
Oh, thank you.
Yeah, it's about to be my birthday.
I'm getting old like Robert said, but at least I'm getting there.
Some people don't have the luxury of getting old.
You know, I do I'm looking like that.
Girl, you just accepted to fully accept that I need to level up.
I was taking notes, then realize you was laugh.
Hey Keisha.
Sprinkle sprinkle, you said 40s is not.
Oh, I know, it's not old, but I'm getting at least I get to get old Your pick Misha mother accused, you of being selfish, it takes, it makes me happy that she realized I'm letting a good for you girl.
Yes, that's how you know you're going in the right direction.
When people start.
Disrupting their time, schedules and days to to consult you about your level up and how it's bothering you know you doing it, right?
How to ask for a Chanel bag without being seen as a gold digger.
Oh, this one is easy.
You just got to talk about how someone said that you can't get one.
And that they don't like, yo man, ain't a real man?
Because he can't buy you one.
You got to tell your man
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that
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you got to, you got to make a fake challenge, okay?
And then when, when it's time the right time, you'll be like, send me the link.
Well, how do I go get it?
Then that's when you that's when you drop the link, okay?
Sprinkle sprinkle.
Or it's easier to drop links because men have no problem shopping online.
It's very quick, fast and easy.
I don't, you have to drag them to the store.
They don't have to feel like they're taking a gold digger shopping.
Dropping the links, you know, we got a male postal system for a reason.
Okay.
How does stuff come to your door?
There you go.
Come up with a good scenario.
And cry and cry with it.
If you're a crier.
And if you're not a crier, have a few drinks.
So that you have an excuse to be a you say, you cannot PayPal link to,
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okay.
Speaker 1
Only see something.
I gotta go, y'all, I have enjoyed this video.
I hope that you guys are having a soft life and creating your soft life and getting your money and all of the things that you want to be doing, sprinkle sprinkle And I appreciate everybody who donated even with his name.
Robert.
Thank you, Tanya.
Tanya sent me a cash app.
I appreciate you, Tanya.
I hope you're on here.
Sprinkle sprinkle girl and I try to like all of your cash apps when you send them, hit the little heart button.
So y'all know that I see you, I got you.
Hm.
Thank y'all.
You said the trolls are trolling today?
Well, at least they were trolling with money.
That's all, that's all that matters.
Oh Lulu.
Well thank you all all the members Jane.
Well God Is Why Real Lulu?
Thank you.
Polkadot sprinkle sprinkle.
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Thank you girl.
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The peaches God is why I read CC Thank you all for being
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members
Speaker 1
and for all the support that you've been giving me.
I appreciate y'all. sprinkle
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sprinkle,
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thank you for inspiring us to level up to Jay everyday.
Well, thank you all for inspiring me to do videos every day.
Appreciate
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you.
Speaker 1
What's my birthday?
It's in March.
Second week of March.
All right, is that good enough?
All right, I'm gonna see y'all on the next one, and have a wonderful day.
And y'all click the like button because like, there's like 400 something people in here and only 200 something like so I think it should be a little bit more.
If you all enjoyed the video, hit that like button like like like it's free you don't have to pay.
If y'all are new subscribe I appreciate you guys.
I will have two more videos coming out.
Over the weekend and in the beginning of the week that are not live there, like more like Vlog style.
So look out for those Oh yes.
God is worried?
Yeah, that's tonight.
All right.
Y'all be in the patreon on my other patreon at the one for this channel.
But if you are on the patreon for this channel for she was 7, I will be on tomorrow and we are going to be doing movie night on that patreon.
So it's going to be fun.
So I'll see y'all later.
Thank you everybody who donated and who hit the like button?
I appreciate you guys for hitting that
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light.
You said
Speaker 1
You said, Mark your March 7th.
Well yeah spicy season okay you said pay for my
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college.
Speaker 1
She'll girl what you going to college for if you ain't going to be no doctor, no lawyer, no engineer.
You don't you Google everything.
Sprinkle sprinkle GE you Google everything.
These days.
That's, you're going to school to be something where you need a degree, people's lives, hang in the balance, then girl, Google it.
Unless someone else is paying for it.
Exactly,
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right.
Speaker 1
Okay, medical engineer.
Okay, you might need a degree for that, okay?
You might need some find a sugar daddy girl, maybe paying for stuff.
Fine.
Preferably find you one in the medical industry.
That already has money and he'll be glad to sponsor you.
Okay.
I will see y'all on the next one.
Sprinkle sprinkle I'm fine.
Fine.
Preferably find you one in the medical industry.
That already has money and he'll be glad to sponsor you.
Okay.
I will see y'all on the next one.
Sprinkle sprinkle I'm fine.
Podcast Summary
Key Points:
Soft life is defined as a stress-free, peaceful, and comfortable existence, contrasting with a "hard life" of constant worry and problems.
Relationships (romantic, familial, or platonic) must support this lifestyle—if they cause stress or conflict, they should be dismissed or cut off.
Soft life is not just an aesthetic (clothing, decor, social media); it requires genuine inner peace and femininity.
Saying "no" to obligations and people-pleasing is a key step toward reducing stress and living softly.
Accepting help from others, especially men, is encouraged; being more feminine (e.g., wearing lighter colors, appearing inviting) can attract more assistance and positive attention.
Avoiding everyday cursing is seen as more feminine, though cussing out someone who crosses a line is acceptable.
Work and chores should be optional or enjoyable; using money (e.g., ordering food) to avoid stressful obligations like daily cooking is part of soft life.
Creating a pleasurable work environment and loving what you do makes tasks feel effortless, not like work.
Maintaining humor, laughing at stressful situations, and being "unbothered" are strategies to stay soft under pressure.
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Decor and living spaces should reflect personal expression, with compromises (e.g., neutral palettes) to keep relationships peaceful.
Summary:
The speaker discusses how to achieve a "soft life"—a lifestyle of minimal stress, comfort, and luxury—within the context of relationships and daily living. She emphasizes that soft life is more than an aesthetic; it requires genuine peace, which means surrounding yourself only with relationships that are easy, supportive, and free of drama. If a partner, friend, or family member brings constant arguments or anxiety, they should be let go, as this is essential for maintaining softness and femininity.
Key practical advice includes learning to say "no" to obligations and people-pleasing, as this alone can significantly reduce stress. She also encourages accepting help from men, noting that presenting yourself as more feminine—through softer clothing colors, grooming, and demeanor—invites more assistance and kindness from others. The speaker advises against everyday cursing, viewing it as unfeminine, though she allows for justified confrontation.
She applies soft life principles to work and chores: tasks should be optional or made pleasurable, like her own business packaging, which she enjoys with music and pretty decor. Using money to outsource stressful duties, such as cooking, is also recommended. Finally, she suggests maintaining humor and being "unbothered" in difficult situations to preserve inner peace, and creating a living environment that reflects your tastes through compromises with partners. Overall, soft life is a deliberate choice to prioritize peace, ease, and self-care over obligation and stress.
FAQs
It's a playful catchphrase used by the speaker and audience to show appreciation or agreement, often tied to the soft life and feminine energy themes.
Start by saying 'no' to obligations that stress you out, using phrases like 'no,' 'I'm not comfortable with that,' or 'maybe another time.' This simple shift can dramatically reduce stress and free you from people-pleasing.
No, but you should only do work you love or have created, framing it as pleasurable. For example, the speaker packages orders in a beautiful pink setup with music, making it feel like gift-giving rather than labor.
Yes, if you find a way to make it feel feminine and enjoyable. The speaker suggests reasoning with yourself to like the job and creating an environment that brings you joy, so it doesn't feel like traditional work.
Compromise by choosing a neutral color palette, like cream, beige, or gray, and adding accent pillows seasonally. This allows you to express yourself while keeping the space agreeable for both, fostering his support.
Surround yourself with tools and a setup you love, like a cute pink desk with favorite scents, music, or videos. Frame tasks as sharing gifts with others, which makes the experience enjoyable rather than burdensome.
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