Second Date Update PODCAST: Fender Bender

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Every time I've tried to get a girl's attention, I just bam, just check her, bumper a little bit, and traffic, she always notices me. That's the wrong type of attention. That's what happened to Rachel. Hey Rachel, what's going on? Hey, how are you? Good. Now the guy you emailed us about, his name's Phil. You said that got in the car accident with him, right? Yeah, I mean, we got into like a little fender bender. Did he hit you? He hit me, yeah, he hit me. What happened? Like how hard? It wasn't that hard. I think, all right, guys, grow up a little bit. We're talking about car accident. So are we? Yeah. What are you talking about? Yeah, pervert. Okay, continue. Talks about how he hit it. You know, he accidentally hit me. But you know, it was enough where we had to pull off the road and take a look and see if there was any damage. So we started talking. Were you excited about that? Like when you got out of the car, you're like, oh, well. I mean, not at first, but I did notice he was kind of cute. Yeah. Did he ask you out right there on the spot or did you just get a text message from him later? Like, hey, well, we started talking and then he asked me out eventually. You know, I know it's a little strange how we met, but he had this like really great sense of humor when we were talking and he had progressive. So I knew that he was responsible. How was the date that you went on? It was good. We went out to this restaurant that he was raving about. And when we got there, he didn't make a reservation, I guess. I guess he kind of just thought, oh, like he'll get it in because you know, he knows the place so well. But there was like an hour and a half wait. Oh, that's such a. And he tried to split the host like a $5 bill, which I don't know, he kind of got. $5 bill. Yeah, I know. He kind of got rejected big time. But you know. I know it says you don't have any tables on your list, but what about for five American dollars? Sir, tables on without now. I think you want to pass this to Rolla-Corders. Yeah, it's $10 there. Did you see him do that? Yeah, I did. And the look on her face was kind of like, are you kidding me? No, I'm not saying anything, but it was kind of cute, you know, if you tried to get it done and everything. Did you wait for the table then for another half? No, we did. Oh my god. We waited an hour and a half, but we were talking the whole time, kind of getting to know each other. And the time up, I really fast actually. And didn't even notice that we were rating that long. And it was good. It was really good food. We had great conversation. And then when the bill came, he couldn't cover it because he only had $5. So how'd the date end then? So we finished our date and then he walked me back to my car. And you know, he was cute and he tried to give me a kiss. Tried to give you a kiss? Yeah. Does that mean you turned around? Well, I guess when he like reached in to give me a kiss, he closed his eyes a little early and he kind of ended up kissing me on my eyeball. Oh my god. I got that. Did you laugh? That's so awkward. Did you laugh or how do you react? Well, he was so embarrassed. He was so embarrassed after he did it. I felt really bad. I mean, I tried not to laugh too much and just tell him, you don't worry about it's fine, whatever. So you didn't correctly kiss though after you kissed your eyeball? You just left it at that? Yeah, I was kind of like, oh, that sucks. Throw the guy a bone. That is a bad taste around the end of the night. Yeah, he was just so embarrassed. I was just like, no, don't worry about it. You know, just kind of tried to smile. And if I kissed you on your eyeball and accident and then you didn't offer a follow up kiss, I think that you hated me. So, all right, we're going to play a song. Come back. Call him and get your second data update, all right? Okay. Okay, hang on. I want to be free. 92.5. Broken Jubilee in the morning. Second data update. I think that this guy Phil just has to be embarrassed. If you ask me, yeah, he hit her and then he kissed her. He ran into Rachel's car. That's how they initially met. Then he tried to take her out to dinner at this place. He was raving about, didn't make reservations. So they're waiting for what? An hour and a half, Rachel? Yeah, an hour and a half. An hour and a half. He's embarrassed when he tries to slip the host money. They give him back to $5 that he tried to grease them with. And then at the end of the night, he kisses her eyeball. I don't think I'd want to call you back either, Rachel. I just chalk it up to a loss. I'd be like, dude, I ruin that whole thing. And the, no, not at all. The surprising thing to me, Rachel, is that you're so into it. I mean, no thing. They were kind of adorable. You know, I found it to be really cute. I had a really good time with him on that date. And I would really want to see him again. And you made that apparent to him. You were very clear about how much he liked him. Yeah, I thought so. I thought I was. Okay. All right, we're going to call him now. See if we can get him on the phone. Okay? Okay, great. [phone ringing] Hello? Hey, I was looking for Phil. Yeah, speaking. Who is this? This is Jubil from Brook and Jubil in the morning. I'm moving 92.5. How are you? 92.5. Oh my god, are you serious? [laughter] Yes, I, this is the reaction I get when I call most people. Phil, don't worry about it. No, I'm not. What's up, man? How you doing? I'm great. How are you? Good. Do you know why I might be calling you? You know I do. Have you ever heard one of the second-aid updates that we do? Kind of, kind of sort of, yeah. You sound like you're not too familiar. If you don't know what a second-aid update is, it's where you go out on a date with someone and then blow them off after. Then they email us and ask us to call you to find out why. So I blew somebody off? Yep. Any idea what that could be? Um, cheese. I mean, I did kind of go on a date like last week. It was a girl Rachel. And has Rachel texted you and called you after the date to try to maybe hang out again? There are a couple of times, I think she may have left me a message. And you haven't responded to her. Which technically means you blew her off. So. [laughter] Here we are. What the hell? That one? Men's brains work. Oh, yeah, that one. Rachel wants to know why you won't call her back. Is there any particular reason? Well, man, to be completely honest, man, you know, she was just a little weird. She was a little weird. What? I figured that it was embarrassment. I figured you weren't calling her back because you were embarrassed, but you say it's because she's weird? Oh, yeah, yeah. Turns out, you know, like all the stuff that we talk about, she didn't really tell me everything about herself, you know, like pertinent information. So. What do you mean by that? What do you mean by everything about herself? You go on dates because, you know, you want to know somebody a little bit better. Maybe you see if it leaves a spump of an elf. Yeah, I was going to say hook up after it, but. [laughter] Apparently some people have different reasons for dating. So what'd you find out though? Like, you know. So, after the date, you know, I went back and went to my friends, and I was like, you know, I went out with this awesome girl named Rachel, and I actually showed them a picture of her. And, uh, my boy was like, this was the same girl that was dating a mutual friend of ours. Oh, man. Oh, really? How old are you? How do you guys really know that that's the same person? Facebook? Yeah. I can pick a full picture right now. We actually found the profile of the boyfriend, right? And we were going through his pictures. She's on the profile picture, making out with home views. What? So she's cheating? Yeah, apparently the status thing says. They're in a relationship and it says her name. Oh! No. Oh my god. And not even just dating him. Wait, we know. Wait, let me explain. Hey, Phil? Yeah. I should probably let you know that Rachel is on the other line and heard everything that you just said. [laughter] Are you serious? So. [laughter] Yeah, I. Phil, hi. Um. You would just let me explain. Yes, that was my boyfriend, but we're definitely not dating anymore. We've been broken up for the last two months I just live with him a little bit of a complicated situation, but we're definitely not in a relationship Rachel, did you say you just live with him? Yeah, it's a little complicated, you know, but yeah I live with him, but we're not together. We're not Officially together broke up. It's over. It's been over. Why are you living with him? It's just a little complicated I'm moving out soon. We know I'm working it out, but for right now, we're still, you know, sharing the same space And how soon is soon? Like as soon as I possibly can. Rachel, I've been in a similar situation Where I've broken up with someone I lived with and we had to live together for a couple months because you know things just didn't work out Are you guys still sleeping together? Yeah Well, I mean At least you're honest It's obvious. It only it's like happened like once or twice and honestly like it's not an emotional thing at all It's just a physical thing and we you know like we do see each other every single day When I say that we're officially over it we're I'm glad that you admit it because like if you said no, I was gonna call you out because it's the same way I when I was in that situation you have your moments a weakness Yeah, she says it's physical, but you have an ex boyfriend that still has a profile pic of you That is not physical to him. I can guarantee it. I mean yeah But I mean I don't know why he still has that on there because he's still in love with you and a little obsessed And he's still banging you And that's another good point I mean I guess but I have I changed my Facebook profile for me. It's definitely over and For me, I definitely want to date Phil. I really liked him. I had a really good time on our date I would I would love to see him again and see where this can go and I thought we had a really good time If you're doing this to this guy, you know What's to say that you're not gonna do this to me in a couple of months? Yeah, I mean you can say that I understand where you're coming from, but it's a very particular situation I can tell it to you in detail later off the radio if you want, but I mean Just give me a chance, you know a Rachel Yeah, how about you explain to Phil all about your relationship or ex-relationship on your next date Because I would love to offer you guys a second date. We will pay for it Phil Would you go out with Rachel again? I gotta say no Come on, you do not blame him you second date full of listening about her ex-boyfriend That sounds horrible sounds like a lot of fun I mean I gotta say no because it because the tables were turned You know, I can't pull something like that off. Yeah, you're right. So I got a girlfriend But you know I want to go out and date you like no, so Everybody would be calling you a huge d-bag at the moment. Yeah Rachel Maybe you should wait to date until you actually move out Yeah, you're probably right. I this is getting really complicated and making it pretty impossible for me to meet anyone It's often complicated to date when you're still sleeping with your old boyfriend Oh On the adventures of Curiosity Cov podcast when Pete butter disappears from school Ella scout and layla launch a full detective mission They're search leads them back in time to meet a brilliant inventor whose curiosity changed the world and this black history month adventure asking questions thinking creatively lead to amazing discoveries Listen to adventures of Curiosity Cove every Monday from the Black Effect podcast network on the I heart rate Radio app Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts. What if mine control is real? If you get control of the Aver if anybody around you what kind of life would you? Can you hypnotically persuade someone to buy a car when you look at your car? You're gonna become overwhelmed with such good feelings. I gave her some suggestions to be sexually aroused Can you get someone to join your cult and LP was used on me to access my subconscious mind games a new podcast exploring NLP a K a neuro linguistic programming is it a self-help miracle a shady hypnosis scam or both Listen to mind games on the I heart radio app Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts 1969 Malcolm in Martin and gone America is in crisis and a more house college the students make their move These students including a young Samuel L Jackson locked up the members of the board of trustees including Martin Luther King Senior is the true story of protest rebellion in black American history that you'll never forget. I'm Hans Charles I'm in a little mober listen to the A building on the I heart radio app Apple podcasts or wherever you get your podcasts