Kylie & Jennifer Garner on ‘13 Going On 30’ Sequel, Bennie's 3rd Bday & Ode To Team USA Women | Ep. 57

this episode is brought to you by palm olive family time isn't just the big moments it's weeknight dinners sitting around the table everyone talking all at once so when the plates are empty and the sink is full use palm olive ultra palm olives most powerful formula removes up to 99.9 of grease leaving your dishes sparkling clean and the new convenient pump makes cleaning even easier so you can spend less time tackling dishes and more time together shop now at palm olive.com hello i'm comedian caleb heron and i want you to check out my podcast so true with caleb heron which is now a wave series on youtube and everywhere you get your podcasts every week i ask my guests what is so true to them and we talk about all kinds of other stuff as well tune in if you want to know what kind of stuff that is some past guests include trixie mattel chris fleming drew off walla britney broski a bunch of other people that i love so much and even my mom who i have a complicated relationship with due to how evil she is but she's been an incredible guest on the show twice now new episodes drop every week on thursdays ciao bella not gonna lie yesterday after spitting out a piece of mango into my hand ellie sat down next to me looked at her chewed mango that's right in my hand and said you're you should put that in the trash i'm not gonna do it right now because i just sat down but you can and those are my own words used against me let's get this podcast started welcome back to not gonna lie a wave original brought to you by peloton check out the new podcast on the web at peloton.com and you can find me on social media at peloton cross training tread plus i'm your host kylie kelsey mckayla schifrin's long lost sister super fan of alissa liu amber glenn layla edwards breezy johnson let's be real honestly all of the badass women of team usa and my first child to greet me after being away for a week was benny yeah i'm as surprised as you are that was literally the last child i thought that was going to greet me uh finn was second wyatt said quote oh you're back yep it was as humbling as it sounds um finn didn't even realize that i had entered the house and when she did she immediately crawled over to me and snuggled her face into me um but it was benny that beat her to the punch coming up on today's episode we just celebrated benny's birthday yesterday so i'm gonna get honest about that and the birthday season here in our house after that i'm gonna be joined by one of my favorite actresses of all time and someone who's been with me for a long time and i'm gonna be wanting to talk to from the minute we started this podcast guys it's jennifer garner we got jennifer garner i i really i said that sentence and i meant it are you joking yes i'm not joking but yes i am as shocked as you are and so here we go before we get to all of that let's check out our real one comments of the week first up cool 78 minutes on this interview thank you queen emma next comment i sense a theme here at velvet stone breaker 9874 thankful for queen emma and this one hour and two minute runtime are you yoking me that's so messed up i was trying to be nice to queen emma and more importantly everybody knows i was trying to be nice to king brad because we had multiple athletes in um each episode so i didn't want our athlete conversations to be chopped up too short and they were so much fun to talk to they were so good to talk to and so i wanted to make sure that we did that and also i'm becoming a weak little baby and i keep saying yes i technically gave queen emma unlimited minutes for that second milan episode i'm not proud of what i did but a little proud because it was a fun episode so if you haven't watched it you should because it's the whole reason we went to milan yeah cheering on the athletes was so much fun but uh let's be real getting to sit down in a one-to-one situation and ask them all the questions that i had out-of-body experience uh queen emma tried to say all right cool 60 it is but she can 54 or less that was so generous wow i'm being sweet okay can i be honest uh like i mentioned we just celebrated benny's birthday so today i'm gonna get honest about that and birthdays in general with a six almost five three and almost 11 month old uh to celebrate benny's birthday we had elsa deliver snow you know when you're good you're good and uh apparently we nailed that um because benny was very excited about elsa's delivery because it was a massive we literally got hit with a blizzard so i had to prepare the day before by getting groceries that applied to either option that could potentially happen which was a chocolate cake which is only one we get and i had to prepare the day before and i had to prepare and uh a funfetti cake which is uh like a box cake mix so i bought that and i bought a chocolate cake and i said which do you want and she said chocolate cake so we had chocolate cake and we had a day of benny gets to pick so she picked watching elsa in the morning we watched frozen two then we went outside we played in the elsa delivery of snow and that was it elliot she was very excited about elsa's birthday and she was very excited about elsa's birthday and she was very excited about elsa's birthday and she was very excited about elsa's birthday and she was very excited to tell very excited about elsa's birthday and she was very excited to tell benny happy birthday and then she very excited to tell benny happy birthday and then she exclaimed exclaimed exclaimed it's very exciting because that means my it's very exciting because that means my it's very exciting because that means my birthday is tomorrow birthday is tomorrow birthday is tomorrow and believe it or not her birthday is you and believe it or not her birthday is you and believe it or not her birthday is you guessed it not the day after benny's guessed it not the day after benny's guessed it not the day after benny's so that was a tough pill to swallow for so that was a tough pill to swallow for so that was a tough pill to swallow for ellie ellie ellie um we had to discuss that her birthday is um we had to discuss that her birthday is um we had to discuss that her birthday is next week next week next week she didn't like that the girls have very she didn't like that the girls have very she didn't like that the girls have very much come to understand that when it's much come to understand that when it's much come to understand that when it's their sister's birthday it is their their sister's birthday it is their their sister's birthday it is their sister's birthday sister's birthday sister's birthday because like i've said a million times because like i've said a million times because like i've said a million times before they're not getting presents on before they're not getting presents on before they're not getting presents on their sister's birthday it's not their their sister's birthday it's not their their sister's birthday it's not their day everybody gets cake and that's day everybody gets cake and that's day everybody gets cake and that's exciting enough um everyone talks about exciting enough um everyone talks about exciting enough um everyone talks about the terrible twos i didn't find the terrible twos i didn't find the terrible twos i didn't find two to be terribly crazy with benny i two to be terribly crazy with benny i two to be terribly crazy with benny i think it's more that she's the third think it's more that she's the third think it's more that she's the third child and that we've been worked down child and that we've been worked down child and that we've been worked down we've been worn down by her sisters we've been worn down by her sisters we've been worn down by her sisters who are gonna get in the comments and be who are gonna get in the comments and be who are gonna get in the comments and be like by three years old she should have like by three years old she should have like by three years old she should have already lost the passes hey i'm gonna already lost the passes hey i'm gonna already lost the passes hey i'm gonna need you to need you to need you to sit down um you're you actually came to sit down um you're you actually came to sit down um you're you actually came to the wrong place the wrong place the wrong place and uh we don't we don't accept that and uh we don't we don't accept that and uh we don't we don't accept that type of type of type of around here so i'm gonna need you to around here so i'm gonna need you to around here so i'm gonna need you to just kick rocks um not the place or the just kick rocks um not the place or the just kick rocks um not the place or the time or the person time or the person time or the person yeah um so yeah um so yeah um so we need to kick passes we need to kick passes we need to kick passes and we also need to take no for an and we also need to take no for an and we also need to take no for an answer answer answer super simple those are our two things super simple those are our two things super simple those are our two things that we're gonna work on as a three that we're gonna work on as a three that we're gonna work on as a three major um i would love to say that major um i would love to say that major um i would love to say that benny is going to be a three major but benny is going to be a three major but benny is going to be a three major but she already did the teenager thing at she already did the teenager thing at she already did the teenager thing at two two two so three will be a so three will be a so three will be a fun surprise every single age has been fun surprise every single age has been fun surprise every single age has been different for every kid so it's hard different for every kid so it's hard different for every kid so it's hard to predict what's about to happen i to predict what's about to happen i to predict what's about to happen i cannot believe that benny is three cannot believe that benny is three cannot believe that benny is three that's that you know what's up that's that you know what's up that's that you know what's up that's up because that makes me sad that's up because that makes me sad that's up because that makes me sad and i don't like it how about that and i don't like it how about that and i don't like it how about that i've had enough of the growing up thing i've had enough of the growing up thing i've had enough of the growing up thing and the messed up part is when your kids and the messed up part is when your kids and the messed up part is when your kids look at you and say look at you and say look at you and say i'm growing up on you and i'm growing up on you and i'm growing up on you and just twist the dagger that they've just twist the dagger that they've just twist the dagger that they've now thrust into your bag it's fine now thrust into your bag it's fine now thrust into your bag it's fine i'm fine i'm fine i'm fine all right that does it for can i be all right that does it for can i be all right that does it for can i be honest next up let's get to doom scroll honest next up let's get to doom scroll honest next up let's get to doom scroll the week first up on doom scroll the the week first up on doom scroll the the week first up on doom scroll the week i'm watching espn on monday nights week i'm watching espn on monday nights week i'm watching espn on monday nights and looks like i'm watching sundays now and looks like i'm watching sundays now and looks like i'm watching sundays now too because too because too because yeah we're getting women's sports yeah we're getting women's sports yeah we're getting women's sports sundays sundays sundays and i'm so here for this let's see the and i'm so here for this let's see the and i'm so here for this let's see the clip it's caitlyn clark in sunglasses clip it's caitlyn clark in sunglasses clip it's caitlyn clark in sunglasses dancing to a little techno and it says dancing to a little techno and it says dancing to a little techno and it says women's sports sundays a new hub women's sports sundays a new hub women's sports sundays a new hub spotlighting top match-ups from the spotlighting top match-ups from the spotlighting top match-ups from the wmba and wmba and wmba and national women's soccer league they will national women's soccer league they will national women's soccer league they will launch sundays in prime time in the launch sundays in prime time in the launch sundays in prime time in the summer i love this so much i love that summer i love this so much i love that summer i love this so much i love that espn is prioritizing women's sports i espn is prioritizing women's sports i espn is prioritizing women's sports i love that they see that love that they see that love that they see that the uh the uh the uh trajectory is upwards speaking of women's trajectory is upwards speaking of women's trajectory is upwards speaking of women's sports the women of team usa sports the women of team usa sports the women of team usa officially won eight officially won eight officially won eight of 12 of our gold medals at the winter of 12 of our gold medals at the winter of 12 of our gold medals at the winter olympics that means team usa won a total olympics that means team usa won a total olympics that means team usa won a total of 12 gold medals and eight of them of 12 gold medals and eight of them of 12 gold medals and eight of them that's right two thirds of them who were women. How about that? Plus, oh my gosh. Oh gosh. I love this so much. Plus 21 of our 33 or 63.6% of total team USA medals were won by women because women's sports period. That's it. That's the whole sentence. This is the sixth, sixth, six, one, two, three, four, five, sixth consecutive Olympics where US women have won more gold and total medals than you guessed it, the men. And to that, I say, ha ha ha ha ha ha. Ha ha ha ha ha ha. It gives you something to laugh about. Interesting. Let's fucking go, ladies. Also, let's fucking go US women's hockey. I'm so proud of you guys. We got to witness that in person. Magical. And then I got to run into them. What was it? A day later. And then I promised them that I was going to win. Yeah, you know what you get between 13 and 30? Boobs. Boobs. Boobs. You can fill out this card. very small actually can i tell you something i loved that moment because i was just like maybe that means one day i will get boobs to fill out a dress they never came i'm still waiting but it was like that was my best i've tried my best you mean you're just you're pumping i know you've been pregnant i gave my best chance yeah naturally to get some boobs and still we're waiting we're just we're just i'm so patient i'm still waiting so we'll see um where does the character of jenna rink rank on your characters that you played i mean she gosh i mean she's one or two she's right up there yeah yeah because how magical i got to i just remember coming up with things in the moment and playing so much um it had there was so much there was so much joy in the creation of her and of that set in general so yeah she's up there jenna rink um sydney bristow's you know gotta be she might be number one just because she changed not just she changed my life because people cared it was the first thing i ever did that people really cared about but more than that she gave me this sense of self and confidence because i had never um i i had always i had such girl next door energy that i'd never had a swagger and she made me have a swagger and i think it's really important for young women to find recognize and know how to use their own swagger i love that um i have so many favorite scenes from the movie but i think one people probably remember the most is you in the dress the boobs dress uh-huh could you still do the dance first of all yeah you remember the moves i've had to look at the moves i i could do it if i had i'm not gonna ask you because i don't i'm not bless you first of all wouldn't put you on the spot like that there was a point in my life where everyone was like i know what you can do when you get onto this talk show do the thriller dance like for a very long time and i was like oh my gosh i'm never gonna but then it does go away and now it's been long enough that it's sweet again yes um but yeah i could i could give you your basic love it now we had um caleb is a former guest and friend of the show and he's been a fan of the show for a long time and he's been a fan of the show for a long time um caleb heron and his not gonna lie was that he thinks that we should bring back flash mobs i love flash mobs did they go away i think for a little while they have i think i'm gonna use your word for you i think they're a little cringe i think they're cringe i think most people would say they're cringe and by people i mean young people i think they are cringe for the youth yes the youths if you will youth but i i tear up i mean somebody pulls out a tuba and i got a tear i get a little sparkle behind my eyes and it's a tear i love love it don't even start with like there's their little cheers yeah levels little cherub kids a pie oh yeah somebody has a violin oh done done yeah i just i really i think we should probably bring it back i had a flash mob for me once did you this is the kind of flash mob that i even there were no cameras nobody's ever seen it yes it was at a restaurant i have um a couple of friends that do things for my birthday and i don't know i think they try to rattle me frankly and so and did they there we were having a lovely meal yes and they pulled they pulled out a bad replica of that dress the thriller dress sure um suzy de santo was the costume designer we've been friends and colleagues for 20 some years since then and so there are a lot of bad mock-ups i they told me to put it on over what i was wearing and they were like we just want to see and i did didn't think anything of it and then first mistake somebody started playing i don't even remember if it was thriller if it was something else anyway somebody started playing music and suddenly everyone in the restaurant slowly got up and started dancing and they all knew what they were doing and i just was like great this is a great show i'm going to do this i will dance with you no problem so that's amazing yeah isn't that fun and i love that there's no video evidence yeah that's amazing i'm into that i do i do think that's a hot take that maybe we should bring back flash mobs but we shouldn't just do it for clicks we should do it for the joy that you feel in your heart being involved how about that yeah i i have i have a not gonna lie okay i'm not gonna lie i think that whenever there's like a singing telegram i love where this is going goes on too long absolutely goes on too long i think if if somebody shows up to your house give me a verse a chorus repeat the chorus if there's a great bridge toss it in there yes thank you can i tell you where this spills over into a more i would say universal experience because i have never received a singing uh telegram whatever you would call that i have not yet feel free not to send me one not asking for one um but where this spills over i just spoke to someone who recently got married and i gave them the tip of have you talked to your dj about making sure that you are not expected to dance the entire song thank you because similar thing you get about halfway through and you're like how many verses are dancing in front of kind of left a lot yes yeah yeah that's a good one yeah that's a good one yeah that's a good one that's important it's that's very important and this is a way that we're helping educate the world yes don't stick around for longer than you need to in an awkward situation yeah if there's music involved cut it short cut it short pick the hot spot and get out i love nobody knows unless you're from west virginia you don't know all of take me home country roads do you know it's funny they played that as the last song at my wedding it's a great song i have no idea why because you're a lucky woman is that why yeah i looked at my husband and i said did you request this and he said nope and i said okay and then we just everyone sang it everyone sang it you are welcome my state says you are blessed we've blessed you thank you for that uh luckily for us 13 going on 30 super fans uh you actually brought back the iconic dress for halloween last year yeah i did uh we have the clip right here oh great oh retinol see this those readers you were talking about readers i'm telling you it's happening just because your your girl doesn't wear heels anymore ever if if i can help it if it's a choice yeah um is that the actual dress no that's the janky one that's the very one from the flash mob look at how we just connected the dots look at us full circle uh did you expect this level of excitement from fans when you posted that was there excitement yes yes oh bless oh that makes me happy um the clip uh the fact that you don't know this is crazy the clip had 42 million views you're welcome neutrogena okay all right girl um yeah good great nailed it nailed it that's so incredible you know though mark and judy and i um have talked about doing a rewatch for charity or something do you think people like if we watched it live together a thousand percent people be into that yes okay should we manifest it we love manifesting things here okay let's do it got it perfect we nailed it will a sequel ever happen are we just gonna let it be what it is um they've talked like gosh i was part of the invention of uh i was part of the development of a tv show of it at one point i was gonna be like the teacher or the mom next door kind of thing i was they've talked about a remake well i mean i just think it's inevitable because that is what the world is and it's such a great winning story but it's hard to how do you how do you not just replicate it and the wonderful thing about what gary did is it still stands up on its own very much um but there is a musical and there's a musical it's had a couple of runs um in manchester i believe it's going to london next the music is really great this amazing amazing performer she's in going into back into les mis right now her name's lucy jones and she played jenna rink and she's incredible and um um andy fickman directed it so i don't know maybe maybe we'll see it on broadway someday would that be so cool i would be awesome i would die i would make them put me in it for a night i would be like give me all the rehearsals i will be in the back but i'm doing this no not in the back in the back no i'd be happier in the back okay can i please sure thanks okay she wants to be in the back don't put her in the front um well since we're talking about the possibility of bringing back one of your characters uh you actually just did this uh with i know wasn't that cool i will tell you the marvel fan base is fun intense yeah intense is a good word insane yes both applicable now i'm sure you're sworn to secrecy but as a non-professional journalist i'm just gonna ask it meredith can tell me this uh should we be keeping our eyes peeled for more electra appearances in the future should we manifest it should we ready go let's go okay electra there we go got it nailed it okay now something i'm pretty certain you can tell me about okay is your apple tv series the last thing he told me the last thing he told me so i told you season two premiere is streaming now and episode two comes out tomorrow february 27th when you're watching this uh the i told you this morning i watched if you have not watched season one yet um um we're going to go ahead and do a little bit of an introduction of what we're going to talk about carve out some time people because i started watching at about 8 p.m and finished around 2 30 a.m because i couldn't stop myself i am sorry about that that you shouldn't be you need sleep but i'll tell you what uh-huh i stayed up right until finn our nine-month-old woke up for a feed so it was actually yeah it makes a lot of sense math it made sense scientifically um it the show is amazing the cast is incredible you were incredible thank you you felt like a maternal hug it just i i don't even know how to describe it it i was so so excited about season two and i may or may not have seen two episodes so far i can't believe you're like the first person i've spoken to who has seen two episodes so i'm kind of geeking out i will tell you yeah i'm not gonna we can bleep all of it we're gonna have to bleep the king brad bleep this when did you do that stunt yes i was like and like now okay you're you're soothing my little soul because i'm so nervous it's so nerve-wracking can i tell you after season one i thought to myself is season two gonna be like this lovely reunion situation king brad you're gonna have to cut this too let me tell you about this though you shouldn't watch it when you're in a hotel room by yourself that you can keep in that shit was bananas you know what i'm gonna do the minute i get back to this hotel i'm gonna watch episode three because i'm a glutton for punishment and holy shit oh thank you it's so good oh my gosh how about in gowrie rice how about judy greer let me tell you something let me show up let me tell you something and she's so bad i don't know if we'll ever play friends it's so good oh my gosh for anyone who hasn't watched this you play a stepmom to a teenage daughter in the show um you guys have some some things that you have to navigate together mm-hmm have you found it easier to connect with characters that are moms i don't know that no do i find it easier to connect with them because their moms know but i love having movie kids and tv kids i love the intimacy of that relationship whether they're a toddler and i get to become best buddies with a toddler or whether it's a little kid or a teenager or young adult i just i i love them and and they help give me perspective on myself as a parent and ways that i can be wait you know i'm in a relationship even practicing um the friction of it and ways that i can take that home and do a better job that's so which is mostly keeping my mouth shut because really your kids get to a point and i know i hate to say this to you because you're so far from this and it's really rude but they get to a point where you're you're not supposed to tell them everything yeah you're supposed to stay quiet and i don't know when that happens but all of a sudden it's not on you and you're actually you're in trouble and you're not supposed to tell them do this say this wear this sure and that is offensive naturally yeah but it's the truth you okay yeah okay we did talk about earlier how rude it is that our kids grow up it's rude yeah that and reading glasses those are the two things i have to tell you both are inevitable both are rude yeah both are rude um now reese witherspoon is also an executive producer on the show i read that you said that reese pushed you to go after this role is that true reese is incredible you know she really is have you met her i have not oh you'll like her so much because she's like hi but um and she's so beautiful and blonde and perky and little and you just think well i'm gonna put you in my little pocket but then it turns out she's brilliant and she is not only brilliant she's like she's the kind of small she's so mighty she could get under you and like lift you up on her on her one hand and palm you and be like you go tell them tell them what you need to tell them you know she's just all for women having every opportunity that they should have and she has completely transformed entertainment reese by herself by giving women these jobs making sure that the crew is peopled with women as leaders and women at the center of the story as their own heroes it's she's like she's kind of incredible now you uh i have a quote here that you shared from reese that quote nobody is sitting around thinking what can i shoot in la that's going to have a 50 year old woman in it you've got to create stuff on your own yeah she really did push me years ago she was just like hey this isn't just gonna happen you you have teenagers you want to be home okay you better you better go and create it and and make it so good that somebody has to buy it and that was uh that was kind of the beginning of um well you know i have a very um my my manager is my bestie and she is also very entrepreneurial and so she was also saying like let's get in there and figure this out and so we felt like our best shot at that was something in the family space and that's where yes day came from that's incredible now another legendary actress i'm grateful for right now is kate winslet is she not the bomb she's so cool i know i have not met her yet i'm waiting to question her on all things philadelphia because she did mayor of easttown and she nailed that accent she did she did a great job which is hard yeah um now kate recently talked about aging naturally and quote wanting a face that moves um i spoke about i feel very very strongly that my face tells all of the things that i've gotten to do and i think truly that crow's feet are one of the most beautiful things because it suggests that you've had a lot of things to smile about in your life um i did read that it seems that you feel similarly um i loved these quotes in particular from you you said i want to age i want to live to be 100 i want to wear every single bit of those 100 years and feel great about them and also you moved my forehead it's such a big part of my face yeah it's true yeah i did i mean of course i've tried botox and all that but it takes very little to completely freeze my forehead and then i just feel so conspicuous like i've got a walking billboard i might as well get a tattoo of something you know across it it's horrible um so no the the botox in the forehead unfortunately is not for me but i do have i have creasy wrinkles and i'm just they're gonna have to just be there so sometimes i get bangs i when you're not agreeing with them when i don't agree with my forehead i just cover it up for a little bit yeah that's great solution totally women have been doing it forever hi goldie that's actually very yeah that's a great point yeah um i realize when i talk to my kids especially because they're little i do a lot of like eyebrow raising when they're telling a story like they'll be talking and my face is doing like all of the emotions you might feel during the story because i want them to know that i'm engaged and interested in return yes and so i can't imagine not being able to give that to them can you imagine could you over dinner right now and you're just like that's so interesting thank you for telling me that and then what happens yes and that'd be so sad it would be so sad oh i can't do i can't no but i do love that women are speaking up about it and that they're we're making it clear that there's so much beauty in your face showing emotion a hundred percent and i also think that anyone who wants to do whatever they want to do they look beautiful they look beautiful but isn't that the key like women are beautiful period so don't think that i don't have something in there because i haven't done surgery i haven't i would tell you if i had i haven't done any of that stuff but at some once a year i go see someone and i'm like do it i'm a pin pincushion. I can't really tell the difference after because that is that's what i've noticed the more you spend on a dermatologist doing a bunch of things to your face the less you can tell the less you can tell that they've done it and for somehow that's a good thing i don't know why but i will go pay them so much money to say i don't want to see it i don't want to know that you did anything but do things to make me look younger and then you walk out you're like you look refreshed you look did you have a good did you have a nap did you drink a bottle of water but you know what that that's my that's my defiant yes i will do this but i don't get it done you know very often i will say in that same department i think it's so important to make that note that women are beautiful period so like no matter how a woman chooses to really people are beautiful period you are beautiful exactly how you would like to be and so if that means that you would like to make your forehead not move have at it a hundred percent and you can have an oopsie daisy and you can think that you're gonna leave with a forehead that moves and if for six months your forehead doesn't move god bless you we're gonna look the other way get some bangs wear a hat and you're gonna be okay it'll be an opposite get bangs so that yeah your forehead can chill out for a little bit it's like i don't know i don't know yes yes but but for the most part if you want to do it do it do it do my kids are like mom promises you'll never get a facelift and i say i am unlikely to rush toward a facelift and yet i refuse to make that promise because i am me today and i don't know how i'm gonna feel isn't that the i find that to be such a silly phenomenon that it's like 20 years ago you said that you would never do this right you're like do you know how much i've experienced this i've experienced this i've experienced in the last oh my five minutes yeah let alone 20 years right i can't speak to what i'm going to be doing in 20 years i 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gave myself a cheat sheet go ahead okay i'll tell you my cheat sheet um i have a 20 year old 17 year old and my little guy turns 14 tomorrow oh that's so exciting um my cheat sheet is that i got to evict all of my children in other words i got to choose their birthdays so um my first one is 10-2 oh yeah my then the next one is 2-2-3-2-3 that one is very helpful yeah uh and then march 30th 3-3-0 oh my gosh so i really good job yeah yeah we were also married on 4-14-18 if you add 4 and 14 it makes 18 i really tried to help him as much as humanly possible try and forget that one um your oldest is in college um we're still a ways away from that but i feel like i need all the advice that i can get okay so i'm going to go ahead and go ahead and go ahead and go ahead and go ahead and how is that going well the cool thing is teenagers are amazing they are their friends are amazing they're funny they have all these interests you never could have predicted they're thoughtful you know their kids are thoughtful and yeah they everybody has their moments we have our moments but you grow up with them so it's not like somebody's gonna hand you a 14 year old and say here deal with this you will have been through every age you will have had little foreshadowing of what this is going to be like you will have practiced and every day as a mom is a new day to say okay that didn't work let me try again every day is a fresh start yes every day is an opportunity and if you can just keep giving yourself that grace you get there and you're suddenly just like oh this is fun yeah yeah it's hard for them to go to school i i mean i just do you know that's what i thought that i was going to be upset about my daughter starting kindergarten it was not that she was starting kindergarten it was that she was starting school five days a week for the rest of her life until she moves out of my house yeah horrific i know insulting offensive yeah to i shouldn't allow it it's what's the point what is the point of having them if they're going to betray you like that it's horrible what is the point of having them if they're going to betray you like that really we gave them life and then they do that yeah i just i know it hurts my soul and i remember the first rainy day that my first was in kindergarten and we could walk our kids in and stay for the pledge of allegiance and i did every day and blah blah blah and the and i think i was pregnant at the time so i wasn't working so i was really very omnipresent yeah locked in and the first day that it rained and they said oh there's no flag line today you don't you know just drop them off and i dropped her off and she was going into school in her little backpack for kindergarten and that is the day i lost it because i was like what i don't even get to go you're just gonna do it without me i don't get to go to kindergarten i'm not hello hello i need to say enrolled here where am i gonna say the pledge of allegiance if not here gosh do i have to go home and do it by myself oh yeah you'll have those moments you know it's but they catch they catch you they like sneak up on you wait till junior and senior year you're so screwed nope no i actually i refuse i'm not i actually i would like to opt out oh i'm not i feel the tears and i can't i refuse to give into it here kylie kelsey i won't do it but i i do think about it and now she's gonna go back from christmas break just like bye i'm getting you know i said when is your flight she was like oh it's you know i booked it no what you what excuse me i'm sorry huh yeah no yeah no we do not approve yeah uh it's so but also go on sure it depends on the day really um because i'll tell you winter break this year i summer break i was like hey school can you take them yet you but winter break yeah i was like no i'll keep it it's mine i'll keep it to me right now um because it just it's like a magical time and it's only a like a week and a half two weeks off of school and you're just like okay and we get to do christmas crafts and we get to do like magical holiday things and everything's a celebration and you're like in the height of all the fun of that made ornaments yeah of course you did you're crafty we were talking about this we were talking about our craft skills that which neither of us have apparently both of us and think oh to be fair crafty i would think that people would see me and they know they'd know that you're not crafty i think that they might think i'm craftier than you are crafty correct yeah i'd almost guarantee it yeah but i'm not should we get together for a little crafting corner you know what crafting's fun it is fun i'll give you that and i'll lock in oh i can hyper focus yeah i can too it's just it's not gonna be good it's not gonna be good it's gonna look like well this is beautiful this artwork is excellent mine belongs up there perfect we'll craft we'll get together let's manifest crafting ready craft craft crafting gosh okay um being a mom also led you to becoming an entrepreneur it did as the co-founder and chief brand officer of once upon a farm we actually have some right here oh good oh good this is perfect thank you so much mckenna have you ever been a once upon a farm family yes okay good because these in particular these right here a house staple these are what i would try to explain to wyatt are the fruits and veggies that she used to eat before veggies and she argued with me um now the cool thing about this is that i still have two children in my house that will eat them now fantastic which is the bigger ones you might want to try one of those soft baked bars there's no sugar in them very tasty they have a little veggie in there um i love that okay we will good for a lunchbox that's that's what i need because packing a lunch i know makes me want to go cross-eyed and you have lunches to pack from now until kingdom come yes and i bless you for it because i i can't make that go away for you but you can continue to make delicious food it does really matter to us i mean that was a big thing when we so when cassandra curtis started once upon a farm she really it was from she was already like in the food space kind of an entrepreneur and she had her first baby and she was so frustrated you know you open a jar of food and you're like oh my god i'm gonna eat all of this and you're like oh my god i'm gonna eat all of this and you're like oh my god i'm gonna eat all of this you know you open a jar of baby food and it's like or a typical pouch that's just sitting on the shelf it could be older than the baby okay it could be first of all the color and the smell the color dawn squeeze out a shelf-stable pouch of mango and then squeeze out our mango which is bright yellow because it's just mango that's you know and so anyway it's going along we're feeding a lot of kids and we're feeding them you know there's you know there's a lot of kids and we're feeding them you know there's a lot of kids and we're feeding them you know there's a lot of kids and we're feeding them you know there's a lot of kids and we're feeding them you know there's