The conversation blends heartfelt personal reflections with lively pop culture commentary. The host shares emotional reactions to the World Cup, noting dramatic on-field moments like player tussles, racist chants, and the touching tribute by Nico Williams to his mother, which deeply moved him. The segment then transitions into music, celebrating the emotional resonance of artists like Gracie Abrams and Ariana Grande, while reflecting on personal growth through music and cultural connection. The discussion highlights themes of self-expression, mental health, and the importance of seeking support, citing BetterHelp as a solution to stigma. It also explores fashion and celebrity style, comparing Rihanna and Zendaya’s approaches to self-presentation, and critiques over-the-top thematic dressing. The conversation ends with a nod to the film *The Odyssey*, reflecting on its themes of silence and connection, while teasing future episodes. Throughout, the tone remains warm, authentic, and deeply personal, showcasing a shared love for pop culture, emotional honesty, and meaningful conversations.
- I think you just might have something to say. - You know I always do, you know I do. - She came dressed and ready. - I wear my FCE Barcelona jersey because Spain won the World Cup. Is that the Olivia Rodrigo edition? - Yeah it is. - Of course. - Yes. - This is courtesy of Spotify, so thank you Spotify. - I love the World Cup. I know you know this about me. - And it is my favorite reality TV show. - Like I have been up in the club. - I didn't realize they fight like housewives too. - They flip tables more. - You know who? Argentina. - Oh, they rough. They rough. The way you was talking about Wembee. - The way I was talking about Wembee. - Man handling all the nicks. I was like okay, I'm seeing it here. - No, it was crazy. But my actual, the most shocking moment of the World Cup to me of like the final game was the one Spanish player like talking to Messi and then Messi. Immediately tattling. - Tattledale. - Tattledale. - He said, uh uh uh uh. - And like I was like, no, I was motioning that you hurt his mouth. I do as they were mic'd. I will say that. You know how they mic pass while players, sometimes you get to hear them like talk shit on the court and stuff. - Oh, you never heard that. - I never heard that. - Oh, it's fabulous. And you would love it, especially for like Sid, when like Sid calls his wife. I mean, all love doesn't play that much, but like the side like comments are hilarious. - She could play me if she wanted to. - And she just might. - No, she's like super in love with her girlfriend. I love that for her. Speaking of man handling though, when the game ended, when they started like physically tussling on the court, look, I'm new here. Listen, I just got here. - What about you? You love a bandwagon though. - I do. - I love her. - No, literally, I love that about you. - But people love it about me because I come with pure spirit and open heart. I'm willing to, I'm a student of law, I love to learn. You know, and I'll say like y'all people, like real fans love to teach. You're like, sip beside me. - It all started in 1840, like it's fun for me. I'm happy here. And then immediately, like, stop caring afterwards. But yeah, anyway, that video like really, I guess didn't shock me after the way that they were like, choking each other out and stuff on the field. - That one tackle when the Spain player like slipped over. Oh, that was crazy. - Was that when the red card went up? - No. - Oh, that was different time. - Yeah. Well, that one, I don't, this is what we can talk about. The Argentina's on that team are ugly and spirit too. That's the one that was chanting racist stuff. - Of course. I said, oh my god, I didn't know who he was or I didn't realize that was the same one. So I was like just covering my cup, watching him. And then I was like, and on top of it, you're racist, you can't pick a struggle. - I know, you can't be close. - And lost the world cup. - That was tough. That was tough. - Yeah, I loved it though. - And then Panda, Spain. - What? - Panda, Spain. - Oh my god. So fine ever, seven. Faran, I was like. - That's the one who won the-- - Yeah, yeah. - Hit the goal. - Hit the goal. - Yes, oh my gosh. I was like, oh my god, Spanish simply shallow made. That's so crazy. - Where have you been? - No, he, I clocked him as being hot in the lineup. Like when the camera was panning, I was playing Smash her pass. Smash her pass. When the camera was going past people. - And I know you know that he's off because it's so far away. I was like, I can barely see the ball when I'm walking in a damn game. - I did pull up my phone and vote for him to be Michael Oltra, player of the match. - You don't, but you vote. That's one thing about you. - She Pokemon Go to the vote. - I didn't even vote in any love island election, but I do have my phone and voted for him. - That is actually clinically insane, but you have school spirits, so I get that. - Thank you so much. One thing I actually wanna talk about that did make me cry this morning on the train platform. I saw a video, let me pull it up again, of Nico Williams, mother Maria, who walked nearly 2,000 miles while pregnant from Ghana towards Spain for a better life. And after he took off his goal, he took off his medal and he hit it to her in the stands. And I was like, and she's so black mom. She's so happy. - Oh, he's on the block. - He's the other one of two on the full field. - Yeah. - I was like, I'm telling you. - Black in there. - No, I'm from Argentina side. - Never that. They said, get out of here. - I love. (laughing) - I will say, I actually have to say, he's super beautiful too. I don't remember his name, but the one he almost made a goal. - Or sort of made it into this. - Yeah, thank you. - Cheekbones, so high. Sexiest person on the World Cup field though. That referee. - Oh, who is? I know the fan cams going crazy somewhere. I want them to come across my desk. He is fine. - I'm gonna get that red card to, now I found out a rapist. I said, even better. Is he rapist? - No, I just made that up. - Yeah. - See, that's how rumors are. - Oh no. - Just rapist, that's not a rapist. Oh god. (laughing) You're playing your own game of telephone with yourself. That's crazy. - I'm like, and I also heard from my own brain, based off of no facts. Sorry. Still rates is so fucking bad. - Well, one thing I want to talk about is that I had a little game of challengers on a Saturday. - Wait, Saturday. - Yeah, that was the bronze. - But it was sex people on one side, sex people on the other side. - Who won? - Europe. - No, England. - You're hot. - Totally, England. (laughing) Who on my heart? - Bapé, golden boot winner too. - Uh-uh. - What does that mean, actually? - That he's made the most goals. - Oh. - Oh, that's a pass. - And you see, I mean, he's a all-time world cup. You know, schoolers. - Messy was hanging his head low. - And swing. - Hangin' lower. - Sweet. - It was bad to watch him crying. - Well, 'cause this is probably gonna be the last one, right? - I mean, he's 42, right. He on that LeBron time, he said, "You can't get rid of me." - You know what I heard? That he's never publicly spoken English. - Oh. - Like, but he speaks English. He just doesn't wanna speak it on camera. - That love that, actually. - That's fabulous. - No, I was like, okay, that's like giving stun. Like I really like that. - Yeah. I like it with that money too. I feel like if he has to speak English, he will, but most of the time he's like, you can just figure this out, like that's on you. - That means that I do love in Bapé speaking English. He said that one video for Vanity Fair. You're like, so he's been cooking. He's like, yeah, what's your specialty? For example, nothing. I said, king. - So he actually also posted a photo of his girlfriend, Esther ex-Pasito from Elite Day on Instagram. She was like wearing his kit and then he deleted it 'cause he meant to post it on close friends. - Oh, yeah, because people were crazy. - I know. It's where he said they're all younger than us, except for Messi. You know, I don't like to talk about that kind of stuff. And actually, what we have to talk about is Luminium's little brother. I mean, before the brother, we have to talk about Lumin. - Yeah. - Who did I know who he was a week ago? - Absolutely not. But I'm here now and guess what? Luminium is, it's me, familia, it's me, Ivo. It's me Prima, Primo, no siento. It's Mirena, it's me Corazon, okay? Yeah, I took two weeks of Spanish, yeah, it's paying off. That's my son. - No, that's crazy. It's really wild to be at my big age and to be depending on a 19 year old again. Like, I already went through this when I was a freshman in college, yeah. Like, but you know what, one thing about him? - Delivered. - Yeah, delivered. - He said I can count on him. Like, oh, that's three. - There's one 19 year old man I can trust. - He is so cute with his little braces in his big smile. - There's something very humbling about someone with braces. - Yeah, 'cause it's like, you opted not to do in Vizlin. - Yeah. - Like, he said, you got to show him. - Yeah, yeah, you got, I mean, also, actually, to piggyback off of what you're saying earlier about that other player, his like quote about being like, oh, you think like, I'll have to do this play football. Do you know my parents? Did my parents have me at 15 and 16? Like, you think I was getting bathed by Messi for a UNICEF campaign? Like, I'm good here. I'm doing this kickin' ball, kickin' ball. I don't know if that's not a quote. - I don't know, ball. - Yeah, I love how like, at least those two, I don't know the other ones, the black ones. I'm riding with them. And I guess Mark, aka the other colonizer, he's riding with us for now, but I love the roll cup. And I have always loved the roll cup. And I'm so sad that it's like, we have to wait four more years for another roll cup. But I was actually just gonna say like, this has been a busy summer. And when does the US Open start again? That's your bag too, right? - That is my bag, say it to camera. That is my bag. - And she's trying to get that bag. - Yeah, so I actively looking for a roll cup. For a roll cup. For a US Open box seat. Hunter ones beat my ass, by the way, when I was like, is too bright up in here? And she's like, you are ungrateful. I was like, oh my god. I was like, let me go ahead and get my turn on it. Arthur Ash, are you kidding? There's nothing like it in the whole world. - I just didn't realize it was that bright. And you're like, they have to see the ball. I was like, I gotta put my sunglasses on. I was like, I did not realize it was like this. Love it though. Two tickets, please. (laughing) - Okay, so that's it on sports. - That's it on sports. - And that's what you missed on sports. - Yeah. - So I'll tune back in for Liberty Updates and US Open Updates. - Yeah. - We got you covered. - Yes, we are on the front line. - This is BSBN. - You can call us front office sports. - Yeah. - I actually did watch Moneyball over the weekend. - Good. - Uh-huh. - That's enough space so we get it. - Anyway, okay, we're gonna be talking about some music stuff. - Okay, good. - Payton is gonna tell us about the Gracie Abrams album 'cause you know I didn't listen. (laughing) And then we're gonna be talking about Maddie Secret. - Oh, finally. - And the invite to movies now in cinemas. - And a little bit of the Odyssey, too. - Yeah. - A little spiritual of the Odyssey. Did you see it? - No, I couldn't get a ticket for a year. - That's crazy. I got to take a day before. - I didn't look. - Yeah, I didn't look for a ticket. - Yeah, I said that's an x-weeks problem. - Uh-huh. - I'm set for Maddie Secret. But more on that in about 20 seconds. - 20 seconds. - Yeah. - Okay. - Are you looking for a safe space for your secret celebrity opinion? - Do you need someone who understands your life?
latest internet obsession. We are a pair of decade-long best friends who connect, over-fasting, and discussing all things pop culture. We're your first stop after that TMZ push alert from Higher Ground Audio, I'm Peyton Dix, and I'm Hunter Harris. And this is, let me say this. Let me say this. Let me say this. ♪ I'm a sadist ♪ (upbeat music) ♪ I'm a sadist ♪ (upbeat music) ♪ With some songs about Vicky ♪ ♪ We always find our way back ♪ I only thought we always run that shit back. But you know I'll be improvising. I don't know. She's saying it's a month old times. She's like done it a lot, 'cause then one, I can't remember a bit, like there's another one that I heard. Well, I wasn't at the concert, so I wouldn't know. I didn't go either. DM me and I'll tell you why. But it's a good story. I'm not gonna give it to you, it's a good story. Thank you. Once. But I love Ariana Grande. Me too. I love it when she's black. And when she's, that's not for me to say, actually. Yeah. I'll just take the one. Yeah. Do you remember those years I was Asian? DM me and I'll tell you that story too. It was crazy. You were her, she was. I was. Oh, yes. Oh my god, yes. And it's not problematic. It literally is true I was. No, you really thought that. And you had good reason too as well. And she did as well. (laughing) But here we are now. I mean, the pipes on my sister. Oh. But I don't wanna say it. She does look very skinny. I will just say, which I know you're both thinking, I just want her to be healthy and happy. Yes. And I'm praying to God that she is. Yeah. But just watching the videos, like really where I had to stop because it really was making me sad. I think she is. I mean, really? How can you not be going through it a full time? Well, that's the thing that she is always going through a difficult time. I can't. But not as a way as like your annoying friend that's like, girl, what is it today? Yeah. But like truly, she has lived it. I know. I know. And I'm still sad about Mac Miller by the way. I never got over that. Well, we all are. I honestly, the quickest side, this is a fact. If you were standing Mac Miller and you're still mourning him, you're gay. You're gay now. The most lesbian girls I know were like, Mac Miller was like their Bible. Interesting. I'm referring to three lesbians I know, but that's more than you would think. Hmm. Yeah. Sit with him. Yeah. That takes us to. Who? JZ? Yeah. You always find a way. I know I do too. I love when you connect the dots, girl. Because the one time that JZ went on that Twitter run. Yeah. Yeah. And it was really difficult to parse exactly what he meant. Because I said, Ness, sweetheart, you cannot be typing like this. Like there are triple spaces between letters. Like it didn't make any sense. I said, oh, girl, I know Beyonce has to have her assistant read this because I've got to get out of it. This doesn't make any sense. Yeah. Mac Miller, cool too, though. And it is. And really beautiful. Yeah. I loved him a lot. Did you listen to the Ariana Grande album though real quick? Was that your gospel? I know. I'm still heavy in my position's bag, heavy in my, thank you, next bag. Where it's safe. Thank you, next really might be the album of the century for me. Like it delivers. I remember this really when it drops too. And I was like, she can do anything. She can do it all. Yeah. There's something she can't do. That's what happens when you grow up loving Patty LeBel. She was raised right. Yes. She said, were my cue cards honey? The next card. The next card. I was third row singing Patty LeBel with my father in Tulsa, Oklahoma. I would wish be here at Casino. And front row was a guy in an Ariana T-shirt and I said, period. Oh, I love that song. I love that song. I love that song. Yeah, for sure. Like that's a real ball-nower. So I'll take you back to Jay-Z because you know I got distracted. Yeah. Would you have gone to one of the Jay-Z concerts? Yeah. I don't love it. Love everyone who went. Yeah. But I don't need to, even people that went and started a world cup shift. I really probably had to be supporting my, probably a world cup boy mom. Yeah. Honestly, I feel like I was just sad because I really wanted to see Rihanna live. Hmm. That felt like one, one of one, maybe, but well, not to brag that, well, you heard the vocals though. I'm not there for, and I've never minded by the way. You know that I don't need someone to sing live. You know that about me. I don't either, but I'm just saying, like, she wasn't doing that much. It was just kind of. Yeah. It wasn't that much. It was cool to see. Like, I'm happy that I saw the videos, but I wasn't like, oh, wow. What did I connect to be there? But I'm fine being home. Yeah, I agree. What I am happy about that was that he cut his hair. He cut his hair. He's like, it's kind of built now, too. I was like, hmm. And Dash, he cut his wig off. Correct. Me. Up. No, not gross to me, but it felt so like, you guys, we know you're billionaires, you don't need to do all this. Like. Oh, cutting his hair at the same time. Yeah. Yeah. The idea of cutting his hair just felt kind of like so a little overtly performative in a way that I was like, okay, just be who you are for your pride. You know, like. It didn't bother me at all. However, I did see someone in the comments saying, a public sacrifice. This is another one of the steps, illuminati something. I was like, okay, that cracked me up. I got to get off of that. I got to get off that incline. Well, what are you? Okay. We didn't go to the concerts. But we love going to concerts, so if anyone's wondering wants to take us dates or public records whoever. But why don't you tell me about the Gracie Abrams album, because you know I didn't listen. Okay. So, it's been. It's been passed around. That. Her new album got a "Dotters from Hell" or something like that. I'm trying so hard to ride for her and she makes it so difficult sometimes, but it looked like Pitchfork gave her a 1.4 review and that's fake news, you guys. Don't believe everything you read online, but it did deserve a 3.4 because it's. I'm going to sit with it. I gave it a once over and I think the best songs are the singles that you put out, but I'm a stick beside her. Really? Really like, that's your man. That's your man. That's mine. I'm a stick beside her. Well, yes. I wish you luck with that. Me and the four Gracie Abrams stands and Paul Mescal are going to be riding together. Yeah. Well, I'll say this. I listened to this T. Lacey album. I really liked it. Oh, I really. I really love the singles. This one called this feeling, that feeling, the feeling, that one I love, because it's the one I really like to. But yeah, it's been a long, misty, lazy. So, Sid also released an album, too. I haven't listened to that either. I haven't listened yet. I love the internet, and I felt like I was so cool to, like, when a band is like a bunch of multi-hyphenants. I feel like it's nice when people have them. When everyone is talented. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Like they got me. They all showed up. Yeah. Yeah. When a group project works. I haven't listened to that Kila album yet. It's very good. Okay, good. It is very good. I really, a lot of the feature songs are some of my favorite. I wish out, out of time, so good, idea one and the bridge are like my top three tracks. That could change, but they're my top three tracks from it. There is this, like, video that's circulating of Kalella and Pink Panther. It's like doing choreo. Oh, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes, yes. And you're Kalella and I'm totally pink because you are, I wasn't saying, it's close. It's straight. It's straight. Yeah, yeah. You don't want to be. Yeah. I'm just running her mouth, playing around, not really doing that. You know, we go together. She's, like, rain of it in a cute way that I'm like, oh my god, you go girl. Like, you're so crazy. I want to also kind of hold space for, okay, these are not like new drops, but Julia Wolfe, has she come across her desk? Has not. Were you into, like, pop punk, like, Fifi Dobson or like Avrilovian in general, what Avrilovian songs are you into? I feel like they're playing a lot of, okay, yeah, that's cute. Poppular girl, love it. I was listening to, I'm with you by Avrilovian and my mom's like, why are you acting like you are unhoused? You have a hot meal at home because I'm with you. It's like the one song where she's like, you know, the musical or she's walking through the streets and anyway, if you're with her, you're with me and I'm with you. Favorite track. But Julia Wolfe, I'm so late to her and I love her sound. It feels very, like, early odds and like, not put on, it's just like, it's so fun, she's super hot too. And kind of like an IG baddie way complimentary, sometimes I'm either not comfortable under it. Like, when you have, like, iPad face, then it's derogatory, but she's just like super talented. The vocals are vocling. You know, I like to stand a girl who can't quite sing, but she is really there. I'm like, oh my god. Oh, she did the Drake collab. Okay, yeah, yeah, yeah, I've heard that song. Yeah. She's fine. Talk house. I'm like, I'm so happy to be here. I can't wait to learn more. Well, let me just take you through my top five on repeat on Spotify, because it's pretty shocking. Oh, I'll say on wires, one of the new Carly Rae songs, period of Jopson, so good. You're 3000. Jonas Brothers. Oh, it's not a good song. I'd never said that. Yeah. That's a good song. Yeah. It's a good song. It's a good song. It's a good song. It's a good song. It's a good song. Yeah. It's a good song. It's a good song. Yeah. It's a good song. Yeah. It's a good song. It's a good song. It's a good song. Yeah. It's a good song. It's a good song. "Featuring Sexy Red" song, however, when "Sexy" comes up.
I turn it off. Okay. And then the feeling, the sea place he sang that I like, but I also listened to a lot of gospel music, because I've been going through a difficult time. I was, yes. Yeah. And now I understand why my mom would wake up and listen to gospel music. She's like, no one can fix this, but capital H I M. Yeah. Right. Like, well, why we only play gospel all the way to school? Yeah. Really? Well, for a period. Oh. When she was going through something. (laughs) Wow. That was her birthday, though. Happy birthday, mommy. Oh, damn. No. Oh, we can't. No. Oh, wait. When this drops, guess what it's going to be? Leo sees her. It's always easy to me. It doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. Like, that's today. That's tomorrow and that's forever. Wait, I have to ask, because I don't remember who was your most streamed artist on Spotify last year? Beyonce. Oh. It was yours. I've, I've literally only told members in this, Evan Nicole Brown, government name. And she was, like, my most understanding friend, because, like, don't tell people that. Because it's so random. No. It was Jensen McCray, who I, Jensen McCray, who I love, but she's, it's such a, but she's a person from the movie we watched. That bad movie with Zenzel, that, the Spike Lee and Lisa. Oh, right. Right, right, right. Yes. The highest to lowest. Thank you. I'm a singer. And she came on screen. I was like, that's Jensen McCray. And you're like, out of all the cameos in this movie, you recognize this one girl who played a song in the hallway? Yes, I did. Wow. And if anyone knows who she is, they're going to be like, that's really rogue. It's a really specific. Well, I love you for expanding your horizons. I love you for trying new things. I love that about you. You've got a, you've got a heart of a lover. It just says like you're a black girl, low into private school. And you journal too much. That's pretty much it. And that used to be what loving dream meant. Yeah. And then like how that turned out. And the moment of silence. Okay. Can we be honest for a second? Be honest. You know, I also think that consistency and skin care was just impossible. Like, who has a time or money to do a 12 step routine? No, I know what you mean, because the second I'd miss a day or skip a step, I'd fall off completely. And it's like, does it have to be all or nothing when they all is so expensive? No, I, I would just give up over and over again. You know, then I found a Turiam. I love the Glowgetter bundle. It is so affordable and it is the full package. Okay. Well, walk me through the bin. So you have the Glowgetter multi oil body wash, which goes on like an oil but lathers up like a nice soap. And it also has a really nice scent or you can get it unscended too. And the Glowgetter body oil, it locks everything in. My skin looks healthy and hydrated. I mean, just look at the material. That's what I love to hear. The Turiam makes it so easy to use clinically effective skin forward products. And you don't have to choose between great skin or breaking the bank. Plus they have a consistency club, which rewards you for staying on track. There's points for reordering, there's points for empties. I mean, they reward you just for showing up. Give your skin the affordable luxurious glow up it deserves. Go to naturiam.com/lemme for 10% off your first purchase today. That's naturiam.com/lemme. This episode is sponsored by BetterHelp. So we're going to talk about something that's on our mind. We do our morning pages, we journal, we love affirmations. But actually asking for help, listen, I'm Leo, it is hard sometimes. And BetterHelp's research actually proofs that. They surveyed 2000 Americans for their 2026 state of stigma report. They found that 85% of Americans believe in getting support, but 74% believe that society discourages you from doing so. That gap is wild. So we know the right thing to do, but we still feel judged for it. Exactly. And we're guilty of that too. I mean, we tell each other to go to therapy, but we've got to do it ourselves as well. BetterHelp has over 30,000 licensed therapists who've helped over 6 million people, and they have a 4.9 out of 5 rating from over 1.7 million sessions. People use BetterHelp because it actually works. And they do the matching work for you. You take a quick questionnaire to find a therapist that meets your needs and if it doesn't work out, you can always switch it up. So don't let stigma up in the way of support. Start therapy with BetterHelp today. Sign up and get 10% off at BetterHelp.com/Lemme. That's better, h-e-l-p.com/Lemme for 20% off. Okay, we need to have a serious conversation. I need to confess something. Let me guess. You finally watched the morning show and you know it's a best show on TV. Worse, actually. I was sleeping on a mattress. That was exceptionally mid. I was tossing. I was turning. It was a mess. I'm going to say it was a mess because, yeah, when you have a bad sleep, you have an attitude, said with love. I'm a tourist. I mean, I switched to a Helix mattress and I'm getting the best sleep of my life. Okay, same. And I took their quiz, which was actually quite fun, verbalizing. And I end up getting the Helix midnight, which is firm and like just soft enough. I love it. They customize it for side sleepers or stomach sleepers. And guess what? It ships right to your door. Seriously, if you're dragging through summer, if you're back A, if you're brought to tight, if you're a hips shake from left to right, you're going to need a Helix mattress stat. I'll tell you that. I rate. Okay, listen up because this deal is too good to miss. For our listeners, Helix is hooking you up the 27% off site wide. That's exclusive to you besties. Go to helixleap.com/lemme right now to get 27% off site wide. That's helixleap.com/lemme. Can I just say I've been following her advice from everyone under the sun. And my curls were just not cooperating because that advice wasn't for us. It was one size fits all hair care, which really means one size fits some. Exactly. And the moment I stopped trying to make my hair behave like everyone else's and actually follow what it really needs, everything started to change. That's the whole thing with Basque and Lothar. It was literally born out of a family's refusal to accept a bad diagnosis. A dermatologist told the CEO's sister that her hair might never grow back and after using these products, it's now down to her hips. That's the origin story I went behind my hair care brands. Their stimulating scalp and hair balm is 100% natural, non greasy and no petroleum. It actually penetrates the strand without clocking pores. For frizz, hydrating, detangling, you can use the hydrating hair mist with aloe vera and avocado oil. You can even use it on protective styles, like locks and braids. These are real ingredients made for our hair. Explore viral bestsellers and products for healthier hair of all types at baskinlatherco.com and use code LST for 20% off. That's 20% off at baskinlatherco.com code LST. Pivot. I'm pivoting to, um, I forgot to fill out our little docs, so I'm pivoting to my, my movie notebook. Oh, it's like, this is a hunter drug, by the way, to be like, when I take notes in the movies of like, when I want to remember, I use this little, oh my God, it also has my, um, when I saw a psychic a couple of months ago, it also has my notes from that. Yeah. I'm just trying to get the water, the holy, I will holy water. Yeah. Anyway. Okay. So that's where I know it's going. That's why this is. So what we talking about first. Okay. So first, Maddie secret. Sarah Hagi, our good friend, Sarah Hagi, host of scam influencers, go listen to that podcast. I saw it, I think a tip and was like, so this movie is, is going to change your life. And she, she sometimes not always is, was correct. I, I just really love John early. I remember like seeing, I saw Kate's, like, um, solo show, and that was more of my, like, intro to her, but I saw John early do stand up, like when I first moved to New York at, like, babies all right or something kind of random. Oh, yes. And I was crying laughing because he had this really funny bit about how, you know, that song when Jesus say, yes, nobody can be, or I'm sorry, the Michelle, exactly and that's a joke where he was like, it's Michelle's song and still Beyonce is laughing her and on the chorus, Michelle is working for it and it's like, oh, sister. Well, have you seen the, the BET performance when they're in denim and Beyonce really is going in? Oh, no. Oh, she was lost to track. She was like banging her heads. Like, it was, it's incredible. Yes, it does. Like, yeah, together. Um, yeah. So I've been, I've been a John really lover for a very long time and I'm cash now, okay. I didn't expect a melodrama from him, but like, I thought it was going to be more silly. Yeah. I mean, I think it was silly in some ways and it was very melodramatic in other ways, but yeah. And that balance, I thought, was really, there was such attention that I thought was so, like, heightened and fun. And the stuff that was sad was so sort of like, oh, but we're, this is a movie. Like, we're coming here. Like, he's really putting on a show, but also love John Arley, love to have me three questions that folks move. I mean, oh, my God. Oh, yes. All of his internet stuff is so funny. Yes. Um, and Kirstie Alley, too, not over that, who played them all. And it reminded me of, um, in Maddie Secret. Yes. Yes. I think. Like, Kirstie Alley died again. Oh, no. I mean, in the sex in the city she did, oh shit, she's totally dead. Do not get that, and that is, that's on don't just anything that comes out of her mouth. Do not get this enough, shit. No way. It's so funny. That's so funny. No. No, they call me stupid. Never. They always call me sexy, but they name you always call me stupid too. So, the fuck played them all, my Loretta, that was Kirstie Alley, and it was making me think
- I'm gonna go back for some-- - Holy dead. - Holy dead. - Holy not. - Holy too. - Yeah. - Yeah, yeah. - Like, not just dead, but like cold. - Like, being dead. - Wait, wait, wait, wait. - Wait, who played the mom then? - Wow. - 'Cause I wanna put respect on her name 'cause she could get a performance. - Yes, and we are learning new things every minute of the year. - Oh my god, oh my god. I can't believe Kristen Johnson. - Okay, at least I was close in the name. - Well, where is she from? I love her. I clearly don't know her. - I love her. - I saw like my mother. Oh my god. I love that one. She was in modern family. - Okay, I don't know her at all, I guess. - I don't know her at all. I love her though. I love her now. - I'm sorry. - I'm so crazy. - I love her. - You're so crazy. - Okay, I love it. I don't recognize a single thing here, but you did great girl. You did great. Anyway, I don't know my god, I can't believe. I just say stuff with my chest, and it just comes out. - I love that about you. I do have a real thing though. - Yeah. - That I want to talk about. - Have you seen that video? I think it's from like 2014 of Kola Skola, Kaperlan, and John Early remaking the audition scene from Showgirls. - No. It is canon. You literally have to, you know, we behind, 'cause I just forgot someone died. But I'm so you learned her for the first time indeed. - I don't think you knew that previously. I think you thought she was still with us. - I think we've been rough, oh my god. Anyway, so, this video, it's like, it's, again, like one of like a formative Don Early Kaperlan text, and like we have to talk about their creative friendship and dynamic too in a minute, but the dance scenes in this felt like just a very like visceral callback to this like iconic video. And I have to assume it was, but John Early, a mover first. John Early is in hurt body, and you're hard to impress. And that is true. - Strict. - Yeah, it was about that, five, six, seven, eight. You better. Yeah, I was like, anyway, I just felt like a very specific callback to like gay internet lore that felt really important to me. Low showgirls, perfect film, no notes. But yeah, anyway, I just love that scene. - I want to talk about John Early's playing Maddie. - Yes. - Because for a moment I was like, I couldn't tell, is he in drag? Is this part of the character? - Yeah, yeah. - But I think he plays Maddie with like such open-hearted authenticity. And she really is like my least favorite person, like least favorite type of person in life who's like just nice girl. But he plays with like such tenderness that I really, like you just really empathize with her. And you really like want her to succeed. And you feel how much she's trying, how much she wants to like provide and show up for the people in her life. - Yeah. - And I thought it was just like really wonderful. - Yeah, and I also love the element of just like, when the like competitive female shop thing came up, I immediately thought of one of Hunter's favorite topics, Molly, Baz, Baz versus Allison Roman. - Let me say this, it's not versus. - Oh, but they don't follow each other. - Oh. - And I mean, I think you're either Molly Baz girl or Allison Roman girl and I am Roman empire. She said, these shallots stay on me. - They do. And she also introduced me to anchovies too. And I guess what I love now, an anchovy. Can you believe that? - I can. - I love the anchovy. I had them on pizza the other day. So good. - Oh, I know. I'm explaining my horizon to my palate. - She's different. - But I do love that dynamic between the two of them. - Sam, yes. And I also loved, oh my God, what's his name? That guy that every straight guy loves. - Conor O'Malley. Every straight guy loves him. He's a comedian. - Oh, yeah, I don't know him. - Oh, have you ever watched I think you should leave? - No. - Oh my God. Okay, wait, that's-- - I love. - Yeah, okay. - That's one benefit about dating a man. Is that in the field? - No, I'll show you a thing or two. - I don't know, I don't know. - I'll show you some all comments. - You've never heard of before. Tim Robinson. - Obsessed. I mean, I'm going to Gateway Drug. I'm learning. - Yeah, you're getting throttmost. - I get the text and I pass it on to you. - No, but I thought Conor O'Malley as like the boss. - Oh, yes. - Oh my God, yeah, yeah. - The sexual dynamic between you and me. - No, it was so cookie-crazy. And I also, the Kaperlands sort of latent crush on John Early, on Maddie in this movie, was giving me such John Hughes 16 candles. Like, you drive the girl to the door and like watch her, like get out of the car and like watch her door. Oh, I loved that. I loved that. I loved how this movie like almost mimics these super, you know, sort of stereotypical or like bedrocks of mellow dramas or of like, you know, romantic comedies in a way. But really like finds a way to make them strange, a little bit off-center and a way that is like very unique. - Without taking you out of it, too. I feel like, I was still so in the movie and it felt great to be like this tone. Like, and the tone I wasn't expecting, again, to be as serious. But I could volley really easily between like the deeply unserious and the completely serious. And I think like there's, I mean, like it's spoiler alert, but like when she goes to rehab for eating disorder, there were so many incredible, strong moments and really strong performances from like the little crazy trio. I thought they were so strong together and they were such fun characters to play with and help like, I don't know, I like seeing Maddie in that orbit. I think the Cape Verlant thing is really funny because when we talk about a toxic mass lesbian, that's what I'm talking about, that's what I'm talking about, just by the way. - I heard her reaching over in the car and like unlocking it just like graze her to. - But like didn't like two more times, too, like incredible, incredible work. - Epic work. But they, okay, I feel like that's something that I get so excited about. They're a creative chemistry and I don't know them, but from what I feel like I've consumed from the two of them, John Raleigh and Cape Verlant, it's so infectious. - I love the way they yes and each other so much. And even the way that they keep the performance element going in like real interviews is so, they just have something really special to them and it feels like something that it's really easy, I think to watch duo's blend into each other. And I feel like their voices are so specific and so unique and so complimentary to each other at the same time. - Yeah, very distinct. - Cape Verlant solo show was fantastic in a totally separate way than like, you know, John Early in Search party as there's something like that. Like, it's really nice to see two people collaborate so well and so effectively and also still independently have like, their own like quarks and niches that like make them who they are. Yeah, I really love watching them more together. - Yeah, yeah, I love that. Oh, that's sweet. - Yeah, that's sweet. - Well, speaking of duos, the invite. - Oh, now she opens the book. Okay. - Now we're talking about it. - Invites, directed by Olivia Wilde and starring Olivia Wilde. Joe and Angela's marriage is on Thin Ice. When they invite their enigmatic upstairs neighbors for dinner party, the night spirals into unexpected places written by Rashida Jones and Wilma Cormac, starring Olivia Wilde, Seth Rogan and Pelppy Cruz, that one wig and Edward Wharton. - That wig. - They had to make her seem like she's too bad. She's the original woman to me. - She's not too bad. I mean, that's the whole point is that she's like sexy and no, like sexy have to like knock their whole world off kilter. I mean, that kind of tracks to me. - But I mean, like they had to like put a wig on her just to normalize that a little bit. - Now, let her be beautiful. Let the woman be beautiful. - I don't know why I'm making this. I mean, I hate that damn wig. - I almost thought I was like a part of the performance. Like I thought that at some point she was gonna take it off and that was going to reveal something about her character. - She looks so clearly, I kept waiting for the wig to come off. - However, okay, I wanted to like this movie more than I did. I liked it. I thought it was like a fine A24 movie. I will say part of my difficulty with it is that I kept thinking about like Hannah and her sisters, husbands and wives, like all these like older Woody Allen movies that are just as talky, but also felt funnier. And honestly, I almost said progressive in the way that it moves faster at the very least. Like I felt like we got stuck. Every scene I wanted two minutes shorter, five minutes shorter. Like I felt like we just got stuck and so on. Like we didn't move fast enough. - Really? - I was talking to Jake Cornell, who's on our show last week. And he thought that it was like very propulsive, had a lot of momentum. And I think they're at no point for a movie that takes place within one apart. I never felt like, okay, we're spending too long in this room. He needs to like move along. I've never felt claustrophobic. But I also just kind of felt like it was like a lot of like talk too. It was like, okay, so now we have these two characters together. Now we have to switch up and have these two characters. Now we have to switch up and have those two characters together. And it in that way felt a little bit limited to me. - Okay, you know what I felt? My main takeaway and this, I wrote this death to bicarious, cinematic ring camera footage? Love. Like what the hell? Okay, wait, but I didn't love your mind. - I know. Oh, that's an interesting thought. Okay, that's really how it is, yeah, that's the hardest way. - But I was really thinking that after a certain point, it started to feel like I was watching improv and everyone was just saying, yes, and we weren't actually like going anywhere. It just felt like too much like a bit or stick at a moment. I thought the tone in the beginning was like fun. I thought the score was great in terms of like, I love the heightened anxiety that like it, You know, the element that I added, but I felt like specific.
from Olivia's performance, I like her directing work a lot, by the way, but her performance felt a little bit like over the top to me and I understood the contrast immediately. I felt like of her being uptight and, you know, stuff being like stoner and them being like open and liberal. It just felt like a little bit put on and like, yeah, I just started to feel like I was watching improv comedy after a certain point. Interesting. I did feel like, I like third dynamic and I can totally see how like the love is not in their marriage anymore. But it just had this like sheen of sentimentality, especially at the very end, but I just did not feel like was earned. Yeah. I was like, you had to do all of this to make it back to each other. I don't know. I definitely like the sort of class dynamic though, between Seth and Olivia. It was like, this was a house that he grew up and he didn't want people to know that. Yeah. And he felt, you know, like not successful enough and their the remodel, all that's it. I thought that stuff was really, really well done. Wait, what did what did she do? What was her job? I mean, no, she doesn't work, but it's it's it was a style of stuff she went to art school and then nothing. I was a little confused. I was just like, I don't, when I didn't understand that. But like something that I read this morning was that the kiss from Penelope Cruz was improvised. The like, remember when she like packs Olivia for like a second. It's like quick. I'll take it again. But like anything I was hoping for a little more gay. Sorry. Well, I have to say, I forget how much I love Edward Norton. Because I'm telling you, now that's a comedian. He was funny. He was like, I can read the star of the movie to me. I was like, you're hilarious. Yeah. With your little black ring on. And I feel like he just had really strong line readings and also like, the eye contact he kept toggling between with him and Seth Rogan. Yeah. It was so haunting and horny. And there's a way for someone to sort of weaponize their own like relaxation or like their own lack of anxiety, which I felt like he really was like showing off how calm and comfortable he was. And that everything about his character, I felt like pitch perfect. No, no, it's yeah, couldn't do any more for me. Like loved it entirely. Yeah. I don't want to enter the vocal Olympics like too much, but I do feel like I wonder how much this movie would hit if like, say Olivia's character was like a black woman, like a super up because I was thinking about Penelope Cruz. And like, I mean, it just hurt a lot of her career being again, most beautiful woman I've ever seen with my two eyes. A sex symbol and how that's like often projected on like Latina women. And I, but I just, I don't know, I was thinking about like, oh, like an uptight white heterosexual woman, like getting curious with like, a woman of color. I wondered if it would have like felt more interesting to me if they were both women of color. I don't know. It was just something I was twang with like and thinking about just because of the way like Latina women are portrayed in Hollywood all the time, which is like just more confident sexually. But I mean, I liked her role a lot though. Yeah, obviously. But yeah, I don't know. And what was her name, Pina and Hawk? Was his name? Yeah. And then he told that self-shoring Seth Org was like, nigga, anyway, what's crazy? I love Seth Roganbo. I know you do. I really don't play about him. I know. And I really like, I don't really. I know you don't. I know you don't. You stick side me. I will say like my main takeaway is that I really enjoyed the movie. I had a lot of fun watching it. Yeah. I guess it was a remake. Yeah. A couple of times. Yeah. Yeah. But I don't know. I I would say like one to ten. I'll give her seven. That feels healthy to me. What about you? I would say like a six. But with the caveat that like people talking in a room, women approaching middle age. Yeah. All of those things like this sort of class differences between, you know, neighbors and how people, how they were, you know, so uncomfortable, just like talking about money at all. Yeah. And how the other couple was like so open and free. And, you know, that stuff I thought was like really interesting to watch. I just don't think that this script was like as clever as I wanted it to be maybe. Yeah. It had me in the first half. And then I think I kind of like faltered off. Yeah. Sort of the end. Yeah. Go see it. Go see both. If you haven't seen Maddie's Secret, run, don't walk. You haven't seen the invite. Stroll. See it. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah. Take a nice, easy stroll. It's nice out. Well, speaking of a stroll. Oh. Hmm. I saw the Odyssey. You did. Talk about a Jill Scott along one. Let's take along one. Okay. So why though? What was that? It was not like it. Yeah. I just, okay, this is the thing. This is a spoiler vibe because you know, I haven't seen it yet. Well, and you know, I didn't read that book. Yeah. You know, both things are true for me. Well, I'll say this. I thought Oppenheimer would be boring as heck. Yeah. I didn't want to see it. Yeah. It turned out to be a movie about what? Men gossiping. I ran to see the Odyssey. And it's about what happens when men don't gossip. I was like, this could all be settled if one person's just like, we could get so much further along here. If one person, if one was a snitch or one tattletail, just a little bit. Yeah. I didn't really work for me. Beautiful. Yeah. Very sending to us. Okay. I want to go back and see it in IMAX. I saw it on film. Otherwise, though, a lot to be desired. And half the way has to choose between Matt Damon, who looks like Mel Gibson. Oh, yeah. They don't want to wake it up, but I'm going to wake it up for them. That's what it looks like. Uh-oh. Mel Gibson. Oh, Lord. Stagespace. Okay. She has to join him and Robert Pattinson. I said, girl, well, okay. So no movie then. So we're done. So we're in on five minutes. Like I said, okay, Robert and scene. And that's it. We can all go home. Well, I will see it this week. And we'll go, we'll do like deep dive on it. But I mean, speaking of beautiful, beautiful gowns. Because in day, yeah, taking it for me, that one really loved. Yeah. The New York red carpet look. I love it. It was up with the wings and the white. I mean, I loved the look, but actually, the beat was fabulous. Oh, yeah. The makeup was incredible. It was like, you know, I love my ash extensions and I won't get rid of them yet. However, it's making a making a case. I know a natural eye. Yeah, her and Tuffy put me on and I'm like, maybe it's time. Exactly. Yeah. No, it's not for me though. But I love it for my sisters. I love like the blush was such a moment. And also, that wonders on Lupita. I hate when people try to play in Lupita's face. Like she is not a bad bitch. Oh, no, I mean, hello, Helen of Troy. And that's, and that's the face. And she was just typecast actually. Yeah, just gorgeous beauty. Love it. That look. I mean, the one with the look. One thing about Zendaya's styling that may be controversial. Okay. I don't like the so-kates all the time. The Lupita's. Oh, did you just have a contract with them though? That's what I just assumed. No, a lot loves to put her in the so-kates. And I never feel hurt sometimes. But I just don't really like the white so-kates. I just don't like her in a white heel like that. Yeah, a white heel in general, that was tough. I know. But she did a lot of them this for this press tour. She did a lot of them for the challengers press tour. That's my only thing that I really don't like the so-kates. Do you like like them thematic dressing for movie premieres? I think it's getting a little tired. I have to say. And I think another part of it is that we're not seeing. I saw people talking about on the internet, like Rihanna's style icon versus Zendaya as a style icon. Oh, say more. And I think Rihanna's style icon because she can make anything into a moment. Totally. And really can put things together like unexpected ways and can pull off looks day to day. That like no one else can do. That heart coat that she wore that one time. And every pregnancy outfit too. Exactly. Even like the pregnancy announcement outfit. Like those. She's so good at that. No, no, the first one. The pink puffer jacket. Yeah, that was cute. And under that bridge in Harlem. Maybe where is she? It was my Halloween costume. So I know why I'm talking shit. Yeah, I don't know why she is my mother. I'm sorry. Exactly. But Zendaya, I think, can wear clothes like no one's business. However, does not have the same sort of. I don't I don't know. Like her and law collaborating. I think it's like such an interesting thing. However, it's very different from Rihanna to me. Okay, here's here's what I'm thinking of this. And it may not be true. It's just a feeling. But I do think Rihanna is someone I think about as an artist that like so much of her self expression comes from her self hood. Like the way she is in the world, the way she operates her like background. I feel like she's one of those like full body dressers. And the way that's like it's all in your personality. You don't even dare open a Pinterest. Like she's an auditor of her closet. Where I do feel like Zendaya is so private, which I am not like knocking. That's great. But it makes it so that she honestly, like, lends herself to the sort of theme dressing because she keeps much of herself to herself. And which is interesting, which is interesting. And I think that's why you know, her day to day looks are pretty normal. Totally. I mean, I think like she's like a girl that's probably like in a haley gap gene. And that's totally fine. And like a white tee. And she looks really good in that. And I also think it plays into the celebrity who's in actress and the celebrity who's a musician. And now like hundred musicians. Like it's all so much of your packages, your personality. [BLANK_AUDIO]
And actresses, you do have to be a bit of a blank slate to a certain degree. I mean, I think she just also is just more of a casual girl. Like you're from California, like you're from Oakland, you're probably just like dressing as comfortable as you want the deep fried photos. I never forget. The most bisexual as in day has ever been was at one pump, that one crazy pump, and that one sneaker. Yeah, I know what you are. (laughing) But yeah, I think that's a really interesting conversation and it doesn't knock either of them. It's just something that like, I'm a little bit over the costume dressing, the only time I was, you're costumes, right? I'm a little over the thematic dressing, the only time I was like 10 out of 10, no notes, Blake, lively in a simple favorite press store. I was just wearing all those crazy ass suits. Yeah, I love a simple favor. Motherfucker, really good. You're a brotherfucker. That movie is so good. Then come back next week, we're gonna talk about that. (laughing) Perfect movie, no no. I have a lot to say about the Odyssey next week. But I'm just gonna, I'm gonna say, one thing I wanna leave it there. Okay. Travis Scott and his big ass veneers have no business in Ithaca, and you know that. And you know that. And you know that. And I'm gonna say, opening a movie is Travis Scott. Let me get out of here. Girl, really? What? Yes, I'm telling you, those big teeth are the first thing you see in the damn movie. You need a job, I guess. All I'm gonna say is that Christopher Nolan, Timothy Chalamet has been nothing but sexy and employable to you. And you go and choose, we see what's on the family's pit. (laughing) It's too bad. Okay, next week more Odyssey, more of that, actually, probably. (laughing) ♪ I'm a sadist ♪ ♪ I'm a sadist ♪
Podcast Summary
Key Points:
The host shares passionate, humorous observations about the World Cup, highlighting intense player interactions, shocking on-field moments like physical altercations and racist chants, and emotional reactions to players' actions, especially the tribute to Nico Williams and his mother.
The conversation shifts to music, with deep personal connections to artists like Gracie Abrams, Ariana Grande, and Avrilovian, reflecting on emotional impact, cultural significance, and personal growth through music and pop culture.
The discussion includes heartfelt reflections on mental health, self-expression, and the importance of seeking support, with a strong emphasis on overcoming stigma, while also touching on pop culture trends, fashion, and the impact of celebrity style and representation.
Summary:
The conversation blends heartfelt personal reflections with lively pop culture commentary. The host shares emotional reactions to the World Cup, noting dramatic on-field moments like player tussles, racist chants, and the touching tribute by Nico Williams to his mother, which deeply moved him. The segment then transitions into music, celebrating the emotional resonance of artists like Gracie Abrams and Ariana Grande, while reflecting on personal growth through music and cultural connection.
The discussion highlights themes of self-expression, mental health, and the importance of seeking support, citing BetterHelp as a solution to stigma. It also explores fashion and celebrity style, comparing Rihanna and Zendaya’s approaches to self-presentation, and critiques over-the-top thematic dressing. The conversation ends with a nod to the film *The Odyssey*, reflecting on its themes of silence and connection, while teasing future episodes.
Throughout, the tone remains warm, authentic, and deeply personal, showcasing a shared love for pop culture, emotional honesty, and meaningful conversations.
Chat with AI
Loading...
Pro features
Go deeper with this episode
Unlock creator-grade tools that turn any transcript into show notes and subtitle files.