“Pretty” 20-Yr-Old Girl Kills Her Male Dates For Being “Needy”, But Men Want To "Fix Her"

if you really want to know what somebody is into you follow them at night you do not follow them throughout the day because during the day we're all doing things that we don't really want to do but we kind of have to do we're going to work we're going to school we're running errands but at night that's usually when someone makes a choice regardless of sleep the fact that it's dark outside i'm gonna go outside and i'm gonna do this thing and taxi drivers are the ones that get to see all of us in our dirty little glory one taxi driver says you're awake when the world is asleep it changes how you see things the night shifts okay a lot of taxi drivers have stated during the night people are more open to sharing things about themselves that they probably wouldn't during the day maybe because it's dark in the car and they feel the need to fill the silence all of a sudden and you just see weird things one taxi driver said the strangest incident that he had was this guy gets into the back he makes eye contact through the rearview mirror he's got this pent-up energy like something big is about to happen where to the whole time he's anxiously rubbing his hands on his thighs he's gonna propose to the love of his life it's like a beautiful thing to witness the driver drops him off wishes him good luck in the rearview mirror and then a few stops later he picks up the same man now the destination is a bar the girl said no same person same night two very different car rides taxi drivers they just know way too much about people not in like the psychic way but the observational way which i think is arguably a lot creepier another one the same taxi driver had a woman get into the back of his car quote she silently cried the whole time in the back completely silent the whole ride and then just says thank you for not asking anything and then walked away she told him thank you for not asking her if she's okay while she's falling apart in the back of his car which side note there are types of criers in the caps relief criers they just got relieving news leaving a hospital with better news just signed divorce papers and they feel a sense of relief they cry with their mouths slightly open and they almost always over tip then you have the angry crier they cry in those very short sharp bursts and the tip is unpredictable sometimes it's really high sometimes there's zero tip the silent criers are the more unsettling ones because they give you the address in a very steady voice they say thank you when they get out in a steady voice and they tip exactly the average amount but the whole time they've been staring out the window and silently just crying one finance executive is picked up and he confesses to the taxi driver at two in the morning that this is his very first conversation in months he doesn't talk to his wife he doesn't talk to his kids he has no friends the only people that he talks to are people at work and it's mainly through emails then another woman she confesses that she just likes to go to 24-hour supermarkets because it's really lonely so she just wants to be around people but these are like the normal interesting people watching taxi experiences sometimes taxi drivers they have experiences where they can't stop thinking about it for multiple days because it's just unsettling there's nothing inherently creepy it's just weird and taxis all have a very specific smell at two in the morning it's usually people going out in the middle of the night and for some odd reason they don't know what's going on and they don't know a lot more perfume and cologne at night maybe it's because they haven't showered all day and they're still headed out or maybe because they're meeting someone who's going to be able to smell them it's that mixed with the sanitizing scent of the seats that's the smell except one particular taxi driver in south korea he's on his night shift when the door opens beautiful 20 year old woman gets in with two giant takeout bags of fried chicken two heavy bags of fried chicken he can smell it the entire taxi cab suddenly goes away and he's like oh my god i'm so sorry i'm so sorry smells like fried chicken now she gets into the car and the driver is trying his best not to stare at her chest in the rearview mirror but it's just she's wearing a very unusually low-cut shirt considering how cold it is outside and it's also the middle of the night and she's got two bags of fried chicken and he's picking her up from a local motel because i don't know you know you can ponder a bit further she's the first to talk hurry sir go fast i'm being chased i'll give you cash and she's like go go go so out of just period instinct he's stepping on the gas and she's leaning back taking a deep breath of what looks like a hundred dollars worth of fried chicken and then she starts taking a picture she's almost smirking while she's typing something out on her phone and the whole reason that this is odd is because the driver's on high alert he's looking for whoever could be potentially chasing this young woman in the middle of the night like what happens if they catch up but also the fried chicken smell is very distracting and she said someone is chasing them but suddenly her demeanor is very relaxed in the back of the car as if she's just getting a ride to the car to a local coffee shop at 2 p.m not 2 a.m everything about this ride even though it's not one of the most outwardly outrageous rides that he's had recently everything about this ride makes him uncomfortable he can't stop thinking about it to the point where he starts coming up with these random ideas of why she was in a rush but not really he comes up with this idea maybe she wanted him to take her seriously and rush her home so that she could eat the fried chicken before it got cold but if she had just said that then he wouldn't have taken her seriously so like maybe she just said someone's chasing me he's like thinking of all these weird scenarios until he turns on the news one day and he realizes the woman that he picked up that night is the motel serial killer of south korea the newest female serial killer in seoul the one that netizens have said is too pretty to go to jail we would like to thank today's sponsors who have made it possible for rotten mango to support nami national also known as the national allegiance on mental illness nami is the nation's largest mental health organization dedicated to improving the lives of individuals this episode's partnerships have also made it possible to support rotten mango's growing team and we'd also like to thank you guys for your continued support as always we'll see you next time on rotten mango always full show notes are available at rotten mango podcast.com today's case involves the intentional drugging of individuals without their consent also sometimes referred to as date our word drugging so please watch with caution we did have help from our wonderful korean researchers for translations for today's case but if anything is misrepresented or miscommunicated please let us know in the comments also keep in mind that any quotes or statements have been translated and may be condensed for brevity so with that let's get started running clubs are like a big part of south korea these days if you're a fan of running clubs you search up running crew on instagram you get at least 200 000 posts from different running clubs that are packed with a bunch of young single people clothing brands create running clubs in the city so that you can go run with people your age to the point where they have these organized cops and robbers games they do at running gatherings okay so community message boards will read anyone up for cops and robbers tonight at 8 p.m adults only 20 plus fast runners welcome like what it's a game yeah so half the people are cops the other half are robbers and you just chase each other in the park and it's a bunch of like 25 year olds chasing other 25 year olds that they just met this is like a korean thing yeah and it's like normal people go because i think when you think of a message board like that maybe in the states it sounds like not a lot of normal people will go and you'd be kind of scared runners and yeah but just lots of normal young people go because it's so hard to meet people these days and korea there's also this like contextual nuance of usually when you meet people in a serious setting everyone will want to know your age your income what you do for a living who your parents are and it's a very strict society of who you know who you know is what you are and so this running club nobody asks what your job is you just be chasing people it will be 14 degrees outside and there will be gatherings of people in their 20s and 30s outside at the park and it looks like some sort of corporate initiation but they're just here to play tag in the freezing cold it's just are you a cop are you a runner start running that's how younger people in south korea will meet people these days or you could make it easier and just go to a hunting bar a hunting bar is a bar specifically set up in korea for singles to approach strangers and try to start dates it's set up so there's a bunch of tables all circling a dance floor and singles will walk from table to table asking if they can join them so sometimes you'll have like a full table of women and then a group of men will want to join their table or tables of men and groups of women will come up and want to join their table that's cool yeah it's set up so singles are encouraged and it's very normal to go from table to table so it's not like oh you need to know all these people to make friends at the bar it's like tinder in real life yeah it's like speed dating in real life it's weird yeah and then sometimes they'll pay for the drinks sometimes they'll get drunk and then maybe they'll go to a second part for like the second half of the show i guess they'll go to a separate bar or a separate club the hunting bar is specifically to meet people but because you're meeting complete strangers it is hard to vouch for everybody sometimes you meet someone at a hunting bar and you meet them outside for a secondary date and maybe it's without the beer all of a sudden or the dim lights and they're just like a little weird they're just weird as dramatically as possible it's like this tiny little part of soul is cursed there's a group of guys they don't know each other they're not friends they don't work at the same place but they've all been to the local hunting bars and after that they've all been on some of the worst dates imaginable. I mean, in the grand scheme of things, is this the worst thing to happen? happen to a man no but these dates they've just been so bizarrely odd it's not even like your typical we just didn't mesh well and it was a waste of time it's like this is very uncomfortable i am contemplating the idea of never dating again because the idea of going on another date after this makes them on a dry heave let's start with adam these are all fake names because these people have all maintained anonymity even in korean so adam meets up with a 22 year old woman he ends up spending 213 dollars on a single date which is fine but she never said thank you not even one time he paid for everything the whole night not even a thank you and that's not the shitty part the shitty part is the whole date she's texting another man the whole time and he still spent 213 dollars ben ben his head is spinning from this date okay it was like a fake date he said 25 year old woman he's on a date with first of all she doesn't even seem 25 what's weird is she looks younger than 25 i mean she doesn't look underage but she looks like maybe she's like 21 22 why would you make your age older it doesn't so he's confused by that maybe it's the skin i don't know it's weird why would you he doesn't get it but the whole date feels like a prolonged game of two truths and a lie every question he asks she'd just be making up stuff on the spot and he can tell and he's so confused why and it's stuff that it doesn't make sense that she would lie he asks her how tall are you pretty i mean the evidence is right there it's hard to lie about how tall you are when you're standing right in front of that person and it's clear that she's perhaps five seven maybe even pushing five eight and in korea a woman being taller is a good thing oh really yeah she's like i'm five four he's like no the fuck you're not i'm so confused he's just confused but like the woman's not taller than the guy you're saying yeah yeah just like a tall okay okay she's a tall woman and that's usually seen as a very positive thing in korea to be tall it's almost model-esque right yeah but she's lying and saying she's five four for genuinely no reason at all and he's standing right there he's like i see you i can see how tall you are and i know you're not five four i don't understand she's just blatantly telling so many lies with so many inexplicable inconsistencies even a toddler would think that she's a pathological liar and she's so straight faced with it he can't even call her out also she doesn't pay for a single thing she orders the most expensive items on the table before she just ravages more food by asking the waiter to get another plate of this another she's adding on to the order throughout the date even though she's not even done eating not once does she say thank you but the oddest thing is quote despite all of this she came to the date in extremely revealing clothing on a bitterly cold day like her entire chest is out and he tells her multiple times like oh zip your jacket but because we're about to go outside and it's the wind is so cold you should zip up your jacket eventually he's getting it's like that's so frustrating like just watching you makes me cold so he reaches over and just zips up his jacket himself because he's like lady think for a second you're about to get sick and she irritably unzips it all the way down so her cleavage is back out and just glares at him and he's like i wasn't even i thought i was being a gentleman trying to make sure that you're not getting sick i'm so confused then another guy ethan he meets a girl at the club they start texting and she tells him in a romantic way i want to see the beach they plan a day trip to a local beach while they're there she says she has no money and he's like then why'd you come to the beach bitch okay it's fine he pays for all the food all the beverages while they're there which is fine but she's ordering ungodly amounts of food and then when they go to the convenience store to grab waters and coffee she starts adding in like regular house things that she wants like a little detergent vitamins feminine hygiene items lip balms face masks skincare just random things that has nothing to do with ethan and then just forces him to pay for it okay but i guess ethan is still really into her because he still meets up with her one more time after this god-awful beach trip she comes over to his house for dinner and when she leaves he realizes two things in his house are missing a baseball hat like a cap and a starbucks gift card with 33 on there so she's a liar and a thief so he texts her he's like did you maybe accidentally take my 33 starbucks gift card and my hat and she blocks him then a guy named kang he goes on a date with a girl on white day these are all very relevant stories okay he goes on a date on white day holiday where men give candy to women it's like valentine's day okay but white day right and they meet in front of the woman's university station the train station they grab coffee and the whole time she's like randomly pouring her heart out about how difficult her childhood upbringing has been it's a little bit jarring because they just met and she's almost in tears about how abusive her father is and he does feel bad but also he doesn't really know how to respond because it's out of the blue so he's like there there he's trying to comfort her but also like i want to go he tries to maneuver the situation so he can leave and it seems like she catches on because she starts coughing and banging on her chest and she's like dramatically grabbing onto him coughing he's trying to run away yeah the date yeah he's like are you okay my chest it feels tight he takes her to a waiting leaving her at the clinic but he's like god i just feel bad i guess i'll just stay so he wastes his time waiting around for her to be seen by the doctor and then she's crying about how miserable her life is he then takes her to the pharmacy to pay for her prescription which sounds really romantic in america because a prescription is like 10 trillion dollars without insurance in korea it's like a few dollars okay so he's trying to pay for the few three dollar medicine and she's boom boom vitamins tampons herbal drinks lip balm and he's like i'm not paying for that i'm not paying for 67 worth of shenanigans i'm just trying to pay for your three dollar medication and she's like well i need these to feel better too he's so thrown off he says no i'm just paying for the prescription she's pissed she storms off he's left confused but also she did take the three dollar prescription that he paid for and he stormed out of there like he's the problem another guy named frank super relevant i'm telling you okay goes to a restaurant date south korea how many guys are there so many guys okay and they're all coming out and they're like let me tell you let me tell you okay he leaves his wallet on the table goes to the restroom this is south korea you know what you do in korea you go into a restaurant and you pick a table you like and you put your phone and your wallet your most valuable pieces of items on the table to claim it as yours nobody steals it nobody steals it that's just how you claim a table he leaves his wallet on the table his date is at the table too yeah and there's like bajillionaires and they're like oh my god i'm so sorry i'm so sorry i'm so sorry and cctv cameras everywhere so nobody really steals yeah nobody steals so then he goes to the restroom he comes back and he's about to pay for the dinner and all the cash in his wallet is gone like not even just one bill all the bills are gone but his wallet is still there his credit cards are still there so he's like what he asks the date do you know if like somebody's just like came by and took the cash she's like no i have no idea what you're talking about they check the cash and she's the crazier part is she's standing there watching the cctv camera footage with them and then she's just staring at them like and what are you gonna do about it so what did they do she gave the cash back and then stormed out of there like he was the problem wow okay we're almost done with these crazy dates but there's this guy named patrick too and this patrick guy he's like i should have known she was a problem because the minute that we started texting she sent me a list of restaurants i would really like to go to all four dollar money signs not even like a variety like sometimes you gotta throw in some variety right no all expensive and she's just like has this weird obsession with food she's messaging him non-stop i love all kinds of meat by the way meat is pretty expensive in korea grilled chicken thigh pork belly thick cut pork black pork beef western food love it all i love anything with meat okay he takes her out on a date and during that date they have two full meals at the end she's like can i get some meat and she's like no i don't can you buy me a hamburger and butter bread to take home it's like she has this enormous insatiable obsession with food and the strange thing is well first of all she doesn't pay for anything which is like a thing but also on top of that she never used the restroom like they were out the whole day never used the restroom and he was like hey you don't think i'd like i've i've peed like 10 times since we've been on this date yeah because it's like a 24 hour long date you haven't peed once weird and she was like that's weird i gotta go pee and then she just like went the minute that he pointed weird weird very weird okay what is going on so weird so all these people they're like i don't know what's going on but what happens is i meet a girl at a hunting bar go on a date with her and it's been weird oh they all met at this hunting bar soon it will be revealed that every single one of these guys they find out that they were on a date with the same woman and she will be all over the news for being a serial killer who kills her dates serial killer that's what they're calling her in korea sam this is a pseudonym he's about ready to go on a date he's already told his close friends about this girl that he's going to meet they've already told him that he's going to meet her and he's been texting back and forth and she seemed like the type of person that he could see himself getting with. He's at the age where he's thinking about getting married. He's been saving every single month to open up his own restaurant. He's a chef and he's really nervous about this date. He gets on chat GPT and he looks up. Can you suggest what to say on a blind date? His date is also on chat GPT right before the date, asking questions. Her searches include, what is a lethal overdose of sleeping pills? If you take sleeping pills with alcohol, can you die? And she's taking notes in her journal with each date. This dose doesn't even kill them. They wake up and become even more of a nuisance to me. It's so crazy that we've entered the chat GPT era. Yeah. Like every case now, like we constantly talk about AI and chat GPT. Yeah. They're all searching some bizarre things on chat GPT. Now, motels in Korea are not the same as the United States. I feel like the word motel has a very strong connotation with either affordable place to stay for the night or usually a place where scary things can happen just because of the way the buildings were set up and the locations. Korean motels are very different in the sense that they're everywhere. If you're on a street with karaoke bars and clubs, there's going to be a lot of motels. So it's used by a lot of passerbys, so business travelers, but also couples who still live with their parents. Because in Korea, you stay with your parents for quite a bit of time before you get married. So it's not like you just go out and live on your own where you can invite your boyfriend or your girlfriend over and do things you would do in a loving, consensual adult relationship. So couples will go to motels or couples will go to motels. Couples who have just met each other and don't know each other's names and just want to have a good one night stand, they'll go to a motel. But motels are also used by friends. A lot of friends, if they have a gathering of 10 friends who want to get drunk and play drinking games, but they don't want to go to an establishment and pay money for food and service charge and tip and this and that, they'll rent a motel room and just hang out in the motel room as if it's like a friend's house. Usually a younger crowd because maybe their apartments, they still live with their parents or it's not enough space. So they'll just rent a cheap motel room. It's not unusual and it certainly doesn't have the seedier connotation maybe American motels have. But the police, they walk into this cramped motel room. There is a man on the bed laying on his side. He's rigid and he's dead. Motel staff are hiding behind the motel entry room. We saw him because we were trying to see if the room was ready for checking out and we saw that there was like stuff in his nose. I think we think he's dead. The police are glancing around. There's nothing particularly alarming, about the room. There's no signs of evident trauma. It doesn't appear that he passed with a sign of a struggle. There's no external injuries. This is not a self-exit. There's no gunshot wounds, stab wounds, no strangulation marks. There is, however, they're looking closely with their flashlight. There's small amounts of vomit in the mouth, airways. It looks like it's, there's some swelling. There's some sort of congestion. That's about the only thing they can find and that and his phone and a bottle on the nightstand. They're like, what is that? It's a, it's a bottle of hangover medication. It's like a detox drink that you consume. If you want to avoid being hung over the next day, you can buy it at like the corner store. It's not really effective. Maybe it's more so the placebo. I'm sure it's got lots of electrolytes, so it hydrates you a little bit better than water, but it's nothing that serious. I mean, nothing that would cause him to have some sort of medical reaction. That's for sure. Has his phone been checked? There is an unopened message on this man's phone and it's a very lengthy message. And it's from a girl. It reads, Oh, so I suddenly got my period and I felt like I couldn't fall asleep in the motel room. So I decided to go home and you had given me that wad of cash earlier for the taxi fare, which by the way, our photo booth pictures were folded inside of it. I'll give that back to you next time we meet. Anyway, thanks for giving me the money for the cab. So I wouldn't be cold getting home. Oh, and also you ordered fried chicken using my phone and we were watching a movie when your eyes glazed over and you suddenly fell asleep. I don't know if you remember, but when the food was about to arrive, I tried to wake you up a little bit and you wanted to go back to sleep again. I told you not to sleep, but you seemed tired and kept wanting to sleep. So I asked you what to do about the fried chicken and you said to eat it all by myself and just to take it home. So since eating in the motel room alone while you're sleeping seemed lonely, I thought I would just take it back home and eat it at home before work. I packed it all up and left. It just felt lonely eating alone while you were asleep. Next time, let's just go out to eat together. That sounds very goofy. Yeah. You're just, it's like a confession. No, almost. Yeah. You don't have to be an investigator to think that this is weird. Usually people don't say things like, well, A happened. So then you said B and remember how I said C and now this is D and now E and so thanks. You just say, hey, thanks for the night. This looks like meeting notes or a cover your ass email after a meeting where you told everyone you knew something was not a good idea if they kept doing that and they kept doing that anyway. That's what it sounds like. But then there's another message, a picture from inside the taxi. So it's like a girl is sitting in the back of the taxi taking a picture with the words, I'm in the taxi heading home. I know you're going to get the room because you wanted to hang out together. But like I said, I happen to be on the period. So a lot of stomach cramps and I had no pads. Then you gave me the wad of cash for the taxi and treated me to food. So thank you. So weird. The police are like, who was in the motel room with him? The motel staff said, well, I mean, there was this, um, there was this woman. So they came in last night. He walked in with this woman. They didn't seem that drunk or anything. They just seemed normal, like a normal couple. And then I think a little bit, while after that, some guy delivered fried chicken. And then like 10 minutes after the fried chicken was delivered, the woman left alone. The man's body is taken to a medical examiner and it shows that he was drugged. These are all the drugs found in his system. Three different types of antidepressants, sleeping pills, a benzodiazepine sedative, a cardiovascular drug, a Tylenol and an antihistamine. And these are just the different types. It's not like the different pill. In fact, the amount of drugs found in his body, it was like 50 pills of different types of drugs. So it's only three different types of antidepressants, but it could have been four pills of each antidepressant. It's like a pharmaceutical cocktail. And a lot of them are prescription medications, which a doctor states the drugs found in his blood were essentially a standard pharmaceutical toolkit for a patient presenting with depression or sleeping disorders. So this is, we got to find someone who was prescribed these things because they were able to give this to him, administer it to him. And these are not fun drugs. This is not a situation where some people decide that they're going to try prescription drugs for fun and get high and then they overdosed. These are not fun drugs. And drugs are very controlled in Korea. So according to his records, he does not have depression or sleeping disorder and he was not prescribed any of these medications. And it's just an obscene amount of pills in his system. And the police know that they have a big, big problem on their hands because a homicide case in South Korea in Seoul is already very, very bad. It's a big fucking deal. In Seoul, there is about one homicide per week, if even that. And this is the second one. Yeah. Okay. In comparison, I think in New York, there's about 10 a week. New York City. I mean, there's a lot more self exits and other deaths, but in the manner, homicide is about one a week. Not this week, but the second one with the same pattern. Young man in his 20s passed out in a motel room, drugged. Deceased by the morning, motel staff discover and motel staff report that he had walked in with a woman who quickly left after checking in. It happened just 11 days earlier, which one would imagine it's only a matter of time before another person ends up dead in a motel room. Police start investigating and they come across a man. He's alive. Barely, but he might know something. Police talked to him now that he's feeling better. He had spent two days in the motel room in a motel room. He's like, no. December 14th, 2025. Noon. It's like 1120 a.m. When was the previous one found dead? January and February. Oh, this one was a month ago. Okay. So he's like, I was in the parking lot of this bakery with my girlfriend. And that's all I remember. That's it. Well, that and she gave me this drink. Was it a hangover recovery drink? Like I've been really tired with work. I drank it. And then I don't remember anything else. I woke up in the hospital two days later. I was out for two days. He wakes up and he texts her. What did you put in that drink? The doctor told my mom twice that I could have never woken up like it was that bad. The bakery, the owner, the employees, they've all been shaking in their boots, frightened beyond comprehension because they assumed it was something they did with the baked goods by accident. I mean, it was a very dramatic scene. The ambulance showed up. It doesn't make sense. But I'm alive now and I have no idea what happened. And she won't talk to me. And the police are taking notes. And they ask if that woman, if his girlfriend looks familiar to the woman in the two motel CCTV footages. He's like, yeah, that's my girl. Well, ex-girlfriend, 20 year old Kim So-young, 20, 20. And she's not a hard woman to find. In fact, she's not even hiding. Police arrest her at her house. And just 30 minutes before her arrest, she had just posted another selfie on Instagram. And in the motel footage, her face is out and about. It's not like she's wearing a mask and hiding. And then posting her face and all of these selfies. She posts a lot of selfies on Instagram. She's always pouting at the camera while subtly but not subtly emphasizing her cleavage with the hashtag hashtag followers. Welcome. Hashtag cool tone, beauty, follow for follow mutual follow likes DM. They bring her in for questioning and she innocently tells them, I don't I didn't know they died. I didn't think it was that dangerous because I also take these meds myself. They're and she said that she was just drugging these men because she didn't like dealing with conflict she's like i'm so conflict adverse i was just trying to put them to sleep she's saying you know they would spend hundreds of dollars buying me food and i'm assuming that they want to do it afterwards and i don't want to do it so i would just put them to sleep she's like i just didn't want them to be like a nuisance and try to you know initiate these intimate relations with me so i would drug them and i guess two of them just happen to die so she does admit to yeah killing them okay a post starts going viral in south korea and it's clearly a very very distraught man and he's asking for advice would it be so bad to be pen pals with the motel killer hear me out she's pretty normally it's not easy to date someone that pretty if she gets life in prison maybe i could write letters put some money in her commissary visit her every now and then i had a pen pal with a regular few men and i was like i don't know what to do i don't know what to do i don't know what to do before she would call me babe and act all cute while writing and then she got out and started cheating on me so we broke up and i was devastated but with someone serving life which i'm assuming she's gonna get life in prison right she can't go anywhere she'll be in prison forever isn't it actually like kind of okay keeping in touch just until she dies after kim so young's arrest netizens start circulating pictures of her most recent instagram pictures her photo shoots and they have dubbed her i mean the police have dubbed her a serial killer even though i think in the u.s it's like three people or more have to be victims but there are two victims and she also drugged countless other guys who thankfully survived but they've dubbed her the motel serial killer and netizens in south korea have dubbed her the prettiest killer alive in korea there's a whole legal process of releasing identities of perpetrators even if they're adults there has to be certain criteria met so the prosecutors have yet to release kim so young's age and name they have now but at this point in the story they have to release kim so young's age and name haven't released her name yet but netizens are quick they're spreading her social media pages on internet forums and it's not exactly the reaction that people were expecting because usually when people start outing perpetrators it's like a wave of hate yeah but people are like whoa she's so pretty things like this happens right like remember even in the u.s like what was that guy's name yeah yeah the guy that everyone wants so once in a while it just turns into like like a weird thing i think it's because most of us are not i i don't even think they're conventionally attractive but i guess most of us are not conventionally attractive and so we all think like oh if we were conventionally attractive there's not much i would want in the world so maybe it's like the confusion of like you're so conventionally attractive why are you doing all this that's what a lot of the korean netizens are saying especially in a place like korea where conventional attractiveness is valued really high so they're just confused why she would need to kill someone when she's so hot which is i understand the logic as well but i don't think it's a good idea to kill someone when she's so hot weird but it is i guess a natural train of thought for people in korea netizens also noticed that in her instagram post she doesn't have a single picture with anybody else none not even one where she's sitting at a restaurant and someone is sitting next to her but she covers their face she has zero pictures with anybody else people are saying this is kind of odd she doesn't have any friends she doesn't have any family but she's going on so many dates this is weird other people are saying that she seems to have a fixation on this song that is now in hindsight a little bit it's called daemon's year by josie and the translated lyrics read whenever you look at the moon your eyes get bigger which people are like this sounds like when people are really drugged up looking at the reflection in your eyes what you love is the same as me i see you without knowing the flowers are blooming hugging your fine shadow kissing you like it's the last time let's not get old take it all so there's no regrets leave nothing behind my love good night my crying love and in between her second victim's death and her arrest she posted 41 instagram stories in post she's obsessed with posting online but the thing that becomes almost a second crime is what i said everyone thinks that she is the prettiest killer alive and by everyone i mean just like a small portion of the internet and they're very loud about it men in south korea were going to vouch for her in the comments like if you just release her to me i'm sure i could fix her for you she's got like the girl next door look slightly innocent way except all of her instagram pictures show lots of cleavage so like her face looks innocent but her boobs are always out all the pictures are angled so it's like the main focal point is her chest it's usually from the top down angle that's the type of picture that she likes to post and some men in korea really really really want to save her so for the past four months kim seoyoung has been very busy and they don't care so the police are like hey guys stop with this nonsense we're just gonna let you know what this crazy lady has been doing so you know what you're dealing with october 25th 2025 at a restaurant in gangnam a man named h collapses while drinking white wine with seoyoung she calls 9-1-1 or the emergency line he was just drinking white wine and just suddenly collapsed yeah just come quickly she's so nonchalant employee says the whole thing was weird i clocked in at 5 p.m there was a couple at one of the tables man was slumped over asleep on the table at first i thought nothing of it but then 30 minutes later he's still like that so i'm like okay something is clearly wrong i approached them i just figured up and down the street until this point if the woman needed help genuinely she would have asked for it but when i went over to ask her if she needs help she told me he was passed out drunk so i asked her is that your boyfriend she says we've only been dating for like two days i don't even know his drinking tolerance the server checks the tab they only had two glasses of wine ordered to the table and the glass of wine in front of the boyfriend is has a lot of wine left in it it just felt off do you want me to call the emergency line for you sure she calls the emergency dispatch hands it to so young and so young's like i barely know the guy we're just drinking white wine and he passed out two months later december 14th 2025 11 20 a.m so young tries to kill her boyfriend ex-boyfriend in the bakery parking lot he's hospitalized for two days unconscious and she's there playing the doting girlfriend but when she gets home she writes in her journal specifically that day dose only knocked him out it didn't kill him january 24th 2026 a man is in a karaoke bar with a girl he just met private room collapse is on the ground 911 is called she says he just won't wake up i don't know what to do i just met him i'm here for the first time on a date i don't even know his home address like how am i supposed to take him home the ambulance comes inside note the owner of this karaoke bar said the woman she paid and she tried to leave alone without the man and the man wouldn't wake up no matter how much we shook him and it's actually company policy if you come and get a private room you can't leave any of your friends drunk you have to take them with you because the business does not want to be liable for these drunk people who are passed out in these private rooms and so i'm like you we cannot let you leave and she's telling us just wake him up and kick him out when you get the chance we're like no our policy says you cannot leave your companions so i told her that and that's when she rolls her eyes and she called emergency dispatch there's a guy here who's really drunk and i keep trying to wake him up and he won't get up he's had way too much to drink i don't even know where he lives this is my first time meeting him are you trying to take him home or are you like i said i just met him today okay we'll send medical and police her fifth and six victims were both found dead in motel rooms and the method of killing was the same in both the hangover drinks in korea they're sold at every convenience store they're marketed as helping your body process alcohol faster it's like a detox so young would go home and using the back of her kitchen knife she would crush up all of her prescription pills that she is prescribed for ptsd she uses a piece of paper funnels them into the hangover drink and throws those in her purse for dates and when she goes on it and what's crazy about these dates is nobody approaches her she religiously goes to the hunting bars looking for dates she's always on instagram at local community posts and writing things like you like bowling i like bowling too we should bowl together on random guys pages and she'll message them and once she's initiating these dates once she goes on the date she'll be drinking with the men and she'll look up with them with a warm smile and say oh i have something for you remember how i mentioned in our text messages i always get really bad hangovers for work and it sucks which by the way the police found evidence of these types of messages she would say these things before the date well i always carry around these hangover detox drinks to just make sure the hangover isn't bad here you should try one instead of sobering up these men would take the hangover drink they would suddenly start feeling nauseous as if the world is getting distorted their stomachs start turning their tongues get stiff they can't talk they lose consciousness and so young would just stare at them there's no particular blend of prescription pills that's what young cared about it's not like she was some sick twisted pharmacist she just took whatever she could get that was strong she would collect prescription pills they call it medical shopping so it's when you go around to various psychiatric clinics to get prescription meds and just pick up at various pharmacies and there's no sort of regulated system in korea where certain drugs can be bypassed obviously you're not going to get controlled substances i imagine like in the u.s. it would be easier to get maybe two different ssris prescribed versus getting two adderall prescriptions because it's not a controlled substance the ssris there's not much of an oversight system that can prevent people from doing this and she's just experimenting with different dosages and increasing the concentration to affect the victims it's like she's researching and the weirdest part of each crime is her obsession with food she's obsessed with food all she does on these dates is consume and order large quantities of food it's not even like she it's weird she likes the food but it seems like she likes the idea of food more it's almost like she likes the idea of spending every single dollar she can get out of these men like for example just to give you an idea the fried chicken that she ordered well first of all that was after her second victim died in the motel room she was laying there as he's dying on the motel bed took his credit card and ordered fried chicken to the motel room and waited in the motel room while he's actively dying in the motel bed for the fried chicken order and this is a huge order with 22 items because i feel like with inflation in the u.s a hundred dollars worth of fried chicken sounds like a lot of fried chicken but just to give you an idea of how much chicken it really is two and a half chickens in four different flavors tteokbokki instant rice drinks sauces black cheese ball extra devil sauce red pepper mayo sauce bottle big cheese stick instant rice oil tteokbokki onion ranch sauce extra tri-color ball three piece coke zero times two extra rice cakes potato wedges red pepper mayo sauce big bottle all of that yeah for sixty dollars yeah and the delivery guy he remembers kim soyoung too he's delivering the fried chicken and well by the way the owners of the fried chicken shop they were so excited because business has been slow this is one of their biggest orders so they were really excited to get the fried chicken hot to the motel and the driver is like they're all on the same page they're rushing to get it there and he goes and he's like i feel like i have the wrong address because this is enough to feed honestly 10 people 10 people could eat this fried chicken and be full and so he's expecting some sort of crazy party in the motel room the door opens no sound no tv on nothing dead silent and kim soyoung she has the weirdest blank expression on her face it's so entirely blank it's not not smiling it's not angry it's just empty he doesn't know how to explain it it's just empty her blank expression it's freaky and he's like it's heavy it's a lot of fried chicken and she just takes it and closes the door he was like it was so it was just unsettling but even with all this information there are some netizens who believe that she can't be evil because look at her instagram pictures and she's only 20 why would she need to be a serial killer netizens started holding on to dear life on the one statement that she made to the police that she wanted to avoid confrontation with men so some people are like maybe the men were asking for it so okay a couple questions right is she just a liar why is she lying about she like making her age older and she's shorter yeah i think she's a pathological liar and just like like okay yeah and then you're saying like the journal she's writing oh this didn't kill him are there more yeah she's just talking about dosages but nothing else in her journal okay so that's the only information yeah she didn't write after she killed someone she didn't write oh that i that worked or whatever i think she did but it was very simple like it worked doubling dosage next time some people are saying maybe she genuinely thought maybe these guys were being sexually pushy and she just thought that she could make them pass out so that she wouldn't have to be pressured to have intimate relations with them after the date comments read he was a stranger that followed her you know he kind of asked for it the guy must have been acting up for her to want us to date him she takes the same pills herself she probably didn't think that he would die she said he was a stranger that followed her he was she was just trying to put him to sleep there must have been a reason like i'm curious about her past but the doctor who worked on this case they state even if she only wanted to sedate these men she would have only needed one sleeping pill why was there a cocktail of antidepressants and other drugs on top of that the combination clearly goes beyond what's needed for sleep little by little people start putting in tips and more information about kim so young's entire family and childhood start coming out her dad was violent he would come home drunk assault their mother urinate and defecate everywhere in the house she seems to have some level of ptsd as described by her doctor dad leaves mom works through the night to support two kids but that doesn't mean that she can just go kill people and on top of that there's just a lot of alarming stories coming out she dropped out of middle school later was expelled from high school even part-time jobs a lot of her former employees and bosses like co-workers and bosses would come out and they said she got fired and couldn't hold down a job for such a long time she would consistently manipulate co-workers against each other and just cause so much dysfunction in the workplace it was impossible she suffered from physical and verbal abuse from her childhood but that doesn't really negate any of the things that she did stories from her childhood just start piling on and people say if she's around your glasses your wallet your lipstick that you've been using for three years like it doesn't matter how old or useless these items were they would just disappear like this girl has sticky fingers one girl got her airpods stolen in middle school and she goes on to carrot which is like ebay but or like facebook marketplace to just buy another pair of used ones because she's like i don't want to buy new airpods she goes on there and someone is selling one that looks exactly like hers i don't know if she had like a sticker on there but what are the odds so the girl goes to her homeroom teacher in middle school and she's like i want to do a sting operation i'm pissed off i want to go and act like i'm buying these used airpods and i want to see who's selling my stolen airpods they arrive to the meeting spot and guess who it is middle school year old kim so young and they're asking her like how could you do something like this and her reaction is so blank she just says yeah whatever you want it back or not and hands the airpods back speaking of resale people found her carrot website like her account she has over a hundred items listed on sale for carrot and suspiciously they're all men's clothes and it's not even that expensive it would be like a 56 blazer a 19 button up a 23 shirt there's a lot of interesting things happening there but the one thing about the middle school the airpods is she distinctly remembers her airpods got stolen so young is caught selling them she gets expelled from middle school kicked out transferred and so young is the one that goes and unfollows everyone from middle school on social media not only that she blocks them she mass blocks them as if they all stole from her another story comes out about a girl that went to a club with kim so young and she said i immediately just got a really bad vibe from her she was always asking me really invasive questions like i'm so jealous you have your own place how much money do you have why can't i just come live with you why don't you introduce me to a boyfriend later at a youth facility kim so young meets this unni which is like an older sister figure and one day the unnies wallet and airpods go missing and she tells kim so young about it and kim so young has this really fun fun attitude it's i guess audacious would be a similar word not really there's a little more nuance to the korean word but perhaps and she would just look at the onion and say that sucks i'm so sorry if i even had a dollar to my name i would offer it to you what it's just like a really weird it's just like a really weird thing to say like what do you what do you mean if even if i had a dollar to my name i would offer it to you but not as weird as when they check the cameras and they realize kim so young is the one that stole from her the wallet she returns and then the onion is like well my airpods you took my airpods too i don't have them anymore what did you do with them did you sell them no i crushed them up and i flushed them down the toilet that's not the only thing that she would steal she would steal straight up pictures photos of other people hanging out and then pretend that they were her own and post them on her own instagram one other girl says she would literally screenshot every story that i posted and then repost it as if it were her instagram story when confronted about it so young would tell her that she's doing it to get revenge on an ex-boyfriend and then she just went and blocked everybody sometimes she would message these like she would unblock the girls that she hates and then write in their comments fuck off you piece of shit and it's like you want to block me sometimes she would write god you look so sleazy so fucking sleazy another comment is quote your face has some fat in it and all your features are buried in the fat but with that there are still comments supporting so young some people are saying she just wants to meet a boyfriend and dating is so hard and i don't know what to do with it she just wanted real genuine connection comments about the way she looks reads she's like really pretty she looks i mean i would drink the drink immediately too she has genuinely beautiful eyes like they're sharp and yet beautiful and just like breathtaking in a world where everyone kills each other she just happened to get caught i don't really think we should think much into it pretty face well-put-in together she's got interest just wanting love i mean she looks exactly like a typical girl her age looking through all her social media posts it's sad that there's not a single picture with another person you know it seems like maybe she's lonely i mean she's got to serve her time but i hope she gets to live a second life in genuine reflection she's a true beauty the meme in korea suddenly became if she's pretty she must be forgiven there is a checkpoint in korea that has to be met for perpetrator to be disclosed the method of the crime has to be brutal there has to be significant harm cost there must be sufficient evidence to believe the suspect committed the crime and there must be public interest which there's enough information that she definitely committed these crimes there is public interest it's significant harm she killed two people but the brutal part the prosecutors state the manner of the death and the killings was not brutal they think you know you got to behead someone in order for that to be considered brutal there's a lot of cases where someone was dismembered and that was up for debate about whether the perpetrator's identity should be released that type of statement the victim's family families were besides themselves they exploded the internet rally behind them like how dare you decide if something is brutal or not these people were killed and their families are now they have to watch everybody say look how pretty she is look how pretty she is there's no accountability like what the hell are you guys doing police they won't release it so the public are like we gotta do something this causes a whole stir and finally because you can't put the toothpaste back in the tube everybody's already seen her pictures on social media victims family are upset under that pressure the prosecutors release kim so young's name age and her mugshot photos and there is almost a collective silence in south korea the comments read i think they arrested the wrong person are we sure these aren't two different suspects other people are commenting this level of editing she does for her photos with bankrupt ai it would use too many resources to sustain that just for her instagram page others are saying so everybody looks like a supermodel on instagram and i don't see a single one of them on the street the retouching on her photos must be insane people went from defending her because she was the prettiest killer alive to now hating her because she's quite ugly in her mugshots really yeah like she looks completely different completely different if your instagram photo and her mugshot photos i would say absolutely not they're not even related they're not even sisters so she's catfishing people yeah too right basically yeah netizens decide that kim so young and this is where it gets crazy it a lot of male netizens created a ranking of all the recent female killers in south korea their instagram picture and then their real mugshot and people decide that kim so young is actually ranked on the uglier side of the female killers in south korea yeah i don't know why they made that ranking but one person comments we were tricked by the photo fillers looks completely different from her instagram i take everything i said about her back others say she looks way older than 20. another comment reads and this got a lot of likes add some fraud charges too and a lot of women were very upset rightfully and they were commenting korean men cannot go a single day without writing a woman's looks but kim so young is not going down without a fight she starts releasing and there the trial is happening this month for this case in korea okay she starts releasing letters in prison to journalists begging journalists to air her words a lot of people believe that she's manipulative and she's writing some crazy stuff and she's writing some crazy stuff and she's writing some crazy stuff every single letter reminds me of that very narcissistic person that you probably have encountered in your life at some point or another you tell them hey narcissistic person i didn't really enjoy it when you called me really ugly and disgusting to look at and then punched me in the face and then tried to ruin my life so like maybe you cannot do that ever again and they go oh sorry i'll just go kill myself and you're like okay well you're not going to do that ever again and they go oh sorry i'll just go kill myself and you're like okay well you're not going to do that ever again and they go oh sorry i'll just go kill myself and you're that's not what i said at all is that all of her letters are written like this this is direct quotes i should have died just when my dad was beating me i should have just died then i should have self-exited even when i took those online depression tests it put me at the death stage the most severe level why did i call my mom asking help for surviving when i fell into the ocean as a kid i should have just drowned i should have just disappeared where nobody could have ever found me even then my mom pulled me out of the water thinking that i was going to drown deep and submerged like that but i survived i should have just disappeared where nobody could have ever found me when i choked on that piece of candy as a kid and couldn't breathe i should have just died even then candy yeah candy yeah even then if my mom hadn't done the heimlich maneuver the candy would have stayed stuck and i would have died without being able to breathe but i survived like what she starts describing how she used to try and self-exit and how she's annoyed that it didn't succeed and like coming from someone who has been in dark places in her life like this i don't see this to be true at all like the fact that she's like when i choked on a piece of candy when i was a kid i should have just died then it's so manipulative she continues i should have just let myself get stabbed by the knife that my dad threw at me i should have just run into it then my mom wouldn't have to stay up all night blocking the door with her body all night to protect my sister and me putting herself through all of that if i had just been stabbed by his knife back then there would have been none of this pain now it would have been so much easier for me then my mom and sister could live better lives and i couldn't protect them everyone probably wants me dead anyway if i'm going to get life in prison i'm going to have to be dead anyway i'm going to have to be dead anyway in any way if i'm going to spend my whole life without seeing my family i would rather die living scares me if i had died back then would i have been at peace would my mother and sister have had life a bit easier then she writes another letter to the journalist and she's like you got to air these letters by the way the journalist is like okay i will i think she genuinely thinks that she is manipulating the public yeah yeah yeah but nobody's buying it no everyone's like are you dumb yeah like what's happening another letter reads i miss my mom i'm scared i want to be next to her i want her to hold me please don't abandon me i'm desperately gut-wrenchingly regretful i will faithfully accept punishment for what i did wrong i'm sorry for shattering everyone's ordinary lives right now i have two feelings fighting inside of me wanting to die because it's also hard and wanting to live mom i need to eat your cooking one more time before i die no one believes me and i have no one in my corner i know y'all all probably just hear it as excuses but i'll write down the general gist of what i want to say even when i try to hold back tears every single day is hard and terrifying i'm crying all the time i'm drained and exhausted i don't want to live anymore i'm someone with a lot of questions and this is my first time inside a detention center and there's so much i want to ask but everyone is busy and i can't even get anyone to answer it's so suffocating it's hard i ask and then i get no response being separated from my family in a place i've never been before my heart just rots and tears apart every day every single day the fact that the garbage who calls himself my dad is watching my face in this case play out in the media makes me feel sick all this media coverage is torture my identity being made public and everybody recognized me is just a mess i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry i'm sorry so hard just being separated from my mom is devastating and i can't sleep i cry every day i'm so worn out from crying it's like gibberish yeah it's like she couldn't make up what she wanted to say like one one point she wanted to play sad one point she wanted to play this and then she was like complaining about this yeah it's like gibberish yeah because i think she's trying so hard to not write down her real thoughts yeah she's like there's no one to open up to no place to talk about the pain i'm carrying as a suspect i wish they would expand the counseling services inside detention centers it's just so hard then she writes um the journalist is like okay enough like enough about this i'm not gonna air any more letters like this can you tell me why you did what you did like just tell me that and she writes i'm not denying that i didn't give him the drugs but i want to properly explain why i did it because i was scared of being essayed no one ever listens to my side and it's so hard i never thought and wanted to kill someone i was just so scared that they would essay me and keep me there and not let me go and in a moment of the drug into a hangover drink gave it to them put them to sleep i was so traumatized and scared i just wanted them to fall asleep so i could leave and then once they were snoring i would just leave i had absolutely no idea that they would die i had no plan i had no intention to kill i brought these hangover drinks with me to protect myself just in case i had absolutely no idea that it would end up killing someone i just wish that i had ended up as nothing more than a victim then none of this would have blown up like this like no one would be suffering like this i'm so sorry for the victims and their families into my own family i'm so sorry for i was so scared and terrified i should have just been the victim and nothing more she's like i should have just been essayed by them which by the way none of these men and i am the last person to like root for men and going on dates with people that you've never met before like trust me none of these men were trying to essay her evidenced by the text messages she is the one begging them to get a motel room because the restaurant that she wants to try is delivery only it's not like she goes on a date and they spend all this money and then they're like let's go to a motel so pre-med yes try to kill them in a motel room pre-meditated she's always asking for a motel always she's the one that brings it up repeatedly repeatedly repeatedly and it's not this spur of the moment where she carries her sleeping pills with her because that's her prescription medication she grinds them up puts them in the hangover drink and not only that you know how they're in one of the motel rooms there's a hangover drink on the side that gets tested it comes back clean no drugs she carries multiple bottles one with drugs and one that's clean she pours out the clean one and leaves it so that when police test it later it comes back clean whoa okay and you're telling me there's no pre-meditation she's writing in her journal the the dosage didn't knock him out it was only a nuisance because he kept waking up but do we know her motive is it is it money is it money it's pretty much money right stealing yeah the reporter sends her another letter asking what thoughts take up most of your time inside prison like how is it like how is it like how is it like how is it like your outlook on life changed since the incident and she rambles briefly about her sister and mom before responding why are so many strangers sending me letters honestly these people are really weird um why has my life been so rough you know i think about that if i could turn back time i would does everyone want me dead can i survive inside of here i'm just so exhausted when i was little if i had just let my dad stab me with that knife none of this would have happened no one would be suffering media coverage is truly terrifying like i get it now why people would self-exit from it nobody's on my side nobody's going to help me am i a psychopath i'm gonna die in here without seeing my family why is my mom not visiting this is so hard why did i do that i'm scared i miss my mom she continues to rant mental health treatment for suspects needs to be expanded counseling inside detention centers should be available all the time as often as needed please listen to what suspects have to say the media reports so much without actually knowing the facts i think that kind of reporting can kill people can kill suspects what the yeah i don't know what to say even the top comments about her strange letters read she seems like she has very low iq based on how she writes and it looks like she also has some sort of victim complex too gonna have a rough time in that prison that one another one reads she'll probably try the same routine in prison playing the victim crying poor me you know turning trying to turn people against each other and she'll get dealt with accordingly another reads hey if there's one person out there reading this letter thinking wait could she be telling the truth you got to be careful because people like her everything that comes out of her mouth is a lie except when she's breathing some people are defending her writing saying she didn't want to get assaulted she just wanted to hang out put them to sleep and leave that doesn't qualify as premeditated murder maybe she's just dumb and didn't realize 50 pills was gonna kill them they wrote 50 pills yeah 50 pills yeah okay but that is also not applicable because there are other chat gpt questions that she had asked where she writes what happens when you take sleeping pills and drink alcohol at the same time if someone takes a lot of sleeping pills will they die chat gpt in the police report they included the exact response that she received and they were like yeah you can die you cannot do that and the worst part is there is a lot of anger with the police right now between the 11 days of so her very first killing was the 11 days before her second killing after the very first killing the they were able to find the motel cctv footage and they found that it's kim so young linked to the incident they called kim so young and they were going to arrange for a time for her to come in for a police interview and during that time she killed another person yeah i guess they thought it was oh there's no way that she killed him maybe he was doing drugs they were thinking of all these things and they didn't think that it would be that pertinent to go investigate immediately but they didn't think that it would but they could have very easily prevented the second death and they didn't and then on top of that the victim's families are upset because all this rhetoric online is oh well the men were asking for it because they were probably going to essay her and it's like no they weren't they weren't even the ones that wanted to get a motel she specifically there's so many messages between the two victims where she's like you get the motel room you get the motel room oh my favorite restaurant only delivers they don't do eat in they don't do dine in you have to get a motel room get this motel room a lot of people are like oh my god i'm so sorry i'm so sorry i'm so sorry i'm so sorry are confused about the motive i think the motive is um money but it's a small amount of money and food that it's puzzling to people but experts say that she treated victims like a test subject they're not human beings to her they're just objects and she controls them studies them experiments and then just discards at her own will that's it she's gonna be on trial for two counts of murder aggravated assault and violation of the narcotics control act kim seo young has to a very close source the in jail that she's scared of getting life in prison and the fact that people are calling her a psychopath psychopath oh yeah and then she told this insider that she's really upset about the food in prison she says sometimes i eat it sometimes i don't because it's not very good interesting the food obsession yeah and that is where we are with this case one that is in comment reads the fact that she killed people over a few chicken dinners not even millions of is disturbing other people are saying she killed them so she could eat fried chicken by herself i'm so confused what this world is turning into so with that what are your thoughts on this case let me know in the comments and i'll see you in the next one stay safe