Online Dating Part I

Hi, fellow adults. Karla here. One quick pa manin lang. Some parts of our audio recording have minor technical glitches. Yung S sound namin nage-giging SH in other parts. So parang, shhh, parang ganan siya. So bakal ang magtakakayo kung nagpobrizes kung minbigla kasi minbiglang or siyang toong nog namin. Inde, technical glitch lang siya, but don't worry. They are minimal and all parts are audibly clear. So let's get to it. Hot cast Network Asia. I'm Joey. Hi, I'm Joyce. So we matched in the dating app around September 2017. And then six years after, we got married. Hello, fellow adults. My name is Karla. And I'm Olivier. We are married now. And we met in 2017 through a dating app. Okay, Kupin. There's something Kupin about it, yes. My name is Aiden Dredz. I'm Ayah and we've been married for a year and a half. Hi, I'm Zahaf. I'm Paddy. So in the celibur, kasi kabi. So in the kawa pa sa shah. Cherry, stop. And the dating app, if you're part of the FUTE community, you would know what that app is. Yes, we've been together for a year and two months now. What's your tip for people who want to use dating apps? Advice for. And I think for me, like a perspective, like from a woman. I think the best advice is to. Hey, fellow adults. Let's figure out adult life together. Because adulting wasn't taught in school. Listen to stories, questions, and sometimes expert advice on adulting, self-development, finding stability, relationships, health, well-being, and more because. It's an adult thing. Woo-hoo! Hi, fellow adults. Finally, after a lot that has happened, we are back. You are with me, Nika. And with me too, Shempre, Carla. So to start off our episode, shout out Moonasafelo adults, Nathan, who proactively spread the word about our show. How by sharing our episodes on their social media. So, as you can see, we are here. So, shout out to Nathan. He is a Miss Fourth Laquacera. Like a religion. He is Calvin. He is an architect. He is an imagination. He is a genius. He is a genius, an artist. He is a genius, an adult. And he is a good person. But he is a career-belly. He is a good person. He is a student. He is a genius. He is a cute guy. I am proud of him. He is a genius. He is an episode of our social media. He is a podcasting teacher. He is a cute guy. He is a cute guy. He is a good guy. He is a good guy. He is a good guy. He is a good guy. Thank you. But, wait. There's more. Okay. na eco-aurelio, e-underscor ward, or e-guard, syram la mong sud, chestor-carion, Johnnell Los Melendres, and Marie Marinella, Bench Villagraja, and Toni Polines. I love that some of them, four or five years, and we're all in the same age. Too very consistent, I love it. Kalo adults, I swear, we swear, kaya ang magpapalagwan ng adulting tribe natin. Kong indina mandayel sa word of mouth, 'cause our adults natin, if not for your shares, nina mandayel, influencer, or artista kaya lahat ng maraming palaweer. Hindi pa, ja. So, probably, di malalaam ng circles nila, that it's an adulting exists. So, maraming maraming salamatalaga, for letting people know about our adulting tribe, it's really a big help. Your shares, your posts, stags, and mentors, thank you very much. Speaking of adulting tribe, namsnika, the topic natin ngayon, I request slash suggestion of adulting tribe natin, just a case maraming sa you ang nag-gray request from, actually, five years ago, then we'll get a question of topic natin na online db. Pado natin, shout out, yung mga nag-gray request ng online dating. Yes, three, some of them lang ha, 'cause you madab, one of them is blessi me. Tabi nya, hi, Ms. Nika and Karla, online dating pros and cons na mandaw. To see LG, digital love, why do I get attached to people I haven't met, but felt like new them. So, madrumpapahapiawan natin yung mga questions, nila. In sige, walaong pros and cons, kasi, pedo pagmanin ng nila ang stag-gray, online dating eh, when these are pros and cons, necessarily, per-beant time I'll watch out. Ah, yes. So, mga pag natin, a red flag, but there are also some things that you should be wary of. So, madrumpapahan naman natin. Okay, carry. Okay. Yung ibas hoorin dina namin, madab, yota wunan na sa inboxa kata, sorry. Nika namin, may gusto na toong topic na po, because even in our circle of friends, ona mandating is like a big thing. It's the norm, nga, in a kiss. Yeah. So, for this episode, Nika and I will share a lot of tips on how to navigate online dating. Pero bago yan, isong click kong mustahan mo nata yung guys. Ask yourselves, patayang mga kata binyong ayon, sa boo, sa laundry shop, ta jeep, galjeep. Anong yung, what's your adulting highlight, and your adulting low-light recently? Yeah, habang nag-isipkayo, chaka yung mga tinanong nyok, kami muna ninika, e kao mamsh. A reason adulting highlight ko, is I achieved one of my life goals, which is to finish a marathon. Which I did last February 16th, at the ball runner, Dream Marathon, it was a dream come true. Thank you. Ang setang pakao, nong nalana, nong 30th mark, pero thank you shout out to John Ray, my personal painter. So, tinulongan yung mga martengang gandulaw yan, sobrang sa'ya, no-feeling sa dulo, actually the whole thing was so happy par shang fiesta. Daming paggain, everyone was dancing, and happy, daming with your cheer, daming with support. Nagpunta pa yung mga transcript from UPDT, shout out kina-dols, or Dili, Charwin, Kaila. But tinko lahat ka-sang tin, my office mate also runs a lot. Yung pa ba? Kung gratis dan kage-jules, kage-jam, na batch mates ko, na tomapos. No, Marathon nila, so yung kag-gratis. Si po hindi-gratis shout out, si po'l, cinema'y in realsvenya. Yung, thank yung menakalimutan ako, but thank you so much. Don't worry, mea. Next Marathon, passinig. Oh, let's see about that. It's just a special month ahead. Alang ko naman sa ultra-marathon mo? I don't think so. I don't think so. Unless I don't like, I don't know how much in being like mid-life-graces, or at least a decade ago. Actually, I don't know how much in being like mid-life-graces, or at least a decade ago. I don't know how much in being like mid-life-graces, or at least a decade ago. Pero yon, it's still a hit's different. Kayak ka ayon, nagwil to ko na na i-arho. But yon, so she passed away in her sleep apparently. So very peaceful na man. And didn't even show me her lapan. So, yon. Hi, hi, hi, hi. So sa ala lang. So braong sa'ya ng marathon. And then the day after. But. Crush sa gag ng emo sanso medro. Ach sa hilipli, parang ganyan ng i-arho. Isan klipli. Nang i-arilans ka mea, hi-layita na nang i-lans ka mea ng kombucha with the help of jam. And then that night when I got home, she doggy na man. Doggy is in the hospital right now. Kasi marinshang. Kid me damage. And kid me kristas ganyan. So, mea jadalikayda shayan, so. Ayon, so. I don't know. Mea jom ma-gulang life, mea. It's my job's in dance. Ayon. Sorry, go na kakan down, but. I'm just sharing, just showing the reality. Ayon, pendo ng buhay. Pero, ito. Laban lang. Push lang tayo. Ayon. Ma-sapayo maya. Ma-saparang last ano yata. Last. Highlight low light mo. Parang sabi mo ang flat lang ng emo sho. I know. Be careful. I'm poking the wish for. What the fuck? Anyhow, ayon, so. Yeah. I was flat sa Prabahoy ni sa buhay. What the fuck? The universe will make it. Get it right, okay? Next thing I know, na paramotaka tapas na tanagal sa Prabah. What the fuck? Anyhow, ayon, get it to hard. The past two weeks, three weeks. Mea jo, lokarat ng babing koko kasi ang lungkotas, ang zayat. Ang zong kato sa your with people, masaya ka. Anyway, ang golo niya. Ang golo niya. Ang golo niya sa emo sho. Means, ang nagsokonalang tumwala lahat. But you can't do that. So, ayon. Ayon! Hiya mo na. Ho, ho, ho. Okay, we are back to our premiere. How about you, Carla? Anang mga. Low light and highlight mo. Okay. Illolate mo kaya mo na para masaya yung huyong ending, no. Ah, saye, saye. Ang low light ko. Ito, mom, shpa, no. Universal lagaten yung testing tayo. Hiya mo pitotong. But it's not an last episode, natin. Ang yaw mga yabang ko na yung highlight ko. Ilang use na ako hindi na kaka sa kaya. Mambia ko nilag nat. Ang last lag nat ko COVID pa. Mga kung petan naman yung baku na COVID booster. So, use na ako hindi na kaka sa kit. Kato, aba, nanginig ng universe ang episode parang aga nang bakar, lateta. Moshkosh, nangasang ako may lagnat na, para patong arrow na hindi bumabawa. Tapos ko'y bumabawa, pero very very slight. Ketangkatawan ko siya kutat ako may trang paso. Nakon nagulas. So may conting ananasel krustrisho na padasit takasabi ko lang magalig na ako makasel kiri. Yung pala, danggisha. So it's not your fault. It's the fault of the mok. Why did you bite her? So why is it that this insect ko at wash nang hand, so it can't magmask ako? Alala mo kong tumira. Tingin mo san kanagagat at home, in school, at work. It is a studio ng podcast. It's a store. It's an aircon. Soundproof, everything proof. Alam ang hindi ko talaga, Adam. Hindi ko Matrice, hindi ko Matrice. So, ayon, since hindi ko na Matrice, ang cause, I just had to manage the effect. Yes. Yung. So, it's a fault of the mok. Tapos na hindi ko blod test ako. Don ko lang nalaman. It's not my first time na mag kadengi. What the fuck are you saying? It's because hindi ko nga positive ako dun sa existing antibodies. Ah, o kay, hindi malaman na kadengi ka before? Before, pero na may hunch ako. Kasi na alala ko na years ago na ko na ako na ang trampaso. Pero walaong ubosipon. Okay. Which is pretty much like now. Pero, mas malala ngayon. Kasi kapag pala, sayon, timeo na kadengi. Na iba yung variant. Mas. Matasong risk. Yeah. Plus, hindi na tayo. Umabata. Almost 39-year-old bodi ko. Mas. Higher risk danggi. Pero, putin nalang. Hindi ako ko na ilang ang hospital. Dahil malyon. So, I'm high-light mo ay. Kapitin ka. Mind that I'm high-set. Mind that I'm high-light. Actually, it's not the high-light lo-light god. For this set, I'm high-light. I appreciate kuyon partner ko. Kasi, that was her busiest week. So work-ever. Kasi, nasa procession ng resigning. So, parang sa-konto the last week nalang niya. So, turn over and all. Congrats, by the way. Yes. Last day ngayon. Congratulations. Happy for her. And yet, tapag kaya niya. From Makati. Pong kondo sa antipolo. Take care of you. Yeah. Ayon. Tapos. I'm a little bit more careful. I know, and with the surge of running as a fitness trend, everybody's in their running area. Yeah, so when you meet people, it's good because you have a joint interest. Really? Yeah. You know, you have a date ID or a barato either. Yeah. So there. So online dating really is actually the main way to meet people now. Uh-oh, true. So very different, like from a decade ago. Yeah. You say, I remember years, years back, repandemic. It seems like you're doing the same thing, or it seems like a shame. Yeah. When you're online, it seems like the assumption is hook up lamp. Yeah, yeah. Which one's a little hot? It's okay, right? Yeah. But, you know, it's more recognized as a legitimate way of finding a partner. And it's not just a partner. The success stories, as in most of them, because they're married or so spoused by events. So the attitude towards online dating is changing rapidly. So I'm happy about it. Yeah. I'm happy about it because it's beneficial. Yeah. You know, online dating. Yeah. As a matter of fact, Carla, we found some statistics. Although it's your, your own statinatin, from the pre-pandemic era. It's about business. You go of dot com more than half of all salipinos have used online dating. At some point in their lives. Pre-pandemic, so imagine the growth of online dating usage. During the pandemic, it's online that we have to connect and post-pandemic. Yes. When we were forced to live more online. I don't know why I'm so happy about it. Well, we saw the stats for 2024. It was a rampant online dating in the pre-pandemic. But, we saw the stats for 2020. Wow! It's a rampant online dating. How do we invite our matches to go on a date again? Yes. And if you need more time, how do you shut it down? How do you shut it down? Sorry, there's not going to be another date. How do you say that? That's why I don't just thought. How do you say that? There are some tips on how to avoid online dating burn-out. Every time you meet another person, especially when you intimate the settings, you'll gain so much information about yourself. You'll gain so much information about yourself. We met each other in person December 2017. The health year alternative down mindset is the statistician. The research that has been done, of course, is only in the real-in-sighting and research. The research that has been done, is only in the online dating behavior of the people of Pinoy as of 2024. The research that has been done, is only in the last 69% of Filipino singles. Because of that, 26% of Pinoy singles feel unworthy of a partner. I think for as long as you don't reach the best version. Also, this is what we're talking about. This is what we're talking about. Be yourself and if you want to please be original. 20, 8 in my fantasy. I'm party. 25 in my fantasy and reality. How did you meet? So, in the library, 'cause it's me. So, in the club, I was a shot. dating app. Your version go. Yeah, we met on an app. If you're part of the fruity community, you would know what that app is. LinkedIn. LinkedIn. Yeah. So, you've been together for a year and two months now. Advice for is just to be you. Whoa! Just be you and trust that direct person will come and go. You will come and accept you for who you are. You don't have to pretend to be another person. Not because it's a dating app. It's virtual. You need to be another person. Just have to be you. Yeah. Okay. So, Ion, anything that's good? A to be yourself. Uh-oh. Magri. So, for photos, you'll get the best representation of yourself at the moment. Mm-hmm. What do you pick from the past from five years ago, huh? [laughter] You're meeting her, right? [laughter] Not even. That's what I know. I know. I know. I know. Uh-oh. And also, if you're from the past, what's your aspirational? What's your aspirational picture from the future? Well, one of you doesn't talk about yourself right now. Okay. The future. Uh-oh. Okay. Uh-oh. The goals of the future are not as of now. Uh-oh. The photos. Guys. That's what you're going to edit. [laughter] Well, what do you think? You're accurate enough to represent yourself. Uh-uh. You're as of the moment. Uh-uh. If you think you're the only one who's meeting you at the first date, what does that mean? Uh-oh. What's your first advertising? Under promise. And then when you meet in person over the day. Over the day. Look. I'm personally here. If I pick up my best photos, I'll pick up my best photos. Uh-oh. But I'm the one who's the best. This doesn't mean fake. Uh-oh. I'm pretty sure that I'll have a lot of photos that I'll make up for. But I'll have a lot of work to do in the meeting app. Because I don't have a full-makeup. I'm just a minute. I'll have a full-makeup. When I get a formal, okay, so on strike. And I'll be in the pink sun or a barcada. Or. But some people do like full-makeup everyday. Uh-oh. Exactly. But if the regular one, the everyday one, it's a full-makeup. Because it's a full-makeup. At the moment. It's an accurate representation. I'm speaking for myself. Even if I have better photos. I don't do that. If it's not my representation every day. Because if I had to lay down at this point, when I meet someone, I don't have an issue with the picture. Because I'm an experienced person. I've already had a lot of times. I'm an artist on the picture. In person. But the discrepancy is. discrepancy. The gap is gaping. And then. Multiple photos. Multiple framing. Multiple framing. Close-up. Full-body. Make-broot photos. But that's for you. The group photo. For you to know who I am. Okay. That's right. And ask your friends how you're doing. That's right. Then I'll put it on the group chat. And then I'll put it on the bamboo or Tinder profile. Because it's a part of my friends. Go girl and gay. That's right. So, that's the last one. And that's what I know about their content. Because it's my mom. She's a partner. She's a partner in bamboo. She's not a part of it. Anyway. Then, in pictures, I'm mindful of the signaling. Meaning, I signaled the importance of it. I know. Because I'm already using it. But you know this picture of me. That's a picture of me. And then I'll put it on the bamboo. For you to decide, you let other people decide, what we do is, to show up, if we're the best at the moment, and then let other people accept or reject us. We'll let them know, for sure, for the subconsciously, so that I won't be afraid of, because I'm afraid of my pride, because I'm afraid of my pride, so that I know that I'm afraid of my pride. Yeah. Right? Yes. So you don't sell sabotage. 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'Cause she happy sa wita person in her mind, even if the person in real life doesn't live up to that expectation, to that imaginary version. 'Cause so on-fair sa, for this person, naka kailalako, kasi ii hindi naman namin mitsung standards ni, tiba? Hey, unfair bin, for the other person. Kasi hindi naman kasalaan ni other person, nang imagine ng idealized version ito ang Seattle girl, tiba. So yun, to avoid that, dapat hindi matagal na nagchachat, umgaano katagal dapat yung chatting before finally meeting the other person. Sa, na, yung sabi, so datin ha sa bihinyan, pero may sa God, as in may switch pot kung ganok atagalang dapat ang chatting before we meet to the person we matched with. Also, ito, na to tunan ko sa isa kung friend, kasi naka-bisit ngayon naman, kapan niba, o kay ka usab sa chat, tapos pagnit mo yung aider, hindi ka mo kano na sa picture, or catfish pala, or ayo mo how they talk, it bothers you a lot, ganyan. So malaking bagay, if mag-audio call or video call kayo. I know it can be uncomfortable, especially for millennials, gencies. Ayon natin, as much as possible na nag-audio call di ba, pero pili na lang kayo gula tan ka yung sa first meet, or effortan yun na sige, mas managyable, to ng discomfort, na kahit, kahit 5 minutes lang, kahit 5 minutes lang na audio call or video call, para din ma-make sure yun na hindi siya catfish, catfish is para sa mga hindi may alam, ito yung totally different persona, and identity, yung pinay percent online versus in real life, ayon. So I highly recommend before meeting the person, audio call, or better yet, video call. Para din ano, kasi kong chat chat lang, what if lang toha? What if yung pang replay niya sa yo? Is chinachat GPT niya? Kapan na ka video call or audio call kay hindi siya mga kapal chat GPT. Or what if, meron siyang isa pang friend, na nag-dicted sa kanya na ito, ito prayon sa vision mo. Kapan na ka video call or audio call kayo, o halang chance na ma-gawayon. Mas magkakaron kanang gauge how the person is, prior to actually meeting them. Tapos in chatting, mom's conversationalistayo, so we can make any chat in gaejing. I can make this conversation fun, kaya naging masaya. Yes. So paan na makaron ng equaling, or reciprocally engaging conversation on your part, be genuinely curious. And since we advise against long-term chatting, ang kailangan niyo lang halimbawa, you don't know kong ano yung okin na pagusapans. Kailunam magtingin kaya sa profile pictures, or bayon nila, para alam nila na tinig na niyo talaga, binasa niyo talaga, mag follow up questions kaya. Be curious, na 'oh, na punta ka na pala sa osaka, ang mga pagkaing. Toto, o na favorit mo, o sa sabi sa ang interesting ng nasabayo mo, gan togan niyo. Ang dam yun ang pwedim pagusapan, toong kusabayo niya, ngayon pag na ubus yun, or wala ka yung enaf na mahugot sa profile niya. You can ask, na sure na natin to before, pero recap, you can ask about for the F-O-R-D. Yung F can be family or friends, to say, 'mawayon nilang pagusapan yung family nila, pwede ng about friends, or vice versa. Oh, occupation, if you want to go that route, or recreation, meaning yung mga hobby past time passion. For fun, yes, or oh, and be for dreams, and even aspirations, hope, so. Yung lang forward palang, for small talk, to help you guide next model. And equally, we have to be mindful if they are also curious about us. Do they ask back, or answer them, "Mum, ita to to to ha. Like I swear, I give guys a fair chance." But when I chatted, I was like, "Ati si yung mga naka-ka-chat ko ha." Not all. Mereong isa delawang okin na mga usab, but mostly talaga. Kasim, mas marame yung kamach na guys, dati, then girls. Pero mamsit pa rang anulang, pa rang kaming nagpopod cash sa chat. Parang nag-mumonalog sila about themself. Oh, pa rang ano to interview? Guest kita. Guest kita. Profile interview mo to. Ayon, soswa ba nang red bloodshed? I remember an experience going on. Ya, soswa ba nang red bloodshed kasi, obviously, this person is self-centered. Pong hindi mga self-centered, they're not curious about you. At nabanggit na natin, many times already, na sobrang basic need, yung we want to be heard and seen and duvetness. So, if this person, no matter how ganda, how guapo, if we will not give it to you, yung curiosity, nagusokatalan nilang makilala, o lang kuentah, yung kajandaan kapogi anilah. It's a red flag, that they might be full of themselves. Ayon. Indication. Yes, all about themselves, really, 24 hours, at the damin ng batuha niyo, tanung kalang nantanong sayot lang sayon ng sayot. Diskapati kaun na, sobrang minimum ang star. Ayon, so important. Now, kung mula silang kuentang kausap, hindi mo obligasyon na gawin silang conversationalist, just let them be, again, abundance mindset, ma-namita ang options. Yon, unmatch. Yon. So, hindi mga tips natin for the chatting stage. So, the next question is, "When do we meet the person we match with?" Yung makinaka-usap natin. Ang sweet spot, according to dating experts, Logan Yuri, and also Mums' based on experience, dintalaga. Best is. "Find out, on the next episode, it's an adult thing." So, it comes to online dating. You'll hear more from Ayah and Aiden, Joyce and Joey, Karen at Alibye, Paddi and Jaffe. So, you'll hear more advice from them in the next episode. So, yung, and pain yung. And kung nabitin ka yung, and you wanna hear more at wala pa yung next episode, meron ka may be bigger in a list of episodes. So, you can check out Taabong Nagaantai. So, dahil nga ang jampak tano. So, ito naman na. So, as mentioned, itong episode natin is all about finding a partner online. So, completely different conversation yung maintaining a good relationship. So, for tips on how to maintain a happy, healthy and lasting relationship, we suggest you check out our past episodes on that topic, such as "How to Love Well" yung pastod episodes natin yung. "The Four Love Killers," which we aired on March 2024, "Lessons from Love, Same Month, Love Languages," we aired this Valentine's of 2023. Long distance relationship. So, we aired this in October 2021. We also had an episode about sex. Yes. Although, very basic palang yung, we can do a pi-seer one in the future. I'll say yes again. We did that in July 2021. Taabong Nagaantai. With Dokerika. Yes. Very sex positive. Yes, I love her. Yes. And then, we also have this one, "Solving Relationship Issues," which aired in June 2021. We also had a fun one, "Yung Relationship Red Flags and Green Flags," which is February 2021. Plus, my other dating advice episode style from the past, the title, "Dating Advice," in February 2023. And to be, or not to be single, in 2022, February then. So, if you're bored, guys, we'll be there. Check out those episodes. If you're not full, if you're not full, you'll have two kilometers to go. Listen. 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That's the cause of the things that grow underground. Like potatoes, kaya, they are more fibrous and starchy and more dense. Then, like, it log or pasta. So, kaya it cold, para mas even yung pagga boi nila. Kasa ba indi lang ang paggaluto ng paginit ng water, over all. And like, eggs and pasta that can be cooked more easily than those star cheating. Okay, yung mga above ground, cold, above ground boiling na. Okay, yung underground na papaya dimong ilagay kaya it ma-lamig pa yung tubig. Is it preferable or it's just an option? It's just an option. Pero yung nga must evenly makokok sa if you start eating. Oh my God, it's good, it's good, it's good. Gary, thanks for that, Marsha. Adot sa naman na pula to yung sa pagdahaba hal na huchi ka sa. Yes, this episode. Hangang sa susunod na episode, intay ni yung parto, marami-rami para ming tips and hacks for online dating. This has been Carla. And Wika, proactively making ways to catch. What do you think we deserve because it's an adult thing. 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