Manifestation Master Class

I'm going to give you tonight an incredible, incredible way on how to properly manifest. How to properly manifest it's something that I've been doing for 15, 16 years. It works. But I'm going to give you really, really the keys to manifestation. We need to understand when the month of Kislev, this is the month to make it happen. This is the month where you're giving extra energy to make it happen. If it's not happening now, I don't know when it's going to happen, guys. So this is the time where we really, really have the plant seeds. And I know a lot of us are getting a little bit of a pullback this month, and we're getting challenges this month. But really, really, this is a month to think big. Don't get knocked out by the static. That's the job of the evil inclination. But tonight we're going to really, really talk about how to manifest. But first, I want to explain to you how not to manifest. Because sometimes when you realize what's not working, you're going to end up getting what is working. And I can only tell you this from my own experience. I spent thousands and thousands of hours praying, manifesting, testing. This is not some AI speech, guys. This is not an AI speech. This speech took a lot of hours talking to God and asking him for the right message. And thank God the downloads came in. But first, I'm going to tell you what not to do. I just want to explain to you, because there's a thousand videos on manifestations. There's a thousand videos on them. And it's so easy to get confused today. I'm doing it right. I'm doing it wrong. It's right, try it this way. And sometimes because of the amount of information, we end up doing nothing at all. There's so much information. It's like sometimes you go to restaurant, every kosher restaurant has sushi, steak, pizza, and everything, everything at the menu. Sometimes there's too much information and there's no direction. So I'm going to give you direction. This is not something that's an overnight thing. It's not an overnight thing. I want you to think about this as a process. I don't want you to think about something that it's an overnight thing. It's not an overnight thing, to be honest with you. I'm going to give you what's going to work. And I know each of us, there's some lack in our life that we need. And we should know that that lack is coming from God. Remember what you lack? God lacks. So we know the Yeshua, the salvation is there. It's just a matter of bringing it down. It's not a matter that it's not there, because we wouldn't have the lack. Who gives us a lack? God gives us a lack. God gives you a lack. When you feel like you need to be in love. God gives you a soulmate lack. God gives you a financial abundance lack. God gives you a clarity lack. God gives you a fit. All of these lacks are sent by the Creator. It's not some random thing why you have these lacks. Very, very important. Not only are they lacks, but they're actually, who give you the strategy. But like always, I say this a thousand times. We're always concerned that there's no vessel for this. It's you need to build a vessel. You need to build a vessel to receive this light. And there's going to be four steps. The same exact way, the same exact way that every single day, whoever prays Amida, whoever prays, the morning prayers, or sage is tell us that we have to go through four worlds. Four worlds, not Disney World, not-- Four worlds, some of us are in Disney World when we're praying. The first world that we go through is referred to the world of Earth. That's where we have to focus on just getting the word down. That's the lowest world, right? That's where we develop, just get moving. Get moving. Get the process going. We conquer the laziness on the first world. After the second world, we go to Naba Rukshemar, we start saying, "Hodu, we start praising." So we go from Earth, getting going, to praising. The second step of our prayers is now praising God. After we finish praising God, we get to the Shema where we have to start creating love for God. After the fourth love comes off. That's when we say the words Hashem, take over me and put the words in my mouth. So you see that when we're in an alternate-- when we're in a very high state, God just takes over. But you got to get to that state. This is not-- I wake up, I put it on the sidore, mommy, dad, I'm manifesting prayer. It's a buildup. It's a buildup. We need to understand everything is a buildup. It's a massive buildup. It's not just show up, receive, I'm not getting it, I'm checking out. This is not how it works. There's no stimulus packages. There's no COVID packages anymore. You got to physically desire to work, and you have to develop the light. You can't just go from-- unless you want to take, okay. And then you go straight to the light. But if you want to develop a vessel just like the same thing as Amida, it goes from doing praising, loving, all. And then we come down from that experience and then we receive the light. So just understand there's usually four steps to everything, four steps in God's name. Even before we all practice-- we all-- in Passover. We're all manifesting freedom, aren't we? You could see-- there's no just the matzah. There's the bitter herb. There's the bitterness. There's the wine that opens you up. And then there's the redemption. So you could see there's a mass-- every single ritual versus whether it's praying, whether it's Amida. There's a step where we have to develop this relationship and expand the vessel and expand what we do. This is not just showing up. Am I doing it right? Am I doing it wrong? This is showing up with saying, OK, what step am I in? So that's why I want to clarify to you tonight. And I also wrestled with this. I said, maybe I'm doing it wrong. Maybe I'm doing it wrong. So I was obsessed with Joseph's pens and videos, David Hawkins, all of everybody. And there is truth to those videos. There is truth to those videos. But I realize it's not just about manifestation. It's first his bodhidut to manifestation. That means there's a step to get there. Just like there's a step to the Amida, you have to go through these worlds. It's the same step to this. Even if you're a partner, you want to start loving your partner, first you have to do for them without receiving. Then you have to start praising your partner, seeing the good points of them. Then you have to love them. Then you're in all of them. Then there's one this. So you could see, even if you look at our relationships, where did the love stop? Receiving, lack of praise, criticism instead. Lack of doing things for the right reason, always wanting to receive. So you could see, even our relationship with our business relationship with people, you could see it's-- we didn't go to the four worlds and say it didn't work. We got here with a couple little turbulence on the first two worlds. And we said, this is not for me. I'm not receiving enough. So you could see how this is also in exercise. In any-- you could take this in anything. Because the bottom line is, it's the state that changes your conditions. Joe, the Spenser will tell you this. Tony Robbins, what everybody's going to tell you and they take it from the pasta through joy you will go out. So we already know that we have to create in a state. That means if I want to create something, that means I already have to be already in that moment. I already have to feel like it's already there, then the conditions change. There's no way that I'm going to wait on the sideline and watching and manifest the jets winning the Super Bowl, winning the two in the 11. I have to first destroy the team, get rid of the coach, clean the act, cleanse. Then we could talk about Super Bowl. What are you manifesting? You're lucky that the manifest the first step. But today's problem is we're massive lack and we're manifesting the touchdown on the five-year line. You're manifesting the touchdown. You want to manifest the touchdown when you're in the five-year line on the other team? I hear you. But you're manifesting in a one-bedroom apartment that you're going to be a billionaire driving a Bugatti. The disconnection is not real. And your body knows it. Your body keeps score. Our bodies keep score. So there's such a disconnection between what we want and who we are. And that's where we need to figure out how to get there. We need to figure out how to get there. And there's going to be four steps for them to tell you. So some of the practical things. Why it's not working out. And it's the same way. If your kid wants to play with marbles, you don't give him diamonds. We don't give kids diamonds to play with. We give them marbles. So if you want diamonds, you got to go to 40s. That will straight. If you want marbles, you got to go somewhere else. You're not in diamond mode if you're playing with diamonds. with marbles. That means there's a certain, also there's a certain amount of dedication that's needed to get what you want. I wake up very early because this to me is important to me and the more I do it, the greater I feel, the more I want to do it again. So I've manifested tons of things and I usually get it. I usually get it. But when I wanted to write my book, I didn't manifest the book. I manifested writing one page a day. Because if I were to manifest the book, I had to read one page. Just manifest one page a day. Can you do that? Yes. Rabbi Nazmi would manifest only what he would do on that day. Only what he would do on that day. So we're always worried about this too much on the out and it's too much dreaming and not enough awakening. Some of the things that don't work are functioning from low consciousness. Anytime you're trying to manifest and you're trying to try to receive something from low consciousness, that's a number one no no. Stress, anxiety, unworthiness, fear, whatever you're going to get, even if you receive it, you're not going to say this doesn't belong to me, you're going to set the target. So right away when you're in a very low energetic state, that is the worst time to manifest. That's the time to start doing in a work. Other things that stop us from manifesting is we're too obsessed with the attachment to the situation and we're living in survival. So you can't manifest when you're in survival mode. Survival, you need to survive. You need to figure out why you're in the first place. But you can't manifest when you're in survival. It's not going to work and this is why it's not so people don't want to do it because they're not getting the results. Other things that for example, if you tell me when is it going to happen? How is it going to happen? That's not up to us. That's up to the creator. Other things, you're subconscious. You have to see what's running your show today. There's a lot of stuff. If you listen to today, a lot of people are doing inner child healing, a lot of trauma work. It's important because the body has to match the heart. If the body's not matching the heart, if the body's not matching this thing, what happens if there's a disconnection? So the body has to, it's very, very important to do the body work today, to do a lot of inner work, to get up, to get a lot of stuff to be unhold because the body's not going to feel the light coming. So that's very, very, very important that your body is addicted to your past. And this is exactly why people end up going back to their toxic morphings because they're addicted to the known. They want the known. They don't want the unknown. They know this is going to be a zoo. Up and down, up and down, withdrawal. This is a zoo. Why would anybody be addicted to the same relationship over and over? It's because they're body, just like you go gamble. Why do people gamble? To get the rush, to crash, to get the rush, to crash. The same thing why people would go get high again. The craving, the high, the crash, the cry. So we can't be chasing these, these highs and crashes, these highs and crashes because that's what our bodies used to. So this is what we're going to get. So you have to realize there's a lot of body work. This is what we're going to talk about, how to clear all that energy, et cetera. Other things that could stop us, again, misalign maybe between thought, feeling, block vessels. So anything really, really, really rooted in lack, in unworthiness. In anything really, really, related, that's what's blocking it. And that's where when you are in that state, you should not be manifesting. You should be doing other things, which we'll to glue, which we'll explain. So very, very important. How do I track my wife? I'm depressed. How do I track my husband? Figure out why you're depressed. Talk about why you're depressed. Clear those blockages, but this is the typical thing. I'm broke. I need to find a job as a CEO. I don't know. First get a job as a janitor. And we blame the creator for what our ego did to us. So that's very, very, very important to understand. We want to use the power of power versus force. When is the last time that you succeeded? When you forced somebody to like you? When's the last time you succeeded? Right? When is the last time we tried to force Kumo to be the mayor? It couldn't do it. It was a force. Nobody wanted to happen. Obviously. But this is what you have. It was a force. So this is what we were saying. I'm not dying. That's a manifestation the wrong way you should say. But anytime you're you're operating from force, from force, forget about it. You're trying to force somebody to like you. You're trying to force somebody to marry you. You're trying to force somebody to buy it from you. You're trying to force. It shows lack, shows desperation. And they will not do it. It actually will turn them off. Anytime you are in your own energy and you feel happy and you feel good and it's not look like a force, then you will attract it. Very simple. Then you'll feel it. That's what's very, very important to have a good relationship with the past, a good relationship with yourself and really focus on one thing, nothing more, but Hashem, only the creator. So let's talk about these four steps. But we need to remember the end goal is through joy you will go out. The end goal is joy, love, it's the state. Even Joseph Spenser will tell you, we attract, we have to go to the field. The field changes the matter. What is the field? The field represents God's aims of. The unlimited potential. That's the field. Now I need the matter to change the field. Now when you trust, when you're happy, you will go out of the problem. When you trust in God, you will be surrounded by mercy. It's always I have to take the move first. And when a person has a moon, it's a sign of blessing. It's always the first step is you have to get to that state of certainty, then the conditions change. That's the way it works. A moon comes first, then you'll be done come second. A moon first, then knowledge. Never knowledge before faith. Never. It's never that. It's never, I need to understand first, and then I will understand. I need to wait for this to happen, then I will be happy. Anytime it's the opposite, it's a recipe for a membership and stuckness. We also need to understand the principle that everything has to go through, thought, speech and action. Non-negotiable. So we can't, this is not just about meditating, because we just said, if we are bodies and not feeling it, you need to talk it out. You need to physically release sometimes. So everything has to go through thought, speech and action. That's the way, that's the way our Kabbalahs tell us is the way to bring something in existence. So it's not just sitting there meditating. No, it's getting to that. So the four steps. And the first two steps can go back and forth. The first step is clarification. You need to understand clarification. You need to clarify exactly what you want. If you come with a diffuse vessel, it's an incomplete vessel. What do you want? Do you want to be married or do you want to date? Do you want to have Shalom bite or do you want to say Shalom I had it? You have to go, you have to tell me what you want. What do you want? That has to be so clear. That has to be so clear in your head. What do you want? If you want this, we need to do a 40 day challenge. If you want, it has to be, the clarification has to be so clear that there's, it's not negotiable because just because you want something doesn't mean you're going to get it. We know that. But if some of us are not even, I don't know what I want. This is very air mentality, a leap of mentality. I don't know what I want. So how do you get to the next stage? This is a problem because if we don't want, this is where I say just tell us that the greatest doubt, the greatest happiness is when a person resolves a doubt. There's no greater happiness than resolving a doubt. Remember that. There's no greater happiness. When you resolve a doubt, when I resolve a doubt and prayer, there's no greater happiness. It's declared. So you have to tell me what you want. You have to go and say, what do you want? The second step is now purification. Now these two work hand in hand. If I am on the offensive strategy, I'm going to start saying, you know what? I want to write another book. That's offensive strategy. If I'm on a defensive strategy where I'm not pursuing my goals, Hashem will wake me up. So the purification will give you the clarification. The purification is the toughest of these states. This is called a cleansing. Now why does it have to be purification? Very simple. Let's say that it took you 10 times to procrastinate and something. Let's say you were dating and you said you know what? I want to wait 10 years to get married. Okay, I want to be picky. You have to pay the price for the 10 years. If you got married and you're young and stupid, you would have this at the ratio. But because the more we wait for something, the more the price we have to pay for the cleansing of it. So the biggest second step is really the cleansing. The cleansing is really where the obstacles come. That means the minute I want something, I'm going to get the opposite. The minute I want to write a book, I'm going to get distractions. I'm going to get a thousand headaches. Why I shouldn't write a book? So we're thinking why? Manifested, right? I know what I want and I tried to do it. It didn't work. No, no, no. There has to be the opposing energy to see if your desire is real or not. Who cares what you want? I said you're going to get it. Who cares? So we'll get tested right away. Because remember what does pain do? It increases desire. It increases the vessel. It increases everything. The pain, this is where the growth is. What we're so bummed out and what we're so upset about is exactly what's doing the most work for you. What you're struggling with, that you say I'm so stressed I can't deal with this. What do you think? The minute you want to show them by, things are going to be great. You're going to adopt a bite, break the bunch and everything's going to be great. No, you're going to get all the headaches. You don't do this, you don't do this. You really want to show them what this is the price that's going to cost you. It's God's going to show you all your deficiencies in order to correct the vessel. So you could see just the clarification. You could take me a month to get there. If I just want to clarify what I want, sometimes I take me two months to get there, three months to get. I don't know how long it's going to take you to get there, depending on your sense of urgency. But the clarification itself is a month or two. And then the purification stage, depending on your attitude, could be another couple of months, could be two, three months, it could be a constant test and constant. And because they want to make sure you're doing it for the right reason. Remember, if we give somebody just what they want and they get it, they'll never appreciate it anyway. So this is why Ramnafman's gave us so much warmth. The boss who lump says, these teachers, if it wasn't for these teachers, we would never be able to hit these goals. Because they told us that the struggle is the reason why you think it's bad is because you're not receiving right away. But that's the whole test. You're supposed to be doing it, give to give. If I'm just giving to receiving, then how is that expanding the vessel? It's only when I'm giving and I don't see any results. Then I'm expanding my vessel. When it's costing my body, when it's costing my mentality, when I'm able to have faith without needing certainty, where I'm able to still be as positive on the date, even though the date's horrible. And saying, this is part of the process. This is part of the cleansing to see if I'm going to get discouraged or not. This is part of the process. Where we today, we're giving up to easy with the bitterness. And this is why you have to have the bitter herbs before the past. You want to be free? Remember the bitterness. And if you're not willing to have a little bitterness, you know what a man says? You'll have a lot of bitterness. The man said it clearly. If you're not willing to taste a little bitterness, you will get a lot of bitterness. Just pick the one you want. But not expecting bitterness when you want to get married or to fix shall and buy it or financial goals. How do I clear? How do I get your intention? How do I get a person's sense of urgency out? How do I get them to build a desire if it's not for the opposing force? It's impossible. And that's where you attitude with the challenges is the massive is the key. This is where I didn't even there yet, by the way, guys. We're still on the second one. And the second one and the first one. Sometimes you need a really bad date to say, this is not what I want. There's a 40-day challenge. Sometimes you need to get rejected in business to say, this is not what I want. That means a bad day could be the best day for you. Because it can give you the clarity. So if we do it on the offensive strategy, then where the ones that are picking the clarification, purification, because we know it's going to, but if you're not doing it on the offensive strategy, really bad things have to happen to get really good things to happen. Because otherwise, you will not wake up. And what this is called is called in Kabbalah called the energy of Tohu. Tohu means chaos. Tohu means sense of urgency, mood, focus. Let's go. After Tohu comes Tikhu, but Tohu is first. God, what did God say? God created Tohu and then He created Tikhu. But again, we're not even in manifestation yet. You understand, we're not even there yet. We're not even even close to there. We're not even close to there. So you have to understand how your relationship is to obstacles. And you have to realize obstacles are the purpose of obstacles is to increase desire, desire increases wrestle. So without prayer, how do you increase desire? How do you increase desire without prayer? So if you're not doing his bodhidud, if you're not talking to God about increasing your desire, you're not even going to get to around three or four. I just want to give you guys a reality check. This is more like a book camp versus just let's close our eyes and manifest with, you know, broken vessels. I'm one thing I'm obsessed about is results. Is a results. I'm obsessed with getting results because I believe tors should be empowering. What do we need to go to all these places? We don't have enough in the tors to empower us to get the results. It's just we're not we're not saying it the right way. So if you want to be smart, you could do like rubbery rush in every single time you have an obstacle. You can say, this is good. I'm excited. This is good. This is good. This means this means I'm in the right and the right energy. This means I'm expanding the vessel. I'm getting out of my comfort zone. This is good. This is good. This is good. This is not bad. Bad means too much obstacles, not for me, check out. Once you pass the cleansing state and again we're trying to avoid the bread of free shame because when you easy come, easy go. Hot starts, cold ends. So remember the purpose of this got really wants to have you to have it. He wants you to have better things. The third step is now alignment. Alignments which represent love, alignment. This is when you are aligned. You are no longer control. You want what the creator wants. Alignment means I'm now trusting the process. There's two levels of trust. The first level of trust is believing that wherever I have, it's exactly where I need to be. And the second level of trust is actually wanting, believing that it's going to work out my way. So the third level is now when you are now trusting, where you are trusting and surrendering the process. You're surrendering because you've gone through the cleansing, you know exactly what you want. You are now surrendering the time. Time it's going to happen. The form it's going to happen. The way it's going to happen. How it's going to happen, which is none of our business anyway. We're just supposed to put the energy out and trust and have certainty that we're exactly the right way we're doing it. This is where we completely let go. Now some of us get to this and we get to this. No, no, no. I don't like the alignment issue. I don't know. Alignment's not for me. No, no, no. I need it. It has to be this way. Who says it has to be this way? I remember there was a great story about a specific girl who hired all these matchmakers. I'm sure she didn't hire you Rachel. Otherwise she wouldn't have been married, right? Rachel? Exactly. So she hired, she didn't hire Rachel. She hired somebody else to annihilate Rachel, right? And all of a sudden she didn't get results. So she doubled up on the Shiduch. She got another one. Obviously, the problem is always with the matchmaker, not the person. But she did the inner work. She did the inner work. So what happens? Her housekeeper tells her, you know, by the way, I was working for another house and there was a really cute boy there. You're going to listen to a housekeeper. the housekeeper, the housekeeper ended up setting her up and she got mad at me. So it didn't come from a matchmaker, it came from the housekeeper. Because God wants to show you how much you know nothing. He wants to show you how much, how clueless you are, and how much the minute you start thinking, you know something, to realize how much you know nothing. The essence of knowledge is to realize how much you know nothing. That's what that's the essence of knowledge. That's called, that is what called, that is what alignment means. Not pushing, trusting, letting go. But remember, what do we can't trust if our body is shaking exactly, you know when you're meeting somebody, you understand? That's the time of clarification. Your body keeps, like I said, alignment means you're good. You're good. If it happens this way, wonderful, if it doesn't happen this way, wonderful also, but I know it's going to happen. You start getting in the known in this pitiful. When you're in pitiful, that's when you have certainty. You're not questioning God anymore. You're in such alignment that it's almost like I love the process. What a horrible great date this was today. What a great, I love the process. This is exactly the way the Creator wants. I want this also because there's a verse that says, "Whoever makes God's will, his will, God will make their will, his will." Remember that line. "Whoever makes God's will, his will, God will make his will your will." So it takes you to completely blow your mind of anything that you think you know, and it'll completely come, completely unexpected. This is what our sage Taziv, great news will always come unexpected. It's not going to come when you watch the New York Times. It's always going to come unexpected because God showing you. And you know what is, if you look at the Pasa, Kampasak 121 in De Helum, it says, "May I in your voice read, where will my help come from?" When I go to Ion, Ion means I know nothing. May Ion, when Ion means I know nothing, that's when the help comes from. When you get to a place of trust so much, you don't care about timing, you don't care how it's going to happen, you trust in the process. You're not rushing the process. If there's a delay in the process, that means it's divine timing. If there's a no, that means it's protection. When you're trusting in God, you're giving God the benefit of the doubt. That means already, my energy's already changing. Once I'm in trust stage, I'm already in almost that flow. I'm already almost there. When I'm in trusting, that's the third step. And the fourth step is now flow. Now it's your technology. You know how to get to these places. That's where the shepherd comes down. Once you get into trust, then that's the confidence. That's the sure to where you're no longer questioning anything. You're in the known. That's called flow. But do you understand the amount of hours that this takes? I just want you to understand this. You understand there's a six pack abs, and there's a six pack in the refrigerator. Do you understand the difference? It's a completely different disciplines. Guys, you can have six pack in the refrigerator, or you can have a physical six pack. It's a completely different world. So I think today, and I'm asking Hashem, what's going on here? Very simple. People are underestimating the amount of work. So when they look at me, you're crazy getting up at five o'clock in the morning, but you're spent 15 grand and you're just spent at the wake up at three o'clock in the morning. And you'll get results because you walk up and you're doing the work. What do you think those people are doing? You know even to go to a job at Spenceacog? You have any hours you have to learn? You just to go there. How many hours and hours and you have to meditate for hours? But this should be any time that I have a desire. It just got planting me, okay, let's go to work. Let's go to work. And today, when we're showing up premature, we're showing up to, I want love in my life and you don't love yourself. What is it going to look like? How is that going to work? You want financial abundance and you're shaking like a room, every time you get an e-mail, you shake it like a leaf. You're not ready. You're not ready and you're not doing the inner work. Because inner work has to be done and has to be scheduled and it has to be daily. It can't be something, yeah, I had a chance to do five minutes in the car between pickup and carpool. Okay, wonderful. Be a carpool instructor. That's fine. But it doesn't mean you're going to attract these things in your life. So you have to understand there's a lot of scrolling happening. A lot of scrolling. Scrolling, scrolling. There's a time to scroll, but do the work. You have to schedule the inner work. Everybody will tell you every professional where you go secular, you have to, it has to be scheduling in a work. Because remember, for Shephat to come down, there always has to be opposition and there'll always be confusion, lack of motivation. It's not going to work out. So all this negativity is just telling us that this is exactly what we should be doing. We're looking at negativity the wrong way. We're looking at negativity as it's not for me. No, you're not supposed to look at it that way. That's the problem. You're supposed to instead of give up, you're supposed to turn it up. But you have to really think about it. The way I like to change something is I don't like to focus on, I like to focus if what happens when I don't do it. Then I'm going to get what I don't want. That means when I don't do these things, align with my creator, get rid of the garbage, not want the purification. What happens every single time we resist problems, what happens? They just get worse. So if you don't do this, you're going to get what you don't want. And it reminds me of the puzzle in the Torah that says, I am giving you today a blessing or a curse. I'm giving you a blessing or a curse. So when guys tell me I want to get married, I want to be a masculine energy. OK, we need a cleansing. We can. Who are we going to meet? You're going to meet only fans. That's all you're going to get. So I'm very stuffed with them. We're not ready. We're producing something. Are you crazy? What am I going to introduce? Why would I punish the girl? You're feminine energy and you want to attract the queen. Be a king. Then your queen will come. Now how long does the tech to become a king? Text work. Text work? Can't get a king overnight. But everything is there. God wants to give it all to us. And the frustration is not having where you need to be. So you have to ask yourselves, where are you? Where are you? Where you need to be? And you need to be honest with me. You need to be honest with yourselves and ask you, where are you? And some of you, when you start asking the question, just I don't even know what I want. So OK. How can you create a gift you don't know what you want? There's a famous verse that every single Sephardic guy with you, Lord of synagogue, will open up the hands. [SPEAKING SPANISH] Right? God, I open up my hands and you give me according to my desire. And it's time. We look up, creates the vessel, Ratson comes down. This is Ratson. What do you want? What do you want? What do you want? And you have to be specific with what you want. When I wanted to get mad, I always visited what I wanted. I knew what the price is going to be. You want to be in shape? There's a price. There's a price to be. There's a price for everything. But I promise you this one thing. I will promise you this, and I'll almost guarantee it. By you delaying the lower level of distraction and lower-prep pleasure, you will get such a higher pleasure. You understand? So what you're thinking is, well, I don't have time. I could be on my phone. I could get more sleep. I can get to this. Yes, you could. Very true. That pleasure is 1% of the pleasure of the 100% you're going to get when you manifest something. That changes everything, by the way. So this small level of pleasure, that you think it's not worth it. But watch out for the headache. Watch out for the moon. It's 1% of the enjoyment, not getting 100% of the pleasure. That means you're selling pennies on the dollar. Your distractions are sending you pennies on the dollar. So again, I'm not telling you this is easy, but I promise you I've been around enough people. I watched all these manifestation videos. And I said, where's the Torah source for this? And where are the four steps? Because sometimes it's just too out there. We need to break it down. And I think these four steps, if you really follow them, I've been doing them. And I don't even matter where am I? I'm a purification state. Once you get purified and you know it's for the best, then you know, OK, I got cleansed. Now I'm in trust. You actually feel it. Your body will tell you everything. David Hawkins talks about energetic. Our bodies have energy. Right? We're either in fear. We're in pride, we're in anger. As long as we are in the lower levels of emotions, those emotions are survival. Ego-based. We can't attract in those states because we're not in higher states. So sometimes if you're trying to, you know, you're looking for a soil maze, right? Sometimes you just have to, you have to do the inner work to get you in a higher state. And then sometimes you need a detox for dating. Sometimes you might need a detox for dating. Sometimes you need a detox. Just put it all on the side. Stop chasing it, stop pursuing it from black, stop being obsessed about it, put it on escrow. Put it on escrow and come back to it with a completely different mindset. Because when you're trying to chase, when you're trying to catch a knife when it's falling, you know, when you're trying to marry a stock, you know, it just becomes an emotional, negative decisions. We end up becoming making negative decisions in negative states. But once you do that, I would tell you the timing of things, some things took three months to manifest, some things took five months to manifest, but I started feeling that the, how I knew is I started feeling different, different energetic levels. Your body wants you to start doing the inner work on a daily basis, you will start feeling, okay, right now it's not the time. I don't see the picture. I need to get out of the catastrophe state. I need to start getting more clarification. And then all you'll talk about is create the world at any clarity. I need clarity. What do I want? What kind of person do I want? Please, I'm asking you. There's also, there's an incredible insight. The Rebnathan tells us that if you spend 40 days praying for something, you will guarantee the answer. Guaranteed the answer. I don't know if you've been to like the answer, (audience laughs) but you get the answer. Because 40 days is a birth of something. 40 days represents a birth. But remember guys, I can't stress this enough. You have to be more realistic. Remember, everything in Kabbalah, it first starts with Khachma. Khachma is the burst of inspiration. That's the masculine trait that we have. I want to do this, I want to do this. I want to get married, I'm in sparring. And then the feminine trait now is Bina. Okay, you have no money to build a house. You can't do this right now. So we always have to play with the right, which I want this, but then, (imitates voice) we'll create this. As soon as we go into the positive, we automatically have to bring it down into a decision. Well, what am I gonna do tomorrow to bring that home? That's Bina. Khachma is just the light. That's just manifested with no plan. That's just Khachma. Bina is now bringing it down home and saying, "Where am I? I'm in clarification. I'm in purification." And then we have to go from Khachma Bina. When you have Khachma and Bina together, what do you have? You have dots. And dots is the consciousness that we're talking about. That's the levels of energetic levels. That's the consciousness. If we're too much in Khachma, then we're way too positive. They were manifested with no vessel. If we're too much in Bina, we're focusing on everything that's going wrong. We're just too negative. It's just too many, it didn't work last time. I tried, blah, blah. I can't deal with that. You're just too negative. You're too much in the Bina. That's the Virgo energy. Is it right? It didn't work. You have to get into the dot stage, which is a combination of Khachma, Bina, and dot. And then that's the expanded consciousness. But don't say that the creator doesn't want to give it to you. And don't say that there's no singles out there. There's a hundred singles here. Don't say these things. These are just, this is just an excuse. Don't say there's not all these apps. This is just, this is, there's not jobs in my hand. Yeah, you're not waking up. Of course there's no jobs after 12.30. You know? There's no jobs after 12.30. Yeah, to come to work. Yeah, it's, you're right. There is no jobs after 12.30. They started eight o'clock. So when we say these things, like, like a bunch of yentas, there's not there. There's not there. It's nonsense. It's not, it's just, it's, it's, our sage is tell us whoever vents is a fool. Whoever vents is a fool. Either you change it or don't complain. That's it. That's it. Don't, don't, don't vent. Nothing doesn't do nothing. Vent, vent, vent. You want to, you want to, oh, the sudden, let's take this in a relationship. You want to change your relationship. And every relationship, remember, what do we do? We get married. Everybody's on their age, right? Everybody's in giving power. And then the bees come. And then seas come and the de comes. And all of a sudden, we have a major problem in relationship. So then you have to get back to the, it's normal to have also these waves of ups and downs. This is normal. It's not, you know, okay, what do we, what clarify, what we want in our relationship. And then we have to purify. Maybe we were in the wrong state of giving. Maybe we're just doing things to receive. Maybe we were holding resentments. So if I want, shall I buy it, I have to understand. Well, got me there also. And then once you diagnose everything, I'm telling you, it works 100% of the time. I know the verses. Ramachman says in lesson 102, prayer, words of when you speak it out, those are the physically the words. Lesson 34, when you speak is the vessel for bounty. Instand, speech is the vessel for bounty. We want bounty. We're all sometimes sick and tired of being sick and tired. We're sick and tired because we're manifesting on the way in your mind. And our bodies are completely in a different time zone. The mind is completely disconnected from the hearts. There's no workings, no workings, I tried to open the spanish, that's not what he went for me. So what the classes do, what the classes do is they'll give you constant clarification. Constant clarification, all you're going to be relabeled the purification. The classes give you constant clarification. Relabeled the purification. Then you think it's bad, I'm telling you, it's actually good. Allow you to trust in the divine timing. And then the flow comes. And the flow comes. And God wants to give it to you. And everybody, because He gets more pleasure, but you know what the difference is, when you receive this flow, it will stay with you. It won't leave you. You will actually retain it. This kind of flow, because you did so much work, it stays with you. Because if I'm attracting something, and I'm trying to force something to happen, and I get it, and I don't trust, you know what's going to happen? I'm going to be riddled with anxiety of-- I'm going to lose it. And that's why people sabotage things. People sabotage things because they received, because remember, sometimes we do-- we'll give it to you to show you, OK, you want it? I'm going to give it to you. But it doesn't mean it's good for you. We just because-- remember. Just because you've received something, it doesn't mean it's actually good for you. Remember that. We want the blessing where I know this is good for me, because I did the inner work. And these are the four worlds, four levels. And God doesn't want-- remember, God doesn't want flaky answers. He wants deep connections. He wants desire. He wants you to have a scheduled time to have a relationship with him. These are unreasonable demands. But when we're looking at them as an obligation, or we're looking at this, it's not working. That's why I wanted to clarify to you tonight that this is out there. But you might manifest it next, Hanukkah. Maybe not this, Hanukkah. I don't know. I don't know how much mess is in the enskeleton. I don't know how messing the closet is. I don't know how mess is in some consciousness. I can't give people the right answer, you know. When people yell at me, I need a secula for what you do. I give you an ice cream cup. What am I going to do? What can I give you? There's no-- get out of the segula mode. Get out of the segula mode. The segula mode is just-- it's just so off. It's so off. We're not supposed to be chasing segulas. This is Mickey Mouse territory. It's not-- you're not supposed to be thinking like that. Give me an eight-minute abs. As they're made in the refrigerator in the kitchen. Not in the-- so we're just-- the direction today is just in the wrong direction. So Ms. Ratoshem, I'll take some questions. But I hope this clarified and gave you more of a realistic approach to manifestation, which is really his bodhidut, to manifestation, which you don't see that anywhere in the videos. And you see there's a major disconnect. Because why do I need 100 videos if it works at one time? If it works, what do I need 100 videos? But I know that if something's not working, I've got to step back. OK, we're not getting this clear enough. This is not this. And I think this is really, really key to everything. We'll take some questions. Yes? You mentioned a book more about knowing that everything that comes, even if it's difficult, is good. You also mentioned offhand that we blame God for what our ego does to us. So how do we know when the difficulty is coming as a blessing? the difficulty is coming from our own mistakes. It doesn't matter if it's your mistakes or anything. You will have some kind of cleansing. You decide it all the sudden at 36 to get married. What happened to the 10 years of fooling around? So what happens the first year of marriage is going to be Moroccan energy. And you're going to get blitzed on every dime. And it's just going to be a test of all the cleansing. The way it works spiritually is the minute you start going in the right direction. Like, let's say I haven't paid taxes in 10 years. Okay? God forbid, not me. But all of a sudden, we only pay 38% in Florida. Here you guys pay 50-60% for God's sake. And you hire a guy to pay more. We're stuck up a roof. Genius, genius, genius move. So what happens? Let's say I don't pay taxes for 10 years. And all of a sudden you say, you know what? I should pay taxes. The minute you pay taxes, you're going to get ordered it. Now why would I get ordered it before it paid? Before you would go jail. But now that you get ordered it, you're going to be able to really go straight to pass 10 cents on the dollar. So the minute we go into the right direction, we end up, heaven gives you a deal for the past. It's called Mishpat. That we say this every single day in Amida. Guys, God loves, I have a mellow hips that I call a Mishpat, right? He loves righteousness and also Mishpat. It's said that, uh, it's said that Mishpat. Great. So there's a concept of loving Israel, but he also loves Mishpat. God loves Mishpat. It's not fair that you should go and not pay for 10 years. Everybody else is paying it and you just want to free me. So the past is renegotiated at a certain amount. It's a cleansing. God forbid you go to a doctor, you get sick. You know, it's going to tell you, well, this is the way you wait for 10 years. Yes, we're in the process of healing, but you have to, you have to, there's a certain amount of suffering for the bitterness that has to be at home. So the past is always negotiated based on your attitude. Ten cents on the dollar if you accept it. If you don't accept the ten cents on the dollar, then the past you pay a dollar for dollar. So when we get test in heaven, because we believe God created the world in order to give and in order to, and He loves us, but He has to have, there's to, has to be an aspect of cleansing. Your attitude determines how quickly that cleansing happens. So it's really based on your relationship with your Creator. If you believe that everything God does is for best, then that cleansing's content ends on the dollar. What I recommend is whatever happens in heaven, you always take the first deal. Take the deal. Don't complain about the deal because the deal ends up becoming the more you resist the deal, the more pain comes. Always take the first deal. You get a flat tire. Thank you God. The mic doesn't work. Thank you. These are great deals versus expecting that every little thing is going to have to go your way. Yes. [ Inaudible ] Yes. [ Inaudible ] No. Again, there's no way I'm going to, I could start believing. Once I went through the cleansing, then I could start believing there's a blessing after the cleansing. Now it's time to trust. So I can't believe, be positive that things are going to work out. As it says, think good and it will be good. Remember, the third stage is when we are being very positive. We're believing that whatever happens is exactly the way it's supposed to happen. Even though it doesn't look normal, it's having certainty over logic. The third step is now having certainty that whatever I'm going through is good because trust is the vessel for bounty. Betachon is the vessel for bounty. When a person has trust, the plus success, he will be surrounded with mercy. I hope you people understood that. Yes. We don't talk about 72 names right now. It's just there's no purpose for 72 names right now. The purpose of step one, step two, is to see if there's step four. This is exactly the kind of stuff that they tell you, a Kabbalah Center's, focus on 72 names only. Do the work. Then we could focus on 72 names. This is exactly the distraction that we're getting. You understand? This is exactly the distraction. If you know the names, you study the names, but to have them. But that should not be the first step. First steps should be this work. Building Bitaqon, building simple Amuna, don't get distracted about names. I studied the names after 20 years. You could meditate on names for protection. There's names, but the names are very potent. With the wrong person handling them, it could do more damage than good, because you just realize our names, not a chef. We're always worried about the person controlling the names. You understand? But I did not go into names for 20 years. That's when we're talking about more of a chore level of consciousness. Yes. Sorry. Go ahead. For me, that you're setting out seems to be very much the personal journey, like for your own personal circumstances. So, what I want to ask, do you think this is also applicable on a macro level? Like, for example, I just feel so concerned in regard to how things are looking for anti-Semitism, the anti-Israel narrative that's going on that affects us in a macro level. How would we employ this kind of methodology to try and combat? It's exactly the same way. What did the purification do? It tells us exactly what we want, what we need. The purification came first, not the clarification. Nobody woke up and says, "I want to clarify that, I want to be a Jew." People told you who you're not. And then people started all of a sudden saying, "I know, I know, I want to do what I want." And some people did the opposite. After October 7th, either people could really connect it or completely disconnected. So that became that purification became a major clarification for many people. And that gave them that reconnected many people. The opposite also. The opposite also. You had a question. Yes. Thank you. I'm just looking online about the mental and spiritual side of mentalization. Something I'm interested in is the physical side and in particular, with more research about the gut, mind connection and people's diet, like processed food, coffee, alcohol, sugar. What do you think is the optimal diet or health recommend for a manifestation and having our physical vessel be. I mean, you want to manifest being in shape? Okay, but I'm saying, when you manifest being in being healthy, for example, "Good question. I want to be healthy. I want to be in top shape." Right? Okay, I don't want to go too much into this, but obviously 99% should be gut-related. Yeah, anything with information to gut. For example, I wanted to manifest being in much better shape. Right? So all of a sudden, the clarification, after the purification came, areas that I'm not where I'm low in energy. And then I started using some peptides and started working on the gut, and that helped me. But it all came from this process. I know what I wanted. I dealt with the cleansing. And then I know what I wanted. Instead, it got me to the one. But I have to first say, I want to be in perfect shape. I want to be in great shape. I want to be able to eat something without getting stomachache. You have to first put it out there, and then you'll attract the solutions on how to get it. The solutions will not come until you put the the intention out there. That's the whole point. The intention has to come out. First, the intention. Then you have to put, then the intention comes to the situation. But intention has to be the first thing. Okay, good? Yes. Is there any place for anybody to go out and grab on? Where were you? I'm going to be honest with you. Okay? In my rookie days. I was a Suggula master. I went to every cave in Israel, every liquid bowl, you name it. Every rabbi, everything. Please change this. Please change this. I even, one of them give me a camea. I don't know what am I going to do with it. I lost the camea. From one cave to another cave. Okay? I went more caves than you can imagine. And it cost me 50, 60,000 dollars of Suggula, cave shopping, McGoobalim. The same McGoobalim. He cabels from you. You understand? The Suggula for the red stream is for pornos and for the guy selling it to you, not for you. That's what people understand. The Suggula is not for you. It's for that. So these, unfortunately, there's wonderful ones, but they see you as prey. So they'll tell you about your past. They'll give you a couple of things and then I'll tell you your hooked, your hooked. And I got played big time. And I came to a point where I realized I don't want any of this. Only Amuna. And that's when everything changed. Only Amuna. Only Amuna. The messages that they have, the pushy salesmen, I was completely, their son that are very, but I don't remember the last time I'm calling a rabbi. Tell me my future. Give me a sigula for this. It's a different thing. Go and do it, do the basic in a work. Rabbenatman says it's both a dude, it's greater than everything. That's a sigula for you. Any time we receive without earning it, we become dependent upon it. Did the rabbi give me the blessing? So we're always worried about your relationship to the rabbi now. And you're misconnecting the relationship to God. That's where we're always worried about it. But most people that go there many times, if the rabbi tells you I want you to change this, I want you to stop doing this. I want you to stop doing this. Are you telling you blockages? Yes. But if he's just giving you a piece of paper to hold and giving it to you for 10 grand, you have to be very careful about this. And believe me, I was a centurion member for this stuff. I attracted it because of my fears of not trusting in Hashem and they've only brought me nothing but problems. I just wanted to be honest with you. I'll save you a lot of money. You could donate to M.J.E. New renovation rabbi now. By the way, there's no greater work in Kiroo. You want to have some good loads? Give money to Kiroo. That's it. Yes. Adam. [ Inaudible Remark ] This is, again, there's four steps. First is you have to -- the purpose of the Hizbo de Dut is to diagnose where you're at. Okay? The Hizbo de Dut is telling me, I don't know how to make -- I don't know what I want. So I have to talk -- I have to use Hizbo de Dut now to ask God to help me clarify the decision. So I have to ask God for strength in these challenges, believing everything for the best. So what the Hizbo de Dut is the guide to help you get to these four levels. You need this body, dude. That speech becomes -- because I'm expressing my desire for strength. Sometimes these obstacles are overwhelming. They're beyond overwhelming. We can't even handle them. Who do you think gives you the strength for it? You have to ask God to believe that these obstacles are for the best. And to be able to handle the bitterness with ease. Many times, it's the please God. I know this bitterness is good, but help me deal with it. How many times have we had a challenge that we can't deal with it mentally? Many times. So you need to strengthen -- you're going to use Hizbo de Dut in every single level. And remember, the more you clear one level, automatically your energy goes up. And what's going to attract what you want is energy. Energy is what's going to attract what you want. Not lack uncertainty, fears, control. These are all things that are stopping you from receiving. That's what I'm trying to explain to you. It's all energy. Everything's energy. And the more Hizbo de Dut you see, the more you heal and the more things will come easy versus chasing. Good? I hope you understand. But you know, we don't -- again, let's not get this focused. This is it. I've done this for enough time. This is it. You don't need anything else. But part of this is what the Dut is diagnosing from the obstacles. What the diagnosis is. Diagnosis. Yes. [ Inaudible ] Fear of God, you mean? No, not even fear of the society. Right. [ Inaudible ] That's the cleansing. He got cleansed. Yes, the cleansing is telling you you shouldn't be in this energy. You understand? Cleansing is a form of wake-up. It's a wake-up call. Any time you get a cleanse, it means you're going in the wrong direction. You understand? You're going in this -- God's, because remember, you're dating the wrong person. Sometimes purposely he'll create chaos to change and say this is not for me. Your higher cell always is working aligned with your lower cell. The only problem is the higher cell is guiding you and you're not listening to the signal. We take out the batteries of the GPS instead of listening to the GPS. But if you don't have a time for -- if you don't have the scheduled during the day where you can process this, now what I recommend is start with music. But you have to -- each one of us are in a different state. We don't know what we want. We need to understand what do you want. But today it became normal to have a marriage without passion. Okay, this is what it meant to be. No, that's not what it meant to be. We became excuse. This is the way it's meant to be. This became the new norm. So you're settling for -- you're settling for garbage. You're settling for mediocre. And in the name of God, this is the way it's meant to be. Really? Want to be like this? Who says that? Sometimes you're being too positive in the wrong direction. It's not. You're supposed to have passion and you'll have a marriage. You're supposed to break the marriage sometimes and refix it. You can't settle for saying, well, this is the way it's supposed to be. This is my mazal. The obvious on everybody is a kababah. This is my mazal. What? Mazal? Mazal can change when you change your location or you change your mindset. No, this is your consciousness, you should say. Don't say it to your mazal. You should say, this is my consciousness, not my mazal. Mazal is over. Consciousness is consciousness. That's what people should say. People should never say, this is my mazal. I don't know what your mazal is. How do your mazal is? Did you already ask? Yes? [ Inaudible Remark ] If his bodhidut is not working, then it's not possible. It's not possible that his bodhidut is not working. You just might not be getting the results you want. So, for example, in the clarification stage, it's normal to have his bodhidut be very messy. It's normal for his. if the his bodhidut is very messy and all over the place, that means you're in clarification stage. Messy speech, messy mind. How do we know this? We know this from a verse that says, in Egypt, the speech was in exile. You know why? Because their consciousness was in exile. When the duck is in exile, the speech was in exile. And what was the whole tikkun of Egypt? Pesach. We had to go from its rhyme, which is the description of the neck, to Pesach. So, when the consciousness is in exile, the speech is in exile. So, that means your speech is in exile. You have to clarify it. I promise you, when you have clarity of what you want, it's a completely different ballgame than going into a clarify. how many people, January 1st? They go to the gym two weeks later. They're out. Do you ever see new lockers in gyms? New members, but no new lockers. That means gyms are not two weeks in, two weeks out. This class, pretty much, is the same reason why 95% of people don't hit New Year's resolutions. This exact class is exactly this big light no vessel. It's exactly the New Year's resolution energy is this class. They're not shooting too high. They're not knowing where they're at. And they're just shooting and guess what? 4% of people hit it. Speech is the number one thing. Woman have 10 measures of speech. Neither of them came to you guys. Neither of them. So, we need to use speech the right way. Instead of overthinking, start speaking. Speaking with desire exile. We'll take two or three more questions and we're good. Two or three more questions were good. Yes. Sometimes when I get some support, quote, quote, not working out as you plan, will you find the motivation and I guess in the belief to be able to be focused, meditate, go through that process. Right. Not working out as planned. Who's planning? You. That's your, the way you think it should be. Who says that's the best way? That's what we say to the God. God, give me what's best for me. Or we say, I want what you want. Because maybe your plan is not what's the better, maybe your plan is not a greater plan. There's always a greater plan that is always your plan. What Ramnafman says is when we, when things are going in complete chaos, it's showing that we're too controlling what we should do is we should surrender to God's plan. It's koachma. You should go into surrender. You could see the book, surrender, surrender, surrender. Surrender surrender. Okay. Two more questions. Okay. Go into blue shirt. [ Inaudible Remark ] >> It should be by your lack. It should be by what's bothering you. What's bothering you? >> Drop trust. >> But what's bothering you? Relationship. It's either money, woman, something. Something's happening. Self-esteem. It's always either our sages tell us. Is either relationships or money in New York. What would you want? Nobody gets up and says, I didn't talk to my creator enough today. You know, we're not. But trust is that trust? Because remember, we get in some areas of our lives, we can have trust in business and not have trust in relationships because we had a challenging childhood or we went through difficult relationships. >> Right. >> Okay, so the more you trust, the more you get the other person's space. So if you feel you're too clinging in the relationship or you're too controlling, that means you're insecure. So you need to pray that you should give that person space and be in your own energy. Because if you believe, if you had enough trust, you wouldn't need to check their phone 25 times. The fact that you're checking their phone means you're insecure and you're going to chase that person away. Understand? Guys, have a good day. God bless. God bless. [APPLAUSE] >> Thank you. >> Thank you, Tanya. Take on a moment. We're going to close up the evening. I just like to first go thank you, Tanya, for the incredible presentation. It's a wrap. >> You're very friendly. >> It's a wrap. >> We're going to welcome you. >> Thank you. >> As many of those goals find a teacher around my sitting out in Trigger connected, that we can practice some of what was just pleased to recognize them. >> Please give your attention to my brother, Michael. >> She's going. >> And close your program. Please give your attention to the other phone. Thank you. >> We have to send them. >> Thank you, Mark. Thank you, everybody. Tanya, what a beautiful tribute to our late mother and our father. Ladies and gentlemen, it's 30 years for our mother and about two years coming for our dad. His husband, his eulogy was actually in this st.d. shul. I just came from Cardoza Law School where I'm teaching for my 15th year. My wife and I met my dad's law school class at Cardoza. For 33 years, he taught in a beautiful school. And I passed by the shul that he dedicated in that school to my late mother. G'dayah, we knew in our home, Chachma, our wonderful mother and we knew Bina, our beautiful father. Male, female, it was a beautiful partnership. My brother had them on chabis and I had the good fortune of practicing with my late father during the week. It's such an important lesson for all of us because without the hard work, that's the take away that I have. Without the hard work, we are doomed as a people, as a person or as a community. And we see what the amount of anti-Semitism and everything that's out there, we have to manifest their own destinies. But we also have to make sure that we watch. Achi, our brothers. And that's why I'm stepping up to let you know that for the price of a chabis, we'll use sponsor somebody, a judigo to Israel, a weekday of learning Torah. You're doubling down on somebody else's inner journey and yourself. And we help my brother do what he did, bringing so many beautiful people back into the fold. 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