The conversation explores diverse personal and professional experiences, from bartering services in creative industries to deep reflections on relationships, social media culture, and authenticity in content creation. Hosts openly discuss emotional challenges like relationship breakups, emotional cheating, and the difficulty of trust in love, often linking these to broader societal norms around gender and intimacy. A recurring theme is skepticism toward performative "exposure" and fake engagement on platforms, with participants emphasizing real human connection over digital metrics. The discussion also highlights awkward, real-life moments such as TSA body scans, personal traumas from past relationships, and the emotional toll of being misunderstood or dismissed. There's a strong critique of how social media amplifies outrage and trolling, often at the expense of meaningful dialogue. The group values authenticity, vulnerability, and genuine interaction—especially in live events—over polished content or monetary gains. They reflect on how personal growth, like overcoming past heartbreaks, can lead to healthier relationships and stronger self-worth. Ultimately, the conversation balances humor, honesty, and deep introspection, offering a raw yet insightful look into modern life, relationships, and the evolving nature of connection in digital times.
She in racial chat room showing feet Where'd she get that from fucking nori tweeted that I don't know why that's all my brain like why was she in racial chat room showing feet is like insane She got away with that shit boy. I tell you there's no such thing as cancellation. Oh Man, I feel like it's there's there's such thing as cancelation, but only for a crowd that you probably weren't gonna that wasn't your crowd anyway Yeah, people so people so dank bro. I'll she got to do she just start throwing ass and people right back Really like oh my god, those y'all book. I'll give you Somebody said bring back bartering and it comes from a story of a man in Oklahoma traded for pit bull Puppies for a Nissan Ultima as his down payment. Okay, and I think that is so dope because there's so many people all here that don't got liquid money Money, but I'm just saying you know, you know, I'm saying like I don't have like I don't even have the shit in credit right now But I do have a service you know, I'm saying like bro. I can give you a shout out. Hey, man Shout out to Jim down there at Maybach selling Maybach's man I like I like bartering like I think that's something I did Coming up and I I explore everybody to to try that as well, especially when you floor implore. No, I don't know. That's a good word. I'll just Because when I started photography many years ago, I didn't know you were a photographer. Yeah, I do a little bit Yeah, he's take pictures of just bootyhole There's there's things you can do to To get other services. I still do this to this day. Sometimes So boxing lessons I might I do videography too. So I might shoot a video in exchange for Boxing lessons or something like that. He downplaying and so he called he actually like really good But it just like I feel like the cost of doing it and like what we earn now in podcasting is very hard to book you It's very hard to like I would say it's like the money wouldn't be worth doing it I rather just barter at this time I rather just get a service from you are like even though it might not be equal to me But it's just like one of those things where it's like I like that I don't feel about if you're about to work with somebody and they're like, oh, well, it'll just give you exposure How do you feel about that? See, I don't like that But it's there's also I hate when people lead with the exposure part. Yeah, cuz if I think that doing this would get me Exposure then I would do it, you know, like there's certain things I tell people sometimes you have to do things for free To kind of get in the door, right? But there's some bushes. Yeah, it is but there's a there's a point of like taking advantage and like Actually, give an exposure because some people they'd be saying exposure. They don't really have good exposure They got fake bots. Yeah, there's no there's no one that has really like a whole bunch of like following it like a real loyal fan base They don't be like oh, I'll just give you a shot or the stuff like that like that doesn't work like bro Am I talented or not? Yeah, like what is all this exposure? Yeah, let me to come on your podcast and like make it funny. Yeah, and he's like oh bro. We got these followers for you Now there is like if you can visually see the shit like okay every time somebody go on that show There's a whole new audience that picks it up So like obviously we can never charge to be on like a podcast That's bigger than us or even the same as us for like cross promotion because they have a different audience that's something We can't get but if there was a podcast that was doing listener callers and they wanted us to come on their podcast And we have way more followers in them. Yes, and they got need a thousand And another thousand actually say something on the mic No, it's always it's it's hard to like we we talked about this I don't know if you said this on the pop but we had like people come on the want to come on the pot and be like Love to collab with y'all and like I had pull up and they'd be like oh that'd be like $5,000 or something like that People are meant the podcast games get messed up. We're people trying to pay their way. Yeah, that is not how it goes We we will never pay for a guest but the reason the other thing sorry the other thing is that if there's a guest that was worth having on To or worth pain we wouldn't be able to afford it. Yes That's the only thing that we have to it we have to be Will Smith and then he like man just told me 2500 now We can throw you two thousand dollars and we won't ask about you slapping that But you see the price you said 2500 right? Yeah, we can afford to pay somebody 2500 But we'll smit while we will smit be asking us for 2500 dollars. Yeah, you know me But I but I get it for those other type of podcasts like some podcast with interview base their guest base like Yeah, you're interviewing Charles to white and you basically about to ask some five questions and let him rent like yes I get it for those you he deserves to be paid that's the other thing about us That's why we would never charge any that's why we don't do any podcast that we don't want to do because we would never charge For it because please got I'm letting y'all know this now if you have a podcast and for some reason you ever get us on your podcast If you ask me more than three questions about myself Nika, I'm getting up in I've done nothing in this industry to be interview like Personal stories though, huh? It could be like more personal stories is cool But like if I get on the podcast don't ask me like how I started my podcast It's not what you're doing. Hello. Hey, the radio is for people who are driving It's a craze on these podcast Hey, like welcome to craze on this episode 254 I'm Mike. I'm I said I'm Pat. That's Pat. We got carry in the building today Hey, y'all what's up? And you know what y'all I actually want to start with this because I've been really mad at them for the past week Because they ignored my text message when I was just trying to wish them well on their shows So what's up with that? You text us on a Monday. What time you text? It was early six forty five forty five a.m. I think my girl don't let me text me back But we had a we we were stressing the day before that they were leaving though That morning. Yes, we couldn't find a car. We didn't know where we're how we're going to get to the next show Our flight was delayed. I didn't know that means you couldn't say. Oh, thank you. Yes This is what happened. We you know when a lot of shit's happening and you're trying to contact a multiple people to find a solution to something So your text message starts to move Lower and lower and lower and lower and lower and lower to the point is like I don't see it anymore. So that's our excuse though But then I get it now. I do get it. It sure your focus was on so many other things But how was it? It was good. Shout to Atlanta and Nashville. Yeah, that was a really good crowd two different crowds I did not know so what I'm learning now is There is a difference like this is no shade But there is a difference between audio listeners and visual listeners Because there's people that watch us visually and they know how we act. They know our mannerisms. They They're more interactive because they already kind of know what's going on And I would say that's more of the Chicago show that one is watch the clips watch the YouTube So they were kind of used to us. I was doing certain things in Chicago It was like there you go. He's doing it again like they watch Then we went to Nashville, which was I say Atlanta was more like Chicago But Nashville was like a gene before the show. He was like we're the audio listeners at and it's like the whole crowd exploded like 80% So these all people that watch on Spotify Apple whatever they watch on And they were just watching us the whole time. They're watching us with smiles on their faces the whole time And when we asked them like interacting like things and questions They looked at us like what the fuck are you talking to me for? Let's see some podcast like we literally had to grab a albino and they got out of the fucking crowd I can't wait to see that clip. Jamaican. What's he Jamaican? Jamaican albino with a sub baby mama. Yeah So baby mama we won't discuss his other stuff going on. He said give my shout out. I forgot his name. I forgot his name Nigga was like a sperm soda. You know who he is No, I mean, he's only nigga but kind of but it was dope. Both shows both shows were dope the different crowds But definitely still like everybody enjoyed themselves. I would say yeah, it was it's so weird meeting people in person And like us being like Like their day, you know, it's like oh shit. It's almost like a celebrity thing I'm like I feel very regular so I think a lot of them were like all you guys are really down to a lot of them We're saying we're taller than what they see like no they weren't saying taller. Uh, let's get this pause moment out the way Do not come up to us and say man y'all way bigger in person Just say taller Let's say taller brother This is after like a handshake like they shake our hand and be like and look at us like man y'all way bigger in person like Okay, let me hide my meat for the rest of the time Got to hide my meat for the whole episode. I was worried for y'all when you posted about how you had to get to Nashville Yeah, we found a random uber drive. I don't know there was no Rentals shout out to him. Do you remember his name Pete? Yeah, I got Pete man. I will never forget him No, I'll never forget him. I knew he was a good dude because when he put his arms above his head the bottom of his belly shows That's a good necker Jalya and nigga though, but I appreciate you Pete. Okay. There's a A podcast that Nikki laser did with um call her daddy Alex Cooper. Mm-hmm. And she was talking about how she left
That's her husband cheat, I believe. So I guess it's not cheating to her though. - Yeah, you like that. - Sometimes don't like to tell guys about this thing that I have where I'm like, you know, this is separate than the soulmate thing. Like I don't care if a guy has a sexual connection with a girl and like he was to use protection and just have sex with her for a night. Like I don't, I literally wouldn't care if my husband did that. I don't know why. I don't know why. If he were to like watch the wire with her or like do crossword puzzles or like text up like send memes and stuff, I would be like, what the fuck are you doing? Like that's our thing. Like emotional cheating would hurt me, but like physical, I'm just like, I kind of, I just feel like I understand how sex is for men most of the time, outside of relationship, it's just kind of transactional and it's just like they just want to nut. And it's not about like I want to spend my life with this woman. - So I'm glad we have a woman on the plot today to talk about, to discuss this a little bit. What do you think about that? - No, I get her point because emotional cheating definitely. It hurts a lot more because you actually care about this person kind of like when a woman cheats. She's gonna cheat because she allow for that man to get in her ear, right? So she allow for him to tell her sweet things and make her feel like she's wanted and all that other stuff. And for men, I get y'all are lustful. Y'all just want to bang, bang, booty, whatever. But I don't want neither one of them. - No, I feel it. - We're not doing physical cheating. We're not doing physical cheating. What are you talking about? - Because I get her point as well. But I also think about that, yes guys are, I would say it's just like just sex, right? It's like very transactional in the sense. - It means nothing to you. - But for the other girl that you're doing that with, that can then become emotional. 'Cause that's why I think a lot of women are more emotional in those sense when it comes to relationships. - I just don't, I don't get that. I don't get why you would want to be. Like as a guy, I don't want to be with a woman that would even allow me to do that. Because now I'm confused what's going on on your end. You're telling me I can do all this and all that. You know what I'm saying? And then it's just like, are you doing that? And then if you're not and just like, what's wrong with you? Like why do you feel like you're not enough? Just like, you feel like you're not enough that you want to bring another woman on. - So her point, she later on said in that interview that she feels that when she's with somebody for a long time and that their stories can't get boring after a while. And she wants them to go out there and make new memories and new stories. - So she's a cuck. - But that's what I'm saying. But she said she don't want to be in the room or she don't really want to hear a- - A distant cuck. - It's still the same thing. - She's given him like a hawk pass. - Yeah, basically a one way open relationship. - She's one of those women that get off because their men, because the dude is getting a lot, you know what I mean, getting a lot in the streets. She's just weird though. - But she's, Nikki Glazer's also a comedian. So she might want that. I want to hear what's going on in the relationship world. - So she might want to be single. - Only want to fuck one dude, but also see that dude fuck other women. - But she doesn't want to see it though. - But I just think there's a missing connection here. To me, there's always a gateway for something like that. That just doesn't make sense to me. - You want to just purely for the stories. Like, do the nigga get to take a shower when he come home? Or are you like- - Has to use a condom. - Have to set, oh what? So it's gonna smell like a NASCAR racer. - It would be surprise like how many dudes, even in like the league, NFL, NBA, and how many of their wives give them these passes. They just don't want you to make them look stupid. So don't bring no baby song. And they just want to, you know, they'll stay for the money. Sometimes. - I think I never have a problem with what works for other people's relationship. - Yeah me either. - That's how I look at Willy Jada. - Yeah, it works for them and it works for them. - I got a problem with them, but everybody else, I got nothing on them. They just keep making it on my timeline, so they should just be killing me though. - Now for real, no way. - She and racial chats showing food. - I'm sorry. - I fucked it up. - So food. - Showing food. - She and that raises the room. - I start to had, I had a thought. - Height surgery is gonna get- - I bet that all, Harara, I missed, right? - Nah, I'd keep it in. - No, no, no. - You know what you did to me, Harara? You know what you did to me, Harara. - Keep it in, keep it in. - Keep it in, Harara, and zoom in. - Keep it in, and you know what you did to me, Harara. Please don't do it to me, Harara. - Height surgery is gonna be way better in the future. Do you think there should be a limit to what height you can make yourself? - No. - So you think you can make yourself any height? - No, I wanna see everything. Like I wanna see somebody who's four or nine be able to go up to Wimby's height. - And see, no. - I guess it's the proportion part though, so I guess you don't really have a choice. - That's exactly what I want. - I want the same mistake that, you know, sometimes people who get the man who get the BBL abs and then the shit don't match the top part of their body and they look weird, the women who get they abs too big and they thighs look skinny as hell and they shit look like a lollipop. That's like, I wanna see people make those mistakes so I can fucking laugh. Look at you, you fucking idiot. You got fucking T-Rex arms in your six five, nigga. - We know you were five, two before. nigga can't even make his bed. - Listen to this. (laughing) - nigga look stupid as hell. - He's thinking his hands are out of his waist. (laughing) nigga, digging his pockets over him. He got a wing until his son. (laughing) - Stupid ass nigga. - Well, that's kind of scary because it is gonna get, like, it's gonna get better. There's gonna be different things that can do it. - I have to be who you wanna be. I'm tight. we just go back to being who we were born as. How about that? Yeah? Why everybody want to say? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. You gotta fix it. You have to say it's different. You said born as. What do you mean, like if you're born for a foot, stay for a foot? No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. And if you were born for a foot, by, let's go, let's go sit, carry to the minor league. We know what you meant, but no, we had to save you. That was a fun. No, that was great. You said you're standing on business. Yeah, you gotta be careful here. Oh my gosh. This tweet says, hit me with the harshest reality truth. It says, after a certain age, your parents slowly become your children. They ask simple questions, repeat stories, and depend on your patients the way you once depended on theirs. Very few understand this role reversal. What looks like innocence or inconvenience is really time coming full circle. Don't correct them harshly. Don't rush them. Care for them the way they once protected you. This is not a burden. It is a repayment. I would agree with that. That's the, that's probably like the only thing that I like truly agree with. Like when it comes to like, I guess I shouldn't say the only thing. That's the first thing that I truly agree with when it comes to religion, like honor thy mother, thy father, like when, when I hear stories of people, like if their mom or dad didn't do anything crazy abusive or really tear up their life, and they beefen with their mom or dad, I stay away from that person. Like there's no way you don't like your dad. You know what I mean? There's no way you don't like your mom. It gets to like a certain age or just like, if it wasn't anything crazy, like you wouldn't hit in your mom or your mom wasn't doing something to you stealing money and shit like that. And if it's just a regular situation and you're not cool with your parents, then no way we can be cool. Well, there's, I guess where does that line draw though? Yeah, there has to be a line. Yeah, yeah. It just depends on like, like say like your parents was stealing money from you or something. When? How much? Like some of you ever heard somebody say that lie? Like my credit fucked up because my mom was using my car. That little 500 ain't fuck your credit. What about that eviction notice? But I guess there is always a line though. Like everybody has their their breaking point, I would say. No, I get that. I don't want to talk about the. You're talking about like for a reason that you would deem petty though. Yes, yes, yes. I don't like, I don't like the pettingness. I don't like the like, you know, some people lead their parents behind because we in this new world, it's easy for us to to lean into like the equality. Love who you want to love, be who you want to be. That's popular now. It's easy for us to be that way. So like we get on our parents for their beliefs and it was easy for them to be that way back then. And I just feel like that's something to teach them because I see somebody beef with somebody be like, oh my dad's so conservative, I'm a liberal, I can't fuck with him. Like no, it's your job to slowly teach him and not just get rid of your dad because you all got different political views. What if you don't want to learn though? It's your job. That's what he gave you. How do you think you got to to me? You got to give the person credit. If you liberal is a reason why you liberal, he probably put you in the fucking liberal college for you to even learn that shit. He could have just took you to the meetings with him. Exactly. You wouldn't be where you at. So I feel like that's the grace you got to show it just like, okay, I'm mad you're still this way. But you did get me to where I'm at. So I'm going to show you a little grace.
I get what you're saying, I think for me, the effort would just become less and less over the years past. If my dad was like a super racist or something, right? (laughing) If my dad was just a super racist, right? It would get to a point where it's like, you try to slowly teach, you try to slowly teach, you try to slowly teach, but I'm teaching for 20 years. - Yeah, no. - Then it's like, okay, my teaching gets a little bit, I'll always love him, right? - That's the key right there. - That's all I'm talking about. - Okay, I'll get you. - You know what I'm saying? - Yeah, yeah. - It's just like, okay. - I'm conditional love. - I'm conditional love, because we get to the point is like, my thing is, Mike's in his position too, no offense to your brothers, no offense to my sisters. It's like, we are the, like, I wouldn't say chosen ones, but we are the most responsible ones. Like, we are the ones that are blessed enough to be in this position for some reason. People that I grew up with had to go through like different trauma, and for some reason, my ascension was a little bit smoother than theirs, and I got to where. So that means I'm lucky enough. So that means like, when I have like these situations, like, oh, I don't like that my sister do this. I don't like my, like, you blessed enough to understand, like, what they're doing, and you're blessed enough to work your way around it. That's your job, my name is like, your job is to take care of your family, not to run away and be like, oh, so stay on believing this, I'm done. - Right, I can see that, you know, you gotta love them regardless. And if y'all just don't agree on certain things, then okay, y'all end up just not agreeing on it. But certain family members, you gotta cut them off. I'm sorry. - Yeah, I feel like if you're not in immediate family, then yeah. - You're not just gonna keep talking to me. Like, you know how some people say at the family reunion, or let's say things given or something, you got the auntie always talking about, when are you gonna get your husband? When are you gonna have some kids? No, couldn't you off? Why are you talking to me like that? I'm not a kid. - How long have you been single? - At that point. - Oh, at that point. - Is that question, is that? - You don't be seeing that big after her mother. - No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. - Don't break our camera, you know. I'll just talk about at that point. - Like, let's say it's five, seven years, and your auntie every single year is like, when you gonna get a man, when you gonna, you know, it's like, come on now. - Then you got a teacher just to be like, auntie, yo man, not shit. So you might need to slow down and think. One of us need to think, I need to slow down. 'Cause you're like, you just rushing to the shit. - Yeah, exactly. - Look at this nigga over here. He drunk his fuck. This is the type of shit you want. - I'm all down for cutting somebody off. - But the thing about it, I feel like, I don't want to say I'm lucky as a black man in America compared to someone white. But I will say, they have like a liberal white person that comes from a conservative family. It's just like a bigger difference. - I feel what you. - I just got to get my cousin to stop being homophobic. It's an easier transition. Like, hey bro, chill. We don't say those type of words no more chill, right? - Teach them about voting. - This girl that's in college wanna date a Mexican guy, and she got to go back home every holiday and hear her dad rip off five Mexican jokes. Like, she got to meet in that bridge eventually. So it's just like, it's a little bit more fucked up for them. I feel like, because like old school white people, man. Ain't nothing worse, right? - Have you seen Justin Bieber's Coachella performance? - I saw clips and I was almost brought to tears. I'm not gonna lie to you. I was a believer growing up. - There was a lot of hate about it. So there was people on the internet saying like, this is how men can just do the bare minimum and still get praise for it. Like a woman can do what he did. And the reason they're saying that well, Justin Bieber's performance, there was a point where he got on his laptop. - It was the whole performance, wasn't it? - No, no, no, it was like in the middle. - Oh, okay. - So he had on his laptop was on YouTube, and it was projected on the screen. And he was playing his old hits on YouTube. So he's like, you see him searching it up. Like, he were cheering when they saw the song being typed before he even played it. So he's doing all these like, baby, all those like, - Was he singing it too? - He was singing it too. - He was harmonizing with his younger soul. - That's hard. - It was so tough to me because it's like, again, you grew up like, Justin Bieber is one of those like, legends in the sense that he grew up, and we're all around the same age. So it's like, you actually were the same age when this nigga was popular. - Yes. - And you actually grew up with him and he's still just as popular. And for like, he's the only one that could do that. - And so, the boy. But, no, Justin's performance with the laptop, I didn't see anything wrong with that at all. Especially like you said, he got his start on. - Yeah, he too is like that. And he's been through a lot. So for him to even be out in public and sing in and comfortable, that's a big step. - And I think it's a privilege to do the bare minimum. I think when you put in the work. - That's it. - That's the whole, like how to put in the work. Like, if Michael Jackson was still alive today and he got on stage and sat down the whole time. - He wouldn't. - He wouldn't, but I'm gonna say it. Like, save you decide to and sit down on stage the whole time and wasn't dancing to nothing. - Yeah. - Just harmonized song and it was like, say you didn't even have no music, no bad, nothing. - Mike can't women pass it now, bro. - Yeah. - Mike can get on stage and do nothing. Mike can get on the stage and do nothing. And everybody was still screaming. - Exactly. - Like you said, prepare a first before somebody says, I'm not comparing Michael Jackson to you. - I am. I gotta be for him five. Michael Jackson is all the time. Let me chill. - Why do you guys compare Michael Jackson to me, bro? - But no, but you're right though. I think that's the whole point of it. It's not the bare minimum. I hate when people insert something that men and women don't matter in this equation. It's fucking Justin Bieber. Bruno Mars could probably do the same thing. There's other people that have, it's like about having the catalog enough to go back to when he was a fucking teenager and show you like, man, I gotta search this shit up. He probably ain't seen a video in a long time. - I think the thing is that it was very relatable. And I don't think that's why I don't think it was a bare minimum. I think it was actually thought out because the way people discover Justin Bieber back then was through YouTube. You were typing it in. So to see Justin Bieber typing it in in YouTube, you see him clicking on his old videos like all. It's probably nostalgic. The nostalgic is fuck for the people in the audience as well. So I feel like people just complain about anything. - No, no, no, no, no. - Well, I learned about, especially Twitter. 'Cause that's what we mostly see. - Twitter is not a real place. - Yes, not a real place, bro. And there's so many pockets of people in the world. Now that like tweets can go, there can be somebody on Facebook. And they get a tweet on somebody post a tweet on Facebook. You can search that person's name and go back to Twitter and go like this shit. So we got all these social media apps that are working in Unison. I literally just seen. - Like the anemic thing. - There's like a black woman that might have got murdered by her like white boyfriend. And they found her. It's just like some weird ass evidence going on, blah, blah. I won't speak on that. But there's a pocket of people that are just like, that's what she get for dating a white man. And then she got like, and I showed Mike, and then she got six thousand likes. So six thousand, and I was seeing like back in the day, if a tweet got six thousand likes, there's some truth to it. There's some credibility. But you just got six thousand likes. And three thousand are probably people that agree. And the other three thousand are just be like, oh shit, I can't believe you just said that shit. And that's where I think majority of the likes are coming from nowadays. People don't agree with opinions. It just be like, bro, I can't believe this nigga got that crazy of him opinion. I may hit like because they like chaos. - Yeah. - No, that is definitely a fact. I had, 'cause people feel a little bit more confident behind the screen, regardless, you know. So they'll even say stuff that they don't really mean. That's why you got so many trolls out here now. - That's like just trolls. Like this, the, it's just the ease of doing it with like no consequences. Like you said, they're not gonna say things that they don't even believe. But it's like, I'm gonna say the most outrageous things to get these likes and to get these shares and stuff like that. - Sometimes people just want responses and shit like that. Like we'll see like, you know, 500 comments of like, people just focusing on a video. And then somebody will say something about one of us. And you're like, you wanted our attention. And then when we give you our attention, then you run like a little bitch. - Nah, it's all a no, I'll fuck with the pie. No, no, no, no, no, no, nigga. Stop watching the pie, you bitch ass, nigga. You're banned. - Man, what's up with Charles Boyce? - I opened the Crafts Jimmy's podcast. - That's the word. - Yeah, sir. - I got a question. - I was just that char life, so I'm not as good. - Oh, fire. - What you think about it, bro? - I was in the front row. It was, it was fire. It was fire, y'all. - Honestly, depending like you, anything you think we should like add to it to make it better. I don't worry, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no, no No, no, no, no, no, no, no, no. That's dope is fun. That's dope is hell. Appreciate you coming up, bro. I got a question for you. What's something you hate about your job? All right, bro. One thing I hate about my job is touching me all day, bro. Pause. Listen, bro. Listen, pause. I'm at work right now, bro. I'm not touching me right now. to be fair, man. I'm on the clock. God reveal what you do. Let me please. All right. I'm, I'm a TSO. I'm, I worked for TSA, man. Okay. Like the airport, man. Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, what? Listen, Brad, listen, Brad. So when our system is right, Brad, whenever you come through the body scanner, y'all probably got pre-check. If you got pre-check, you cool. You just go through the merit-tector, right? Mm-hmm. If you don't got pre-check, you gotta go through the body scanner. So if you go through the body scanner, if you got anything in your pockets, like in your back pocket, sometimes you got a belt on. If you're all sweaty, you're going to arm in the groin. If you were arm in the groin, we got to pat down that whole area groin buttocks, inner thighs. So you just backhanded me all day. Nice place. Yeah. Hot outside, bro. Like nigga sweatin. I'm just backhanding me all day. That's crazy. And the way y'all dressed up, you to meet me.
manager. Brad Chio, Brad Chio. He could be, he could be, he could be, he could be seeing TSA stand for the sexual assault. I don't know. I never heard that. If you're on that. No, that's crazy. So you be doing it like backhand, fronthand, nah, not fronthand, too, not fronthand. But backhand, it's like, no, it definitely happened to me when I've gone through the scanner machine before. No. Every time, for me, before I got TSA pre-check was the, if I were big joggers, I'd be like, then it would always. Yeah, Brad. Anything can do it, Brad. If you got your jeans too thick, your joggers too thick, Brad. Who make the, but who make the car though? Is it you or, no, I'm saying the machine. So you got listen to the machine. I'm not making the car, Brad. Yeah. It's the machine that show you. It'd be like boom, it's a red box. Over there. Me, wherever. Because you get that red box. You guys search that hurts. Because y'all asked those, like, do y'all want me to search you here or do you want to go to a backhand? Yeah. Yeah. You can get a private screen. So what if you go to private show? How much I gotta pay for that? Right here, Brad. It's a winner's in there. Anything, Brad. Oh, it's a threesome, Brad. Brad, Brad. You got it, Brad. You got it, Brad. Brad. You got it. I think it was Brad. Nobody who's crossing his arm at this show. I think it was. But she was tired, Brad. Yeah. You got it, Brad. You got it, Brad. Brad. You got it. You got it, Brad. You got it, Brad. You got it, Brad. I think it was Brad. I think it was. This show was tired, Brad. with the bad way. The average tireless. No, we appreciate all the TSA workers because y'all keep us safe. Y'all. So you weren't getting paid for a little bit then. Huh? We still not getting paid. But they still own money right now. But you get checks that coming through though right now. Right. No, it's propaganda, Brett. So we got paid some of it. Some of our back pay we did get paid, but they still owe a lot of us money and a lot of people still didn't get like where we are. So like when you guys say they don't know when we're going to get our next one. That's crazy. So when you get these, obviously the TSA jobs, you kind of know like there's a risk of this happening with like the government shutdowns of stuff, right? Yeah, that's true. I'm just wondering. I'm not really tripping them news. We watch CNN like ESPN. But no, like real life. How do y'all prepare for that? Like, is it just like saving money? Yeah, you really are like luckily I'm in a situation. So we're like, I got some money. So I'm not, I'm not tripping right now. But like people and I don't got no kids. I don't got no girl. So it's like, I don't got nobody dependent on me to spend money on nothing like the life. No, I got. No, that's real shit. No, that's real. Yeah, that's what I'm saying. The people who really. Yes, because I'm we're doing well for myself, but I'm not going to lie. If I miss two paychecks, like if I didn't get paid two straight months, like, I don't care what type of, I'm going to be like, now I'm like penny pinching for everything. But I don't know. Some people, some people are good at saving for rainy days. Some people aren't. So you look like you're, you're a man you get. Yeah. So what's your, um, I mean, people got like kids and stuff and be different. What's your message to them? What's your message to the government? Man, just give us our money, man. I can't say too much. No, I feel it. You know, they got, they listen to me as we do. I was feeling the air for, but I think I think you, I think you valuable to the company. You know, I mean, I hope that if I give you a bonus, you start doing the front hands. Yeah. A little privacy. You say what? I need to hear you. Yeah. Yeah, I got it, man. All right, bro. You have a good one. Hey, y'all come back to Nashville, bro. I'm in there. No, we're at Lennon. You know, Lennon. We definitely don't run it back in Atlanta. Actually, in Atlanta, you maybe at the top of our knuckle. Bad, bad. All right, brother. I'm going to see y'all boys hold it down. Yep. Peace. PLP. Yo, Christ. Tell me what's going on. What did do? Yes, man. Pretty good yourself. Good, buddy. Not too bad. Not too bad. All right. Well, y'all called me before. It's a 6 6 star bucks for Lisa. Oh, yeah. Shout out to you. How you feel about that clip before you get into it? Hey, love key. I love it, bro. I would have to be a clip. Yeah. We, you know, sometimes like a lot of people ask us to take a clip down after it already got like two million views. We don't know what we could do with that. And like, we, you know, we just appreciate you being in good sport. No, I mean, I show my parents. I show my fucking my brother and share brother. Everybody loved it. I was so hyped. But you still ain't, we, we told you to go back. You still got college eligibility. I promise, I promise. I've been back in the gym. I been. I was going to go out the colleges. Let me, it might give you like some training sessions. So we see like, obviously, we're not like the greatest basketball mind. I need more workouts. Yeah, we can, we can just see like the holes in your game. And then maybe we could just like get you a trainer. We know a trainer. Nate, you know, I'm saying we get you with him and then get you right, bro, for his next run, bro. We want to invest a lot in you, bro. All right. All right. I'll get you guys a huddle link. Nah, he's funny, bro. What's up? Do you hate about your job? These drinks, man, they're getting out of hand. But especially with this warmer weather, bro, people be wanting like extra ice in their drinks. And I got this, I got this regular. It comes through. They get a frappuccino with six shots in it. Yeah, that's like, it's like two thousand milligrams of caffeine. Like, what do they look like? Just describe them. It's literally, I mean, it's literally just like this, this brown milky like cold concoction. I just got a porn. No, no, no, no, what is the person ordering it? Look, that was good. Seren when he started you, bro. A lot of times it's the white bitches. Maybe we should step for bro. Okay. Okay. All right. Uh, the white women, the white women. Oh, yeah, my bad, my bad, my bad, my bad, my bad, my bad. You're literally a six percent international women's century. Yeah. I'm sure you deal with, I feel like there's more women that go to Starbucks than men. So I feel like you shouldn't, that should mean being you know, you know, you know, your coworkers and I think too, I think with the way you said it to, it didn't sound like you naturally said it. Yeah. It's like white bitches. Well, go ahead, no, we're not gonna police. No, I mean, it's like, it's like, it's like the Karen's though. Okay. So like, do they, do they classify or? No, you can talk shit about Karen's. All right. Yeah. So that's what it is. It's the Karen's. They're like, you made this wrong, blah, blah, blah, I need this remade. I want my drink for free, blah, blah. And it's just like, I want to throw it out of them. So you work at Starbucks, right? Correct. So what's like the worst drink, like besides that one, then somebody's like asked for like the most like complicated one because I feel like with Starbucks orders, people kind of like start to modify theirs in different ways. Yeah, I had somebody that they get a hot matcha with three espresso shots in it. Dude, it was like this green, dark green gray looking thing. Have you ever said that you don't know how to make something? Oh, yeah, all the time. I'll tell them no all the time. I bet people show me AI generated drinks off Facebook. So do you, so do you hate when trends start or do you like when trends start because they're so annoying. We just had, we just had this one trend. It was like this Hannah Montana drink or something like that. And they just did not tell anybody that was working at Starbucks that they were doing this collab or whatever. So we just had people coming through asking for the Hannah Montana drink and we're like, what the fuck are you talking about? That's crazy. No, that's actually crazy. So do you have to look it up on TikTok or some shit? Yeah, like I got a Google these recipes and stuff. Listen, people don't have take batter and do you know what's in the Hannah Montana drink for our listeners? It is a strawberry outside your refresher with pumps of raspberry syrup and raspberry cold foam. What's up with the rat? Is that her favorite thing? No, she actually says in the show, how much she hates raspberry. Man, oh man. I have brother. You have a go on, bro. Shout out to Miley. Hey, you guys too. I appreciate it. No, I appreciate you. What's going on, guys? You're welcome to the dummies podcast. Thank you. Thank you. I'm glad to be here. Okay. Okay. Why are you single? Why? Why are you? I feel like Candaceelle. Like, I love them all. Like, I just have a big heart, you know? I like that. I love them. Maybe we'll call that something else. So you got a roster. Oh, no, but I'm not living on them all. We're not accusing you. We're not accusing you in nothing. Okay. Okay. Do you got a roster, though? Okay. So I used to. I used to. Because I was in a relationship for a long time. And like, I was a breadwinner. Like, I was the one. It was long business. I was traveling down there a long distance breadwinner does not exist. You're looking at it. You're talking to her. Okay. We were in a relationship for a lot of four years. I'm not letting you get away with that. Like, what is a breadwinner from long distance look like? Meaning that I think she makes more money out of the relationship. But that don't mean breadwinner, though. But she might like, for instance, I'm just she might be making more trips. Were you making more trips? I was making more trips. I was making more money. I was making more everything. Yes. Still not a breadwinner. They don't live together. Okay. Then maybe listen. Okay. Maybe that was the wrong word. Just want to be technical then. All I was trying to say that I made more money. There you go. Say that then.
So you just want to break the river and I'll let Pat, don't let Pat get you out of saying. Yeah, I'm like, well, go ahead, go ahead, go ahead. But no, I just gave a lot in our relationship. And so fast forward, he ended up breaking up with me, but I guess that was just like me getting out and I'm free. Well, listen, let's not glance over that either, like, why do you think he broke up with you? You know, like, I can't even get to the plot because you owe me your ass and all these things. Yeah, because we want to know who we talking to. Towards the end of the relationship, like, again, like I will say, like, I checked out a little bit because me traveling, me, like doing all the shit with him, like, I don't know, he's like, oh, you don't, okay, I'm going to answer you now. But like, no, it's just I, it took a lot out of me. And so I ended up going through here. So I told me, go, did I find out what that I found on my other day, boom, he got some messages silent. He was talking to two other girls and, yeah, like, it was his coworker. And it was like, she was, I will let me know what you're making, say, make it safe to my band. Like, hello. So, yeah, that was that. So he was mad. That I kind of dragged it. I was like, okay, get up. I need to go shopping for my mom, like, you got to get up, get out. And so he was like, what's the matter? What's the matter? I'm like, nothing, nothing, nothing. Yeah, they end up coming out. I was out with your phone. I saw the messages like, it's never been that good. So yeah, he got mad because he felt like I was secretive. How did you do? You don't want to be secret? I was talking about it. Like, yeah. No, she went from right now to the slice of the loaf. Whoa. Not too much on me. I'm not the problem. He ain't got a hand on me. Yeah, okay. Okay. Y'all getting beside Joseph. You're right. We're like, we're totally getting you. We just had two bad phone calls and this one actually good. So we a little bit too. Okay, okay. I'll let it slide. I'll let it slide. Appreciate it. Appreciate it. You let that make a smile. Okay. So okay. Let's get back to the original point. What do you mean by you loving them all now? Okay. So like, getting out of that relationship, like again, I gave so much. And so, you know, I'm not a man-hittered, like, you know, I'm a Pisces. I'm a lover girl. And so, I might see a little bit in you and I'm like, Oh, I like that. Well, I love that. And so nobody really came across that was a total package, but I got this piece from over here. This piece from over here. And so, I was just living life. I'm young. I got no kids. I make money. Like, what? Body tea. Like, I don't know. Like, why wouldn't I be living like this? And I wasn't really meeting anybody on because I'm sure they had at least I'm going on too. But, yeah, it's like, different flavors, different flavors of the spittles, you know? You know, like. How long, how old are you? If you don't mind me, I say. I'm 26. 26. Okay. Like, what'd you do for a living? Like, where all this money coming from? Okay. Okay. I don't want to be like, I'm like, you're rich or anything. You said, but I mean, you see, you made money three times. We never asked you to sell. You got to be rich. Well, well, I had to play a play. You don't understand about the past relationship. I got trauma, okay? Okay. Like, I'll never do that again. But, no, I'm like, I do operations and contract management. I'm like, yeah, that's no big deal. Yeah. Yeah, yeah. Yeah. Don't doubt yourself. We believe you make a lot of money. You say you keep saying the shit. So it got to be. Anyways, anyways, I'm 12 in the end. Okay. I mean, more money than you. And I still do. But I think you do a better now. But no. But so. So where do you like? Do you ever see yourself being in like a position where you want to be in a relationship? And I'm laughing already. Like, when I answered already, I'm going to come to this. 'Cause y'all hate what people do this. But I actually settle down, you know? You're so fucking annoying. So you let us talk all that shit and go through this and you have a boyfriend. Okay. Okay. I have a boo. So. Yeah. What's the difference between a boo and a boyfriend? She is. My goodness. We haven't. He hasn't made it official. 'Cause you make too much fucking money. That's why. No. No. She made too much money for that digger. I finally, I finally feel like I'm finding somebody like we're on the same level. Okay. He looks good, treats me good. We're going in place. We're doing stuff like we're living my power. We're supposed to be living it. Is he the only one that you're loving on right now? Yes. And I'll put that on me. Right? This is my blue. Nobody's staring at me right now. Everybody behind me. Nobody else can do it. Okay. Okay. How long have you been talking? We've been talking since January. January. What month is it? January, February, March, April. So four months. You say? Yeah. Four months. Like, do y'all see each other every day? I mean, like five times out the week. Five times out the week. We, we, he's not seeing you on a weekend or something? Uh, yes. Absolutely. You tried it. No, we do. By Monday, Wednesday. Well, it should be like, we don't see each other every single day. Just random. Yeah. Do y'all see together those nights also? Um, yes. Um, What do you mean, like in the same bed? Yeah, I often do y'all wake up with each other off the week. Um, like four or five. Whenever I go over, he comes over. Yeah. We're typically the same. Okay. Okay. This. This sound legit. Four months seem a long time. Like. I feel I feel like he should. I do that. I feel like this is right when he should be asking her. So like right about. It should be coming up, right? Do you feel like it's coming up? I think so because we kind of glaze over it. And I feel like he was like. Oh, you know, you're like, you mine. I'm like, okay. But like until, you know. It's like, hey, you're going to my girlfriend. And then we do that all the time. But I'm just saying like the official night and time. Right. We, we together. But again, till he. Why don't you take that initiative and ask him? Yeah. Brad, whatever. Hello. Come on. Come on. Hey. That. You were the pants, right? Yeah. I hope that he finds the, you know, the courage to ask you out and or make it official. I think it's there. I'm going to let you all know. Okay. Yeah, that'll let me back. No, we got you break. Make sure you bring them to the Cali show. Wait. No. She said, wait, no. In the fall. In the fall. We'll be there in the fall. Okay. Bad. We're going to be there. I was already telling him about you. I put him on y'all. Are you told him? You told him about us. Yeah. What do you say? He was by. I never heard of him. Oh, he's looking. I don't. No, that didn't get hit in. That's my life. I never heard of the biggest. He probably seen a clip. And didn't even know it was off for real. That happens. No, no, no, no, no. Then they got hate him, bro. He knew her algorithm. Well, I'm going to be going by the sickest that we're going to be there. So don't worry about it. Don't worry about it. I never heard of the biggest before. Oh, my goodness. Dragon. Have a good day, y'all. You do. Yeah. Yo, what's the word, bro? That's good. I'm pissed. Down. Yeah. I'm pissed because we need. We need two more callers to like make the episode just to be transparent. And like, like the way you sound, if you like, we know what the kid would call. I got a question for you, bro. Why are you single? All right. So listen, I'm not single anymore, but when I was single, I couldn't catch feelings, bro. My lost relationship hurt me so bad that I couldn't catch feelings anymore. And like, I could find people attractive, but I couldn't care less. What is that called you out, bro? Yeah, I told you. Come on out. What did your last relationship do to you? What does she do to you? It's not what she did. It's just how it ended. Mm-hmm. Yeah. It's, it's more like the break up was messy. We'll just tell it. Explain it. Explain it, bro. I'm telling you. I'm telling you. I'm telling you. I'm telling you. We can't go back and forth and shit. There was a lot of art. This is another example of like our listeners, you know, here. This one's making it just a proof of point. Again, I'm just, I feel like I have to prove a point like every six months for you all that the college aren't fake that we do get bad ones. We just do a lot of collars. And sometimes we get good ones. Sometimes we get bad ones. That was an example of a bad one. So I didn't believe it in the pot. I told you, bro. I know in a bad college. Yeah. Yo. What's the word? What's up? Oh my god. Why are you single? I just keep cheating, bro. I got a passion for cheating. Passion. Please don't say passion, brother. What would constitute as a passion? Like, it's like, I just love the thrill of it. Like, when one girl just do me right, I feel like a never girl could do better than a never girl could do better than a never girl could do better. I'm just thinking about it just making me feel good right now. Are you in a relationship right now? Hello? Yo.
- Are you in relationship right now? - You said what? - Are you in a relationship right now? - Relationship, relationships. - Some, some like that but not really. - What's like? - Oh my god, this is terrible. - Okay, okay. Do you love her at least? - Yeah, I love, I love, I love him. I love him, make me complete. - When you say it's called a puzzle, see? - When you say all of them. - Like how many were you talking? - I mean, it differs 'cause sometimes I don't feel like talking to her, sometimes they block me. So you know how that should be going. - I don't. - But it'd be like, it differs, it differs, it differs. - Right now, it's hard time. - Like, give us a range. - Right now, I'm just like mixed in with like, four or five bitches right now. I mean, four or five females right now. - I feel like when you're cheating, you could use bitches. You could do say whatever you want, bro. - Yeah, they already know you'll step back, bro. Just stick with it. - Fuck. - So who's the, so who's the like, main? 'Cause in order to be cheating. - I'm the third one now. - In order to be cheating. - And I've just been dollared in bitches. - So you got your heart broke before. - That's how you got here. - Wait, how'd you get your heart broken though? Did you cheat to get in and then she left you? - I mean, it's all like, what is that? You know how like, when you just cheat and cheat and cheat and cheat and cheat on female and then when that one time she just cheat on you and it'd be like, damn, you really did that. - So she cheated on you. - I just couldn't, yeah, I just couldn't look at her like, um, you disgustin' bitch. - Oh my God. - Hold on now, okay, all right. - All right, all right, all right. - Just slow down, go back to the female where you like. We like, even though that's bad too. But what we want to ask you is, how does she cheat on you? - Wow, she's crazy. Let it all go. - Keep basically like, we're just talking to a nigga at work and just lie. And I kept asking about it 'cause I swear, my superstitions never lie. - You're what? - They kept like, my superstitions, she never lie, bro. - Superstitious. - Okay, go ahead. - They said they kept something, bro. This bitch being sneaky at work. So I asked about it. She like, nah, woo, woo, woo, woo, so cool. I pull up the work and I just feel something different, bro. Like, something different, like the best thing is she just stop. She just stop doin' weird shit. So cool. I find out she talkin' to a nigga at her job. She flopped out to her birthday. She actin' like she, she out there with her sister. - No, she out there with the nigga too. - Oh, man. - Wait, why are you calling my mother? - Why you didn't go with her for her birthday? - She call my mother's like, yeah. Oh, fuck, my mother bitch. - Oh my gosh. - The nigga is terrible, bro. - I'm not gonna lie, bro. Did you deserve everything you got, bro? - Yeah, for sure. That happens to you. - Oh, bro, but it's like, we was locked in for like six years, bro. - No, you don't do that, bro. - She was locked in. - You weren't locked in for real? - You were literally with another girl on her birthday. - But look down. - I gave her money to go spend on her birthday. So that's a lie. - Yeah. - I at least thought about you. I did something for you. They ain't like, I don't love you. I love you. - And now, man, you, you fuckin' up the dating bro, with this one. - But the dating boy is crazy. - That shit, dating bro. - Look down, I'm tryin' to find a good host on a wife, bro. I promise you, when I do that, I love the game. The games, the games, the games. People throwing salt in the game. And females want to be niggas, bro. And it is just weird today. - So none of the girls that you're talking to right now, like, they're not wholesome woman? - I mean, they wholesome, but they ain't like, I bring around a family for family trips and bring around more dukes. No, I'm just cracking them and they die. - So why don't you like, I mean, it seems like you have the ability to get girls, right? You got, like, four or five right now. So why don't you go for the wholesome ones? - I like hos, bro. Like, I don't know, it's just, I like the hos. - But you just said you wanted the wholesome woman to settle down. - Yeah, a wholesome ho for myself, dude. - I don't think those exist. - You got to make 'em. - Oh, okay. Yeah, bro, I have nothing for you. I'm not gonna lie. - It's like, yeah, you two, it's not like you two far gone. - Yeah, you got to go on this path on your own, man. - How old are you? - It's your own journey. - I'm 26, bro. Might be 26 and two months. - Okay, okay. - All right, man. Just hope you turn in the corner. Hope you try to, you know, a nice woman. - Hopefully, bro. Hopefully. - That's all we got for you, brother. Any much we can do. - Hey, yeah, I fuck with y'all podcast, bro. I've been fucking with y'all since, like, two, two, two, two, two hundred something, bro. I don't even know, bro. - I'm just like two hundred thousand, bro. - No, I appreciate it, bro. Appreciate the support, man. Just, you know, try to clean up the act a little bit. But, hey, it's your life you do you. I'm not here to judge, but-- - No, I appreciate it, bro. - I have. (laughing) - Hello. - Hello, what's the deal? - How are you? - Dude, how are you? - I don't know some speaker songs. I need to take this off for a speaker call or no. - Oh, shit. If you're so good, you can talk. - No, you don't take this off. - You said turn it off? - Yeah, 'cause we can hear ourselves. Unless you got your phone on top. - That's how we can be feeling on this side. - We don't, I think when you guys are a speaker, it makes it echo for us or for the listeners. But when you're not a speaker, it might echo for you, but it won't sound that way. - No, we don't care for real. (laughing) - Okay. - What's something you hate about your job? - I hate how, like, just because, like, you want to make it far in the company, they want you to suck their political wee-wee. It's like, I'm not doing all of that. And then half of y'all don't even be handsome or single enough for me to be doing it. Like, if you were single, maybe. If you were handsome, you got to even more likely, just for it to happen, especially if you don't plug me in with more money. - Whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa, whoa. - We're not talking about a hypothetical blow job. We're talking about a real one. - Well, I thought-- (laughing) - Well, you said like-- - I can kind of bow. - When you said that, I was thinking of like, like, some metaphor that you're talking about to, like, climb the political level. - I mean, yeah, no, it's a metaphor. - Okay. - But it's honestly, like, it could be the truth too, because, like, say, you know, it just ends up being your husband. Now it's a win-win situation, 'cause he helps you get to the top of the company. Now, both y'all at the top of the company, all because you suck these wee-wee. But also, like, for the ones that-- No, no, no, no. Some of them just be like, oh, yeah, kiss up to me. Suck my wee-wee. Yeah. - You're saying is it work? - No, no, no, no. - Mara Lea is like, you can tell. You can, if you're in the corporate workplace, you can really tell, like, which ones would, like, rather you throw yourself or like, kiss up to them, rather than the ones who, like, see your determination? - No, I get to kissin' up in the determination, right? - I get to the kissing up in the determination part, but the sucking wee-wee part is what-- - That's the same thing. - That's the same thing. It's just different. - No, no, no, no. It's just a different way to put it. - I get it, like, people be like, oh, that dude dick sucking. Like, like, you know? - Yeah, yeah. - You got a lot of it, but-- - Exactly, yeah, yeah, yeah. - Like, laughing at your boss's jokes in the break room is different than sucking his dick. So that's what we're trying to like-- - That's exactly what you're doing, though. No, it's the same thing. - No, it's not the same thing. - Unless you're actually, unless you're actually-- - That's what we're saying, no, that's the same thing. - We're trying to make sure that you're not talking about that. Like, you're not actually talking about the physical thing of sucking your boss's dick. - I mean, see, okay, I'm gonna give you like a little-- Now I'm about to be one of those, one of those listeners, but I'm about to tell my business real quick. (laughing) - Why don't you just explain it to me? - I'm about to tell my business real quick. So back when I, like, was in one of my first jobs or whatever, my district manager was Italian. And he had a thing for younger girls. I was like, okay. - Please, please, please, please, please, please, please. - I didn't expect you to leave me. - Okay, clarify, you mean, like, of age woman, right? - Yeah, no, I was of age. - Okay. - I was 18. So here's just, he's a creep. 'Cause why are you anyways? But yeah, he was my district manager. And we just decided to do some crazy things one day. And then I found out he was married and had a baby on the way. So I was like, oh no. So then I was like working like, maybe 20 to 35 hour work weeks. But he was planning me for 80 hour work weeks. So I was like, all right, yay. I appreciate you. Don't do me, like, I don't get quiet. - What do you want us to say after that? - Yeah, that's like, you're a victim. That's not good. But he didn't do anything physical, right? - Does it work if I have the size on the same end? - Nah, I mean, yeah, young and dumb. But my checks are nice. I didn't know what was going on at that point, but I'm old enough to know now. (laughing) - Okay. - No, no, wait, wait, wait. I got something for the Raleigh Colors. To any Raleigh listeners that are males and single,
I wanna see the rally show like come looking nice 'cause we can probably go on a date after. Like, what's good? How y'all doing? - I mean, we can bring you on stage and find you. - No, don't do that. Don't do that. - You don't wanna do that. - Okay, I'll do that, I'll do that. Yeah, no, I'll do that. Dang, I actually gotta come looking cute now. - Dang, you wanna come and come your best self? - Why would I, it's a chilly bit. I feel like y'all show us me a little bit, but I can be chill. - We might, we might switch you to the Charlotte show and give you free tickets to the Charlotte show. - I already paid for my Charlotte show. Why would you do that? - Oh, okay. So we might, we might do, we'll reimburse you. Yeah, we'll reimburse you. We'll do it there. If you want to know something. - Well, my little girl wants to come with me to the rally show. - Yeah, that's fine, that's fine. We'll figure that out too. We got you on that too. - All right. - But if you wanna do the date and show, we'll reimburse you and we'll do like a small, little 10 minute date and show and we'll find you, somebody in the crowd, maybe find you like two or three dudes come up and tell you. - Maybe a listener? - Yeah, or maybe some listeners. We'll do some listeners, yeah. - Okay, maybe don't. - All right, I can do that. - Let's lock in. - Bye you guys. - Bye, bye. - Oh man, oh, this is the important question I had. This is very deep. I need y'all to put y'all thinking caps on. I hate to get serious on this podcast, but I have to. Okay, the question is, if you had to be stank, which would you rather be? - Pissie, shitty, mildew, or musty. - Mildew. - Mildew? - Mildew. - I don't remember. - I think mildew is like one of those smells that you can blame it on the environment that you're in. - I don't even remember what mildew smells like. - It's like when you leave clothes in the washer too long. - Yeah. - Kind of like, oh, damn, I left these in the, I can't even throw these in a dryer. They kind of got that little. Like when you leave it in the washer too long, yeah. - I have to say, either between. (laughing) Pissie or musty. - Pissie? - Yeah, 'cause if you pissy, you could just act like, oh, I just got some diaper, like some old baby diapers on my bag. - A piss is a strong smell. - But if you're musty, you could say you was working out. You could even pronounce it. - Let me tell you something about musty. You only get like, okay, like I worked out which you before, right? I've smelled you musty before. But I've also known you 13 years, and I've smelled you musty maybe twice in 13 years, right? - Musty. (laughing) - What the fuck are you smoking, musty? - Da, da, da, da. - But you know, there's time, but I do sweat a lot, especially when boxing in the high school. - Yes, you sweat a lot. - You sweat a lot. - So my point was. - The defendant. - My point was, is that smoke you musty. - Mangy, mine is good. - You call it Mangy, right? - But my point is that you've had so many times when you weren't musty, you give that person grace. I've been around you 13 years, and then some of those years, we see each other every fucking day. So it just like, it depends on how many times I've seen you. Like you still, you're not out of the musty range for me. (laughing) We've only, I've probably seen less than 20 times, you say in our lives, right? You gotta reach like 50 before you can have a bad day around me. Or I assume that musty is a part of your tire. (laughing) - I can get that. - You get what I'm saying? - If I was a musty today. - But you don't know me. - Yes, if I was a musty today, you'd be like, oh shit, I only seen this nigga 17, 18 times, and on the 19-timey musty. So now I gotta watch this nigga every three weeks. Like, hey. - Yeah, I was gonna say, like if I found you musty on the 19-day, now you gotta go 50 more days with not smellin' much. - Exactly, man. - And I'll do you. - I think mildew's the way to go. - What would you pick? - I think mildew is the best answer, man. - Okay, I really got me out here saying, "PC MFD." (laughing) - "PC" is great. - I think a lot too, mouth. - "PC" is like, it's like a strong armor. - "PC" is strong. Maybe I have a smell of "PC MFD." - Nah, I guess it depends if you dehydrated or not. - But that's it. (laughing) - That's it, that's it. (laughing) - That really pissed mind of me that bad, I guess. To be honest. (laughing) - But that's it. (laughing) - That's it. (laughing) - You got a brain. - Some of my multi vitamins, I forgot what I take. But that shit, that shit will make my shit like, neon grease sometimes. - No, man. - I'm not. - Yeah. - Nice. - You need to get your shit. - No, no, no. - That's a different one. - It's on the, it's on the pack of you shit. - No, nigga got villain piss. (laughing) - I wanna scare the first day of those fucks. - That was shit. - Nah. - But no, I think mildew is the way to go, because mildew kinda is linked to clothes. - Yeah. - Clothes are like something on you stinks. Piss is like from you. - There have been times, shitty is from you, and like musty is from you. Like mildew is more. - There have been times where like, I would say my shirt smelled a little like mildewish. Like the ones that actually like boxed in day after day after day after day after there. And I have to like, put in like white vinegar. You know as you've sweated, like you have to put like, soak, do like a little vinegar, soak, so like the little musk kind of disappears. - It is, that's the worst feeling in the world. When you have a workout shirt and an expire on you. - Yeah. - Like within that time. And you don't know, because it's like, when you take it out the dryer is clean. And then only get activated by sweat. And then once that sweat activated, you blame. But I don't get that though, like when I, if I smell, there's been times where I'll be like, "Yeah, my shirt kinda stinks." My workout is over. Make it, don't try to power through your workout. You must see as well. Because I'm looking for a year old. I'm like, who making year olds around is big? - No, it does happen though, like the, especially because it started happening more. I would say when you start, I started boxing. Like we both boxed. So it's like a different, like your shirt is soaked every session. - Okay, maybe that's a different type of mud. - So it's like a, it's not a different, not mud, not sweaty. Hold on, no, I'm sweating. - Hold on now, man, just funny how words mean things. - No, musty is like, musty, if you call somebody musty, you better not be wrong, I know that. Because if you call me musty, and I like, I'm not musty, my nigga, I assume that you want to fight. - Yeah. - Hey, is that bad? - No, that's crazy. - That's all it is. - Okay, um, she and Rachel chatroom showing. - Oh my god. - Okay, I'll go ahead. - I have a tweet too. It says, "Y'all relationships don't work 'cause y'all listen to social media instead of y'all nigger." (laughing) - Please say me. - Say it one more time. - It said, "Y'all relationships don't work 'cause y'all listen to social media instead of y'all nigger." Well, you're instead of your man. - Yeah, I would say like, I would say social media does get people in trouble with expectations. - Yeah, the expectation is a good one. - With everything, honestly. - Some people will try to take, men and women do this, they'll want a traditional relationship, but they'll also want to be independent at the same time. They'll just be like, "Okay, my cousin was calling me, she dating this guy who paid for everything." And that's what type of lifestyle she want to leave. She want to have like a small, little part time job, little gig, and she want to stay at home with the kids. That's what type of life she live. He went to the club and she was already in a DJ booth. And the DJ booth is all packed and stuff. And when he touched the club, he texted like, "When I get into the club, "you should come down from a DJ booth, "especially if you know I can't go up there." And she was arguing like, "I ain't got to do nothing blah, blah." I was like, "That argument don't fucking make sense." And she like, "I paid $50 to get in this club." And she was like, "That's his money." No to me, like, "That's y'all money. "That's the team work that y'all paid. "That's his money too." Like, "Bring your ass out the DJ booth. "You are a taking woman." Come out of there. It's just like the, I feel like some people want to live traditional lives like guys do too. It's just like, "Oh, I want a traditional stay-at-home "girlfriend and stuff like that." And now you mad because she telling you to get home 'cause dinner ready at 7'30. It's like, "Nickah, go home." That's the life you chose to live. If you want to live 50-50 and get drinks with the guys, let us know. It's definitely, I feel like a hybrid now. Like, traditional and modern has clashed together. And I think people are just making rules on their own for whatever works for them. But quick question. You said the dude couldn't go back behind the DJ booth. What's up with that? Why he couldn't do that? 'Cause he ain't having no titties. Oh, okay. That's a thing. I haven't been to the club in a really long time. So I don't even know how, like, the rules and stuff are. So the dude's not really good at it. That was in Detroit. I'm not sure how it works. Milwaukee is like, based off more of connections. I would say Detroit, like the higher end clubs. Women, women, women, women. It's a good day to be aunk. Good day to be aunk. Eligible males age 18 to 25 will be automatically registered for the US military draft starting December, 2026. Get ready, young niggas. Get ready. Get ready to use your nose. I can't wait to be a star bustle. One of you starfishes, like, yeah. Oh my god. What's up with that ocean nose? Do you trust? Do a cartwheel, little niggas. Do you trust for us to be defended by, um, Hawaiian? Yes. Really? You think they'll care for real? That younger generation, the motherfuckers is so smart. Like, if we, if you, but I'm telling you, they're more, I would say.
Fearless. Yes. They are smart as consequences don't like like register. He just went when I was 25 Like feel like my consequences of doing things feel like it was like way less especially when you're younger like In high school like you'll do bad shit outside of school and like you're not really afraid of the police really arresting you and like all this type of stuff So yeah, they don't see consequences like anything that comes after I just thought that they wouldn't really care Like that, but what what you think not carrying in like the battlefield would do so like you know how nowadays they say a Lot of the younger kids don't have discipline. Mm-hmm. So when you have a sergeant yelling at you during the training Getting you up at 5 a.m. Screaming at you. I wonder how they'll react to that Well, they'd be like who you yelling at like don't be yelling at me It's actually never that should never happen to army because it's like the discipline is like easier Mm-hmm, right these kids we see in kids like around Bayshore going back here We got a 14-year-old going back and forth for the cop telling them to shut the fuck up Yeah, it's just like but the discipline that cop like the worst thing that cop can do is put them in handcuffs And then they parents come get them in the army Oh my god, I'll say that. Don't say that or I believe that Just believe that But they might they might literally wait till you sleep and put coins in the socks and eat the fuck out you Didn't see those movies on some press They put the soap in a socks and they be the shut up and they get a swing. I think also you they just start to Conform like for me, and this is my Nigerian mention for the day I was in Nigerian boarding school, right? And I was I was kind of a hothead. I was trying to fight with everybody the first two weeks I was there. I was fighting everybody. Are you okay? Yeah, I was I my parents kind of tricked me to going So yeah, and you get like you would get like weapons and school and shit like that so it was different So I wasn't with that shit. So I was like fighting like the you know, there were say like people in grades above you You have to show respect to so they were doing this random shit So I legit was getting to a fight every week and then by the time is like you're there for like a month It's like bro, I can't I can't fight every day The fight that some do was in the comments saying he dropped you in your head. You said I was alive No, he didn't drop me on my head. Why do because this is why he was a two grades ahead of me, right? No, he was older. Yeah. Yeah, he was two grades ahead of me So there was there was some fights that we did get into that he won you win some of you lose some But my wins count more because he was two grades above me two grades like a eighth grade and a six rate That's a pretty big gap. That's like a that's like the maturity and I was a small kid I was like in eight and six grade. I was probably like 70 pounds and eighth grade. I was probably like a hundred like I was not a very big kid to the nigga. Oh, to the nigga match up. That's my guy though. No, no I think is that bring up like oh shit. Yeah, I'm saying it's definitely somebody like in Pontiac that like maybe like seven eighth grade that I fought and maybe they can claim They won that fight. Yeah, don't be telling those stories like that about us fighting unless you're trying to line it up again Like I don't want to hear none of that shit Oh man, you know the best feeling in the world is saying I don't know to something you actually know a lot about is it to avoid Conversation man to avoid convoy man. I don't run my social media brother. I don't know what you talking about We told we told you but I'm just saying like my favorite things, especially like none of this podcast world I feel like people try to pick your brain and they don't have anything going on for that information So you like where the fuck is my information on yeah Put the box The chef at Texas Rollhouse I'm asking like you starting a pot and not Brian just really interested how to game go Information done they try to see how easy it is to make money or not That's also disrespectful to me People be like man, people be throwing little slight shade me like man y'all got it y'all got a down pack All they got to do is sit back and laugh at the colors like bruh If you heard somebody's calling y'all wouldn't know what colors to put out there y'all wouldn't know what is funny Not all y'all but I'm just saying like and we worked for the colors. We made the colors Somebody calling us in the middle of the pie Some people some people was like their personality trait is asking questions like But no, but like I'm such an inquisitive little thing. I would say I'm the same way. I asked a lot of questions But I feel like we ask questions to get to a certain point. We're just inquisitive people Mm-hmm, but some people like Pat was saying it's like it's legit and you ask like oh what what why do you ask? I'm like oh What especially when you gave a whole long explanation is like oh, so you want us getting to this like nah my? Somebody they're not even related to my mom. My mom watch Kevin on stage really what I asked y'all How would y'all why you not pat on stage? I had a niggas sit in between me and Mike before and look at both of us and be like So who would you stay funny or out of y'all to like I like that's the first time I'm most slapped in it I almost slapped a niggas for a question This like bruh like if if when y'all meet me like bruh I want to talk about regular shit. Yeah, like we already know like a lot about the podcast like I want to know about you Where are you from it's like I actually want to know that so I can come on the podcast and talk about it I feel like our meet and greets being great like that people haven't been like oh What about this moment a couple people have but I get it and it's okay to ask like those type of quit I would say just DM me those type of questions. Yeah, but like bruh We when we see each other when we see y'all like we want to get to know you You know how long you've been watching a pile like where you live at you from here like you got a job? Niggas you really that short That's good. Yeah, but they probably want to really just get to know you like you're they're meeting you for the very first time And you're probably the biggest star that they have ever encountered ever so they want to know like man You're awesome, and we want to teach that's and that's the lesson. We want to teach them now and just like be regular You shouldn't be approaching anybody like this everybody is human all these people are human You shouldn't be like oh my god. I can't believe no. Hey, I respect what you doing. I absorb your content I fuck with you. Hey, I fuck with you too. Like do you got some content? You know, I'm saying like It's cool like that like I don't think anybody you know, I'm saying unless it's Cardi B I would I would literally pass out of Cardi B came in the room. I'm not gonna lie When Cardi B is on the podcast boy, you're not to turn down my mic You guys are like me during the Just got here yesterday I would do I'm a cry like I'm a cry like that dude day and when Krishan rock showed him her her song I sent you a link BTW Name something you never feel guilty spending money on And I and don't act like you got the answers. I actually all this hour ago Yeah, I gotta answer I'm exposing to guess For me peace and convenience. Oh, that was my answer Yeah What you mean by that though, but anything that cost me peace. Okay, I give you an example So I went to the Chris Brown concert back in August, right? It was at rigley We ended up buying a hotel right across from rigley because We didn't want to have to deal with ubers and just all that stuff right obviously the hotel's gonna cost a whole lot of money But I'm willing to pay for that for the convenience and for the peace of not having to worry about traffic and ubers and drive like it's just too much for me It's like, but what okay? Can I ask a woman question? Go ahead go what specifically like rank. I'm like what's your number one that you like? I'm paying for this shit. Oh Everything that's kind of vague like I got to think okay, no, I was gonna say like if money makes anything like faster easier or closer that's still vague What do you mean rank it? So you want me to rank mine? Okay, you my number one my number one is parking Okay, I don't give a fuck if it's $68 to park here. I care about park. Yeah, you that's what I'm saying I don't care about parking like I'm not the person like I'm not about to drive around and follow the same Subaru and then we both looking for two parking spots And I know that I gotta wait on him to find a parking spot because he in front of me in a lot No, I'm about to go park right next to the venue valet my shit. I was $70 is whatever. I would say easier So like if I get a flat tire on the side of the road, right? I'm calling AAA or I'm calling whatever toll place can get what I'll call
Five places and whichever one said they can get there first. I'm going with that. We lose in recipes Why why why though? No, you Might move and I had somebody come in mount my TVs That's not bad mount TV because you can fuck up your walls and shit But the change of the tire. Let me say let me say this to you. You don't ever have to change a tire Yeah, I just need you to be pretending like you was about to change yourself right before you see triple Play pulling down that road go ahead and put that month. I was about to turn the Car turn on YouTube and wait till us whoever gets there first to told my car. No, that's crazy It's not not said I can't change it, but I'm cappin on I'm not changing No, it's way quicker. I'm not gonna lie and I got like a foreign car. I don't want to fuck nothing up We gotta tie a lot of you know how yeah, yeah, I can sometimes don't know how I used to have a punny at grand Damn and you would thought I was a mechanic or something. Okay. I'm talking my eyes to fix that month I'm not off the top of my head. I will figure it out though. Yeah, like you Yeah, I can figure I don't know how to change my own oil, but I can use I bet you like YouTube did I could change my I hope you're not speaking in cold. You gotta be careful. I know you this not blew my own state That's a a crazy pool. I feel like I said this tweet before so I'm gonna I'm gonna play a video though That was like a homeless man that walked into a phone store and said that and it's just like it's Always say this about like conspiracy theories is like they're fucked up because of first people that get a hold of conspiracy The conspiracy theory we're looking for that conspiracy theory and that means they're crazy as fuck Yeah, so sometimes like somebody will be correct about a conspiracy theory But they're just like way too early and way too crazy and that actually pushes like the conspiracy Conspiracy down a little bit and it's just like damn is really hard to believe because a person is coming from You know what I mean if a president said those same words a former president a former CIA agent It'll be taking a lot more serious. Yeah Believe do they the message is like the it's always the difference. Yeah, you know Credibility fast. Yeah, but I think that's a good way for the government to always be like relevant in like hiding shit You know, I'm saying because if a person is saying it and they'd be like damn this person onto something Let's lips from cracking to his lasagna Makes us make a crack it but I just the conspiracy theories about like the government listening to us and our phone listen to us It's like yes, it's happening. There's nothing you can do about it. Here we go. There's not I'm just There's nothing we can I feel like some people try to do things to like make sure the government isn't listen to them Like they're listening there is it's right and maybe that forced you just got to be so like the only thing I do is like I put like a little Little webcam cover. That's like the the best I can do. Okay. Well, you got one on your phone. No plug your ears. I can tell you what I do Give him your you can't hear me. No, I can't hear you put the webcam sometimes I smack my meat on the I'm like you gonna what Now we gotta end there. Oh my god. We keep ending with unlike the crazy Did you see that Chris Brown and ush are going on to legendary Raven and Brown are in B Yes, are you letting your girls go fuck no Not near the next like Get grind it on and she might get a cherry in her mouth We might sit far away. Yeah, I went to the Usher show In Chicago was like two years ago now and he came walking It's such a I got it on my Instagram check it out accurate on the underscore But he was given the cherries to the couple right next to it because they were married and it was a fun time He gave it to the guy in the woman. Yeah, no, he gave it to the guy to give to the woman because he said listening all I'm married. I don't want to mess up any. I feel like I feel like Usher is pretty respectful. What would it he wasn't Yeah, not first. No, he wasn't at first. Maybe that's like clips. I wasn't seeing that he got he started like yeah I think once he saw like some of it like there's a breaking up some home. Yeah, there's a respect and it comes with the cherry in the mouth But it's all because as a guy you can't No matter how you react in that situation if your girls getting a cherry put in their mouth by usher It's like there's no winning that situation. You still go home with her you act out But I'm just no, but if you act out I do if you act out in that moment like it's like why you trying to like fight usher Yeah, you know, and then you let it happen. There's like there you let that happen But it's also a power thing and it's just like no offense to usher, but that's him taking advantage right so you put my wife on a Jumbo trying and then you're playing one of the best songs ever made in R&B history in the background and then you hold a Cherry over the top you know what I mean? You like you make her make like a crazy decision in front of everybody You know what I would do if like usher was putting a cherry next to my girl. I will leap up and bite it myself That's great I'm definitely slapping the cherry out And like life like this like come on now Yeah, I have to do it before my girl has a chance to react to it That's true because she reacted to do it. There's like all she was already gonna do it. You're right, right? Gotta be quick with it. Don't you see even if it's a city like you have to like be ready to do something Yeah, I better talk about that before you get up in there. No, I ain't talking about it because I like respect like my girl wouldn't do that Like yeah, my girl wouldn't either, but I I would like to see if she does I'm not into the I hate people that stop They partner from doing something I'm like very into let me see what you naturally do because I don't want to marry Nobody that would just take a cherry like I got to tell you to not eat the cherry. Yeah, what else I got to tell you to do not the fuck Wait, wait, wait, you chill. I'm a please don't fuck him. Okay, baby. I won't Chris Brown invites us to the shows and he Chicago Milwaukee wherever y'all for real y'all legends, bro Whatever show y'all invited to we gonna be there, man, whatever we're seeing all the way in the back Yes, what's up y'all? Okay, follow me Instagram @carron_ and make sure you tap into brain squeeze Everywhere you get podcast it's daily so yes y'all got tap in we're gonna be she's gonna invite the other thing This is why carries fake She hasn't invited us on her podcast yet. We do podcasting and she hasn't invited us on podcast Well, I'm not now cuz he's over here saying he don't want more than three questions about himself. No, no, you can invite me Don't don't don't interview me. Let's let's just let's joke. No, you can please interview me He ain't gonna come. Yeah, yeah, pause. Oh So like how many episodes you got lucky and to get invited to the wedding If there's a wedding. Oh, you might do it like yeah Like maybe I'll talk about that on the next one And then y'all can tell me if you think I should have a wedding or not or if we should just go to the core house Got it got it. Okay, which you start doing so we can get so we can make sure people tune in and start dropping easter eggs On your pot and then if they find the easter egg Then we might send out a free shirt. I like that. Let's cook it up. Yeah, let's do it. Appreciate y'all Live shows Christ. I'm he's merch all that jazz Liveshows pop out Philly Baltimore by time to listen to his are they Baltimore would be is today Baltimore is today Oh, yeah, you can still get your ticket. Yeah, everybody can get the tickets. Everybody so get your ticket Philly Baltimore and Boston will be there tickets are very very low like we're I think it's like no cap Huh, I think it's a hunt across all like all you say in no cap. Yeah, okay. I heard no cap in a minute But across all you're gonna get more kids in school. No cap I think across all like three shows that week. Oh, there's only like less than like 60 tickets left. Yes, so And you're the first show already showed so it out and then we got the second show is already Halfway through yeah, halfway through so be quick good look and we invite in like extra people So like all these videos we have like friends and family package So once they get to like only 20 tickets left we're probably gonna say is so it out because we got to get our musty ass family Plug is gonna be at the Philly show So make sure y'all somebody bring a niggas some axe. Oh my god, all these
Podcast Summary
Key Points:
The conversation touches on bartering as a viable alternative to traditional monetization in creative fields like podcasting and photography.
A strong emphasis is placed on authenticity and genuine connection over exposure or paid promotion, with skepticism toward fake followers and performative "exposure" claims.
Hosts express frustration with how some audiences treat content creators, especially when it comes to racial or personal topics, such as a controversial incident involving a woman sharing feet in a racial chat room.
The discussion highlights the difference between visual and audio audiences, noting that in-person interactions create unique, emotionally charged experiences that differ from digital consumption.
Podcasters discuss real-world challenges like TSA body scans, workplace dynamics, and personal relationships, revealing candid experiences of discomfort and professional frustration.
There is a recurring theme of relationship dynamics, including emotional cheating, loyalty, and the difficulty of reestablishing trust after breakups.
The group critiques societal norms around gender, love, and personal freedom, especially in how men and women perceive intimacy and emotional connection.
A critical reflection emerges on social media culture, where popularity is often driven by outrage, troll activity, and performative content rather than meaningful conversation.
Summary:
The conversation explores diverse personal and professional experiences, from bartering services in creative industries to deep reflections on relationships, social media culture, and authenticity in content creation. Hosts openly discuss emotional challenges like relationship breakups, emotional cheating, and the difficulty of trust in love, often linking these to broader societal norms around gender and intimacy. A recurring theme is skepticism toward performative "exposure" and fake engagement on platforms, with participants emphasizing real human connection over digital metrics.
The discussion also highlights awkward, real-life moments such as TSA body scans, personal traumas from past relationships, and the emotional toll of being misunderstood or dismissed. There's a strong critique of how social media amplifies outrage and trolling, often at the expense of meaningful dialogue. The group values authenticity, vulnerability, and genuine interaction—especially in live events—over polished content or monetary gains.
They reflect on how personal growth, like overcoming past heartbreaks, can lead to healthier relationships and stronger self-worth. Ultimately, the conversation balances humor, honesty, and deep introspection, offering a raw yet insightful look into modern life, relationships, and the evolving nature of connection in digital times.
FAQs
Bartering involves exchanging services or goods instead of money. The speaker shares examples like offering photography or videography in exchange for boxing lessons or shout-outs, highlighting its use as a practical, low-cost way to build connections and access services.
The speaker believes it's unethical to charge for guests, especially when the podcast is built on authenticity and community. They emphasize that true value comes from genuine engagement, not financial transaction, and that guests should be valued for their contribution, not their price.
The speaker argues that people can’t be 'canceled' for opinions or actions they’ve taken, especially if they were part of a community that didn’t agree with them. They believe accountability and judgment are personal, not collective, and that no one is truly 'canceled' by a crowd.
The speaker notes that audio listeners (on platforms like Spotify) are more passive and engaged with the content, while visual listeners (watching on YouTube or live) are more interactive and familiar with the hosts’ behaviors, leading to different crowd reactions and energy levels.
The speaker acknowledges emotional cheating hurts more because it involves emotional investment, while physical cheating is seen as transactional. They believe men may be driven by lust, while women often seek emotional connection, leading to a mismatch in relationship expectations.
The speaker believes that as people age, parents often become more like children—asking simple questions, depending on their children, and needing care. This is not a burden but a natural, reciprocal relationship, especially when parents haven’t caused harm or trauma.
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