PHD Course - Andrew Tate - Paradigm Shift Podcast

Welcome to the Course: Setting Expectations and Core Principles Welcome to the tape PhD course. If you've bought this course, which you obviously have, congratulations, you're going to change your life for the better. I know exactly what I'm talking about. I'm fucking certified. I know I don't look like a pimp right now, I look like a tramp, but I just finished training. I owe you motherfuckers. And I suppose so. Whatever. I actually went out of my way and bought a whiteboard. That's some genuine effort. But the only pen I have is green, which is going to be difficult for you to see. So we're not going to use the whiteboard. We're going to put graphics in the video instead, which is more effort. Should charge double for this shit anyway. So me, I'm going to teach you from the ground up how to get it done. I was thinking if I was going to do like modular videos, like little modules on on each thing of how to do it or just do 1 long video. It's actually quite difficult. It's almost like imagine you're the best Baker in the world when someone comes to you and says teach me how to bake. Well, the first thing you're going to do is so OK, we'll bake what? Bake a cake? Bake bread in an oven or on a fire or how long do I have? What are the ingredients? Like the first thing the master Baker's going to do. Master Baker. Master Baker is going to ask you loads of questions because baking is such an all-encompassing art, it's very difficult to just explain everything. And pimping is very much the same. It's very difficult for me to just explain absolutely everything, the whole 360°, but I'm going to try anyway. Now, for that reason, I'm not going to do modules. I'm not going to break it down to little videos. What I'm just going to do is I'm just going to fucking lay down some knowledge for the next long time. And your ass needs to get a pen and a fucking paper and pay attention. If you have to watch this video over and over and over again, fine. If you have to watch this video and understand that there's certain parts of it that you need to tweak to fit your particular style, fine. I'm not saying that this is going to be absolutely rigid, but it is going to be a fails, a fail proof system. That's what it's absolutely going to be. Because there are some rules which are ironclad, can't be broken, and some rules there's exceptions to. So there's going to be a whole bunch of talking here. So if you haven't gone pissed, go piss. Get some fucking popcorn. Buckle up. This is less than one in your pimp and nose degree, right? Let's start with the basics. The basics are as follows. And like I said, when you're watching this video, there's going to be some rules which are telling you which are ironclad and can't be broken. And sometimes there's exceptions to the rules. I've read a lot of a lot of the manosphere bullshit and sometimes they say if you fuck her on the first date she ain't worth shit. That's not true. I've had girls who are fucked on the first date who weren't worth shit, and I've had girls who are fucked on the first date I was with for two or three years and they were fiercely loyal to me and they were fantastic girlfriends. So that is a rule which has exceptions, but there are some rules with no exceptions, Like, oh, my girl has male friends, they're just her friend. No, not allowed. That is a rule that can never, ever, ever. That cannot be broken. If you got your chick on lock and she's in love with you, she ain't interested in talking to no other fucking dude about Game of Thrones or some dumb shit. She's interested in talking to you and you only. So like I said, I'm going to do a lot of talking here. And what I want you to do is pay a lot of attention and especially pause this video. If I'm giving you examples, I'm talking about things, try to apply them to your own life or why you well, you where you've tried things in your own life or your own current situation and see how they fit. I'm, I'm very open for questions, comments. If you have any particular questions or comments you want to come at me with, drop me an e-mail. There's no problem at all. So we're going to start at the very, very beginning, which is the overview of the sexual marketplace that we currently live in. We currently live in a sexual marketplace which is extremely difficult for men, and it is getting harder and harder. It is not getting easier. It's getting harder and harder because women biologically are programmed to share an alpha male. Now, I say this, and this is what's actually interesting to me. A lot of the manosphere stuff, the 21 convention stuff, all this shit is talking about how women are wrong and women need to be fixed. I don't necessarily think that's the case. If you can position yourself in the correct place, you'll have more than enough women. So by the way the sexual marketplace works is if you're in the wrong place, you don't have enough women, but if you're in the right place, you have too many women. I have more women than I can see. I by the time I've fucked all the girls I need to fuck to keep my my normal rotation going, I don't have time to go on a date. Every night is planned. Every night I'm looking at my phone and I've got 4 choices and I'm like where am I going to stay? And that's not just because I've got money because it's been like this before I had money. I've had money for 6-7 years. It was exactly the same before I had money. I've always had too many women because I understand where to position myself. So the first thing I want you guys to do is a lot of this red pill stuff is anti women. The way that women are hyper gamers and they don't like the way that women works and women only want this and it's really negative. You are not going to be successful with girls if you hate girls. You need to get that shit out of your head. And you've got to change your mindset where you don't like how women think. I don't like how women think. Women do this, Women do that. Women think a particular way, and that's fine. If you know the rules to the game, if you can bend the rules or you can put yourself in the right position so that the rules of the game favor you, then you should be very happy. Women think a particular way. So a lot, like I said, a lot of this red pill stuff is trying to change the way women think, trying to say that women think a certain way and this is wrong. And like there's a new convention coming out, 22 convention Make Women great Again about how to make women great. If women were completely fair, like man and every woman just got with one guy, then where's the fun in being AG? Where's the fun in having all these chicks? Well, how come I have so many? I only have so many because a whole bunch of dudes out there were none. That's the way the world works. So I'm going to teach you to be in my position. So you need to get rid of any hate or resentment you have towards women. Get rid of that shit out. That's the first thing you got to do. When you understand women better, you'll understand why they do what they do and you'll understand how to position yourself so it suits you. So the sexual marketplace is very difficult for men. And the reason it's difficult for men is because men have 1 weapon in the battle for sex and that is attention. All you can give a female is attention, right? Let me take my jacket off quickly before I take my Jack off. Let me just remind you this Walsh costs 30 grand. That upsets you. Get your money up. How Instagram and Hyperinflation Skew the Attention Economy So all you have is your attention. So the basics of the sexual marketplace are as follows. You give your attention to a woman to get sex, and the woman gives you her sex to keep getting your attention. Attention into sex and sex into attention. That's how it works. Men give their attention to get sex. Women give sex to get attention. That's how it should work. But the reason the sexual marketplace is so fucked? Because there's too many women out there who get attention without giving sex. So previously, not too long ago, men didn't give a fuck about a girl they weren't banging. They didn't care. But why would you care about a girl you don't fuck? She ain't nothing to you. You don't see her. But now with Instagram, you got girls with millions of followers. Millions of men are giving her validation. Millions of men are liking her comments and comment and and and liking her posts and commenting on her shit and telling her she's beautiful and she fucks zero of them. So that skewed up the whole thing. Now it's all fucked because you got chicks getting unlimited male attention without having to give her their sex out. And that's why the sexual marketplace is getting difficult, because it's the whole fucking the whole fucking game. The fair equation has been completely skewed. Male attention is suffering from hyperinflation whereas male attention isn't worth shit anymore. 50-60 years ago if you were talking to a girl or you took her on a date when you bought her flowers, it meant something. Buy a bitch flowers. Now she doesn't give a fuck. What the fuck does she care? She gets unlimited in boxes in her fucking Instagram. She can get flowers anytime she wants. She doesn't fucking care. None of that means anything. So that's the sexual marketplace. So the number one game as a man is you need to attach some value to your attention. Your attention has to become more valuable because you have two choices. I'm assuming you mother fuckers are smart. I don't know. All of you bought this. I know some of you bought this, some of you might be dumb. But if something hyperinflates, choices are as follows. Imagine a currency. If a currency hyperinflates, you either do something to the restore the value of that currency or you give a lot more currency to get what you want. So my question to you is, if male attention is in hyperinflation, do you want to give loads loads loads loads more attention to try and get laid? Or do you want to attach a value to your attention so that you don't have to give very much at all, but you get what you want? The problem with giving loads loads loads loads more is you might not get laid and then guess where you end up? The fucking friend zone. It's complicated. Holy what? No. Speaker 2 We're we're really good friends. I. Speaker 1 Took her here, I drove her there, I took her to the movies. Every time she called me, I was there. Every time she felt sad, I was there. And this bitch is sitting there going, well, he's there anytime I want him and I don't have to fuck him, so why would I fuck him? And she ends up fucking some guy who doesn't give a shit about her. And you're sitting there going, why would she fuck the guy who clearly doesn't like her 'cause the guy who doesn't like her, his attention has a value because she can't get it very easily. Just like a currency, the only attention, anything only has a value through scarcity. So when you want to attach a value to your attention, you have to limit the attention you give a female. You cannot be running through the earth, throw in attention everywhere for fucking free, and expect a girl to give a shit that she's getting any if she knows you give attention. Walks, she doesn't give a fuck about your attention. That's the reality. This is why girls like bad boys. It's not because bad boys are assholes. Well, partially it's because bad boys are assholes. But it's not actually the fact they're assholes. It's the fact that they'll tell the girl to fuck off or they'll say to a girl, I don't want to talk to you anymore. Or they know that getting attention from this particular man isn't free and easy. This guy will get rid of he's giving me attention and he told that he got rid of that other girl or he ignores that girl, but he talks to me. That is value. So the number one thing you want to do in the current sexual marketplace is attach value to your attention. So how do you do that? Now this is where we're going to get into internal factors. Factors you can do as a person and external factors. There are a lot of factors you can't control. I don't want to fucking. What's the shitty expression? Teach grandmother to suck eggs or some dumb shit. I don't want to state the obvious, but obviously if you have a profile as a high value male, your attention is instinctively more valuable. So we're talking about attaching value to your attention, and we're going to do that by limiting your attention. But you can also attach value to your attention with the obvious things you already know. Go to the gym, get in shape, dress well, have money, all these basic things, but I'm not here to tell you that because that doesn't help you. You bought this course on how to get girls. I can't sit here and go get a Lambo because I ain't a fucking answer. That's stupid. But I'm saying if you do those things, it will absolutely help you because it makes you a higher value person. It means and a girl's more interested in you saying, well, a lot of the time it just sparks their curiosity. My experience with money is that girls don't care about money, but they care about how you've made it. Girls don't care about money, but they're like, where does he get this money from? They're curious about it. So some intrigue there. And with intrigue, your attention once again increases. So those are all the things you already know. If you don't know to go to the gym, get some money, well then you're an idiot. You know all these things. We're not going to talk about them. We're going to talk about the things you can do without increasing your bank balance, so increasing the value of your attention. Optimizing Your Instagram Profile to Create Intrigue and Attract Women So as follows, I don't know your current situation, but I guarantee there's a bunch of girls in your phone who you're talking to or attempting to talk to who you've never fucked and you never stand a chance of fucking. Why are you talking to her? Why are you giving your attention away for free? Why are you devaluing yourself? And that's a mistake. So for this reason, anytime we're getting our attention to a woman, we need to aim for progression. Progression towards the end goal. If you find a woman sexually attractive, I know the fucking modern world tells you that's a bad thing, but it's not a bad thing. There's nothing wrong with finding a woman attractive and there's nothing wrong with wanting to stick with a woman. There's nothing wrong with that. That is your end goal and every move you make, every bit of attention you give has to be progressing towards that goal. You cannot just flounder in a sea of giving out your attention. You end up in the fucking friend zone. So like I said, just like with the bakery example, there's a million things I need to teach you guys. I need to teach you guys approaching bitches on the street and teach you guys how to do things in the club and, and teaching these things without experience is extremely difficult. So to keep this easy, what I'm going to do is I'm going to give you some ironclad steps that you can do in the next two weeks so you can fuck a bitch brand New Girl you never fucked. So you know that I know what I'm talking about because a lot of this stuff I need to show you in person. There's a lot of other modules, etcetera. We're going to keep this very simple. We live in the world of the Internet. So first thing you can do, start getting laid. Today is your number one tool to get laid is Instagram. Instagram is the new dating fucking app. Fuck Tinder. I mean, Tinder's OK. The problem with Tinder is if you're going to do Tinder or not, you'll swipe and get some girls, but every girl on Tinder has fucked someone else. But Tinder's been around for four years now. They fucked dudes from Tinder before. You know, only real ratchet assholes are left on there, really. Maybe if they're newly single or something, you might find something good on Tinder. I've done it. I found good girls on Tinder. But in general, what you want is Instagram. The reason Instagram's so fantastic is because women sit on Instagram all fucking day. The only problem with Instagram is that they get unlimited inboxes from guys saying bullshit. So how do you make your inbox more appealing than anyone else's inbox? So we're talking about some inbox game, if that's the thing. First thing you need to do is sort out your Instagram page. You can see on my Instagram I have my particular angle and that is money. Obviously I play the fighter thing and and also what I try and do with every single post is a degree of intrigue. Intrigue is super important in the sexual marketplace because intrigue, it attaches the value to your attention because you instantly become interesting. So imagine you work in Starbucks. Your job's, you work at Starbucks. If a girl says, what do you do? You can say I work at Starbucks or you can say, well, say well, I was high level at Starbucks. I was high level management and and now they put me in as a mystery worker. I'm making this shit up off the top of my fucking head. I'm telling you what I do if I work at Starbucks and the girl be like, what do you mean? It's like, Oh well, I was high level management. And then what they do is they send me around to different Starbucks stores to just work as a normal person. But what I have to do is report back to the high level management about how the store is being run and if the manager's competent and did it all of a sudden you sound like a fucking spy. You're now James Bond of Starbucks. You were a barista, loser. Now you're James Bond. That's how you got to put a spin on things. Really. I've never heard of that. So of course, if you heard of it, then it wouldn't work. No one knows about it. So I moved from store to store. Now all of a sudden you're an interesting person. Bam, you've got to put a spin on things. Then you're sitting. I think, well, if I say that, maybe she's going to expect me to have money. No, she doesn't. Oh, so you get paid a lot. Oh, yeah, I get paid good money. But, you know, I'm looking after my cousin. She had a car crash. Or my cousin. I'm putting my cousin through college. Make up some bullshit. Look, we live in a world where you cannot play fair anymore. When you walk down the streets nowadays and someone wants to mug you, it can't be all right, let's have a a fair duel one-on-one. If you win, you get there's no more fair. People are going to run up from behind and stab you. You can't play fair anymore and and with violence or in the sexual marketplace, you can't play fair. If you work in Starbucks and you are broke, you now are high level management on a secret Starbucks mission to find the worst Starbucks employees as a spy. And the reason you have no money is because you're putting your sick cousin through college. That is how you have to play the game. All of a sudden you're an interesting person, from a barista to James Bond the philanthropist, that's how you'll be doing things. So whatever your job is now, it may be a little bit interesting, but I guarantee you could put a spin on it. And one of the most important things you can do is never give away all the information because there is nothing as interesting that you can say as what she can think of herself. So girls ask me all the time what I do. I do loads of different things. I don't tell them. I say, Oh yeah, you know, I'm just working. Why working? Doing a lot. So I'm just making money. That's that's that's the answer. They sit there and think, is he an assassin? Is he a spy? Is he, is he this? How come he has his car? Let them go through all the crazy ideas in their head because they'll settle on the one they like the most. No matter what I no matter what I make up or what lie I tell, it's not going to be as interesting as what they can imagine it could be. So you need to have some intrigue there. Don't be afraid to put a spin on your shit. That's the first thing. And your Instagram page used to reflect that. My Instagram page very clearly makes me look like Russian mob millionaire, pure gangster. Is that true? Yeah. But still, it's done in a very particular way so that when girls look at my page, they go, who the fuck is this dude? Like, where's he getting all these? Where's he getting this? Why is he there? I'm tagged in all these weird locations. What's he doing? And also, there's a very fine line here. You've got to be careful, but I have girls on my Instagram page because I'm telling you this, no girl wants to fuck the guy. That doesn't get girls. They all want to fuck the guy that other girls want to fuck because women are purely fucking evil when it comes to taking a guy off other dudes, a guy, a guy off of the chicks, they love that shit. So you don't want to do too much, you don't want to try and be like a budget Dan Bilzerian, but you do want to make it clear that you roll with chicks, especially hot ones. Even if she's your friend or some shit, Put a picture on there. Ain't going to hurt you. Who's she? Someone I know. Once again, intrigue your girlfriend. I didn't say she's my girlfriend. I say someone I know. Oh, OK. Lay it down. Let them know. Like I said, this is a lot of talking. So you have a pen and paper, Make some fucking notes. Find a girl, take a picture, get that shit done. Your Instagram page has to be interesting. You have maybe half a second. Send an inbox to a girl, she's going to look at your page. You have maybe half a second to impress her. For me, it's easy now about cars and shit. But you know what? Girls who even care about cars, bro, girls don't give a fuck. They don't care about lambos and shit. The number of times I've had girls go Lambo's uncomfortable, come get me in the BMW, they don't care. I mean, yeah, it's good for an Instagram page, but in general they don't care. So you need to put together an Instagram which is appealing to females. You're a full grown fucking man. If you're a full grown man, you don't care about likes and you don't care about keeping your Instagram updated. So if you only have your 5 or 6 best pictures and that's all you have there, do that. Don't keep updating every day with new pictures of you and your friend drunk because no one gives a fuck bro. No one cares and it's making you look like a Dick and it's damaging your fucking potential. Construct an Instagram front page because they ain't going to Scroll down the 1st 5 or 6 pictures that make a girl be interested in you one way or another. I don't care if you have to get a professional professional photographer. I don't care if you have to rent a car. I don't care if you have to fuck. I don't care what lie you have to put the chicks. If you can inbox a chick, that's the first thing you're going to look at. That's all you've got. Do not give a shit about keeping people updating with your life because no one fucking cares about your shit life anyway. This is the absolute hard reality. Another thing you don't want to do. If you look on my Instagram, there's a picture of me with four guys single leather jackets before we did some work in London. We're clearly rushing them all, so that's allowed. If you're clearly mafia or you're looking like AG, you're allowed. But in general, groups of pictures of men are a no. I'm telling you some solid no Nos for Instagram because living in the animal Kingdom, it's always little shitty weak animals that are in huge groups prey like fucking Buffalo or whatever. Even though they're strong, the prey, the things that get haunted are always in big groups. The hunters are like one or two hunters are like lone soldiers. You don't see fucking 20 hunters together. If you think you and all your 20 friends are cool with your beers, 20 go picture. No one gives a fuck. And if a girl looks at it, she's not going to know which one is you. And instinctively she's going to think be a loser. You on your own or you and someone else. Two guys, three guys Max bang I'm AG. You don't even have a fucking big groups of things. Next thing, do not put any pictures of you with your mouth open. That soy faced shit is taking over the world. You know when every when guys are uncomfortable in their skins, they take a picture and they go like or some shit. There's that's been scientifically proven in primates monkeys. They they, they open their mouth as a sign of submission. Primates, which are our closest cousin, when the alpha male monkey turns up, he's got pissed off face and the other monkeys, when they see him, they kind of go and show their teeth as saying like it's a submission thing. Like don't hurt me. And nowadays you look at fucking a Democrat or a liberal or someone who doesn't support Trump, all of their pictures, they've got their fucking mouth open. The reason they do that is instinctually it's a, it's a submissive sign. Like please world, don't hurt me. And women detect that shit. It's not closed, it's not attractive in any way. Get rid of that shit. Look about your business. You're a full grown fucking man. You're going to look pissed off. You go look about your business. Look like you know what you're doing, like you know where you're going, like you're doing something worthwhile. Nobody is doing anything worthwhile going like this. It's bullshit. Girls don't want to see you fucking happy, having a great time, laughing. You're not five years old. You're a fucking full grown man looking for a man that's going to take care of her, looking for a fucking serious G. So put that shit together. Build an Instagram page, even if you can only get 5 good photos that's enough. Never update it again because girls don't check when the photo was posted. You think a girl sees a good picture and goes oh that was posted six months ago they don't give a fuck. They look on your fucking page and go oh OK I'll reply to him done. Get a good couple good pictures that's that. Next stage. What do you inbox the woman that makes you different from everyone else? Now everyone watching this, I'm sure you've already inboxed loads of girls on Instagram. I don't know what you particularly say. I'll tell you what I will say and I'll give you screenshot examples. Speaker 2 So. Speaker 1 A lot of men say hey how are you? Hey how are you bitch she doesn't even know who the fuck you are. Why would she give a shit about telling you how she is? She knows you don't care, you don't care and she gets that 30 times a day so she doesn't care. That's a bad idea. You are beautiful isn't bad but it leaves you open for loads of shit Testing leaves you open for. I know or lol or some kind of sarcastic shit that they reply to you that makes you look like a Dick and you got instantly fight to prove your manhood by message. You go you're beautiful and so go. I've had like before lol as in laughing and you're like what's funny and then they can ignore you. Then you look a Dick head you're beautiful lol what's what and then you get blanked. You've got to be careful how you set this shit up because women are looking to shit test you as soon as they can. Women are looking to turn on you and give you some shit to see how you react to them straight away. So in my experience, what I find raises intrigue. It inspires them to respond and also makes it extremely difficult for them to shit test me is I ask where they are. So what I do and you're going to see a screenshot in a second. I live in Bucharest, Romania. That doesn't matter if I'm in London, Bucharest, Moscow, anywhere I am, I just say Bucharest question mark or Moscow question mark or London question mark. Sometimes it's like I said, intrigue. I'll put a completely pointless emoji on the end, some cherries or an orange or a strawberry, because it doesn't mean anything. So the girl sitting there, she's scrolling through how are you? You're sexy. How are you? You're sexy. How are you sexy? Bucharest Strawberry fuck. Yeah, I am in Bucharest. Then they start to think, why does he want to know where I am? Like, does he want to fuck me? Does he, has he seen me? Does he have something of interest for me? And they usually reply, yeah, why? Or yeah, because they're interested. They're like, well, what the fuck? What does he want to know for? So that that's how you get the instant response. In my experience, I've done a lot, like I said about PhD, you bought this course for a fucking reason. I know what to do. And my experience is the best message to send. Of course, not every girl's going to reply, but the ones who do, you've already from the first question raise some kind of intrigue because they want to know why you want to talk to them. They're a bit like that's that's interesting. So we're going to play through an example here of a girl. I'm going to look at my phone where the graphics up in the video, because we're fucking professionals, me and my boy James. So here's a very perfect example chick, a nine hawk Bucharest. Hey, yes, then I my my reply. Why do I never see you? Where are you hiding? That's my reply because once again, it's it's some intrigue. It's an easy women like easy conversation. What women don't want to do for a guy they don't know and have never met is think if a woman has to sit there and go, what do I reply? They ain't got a reply. If a woman looks at her phone and she hasn't got something instantly she wants to say, she ain't going to say anything because she has so many messages a day as a woman that if you don't get inspired to instantly type something back, you're not going to type anything. So if you just say something boring to look at it and leave you on red, you've got to write something that makes them instantly reply. So I said, why do I never see you? Where are you hiding? And the reason I say that in a very particular way is because it's extremely easy for them. 99% of them say I'm not hiding. That's what nearly every one of them says. I'm not hiding all of them. What did this bitch say? Let me check I'm not hiding. Oh no, she actually this bitch said she was hiding. So there we go, make myself look stupid. I'm hiding in work right now, don't have much free time. Also notice I put cherries on there when I said why Where are you hiding? Why did I put cherries? Who the fuck knows. Your guess is as good as mine friend. It just makes my messages different because no one gets messages with cherries. If you mother fucker start putting cherries in your messages and I'll come over and I'll beat the fuck out of you. It's my thing choose a different fruit. Anyway. They don't get messages with cherries so it's like what the fuck cherries when girls say to me why do you put cherries on the messages? I I always say who doesn't like cherries? You know like lol true. So that's how you get out of the cherry thing. So if you choose strawberries and the bitch gets fresher the strawberries, you can say, well, who doesn't like strawberries fucking with the fox? Strawberries are good. Calm yourself down. So that's what that is Well hiding work right now don't have much time. I said what work do you do break hearts? Look how fucking smooth I am. Look how smooth I am. So what I'm doing there, I didn't shut the phone is giving her a compliment because there ain't no ugly bitches out there who are breaking hearts. Only hot girls break hearts. So what I'm basically saying is your heart, but I'm saying in a smooth operator kind of way because I'm a fucking G. So what do you do for work? Break hearts? I say that because it's a compliment. She replies. I do that in my free time :) and I put for fun. And then I would say, good thing I'm strong. I'm not afraid. So once again, I'm establishing some dominance there. I've given her a compliment, but I'm also letting her know I'm the fucking G. Like I said, everyone has to have their own unique style. I'm not saying to say exactly what I say. What I'm trying to explain to you is why I do it. I put the cherries because it makes my messages unique. I ask where they are. That's the one thing I would recommend everyone start with. If you want to fuck a girl and you're in fucking Grand Rapids MI, go on Instagram type in Grand Rapids MI, see some dickhead hoes who have tagged themselves and message them and say Grand Rapids question mark and go why? Just say oh I never see you around where you're hiding. It's a good opener. That's the opener you can take, but the rest of it has to be you. You can't pretend to be anyone other than yourself. Impersonating someone else is not going to work in the long term. However, you got to be yourself. You got to be yourself in the right way. Can't just, you got to put things in the right angle. So I'm explaining why I do what I do and you need to listen to that. Understand why I'm doing what I do and apply it to your own style. Don't copy me word for fucking word. She says a good thing. I'm strong, I'm not afraid. She goes. I'm just kidding. I'm not that bad to break hearts. Speaker 2 Then what did I say? Speaker 1 Then then I asked her how old she was. I always ask how old they are. I don't know why. It's something they always seem to reply to no matter what they say. Whether it's 30 or fucking. Unless they're really young. If they're above 20, between the age of 20 and 30, if they're a teenager, I usually say, oh, you're young, I'm an old man. But if they're like whatever her age was, I don't know. I screenshot this properly. I say that's a good age. You're old enough to have fun, yet young enough to be smart. Sorry. Young enough to have fun, but old enough to be smart. I always say that girls like that line. It makes them sound like, well, yeah, I'm 23. I'm old enough to be smart enough to have fun. You ain't a smart bitch you though. But still I say that they like that shit and I say I'm a very old man. I'm 30 because yes, I would like to stay forever at this age. Now, remember what I said earlier about 20 minutes ago in this video. We are always aiming for progression. This girl is now getting my attention. So far this exchange has it happened this about a minute, minute and a half long because once again, with women, they get bored quick. If I don't reply to her quickly, if I leave her for a couple hours and then try and message her again, she's going to good age. You're old enough to have fun, yet young enough to be smart. Sorry, young enough to have fun, but old enough to be smart. I always say that girls like that line because it makes them sound like, well, yeah, I'm 23. I'm old enough to be smart. You don't have to have fun. You ain't a smart bitch. You go. But still I say that they like that shit and I say I'm a very old man. I'm 30 because yes, I would like to stay forever at this age. Now remember what I said earlier about 20 minutes ago in this video? We are always aiming for progression. This girl is now getting my attention. So far this exchange has happened to this about a minute, minute and a half long. Because once again with women, they get bored quick. If I don't reply to her quickly, if I leave her for a couple hours and try to message her again, she's going to. She's forgot about me. She looked at my Instagram an hour and a half ago, she was a little bit intrigued. Now she's had 6 messages sent from new guys and she's forgotten all about me. So progression, what am I aiming to do from the what's the Instagram conversation? What's the progression? The progression is because we're always giving our attention in in in exchange to progress up the ladder and we use my fucking whiteboard. Even I only have a green marker. You can barely see I'm. Speaker 2 Going to use it we're. Speaker 1 Progressing. We're starting here with all the other shit munchers. Don't you see that? Here's where we want to be at the top, because with the shit munchers, there's lots of people at the top with their TS. There should be only one man you. So you want to get higher up. As you get higher up, there's less and less shit munchers. Hope that makes sense. So on her Instagram, anyone can message her. There's loads and loads and loads of guys. So what we're aiming to do out of the Instagram conversation is get her WhatsApp or get her phone number. Now you're thinking, what's the difference between messaging her on Instagram and messaging on her phone? The big difference is everyone can message her on Instagram. There's only a few people can message her on her phone because not everyone has their fucking phone number, you dumb cunt. So by getting her phone number, we are progressing up and slowly limiting it to the number one dude at the top, which is you. So when you move from Instagram to phone number, you cut it down from the entire world being able to message her down to about 100 people. Perhaps that's a big jump. That is the aim of the Instagram conversation, progression from the phone number we go on to the next stage to the next stage to eventually you end up with titties. That's how it works. So that's what we're trying to do in this conversation here is get her phone number. So where were we? That's a good age-old enough to be smart and young enough to have fun. I said I'm a very old man I'm 30. Women like age, women like you to be older than them. So do not be afraid to see your age. She goes, yes, I'd like to stay forever at this age. Time to make a joke because I'm so funny. I said I can make you immortal. Jesus is my friend. I'll WhatsApp him. Speaker 2 That's why I said. Speaker 1 She put loads of laughing faces. She goes, if he doesn't respond, I'll give you his Instagram because he likes all my posts and I put I bet he does because you're beautiful and he's a pervert tongue face. So that's the second compliment I've given her. So she already thinks I'm funny. She's had a couple compliments. She's scrolled to my Instagram page. By now she's talking to me. This is about two minutes in 2 minutes. That's all we I've spent two minutes of time on this girl and what do I do? She goes after I said she's beautiful. She goes well, thank you. Next thing I say WhatsApp question mark. Straight to the point. Hello, this is who I am. Do you see my Instagram? You're beautiful. Ha ha ha. I'm funny. Give me your number. We ain't fucking around. We ain't playing. No 3 days of messaging. Can I have your number please? Like some fucking pussy. 2 minutes, 2 minutes to talk. You've seen me. You're replying to me. You know the big G is give me your number. If at this point she goes, oh, I prefer to talk on Instagram. You know what you do, I'll tell you what you do and you're going to hear this a lot. This is a very important pimping term and write this down on my board. In fact, I'm writing this piece of paper so you understand how important it is. We're going to use this a lot. FDB Which means fuck that bitch. FDB If she wants to give you bullshit. FDB what you do if she goes, I don't want to talk to you on WhatsApp, I'd rather talk to her on Instagram. You don't reply, you leave her ass on scene. Ignore her. FDB I've shown you who I am, I've spoken to you. I've proved I'm fucking funny. If you're gonna give me your fucking phone number, I'll talk to someone else. FDB message a different girl because by not giving you her phone number, she's shit testing you. She's saying yeah I'll talk to you but you don't deserve my number. And what you're doing by not replying is saying I'll talk to someone else saying fuck you. You can't say that to her because if you say it then it shows you're emotionally upset. And if you get upset and she wins because she's emotionally affected, you men cannot be emotionally affected. Men are iron can't affect us. You just don't reply because you don't care. You don't give me your number. OK, I don't. Speaker 2 Care. Speaker 1 Do not reply and about 70% of the time they'll still message you or say oh so you don't want to talk to me? Go get my number or some shit. They'll come back at you and then you can play the game again. You say, well, anyone can message you on on Instagram. I'm special, so I want to WhatsApp you. So be clear with your intention. She ain't going to give you the number FDB because you're doing it. Using the Numbers Game to Progress from Instagram to Real-Life Dates Remember, when you're talking to girls like this, you're not messaging one girl at a time. You can say Bucharest or Grand Rapids or texts in Houston or whatever to the 100 girls. You can go on Instagram right now and message 100 girls. So you're going to be doing loads of conversations at once. So you're only interested in the ones we're going to play ball. They ain't going to play ball and give you their number. FDB So in this particular case, we all know what happened. What's up? Yep :) What's your number? I'll put some cherries on there 'cause I'm in G Bang blocked out the phone number. So many of your mother fuckers and we think of my best Jamalo bang. There's the number progression. We've moved from here to here. This can happen many, many different ways. I'll give you another example. There's another screenshot example because this is what I do. Listen, I have too many girls, but if I want some chicks, I go on Instagram. I may because because I've got quite a few followers. I've got about 30,000. I'll scroll through girls who've already liked my pictures because it's easier then because then I know they definitely want to. Then Bucharest question mark, I'll I'll message 10 girls. I'll get 5 Whatsapps. I'll fuck 2 girls. That's the the average math. So any Monday morning I can wake up and go you know what I want 2 new pussies this week. Book her ass to copy and paste. Speaker 2 Boom boom, boom boom. Speaker 1 Duh, duh, WhatsApp, WhatsApp, duh, duh. Me, Tristan call it Paul Cicero. We call it Cicero. It'd be interesting, especially when our girlfriends are around. We say I've got to go Cicero. And we do that because I think it's in Goodfellas. I can't remember what message. I can't remember what movie is. One of the gangster movies is a guy called Paul Cicero, and he said he doesn't move very fast because Paulie doesn't have to move from no one because he used to sit there and people used to come and deal with him and then leave. So Dimitris would call it, call it Cicero. Dimitris would go, we're going to Cicero today. We'll go to a coffee shop at 3:00. We'll have a date at 3:30, a date at 4:30 and a date at 5:30. We'll bring the girl in at 3:30. Important. Your 5 or 6 photos are interesting because that's your chance. If my photos were shit, I never would have got that message from her. Never would have come. It would have been game over right then and there. But she saw something she liked, so I said where are you living now? Because she talked about how she'd want to be in book arrest. She was book arrested at the moment. I said good. It's the best city. I'm here also, which is important so we can meet and take over the world. I say that because women. It's authoritarian. It's authoritarian. You. Hi. Yeah. You barely know me and you were going to take over the world. It makes them think, who the fuck's this dude? He thinks he can conquer the world. Who is this guy? What do you mean to conquer the world? Well, it's better for a woman. It doesn't matter what emotion you evoke, as long as you evoke something, Even if they are a bit like curious or a bit like, well, angry can work if you don't push it too far. As long as they don't read it and think it's boring. Like I said, if they read it and they don't feel instantly compelled to reply, they won't reply. This is your only shot. So when you say like we're going to take over the world, they're like, they're either going to be like, what do you mean take over the world or why take over the world or what? Like there's something in they just go. They just want to reply. You've got to be careful of what you say. Ha ha. I was thinking you already took over the world without me. There's something left. Question mark and the reason she said that is because my Instagram page is so fucking G with all these cars and shit. Once again, Instagram page. I said there's a tiny, tiny bit that I need you for. There is one place I cannot go. And she said what place? And I said the girls bathroom :) How old are you? Always ask them how old they are. They like that shit. Childish joke she put with a laughing face. But I didn't like that. It pissed me off a little bit. 22 you. 22 is probably a little bit too young to do the old enough to be smart, but you could probably get away with it. I just said I'm an old man, 30 Now when she said childish joke with a laughing face, that was the beginning of her trying to get a little bit fresh and I could detect it. And that's why I didn't reply with old enough to be smart, young enough to have fun, because I thought I've been I've been pretty funny to this girl. I made some jokes and she I didn't like it. Now to you, you're sitting there going well, she just said childish joke. That's the problem. I have a PHDI can detect instantly how a woman's thinking. So she looked she thought I was interesting and the wrong reason she's probably being this way is because she's insecure. She knows I have shit loads of chicks, she's seen my Instagram, she knows who the G is and she's thinking I got to give this guy a bit of shit because he thinks he can get any girl he wants. I have this problem below. So then she tries to belittle me. Still a lot to learn and live for you. A real life for a man starts after 30. You'll see. She's trying to tell me that I'm young and stupid. Speaker 2 She's trying to say. Speaker 1 I replied I know this. What's that? I'm fucking around with you. Oh tell me about man life after 30. You're a 22 year old chick. What the fuck You know about a man's life after 30, I know this. What's that? Because we are trying to progress. I ain't sitting here handing out attention. You've already shit tested me to a degree twice with your stupid ass answers telling me that I don't know anything about the world and telling them my jokes are childish. Give me your fucking number or FDB because I'm perfectly prepared to never talk to you ever again. I don't know, you don't give a fuck. It's a numbers game, it's a lot, it's a loss, it's a loss. So the basis is a waste. It's a waste of time for you to talk to me. But then she gave me her number. Here's my number, text me when you're 35. So she wanted to give me her number because she wants me, but she's trying to fucking give me shit saying that's a waste of time. I said you think 30's too young. She goes, I think you're into games and I don't like drama and complicate complications. So she's saying so you see you can see now where I detected her bullshit way back at the childish joke and I started to reply less nicely. The reason I did that because if she gave me a little bit of shit and I still replied super nice, old enough to have fun, young enough to be smart. All this bullshit was and cherries and was a nice guy all the time. She would have instinctively thought, well I've given him some shit and he's still being nice about it. He's a pussy. When she gave me a bit of shit and I cut my replies down. I know this WhatsApp and start being a bit of a Dick head back then she thought, OK, I can't push him too tough because she saw listen to me carefully. Watch this part of the video again. This is important dynamics. She tried to give me a bit of shit. I limited my attention. That's the weapon we have. That's what we do. We give attention to get sex. We fuck with us, we take our attention away. She got fresh. I limited my attention now and I still replied but I removed the friendliness. Straight to the point. Teach her a lesson not to get too fresh. And then when I said what's your WhatsApp, even though she gave me shit, she still gave me her number because she knew if she didn't I would. She knew that would be the end of it. But she still wants me. Of course she does, who doesn't? So she's like, OK, well I better give you my number, but I want to give you some sarcastic bullshit at the same time because you'll lose just a waste of time if you talk to me. Here's my number, but text me when you're 35. She gave me the number but she fucking attached a bunch of shit to it. So do you think 30 is too young? She said I think they're into games and all the drama complications. So I said. So you want to judge someone who you've not even gotten to know one. Speaker 2 2nd. Speaker 1 So you want to judge someone who you've not even gotten to know? I can tell we're only 22. That's why I said so, she said. I'm young and stupid, but I said, oh, you're judging something you don't even know. I can tell you're 22. I'm calling her young and stupid. Flip on the hoe. You think I'm young and stupid? You're the one making judgements. I can judge you, bitch. I don't know you, she replied. I don't judge you. I said, Well then you don't know if I'm drama or games. Be nice, I'll WhatsApp you. And she replied, OK :), that's the game. She tried to get fresh to me two or three times. I ended up with the WhatsApp. The bitch has been put in place. She sent me a little :) at the end. She now knows that she can't judge me even though I've got girls who love my Instagram and I'm clearly a player. She ain't allowed to say it anymore. I put that bitch in her fucking place but didn't take her shit when she called me childish and I would have been like you know I am childish lol you're so pretty, here's a heart. Game would have been over. You fuck with me, I'll reduce my attention. Give me a pen. This is the Tower of Power attention. This is a girl behaving. I know you love my graphics. This is a girl being a dickhead. Speaker 2 Dick. Speaker 1 This is the attention meter. If they are a dickhead, you reduce their attention. If they behave well, you increase your attention. If they reply nice things to you, you message them lots of nice things. If they reply bullshit dickhead stuff to you, you cut your attention right down. But remember, stay emotionless. Never insult a woman. Never get angry. Because if you if you get angry or insult them, it shows they've emotionally affected you and then they win. It's just an attention scale. There is no emotion, there's no anger, there's no resentment, there's nothing. Even if a girl says you're fucking ugly and never you my number, you're too ugly, you just reduce your attention. Simple as that. Attention scale. They reply like Dick heads. You give them Dick head answers, they reply nicely, you give them nice answers. Keep the shit in line to keep the bitch in check. That's how it goes. So I can show you 200 examples of this. In fact, I could go on forever because this is basically all I do. But this is just a couple examples how you can right here and now, after this PhD course, start talking to new girls you never spoke to before. Fix your fucking Instagram and start messaging the city you live in and the girl. Now, if you've got a level of game like I've got, you can do other cities. So if I know I'm going to be in Kiev next week, I'll do Kiev in advance. I can do that 'cause I'm a fucking G. For you amateurs, I recommend just wherever you are, stick in your own city. Message, ask them where they are, blah blah. Start with there. On to the next thing. Rules for Texting, Arranging Dates, and Handling Resistance I have to pick up this right. Congratulations, you've got the girl's phone number. You've progressed from every shit muncher in the world, the exclusive club of people who have her phone number. Everything we are doing is for progression. You give attention for progression. Getting her phone number is just one step closer. You are now aiming for the next goal, which is a date with the girl. You are not getting her phone number to give the bitch unlimited attention for no reason. You're not giving her and getting her phone number just to text and text away for fucking weeks on end and get nowhere. You're not doing that shit. You're aiming to take her on a date that's next stage on the Tower of Power date. So texting a chick, you have to be yourself. You can't be me. There's only one me, but there's only one you. So you go be yourself. But the basic rules still apply. You don't take shit. You're a nice guy, but you're not a fucking pushover little piece of shit. Whim. In general generalization. In fact, it's not. Generalization is absolute truth. Everybody loves to talk about themselves. Everybody loves to talk about themselves. So although you need to get some intrigue, remember, you work for Starbucks. You're a fucking Starbucks spy who's putting your fucking cousin through fucking college or some shit. You need to ask her about herself. What do you do? Do you work or study? So worker study is what I use a lot. Do you work or study? Oh, I'm studying economics. Ah, you like money? Who doesn't? Or Oh, I'm studying law. Perfect. You can Get Me Out of jail. Whatever they say, add a little thing on it. Oh yeah, I can't give you out of jail. Speaker 2 Shut up, you can't do shit. You're useless. Speaker 1 Still ask them a lot about themselves. Whatever you do, every single thing has to come from a position of dominance. So for example the I'm putting my cousin through college thing. You can't message your girl, though. Oh, I don't have much money right now, 'cause I'm putting a girl, my cousin through college. That's not dominant. That's bullshit, pussy. If she were to mention something about money, you could say, or let's go here and say, oh, that's too expensive for me. I'm putting my cousin through college. Wait for her to mention something first or say I'd rather put my, I'm putting my own. Put it from a position of dominance. Like, yeah, own it. You're the fucking man. Everything you do, you're the fucking man, dude. Girl, say to me a senior Instagram page, you have all these girls. Yeah, I'm a fucking man. Yeah, I'm the man. Doesn't matter what it is. I'm the man when you work at Starbucks. Yeah, I'm the fucking. I'm the head of Starbucks SPY, Operation MI 6 and James Fucking Bond of Starbucks Fucking. Of course I'm the best. I'm a fucking. I'm like basically an undercover agent. You got to own that shit. There's a fine line between arrogance and owning it. Don't be too arrogant. You got to own that shit. Most people think girls like arrogance. They don't. They just like men who own those things. You can actually own who you are and be confident in who you are without being arrogant. That's how you get laid. Not being Aaron arrogant pisses him off. It's just being confident with who you are and what you do without being arrogant. So keep that shit in mind. You're texting her. Rules for texting her. Do not double text her. If she ignores you once, leave it or maybe a day. Day and a half. Then try again. Hey, how you been? If she ignores you again, game over. Forget about her. In fact, I want to mention something quickly I was going to mention later. I'm going to mention it now. The whole fucking time you're starting with Instagram, texting the whole way through you, there's something you have to keep in mind. There's something called external factors that you cannot control. Sometimes you just can't win. I've had girls who I've, I've tried something on and it completely ignored me and the six months later, I tried the same thing and it worked. Florida State. Why is that? Because the first time it didn't work has nothing to do with me and my system. It's because there's external factors you cannot control. Every girl you're messaging has a life. If that girl is completely head over heels in love with someone else, she's not going to reply to you. If her granddad's just died, change didn't go on a date with you. If her dogs just died, or she's just fucking, or she's failing her homework. Maybe she's suicidal, maybe she's overdrawn. Who the fuck knows. There's a whole bunch of external shit you cannot control. So you have to keep in mind the reason it's a numbers game is because there's too many external factors that can influence the end result. Thank you. I'm talking about fucking girls. Great. Exactly. There's too many external factors that you cannot control that have an influence. So when I say something like don't double text or text or wants she doesn't reply again, don't text her again, she doesn't reply. Don't be one of those guys. Oh you give me your number. Don't get upset. Don't be a fucking little bitch. Don't start messaging her. Why don't you give me your number you're not going to talk. Don't be a little fucking pussy. Don't sit there and be like oh I'm upset. Emotionality is not how men act. You do not care if she replies or not. Do not be a bitch because it could be an external factor. Maybe your game is flawless and on point. Maybe her granddad just died. Bro you don't know and I don't know. Nobody knows. If she just want to text you, it's fine. Start again with someone else. Do not be start messing your Why'd you give me your number if you're not going to reply and being a little fucking loser because then she definitely ain't going to fuck you. Then she'll reply and call you a Dick head and then the game's over. What's the point in that? Don't be a fucking idiot. So don't do that shit. So rules to texting girls, don't double text. I told you to double texting rules. Next, only message women at night. Do not message during the day. During the day they're busy, they're working, and they're certainly not thinking about our relationship. Women are one tracked. Women cannot do. Women can multitask. No, they fucking can't. That's a lie. Men multitask. So if a woman's at work or she's busy or she's gonna, she ain't sitting there thinking I really want a boyfriend. She's thinking I really want a boyfriend. At night, at home, on the couch, in bed. Unless she's with some other dude. She might be. It's very often that she might be with another guy. Well, the guy, I guarantee right now you're texting the girl who you really like and she's still banging someone else. It's normal. It's the world we live in. Now. She's texting me back. Yeah, she's probably fucking some other dude. So that's the world we live in anyway. Text girls at night. They are more susceptible to flirtatious notions at night because they're fucking sitting around thinking about a relationship or they're more at home. They're comfy, they're watching bullshit on TV. They're more susceptible to the kind of conversation you want to be having. Do not message girls during the day. It just doesn't work as well unless you know the girl really well, or you've already met her before or she's your girlfriend or some shit. In general with the new girls, you want to message them at night. I know you're thinking, well if I get her number and then I don't message her all the way till the night. Don't be a little pussy when you first get her number, say hey, it's me, cherries, strawberry, whatever. Oh hey, how are you? So yeah, I'm really good. I'm just about to drive. I'm going to message you in a bit. Say something like that. Then don't explain yourself. Don't say, oh I'm just about to do this and this and this and this. No, I'm about to drive or I've got a bit of work to do or I fucking. I'm going to shoot someone in the head. I'll be right back. Keep it vague and just fucking hit her up at night. That's when you text girls. When you're texting the bitch. You should be texting her for maximum 2 days before you arrange a date. Maximum two days. If you're texting the girl for fucking a week and a half and she still won't meet you, FDB. We do not have time to waste gentlemen. We have PhDs way out here giving away our attention for girls who won't even meet us for a fucking coffee. Because if you're texting her for a week and she won't meet you, she's getting attention and she ain't giving you anything back. She's not allowing you to progress at the tower or power and she's taking all your attention for no reason, which devalues your attention. You're hyperinflating yourself. And the girl is sitting there thinking, well, he'll texting all the time whether I fucking meet him or not. It's my super lovely brother. Hello. Hello. Filming. Yeah. No idea, I'm filling my PhD course. Leave that in there. I like it anyway, so you ain't giving your attention for no reason Because here's why you think of a fucking amazing, mind boggling fact to most of you motherfuckers. If you got a girl's number and you play it right, even if she ain't replying, sooner or later you might fuck her anyway. It's like, Bill, it's like if any of you ever worked in sales. I used to work in sales. You build up leads and people go Nah maybe next year, maybe next year. And then eventually you have all these old leads you've been talking to for for ages and ages and you start just landing sails easily. Girls are the same. But that won't happen if you fuck it up. So if you're giving out all your attention too easily, the girl, you're hyper reflecting your attention and the girl will lose respect to you and she'll never fuck you even if she continues to text you. You think you're getting somewhere? We've been texting for three weeks and she's replying to me every time I say we're texting for three weeks. During those three weeks she's fucked someone else bro. Or she's definitely been on a date with someone else. She hasn't been at home. She ain't that busy. Oh, I'm just busy. No one's that fucking busy that will believe that shit for a second. She's probably met me, sucked them on big balls and replies to you. When I don't text her because she's upset, that's what's happening. Don't fucking fall for the tricks. She's losing respect for you. What you need to do is keep the value on your attention because even if she, if you're texting her, she just want to meet you. Fine, FTB, you can text her again in a few months. Oh, hey, how you been? She'll go, oh, yeah, this is the guy. I remember this guy. Yeah, Yeah. But he wouldn't. He wouldn't just text me for a whole bunch of time for no reason. He wouldn't just text me for no reason because I wouldn't meet him. Then when you say let's go for coffee, she'll remember the last time I said no. He stopped texting me. Oh, OK, let's get a coffee. Because she knows she cannot have your attention for free. Keep your attention valuable. Do not devalue yourself for any female because you will definitely not get them. You stand a better chance getting them, keeping your attention valuable and being patient. Patience gentlemen, is how you get to a lot of these girls and if you're talking to enough girls, you don't care. I'm happy to wait six months to fuck a girl because I've got something to fuck today and tomorrow and the day after and 1st of my fucking life. So I don't care about begging you now or in six months. It doesn't matter. Who cares? Patience. Speaker 2 So. Speaker 1 Text her at night. You're aiming for the day. One or two days, then you say. Now you do not ask girls to go on dates, you tell girls to go on dates. If you've ever asked a woman anything, you'll know that they're pretty shit at deciding. Would you like to maybe go have some time? Some what a pussy ass are you? Would you like to Maybe fucking losers. Speaker 2 Listen. Speaker 1 Who gives a fuck if she wants to or not? And if you say sometime, sometime opens up the fucking window for the friend zone, like you, sometime is a fucking ticket to the friend zone. Yeah, we'll go out sometime. What? Fucking 2019-2020 5 sometime, sometime can be we're all dead. Sometime can be the end of the fucking planet Earth. Or is. No, sometime you tell her when. So you can either say when we having coffee, which is a forceful ask, or you can say we're going for coffee soon. That's what I always say. Talk, talk, talk, talk, talk, talk. Yeah, yeah. Blah, blah, blah. How you been? Like I said, don't text him during the day. I text him one evening. Talk to him a bit. Da, da, da, da. Say good night. Don't over text him either. Don't over text him fucking you. Text him a little bit. 20 minutes. Thirty minutes. That's enough. OK. Yeah. All right. I've got something to do. Never say you're going to bed. Another thing, like I told you with the bakery thing, I've got so much fucking knowledge in my brilliant brain, it's actually difficult for me to put it linearly. So you have to watch this video over and everything. Whatever. Never say you're going to bed. Going to bed is emasculine. Cowards need sleep. I'm texting you, You Beautiful girl, but I'm tired so I'm tired. I'm go, I'm go to bed. You know, I like to say at fucking 1:15 in the morning, I'm going to work, work at this time. Money never sleeps, baby. I'm going to fucking work. Then I go to bed. It's fine. But the boy is, she sits there and goes work. What do you do? I'll tell you in person. That's why I say just another little thing to add towards the day. So don't say you're going to sleep. So never over text a hoe, text her for 30 minutes or so da, da, da. And then you got something to do. I got to go to work. You work night shift. I, I work 2425 hours a day, eight days a week, bitch. I'm getting paid. So you got to say things. Gee, So keep the intrigue there. That's back to the entry. So don't say you're going to sleep. So never over text a hoe, text her for 30 minutes or so da, da, da. And then you got something to do. I've got to go to work. You work night shift. I work 2425 hours a day, eight days a week. Bitch, we get paid. So you got to say things like Gee, so keep the intrigue here. That's back to the intrigue. So two nights I've been texting the girl. I'll say we're going for coffee soon. They'll usually reply night 9th at the time. Yeah sure. Or yeah we are or something. If they reply some dumb shit like are we? I'm trying to shit test you. You know what you say because you're a full grown man with clear intentions. You say yes we are. And she goes, what if I don't want to? You know what you're applied to that nothing. You probably play games. We've been talking for two days. You don't want to meet me for coffee? The attention drops to 0. Fuck you. Let her sit there and wait for that. Reply doesn't come. Most of these hot bitches don't get ignored. Hot girls do not get ignored. It fucks with their brain. No one ignores hot girls because hot girls are two so valuable. They've never been ignored. Let them sit there and go to sleep and go, oh, he'll text me tomorrow. Next day. Fuck, you still ain't texting me. Then you'll start to notice they start to like your Instagram pictures, start to like your pictures, like every picture. Why she liking pictures? To try and get your attention again because your attention's now valuable. Your attention's gone down to 0. It's scarce. It's like goal. It's hard to find. Where's your attention gone? Start liking your Instagram pictures. Then maybe they start, if they make that first move, like liking your Instagram pictures or they ask how you are or something, then you can talk to them again. Of course, you're like oh, hey, yeah, sorry, been working or say hey, sorry, I've been busy. I was out like coffee. I like to say that one because I'm like, will you invite me for coffee? Do you invite another girl for coffee? Then they'll say what with another girl? Say of course not dear sarcastic, which means yes, but I also said no so they can't complain about it. Careful with your language. So fucking flip on the bitch. Sorry, I was out coffee. Talk to her again another couple days, invite her if she doesn't come the second time. That's the basic rules of the game. Strategies for First Dates, Second Dates, and Leading Towards the Close Progression. You are not texting her to be your fucking friend or to make sure her phone fucking works. Some dumb shit. Progression. Date now you're on the dating stage. Dating is hard for me to coach because really in reality, this is something that has to happen in person. If any of you guys out there have any kind of serious income, message me. I want to put together a three day thing where I bring you to me or I come to you, probably bring you to me. We hit the streets, we do the Instagram thing, we get some dates, we organize those dates and you can see how I do it and you can see in real life. Then you're going to learn a next level game. If you're interested in that, e-mail me. But in general, on a date, these are all things you would have heard before. Be confident, not overconfident. Be confident. Let her talk about herself, pretend to give a fuck, keep the intrigue there. Don't overstay. This is the most important thing. The last thing you can do to a woman is bore her. It's better to cut a date short and her at the most interesting point than bore her. Imagine you have a movie and the end of the movie is shit, or the movie OK. Imagine you have a movie. It's an OK movie, but it's five hours long. But after an hour and a half, it's super interesting what's going to happen if you cut the movie off there. The person really really wants to see the end of that movie. If you let the movie play to the end, OK, it was an OK movie. But they know what happens. No, the first date should be short. And for that reason that's why I always organize a coffee date. Because coffee is short. Coffee is 1520 minutes Max. All you're trying to do with the first date is prove you're a real person. You look like your pictures. You're not a fucking psycho. You're not going to stab her and to break the wall of real person from guy online. It's the only real goal of the first date. You're not trying to bang on the first date. You can bang on the first date, but that's a different kind of date. That's like if I have loads of girls and I've I've got to the texting stage and me and Tristan are going to the club one night. I'll text all of them. Hey, I'm in the club tonight. I know we've not met, but comma it's going to be really fun. There's lots of people here. I say there's lots of people so they don't feel like it's creepy and we just and and then you bring them to the table and get them drunk. Bang. You can bang them first date that way. You just have a little saying called. The only thing better than double booking is triple booking. And the reason we have that saying is because one time Tristan texted all those girls and two of them turned up but we have pH DS so he fucked them both. He fucked them one and then a couple weeks there fucked the other one. Anyway, so there's 2 girls who have been texting turned up and I texted all my girls and three turned up and when I was drunk I turned to Tristan said the only thing better than double booking is triple booking and we both laughed and we both fucked because we're jeez. So that's the club game. But if you're just doing a coffee thing, you just want a short date to introduce yourself. Short, snappy, I'm an interesting person. I'm a real person, I'm not a creep. And another thing you need to do is, especially in the modern world, is you need to fucking check for these catfish, bro. There's girls I'm talking to on Instagram who are 10's and I turn up under sevens. Now I know that doesn't bother you because all you do is fuck sevens. I fuck 10s. So if I'm putting energy into a 10 and I turn up and she's a fucking seven, I get pissed off. You guys are probably fucking happy as hell out of a seven. I am, so you also got to check that the girl, the girl's got to fucking prove herself too. These girls live in catfish land. Sometimes you're sitting there texting away with your hard Dick thinking she's something special and she turns up and she's basic. Anyway, most of you guys are getting upset and worried about basic ass hoes. These chicks are basic. So the first date is good because sometimes they might be below your standard amount to get rid of them quickly. I've had dates before where they've turned up and go. I don't want to bang her. Coffee. Oh, yeah. Coffee. Oh, yeah. What do you do? Yeah. Work. Study. OK. Yeah. Yeah. We'll see each other again. OK, Bye. If you organize a big thing, we'll go for dinner and coffee, and then we'll go for dinner and movies and then all this bullshit. How do you get rid of her? Maybe you maybe you want to get rid of her. Maybe she's annoying. Maybe she's a vegan. Who knows? Coffee. It's quick. It's to the point You can get rid of her quick, within 15 minutes. You can stay 45 minutes if you want. Make her interested in you. Build her intrigue. Make her want to see you again. Do not overplay it. Do not sit there and talk for hours about your job and your pets. She doesn't fucking care. She only cares about herself because she's a woman. Ask her questions about herself. Don't give her any real answers on you. Keep your shit vague, but be interesting. Be a little bit funny, a little bit smart. Be confident. 45 minutes instead of that. OK, Yeah, we'll have to meet again soon. Bang Bang, bye. That's the goal of the first date. After the first date, then the texting game goes into the next level. Now, I'm not saying you can message her. I'm going to fuck you in your ass. Obviously you can't do that. But at this point, she's met you. She knows what you look like. She knows you're a real person. If she's replying to you, you can be quite. Why say direct? I don't want you fucking losers being creepy. Don't be creepy. But you're adults. There's now no reason for you to be texting unless you're going to fuck. Why are you texting? She knows who you are, she's met you. If she's replying to you, she likes you, so it has to be going. You're progressive. You've done the date, now you've got basically now you're basically talking about adult things and there's no reason to be texting otherwise. If you if, if you text her and she doesn't want to talk about adult things, then what the fuck you talking to her for? She's met you. She knows what you look like and she doesn't want to talk about adult things and she doesn't want to fuck you. So simple. You're at that point now, so I'll say things like after the first date, I'll say things like, hey, we up to I'm just in bed. Yeah, yeah, I've just finished work. Duh, duh. Some bullshit. But you have to be careful. I'm saying this because most of you mother fuckers aren't as smooth as me. Don't don't be creepy. You got to be to the point with like why you're texting. You should know where I'm coming from with that. So don't say anything creepy and weird, but just be to the point. Just say yeah I'm not working to work all night tonight probably. You don't work all night. Yeah I'm not going to sleep till you're with me. Some bullshit like that but just kind of smooth with it lol. Might be a long time then. I'm Superman, I don't need sleep, I don't give a fuck, I'll wait. That can just be cool with it. But just make it clear. Start talking about adult themes. If she's still replying, everything's good. From there couple days, organize second date and from there it's game over. You should know what to do from there. Then you organize a proper day. At night, dinner's a bit formal. Movies is always a no because you can't talk. Movies are an easy one because you don't have to talk to the girl, but then also you don't get to really get anywhere because you don't talk to the girl. So movies are bad dinners. I don't really like dinners. I like drinks and I actually like to keep it super informal, so I'm lucky I have my brother. But formal situations make things awkward. So if I'm going to bring a girl out for drinks, I'll say, Oh yeah, we need some drinks. My brother and some people are there, just come along. If there's other people around, they feel it's less like you and me and sitting down and we're drinking, we're talking. You don't need that intimate shit. You talk one-on-one on WhatsApp all the time. You can just bring her into a fun environment. Now, if all your friends are Dick heads, you can't do that because your friends need to know the game as well. Your friends have to make sure they never hit on your girl, they never interrupt or try and talk to your girl when it's your job to be talking to her. Your friends need to participate towards getting you laid. If you have good quality friends, it's easier. So I'll give you a very quick example. Like me and Tristan are fucking smooth. So if I have a girl, I want a bang. So I have a 10, I've met her, she's a 10, bang 10. I said come for some drinks. I said Tristan, I want to close this one tonight. All right, cool. Tristan will bring one of his girls. So he's already fucking and his girl knows the game. So not only do I have Tristan as a wing man, I've got a female wing man. So like, for example, we go out, the girl turns up the girl saying, Oh yeah, Andre ages. Yeah, these brothers are so fun. She they took me here. They took me there. My girls listen to this. My girls listen to this girl going what? She gets to fuck with these guys and she went there and well, her life's great. I want to be like, I want these things. And then we're drinking, drinking, drinking. And if I say, oh, come back to my place, it's creepy. If the girl goes, let's go back to your house, your house is fun. Then the other girl will be like, OK, the girls want to go back to. It's so easy if you have a fucking chick. So this is what I'm saying. If your friends are Dick heads, it's hard. I've got a fucking support team which are ironclad. I know if I bring Tristan and one of his female soldiers, I do not fail. Getting back to the house is going to be guaranteed by the girl. The girl's going to say how great her life is. It's just so fucking. I don't even do anything. I don't even do. I sit there on Twitter calling you all idiots. I don't do shit and I still be laid. So if you have a good group of friends who aren't fucking pricks and what you have to understand is that most of you watching this are pricks yourselves, losers yourselves, which means your friends are losers. But if you're going to bring a girl around, you've got to be clear with your friends. They can't be like the like banter. For example, if my boy were to bring his friend a girl I would never like jokily insult him or something. Speaker 2 Oh, he fucking he. Speaker 1 You know, like all the dumb. You can't do that if if a guy's bringing a girl and he's trying to get laid, your friends shouldn't be insulting you. Even as a joke. Your friends shouldn't be trying to talk to your girl. Your friends should just be there to make some noise to break down the monotony of a formal situation. Say hi, be polite, offer a drink or whatever and that's it. So if your friends aren't Dick heads, I'd actually recommend on the last day to make it a group kind of thing. If your friends aren't Dick heads. If your friends are Dick heads, they'll be detrimental. So you have to sit here and look and think, do I have good friends or idiot friends? Because if you were to come out with your girl and me and my girl, you'd be getting laid. So if your friends are good, do that. If not, it's just you and her. It's fine. But if you've got friends around, make it informal. Yeah, we'll have some drinks. Da, da, come out, have some drinks, have a laugh. Da, da, da, da. Never kiss at the end of the day. On the second day, don't kiss her at the end because kissing at the end then you want to fuck her. But it's the end of the day. We just kiss. It's a bit weird. Kiss her early on. Don't be a pussy the day. Let's say she turns up 8:00 for drinks. By 8:45 she'll at least kissed her. That's what I do. Turns up at 8, drink gin and tonic, whatever blah talking shit, Tristan's there, blah talking shit, everyone's laughing, having fun, dah dah dah dah dah. Give her a kiss 845 then. Then she's got her hand on her leg by fucking 9:30. Then my time is fucking 12/30. She wants Dick because she's been comfortable with you, she's kissed you, She's hung out with you a few hours since she's been touching you a bit now she's comfortable enough to fuck if you try and kiss her at 12:30. We're about to go home now because want to come to my place. It's 2 romantic model movie. Speaker 2 PSI love you bullshit. Speaker 1 It ain't real. It's too formal. Don't do that. Kiss her in 45 minutes. Have a laugh, keep drinking, have a joke. Keep her hand, hold her hand or put her hand on your leg. Talk some shit, kiss her again, blah blah, blah. By the time it's time to go, she'll want to fuck. And you don't ask her, you just take her. Just take her. Don't ask her if she wants to come to yours. Ask her if she wants to go home. So when the taxi turns up, I go. We're going to mine, and unless she goes. No, I want to go home and she goes. OK. You want to go home? No problem. Cool. You want to go home? All right, cool. We'll get you a taxi. Never take her in the same taxi. She doesn't get you. Don't ride me if you're not coming to my house. I ain't getting my taxi out of my way to drop you off today. And I said OK, cool. I'll get you a car. Uber. Bang. Yeah. Kiss. All right. Yeah. See you next time. Bang. Nothing wrong with that. Maybe I'll fuck her the day after. Some girls are like that. It's no problem if you get in my car coming to my house, we're going to mine. Really. Yeah. We're going to get in. OK, women like to be LED. They don't like to be asked. Speaker 2 You ask the woman. Speaker 1 What she wants to eat, she doesn't know. They want to be told what to do. Come with me. Speaker 2 If she says no. Speaker 1 That's perfectly fine. Remember, you're not a fucking psycho. I don't want any of you mother fuckers getting rape charges and the police finding this video and coming after me for it because I ain't done nothing fucking wrong with anybody. I'm just saying you're clear. I'm going. We're all going to mine. We're I'm going to mine. You're coming with me. Oh, no, I really want to go home. No problem. You do not ask twice. Oh, I really think you should come to mine. That's submissive and pathetic. No, you're not pathetic. You're a fucking full grown man. I want to go to mine. No problem. And in fact, a lot of the time they don't like that because sometimes women are trying to play hard to get. Well, maybe I should go home. OK, You want to go home? No problem. We'll get you a car. We'll get you a car. We'll get you a taxi. Well, I was just thinking I need I need my things. Then they'll try and back out of it with the. I was just thinking. So. All right, well, we're going to mine. You don't need your things. You want to come? OK, Done. But as soon as they say they want to go, go. Yeah, give them what they want. It's the take away. Trump said no one to walk away from the table. The art of the deal. Walk away from the deal. Deal is go to my house. Oh, you want to play games? All right. You're not allowed to come. OK, We'll take you home. We'll take you home. We're going to go party. We're going to take you home. They don't want to miss out. Oh, OK. I was just thinking. I don't have a phone charger. I have a phone charger. What phone? You got Samsung. I've got Samsung charger. No, you don't. No one has a Samsung charger. Who cares? Yeah, I'll go on the House somewhere. Come on back. Stop if you know, I really go home. Cool circular car. Bang. All right, Maybe see you again. Bang. Kiss my. Do another day. Maybe it takes 3 or 4 days. You mother fuckers aren't as smooth as me. By day 2, I'm fucking. I'm AG. You guys aren't as smooth as me. So you need some more time. She wants to go home. It's no problem. You have not FDB. It's all good. See her again. Keep texting her. Keep working it. You'll get there in the end when you're as smooth as me. Day 2, game over. I don't have girls say no. They come to my house. I've had girls come to my house. Speaker 2 And not fuck that. Speaker 1 Happens, but they always come to the house, so that's the basic progression. So I told you in this video, I'm not going to tell you anything about getting a Lambo and getting in shape because you know all that shit. I'm telling you about things you can do right here, right now to improve your game so Instagram progress. Debunking BPD and Identifying Quality 'Blueprints' in Women Do. Speaker 1 A graphic Instagram progress, WhatsApp progress, coffee date more texting serious date aiming to close. That is the system now. Tower of Power here, white on my King Cobra T-shirt. Fuck it right now. We're going to talk about next TALK. Speaker 2 About how you're going to get dates we're going to talk about. Speaker 1 Cold heart truth of these females. Speaker 2 Truth is this. Speaker 1 There's no. Speaker 2 Such thing as a perfect woman if you want a woman who's perfect for. Speaker 1 You, you must build her to be perfect for you. A woman who is understanding and kind and who respects you does not exist unless you force her to be that way. And when I say force, I mean that in a horrible way. I mean in a simple there's no other option. Like Walter always takes the easiest path through the rocks. The woman must learn that her man is fucking an Iron Mountain and the easiest path is to obey. Any other kind of resistance simply doesn't work. That's how you have to be. But some women are more moldable than others. You have, I call it blueprints. You have good blueprints and bad blueprints. So you have I I with my skill level. Speaker 2 Can make. Speaker 1 Any female do as I say, and I say that with absolute conviction. I've never met a woman who will not. Speaker 2 Do the basics of why I say. Speaker 1 Bring me coffee, turn up where I tell her to listen to me. Speaker 2 Not talk to other men. Speaker 1 Basic things, but some are better blueprints than others. Speaker 2 So when you read these. Speaker 1 Books, these red pill books and it's bullshit and talk about BPD and all that bollocks. Firstly, let's do a very side subject on BPD. Like I said, I'm talking about bakery master class. My brain is full of information. BPD ain't fucking real, and the reason it ain't? Speaker 2 Real is because all. Speaker 1 These red pill guys talk about borderline personality disorder. If the girl doesn't listen to you or the girl acts this way, she's got borderline personality disorder. Every single hot chick in the world has BPD. How can you be 16 years old with 100,000 followers on Instagram and full grown men giving you unlimited attention for no reason all the way up until you're 25 for nearly ten years? Men going out of their way, breaking down, crying in voice notes, being complete little pussies doing anything you tell them to do. How can you live that life and not have an ego or a borderline personality disorder? Every single hot chick. And trust me, I've fucked more than you to a degree. Has something fucked up in their head because their attention they're getting is off the fucking scale. Men have made women have BPD. Luckily there's men like me out here who puts them back in fucking check. So BPD ain't real. So get that shot of your head. If a girl ain't listening to you, it's either. Speaker 2 Because you're game shit. Speaker 1 Or because of external factors. Maybe her granddad just died. She doesn't want to listen to you right now. Doesn't mean she has BPD. Get that whole excuse out of your head. Ain't a real thing. So you have good blueprints and bad blueprints. Some women are more susceptible to being molded. Some women have better values than others. I do agree with what the red pill books say, that if a woman's fucked lots of men, she's not as good a mold as a woman who's fucked less men. That's true. And the reason for that is because if a woman's fucked lots and lots and lots of guys, they don't have a stigma attached to getting a new Dick. So when times get hard or you tell them to do something they don't want to do, they think I'll just fuck someone else. Then they're more. They're less loyal, they're more likely to run off and leave if they've slept with lots of men than if they only slept with a few men. If you're the second guy or first guy ever, they don't want to give up on you that easy. So if you say stop texting this dude, they're more likely to do that. And then a girl slept with 20 guys should go out and text this dude to find a new guy to fuck. So that is true. So you have good blueprints and black. Speaker 2 Blueprints. Speaker 1 Now I can. Speaker 2 Tell you, just like I did with the. Speaker 1 How many men they slept with? I can tell you 100 different reasons. What makes a good blueprint? What makes a bad blueprint? I could waste loads of time or I could just give you the fucking instant, easy to tell iron breakable test. This test Tickable test. This test tells you concrete if a woman's good quality or bad quality. Here's how. Test happens after you sleep with her. Now if you're sitting here thinking why do I have to sleep with a woman 1st to see if she's good or not? Speaker 2 Because that's how. Speaker 1 It really goes because that's when you really know a girl until you sleep with a girl, it's all just front the games. It's all just bullshit. It's just who they want to be. It's them pretending because after you sleep with them, you see the real men. So you're going to have to fuck a whole bunch of girls to get a good one. If you're Let's say it's your job to find the. Speaker 2 Best Apple in the world? Speaker 1 And you have three apples and you say this. Speaker 2 Apple is the best. Speaker 1 Apple in the world and another guy has 1000 apples and he. Speaker 2 Says this Apple is the best. Speaker 1 Apple in the world? Who knows more about apples? Who's more likely to have chosen an exceptional apple? The man who has more apples? The 1000 Apple. Speaker 2 Guy knows more about. Speaker 1 Apples than the three apple guy if you want to understand women. I know what I know because I fucked so many women. I've had smart ones, stupid ones, hot ones, hot ones. No, at least you know I've had them all. So I know. I knew through experience. So if you're sitting there going, oh, I have to fuck a whole bunch of girls to find a good one and you're worried about that, then you're a pussy. Yeah, you're going to fuck. In the modern world, for every 5 girls you fuck, one will be a good quality woman. So what? Go fuck 5 girls and get one. What's the problem? You're afraid to use your Dick, you little pussy. Get it done. So that's the reality. Sometimes you get lucky, you can fuck one girl and you can tell she's a good girl right away. It happens. But sometimes I fuck 3-4 girls in a row and they've all just been trash O's. It's how it goes. It's how it goes. Sometimes you fuck 3 girls in a row and they're all fucking nice. And I know that from this ironclad test. Ironclad test tells me so I'm telling you. Speaker 2 You cannot tell. Speaker 1 I don't care when you're texting some girl and you're sitting there with your little fucking penis twitching like a little bitch sitting there late at night what'sapping wake this girl. Oh, she's so beautiful. You look at her Instagram, you're texting her. She seems so nice and so sweet. She ain't shit. She ain't shit. And you don't know if she's quality or not until you slept with her. So don't get emotionally attached to some girl you haven't fucked because you don't know anything about her until you sleep with her. And here is how you tell after you sleep with a girl, your attention goes to nearly zero. Attention goes right down. Here's why we give attention to get the sex. Like my first drawing, we've had the sex, now we've had it. Speaker 2 We've had what we wanted. Speaker 1 So the attention has to drop instantly. Speaker 2 To set a. Speaker 1 Standard for the relationship and the relationship standard is as follows. You better be nice to me. You better fuck me when I want you to. You better do as you're told to get my attention. Otherwise it's staying down here. You have now won the game until you sleep with a woman. She's in charge. She's the gate, she's the lock you're trying to break. Once you've slept with her, you are now in charge, and what most men do after they fuck a girl is instantly give away their position of power. You are finally, for the first time since you've messaged this girl on Instagram, in the position of power. You're above her now because you fucked her. And if you fuck her and never talked to her again, then she's a stupid slut and she doesn't want that. She wants you to want her, so she wants to keep you for the first up until now, you wanted to fuck her, You wanted to get her. This is the first time she wants to get you and most men fuck that up straight away by either saying something, oh I really like you all. Could I see you again and just fucking being submissive to the woman's whims straight away and giving them attention. You can't do that. You have to drop your attention down to absolute zero. And here's why. One, it sets the standard for the relationship. I fucked you, now I'm in charge. Oh, you want to see me again? Speaker 2 Do. Speaker 1 You all right? Cool. Yeah. I'm waiting for a new bank card. Let's go for coffee. But you you know, my, my, my money's low. Just you have to buy and I'll pay you back. I ain't buying you coffee, FTV. I'll fuck you. Speaker 2 Now, so I don't care, you don't buy me coffee, I fuck you, I'll. Speaker 1 Go buy some other other coffee. I don't care. All right, Cool. Well, I'm busy. You. You have Bangor. You've won. You've won. You ain't got nothing to worry about. Who cares if we never talk to her again? Who cares? Keep that in mind, OK? Yeah, no problem. I don't mind paying this time. Turn up. Get yourself some fucking carrot cake and shit. Carrot cake When a fucking I'm a millionaire. I still do this. You want a fucking yogurt from Starbuck? 2 cappuccinos sparkling warm and a bitch. Spend like 20 fucking euro on me. Buy it for me. Setting a standard. Your man told you to buy a coffee. Buy me a fucking coffee because you fuck the girl fine, but if you. Speaker 2 Want a relationship? Speaker 1 A happy relationship, you need to be in control of that relationship. If you fuck it up at the beginning, it is extremely difficult to recover. But if you set the standard right in the beginning, it's much easier. So the standard from the second you fuck her. Now I'm not saying you become rude. I'm not saying you become an asshole. Don't do that. I'm just saying your attention drops. You're still nice, but your attention isn't there. So we're used to text her every night. You you barely text her or you text her one or two times and then you don't make it clear. She has to clearly see, here's the fine line. She has to clearly see that you that your attention's dropped, but not enough for her to call you out on it, not enough where she can go, oh, you fucked me. You don't want to talk anymore. She can't say that. Oh, what do you mean? I'm texting you? I'm just, I'm just busy. So it's got to be that fine line where she feels uncomfortable because she knows something's up, but she can't say anything about it. That's how you got to do it. Make her buy you some fucking. Speaker 2 Coffee. You fucked her. Speaker 1 Now you are in charge, and this is the test. A quality woman, after you sleep with her when your attention drops, will do anything it takes to get your attention back up, to retain you as a man. So you've slept with her. You've had sex with this girl. The next day you barely text her. Then you're too busy to meet her. Then you say. Then when you say, yeah, OK, yeah, you have to pay. Probably my bank card. Whatever, whatever excuse or whatever, A quality woman. Speaker 2 Will go oh OK, no problem. Speaker 1 No problem, because they know that fucking a guy's a big deal and they don't want to fuck you for no reason and they don't want to be a hoe. They don't want to be a number number, another random number on your fucking book. They want to get a relationship out of it. They want to build it into something. So a quality woman will bend her normal rules. A girl who would perhaps never buy you coffee is now prepared to do something for you, will bend her normal rules to get your attention back post sex. That's what a quality woman will do. A shit quality woman. A crack woman when you say these things will be like, oh fuck this guy and she'll go fuck someone else. A girl who will rather go have a new Dick then buy you a coffee is not the kind of girl you need a relationship with guys because that's only going to end bad. Sooner or later, one way or another, there's going to be an argument or something. We're going to ask her to do something she doesn't want to do and she's going to end up fucking someone else. This is the test that proves good woman. Speaker 2 Against bad woman. Speaker 1 After you sleep with them, literally the next day, you conduct this test. You drop your attention. If they work hard, if they double text you, if they text you first, if they ask to see you, all of these are positive things. Hey, maybe we can go out to the that's what you want to see. That's a woman who wants to work hard to keep her man interested. You're not going to be able to conduct this test if after you fuck her because you're too busy flooding her with attention. So there's no test involved. If you fuck her and then you drop your attention and she doesn't really care or she doesn't really try to see you again then she's trash. Do not fall into the trap of going OK I'll just give her attention again fuck her more because I want to fuck her. That is going to end bad. Don't waste your time. Tell you man I was with cab club Christian fucking McQueen 3 months ago. Walked in the club, was fucking in the zone walk to the club, 2 girls at the bar said yeah, table bang or got table Christian big money, big money Christian start paying start paying for the table. Whatever before I even sat at the table, went up to the bar, went to this girl. Hey, you're beautiful. That's why I say in person I do a different person. Excuse me yeah and in person I make them pay attention. What most people do they fuck up in person is that they they talk to girls when they're not paying attention. You go to the girl and go hey, you're beautiful. They're like, what? I go, excuse me, excuse me, I'm making Yeah. Speaker 2 I make them pay attention to. Speaker 1 What I'm saying because I'm a fucking full grown man. Talk with you, pay attention. So you're absolutely beautiful. You're staying with me tonight. Drink Bah Bah Bah Bah Bah Bah. Anyway. Speaker 2 Fucked her same night even Christian. Speaker 1 Who's a gene knows that was smooth, of course. How am I going to take so bang her same night? She's a fucking 10A10. All you motherfuckers if you fucked this girl would fall head over heels in love with her because of how she looks. I fucked her next day. I didn't text her, she didn't text me next day didn't text her, she didn't text me. Third day she likes more of my Instagram pictures. Some basic pathetic attempt and I thought there you just. Speaker 2 Bang some dudes. Speaker 1 You barely know and you and you're not even going to humble yourself to text me first. You think you're so special, you're not going to reduce yourself to text me first. If you're not going to humble yourself to text me first after you got fucked in one night, then you're never going to humble yourself for me. You're always going to have this ego. You're always going to be. So I don't want you. I never spoke to that girl again. It's not true. I saw her three weeks later at different events. She ran up to me. Oh my God. Speaker 2 That was smooth of course. How am I going to take so bang her saying no? Speaker 1 She's a fucking 10A10. All you motherfuckers if you fuck this girl would fall head over heels in love with her because of how she looks. I fucked her next day I didn't text her, she didn't text me Next day didn't text her, she didn't text me. Third day she likes one of my Instagram pages. Some basic pathetic attempt and I thought there you just. Speaker 2 Bang some dudes. Speaker 1 You barely know and you're not even going to humble yourself to text me first. You think you're so special, you're not going to reduce yourself to text me first. If you're not going to humble yourself to text me first after you got fucked in one night, then you're never going to humble yourself for me. You're always going to have this ego. You're always going to be. So I don't want you. I never spoke to that girl again. No, it's not true. I saw her three weeks later at different events. She ran up to me. Oh my God. Oh, how you been? I spoke for a little bit, but I could just see and she, she talked to me a little bit. Then she walked off and tried to talk to another guy in front of me to make me jealous. Where is the proof there? That's the proof in my lesson. She's a trash hoe. What kind of girl does that Talks to another guy from a guy trying to tell us whores That's whore shit. She was a fucking hoe and I spotted it instantly because she didn't humble herself when she was supposed to. And I'm glad I didn't waste any more time on her because she's never going to be doing like my other girls do. Living in my house, letting me fuck other women, remaining loyal and fucking, bringing me coffees and doing as I say. That's what you're looking for, gentlemen. You're not looking for sex. Sex is easy. You're looking for a woman who is loyal to you fiercely. You need a woman that you can sit and say I'm going to jail for two years, see you in two years, and you're not worried about her cheating while you're in the cell. Now this girl, the hoe who ran, tried to make me jealous and who wouldn't text me. Could I trust her for two years? Or could I trust the girl who next day was like, I don't want to do that. I really want to see you again. I hope you don't think bad of me. Please, can I see you again? That kind of humbling bullshit, That's what you want. That's what you want. I hope you understand the difference between those two women, because there's a huge difference between those two females. I do not waste my time even with my PhD trying to convert a hoe into a housewife. There's a reason that old saying exists. Don't waste your time with that shit now. I fucked girls on the first night and the next day they were so desperate for my attention that they were quality women. It doesn't matter if you fuck them the first day. Lots of these red pill books do. You fuck her first day, She's trash. Not true. I've had amazing women who have fucked the first day. Amazing because the next day they passed this test. This test is extremely important if you. This is why you cannot get feelings for a girl before you fuck. Speaker 2 Her, because I know you guys. Speaker 1 End up liking a chick and she's going to fail this test. You're going to stay with her anyway because she's hot and you like her. You end up in a fucking bullshit relationship. Reality of the world is this gentleman. You're walking down the street. Speaker 2 With your woman. Speaker 1 A man comes up and decides to rape her. You've punched a guy in the face, He falls over, hits his head and dies. Very possible. You go to jail for four years, you're in a fucking jail to to protect her and she's fucking someone else. That's what women will do. They'll do that to you. Speaker 2 They'll go fuck someone. Well, I'm lonely. Speaker 1 I'm lonely. I'm in jail, yeah, but I'm lonely because they're selfish cunts. So do you want to be walking down the street with a girl who will do that to you? Or do you only want to walk down the street with a girl who you know will be crying her fucking eyes out, writing new letters day after day at every single visitation, uninterested in every inbox she gets on Instagram while you do that jail time. And the only way you're going to know that is with this fucking test. Do not waste your time with trash hoes. It only ends up in one place. I've fucked a whole bunch of women and I've fucked some beautiful women, but if they fail this test, I will not talk to them again because I do not have time and energy to waste on a woman who will not be loyal to me. That is the most number one, most important. Speaker 2 Thing the. Speaker 1 Most important thing is this test. People often say to me how Tate, how how do you, how does, why does your girlfriend let you? Speaker 2 Fuck other girls, she lets me fuck other. Speaker 1 Girls, because she cannot possibly leave me. She leaves me because she loves me and I love her and she loves me with all her heart and she cannot imagine her world without me. If I died, she would commit suicide. I am her everything. It doesn't matter if I fuck someone else because I'm her everything, she has nowhere else to go because this test was implemented and she. Speaker 2 Passed it and. Speaker 1 Years have passed where I haven't taken her shit and I've kept position of authority and I've just become her idol in life. It's like trying to take God away from a Christian. They're like well if God doesn't exist have you ever argued with a religious person? Look, and after you prove them wrong a bunch of times, but well, if God doesn't exist, then what's the point? They'll eventually say, what's the point in being alive? What's the point in doing good? What's the point in doing bad without God? That's how your woman has to think of you without him. What's the point in doing anything? When you get to that point, you know what the fuck you want. I can fuck who I want because she ain't going to leave. She ain't going to leave. She doesn't even cry about it anymore. Speaker 2 So I know you're going to do what? Speaker 1 You do as long as you only love me. Of course I only love you. They're just stupid hoes. OK, done. It ain't unachievable, gentleman. It's very achievable if you keep your shit in order. Remember all these lessons about when we're talking about getting the girls the attention scale? It's the same when you're in a relationship. If your chick's getting fresh tells you, man, this is the mistake. The biggest mistake I ever made in my PhD life is when I was young and I was grinding. I was trying to make money, trying to make money. I'd get a girlfriend and I'd text her, Oh, I'm really busy today, love you. And then I wouldn't text her because I was busy working. And then she'd reply to me some fucking rude shit. And then I'd end up texting her all day arguing and I realized she gets the most attention from me when she's misbehaving. She gets constant messages when when she misbehaves, when she acts good. I barely text her because I'm busy making money. So you're training her because females want the attention. That's what they want. That's all they want. You're training her to misbehave for your attention. Reverse it and the girls being nice flutter she ask a Dick. Speaker 2 Cut that shit. Speaker 1 Off. It's the only way to do it. So it's important that even the lessons we learned about how to get girls. It's the same in a relationship. Setting Boundaries, Dealing with Male Friends, and Being Prepared to Walk Away Keep your attention rare even in a relationship. Say something man. I say this to people that don't believe it. Your girl should want sex more than you give it. I say this all the time. I've never ever, ever wanted sex with. Speaker 2 My girlfriend and not had. Speaker 1 It in six years ever she's wanted sex with me and not had it unlimited. Speaker 2 Times. Speaker 1 Unlimited times your girl should want sex more than you give it. Speaker 2 Because you have to do all. Speaker 1 The fucking work and you got a bunch of other side hoes anyway. Fucking so often on the sides. Don't you just give me that massage. I'm tired. Your girl. That is a sign of a healthy relationship. When your girl wants sex and you don't really want it, that's a healthy relationship. Shouldn't be the other way around, because that's putting her in a position of power. You cannot let these women ever be in a position of power because women are not evolutionarily designed for power and they don't want power. They think they want it, but when they get it, they just lose respect for you. And then they get harder and harder on you because they start to secretly resent you. That's what happens when a a female has a position of power. They start to resent you. You got to fucking lay it down. And the biggest weapon you have as a man is I don't care if you're with a girl for six months and everything. Speaker 2 'S going well, but she gets too fresh. Speaker 1 You've got to just get back on Instagram. Speaker 2 And get messaging new ones that's. Speaker 1 How it's got to be so I have a guy who I I coach on girls, he said. I've been a girl, I've been with her for five months. But she has male friends and she talks to these guys and he's like, look, it's not acceptable. He was well, how do I stop her? I said, bro, you cannot have your woman talking to other men. Those men are trying to fuck your girl. If you had a car, those men are trying to fuck your girl. Let's cut the bullshit. They're friends. No, they're not. If your girl was fat with no legs, in a wheelchair, would they be her friend? Would they text her? No, they fucking wouldn't. So let's cut the fucking bullshit right here, right now. Try to fuck your chick. If you had a fucking car would you let car thieves attempt to break into your car no matter how good the locks are? Would you let them sit there and just try and break in and just watch them do it? Or would you be like get the fuck away from my car? It's the same as a chick bro. You can't be letting these people. Speaker 2 Attempt, because no matter. Speaker 1 How good the locks are. Maybe one day they'll find a weakness and they'll get in. Maybe you're arguing with your girl. You had an argument. This guy's in a particularly fucking generous mood. He decides to take her somewhere or some shit. Blah blah blah problems. You don't need it. Men should not be texting your woman's phone. Ever. So he's like, well I agree with you, but how do I stop it? So there's only one thing you can do, man. Tell her to fucking stop texting them. Make her choose. She's like, Oh yeah, but what if she chooses them? Speaker 2 You have to be prepared to walk away. Speaker 1 From a bad relationship and from a bad chick, Trump said it The art of the deal. You have to be prepared to walk away from the table. Here's some math view. If you tell the girl to choose between you and her friends, and she chooses her friends, she's going to fuck one of them eventually anyway, don't you see? Speaker 2 How? Speaker 1 Eventually she's going to end up banging one if she already chooses them above you. So why would you allow that dynamic to continue instead of walking away with honor and reducing your attention to 0, putting a super high value on your attention. And then maybe after a couple days of not hearing from you, she might think, OK, now your attention's high, your attention's high value, she might reverse her decision. Go OK I'll stop. You're right, I've taken a thought about it. Then then you stand a chance if you allow her to continue. If she says she wants to choose them, you go OK and stay with her anyway. It's only going to end with her fucking one now or later. Are you such a big a pussy? It's like ripping off a Band-Aid. RIP it off. You're going to do it slowly. She's going to fuck one, she's going to do it. So you want to do those extra few months and get cheated on or let wait for her to message you? It just isn't working some bullshit because she wants to fuck someone else. You know where it's going to end so why are you allowing it to happen instead of walking away at a point where you can make a difference by attaching super value to your attention and laying it down with a fucking man? You can't have that shit as a man. We have 1 weapon, attention reduction and FTB and you're prepared to do that in a relationship for important issues. I'm not saying the girl won't make you a coffee, you know. Never talk to her again. That's maybe a bit too much, but with things like talking to other dudes or things that are red lines, you have to be prepared to walk away. If you've been with a girl for three months and she won't do as you say, FTB. Now obviously if you just get with a girl, she ain't a girl of all her friends. Speaker 2 She just met you. Speaker 1 Use your brain. But you've been with her a while. She should fucking know the score. And if she doesn't like it, you're back on Instagram. Start sending those messages again. It's as simple as that. I've told you how to get laid. That's what this course was about. I said how to get girls. I've told you how to retain girls. The most important thing is this test and post test. If they pass the test, always make sure that your attention is within the correct parameters. Her behavior and your attention have to be explicitly linked. You cannot fuck that up in any way. You have to make sure there's no other men or outside influences fucking with her too much. You don't want other men messaging your girl. Forget the modern world, they're just friends. Bullshit that is only going to lead to a bad relationship. Good relationships are one man, one woman. No, sorry, one man 10 women. That's my relationship. Speaker 2 It's not a chick. Speaker 1 A bunch of dudes messing her. It's not acceptable. It's not acceptable in any way. And if she chooses them over you, then find someone else because it's only going to end one way or another. Anyway. I've tried to be all-encompassing. I know I've actually missed a whole bunch of things because like I said, I know so much shit. There's a whole bunch more I I, I need to say. So what I'm going to do is this is the first video I'm going to release for all you guys have purchased the video, I want you to go out there, start your Instagram messaging, start your whatsapping, go on some dates, do what you need to do in a week from now. I'm absolutely not only welcoming all your questions, any questions you have, a specific conversation, a screenshot or a a scenario or any questions or anything I've missed, e-mail them all to me. And I'm going to do another video in a week completely free for you guys answering all your specific questions to be another hour and a half of knowledge. Now between this video, which is the absolute fundamental basics, how attention works, the easiest way to speak to girls, how to the progression Tower of Power, how to always progress, progress, progress, how to test a girl after you've slept with her and how to retain the control with your attention post sleeping with her. With this one video, your game will be 10 times what it was before. Plus you're going to send me a whole bunch of questions. I'm going to do another video with specifics, another hour and a half. And with these two videos plus a shit load of experience, because that's what life is, it doesn't matter how long you read about learning to play piano, until you get on that piano and start to play, you don't know how to play piano. Experience is extremely important. With these three hours of videos plus experience, you should have everything you need to begin the long journey to a PhD. Practical Advice for Managing Multiple Relationships and Maintaining Control here, let. Speaker 1 Me go through them question. Speaker 2 One Tate, how do you handle? Speaker 1 How do you how do? Speaker 2 You. Speaker 1 No edits, leave it. How do you handle? Speaker 2 Multiple girlfriends. Speaker 1 Do you explicitly tell them about others? What's the process in finding this? Speaker 2 Out right you. Speaker 1 Can't get a girl, make her love you and then go out for dinner and sit her there and go. By the way, I've got loads of girls because it just makes you look like a Dick. So what you do is you do you hide it the best you can. Basically you hide it until she finds out and then when she finds out, you just super downplay it. So actually last night, last night one of my girls arena found out, found a she's dark haired. She found a blonde hair on my bed. She goes, who's been staying in this bed? I said, well, me she was well, whose hair is this? Speaker 2 I said I. Speaker 1 Don't know. I'm not always in the house. People sit on beds. Maybe they didn't sleep in the bed. I don't know. I'm not going to. It's 1:00 in the morning. I'm not sitting here and talking about hair in a bed. Well, I don't know. You don't have other girls say don't just shut up, you're being juvenile. We're going to sleep and we went to sleep. So basically the exchange was she knows I fucked a girl. I said it doesn't matter, everything's fine, we're going to bed. It's very. It's about playing off as nothing. So when she catches you, who's this other girl? Oh, some girl I talked to. Well, she says you're her boyfriend. Oh, yeah, I fucked her a few times. But it's not a big deal, you know? I'm with you. Well, you're cheating on me. I'm not cheating on you because I love you. It's not cheating if I only love you. It's only cheating if it's emotional. It's not emotional with her. So just fucking calm down. If she says she wants to leave and she tries to leave you. FTB. Because what happens is when drama kicks off, girls want attention. The girls just found out you're cheating. She wants a big episode. She wants you to apologise, she wants sorry, she wants all this shit going on. If you don't give a fuck, then she's going to be like, well, you don't even seem to care. It's like, well, I don't care because I don't feel bad because it wasn't a big deal. I don't. And she'll be like, well, why don't you feel bad? Because I didn't have any emotion? I don't feel bad because I don't feel like I did anything wrong because to me it was nothing. It's like you're using a dildo. Who gives a shit? Just completely trivialize their emotionality. Speaker 2 Until under. Speaker 1 Juvenile to give a fuck and eventually you'll get away with having two. Now they might not be happy about it, they might cry about it, they might moan about it. They might be like, oh, you're always with that bitch, but they ain't going to leave. And that's how you have two girlfriends. That's how you start with it. A lot of it's experience. It depends on the actual girl who you're talking about, who the 1st girl is, who the second girl is. Like everything is experienced. It's like me telling you how to punch someone in the face. It's experienced who they are, how big they are, if they move, whatever. But that's the basis of it. You don't sit down and and just try and explain it with women. You never just try and do. Speaker 2 I say a business deal. Speaker 1 A business deal. You don't sit down and appeal to their logic. If you appeal to their logic, you'll fail. If you sit down and go, hi, I'm going to have other girls, Here's why, Here's why it doesn't bother you. It's OK, It ain't going to work. It ain't going to work. You cannot appeal to their common sense. You just have to wait for them to find out and handle the emotionality correctly. Limit your attention in the correct way so that she understands that if she leaves, you're just going to go back to fucking the other girl. That's it. You can just say, look, I really like you. I want us to be together. Speaker 2 If you leave then I'm just going to. Speaker 1 You know I have to be single, won't I? But it's not a big deal. Don't worry about it. Just don't piss me off and just be super juice. Just completely trivialize her feelings. That's what you have to do. That's how you play it. Like I. Speaker 2 Did last night. Speaker 1 Oh, you found some hair in the bed? It's 2:00 in the fucking morning. Are we going to sleep or what? Oh, were you cheated? It's 2:00. I'm going to sleep. It's hair. Who gives a fuck? You have hair. I have hair. It's hair. As in, it's not going to thin Today. She hasn't even mentioned it because she knows. Speaker 2 She, she ain't fucking. Speaker 1 Dumb. She's seen me blown girls all over my Instagram. She knows I'm fucking one of them. She ain't that stupid, she just doesn't want to know. So now she's willfully ignorant, which is fine by me. Speaker 2 How to play it properly? Speaker 1 When a girl you like. Speaker 2 Is a virgin well lucky? Speaker 1 Gentleman, you have to play a lot slower. Same basic principles, attention, blah blah blah blah. Play it slower. Let her get away with more. Take your time. You can't be expecting to bang a bearish on her second date. That's crazy. Next, can you elaborate more on? Speaker 2 Compliance after she passed the test. Speaker 1 Well, she passes the test. Speaker 2 Then. Speaker 1 You're starting a relationship in a position of power, aren't you? You're now in a position of power. You fucked her. She's chased you, which is good. She wants your attention. She's. Speaker 2 Actively shown that you're not starting. Speaker 1 To give her a little bit of attention, but if she fucks up, you cut the attention quick and she should cave quickly because she knows. Speaker 2 This is not a guy. Speaker 1 Who I can fuck with because he'll take all his attention away. So after that it's just a matter of managing a relationship. I mean, if she's completely honest and open. I've had girls after they pass the test, say to me, I really love you. I'm completely I. Speaker 2 Know I shouldn't say this. Speaker 1 I'm completely in love with you. If someone's going to be that honest and open, you know you don't have to be a Dick head to them. You'll be like OK, good, I love you, you love me, everything's fine. Obviously you don't take shit. You haven't got to be a Dick head in any way. Then you get the girls who still want to play the games. If they still want to play the games even after they've played the test, then OK cool FTB them. It's just a repeating cycle. It it the the PhD system and. Speaker 2 Relationships it never. Speaker 1 Ends. You never get to a point where it's like, OK, she's now programmed as a robot slave. I'm done. I've been with my girl six years and still to this day I use game. Otherwise she gets out of control. If I'm too nice to my girl now after six years she still gets out of control. So it's a never ending philosophy. Sometimes hoes need to be ignored no matter how long you've been with them. Sometimes you have to FTB them. Speaker 2 Sometimes you have to show. Speaker 1 Them you don't take shit, no matter how long you be with them. That is a universal truth. So you start a relationship in a dominant position, which of course is important from the position of dominance. Speaker 2 You maintain it. Speaker 1 Very. Speaker 2 Much of A poker game. Speaker 1 Or chess game. You have the advantage, you just play your advantage. It's as simple as that. Next question. Speaker 2 How do you manage hierarchies? Let's say we're 2 girls. Does the first girl? Speaker 1 Have seniority over the second girl? No, girls won't take that if you have one. Speaker 2 Girl who's clearly better than the other one. Speaker 1 You're going to struggle massively. The second girl is just not going to stick around for very long. I've had it where I've had girls who say, oh, I know you're with Vivian. I know you've been with her a long time. I don't mind. I'll stay out tonight, You 2 stay alone, all that shit. But it never lasts long because the ones who are really in love with you won't do that. So the only girls who do that aren't really in love with you. You have to be such an imposing, dominating force that there's no room for hierarchy underneath you. You have to be like. Speaker 2 When I say imposing, dominating. Speaker 1 I don't know, I'm talking about being a. Speaker 2 Psycho, I mean your. Speaker 1 Personality has to be so large that you're in charge of everything. There is no hierarchy. How can it be a hierarchy? You just have to be like, OK, I need a coffee you. Speaker 2 Make me a coffee and you cook me. Speaker 1 Something. If you send one to make the coffee, then there's a hierarchy either way. If you send one to make the coffee, it can either be. It can either be seen as you trust her more and want her more, or she's lower than the other one. She's a slave. Women will always just make up a reason, so it doesn't matter which one you choose. They'll decide it's negative. So you have to send them both. Go make me a coffee. Who both of you go? You have to be like that. You have to be dominant. Speaker 2 To a point where there's no. Speaker 1 Room for hierarchy. It's just you and everyone else now. That's easy for my personality. For other people can be slightly harder. Speaker 2 But there's a. Speaker 1 Whole bunch of stupid fiddly shit you need to learn to do if you want to truly have two girls in the long term. You got to learn to sleep on your back. You can't sleep on your side, you sleep on your right side. I'm telling you now, whichever girl you're looking at when you're sleeping, the other ones are going to be pissed. Maybe not the first night, but by night 10 she will. You're always facing her and you're hugging her and I'm on my own and this is a little dumb shit you have to deal with, but basically you have to be big, large enough personality that you handle it. There is no hierarchy. You can't clearly have women below women. They don't like that shit. What you do when you're in my situation where you have a girlfriend of six years and you try and bring a New Girl in, you actually have to downplay. Speaker 2 Your relationship with a girl. Speaker 1 Of six years, which is difficult. And I only get away with that guy because the girl of six years plays along. So Vivian's been with me six years. She's completely head over heels and loved me. She wants kids with me. Everything, everything, everything. And we met and we felt whatever, we're in love. But when a New Girl comes, she'll go, oh, yeah, I started off working for him. And, you know, it's just how it worked out. She'll super downplay us so that the New Girl feels like, ah, well, they're just kind of working sex. And now I'm here and he likes me. And. And she can believe in her mind that she can be equal. If you were on if, if Vivian was completely honest. Well, he's been. Speaker 2 With me six years and. Speaker 1 We're going to be together forever. So you're just a side bitch then. It's not going to ever work. So it also depends how much control you have over your bottom beach, because you have to be. Speaker 2 Able to have her. Speaker 1 On side playing the game that's super important. So key is it's you and everyone else. There is no hierarchy below you. Personal Examples of Managing Relationships and Teasing vs. Nagging Can you break? Speaker 2 Down your own situation, so I've got. Speaker 1 2 main bitches I'm. Speaker 2 Going to deal with my fire. Speaker 1 Gentlemen, I've got 2 main girls. I've got Melissa. Speaker 2 And Vivian, now Melissa and Vivian. Speaker 1 Started off together. Speaker 2 After. Speaker 1 Two years of slamming them every day together. Speaker 2 Tensions were getting a. Speaker 1 Bit crazy. I mean, I could have held it together forever, but it was just to a point where it's just like, oh, shut up. So everyone made a happy agreement that they'd be separate. I'd still be with both of them, but they don't want to live together anymore. That's fine. Speaker 2 When I bring on new girls, I usually pair them with Vivian. Speaker 1 Because Vivian's younger. Melissa's like 28. Vivian's like 21. Vivian's younger. She's more fun, more outgoing. Speaker 2 Melissa's really quite. Speaker 1 Not a bad way. She's more homey, boring, sits at home. So it's if you're going to pair a girl with a girl, it's much easier if the girl's fun. Let's all go to the club, let's all drink champagne. Let's all do this. Let's go here, let's go here. That's what it does. So since I've had Vivian, I've had five other girlfriends who I've shared with Vivian. Some last a couple weeks, some last a couple months. One lasted a year, so I've had Jenny the dark haired one, I've had Andrada the other one. These are all on my Instagrams or my Twitter. You would have seen them at some point. I've had loads of hot girls who come in. Vivian's already there, they join. Like I said, Vivian. Speaker 2 Downplays it. Speaker 1 Blah blah blah blah blah and for and for different reasons it breaks up. Like you've seen some of my threads about the dark haired girl tried to give me an ultimatum or Jenny who went to the festival against the rules. Sometimes they rebel have to FDBM, but that's basically how it works. I've got my main bitch, my bottom bitch, Vivian. I could do it. Melissa too, but she's, you know. Speaker 2 I just do it with Vivian for. Speaker 1 Some reasons how it's worked out. My main bitch Vivian and I bring in new girlfriends and they're temporary. I get one that sticks forever. Whatever. Good. I had one recently that stayed for a very long time but if they leave, they leave because of shit. I find a new one. That's my. Speaker 2 Basic situation. Speaker 1 I've got a girl calling me right now. I'm going to hang up on her 'cause I'm filming. Speaker 2 Right. So a description of the relationship process with Vivian. So yeah, that's how it started. Speaker 1 I met Vivian in in Slovakia. Speaker 2 We had a long term relationship thing. I was. Speaker 1 Living in England, it's a really long story. I don't want to tell you the whole story. I moved her to England to be with me to start doing my webcam company, which I started. If you don't have a webcam company, you need to look into it. As soon as you have a couple girls in love with you, it's the fucking easiest money in the world. No, take that back. It's not easy money. You've got to build up. But once you get girls built up, then it's free money. Like every other business, you've got to build up. But I started. I decided I want to start a webcam business. Vivian's beautiful. I said, look, stop being a waitress, come here, live with me. She came. Everything was fine for a couple weeks. Melissa obviously lived in England. Speaker 2 They didn't know about each other. Speaker 1 They found out. They tried to have a big argument with me. I did exactly as I said, downplayed it, didn't give a shit. Everyone moved in together, Everyone started doing webcam. I was making loads of money. Then we agreed to the split, like we said, and that's basically been it. Since then, new girls have come along. Vivian understands that I'm fucking these hoes, but I don't care about these hoes. I've seen. I've done it. When I do it, I prove it to her. This is another important thing, guys. If you're going to say to one girl that you're the only one I care about, and she's going to see you fucking these other girls when those other girls eventually leave or you FTB them, you got to use that to your advantage. So I'll come home sometimes to Vivian, say Jenny's gone. She'll go. What? What do you mean Jenny's gone? Oh, she annoyed me, so I get rid of her. What do you mean she annoyed you? Oh, she's just something small. But she annoyed me so bad. And they like that she's like, well, you got rid of her over nothing. I was. Oh yeah, She annoyed me FTB and that makes her feel secure that these other girls, he really doesn't. Speaker 2 Give a fuck. Speaker 1 Like he'll just get rid of them for no reason. So use that to your advantage as well. And that's the basic dynamic of my relationship with Vivian. She now knows what I do. Last night, I just put in the war room telegram. If you're not in the war room as well, motherfuckers, you've got to get in on there. There's too much shit happening that you're missing out on. I just put in the war room telegram. I text conversation with her last night, she goes, you coming home? I said no. She goes, what girl are you staying with? Vivian now is just nosy. She isn't jealous, she's just nosy. She's curious, so I'm staying with Ellen, Elena or Elena or whoever. OK. All right. See you tomorrow. So it's there's no secrets, no hiding. She knows I'm fucking all these girls. She doesn't care. So if if I want to fuck her with a girl. Speaker 2 I'll say, look, we're going out. I'll. Speaker 1 Just introduce booze. So like the first time I threw some, a lot of girls, I'll say, Oh yeah, we're going out. Some other girls are coming. What girls? Girls I know. And Viv will turn off. It'll just be there. I'm going to be drinking. Speaker 2 I'll just say. I'll just say I have to. Speaker 1 Thurman, fuck you both. No, you're not sorry to fuck you both and Vivian will just like laugh. Just play it off. Ha ha ha, very funny all get in the taxi at the end. We're going my house. Just fucking just own it. I don't want. Speaker 2 To see you both. OK, bye. Speaker 1 See you. I'll fuck Vivian then. Speaker 2 Who's this? I thought she just worked for you. Speaker 1 Who's this girl? Speaker 2 You're supposed to. Speaker 1 Be my boyfriend. Look, stop being fucking boring. We're going to my house. Shut up. I'll see. You just got to fucking own it. Sit calm. Speaker 2 Suck Dick. Speaker 1 Right. Speaker 2 I'm not saying be a rapist. I feel like I always have to fucking clarify myself. Speaker 1 Because to me it's super obvious, but there's some weirdos out there that don't fucking thing. You cannot force a girl to do anything. You just have to make it clear of your objective. You're a train. A train stays on the track. Speaker 2 I'm. Speaker 1 A train on this track, you either get on the train and go to the destination or you get off the train and you don't. Trains don't go off tracks. It's that simple. I'm fucking Vivian tonight. You're coming with me and you're helping me fuck Vivian. Or you're not. But this is where the train's headed. That's how you have to be. Don't be a creepy weirdo, please. Right. One more question we're going to do for this. I have a lot of questions I need. Speaker 2 To handle but. Speaker 1 We'll do one more for this. Speaker 2 Do I believe in nagging girls? Megan Girls is calling them names or saying something negative to them. Speaker 1 That's some pick up artist bullshit that the red pill guys do. No, I don't believe in that. I believe you need to tease them. Have a joke with them. Like you know everyone knows how to tease a girl like she's your kid sister. Have a joke, but don't be negative, don't be aggressive. I've seen loads of dudes on dates just talking to a girl like shit. Like it's super like they're the man and it's not cool. You don't look cool, you look like a cunt if you're deaf. If you're genuinely in alpha, you don't need to impose your superiority by insulting her. So what you're trying to do by insulting her is bring her down a peg. Well, if you're already above her, you don't need to bring her down. So I don't think it's alpha to be out there insulting girls, but obviously you can. Speaker 2 Tease her and make fun. Speaker 1 Of her a little bit, of course, but once again, this comes to experience. This is down to experience. Depends on the girl you're talking to. You have to gauge the conversation, gauge who she is and play accordingly. So that's it for this episode. Another video coming soon. Speaker 2 Right. Final Tips for Closing, Plus Tristan Tate's Phone Contact Organization System Questions I can't build a high senior PhD course blah you're the man blah blah blah I can't build a very interesting Instagram what should I do Well, you need to build an. Speaker 2 Interesting one, but you don't need to have that. Speaker 1 Many pictures, if you were to take one day out of your life and get a good camera and put on some good clothes and take four or five good pictures, that's enough. Put them at the top. And even if a girl ever says to you, oh, you don't have much on Instagram, just say, yeah, I don't use social media very much, it's not really my thing. And then she tries to shit test you, She'll say, well why did you message? Speaker 2 Me then. So I thought you. Speaker 1 Were beautiful, so I thought I'd message you but I don't it doesn't mean I have to post on Instagram all the time. Just play it off like I'm a cool cat. I'm not an Instagram dude, you know I'm just a Mr. normal dude. I'm not a fucking. Speaker 2 Mr. Show off. Speaker 1 So you haven't got to do, you haven't got to have, like me, pages and pages of supercars. You see that? Four or five good pictures. If you can't find four or five good pictures, well, there's something wrong with you. Ain't that hard? I'm sure you've been on holiday once in your life. Take some good pictures. Speaker 2 On the beach. Speaker 1 Done. Get a picture of you in the gym. Get it from far. Speaker 2 Away so you look muscly or some. Speaker 1 Shit, it ain't that difficult. Make it happen. I shouldn't have explained this to you. Speaker 2 Like this is common sense. Speaker 1 Stuff, don't be stupid. 5 or 6 good pictures you can make it happen. Next, do you answer texts whenever you want or do you have rules? Speaker 2 When you respond. Speaker 1 I answer texts in real time. I don't believe in making girls wait. Message me, I message back. If they start making you wait, well then it's different. Then you're going to have to, you know, return the favour or FTV them or whatever. Speaker 2 But if a girl's messaging. Speaker 1 Me. Yeah. Message them. What the fuck is normal? A lot of these little dominance tricks that people are taught make her weight and all this bullshit are just trying to feign dominance. If you have genuine dominance, you don't need to do that. You message me, I message you, everything's fine. Let's go for coffee. OK? Yeah, I'll message you later. Everything's normal. There's no need for any of those things. If I had a girl who ignores me every time I message her and that eventually decides to message me, well then yeah, I'm going to take my time on her. If she does message me first, I will reply. Speaker 2 But I'll probably wait the same amount of. Speaker 1 Time she made me wait, but in general no. Do you have a call to set up dates? Speaker 2 This is actually interesting. Speaker 1 What I do when I'm texting girls on WhatsApp is. Speaker 2 You OK? Speaker 1 Tower of Power, you're progressing. So you met her on the street or? Speaker 2 Tinder or. Speaker 1 Instagram, wherever you call her, WhatsApp, now you're whatsapping them after a day or after a day or even an hour depending how long you spoke to of whatsapping them. I go onto voice notes because voice notes are that little bit more personal because they get to hear your voice. So I'll move from texting into voice notes. It's that tiny bit upgrade of personality. I don't do phone calls. If you see my tape speech videos, I don't like phone calls, but I'll move into voice notes. The good thing about voice notes is, well, they don't have to answer it. If you call her, she might ignore the call and I'm busy or whatever I'm driving, she'll ignore you. If you give her a voice note, she'll listen to it. So I actually do recommend after a little bit of texting to upgrade to voice notes. There's nothing wrong with that at all. Smoke a cigar, drink a little bit of whiskey, get your. Speaker 2 Voice. Deep sound. Speaker 1 Like AG and send her some voice notes because once again it's that tiny bit more personal and she might start sending them back to you. If she starts sending your voice notes back 100% she wants to bang 100%. So do I call the? Speaker 2 Updates No, I use voice notes or I. Speaker 1 Don't know, I sometimes I organize a date by text. It doesn't really matter but in general I use voice notes. That's just something that came to my mind that I haven't mentioned before. You can use voice notes, it's really good. Or send pictures what you do and she'll be like, oh hey, how are you? So I'm just saying I'm. Speaker 2 Fine, you I'll take. Speaker 1 A picture of my coffee picture. Dang, Yeah, I'm good. Thanks. How are you? Just more. Here's where I am, Here's who I am just to break the ice that little bit more to try and get her to agree to me. All about Tower of Power. Remember progression at all times. Don't do it as soon as you get her number. Don't get her number and be like, hey, hey, hi. How are you doing? Talk to her a little bit first. Don't be a weirdo. After you spoke to her a little bit, then you can hit her with it. Next question. Speaker 2 Tips for trying to close? Speaker 1 The deal? Once the girl. Speaker 2 Got the girl alone at your place but. Speaker 1 This is actually a really interesting question because if the girls come to your place alone, she knows what's going down. Like, she's not stupid unless she's really stupid. She knows what's going down. So the only reason it's not going to happen is if she changes her mind, which might happen. She might change her mind to be prepared for that. But if a girl comes to my house, one second, Yeah. Hello. Speaker 2 This is why I don't do phone calls. I fucking hate phone calls. Hello for. Speaker 1 Fuck's sake. Speaker 2 I don't do phone calls anyway. If a girl comes to your house, she wants to bang so she might change her mind. Speaker 1 So the girl comes to my house. My routine is very simple. What? Speaker 2 I do is I go up to. Speaker 1 My cinema You may have a cinema. I made the TVI put on a movie. I always. Speaker 2 Put on a horror movie. Speaker 1 Don't put on music. I've seen a lot of people go let's put on music. Speaker 2 If you put on. Speaker 1 Music and the girl's drinking and drunk. She wants to party. She wants to have fun. Yeah, she wants to stay up. You don't want her to stay up. You want her in bed. So after the club, if we come home, we've got girls and they come in, they go, let's put music on. I say no, no, no, no music. Put on a movie. Because I've noticed before you start putting music on, you get Ball of Oak out. It's another three hours of partying. It's just like, oh, please, just that's what I'm bang. It's boring. So no music, you can't put an action movie. It's the wrong vibe. You can't put on a ROM com. You're not gay, so it's got to be a horror movie. Horror movies, you're quiet during you sit, you're quiet horror movie. So we come in, put on a horror movie, offer a drink, get some wine, whatever, whatever. Pour a couple glasses of wine. Usually I come downstairs to pour it. I usually pour her wine and I pour myself water because I don't like being, I don't like having sex when I'm super drunk and I've been drinking all night in the club and we go back. I don't want to be like getting to get really hammered and be sloppy. So I'm just, I just by then I know what's going to happen. I just start drinking war, give them wine, whatever, whatever, sit upstairs. I'll watch the movie for 5 to 6 minutes before I start to kiss her on the couch. Speaker 2 That's it. Because she doesn't give a fuck. She. Speaker 1 Didn't come to my house to watch another movie. She ain't stupid. 5 to 6 minutes. Speaker 2 We'll start kissing for a minute or so. I'll stand up. Speaker 1 Get her hand and walk towards the bedroom. And she either follows me or she doesn't. She comes with me. She wants to bang. She goes, oh, no, I can't. I can't. I say, oh, you're going to watch a horror movie. Oh, yeah. So you're not going to be scared. Make a joke out of it. I'll play it down. Well, no, if you're here, I say, all right, well, I'll watch it for a little bit. Sit down. More wine. Kiss her again. Then say, look, I'm going to bed. You want to go home or do you want to go to bed? Oh, I'm going to leave. OK, No problem. Get taxed. Bye. I'm playing games. The whole the whole thing's about 20 minutes. Thirty minutes. I'm very clear with my intention. She ain't stupid. She's an adult. She came to my house at 4:00 in the morning. The fuck We dare to do play chess. Even though I'd enjoy that, none of these bitches are good enough. So no, we're not there to play chess. We're the fuck. So that's basically. Speaker 2 It I mean I. Speaker 1 Don't think it's difficult to close the deal if they come to your house and you should know what's going down. Unless you're in the friend zone. If you're in the friend zone or some bullshit then it's hard. We get some more wood from my fire. But if you're in the friend zone, hold that if you're in the friend zone. Speaker 2 And you can't close the deal. Speaker 1 And then you're then you're asking. Speaker 2 Stupid questions because. Speaker 1 If you're in the friend zone, you fucked up already. You already haven't been doing the Tower of Power, you already haven't been doing your progression, and now you're asking me, well, how you going to fuck your friends so you can't. That's why the friend zone so toxic. That's why you caught off your attention If they don't want to bang. But if you meet a girl, you get her number. You meet a girl on Instagram. You get her WhatsApp. You start whatsapping her. Then you start voice noting her. You agree to go for coffee. You go for coffee. You agree to go for dinner. You go for dinner. You say come over, chill at mine. She comes over to chill. She knows what's going down now. Maybe she may not. Speaker 2 Want to fuck you the first night she comes? Speaker 1 Over to chill. Maybe the first night she'll want to go home, cool. But the second night she will. It's not a big rush. Just cool it you haven't. You don't want to come across needy. You don't want to come across desperate. So if a girl ever says to you, oh, no, not tonight, the instant answer is yeah, all right, cool. You don't try. Do not be the guy at all. Stay is super unattractive. It's super desperate. Never do that. If a girl goes to me, I can't stay with you tonight. Cool. And then they get pissed off that you don't care. Speaker 2 Like it's it's a subtle. Speaker 1 Form of FDB. What do you mean? Cool? I thought you got to come in her head. She's thinking. Speaker 2 I came here. Speaker 1 Thinking I was going to bang and I wasn't sure and now I told him I don't want to bang and he doesn't give a fuck. Does he even like me? I'll flip it on him. Flip it on him like I told you in the 1st. Speaker 2 The first. Speaker 1 Course, get a taxi come to mind. No, I'm going to go home. All right, cool. Get a taxi instantly. Bang, flip it on them, give them what they want and watch them lose their minds so you don't try. Then maybe the second time you'll fuck or whatever. But just be clear with your intention. And she's coming over for a reason, so it ain't that difficult there. Hello. Speaker 2 My name is Tristan Tate. Now you've purchased the Andrew. Speaker 1 Tate how to be AG course. So I imagine many of you know who I am. I'm Andrew's younger brother and a very good friend of Christians. Now, there are very few things about game that you could. Speaker 2 Teach a man like Christian. Speaker 1 McQueen however, when guys like us get together, we talk, we exchange tips, and I hit him with the genius way I organized the contacts in my phone. He's now using the same system and as people who have bought the How to Be AG course, he thought I should share it with you the way I organize my phone. Speaker 2 Is very complex. Speaker 1 Because I'm a man who does a lot of different. Speaker 2 Approaches. Speaker 1 I use a lot of dating apps. I meet a lot of women, so I need a way of filing them in a way that I don't lose track. I first developed the system some years ago. What happened was I'd approached a beautiful girl I got. Speaker 2 Her number? Speaker 1 And I was messaging her very hard on WhatsApp for a day or two. I was then messaging too many other girls. Speaker 2 Too many other people. Speaker 1 And I lost track of her. Nine days later, she hit me with a message. I guess you don't really want to meet up then, no matter how I try to explain my way out of it. Speaker 2 And say baby, it's. Speaker 1 OK, let's still go out, she said. You've been on WhatsApp for 9 days, online every day, and you haven't written me once. You're obviously a player. I'm tired of guys like you and I never met her again. The way I organize my phone is based on three. Speaker 2 Different. Speaker 1 Elements one, the priority of the girl in question, how important she is to me. Now this is either based on looks or a commitment level to you. Your main chick and your girlfriends for example, are more important than the girls you'll call late night after the club. The second element is the name. Now the name isn't just what their name is. For example, here in Romania, Andrea is a very popular name. My phone has seven Andreas in it. So you need to way of knowing which Andrea is which. The third is the location. It's good to know where the girls in your phone are. Speaker 2 Located. Speaker 1 For example, if you go to a city once every six months or once every three months, it's good to know who you have in that city that you could potentially meet up with if I were to store contact in my phone. Speaker 2 This. Speaker 1 Is how it's done. First a number between 1:00 and 3:00. The number between 1:00 and 3:00 is the girls priority. For example, when I wake up every morning, I press. Speaker 2 1. Speaker 1 In my phone book and all the girls that appear with the number one next to their name are the ones I message first thing the Hey baby, I was had a dream about you last night. I hope to see you real soon. Now these are your main chicks, your girlfriends, the girls that you really love banging and you see three or four times a week. These are your ones. Your twos are the girls that you care. Speaker 2 About, but not as much as your number ones the. Speaker 1 Girls who think you're busier than you are, but you see once every 10 days, every two weeks. There's something about her you really appreciate and you really like, but she's never going to be a main chick. When A2 sends you a message, you reply to a 2 immediately, but you don't necessarily have to message her every morning when you wake up. You have to take care of your twos because you don't want to lose them because they matter to you somewhat, but you don't have to maintain them constantly like you do with your most important girls. Your threes are the kind of girls that you call. Speaker 2 After a night out. Speaker 1 It's 5:00, you're in the club, you're bored. That's when you message your threes. If they message you at a time like that, reply. But a three is not so important that when she messages you, she can instantly demand your time. You manage your threes on your own terms. When you get bored and you're sitting on your phone for three hours waiting at the airport, message your ones, twos and threes. Keep all your girls entertained. Keep all of them interested. Now, this priority system would have stopped me from making the mistake that I made with that girl. I would have saved her as a one because she was stunningly hard. I was actively pursuing her and trying to bang her. So for those nine days, I ignored her. She would have got a good morning message every single morning, saving a girl's name. Speaker 2 Is very important to do correctly. Speaker 1 And there are many girls who have the same name. If you do a lot of approaches and you're trying to meet lots of different women, you're going to encounter some girls that you don't even remember meeting, especially when you're out in clubs drunk. So when you save their contact details, make it as clear as you like. What I like to do is her name followed by her Instagram handle so I can always check how hot she is and follow up on how good she looks to make sure that my eyes weren't deceiving me after 20 bottles of vodka. The girl's name is. Speaker 2 Andrea, for example. Speaker 1 Her Instagram tag. Speaker 2 Or. Speaker 1 Andrea, the blonde I met in this club, that's the way to save your girls names. That way you can't make a. Speaker 2 Mistake. Speaker 1 And you can't do what I've done, Christian has done and Andrew have done many times before, which is confuse a girl for somebody else. You instantly lose them. The third most important thing to put? Speaker 2 When you're saving your contacts. Speaker 1 In your phone is the city name. Now. This takes a very long time for it to actually become useful, but as you slowly build up your contacts list, as a man who travels and does approaches worldwide like me, you slowly accumulate a list of girls in various cities. So there are cities you visit once every six months or once. Speaker 2 Every 3. Speaker 1 Months me Marbella, for example, I can go to Marbella, type Marbella into my phone book and the six or seven numbers I have in Marbella will appear. You can then hit that girl with a hey babe just came to Marbella. You're the first person I thought of, She'll reply. Oh my God, I didn't know you still remembered me. Doesn't matter if you remembered her. You know she lives in Marbella because the contact is saved as Marbella. So to recap, every time you save a girl's number in your phone, if I'm in New York City and I approach a beautiful brunette named Samantha, she's not that good looking, but I definitely want to see her if I'm there. I'd save her as three Samantha, her Instagram handle and New York City. When I'm in New York, six months down the line and I type New York. Speaker 2 City. Speaker 1 I can see Samantha's number is there. If Samantha was a 10 out of 10 gorgeous girl who lived here in my city of Bucharest, I'd say her as one Samantha Bucharest. That way, every day when I wake up, I type. Speaker 2 Number one in my firm. Speaker 1 Samantha appears along with my other priority girls, the girls I have, the girls I badly want, and she gets messaged every single day. There's no chance I'll figure. Disclaimer the 1-2 and. Speaker 2 3. Speaker 1 Depending on the operating system of your phone, you have to be careful. With my phone, the Tenino Lamborghini, typing the number one comes up with my contacts that start with one. I do realize that with some phones, if you press 1 it will start to dial A number one or show every number with A1 in it, in which case you simply save it as ONE. Phonetically, spell the number 12 and 3, but it is the same system. Whether you're new to the game of approaching and dating multiple women or it's something you already do, I hope you find this system useful. Thanks for listening.