Ladies Stop Healing and Armor Up With This Knowledge

Speaker 1 Hey. Speaker 2 Y'all, welcome to the channel, Sprinkle, sprinkle. Hope Y'all had a a wonderful day today, so we're going to be talking about healing versus armoring yourself with this knowledge. There's a difference and we're going to only be taking related questions. If you want to ask me a personal question, join my Patreon and message me there. It is in the description link. The first link in the description is the Patreon. You can join and write me there, but I I'm asking you guys to stay on the subject, stay on the topic because it messes up the entire video and y'all ask the exact same questions over and over and. Speaker 3 Over. All right. Speaker 2 So y'all join the Patreon if y'all have question. Most likely your question is answered in most videos. Speaker 4 All right. Speaker 2 So let's get to it, shall we? All right, so a lot of women speak about healing. Healing, OK, getting over the past, becoming a more, you know, balanced person. But if you're just going to heal, to go right back to the state that you began at. You're bound to mess up again and to get hurt again. So that's why you have to armor yourself with knowledge versus just healing, because you can just heal. And if you didn't change who you are and you didn't learn anything and you didn't learn more, another person can just come along and take you right back to where you just finished healing from, OK? So when you're healing, it means something is wrong with you. It means you had a sickness or an illness or an injury. So what do people do when they play sports? They armor themselves. So you have to armor yourself with this information, All right? If you don't do it, you're going to keep repeating the cycle, OK? If you keep repeating the cycle, you're not doing anything. You're just going backwards, Okay. So make sure you understand that healing is not enough. You got to armor yourself with information on how to win or get what you want in this world. And we all, we all need to realize that people are going to do what they want to do. And if the sooner we realize that, the sooner we can get on board with that same mentality, I have a video. Somewhere called Why play fair in an unfair world? I'm going to repeat that Why play fair in an unfair? Speaker 5 World. Speaker 2 Only smart people understand this, OK? It's like playing. You're trying to win a game, but everyone that's playing around you is not playing fair. So how are you going to win? Even everyone else is not playing fair and you're sitting here with your rule book, your morals, your value, what's right, what's wrong, and you're trying to play against people who aren't even using any of those rules, any of those morals, any of those values. Speaker 3 But you. Speaker 2 Swear up and down. A lot of a lot of people swear up and down. They're going to win. I'm going to win. I'm going to win. No, you're not, because you're playing in an unfair world. So you ain't never going to win. That's why they say nice girls or nice people finished last because they can't win, because they're playing by the rules. In an unfair world, those rules are to trip you up to see how dumb you are before you stop using them, OK? And I'm trying to help. Y'all. I know pick Misha and them and Dusty and them still trying to play by the rules. Dusty ain't playing by no rules, but he, he's upset that we're not playing by the rules anymore. Pick Misha. She trying to play by the rules, which she ain't learning. And you don't play by the rules. You create your own rules and then you win. You win the life that you want. You win the outcome that you desire when doing anything, OK. This, this not just for relationship, this is for life. Period. And the reason why I'm telling you guys this is because some of y'all are stuck and y'all can't figure out why. Because you playing in an unfair world, that's why. Oh sorry y'all. So because you're playing in an unfair world, that's why you stuck. You can't figure out that you need to stop playing fair. So unfair armor knowledge. And this means doing what you need to do to get what you want. Now, I know there's a lot of people that are talking trash about how I got to my lifestyle, but I don't care because I've told the story hundreds of times and I did. You know, if if a man is going to lie to me and and say that he's not married, what am I supposed to do with that knowledge? You know, I'm going. Speaker 5 To go forward. Speaker 2 In my relationships and do what I need to do what's best for me in my future, in my future generations. Speaker 6 So. Speaker 2 If if you know if a lot of y'all's men are out there acting single, then that's their problem, not mine. I'm not playing at a fair world, neither are you and neither is he. So do what you got to do. And a lot of people don't have this mentality yet. This is why they haven't gotten where they needed to get in life, so. Now you can do whatever you choose to do. It's totally up to you. I don't, I don't think any less or more of you. I'm just saying I'm going to do what I need to do, and giving you this information allows you to have a choice and an understanding of why things aren't working out if you continue to play by rules. Speaker 4 So. Speaker 2 When you put your rules in place and your standards in place. Whoever enters into your life has to play by those. Speaker 4 Rules. Speaker 2 So now you're making the rules. There are no society rules. There are no society morals or standards. They are your standards and your rules that you have put upon your life. And anybody trying to enter into that life needs to abide up by those rules. Period. OK, You can't play fair in an unfair world. Done. So knowing this type of thing will keep you from continuously falling for the wrong man, falling for the lies being used, being hurt, etcetera, etcetera. It's not enough to heal, you need to armor yourself with knowledge, OK? And, you know, a lot of men are upset about that because they depend on the woman's ignorance and vulnerability and desperation to have a man tell them, you know, what they want to hear. But now that that's no longer, you know, happening because women have armed themselves with knowledge, they're upset because now everyone's playing unfair in an unfair world. That's why you see we're. Speaker 5 All the good women at we're all the good. Speaker 2 Wholesome women at well, when they keep playing in an unfair system, in an unfair world, they're not going to stay that way for long, especially when they start to see that it's not working for them. Okay. So that's where they all went. They went to go learn. They went to go get some extra info and they went to come back and claim what's theirs. Okay. And you know, I I saw a post somewhere and you know, a lot of these broke men, they're complaining and and a lot of people's comments talking about women who have baggage, debt, kids and all this kind of stuff are between the ages of 25 and up. Speaker 5 I don't know, no. Speaker 2 And so they're instructing these broke men to start dating under the age of 25 because they can have less debt and they can afford them. It's even in the comments I saw my own two eyes. The men are only dating women that are younger because they can afford them. So ladies, if you are 25 and under, remember. If the man is a lot older than you, then he's more likely to spend and and he doesn't think that you come with baggage or debt. So he's not going to be willing to spend more because he can't get the women his own age OK and groom them to want less. Exactly. So they're going to groom you and brainwash you to want less. Oh, that's not important. It's all about love, love, love. And they're going to have you living broke. They're going to get you pregnant. And then when you start to create baggage because they don't make enough money. So now you have to open up credit cards and go into debt and they can't afford to pay your debt and you got to go to work. Now that you're over 25 and you have children and you have debt and you have bills and you have more expensive, they're going to leave. Because the only reason they got with you in the 1st place is because you didn't have baggage and debt. So ladies, if you're meeting someone and they're slightly older than you, and you get pregnant by a man who doesn't make enough money to provide for you and your future generation, your future family, you don't get pregnant by them because they are only with you. Because you have less baggage because they can't afford your. Speaker 4 Baggage. Speaker 2 Now they will try to trap you by trying to get you pregnant without marrying you so that it's harder for you to get another man. And they will always have access to you for free because they're broke and the only thing they have to do is pay that child support on time. And literally that's it. So giving yourself away free. To an older man who can't afford your lifestyle in five years from now is the dumbest thing. Speaker 5 That you can do. Speaker 2 Especially without a reign, okay. So don't do it. It's not worth it. Armor yourself with that knowledge and you know. Speaker 4 If a much, much. Speaker 2 Older man is coming on to you and you know he has money. You know he has beyond enough for your baggage, your bills or whatever. That's a good thing. But when they're maybe like 5 to 10 years older than you, they don't. They can't afford your future baggage. So just remember that that's why you need to have more than one. Because when when you tie to that one, you go on to the next one and look, they're only choosing you. Because they can't afford anything else, just like you're only choosing them because nothing else better has presented itself to you. So y'all are both simply placeholders if you're dating a man that does not want to afford a child and a future with you. And you'd also need to be dating a man who can't afford a child in the future with you at the same time. Because when when that dude's wallet dries up, you got to be able to move on to the next. Just like if he finds a cheaper person and you're starting to cost too much, he's going to move on to the next cause he can't afford you. So y'all need to have options. Speaker 6 All right. Speaker 2 And if you want to get rid of a Dusty who's slightly older than you, tell him you got debt and bills he need to pay. He'll be out. Speaker 1 All right. Speaker 2 And literally, these guys are like crying. They're literally crying because they can't find a woman to accept them for who they are because they have no, you know, financial stability or they're they'll complain about a woman that they really like, but she needs them to pay for stuff. So that they can't really have the women that they like. So they have to go younger. And nothing against young women. I mean, I was a young woman and that dated an older man, but he was able to take my baggage. Okay. Now there are some men who will take your baggage. Speaker 4 You know. Speaker 5 Pick it up. Speaker 2 And carry it, do whatever they need to do, pay it off, everything. But there's some that won't. There's some people that some men will make you carry your own bags Okay, and you don't want those. Those are dusties so don't bother with no dusty okay. If you going, if you going to date one of those guys, date more than one so that you can get more. Speaker 5 Out of them. Speaker 2 Especially if you're young, you said Yeah, you got to date more. And don't get caught up and oh, I can only date one at a time, OK? Because even if you're just dating on the phone or talking to someone on the phone, doesn't matter, OK? Just make sure you have your options open or able to open them when necessary. That's it. And don't play fair in an unfair world, ever. Now, a lot of people, yes, I'm sorry, I'm sorry people. I'm sorry that y'all are mad at me, but I don't apologize. I know there's a lot of new people to the channel who maybe aren't commenting or, you know, making tik toks and stuff, trying to say that I'm giving a bad message, I'm giving an unfair message in an unfair world. So I'm sorry you don't understand that. The sooner you understand that, the better you'll understand what I'm doing. Speaker 4 All right. Speaker 2 If y'all take on that mentality, you're going to see a lot of improvement in your life, OK? You said leveling the playing field exactly. Level the playing field. What's so wrong with playing unfair when everyone else is? See, they think women are supposed to be these highly, you know, moral creatures that's supposed to do right and act like a door match and believe whatever comes out of your mouth as long as it's what you want to hear. But that's not true. It's not true. You just, you know, play the game the way everyone else is playing it. That's just it. Level the playing field. Now People are mad because they can't get your attention, your company. Or your goods at a cheap price anymore. Because you know what? Inflation. It's inflation everywhere. Food costs more, everything costs more, so that therefore you should cost more. Ladies, put your money up. If you don't, if you if you. If you are free to someone, you are disposable. If you're getting something out of that person, whatever it may be, as long as it's beneficial to you, great. But don't don't be disposable. And you know, if men weren't, you know, a lot of men will call you all these sort of names because you're not free. Do you understand that? So what would they call you? If you're free, they're going to call you a prostitute. If you ask them to pay bills, they're going to call you a whore. If you ask them for gifts and to spend money on you, they're going to call you a slut if you give it up for free. So either way, you're going to get called something. You might as well get called something with some money in your hand, all right? Because you're going to get called something regardless. So get paid, ladies, every time. And people say, oh, you're promoting sex work. No, I'm not. I'm promoting women to know their value and stop giving themselves away to undeserving men who don't have anything to provide for them, who can't benefit or add to them but only want to take. All right, so don't get mad. Just get your money up. That's all you got to do. All right? Just get your money up. Exactly. They're going to call you something. Get your money. They won't call you broke, all right? They're not going to call you broke. They call you everything else. Now, if you are in debt ladies, and you're looking for marriage and a husband and they do that credit check on you, you know This is why you need to start dating before you start looking for a husband and get that debt paid off. All right? Because you don't want to go into a marriage full of debt. Like if you have a lot of debt, girl, get some sugar data to pay that stuff off before you try to get married for real. All right, y'all need to start thinking strategic in this world. Dusties do the same thing. They go get pick Misha to pay their bills, then they go off to the next chick and pay her bills because they got good credit now. All right, so y'all got to be strategic and smart because y'all are getting played left and right and everyone's left and have picked me and Barbara to build her over here, You all. I mean, it's not, it's not nice to say, but it's just true. OK, y'all looking real silly right now, OK? Because y'all are doing everything backwards and wrong, giving everything away for free and playing fair in an unfair world and losing all the time. So a lot of people need to wise up. And start thinking and instead of oh I have to heal. I'm not finished healing yet. Put some damn armor on and shut up. Get your get your knowledge right. Get your mind right ma'am. Y'all get this book The wisdom of sheer 7 and y'all get a lot of armor for this one. Speaker 3 This is the. Speaker 4 Oral. Speaker 2 It's linked at the top with all my other books. Speaker 4 So. Speaker 2 Get your armor on. If you don't, you're going to be doing to repeat the same old cycles and have to keep healing and healing and healing instead of just putting the armor of knowledge and understanding. This is not a fair world you're going to get. Got Yeah, I I don't. I don't like the victimhood unless you're trying to get money and use it as a technique to get money. That's the only time I ever like a victim. Okay, if you are wallowing and what really happened to you because you were not wise enough to understand that you know the relationship was not. Speaker 5 What you thought it was? Speaker 2 Then you get mad at. I get mad at people who continue to repeat the same things. And then then they have to heal. Oh, I'm. I'm not healed yet. I'm not healed because you ain't never going to be healed until you arm her up. Okay. And by learning the information, a lot of things that happen to you in the relationship is going to start to make sense. And you're going to be able to see the the signs and the red flags coming from a mile away, you know, So you can nip it in the bud as soon as you see a red flag or one of the signs. Speaker 5 You're going to know. Speaker 2 Like most picnic most picnicians know, when that dude come up from behind you and you have to register and and start hugging on you, that means you paying. You know what? They can't be mad because they do it every day. Now y'all need to reverse that and be hooking on Sugar Daddy from behind. They're holding his hand while he pay for Y'all's shopping sprees and the dusty No, he can't do it. So he need to step out the way because he was never the target in the 1st place. Go on ahead and find pick Misha, put your arms around her waist and get your shoes Sir. And while we over here shopping and getting our stuff from a man that have money, don't be mad when you try to approach us and you can't do what he doing. Speaker 1 Don't be mad. Speaker 2 Okay and pick Misha and Barbara D Builder. Don't be mad that you married to Dusty and you. Have a joint bank account and he's spending your money on another woman. Don't be mad and trying to sue because you need to sue your man. There are some women that said, well, what if the wife sues the woman he's cheating with because she took her money because they have a joint account? Well then you need to take your name off that account ma'am, because your husband is not who you think he is. Even though you pay for his shoes and his lifestyle, he's going to pay for some other woman and he has access to yours. That's just going to be it. Okay. So you need to understand that you're trying to play fair in an unfair world, and you're going to get got every time. Okay, I promise you. All right, So. Oh, let me see you. I got a call. One of your targets told me I need to focus on getting into his heart instead of his wallet and into me. But still spins. He still spins. Well, that's fine. The more he invests in you, the closer you are getting to his heart. Speaker 5 All right. Speaker 2 Just keep saying thank you so much. I I I love how you treat me. OK, so men, you said. Why do men think they're the prize? Because pick mission them. Plus pick mission them. That's it. That's the only reason. If you were to walk down the street full of houses that pick Mission Barber, the builder lived in and they were single, you are a man. A decent looking man with no money. Do you know how many pick me shoes will run out in the front yard trying to get your attention, making you think you're the prize? This is why they think they're the prize, because all they hang around is pick me and Barbara the builder in them Okay and then they they see they go somewhere else and they see women aren't checking for them. And then like, hey, then they start treating that leveled up women. Speaker 3 Like. Speaker 2 Pigmentia in them and they get cut off and so they get mad and like I'm depressed. I don't know you. You heard wrong, Sir. You ain't the. Speaker 5 Prize you're only. Speaker 2 Depressed to pigmentia them? You ain't the prize to us, so it's because they're used to messing with pigmentia in them. All right, you need to remind them. Go go back to where you are. The prize, Sir, because you're not the prize over here and you're not even the target, Okay. So playing fair in an unfair world also definitely does mean getting paid if someone messes up. Like if your man messes up, that's why he got to pay or. If you if you feel like you can't stay in the relationship unless you even the score, then even the score okay, that makes more sense mentally then trying to deal with all of this crap and heal from it. Go armor yourself with knowledge and do what makes you feel better and then you can start the relationship over or get over it faster than you would have if you had just sucked it up and play fair in an unfair world. So. Thank you, Amanda. Sprinkle, sprinkle you should you should have been started. Start now. Sprinkle, sparkle. Start dating up for providers. Okay. So that's why they that's why they must pay to stay after they invest up all. Speaker 5 Right. Speaker 2 If you don't make them pay, they're going to keep hurting you, so you have to keep healing. Instead, armor yourself with this information and make them pay. And stop playing fair. In an unfair world. It's not your job to forgive. It's your job to collect money after they mess up. It's just like a fine. It's just like if you go out and run a red light and they take a picture and they send you your ticket, you pay, right? That's it. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Oh, the great goddess. Thank you. That's true. They only around pick. Misha and Barbara are not real women. And it shows. Exactly. Thank you, girls. Sprinkle, sprinkle. So make them pay. When they mess up, give them a ticket. We can give them a fine. All right. If they can't pay the fine, they got to go. All right, now sprinkle, sprinkle. And you know when does this try to bring down your self esteem? Don't pay attention to no man who who can't. Afford you OK, this is another thing. You don't pay attention to men's insults that cannot afford you. That's it. They're just simply trying to get your attention because they can't talk to you any other way. Only pigeishing them will be tapping on their shoulder and open their Dms. I'm a good woman. I ain't never cheated. I cook and clean every day. No, no lights under it. Nobody replied. But but but steady in here, trying to get our attention. Sir, go back to Pigmicia and them. They got a plate for you and a warm bed. Sprinkle, sprinkle. OK, y'all go over there. Go. That's where y'all belong, baby Pigmicia. And I'm looking for you. All right. Thank you, Melissa. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You know you ain't supposed to be out. You got a curfew with Pigmicia. Sir, you better go and get back home. Or maybe. Oh, you know what? Never mind. She at work you, right? You home alone. She at work on her second shift to take care of your dusty Butch anyway. And where is he? Why pick me? She's at work trying to pay his bills. And he'll with us. Why? Because he don't want her. Get your money up, Sir. All right, So armor yourself with information and understand why men try to get your attention. Because they can't get it in any other way. They too broke. How you keep patients while you transform yourself and rebuild yourself in your life. You ain't got no choice. That's how. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Because you ain't got no choice. Haste. Make weights. You try to hurry up and do it too fast. You going to fall off or not do it correctly, so you have no choice but to be patient. Speaker 5 Okay. Speaker 2 So why they call it leveling up? Because you go level by level by level by level till you get to the top. Alright, so be patient. That's all you can do. You have no choice. Take it one day at a time and you'll be alright. Everyone is saying I'm healing now. The nutrient will personally let them keep healing. They're going to keep getting injured. They don't get some armor and some knowledge. Sprinkle, Sprinkle. Speaker 5 The. Speaker 2 Wound going continue to get recut open and they're going to have to just say I'm healing as their status because they're going to constantly be healing if they don't ever. Speaker 5 Put on no armor. Speaker 2 OK, and that means armoring themselves with information. On how not to play fair in an unfair world. They got to heal forever. All right, you said be recovered. I don't really. Armor is the information that the world is unfair and women are trying to play fair in an unfair world. Don't play fair. Do exactly what you need to do to get to where you need to go. Period. There's a lot of people are are being brainwashed and gained. And expected to play fair when everyone else is not playing fair around them. So you need to go ahead and get on to the next OK Luna Luna Luna Lane sprinkle sprinkle. Why is it so difficult to make other female friends with this mindset? All friends were with their husbands for 10 years before married and go 5050. Because when you level up to this mindset, you have to make new friends who have the same mindset and it's not that common. Until you get into that level of people, until you move into those neighborhoods, until you move into those zip codes, okay, you're not going to find anyone unless you are living that lifestyle already. So I say get your level up, get your man, then get your friends who also have men that are also paid and not going 5050 right. Love you Been leveling up since watching How do I get wealthy cute men to start paying bills? How to make him want to provide if he doesn't want to provide already? If he's taking you on expensive dates, you should have been asking already or hinting and clueing that you need him to give you gifts or money. If not, he's only dating you for fun and not to provide. So you need to go ahead and start start. Start your stories up so he can start offering you money. Doesn't offer you money? Then you got to find another one that will. You can still date him, but you also need to be dating one that will just give you money at the same time your provider ex broke up with you and moved out, but it's still paying your bills. You've been seeing someone new and my ex is being jealous and possessive. What do I do? You don't tell him. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Say you broke up and let your ex keep paying the bills and you keep dating. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Well, I don't know why y'all be telling him. I wouldn't tell him nothing. All right. So try to keep it a secret, especially if they're paying. How do you know if he's dating to be serious? He's spending money. The more a man invests in you, this more serious he's getting. So he's spending money, that's how. All right. So make sure he's spinning that way, you know? See, it's up to us, ladies. We we let them know if the relationship is going to get serious or not by asking the right questions and having the right standards. If they want to be serious with you, they will meet your standards. Period. There's no other way around it. We know that they're serious when they meet our standards, and if your standards is for them to provide, then that's how you know. The girls on TikTok are upset your confession video has gone viral. They say you married a Dusty and are pick me show for James and his wife. I don't know. Well you know y'all can believe what you want it. It helps me out actually so people don't bother me. So you know I don't know whatever y'all choose to believe. I've been on here 10 years. That confession been out for probably five or six years or whoever. How many years Everybody know that on this channel. If they knew, I'm sorry. Ain't nobody know. Pick me show over here. If James didn't tell me he was married when I first met him, and he paid off my bills and paid off my car, paid off my credit cards and bought me a Mercedes, you think I'm going to give him back? Sprinkle, sprinkle. Plus he was legally separated. So, you know, when people read between the lines and work with little information, they make fools of themselves, you know? So I don't know what to tell you. I'm still. I'm still here. Being provided for after 22 years. All right, so whatever they want to believe. Yes, I was dating a married man who lied to me about his marriage status. Speaker 6 Oops. Speaker 2 I let him pay off all my stuff, thinking he was single. When I found out the truth, it was too late. I ain't going backwards. You don't go backwards in life. You don't play fair and unfair world. They were already. Speaker 5 Legally. Speaker 2 Separated, living in separate places. So I don't care. The only homeworker that I saw was James Okay. You got to leave your house to wreck it. So y'all need to be blamed and dreamed. They always try to blame the woman. They always try to blame the woman. You know why? Because they will never take responsibility for themselves and blame the man. They will always blame the one. This is why women can't be friends. This is why women have trust issues with each other. Because instead of blaming the person that is responsible for the home wreckage and the cheating and the separation, I didn't cause them to separate. That was someone else before me. I just came in when the money was good and I collected like a smart woman should sprinkle, sprinkle, all right? And I ain't mad. I don't apologize. I do what I do. I will continue to do it and teach y'all how to do it. And now you want to get it back. You going to listen to Pygmish or you going to listen to somebody that figured it out? OK, should I stay with a man who isn't a dusty, financial and career wise but is serial cheater and lighter? You could be one too sparkle or just don't sleep with them. You already know he's going to cheat. If you make him pay for every time he cheats he may cheat less. Or you may staff your bank account and be able to leave quicker. Which one you going to do? OK, you said internalized massaging. Exactly. Oh, she's a homeworker. OK, Are you sure I'm a homeworker? Did I file for legal separation? Did I cheat on my wife prior to even meeting of another woman? No, I didn't. Did I lie when I went out and said that I was single? No, I didn't. I did everything correct. No, but when you found out he was married, you should have let him go. What? Play fair in an unfair world, ma'am, Do you think a man would have done that? Speaker 3 Nope. Speaker 2 So why? How do you fall in love with yourself when you aren't happy with yourself? Become happy with yourself, Do things that make you happy, look the way you need to look, and continue to do it every day until you are happy. Only you can make you happy. That's it. So I don't care what they're saying on Tiktok over there. I've been told y'all 10 years. Speaker 5 5. Speaker 2 10 years ago, I owe me me sprinkle sprinkle because they wouldn't had a video to post if I hadn't. Speaker 6 Told y'all. Speaker 2 And sure, we trust we don't care about them. TikTok birds you over here to get this money. Throwing my morals out the window and all the way to the bank, OK, Sparks problem times. You got to pick Misha over there keeping all her morals and standards while her husband out there or her boyfriend out there spending her money on another woman. She playing fair in the unfair world. Speaker 5 And she go get a rude awakening. Speaker 2 And yes, I didn't know the other woman. He was already legally separated and had cheated on her with another woman before me. So what was I supposed to do? He was already gone. Send him back. Oh y'all need to make a y'all need to make it right. You need to pack all your stuff from your apartment or townhouse and move back into with your wife and make it right. I'm supposed to do that Or collect my money? Y'all are dumb. Like a lot of women are. Technicians are dumb. That's why they stay stuck. Pamper dusties. They may have 18 degrees, but they don't have common sense. The O matrix. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Your mother got 3 providers and everyone married her before giving her kids in a house. She endorses everything and says that she feels sorry for the young today. Because they are going to suffer because of the men are weird. Yeah, you got to you have to have thank you, girl. You got to have standards in an unfair world. All right. What things should you keep in mind while still young? You don't want to deal with Dusty's Okay. Everybody your age is dusty. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Don't ever pay on dates. That's number one. Don't. Don't ever pull your wallet out. If the man can't afford to take you out, then don't go out with them. Don't go all out on gifts. The man's gift is always supposed to be more expensive than yours. Always. Because they're trying to impress you. They will talk to you as if they love you in order to get into your pants and then be gone very soon if you don't make them work for it. When you choose to, you don't do that. You got to make them invest, work, beg. Do favors, do all kind of stuff. You know what I'm saying? In order to either get close. So don't give it up free, and don't give it up close to the time you first meet. Make sure you make them work hard for it. OK. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Thank you. Forget them. They're jealous instead of leveling up themselves. Yeah, we are. See how they look, baby. We see how they look. Springs work. Playing fair and unfair world don't get you nowhere and y'all know them. People be looking like who did it and why. Send out on Amazon wish list. Avoid time waster. Yeah, send it out. Rachel Spark and Sparkle. Yesterday you went to date a guy and he was creepy, complained about the restaurant he let me choose. He left to use the bathroom and I was scared but that he left. How to prevent this from having to stop meeting men online? Sparkle, Sparkle. Need veneers to level up and help your confidence save up. Get you a sugar daddy to pay for them or something. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Yeah, you find a sugar daddy to pay for. Speaker 5 Them or you do. Speaker 2 Pay for them yourself and find a sugar daddy to pay off the credit card that you use. I wouldn't really go into debt for that. Just find you an old man. They'll pay for whatever. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Alright. The older you go, the faster they'll pay you. Just to be in your presence, just to take you out, just in case you need something, just in case you need to to pay a bill or credit card bill. We will help you faster than a younger man, especially if they have money. Speaker 5 So. Speaker 2 Older man with money. He works parttime job, said that he doesn't have time, doesn't have to drive to find a new hustle. He's mental health. Been taking a toll on him after I told him he needs to start paying more than half. OK he working a part time. Speaker 6 Job. Speaker 2 Says he doesn't have to drive to find a new hustle. So you got a mentally ill dusty who don't want to work. So you know what to do. Sprinkle, sprinkle, Be out. I'm not taking no excuses, Okay. Look, you can't afford me. Then it's time for me to go. That way. You can work your little part time job, walk where you need to walk and get yourself together without me. Why? Because you ain't going to bring me down. Bring yourself down or go find somebody else who want to help you back up. And it ain't going to be me. Goodbye, Okay. Too many excuses and too much dust, ma'am. Got to go. That sound like the start of dusty horror movie. Speaker 1 It. Speaker 2 Sounded good, Sir. Tell him. Say I got to go. I'm mentally ill To staying here with you. Got to go. Bye. Y'all Can't y'all. Can't keep making excuses for these men. They're supposed to be grown men. Speaker 5 Grown men. Speaker 2 Who are supposed to be masculine and supposed to be, you know better than women. What? Speaker 5 Are you? What are y'all? Speaker 2 Doing making excuses for why they're not better than y'all, and still letting them claim it. That's dumb. Either you are or you're not. Speaker 4 Move along, Sir. Speaker 2 So you know, armoring yourself with knowledge of how to you know. Keep your standards high, not repeat the same patterns that you've been repeating. If you have been dating less than it's the most important thing, healing. You're just going to have to heal all over again every time if you keep dealing with dust, OK, so don't go from one dust to the next dust, OK If you need to be by yourself for a little while so that you can get some information so that you can go out and get it a real man. Who can provide then? That's what you need to do. Because a lot of y'all just going from dust to dust. Y'all as well be a funeral. From ashes to ashes and dust to dust. Y'all y'all burying y'all stills in that dust and wondering why y'all feel depressed. Because y'all doing ashes to ashes and dust to dust. You going from dust to dust. Y'all need to stop that old man. Don't like me though. Usually like 30s and 40s. Give me more than Well then. Get your money wherever you go, ma'am. They like you at those ages. Get your money. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Do what's best for you. That's all that matters. OK, hold on. Let me see. OK. Don't let these men and pick me. Women trick you into dating low. Do not fall for the okeydoke. You deserve to live freely. The moral police. Girls are driving themselves crazy trying to enforce morality in material world. Let them talk. They will be back, all torn down and used up. Forget them. They're jealous. OK? I'm trying to read some of these, OK? Daddy issues and mommy issues. Daddy and mommy didn't pay you enough attention or pay you enough money to let you live in abundance. Sprinkle, sprinkle. So you need to get it from another man. That's why Dusty's out here getting picked, Misha. And that's why women out here getting sugar daddies. Why? Because they weren't. Their Mama was picked Misha and their daddy might have been dusty or whoever. But at the same time, or they're just smart and don't want to date down and the only options around them are broke men with mommy issues or daddy issues. And so they just have to date older because the dating pool is is is filled with all that, you know, poverty mind out there. OK, so that's my take on it. Get your money. Either way. You don't have to stay and deal with those people. Get it. Get in and get out, OK? Okay, can we talk? Classy and Kip with Do what you got to do, baby. I don't know. Find a man who like it. If it works for you, it works for you. If it's not working, take it out and see if you can do better. Okay, do the experiment, go out with it and then don't go out with it. He works parttime job. Okay, I already read that one. The guy you're talking to booked a room spa and facials for me in a hotel. I'm scared he might ask for sex. How can I book a ask for 2:00 rooms. Stay on your period, Frank. Sprinkle I'm on my period. LA bring a giant maxi pad. All right. Put the box right on the on the counter as soon as you walk in if you if you trying to get 2. Speaker 5 Rooms I. Speaker 2 Mean he's not trying to get 2 rooms. Stick your maxi pad. Just get the Super absorbing kind of stick it right on the counter. Speaker 3 There you go. You good? Speaker 2 Old man don't like OKI already read that one. OK, thank you Rue. So I didn't see hope I got all the answers one of your targets told you need to focus on getting OKI already read that one. I think I read them all. OK, sorry. You're begging these women to stop the self pity and victimhood get. Go get cute. Y'all Grasp your destiny by the balls. It's so nauseating. Exactly. Yeah, y'all. Got to make sure that y'all are not doing the most and getting the least. OK? And a lot of picnicias are out here. What if I do the most? One day he'll do better and he'll do more for me. You going to wait? You're going to be waiting forever. OK. And then when he leave you, you going to be like, I didn't get anything in return. And then, you know, how do I get over him? You got you. You're not getting over him. You're getting over what he didn't do for you and all the stuff you did for him. Thank you. Spring sprangle with someone who is pitching a show and have met executives and big names in the industry. You've asked for things and he's hesitated. I'm now freestyling to meet men who can provide. I'm too young. Speaker 4 Good. Speaker 2 Good for you. Sprinkle sprangle. Just because they're rich or important don't mean they going to spend baby. All right. So go where they spend. That's that's the best thing I can tell you. Go where they spend. And don't settle down with anyone unless you know they can provide for you and your future. OK, so a lot of y'all are like, you know, Well, if you just sit and think, get in the room by yourself, get you a notebook and just sit and think on how you want to be treated, then you can create your standards and your morals. You can think of all the questions a man. Speaker 4 Or. Speaker 2 A way a man would try to get something from you before they're giving you anything and you can come up with a way to. Enforce your standards once again. If you're armed and prepared before you even start dating someone, you don't waste time. You let them know of you know what is needed to be done, and you can avoid wasting a lot more time if you armor yourself with, you know, being prepared to answer certain questions or to put your standards out there and things like that, you know correct. What if we went through sexual assault, healing, scared us to be feminine and dressed outside, bring a lot of attention for men. OK, Thank you. Sprinkle, sprinkle. OK, so first of all, if you've been sexually assaulted and you're afraid to look good then and you're trying to heal, think about this. No matter how ugly you look or how bad you look, you can still get sexually assaulted looking like who did it and why. All right? The better you look, and this is just my opinion, the better you look as a grown woman, the less likely you are to be taken advantage of because you're well put together, you have high self esteem and you look like you have high standards and so therefore you're not going to be a target, OK? Because they know you ain't going to play. There you go. So you you need to empower yourself with your adulthood and also. Stop thinking about the past and move into the future. What what type of future do you want? Do you want to continue to hide and not level up and let what happened to you in the past create the rest of your destiny? Or are you going to take control and, you know, woman up, level up and get your mind right and get this money or get the type of man you want? You got to figure it out. There's a lot of women. Well, you know, a lot of women will put that on hold. Secure a man who is a provider and then deal with it while they're being provided for. You know what I'm saying? After you get the bag, after you get a man, start dressing however you want. All right? After you get that ring, go back to dressing like you want to. Speaker 4 Dress. Speaker 2 If you're not finished, you know, feeling a certain way, we get the ring first, get the bag, get the ring, and then go back to doing whatever you need to do. The goal is to play unfair and an unfair world. Speaker 3 You. Speaker 2 Don't have to do it forever. You just need to do it to get the bag. All right. There are plenty of women that do that. There are plenty of lesbians out there that got a sugar daddy get in the bag and not and not even straight who have probably been assaulted and that's why they probably don't want men anymore. So do what you got to do, you know, stop playing fair and unfair world and get your money. So y'all got to, y'all got to remember something. Nobody cares what's happened to you, what's happened to them, what's happened to that person. Nobody cares. All they want is whatever you offer it or whatever you can give. And y'all think everyone cares and they don't. So you you stop caring as well and get what you need to get. Especially then, they don't really care. So just get what you got to get, baby. Thank you, Barry. Saw. Sparkle, sprinkle. I appreciate you. Is it OK for men to manipulate to get what they want? But once it's a woman, it's horrible. Stop caring about people's opinions and you will get nowhere. Exactly. Do what you got to do. Sparkle, Sprinkle. Thank you, Poppy. OK, you're living with a young provider who's only providing basics. I asked for more. He implied I can get a job. He tricked me into thinking he can provide at all. I don't want to go. To work. He is possessive and tracks me. Okay. Well then get you one on the side, baby. And if he tracks you, tell him you going to work. Tell him you got a job as an assistant or a nanny or a babysitter and go over your sugar daddy house. Spark sparkle. Dating a doctor for five years. He got engaged. Took me to the US not knowing he was married. You're here and realize he is married. Lady older. You're 27. We're hiding. Okay so you Are you able to get your green card if you're trying to get a green card. If not, he's using you. You better you better start seeing other people on the side sprinkle. Speaker 6 Sprinkle okay you. Speaker 2 Better keep your options over You better go start dating other American men. He's not helping you get a green card. If he is, great. If not, you need to demand it or you need to go find someone else. Okay. OK, you're welcome. Thank you for Sparkle. Sparkle, your son's father pays for everything we use to be 5050, but he complains much and turns me off. I have more needs. Should I start to make money behind the scenes or wait it out to see if he gets better? The best thing I can tell you is to start looking a lot better around the house and when you leave the house. And he's going to complain less because now he knows you can upgrade on him and so he may complain less. And if you do go get a job, you need to get a job where a lot of rich men are so that he can be insecure and want to take charge and get more money somehow you got you don't need to get a job, you need to start talking about where you're going to work. As far as ideas are concerned, well maybe I can work at main places where only rich man hang out. Mercedes dealership. You know, I can be, you know, where all the rich man go? Start putting out ideas like that. Or maybe I could go to school for massage therapy, start throwing out all the ideas that he is going to cringe at. He's going to level up because he don't want you out there rubbing on no man's back or trying to sell a man in a car with a ton of money who might think you're attractive and ask you out O. Speaker 6 K. Speaker 2 You better level up and show him that other men want you, but not in an obvious way. You know, because they get scared when you start talking about doing other stuff that they can't control or that they may have competition in. So they're going to figure it out if they want to keep you, all right? Sprinkle, sprinkle. How do you get your boyfriend to marry you as soon as possible? Be crazy and tell him that you need him to marry you as soon as possible and he won't. I don't understand why y'all want to rush into marriage so fast with a boyfriend. You don't even know this person. I don't know how long you've been with him, but if a man is not trying to marry you on his own, you're going to have a bad relationship. You know what I'm saying? If you're the one wanting to marry him, you like him too much and he don't like you enough. He should be the one wondering when he should ask you to marry him. If you're trying to rush a man into marriage, especially if he's in his 20s, don't ever pressure a young man to get married because all they're going to be like is I never wanted to marry you. I was forced into this. I don't even have those feelings for you. And then you're going to feel real dumb. So level up. Look beautiful all the time. Act like you don't even want marriage and when you leave the house, look super good. All right, sprinkle, sprinkle, he said. Lauren Sanchez didn't let Bezos wife stand in her way. Now she's engaged. Jeff Bezos don't play fair. Sprinkle from exactly. She can do it, but I can't. All right, sprinkle, sprinkle. And she probably knew he was married. I didn't know. So I'm more, you know, I'm more innocent of that aspect. Oh, thank you. Your favorite cooks. Sprinkles. Sprinkles. Thank you, girl. So, you know, don't don't judge people because they got the bag. Don't judge people because they did what they have to do to get what they wanted in this world. Don't judge. If you can't do it, you can't do it. You don't want to do it because you scared. Then you scared. Period. Either stop complaining or get out the way. And in this in this cruel and unfair world, you got to play unfair. Period. Thanks you. Are you talking marriage? I'm gonna say no. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Just say ask him what So will I have to work? Ask. Put your standards out there, you know? I'm not working after I get married. What does it mean when he takes you to unromantic dates like baseball? That means he's what are the sounds that girl? I wouldn't even go to those places with him unless I'm trying to meet other men. Sprinkle, sprinkle. He's only dating for him, not you. He doesn't care about what makes you happy, so he's going to be selfish most of the relationship and do things that only he wants to do. Therefore, when you go to the places. You'll meet other men, girl. So you going to the bathroom. Make your way up to the box seats section. Go walk around where all the good seats are. Okay, peachy Bay. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Your ex was a rich man who reminded me how pretty I am. But he could have anyone he wanted. I couldn't stand the ego. How do you humble a rich man? By having another one on the side. Bam, sprinkle, sprinkle without him finding out. Then you won't really care because it'll be your own little inside joke, alright? Like if he has the ego, it'll just be your little inside joke. OK, you got an ego, but I got another one. Tips for women over 35, no kids. Same thing as I tell everybody else. Get your money. Date older men who have more money. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Thank you. Unrelated, but my sister always did. I say no unrelated question. If your sister always trying to date your boyfriend, stop bringing her around. Sprinkle, sprinkle is that simple Or find it ugly when she don't want. Make sure you got money though. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Men want. You to play fair because they can't get you for free. Exactly. Thank you, Queen. She or my provider husband is upgrading our home to larger home and recently bought me a new car. Ladies never settle. Providers are out there. Yes, thank you. Girl Sprinkle they are. He can't give new in state Texas, but he provides, huh? I don't know what that means. But you know what? Just keep getting his money. Thank you, Ariana. Sprinkle, sprinkle. OK, so definitely make sure that you're not settling for less lowering your standards because of Pygnia and M Play and stop healing all the time and start armoring yourself with information instead of being looking like you know. Speaker 5 Google the. Speaker 2 Fool out here and because a lot of these women, OK, let me tell y'all something, there are leveled up women who have done the exact same thing that I've done. The same thing as, you know, Jeff Bezos's fiance and they will continue to do. Speaker 3 It. Speaker 2 The only people that play fair in an unfair world are ignorant people. And I'm telling you this, I promise you this. Think about any person you know that has gotten to where they want to get in life. Think about it. Do they play fair to get there? Probably not. OK. And a lot of people are sitting here expecting you to be the dumb fool and play fair in an unfair world. That just shows your ignorance. Because once you get knocked down and treated like a doormat a few times and you keep doing the same thing over and over, it's then called insanity. And that's why some of these people don't go anywhere, because they keep going in the same cycle. Speaker 1 Because they. Speaker 2 Still trying to play fair in an unfair world? Which is stupid? Okay, you have most. We guy friends, can I go out with them to find other man tips? Never go out with another man to find another man unless he's gay and then you know, because then he's going to be like, oh, he's gay. Or attract him and go out by yourself. Ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. And let's not forget the future. Miss Besos is 40 plus years old single mother and the only limitations are the ones you believe in sprinkle. Speaker 4 Sprinkle. That's right. Speaker 2 You know Broke man will tell you anything. To humble you and get you to lower your standards. So be careful who you're listening to. Pick Misha will tell you anything so that you don't surpass her and her 18 degrees. You know, with your bank account. You're 29 dated 61 year old man six weeks. Claimed he paid rent. Tried to get trip me into sex before he provided. I told him take care today. Too soon. Classiest way to ensure no girl get your money first. Spark sparkle Money first babe. Pay this rent. I I can't concentrate if my rent is not paid. Sorry. That ain't going to happen so you know. You probably just avoided the scam. Good for you. All right. I love how you talk of the Internet, but you remain classy and never speak ill of anyone back. Oh, the talk of the Internet. Oh, sparkle, sparkle. Because I don't know who they are, But thank you, Jada. Like I don't know them enough to to talk back to them. And I was taught not to talk to people that can't benefit you. OK, so I don't want to waste my breath. What does it mean when you find an e-mail of your fiance asking another woman he never met in person to marry him? It means your fiance has other women that he's trying to sleep with. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right. Because why would you ask someone to marry you? Unless that's his old girlfriend and he is weighing his options, or unless that's a new person he's trying to sleep with because they want marriage. All right, it means you might be getting a new car soon if he has the money and you present him this information. It's smart. Speaker 3 All right. Speaker 2 That way he has to pay for you. To forgive him. Get your money. Should you force a man to Take Me Out instead of just chilling girl, I'm not forcing no man to do nothing for me unless you know, if I know that they can do it, they can do it. But I'm not forcing no man to do nothing. That makes you very masculine. And pick leash. Go out with another man if you can't get him out the couch. Okay. Say you're going to the grocery store. Say you're going over to your mama's house. Get dressed and go out with another man. Okay. The reason I'm telling you guys this is because y'all are sitting here begging the men who don't want to do nothing for you and you're still trying to play fair in an unfair world. You want to go out. You want to go out somewhere nice? Give him a couple of chances. If he if he continues to say no, then go out by yourself and meet someone else, all right? Because you tried to tell him He ain't listening. Your friend accidentally ran a guy over and his face went from ugly. There's okay. You saw it. It was two leveled up women that hit him, he implied limped away, smiling. Oh, you mean like hit him? Yeah, they like being punished. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Yeah. You don't force the man to take you out. You, you you give them two chances. If they keep saying no, give them one more chance, they say no again, you go out by yourself. Sparkle, sparkle. Because you're going to be sitting there begging forever. You don't want to spend no money on you. You don't want to spend no money on you. Go find someone who does, All right? So a lot of a lot of women don't realize that they're the one pursuing their man, and they then they wonder why their man don't want them. Because they. They never wanted them in the 1st place. OK, so stop doing that. Stop trying to force a man to do something and go get a man who does want to do things for you. OKI need a super sticker that says spark Spark. Thank you girl. That's true. So you know, y'all it's enough with the healing. It's time. It's time to get your bag. It's time to get the life you want. It's time to get out of survival mode and healing mode. I mean, how long y'all going to stay there, get your get what you want in this world and stop trying to play fair and. Speaker 5 Heal and do what's? Speaker 2 Right. And make sure this and y'all are too y'all are too nice. That's why people target you. People target nice women all the time. Because y'all don't learn. Stop being nice. Why do men? They seem to like pain. They treat you better because they know they deserve it. Subconsciously they know they deserve it. Sprinkle, sprinkle. So you got to bring the pain and the standards and make them work for what they want. Okay y'all have to get this in your mind. They already know they doing wrong. They waiting on you to punish them. They're waiting on you to make them meet your standards. They're waiting on you to make them work for you. The only people that are unaware of this are the pigmishes and the women I hear that are being too nice and not understanding this. Taking your advice, buying new clothes, getting nails done and freestyle. This week I've had men watch to provide for me, but I was dummy. Now I'm on top. All right. Spark Sparkle. Yes, thank you. So, yeah, we got to make sure and don't. If you're trying to get money from a man and you are acting too smart, they're going to, they're going to peep that. So you need to play the game strategically. Okay, you need to play the game strategically. And that that just means being your normal self but still keeping your standards. You can still be nice, but you still need to have standards that can't be taken down. Like if someone subtly insults you, you already know they're trying to play a game. Because if you ask someone out on a date and you're interested in it and you're trying to get in bed with him, why would you insult them in the 1st place #1, If a man is insulting you, he's trying to bring you down a peg or two and lower your standards and try to make you chase. Therefore, whatever he told you, simply just take it as a compliment and and flip it around. Like flip the script on it. That way it'll backfire on him Okay. You assume you make it more than your boyfriend would. You tell him to get a better job? Sprinkle, sprinkle. They started. Thank you. I'm telling him you need to level up. Unless he wants you to pass him by. They started dating the person they cheated on me with after I left, I feel stuck. It's been a year. I keep thinking of the betrayal. How do you How do I feel? Girl, all men cheat. I told you all that in the beginning. The best thing you can do is go get one that makes more money than him. And move along. Okay, sprinkle, sprinkle. That's how you heal. You understand? All men cheat. So go find one with the money and always have two. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Have a backup or have your options open. That's it. Don't play fair and unfair. Well, oh, Jada, sprinkle, sprinkle. Your boyfriend is wealthy and we live together and you're newly pregnant. I don't know if he wants the baby, Okay. Well, he's wealthy. He wants the baby. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Your man told me not to cut him any slack because he's in jail, so he's been paying bills for two years. But I feel bad because I want more in life than the basics. So then if he in jail, baby, you can be dating other people. Sprinkle, sprinkle. OK, that only makes sense to me. I know that's common sense. So. I think y'all know the answers to these pushes already, so get y'all's money. A lot of women are like, you know, they're too. I can't even explain it. It's like y'all have been taken and somebody just cut y'all's common sense right outside of y'all's head and brainwashed you to be a doormat and like, y'all are so afraid to stand up. And play unfair and unfair world. You fear being judged. You fear what society is going to think of you, What this person is going to think of you. Who cares what they think of you? It don't matter. Do what you want. Okay. All right, so I'll answer that question. Y'all are too nice and care what people think too much and you keep playing fair and unfair world. And do you do y'all know? This is why men think women are Dumber and less intelligent than they are? Because it's too easy to fool women. It's so easy to fool women if you know what you're doing. This is why a lot of them say women are dumb. Speaker 5 They don't know anything. Speaker 1 Because. Speaker 2 It seems that y'all keep doing the same thing over and over in a circle, thinking things are going to get better instead of leveling up and getting this information and doing what you need to do. Oh, your husband is working every day and all evening, so there's no one to help raise the kids. Going back to work is stressed. Staying at home is stressed. Where you alone with your kids were babies. What did I do? I only had two. Two kids, so. I was at home alone. It was very easy. I just stayed home and do whatever I wanted. Two. I only had two. So who's done that? It wasn't stressful for me because I didn't stress out. I didn't do, I didn't overwork, I didn't do too much. So others, they were clean and fed and you know, healthy. That's all that really mattered. I'm not trying to cook clean. Make dinner for no man who ain't helping me. I'm not trying to do all that. He can order pizza, okay. He can hire some maids. Take the kids are the priorities. So if you have new kids or new babies, just take care of the babies. He can cook it clean when you get home. Sparkle, sparkle, all right. Or he can hire you a maid or a nanny or or cook. Either way, don't overburden yourself. Be a mother and that's it. Don't be a mother maid. The laundromat and etcetera. Okay okay. If he can't afford for you to have less stress, then he can't reap the benefits of it. Speaker 3 There you go. Speaker 2 Because I wouldn't like. Oh, you didn't do the laundry. Nope. I sure didn't. I I'm taking care of these kids. Oh, you didn't cook nut and show, Didn't you can order pizza. Oh, you didn't clean the house. No, I didn't. You would. Speaker 1 Go to vacuum. Speaker 2 All right, that's it. So don't overwork yourself. Relax. OK, So OK, And another thing, Just because a woman is older than me or look older than me, because a lot of these women out here do, don't. They're trying to give advice and and and down me for what I did and don't care about. They're actually probably younger than me, some of them. So you know, you got to understand it doesn't matter how you get it as long as you get it, if that's what you want, OK? You have people out here every day doing what it takes to get to where they need to go. You got people out here sacrificing, not eating. You got people out here lying. You got people out here, you know, lying on resumes. You know, doing this, doing that. It's okay to do it there. It's okay to cheat everywhere else. But when it comes to the woman getting what she wants in life, oh, it's not okay. Take the man's side, because this is how you know that they are Barber to builder and pick macia. They're all been brainwashed by men. And you can see that and they're thinking. So if y'all want to listen to Barbara, to Builder in them and pick me from them, you know you're going to just not be able to get what you want in this world. Because let's say you met a man and he, he did all that stuff for you. Then you find out he's married, but he's separated and all this kind of stuff, you going to leave him and start all over with somebody else who could also be lying to you about being married and starting all over again. You going to start over 20 times. You might as well just collect the bag and play fair in a play. Unfair in a unfair world, I am, or else you're going to be looking stupid. Okay, that is my advice. So stop taking advice from Pigmy Shaneal unless you want to end up like Pigmy Shaneal. So yeah, I see it. Don't care. You said not Barber to feel it. Yeah, you said Alicia Keys stole Swiss Beats and she looked like a good girl. People steal what they want, and you can't steal a man. A man got to be stolen. A man got to make himself available to you in order to steal them. You know what I'm saying? A woman don't steal husbands. Let me tell y'all. Women don't steal husbands. Husbands cheat on wives, period. Y'all have been trained to think women steal husbands who you think, who like it takes a husband to cheat. They're the ones that's married. They can say yes or no, period. They probably are the ones that are coming on to the single women 99% of the time. So therefore, stop blaming the woman. A man saw what he wanted and he went after it even though he was married. Period. Stop getting mad. That's why I tell y'all. Don't be mad at the woman. Be mad at the man. He is the one that decided to break up the marriage when he went out and she teach OK. Therefore no woman stole your husband. No woman stole anybody's husband. Want a husband? Got to want to be. Out there first of. Speaker 4 All. Speaker 2 OK, he the one that took vows. He the one that gets the ring. He the one that's supposed to be with another person forever. So he's the one to blame. OK, so y'all need to stop that pigmish. And now stop worrying about what you know, blaming a woman when it's literally the man's fault. Well, you knew he was married, OK? And he knew he was married before I knew he was married. So why are you still trying to blame the woman? It's dumb. That's how I know you're a Pignitia. That's how I know people. Women are Pignitias. When they say, well, they try to continuously blame the woman. You know what, Pignitias continuously blame the woman because they can't control what they man do, Okay, That's why. Even though they'd be paying half the bills, cooking and cleaning and washing dirty drawers. They don't think that the man is out there doing wrong because, oh, I take care of him. I do everything I'm supposed to do. You must have stole him. No, ma'am. You're just his mother or his Barber, the builder. And he's out here trying to find a woman that makes him feel like a man. And if that's what it is, it's not my fault. Baby, stop paying for him. I old sprinkle, sprinkle. Thank you. And stop paying for him stealing a man who ventured out misplaced anger. Exactly. So y'all need, y'all need to like really look at these people and and psychologically analyze why they're blaming the woman. What if a dust? What if it's a Dusty husband? Then he's probably spending the woman's money because ain't nobody going to mess with no dusty for free anyway. Sprinkle, sprinkle. If you mess with a dusty for free, you need to send him back to his wife. Tell him don't come back unless he got some money. All right, so. Or what if you married a dusty? What if it's a dusty husband? Then get you a sugar daddy on the side, ma'am. All right, Why should you stay faithful to a man who can't provide? It doesn't make any sense. You said Marjorie did it. And got her back. Steve was married for years while dating Marjorie. He divorced his wife from Marjorie. And they're happy. Exactly. Y'all can't be mad at these. Y'all can't be mad at the women. The women just have standards. If the man steps out of his house and meets the woman's standard and she and she take them, she take them. And it's not really taking. If he's trying to meet her standards, He's trying to get in there. All right, so I'll just take a second look. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Oh, thank you. Appreciate you. You said you had a married man trying to take you shopping and pay off your student loans. Wonderful. So you know, you know why these issues are threatened or upset? Because they they feel like if they ever get married, they're going to be cheated on. And I already told them they were. I already told all of y'all. Pick me. Sure or not. Eventually. If you are married for a long, long long long time, eventually somebody going to cheat. Okay. Eventually. Alright, alright. So you know. Stop. Stop listening to women who who are misplacing their anger. Literally, he said. Yes, he will cheat exactly if somebody give him the opportunity for free or for a little bit of money or if he's if he is attracted to someone and don't think you'll find out or you pregnant or you're old and. Are you on vacation or something? You know the opportunities present themselves so you know a lot of men will take them if they don't think you'll find out. Hello Summer. Kiki. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You have a boosted yourself worth and self-confidence since I've been watching you. Thanks for all that you do. Thank you Slammer, sprinkle, sprinkle. Appreciate you. So let me go back to the excuse me. Okay, you were dealing with a guy on and off for eight months. Found out he had a wife and side chick. He was spending money on the side chick and not me. I broke my self esteem. What do I do? You should have had two ma'am. Go get another one now and get your money. Sprinkle, sprinkle. The best way to boost your self esteem is to get right back out there and boost it back up by another man spending on you. All right. And know the game and play it and don't play there. All right? Stealing a man who ventures out misplaced anger? What? Okay. Here we read that Thank you, Okay. Does your advice work for gay men? Any situation specific advice? Stay the prize if you're you know if that's what you feel that you are. Can definitely keep your Standard Time and have options and date more than one. That's the same thing, literally the same thing. So I don't know about the marriage part of it, but you know, it's the same. It's the same. I mean, if somebody stepping out on their significant other or spouse, they stepping out don't play fair in an unfair world. You don't know if a man's married. I'm getting his coins. You don't care, Okay. That's great. Thank you, Tony. Thank you, Poppy. What if the woman's only source of money is the man won't be fully controlling girl. That's why I say start a business while he's earning money and paying for everything. Get online. Start a business. Start a service. Do something to earn your money at home. Take his money, put it in your account, a separate account, and stack your money that way. You got your own. When you go to the grocery store, get cash back and stack. OK, y'all got to be smart. If you can't do that, he controls all the money. Then you need to have another man or ship your daddy on the side. OK, but you need to find a way to get money from using his money. If you can't do that, make sure you have money before you enter into the relationship in a separate account that is your own. Sprinkle, sprinkle or have somebody put some money in an account for you. So that you can do whatever you want, right? Because a lot of women, they don't think about that kind of stuff. Like they think a man is going to be good and perfect and not do anything wrong. You need to go into the relationship with strategy, period. OK, what if you don't act right? What if he does this? What if he stops giving me money? What if he stops paying bills? I need to have another one on the side potential, other one on the side. Options open, still look good and money in a separate bank account. You need to be a strategy. You know you need to have a strategy when it comes to dating, all right? If you don't, you're going to be looking stupid. So be smart. Ever since I stopped caring about karma, it's been exactly sprinkle, sprinkle. Karma is a joke, and it's a trick to keep you not doing what you want, all right? Speaker 3 There you go. Speaker 2 Do what you want. How do I get this sister to his sister to move out of my house? It's your house, baby. She's a freeloader trying to live off me, and she tries to plot against me with his baby mother. OK, kick her out. Tell her she got to go. That's what I would do. I'd be like, you know what? Or give her some jobs. Make her into the maid. She ain't doing no work. She got to go then she'll act right quick. You just need to have a talk with her. Look, this is my house. You've been here too long. Either you going to cook clean and squid floors, whatever you need to do to earn your key or you got to go. You got two weeks You go to let her Goodbye. If she's receiving mail there, she got 30 days. Speaker 3 Goodbye. Speaker 2 Alright, tell her to go live with the baby Mama. Alright, sprinkle, sprinkle. You're 25, no education, no experience, overweight and got out of a bad family issue. You're starting your life over again, but you're stuck on how I should go about it and where to start so dissatisfied. OK, first of all, if that were me when I was 25, I would get my look together first because that the world is material and visual. OKI will get my looks together first. That means I would try to put makeup on, do my hair look as good as I can, look OK? Because then that's when opportunities start to present themselves and people start to treat you nicer. The better you look, the better you feel as well, which will boost your confidence level in order to go and find a place to work. If you need employment or to start dating, OK, or to start taking better care of yourself. But you need to level up your looks first. Because if it's not already inside of you, you need to start on the outside and work your way in. OK? So start looking better and feeling better about yourself and then go from there, OK? Get your looks up first, because that's going to help you get in the door anywhere you got bad family issues. Then don't hang around and family don't want. All right? Be alone for a while and get yourself together because all you got is you. Until you find somebody else that's going to help you out and still you know, make sure you are able to care for yourself in case something else happens. So yeah, you got to make sure that you know, healing and getting knowledge about how to never repeat something, to stop caring about something to move on. You're playing, You're playing fair in an unfair world. The world are about lots of things, looks. Intelligence. Whether somebody can play this game or not, or whether somebody can see someone trying to play them or not. The world does not wait for the world. Don't wait for you. You create the life you want. So either you make a decision, get up and go do it, or you stay and. Speaker 1 Be a victim. It's. It's. Speaker 2 Literally just a choice. You ain't got to. You don't have to do anything. But when you choose to do something, go and do it with no excuses, you know? If you take a guy back who was toxic with girlfriend and he says he's changed but doesn't change and makes attempts to go on dates, then what? Charge him Money, ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. He's going to waste time. Then he need to waste money on you, so go to shopping dates. Send him your Amazon wish list. So make him pay to be there. If he hasn't changed, OK? Don't let him waste your time. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Why does he talk about other girls and his ex? Ex. Because he knows it gets to you. Okay. Ignore it. Say, Oh well, why don't you stay with her? She sounds like a nice person. Start talking about your ex, ma'am. And lie, lie, lie. Well, my ex did. This is an app. Let's see what his face do. My ex pay for everything. My ex pay for this, My ex pay for that, My ex paid my car off. Lie and see how stupid he's going to look. He'll be talking about his ex-girlfriend looking crazy compared to your ex. Okay. They're just trying to lower your self esteem ma'am, so that they can get to you. So you whatever, whatever they're trying to do to get to you, you need to double the cost just for insulting you like that. Speaker 4 Spring sprinkle so. Speaker 2 They. They paying bills for one month. Make a pay for two months, three months or double the bills that you have now. So whatever the cost of your bills are now, if he's not paying them and you he trying to get some and you say OK, you got to pay these bills, double the cost of the bills but make a pay for it. Don't let, don't let people get away with stuff free anymore because they they take your kindness for weakness. And if you do it in an innocent way, they'll never know. But you'll know. So get your plan in your room. And that's the and most important thing. As long as you know you're okay with it because you're being compensated, you say a rest in peace to your nice. You're too nice people pleasing pygmy ways. That version has been dead for almost 2 years now. Self love and the best is the best love. Exactly. Frankel Sparkle, thank you for your message. Thank you. I appreciate your so yeah nice finish last. Your boyfriend pay all the bills and take care of me. And I'm a new stay at home mom but getting tired of being in the house. Any suggestion? Take your baby, go to the mall, take your baby to, you know, have fun. Go walk through the park, you're free. Go to eat lunch. Go get your nails done or go to the gym. They got little nurseries at the gym. Go busy yourself, OK, y'all don't know what to do when y'all are free. Go work on yourself. Go have fun. Go, take, go, go eat lunch. All right. Get you if your man. If you don't have a car, you need to get a car. Somebody said no car. Get a car. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Make him buy you a car if you're dating someone, so get your money and have fun and be free. Best way to ask for money? You got to work up to that when you start texting him, especially if he's not. Super ugly or super old. So you got to start working on your lie through your texts and then when you get on the date, he's going to ask you about what happened. You like, oh, I still haven't figured it out yet. I'm just, you know, I'm a little stressed, but I'm going to work on it. Whatever your issue is, you, whatever your damsel and distress issue is that he can save you from financially. Start texting about it before you even meet okay. But don't say it's a problem, Just say it's something that you're concerned about or worried about, you know? And I sit on all my videos. Just go watch every video for two weeks before this. And I answer that question every time girl made a tick. Tock, you are balled out for the million a gazillion time. I'm not making a tick. Tock, sprinkle, sprinkle. Thank you, though. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right, there you go. Just stop asking me about the damn TikTok. If I'm on TikTok already, why do I need to get on it? I know you can get paid over there, but you can't get paid a lot. I'm not wasting my time. I'll get paid over here. Okay, everybody already posted me bringing me over here. I'm a very appreciative of it, but I'm not getting on TikTok. It's a waste of my time because it's not enough for me. Occur. And plus all those picnicians and dusties over there, I ain't got time for that. Like, literally all right. Any tips on getting him to pull the trigger? The big money gifts make him feel guilty about something. Be sad that you can't have it, talk about it until he gets it. Continuously talk about it, bringing it up in every conversation, noticing that gift that if other people have it. Continuously speak on it. Continuously have it the picture on your phone. Continuously read about it. Continuously research it in his presence until he break down and give it to you. Speaker 5 OK. Speaker 2 Make it so annoying that he just going to get it to shut you up eventually, but like when I want something I keep talking about it. Either it's coming through the law of attraction or it's coming through somebody tired of hearing about it. Either way, it's coming. All right. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Is there any way we can talk to you privately? Yeah, go to my Patreon group. It's in the description bar. First link in the description bar, and you can message me on there. Sprinkle, sprinkle. I don't do talking like I don't talk on the phone with people. I don't do consultations. But you could definitely ask me a question and I'll. And I'll write you back on the Patreon. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Let's see, you said. Are all men the same no matter what the age, the fame, the money, the status, the job. I feel like it doesn't matter if all men are the same. What are your standards and can they meet them? It's all that matters. Are they going to be able to meet your standards? What do you want? Do you want a man to be faithful? And you got to find a man that okay here. If y'all trying to if y'all trying to talk about faithfulness, y'all need to find a man who is embarrassed to cheat, all right? I mean, he got to have a little pee, pee or something wrong with him, all right? Or can't do nothing. If that's you want a man who don't cheat, you got to find one like that. Okay, sprinkle, sprinkle. And still, it's not a guarantee. It's still not a guarantee, but your chances are less. All right, Lynn. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You're dating a guy who only wants to force time to communicate. Oh, he only wants to FaceTime to communicate, He said. It helps establish a bond and connection. How would you respond? My phone is broke. Buy me another one. Sprinkle, Sprinkle. You going to pay for this FaceTime? I'm going to upgrade on you if I'm FaceTime. I'm only FaceTime from the finest phone with the best plans and you paying for it. How about that? Or just don't answer it, Say I can't talk to you right now. I'm with my mother. She went from okay. Thank you. Sprinkle, sprinkle, girl. I appreciate you. All right, so you said a cheating man really depends on his morality. Nope. They need to rewire the brain and understand that dating game ain't no fairy tale. And they need to boss up and be realistic. Exactly. Stop playing. Stop playing. Y'all. Okay. I think somebody sent me some cash apps. Thank you, Jay. Thank you Samasha and Nikita and Archie. Sprinkle, sprinkle, okay everybody who cash up and thank you. So we were talking about stop healing and arm yourself with knowledge on this game. You know, so many women are walking around being nice, being doormats, healing only to be. Broken and hurt again by another dusty or another man because they didn't armor themselves with information and apply it. You know you can get the knowledge, but if you don't apply it, it's not going to work. Okay. So no more 5050, no more Barber the building. And remember, if it's not beneficial, you don't need to be there. Period. You honestly don't care about fidelity. Where the coin exactly. Sparkle, sparkle and see when these men realize that you don't care about that anymore. You just want the money. You you don't even want them to be decent or moral anymore. You just want their money because they're mad because you don't think that they can be decent and moral anymore. So you just really took that option away. You really just said I don't even care if you're decent and moral anymore, Sir. I don't depend on that for my happiness and my wellbeing. What I want is your money, because that's a better bet. Than your morality and your ability to stay faithful. So just give me the money. That's exactly what women are thinking. Because they don't want. Thank you, girl Sparkle Spring. Thank you, Mark. Women don't want to even deal with that anymore, you know. They don't even want to deal with whether you're going to be faithful or not. They don't care at this point. So either give them the money or move along and. When this happens, when we get to this point in the dating game and men are upset because they don't even care, women don't even care anymore if you cheat, as long as you just make sure that they have what they want in life and pay their bills and stuff like that. It literally makes them feel like the doormat at this point. And the ATM because you don't even consider them a moral human being. That means you don't even care about them enough to make them not want. To make them not want to discuss being faithful and whatever, Because you don't even expect them to be. Because you've learned and you've armored yourself with enough information and knowledge and wisdom to understand that even if they do or they don't, you still need to benefit from this. Okay ladies, remember. These dusty men are not entitled to your body. They have no claim to your private parts. If they're doing the least for you, then stop giving out to charity. They want it more anyway. Sprinkle, sprinkle gas. That's why they hate sex workers. They can't run game. Exactly. Do you wear it out? Speaker 4 So. Speaker 2 How to deal with a man who has social difficulties, difficulties, but won't what? Admit to it. This is why he isn't doing well. Getting a job? Then tell him to work from home or move on, ma'am. Like I'm not. Stop trying to fix them. Stop trying to fix them. That's not your job, ma'am. Unless he's paying you to fix him. Move along. You know too many women want to be mothers to grown men. Stop. He can't figure out his own life and his own problems. Speaker 5 Move along. Speaker 2 Thank you, Taylor. Sprinkle, sprinkle. How much does it cost to get a blowjob? I don't know. Ashley Obama. Sprinkle, sprinkle. She might know better. He says he hates being nagged. When then withhold a gift. If I do nag him about it and gas like me and says I don't want. To do it now, I enact him. Speaker 4 Thoughts. Speaker 2 OK, go come home with a gift and say somebody else got it for you. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right. Or tell him you go on grocery shopping, you go make his favorite meal and take some cash out and go get the gift. Ma'am, sprinkle, sprinkle. Your ex from when I was 19 is making money now. And still hits me up on tips on how to milk him. Yeah, tell him he should come take you out so you can come Take Me Out. Like ask friends and don't get emotionally attached. Just see how much money you can get out of him. Make it a game. Get him emotionally attached to you, not the other way around. So act like you don't even want to know him. Do you recommend losing the weight before? No, I recommend dating now. And losing weight while you're dating and playing the field? OK, Because that way you're going to be more motivated to do so. Sprinkle. All right, I missed your super chat. Oh, my goodness. Hold on. Let me see. With that one. With that one. That one. Thank you, Em. Sprinkle, sparkle With that one. With that one. With that one. With that 120 year old quoted you today. And I'm proud mother. And you're one proud mother. Oh, sprinkle, sprinkle. Preach. Stop trying to fix them. The prize is not the couch or the coach, right? You're 23, gay business student, dating older men. How do I give the extra push to make him spend on more than just dinner and drinks? I know how to plant the seed. I just need the fertilizer. Well, when you go to dinner and drinks, make sure it's in a shopping center or a mall while it's still open so you can drag them over there. And maybe compliment their outfit, but then suggest like, OK, well, you would look so much better if you wore this type of shirt here. Let's go over here and da RA RA, you know what I'm saying? So tell them that they, they, they look good, but you know, they look better in this color or this type of cut or and maybe the date that you go to is near shopping center and then you can just drag them over there and start spending money. You know what I'm saying? That that should be first because then like you can start. Insinuating that you need cash later to pay bills and stuff. OK, alright, great. OK, your 20 year old? OK, got that one, Got that one. Got that one. He's in a different country now. OK, well, it's not a real relationship with you in a different country. It's part as part of you should be dating other people. OK, so I don't count relationships unless they in the same city. OK, that's that's like a waste of your time. Unless he's paying all your bills, then yeah, it's a relationship, you know? Thank you, girls. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Uh huh. What do you do if it takes some hours to reply? You should be dated. You should be replying to other men, and and other men should be texting you. You know what I'm saying? You shouldn't even notice that. Fidelity is what men use to mentally controlled women because we are emotionally and loving by nature. Smart up. Make money. The goal you will never lose. Exactly. Like, don't even think about fidelity. Don't even think about why he's not texting you back. Don't even think about it. You got another man. You already texted him. Okay, this one ain't texting back. Let's see what this one doing. How you doing? Hey, how you doing? You know you shouldn't even notice. And the reason why I'm saying this is because if men are going to, if men are going to try to play games with you and they try to come back after not texting you for hours and hours, and when they finally text back, you're so unbothered you're not even back, they're going to already know you talking to somebody else. You ain't got to say it. You don't even have to say it. They're just going to say okay. Well, I'm going to get away with not texting you for hours by not even asking you why you're not upset. So their game didn't work on you and you had time to get to know another man who's possibly going to be a provider, or at least someone that you can have you know dates or whatever with. You're not worried about that. Speaker 6 Anymore. Speaker 2 OK, those days are gone. You're a little goofy and you don't like that. I want you to be more mature. How do I talk and move? I notice men like me, but I. Don't hold their attention because I'm a little goofy. Not going to lie. Sparkle, sprinkle, then act. Act more serious. Get your acting skills on Okay. So pretend you're like in a movie or in a play that requires you to take on a more mature, serious role. And that's what you need to do. Uh oh thank you, girls. Sparkle, sprinkle. You can be goofy after you get the money. After they get to know you a little bit better. But being goofy from the from the start may not be too good. Okay, Thank you, girl. Spark a sprinkle. No scrubs. Bills, bills, bills. We were warned exactly. Okay. You're awakened and you learn to sleep. Speaker 6 What? Speaker 2 I got money while being goofy but still poised and makes that makes sense. Yeah, you got to you got to be yourself. But if the guy that you're dating is more serious than you have to, also consider that, OK? Can young guys give money to? Perhaps if you can get it out of them. OK, how to act on first date with potential Not desperate. Don't answer a million questions. Make sure that he likes you more than you like him, OK? Let him talk about himself. Gather information so you know how to get money out of him later. Speaker 1 All right. Did I move? Speaker 2 No, I'm still in the same house. This is just a back backdrop. OK, sprinkles sprinkle. Should I unblock a guy's uncle who offered to send me money yet solicit sex? I'm talking to his nephew and he helped pay for things. However, my boyfriend found out and I had to block a girl. Sound too messy? Sprinkles start over with some whole other people. Honestly, it's too messy, baby. It's too messy. You look, you look trashy. Just. Speaker 5 Start over with a whole. Speaker 2 Another group of people and get their money. You know what I'm saying? If you can get them, you can get somebody else and stay out of the family. Keep it like that. Thank you, Gigi. Sparkle, sprinkle. I mean if you want to you can, but like to me it just sound like complicated and messy you said Jerry Springer over there. Exactly ways to channel my alter ego and or a female archetype. You're the siren that act like acting, acting. That's all you got to do is just act. Take on, take on the personality and and just that's who you're going to be for the night, OK? Sprinkle, sprinkle. You also want to ask the man I pick think I'm way out of their league as they should, but they don't chase enough even though I'm mean to them, OK? You got to you have to use your brain a little bit and manipulate them. You got to manipulate them, OK? You got to be nice, nasty. You need to give them a compliment at the same time as you're being mean, OK? You need, you need to mix it up, baby. You need to make them want you so much that they chase if you're on a date. Do the underwear trick like I told you on the last video. Get you a pair of your Lacy underwear out of your drawer. Put in your purse when you're on the date. Excuse yourself to the ladies room. Come back, slip him the underwear under the table in his hands. Like here I have something for you. He takes it out. He's in blood, girl. He gonna be chase something else and give you money. Spring, Spring. All right. Y'all need to become strategic. Seducers in this world don't play there. Passing some draws, Okay. He ain't going to know what to do with himself. Speaker 4 He's. Speaker 2 Going to be texting in the middle of the night. Speaker 6 I'm sleeping with your underwear. Speaker 2 Then you need to cash out. This is for waking me up. Send this all right? You feel your body is fighting against your femininity and it's messing. I don't even know what this is, but OK, messing with your mental. Any advice? I don't even know what that is, but do the best you can because I don't know what that is. Sorry. OK, sprinkle sprinkle. Speaker 3 Alright. Speaker 2 You said too many contradictions. Messy women don't do well with, logical men with. Speaker 4 Value. Speaker 2 OK, so tell a logical man to go get another logical man. OK, that is not the feminine aspect. That's the masculine aspect. So go find you a logical man women like. Women are the escape. Women are the place where men like to go when they're tired of logic, when they're tired of the basics, when they're tired of colleagues at work and math and logic. They want to escape. OK, so that's why they don't mind only feminineminded men Look for logic and women sparkle, sparkle. Alright, okay, sprinkle, sprinkle. When can you do the underwear thing? Whenever you. I wouldn't do it on the first day. That look crazy. Maybe the second or third, depending on how much you talk in between. Okay. The more you talk, the closer you feel, the better, the faster you're going to get money. If you do the underwear trick, don't do it on the first day because it's kind of tacky. Maybe way to the third if you get that far. So yeah, can you Scroll down? OK. Thank you Nini. Appreciate you. So make sure that y'all are not falling for the okey doke anymore. Stop letting these dusties and these men use you or trick you or get something out of you or make you feel a certain way about yourself. If they're going to be in your presence, you need to be benefiting somehow someway and and don't apologize about it, OK. They know. What's necessary to be in the company of a leveled up woman? And so if you know, if they don't remind them, that's it. Men will caught men who can't afford you will have only have a problem with it, OK? Men who can't afford to entertain you or reach your standards, Those are the only men that are going to have a problem with it. So why are you bothering with them? OK, don't. Don't feel like you're missing out because they were. Never. Try to meet your standards in the 1st place. Okay. Do you have any advice? Speaker 6 Okay. Speaker 2 Y'all ask me the same thing. I answered that question. Everything. It's the same advice. Exact same advice. How far into the relationship should you start asking for money? You need to have it. You know the same. At least the same month. Okay the same month. Especially if they're older. They already know they're dating somebody younger. They're supposed to be paying, paying something, paying for bills, giving them cash, spoiling them in some form or fashion. Okay. Don't be afraid to ask, because the sooner you ask to find out they're not providers, the sooner you can get out and go find a provider. Okay, some of y'all are too nice and y'all waste too much time dating these men who never planned on giving you a dime. Because you're too nice occurring. So y'all got to get out of that. How do you ask a married man for money? The same way you ask a single one. I need I need money to help pay my bills because I'm short this month because I took care of my grandma lie same way. And how do I feel about men with kids? Are the kids grown? Because that's why I only day older. Man, your kids, we got to be grown. Or close to being grown, you know what I'm saying? I don't really care because I'm not going to be babysitting. I ain't going to be watching them, so it don't matter to me. And most of the time the men don't have custody of the kids anyway, so I don't it's not going to bother. Speaker 4 Me at all. Speaker 2 Unless you got 1000 kids and got to pay child support and have no money left for you, then it's a problem. He. Speaker 3 Said. Speaker 2 So do you have kids? Of course I do. Also, because a man has money, it doesn't mean he will spend exactly. So provider means someone who's spending money. Not someone who has money, but someone who's spending it. On you. All right, So junk mail. Sparkle, sparkle. Yeah, I saw that scene. It was hilarious when he when he died. All right, so y'all like that Queen Charlotte show. Speaker 5 But. Speaker 2 She she got the bag and she had to deal with crazy, all right? She kept it together. What if he accuses you of being a gold digger? Except accepted. Like, what do you want me to date Broke man? Do you want your daughter or your mother or your sister dating a broke man going 5050 paying half the rent? Because if that's Y'all's lifestyle I can't be with, I can't. I can't even date you. Speaker 4 Nope. Speaker 2 Don't be apologetic for having standards. If a man thinks you're a gold digger, he probably can't afford you anyway. Thank you. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Exactly. You are a gold digger. Speaker 4 So it's like. Speaker 2 No, silly. I just like a man that provides. Why do single bombs ask me for money? I'm a female. I don't know, maybe they think you lesbian girls Sprunk Sprinkle. Or maybe they just think you're a understanding woman. That will feel sorry for them and give the money. Those are the only guesses You can't, OK? Trump said. 5 golden rolls rules to live by. Get money, get money, get money, get. Speaker 4 Money. Speaker 2 Get money. Get money, get money and prioritize yourself. Sprint. Keep your standards high. Don't waste time with no dusty. If it's not beneficial, keep it moving, all right? How do you manipulate men for dating apps to give you money? You got to be smart. Why don't you get you a notebook and stay in a room till you figured out? Speaker 5 And try it. Speaker 2 Sometimes you just need to get alone and start thinking. Being very clever, what are some ways and examples to stroke a man's? Speaker 4 Ego tell him he's. Speaker 2 Smart. He smells good. He look like he's been working at. He's impressive. All all the stuff that they need to hear. Don't don't compliment his looks a lot, especially if he's ugly or very attractive. Compliment his style, his intelligence. And you know, maybe like if he has a decent body, ask him if he works out and stuff like that. That's it. What if you live in a city where elders from your ethnic religious community would will rattle out your activities to your parents? Go to a different city, sprinkle. Or where are we? Any advice for the 40s plus single lady? Same advice, just date older. And level up your looks. And a older man who can afford you. Sprinkle, sprinkle, okay, girl. Invest in a weed, ma'am. Get you a disguise. How soon do I give it up? And how do you do it without catching the feelings? Make sure he's invested a lot of money into you. Spent money, gave you some cash, some bill money you know, bought you a couple of gifts. Well, however much you think it's worth to you, I'd say a good month worth of spending a couple of $1000. Then if you want to give it up, give it up. But if you have options, keep your options open so you don't catch feelings. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Why men say that they're not ready for relationship in the beginning. Go on. Oh, and begging going on. And when things get back and say you made me fall in love with you, I told you I wasn't ready. It's game girl. Sprinkle, sprinkle. It's game. A man is not that vulnerable and fake unless he wants something. Okay, That means I'm going to cheat on you, ma'am. And it's your. Speaker 4 Fault. Speaker 2 So make sure he's paying bills. Ma'am. He's planning on cheating right there. He just told you I'm about to cheat, and I'm going to use the excuse that I'm in love with you, so you can't blame me. And when I get caught, I'm going to blame it on you. Because I told you I wasn't ready. OK, so that's all he's planning to do. So when he cheats, he's going to blame it on you. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right, Metaformal NFL player at happy hour. And now he's asking for a pic. How do I say not until he takes me out. Send him a pic that you already have on Instagram or a pic from that night that you were out. Speaker 4 Sprinkle, sprinkle. Speaker 2 Send him a pic he already seen before. And unless you haven't seen your Instagram, just you're trying to remember what you look like, he was probably. Speaker 4 Drunk not no. Speaker 2 Offense, but you know, you probably forgot what you look like. Trying to remember which one you are. Alright. Trying to remember which one you are, ma'am. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You better put a face with identity, alright? Speaker 5 Y'all know it's true. Speaker 2 So what that one look like? I forgot and admit so many that night since that I put a face with it so. That that question was funny about, oh, why did you make me fall in love? I told you I wasn't ready. That's the setup. That's the Unethful setup. That he bought. The cheat, ma'am. That's the Unethful setup, ma'am. You know how we set him up to think we bought, you know, Unethful sick that she might not make it. So we get that plane ticket money he's setting you up so he can cheat and blame you. It's the same game. They start early. Speaker 6 All right. Speaker 2 And see, a lot of women would have failed for that. They would have failed for that. Speaker 5 They'd be like. Speaker 2 Well, I know you weren't ready for a relationship and I can't help it that I'm so fabulous that you fell in love with me. And since you cheated, Oh my gosh, it's my fault because I'm so fabulous. Okay, you still don't spend some money to get back in because of that. You can't blame me. For what you already planned to do since the jump. So you might as well go ahead and give me that money. What if the sex ain't good, but the money good? Where's your other one? Where's your toys? Did you marry him for sex? Are you with him for sex or are you with him for money? You got to make a choice. I made him chase over a month and we went on expensive dates. But we. What? When he offered me any money yet how do I ask him for money now? You ask him. If you say no, then you lost. Should have asked him before. Sprinkle, sprinkle. If you benefited from him in any way, then you know you're not walking away empty handed. But if you didn't benefit, you need to ask him. If he just says no, then move along. Go get another one. Sprinkle problem or. Don't give him none. No more until he starts giving you money and start dating other people while he's trying to figure it out. All right, all right. I'm trying to find the. Should you leave your provider after argument? He followed his ex and other girls. Yeah, leave your provider after one argument. For following his ex and other girls. Leave all that money on the table so he can go give it to them. Where's your other one, ma'am? Y'all get out them emotions. Y'all going fumble the bag from emotions and you're going to be sitting there looking like who did you know, who did it and why? Crying because you ain't got no provider no more. You can't control a man, but you can't collect his money. Sprinkle, sprinkle. How did the sprinkle, sprinkle start? I don't know, child. Go find the beginning of this channel and figure it out, because I don't remember. Go back ten years and see when I first did. And why. Thank you, girl. I made him chase for over a month. Okay, I already answered that one. All right, so yeah, just ask. If he says no, go get another one. You don't have to dump them. If he tries to come back, make them start all over. And this time, get your money. Speaker 3 All right. Speaker 2 Don't sleep with him until you got something paid or got some money in your hand or some gifts or some nice something nice. Okay y'all. If y'all are young and emotional and getting mad over somebody following somebody, you've got the same power man like you say. Should you leave your provider boyfriend because he follows somebody? Girl, go follow your ex. Go follow another man, Go follow somebody with some more money. You can do the exact same thing that they're doing. Instead of getting emotional over it, just go do what they're doing and still collect your money. And you might be able to collect from him and somebody else that you meet. So just stop. Get out of that emotion. You can't control the wrong man, but you can't collect his money, all right? They can't control you either, girl, Do what you got to do. Speaker 3 All right. Speaker 2 Y'all need to stop thinking like that. Stop being so emotional. Okay. This is why y'all always have to say oh, I'm still healing because y'all keep making yourself emotional. You know you keep making yourself so emotional that you have to keep healing because instead of stop caring, you care too much. So therefore when your feelings get hurt, then you got to heal and then you fumble the bag. So stop fumbling the bag and stop having. Those type of emotions and remember why you're there, you there for him to not follow other people on Instagram, you know all men cheat. You know nobody's perfect, but he is providing for you. So get your money and keep your options open. This I keep telling y'all there's every video which y'all don't understand. Y'all are like, well, I want him to be a perfect man who doesn't do any of those things. But you're fooling yourself. He's going to do them behind your back or in your face. There's nothing you can do about it. Just get your money. All right, Your provider boyfriend always says that when I get into emotional fights, then I get in my own way and I'm back Fumbler. Now I know what to do when it happens. Yes, go call the other one. That's what you do. That's what men do. Sparkle, Sparkle. You ever know why? You ever wonder why people come back up after they and ghosted you for a while? Because they in a fight with whoever they went back to. All right. Sparkle, sparkle. What is your take on Bezos? New engagement with his mistress that caused his divorce. I think it's wonderful she sees the opportunity because if he wanted her, he chased her. Obviously, You know, you can't really blame the woman for anything. It's the man's fault he steps outside his marriage or he went after, you know, after he divorced. Who cares? Everybody won. Everybody got their money. Everybody happy, sprinkle, sprinkle. Everybody got the bag. All right. His exwife got the bag. His fiance about to get the bag, and he already got the bag first. Sparkle, sparkle. Oh, Jasmine. Thank you, girl. Everybody got a bag. Nobody lost at the end of the day. Everybody got a bag. Okay. So thanks for getting my book, girl. Thanks for getting my book. I'll get my books too. They're linked at the top and in the description bar, so stop fumbling the bag, ladies. Get out of your emotions and get into their wallets. Should SB make their SD invest more before giving it? Yes. Sprinkle sprinkle. What if he spends a lot but has hygiene issues? Vick's Vapor rub, soap, Cologne. Draw him a bubble bath. Buy some candles. Tell him to get in. I did this for you. Gum. Vick's Vapor rub, Mouthwash, Incense. All right. How do you control the emotions? Focus on something else that's more important. Emotions are temporary and a lot of y'all make permanent decisions based on temporary feelings and then y'all look stupid the next day. Speaker 4 So. Speaker 2 Think about if I react on these emotions right now and mess this up, what am I going to be doing tomorrow? I'm going to have my bag tomorrow and I'm like, am I going to be continuously collecting my money tomorrow? Or I'm going to be mad at myself for being so dumb and fumbling this bag. That's how you control your. Speaker 5 Emotions. Speaker 2 You think about your goal. That's why you got to have a goal with your dating, OK? It's he should not be the goal. Whatever he's giving you, you need to be doing something with it for yourself, whether it's starting a business, saving up, buying things that you want. He's not the goal. The money is the goal. That's how you detach, all right? If you can't detach yourself, then you need to get more than one man. Sprinkle, sprinkle. That's how you get out of it. Especially if you are not good at dealing with your emotions, you need to have another one. You went, you so y'all stop. I know some of y'all are young, y'all, y'all have to go through the motions. But once you get tired of fumbling your back, you're going to learn and you're going to stop being so emotional because it's costing you, OK? And literally, when you stop caring, you get more. Literally get more. So stop caring. Hold. Speaker 4 On OK. Speaker 2 Stay focused on your goal. Alright, so make sure you get your your money and stop worrying about how they make you feel for a few minutes. Do you suggest turning in for your number? No, honestly, if you want to, but I prefer them working for it. Sprinkle sprinkle so I can get my answers, my questions answered. Like how bad do you want this number? You know I prefer let them work for it. OK. Speaker 6 Sure. Speaker 2 Love your hair and makeup. Thank you Sprinkles Springs. I appreciate you Rose. Yeah, I have a beauty channel y'all can go watch. It's called the Shira Star and it's a beauty channel. And I I've done my makeup on there a lot, so y'all can go watch there. And I have some on here too. Under the playlist, wigs, hair, makeup and halls. Have a few tutorials on there. I might do it again in the future. We'll see. Speaker 3 You. Speaker 2 Said It's so true. Picnics care so much what men think and about having a man, it's silly. And get goals. Exactly. Do you listen to James? What he says. My boyfriend's always says I don't listen to him, I listen to him, but that doesn't mean I'm doing going to do what he asked me. But I can hear him sprinkle, sprinkle. If I want to do it, I do it. If I don't, I don't. I still have free will. If he says something, either opportunity I didn't hear it or change the subject so I ain't got to do it. Locked in three years. Don't feel loved or watch it. Then go get another one, ma'am. Sprink. Sprinkle. Where's your other one? Okay. Side, dude. Ma'am. Sugar daddy. Ma'am. Sprink. Sprinkle. Stop looking for love for somebody that's not going to give it to you. Go find it elsewhere. But stop looking for love. Look for some money, ma'am. Alright, if y'all are still looking for love, this ain't the channel. Y'all need to go find Pygmish in them channels because they still looking for love too. Love yourself. That way you can stop looking for it and just get your money. Go live your life, do the things that you like to do, get a hobby, read books, go shopping, do your hair, do your makeup, go on trips, do all those things. Instead of looking for love, ma'am, love yourself and go have fun in life. You plan on divorcing your dusty. Should you wait to find someone else once it's finalized? Yeah, sprinkle, sprinkle. Just don't get caught, all right? OK? Don't stop looking for love. Ain't nobody you know me and I here looking for love, ma'am. OK? That's why usually it's women are the only ones that be in love in a relationship because the men are not out there looking for it, OK? Because these men love themselves exactly. And so you should love yourself and treat yourself as a priority. And see, women are so emotional and always looking for love. Men depend on this to play you. They look for the most vulnerable looking doormat chick who's looking for love and super emotional. Because those are the easiest women to gain. Those are the easiest women to gain to get money from and all of that. So stop. Stop giving them all of that. You know, ammunition, self absorbed motherinlaw. Now y'all keep asking about these motherinlaws. Do I try to keep her sweet or be frosty from now on? Girl, I would not care what a motherinlaw thought about me. I would pretend I can't hear her. I'm busy. I'm on the phone. Every time I'm walking by her, I'm. You know, if if you don't like her and she don't like you, be two ships passing. OK? Be two ships passing in the night whenever you walk in and you see her. Oh, yes. OK. Yes. Hold on one second. I have to go somewhere where it's quiet so I can give you the numbers. Then go in your room. Lock the door. Speaker 1 Good. Speaker 2 Come on, I'm going to take a nap. Goodnight. Y'all. Then go be on your computer scroll. Come watch you 7 do what you got to do. But these two ships passing in the night, you don't have to deal with people you don't want to deal with. It's literally up to you. Because I wouldn't do it. Y'all choose to deal with people, you. There's ways out of it. And like, once you don't care and they know you don't care, they just leave you alone. They just leave you alone. Once they know you don't care and they can't get to you, they just leave you alone. All right? So just keep that in mind, all right? Y'all care too much about what other people think, and that's a that's a bad thing and a method of control. OK, right. Because she can't give him what you do exactly. You said. What if a man is sweet and providing at 1st and you ask him for money? He becomes ruthless and wants to pay me for sex and meetings then get your money. And don't sleep with them. Sparkle, sparkle. Tell them you'll be right back and be out. That's even more ruthless. There you go. Get the money 1st and be out. You'll be even more ruthless, ma'am. In it. Okay. Record the conversation, him soliciting you and just take his money. Tell him you undercover and be out. You know what? I didn't want to come to this, but I'm undercover. Are you going to do summer Mystery boxes? I don't know yet. God is well read. Sparkle, Sparkle. We'll see. Girl, you going to be scared. You going to look after you get his money? Speaker 3 Look. Speaker 2 I forgot to tell you, but I'm undercover. And then take the money. Leave. What he going to do? Turn you in? Sprinkle, sprinkle. OK, you said be Foxy Brown. You're. I'm Pretend I'm undercover so quick and you do. Somebody did that to me. I'm like, you know what, Sir? Yes. Let's do this. Give you the money. Start pretending to take it off your clothes. I need the money first. Since you're going to treat me like a prostitute. Put the money down, Sir, Since you, you offer it. Start taking off clothes. You put the money down. Take the money. Thanks. Did you know that I'm undercover? Bye. Call the police if you want to. Turn yourself in. Speaker 6 Bye. Speaker 2 Did you know you were going to be a viral YouTuber one day? As good as Or you just did it for fun? Or is James support? I just do this because I like to do it. I never cared about being viral. I don't care whatever James as long as I'm happy. James don't care. He support everything I do. Sparkle, sparkle. Could you show us how to ask for money? Depend on how they look. They ugly. Just ask if they like you way more. Just ask. If they don't like you way more and they're not so ugly or not so old. Then you got to start with the story leading up to asking for the money. So you're paid your grandma's rent. Now you got to figure out how to pay yours because you don't want her out on the street. But how was your day, Sir? Then the next time you talk. OK, well, it's. I'm doing great. How was your day? Yeah, stuff for trying to figure out how to, you know, make ends meet this month. You know, I got to find some help for grandma. She's like, you know, not able to pay her bills, but you know, you know how that is. But anyway, what are you doing? How was your day Then when you get on the date, don't talk, look sad. What's wrong? I shouldn't help my grandma because now I'm going to be short on my rent and that's what you get for being too nice to people and. I should have let the other grandkids take care of her. You know it's okay though. This this looks delicious. That's how you ask money. When they ain't super old and ugly and just going to say yes because they want to keep you when they like. So you got to build up to it. Start texting, start mentioning stuff on the phone before you even get to the date. Ma'am. Your planning starts in the beginning, Okay. Don't just show up and say can you have some money unless they're really ugly and real old otherwise. Speaker 5 You got to start. Speaker 2 Your story earlier on, if he picks fights and withdrawals with no emotion, okay, he's cheating. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Or he's trying to get you to become emotionally involved with him because you don't care enough. Either way, he's cheating, trying to get out the house, or he's trying to get you to fall and and become emotionally attached and involved with him fast so you just act like you're not bothered. So basically he can pick fight. Don't fight back. Just ignore him. Go in another room, Put your earbuds on. Get a fake phone call. Pretend it's your mom. He ain't gonna say nothing because he's he crazy. Oh, hi, Mom. Or be like, oh, my mom texts. Hold on. Hey, Mom. Nothing. What's going on? No, I'm not doing anything right now. Really. Speaker 6 What? Speaker 2 Start having a long fake conversation with your mom. Speaker 6 For real. Speaker 2 Then he's going to walk away because this is not going to work. Ignore you. Always ignore him. Need to emotionally disconnect. So damn hard though. Need advice on this if he. On one, I get. On one, I see the overall picture, but damn, it's hard okay. That's why you need to have another one and busy yourself. He is not the goal. His money is the goal. So as long as you can keep from getting emotionally attached or starting arguments, the more money you can receive and the longer you can receive it. If you're going to let your emotions get in the way of your goals, then you're going to have to start all over somewhere else and control them anyway. Because if you keep fumbling the bag with your emotions, then it's only your fault for letting temporary feelings mess up your money. OKI don't care. I don't care enough. I'm my goal. You know what I'm saying? But you got to get into that mindset. If you don't, then you're always going to be emotionally pulled in for other to other people. And when someone can emotionally pull you in, they control you. Sprinkle, sprinkle. They can't control you because you can't be controlled by your emotions. You win, right? 59 year old man wants to take you out to lunch. He lives an hour away from me. When we meet up for first time, do I bring money? Girl, if you smart you're going to always have money but you do not pay. Always have money for emergency backup. If he picks, fight. OK, I already read that one. Need to emotionally disconnect? Yeah, I rewrite that one. Okay. Thank you. So yeah, stop. Stop using temporary feelings to fumble your bags. Okay. Ignore fake phone call, watch TV, go to the bathroom something. Okay. Alright, fake an injury. That's how you turn the whole thing around, girl. Fake injury fall. Pretend like you twisted your ankle and scream. You going? You going to turn so quick? Are you okay? Well, what's wrong with your leg? Are you okay? Can I help you? Going to win the argument right then and there. All right. You want to play dirty in the unfair world? That's what you got to do. Fake injury strike, sprinkle. But make sure you don't really hurt yourself. It has to look real though, so just. Speaker 5 They fall. Speaker 2 Or fake bump into something. Oh my gosh. Speaker 5 It. Speaker 2 Hurts. Start crying. The argument going to be over. You're going to win. Sprinkle, sprinkle. You can't do ugly or fat. I must be stuffed up. I'd rather date 10 to 20 to 30 years older. Exactly. Get your money. Sprinkle, sprinkle. Don't matter. As long as they're giving you money. Okay. As long as you get in the bag, baby, it does not matter. All right, so I'm getting ready to go in a little while. But remember, stop healing and start getting this information and using it. And stop playing fair in this world. That is unfair. You will never win, Okay. I don't care what pick me should never say. I don't care what Barbara Builder never say. I don't care what it does to say. Okay. I know it would work, and if you smart you'll figure it out too. Playing fair in an unfair world is just dumb, period. There's not enough fair players in this world to play to play fair, so don't need to be doing it, especially if it's not beneficial to you. Or your future generations. This country was built unfairly. Most corporations and wealthy people in this country was built in an unfair world. OK? If y'all got a problem with that, that's why y'all got a problem, OK? Get your money. Oh my God. She wants to try to control my emotions with fights. Then don't give in. Stop fighting. Okay. Ignore second injury. Fall down. Fake mother call. Okay. He can't control you. If you're not emotional and you don't respond, Okay. And once he realizes he can't control you anymore, he's going to try something else. Speaker 3 So just. Speaker 2 Let that phase pass that he's trying to control you emotionally and see what he comes up with next. Okay, okay. You can't let him. If you let him, then he can't control you. I get on the phone real quick and he's starting to argue. Just call your mom or call your sister or call someone that don't want that. He don't want to hear him arguing. You know what I'm saying? Call someone. Put them on speakerphone, and he will shut it up. Promise you that? That's all you got to do. Call your daddy. You got a dad. You got a brother. You got a sister. You got a mother. Put him on speakerphone. You know what? My sister? Text me. Let me see what she talk about. Speakerphone. Hey, how you doing? Hold on, hold on, hold on. I'm gonna be off in about 20 minutes. Girl, call somebody. All right. Stop arguing with them. Just call someone. They'll they'll be done. They're too embarrassed to argue on speakerphone in front of other people. You're 25 in Houston. Finally learned that living man gets you nowhere. Where can you find provider man with age Also to get your ex that I how to get your ex that I left that now has high paying career to give me money. Well first you got to level all the way up until you are not in their league. Franklin, Franklin, thank you. You got to level up so hard that you're no longer in their league, your Ex's league. Then you need to go out to the rich area of town or next to some really nice office building and hit a happy hour. Up okay, go every night if you are able to on the week, on the weekdays. It's a numbers game. You're going to meet somebody eventually that has something right? But you got to level up. That's it. That's that's literally it. Okay your happy hour work. Go. Yes, go. Happy hour, happy hour. Yes, everybody happy at happy hour. Okay, you catfished a man. Now fake me is making him pay money not to tell real me. OK, spark Sparkle. Do what you got to do. It's the unfair world, ma'am. It's the unfair world out there, ma'am. So all you doing is just playing your part. OK, Don't. That's footy, girl. You get to pay by yourself. You get to pay to keep stuff from yourself. Good thinking, girl. Good thinking. It was probably my idea of a good thinking. At least you executed it properly. You said James was a home worker. He lied. Why you got to let him go? His wife should should have let him go, Girl. I don't know. I'm just collecting money over here. Sparkle on. Okay, I'm not fumbling. No bags ma'am. There are so many questions coming from your newer subscribers that have been answered many times. Yeah, y'all. Just need to go watch the old videos Sparkle. Literally. Thank you girl. You can go back for 1010 years and your questions will be answered in every video. Seriously, Okay. Speaker 4 So. Speaker 2 Yeah, I don't care about people. You know what they say about me. You know, they can't really use anything against me. That's on my own channel that I put out. So I don't, I don't really care Like, Oh my God, they found the secret that's out published on YouTube for 10 years or five years. Oh my gosh. They found out my secret on the video that I actually published on my own YouTube Channel Five years ago live. Oh my gosh, they found it silly. Do you love him? I love. I love how he provides baby. Sprinkle, sprinkle. I love that he's a real man and he's a real provider. Yes, all right. Dusties will try to argue when your OTP on at the picture. Exactly. It's Frank Sprinkle okay. Like, I don't care. Y'all. I'm a grown woman. I do what I want. OK? Sprinkle, sparkle. And he's a grown man. And he did what he wanted. That's all there is to it. We grown over here. We do what we want. All right. Thank you, Nate Sparkle. Appreciate you. OKI think I skipped this one. You went on a date with a provider. He said he would pay for everything. However, he has full time 5 year old and wants me to move in soon if we do become serious and I don't like that. OK, well he just needs a babysitter. Ma'am. It's perfect. Sprinkle, you got your, you know, CPR. You got your babysitting skills up the car because that's what you are. Babysitter. You think a grown man want to sit home with a 5 year old? Well, he got to go work every day. He needs a nanny. So either you charge because he trying to get it for free and he's going to pay your bills. Speaker 5 Room and board. Speaker 2 Is he going to give you anything else? You get a new car out of it. I ain't moving in until I get my car. Six months worth of savings. You know what I'm saying? If you want you want to be a babysitter, you want to raise a stepchild with no ring, go ahead. You catfished your mom, man. Okay, I already read that one. You want to be a babysitter? Go ahead, But you need to make your money. You said karma is comfort for fools and the ignorant? Exactly. Don't nobody care about that, OK? Because it ain't real to some people. Speaker 1 All right. Speaker 2 I could just be I'm the karma band. If you believe in karma, I'm the karma. Speaker 4 There you go. Speaker 2 That's what I always tell people. What about karma? How do you know I'm not karma to him? Because I'm sure taking his money that's you get for cheating on your wife. I'm taking all your money. Alright, so then I'm the karma, so everything is fine. OK? How not to become desperate in this game? Have more than one. And stop caring and keep your standards high. Have something else to do at the same time. Love yourself. Build yourself. Improve yourself until you find a provider. That's literally just it. It's not being desperate that matters, it's benefiting each day. Speaker 3 Yeah. Speaker 2 OK, let me tell you something. If Carmel was real pick, Misha would be rich, Dusty's would be gone. OK. If Carmel was real, pick, Misha would have everything She. Speaker 5 Wants. Speaker 2 Because she's such a giving and loyal person, she would still be here, getting played every day, being laughed at. She wouldn't be that if Carmel was real, OK and most of these men out here cheating. They would have their karma already too, but they still out here doing the same thing. Because if you don't believe in something, it can't really affect you. You don't have to understand this if you're afraid. If I if I date a married man, then when I get married, my man's going to cheat. Guess what? He already going to cheat. You might as well go do what you got to. Speaker 3 Do. Speaker 2 OK. You're going to cheat sooner or later, I mean whether you 65253545? If an opportunity arises and he don't think he's going to find out, he's going to go for it. Especially if it's free. So guess what the karma is, is not real. OK, this sprinkle, sprinkle, just just coming to reality. Coming to reality. Pick Misha would be the most praised human on earth. The the humanitarian of the year every year will be pick Misha for taking care of Dusty. But still, she getting played on a daily basis because karma's not real. All right, stop with that. Single dads are dusty players 90% of the time. Exactly. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right, you can make it real, though. You can make it real, but it's not. Do you think it's worth getting a degree for backup if you don't really care for? I mean, if it's going, if it's going to give you back up, then do what you want. Make him pay for your tuition. Sparkle, sparkle, you got a sugar dad, and make them pay for your tuition. This is how you make karma real. When something bad happens, then you say, Oh my gosh, it's because I did that bad thing. Right. Whenever something bad happens, just blame it on something you did bad and say, OK, well this is what I deserve. So you make karma real. You know what I'm saying? Speaker 3 It's up to you. Speaker 2 You have a thing for taking women who are over 6 feet tall on dates and playing paying them to have dinner with me. Do you have any tips for finding and meeting tall women? Yes, I have tips on meeting tall women. Go to the shoe store and hang around the size 10 and up. Sprinkle, sprinkle, all right, and then offer to buy them some shoes. Here you go. That's what they mean. Looking for? Speaker 3 Shoes. Speaker 2 Go hang around the large shoe size man. Sure, you said pick Misha is winning. Yes, she is winning. Feed her man sandwiches. She she went. Speaker 1 All right. Speaker 2 What's the best way to date when you have a high paying job? Should you hide it? Yes, hide it. Always hide it. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. They don't need to know what you earn, all right? They don't even know. They don't even need to know what you do for a living. Just say you work in a certain type of field. And leave it at that. You don't like to talk about work. You're out here trying to have a good time. You don't want to think about work. Let's just concentrate on having fun. Change the subject. Don't tell nobody, okay. Because if you keep telling people your business, they're going to try to figure out how to manipulate it. Like manipulate you with it. Okay. Like like y'all start. Having a relationship and then all of a sudden he wants to go on vacation. But you make a lot of money. Or you could pay half your ticket. Or you could pay your ticket and I'll pay mine because then they'll start thinking, well, she takes a lot of money so I don't have to pay for everything. So let her pay for something. No, they don't know you make money. They going to offer to pay for the whole thing? Most likely. So stop talking about Y'all's money, OK? Alright, when y'all ask me about other people I'm blocking y'all period. I told y'all on almost every video, don't don't mention other people in my videos and like especially other youtubers I'm blocking. I'm trying to be nice. I told y'all I put a post, I put it on a community section. If y'all like Messi, go find Messi. OK, sprinkle, sprinkle. He fought tonight. I was ice cold, hung up said by Good for you. And don't call back and don't text. Start. Start looking for another man. All right, sprinkle, sparkle. You only talk to him when he trying to give you some money. That's it. One of your old dusties have been sending me money every month. He wants to get back together, but the money has been. Better since we broke it up. That's because when you break up with a dusty and stop going 5050 and stop babying them, they have to man up. That's why the money gets better. Speaker 4 So. Speaker 2 Just stop paying for men. The best thing I can tell you, stop doing the most because you're going to get the least. Men will level up if you leave them alone and let them reach their potential. So like no one supposed to be paying for no wrong man, not split, no bill, not split, no check at the table, nothing. And keep your standards high because that's what keeps them earning. What have you done? What she or you have done more for women than most space teachings ever did. Most spaces and teachings ever did. Oh, thank you, girls. Sparks Frankel. OK, so yeah, yeah, don't don't mention people on my channel because I don't care. I'm not going to answer the question. And you might get blocked. Okay. I usually don't like to block people, but when you have to say the same thing 20,000 million times, you know it just alleviates the problem. Speaker 3 All. Speaker 4 Right. Speaker 2 All right, y'all, don't send anymore super chats but don't get ready go. I appreciate y'all thank y'all so much for being here. Thank y'all all the members and thank y'all everybody who donated. Did I skip anything yet? OKI did hold on. One of your old dust is sending you money every month. He wants to get back together. But he has money OKI think. Well, you know, make sure he takes you on an expensive date and bring you a gift to make it worth your while. Don't go out for free. Sprinkle sprinkle. That way he know you serious and if you want to come back, you know he got to be providing. It is very bad when I'm pricey, but you know, I think some people do it on purpose to try to start mess and so I don't like messy people. This is one of the reason I don't have friends. This is one of the people. This is one of the reasons I don't talk about other Youtubers and stuff like that. Or you know, this is one of the reasons I'm not messy, OK? It's a waste of my time, it's not beneficial to me, so I don't care. Therefore if you want to start mess. You can go ask someone else about me. I have no, I I don't care. But don't ask nobody, don't ask me about nobody because I'm just now I'm not going to know who they are. I'm not going to care and I'm just going to delete or. Speaker 4 Block OK. Speaker 2 So y'all will do that over the other channels that like mess and like all of that over here. I don't care. OK, so y'all have to remember that I'm not a messy person, I don't even have friends because there's too many messy people in this world, alright? And when you're around messy people, they make you messy. And I don't like mess. All right, if y'all have nothing else more intelligent to speak on, nothing great to ask and save it because it's not what I did. OKI can talk about things in general, but not specific people. Speaker 6 OK. Speaker 2 What? She says I want to get married, but no legal stuff because she's afraid her income at risk when previous baby Mamas sued for child support, Huh. OK, I don't know anything about that, but that's fine as long as she keep she's getting money. Get Bunny, baby. Get Bunny. OK. Oh, she's a lesbian girl. I don't know. Maybe she wants to keep her options open. You know, somebody said that to me. Speaker 3 They're keeping their options. Speaker 2 Open just in case they change their line later on down the line. They ain't got to go through no messy divorce, They don't got to explain it to their family and they can just keep. Keep it moving on every direction at the same time. Okay. If someone ever tells you they don't want to marry you because of legal reasons, you can put that in the in the prenup. You know you can keep a separate account. You can start a business, you can put that in the prenup. You can handle that some some legal way, so if they don't want to get married. For that reason you need to find a solution, a legal solution, so that they don't have to worry about that. And then if they say they still don't want to get married, then you know it's for a whole another. Speaker 3 Reason. Literally. Speaker 2 I think it's just to keep their options open or they want to protect their money. So you need to find a legal way for them to protect their money. Occur how to respond when a provider asked how is this trusting thing going to work? Well, I'll trust you if you trust me. And when the trust is broken, then I guess we have to work on it. I mean, when people ask you about the trusting thing, that's a weird question, because that means they're planning on messing up or they think you're going to mess up, so they're already thinking something is going to go wrong. They don't trust you or they want you to trust them more by bringing it up in the 1st place. So you know what, if you, you know I'm a very loyal person if I am happy in the relationship, which means I have no complaints and there's nobody out there that can do what you're doing for me. So I have no reason to be out there. You know that's what you did to tell them. That way you get everything you want. Sprinkle. Sprinkle. How to attract providers as a cashier when you ain't working. Sprinkle, sprinkle. All right, What do you think about people who stay engaged for years? At least they got the ring. If they don't get married, you know I will still be dating people because you single till you married, baby. If the if the ring came but the wedding ain't, your options are still open. So if they haven't set a date after the engagement then your options are still. Speaker 4 Open, sprinkle, sprinkle. Speaker 2 The date ain't set. Your options are still open. It's just a promise ring at that point. If you don't have a date, it's just a promise ring. All right, I'm a promise. I'm a marry you one day, but you don't know what day. So if you can't set a date at least a couple of weeks after the engagement, then you're not really engaged. It's a promise ring, OK? Keep your options open. If you can't set a date, that's my that's my advice. If it's the man ain't trying to set an update, then you keep your options open, OK? What girl you need to use condoms? Sprinkle. Sprinkle. What if they ask what you do? What do you like to do for? Speaker 4 Fun. Speaker 2 Shop, travel, go out to nice restaurants, all the expensive things. Just say I love fashion, I love traveling. I like art. I like museums. I like art shows. Just name everything. I like auctions. Name everything. That costs money. Where to freestyle. If there are no high end areas near you? In the high end area that's not near you? Sprinkle, sprinkle or in it next to a nice office building, if there's a restaurant or bar, go to the happy hour there, OK? Or find a car dealership that sells luxury vehicles, Ma'am. Go walk around over there like you looking at cars or you in the service area where they're, you know, waiting in the waiting room while their cars get serviced. You go find where the most money is. The hospital? All right. Walk around the hospital, man. Act lost. Speaker 3 Look good at the same time. Speaker 2 Alright, y'all gotta get creative. Where the man with the money at? That's where you go. I mean, you know the reason why? I think that a lot of women can't figure it out because they've never dated. Men with money before, they don't know who got money. They don't know what type of men have money. Some women only have dated Dusty, so they don't know where to go or they don't have a side of town to go on because maybe they don't live in an area where there's a lot of, you know, men with money or a nice area. So you got to get creative. Speaker 6 You know you. Speaker 2 Got to get creative. If you're not getting creative, it's going to be harder. You met a. Speaker 6 Guy. Speaker 2 From a free dating conversation was good and flowing and he paid for the drinks in my food. However, I found out he's living from his savings and is unemployed for four months. Wonderful. He's still spending money, so obviously he wants to use his savings to date. He still got to pay though. Otherwise he don't need to be dating. Sprinkle sprinkle. If you try to spend his life savings away on dating, get his money. If you want to deal with someone else and you don't even want to bother with that, then move on. But it's his money to spend. How He won't. All right, So do what you got to do. You said career or love? Money. Sugar daddy. All right. Honestly, I'm not a I'm not so attached to a career versus love. You know what I'm saying? You got money, you're giving me, you're giving me money, I got savings. I don't need a career because your money is going to take the place of my career, then give me the money. So I'm not choosing love or career. I'm choosing money because if you have a career to earn money and they're just going to give you the money, then you can love that. OK, you going if you going to get the same amount of money from the career that you're not going to be doing from the man, then have fun, do what you want. I'm not going to work for nobody if I don't have to, OK? Speaker 3 Just. Speaker 2 You know, y'all, I think so many women want to do something and. So many women want to do something, improve themselves. Well, that's fine, Do your career. But then when you get married, or when you start dating, just frozen. Speaker 5 Sorry, y'all. Speaker 2 Sorry, y'all it froze. I'm back. Can y'all see me Sprinkle, sprinkle. Alright. So anyway, what had happened was yeah, thank you. Y'all. Y'all gotta stop, you know, trying to figure it out. Just get just do what's best for you. That's that's all I can tell you. Yep, What if you have multiple men in the middle class but no benefit for me? Then why are you dating? If there's no benefit, stop dating them. Go find men that have benefits for you. OK, if you're just dating to date, then that's fine, but if you want benefits, then you have to start all over and date men that can benefit you, because if otherwise, you're just wasting your time. Alright anyway, y'all I got to go. Sorry that it froze for the last couple of seconds, but like I said before I go, y'all got to listen. Don't mention on any other youtubers in my comments because I will block and delete sprinkle. Speaker 4 Sprinkle. Speaker 2 And the reason why I'm saying that is because I feel like a lot of. Subscribers like to start mess in between people and it's very messy. I'm going to say this one more time because I have to just block 3 people and if y'all could just use your brains to focus more on getting the bag then about what other people are saying. Let's focus on our bags, let's focus on getting our money, let's focus on leveling up, because if you're just want to focus and talk about other people, then go to a different channel where they do that right. Y'all do that. If y'all are hopeless and don't feel like you can level up and get a bag and you just want to start mess, then you're going to be blocked and you just need to go on those channels and y'all can talk about me all you want over there. I could care less. But don't do it over here, OK? It's very low class and it it shows that you're not paying attention, you're not here for the correct reason and that you're just trying to start. Speaker 4 Mess. Speaker 2 You know what I mean? So go start mess over there. Say whatever you want. I do not care. I don't know them. I won't never know them. And if you just want to be a mess starter, go over there and start the mess. All right? Right. Passport, bro. Be so proud. Their Philippine dates cost less than a tank of gas. Wonderful. Sparkle sprue. Not Maybe not for long. You know those ladies are getting their bag too, and charging more. If they're not, they should. All right, Get your money, all right. You know, y'all from the Philippines, Y'all need to be charging like 3-4 five times more because you're getting ripped off, ma'am. All right. Speaker 3 You're getting ripped off. Speaker 2 Sorry I got to go. Y'all y'all y'all. Thank you so much for donating. Thank you so much for being subscribers and members. I'm see y'all for real. I got to go this time and like I said if I see Eddie bore comments that are trying to be messy, deleting, deleting a block, alright. Speaker 6 Bye.