Kylie & Juno Temple on Ted Lasso Romances, C-Section Reality Check & Jason’s Wedding Tears | Ep. 76

My husband is hot two ways. He's hot in temperature and he's hot to look at. I still cannot fathom that people have opinions about other people's birth experience. Everyone wants to know what's gonna happen with Kili and Roy Kent. - Who knows if it's that time on all? - Not what I was looking for. I really want that. (laughs) - Southern accent dances around the mouth in a way where it's kind of, it's more English vibes, right? - Not gonna lie. If you call me and ask if it's a good time, my response will be, as long as you don't mind tiny human voices in the background. That's the life I live. But why also when you pick up a phone call, do they always need to talk to you then? Like they haven't been talking to you for 20 minutes straight, but then all of a sudden you pick up a phone call and they're like, oh, lines open, I'm coming to. Let's get this podcast started. (upbeat music) Welcome back to a brand new episode of Not Gonna Lie. A Wave Original brought to you by Pullups. I'm your host, Kylie Kelsey. For some reason, comments about what hypothetical name, I'd give a hypothetical baby boy are in the news. That silly. I made a comment on Allison Kooch's podcast Sunday Sports Club about what Jason and I have in common, which is a father with the name Edward, and suggested that there had been a conversation at some point about using Edward as a middle name. That's a silly headline. Rusty and Harrison are adoptable animals of the week. Both got adopted. Yeah, someone better come swoop up, swoop and gritty. Before Queen Emma does, and don't worry, my husband cried plenty at his own wedding, regardless of what his comments were recently. Guys, think about this. First of all, there was a moment in time where I said that if he didn't tear up when I started walking down the aisle, that I would go back and start again. Knowing that someone would have obviously punched him in the nose between me restarting, and then he would have been crying when I walked down the aisle. No, but on a serious note, consider the context here, guys. Obviously my husband cried during our wedding. He did. I think that goes without being said, because he has cried a couple other places because he feels his emotions, okay? More importantly, he cried at his brother's wedding for many reasons. It was touching. It was very loving to see all of the things that were happening, but take this into consideration 'cause no one's thinking about this. Think about getting to watch your four daughters be flower girls. Okay, that's all the information you get. It was emotional. And he was not the only adult crying in our family. Guilty, okay? Come on, be for real. And yes, I have given him a shit about it. And yes, I will continue to. 'Cause that is my right as his wife, okay? Coming up on today's episode, we've got a packed doom scroll. After that, I'm gonna be joined by an actress you know and love. She's back for Ted Lasso season four, and I can't wait to talk to her all about it. Do you know a temple is here? How does this keep happening? No business. I have no business. But before we get to all that, let's get right into doom scroll the week. Brought to you by Pullup's. First up, this doctor perfectly shuts down anyone who still dares to tell a C-section mom that she didn't give birth the real way. They told her she did not really give birth. And as a doctor, I need to say the truth out loud, as a zarian section is one of the most major surgeries we perform on a fully-conscious human being. And then we hand her a newborn and expect her to smile. And let me tell you what actually happened on that table. To lift her baby into the world, a surgeon had to cut through seven separate layers of her body. Some women can't even reach for their baby when they are lifted up. Some plan this, manage it not. They lived for hours, they were in emergency, and were rushed under bright lights, terrified. They were about to lose everything. And then hours after the abdominal surgery, she was expected to sit up, to feed, to lift, to bond, to be grateful, to bounce back, to hide the scar, and to answer again and again, whether she was disappointed, she did not do it the real way. God, I love this clip so much, because I really feel like we are so aligned on this message. I cannot jam, first of all, people having really any opinions about anyone's birth experience, because it's not yours. It's not yours. And also, he's talking specifically about an emergency C-section. There are situations in which there are scheduled C-sections, because a baby is breach, or a baby is too large, or maybe it's not safe for mom. How about that? I cannot emphasize enough, that you built a human being, with your own body, and a contribution from somebody else. But with your own body, you built a human being, okay? However, they need to come out safely, for both you and baby, emphasis on both you and baby. Let's do that, more importantly, whether the baby comes out the front or the bottom, okay? Sometime, when I say bottom, I mean vaginal birth. Sometimes they actually do come out the bottom. That's on accident, you know what I mean? Let's not do that. Let's try our best not to do that. But if they come out the front or the bottom guys, they came out and you gave birth, okay? Cut it out. Do I want to give birth in a pool with no medication? No, I don't. Do I feel the need to criticize someone that does? Absolutely not. Did I have to have a C-section? No, I have not. Have I been induced four times? Yes, I have. Do some people have a strong opinion about being induced? Yes. You know where they should keep that? To themselves. I had a fairly positive birth experience all four times and I am extremely grateful for that. Again, that's mine. Whether you give birth out the front or the bottom, you gave birth. No matter what happens on your birth experience, I hope that your health and safety is prioritized and I hope that baby arrives safely and healthy. Stop asking people, by the way, if they wish their birth experience went differently. 'Cause I guarantee you that a human being exiting their body, I'm sure there are some things that we probably would have liked to have done differently. Next, scroll. It's summertime and if you also live with the human furnace, this is probably something that will hit home for you as much as it did for me. Queen of the clip, please. It says his version of a good night's sleep and she is completely wrapped up in his body. Oh no, her version of a good night's sleep is him with just a toe touching him and then she reaches out a finger and touches him. Here's the deal, I wanna know that he's there but unless it is below 60 degrees, if he were wrapped around me like that, I'd be a pool of sweat. I'd be like that good two weeks postpartum two 30 AM wake up in a pool of sweat. If you know, you know and if you don't know, let's say it's 90 degrees and you have three down comforters on top of you. That's what that feels like. I love a cuddle, I do, I love a cuddle. One of my love languages is definitely physical touch. I want to know that you're there, but my husband runs so hot. Oh my god, he runs so hot. I will tell you, there was once upon a time my husband and I were doing an interview together and I was pregnant with Wyatt. So it was in August, I believe. So I was seven months pregnant, maybe eight months pregnant with eight months pregnant with Wyatt and because it was a recorded interview, they had to turn off the air conditioning. It was 95 degrees that day and they kept asking me to scoot closer to my husband on the couch. Needless to say, you will not find that footage anywhere because they couldn't use it. My upper lip sweat was so bad. So yeah, no, I feel as deeply in my soul, my husband is hot two ways. So how about that? And last girl, Queen Emma didn't even write a tease because she wants me to give my most authentic to reaction. That kind of scares me. Hit it I think. No point of view, women's urinals are the best thing since sliced bread. Okay, let's see how this works. For anyone who's an audio listener, I'm gonna need you to lock in and look this up because what? Let's lock in here and see what the comments were on this. The first comment says, "I don't like the lack of privacy but other than that I hate it." Someone else said, "Everyone has made great points. I agree and just to add what if it's raining? What?" Someone else said, "I would rather piss behind a tree. I'm going to tell you right now if my options are this or pee my pants." I'm going to channel my previously pregnant lady. I'm probably peeing my pants. I mean, I don't I'm with the I'm with the commenter who said I'd rather pee on a tree behind a tree because here's the thing. In college. In college, we kind of mastered the art of the bumper P, which is when you hold on to the bumper of a car to lean back and get the proper angle to not pee on your shoes. Okay? I don't know what's happening in that female urinal. Are we squatting? What's happening? You stand in you piece. So we're making eye contact with people while we're peeing on our shoes. That's what you're telling me. That's. Can someone give me a yes? A yes. Yes. So we're standing. We're making eye contact with other people and we're peeing on our shoes. Immediately no. But why no door? I don't think I'm I don't think I'm as annoyed about the doors as I am that you're making eye contact with other people and here's the problem I have with that. As a tall woman, when I go into a bathroom with short-doored stalls, I'm already annoyed. And I am still ass out and I stand up to pull my pants up. My ass is still out. My ass is out and I can make eye contact with someone who's washing their hands at this sink. That is a bonding experience that I don't enjoy. Okay? Everybody knows a women's bathroom is where you make some of the best friends. The fastest friends you'll ever make. Okay? And a women's bathroom. Everybody knows that. But I don't want to make eye contact with you while my ass is out. The only positive here is that you are not locked in a plastic tupperware with the smell of a porta-potty. Okay? There's that. That's it for Doom Scroll the Week brought to you by pull-ups. Let's keep it moving with a little places Kylie has some business being brought to you by job. Places Kylie has some business being. That's right. This past week, I can't admit I have some business being in a Longstreet field hockey clinic in Ocean City, New Jersey. For those of you who don't know, Longstreet is one of the best women's sports stores specifically now for field hockey. But when I was growing up, they covered most women's sports. You could go there and pick up any equipment and I did. I literally went there for all of my field hockey sticks growing up, but they held a clinic that they were nice enough to invite me to. And I went and got to hang out with some outstanding athletes, some athletes that I've seen at other clinics. These are the types of events that I absolutely love doing because I get to be out there with kids who are learning the sport that I love that gave me a lot that taught me endless lessons both on and off the field. And it's important to grow the game because the more competition that we have, the more kids that are playing field hockey means the more competition we have, which means we're only going to get better, which means that our national teams are only going to get better because the pool is going to be increasing their skill. And that means that on a world stage, we're going to be out here whooping some ass. And speaking of field hockey clinics, Queen Emma tells me there's a real one out there on TikTok who wants to put on another clinic with me. Let's see it first things first. Hi, I'm Tori. I'm a Victoria Delaware County. I'm also a field hockey coach and lacrosse coach. And even more importantly, I have been doing the Ecosautism Challenge for six years. I was one of four schools that helped raise over $10,000 for Ecosautism Foundation. Kylie, I'm proposing to you to do a field hockey clinic together. And what better way to fundraise than doing what we love and then supporting field hockey and women's sports and getting young girls out on the field just like creating an inclusive environment like the Ecosautism Foundation does. This is a very easy yes. This is very simple. Yes. I have field hockey season starting up in a couple of weeks here. So we might be a little delayed and it might not happen immediately. But Tori, let's get this done. I absolutely love the fact that you are not only in Delaware County, but teaching. Well done. Thank you for all the work that you do. And on top of that coaching, girl, you are meant to leave. So yes, I always say I haven't had a fall without field hockey since I was in seventh grade either playing or coaching. This year will be my ninth consecutive year coaching and my 11th overall at the school that I'm at. It is something that I am so grateful to still get the opportunity to do. And I never know how much longer I'm going to be able to do it. So I really try my very best to soak in these moments. One of the cool things about coaching is it also has led me to my relationship with Dove. I am a proud Dove partner. I absolutely love their movement. Their body confidence sport program is very, very important. It helps coaches, mentors, parents, and even athletes determine how best they can talk about their body and how it relates to sports. I firmly believe that my relationship with my body stems from my athletic experience. I could not have played field hockey the way I did without my thick thighs and my fat ass. Am I allowed to say that? Okay, great. I was stronger for my legs. I, my height helped me because I had reach on the field that people weren't expecting. And it was harder to get around me. So it's things like that where as a high school girl who's taller than a lot of people I went to school with, especially coming into high school as a five foot ten freshman. I was taller than I would estimate 90% of my grade. Then that included the boys. So it was a humbling experience. And it was a little bit of awkward baby draft. And I didn't waver from the fact that my height was an asset on the field. And that helped me think more positively about it. So it's things like that that make the body confidence sport program even more special to me. And I hope that girls who are in sports stay in sports because they have the confidence to do so. And the coaches and mentors around them have the opportunity to help them on that journey. Your dove purchase helps keep girls in sports. And you can learn more about body confidence sport program and how to keep girls confident at dove.com. That's it for places Kylie has some business being brought to you by dove. Juno Temple is coming up soon. But first we've got a couple more burning. Ask me some things questions brought to you by Dordash. Yeah. Queen Emma said rapid fire. Good luck. I'm going to try my best. Maybe today's the day. Who knows? First question. Will you help paint Jason blue for the other podcast? No, I will not. How about that for rapid fire? No, I won't. I don't I don't know who's ordering the paint. I'm assuming it's intern Brandon. I don't know these things. I'm am I going to laugh when I see it? Yes. If I'm not around to see it, I'm going to be pissed. That's what I do know. Next, another real one asking me for advice, which you guys know can be dicey. Because I'm not that I'm not that great at it. I've never had a boyfriend. And I feel so far behind everyone my age. They're 24. Will it get easier? Here's the deal. Haley. First of all, 24. You are a spring chicken. That is young. That is young. And I'm going to tell you what? I don't I don't think you're behind. I think you are being picky appropriately. I think that you should do it when it and now it sounds like I'm giving you advice on losing a free card. Let's I think you should get into a relationship when it feels right. Don't compare yourselves to others because I'm not going to share personal experiences here. But I I certainly didn't date in high school. When did I go on a date? Maybe after high school? Earlyist 18, I think 18. Maybe? I don't know. I don't know because you know why, Haley? It's not important. I don't know the details of when I started dating because it actually doesn't matter. Now I'm married with four kids to an incredible man and I took my time finding him. Look at us go. And lastly, this is some of the unhinge shit I'm talking about. This is why we have to have boundaries. Can I have Kylie's permission to make a page of Jason in my smash book like "Respectfully?" No. (laughing) The fuck kind of question is that? What kind of question is that? Respectfully, absolutely not. How about that? That's mine. And to the people who keep tagging me in the TikToks of the little seagull button, it goes mine, mine, mine, mine, mine, mine, mine. I see you and hell yeah. 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They just introduced a new learning layer and I'm all about this. It's designed to help kids learn the difference between feeling wet and dry because that is an absolute game changer. When they feel wet, they don't wanna do that anymore. And then they start telling you, clear as day, I need to go to the potty. Plus, it's progress without the stress of the mess. It gives my tiny humans big kid confidence while I get the peace of mind of up to 100% leak-free protection. You can buy the new pull-ups with learning layer now designed to help kids learn wet from dry. She's given us three incredible seasons as the iconic Keely Jones in one of my favorite shows, Ted Lasso. And now she and the whole team are back for season four. The first episode is streaming now on Apple TV. It's seriously, guys, I'm so excited for this. You also know her from Fargo, the offer, Maleficent, and Venom Three. And now she's officially not gonna lie, do you know a temple? Welcome to the show. Oh my gosh, I'm so excited to chat with you. - Me too. - This is so awesome. First of all, congratulations on season four of Ted Lasso. - Thank you. - Crazy thing. - This is so exciting. It's been over three years since the show ended, which, or so we thought, which is why I am currently in the process I told you earlier, of rewatching all three seasons. I have two episodes left of season three, and I am so, it's getting, it's just been the most excellent build to getting to watch the season premiere of season four. But I will say, Jason Sedacus went on what we called the other podcasts on this show, hosted by my husband and my brother-in-law, and announced that you guys were coming back. I'm very competitive. So if there was any announcements that you felt the need to drop right now, you feel free. I'm all ears. You got anything going on? - Well, yeah. - Beside season four of Ted Lasso. - Oh, for me, he has to do that. - No, for you finally told me anything. - I just, well, I guess, yeah, I just wrapped a new show for Apple and A24 in the UK called The Husbands, which is going to be exciting. I'm now married. Woman, I've been married officially for a year, which is exciting. - Oh, can we? - Yeah, we met on Ted Lasso, actually, on season two, he was my drive. (laughing) - I never told much. - Thank you, thank you. - Yeah. And what else? I'm starting a little movie next week in LA, so it feels like a busy, but fruitful, thoughtful, kind of exciting moment. And I just hope I don't disappoint anybody, you know? - I don't know, but that's possible. - Yeah, it is. I think we can all do that, but it's, yeah. - Which cast mess member did you miss the most? And why was it definitely Hannah Wannagan? - Yeah, that's what I was going to say. I mean, I think because she's somebody, I think you hope that you're going to make real friendships on jobs. You hope you're going to take them away. And, you know, especially for me, my female friendships, my girlfriends are, I mean, genuinely the most important things in my life. And they are the constant of keeping me happy to be alive, if you know, and I think Hannah is, I would include her in my friendship group like that. She is somebody that's become so important in my life, teaches me a lot, but has also rightly so, become very busy. So being able to see her in person, didn't happen as often because life takes you to amazing places. So actually knowing that we were going to be on set, and she, and I were going to be in the same, not like phone call space, but actually in real time, be able to hug and kiss and smell and all that stuff. I was really excited about that. - Your character and Hannah's character are one of the most beautiful on-screen relationships, but then also off-screen. - Yeah. - It makes me feel so satisfied watching you guys as friends on-screen and knowing that it spills into off-screen relationship. - Yeah. - It's so beautiful. - It is, and she's somebody that, like within each season, within each day, at moments, throughout this incredible rollercoaster of a Tedlasso ride, inspires me, because she's, she's so many things that you wouldn't expect, and she constantly brings something new to my attention, and it makes me excited to keep growing up. - That's so incredible. - Yeah, she's an amazing woman. - Women, we should be celebrated more, and more importantly, should be celebrated by women. - Yeah, I agree. I think we are such an extraordinary force, and I think that noticing little things that we do on a daily basis and being able to tell the woman that you clock that with how special or brilliant or beautiful or are you okay, or what's going on, shouldn't be alien. It should be something that we're encouraged to do, and shouldn't be something that, like, oh, sorry, what? Even if you don't know somebody, you know? I think you can, it can make your day when somebody at a coffee shop says, oh my god, I love your shoes, or something, and you just bought them, and they were like, a big expense, you didn't know if you should do, and then you were like, yeah, I'm glad I bought them. - So valedic. - This is where, yeah, and I think just sharing, sharing little golden nuggets with each other in this day and age is important. - That's so beautiful, I love that so much. My oldest who's six was in the ocean yesterday, and she came back and she said, there was a little girl, she was older than me because she was taller than me. I said, okay, sure. She said, she was older than me, and she said, I like your bathing suit. And I said, did that make you feel good? And she said, it made me feel really happy. And I said, that's why we talk about a lot. If you have a nice thought, you should share it. - Always. - And so my second daughter was in a bathroom once, and a woman with blue hair went up to the sink to wash her hands, and you would have thought, she'd lit the world on fire. My daughter looked up at her and was like, I love her hair. And I was like, those are the moments where it's like, you are an incredible example to kids that are like happy to see someone who's different and whose hair looks beautiful and cool. It's like things like that where I'm just like that, that, you don't know what that did for that person that day. - Totally. - Oh, the best. But I do know what it did for my daughter in the ocean, and she was thrilled about it. - Yeah, exactly. Now, I will say like Hannah. I am also 5/11, so I don't want to assume, but I will think that you are a decent amount shorter. - Oh, I'm a clavicle height. I'm a good boot height, and that's not a bad thing. I'm gonna tell you. - Great chance to be a boot height. - Oh boy, it's a soft place to lay my head. - Now, we do a lot of hyping up tall girls around here because the call's coming from inside the house. But I would like to know, what is the best part of being what I like to call fun-sized? - I feel quite good looking up to people. I'm like, I like to be able to look up at people's glory. And I think I feel really safe when I'm hugged. - That's a very good point. - Yeah, I do. I also wear a lot of high heels. I even put lifts in my platform arms. So. - Do you really? - Oh yeah. I wish my legs were about three inches longer than they are, but we all want things we don't have. - I will say, the same thing I tell when people say, oh, I wish I wear your height. I always say, you can always wear heels and be my height, but I can't chop off my feet and be your height. - Yeah, but you don't need to be my height. You can wear heels and you can see the world from a completely different perspective, which I think is something don't ever forget how precious that is. - Oh, I know. I've had a lot of positive talk because my girls, I'm like, what can I tell you are? This isn't me. Hannah has a daughter who I've known now for half her life and I'm not going to lie. She is, I think she's just her 12. And when I first met her, she was quite a lot littler than me. Oh, I look up to that beauty now. (laughing) And I'm so, like she's so gorgeous. These incredibly long limbs and I just am so excited for her to be able to dance in the world. So yeah, I think owning being tall is something that, oh, come on, it's such a beautiful thing. It's such a powerful thing. And who looks better in Christian Louis Vuitton's than Hannah Williams. Oh, my God. - I will say, I just had to tell my daughter, my six year old, I was like, you are tall in the best time. And she was like, you had me at the perfect time. I was like, no, I seriously did because there are so many tall options now. Like tall and then very tall. Like there are brands who will literally fit women up to like six, seven comfortably and appropriately. And I'm like, you are tall in the best time. - And I know we have to have everything taken up for good, even in my heels. - Yes. - And I think this year with Hannah was, 'cause she's always in her high heels is Rebecca, but I have all the highest heels I've ever won in my life and they were incredibly comfy and very cool, but they were eight inches. And in her high heels, I was still shorter than her. - Holy cow. - Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. - Now back to season four, I think most people know by now that Ted is back. And this time he's coaching a women's team. - Yeah. - How incredible is that? - It's the coolest thing I've ever. - And honestly, I think, 'cause I hadn't seen anything until last week when we had the premiere in LA and I saw the first two episodes. And each one of the new cast members that we have had such an incredible entrance into the Ted Lasso world. I was so proud to be part of it with them. And I had this amazing experience of that premiere where I, it was a lot of people. I could see a thousand people. And at the end of episode two, all different types of people in that space, all different walks of life, all different colors, all different pronouns, all different beliefs, all these, and it didn't matter. For a few minutes, as the credits rolled, it was filled with this joint positivity. And I was like, wow, that is such an amazing thing to be a part of. And especially in that space where it was also introducing this new team, and these new beautiful, brilliant actors, actresses and faces that are just gonna become another sort of level of friends in our living rooms. And each one of them has such a great, impactful moment in the second episode and there will be more, there will be more introductions as we go on. But I felt really, really proud. And I guess maybe because also season three of the ending for me is I present Hannah with, or Rebecca with the idea of the women's team. So seeing that come to life with these incredible new cast maze is just, yeah, I'm really, I'm really proud of them. - Naturally, whenever women are doing anything impressive, there's always gonna be pieces of shit in the comments. Let's just say it for what it is. And I know there's been some since the women team story was announced. - I'm sure I haven't read any of that. I'm really bad online, sorry. - That's actually amazing, good. I was gonna give you an opportunity. We love to say the phrase around here, suck my ass. - Suck my ass about that. - You can suck my ass. - Suck my ass 'cause also, it just you wait. Is what I'm gonna say. - I feel very strongly about, I also do not read comments online, but occasionally people encourage you to say suck my ass. So to the people who were not enthusiastic about the fact that not only are we getting a season four, but that it is women focused with a women's team. - Suck my ass. - Suck my ass. - Yeah, yep, yep. You get it. Now I'm a little more familiar with American football. - Yep. - Was there anyone on set that tried to convince you to maybe cheer for the chiefs? - I wonder who maybe. - Weird. - No. - Do I remember someone talking about that? - Yeah, I think, yeah. - Did he try? You tried to convince him to talk about it? - Very much so. - I mean, you guys went to Kansas City, I feel like it. - It went to Kansas City. Which was, again, we got, you know, we got taken to Kansas City by a real Kansas city, and somebody that you really see how much of a part of him it still is. You see where a lot of Ted Lasso has come from when you go there. - Yes. - There's the mentality there that is, that isn't made up. You feel that in that area. And I think also seeing how much it's still means to Jason to be there. And actually, when we went to the World Cup game, it was at the chief stadium. So that was also talked about when we were there. But I haven't been to a chiefs game yet. So maybe to show that to convince us. - That feels right. - Yeah. - That feels only right. And if maybe perhaps the chiefs don't tickle your fancy. - Yeah. - You know, the Eagles. - Sure. - A lot of the Eagles are great. - Choice. - Second option. Just consider it. - Yeah. - Well, it's brewing. - Don't tell Jason I said that. - I won. - Okay, but it won't. - Thank you so much. Have you ever been to Philly? - No, I haven't actually. - I was hoping you would say that. I was hoping you would say that 'cause I think that bodes well for us and convincing you that we're good time. - I think good time to find anywhere is the people you're with. - Perfect. We're great people. - I bet. - No. - Don't ask around. Ask a Philadelphia and but don't ask around. - Okay. - Do you think I would enjoy it though? - I think you would love it. I think. - I think most people would love it. I especially think most people would love it who feel like kind people. - Yeah. - I've recently seen something that says that East coasters are, we're not nice, but we're kind. - Interesting. - Whatever. - What does that mean? - It means that we're not necessarily going to do the pleasantries of West Coast where it's like, - Oh my God. - Yes. - But we will help you find a car jacket. - When you go to a shop, change it exactly. - Okay. - Change your tire. - I also respect that. - I respect that. - So you're not into fake niceness, kind of. - Not even a little bit. - Yeah. - But does that mean you're not into saying high to a stranger on the street? - No, we'll say hello kind of. - Sometimes. - Okay. - I will say one of my dear friends who is from the Chicago area, I was once walking with her and she said hello there. And I'm not joking. It like took-- - I was like-- - Did you just say that to that person? Did you just say hello there? I was like, don't, what? Hello there. What? In Philly, we would say, go birds. - That was easy. - That's a morning greeting. - Go birds. - Literally anywhere. - I've now got the ticket into Philly. Now I can go to-- - I'm not kidding. - I'm not kidding. I'm not kidding. You can go into any crowded space in Philadelphia. If you say go birds, you will get a cheer. And if you just start an egos chant, like if you just start spelling egos, E-A-G-L-E-S. - Okay, that's it. I'm not gonna lie, I would be panicked. I would spell it wrong. I couldn't spell spinach this morning. - Don't worry. The mayor spelled it wrong. - I just thought it was the CH. Oh, the mayor did. Okay, that's why I spelled it wrong. It's on a public stage. It's fine. It's fine. - We forgive it. - I can get-- - I'm a really bad speller, like atrociously bad. - Then Philly might be the place for you. - It sounds like it's my very bad place for you. This could work. The last thing on Ted Lasso for now, everyone wants to know what's gonna happen with Keely and Roy Kent, specifically me. I want to know what's gonna happen. - I mean, obviously, it feels like they still have a vibe, right? - Yes. - But I, who knows if it's their time or not? - It's not what I was looking for. I really want them. - What's up with you? (laughing) - Damn it. (laughing) - I'm gonna tell you, I was coding for them. - I am because I was quoted before you came in by saying if they don't get together on flipping the table. Just, I feel very strongly that they are delightful together that they encourage the best parts of each other. - Agree. But timing is everything. - It is. And it wasn't right the first time. - No, for many different reasons. And it's meant that I think they've become-- - They've both grown bigger people in their own casing, right? Yes, and more understanding to what the other one may actually need. Yes, and how to be the best version of themselves for each other as well as championing each other. Yes But yeah, I mean We'll see how the season goes Fuck dammit. Okay. All right. We'll see. We'll see Do you did did you know you do you want them to end up feeling I believe in them as a pairing? Yeah, thank you so much for saying that. Okay. That makes me feel better about my thoughts of feelings No, I just believe in them very much, so and I and I feel like Yeah, I'm I do of course I believe in them, but you know, we'll see we'll see where the season goes Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. There may be more seasons, too. You never know. I would love that maybe Wouldn't it be nice that they got together in this season and they were just together for the rest of the seasons That would be so beautiful just a thought guys just consider it take it to the people you need to take it to please dear God We'll see we'll see we'll see we'll see. Yeah Damn it. Okay. Now switching gears a little bit I did read that your parents were initially disappointed when you told them you were getting into acting They were more not it was the more like I think faithful Sure, oh, yeah, we're gonna be told you're too short you're to this your has to call you are to today And you know, I have heard those things to get me wrong, but I think they were They were worried from a parental standpoint of being people that went behind the camera. Mm-hmm Of sometimes the the kind of The way you can feel in front of the camera of not being good enough in certain ways. Yeah, and and I mean, they're also of course they were worried that it was more of a protection Fisher now it wasn't necessarily a surprise to your parents though right? I did see you speak about how this is something that has been on the horizon for you forever I it's quite hard to find pictures of me where I'm not dressed up as a character As a little bell. Yes. Yeah. Um, now I have asked before to a few of our guests on the show I have four daughters. Yeah, odds are then maybe an actress there might be What would you say? To courage them to want it from the hall To make sure that I think I think you always want to encourage as a parent I think this is my first time around so I actually I'm still figuring it out first time around but four times Yeah, but still have no idea what I'm doing. Don't tell them. I want to smell fear I I of course want to encourage them I've always wanted to be grounding and realistic and and rational but Of course want to like encourage dreams So if any of them were to say to me, that's what I want to do What would what do you think would be the best thing to say back to foster that I would definitely say That okay, let's do this. It's not gonna be easy There are a lot of people that want to do this so and I the key to it I think it's keep asking questions don't assume you know the answer's ever and and that that It's also okay to read a character and say you know what this is an amazing opportunity But this one isn't right. I know I'm not right for it even if it would be incredible exposure And all of that stuff. 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Learn more about the world's smallest smart ring and discover how aura can help you better understand your health at or a ring.com So we talk a lot about motherhood on the podcast But we haven't talked a lot about what it's like to play a mom on screen And you've done this a few times and got nominated for an Emmy when you did it in Fargo. Yeah first of all Do you enjoy getting to play mom characters? I love it. And I still text with Sienna the girl played my daughter in that She was so magical and I had moments where she really floored me and scenes with just looking at me with that so much truth and I got really close with her It was interesting towards the end of that show when I started filming sequences where I was trapped at that ranch with my monster and How much I miss David who played my husband and Sienna who played my daughter I was like they were became like a safe word for me and also, you know, I think I Just think that young women have so much Honesty when they look at you sometimes if you if you are open to being honest back and the gift of working with her was really really special and I think she made me better at my job to be honest and I'm Really proud of what we did together Because I really think it was a huge it was dot heart wasn't it and I do find it hard to not get on with kids. I find I find them so unbelievably joyous to be around even if you're grumpy as hell. It's like you somehow can't be and I'm not a mother yet personally, but I have three delightful godsons and And I think the joy of being asked to be a part of their life by my best girlfriends in that way is something that again I don't take that lightly. I think that's a real real privilege to be asked to do that, but the amount of of Love that they bring me just when they start to remember who you are and things like that and the recognition of understanding that you're a person that they feel safe with Mm-hmm and then the amount of fun that comes out of that and I think also, you know, the thing with kids that they remind you to be in touch with your imagination Oh, yeah, which is a huge part of being an actor, you know being able to imagine yourself in those scenarios that you're in I don't think it's pretending. I think you have to imagine yourself in that situation and the best educated for that is Any child in your life. That's amazing. Yeah, so it's a gift. That's so awesome. Now the one of the things in Fargo While you were playing the character Dott, you had to have a Minnesota accent. I did have to have that. Yeah now You nailed it for the show if you can ask me to do it now probably be funky I'm not going to because I will not I won't put you on the spot like that But what I will what I will have a large apartment is my one of my checking words. Yeah, barb's large apartment That's incredible. I will tell you I've been to Minnesota one time and When I heard people speak I was like, oh my gosh. It was it wasn't I was kidding. It was real Yeah, my best friend She would Emily and one of my her son is one of my god children and She grew up in Minnesota and her family is still based from Minnesota So that getting past that I was like if I get the ticket approval from them I don't I'm done and I remember when I first called her testing out the accent and and I love to avoid their achievements. a very like kind but also honest message back, being like, and then the piece of advice she said, try doing it with grapes in your mouth. And I remember the first time trying it in a little grape flew out and I was like, oh wow, too many grapes. It took me a minute. It took me a minute. I was also finishing up season three of Tadalasa. I had like a three day period of transitioning from one to the other. And so the birth of daughter in this little apartment, do you know his large apartment? It wasn't large. And to the kind of figuring out that accident, then I decided to stay in it for the whole duration of the shoot. But my first place was testing out was the airport without really thinking that I have a passport so they know where I'm from. So it was a really weird accident to be doing checking in through security. They're like, whoa, what's happening? Now one of the one of the important questions surrounding accents I have for you is, have you ever tried a philly accent? No, is that like Boston? I think worse, best show. I feel like Boston might be easier. I think Boston might be easier. And I didn't know straight from the script. No, I was that baby nervous. So can you give me a philly? I think the easiest word to do in a philly accent is water. And that's water. Yes, water, water, water. It's it's a lot of. Tell me about the vows. I wouldn't even know how to describe it. I just because I grew up in it. So like if I was going to call someone on the phone, it's a phone. There's a bit of a Canadian thing. It's it's aggressive. And I don't realize I'm doing it. The word that I always you moved it to the front of your mouth. This is what's really interesting about access. No, no, sorry. No, please tell me. No, no, no. So if you think about where you hold like as an English person, I hold my all the words are coming right in the front of my mouth. If I go into a standard American accent, I move it to the back of my throat. It's like way further back. It's I mean, it's kind of a California version of a standard American, but it's way different. Then if you go into it, you go through an accent. Southern accent dances around the mouth in a way where it's kind of it's more English vibes. And so you but you're playing with where your tongue is set in your mouth. And the whole thing kind of yeah. And I mean, those are two that I can do a slightly quick shift into, but you did the Philly was way more fort, which is the same with Minnesota. Does it get very cold in Philadelphia? Um, cold-ish. And then when like because that with Minnesota, the Fargo accent comes from being so fucking cold that they don't move their mouths so much, you keep themselves really, they try and reserve all their energy, you know? Or as might just be laziness. Okay. Don't tell them I said that. I'm so bad at describing it because it's the way I've spoken my whole life. So like my husband being in an NFL locker room, I've been around people from my area my whole life. Yeah. I went to college 25 minutes from the house I grew up in. And so being around my husband's teammates was one of the first times I've ever been called out for having an accent. Right. And it's when I get mad or I get into like fast-paced talking. And the word that always gets me to get other people to call me out is asshole. Because it's not asshole. It's asshole. Yeah, which is quite different. It's very different to other people. It sounds normal to me. But it's definitely leaning into the kind of like unpredictable pronunciation of certain words. Oh, it's chaos. Yeah. It's sheer chaos. It's a lot of like phone is a lot of ones. That's one where people get it. You go to the Wawa to get a hoogie. Wow. Yeah, this is really different. It's interesting. Yeah. Yeah. And you pronounce the interesting like that too. Yep. I can't help it. It's sorry. So if I have a player Philadelphia and I know the family I need to get the approval for. You just come right in and big. I'll tell you the best part is about Philly is that everyone will tell you. Yeah. Whether or not you got it right. I'll get to do it one day. That would be cool. That would be very cool. Yeah. That would be exciting. Because no one will love you like Philly. Well, like Philly, people who love it. Love it. Yeah. Yeah. Task is doing it right at the show task. Yeah. Is doing it right now. They did a great job. Maravise town did it. Yes. Oh my god. Yes. Of course. Yes. Yes. Yes. It was it but it's it's not an easy one. As long as you come in and you use one I can't you be like waiting for something to bring it up. Yeah. Bring up. I hope someone brings up Wawa. Yep. You're just sitting there like somebody say Wawa. Oh, we're going to Wawa to get a hoogie. What is Wawa? Is it it's like a people's like to say that it's a glorified gas station. It is not it is it's a convenience restaurant. So you can get a plethora of things there. A hoogie, which is a summer summer. Yeah. Yeah. You can get mac and cheese some hot food. I love mac and cheese. It's very good mac and cheese. They do not have gluten free mac and cheese but maybe maybe think about some of the options is gluten free. We'll we'll put in a plea. plea ad, please. Now, I've also heard that you're big into Halloween and horror movies. I'm a sucker for them. How are you feeling about ghosts? Are you in on them? I don't know. Oh, I grew up in almost 750 year old farmhouse in the UK. Oh, yeah. So you're in on ghosts? Oh, yeah. Got it. Perfect. Have you ever seen a ghost? No, I haven't but I've had an experience where if I felt one, I think it's a soul, isn't it? And every human soul whatever has happened to it. Oh, no, if I feel like there is a there I really believe in the human soul. It lingers or it goes off and explores the next gorgeous adventure. It's beautiful and curious. Yeah. It keeps you very I do. Have you seen? I do. I have not. I would like to say that I don't necessarily want to. Okay. But I our oldest is very afraid of them. Really? Yes. And I have to I don't know to be honest, but I remind her all the time. I say like, well, we haven't invited anyone in. Yeah. And last week she was like, do you say that because you think they're real? Because everybody else has gone to the place of they're not even real. And I'm like, I can't lie to her. Yeah, hard. So I'm just going to let it ride with. We didn't invite them in. Yeah. And also, I think the idea of it being something to immediately be afraid of it feels like until it presents itself as something to be afraid of. Oh, for sure. We create a fear of the complete unknown, which is I mean, that feels like the human way, right? Right. And but actually what a great adventure will be to go and explore what happens after we die and all these kind of things. It's just something that I love that we don't know about yet. Well, I'm still not entirely certain that our three-year-old did not have a past life that she still is referencing while she's. I will say, it has not been as obvious as some of the other ones where like people. It's wild. Kids are out here fucking talking about how they like, it was a plane crash. And and then the parents are looking up the plane. And it's crazy. Yeah. Banana. Yeah. Some of that stuff. We have not experienced that. Thank God. Because I think that would freak me out. That would freak me out a little bit. Okay. But we she is like larger than life and very very at three years old, like freshly three years old. She I mean, anybody who meets her is like what's going on with her in the most delightful way. So does she get affected by just being out in the world and sometimes find things to be sometimes you can feel a lot of good energy and then sometimes you can feel things that it feels a little overwhelming. She is it's funny because when she's in the house or with people she knows she is like the most like just enjoying life. And then she gets out in public. It's almost as if she's like studying. Everybody around her. She can be the actress. Honestly. Truly. I think if anyone had to place bets, it would be on Benny. She's been wearing a string of pearls for the last month. Okay. She will not take them off. Like they live on her. Yeah. It's I cannot thank you enough for coming and chatting. First of all, second, I want to say thank you because I always try to make sure that I thank the people that I get to speak to the way that you are speaking about relationships with women. Oh gosh. You're going to get me is beautiful and it's incredible. And you are setting an example for the other little girls coming up and it's amazing. I'm so proud to be a part of of Ted Lasso in itself. But I am I think it's going to be one of the greatest prides of my life that I have been able to be a part of a relationship that is Keeley and Rebecca because there aren't enough of them. And I really I really believe in women and I really love them. And I I am one and I find it fucking difficult. So I know that's not always easy. And I but I believe in every form of a female, you know, and it means a lot to me that that means something to you because I do think in this day and age, we need to have each other's backs as much as possible. Yes. And raising four little girls, it's so much easier to do it in a world that you and Hannah are showing this example. And then you're continuing to talk about the female relationships in your life and how they make you better and how they support you. And that is an incredible asset that my girls get to have as an example. So I really, really appreciate it. And I also get to have an as an example because it's a nice reminder. It's important to you too. I think that's the other thing too is it's like the writers room have been have set up this incredible space to explore that. And I mean Hannah get to exist in it. But at the same time people feel it. They just maybe didn't say it enough, you know. And I think that That's the other thing that's so gorgeous too, is that you just have people's brains going, oh my god, of course, of course. I'm gonna call my best girlfriend right now. You know, the things that you do and like, and yeah, yeah, we're lucky. - You guys are doing it, so thank you. - Thank you, and thank you so much. - Thank you so much. - Yes, of course. - Make sure to watch the brand new season of Ted Lasso streaming now on Apple TV. Do you know, thank you so much. - Thank you. - And that's it for this episode of Not Gonna Lie. You can find even more clips for my longer conversation with Juno on my YouTube channel on More Shit Monday. Follow us on social media @nglwithkiley for clips throughout the week. Listen and subscribe wherever you get your podcasts. Not gonna lie, is a wave original brought to you by pullups. Thanks again to the real ones for tuning in. (upbeat music) Wave.