She ain't special

0:00 Intro Because you need to understand that half of the people on this planet, 50% of all people alive, are females. So that woman you think is so special, that one you really want, she's so special. She ain't special, bro. She ain't special. Get that shit out of your head straight away. So the more special you think she is, the more you're going to fuck up when you're talking to her. 0:17 She ain't special. She takes a shit in the morning like everyone else. It's a fucking human Organism. Who cares? This girl's printing her around. Maybe you ain't got their phone numbers, but they exist so you got to go out and get them. So don't be trying too hard. Now the reason I get away with such little work is because I put such a high price tag on myself. 0:36 I am a four time kickboxing world champion multimillionaire. So even even any female, no matter how beautiful, knows I'm never going to be the guy hitting her up constantly. I'm not going to be the guy she can call and I'll always answer. I'm not going to be the dude who will give her lips to work. 0:52 She knows I got shit going on. Remember what I was saying earlier to you about how I've never struggled with females because I never focused on the females? These other game books and Bruce and all these idiots, This is the woman. Get the woman, get the woman. Forget the bitch, forget her. Forget all the chicks. 1:08 Worry about yourself. Get yourself straight, and when your own shit's straight, put yourself together. Females are an added bonus. It's much easier to focus on yourself and get yourself high level and then start getting females then it is to forget about yourself. 1:25 Spend all your time day game running around the mall doing 1000 approaches trying to pick up a real fucking slut will bang anyone and getting laid. Fuck that garbage. All the game you've read before is bullshit. It's absolute bullshit and you're going to see why it's bullshit in the one of the upcoming videos about how to keep hot girls especially. 1:44 You're going to see why it's bullshit, but it's bullshit because if you go up to 1000 girls, you get 5 phone numbers and one might fuck you. Yeah, I'm sure that's absolutely true. But so you're going to spend your life instead of becoming rich, instead of becoming strong, instead of becoming smart, you're just going to fucking run around a mall approaching girls day game. 2:00 It's bullshit, it's garbage, It's for children. All that shit is for children. I focused on myself and that's how I've managed to attain the highest quality females and also not attain retain, which is another thing we're going to do in a separate video because retaining females is completely different to obtaining females. 2:17 So we're talking about the factors that you cannot control in terms of females. We talked about the timing, how some stores are closed, talked about how you have to make her like you more than the other guys, and sometimes that's difficult. Let me tell you something, she might be talking to a real G. 2:33 If she's talking to me, you're going to struggle to make her like you more. That's the truth. I have more tangible assets, more physical, financial, and mental assets. Plus I know the game. Sometimes you're outclassed, it's how it goes. Sometimes you're just outclassed, it's how it goes. 2:48 It's another thing you can't really control. But what you can control in those situations is that you don't make her lose respect for you and don't kill your champs for the future by being a little beggy begging for attention. Bullshit. Keep your honor about you. Because if if you're going to lose the game, there's two ways to lose it with honor and without honor. 3:06 You're going to lose as soon as you sense. You're going to lose as soon as you detect this girl, I'm not going to get her. Then you can either lose her by begging, hoping for that little tiny chance and losing all your respect, or just thinking, you know what, I'm going to try again in eight months. Fuck this street, I'll get someone else so we all know what the correct decision is. 3:23 Don't be fucking so desperate for a girl you just lose all your honor and self respect because then you're never going to get her ever. And that's some real dumb shit. So I want you to understand when we start talking about women, there's a whole bunch of factors you cannot control. So when it comes to approaching hot girls, you have to understand this. Some are open for business, some are closed for business. 3:39 Next, what can you do besides the factors you cannot control? 3:42 What can you control? What factors you can control? Well, body language is one of them, obviously. Clothes. We've discussed all this, but really, when it comes to approaching females, game as a whole is something I don't like. I don't like the idea of it because it's bullshit. It really is bullshit. I cannot sit here and tell you how to act. 4:01 Even if I told you to have the exact same mannerisms as me and say the exact same things, I would say they work for me, but they will not work for you because we're individuals. We're absolutely individuals for the same reason. When you learn to fight, you learn the basics of it. 4:16 But if I were to say mimic my movements millimeter for millimeter, I won't get hit and you will get hit because we're different bodies, we're different people. So I can't sit here and say do this, do this, do this. Anyone who tries to tell you that what they're doing is they're trying to oversimplify an extremely complicated situation and then attempt to get paid because every single female you approach is going to be different. 4:39 Every single scenario where you're in is going to be different. Every restaurant you sit in is going to be different. You're different. To me. The mood she's in is going to be different. The weather is going to be fucking different. Maybe it's raining, maybe it's sunny. Everything has a small part to play. So for me to sit here and say if you do this and then you do this and then you do this, you're going to get laid. 4:56 It's the kind of bullshit people package up trying to make it a complicated situation. Seems simple to get money. Getting laid is not simple. The only thing you can do if you want to retain, especially in the future, video retain as well as obtain hot women, is be yourself. 5:14 You cannot project an act for any considerable period of time. That's not possible. The only way you can be anything for a considerable period of time is to be yourself. So maybe you're a shit person. Yeah, fine, maybe. 5:29 But you have to absolutely not be yourself. Now, there are some things which are ironclad beneficial when it comes to getting females. You can be yourself and be a confident version of yourself as opposed to a meek version of yourself. Confidence is always attractive because men were built to lead. 5:45 Like we said earlier, men were built for combat. So confidence is something you need. Everyone already knows this shit. And confidence doesn't have to be sitting there and bragging. Confidence is little things. When you pick the girl up, where are we going? I know where we're going, not where do you want to go? She doesn't want to hear that shit. She doesn't want to make decisions. 6:00 Females don't want to think. They want to be LED down a rabbit hole of entertainment. They want to be entertained. They don't want to think. They don't want to sit there and have to think about it. They'll say, yeah, we're going here. Even if you get there and it's shit you don't like it, you'll say, yeah, well, I do stick to your fucking guns. So confidence is obviously the first thing, but you know that shit already. 6:18 Just be confident about who you are and what you say Doesn't mean you have to be an asshole. It might be an asshole. In fact, a lot of people confuse the two. A lot of people go girls like assholes. No, girls like confidence. But nowadays only assholes have confidence. If you're the rare select guy who's not an asshole and also supremely confident, you're definitely the fuck. 6:36 You haven't got to be an asshole. It's the confidence they're attracted to, not the asshole for us. So yeah, you absolutely have to be yourself. You have to be a confident version of yourself. But we've already talked about this in Lesson 1. Believe you can do anything about to go on a date with Megan Fox. Are you intimidated? No, because you're the fucking man and you're going to fuck her same night after taking her to the worst restaurant in town. 6:57 Because you can do anything. Because you're a fucking G. That's how I think. I didn't even brush my hair. I didn't even shave. I rock up and fucking clothes and wear it for two days. I don't give a fuck. Turn up high, start talking shit before you know she's naked. Because I know my skills. I know I'm the G. 7:13 You know you're the G. You ain't got nothing to worry about. You can be yourself and you can be a completely different person to me personality wise and still be AG. You can say completely different things and still be successful. You can have different mannerisms and different techniques or whatever bullshit and still be successful if you've implemented the first lessons correctly. 7:33 When I was 20 me and my girlfriend broke up. 7:36 How to be a good guy I was with her for four years. I I, I couldn't sleep. I could. And this is before social media. You couldn't just chase a bitch like that was it? She's gone now. Like she moved. I didn't know where she lived. That was it. And I couldn't sleep now I it wasn't like I was crying my eyes out, but I was just where's my my hoe at? 7:55 I couldn't sleep. Need something else to do, need something else to do. So I thought, fuck, I'll hit the gym at 6:00 AM, hit the gym at 3:00 PM, hit the gym at 8 PMI had nothing else to do but fight. So I took all that trauma, all that heartbreak and I molded it into becoming a world bubble combatant, right. So there's what did we talk earlier about? How trauma can mold you, how trauma can be a fantastic thing. 8:13 Heartbreak, depression, sadness, these are all fantastic motivators. You're just, I'm telling you why they're a fantastic motivator. You go to a guy who's heartbroken, he has all the motivation in the world to send 300 text messages. He has the motivation. He's putting it in the wrong place. 8:29 That's 300 cold emails you could be sending, a lot of money you could have made. 8:33 Speaker 2 I'll tell you right now, some of the greatest accomplishments in my life have come after a heartbreak. 8:40 Speaker 1 Absolutely. 8:41 Speaker 2 Is, is, is that fuck I call it fuck you energy? Yeah. You take that and you're like I, I because some guys will get butt hurt about that and they'll sit there and they'll wallow in self pity. I've always thought the correct application of that energy is OK. Prove that she made a shitty mistake. 8:59 Go out and become a fucking millionaire. Go out, become a kickboxer, go out and become a porn star, whatever. Go out and build still buildings, right? And then she's going to look around when she's 50 lbs heavier in a year's time. You're like, motherfucker, I left him, I let him go. 9:15 You can and and internally be happy. My ego could be like, yeah, I've got you. 9:22 Speaker 1 Life's going to hurt you and how you use that pain is completely not really up to you. You can use that pain to galvanized yourself as a man and become a better man you've ever been. I'm not saying that I'm only successful because of some chick. I'm saying that every single time that I was heartbroken. I never wasted a second. I was never wallowing. That's what I'm saying, especially as a young man, we talked, we talked about this on the show. 9:41 You're going to get your heart broken as a young man. I've had it happen to me. We've all had it happen to us. The and, and it's not even about anger towards a girl. It's seven years later because of as a man, you're going to get your value later, right? So if you use that energy to put all that work in these girls, they come back around and I love to see them come back. 9:59 Not because I'm in love again, just because it's like, you know, I told you so. No, I, I said this like anybody who tries to get revenge on a woman. Oh, on a woman, it's a, you're an that's in cell energy. That's that's the wrong way of looking at it. 10:15 The only revenge you can get on a woman who breaks your heart is success. Success is the best revenge. Just level up slowly. When she messages you, you got 2 choices. You're going to say sorry baby, you're not my type anymore. Boom, you win. Or you could fuck her again. One last spin on the Ferris wheel. Yee Haw. 10:30 So that's the answer to the question. Put a plan together for the heartbreak if it comes, and make sure that plan is constructive. Yeah. Everything we've been saying on this podcast is true. Trauma is going to come pain to the common. You have to use it in a constructive way. I'm not telling you to tell him to avoid the pain. I'm saying that when it comes, make sure it's used in a constructive way. 10:46 And still to this day, that's all I would ever do. If something bad happened to me and I got really upset, I would find the most constructive possible outlet. And that's a conscious decision. You have to have the emotional control to make a conscious decision in that direction. Do you know what girls are more scared of than losing a man they like? 11:01 They're more scared of having the man they like. But he doesn't like her anymore. So what will happen if I put a girl in those kind of scenarios and she doesn't act right or doesn't make the right choice? What I will do instead of actually getting rid of her, I'll keep her. I'll keep fucking her, but I'll fuck her Differ. So instead of there's no kissing anymore, you understand? 11:19 You understand. She's like, do you understand anymore? She's going to feel it different. And afterwards she's going to be like, you don't you don't love me anymore, do you? Where's this going? You've threatened intimacy. Yeah, you've threatened intimacy. And she's going to get, it's no longer intimate on any level. She got fucked. And then afterwards, she'd be like trying to give me a hug. 11:36 I'll be like, oh, wait, wait, I've got to go out. And I'm going to change on such a small level that will hurt her more than even losing you. The problem, the reason guys can't do that is because they fuck a bitch again. They fall back in love like a pussy. I won't do that, but there's been scenarios where a girl hasn't acted quite right over something small. 11:51 Not a big transgression like cheating then then I continue to see her but my my demeanor towards her changed and my demeanor towards her didn't change much in day-to-day life right? But it changed when we had sex and she smelt it and she could feel it and it hurt her bad and she got her ass in lying fast. 12:09 He used to kiss me. He used to hug me afterwards. These small things you go to just go to just go from all that nice shit to just fucking her. Like she but not a good way, like she's nothing in a bad way, like she's nothing. The real geez, know what I'm saying here? There's a difference. Yeah, there's a difference. And you'll speak to this about it's because in that moment you have her in her most vulnerable place. 12:30 That's right. That's right. That's women. Women are most programmable because because all women are programmed. 12:38 Women are programmed And I want to say this, maybe I'll be a misogynist now. Let's do it. All right, let's do it. I said this. I said this in another podcast. I believe that men are more capable of independent thought because I believe that men are more evolved for battle and war. So if we had an idea which nobody else agreed with, we're more capable to defending it. 12:55 We're we've evolved to saying, no, the Sky's blue, it's not green. OK, pull a sword out. We'll, we'll defend our idea. Women don't have the capability to defend themselves or their ideas. So they're, they're going to go along with an idea they heard from somebody else in general, right. So all women are programmed. 13:11 Women are programmed. They're either programmed by society as a whole or if they're with a good man, they're programmed by the good man. That's that's basically where the programming comes from as a whole. So all women are programmed on some level. And I think with with especially during sex, that's when women are most programmable because they're most vulnerable. 13:29 Like if you get a bitch and she's just about to come and you start standing in her face, I'm going to cheat on you, you fucking slut. And she comes while you say you're going to cheat. She's going to end up getting horny next time you cheat. I know it sounds crazy. I know everyone's going to look at me and go, Tate's talking shit. I'm telling you it's fucking true. 13:48 It's true. And and, and especially sex as a as a man is you need to use you have to deny it. You have to give it. You got to give it good. You got to give it bad. You got to use it right. And when I say there's ways you can fuck her, like she doesn't mean anything in a way that she enjoys and ways you can fuck her like she doesn't mean anything in a way she doesn't enjoy the, the G's of the game know exactly what I'm talking about. 14:09 And, and, and you can do that gradually over time, if she ain't acting right, you can change the way you fuck a bitch to make her start to get insecure about. He doesn't actually care. He doesn't actually like me. And that will shock him. You, you have moves you can make, but you got to be about, you got to be persificacious. 14:25 You got to pick up all her attention and you got to act accordingly. And that's, that's, that's some dark tragedy. I'll tell you before I fuck a bitch. Literally, I'm laying there going, given a full status report over the last few weeks. 14:36 What is enough? I'm looking up, loading up the Excel in my head. Was the house clean? Was this done all right? OK, I'll give. I'll give her. I'll give her this version. All right. What? 14:43 Speaker 3 Is this So what is enough? So other than other than, you know, not changing diapers and, you know, jet setting around the world, what is enough? You talk about being tall, muscular, you can shoot guns, all this stuff you talk about, right? Yeah. Some people aren't tall. 14:59 Yeah. What would you do if you weren't tall? 15:01 Speaker 1 All right, so firstly, firstly, let's accept something. God has favourites. 15:06 Speaker 3 Does he he? 15:06 Speaker 1 Certainly does, and I'm one of them, as are you, my dear. With a very nice, beautiful smile. He gave it to you, God gave it to you, right? So God does have favourites, but it's not even about that. For the longest period of human time, for a man to be respected, for him to even be admired by society on any level to some degree, he had to be a warrior. 15:23 That's what men did, we fall, right? That's what men did, we fall. So if you're out here as a man and you have no battle in your life, no conquest in your life, no form of war in your life, then what you do do, and it doesn't have to be physical. Physical is the best example of it. Every woman wants a boxer or a cage fighter. Of course you do. 15:40 Speaker 3 Biologically, yes, because it means that like, if you know, for me, everything is evolution, right? So it means that if you know one day the government's coming, which they're coming, you know, you want to know that he can physically protect you and the family, right? 15:53 Speaker 1 Exactly. So every woman wants a boxer or a cage fighter. But this is to testament to the problem of the modern world, right? Every single man watching this knows that women wants fighters. Every single man watching this, I would love to be able to say he's a fighter, but 99% of the men watching this will not go fight because they are afraid. 16:10 They're all cowards. They'll make up every excuse under the sun. All it's busy with my Bitcoin. Oh dude, dude, dude, you're all a bunch of pussies. They are pussies, all of them. That's all they are, the pussies and and women could smell that. So if you want to, if, if you want to have a woman who truly respects you, you need to put yourself through war in some form. 16:26 Now what most men do is they avoid physical confrontation because they're cowards and they start doing fiscal confrontation. This is why men are so obsessed with money, because it's a degree of conquest. We can no longer walk the earth and conquer land, right? It's not like we, the olden days, we can just walk around as the Romans just chop somebody up and take their land. 16:42 So now we conquer the land financially. This is why men will work so hard to be Aceo and give up his whole life just to be Aceo, because then he gets to feel like he's conquering something. Men have that innate desire for conquest. So that's the second best thing I guess, is to get rich. I mean, it's not a bad thing to be rich, Certainly not. 16:58 But if someone were to say to me, look, you have to build the archetype of an individual, You have to build a man from the ground up and he has to be respected by both men and women. He'd be a dude getting in the cage, kicking the shit out of people. And every man knows this and every man can do it, but they're all just pussies. 17:13 All men are cowards We suffer from modern society and all of its problems suffers from the fact that we are plagued by monumental cowardice amongst the male population. All men are cowards. They're cowards. It's, it's, it's literally mind blowing to me the level of cowardice we're forced to endure. 17:30 Everyone's a pussy. Everybody. But why? Because it's been They've been deliberately designed to be pussies. The Fem Centric Systems has deliberately installed frames in their. 17:40 Speaker 3 Mind. 17:41 Speaker 1 Every single system is fem centric. You get things wrong in relationships. Do you ever have to apologize? Make amends to women for things you've done or said? No, because I will never apologize because I don't make mistakes. Everything I do is conscious. So even if I do something you don't like, how do you know that? 17:57 How do you know that everything you do is conscious? Because I know exactly what I'm doing. How do you know that? OK, give me an example. OK, so I'll when I say that, how can, well, how can you know that? How do you how can any of us know that we're perfectly conscious? There's no way I've done anything in a relationship and was like, oops, shouldn't have done that ever after. 18:16 Yes, after. Yes, I did it. Yes, I knew I was going to do it. Yes, that was my intention. Yes, I did. I'm sorry it's hurt your feelings, but I did it because I wanted to do it. So I'm not going to pretend I didn't want to do it. And and I really do think that in relationships, especially, especially with women, because I get this all the time from men, because I, I have a whole bunch of guys who cannot believe like me and my long term girlfriends and they see me posting all these other girls. 18:43 They're like, surely your girl, your girls sleep with other men too. I'm like, no, but she sees you cheat. I'm like, so, but because there's a whole level of cowardice to, to, to lying about things. I think that's what annoys women the most. So I'll give an example. If I if I if I have a girlfriend and I go on out on a night out and I fuck something and then she catches me finds a text message. 19:01 I'm like, Oh, I don't know who she is. Oh no, it wasn't me. It was my friend. I lie and then she catches me again and she knows I definitely did it. Now I've just come across to listen, But if she goes, what's this? Got drunk caught some girl don't remember her name. I'm really sorry about it. If you want to leave, leave, but obviously I love you. She doesn't matter. 19:17 So something boom. Like there's a whole degree of I really believe part of them respects you for that. The part of them are like, at least he didn't lie. Like they they respect how honest and brutal you are about it. So I don't apologize for anything, even if I do shit they don't like because I did it on purpose. So why am I? So I'm all sorry. 19:32 So I'm not going to lie because I know I didn't. Oh, you get it. But how should a guy get a girl? 19:37 How to get a girl Oh, how should a guy get a girl in general? Yeah. Yeah. For him, it's easy. Like he doesn't even need to say anything. Bam, I'm agitate. Money. Bugatti, come here, come here, come here. There's a really long answer to give there, but truthfully, it doesn't matter if it's getting a girl or it's making money or it's getting status. 19:53 It doesn't matter what it is. As a man, we live in hyper competitive environments. I don't think enough men understand how competitive the world is. If you want a girl, you're competing against other men. You're not the only man who had the idea of getting that girl. There's no girl you're going to see and go. I'll get that girl and didn't cross anyone else's mind. Everybody else wants her. 20:08 You have to out compete other men. You have to be as competitive as possible. You have to be as successful as possible in all realms. You have to be as good looking, as funny, as smart, as spontaneous, as interesting, as charismatic. As rich as possible. You need to try very hard to be your absolute best and as you become a better man you'll crack through different tiers of attractiveness and eventually you get to the top and you be able to have any girl you want. 20:29 But the truth is I have a lot of guys. Ask me similar to your question. A guy will come to me and go, how do I get a girl? My bro, you're a loser. Yeah, but I know. But how do I get a girl? Well, you're a fucking loser. You're a loser. Why are you asking me? It's like saying how do I win a race with a push bike? You're racing Ferraris. What do you want me to do? 20:45 There's only so much you can do. It's only so hard you can pedal. There's only so many tricks and tips. There's only so many game things you can say. So many pick up lines. If you're a loser, it's going to be very, very difficult and it's going to get harder and harder. The game is rigged to become harder and harder for men. It's not getting easier. 21:00 It's going the other way. And if you're going to be on a race, this track, and there's going to be Ferraris there and you're going to be on a pedal bike or in a Nissan, you're going to get smoked. That's the game. You have to up yourself. You have to improve yourself. I'm not going to lie to anybody here and say you don't have to improve yourself. You can stay a loser and get chicks because you can't. Yeah, you can't. 21:16 Question. What do you think girls want from men? Good question. Do you want the truth or a lie? No. Tell me. Do you want the truth or a lie? Of course. Of course. They all say truth. I want the truth. You could just tell me the truth. Then you tell them the truth and they cry every time. What women want from men. 21:32 What Women Want From Men Well, the first thing we have to understand is that it depends, right? Of course it depends. It depends on how old the woman is, what part of her life she's in, if she's looking for excitement, adventure, or she's looking for a family and to settle down. It completely depends, but in general, if a woman is going to dedicate herself to a man, then that man has to be all-encompassing. 21:52 He has to be a man who can fix most of her problems. He needs to provide stability and safety, which everybody knows, but not many people consider that he also has to provide drama for her. He also has to be entertaining for her. If you're if a woman only talks to you and you're the only man in her life and there's never any drama or there's never any, I wouldn't say conflict. 22:11 I'm not saying necessarily start an argument, but if there's never any drama because drama is excitement, then they're going to naturally try and find drama somewhere else and that always ends very badly for the man. You don't want them to try and find drama outside of the relationship. Women sit there and watch the Kardashians all day. They're addicted to dramas, what they care about. 22:26 So if you're a woman's entire world, you also have to be the person who can. You have to shock her a bit, you have to be the person who can upset her. You need to be entertaining, all-encompassing from head to toe. Women want to be with a man which keeps them entertained and a man which they trust and a man which they believe can fix all of their problems. 22:43 This is another important thing. If a woman comes to you with an issue and you can't fix it, you'll see very quickly how how soon they lose attraction. Would you ever date a Kardashian? 22:50 Would you ever date a Kardashian? Me personally, no, I don't. I had some guy come with me and goes, yeah, but tape. What about BPD chicks? So what the fuck's BPD? He goes these chicks with like a personality disorder, like narcissistic personality disorder. I was like, listen my friend, I don't know what kind of girls you've been fucking, but when you fuck the girls I fuck, which are 19 year olds with 2,000,000 followers on Instagram, every single one of them is a fucking narcissist. 23:12 How are they not? How are they not going to be a narcissist? From the age of 17 they've been getting bombarded with messages from millionaires desperate for their attention and time. How would you not be a narcissist? Just, you know, they're all narcissists. Of course they are, this is natural. 23:28 But they still treat me with respect because they know they don't. I'm going to disappear. So it's nothing to do with the disorder. And he was like, oh, yeah. But you know, those girls with obsessive compulsive behaviours, I said, listen, if I meet a girl who has something wrong with her, and I actually have met girls who are a bit obsessive, compulsive, etcetera, these are the girls who end up being the most loyal. 23:45 These are the girls who will shoot at the cops where you make a runaway. These are the girls who these are the girls you see the guy who's like the serial killer and his wife helped him hide the bodies. That's who these women are because they're compulsive and they meet a man with such a strong frame that they comply. So I'm saying, yeah, OK, maybe to you they're your worst nightmare because, you know, you can't control them. 24:04 But if you're half a man, there's no woman to fear the hype. There's a whole bunch of men out here which are afraid of women. But she might have this compulsive, she might cheat. And I'm like, you don't have any real enemies. You've never had anybody try to kill you. Give me 1000 women who might break my heart over one man who really wants me dead because I know what who the enemies in the world are. 24:24 You know, I've seen it and I've been through it. So all these guys are out here worried about chicks. They don't understand the truth and the harsh realities of the world. There's people out here getting their brains blown out by their best friends. Nipsey's friend Nipsey Hussle's friend pulled a gun and fucking blew his brains out, not his woman. 24:39 So you need to, if you're worried about chicks, you got the whole world messed up. You need to worry about. You need to worry about predators. You need to worry about other men. Chicks are chicks are chicks, you know, like enjoy them, find a good one, settle down, don't find a good one. Keep fucking till you do and just calm down. 24:55 Stop being a little emotional bitch about it. This is the truth. 24:58 Speaker 4 And I think that actually be curious to get your take on this, because I know I, I really like what you, what you've said about about managing women in some of your videos and content. But you know, we, you talked about a lot of times the guy in the especially in the western world and the sexless marriage, right, Being walked all over. 25:14 How to become the man How does, how does a guy turn around this shit or prevent that from happening? Right? Like how does he get into a relationship where he stays the man, where he is the king, let's say? Because a lot of guys today, and this is something, you know, a lot of the red pill guys and stuff, they want to blame women for all this shit. 25:31 They want to say, oh, women are thoughts today. And it's like women have always been women throughout history. They've always, in the absence of masculinity, become masculine. This is just like their characteristics. So, so I, I, I like to blame the man. I like to say if a woman is treating you wrong, if, if you've got, you know, all the shit that happens to you, it's because of you. 25:51 So how does the man become the guy that that doesn't have this shit happen? 25:55 Speaker 1 To him I 1000% agree, with your friend I 1000% agree. So like some, like I, I have anyone who doesn't know me knows I used to run a webcam studio. So I had 75 women working for me and they were talking to guys online and taking money from all the Democrats and betas spending their money and the money went to me. 26:13 This is how I first made big money. So I kind of understand intersexual dynamics from a very unique perspective because you had me at the top, you had 75 women underneath and you had thousands of men underneath them giving them the money kind of went to me. So it's kind of like a, a weird dynamic. So yeah, here's the truth about male female relationships. 26:31 Women fuck men they respect. That's it. They don't fuck men they like. They don't. They don't fuck men they love, they fuck men they respect. If she loves you and likes you and doesn't respect you, she will not have sex. I have women who respect me and fucking hate me, but they're here every time I call. 26:48 If they respect you, they're going to sleep. And this is something that's biological and evolutionary. They fuck men they respect. So how do you make women respect you? 26:55 How to make women respect you Well, first, you have to be worthy of respect as an individual. There's no hack. If you're worthy of respect, you're worthy of respect. But secondly, you cannot allow blatant disrespect. So if you allow her to blatantly disrespect you and you tolerate that, then you're setting a precedent which means, well, why would I respect this guy in the 1st place? 27:12 I send this to guys all the time. I've, I've had loads of guys in company for like coaching and stuff and they say, you know, my woman doesn't respect me da da da da. And I say, look, it's much harder to fix something that's broken than just never let it go wrong in the 1st place. From the second you got together, you should have been a man. And you can be, you haven't got to be an asshole. 27:27 You haven't got to be aggressive. I'll sit with a girl and very politely say, look, if we're going to be in a relationship, if I'm going to take you seriously, you're not going to have male friends. If you want to hang around with a whole bunch of men, then I'm not going to take you seriously. What do you mean you won't take me seriously? I mean, I mean, we can fuck, but I'm not going to be, I'm never going to look at you as serious material. 27:43 So the the idea, the decision is on you. If you want to be serious, you're not going to talk to those guys. You want to talk to those guys, I'll fuck you Sometimes you decide. And I'd lay on them now if they choose to keep all their male friends. So that means she's chosen news friendships over me. Which means sooner or later she was going to cheat anyway. 28:00 Like how long until she jumps on a new Dick anyway? So why would I even be upset about it? But most men are too scared to just put the ultimatum down and not. You haven't got to put the ultimatum down in some scary big thrash way. Just be clear. Look, any woman I'm with who I take seriously doesn't hang around with them. So it's your choice. 28:17 And, and this is the point, but most men don't say anything. They let it slide and they let it get completely broken. And they come to me and say, well, how do I fix it? It's like, well, you have to make it not let it get broken in the 1st place. You need to understand your boundaries and expectations as a man and you have to set them and you have to make sure she complies and sticks to them. 28:33 And if she doesn't, you're going to have to find somebody else. And this is another thing I talk about being a Playboy. I have lots of guys come to me and say, oh, hey, but I don't want to be a Playboy like you. And I say, look, if you want to be happily married, the best thing you can be first is a Playboy, the best thing you can do, because you're going to learn a whole bunch about women. 28:49 You're going to have a whole bunch of choices to choose for a wife. If you're stuck with one option, the one chick, you bet you know that it's good. She might be a Dick head. Some women are just Dick heads, you know. You know, some women have been fucked too hard too many times by too many big scary guys and they just don't want to listen to them. 29:04 So like, being a Playboy is important. But yeah, absolutely for for setting your boundaries and stuff and making sure you're not respected. The key is this is a man. This is the bottom, bottom, bottom line. Most men are not prepared to walk away. And if you're not prepared to walk away, you don't have any weapons. 29:23 If she knows no matter what you won't leave, then what weapons do you have anything you say shouting, screaming, yelling, go going out away for a few days, whatever. She knows you're going to come back. She you have no weapons. The second imagine a girl came to you and she said no matter what you do or how many times you cheat, no matter what, I will never, never leave. 29:44 Think of all the shit you do. I know I do. So this is the point. So as a man, if you're never prepared to walk away, you're never going to be respected. Respect. And the woman thinking, you know what, he might just leave are linked. They have to be there. 29:59 So you have to mean what you say. You have to let her know. Look, there's some things I won't tolerate. And if you fuck with me, I'm going to walk away. And if you walk away and she doesn't chase you, then then she's gone. At least you've saved yourself a fucking nasty divorce and getting cheated on and all that shit. Just end it then and there and save yourself a bunch of time. 30:16 But men are too afraid to to pull the plug on it because they get addicted to the pussy and they don't believe they can get any more pussy and they get all messed up. And this is one of the advantages of being a Playboy. I can leave any chick because I I got, I got 10 more. Yeah, well if she doesn't act right, I'll just replace her for the night and I'll feel better by the next day. 30:32 I go through a breakup a week. I'm used to it. I don't give a shit. And it's just like, this is part of the game. So you have to be prepared to walk away as a man. So you have to look at any relationship you're in and say, OK, I'm a nice guy, I love her, she loves me, but I have boundaries and if she fucks with them, I'm going to have to walk with her. And that's the truth. Otherwise you're never going to be respected. 2 There's two things to discuss here. 30:49 Why In Cells Kill Firstly, why there are why in cells are becoming more common and secondly, why in cells kill. So the first thing I'll discuss why I believe in cells kill and I I believe it's very, very simple. I believe that men are biologically programmed to be violent. I believe that men have an evolutionary need to be violent up until very modern society. 31:09 In fact, even in modern society, a man who does not have the capacity to be violent when needed isn't a man like you. Every woman wants likes the idea of someone broke into my house so my husband fucked them up. Everything you can cut, you can, you can lie as much as you want. That's what you want. So you lie as much as you want. 31:25 So men have an evolutionarily need to be violent. We have that. We, we've grown up with it. The most violent people survive. So you know, it's natural selection, isn't it? So men have this inside of them. And I think women, they, they, they dull a man's sharpest edge. 31:40 And, and when you have a loving family and you have a loving woman around you, that kills a lot of your angry feelings. But when you when women reject you constantly and you're already a man and men have naturally violent tendencies, that's not called toxic natalinity. It's called fucking human nature, then you're going to end up lashing out at somebody or something. 31:58 I say this all the time. I say this, this is what I say about the whole immigration thing into Eastern, into Western Europe and all these immigrants turn up and they start doing violent things and attacking girls and raping girls. I say, look, they're turning up broke with with they don't speak English. What girlfriend are they getting? Zero. 32:14 How long are they going to sit around without getting laid? Look at all these pretty white women walk around in high heels. So they think, fuck this, that that's not that's men. That's that's, that's male instinct. So that's why the incels are killing. The second question is why are why are incels growing as a number? 32:30 Why are incests growing? And the reason for that is because I, I believe the gain for a man is becoming harder by the day. The whole offering that used to get you a loving, stable wife only 40 or 50 years ago is gone. You can't go up to a girl and go, I'll be your man, I'll work in the factory, you stay at home, I'll work all the time. 32:49 You cook and you give me 3 kids and we're going to be together. No woman, no. Everyone's like, well, you work in a factory. Fuck you, loser. No, I'm on Instagram. I'm talking to this guy. He's an athlete. You know, like it's the game's changed. So the game's changed because the basic dynamic of the sexual marketplace is broken. And the basic dynamic is men give attention to get sex and women give sex to get attention. 33:10 This is how it used to work. But now women get attention for nothing. They start, this is absolutely they got their attention. So why do I say that's exactly what I've been saying? That's exactly what I've been saying, man. Men want sex and women got want attention. 33:26 But now Instagram women get all the attention they want to the to like 1000 fold what they can get from any single man, you know, And they they're all using Photoshop and face tune and all this shit. You can be a six in Montana and you can still be getting hit up by verified dudes. 33:46 Like what? What chance does the guy who works in Target in Montana have? I mean, maybe as a big game, whatever. But the point is it's getting harder and harder for men because also the sexual marketplace has been completely globalized. So a lot of people say to me, oh, you're in Romania. You must meet these really beautiful, simple girls from a small village. 34:05 I'm like, bro, I drive through a village where they barely have electricity and if I see a girl, she's 100,000 Instagram followers. These girls know what they're worth. Like the whole idea of this simple red hot girls, it's gone. It's. 34:17 Speaker 5 Gone. If you go through the top rated women on Instagram, quite often they have Cyrillic names and everything's written in Cyrillic. Yeah, the Russian girls that used to have jacked up. Yeah, the girls with jacked up teeth and stuff, they all get their shit fixed and they're making six figures. 34:35 Speaker 1 So, so the whole marketplace is globalized. So the whole idea of you're going to meet this simple poor hot girl and she's going to be humbled and all bullshit. If you're 16 and you're living in Transnistria, which is a breakaway micronation on the border of Moldova, which I got arrested in, that's a different story. 34:51 You will still have 100,000 Instagram followers and you will still be getting offered trips to Dubai and trips to Singapore and Tokyo and LA Dan Bilzerian team will be hitting you up. And then how are you going to come along as Joe Schmoe and say, yeah, I bought you some flowers. Like, come on, man. The game's getting harder for dudes. 35:08 It's getting harder and harder and harder. So they're very, very organized and very powerful systems in place that are designed to prevent us from saying and thinking certain things. And it's a lot of them are designed specifically to control us. And I think that a lot of the relationships between men and women now are designed in a way by the powers that be deliberately to reduce masculine power. 35:30 How can you feel like a powerful man when you have no control over your own household? How can you be a king in the world if you don't control your own house? And how can you control your own house if a woman can call the police on you for basically nothing, can divorce you and take all your shit, can stop you seeing your kick? 35:46 Yo in America they could kick you out of your own house by calling the police on you correct? So the police is always going to secure their so how can you safety. So how are you ever a king in your own house? If you don't feel like a king in your own house, you're not going to feel masculine enough out here on the street to represent freedom against tyranny, right? 36:03 You're not going to feel like kicking up for riot if you have too many problems at home. The reason the men aren't kicking off, the reason the men aren't getting together and say, whoa, whoa, whoa, you're not destroying my family's life work is because they're too busy arguing at home with some bitch or for some dumb shit. And they and they, they deliberately try. They have been deliberately trying for a very long time to reduce the masculine essence to the reason in countries like America, the reason the law is so destructive against men is very, very purposeful. 36:28 They don't want you to feel like a king. They don't want you to feel powerful when you wake up on your fucking third year of a sexless marriage, paying taxes and your kids don't even listen to you. You don't really feel like rebellion. You don't have it inside of you. This is why there's so much fucking male suicide. 36:43 This is why men are so depressed. This is why everyone's so unhappy. Because the life they try and create for men, the things they try and report, the ideas they try and make us subscribe to, are depressing. They want you as a tax slave. They want you as a tax slave. They want you in a sexless marriage with some old fat bitch who hates you. 37:00 That's what they want. Afraid to leave, take your house and destroy your life's work, and they want you to sit there and pay your taxes until you fucking die. This is all done on purpose. None of this is an accident. It's all very purposeful. This is a control mechanism along with everything else. Everything you see on TV is a control mechanism. All the shit they put on Netflix is a control mechanism. 37:17 Telling you that you have mental problems you don't have as a control mechanism. Telling you, oh you Oh yeah, you can't focus on anything for two minutes because you have ADHD or you're depressed and you can never fix it. They're trying to control you. They're trying to dampen your life force. Making sure your woman doesn't listen to you as a control mechanism mechanism. Making sure you can never leave her without being financially destroyed is a control mechanism. 37:35 It's all control mechanisms. All of it. From head to toe. You have to resist the slave mind. You have to look at it all and understand they are trying to make a slave of you. And when I say slave, I do not mean slave lightly, I I mean the word slave. Every single thing about the modern world was deliberately constructed to get us to a point where they can come along and lock you in your house for something with a 99.9% survival rate and you're going to sit there and take it like a bitch anyway. 37:56 That's what all this shit is including be in a position where you can't even tell your own woman she's not allowed out with her friends to get fucking drunk with a bunch of dudes because you're not even allowed to do that. If a wife comes home and goes, I want to go out drinking tonight, you go. You're not fucking going nowhere. Oh, I want to go out there for my friends from work. You're not going out with them men. 38:11 That's coercive and controlling behavior. Bro, you can't even tell your bitch not to go get fucking drunk with dudes. They're they'll call that abusive, right? With the girlfriends, you say what you have a or however many at the time. How many do you have right now? Can we, can we, can we get a rough figure? 38:27 I don't know. I should say this because I'm a man of God. You free speech, you say what you want. I'm a man of God. So one. Of course. Of course. Yeah. No. But do they know about do they know the situation? Let me ask you a question. 38:41 Loyal to a GF Do you have a girlfriend? Yes. Are you loyal to your girlfriend? Yes. Do you want to be? Yes. Why? Because I enjoy. I like coming home. I see a family. That's the main thing for me. I want kids. I want to raise kids. He's a sin. 38:56 And I see. No, it's awesome. No, I understand it. I understand Karam. No. Yeah. And I feel like the best way to have that family is by being loyal to one person. OK, if you could have a woman at home who loved you and adored you and was loyal to you and wanted to have a family with you, but you could also have one other chick on the side without problems, would you do it if you're honest, if you're honest to your true biological instinct and you forget the social societal program? 39:21 No, I I get what you mean. What would you do it? Because I think every single man alive, if they were truly honest to their biological programming, would say I want more than one female. I may not want the headache, I may, I may not want to lose my current female, but if I could keep my current 1 and she'd be loyal to me and she understood and we had a family and everything was cool and I had this bitch, then I'd do it. 39:38 I think every single man who's honest with themselves would do it. So what's stopping? What's stopping a woman from having that same idea as you? Buckle up. Do you have a seat belt? 39:49 Speaker 2 Yeah, yeah. 39:50 Speaker 1 It's on put it on. I'm fascinated. Actually, let me take on my jacket, this one. Firstly, for any female who's listening to this podcast, I apologize to you in advance. I'm apologizing to you for the horrible thing that's just been said because even the idea and the notion that a female should be sleeping with more than one man at a time is disgusting. 40:05 So the fact so the fact that he is trying to pollute the minds of the youth and I'm sitting here on the same panel, absolutely disgusting. You're degrading society. Please don't say those things ever again. It's outrageous, Cal, it's Iran. It's outrageous. And and the reason why a female can't do those things is is actually threefold. 40:23 The first reason is she doesn't want to. Any female who's actually a good woman who's not been completely corrupted and destroyed by society, he doesn't want to be sleeping well, they don't want to, why would they want to, right? Any woman who says I want to sleep with loads of dudes is broken and she's broken on a fundamental level. Stay far away. 40:39 The second reason is paternity. You have to look at humanity from two aspects. You can look at us from a societal perspective in regards to the society we've built and the rules we've taught each other, and we can also look at us from an animalistic perspective, what we are and what we've evolved as. The only way you know that baby is yours. 40:54 Pre science is was Virginia originally. But basically the fact you're the only one fucking her, How else? How else are you going to ensure paternity? The difference between a man having a bunch of chicks and a chick having a bunch of men is if the chick gets pregnant, no one's going to know who the fucking dad is. It's weird, It's weird. If I'm fucking 5 chicks, we all know who the dad is. 41:12 Big daddy takes the dad. Fine. We know who the mom is. We know who the dad is. Now we can have a big happy family. But if you got one chick, get fucked by 5 dudes, nobody even knows who the dad is. And just because modern science can fix that problem doesn't mean it's not wrong, right? Lana Rhodes had that exact, that exact thing. 41:29 Lana Rhodes did. She. Yeah. Well, nobody could figure out who the dad was. That's what I mean. It's just disgusting and it's horrible. So. And, and, and the last thing is any female who comes along and starts saying, well, if you can do that, I can do that. She is a very warped view of society because she doesn't understand the fundamental differences between men and women. 41:47 And a lot of women do this when it suits them. They try and pretend that men and women are not the same. I misspoke. A lot of women try and pretend that men and women are the same when it suits them. They'll sit there and go, no, well, if you can do it, I can do it. But that's not how the world works, right? If someone breaks into the house, the man has to go defend the woman. 42:06 We we have gender roles and we have a different view of society. We act differently. Men do certain things, women do certain things. That's the way society functions. It's always functioned. The modern world trying to convince us that's not true. Females will pretend it's not true until it doesn't suit them. Oh, if you get to sleep with a bunch of people, I get to sleep with a bunch of people till the Titanic sinking, then she's a chick. 42:24 Right. Until there's a war, then she's a chick. Oh, I'm just a girl. You go fight. It's bollocks. It's bullshit. I understand that. I I yeah, I get that. And since the dawn of human time, every single king, every single Sultan, every single emperor, every single one of them had more than one chick. 42:41 All of them. That's all they did. Because once you get to a certain level of statist as a man, because one of the things you get to enjoy are the spoils of war, and the spoils of war are usually females. And so why? What's the reason? Right now, me and Cal, we only have one female because you've decided we don't hit that level yet. 42:58 Well, you've decided to be constrained and you've decided to be constrained by societal rules, and you've also decided to be constrained by the emotion of the female you're with. That's not necessarily a bad thing. You sat there and said, I don't want to upset the girl I'm with, so I'm going to allow her to control what I do with my Dick. That's fine. 43:13 But if you're a man like me, you don't allow those kind of things allow female emotion to control you. You are limiting. And I'll be serious with you guys now, right? And I'm not looking down on you. I'm just making it clear to the decision you've made. You are limiting your own bloodline purely because a female will get upset with your money and influence. 43:29 You could have 15 sons. You could have an empire. You could be Genghis Khan, but you won't because you won't. I don't know about 115 people texting me. Well, this is what I mean. Yeah, that's chaos. Well, I love chaos, but the problem is you won't do it. The main and primary reason you won't do that is because you don't want the chicken with to get upset. 43:45 So you're allowing the female who you're with and her and her tears to control and limit your own biological bloodline. If you were truly about it, like Genghis Khan, you'd be like, fuck you. How do how do? How do big kid, kid, big boss, I'm AG Spotify deal. Look at me. 44:00 I can't be stopped. He knows but that. But but this is it, right? So it's all it down to how much value you want to put on the emotion of others and whether you're going to allow that to influence your behavior and your thinking. And I'm not saying you have to be a complete psychopath or a sociopath, right. If you have a chick and you love her, you don't want her to cry. I have women I love. I don't want them to cry either. 44:16 But still, there's a point where it goes. Look, I don't want you to cry. I'm going to take care of you. I love you very much. We'll go to the Maldives, but I'm the big G and I'll be back later. Another way to view the world. It's just the wrong way to view the world. Every man understands. You shouldn't be complaining about things you cannot change. You have to play the cards. You're Dell. I can't be a cowboy. Justin's a cowboy, right? 44:33 I can't be an Australian. Sterlings. An Australian can't be a Dick head, Tristan. To Dick you have to. You have to accept your role and you have to play it right to be born a certain height and then to sit there, go, what do I do? 44:44 You can only become the best version of yourself I'll tell you what you do. You become the best version of yourself just like everyone else does. We're all born. OK, let's say we were all blessed with height at this table, we still had to become the best version of ourselves. If I was only 6 foot three and didn't achieve any of the other things I've achieved, none of you would be watching this podcast right now. 45:00 True. Nothing about the height is in and of itself enough value for me to be a valuable man. As a man, you build your value. You are born with the cards you're dealt. Sure, it'd be ideal. Look, I'd love to be 7 foot tall. I'm not. So it's the same argument. You can only become the best version of yourself, and to sit there and constantly complain about it is a feminine frame. 45:18 If you're a 5 foot 2, you need to become rich, strong, well connected, and funny and charismatic and interesting and witty. If you're 6 foot 4, you need to become rich, strong, well connected. It's the same game. So to sit there and complain about it is asinine. 45:34 In fact, asinine is the word of the day. Asinine is the word of the day. Now, now Sterling, this is the first time ever in Romania a fan has come up to you and recognized you. And what did you say, guy, after he left? A guy came up and spoke to you today and this is this is on the height issue and maximizing your stats. 45:49 As soon as he left, you said about the fact he was handsome. 45:52 Speaker 2 Yeah, yeah, he was. He was good looking dude. 45:55 Speaker 1 Handsome. 45:55 Speaker 2 Old full head of hair like, but he was being honest. Scrawny, bad fashion, bad haircut he had you said that he's given, been given, God's given him all these tools advantage and he hasn't taken advantage. 46:07 Speaker 1 He's folding on a handful of aces. The four aces, he's folding them. But all of you listen, ladies and gentlemen, and this is extremely important. All of you have a handful of aces. I don't think you understand that bacteria could have stolen your eyesight at the age of fucking 3. You could have been in a car crash at four years old and lost your legs. 46:23 You have any understanding of how lucky you have been? This is pure luck. This only luck has kept you fully able bodied, sitting there capable of learning and listening and becoming something and they're going to sit there and pretend you don't have a pocket full of aces. You have a pocket full of aces along with everybody else. 46:39 I would actually guarantee that most of the people watching this podcast had a better start than most of us 100% and here we are. So you have to this whole frame I don't like it's a question. 46:49 Fixing the frame I get along. What do I do if I'm not rich? What do I do if I'm not tall? What do I do if I'm not handsome, I'm uninterested. We're not females. If you come to me and say I'm an ugly chick, what do I do? That's a genuine question because then you're fucked right? But if you're ugly, man, that's not real, because you can become scary. 47:05 You don't need to be good looking. You can be scary as hell. You can just be a monster. That's fine. You don't have to be handsome if you're scary. You don't really need to be that tall if you're important and rich. And when you walk in the room, you think when fucking Mayweather walks in the room, people give a shit. There's Mayweather and he's 5, three or something and he's tiny people. 47:22 Shut the fuck up. That's right. So this whole, this whole narrative, this whole frame, the fact you even ask that question shows that you're fundamentally broken. So fix that. Fix that frame in your mind you are viewing yourself as a short man. Stop it, because then she's going to view you as a short man. 47:40 Walk the fuck up and be the man. That's the answer to the question. There's no other answer to give you. You can't change it. That's the answer. What are you doing? 47:47 Speaker 6 I'm going through a breakup bro. It's hard bro. You're something, you know? Heartbreak hurts. 47:52 Speaker 1 Heartbreak does hurt. Yeah, I agree with you. Heartbreak hurts, OK? 47:54 Speaker 6 So come on. 47:55 Speaker 1 Why do you think she left you? 47:57 Speaker 6 No, it was mutual. 47:58 Speaker 1 Why do you think she left you? 47:59 Speaker 6 Listen, people outgrow each other, bro. People sometimes in life they don't work out and that's how life is, bro. You got to understand and respect that, you know what I mean? 48:07 Speaker 1 That's what girls say when there's someone else. If you're a man who has heartbroken, a lot of them are so stupid that they may revert to the mindset that you've said. They may say I don't have my heartbroken again, but they haven't sat there and said why did this happen? 48:23 You have to know the why to prevent it from happening. You have to analyze the scenario and learn from it. One thing I'll say about women this fantastic, one of the best things women are are one of the things women are best at is they're a fantastic mirror. Women are a reflection. 48:38 If you have any weakness inside of you or if you have any downfalls as a person, a woman's going to show you who they are. If you're too emotional, if you're too easy to get angry, she'll teach you that. She'll teach you that you can get angry too fast, piss her off small. She'll tell you. 48:53 She'll tell you exactly what is wrong with you when she is mad. She'll sit there and say you got a short leg and your haircut, Shit, can't do haircut. I hate your ugly. They'll tell you exactly what is wrong with you when you look at your bad or your previous relationships with women that went wrong. 49:09 You can sit there and go, OK, this all went wrong. What has she taught me? She taught me that I'm emotionally affectable. She taught me that if she ignores me, she gets more attention than if she's nice to me. So you taught me you have to sit there and analyze all the lessons and you have to implement them. It's the same with absolutely everything. 49:25 But women are a fantastic mirror. A lot of these guys who resort to that are men who don't have the self reflection to sit and say, OK, why did this happen? As a man, you have to be accountable for absolutely everything. Every single thing that happens is your fault. I didn't go to jail because of Romania. 49:41 I went to when I was in jail. It was my fault. I even though I don't believe it was just, even though I do not believe it was fair, even though I know I am innocent. It is my fault because I didn't have to become so influential. I did it. But it's also it's also my fault when I'm on the jet and and living my perfect life. 49:59 I did that. I did the good, I did the bad. You made her lead. You did whether you like it or not. You are the reason she became so cold. You are the reason she doesn't listen anymore. You are the reason she's so arrogant all of a sudden. 50:14 You are. You may not have identified why yet, but if you identify why then you get into your next relationship healed and understanding what you did wrong and learn from it. That's what you have to do. But most of these men don't want the self accountability and they want to blame the women. You have to blame yourself. 50:30 I know exactly now how to keep a woman happy so I ain't got nothing to worry about. I've learnt my lessons. I know exactly I got to keep a woman happy. I know when to set a boundary, when to be nice. I know exactly what to do because I've self analyzed a lot of these red pill guys. They want to do exactly like you said, just run around and just chicks because they've never looked in the mirror and go why do these chicks don't want to just love me? 50:48 Why am IA fuck up? You're not perfect. God is perfect, nobody is perfect. You need to analyze yourself. The truth is, as a man, a woman doesn't even have to like you. She doesn't even have to love you. But if she respects you, she's always going to be around. 51:03 And This is why if I love a woman with all my heart and she goes, I want to leave. The first thing I'm going to say is because if I say anything else, she's not going to respect me. Like if I, oh, please stay, I'll say, look, I don't want you to leave. I would like you to stay. But if you're going to talk shit and threaten me, you get the fuck out of my house. 51:21 Like I've, I've had women leave me, but there's never, I've never had a woman not respect me. And that's where I can hit up any X I've ever had. And I know those because they respect me on a base level. So why do they respect me? Because I respect myself. So I will never sacrifice myself respect. I guess that's the bottom line. 51:36 It doesn't matter if I love you myself. Respect has to come first. And that's good for me and it's good for you because if I sacrifice myself respect, you wouldn't love me anymore either, bitch. So that's just how it's going to be. That's just how I, that's how I view the self because that's how I view the world. That's how I always am. You know, you have to you, you have to, to a degree, put yourself first. 51:54 You can't pour from an empty cup. You have to be like all about you. No one else is going to fix your I really don't believe no one else is going to make your life fantastic but you. You have to be all about you. And so many of these guys who get hurt because I really believe guys get hurt more than women nowadays. This idea that men hurt women and break women's hearts, like maybe I've broken a few, but besides the elite players like me, most of the time it's the women fucking the guys hope. 52:18 I really believe that and, and, and a lot of the times they're getting screwed up is because they've tied their identity so intricately with this girl that they've lost their sense of self. You lose your sense of self. You can't have self respect. And that's why she doesn't respect you anyway. And that's why it's all going downhill. And that's why you lose her and you panic and blah, blah, blah. 52:34 You've got to be, you've got to be about yourself first. She has to be a compliment. So yeah, I've had my heart broken in regards to I've had times women have left and I've really, really missed her. 52:43 How to deal with heartbreak But I have never text her first ever. What did you do with the pain of the heartbreak? I did the same thing I do if my heart wasn't broken. I got up, I went in the gym, I lifted a bunch of weights, I got in my fast car, I drove down the road looking sexiest, bought a Starbucks and made some money. 53:03 It doesn't matter. How I feel has no bearing on how I live my life. What are you doing? 53:09 Speaker 6 I'm going through a breakup bro. It's hard bro stop being so hard on me. Damn dude, you're something. You know heartbreak hurts. 53:16 Speaker 1 Heartbreak does hurt. I agree with you, heartbreak hurts. 53:18 Speaker 6 OK, so come on, bear with me a little bit. 53:20 Speaker 1 Bro how long ago did you break up? 53:22 Speaker 6 About a month or two ago. 53:23 Speaker 1 Why do you think she left you? 53:25 Speaker 6 No, it was mutual. 53:26 Speaker 1 Why do you think she left you? 53:28 Speaker 6 It was mutual. Listen, people outgrow each other, bro. People sometimes in life, they don't work out and that's just how life is, bro. You got to understand, respect that, you know what I mean? 53:37 Speaker 1 That's what girls say when someone else people outgrow each other. It's not you, it's me. You know what? You're a really good friend. I don't see you that way. Once they have a new to gobble on, that usually what happens. So who does she do you know yet? Did you even find out? 53:50 Speaker 6 No, I don't think she is anyone. 53:52 Speaker 1 Oh yeah, she left you to be by herself. She left you to sit at home alone and watch TV. Yeah, 100 percent, 100% knows why she left you, G. She left you because she just really wanted to sit at home by herself, not to run around with some other dude. You're totally right. 54:07 She's a good person. She's different than all the rest. Completely agree. Nobody. Don't worry. You can sleep just fine at night. Maybe you should text her when you're lonely. Send her a text. She might text back this time. She's definitely not with some dude. You know, all those other times she didn't reply. She was tired. 54:23 She was asleep, don't worry about it this time she might text back. Miss you too. Wish we could have worked out there's not some dude like me sitting next to her laughing at your messages, right? You're a weird ass. 54:37 Speaker 6 She she made she made an only fan yesterday. 54:41 Speaker 1 She's been doing a lot more than that. Gee, I don't know why you're worried about website. Holy fans don't have a website. Don't worry about that. She's been up to a lot more. How many times she not replied to at night? How many times she been asleep by 9:00 PM? She's different, bro. She's different. Yeah, she's super different, bro, 100%. 54:58 She's so different. You know your problem? If I split up with a girl, I sit there and understand that females don't like to downgrade. And I say, OK, she now has to meet another man with hundreds of millions of dollars who's an ex athlete or kickboxing world champion, who's strong and smart and interesting and funny and the most famous martyr of earth for trying to crack the Matrix. 55:16 There's no competition. But your problem is you're so normal. Yeah, you have a Twitch stream. Who gives a shit? You look like Joe Schmo. You act like Joe Schmo. You do Joe Schmo shit. So she'll a man like you. She'll basically anybody. And that means that she can get a guy from KFC or Starbucks or some other random Twitch clown and you can get replaced so quick. 55:34 That's what your problem is. I don't have that problem. You do. So if you think you're so, if you think you're so special, Aiden, that throughout all these months she couldn't find some other guy in terrible shape who drinks soy lattes with enough money to afford a shitty apartment in LA, then you are out of your mind. 55:52 Because I guarantee she could and has, and it's done. You're. 55:57 Speaker 6 The weirdest. OK listen bro, whatever. 56:00 Speaker 1 I'm not weird. I tell you the truth. What's weird about the truth? The truth is beautiful. You must accept and embrace it. You must look in the mirror and accept that I am right and you need to become a formidable force of man that cannot be replaced or replicated anywhere else on God's green earth. That's what you must do. 56:16 You are failing yourself and God. That's why she left you, Aiden. That's why she left you. That's why. Because. 56:24 Speaker 6 I failed God, I'm correct. 56:26 Speaker 1 You're failing God. If you were the best version of yourself and you were waking up every day trying your absolute best to be a unique and special individual, then you would not be failing God any longer and he would not play you with this bad luck. Now you're sitting here upset over somebody who has replaced you, and you deserve it. 56:40 Speaker 6 So what do I do, Andrew? 56:42 Speaker 1 I've told you what to do. I've told you what to do since we've ever started talking. I told you to become a man of substance. I said come here and I will train you. I'll turn you into an animal, a predator, a monster. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Maybe later. Soy latte, please. From Starbucks. You're a cup, Aiden. 56:57 You're a cup. Well, emotions are feedback. 57:01 Emotions are feedback The idea that men don't feel emotions is incorrect. We feel emotions. I would actually argue we feel emotions in in certain with certain emotions stronger than women. I would argue that we feel heartbreak. Stronger than women. I would argue we feel anger. Like a woman could never understand. I would argue we are extremely emotional. 57:17 Rage. Rage. Pure rage. It's feedback. So when you get the feedback, it's all about how you internalize that and how you process it, right? It's having Stoicism's not not feeling emotions. It's feeling the emotion and going, OK, why is this happening? How much does this really matter? 57:32 What's the most intelligent movement of the chess board? Chess is a fantastic game because in the game of chess, there's no, there's no luck if you lose. No matter how well you play, if you lose, at some point you made a mistake. It was the most minor mistake. You made a mistake, so you learn to understand that no matter what happens to you, if you lose a scenario, you made a mistake. 57:52 Maybe it's a tiny one, maybe it was two years ago, whatever. But you made a mistake and you learn absolutely not our accountability for yourself and that mentality is extremely powerful to apply to all things in life. The position I'm in now is the most hated man in the world. Although I agree and I truly believe it's unfair, I still take complete responsibility for. 58:11 I'm not going to see her and say I'm telling you why it happened when I talk about TikTok and YouTube Shorts, but I'm not going to blame them. Absolutely. They're, they're, they're a company making money and they're monetizing the best they can. Fantastic. All of this is my fault, but the Bugattio, my drive is my fault and the yacht is my fault. The private jet's my fault. 58:27 So it's all my fault. So I think the good with the bad, I take all responsibility for absolutely everything, including if a woman leaves me, if a woman stays, if I end up heartbroken, if I end up filled with rage, I take responsibility for that. Something happens to me that makes me enrage. 58:43 I will take responsibility. Why has this happened to me? Why do I feel this way? How did I end up in this position? Is this healthy in this scenario? And sometimes it is. I've had scenarios in my life where I was prepared to die to protect somebody else, and I was enraged and it was healthy. I've also had times where I'm in a room by myself, enraged, sitting there going, this is no good for anybody. 59:03 I need to just call them now. So emotions are feedback, but stoicism is the ability to process. And that's what you need to be learn as a man. You're never going to be able to turn them off. You're going to feel them. You have to learn how to turn. You have to learn how to process them and turn them into a palsy. It's energy. It's unlimited energy. 59:18 Energy cannot be destroyed. It can only be converted from one form to another. And you have to look at that and understand that the sadness inside of you is energy. You can't destroy it, but you can convert into something else, which is constructive. And you just have to suck it up by a cop and get over it. And there's no other way to do it. And obviously having an abundance of women makes that easier, but I wouldn't even put it that way. 59:35 I'd say if you were with a woman and you lost her and you're now lonely and she's going to be moving on and you're absolutely heartbroken and you're destroyed inside, I understand how difficult that is. But now you have genuine sadness inside of you, which is unlimited motivation for you to become a beast, become an animal. And by the time you're finished becoming an animal, you won't care anymore. 59:51 So if you really want to cure yourself, you need to say I'm going to get 6 pack and I'm going to get bigger arms. And by the time my arms are this size and I have 6 pack, then I'm going to think about that and you'll realize you don't give a shit about her anymore. That's just the way the world works. I'm saying that it's a very dangerous battlefield now when you were saying I feel sorry for the young people, so do I. It's hard. 1:00:06 Now imagine being 15 with social medias and these kind of things. Is not. Imagine being a 19 year old boy, now every 19 year old girl you're in love with is on Instagram dating 4 year old billionaires. It's crazy. And I'm saying that a lot of the men, a lot of the men who are the most heartbroken or are most upset people. 1:00:21 People underestimate how important the relationship between a man and a woman is in the masculine life. I can tell you right now, you can give a man everything, but if he's arguing with his chick, he's he's fat, it doesn't matter. It's so important and I'm saying the best chance you have to negate these things is experience with women. 1:00:37 You need a degree of experience. This is a man. Women innately want it. You see a woman who's unhappy with her boyfriend because he's simping or he's acting stupid or he always just chases me around. Women will tell you themselves he he's boring. It's true. You need to get to the point where you have enough abundance and you've been about the game long enough. 1:00:54 You can say that's a shit test. She's playing games, goodbye. You have to. And I'm saying the only way you can do that is with experience and abundance. So as a man, you need to do your thing, get to a point where you meet the one and settle down. But to sit and say that that period where you do your thing isn't necessary, I completely disagree with that. 1:01:10 I think you're going to end up wrecked if you don't do it in the in the modern world with Instagram, with this, with everyone after his chick, when he's Joe Schmo and I'm messaging her, it's over. And I'm saying the best advice you can give the guy is when he gets his heart broken and he's truly destroyed his you need to become a man that women don't leave. 1:01:25 So you gotta get more important and you gotta get more women and you just gotta become that guy. There's no other way to do it. I say this all the time. I say that the biggest periods of transformation in my life was when everything was going wrong, when my life was going good. It's I'm not a hedonistic person. 1:01:40 I don't do drugs, I don't gamble, I don't do prostitutes. I don't do anything that hedonistic, but I'll certainly go on the yacht with a bunch of women I know and chill and have some vodkas and that kind of thing. When life's smooth, that's then it's semi hedonistic, pretty relaxed. But when I make my biggest progress, when I really change who I am and change the world, that's when everything's when things go wrong or I'm feeling things I don't want to feel or bad things are happening, that's when I'm like, OK, I can current. 1:02:07 I currently cannot sleep. I've completed the day's tasks. I've tried to go to bed. I can't sleep. More shit has to be done. That's when the amazing things happen in my life. When I was heartbroken, when I was whatever, everyone's been heartbroken. I can't remember a specific example. I hit the gym hard, right? 1:02:22 If something goes wrong with your payment processor, that's when you get invented. That's that's business, right? That's when you get invented. So all the bad things that happened to you as a man, if you're a stoic, you get to take unlimited energy. Heartbreak is unlimited energy. So is depression, so is rage, so is sadness. All these negative emotions they tell you to to collapse behind. 1:02:39 It's like people talk like Bruce Lee says be like water and people see that as be fluid and just go with the flow. I disagree. If you're like water, you are, you're necessary for life. You are scary when you're enraged, you're powerful. You're beautiful when you're calm. 1:02:56 There's so many things when you're like water, right? So if I'm enraged, it's like water behind a dam. You just got to put the dam in place and you go get the turbo, the hydroelectrics put in. Don't tsunami your life. Put the energy somewhere. And this is the most beautiful thing about it because people message me all the time, like, oh, but Tate, you don't know how sad I feel. 1:03:13 No, incorrect. I know exactly how sad difference is. I used it. And you're sitting, you're still crying some random guy on e-mail for the third month in a row. That's the difference between you and me, my friend. I was becoming a world champion kickboxer if I got to a point into it. I people often talk to me about depression, say they don't understand it. 1:03:29 I will say, listen, there's been times in my life where I was fully functional as an adult. I would never label myself depressed because I don't believe in the idea of labeling myself in a negative because I don't believe in things that take power from me, which we'll talk about in a second. But there's been times in my life where I didn't give a fucking fuck if I live to die. 1:03:47 Been times in my life where I went to fight a man for money and I didn't give a shit if I if I if I lost and even woke up again didn't get I had nothing worth living for. I was brokey didn't have a girlfriend, didn't have any money. Got 2 day call to fight some world champion. Had to lose 10 kilos in two days. 1:04:02 Had nothing else going for me. Go on a plane to Dagestan and one. There have been times I've done that. By all conventional wisdom I was depressed, I was suicidal, did it. But I was just like, no, I don't give a shit that that. And that's when I was at my most powerful. Now that I get that call, I'm like, bro, new car outside and shit, going to sorry, how much money now? 1:04:27 But back then I was like, yeah, cool, who is he? This guy, I think I didn't give up. I was most powerful when I was sad, when I was depressed, when all these things and and the difference is was to frame it so. 1:04:39 Speaker 6 Can we go back to the heartbreak shit like when, when, when we're how are we when we deal that we first heartbreak and like how long did it take you to get over and anyone out anyone that's listening right now that's going through a heartbreak or similar situation? What do you have advice for them and how do you get over it? 1:04:51 Speaker 1 It's actually very interesting, the masculine experience, because I like to believe that most men on the planet have lived a semi similar timeline. Even me, Lord of Earth, top G, the most interesting, compenduous, smart, funny, tall, strong and brilliant human to possibly ever live has been through a very similar timeline to a worm like you, and it's quite an interesting thing. 1:05:10 Yes, you are a worm. Be quiet. Listen, you're a worm. Shut up. It's very interesting that all of us as men experience a very similar human paradigm and that is that most men are born and you're not important. And then you go to school and you fall in love with some girl in school and someone else. 1:05:27 And then you realize that all the 19 year olds you want when you're 19 or with older dudes because they have cars or whatever, whatever. And you go through this experience of getting your heart broken and losing your girlfriend, etcetera, etcetera. And many men latch on to some average or accept they're going to have their heart broken forever. But some men decide to become so big and important and strong and irreplaceable, they never have to suffer heartbreak again. 1:05:46 Because every man deals with heartbreak and deals with sadness. But how you use that energy is a differentiation, the differentiator between humans, right? You are feeling the same pain that many men have felt. I as a man, everybody, man, every man out there has had his heart broken and understands how difficult it is. As a man, we all know how hard it is to see the girl you love getting plowed. 1:06:04 Yeah, getting plowed by someone else like you have to deal with. Now you can log into our Only Fans and see it. But it's true. It's boy girl. That's why she started the account. But the difference between me and you and perhaps some of the other men out there is that certain men take that anguish and Turk take that sadness and understand that energy could not be destroyed. 1:06:21 It can only be converted and use it to build themselves into a man of absolute standing and power as opposed to sitting around off like you just told me you do. You are a waste. You are wasting your energy. Heartbreak is unlimited motivation. When I was, if I was heartbroken, it's been a very long time, but if I was heartbroken, I'd be in the gym every morning, I'd be a beast, I'd be running, I'd be working, I couldn't sleep, I'd be an absolute animal. 1:06:46 And you're heartbroken and what are you doing off like a fucking dumbass? Of course I'm right. So I understand very very well heartbreak, every man does. This is what's so amazing about the massive experience. 1:07:02 Even the top G and a worm have lived a very similar ish timeline. The difference is as a man, you must build yourself into a man of credibility, which means to build yourself into a man of standing. We all start in a very fairly similar position. I became me through tedious, arduous, difficult, never ending work. 1:07:24 You are wasting your time and by the time you finally realize I'm right, you're going to be too old for anyone to give a shit because at your age, how old are you again? 20 something. 1:07:33 Speaker 6 22. 1:07:34 Speaker 1 22 at 22 I could split your score. You should be so strong. You know why God made your girl leave you? Because he wanted to show you that you ain't shit. He wanted to show you that your little Twitch stream and the arrogance you've built with your stupid social media accounts controlled by the Matrix and that your little dumb parties with Instagram hoes and whatever else you're doing means nothing. 1:07:56 He wanted to show you that you are human and you're fallible and that you're very replaceable. So he decided to make you fall in love with a girl, and he decided to make her leave you to show you that you are a kid. Now it is your job to look at the bored, understand what's happened, say I understand God, I deserve that. 1:08:14 I'm glad she left me and I'm sad because I am a kid and do something about it. Because if you refuse, if you ignore God's message, next time you fall in love with a, guess what he's going to do, He's going to make her leave you to remind you once again that you are a kid. 1:08:29 Every single man out here, if you're upset that your girl's leaving you, God is reminding you that you aren't worth shit. You need to get up and work so hard that even in the eyes of God, He is proud of you. God loves his creations which show him their true potential and beauty. By getting up and trying your absolute best and becoming a man of of moral standing, He will reward you and bless you endlessly. 1:08:51 If you continue to be a kid, God will remind you you're a kid. So God just broke your heart on purpose to show you that the way you're living your life and the man you are simply are not good enough. What have you changed since? Nothing. Nothing. You think God's going to forgive you for no reason? 1:09:07 You think God's going to go? Oh, that little dickhead Aiden, it's fine. He hasn't learnt his lesson. He hasn't changed. He isn't even trying very hard. He's not off early in the gym. He ain't doing nothing. It's fine. Let's just let him fall in love and let's make sure the girl doesn't. Someone else on Only Fans this time. No Sir. This is going to repeat endlessly. 1:09:23 It's a cycle that will not change until you take the message from God and become the man you're supposed to be like. Subscribe and join us on Patreon.