Mayo Clinic Cancer Doctor: 5 Foods That Heal the Body, Starve Cancer, & Prevent Disease

Hey, it's friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins podcast. My jaw is on the floor. I cannot wait for you to hear this conversation. It's with a double-board certified physician from the Mayo Clinic, who is the first-ever cancer doctor that we have had here on the Mel Robbins podcast. Now, she's going to teach you how to heal the body, starve cancer, and prevent disease with the food you eat. The result she's been getting for decades with her patients using traditional medicine combined with lifestyle changes has earned her the nickname, the magic bullet at the Mayo Clinic. This conversation is going to change the way you think about food, exercise, sleep, stress, and disease. What you will learn today will add years to your life and life to your years. You're going to learn why food can be your medicine. The top five cancer-fighting foods to add to your plate, why the modern diet is making you sick and how to make healthy eating unbelievably easy. So if you want more energy, if you want to protect your health, if you want to know exactly what to eat and what to avoid, so you can live your most vibrant life, this episode is for you. Hey, it's your friend Mel, and welcome to the Mel Robbins podcast. I am so excited for today's conversation. I'm so excited for our guest. I just want to say it's an honor to be together. It's an honor to spend this time with you. I also want to take a moment and say if you're a new listener or if you're here, because someone shared this with you, I'm not surprised. This episode is incredible. And so lots of people have been sharing this all over the world. I just want to personally welcome you to the Mel Robbins podcast family. Now let's get into this. I cannot wait for you to meet the unbelievable Dr. Don Musalum and learn all about the five cancer-fighting foods that heal the body and starve disease. Dr. Don Musalum is a double-bored certified physician who has been treating cancer patients for over two decades at Mayo Clinic, the number one hospital system in the world. By the way, she has such incredible results with her patients based on the research she's about to share with you today. That her colleagues there, you know what they call her? They call her the magic bullet. That's also where she did her residency and her fellowship training. Now she sees patients at the Mayo Clinic Comprehensive Cancer Center, where she's also the founder of Mayo's Integrative Medicine and Breast Health program. In addition to all this, she trains doctors at Mayo Clinic in lifestyle medicine, which is using food, sleep, movement, and stress management as tools alongside all of the amazing medical interventions to fight disease. She's internationally recognized for her work in cancer prevention and integrative oncology and check this out. On top of all of that, she is a fourth-stage cancer survivor and a heart transplant recipient. Today, she's going to take all of that wisdom and knowledge and life experience, and she's going to teach you how you can use simple lifestyle changes to heal your body and prevent disease. Please help me welcome the extraordinary Dr. Don Musellum to the Mel Robbins podcast. Dr. Musellum, thank you so much for hopping on a plane and being here. I'm so excited to talk to you. Thank you, Mel. It's this is like a surreal experience. I have goosebumps from head to toe. I live with goosebumps, but I really have them right now and I was so excited of flying out here. I slept good last night, but I didn't even feel like I needed to sleep. I'm so energized. I can tell and I'm energized too because you have so much to teach us today. I'd love to start by having you speak to the person who is here with us right now and tell them how their life might change for the better. If they really take everything to heart that you're about to teach us today and they apply it to their life. I love that. It can almost bring tears to my eyes actually. You know, I want each of you to be truly awakened to your lifeness unapologetically. Life is so very, very precious and I just want to take every single person listening and be able to move them from a place of hope to knowing that they too can flourish despite whatever adversity they have in their life. So let's do it. Let's do it. We're going to cover so much. I mean, you've been practicing medicine for several decades. We're going to discuss food that can heal your body and starve disease. We are going to go through a specific list of foods one by one that you should be eating in order to avoid cancer. We're going to talk about specific foods that I want you to avoid because they cause cancer. But one of the reasons why we tracked you down and we wanted to sit down and learn from you is because you're not only a medical doctor and you're not only a researcher and you're not only in a clinical practice helping heal people that have a cancer diagnosis. But you also are cancer survivor yourself. And when you were 26 years old in medical school, that's when you got the diagnosis. And so before we jump into everything you're about to teach us, I'd love to hear about that moment in your life and how that impacted how you practice medicine. Yeah. Thank you, Mel. I learned a lot in medical school, but I learned everything about how to be a doctor as a patient. And it was just a few months in a medical school. I mean, I lived the perfect healthy lifestyle growing up, had a very loving family and we really participated in healthy living. And a few months in a medical school, first time in my entire life, I wasn't feeling good, big into athletics. I would climb camelback mountain Arizona twice a day. And all of a sudden it was hard. Solid doctor. He said, use it in hailer. It's adult asthma. I didn't ask any questions. He didn't even listen to me. Didn't get better. Solid second doctor. He said, use it more. He still didn't listen to me. The third doctor said, Oh, it's in your head. This is something that happens to all medical students. It's called psychosomatic. Me and eights in your head and then the stomach, the body, you manifest these symptoms. It was a few days after that doctor told me that it was in my head that I collapsed. And I went to the hospital. I was in cardiogenic shock. My heart wasn't even beating properly. There was a 16 centimeter mass wrapped around my heart. And the tumor was compressing all the great vessels in my neck. So they took me to urgent surgery. And the next day the doctors came in the room and they said, you have stage four cancer. They said, you have three months to live without treatment, 20 months to live with treatment. And, you know, so many people would say, well, were you angry? You know, what was the emotion? And I was just given this gift of grace. I just took that diagnosis and I knew that there was a deep lesson there for me, especially as a medical student. And I stayed the course. I stayed in medical school. And I listened to what the doctors said I needed to do to survive. And I showed it for myself. I stayed busy with the healthy aspects of living that we're going to talk about today. Because I was able to attain my vitality during my entire cancer treatment. And then flourish, as you can see today, thereafter. So I just learned so much about the human experience, both when we're well, when I was younger, as well as what it's like to be a patient when you're not well. There is so much unpack and just that when you woke up from that surgery, because that sounds like there was, well, first of all, I got to stop with you can go up camel back two times. I mean, I dragged myself up there and was so out of breath and lightheaded that thankfully there was like an army ranger veteran who was hiking down as I was stumbling down who had to lead me down the mountain. That that that right there is unbelievable. But I think a lot of people have had that experience where you're like, I know some things wrong. And then you are told by somebody, no, no, no, it's on your head. You're going to be fine. But for you, that sounds enormous, that it was wrapped around your heart. It was compressing against you, you know, you held up your hand toward your throat. You then woke up from surgery. But it sounded like you just kind of went on with your life. So I want to just say, what did the doctor tell you to do? Because you said I followed the medical advice. But you also did a second thing, which is instead of focusing on the cancer, you focused and tripled down on the healthy aspects of your life. And so let's just first talk about what did the doctors say you should do that you did. And then let's talk about what are the, you know, healthy things that you focused on? Yes. So, you know, the doctor said, I'm you're going to do chemotherapy. And I didn't question it. I knew my body needed chemotherapy. Here I am in the specialty of integrative oncology where I really use evidence-back natural therapies to help to mitigate the toxicities of treatment to improve the outcomes of treatment and also reduce other chronic diseases. I knew that I needed the chemotherapy to get rid of this cancer. So were you studying cancer? Medicine, is that why you went to medical school? You know, I have a fascinating background. Before I went to traditional medical school, I actually went to naturopathic school. And my undergraduate training was an exercise physiology in nutrition. So this has just been like weaved into my spirit in soul since I was actually a little girl. As a young kid, people would ask, what do you want to be when you grow up? Like they always, I said, I want to live to be 100 years old. I just loved, well, I was actually obsessed with it. I thought it was the coolest thing. How old are you right now? 51. Well, that's fantastic. If I were bedding on anybody living to 100, it would be you. I think so, for sure. And there's a lot that I know that we can learn from you both in terms of the medical research and the way that you tripled down on healthy living and vitality and things that are accessible to all of us. So you started out as a naturopath. You had dreams and ambitions as a little kid of living to 100. You've always been obsessed with a healthy lifestyle, but then holy cow, 26. If you look at somebody that can just trot up camelback twice, and that's already super healthy and has a very positive attitude, those two things that and cancer diagnosis don't seem to go together, right? I mean, there's, you know, you just do this analysis immediately. You're like, what did I do wrong? That's the natural thing. You know, the why me, you know, everyone sees me in this external vision is, oh my gosh, she's so positive. I bet she never has a bad day. I cried. I sobbed like, what did this mean? But it was very momentarily. I knew, hey, I don't have time for this. I've got to kind of figure out what my strategy is going to be. And I hired the doctors I could trust. You know, once I was given the diagnosis and I really don't care when doctors, I think it's not a good idea when doctors give a finite number of how long are going to be on earth because I don't think we can really do an accurate prediction, especially nowadays. We have so many advancements for cancer treatment. We're seeing people being cured left and right. Who are we to predict how long someone's going to live? So I tell my patients often, they're very, they find it's very off-putting when an oncologist shares with them, you have X amount of time to live. And I tell my patients, when you go meet with an oncologist, say, you don't want to have that number, if you don't want that number, and you deserve to have the number if you want it. But for me, I would have kind of rather not had that number, but I didn't let it get in my head. And so I had to do chemotherapy for almost six months, and then I had to do a bone marrow transplant because this was before the immunotherapies, the retoxamab, or any of those treatments were available. So did the bone marrow transplant. And I remember every morning I set my alarm for 4am in the hospital, they brought all my medical studies to the hospital so I could study. My oncologist had a bicycle in my room and a bicycle at the nurse's station. So at 4am, I would kind of sneak out of the room, sit on that bike and watch the sunrise in Arizona. It was gorgeous over the mountains. But this was remarkable. And I feel it in my body, like tiptoeing, sliding that glass door, and spanning the room, and seeing all these other people in their beds. And I'll describe it. They were so sick in an effort to be alive. But again, I attained my vitality without pause. And it was how I lived. And it's exactly what I really work with my patients in doing today. And you've got to remove that turbulence. You've got to come to this in a place of just joy and like empowerment. Like I have autonomy over this diagnosis. This is my job right now to show up for myself. And it worked beautifully. And I got to unpack this. Okay. Okay. So Dr. Musailin, you're 26 years old. And you painted such a vivid picture. And I can actually picture in my mind the 26 year old you in a hospital bed popping up like a jackrabbit. Running down in your gown to the nurses station, hopping on a bike, looking out the window. And I can also picture walking past all the other rooms and kind of peeking in and seeing people like just near death or at least with the defeated I'm dying just down energy, which is certainly a very rational and expected response to a scary diagnosis to very debilitating treatment. But you did the opposite. And I have two questions around this. When the doctor said you have three months to live, how did that change your aperture in your mind in terms of what a typical 26 year old thinks about versus what you then thought about when somebody said you have three months to live? Yeah. So when I heard it, I kind of tucked it away. It was tucked deep into my soul. It was still with me, but it wasn't controlling my choices or my actions. I wasn't living in fear by any means. I was living through the lens of let's be fully alive. What I would say is hearing that elevated my existence to the degree that every single thing that I would experience was elevated. The grass wasn't just green. It was magnificently green. The clouds were just always more volumous than they probably ever were. The warmth of the sun just felt so warm and encompassing. And just like it is today, but I just loved people. You know, I could I remember one situation. It was I was out of McDonald's, actually, which it doesn't sound very healthy, right? Like it's probably a really good example for people to hear, but I went to McDonald's and I got a coffee. I love coffee. It's actually very good for you. We can talk about that. And there was a homeless gentleman sitting outside. I've actually never shared this story. And he was young. And he was about 19 years old. And I sat down and I had my coffee, went to bottom breakfast, and we just talked. And what I learned in my experience of being diagnosed cancer, if I wasn't diagnosed with cancer, you know what I would do? When I got my coffee and rushed off to go study selfishly, right? But instead I had this knowing like, hey, pause. Let's spend time with this human being. And he just taught me so much about life, like so much about being present. And he was so still. He had this beautiful energy. And you know, that's something that I think describes my existence is this energized stillness where I'm like a live wire. Like, you know, but inside there's like this ultimate stillness and harmony that is just so important. So I just want to make sure that as you're listening or watching, you kind of get the magic of what Dr. New Salem just shared, which is in getting that three months. Why would you even say it? Like, in being told that you had three months to live, it brought what mattered into focus and made the things right in front of you about life that give you energy and that's beautiful and that are worth living for way more magnified. And you leaned into that. And what I want to know is what are the healthy things that you focused on when you got that stage for cancer diagnosis? Exercise. Number one, you know, even during chemotherapy. Oh my gosh, I started feeling so much better. You know, because the tumor started shrinking. So it was like, holy cow, I can breathe again. So yes, I still exercise. The exercise research centered around cancer is incredibly exciting. We don't really know it back then. But it's likely why I'm alive today because I really still continue that exercise, not high intensity. I just did what I could do because the cancer treatments are dropping your blood cell counts, you're oftentimes anemic and you are tired. So I listened to my body when I rode that bike. It was slow. I didn't worry. There was no ego attached. I was just moving my body. I share with my patients. I know you're exhausted, but I need you to go walk at least five or 10 minutes after each meal. I need you to push yourself. You know, this is not easy, but we have a choice. And sometimes we had to push yourself. And in doing that, we can get energized. And so that is what I recommend. Number one is move your body. It is critical. Very, very important. The other thing with exercise people don't realize is that uses up that stress, all that adrenaline. If you think back to the cave manner and the saber-toothed tiger would jump out, the cave man would outrun it, right? And he'd sleep like a baby at night. Oh, and us, we don't have the saber-toothed tiger, but we have all these stressors, whatever it may be. Maybe it's not cancer. It could just be the stress of life. And we're just wound up so tight with the anxiety. So that exercise helps the mood. It helps beat the cancer and actually augments the treatment response we now know. It's magic. We know that in breast cancer, that exercise can improve breast cancer outcomes. I mean, are you ready for this? Give me chills. Almost 50%. I mean, this isn't a little number. This is like a magical number. There was just an amazing colorectal cancer study showing that exercise is looking as favorable as chemo. You know, this doesn't mean it replaces chemo. It means we do it together so we can cure cancers. So you focused on exercise. Were there any other healthy habits leaning into vitality that you did when you were diagnosed with stage 4 cancer? Oh, yes. You know, food is medicine. And this was really before the whole focus on food really became apparent, but it's always been something that's been very special to me. So I continued eating that healthy diet. And even in the days when I didn't really feel up to it, you know, the chemotherapy changes how things taste in your mouth. It's very metallic. Oftentimes you get sores. And with the type of treatment, I had you have a bunch of malsource. So it's it hurts. So, but this is the blessing in this is I know with that was like. So when I sit down with patients, I can be very mindful and think, okay, I know where she's at in this treatment. I see how she's talking to me. Her mouth obviously hurts. Let's touch on this. And let's figure out some food swaps. Or maybe she's having scrambled eggs with cheese on a piece of white bread with butter and a piece of turkey sausage. You know, that's not the end of the world private. There's a lot healthier way that I would like that woman to eat. So I'll do a swap. I try to flip what she's eating in a way that it's still something she's accustomed to, something that she looks for something more savory. She's not looking for something sweet in what she usually eats. And we'll give her something a little bit healthier to eat that would be maybe more in line with her cancer treatment to give her some of the phytonutrients that comes from plants that can help to make her feel better and maybe even improve those treatment outcomes. So you've talked about exercise. You've talked about tripling down on healthy foods because food is medicine, as you just said. You also talked about your attitude like really lasering in on how beautiful the sun rise is instead of focusing on the cancer diagnosis. Anything else that you leaned into when you were diagnosed with stage 4 cancer? Yeah, you know, acceptance. You can't fight it. You have to accept it. You have to work to accept it. It's really hard at first. But if you fight it, you're just going to be in that battle longer. And oftentimes I'll read that people say she battled with cancer. There was never a battle. It truly was just this grace of acceptance. And then moving in the direction I knew I had control over. And that was where I showed up for myself with healthy living and let the doctors do what they did best. You know, there's this super famous quote from, I can never say this word. It's like Hippocrats or Hippocrats. Hippocrates. Thank you. Perfect. Thank you. You know, Mark Twain said it takes a simple mind to spell a word one way. I say it takes a simple mind to say a word one way. So Hippocrates, thank you. The ancient Greek physician said let food be thy medicine. And you know, I hear you say this all the time. Is there data to back up the assertion that food can prevent or heal diseases? Absolutely. There's overwhelming evidence that food is a big problem in our country today with the levels of chronic disease we have. And in fact, in the Journal of the American Medical Association in 2022, what they publish is that food is leading cause of death in our country. Wait a minute. Food is the leading cause of death in the United States. Yes. What does that mean, Dr. Musalum? It's a massive driver with the consumption of ultra processed foods. 60% of our diet is ultra processed foods. 67% of our children's diet is ultra processed foods. And so what's happening with that? You know, there's additives in those foods that just aren't good for our body. Those foods aren't good for our gut microbiome. And then when we eat that much food that's fake, there's no room for the healthy stuff. So you're weeding out the opportunity to get the stuff that matters every time you put food in your mouth, you have an opportunity to be a healthier version of yourself or an unhealthier version of yourself. So you really want to pay attention to that. And it does not be perfect. This is never about perfection. But it's in an effort to be more consistent about doing better is what I would say and have joy over that. You know, sometimes they have women come in and they are what some would consider eating the perfect diet, but they feel like they're hostage that diet and they're not loving it and they're not having joy over it. So it's really trying to find the healthy foods that you enjoy the taste of. You know, I often wonder, I mean, that's a startling statistic that the leading cause of death in the United States is food because it's ultra processed. You know, there's all this obsession with labeling things organic. I've often wondered, wait a minute, don't we have this backwards? Shouldn't we be labeling things chemical? Yeah. And everything else is just food. I know. You know, in fact, speaking of food, you have a list of foods that prevent cancer. You can explain why they prevent cancer. And so I want to bring them in and then we're going to walk step by step through each one and have you explain how a particular food that you eat will help you prevent cancer. Let's do it. Let's do it. All right. Let's bring that in. So the first thing I see is a bowl of berries. Let's talk about frozen berries. Why do frozen berries prevent cancer? Berries are incredible. And you know, it's such an easy way to start your day. And a lot of people worry because berries can be expensive, especially if they're fresh. And so what I tell patients is don't worry just buy them frozen. And the frozen wild berries, they don't need to be organic. They're wild. They're going in nature. So get those frozen wild berries. This is a beautiful mix of berries here, which I love. And I really try to have my patients do a cup of a day. These are loaded with anthocyanins. There's anthocyanin. And why does it matter? It's this powerful phytonutrient. What's a phytonutrient? What does that mean? I know. It's very, very, great. So phyton is the color. The color and these vegetables and fruits in the nutrient is what's going to help feed our body. Everything that we want to help to, again, anything we eat, we can try to turn on all these activations that can help to mitigate cancer from forming. And if you have it, we can help to turn off some of those genes as well. So there's research with berries that's so exciting, both for breast cancer prevention as well as breast cancer survivorship. You won't believe this. For every two servings a week, it can reduce the risk of breast cancer. And for breast cancer survivors, for every two servings a week, it can reduce the risk of dying from breast cancer by 25%. 25%. I know. It's a huge number. Two servings of frozen berries a day, a week, a week, a week, a week. That's it. That's it. 25% reduction. 25%. This is in the nurse's health study. Such cool data, right? And they're delicious. You know, this is what's interesting about modern food, though, is there are many people that will taste these berries and they will not taste how delicious they are. Because the food today is so adulterated with chemicals and they make the food so that it has extra flavor on the palate. And so it can take a little bit of time as people are transitioning to a healthy diet to adjust their palate so they can appreciate the taste of food. And what I say that's so unique to cancer patients is when you have that cancer diagnosis, you know, your mortality is being threatened. You're ready for change and it seems that switch flips immediately. It seems like they start tasting the beauty of their food so much more quickly than patients that I may happen to see that have no active cancer. It takes them much longer to find the harmony and pleasure of how this wonderful food tastes. So I just want people to be patient when you start tasting these foods, especially if you're used to the ultra processed foods, you may not notice how amazing these tastes. I have patients say, oh my gosh, I didn't know strawberries taste is so good. It's really cool. Take some a while to let those fake foods kind of flush out of their system and they start to appreciate it. So berries, but guess what? These purple sweet potatoes can we talk about those? Yes. So let's talk about the purple sweet potatoes. Dr. New Salem, why do purple sweet potatoes prevent cancer? First of all, it's my favorite food. I'm just here to say like if tomorrow is my last day in Mel and you said, Don, what can we serve for your last meal? Just bring me that purple sweet potato. Just heat it up a little bit though. That's it. You just cook at it and you don't do anything fancy with it? Yes. I eat them. I eat when everything is done. I eat when every day. So look at this. I mean, it's so cool. When you cook these, it gets more purple. So I love the berries, right? Yeah. There's 150% more anthocyanins in these purple sweet potatoes than there are in those berries. And I love the blue zones. I think the blue zones deliver such a beautiful message. These are the places in the world where people live to be 100 years old. They thrive. They flourish with low levels of chronic disease. I don't think we need to get into the nuances of the research, but we see this pattern and trend. In in Okinawa, Japan, this is one of the areas of the world where women live the longest. We got to love that, right? They love these purple sweet potatoes. So have a purple sweet potato. So tell me about the word anthocyanin. What does it do in your body that helps prevent cancer and cure disease and have you live a longer life? What is anthocyanin? Like I can't even say it, but what is it doing in your body? You're saying it perfect. So anthocyanins, like many of these other phytonutrients we see in these vegetables and fruits that we have here, they have the opportunity to come into our body. And what we have is we have tumors genes that will be turned on. And we have tumor genes that can be turned off. That's how they function with the cancer. And these different molecules can help to either make cancer turn off so that it's not likely to have this proliferation, or they can even turn on things called tumor suppressor genes. These tumor suppressor genes help to be the brakes on any cancer. So you have this really beautiful kind of symphony and orchestra going on in your body at a genetic level. It's very cool. And that purple potato can turn off the genes in your body that are causing causing cancer. And they can turn on the genes in your body that naturally the brakes break the can't that that's crazy. It's exactly right. So imagine if you're doing a diet that's 60% ultra processed food and you're not consuming any vegetables and fruits. Guess what? So this sounds easy, right? I think we have this here. And I mean, it's making it's making us hungry, right? Smells delicious. Would you believe that 90% of Americans aren't getting what they need in terms of vegetables and fruits? I believe that. So I think that, but I believe it. I didn't believe it. So I did a study at Mayo Clinic in my cancer center. Guess what I learned? What? 95% of our patients aren't getting the recommended vegetables and fruits. 95. Every day I come in, the majority of my patients at best are getting two to three servings of vegetables and fruits a day. So the recommendation it was a great study. And what the study did is it reviewed two prospective studies, meaning studies where people were moving forward and they measured how much vegetables and fruits they consumed. And then they reviewed additional studies in a meta-analysis, which so this is a really high quality study of another 24 to 26 studies that they reviewed, which is really awesome. And what they showed us is that people who had two or less servings of vegetables and fruits a day versus people who had five. Okay. Those people that had five had a 10% reduction in dying from cancer, a 12% reduction in dying from heart disease. There was another really fun fact. There was a 35% reduction dying from respiratory disease. It made me stretch my head. I was like, what does that mean? That's what I said. What does that mean? What does that mean? Well, let's think about COVID. There were some cool COVID research. There was a study last year that showed people on more of a plant-based diet of vegan diet, vegetarian diet, just got more plants that they had less COVID occurring. And during COVID, there were some health care studies. And they showed that yes, indeed, people on more of these plant-based diets had less moderate severe COVID. And people who were on more animal predominant studies where they were missing out on some of this, they had a three and a half fold increased risk of more severe COVID. I want to make sure I'm tracking because that was jaw-dropping research. It is crazy. So you're saying that first of all, based on the research study that you did at Mayo, that cancer patients are not getting the recommended daily amount of vegetable servings that they need. And 90% of cancer patients are not doing it. That's number one. All of America, 90% are doing it in my own cancer center. 95%. 95. 95. And this was a group. I also looked at the food insecurity. It wasn't part of this population. So it wasn't driven by food and security. It's driven by busy lifestyles and the fact that we just don't make time. Or you don't know, you don't realize the power of food to heal and prevent. And I just want to make sure that as you were listening, because I know you're going to be sharing this with people in your life who need to hear this research and who need to understand how what you eat is medicine and there's research. The fact that there was a 10% decrease for people who had five servings of these kinds of vegetables a day in debt of dying from cancer. It's major. And this is so easy. So this is a cool story. So a lot of folks, food is expensive right now. And especially when you go to the grocery store to buy it. So I had a woman that actually did have food insecurity. She's doing amazing. And she had a lot of chronic diseases gets diagnosed with breast cancer and said, Hey, you need to help me. I want to change. She did her garden. You know what she does now? She goes online. She teaches people how to garden. It gives me chills. She transformed her cancer diagnosis in this deep meaning and purpose of helping others realize, Hey, food doesn't have to be expensive. You can grow it in your own backyard. Dr. Mew Salem, why do vegetables like cauliflower, Brussels sprouts, broccoli? Why do these prevent or cure cancer? These are some of the most powerful vegetables when it comes to breast cancer. And there's so many fun facts with it. So, you know, some vegetables are a little bit better raw than cooked. And this is actually one of them, the cruciferous vegetables. And a lot of people are like, Oh, but it's so gross. Okay. So crudite plate. Let's see the go ahead and pick up the cauliflower and the broccoli. So if we look at this cauliflower and broccoli, these are beautiful cruciferous vegetables. And maybe when I'm ready to cook these, I'll chop on a few of these before I cook it. And you know why? Why? Because when they're raw, there's an enzyme in them called mirrocinase. Okay. Mirrocinase? Mirrocinase. Okay. And that enzyme is really magical for trying to absorb the phytonutrients that are in the broccoli, the cauliflower, the Brussels sprouts, the arugula, better and more effectively. Now, if you forget about it or you're at a restaurant and they bring your steamed broccoli, no sweat, but you know, it's kind of fun to think, how can I get the most out of this vegetable that possible? Eat it raw. Or if you want to eat it cooked, just nibble on a little bit raw before you cook it. Now, let me ask you a question, though, because I have heard somewhere. I don't know where that you got to avoid the broccoli and cauliflower on a crudite plate because it's very hard for your gut to digest it. But you're saying in the case of preventing cancer, curing diseases, living a more vital life, it's okay. Or like you just chew it 100 times versus 10 times or what are your thoughts on that? You know, that's so interesting. And a lot of people may struggle with this in the beginning because their gut microbiome is a mess. So the more we introduce these foods into our dietary pattern, the better you do with it. But listen, everyone is an individual. And some people may struggle with eating these raw. Some people may not tolerate broccoli. You should listen to your body and the harmony of your body. There's a lot of internal wisdom in the body. So if a woman comes in and says, Oh, I can't stand broccoli. I said, let's not consume it. Let's look through the other cruciferous vegetables that you can enjoy. Brussels sprouts, arugula, cauliflower, cabbage. Everyone loves cabbage. It's one that seems to be very frequently appealing to patients when I visit with them. But there's many to choose from. And the easy thing, chat GPT is free. Go in and say, what cruciferous vegetables are out there, you know? And it'll give you a long list of cruciferous vegetables and pick one. Try to eat them when you cook it. You don't lose the power it has to help prevent or cure cancer. You're still going to get benefit, but you're going to get a little bit more if you have a little bit of raw before you do it because you're going to get that enzyme. Now there's a little hack you can do. Okay. Dry mustard seed, the seasoning. Okay. If you decide you just want to cook these and you don't want to nibble on any raw, put some dry mustard seed, just sprinkle it on pop. Once it's cooked, it actually tastes delicious. And that dry mustard seed will help you absorb it. Fantastic. I'm going to do that when I get home. So cool. Another thing that I'll often do is I'll already have the broccoli steamed, but I do a salad with some arugula in it and arugula. It doesn't matter what you do. It doesn't have to be exactly the broccoli. If you just want to have any cruciferous vegetables at the same setting, just try to do some of your cruciferous raw. That's the message. And if not, put some dry mustard seed on it. Let's get all the bang for a buck if we can from these amazing ingredients. And it's really cool what they do. So when it comes to breast cancer, it helps to make estrogen into a less proliferative form into a more proliferative mean that the breast tissue itself can be in a proliferative state where cells can grow more. And what the broccoli can do is it can transition the estrogen actually in our body to a form of estrogen that doesn't cause that proliferation proliferation is grows. So you can imagine if something's up regulating growth, that's not a good thing, right? We want things that try to turn off that growth and it keeps that in check. There's many other things that the cruciferous vegetables do. It's like a master detoxification. So often I have patients say, I'm going to go do a detox. But what do you recommend? I say, just eat healthy food. Get some broccoli. It's your natural detoxification. You don't have to go spend a bunch of money on a fancy detox. And I would actually rather people do it a more natural safe way than go and put themselves through a major detox. So I just do it with the natural foods. Tell me about the black beans there. Let's talk about beans and why do they prevent cancer? So beans are really awesome. So there is so much benefit. This is an amazing plant protein. But when you think about plant protein, you're not just getting protein. You're getting fiber. And fiber is obviously in all of these plants. So you only get fiber from plants. And fiber is magic. I mean, oh my gosh, we can talk for two hours on fiber. It's so important. And you hear a lot right now. Like get protein, get protein, get protein. So yes, you need protein. There's no doubt you need protein. But the problem is, is the majority of Americans, just like the vegetables and fruits, they're fiber deficient. 95% of men are fiber deficient. And about 91% of women are fiber deficient. This is a massive problem. There was just something called, we call an umbrella review. I mean, it is very exciting review of all of the data to date. This was just published this year. 17 million percent years in the study. And what it showed us is that there's class one evidence. This is like the highest quality evidence we have in medicine. That fiber can help to reduce dying from any cause, dying from heart disease. It can also reduce the risk of dying from pancreas cancer in this class one evidence. What? It's really exciting. There was another study, another review of the data that was just published, it showed that fiber can help to reduce the risk of cancer by 22%. Okay, hold on. Fiber can help reduce the risk of cancer by 22%. But we have 90% over 90% of people that aren't getting enough. So let's talk further. So I always think about food swaps with people. How can we maybe just swap one thing out? You know, you don't have to do beans at every meal. And a lot of people say, oh my gosh, you're going to make me gassy. We'll just start slow. You don't need to do too much. And cook them really good. So let's talk about this little more. There's an enzyme in beans. This is so fun. It's like food is medicine, right? I love this. It's like fun facts. So there's this enzyme. It's called raffinose. And that's the gassy one. Raffinose is the gassy. That's what you want to soak beans. So if you buy them dry, it's such an inexpensive. It's so cheap. So cheap. Yes. Buy the beans dry. Put them in the crockpot overnight. So come you got it. You want to soak them and then rinse them really good. And then cook them. Why do we need to rinse them really good? You're rinsing off that raffinose. That was so we're getting rid of the gas. Get rid of the gas. Got it. Okay. If you get gassy, kind of ask yourself, hmm, did I soak them long enough in rinsing? Now I'm really busy. I know a lot of people listening are busy. I oftentimes just do canned beans. It's so you want to rinse all that stuff off that it was soaking in. Rinse them. Rinse them. Rinse them. And then feed them up. That's why that's why people get gassy. I just keep the juice. Okay. I don't want the juice because I don't want the juice in my body. You know what I'm saying? Okay. Okay. I have to share another study. Can I keep going? Please? Okay. So this one is super cool. So when we think about red meat, a lot of times people talk about how a carnivore diet can improve things like diabetes. This is very interesting. So there was recently a study published and what it showed is that red meat and processed meat drives the risk of diabetes by about 60 percent. Wait, processed meat and red meat drives your risk of to diabetes to 60 percent? Yes. What? Yes. Any of these studies when you hear people talking, you always want to scratch your hands and say, I wonder what they're comparing it to. And oftentimes it's the most versus the least. Okay. So if you have a little bit of red meat, say one, two, three servings a week, that's not going to cause you to have diabetes. But if you're having red meat three times a day every day, that's a big problem. So what the study showed us? So it was really cool. We're talking about these food flips, right? If you flip out one serving of red meat or processed meat a day for beans or nuts, you reduce that risk of diabetes by about 30 percent. I mean, how easy is this? Think about if you're doing like a Mexican meal where you have some meat that you put seasoning, skip the meat, do the beans, but the same seasoning in it is delicious. If you're doing soup, you can put maybe a few pieces of meat if you really like that meat stock flavor, right? It's not going to hurt you. Are all beans. Are all beans created equal? Are there beans that you like better? Do what you like. Do what you like. Do what you like. Do what's unique to you. I find in my patients, they seem to tolerate lentils and split peas initially best. And then do that just as much benefit, lentils and split peas? Do what is you? Do which one you enjoy the most? And you know, I know for myself, first thing, I don't tolerate kidney beans. They make me feel icky. I will never have a kidney bean in my house. Black beans I love, you know, and lentils. They're so yummy. So it's really exciting. And you know, sometimes I'll work with patients and I'll have them. I just had a woman this week who I gave her this suggestion. She's still doing it. She does steel cut oats with some lentils on it. And then she adds some cherries when she cooks it. And she loves, it's how she gets her protein. She's very committed to a whole food plant, her dominant diet. And she loves getting some of those lentils. There's her protein source in the morning. So, you know, you can get really creative with these things. They take on the flavor of whatever you're cooking. Dr. Mew Salem, why does Edamame prevent cancer? Really exciting data. So this is the biggest myth that's out there, biggest myth that's out there, biggest myth that's out there that Edamame causes cancer. Why? So the majority of your listeners are going to be like, I think Mel said that wrong. Mel just said, why does Edamame prevent cancer? Mel is right. 100%. Edamame are amazing. So, but several decades ago, there was research done in rodents. And we're not rodents, right? So this is how lab data can get very dangerous. You hear these studies in the lab or in this preclinical, meaning pre before the clinic, in this lab data, that these lab studies are preventing x, y, and z disease. These studies need to be replicated in the human being. So in these lab studies with rodents, they show that, yes, consuming too much soy actually caused mammary tumors. I remember this. Remember this? Don't eat soy. It's going to cause tumors in your breast tissue. That was the worst science ever because humans do not metabolize soy the way that rodents do. We could use our common sense with this. We could look to Asia. We see in Asia, people have very low levels of cancer in their breast, very, very low levels. And so if we really applied to the human data, the research is beyond exciting. There are very few things we can consume that God forbid you ever got breast cancer would reduce your risk of dying and Edamame are one of those. And one of the most influential times you have that Edamame is you're a young girl. And if you're a man, it's not going to make you grow boobs. And if you're a young boy, it's going to be very protective for his prostate too. So we know that soy is also good to reduce the risk of prostate cancer. There's even some research that says it reduces the risk of lung cancer. And it's amazing for the gut microbiome. But let me talk about breast cancer because a lot of women with breast cancer avoid soy. Even though that we know this data that it looks protective, they avoid soy. Well, the American Cancer Society's 2022 data on nutrition and exercise update dedicated three paragraphs to the safety of soy and breast cancer survivors. And it didn't just show safety. In this beautiful meta-analysis, it showed that there was a 25% reduction in breast cancer coming back. And this was most pronounced in women the most aggressive type of breast cancer when that estrogen receptor negative. But even if women had estrogen receptor positive, breast cancer is still benefit. So it's really amazing and how this works is there's two receptors in the breast. The estrogen receptor beta is where that soy likes to bind. And remember we talked about proliferation? That's where we turn off the proliferation is estrogen receptor beta. So when the when the soy binds with the beta, it turns off the proliferation of estrogen, which increases the spread of cancer. And by turning it off, you're preventing it from coming back and you're also fighting it if you have it. Exactly right. And then, you know, our natural bodies estrogen binds to that estrogen receptor alpha preferentially. And that's one that turns on this proliferation. So beta turns it down alpha turns it on. You got it. Got it. So so cool. Okay, so explain that part again about the alpha. What does it do? That's where the body's natural estrogen when buying that turns on this proliferation. So the soy does this really favorable thing at the level of the breast where we get protection. And that's exactly what we see in these studies. And it's a plant protein. So it's super cool. So how many women, how, I mean, hot flashes, right? Yes. What do we do with those? I had one last night. I literally was sleeping at the hotel with my leg outside the comforter in order to try to regulate my temperature. Yes. What am I eating? What do I need to eat, Dr. Musalum, for hot flashes? Would you start eating these right now? So I already eat, like, I need to eat more edamame. Clearly, like I order it when I'm out and occasionally I'll make it home. I need to eat while like I'm about ready to take that cup of it and just throw it back right now. So this is amazing. You know, and patients come in to see me and they have their hot flashes, which I'm working with women. 75% of breast cancers are estrogen receptor positives. So these women are on anti estrogen medications from the age of 20 all the way to, you know, late 80s. I see women. And so they have massive hot flashes oftentimes. The number one thing I start with is soy. There's a great research done by Neil Barnard. He's repeated the study twice to show that edamame a half a cup a day. In addition to eating a healthy plant-based diet, reduce what you're ready for this. It reduced models of your hot flashes. You're on the edge of your seat by 88%. Wait, what's crazy? All I have to do is have a half a cup of edamame a day and I could experience an 80% decrease in hot flashes. 88% reduction of moderates of your hot flashes. He repeated this study. There was another one that showed us high as 92% reduction. Dr. Mew Salem, you know what I say? Let's eat some edamame. I'm actually the damn edamame right now. It gets better, so okay, it gets better. Even better. So in this study, you know what else they showed us? Tell me. Their moods felt better, but it's even better this. Their libido picked up. Oh my gosh. They felt sexy again. So Chris is going to be shoving this at me like each of edamame I mail. Yeah, I have a funny story. I actually did talk for the Super Bowl last year right around Valentine's Day and I presented this data and they said, I'm by edamame on my way home, you know, every man there. So it's pretty cute. But yeah, so eat your edamame. It's a great source of plant protein. It's delicious. You could do edamame. You could do tofu. You could do tepia. You could do soy milk. You know, super easy. I like the edamame. I do so too. So now I'm getting my fiber. I am getting my amino acid lucine profile. Protein count. It's also getting my hot flashes decreased by 80%. I'm binding to my beta, whatever they were called in my breast. So it's turning. It's it's turning down the cancer and estrogen stuff. I can't explain it. Like you got it. You did. I kind of understand it. And my mood's going to be better. I think you just saved my marriage. I hope so. I think it's already hot flashes and my, well, we're celebrating our 29th wedding anniversary this weekend. So that's beautiful. The edamame can always make it a little better. I'll be happy every day. That's beautiful. Let's talk about, let's talk about Kiwi. So I see Kiwi. Oh my god. I just Kiwi prevent cancer. And I see you smiling. You love Kiwi. Tell me why you love Kiwi so much. Dr. Musellum. These little things are so cute. But they help with regularity, meaning poop. So I would say 90% of women coming in to see me. They're not having any bowel movements. And they feel bloated. They feel fooled. I mean, it's just I can't imagine how people feel. Some people say they don't have a bowel movement for 10 days. How it? Oh, it's horrible. It's really bad. Because when that poop sits inside of you, you're auto-intoxine. You're reabsorbing all those chemicals into your body. What is sitting there? Hold on a second. So when you're constipated, the waist, which is poop, is just sitting there in your system. You're reabsorbing. The waist is trying to get out. Yeah. It reabsorbs. What? Yes. You want to get rid of that waist. Ideally, you know, people have to just have a bowel movement after each meal. You're supposed to have a bowel movement after each meal. No, it does that. Because in America, we're in this fast pace of kind, we kind of as kids like learn that. No, you, you know, you go maybe after breakfast when you're home and maybe after dinner, if you're lucky, no one typically is going after each meal. But ideally, that's often times patients transition. This more plant predominant diet. Uh-huh. And they'll call my nurse and say, I think something's wrong. She put me on this diet. I'm pooping. I'm having a bowel movement after each meal. And then I was like, Oh, no, no, she loves that. You know. So this is cool, though. So let's say someone is just struggling. They are constipated for whatever reason. Maybe it's their treatment. We give zo Fran for nausea for cancer patients. It causes a lot of constipation. Kiwi to kiwi a day after about a week or two can help you with that constipation. Why? It just helps with the different sorts of soluble fibers and musinus fibers and proteins and whatnot that are in this that helps with it. But it's better than that. At the level of DNA, these are rich in vitamin C. But at the level of our DNA, it can help to reduce oxidative stress. You know, think about an antioxidant. We take antioxidants to fight cancer. We take all these expensive pills and powders, right? Just eat your kiwi. But I love this at the skin, right? The skin is so great because it's more fiber for you. So this is a wonderful food to add in. It helps with the overall diversity of what you're consuming. Now, why does a kiwi prevent cancer? It's super cool. So this really gets like on the cellular level, which can you imagine? Like, that's how it's so cool. Food is medicine. It's so cool. So at the level of DNA, it can reduce oxidative stress. So we go when we buy antioxidants, we spend all this money. What is oxidative stress? Like I see it on packaging, but what actually is it? So oxidative stress is what comes from us from everything as simple as breathing oxygen from the environment to having any stressors in life. Okay. It's just really living. Okay. We get this oxidative damage that builds up. Certain foods can even kind of cause this trigger as well. But what these little magical fruits do is they go in and they help to turn off that oxidative stress. They come to the rescue. So life basically has turned on the oxidative stress in your body to sell your level. And you eat a kiwi. And not only is it helping with constipation, but it's flipping the switch off on stress at a molecular level. Exactly. It's a level of our DNA. Like our genetic makeup. It's super cool. And it helps to repair that DNA. So it's really a magical fruit. But it's like this with all these vegetables and fruits. These all have these magical powers within these phytonutrients and molecules that just help the body and rescue it. You know, the body has such wisdom to heal itself. But we just have to give it the tools to do this. And is it better if these are raw? Do you get more benefit if you're eating these raw? I mean, clearly just eat them. But if you can just pop fresh kiwi in your mouth, if you can, do it that way. It's better. Exactly. So there's two vegetables that are better cooked. And that's carrots and tomatoes. And both of those are actually better with a little fat. You get more that lycopene. You absorb it into tomato and the beta carotene in the carrot. So those are two vegetables that would be better to cook them than raw in terms of extracting all those phytonutrients. I mean, I love raw carrots. So I eat them all the time. It doesn't mean don't eat raw carrots. It just means if you really wanted to go and reap all the benefits and how you would extract those phytonutrients best, cook them in a little bit of olive oil. Nice extra virgin olive oil. Amazing. And is it true that even if you have a patient that comes in with a cancer diagnosis to your practice, and they've really just let themselves go. I mean, I think for women in particular, as we're taking care of everybody else, and we have a really busy life, and it's easy to get the stuff grab and go and not find time to exercise. Even if you've made kind of now that you're realizing, oh my god, like I got to put the boxes down and the cans away and I got to get back to a really more sensible whole food diet. Can you really reverse the stuff that you've done? Can your body really kind of flip the switch, even if you've let yourself go for a while? Is this available to all of us at any age? Oh, I love this. You ready? Yes. Get on the end of your seat because you're going to for this one. So, you know, if we're young in the age of 20 and we start eating better, yeah, you can imagine. For women, we can add 11 extra years to our life for men 13 years. Wait, hold on a second. Say that again. Yeah. So, if you're 20 and you say, hey, I'm listening to this show, and we're going to start eating all these vegetables and fruits and more whole grains, plant proteins, just a little bit better. Doesn't mean you need to be vegan. That you can add 11 years if you're a woman onto your life expectancy of healthy years, if you're a man 13 years, but it gets better. You're kind of if you're in your 60s. So, you really beat yourself up. Yep. You're 60. You get your breast cancer diagnosis. Uh-oh. You can add eight years life expectancy. Wait, what? Wait, it gets better. Okay, here's the cold. Ready to drumroll. Are you ready? Yes. If you're 80, I have causes and they're either like, why am I seeing you? I'm 80. Really granted. She's outlived that the life expectancy of most women in our country. Can you really help me? I say, I absolutely can and here's the study that proves it. You can add 3.4 years of life expectancy. It's so cool. Just through the changes in food. Yes. By eating healthier. It's truly amazing. So healthy living, you know, really comes with its own benefits. And we see in this, you know, science, this is longevity central now everywhere on social media, every big city you go to is anti-aging clinics everywhere you go. And these programs must be built on healthy living because there's no magic bullet that's going to help you age healthy and feel wonderful in that time like healthy living will. And we know that about 75% of that healthy aging equation is modifiable. It comes from our lifestyle. So it's so important to really lean in, show up for ourselves. It's never too late. Even if you have this cancer diagnosis and we know if you are diagnosed with cancer, you know, that can be a hard time for some people. They're busy with their treatment. They don't feel good and they're processing a lot. And the cancer research really says, you know, it really kind of starts in these in these studies about a year after the diagnosis. I want my gals to get as busy as they can at the time of diagnosis because we know that if we can get as busy as we can during treatment, that they just feel better. They have improved quality of life. There were two recent studies that explored this and they were very fascinating small studies. But they give us a snapshot of how cancer patients do during treatment. And one actually did a whole food plant-only diet, like a vegan diet. They supplemented. There was some protein powder. And what they showed is, yes, these patients during chemo had less fatigue. That's what I see in my patients. I, as you're listening, want you to think of every 20-year-old in your life. I want you to think of anybody in your life that has gotten a cancer diagnosis. I want you to think of anybody in your life in your 60s and your 80s that may or may not have taken good care of themselves. And I want you to share this episode with them because it's an act of love. It is a generous gift to give the gift of Dr. Mu Salem to the people that you care about. And as much as I don't want to do this, we got to hit the pause button. I need to give our amazing sponsors a chance to share a few words. And when we return, we'll have even more life-changing information from Dr. Don Mu Salem. Stay with me. Welcome back, it's your friend Mel Robbins. Today, you and I have the honor of getting to learn so much from the extraordinary, the unstoppable, Dr. Don Mu Salem. We're talking about the incredible power of the food you eat, the way you move, and how you can take care of yourself to not only prevent disease, but to also cure cancer. So we've talked so much about the foods that you can eat that activate the natural intelligence in your body to prevent or cure cancer. Let's talk about the top five foods that we should avoid that cause cancer. Yeah, you know, we're going to start, right? No, ultra-processed foods. Okay, so anything in a box? No, not necessarily. Because we are in a busy, fast-paced life, so we need easy solutions. Me included, right? So what I do is I spend a lot of time in the grocery store, and I tell my patients, listen, you're going to - this takes time. Okay. What am I looking for? When I'm in a grocery store. You're going to look at that ingredient list on the box, on the package, whatever it is you're buying, that's not in the produce style. So as soon as you go in the aisle, you know, when you're on the perimeter, it's kind of like whole foods. As soon as you're in the aisle, let's look at those labels and see what's in the ingredient list. If there's words in there that you're like, what the heck is that? Put it back on the shelf. Okay, you just don't need it. You know, so look for those ultra-processed foods on the ingredient list with words that we have no clue what they are. You know, there was a study that was really, really fast. It was done out out of the UK, and it showed that, you know, almost 30% of the food by weight was ultra-processed food, and for every 10-point increment increased, and that ultra-processed food, yes, it certainly drove the risk of cancer, but this is a really startling statistic. It drove the risk of dying from breast cancer by 16%, and increased the risk of dying from ovarian cancer by 30%. Like these numbers, create almost a visceral response. It almost makes me sick to share that because that's really harsh to think that fake food can have that kind of impact. And we know that it drives risk of chronic disease disease, fake foods, diabetes, heart disease. You know, all these things, the number one killer of women and men is heart disease, and we know these ultra-processed foods just wreak havoc there too. There was another study, and when we start to think about, well, what constituents are ones that really need to be careful of? So there was another study done among 92,000 individuals from France. They followed them for most seven years. Okay, here's another one. This is a hard one to believe. It drove the risk of breast cancer with the consumption of monoindiglicerides. Who? Mono and danag. Listen. Okay, what is this? This is in everything. So you know those rap sandwiches that we make? Yes. Either they're healthy. We're doing a good job. We're like trying to eat a healthy veggie rap. Many times these rap sandwiches to get it so it rolls nice. Yes. They add that mono and danagliceride to make it roll nice. Mono and danagliceride. That's what I'm looking for. Mono and danaglicerides. Drove the risk of breast cancer by 24%. Okay, prostate cancer. It drove the risk by 46%. Did you hear that, gentlemen? Get the do not eat that. But listen, these mono and danaglicerides are not a lot of stuff. So we have people that hear maybe what I'm saying is like, oh, maybe I should be vegan. That is not my message. My message is whole food plant predominant. That's really where I want people to be is that whole food component. The vegan ice cream. I had a patient before I came here yesterday. She was doing vegan ice cream thinking she was doing good. You know, I just had just do the regular ice cream. How often do you do it? She was once a week. Enjoy your ice cream. You don't eat any of the fake stuff. Because there's a lot of fake stuff and a lot of that stuff. Just because it says vegan doesn't mean it's healthy. Look at the ingredient list. Get rid of those mono and danaglicerides. Caron Giants drove breast cancer risk by 32%. For a long time, we found this a lot in plant milks. People are trying to be healthier and then we find these ingredients that aren't good are in these foods. So take a look at the ingredient list. It's really, really important and just try not to do those chemicals that wouldn't otherwise be good for your body. What are the other ingredients? If you had to have five that we're really looking for on the back of an ingredient list, don't go near it. One of them was the mono. Yeah. The other one was a carrot. The caron Giants. Caron Giants. Give me a couple others. You know, the food colorings. You know, at the government policy level, they're really starting to get rid of food colorings. There's so many ingredients on the ingredient list. They kind of try to twist around that it's really hard to even know what these ingredients are anymore. So it's such a huge umbrella and net of words that are on there. I just typically say, let's just try not to do the foods that we bring into our home that have these words that we have no clue what they are. There was a study that was looked at this weekend. I actually called my good friend, Dr. Sarah Chumsray. We do a lot of studies together with gut microbiome. She's big in immunotherapy and man, this is scary. It's an individual's on immunotherapy who consumed sucralose. So these are in these sugar free beverages. We didn't think that these things actually seem to sinister. You know, is a lot of people point them out to be they're definitely not a health food, but do they really cause harm? Like people point them out to be priding a lot of it to really cause harm. But they found that the sucralase reduced the effectiveness of immunotherapy and the treatments that are curing cancers that the sucralase messes with the gut microbiome. This is what it's suggesting. So this is a shout out, you know, let's really try to skip these artificial sweeteners leaning on something like, you know, dates or use honey or maple syrup. Or if you're on, you know, more of a calorie restriction, look at stevia or monk fruit. Okay. Even when you buy those, take a look at the ingredients. Because guess what? In this natural food industry, everyone's come into the market and some of those foods are a little more processed than they should be. So the stevia is okay. The monk fruit is okay. Green light here and there. Green light. I love that look. Green light, but you, with a product with stevia or monk fruit, you still want to look and see, is there something else scary hidden in there? I think so. You know, there's some of these packets of the stevia that add arithritol. I will be first to say, I think that research was exaggerated. You would need a lot of arithritol to really cause a true problem in terms of cardiovascular health, but you still want to avoid it. Exactly. And it gives you a lot of GI upset. So why do it? It's going to make your belly feel bloated. Anything that has that all on the OL is usually a sugar alcohol, sorbitol, arithritol. And your belly is just going to hurt. You know, if you do too much sugar-free candy and you're like, it feels like you've raised your blades in your stomach. So just be cautious with those sugar alcohols. Again, not all of them are definitely doing harm that we know of for sure. The arithritol is one that's definitely on the watch list because it seems to make platelets, the cells that help to clot the blood, it seems to make them a little stickier. You know, but again, it would take so much. It's more of a cellular reaction in the body in response to stress that releases some arithritol. If you consume it, does it do the same thing? That's what we need to find out. You know, some of this research is, you know, done in isolated situations in the lab that when applied to the human, doesn't really work directly in that mechanism, but so you don't need it. Got it. And so if you're looking at something derived from dates or honey or bananas or something like that or stevia without the arithritol or however you say it or monk fruit, we're good. Exactly. Medjol dates, I mean, it's God's candy. You know, they are so healthy and they don't drive your blood sugar up. It's the coolest thing. They almost have this insulin sensitizing feature. So if children want a delicious snack, take a medjol date, take the pit out and put a pecan in the middle. It's like heaven. Amazing. And other than ultra processed, what are the top foods, Dr. Musalum? Yeah, to avoid because of cancer. So processed meat, kind of in the processed foods and maybe, but processed meat is a class one carcinogen. That's right. So it's linked to the increased risk of several cancers, but it especially drives that risk of colorectal cancer. I mean, this has been a lot of stuff, right? So this is pepperoni, this is sausage, this is bacon, this is even chicken, nuggets, this is lunch meat. You are out for the suretutory board. I mean, is there any kind of salami or or bruschetta or any of that stuff? Like if you get it from your local farmer, are we okay? Or is it just big buying it behind the deli counter? So you know, let's have an honest conversation. So what I share with people is how much of this you can consume and you're in this social gathering, you may have a piece, what, once or twice a month, that's just not enough to hurt you. The body is resilient, but if someone's having every day that's when it adds up, you've got to live. And if you love having some of that charcuterie, and we certainly know in the Mediterranean countries, and I think a Mediterranean diet can be very healthy, if that's what you do, just because I don't do it, doesn't mean that I think that it's going to kill you. But what I'm here to say is, yes, processed food is considered a carcinogen, so are cigarettes. If you smoked one cigarette four times a year, that's also probably not going to cause cancer, but that would seem ridiculous as a doctor, if I said, yes, go ahead and have a cigarette once in a while. But why do we frown down so much? If I say, yeah, you should avoid processed meat. People get very protective around the discussion of food. So I'm just here to kind of talk some sense into what that really means. I share this with my patients, like speeding on the highway. You know, when you get in your car, put on your seatbelt. Let's keep yourself safe. Speed is posted 65. You're going 67, 68. You're not going to get a ticket, especially for doing everything else, right? You know, stay in your lane. Get your vegetables and fruits. Get your fiber. Get what you need. Don't throw the whole meal away if you have the charcuterie. Lay down on some avocado and get some whole grain crackers. Enjoy yourself. My new doctor. That's all I'm saying. But I won't be eating the charcuterie, by the way. With some avocado and some olives, but no one enjoys me when I'm at a party because everyone behaves, you know, and it's all the people behind me that are doing all this. Everyone in front of me is like doing and they go to the back and do it. I think I would enjoy you anywhere. So don't worry about that. Let them think what they're going to think. So you talked about exercise. Let's talk about how exercise, particularly when you have a cancer diagnosis or you are battling some other illness. Talk to me about the healing properties and exercise. Yeah. You know, there's this really cool mechanism that takes place that we're still doing research on. It appears that exercise during that period of chemotherapy improves cancer outcomes. We see this with metastatic breast cancer too. So it's extremely exciting. And the one hard thing with cancer treatment is oftentimes people lose muscle, you know, and that's the metabolic tissue. So if you can try to do your cardiovascular work to try to really keep the cardio respiratory meaning the heart and lungs as fit as possible, but also even trying to lift some weights during your cancer treatment, it can really help to maintain that muscle, which is going to make your survivorship easier. Like I shared the statistics with breast cancer as you exercise, as a breast cancer survivor, it can improve outcomes by 50%. Meaning the cancer doesn't come back. Yeah. It improves survival from all causes from breast cancer by up to 50%. It's a really powerful number. You know, someone cornered me and said, what is the most important thing a cancer patient should do? I wouldn't really answer one. I would refuse to answer one because there's like three things at the top. One of the top three things a cancer patient should be doing. Dr. Musellum. Well, I was starting number one is love. Love self love others. It starts there. Is that simple? Because if you don't love yourself enough to show up for yourself to exercise, move your body and take time to find healthy food, you're not going to do it. So we got to start there. Okay. Love self and then love others. Like just open that heart and be kind. It feels so good. Like I love you. I love you too. It just feels good. You say that and you elevate the energy of the room. And if you do that, you're going to be more energized. You're going to have more pep in your step even during that chemo to go walk. And you know, it's kind of a responsibility, even to help others. We feel good. So we should be kind of good stewards in the world to share that energy with people that aren't doing as good today to help them. So starts with love. Show it for yourself. Move your body. You don't need to be running marathons. Just go for a little walk. I say, Hey, five minutes counts. Even if you're walking around your kitchen. Hey, do a few dance moves. And okay, dance with your husband. It doesn't matter. Just move. You don't need to go to a gym. Love move. And what's the third thing every cancer patient should be doing? Yeah. Hey, it's the food. And you know, that's my favorite. Like, food is love because it's going to give you the energy nourish your body, help you with regeneration. Actually, turn off those tumor promoter genes, turn on those tumor suppressor genes. And it's just going to optimize everything from your mood to your sleep even, which we'll talk to in a little bit here to that gut microbiome and beyond. So the food is fun. Let's do it. Absolutely. Love this. Let's talk about sleep. Does sleep help you prevent cancer? Sleep is rough, man. So I love a pretty healthy lifestyle, but I sleep like a baby, but I just can't find time for sleep these days. I would just rather be activated in the live. Listen, that sounds funny, right? That's not actually a funny thing. We need sleep. Sleep is when our brain gets its bath. Talk to me. What do you mean your brain gets a bath? Seven and nine hours is what it takes for the brain to kind of get its little washing to get rid of all those toxins. So you need to, I just joke my patient like, yeah, no stinky brains. Get your sleep. I just did talk to the male clinic staff. I said that they kind of all these very brilliant, like the smartest people in the world are kind of like, okay, patients love that stuff. Academics, they don't always find it cute, but this is the truth. Wash your brain. You know, sleep hygiene. We call it sleep hygiene for a reason, because your brain needs its bath, but there's things we can do to improve the quality of our sleep. And really what's so important is that when you wake up, you get that first morning sunlight, getting that first morning sunlight resets that circadian rhythm. And then man, we need to be careful with the screen exposures because all that blue light that's emitted, especially if you don't wear the blue blockers on your glasses, it just drops and drops and drops your natural melatonin. So when you go to bed at night, you either can't fall asleep or if you do, you can't stay asleep. And it's because of all of that blue light, especially after sundown. So aim for those seven to nine hours of sleep. And we do this when your body's regenerating. There's studies that actually show us in people who do shift work, but there's increased risk of cancers. And listen, these people can't help it. That is what they what is the connection between not getting good sleep and cancer risk. There may be a lot of things contributing to that. You know, is part of it that if you're not sleeping, are you just not as energized to do as much exercise? This is where it's hard to control for confounding variables. So what is it that's driving that? But we know that one of the main mechanisms is you're getting that restorative period in your body that is very, very critical in terms of optimal health from all health conditions. So when you talk about the fact that if you get seven, eight, hours of good sleep, right? And you prioritize that. That it's also when your brain is getting a bath and it's clearing out the toxins, why does that matter when it comes to preventing cancer or diseases or curing yourself of the like different health things that you're dealing with? You know, what I think Mel the biggest reason why individuals who don't get enough sleep aren't as healthy as they should be that goes right in line with that cancer discussion is because it really disarms metabolic health. You know, so moving beyond that brain health into what else is happening in the body. We know in people that aren't getting adequate some out of sleep or good quality sleep that it really is interfering with optimal metabolic health or control of blood sugar during the day. So when you say metabolic health, what should I as somebody who's not a medical doctor with all your experience and expertise? What should I hear in plain language? It's tricky, right? And again, we chat about how 93% of Americans fall in this bucket of not being metabolically healthy. I really would love if doctors checked something called a hemoglobin A1C in their patients. This is an average blood sugar level over a three month period of time. Hemoglobin A1C. A1C is a simple blood test. You know, it's tricky though because oftentimes Medicare doesn't like covering it. And you know, doctors just need to code properly and really try to get that test checked. And at the end of the day, if your doctor is in check it, just do the things that we're talking about because we know those are the things that I'll move you forward with being more metabolically healthy. Get the seven to nine hours of sleep. We know if you get less than that, generally we see a little bit of an insult to that metabolic optimization during the day. The blood sugar control just isn't as optimal. It kind of makes sense because if you really, if I really think about both the jaw dropping research that you're talking about. But then the common sense side of this, which is in order to prevent disease, in order to prevent cancer, in order to actually cure yourself of chronic diseases or of cancer and make yourself healthier, you have to boost your immune system. You have to manage stress. You have to put your body in the best place it can be in order to do the job of helping you get healthy alongside what the medical interventions are. If you are getting good sleep, it means that you're putting yourself in the best position to do that. And if you're getting lousy sleep and you're not prioritizing it, then you're already waking up and you're at a major disadvantage because your insulin is all over the place. Your hormones are all in the place. You're stressed out because you haven't slept, which impacts your immune system, which of course just common sense tells you that would impact your ability to truly show up for yourself and fight the thing that you're dealing with or prevent anything worse from happening. So could you explain just why you keep referring to muscle being really important for your cancer patients and muscle being something that's important for preventing cancer? What medically speaking is the reason why muscle is so important when it comes to preventing cancer or curing it? I love that. It's such a perfect segue because we're talking about metabolic health. You know, the muscle is what takes up the blood sugar. So when you exercise, if you eat a meal and you go for a five or ten minute walk, those muscles are going to take up some of that blood sugar. This is a great thing to do. You know, and so muscle is with so critical. The fat just sits there. It doesn't do anything metabolically. But the muscle requires some maintenance, right? It needs energy. And so that's where the blood sugar is going to go and your body takes it up, and that's what is so important and so awesome. And in strength, you need strength to be functional. So you don't fall as we get older. And so muscle is critical. And I think muscle also partners so importantly with bone health. You know, that's a big thing that I see in my breast cancer patients, especially in those anti estrogen medications. I was a hospital physician for the first 10 years of my career at Mayo Clinic. And it was nothing that broke my heart more than a breast cancer survivor that was cured of a breast cancer. 78 years old, falls and breaks her hip because she has massive osteoporosis from all those anti-usherings she took. So, you know, we've got to think about muscle so you don't fall. Keep you strong. When you strengthen your muscle by doing the resistance training, you keep those bones strong too. So you get all kinds of benefits by doing those strengthening exercises to keep the muscles strong. Dr. Mew Salem, I love learning from you. But here's what I want to do. I want to take a quick minute to hit the pause button. And I want to give a chance for our amazing sponsors to share a few words. But before we do that, I want you to take a moment. Be generous with this episode. Share it with every person in your life because every single one of us deserves to have this information. And when we return, Dr. Mew Salem has even more incredible information to share and she has something specific she wants to say to you or to the person that you love who has just received a very scary diagnosis. These are words of encouragement and wisdom that you absolutely deserve to hear. So stay with me. Welcome back. It's your friend Mel Robbins. And today you and I are here with the incredible Dawn Mew Salem. And we're talking all about how you can heal your body and starve disease through the food you eat and the way you move. Now we've just talked about the magical ability to prevent cancer and cure cancer based on the fact that food is medicine. We've talked about things that you should avoid because they activate very bad things in your body that can cause cancer. But isn't it true that someone can be doing everything right? You can have a really healthy lifestyle. You can be working hard to manage your stress. You can be eating a whole food diet or even vegan. You can be reading all the labels. You can be getting your exercise and you still get cancer. You still get some sort of disease. I would love to have you talk to us about how important it is when that happens to not blame yourself. It's so important. And you know, there's really amazing research that shows in individuals who took really good care of themselves their whole life. And they get this cancer diagnosis. I'm that example, right? There are studies that show that they improve their cancer outcomes and they get credit for all that good year of taking care of themselves that they did over their life expectancy. Hold on. I want to make sure that the person listening and watching just got that. You're basically saying if you have been taking really good care of yourself and all of a sudden you get this diagnosis that everything that you've done that was positive before the diagnosis counts. And the research shows that you are in a better position because of all that positive work that you've done and the good choices that you made and focusing on your health, you're literally based on the research in a better position to beat this disease and to have a more positive outcome. It's exactly what I'm saying. Oh, I love that. It's so beautiful, but there's a really beautiful message. There was a nurse's health study that did a nice job with this with nutrition and it should have individuals that did more of a healthy diet, not a perfect diet, but just eating a little healthier, a little more vegetables and fruits, a little lower in fat, a little less red meat, don't do the sugar sweetened beverages. That yes, if you were living a healthy lifestyle and you continued on that trajectory, you had a much better breast cancer outcome. But guess what this study also showed? If you learned that oh my gosh, I've been given this cancer and there's such a lesson here for me to start living healthier now. I'm going to start maybe with having a few breakfasts better each week. It doesn't need to be perfect right out of the starting bat. But what they found is that those individuals who all of a sudden pivoted and became more healthy that they also had that improved risk after their breast cancer diagnosis. So it's never too late regardless of what your adversity is to try to just make yourself a little bit healthier. You feel better, have more vitality and can help those cancer outcomes. Well, what I love about your approach as both a physician and the fact that you are also a cancer survivor is that you are very clear in your personal story and with all of the patients that you see in your own clinical practice, all of the research that you're doing at Mayo, that it's both. That when you get that cancer diagnosis, first of all, react however you're going to react, process whatever emotions you're going to process. But by God, you want them to double down on vitality. You want them to double down on healthy choices right now because the research really proves that it increases your health outcomes in a super positive way, whether you started healthy or not. You got to double down on that right now. But in your clinical practice and as a medical doctor, you do prescribe chemotherapy, radiation. You do recommend surgery. You do lean on all of the incredible medical interventions that there are available to people now, along with exercise. Love yourself. Really focus on the foods I'm telling you to eat. Why Dr. Mew Salem? Do you have your patients do both? It's critical. There are studies that show this. You know, I would say my biggest success story is when I have a young woman come in and she is refusing chemotherapy and treatment and she comes to see me because her hope is that I'll give her a natural remedy to get rid of her cancer. And what I really hope is that we can meet her where she's at, but yet give her the evidence to show the support of these conventional therapies and the need that they have in the place of an aggressive cancer. And so what the studies have shown is that patients that refuse a traditional cancer treatment instead only go the alternative route that they have a two and a half-fold increase risk of dying. Hold on. I want to make sure everybody hears this because obviously your decisions about your own body are your choice. However, it is critical with all the misinformation being spread right now that you understand the facts and the research from a medical doctor and a researcher who's been doing this for decades. So I want to be clear that you just said that somebody that refuses the traditional medical interventions like chemotherapy and tries only all natural that you have a two and a half times, you're two and a half times more likely to die. Is that right? That's right. And if you look at all the studies the average, this is really scary. And this isn't meaning to scare people because everyone has their own reason for doing what they do, but as a doctor who's sitting in that room and looking the eyes of a 35-year-old that's tell me she doesn't want to do chemo, these studies help me to convey that message, not that I'm trying to evoke fear, but I just wanted to understand the reality of what she's actually committing to. What do you say to somebody? Put us at the scene, we're in a consultation with you. I realize you're not my doctor, and this is hypothetical, but if you have somebody that's just like, no, I just really think that I can understand the power of food, which is true, but what do you tell that person about the facts in that moment that they should consider? So I share the broad range and what the range shows is between 30% and 470% increased risk of dying, 30% to 70%, 30% to 470% risk of dying for not doing treatment. And this is especially really witness in these cancers we do a good job with curing, like colon cancer, breast cancer, even lung cancer, you know, and so this is what I see. What I see is I have women, I have women, she does not want to treatment, and that's okay, this is her life. I'm just here to give her that. I don't take a person, I've told my colleagues, listen, it is not your job, my job, any of your jobs to brabbi or to convince people to chemo, it's our job to give them the information to give them the support that we've all these natural therapies that can help you feel fine during treatment. And I share with them my journey, how I did this, that will we can have you still have your normal life pretty close to it. There's some treatments that are much harder, and there's some women that really, I'm just going to suffer, but that's the rare. I don't have as many women in that bucket that are really struggling with chemo. I have more that are attaining their vitality by doing some of these holistic measures, but there's always some people that really do have a hard time, and there's just some chemotherapy regimens out there, that people require that are very, very harsh on the system, and it's not because they're doing anything wrong, they're doing quite frankly everything right. But by not doing the traditional therapy to go after that cancer, and what's interesting to me is most of these individuals, many of them coming in, we're already living the healthy lifestyle. So think about that. I'm like, whoa, the cancer became one with your body while you were living this good lifestyle. I have nowhere to pivot and turn. You know, there's nowhere really to take you, and there certainly is no magic bullet. And I know that within the natural pathic community to thought is well, a lot of traditional chemotherapies come from natural substances, but they're not regulated. We don't know the dose. We don't have the science to drive that forward. So this is all personal preference. This is why I went to traditional medical school because I really wanted to be able to support my patients with the lens of holistic care, but also be able to rely on the conventional treatments that cured my cancer personally, and I just really stand behind that. And so that's what I would suggest for individuals is please find the oncology team that hears you, hears your concerns, acknowledges your vulnerability in your fears, and let's hear your fears. Why are you scared in Mel? I just see women really find a different connection with their life during cancer treatment. I mean, my days is just I have the best job in the world. It's the most beautiful thing to be at that intersection of love and life and kind of death. You know, every breath we take we're dying. You know, it's to treat all of us or dying. But when you're given a cancer diagnosis, it's a little harder. I mean, it's right in your face, and it's so hard for these women, these moms, these wives, these daughters. And oftentimes they're the one that takes care of everyone. And now this is the first time who's going to take care of them. So I love being able to be there for them in the space. Dr. Musalom, what do you think the biggest mistake people tend to make when they get a cancer diagnosis? I think the biggest mistake is they fight it. Meaning they're given the diagnosis and they all of a sudden it's very natural to do this. But they have this almost prolonged state of resistance. And for me, and in my patients that seem to be able to regain their vitality a little quicker because at first, yes, like the carpet is put out from underneath you, you have this floor. Don't ever place judgment on what you're doing. This is not a time for self-judgment because just trust your emotions, trust your feelings, have some reflection, maybe even think of journaling and writing down what that means. Sometimes we can make more sense of it. But what I would say is that the acceptance of the diagnosis gets you out of that place of just resistance so much faster. It's not going to change. It's there. And resisting it isn't going to make it better. It's actually going to make you worse. And so if you can just try and some people will confuse this with positive psychology and it's not because this is hard, I sobbed. Yes, I was scared. I was scared of dying. Even though I'm comfortable with my mortality actually, I was still scared of dying, not because I was going to miss out on life, but because my family, they would be sad. Our friends, there's so much that you process during this time. But if you can accept the diagnosis, figure out what treatment strategy works for you and move forward, all while taking better care of yourself, it seems like it's just an easier path. In addition to that acceptance, I find reframing it. Again, it's taking that cancer word and flipping it around to something that will be meaningful to you that I'll give you a little bit of maybe almost meaning behind it. Can you give me an example? Yeah, I mean, for me, it was what could I learn from this cancer diagnosis to one day be able to elevate humanity through the lessons that I was given? I just feel so blessed that I was able to get through my cancer treatment. Actually easy. Well, I want to go back to that moment in your life because at the time of your cancer diagnosis, you're in medical school, you're 26. Right around that time, you also lost your husband. It was just you and your young daughter. Can you talk to the person listening about what it was like to be raising your daughter when you were also mourning the loss of your husband? What was that like? I'd love to have you talk to the person who's listening right now. Yeah. So this is when I learned that there's nothing harder in life than when something happens outside of you. So I feel like I was given this gift of just innate resilience, innate joy. I was just born a very happy person when my husband passed away. And so you know, it was very interesting. I actually had finished my cancer treatment and we were given a gift of growing our family. I was not supposed to be able to have children. That was the other thing that came is you're never going to be able to have children. Oh my gosh. They're like, you have three months to live. No children. She's pregnant. What are we doing with this, right? And so delivered this very healthy little girl, her name Sophia. Amazing. Like one of the first individuals ever to be able to do this after a bone marrow transplant. You had a bone marrow transplant. And then all of a sudden, you're pregnant and you deliver your daughter, Sophia, and you were one of the first people ever to have a successful pregnancy and deliver your daughter after bone marrow. You're one of the first. Yes, because you know, women usually the ovaries would shut down. And so from all the chemo they gave. And they didn't have time to do fertility preservation. I mean, they had to start chemo immediately when I was diagnosed because I was so sick in that cardiogenic shock. So they didn't have a chance. And I was okay with that. And I just said, trust, you know, one day I'll adopt that was kind of my solution. I always look for solutions. You know, whenever someone threw an obstacle, I was quick to say, okay, what direction do I go? Where is my survival skill? You know, this is natural. We look for survival. And so that was how my brain registered. Like, okay, this threat, okay, I'll pivot here. And that was my happy place. I just always seek the happy place. It's like a chest match, you know, or a maze if you may. So this is what was really interesting though is after my daughter was born because I had had that high dose chemo radiation. I had to do several months of radiation. It was right to my heart. Is a few weeks after my daughter was born, I wasn't feeling well again. And I thought the cancer was back, but this time that whole narrative flipped. Now my mom, my wife, you know, I, I don't want anyone to know. So I just was quiet. I was terrified. But I get started getting worse and worse, went to the emergency room. I was again in a cardiogenic shock. They did an ultrasound of my heart and my ejection fraction was eight single digit. How much blood my heart pumped forward is called an ejection fraction was eight percent. I was an advanced heart failure. Yeah. So that was really difficult. I was old for you at that time was 29. And how old was your daughter? She was just born. She was a newborn. So after I had delivered her, this is just a few months later. So it was really, really difficult. And so, you know, but fortunately, this is when Mayo Clinic became my place for healthcare. I became a physician there. I was doing my medical training there. And they filled my heart with hope. They said, we'll do medications. When the medications don't work, we'll have to do procedures. And the procedures don't work someday. You may need a heart transplant. Let's start with the medicines. I got better. I was able to go back to residency, but I was like, better for about two years. And then so about in 2007, I took a nose dive. I had to take time off work. And it was just a short time later that my husband died unexpectedly. So it was awful. I mean, you know, Mel, there's nothing worse than that. You know, and this, you know, that joy, that elation, you know, I remember that morning so vividly. And we always wake up before him. He was just like me. Very high energy. Just the most beautiful human to ever walk the planet. And he wasn't feeling good the night before. So he said, go sleep with Sophia, honey. So I did that. Woke up, figured he was still sleeping. She wakes up. Mama Moore's dad. He's sleeping, honey. Eight o'clock rolls around like something's wrong. Like the intro, all of a sudden, I knew, I mean, I knew and I walked into the bedroom and he had died in a sleep. And I remember it. So like it was yesterday, I just remember hitting him. Like don't do this to me. And it was just like that joy. It was like that Disney ride that everything just freefalls. And I just remember I didn't become depressed, but I remember I could handle no stimulation for a full year after he died. I couldn't listen to music. I didn't want any noise. I didn't want anything. I just wanted to be still, you know, still so that I could be present for my daughter, give her the love she needed and kind of just figure out, where do I go now? You know, and there was like this, oh my gosh, I don't know what to do. And I just kept asking that question. I was always, I was raised to Catholic and I always believed in God, but I was never faithful. I was like, oh, you go to church on Sundays, whatever, you know, during time in church, I think about a thousand other things. I don't know. Like, who's a cute boy in high school? Really like crazy. But you get cancer and you become much closer to God. Like that kind of gives you more spirituality. And you're like, but still I was young. I kind of careless with that whole thing. When my husband died, I became one with my faith. In belief in something bigger than myself. For me, that's Jesus that's God, but whatever it is for you, I don't, it doesn't matter. You have to believe in something bigger than yourself. And so for me, that strategy of being able to hand over any problem to God, to Jesus is what worked for me. And the concept of heaven is how I knew my husband was okay. So I got stronger. You know, after you died, it took about a year for me to get stronger, but there was no handbook. And you still grieve. You know, I was just in California doing some work out there. And on the countertop, in the hotel I was in, in the marble, there was a heart. I have it on my Instagram. A beautiful, perfect heart. I just started sobbing. And I'm not kidding you. That night I went to bed. I swear. I felt a hand on my shoulder. Like, there's always messages still just these loving embraces. And you know, so loss, grief, suffering, it's our opportunity to really transcend that hurt that pain that suffered and just arise this place and awakening in a different capacity and a different appreciation for life where it's just so precious. And it doesn't, you never lose that person that died. It's really this acknowledgement of the persistence of love and how blessed am I to have the best love story in the world where some people will never experience that. It was very hard though. And that's why when I look in the eyes of the caregivers of the patients I'm helping or when I occasionally have a patient who dies, which is actually very rare. I don't see women dying as much nowadays. But recently I've actually had two very close patients of mine die. And it's so hard to see their children and their spouses, you know, and my heart just goes out to them. What I would say is these women that die die in grace. And if I fast forward through my heart failure, you know, I got stronger. I went back to work. I even did a hospital fellowship. It became a hospitalist at Mayo. And the heart started getting weak again. And so this is when I transitioned to the outpatient setting. And I started the integrative breast oncology program at Mayo Clinic. It was actually an opportunity for me to get out of the hospital so I could try to function as a doctor with advanced heart failure. And this was, you know, a good seven years after my husband had passed away. So you're living and practicing medicine. And running this clinic at the Mayo Clinic, treating patients with cancer while you're managing heart failure. Yeah, it was hard. No one really knew. And you know, now when I look back, life was so hard. But you know, I had to work. You have to work. You have to do what you do. Life circumstances are what they are. And for me, work isn't work. It's purpose and meaning. It's being able to touch the lives of others through that lens of love. I mean, it really is. And so I think what kept me alive was my daughter, my mom and my dad, you know, that love that I have for my family, but my patients, they elevated that purpose and reason that I was alive. And I had this mission to try to figure out this program. And so fast forward, I was listed for heart transplant in, I was on the transplant list for over 12 months with not one matching heart. There's 103,000 people on the transplant list, 103,000. Every day, 17 people die. For heart transplant is a smaller number, about 3,900 people are on the heart transplant list. And every day, one person dies that doesn't get a heart. That could have been me. They couldn't find a matching heart because of my body size, my blood type. There's a lot that goes into that. And I was dying. I was actively dying. And this was in 2020. And then in 2021, New Year's Eve rolled around. And I was starting to decompensate. They admitted me to the hospital for supportive care. And after a few weeks, they found a matching heart. So here I am alive and more youthful because of this because I received a 29 year old woman's heart, that has been the biggest gift in the world. You know, if we like to have somebody else's heart in your body, there's so many lessons. So it was interesting. So a few weeks before my heart transplant, a good friend of mine, who's a psychiatrist said, Don, even want this transplant? Like the crazy things we say to people, by the way, and especially the doctor, what you say really matters. I'm like, I need one. But why do you say this? Please inform me of your wisdom. Do share. Because you know, they say that you acquire the personality of your donor. I'm like, Oh, great. Well, I actually love my personality. So this is a wonderful thing. So guess what? So my colleague, he's also a dear friend. Since the head of my bed, we have a matching heart. You would think I'd be elated, but I'm not. I'm actually like, whoa, what do you mean you have a matching heart? I've been waiting 18 years for heart. You think I'd be like beaming. Thank you. You have a heart. But all of a sudden the reality hits. I'm like, okay, what does this mean? Like is it a spiritual heart? Is it an emotional heart? Is it a physical heart? Like what is the heart? By the way, you know, is there this other element, this other entity of the heart that is powerful? And then I started thinking, I could lose that. My good friend told me that, wow, your personality's going to change and all this stuff starts flooding my brain. And then he goes on to tell me your donor is an IV drug user with hepatitis C. Yeah. Did you stop and think, maybe I don't want this heart? Yeah. It's exactly what I did. I judged. So this is the biggest lesson I learned with my transplant is judgment. So within a few hours after I learned, I said, okay, I need to think about this because what's going through my now is, okay, am I going to lose this heart that is amazing family history, you know, childhood that was bliss and beauty, my daughter being born, my husband passing away. It made a lose all this. And I'm going to take on an IV drug. What does that mean? You know, but then after a few hours and like, wait a minute, this is a woman that decided to donate her heart. And all of a sudden, I had this knowing that this was the right heart for me. I feel receiving her heart, I don't know what her circumstances were. You write a letter to the donor family at six months and they never responded back to me and that's okay because I don't know what the circumstances are. But I feel she may not have come from the beautiful life that I did. And she enters this body and we like danced to the harmony of life together. It is so cool. So if you are not an organ donor and you would like your heart, when they did dance in harmony life, I am one of, I'm one representative of all those transplant patients that they're just like me. They are unapologetically alive and living lives of meaning and purpose. And this is a shout out if you're not an organ donor, please be one because, you know, why succumb to the finility of death when you can allow your organ to kind of arise as a place of deep meaning and purpose with that next person's life through there for their family and humanity at large. So it's just incredible. So here I am. What a beautiful beautiful story and message and call to action. Yeah. Thank you for sharing that. You know, there is somebody right now who's listening and watching and spending time together with us and they've gotten a diagnosis that is terrifying and they may be feeling grief or fear or their heart broken or they're devastated. You have been there. You are with people when they get these diagnoses. I know that people are going to be sharing this all over the world. This conversation with you and all the tools and hope that you are infusing us. But I would love to have you speak directly to the person that has received that life-changing medical diagnosis. And what do you want to say to them right now and what do you want them to know? Yeah. You know, what I would say is without these life experiences, I never would have understood how to unpack vulnerability in a way that you can trust it and to move you beyond this hope which kind of to me has this connotation of question to this place of true knowing that you too can experience what I did and find those lessons. It's not evident up front and don't judge yourself for having moments of blame for maybe having fear because it is scary. Regardless if you have faith or not, it is still scary if we think we're going to die. But what I found is that when I trusted that there was something far greater than me outside of me that was kind of managing all this and I surrendered that to them that I could show up for myself in a way that mattered so that I could be the best version of myself and that starts with loving ourselves from there I felt like I got stronger I was able to acquire such a deep wisdom that now I'm able to find such meaning in my life so I can share that meaning with you and that's really truly the purpose of life. And you've talked a lot today about hope. I found it really encouraging and inspiring and awesome that as a medical doctor treating cancer patients for over two decades at Mayo that you also said, oh, my patients are doing dynamite. You know, back years ago people died a lot, but not today. And I would imagine that's because of the major advances in medical technology, medical treatment and also when you combine it with the things that you spoke about today, loving yourself, exercising and really eating in a way where your food is your medicine, you triple X your positive outcome. So if the person that is listening right now got a breast cancer diagnosis, what do you want them to know? What's the good news here about where we are in the world today? Yeah, we are doing so amazing with curing breast cancer. I have so many amazing success stories and you know, we used to say that we can only cure early stage breast cancer. That's stage zero to stage three. Stage three is early stage breast cancer. We cure that all day long. But metastatic breast cancer, we just say we can't cure you. You know, it's a chronic disease, you're going to take a medicine the rest of your life, X, Y and Z. Well, I have so many success stories of women. They still are on medicines. Some of those medicines can really interfere with some of their elements of quality of life. So that's where the healthy living and some integrative modalities rooted in science can help to support them. But I have one woman in particular to Ms. Michelle. I share her story all the time because it's crazy cool. It makes my look like boring. She had metastatic cancer to her brain. She was a former fitness competitor, exercises every day of her cancer treatment. Guess what? That tumor brain, if you've ever heard of breast cancer, this metastasis of the brain, going, it's gone. She travels the world talking about her incredibly inspirational story and she never misses the workout. She's in the gym and talk about, I mean, you know, the one medicine she was on will cause this peeling of her hands and she would lift weights and they would bleed sometimes and she was just pushed through. She's like, it's okay. She's like, I don't feel it. She's like, I take my mind someplace else and it's just these magic. You know, I don't have all my women exercising that capacity. But the ones that I would say that do the best for the ones that accept that diagnosis, they really use their mind in a way that's creative. They seek that sense of awe, that sense of wonder, that curiosity of how can I rise above this? That's what they do. They do it works for them. Maybe it's meditation, maybe it's yoga, whatever it is. Maybe it's cooking a beautiful dinner for their family. But just doing what's special for you, be fully alive during this time. Trust the medicines you're doing and take really good care of yourself. It's important. If the person listening takes just one action today, just one. From everything that you have poured into us, taught us, shared with us, explained to us today. What do you think the most important thing to do is love? It is. Life is too short. If I have someone coming in to see me in their turbulent, the idea of changing their diet is too much. The idea of exercising is too much. Let's just talk about love. What's important to you? When you wake up in the morning, what makes you excited? What tecles you? Why do you want to be alive? And let's just start there. And let's rediscover why we love ourselves because so many people struggle with that. And it may be rooted from childhood traumas. And I feel like my journey was easy because I never had that. But many people have. And I've looked the eyes and these people and I can understand why it's hard for them to think about eating healthy because they just have no reason to do it because they don't love themselves. So you have to first learn to love yourself again and allow yourself that because you're worth it. That's what I would say. Dr. Musalam, what are your parting words? You know, I'm always here for folks and you know, I would love to invite your listeners that are fourth Monday of each month. It noon. I do this little introduction to lifestyle medicine for cancer patients. And you know, I love this. And this is on Eastern time because it allows me to get into the science, but I don't really have the heart. You know, today we were able to talk a little bit about the heart behind what we do. And that is kind of my parting messages. Yes, we're here to continue to drive the science forward. But at the end of the day, whether you've been given a diagnosis that's cancer or of a chronic disease, whatever it may be, this is an invitation. I invite you to experience your aliveness. It's so important. Look for what's special in your life. Give gratitude. You know, if life is hard for you, you know, gratitude, finding one little thing that you're thankful for each day will start to take you from that place of deficit and move you closer to this place of abundance. I just think it's so important. So I really think my parting message is just lean into your aliveness, whatever is authentic to you in that word, aliveness. That's where I want you to start because it's different for each person. And then once you've kind of figured that out, start to really continue to show up for yourself, start eating better so you can energize yourself to move your body, focus on getting enough sleep. That would be it. It's actually pretty simple. It's also how you love yourself. Yeah, you start taking better care of yourself. Well, I just have to tell you, I love you. And if there is a human being on this planet that embodies aliveness, it is you, Dr. Musalum. Thank you, thank you, thank you for the extraordinary work that you do every day. Thank you for the work that you're doing in your clinical practice. Thank you for not only showing up here and making us smarter and tripling down on the research and the science and the facts of what works and what doesn't work. And thank you for giving us a really simple roadmap that based on the research will help us be healthier and happier and take better care of ourselves. I love you and I love everything that you're doing and that you stand for. Thank you, Mel. Thank you so much for the opportunity to be here. For being so real for all of us who listen to you, for inspiring me during some of my hard days to keep going. So thank you and thank you all for listening. And thank you. Thank you for choosing to listen to something that is going to help you take better care of yourself. It's going to help you love yourself a little bit more. And I also want to thank you for sharing the magic of Dr. Musalum with everybody that you care about. I mean, I think everybody wants her as her doctor, don't you? I mean, I know I do. I want to jump on a plane and go to Florida every month when I need to go see my doctor. I don't see my doctor that much. And if I'm following the advice, we don't have to. There you go. And in case no one else tells you today, I wanted to be sure to tell you as your friend that I love you and I believe in you and your ability to create a better life. And taking better care of yourself is 100% how you're going to do it. Leaning into your aliveness is also how you do it. Alrighty, I can't wait to hear what you get out of this episode. Can't wait to hear what your friends and family get out of this episode. And I will be waiting for you in the very next episode. I'll welcome you in the moment you hit play. I'll see you there. Alrighty, Brian, you ready, honey? Awesome. I am so excited that you're here in getting that three months in getting that that three month life. Like I just ask one question and we'll come back to it. I have so many questions. I do want me to keep going on trees. Food, we're going to walk step by step. How would you say this? We're going to we're going to walk beans and you know what I'm being on camera, do you? He's normally behind the camera. Look at his magic. Here we go. We're going to just get some close-ups. Oh, I want to say that. I smell the Brussels smell. Or the beans maybe. Oh, you're so good. Oh, my god. Oh, and one more thing. And no, this is not a blooper. This is the legal language. You know, what the lawyer's right and what I need to read to you. This podcast is presented solely for educational and entertainment purposes. I'm just your friend. I am not a licensed therapist and this podcast is not intended as a substitute for the advice of a physician, professional coach, psychotherapist or other qualified professional. Got it? Good. I'll see you in the next episode. [Music]