Nest Sessions: Armor for Sleep on Youth Invention Competitions
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Ben Jorgensen, the frontman of Armor for Sleep, joins the podcast to share his journey from a creatively restless kid in New Jersey to a successful musician. Growing up just minutes from New York City, he was immersed in punk and ska scenes, attending shows as a teenager and eventually promoting his own events at age 13, with his mother's encouragement. His early entrepreneurial spirit was shaped by winning a school invention contest twice with practical ideas like the "Big and Tough Earmuffs" and "Floss Boss," which taught him the importance of marketing and seeing the bigger picture—skills he later applied to building his band. Ben reflects on his dark, introspective songwriting, influenced by his father's scientific mind and his parents' divorce, leading to themes of death and purgatory in albums like *What to Do When You're Dead*. He discusses the resurgence of his song "Car Underwater" on streaming platforms, noting how fans discover the full concept album. The conversation also touches on nostalgic childhood foods, like the fluffernutter sandwich, and a heartwarming story where a guest recalls connecting with Ben over AIM as a teenager to design band t-shirts, a testament to Ben's kindness toward young fans. The episode concludes with a live acoustic performance.
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I'm going to start with a very incredibly simple question, just your name and what it is that you do
My name is Ben Jorgensen and I guess I play music
I feel like you've known Rob for a while
I have a story for later
Okay, not for now
For later, you hold on
Just think about that
Where did you grow up in the States?
I grew up in New Jersey
I've never been
It's awesome, it's cool
I mean, when I was growing up, I think the show The Jersey Shore messed up everyone's perception of New Jersey
Because growing up
Saying you're from New Jersey
People were like, oh, do you go to the Jersey Shore and you party like these people
Because that show became such a massive thing
No, that's my perception
In New Zealand, that show was huge
It still is
Yeah
How close were you to New York, though?
Because New Jersey is just, what, five minutes?
Yeah, so where I grew up in New Jersey
We were four miles from the George Washington Bridge
Which is the bridge that connects the northern part of New York City
So we're basically like a New York City suburb
So very densely populated, suburban
I don't know, I don't know
Area
And it was great
I mean, it had everything
It was like, had more malls than you could dream of in northern New Jersey
It's kind of what it's famous for
And yeah, it was a pleasant place to grow up
And I think what was really cool for my friends and I
Is that we were so close to New York City
And that became a big deal for us later when we got into music
Because we were a 20-minute bus ride away from being in the heart of New York City
And then we could take a 20-minute bus ride away from New York City
And then we could take a 20-minute bus ride back to our safe little suburban paradise
I think Chicago, you know, had a similar thing going on
Yeah
Like all the kids in the suburbs
And it's no wonder that a lot of kids in Chicago started, you know, making cool bands too
And that's kind of what happened in New Jersey
Do you remember what some of those early bands were
That you would bus in to see as a kid that you were just so excited for?
Or was it more like going to town and find out what's there when you're there?
No, there were definitely specific bands that I was aiming to see
I mean, when I was going to shows
It was super cool to see the bands that I was aiming to see
Super punk rock was what I was into
And New York City was a great place for that
Because it had some of the grungiest venues on the face of the planet
That would host like the dirtiest punk shows ever
And that's what we got into
You know, we got into punk music from skateboarding
I don't know how we got into skateboarding
But skateboarding and punk kind of were very closely tied together
So then we found out about these bands like NoFX and Rancid from the West Coast
And Rancid from the West Coast
And started going to shows when we were like 13 years old
Did your folks mind you going in to those kind of shows?
Or were they like a bit worried?
Or was it just like go and do your thing?
Kind of go and do your thing, yeah
They were pretty supportive of that
What amazing early shows to see
Like NoFX and Rancid
Yeah
Those are amazing first gigs
Yeah, yeah, yeah
It was cool, yeah
We were lucky to be surrounded by that
And Ska was a really big thing too
A genre I still don't fully understand
We keep meaning to do an episode on that genre
Yeah
And I just sort of haven't found a way into it
But it's something
I've got a lot of friends that love it
I don't understand it at all
But I need to understand it
My friends and I were super into Ska
And I feel like Ska was the transition
From like punk rock to like pop punk for us
Like I don't know if you guys know Less Than Jake
But they're
Fueled by Ramen
Fueled by Ramen, yeah
But you know I feel like one of the first pop punk bands I liked
Was Less Than Jake
And they were a Ska band
So when Ska kind of went away
I think pop punk kind of like grew in the aftermath
Well he founded Fueled by Ramen, right?
Wasn't it?
Yeah, yeah, yeah
Less Than Jake guy?
Yeah, yeah
And that's where all of those like emo bands came out of
I see
Yeah
When did you start thinking
Like when did you get into music yourself?
Transition from going to shows to wanting to play?
So I put on a show when I was 13 years old
My mom collected tickets at the door
Because we started going to shows when we were like 12 years old
So I really wanted to be involved
And this is before my friends and I were playing out with our own band
Yeah
So maybe at around like 14 years old
We started playing our own shows
What did they look like?
Like your mom's taking tickets?
So I rented a VFW hall
It probably cost like $150
I rented a PA from Guitar Center
And I called a bunch of bands that I knew
And you know paid them each
I don't know probably like 50 bucks or 100 bucks
And then like 300 people would come and pay
You know probably 15 bucks
Like it was a big business for a 13 year old kid
That's incredible
Yeah
And like what were you doing?
Were you doing covers?
Were you singing?
Were you playing?
What was your thing?
That first show that I did
I didn't play at all
Because I was a promoter before
I see
Yeah so you were promoting and bringing other bands in
Yeah
At 13?
At 13 yeah
That's nuts
Yeah
But I was playing music at that time
I was a drummer
I convinced my mom to give me drum lessons
Which she was ambivalent to do
Because it meant a drum set had to be in her basement
And luckily the house that we lived in in New Jersey
I think in like the 50s
There was some like pirate radio station in the basement
So like whoever was there did some like light soundproofing
And it was by no means like a studio
But my mom was like
Okay I think it's maybe soundproof
So you can have a drum set
But like it was the loudest thing ever in the house
So I was playing drums in my band with my best friends
I had my best friends all play different instruments
And then we did that band from when I was 13 years old
All throughout high school
So once we were in high school
Then we started playing these shows in New Jersey
Like three times a weekend
Yeah and it was just
It was shows at VFW halls
At churches
At fire stations
And the scene in New Jersey at the time was vibrant
There would be like 500 kids coming to shows
Put on by 16 year old kids
Sometimes it would be bands on tour from other areas
But a lot of times it was just like all of us playing for each other
Holy shit
Yeah and that's kind of
That's how I started this whole thing
And then to jump ahead a little bit
At the end of high school
Even though I was just the drummer of that band
I started writing songs myself
Guitar players in the band would leave their guitars at my mom's house
And I taught myself how to play guitar
And I started writing songs
And I realized like
Am I a songwriter?
Like is this something that I want to do?
But I was like stuck behind the drum set
So once high school ended
I had a vision for a band that I wanted to start
Which is the band I've been doing ever since then
And so I quit that band
And then made a demo
And that's how I got started with Armor for Sleep
I kind of want to meet your mom
She sounds amazing
Like whether she was taking tickets for those first shows you were putting on
Yeah
And all these guitars
Be stored at your house
The basement situation
She sounds amazing
Yeah she's the best
So my parents split up when I was two
And you know my dad was still in the picture
My dad's awesome too
But like our arrangement was that
We just grew up with my mom basically
And so she raised my two older sisters and I
And was working all the time
And the fact that she still let me pursue this crazy
You know like I told her in fourth grade
I heard the Black Album by Metallica
I was like I want to be in a band
And she was like sure whatever you want
And yeah so super grateful that she's had
In my back throughout this whole crazy thing
Yeah completely
I think it's kind of rare
Or maybe it seems rare to have a parent
That's just like go for it and do that thing
When that kid brings a Black Album
And is like I want to do this
Yeah
I remember that record as well
God it was good
Yeah
Now I don't know how to do this transition
And maybe we'll get back to your music again at the end
Because you're going to play us some songs
But what you were also doing at school
Is something I'm deeply curious about
Yeah
And I feel deeply American
Can you sort of explain to me
How you got into this particular part of your
Yeah
Schooling
Yes so thinking back on this whole experience
I was almost expecting to think of
Negative parts of this
But when I think back onto my experience
In this whole world that we'll get into in a second
It really was
Such a positive experience for me
And I'm really so thankful for it
And what happened is basically
Every year
My school in 5th grade
There was an invention contest
Called the SITE contest
Which stands for
Student Invention Through Education
And every 5th grade student
Was required to
Do this like 2 month long
Almost like a science fair competition thing
But in 4th grade
The teachers in my class
Picked 5 students that they thought
Were like special to be involved
So it would be 5 4th grade students
Competing with all of the 5th grade class
Which is super exciting
Because a grade is a massive difference
When you're that age
So in 4th grade I was
A really
Troubled kid
I was the class clown
I was misbehaving all the time
It's actually when my mom put me in therapy
Because I could not focus in school
Again I was the class clown
I remember my teacher Mrs. Goodman
Developed a sign for me
She would tug on her ear
And that would mean that I was being too loud
And instead of calling me out and punishing me
So I was going through a troubling time
I think it's because
My parents had been divorced for a while
And the kids I was around
Didn't have that upbringing
And I was just struggling
I said all that up
Because Mrs. Goodman
Picked me in 4th grade
As one of the 5 kids to compete
In this invention contest
And I have a vivid memory
Of going up to her after class
With tears in my eyes
Asking her why did you pick me
We know I'm having all of these issues
I was just surprised and honored
And she was like, we just see, like, I don't know what it was, I guess they could
see that I was still creative even though I was having these behavioral issues anyway so in fourth
grade I was one of the five kids to compete in this uh competition and I wound up winning that
year I got first place out of the fourth graders and then in fifth grade I competed again and I won
first place again and then after after winning like in my school the top two people would advance
to like the regional um competition and that was something that was like all of northern New Jersey
all the people who won in their specific schools would like compete against each other
so we had to go to this like bigger venue um it was in the Meadowlands um in this like convention
hall what Meadowlands what is that oh uh the Meadowlands it's where Giant Stadium is or MetLife
Stadium is now where the Giants play it's um it's there's basically nothing in the Meadowlands it's
just like open fields and they have some convention centers
and some hotels um wait just rewind I your teacher she sounds amazing yes even just thinking of her
having the foresight to like tug in here and not embarrass you in front of everyone and yell
that's huge yeah like I feel like we all have these teachers that uh that you remember and
for her to also hone in and be like you're not a shithead you're smart and you're just not focused
fuck that's cool yeah it was really cool and and again I don't remember like fourth grade I was
nine years old like I don't remember much but I remember how
having that conversation with her just being so moved that she she believed in me you know and um
and yeah it was really special for me I think that's probably why I took it seriously do you
remember what you invented I do I remember I remember you bring it in with you and okay so
yes so here's another thing so this invention contest lasted over the course of I don't know
one or two months you had to identify a problem you had to um talk about if you could think of a
realistic solution and then you had to figure out how to do it and then you had to figure out how to
and then another aspect of it was that you had to go out and find if there were other uh comp items
already on the market you had to call stores and see if things existed and I remember I really
picked up on all of that stuff because I I don't know I knew for some reason my classmates would
just try and like invent crazy stuff but I was like no this has to be like grounded and real so
I took that seriously and I I went to like I remember going to CVS and Walgreens and asking
them if they had different products and and when I went to present my
invention I think that was and this is what I asked my mom about this too because I asked her
if she had memories from this time and she said that she thinks I won because I had like the whole
marketing part down and I knew how to present my inventions and they weren't the most mind-blowing
inventions but they were practical yeah they had like real world applications yeah that's the first
time in my life like that clicked to me that like it's more than just the product it's about like
how does this fit into the world and I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know I don't know
talking about how this connected to music I think I think I use that too when I started doing
everything I did in music like kind of like looking at it as a whole as a whole rather than
just like music but anyway going back to the inventions yes the first year um my invention
was called the big and tough earmuffs it's a great name um so obviously being from New Jersey
we had really brutal winters so every winter we had to wear earmuffs and the annoying my fourth
grade mind the annoying thing about earmuffs for me was that you had these two earmuffs
on your ears but then there was this like really stiff like plastic part that went on your head
and it would dig into your head and it hurt yeah five minutes in and you're like get this thing off
me one size does not fit all no absolutely not exactly so with that in mind I I dissected um a
pair of earmuffs and I just took off the outer shell with the insulation and I put like a drawstring
inside so you can put them on your ears and then pull a drawstring so each one was like suctioned
onto your ear
so instead of you know earmuffs with the band so yeah so I I went to all these stores I said do
you have any earmuffs that don't have the plastic band on top or anything and then nobody did so
very specific question from a kid coming into a store yeah like 10 year old yeah yeah no so these
things would they were into and they just suck onto your ears like this yeah that's great you're
prototyping these too and yeah I had I had the actual yeah I I my mom helped me sew on the
elastic band and everything but and just the name in the beginning the big and tough earmuffs
yeah really good another thing was that the name had to be like catchy too it is catchy yeah it's
fucking great I feel like you could pitch that on a dragon's den or something yeah what came next so
the second year um my invention was called the floss boss so another great name I don't know
if you remember um dental floss come in there's like uh kind of like a square type plastic
I love I floss sometimes twice a day I'm a big guy
so I'm intrigued by this but the second type of packaging it's it almost looks like um
an eight-sided piece of plastic thing so my thing with that my problem in fifth grade was that
you never knew when you were towards the end of the dental floss because it's so light
tell me about this no completely and there's nothing more frustrating when you go to floss
before bed and you pull it out you're done yes and then it's like a week of trying to remember
to buy more floss yes so the floss boss my invention was like I took one of those
containers I flipped it over and I put a clear piece of plastic on the underneath so you could
always see when the spool was so brutally simple that's so no but so practical yeah yeah and again
you're walking into these stores asking like to see all their floss containers yeah to see the
floss containers and do people come in with doing market research yeah good yeah no again just like
deeply practical yeah and things that could actually exist in real life stay tuned for more
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do you remember what other kids were doing around you yes so so other kids inventions were like
they would do like flying cars or like you know a magnet that could you know
bring your refrigerator into your house so you wouldn't have to lift it up the stairs you know
but like they would have no dumb shit what are you doesn't make no wonder you want it all it
is so mine were like simple practical things and and that's why they won i remember this was also
the first time where i um experienced the first haters in my life so also gonna prep you for a
world of music yeah and promotion yeah no i remember after after the big and tough earmuffs
one i was in a bathroom stall in school and i already i already had this reputation that like
maybe i didn't deserve to be there because like i was the troubled kid but i got not only did i get
chosen as one of the five kids but i was also the troubled kid because i was the troubled kid
but i won yeah it would be hugely controversial because at school i was a little nerd and i would
have been angry at you because i was doing everything right sucking up to all the teachers
suddenly you who's this naughty little shit in school got reward what the hell yeah i remember
the day after i won i was in like a bathroom stall and kids came in and they were just shit talking
how how simple the big and tough earmuffs were was and that i i shouldn't have won because it
was such a basic idea and you know that was the first time i had to had to deal with haters and
which at the time would be like quite stressful and awful yeah as well yeah did they know you were
in there or you were in a school so you was yeah i feel like that's every scene in every american
sitcom is that stage where like you're listening to kids like talking shit in the stalls but then
that fueled your emotional journey into becoming a songwriter songwriter i went through the same
exact thing at a certain you know many times over like having haters for music you know but
i mean you only get haters once you do something that's like at least marginal
least successful right you know what i mean so like uh-huh it was the same thing you know just
trying to trying to understand that uh like why that's happening i don't want to be extreme with
this but i feel like if you didn't have that invention part of your life do you think you
would be doing what you're doing today i you know sort of gently steered you in certain ways of
viewing the world and thinking about things and succeeding i was thinking about that a lot trying
to like recall like that experience and i think there is a through line between that and
and what i would do later it's also confidence right it's also someone saying you can succeed
you can do something it was a huge confidence booster the fact that my teachers took a chance
on me and and the fact that i was able to get up here and understand like the system of something
i definitely took that and ran with it do you still have a brain where you feel like you're
seeing a product and you're always trying to invent a slightly better version do you still
have that part of you you have like 250 patents that you own so i don't think necessarily with
inventions but i think i realized something again about like maybe analyzing the system of something
so
for instance when i when i started armor for sleep when i was 16 years old i knew that if you wanted
to make it as a band it was more than just about like writing a song like at that time record
labels were starting to sign bands so i knew i needed to attract the attention of a record label
and then there was also a part of it where like i knew artwork was such a big component of a band
and like you know it's more than just like i i knew uh like peers who were my age were very
focused on just like one aspect of their band but i i think i saw that it's like a bigger system in
place you have to have a lot of pieces in there so i don't know if like i learned that specifically
through my experience in the invention contest or the invention contest just revealed
that i can kind of think about things you know in like a larger scope but like
i think when i was starting the band i was drawing upon what i did in the invention contest where
like you know thinking about the marketing thinking about like you know bigger things
i think that's a good
second point i think that's a good second point i think that's a good second point
for my story with you oh my god i'm excited for this i've been waiting so yeah when i was
15 i started designing t-shirts for bands yeah and i hit you up on aim dude uh what was your
screen name i was the academy rocker no you were not yeah dude oh my god and you were one of the
first bands that let me like do designs for shirts that's amazing just the confidence that it gave me
like i was in art class in high school wow and i was growing up around like the academy yeah guys
and fallout boy and that whole scene but getting into kind of art and a practical usage of it
like i was in my art studio class working essentially and designing t-shirts for all these
different bands um and i i always remember you being very nice to this over 20 years
ago yeah it's just some 15 year old kid that like i had no design background i was just i remember
chatting with you we should chat all the time getting into it nice yeah yeah like designing
t-shirts did any of them make it do you know i don't know if any of them did at that point
okay but yeah i mean that was like the start of my design journey that's incredible
how'd you get my screen name i think it was just armor for sleep yeah probably so i just
i yeah i don't even know it was probably on your website yeah it probably was that's crazy
that's awesome that's insane you remember the screen name i remember the academy yeah we used
to talk all the time yeah yeah well because i don't think you knew who the academy was yet
because they had not blown up yes they had not become the academy is yet yeah but then but but
then i started to know about the band yeah um so i feel like i just associated you with like
i thought you were associated with the band from the beginning like officially well i mean i was
i'm still close with cisco and yeah and those guys but uh that's so awesome that was a that's
like a really pure lovely story yeah i was always a kid who was um chasing down like my favorite
bands that i wanted to work with and like there were there were guys that were always so sweet to
me and so supportive like man i used to bring like poetry books to um thursday shows to give
to jeff the singer from thursday and and um chris from saves the day i used to be up front at all
their shows singing along and he was just so gracious to me and like i always wanted to do
that with like kids or younger people who would like hit us up to be like check out my band's demo
or whatever and they were like i can't believe you're talking to me and i was like this is i
grew up with bands that i loved you know being nice to me so like why wouldn't i do that to
you know be that way to other people too those types of people i remember
quite a bit from that age i remember when like fallout boy hit and they're going on kimmel and
stuff and it's like those are the guys from this small town and seeing them achieve this yeah and
it as like just a 15 year old of like that's who i just saw at a vfw and having the confidence to
then reach out and yeah that was the start of start of my grind i guess and the internet was
a slightly more pure place then where i feel like you could reach out and those comms were a bit less
insane than they are now yeah i remember someone gave me a brendan boyd from incubus's screen name
one time and um i would just like send him a messages and like chat with him and he was like
really cool to me i don't even know if it was really him but i think it was yeah it's like my
friend celine she thought she was um talking to britney spears all through school and was getting
help with her homework from britney spears semi-recent though right she's younger well yeah
maybe not this recently um but yeah then she realized at some point that britney spears wasn't
helping her her homework it was just some dude or the other end of the line oh my god yeah it's
the internet's a different world for women it's a different it is it is a different world for women
different when you're reaching out to people i don't know how to transition to this but you're
going to play some songs for us soon yeah one thing i do know about your music is you know rob and i
are what you you brought a treat right did you bring a treat i did bring a treat oh you got a
treat yeah yeah oh my god you listened to the memo so clearly yes what have you got for me so um i
will say it's something that needed to be prepared so i was going to make it here but i feel like
that wouldn't have been the best um for like visual podcasts of understanding sitting making
something so i pre-made these but i want to show you the ingredients so this comes from i was
thinking about student invention competition in my time growing up and growing up in new jersey and i
didn't realize that something i grew up with was very specific to um the new england area and this
was just something that i grew up so okay i am and i really doubt they have this in new um it's a meat
pie this is my favorite part of this show is that okay okay this is called marshmallow fluff have
you ever heard of this no but i'm not into it because i love marshmallow and i love sugar
okay so this is so purely i was reading about this um this is the
standard story of some guy invented this in like the 1920s called marshmallow fluff sold it to like
heinz or something and then they had all of this stuff and they didn't know what to do with so they
started marketing it towards uh school children cool i said the base recipe i remember we weren't
allowed to have that and i had a friend that they were allowed to have it yes we'd sneak over there
and eat so we were allowed to have it um so marshmallow fluff plus peanut butter is called a
fluffer nutter sandwich
fuck this is the best thing that's been brought into the segment ever so um i was reading a
little bit about this it's like a staple of new england kids food and there's actually
been political campaigns to like ban this but it's such a beloved um school time lunch
that like politicians have like gone to bat trying to keep this like on the menu or like so anyway i
grew up with this and i think it's it's so insane to me because this is just like a candy sandwich
and we would just go to school with this with like a side of oreo cookies because i feel like
the closest i mean i thought you were going to do when you bought out that white bread and the
peanut butter a peanut butter and jam sandwich which is a big deal in new zealand and a big deal
here in america this marshmallow element is wild to me crazy this is the best this is the best
so kids would have these in their lunch boxes this is just a thing who the fuck invented this hey is
there anything else you want to say yeah we had funny rules in my house like there was no candy
allowed in my house we couldn't have soda but my mom would let us go to the grocery store and buy
whatever cereal we wanted so we would buy lucky charms cereal is healthy yeah and also we would
have this for lunch sometimes so that like mom logic back then was insane our house was the same
no soda no candy but my mom would make sandwiches with butter and cinnamon sugar on top yes that was
i love that and that cinnamon toast that somehow is okay in my household orange juice was healthy
that was like your fruit intake okay i'm so fine oh hell yeah how good is that absolutely oh this
is insane how hard is it to find fluff is it just any grocery store you walk into is it ralph's i've
never seen this marshmallow cream before i've never heard of it before did you have this in your house
my house but i mean we would just spoon in there with marshmallow also i'm really not sure i've
never used marshmallow fluff for anything other than this sandwich like i think this is the only
application for fluffernutter sandwiches it's just this and peanut butter and white bread i mean i
guess maybe you could use this on like ice cream as a topping but vinnie would love this i gotta
get this no this is this is my i could eat this all day yeah but it's bad for me i mean with
nutrition information being so readily available i just don't know if this can ever happen in 2020.
six again like you know what i mean like yeah my my four-year-old's preschool like can't have
peanuts we can't have sugar in his lunch so that's the school rule school rule yeah is that for
allergens for the peanut yeah and i think health with the sugar aspect but only natural sugars
i mean this is one of the most american things i could think of like america is so good at getting
sugar into people it is it's just marketed at kids everywhere and adults i just think it's hysterical
like the history of it is just some product they didn't know what to do with and to just push it on
kids and it's beloved and i love that it's become a political talking point we have got something
we're advocating for bands and then someone coming in and being like no we'll never ban this yeah so
the bands were because of how unhealthy it is i'm assuming so yeah yeah it's not the reason it's too
delicious yeah it's bannet i brought a couple knives if anyone wants to make a second
amazing you're gonna play some music for us and there's no easy transition as we eat a very
juvenile sandwich i feel like a lot of your subject matter is is is quite dark or sort of
death related and rob and i often i think rob and i are both terrified of dying so anything about
death my little ears perk up because it's very much a topic that i'm i'm wondering what where
that came into your sort of onto into your brain i gotta shout out my dad here my dad is a super
smart guy and when i say super smart i mean really smart like went to went to mit for theoretical
physics oh okay then went to columbia medical school to be a doctor like just super smart so
he was always raising me with like little tidbits about like you know quantum mechanics and and so i
you know i think that definitely contributed to
me
thinking about darker and deeper things at a younger age than a lot of uh than a lot of my
friends but also i think i think that's just um who i was you know what i mean like uh i don't
know i've always been fascinated by by death and what that means and and i think everyone everyone
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was there any religious element in your childhood or is it purely more than from the science side
yeah i was i was raised in a pretty religious household but i don't think i don't think that
contributed to to this you know like i never i never bought any of the you know gods like a guy
sitting in a chair in heaven you know eternal life kind of yeah no so so i i never bought any
of that even though that was never really pushed on me like that also i think the fact that my
parents went through a divorce um we didn't have like that nuclear family at home so i spent a lot
of time by myself and and i also think i spent a lot of time maybe thinking about uh i guess i don't
know how to say but like emotional things that like my friends weren't thinking about just because
there was a little bit of a struggle at home with my mom having to work so hard and and us splitting
up time between our parents like i was just like this isn't normal and and um you know i i knew
something was a little bit different with our parents and i was like i don't know what to do with
our family dynamic and i think that definitely contributed to me thinking a little bit more
about um you know being secluded being alone with my own thoughts and and facing that part of me i
think at a younger age than most people you know go through that um so yeah i was thinking about
death and and darker things a little bit earlier and and what i think really was most important is
that drew me to darker music um i think earlier on than most people like for instance nine inch
heels was uh you know i remember hearing um the song something i can never have off pretty hate
machine when i was really young and such a moody and dark song and and maybe other kids would would
want to skip it but i really resonated with that's the one yeah that's quiet and more intense quiet
more intense talking about longing for someone in a minor key that spoke to me when i was in like
sixth grade you know what i mean um i just think that's that's kind of how my brain was wired so
after being such a fan of that i wanted to you know throw my hat in the ring and
just always what i've been drawn towards yeah that completely makes sense what what are you
going to play for us today um so the first song that i'm going to play is um a song called car
underwater from the album what to do when you're dead what to do when you are dead yes yeah which
is a great album title but yeah it's dark and it's also quite fun and i remember the imagery from that
album too the cover is what a man like floating a man floating yeah so the um what to do when you're
out um and it's uh i guess now people call it a concept album so the first song in the album is
car underwater it's about a guy who apparently drives his car into um a lake or a river or
something and then the rest of the album he's kind of in a state of purgatory trying to reconnect with
people from his life and coming to all these realizations about the decision that he made but
the whole thing kicks off with car under water and over the years car car under water has been
um it's kind of like taking on a life of its own and uh you know with spotify and everything over
the past few years it's it's you know like we can see tangibly like this is like grabbing onto this
thing yeah what do you put that down to that particular song people because it's interesting
what you just you mentioning spotify because yeah probably my age and what i grew up with
but and rob's from the same in a way like the concept album to me is like
i love it because it draws you into a whole record yes it's not just the idea of you know the idea of
listening to a song on an album and then just not listening to the rest is just not something i'd
ever do it's the opposite of where music is trending with just like singles and don't worry
about albums exactly but that's that's why i'm interested in this song that people obviously look
at spotify and it jumps here because kids are finding this thing um well i mean you know it is
kind of like a catchier song but i also think the people
people who relate to that song i think they also know that it's part of a larger thing
like it's very rare for there to be a fan at our shows who likes car under water but is not familiar
with the album as a whole yeah so you're drawing in that kind of a listener that wants the whole
thing yeah which is pretty cool when it's crazy when internet trends will happen and songs will
just get rediscovered 10 years later and blow up i think dr dog had that with uh where all the time
go just became like an instagram tick-tock trend yes and like billions of streams yeah after that
that song had been out for 10 years
yeah so there are fans of armor for sleep um i'm super super stoked they're fans of my band
but then there are within fans of armor for sleep there are just fans of what to do when you are dead
and like like that album within you know like our catalog specifically has um become its own thing
and like it's awesome i know a lot of a lot of bands are like there's a level of frustration
that something they did so long ago is going to be one of
you know the thing that gets the most attention but like i love it like you said
there are there are 16 year old kids coming to our show who just discovered this album who have
like the booklet for me to sign who are asking me all these questions and you know it's it's cool
it's definitely like over the course of time still still managed to intrigue people why don't you
kind of made this thing that's like a bit timeless as well you know that's still accessible yeah
was that album peak armor for sleep i mean for sure that came out on equal vision which was an
indie label and that sold like a crazy amount and then after that we signed a major label deal so
like that was you know when everything was the craziest for us it was it was also 2005 it's when
like major labels were like you know snatching up my cam and fallout boy and yeah so that that's
kind of um that was our big our big moment back in the day for sure so i remember dream make believe
was where i found you guys and then you guys also had just uh the hoodie that said armor
across which was like such a cultural piece of fashion it felt like at that time where it was
black hoodie armor just simple font on the front getting that merch right yeah yeah no that hoodie
was that hoodie was big a lot of people bring that up actually you gotta bring it back yeah you do
have to bring it back yeah i got there's a merch guy over here yeah well thank you so much for
coming in um i'm all sugared up on uh marshmallow cream dangerous but i hope you enjoyed it and i'll
see you next time bye bye
shit i could i could i mean i've recently discovered um cookie butter oh yeah and that
feels like a similar genre where that could be sitting in the cupboard and i'll just like spoon
into it is that the trader joe's one yeah yeah it's good yeah i love that all right
believe the news i'm gone for good call off the search no one will know that i am down here
and believe the note that i left for you you can't turn back the clocks you can't pull me up from here
so don't try i'm in a car underwater with time to kill thinking back and project to tell you this
didn't care that you left and abandoned me what hurts more cause i would still die for you
I'm in a car underwater with time to kill
Thinking back, I forgot to tell you this
Didn't care that you left and abandoned me
What hurts more is I would still die for you
And make time slower
And give me longer
But it's too late for me
No one will know that I am down here
And believe your dreams of me
Sinking so far below
You can't pull me up from here, so don't try
I'm in a car underwater with time to kill
Thinking back, I forgot to tell you this
Didn't care that you left and abandoned me
What hurts more is I would still die for you
And leave it up to me
To burden you again
But this one's not your fault
Please forgive me
And leave it up to me
To burden you again
But this one's not your fault
Don't forget, don't forget, don't forget me
And don't think back, don't think back to me at all
Just let me go
Don't think back, don't think back to me at all
Let me go
And let me go
Just let me go
I'm in a car underwater with time to kill
Thinking back, I forgot to tell you this
Didn't care that you left and abandoned me
What hurts more is I would still die for you
I'm in a car underwater with time to kill
Thinking back, I forgot to tell you this
Didn't care that you left and abandoned me
What hurts more is I would still die for you
I'm in a car underwater with time to kill
Thinking back, I forgot to tell you this
Didn't care that you left and abandoned me
What hurts more is I would still die for you
What hurts more is I would still die for you
Thinking back, I forgot to tell you this
Didn't care that you left and abandoned me
What hurts more is I would still die for you
I'm in a car underwater with time to kill
Thinking back, I forgot to tell you this
I'll always hear your song in my heart
I'll always hear your song in my heart
♪ In heaven all day long ♪
I want to find you so bad
And let you know I'm miserable up here without you
I came down here to tell you
It rains in heaven all day long
I want to find you so bad
And let you know I'm miserable up here without you
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Key Points:
Ben Jorgensen, musician and frontman of Armor for Sleep, discusses his upbringing in suburban New Jersey, close to New York City, and his early exposure to punk, ska, and pop-punk scenes.
He began promoting local shows at age 13, with his mother's support (she collected tickets), and later transitioned from drummer to songwriter, forming Armor for Sleep after high school.
In elementary school, he won a student invention contest twice (with "Big and Tough Earmuffs" and "Floss Boss"), learning practical problem-solving, marketing, and systems thinking that he later applied to his music career.
He shares a nostalgic story about a New England treat, the fluffernutter sandwich (marshmallow fluff and peanut butter), and reflects on childhood food rules.
His music often explores dark, death-related themes, influenced by his father's scientific mindset, his parents' divorce, and early exposure to moody music like Nine Inch Nails.
He performs "Car Underwater," a song from the concept album *What to Do When You're Dead*, which has gained renewed popularity on streaming platforms.
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Summary:
Ben Jorgensen, the frontman of Armor for Sleep, joins the podcast to share his journey from a creatively restless kid in New Jersey to a successful musician. Growing up just minutes from New York City, he was immersed in punk and ska scenes, attending shows as a teenager and eventually promoting his own events at age 13, with his mother's encouragement. His early entrepreneurial spirit was shaped by winning a school invention contest twice with practical ideas like the "Big and Tough Earmuffs" and "Floss Boss," which taught him the importance of marketing and seeing the bigger picture—skills he later applied to building his band.
Ben reflects on his dark, introspective songwriting, influenced by his father's scientific mind and his parents' divorce, leading to themes of death and purgatory in albums like *What to Do When You're Dead*. He discusses the resurgence of his song "Car Underwater" on streaming platforms, noting how fans discover the full concept album. The conversation also touches on nostalgic childhood foods, like the fluffernutter sandwich, and a heartwarming story where a guest recalls connecting with Ben over AIM as a teenager to design band t-shirts, a testament to Ben's kindness toward young fans.
The episode concludes with a live acoustic performance.
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He grew up in New Jersey, about four miles from the George Washington Bridge, which made it a New York City suburb.
At age 13, he promoted a show at a VFW hall, renting a PA system and booking bands, with his mom collecting tickets at the door.
He started as a drummer, taking lessons and playing in a band with his best friends from age 13 through high school.
The SITE contest was a school invention competition. Ben invented 'Big and Tough Earmuffs' that used a drawstring to fit ears without a headband, and later 'Floss Boss,' a floss container with a clear bottom.
She picked him for the invention contest despite his behavioral issues, showing belief in his creativity, which boosted his confidence and taught him about marketing and presenting ideas.
It's a New England staple made with marshmallow fluff and peanut butter on white bread, which Ben grew up eating and considers a candy-like lunch.
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