A family office is not just a collection of financial advisors, but a unified, multidisciplinary team that integrates investment management, tax, estate, legal, and family governance services under one roof. Its true value comes from collaboration—where professionals regularly meet, share insights, and align on family-specific solutions, eliminating gaps and silos that arise when services are managed independently. Unlike traditional models where experts work in isolation, a family office fosters synergy and holistic planning, ensuring that issues like tax impacts from family relocation or intergenerational dynamics are proactively addressed. Multifamily offices expand access by sharing costs and expertise, making high-quality family management feasible for families across wealth levels. Importantly, a family office does not replace existing advisors but enhances their work through shared information and broader perspectives. It emphasizes family continuity, education, and emotional wellbeing as central to long-term success. The model is purpose-built, balancing financial returns with meaningful family outcomes, and requires strong internal integration, clear service definitions, and a client-centered culture. This approach ensures every family—regardless of their primary concern—receives equal attention and comprehensive support, making the family, not just the assets, the true client.
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Welcome to the pilot episode of the pilot season
of the Our Family Office podcast.
My name is Adam Fish.
I'm a client advisor at Our Family Office.
Over the course of this season,
we're exploring the areas of focus
for a purpose-built family office
and the ways in which a family office
can improve the lives and relationships
of Canada's wealthiest families.
On today's episode,
we're gonna be asking the question,
what is a family office?
And to help me answer it,
I'm joined by our chief executive officer
and co-founder Tim Cessnick.
Tim, thanks for being here.
- Adam, it is great to be here,
and this is my favorite topic.
So glad to talk about this stuff.
- So let's jump right in.
So in your view, what is,
and that may lead to what is not, a family office?
- Yeah, it's a good question.
You'll get a lot of different definitions
depending on who you speak to,
but if you want to really break it down
into what truly a family office is,
it really is a group of professionals
coming together under a single roof,
professionals with different backgrounds,
all possessing collectively a competencies
that an affluent family needs.
So they're working together
to one roof to service a family,
or maybe more than one family,
depending on the group.
- Yeah, and I think when you look at the services
that a family office provides,
it's nothing that you can't get elsewhere,
but what is unique about a family office
is the way in which these services are integrated.
So if we think about,
we talk internally about our six areas of service.
So there's investment management, risk management,
which is looking after insurance needs,
asset protection, integrated planning,
so tax and estate planning,
that kind of thing, family continuity,
family governance and family constitutions,
the family education for the next generation,
strategic philanthropy, which is a real area of focus
with us, how do you give with purpose
and family administration, tax preparation,
bookkeeping, all those things.
- Through the paper shuffling.
- Right, all of those services, all those areas,
an affluent family is gonna,
they're gonna have those things anyway.
- Yeah, every family needs these things addressed.
Now, whether they hire people internally
to look after us for themselves,
or they outsource some of these things,
is another question,
and that really depends on the family
and what their interests are,
how much do they really want to manage a staff of people?
What's the cost of all of that?
So there are a lot of questions that come up when you decide,
or trying to decide,
should I hire these people internally,
or should I outsource all of this?
But, you know, typically what you'll find in a family office setting
are investment managers, or portfolio managers,
you'll find accountants with accounting, tax expertise,
you'll find lawyers,
and you may actually find, depending on the family,
people with a psychology or communications background,
where they're able to coach families
around family dynamics issues.
So those are really a lot of the core competencies you'll find,
and generally speaking, those areas you talked about
can probably be looked after by a group like that.
- Yeah, and where I think a family office adds a lot of value
is having all of those professionals
that are serving a family under one roof.
- Yeah, absolutely.
We call that integration,
and the reason it's beneficial is that,
you can have really good advisors in all of those areas.
So you can have a really good lawyer,
good tax accountant, you can have a good investment advisor,
a good insurance advisor,
you know, a good coach or counselor for the family.
But if those people aren't all getting together in one room
at the same time regularly and asking the question,
you know, what are the issues that this family has to deal with?
And then discussing that and coming up
with a single set of solutions that they all can agree upon
and to bring that back to the family with one voice.
If they're not doing that, then there are gaps.
There will be gaps in the planning.
And that almost never happens.
You never get all these people at one time
sitting together in a single room
because number one, they could be geographically dispersed.
Their schedule is all very different.
- And they just don't work together.
- Right, right.
- That's not part of their work in their silos.
And they may be excellent at what they do within that silo,
but they're still in this one area.
You know, I can think of a client family
that has had trusted advisors for decades
and, you know, in tax with their lawyers
and those professionals are excellent,
but they've created, or they had created a corporate structure
and an estate plan that didn't account for the fact
that one of the family's children
doesn't live in Canada anymore.
So there are all of these tax implications to that
that would impact the estate plan, but nobody thought
to ask that question because it wasn't anyone's specific
job to ask it.
- Right, right.
And what you'll also find that is that even if you did
get those professionals all together in one room
at one time, and you talked about the issues,
it would be very difficult, quite often,
for them to come up with a set of solutions
that they can all agree on because, you know,
everybody thinks differently,
but they also are all compensated differently.
So, for example, you have a tax liability and you want
to deal with that, well, the insurance advisor might say,
well, by life insurance to cover the tax bill,
whereas the accountant might say, well,
let's eliminate the tax through a couple of strategy,
we can implement, so you get this,
there's some conflicts of interest a little bit there,
so that's another issue.
But I also, so that, these are hurdles
that are hard to get over.
Now, imagine that same group employed
by the same, in the same firm.
So, everyone has a vested interest to work together,
they're all compensated the same way.
They, they, and they're in constant communication.
Right, they're actually,
they're sitting beside each other every day.
And probably on a weekly, at least a weekly basis,
getting together and talking about your family.
Right.
This multi-disciplinary group,
you can imagine how that's going to close gaps.
Yeah, it's really the way I think about it is,
it really is the best example of the sum
is greater than the parts. Right.
Is when you have it all together,
you end up with better ideas, better solutions,
better execution,
then when you have disparate parts,
even if each of those parts has a lot of value
and is really experienced
and has a lot of expertise in their area.
That's exactly right.
And the interesting thing is that the concept
of the family office has evolved over a number of years,
and depending on the country you're in,
it may be more evolved or less.
And when you talk about Europe, you talk about the US,
there are a lot of firms that are call themselves
family office firms and many legitimate firms
that do many of the things we've been talking about.
In other countries, like Canada, for example,
it's a newer concept.
And so I remember even up until probably five years ago,
I spent a lot of my time just explaining to people
what a family office is and what the advantages of it are
because they would say, well, I have advisors,
I don't need any more help.
But now what we're seeing is, finally, a few years later,
we have people actually calling who are looking
for a family office because they now understand
that this is the way that the most affluent families
globally are choosing to get their advice this way.
And I think it's also important to understand,
as a client, as someone who's interested in a family office,
that for most family offices, they're not going to tell you,
hey, you have to get rid of all the professionals
that you've built up, your relationships with over 30 years
because it's us or them, right?
Yeah, no, no.
I mean, a family office should be able to adapt
and work alongside your existing professional relationships,
but augment those, ask questions that those professionals,
it may be outside their purview to ask,
and have that wider perspective.
And actually help those other advisors
to be the best version of themselves.
Because, for example, if you're talking about a family office
firm that deals with multiple families,
that kind of firm will actually see a lot of different ideas
coming from many different places.
I think about the law firms, the accounting firms
that we know around the country because of our clients,
because who they deal with.
So, you become a central repository of good ideas,
and that those ideas can be shared among family members,
different families.
So, there's actually this great cross-fertilization of ideas
that takes place when you have different families
served by this single team.
So, there's a lot of value in that as well.
And that gets lost sometimes when people think,
you know, I'm well looked after, but like you said,
this is not about replacing or displacing existing advisors.
In fact, what we're finding is we've actually received referrals
from some of the lawyers and accounting firms
that of the clients we work with.
Because, it's important that we work collegially.
If you're a family office,
from you have to work collegially with everybody.
And also, you need a method for figuring out
who is doing what and who should get paid for doing what.
Because you don't want to pay more than one person
to do the same thing.
So, that's really important.
And there are ways to do that.
Every family officer needs to figure that out.
And of course, we have something called a service of summary,
which is a list of everything they need to have.
happened in the life of a family from a wealth management
perspective, and it's sort of a document that identifies
who's doing what, and then a firm should only
charge for what they're doing.
- Yeah, and when there is that preexisting outside
relationship that a client family wants to continue,
though it often, we can make their job easier
because we can set very clear parameters
around what their responsibilities are
and what their responsibilities aren't.
And they can have the comfort,
especially if they've worked with us for a while,
to know that the things that are outside of their purview,
they're gonna be looked after properly.
So they can focus on just the tasks
that are under their responsibility.
- Yeah, absolutely, and the family office team
will see all areas of the client's life.
So for example, the accountant may not understand
what's going on with the portfolio
because that's not their job to really look at that.
Whereas the family office will see both the portfolio
as well as the tax issues, and when it's multidisciplinary,
you can raise issues for the accountants
that the client works with, or the lawyers,
and make their jobs actually more efficient
and keep them in the loop on what's actually going on
with the family because they don't necessarily have
the time or resources to actually be that tied
into every area of the family as well.
- There's less obligation on them to be proactive
with their client family is about what's going on
because we're the ones reaching out to keep them
in the loop.
- And we're the ones giving them information.
So even when it comes down to, for example,
preparing tax returns, if we're not doing that
and someone's got an accountant doing that,
we're like that central place where all the information
is gathered and then we can then pass it out to who needs it
with the client's approval, of course,
and it just makes their lives a lot easier.
- So you talked a bit about ideas flowing in
as a multifamily office because we deal
with other families, we see other ideas.
Let's talk a little about what the advantages are
to what we would call a multifamily office.
So that would be a family office that is shared among
some number of families because I think
that there's still a preconception a little bit
that when someone thinks of a family office,
they think of a billionaire family
that has a family office that manages everything
for that one family and it costs a million,
two million, three million dollars a year to run.
And so if I have 50 million dollars or 100 million dollars,
that's not me, that's way outside of my area.
But with the way that our office is built
and the services that we offer,
the economies of scale actually allow
for a much broader range of client families
to benefit from it.
- Yeah, that's for sure.
I think there are some families who will
hire their own teams of people.
The dollar threshold where that starts to make sense
is probably about half a billion dollars of total net worth
because the cost of running a team like that
is not inexpensive.
It's not uncommon to spend two to three million a year
on not even the biggest team,
but a relatively good team that's gonna have
the resources it needs including everything
from money-manager databases to software
to just the right competencies.
So not even expensive and most families are gonna say,
well, we're not gonna spend that much money
on a single group of team.
With a multifamily office, one of the advantages is
that you are sharing the cost of the team.
The families are really sharing that cost of that single team.
The big concern for some families is that
they're gonna feel like they may feel initially
like they're not getting the same time and attention
and control over what that team does
and almost like a dedicated resource for the family.
But a good multifamily office will look at that
by making sure every family feels like
they are the only family that they serve.
And that's why in any multifamily office,
the teams that serve clients cannot serve 20 families.
You just can't do that.
Because you're not gonna be able to pay attention
to every family like you should.
So realistically, our experience has been that
a team of three or four people can probably
serve somewhere between, it depends on the complexity
of the families and everything going on.
Could be anywhere between at the low end,
maybe five or six families, at the higher end,
maybe 12 to 13 families.
So, but when you get that team to client
or staff to client ratios, families can start
to feel like, yes, this is my dedicated team.
- Yeah, and that's why we are very intentional
about the pace at which we onboard new families.
Where it is not an open door policy of,
yeah, we wanna sign up as many families as we can.
We aim to sign up one client family a month.
So that we have the opportunity to give each client family
the attention that they need that they deserve
to really understand them, understand their situation,
figure out the best ways that we can serve them
and the ways in which each of our service offerings
can be best used in their case.
- And you know, Adam, if there's a family out there
who's thinking of contemplating a family office model
and maybe looking at hiring a family office,
one thing they should be asking the fan,
that group of professionals, that family office
they're thinking about as they're interviewing people
is how do you integrate the various disciplines
that you need to serve the family?
Where are they geographically located?
Because in some firms you'll have the tax team in Montreal,
you'll have the investment people in Toronto,
you'll have someone else in Vancouver.
How integrated is that really going to be?
Ask how do they bring together the various people
in the firm who are going to serve them?
How often do they meet to talk about the family?
Those are important questions
because ultimately that's where you gain the synergy
and the benefits of having that team.
So it's an important question.
- Yeah, I think it's a great point, Tim.
And I know the old joke in the industry
is if you've seen one family office,
you've seen one family office.
So there are definitely differences between them,
but I think it's reasonable to have an expectation
of a certain level of expertise
and a certain level of integration
when you're considering a family office.
- Absolutely, and here's another question to ask
is or to figure out is how was that family office
practice born?
Were they born out of, say, the investment world
where they're really all portfolio managers
and they bolted on a couple of financial planners
or maybe a tax person?
Because that's gonna change the culture of the firm
and talk to really speak to what they are best at.
And maybe it's investments in that case, right?
But in other cases, it may be an accounting firm
that says, hey, we wanna create a family office practice
and many of them have done that.
So, you know, they're strong in accounting
and bookkeeping and tax,
but they've bolted on a person or two,
a CFA here or there where maybe they do some
investment advice, gives them investment advice.
What's there, what are they gonna be best at?
So it's important to understand the genesis
of the firm that you're talking to,
to understand where are they strongest.
You know, obviously when we built this firm,
we really wanna be sort of second best in any area.
So what we did was we brought together
people with significant expertise
in the various core competencies
and really the firm was born out of an equal competency
in all these areas, which is, I think, the right way
to do it, but every firm's a little bit different
so you wanna ask the question.
- Yeah, and that's when we talk about being purpose built,
we are, you know, the integration of these services
and putting these services on an equal plane
to each other in terms of importance
is really built into our DNA.
- And to be honest with you, you know,
this won't come as a surprise.
Anybody who's listening here, I think,
but the most profitable side of the business
for any family office practice is the investment side
of the business because you can do the research
on a money manager or an investment strategy
and once you've done that research,
you can apply that knowledge to every single family the same.
And so you can really leverage the time
of that team that does the research,
whereas when you're getting into accounting,
bookkeeping, tax preparation, tax planning,
state planning, those kinds of things,
it's very, very bespoke or custom to the individual family
and it's time consuming and it's,
but what's really important is that whoever you work with
make sure that they don't sacrifice that stuff
that is so important on the planning side
into what we call integrated planning
in favor of the investment management
because it's the more profitable side.
You wanna make sure, I mean, to be honest with you,
I've often said to people,
if all we cared about was making the most money
we could, we would not even be doing any planning.
We would just invest people's money.
But, you know, come back to the mission.
I think the mission or purpose of any family office firm
is to make a positive, meaningful, lasting difference
in the life of a family.
And you can't do that by just focusing on the investment.
- No, there's too many moving parts outside
of just managing the money, right?
The money is not the client, the family is the client.
And to do proper planning for them,
to put a governance structure in place,
to make sure that the next generation
will be educated and emotionally mature
in heriters of wealth and will be in a position
to steward the wealth throughout multiple generations.
you can't just manage the money and have that happen.
- That's what we call air preparedness
and that's a really critical part
of multi-generational families
where you've got enough resources
where they could go on for multiple generations.
It doesn't happen by accident.
It takes a very deliberate planning.
You know, I've often said that money always transfers
with a message and whether you craft that message explicitly
or you just let it be assumed,
it's going to transfer the message.
And so we think it makes sense to actually craft the message,
share it explicitly with the next generation,
make sure they're prepared.
But that's all part of what a family office really
should be looking after.
And so when you talk to other,
talk to family offices about what they're gonna be doing
for your family, you wanna ask the questions about that area
that we call family continuity.
It's not, has nothing to do really with
technical investment management or technical tax planning.
It's all about family dynamics, healthy families,
transferring the right, different types of capital,
if you will, not just financial capital,
to the next generation.
And that's a critical part
of what any family office really should be doing.
And this is why it makes it very hard for us
to craft an elevator pitch for what we do.
Because there really are, there's so many parts to it.
And it's hard to just pick out one area
that's important and say, yeah, that's what we do.
It really is, it's all of these pieces together.
And we really believe that they are all
so critically important for wealthy families.
- And you know, it's important that,
regardless of the reason that a family comes to you
as a family office firm,
you have to treat them all equally important, importantly.
It doesn't matter if the key issue
are family dynamics issues,
where they just need to communicate better,
or whether their tax planning's been not very good,
or their investment performance has been weak.
And every family's got what we'll call a pebble in the shoe,
if you will, as we call it.
And we need to deal with those things,
but every family is valued,
and whatever the need is, we need to meet that need.
And we can't sort of say, well,
we don't really want to do that work.
We don't want to do that kind of work.
We just want to do this kind of work.
It needs to be holistic to serve the family best.
- Tim, thanks so much.
This was great.
- Thanks Adam.
I hope you enjoyed today's conversation.
Thank you so much for listening.
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Podcast Summary
Key Points:
A family office is a multidisciplinary group of professionals working under one roof to serve a family’s financial, legal, and personal needs.
The core value lies in integration—bringing together experts like accountants, lawyers, and psychologists to collaborate regularly and align on solutions.
Integration improves planning by identifying cross-cutting issues (e.g., tax implications from a child relocating) that siloed advisors would miss.
Multifamily offices offer cost efficiency and broader access, enabling smaller families to benefit from shared expertise without prohibitive expenses.
A strong family office emphasizes holistic service, including family governance, education, and continuity, not just investment management.
It operates collegially with existing advisors, enhancing their effectiveness rather than replacing them.
Success depends on regular team meetings, clear service roles, and transparent accountability to avoid duplication and ensure client focus.
A purpose-built family office balances profitability with mission-driven goals, ensuring long-term family well-being across generations.
Summary:
A family office is not just a collection of financial advisors, but a unified, multidisciplinary team that integrates investment management, tax, estate, legal, and family governance services under one roof. Its true value comes from collaboration—where professionals regularly meet, share insights, and align on family-specific solutions, eliminating gaps and silos that arise when services are managed independently. Unlike traditional models where experts work in isolation, a family office fosters synergy and holistic planning, ensuring that issues like tax impacts from family relocation or intergenerational dynamics are proactively addressed.
Multifamily offices expand access by sharing costs and expertise, making high-quality family management feasible for families across wealth levels. Importantly, a family office does not replace existing advisors but enhances their work through shared information and broader perspectives. It emphasizes family continuity, education, and emotional wellbeing as central to long-term success.
The model is purpose-built, balancing financial returns with meaningful family outcomes, and requires strong internal integration, clear service definitions, and a client-centered culture. This approach ensures every family—regardless of their primary concern—receives equal attention and comprehensive support, making the family, not just the assets, the true client.
FAQs
A family office is a group of professionals working under one roof to serve an affluent family, combining expertise in areas like investment management, tax, law, and family governance to provide integrated and holistic advice.
While individual advisors can deliver excellent services, a family office integrates them into a unified team that communicates regularly, leading to better coordination, fewer gaps, and more aligned solutions for the family.
Core services include investment management, risk management, tax and estate planning, family governance, family education, strategic philanthropy, and family administration—all delivered in a coordinated, integrated way.
No, a family office works alongside existing professionals, enhancing their work by offering broader perspectives, improving communication, and identifying issues that may have been overlooked before.
A multifamily office serves multiple families, sharing costs and resources while maintaining dedicated attention to each client—ensuring personalized service and efficient use of talent through economies of scale.
Families should ask how disciplines are integrated, how often professionals meet, where team members are located, and how the office balances investment services with non-financial planning like family governance and education.
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