1056. Q&AF: Handling Multiple Businesses, Using Passion For Skill & Finding Meaningful Purpose

[Music] What is up guys it's Andy Priscilla and this is the show for the real estate goodbye to the lives the thickness and delusions of our society and welcome to motherfucking reality guys today we have Q&A that's where you submit questions and we give you the answers. DJ's going to tell you how you can submit your questions. Here you guys you can email these questions into ask Andy and Andy for seller.com you can also click the link in the description below and submit either one of those links for your questions be asked or just drop them in the comment section of the Q&A videos right here on YouTube. Is that where they do the videos? That's in the link in the description. 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lot of check was out there for that bro mmm wrong word a lot of coin out there unfortunately I don't like listening to people tell me what the fuck to say or not say yeah she's not in my DNA yeah no I feel that dude I feel that man uh let's see shit's good man uh question like what's something you would change about you like besides the obvious like what would you change what's the obvious what the fuck that sounded kind of fucked up so there's something wrong with me I'm not aware oh shit now I just want to try to see if I get that over with you yeah dog um fuck dude I mean let's talk about that real quick guys I mean like like real on the real side you know I'm saying how much is Andy change between who you are now who sits here now versus at 19 year old you what's different no I don't think a lot man you know um you know I think in the beginning you know I don't know you don't know what the fuck you're doing and there's a level of like fear and uncertainty and anxiousness that comes with being an entrepreneur and I think as you get older you start to understand what it's really all about that subsides quite a bit or you acclimate to it um I think there's a level of you know confidence that I have now that I didn't have then but I mean I think that's natural when you've done something for as long as I have yeah uh you know I think I'm a little more patient um but you know pretty much the same dude like I've kind of always been that way dude yeah you know I'm saying like I've always I've never like I don't know if that's good or bad but I've never always been the same you know what I mean um well you like staying authentically staying true to who you are yeah yeah I feel I feel like that you know I I don't know I feel like it's sometimes it's weird because I see like all these other people trying to like it's like they like reinvent themselves over and over and over and over again and it's every time I watch them reinvent themselves it's it's like well why would you need to reinvent yourself if you are an authentic person right you know what I'm saying right like what is yeah what do you like I think you're so afraid I think people are so afraid of being who they actually are that they create these masks or avatars to present to the world that they call reinvention and growth when in reality it's just another thing that allows them to hide behind it you know and I think we lack people who are willing to be cool with who the fuck they are you know what I mean and it's fun to do each each time they reinvent themselves they actually get further away from their authentic self yeah yeah you know and it's gonna be closer to it yeah man and uh you know and then I think there's a lot of people who are just massive manipulators dude you know they they manipulate people over and over and over again like you know they they start off one way then they kind of get found out that that's bullshit then they do something else and they kind of get discovered that that's bullshit and then you know they ultimately end up where all these people end up which is found Jesus that's right yes that's exactly right because people won't criticize yeah you can't yeah you get it's hard to you know what I'm saying so like you have and that's why organized religion attracts so many fucking snake oil people because nobody's willing to criticize someone who's claiming that they have found Jesus right so that's okay yeah it's how that works and it's how it works you know like you'll see dudes you know they'll do this they'll do that they'll do this do that and then they'll be like I am redeemed and I'm a new person and then they're just trying to like fuck with people under that guys that's right you know that's right so you know I don't know man like I've always felt like the same person I feel like the same person I was when I was 16 years old you know I just look in the mirror and I see gray shit now so a little bit more gray yeah yeah yeah man well guys it's Q&A off let's make some people better again we got these video submissions guys click the link in the description submit yours ask the questions I was against the first one we got video submission here let's check it out hi Andy DJ much love for the show I'm 22 and I'm currently running four ventures one is more or less a show like the School of Hard Knocks where I help entrepreneurs share the story I've got two businesses that work as SaaS where we're selling tools to do different stuff and the last venture is a kind of consultancy for automation now my question is where the four ventures I'm running it kind of feels like I'm doing a bit too much and there's not really an avenue for me to push one directly with that effect on the others and I've seen videos online saying you have to focus on one and try to go as much as you can and others also say you can diversify and try to build multiple things at the same time now I want to be that guy who said you know what I don't care I'm just gonna try and push all four together and see where it takes me by the same time I don't know that's a right call to make because people like yourself and other people who start off with one and push that and they can go into different things work better so I'm gonna ask you what part do you think should I take should I take the running four ventures together and seeing how that goes and seeing if it's going to be successful or just take one and push that as much as I can and then the others would then come after so I'm just for context I'm just about six months ish in into the entrepreneurial journey so I don't really have that much experience I'm just bouncing out so any advice you have would be appreciated thanks so much again for the show and hope this makes sense. Yeah it makes total sense a lot of people a lot of people do this you know they read all of these things they hear all these people online say all of this stuff about you know the average millionaire has seven streams of income you see all these young people to say I own 19 companies and dude it's all bullshit it's all bullshit because let me tell you something you said it you don't have the experience yet yeah okay so how can your inexperienced no matter how hard you work how can your inexperienced effort compete with the person who has experience who is choosing to do just one of those things and the answer is you cannot it's a fucking impossible okay building one thing is extremely difficult and people to think that they can spread out amongst all of these things yes you can when you're 40 fucking years old and you're worth 500 million dollars okay now you have the ability to hire other executives people who have built things experienced operators and then you can have one meeting and you say hey this guy this guy this guy what's up and you can direct traffic that way but where you are in the journey you will lose if you try to spread yourself as thin as you are, I promise you, dude. And I'm not saying that because, you know, I think your lack skill, I'm saying this for anybody, this goes for anybody. It's mad. It's real shit. Okay. If you have a guy who runs X and you are also running a competitor to X and he's putting in a hundred percent of his effort. Okay. And you're putting in 33.33% of your effort because you have two other things that you're running. Yeah. It's impossible to win. It doesn't matter if they're even, if they could be worse than you. And they're still going to beat you. They're going to move faster than you. They're going to learn faster than you. They're going to be more committed than you. And that's the, that's the game, especially in the beginning. A couple of things you said that we're interesting. You said you have four things. You actually have three things. And then you have a funnel. Okay. You have a show to create awareness that gets you in contact with these SaaS companies that you're building, that allow you to sell to those people or get to know those people or create awareness for those companies. That is part of what you're going to need to do. That is part of your marketing. That is part of your brand. So I wouldn't count that as one of your things. Okay. So now you have three other things. Are these three things somewhat related? Are they verticals of each other? Can you bring these three different things into one thing? Can, you know, you have the main thing that's X and then you have X plus one X plus two. Can you take one aspect of X plus two, one X of X plus one, and then add it to X and create just one thing that has to be managed. Okay. The proper way to do this, the way that's going to find you the most success. And I know this. This isn't me guessing. I know this for sure and anybody who disagrees, they're fucking wrong. And I'm happy to fucking open up my fucking financial statements and compare them against theirs. I promise you, I'm right, they're fucking wrong. If you try to spread your shit to three different things and then also have the funnel, you're going to fucking lose. So how can we, how can we get this into one thing? Okay. And then use the funnel to drive the one thing. Once the one thing is rolling, you know, I don't know what rolling would consist of for what you're trying to do. But it's going to be eight figures. It's more than a million bucks. It's more than 10 million bucks. Once you get to a 10 million dollar thing, you now, to even get to 10 million, you've got to learn all these lessons. You got to learn all these things. You got to do all these things. You got to make all these mistakes. You're going to, now you have the experience to branch off and vertical out into other things. Okay. This is the proper way for a young man who six months in to view this. Okay. So what is it? Take away your show, continue with that. That might need to evolve or do something else. That's its own thing because you need to have awareness. All right. You need to have a personal brand, especially in this era. That's its own thing. Now, how can you take the one main thing and make that successful so that these other things can then materialize off of that? Dude, can we talk a little bit because you know, it's funny. You see a lot of these young guys getting in, you know, saying their entrepreneurs, right? But the part that he said, you know, he's aware that he's unexperienced. Yeah. I like that. Yeah. Can we talk? I wouldn't win a lot harder heading outside that. No shit. Yeah. I mean, like, how important is having that humility? Your definition is the most important thing, especially because if you're not humble and you think you're fucking good, then you can't get better. The minute you think you know shit, how can you learn shit? So the fact that he says, I'm very inexperienced is a massive, massive, massive indicator that this man's probably going to go out and be successful. Okay. The fact that he's even asking the question, most men at his age, he's a young guy, are going to say, well, I can fucking do this. And if Steve over there on the internet's doing six, I could do seven, right? Dude, you got to realize 99% of these people online are full of shit. They are full of shit. This is why you can't see their businesses. This is why when they talk about their, you know, oh, I own 22 companies. What the fuck are they? And where can I see them? And where can I order the product? And what do they do? Right? And then they consider things like, oh, I invested $10,000 in this company that I don't even have any operational say in. And that's my company. So there's all kinds of like razzle, dazzle, fucking bullshit that's happening. That's a shell game to make people appear more credible that really hurts people because it shows people like him, well, this must be what I have to do to get to that level. When in reality, it's the opposite of what they're doing. So where do that idea come from? I guess because I mean, there's no like a word you'll get for like how many companies you have, right? There's no like entrepreneur fucking metal for that, right? Like where did that idea come from? Well, there's that saying, you know, the average millionaire has seven streams of income. And that's been like a meme on the internet since the dawn of time. Whoever made that as an asshole. I don't think it's that. It's that. Look, dude, that's not what it is. That might be true for someone who's 20 years in the game. Okay, that might be true for someone who's 30 years in. It might be true for someone who's 15 years in. But it's not true in the beginning. Okay, you don't just say, okay, well, I want to be a millionaire. So I'm going to open seven fucking things. Like that's not that's not how you're going to do it. What people think it takes and what it actually takes are two different things. And what people think it takes from online is not the reality of what it takes. Not just from an effort standpoint or from a tactical, structural, strategic standpoint. And so when you ask where it comes from, I think it comes from the overzealous. And, you know, sometimes a lot of times unethical marketing practices of people who are just honestly full of shit. So that's real, man. Yeah, that's real. Well, yeah, man, let's get our, let's go next question it. Let's do it right in. This question is Andy, thank you for indirectly helping sharpen my skills. I've learned that passion can sometimes be mistaken for ego or aggression as someone who's naturally intense. What are some ways I can channel that intensity into a high value skills. I mean, dude, the good thing about passion is that it creates obsessiveness. All right. And to get good at something, to get graded something, it requires obsessiveness that is niche down into that skill set. And being an entrepreneur, you have to have many different skill sets. And that intensity, that urgency, that obsessiveness allows you to learn those skill sets at a much more rapid pace than someone who's a passive type person or who's like, you know, well, you know, uh, should have worked out the way it works out. And I'll learn what I need to learn. No, that person knows some roses. Yeah, that person's going to get killed by the obsessive person. Okay. So, you know, what are some tactical ways to do that? Bro, just pour your will to win and your urgency and actually learning new skill sets as much as you can. Like be a sponge, bro. I will say this with a caveat. You got to be careful with information. You're sponging up because just like the question we just answered, there's so much misinformation that you could sponge the wrong shit up and it can have you in a really bad spot. So, you got to be, you got to lack the awareness to understand how to vet someone as real or as just a good marketer. There's two different things. So, let me explain something to you. All these people that are online and they, you know, they market that they know all of these things about business, if they really knew those things about business, instead of actually just selling coaching or selling programs for, you know, a couple hundred thousand dollars or whatever a month or maybe, you know, a million dollars a month. Okay. Maybe. Don't you think that they would use those skill sets to build something that had billions of dollars of equitable value on the backside? Don't you think they would do that? If they could do that, wouldn't they do that? There wouldn't be new need in your money. That's right. That's right. That's real. Okay. So, so like, if they're out there saying they know what to do, it's like how many of these people are out here, like trying to coach people on their social media personal brand that don't have a fucking personal brand. Got 300 followers. Yeah. And their, their, their views on their fucking stories get a couple thousand views, 10, 15,000 views, whatever. Do you know how personal brand either? Yeah. You know what I'm saying? So like, there's all talking heads, bro. There's millions of talking heads and there's very few reels. All right. Real entrepreneurs that know the motherfucking game. You know what they do? They build fucking companies playing the game. Yeah. Let me ask you this, dude, because I know you have a talk or a point that you make about, you know, turning, you know, like negativity. Now, now to that, to that point, yeah. There are people that coach that, that take their coaching business. Yeah. And then they use that money to build real companies. Okay. But they're doing it backwards. They didn't learn the shit. Yeah. So, well, I just let this, I'll apply this. Now, now, now, look, there's all kinds of funnels and there are all kinds of systems and there's all, I'm not shitting on coaching, dude, at all, because if you do have a skill set, we live in an era where you can sell coaching about something that you actually know. know. But most people don't do it the right way. Like if you, like, let's say, I knew how to play the guitar really fucking well. Okay. And I said, okay, I'm going to fucking sell guitar lessons digitally somehow, right? I'm going to teach you how to play the guitar. And I come up with this unique way to coach people to play guitar. I'm going to take that money and I'm going to fucking reinvest that cash into something that has enterprise value on the back side, right? So I'm going to take that money that I'm cash flowing here. And I'm not going to go buy a fucking Huracan. And I'm not going to go, you know, spend all my money on trying to go on fake vacations, the mecanos and shit, right? I'm going to take that money and I'm going to come up with my own guitar string company. And I'm going to market that with the cash that's coming here. And then one day I'm going to sell my guitar string company to Gibson for fucking $500 million. Okay. That is the proper way to think about what's happening right now. And there's, you know, we've seen this dude. How many people have we seen come around and they're coaching this and then they're doing that and then they're doing this. And then they start these businesses and then the businesses never go. Like I could think of a, I could think of 10 people off top of my head that run coaching programs that keep saying, well, we started this business started that business started and those business never going where do you know why? Because they don't know how to run a fucking business. Well, you notice too that they never say I'm going to teach how to run a business like me. Yeah. I'm just going to teach how to run it. It's whatever. Well, dude, and it plays into people's egos, right? Like people, people want things fast. They want things easy. And, and, you know, that is one of the pillars of marketing, right? Somebody saying they got the secret sauce. That's right. It's just not true. Yeah. It's just not true, dude. Yeah. I've yet to meet someone who knows how to really build a company that's worth something on the backside that decides not to so that they could self-fucking do content on the internet. Yeah. I want to ask you this on this question because I know you talk about this in reference to like taking negative energy and turn it into productive action. And lying, that's a bettering yourself. So are you saying that you could do the exact same thing with this, you know, obsessed, passionate mentality also. It's kind of the same system there, right? Well, I mean, dude, when you're fucking passionate, obsessed, I mean, it's just the way you are. Like, it doesn't come on in waves. Yeah. Like, I'm fucking intense about everything I do. Like, everything I drive fast, I ride fast, to talk fast, to fucking do shit fast, I train hard, everything I fucking do, I talk fucking direct, everything I do is that. So learn that way. You know what I mean? Like, when I was, you know, learning the right shit. Dude, I was reading, but I was obsessed with reading books before, you know, the online influencer thing, which I think this is the biggest mistake that people make. I think that they should take their effort that they do consuming other people's content on the internet and go read fucking books from people that actually did shit. Okay. I was obsessed with that. I would read book after book after book after book, relentlessly, because I wanted to know more and more and more and more and more because I knew it was going to help me win. So like, it wasn't like the negative energy where like, you know, someone does or says something and then I'm kind of like fucking pissed off in the moment. It's just how you do shit. You know, like, you're either urgent or you're not, you're either intense or you're not, you're either passionate or you're not. And when you're a passionate person and you're intense and you're urgent, when things aren't moving fast, you actually feel really fucked up. Like, it's a hard thing. Like, my hardest days are the weekends. That's it. Like, most people live for the weekends. Yeah. My hardest days of the week, the days I look forward to the least are Saturday and Sunday because it's, it's slow. And it's hard for me to deal with slow. Like, I feel like I got to solve some problems. I got to fucking go and people will hear that and they'll say, well, you're fucked up because, yeah, you know what, dude, you kind of got to be fucked up to choose the path that I've chosen. Like, it's a different path. You don't get, you don't get, you don't get to the level I'm at being a normal fucking human being. Okay. There's going to be trade offs. Being in a great entrepreneur, being an effective entrepreneur, you're going to have trades that there's no balance, dude. It's obsessiveness. And you know, it's a different kind of life. Yeah. It's just a different kind of life. And this is why I tell people it's not for everyone, man. You know, everyone thinks that they want to own a business or that they want to be an entrepreneur. And a lot of people get into it because it's so popular and they're like, God, dude, this, this is fucking terrible. And I get that because it is terrible. Okay. You kind of give me a little sick, right? You kind of be like a guy who like enjoys the fucking fight. You know, and that's not everybody. And that's okay. That's okay. It's okay to be a great entrepreneur. It's okay. And in fact, I think there's a massive benefit for a lot of people to just be a great contributor to the team because they don't have to take the fuck dude. You have an average dude. And I don't say this like Brad and I'm not saying this is even a good thing. And it'll probably kill me one day. That's the truth. But if I took an average person, you know, everybody looks at people like me and they're like, Oh, I bet he doesn't do shit. And he gets to fuck off all day. Dude, if I took an average person and I put him in my chair for three days, they'd be in the fucking psych ward with the amount of problems and the amount of stress and the amount of shit coming their way. It would break them in three fucking days. Real shit. It's just not for everybody, dude. It's just not. And that's, that's not a problem. That's not a bad thing. Like, your life should be something that you enjoy as much as you work hard to have the life that you want. You should also enjoy that life. What people don't understand about, you know, like true builder warrior fucking killer entrepreneurs is that is what they enjoy. You enjoy it. Yeah. And so it's like a, it's like all that shit that you perceive as as like, you know, oh my god, this is so fucking hard. I'd perceive it as hard too, but I also perceive it as fucking. This is what I'm built for. Now, was there a flip in that though? Or was it always like, did you always enjoy that or did you actually, you know, I'm saying actually for a long time, I was unaware that I actually liked it. So like, I would listen to what other people say. And they'd be like, oh, this is so fucking hard. It's fucking killing me. And I'm like, fuck me to this fucking killing me. And then I had a friend of mine pointed out to me. And he was like, hey, dude, warriors need a fucking war. Certain people are built for that. Certain people are those kind of people. And the world needs those kind of people. And you're one of those people. That's why you don't do good well with like being on the lake drinking a beer. That's not your fucking thing, dude. That's okay. You see what I'm saying? And so got to have them once I was aware of it. Yeah. That allowed me to stop feeling bad about it. And that was like a big relief for me. Yeah. Yeah. Absolutely. So now I don't think, now I don't think anymore like, oh man, I'm just fucked up. Now I think I'm just different. Just a different kind of dude. You know, and that's okay. Most people aren't going to understand that, dude. I don't expect them to anymore. I don't expect it. I don't expect other people to understand how I tick or what makes me the way I am or anything like that. But I will tell you that every single entrepreneur that's that you know, that's like famous, that's built something big. That is like household name big. They're all built like that. Fucking all of them. No matter what they appear on the house, they might be the sweetest guy. It's right. They might be the nicest guy. They might have their PR down to a fucking science. And they come across. That motherfucker will eat your fucking dinner off of your plate. Yeah. And like, you know, it like, it's just, you know, I used to think that I was fucked up because I was, I was like that. And nobody I knew was like that. Because I was at a level where like I wasn't connected to these guys who had done these bigger things. And the first thing that really allowed me to realize that that there were more people like me was reading Tim Grover's book Relentless. And then I was like, Oh, okay, well, maybe I'm not totally messed up. Yeah. Yeah. But then as I've gotten, you know, as I've gotten more successful and I'm involved in more things that I've connected with other entrepreneurs who are older than me and further down the path. I've come to understand that they're all that way. Oh, they're all that way. Yeah. Yeah. They fucking love it. They love it. They like, I don't even know. I can't, you know, like a little kid loves ice cream truck. Yeah. That's how those entrepreneurs like problems are like, Oh, that's fucking problem. We could do this. We do that. And they get their creativity spinning. And that's what they love. I love it. So I love it. Hell yeah, man. Let's get to our next one. We've got another video here. Check this one out. What's up, Andy? I'm 25 years old. My name is John. I'm a husband. I'm a father of two boys. And I'm at a point where I don't like where I'm at in my life. I feel like I'm lacking. purpose, I feel like I don't know where to go. I wake up with all these ideas of all these business ideas and stuff that I want to do. And I don't act on them. I've completed 75 hard two times, never the full program, but I know what it feels like to develop these skill sets. And a lot of them, like you say, are perishable. And I feel like I'm at a point where I'm experiencing now. I'm undisciplined. I'm not a man of my word. And but I want a bigger life for myself. I feel that feeling where I'm going to fucking make a huge impact. I'm going to build a massive wall for my family and all this stuff. My heart is helping men, helping men become the best versions of themselves. And being better husbands, better fathers, making more money, getting in shape, all this shit, doing what no one said they can do. But I feel like I'm not qualified. And I know you're probably going to say no one's fucking qualified. But I'm just at a point where I feel like I'm lacking a purpose. I want to serve people I like speaking. I like doing all this stuff, man. But I'm struggling right now. I'm struggling to just find something and get after and just fucking go full steam ahead knowing that this is for me. So if you can just give me some advice that would help me develop into the man that I want to become. Thank you. Oh man, I feel that. That's a, you know, I think even when you choose something, there's always going to be that question of should I have chose something else? And I think that with maturity, you have to come to terms with the idea that you chose this and not those things and be okay with the choices that you made and be the best at that thing. Even at my age and my experience, I still struggle with what he's struggling with with these like ideas and these things that I could do, but I haven't done. And so I totally feel that, dude. And I think that's a, I think that's the sign of someone who knows internally that they are called to something greater that is not acting on it. And when you say you're not a man of your word, I think the reason that you feel that way is probably because you're not a man of your word to yourself. And the first thing I would recommend to you, dude, is if you know that it's perishable, like I've taught you and you know that you've slipped, perish, let's get back on the program, okay? Okay, let's start today. The minute you hear this answer, let's start 75 hard and let's start fucking rebuilding those skill sets. That's the first step. But the other step, there's three things that you got to realize here. No one's going to listen to you if you're not credible. Okay, and I can understand you wanting to help and speak and do all these things, but remember that didn't come for me until I was 15, 16 years into my thing. So what are you going to build that's going to create that credibility where people are going to want to hear your story? See, we live in an age where everybody gets on the internet and yaps away, but the reason that most people are ignored is because they have nothing credible to attach to. All right, so what's that thing? What's, what's that, what's that thing? It doesn't even have to be a business. What is this thing that you're going to do that is so great and so cool and so impactful and so inspiring that you're going to be able to gain an audience that's going to want to hear about that. All right, don't put the cart before the horse. All right, you're 25, dude. You're allowed to change your fucking mind. You could change your mind, dude. You could change your mind. You could be 15. You could change your fucking mind. Where you are in life is not a life sentence, dude. You have the ability to change your mind. And I'm not saying go get a divorce and fucking fucking kids. I'm saying you could do that with that. Okay, but you don't have to sit there and suffer knowing that you could be great. And then I can tell you what's going to cause your life to be wasted. Is you sitting there being aware of what it is that you crave to do and you have that internal voice that's telling you you should do this or that or be this and you ignore that voice. That's where most people waste their lives because that vision of yourself that is put inside of you that is put there by God. You are built to take that internal vision and make it an external reality that benefits not only you, but everybody around you. And if you ignore that, you are going to feel like you don't have a purpose and that you live for no purpose. And the last thing you want to do as a 25 year old man is to waste the opportunity of your youth to your 50 and then be like, man, I could have done this and that and this. And the hard answer to this guys is that you have to make a choice. Okay. And in a time and place where we see so many people on the internet doing so many different things, the choices seem like they're infinite and it makes it very hard to make a choice. It's a paradox of choice when there's too many choices. People choose none. And so it paralyzes people. And most people don't lose in life because they're lazy or they're bad people or they're they're this or they're that. They they don't ever choose because they can't. And so you have to make a choice, man. And if I were to give you any advice, I would say for you to get back on the program, get your mind right, get your confidence starting to go the right way and then be thinking like, what is the thing that I can do and narrow it down, niche it down, make a decision and then fucking go do it. Other good things will come from that man. I feel that dude. Like that's that's a real struggle. I think for most, I think if you ask most men who were raised the way of like, I need to be the provider. I need to build things. I have to take care of people, you know, like these people will say like, yeah, men only care about one thing. Bro, most people have no idea what men deal with. They have no idea of the pressures of society. They have no idea of the pressure of, you know, the obligations that they have, you know, to provide, protect, be a good man, do the right things. And it's a constant struggle, dude. And you know, I think if you were to, I think, you know, if this guy were to ask any man that was honest with them, they would say that they struggle with those things. And I think that's just a part of developing as a man. But the fact, I would say here's the good news. The good news is that most people your age aren't even fucking thinking like you're thinking. They're thinking like, oh man, you know, I want to this weekend, I'm going to do this and this I'm going to do that. And you're talking about like how aware you are of like the kind of man that you're becoming. And that's like, dude, a 25 years old, that's really fucking good shit, man. I wasn't thinking that. Dude, I wasn't either. I wasn't either. So I think you're in a good spot, man, a lot better than what you think. And I know that when you're 25, you have the perspective of only being 25. So you feel like you're old because you're the oldest you've ever been. But 25 is fucking young, dude. So young as you're ever going to be. Yeah, and it's young and it's a real young like people say, well, 40s young, no, 40s still kind of young, okay. 25 is legitimately unarguably young. And if you don't make a choice, bro, it's going to be another year and then another year and then another year and then it's going to be 10 and then it's going to be 15. And then it's going to be like, oh, I wish I should have could have would it. And then you're going to really feel bad. So I think making that choice is just one of the hardest things for people to do, especially when we're constantly observing so many people and they're highlight reals of what it is that they do. Yeah, but they're seven strains of income. Right. Yeah. That's real. So I mean, so your advice is he needs to do 75 hard today. When he hears this, he needs to start on that and then figure something out and do it today. Yeah. And then realize that that thing that you're going to build, create, become is in five years, going to give you the opportunity to talk about it, to help other people, right? Like people wouldn't listen to me if I didn't have the entrepreneurial success that I've had. No, it wouldn't listen to me. I just be another talking head. And I think this is the problem with a lot of people. A lot of people decide that they want to make content about success, but they haven't had any real success in their life. And I can see this very clearly, but some people can't, because I'm on the other side of the perspective, you can't know about success if you haven't experienced it. So most of these people that write these things and say these things and they don't have anything attached to them, they're just borrowing this language or stealing it from someone who's actually done it and rewording it. So like, it's not, there's no substance there. And if you were to get that person on a stage, and then like hit them with some real shit, they'd be frozen. They wouldn't know what to say. Couldn't do it. That's real, man. So, you know, what is it that you're going to build that's going to allow people to want to hear the story? That's, that's the decision that you need to make. Love it, man. Well, guys, Andy, that was three. All right, guys, let's go out and get better this week. Don't be a hoe. Try the shit. Does a note hit, shot, case, clothe, clothe?