Kylie & Jason on Their Most “Toxic Traits,” Girl Dad Glow Ups & Singing Pirate Shanty Lullabies | Ep. 72

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Hello, I'm comedian Caleb Herron, and I want you to check out my podcast, So True with Caleb Herron, which is now a wave series on YouTube and everywhere you get your podcasts. Every week, I ask my guests what is so true to them, and we talk about all kinds of other stuff as well. Tune in if you want to know what kind of stuff that is. Some past guests include Trixie Mattel, Chris Fleming, Drew Ufwala, Brittany Broski, a bunch of other people that I love so much, and even my mom, who I have a complicated relationship with due to how evil she is. But she's been an incredible guest on the show twice now. New episodes drop every week on Thursdays. Ciao, Bella. Ciao, Bella. It was just a speedo. Perfectly normal. Beach attire. He likes to sing pirate shanties. I do like to sing pirate shanties. Oh, had she but told me. How do you feel about Pepe Le Pew? I think he's adorable. Because I feel like that would be more of my aesthetic. I haven't had a Father's Day gift yet. I look forward to seeing what it is. It's a shirt. I really hope she said ****. We have to bleep that. Oh, okay. You're a jerk. Kylie is a recording artist. You're such a butthole. Not going to lie. We're back here at the jury. Jersey Shore. And we're trying to race some weather. Let's see if we can do it. Let's get this podcast started. Welcome, real ones, to our very special second annual Jersey Shore episode of Not Gonna Lie. A wave original brought to you by Allstate. As you can see, I'm back at one of my favorite places on Earth. The Ocean Drive in Seattle City, New Jersey. And as you can also see, I'm your host, Kylie Kelsey. Proud lover of Seattle. Proud supporter and advocate of the Eagles Autism Foundation. You can actually donate now to help us reach our goal of over a million dollars. The link is in the description. And proud wife to this flip-flop wearing bearded guy next to me who famously ripped his shorts off at last year's OD event. That's right. We're almost one year out exactly from the day that he pantsed himself and proceeded to wear a Speedo for the rest of the event. It's a perfectly normal beach attire. Maybe in Europe. Europe. Miami, I think I've seen a bunch down there. For sure. I don't frequent Miami, so I can't speak to that. Definitely not specific to the Jersey Shore. Yeah. Yep. You guessed it. It's my husband. Jason, welcome back. Hey, thanks for having me. This episode comes out the day after this year's Shorebirds event. Can you tell everyone what crazy shit you have planned? Because if there's going to be a breakaway situation, we want to know. Yeah, no breakaways this year. Last year, I lost a bet to Bo Allen. We didn't do the bet this year, so no breakaway Speedo shorts. Was that because you didn't want to lose? Correct. Okay. Yep. Well, I think the Speedo was good for a year. We can retire the Speedo. I didn't want to just do the same thing over and over again. You got to keep it fresh. Yeah. This year, we're going to have a 250-gallon aquarium filled with beer. I love that you said it. Like, you went into it like, yeah, super casual. We just have a massive aquarium of beer. Yeah. Yeah. It's called, we're calling it the Beer Aquarium. Naturally. Yes. And if the Beer Aquarium gets drank this week, emptied, we will be donating another $100,000 to the Eagles Autism Foundation. So drink up. So it's your responsibility to come to the Ocean Drive and drink as much beer as possible for families, autism, research. Neurodiversion. Am I saying that right? Mm-hmm. Yeah. I think that's right. If you come and you drink beer, we will only make a bigger impact on the autism community, their families, the programs, the research that are supported by the Autism Foundation. That's exactly what I just said. That's literally what he said, verbatim. He said those words exactly. And obviously, Garage Beer is helping us out with that. Utz has a giant pool with, I think, a million. Cheese balls filled that people are going to bob for something in the bottom of it. I think golden. A golden beer. Golden beers, yes. So all in all, it'll be a couple days of debauchery as well as community and philanthropy all combined together. My kind of favorite coalescing things of. Yeah. Okay. We'll talk more about guest bartending. But coming up on today's Jersey Shore special, Jason and I are going to answer some of the most pressing, ask me some things questions sent in by the real ones, like what to do when your kids hit the three-nager stage and how difficult it was or wasn't to squat Travis at the other podcast live show. We also have a Doom Scroll clip that's inspired a game Jason doesn't know we're playing yet. And to be honest, neither do I. That's always a recipe for success. And then I'm going to be joined by one of my best friends who also runs the Eagles Autism Foundation. She's going to embarrass me just like my college roommates did. It's the EAF executive director, Ryan Hammond. But before we get to all of that, a quick NGL announcement. As some of you may have already seen, yeah, I was in Disneyland Paris a few days ago taping a very special episode of the podcast with a good friend of ours, Alona Mar. But none of you can keep a secret. So now people know. What you don't know is who I got to meet. No, you just said it. You said it, Alona Mar. No, I know, Alona. I got to meet Olaf. Yeah. Oh, no, no. Bleep that. The rundown blatantly says, hint at it, but don't say it out loud. Bleep that. Bleep it. I got to meet someone who likes warm hugs. Whatever. But that's all I can say for now. You got to wait until next Thursday, July 2nd to watch our Disneyland Paris spectacular. All right. That does it for today's announcements. Let's start things off with six-ish. Ask me some things. It's actually ask us some things. Questions from the real ones in honor of our year six of shorebirds. Well done, Queen Emma. I see what you did there. Ask us some things is brought to you this week by Allstate. Number one, first up from the, from at, I'm not going to, I'm not going to say people's names because then I always go to shit on that. Number one, first up from. Yeah. At sunshine, sweetheart. I did it anyway. I fucking did it anyway. Fuck you. Number one. What's wrong with sunshine, sweetheart? What? No. Every so often we get into it and someone has like some weird ass, like you can't tell where the first word ends and the second word starts the whole fucking thing. Yeah. Yeah. Reading names is trash. What did you get for father's day? He doesn't actually know. Yeah. He didn't receive it yet. Unfortunately, I was out of town on father's day. Yeah. Which is not ideal. Uh, but I look forward to seeing what it is. Me too. I know what it is. Um, yeah. It's a shirt and a game that I ordered months ago. That's in the back of my closet that I forgot to bring to the shore. And now he can't have until I go home. I really hope she said that. I really hope she said. Oh, okay. God. Never mind. Okay. Now I'm sweaty. Here we go. Uh, next one. What's Kylie's best attribute? This is for me. You looked so. No, they asked me. Um, that's a tough one to ask because you have a lot of really good attributes. Way to save it. And sometimes strengths can be weaknesses. Um, I would say that you're a very, uh, you're very principled person and convicted human being. And that allows you to stay true to who you are and what you stand for and, um, understand what's right and wrong. And I think that, um, all of those things are also things that I value and love and appreciate about you and keep me headed in the right direction as well. And, uh, I would say that's your best attribute. That was the kindest way to say that I'm bullheaded. I mean, at times for sure. No, there's definitely negatives to that, but I would say overwhelmingly positive than negative. Thank you for that. That's very sweet. Um, Queen Emma wants to know what's your least favorite. - Favorite. - Least favorite? - Yeah. To be fair, whenever I'm asked the question, and I'm sure you already know this, but whenever I'm asked the question, because I did say this on the other podcast, whenever I'm asked the question about my biggest pet peeve with you or the thing that bothers me, it's just that you're loud. Yeah. That's always my go-to. I get it. You're a loud person. Least favorite. Did you hear that? He didn't argue with me at all. I don't think there's anything to argue with. He's so loud. I think I got loud feet, loud breathing. I mean, there's not a lot of. I'd be a really bad ninja. The breathing doesn't bother me. You'd be a trash ninja. Bad ninja. Least? He's like, there's so many to choose from. I would say my least favorite attribute is how particular you are with food. This is perfect because I can't argue with that. Yeah. Oh, there's nothing to argue about. It's. I mean, if anything is even remotely even close to the date, you want to throw it out. Correct. If anything's been sitting on the counter for like an hour. Also correct. You're like, nope, that's been sitting out. Or I put it in the fridge, which. If I try and make anything, I know that you kind of want to eat it, but at the same time, you know that I probably put zero sanitary efforts. I mean, he probably didn't even wash his hands. It was cooked, though. It's going to be like the bacteria gets killed in the flame. Yeah. So, that's how it works. Mm-hmm. What I will say is, is that. Yeah. And I've said this multiple times, that you, since we have been together, you've helped me step out of my comfort zone in a lot of ways. Yeah. The idea of you make your partner better. For sure. You've helped me be more open-minded when it comes to food, and I think there's a number of times. Yeah. during our relationship, like even when we were just dating. Yeah. where I ate something where you were, like, surprised that I ate it. Yes, for sure. Number three. Next question is clearly more Dallas rage bait. If Jason was traded to the Cowboys, would you have had a Cowboys Kelsey jersey? You would have. Well, I would have had to. Yeah. Yeah. That's part of the requirements. Yeah. I mean, I didn't. Here's the deal. This is actually a super easy question. Because I didn't even wear. I've never put on a Kelsey Eagles jersey. Okay. So this is actually a really easy question. I'm going to take the loophole on this one. I'll say this. If we have. Well, I guess we only have daughters right now. If we ever had a daughter that became a Dallas Cowboys cheerleader, as much as I hope that that does not happen, no offense to anybody, I will gladly wear anything to support them. I think that. I get that you don't want to wear Dallas stuff. I get that there's like a whole Philly moniker out here. I think it's really important to show support for people that you love. And that goes deeper than my love of the Cleveland Browns or any of that stuff. Okay. That's fair. Still enough for you. Luckily, we didn't have to find out. Next up, number four. What's the best part of being a girl dad and what's the hardest part? Best part for me, it was only Trav and I growing up. So I've never been around tiny women outside of like elementary school. And even then they had cooties, so I wasn't really talking to them. So I just think how adorable they are, how much you get to play with them, how much. how much you get to see them learn and grow. Like, Benny's in a great stage right now because she's like just old enough to really start articulating what she has in her head and what she's thinking. But she's still young enough that everything is kind of amazing. So like every little thing she kind of like picks up on and she's starting to go out of that age a little bit. But that's my favorite. My favorite stage when they're really like in awe of the world and they want to talk about everything and things that you take for granted on like a really regular basis are, I guess, like put more in the forefront of your mind. So you get to experience the world again through the lens of like a tiny human who's just doing it for the first time. Is there anything that you can point out as the hardest part of being a girl dad? I feel like that's down the road. I haven't experienced that yet. Right now, there's not a lot of negative sides to girls. I think those are going to come in like. When we're all synced up. Yeah. The worst case scenario is, is if we end up as like a chain reaction period house, which means that at least one person every week of the month has their period. Oh, God, we're going to have so much fun. Yeah. Teenage years are not going to be fun for a lot of those reasons. Okay. That's fair. Number five. Next one is someone seeking out parenting advice. So let's see how this goes. Hi, Kelsey's. We are in the three-nager straight up sassing everyone phase. Is this normal? What is it? The three-nager. She described it as the three-nager straight up sassing everyone phase. I mean, I love that stage. Who doesn't? I love a sassy three-year-old. That's hilarious. That's Bennett right now. Exactly. Yeah. Benny's. Benny. Well, she's not always sassy. I think she goes in ebbs and flows where she is like the sweetest thing ever, but she definitely struggles with the concept of sharing and taking her turn on things. Yep. She goes from being like the funniest person on the planet and like holding. And being somewhat of like a stand-up comedian. Yes. And then the moment, two moments later, she's mad that they're laughing at her. Pissed. Yeah. Absolutely furious. Yeah, none of it makes sense. And there's no knowing like what the breaking point will be. That's the craziest part because she'll go and she'll go and she'll riff and she'll keep running. And then all of a sudden you're just like, that's what got you? Now you're crying. No, this is my favorite stage. I'm all in. I like emotion on their sleeves. How do you respond to when they act a little bit sassy to you? Well, describe what do you, is sassy like throwing a temper tantrum or is sassy something different? I think sassy is sort of like trying to get their way. Let it ride. I like when, I think it's really easy when kids are having their emotions on their sleeves and outwardly telling you how much they hate your guts. I can solve that. I can tell how much I love them and diffuse that situation very easily. Um, and we're still on the stage where all of our kids are doing that. I fear more when kids are dejected and like actually not being sad. I sass it up. Let me know how much you're hurt by somebody taking your stuffed animal. We can, we can solve that issue, but don't go into a corner and not tell anybody and let it stew. That's when it's like a major issue. Okay. And last one for now. Do you think Kylie or Queen Emma planted the mice in the kitchen? To speed up project cat? Well, it hasn't sped the project up. So if it is operation failed. Yeah. Um, I, I feel like we have a very good timeframe for when the cat is going to happen. And, um, it will, uh, I, I'm staying true to that timeline. How quickly, because there have been quite a few times where you've either been like at work or. Like on a trip where I've texted you, like, I'm going to get a cat. How quickly do you make the connection between that and, oh, Kylie saw a mouse in the house? Oh, instantaneously. It is the tell of like, I'm headed to the shelter to get a cat. He's like, where did you see the mouse? Where were the mouse droppings? Um, he knows that that is a massive trigger for me because I'm an animal person. I'll pick up spiders. I'll take them outside. You can't say you're an animal person. If you have that much disdain for animals. Well, to be fair, when the one mouse had to be squeeze squashed, I did call on you. Yeah. I'll squish a mice. Mouse. Nope. I'll squish mice. Got to catch them pretty quick. Got to catch them first. You know who would catch a mouse? Cat. Yeah. Is it still barn cat or bust? Cause I, I did tell you about the P, uh, the. The PSPCA has the barn cat. Yeah. Um, program. Like, well, how are we, what are we calling a barn cat? The barn cat is basically an inside outside cat, a cat that's really there to control past one that doesn't necessarily want to be your BFF, but, um, is there to do a job? Yeah. I mean, that's certainly what I would prefer in a cat. Yeah. Yeah. Okay. I mean, if we're really trying to eradicate mice, there are individuals who's been entire professions will. No, no, we have an exterminator. Yeah, that - Is going to deter the mice situation far more than cats. - Jason, I grew up with a cat in the house and I couldn't tell you how many times I saw a mouse in the house that I grew up in. - Sure. - I just really don't like mice. I don't know what it is, the way they scurry. It's so gross. Okay, that's it for Ask Us Some Things, part one brought to you by Allstate. We'll answer some more later, but right now, let's talk about the reason we're here in places Kylie has some business being. This week, I actually have a lot of business being right here at the Ocean Drive in Sea Isle and Jason has even more business being here because it's our big EAF fundraising. I guess it's, I would say it's 48 hours. It's our 48 hours of fundraising for Team 62. We're in year six of this event. - Yep. - How much have things changed since the first event guest bartending here at the OD? - Well, the first year, I think, I don't even know, was it just me? - Yes. - Yeah, I mean, the first year, it was just one person. We were actually like serving drinks. - Yeah, wasn't that wild? - Yeah. - How do you think your bartending skills are? - I think I'm very good at beer and most normal mixed drinks. - Okay. - And I think when I'm here, I'm like freaking ready to move, and shake, and so I'm, I think I'm a good bartender. Yeah. - Okay. - I'd be terrible if you asked me to make like a Manhattan or like something of like higher scale or class. - Sure. - That's not what I will be able to execute on. - You're like a rum and coke kind of guy. - Anything that comes from a little squirty gun, if I can fill it up with that and well liquor, I can make you a concoction. Yeah. - Easy. - Yeah. - Okay, what's the craziest thing you've signed over the years? - I feel like there've been a number of weird items here. - We ran into the baby. - The baby yesterday. - Yesterday. - Yep, yep. - At the arcade. - That's right. - That Jason signed right over that wall back there. What was it? Maybe two or three years ago? - Had, I mean, the baby was-- - I mean, she looked probably three. - Maybe three. - How much more community do you get? - For sure. No, it was, that was definitely a fun one. Obviously babies are not allowed in the venue. - Correct. - So that was a reach over the wall, you know, Simba moment. Then, - I'm pretty sure I've signed an amputated leg here. - Yes, of course. - Nearly positive. - Why not? - I'm trying to, there've been a bunch of odd items. - The craziest part about that is there is not a single person in the Philadelphia area that just heard that and didn't, like, didn't bat an eye. - Standard. - I mean, that is just about as Eagles fan as it gets. - Yes. I think there've been a ton of other really interesting ones, but those are probably the two that stand out the most. - For the second year, you're in a row. I'm also putting on a yoga class where donations will benefit EAF. Jason, will you be taking the class again this year? It's a little later in the morning. He had no idea we were doing a yoga class. - Yeah, I mean, it almost later in the morning makes me less likely. - Less likely. - Yeah, it's like, just means it's going to be hotter at that time. - That's so fair. That's really fair. Okay. - It was very hot last year. - I also fully, I tore my hamstring last year running. - Yes, you did. - Almost all the time when I'm tearing muscles, it's because, I have stretched. I am very notoriously anti-stretching, which my back does not appreciate. But for some reason I just find myself getting injured less when I don't stretch. - Okay. - So I know that goes against every, I think scientifically, like every, what's the, what's the study of people that study exercise? Kinesiology? - Yes. - Or human movement or something? - The study of movement is kinesiology. - Yeah, I think they would all. - Physiology is how your body works. - Like unanimously disagree with me. - Okay. - Well, Jason might not be there, but I will be because we're doing yoga tomorrow at Excursion Park, right over there, just behind us. Shout out to Stride Fitness here in CIO City and also Lululemon for their generous donation and partnership for this event. We're so excited to do it a second year. It's such a great way to kick off the day and it will actually roll us right into our all abilities series with EAF. We will have some yoga, some football, some swimming, happening there as well. And all abilities means that kids, both typical and neurodivergent, can participate in the same clinic. It's absolutely outstanding and an instance in which a lot of families find that it's the only place where both of their kids or multiple kids can participate together as a family. So it's a very exciting event. We're so excited to be kicking off all these events for this year. Even if you can't make it in person, you can donate to EAF and contribute to our, hopefully, $1 million goal. Again, the link is in the description. And guys, it could just be as little as $5. It still gets us closer to our goal. We really appreciate any donation. Moving on, let's get right to Doom Scroll of the Week. Doom Scroll is brought to you this week by CVS. All right, first scroll, one of my favorite corners of the internet this summer has been World Cup soccer fans trying American things for the first time. And these English fans discovered water ice. - Nice. - Yes, guys, we've had our Philly cheese steak. - Yeah, at Reader's. - Reader's. - Reader's. - Reader's. He did say water ice, if you heard that. - I've definitely not tried it already, so let's give it a taste test. - Great choice, by the way. He got mango. - Sucking up flavors, pops in your mouth. Refreshing on a hot day, giving this a nine out of 10. - Ooh, and I've gone for-- - Lemon. - The lemon one. So I actually haven't tried this one, so we'll give it a shot. - He says it's better than lemonade, by the way. Which really blows my mind. Watch. - That is like a lemonade, but 10 times better. I'll go for 9.2. - 9.2, strong. - Top tier spot. - Top tier. - Yeah. Okay, now, what water ice flavor would you have recommended them? - I think the mango's the one. - Right? - Yeah, that's the most universally liked and loved flavor. I think everybody has their own, but that's the one that I think most people identify as the best one. Burb. One that's really good. - If you had to suggest one thing for the World Cup fans coming into Philadelphia to try, what would it be? Obviously, they said that they had just tried a cheesesteak, which I think is kind of a staple, but is there anything else that's a little more obscure that you think people should be trying? - Oh, man. I mean, a lot of people like roast pork sandwiches. I think it's definitely-- - He doesn't 'cause he doesn't like broccoli rabe. - Yeah, I'm not a broccoli rabe fan. - You can get it with spinach, by the way. - And I'll give a caveat. I've had broccoli rabe that I like, but I think in general, I'm not a huge-- - Sharp provolone. So a typical roast pork sandwich in Philadelphia is roast pork, shaved very thin, sharp provolone, and broccoli rabe. You don't like broccoli rabe, and you also don't like sharp provolone. - I don't mind sharp provolone. I would rather have regular provolone. I think that is another iconic Philadelphia sandwich. - That's a great call. - Their hoagie rolls-- - Thank you for saying that. - Are going to be better than any place else, and when you go back to the other places that you are and you're getting a hoagie roll, you're going to make out of this really just, there wasn't a lot of thought or care put into it. - Now, since you're not on TikTok regularly, I do want to inform you what the, a couple other things are that the World Cup fans are, that are just blowing their minds. - Yeah. - Number one, free refills on drinks. - I've seen some of those videos. - It's blowing their minds, which is hilarious to me. - Yes. - Chips and salsa being brought to the table for free at a Mexican restaurant, that they come out with the menus, be like, okay, here are your chips and salsa, what would you like to order? - Do they have, who's infatuated with this? Like, I'm assuming the-- - I think the marketing concept of you order food and you get chips and salsa to the table. - Yeah, I guess, but what I'm saying is what, all right, Japanese fans, thank you. Yeah, that's what I'm, like, there's no way that Mexican fans are coming to the U.S. - I think the whole point is, it's like the idea of-- - Having some type of free item? - Yes. - Yeah. - 'Cause that's what the free refills is doing. - I'll tell you this-- - That takes us to bread baskets because they're endless and they're free. - I'll also say this. Just so you know, there's nothing free. Like, you're paying for it, whether you know it or not. - Yeah. - And they advertise it under the concept-- - They've marked up all of the other things you're purchasing to make sure that you can cover costs on that. - This is classic capitalism marketing, Japanese, and foreign, and we have mastered it here in America. You may think you're getting something for free. In fact, you are paying for it. - The other thing that, the one thing that makes my heart happy that apparently, visitors are absolutely fascinated with is ranch dressing, which, hell yeah, we have it. - Yeah. - And hell yeah, it's delicious. If you have not, French fries. Also, pizza. - Pizza. - Things that you would not think to dip in ranch, dip it. - I know overseas, at least in Europe, they do a lot of mayonnaise, which would make sense that they also like ranch. Like, I feel like those are, they're both white and-- - Creamy. - Yeah, I guess that's the right word. - Mm-hmm. - Mm-hmm. - Trav's gonna love that. - I think, I don't know if Trav likes ranch or not. I feel like he doesn't. He doesn't like most of those. - There's no way. He doesn't, there's no chance he eats it. - But he'll do aiolis, which is weird. I don't understand. - 'Cause aioli is fancy, and he's fancy. - Well, aioli just has garlic. Isn't the only difference between aioli and mayonnaise, just that it has garlic? - Not every aioli has garlic. Only a garlic aioli has garlic. - I don't think that's true. - An aioli is like a homemade mayonnaise. - Can we look this up, please? - Yeah. The primary difference is that, Traditional aioli is, oh, is an emulsion of God. garlic i mean i kind of knew i was then why are they calling it a garlic aioli for people that don't know for people that don't know aioli is garlic maybe because people are because people like you it's classic american capitalism marketing honestly i'm gonna dive into that a little bit more later because i'm still not a hundred percent convinced when in doubt doubt it okay next scroll uh there's a new trend on tiktok called the girl dad effect and this is about to be very self-explanatory queen okay clip please i'm gonna watch this it says my husband before the girl dad effect um it's just a man okay did anybody turns out i'm actually gonna need an explanation is it supposed to be that he's oh okay did he both of us are like start that again where i think he just looks more mature the only difference is that he added a beard like that's literally he took his glasses off and has a beard now hold up hold up what what what what what what do you say about a beard huh what do you say about a beard it's a makeup for men it hides a lot of flaws why do you think i have this um yeah i've not seen that speaking entirely based off of our own house i don't necessarily know that it's girl dad specific but i do think that your spouse becoming a dad and getting to watch them move into fatherhood is hot it's hot well i think i think women find attractive a man that either has a like a child like uh dogs we actually planned that flyover military exercises yeah that was a flyover for us i think the act of like caring for another living thing is attractive yes yes for women to know that human being is capable of assisting that was a bad flyover formation because they shouldn't be that far apart i mean i don't know i don't know what they're doing what they're practicing um there was a similar trend of women showing their partners glow ups that we talked about on the show um but i am on record saying that you did not have a glow up because you've always been handsome what is it so the glow up is again in reference to the having daughters no the glow up that we talked about previously was basically like your spouse having a glow up since when you met them to them like being your actual spouse like maturing like like aging like fine wine and i said that you didn't necessarily have a glow up because you've always been handsome what do you think about that take do you think you had a glow up i think i've lost weight which definitely is good now looking back at old photos okay i think that um there's some really bad photos of me when i was young in my career i did i didn't shave my eyebrows with a like a razor and now you just let it ride no i'll pluck the middle of them but yeah um now speaking of that video jason a while ago you said you might have to bring the mullet back i i can't bring the mullet back no still thinking about it i would love to but my hair is thinning too much i can't do long hair anymore do you think you don't think that would work um no i don't think it would work my hair just doesn't have the same texture that it used to unfortunately okay i will say that you've gone quite gray my hair in the back still isn't gray i have a weary uh have you checked the back of your head have you checked the back of your head huh have you looked at the back of your head i'm looking at it right now i can see the back of your head okay gray is it gray but very oh you're salt and pepper in the way around like i'm like salt and pepper in certain parts of my beard out here i'm a two-toned uh how do you feel about pepe le pew i think he's adorable that would be more of my i think he's adorable and um whatever it is i'm into it you're into whatever's going on in your head i'm into it okay okay sounds good that does it for doom scroll the week brought to you by cvs we'll be right back with some more of the real ones most burning questions for us right after this checking all 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desire to do i can bond with them in other ways yeah i'll play barbie dolls with them sure i also just don't like that like feeling i don't like the smell oh yeah the smell of nail polish i am like it just is like it's very tough um now another real one also asked in relation to the flip-flops are there any places that you will not wear flip flops any places i won't wear flip-flops uh places that don't allow flip-flops uh which turns out are quite a few um especially if it's a nicer place um any place i'm gonna have to walk a lot like if i'm at a sporting event yeah if there's any place where i feel like there's a chance i might have to run or defend myself then i'm probably or you thank you yeah um i'll have to i'd probably wear close-toed uh foot attire okay um some of you might be thinking to yourself there's no way he wears them through the airport because sometimes you have to take your shoes off to go through tsa and you know what i'd say to you wrong i mean is there an easier way to take your shoes off than having flip-flops it's literally it just makes sense i just changed my answer i have to bend down and i have to bend down and untie my shoes put them on a conveyor belt walk through take them off time again this sounds like so much more work are on the airport floor every other animal's bare feet are walking all over the entire earth yeah next question what are his favorite songs to sing with the girls five little ducks hop little bunnies absolutely not he likes to sing pirate shanties i do like to sing pirate shanties i do like to sing pirate shanties my favorite and the girls it this so much so that the girls ask for it we were just down here and they were like oh my god i don't want to sing pirate shanties here a couple weeks ago and the girls were asking for them in the car that's the that's the beauty of a call and response thing for a very long time it was um who doesn't love call and response what was wyatt's song um well um really ellie was the one that liked it the most was leave her johnny leave her not the pirate shanty what was wyatt's song which i'm sorry you're talking about the um uh we can bach texas that was when she was a very young yes yes yes when i would play lugenbach texas why the only time she would stop losing i could get her to stop uh i during the bewitching hour most of our kids i'll find a song that i can realize like if i play it or sing it they'll stop crying i think the key is is that when jason plays a song for them he'll sing along to it or he'll get to a point where he doesn't even have to play it on his phone he can just sing it yeah and he has such like a nice low tone to his voice and it's so smooth when he sings to them that it sort of like i think just like snap snaps them out of whatever i mean it's usually the song particularly i it's very rare that i can sing it like acapella and get them to stop crying but if i for Wyatt if I played Lugenbach Texas for whatever reason she would stop crying she would if I played um Blue by the Fleetwoods um Finney will stop crying or would yes um which is the only reason Blue was higher than Taylor's album this year on my Spotify playlist um but the yeah I would say I do that I also sing a song that's super morbid from uh the Ballad of Buster Scruggs do you want me to sing it well I don't know what your song you're talking about until you do it um let me see if I can do this right now for some reason I'm blanking on it um as I was walking down by the lock as I was a walking one morning of late who who should I spy but my own dear comrade wrapped up in flannel so hard is his fate yeah I boldly stepped up and kindly did ask him oh why what is it kind of asking why my body is injured and sadly disordered all by a young woman my own heart's delight oh had she but told me when she disordered me had she but told me of it at the time I might have got salts or pills of white mercury now I'm cut down in the height of my prime get six pretty maidens to carry my coffin six pretty maidens to bear up my paw and give to each of them bunches of roses so they may not smell me as they go along good night I hope you don't smell the rotting corpse through these roses yeah um no I like that song the cape by Guy Clark um uh some of the Fleetwood songs some of the anything that sounds like lullaby ish I would sing a lot of the girls when they're in the crib at night um number three the next question is actually a tweet yeah no one's asking the question watching this clip that should be asked what's what's what is at NGL with Kylie good your man is strong you were squatting your brother yeah um now I actually didn't know this happened please this is before I was done which feels a little silly to squat him were you waking him up up the claws I was trying to get warmed up that's right there it is there it is I was just sitting on the couch talking to Will Ferrell for 30 minutes so wanting to get the legs warmed up yeah wake it up so they can fire yeah this was honestly this is a big part of um the training to dunk was utilizing a technique called PAP post-activation potentiation which all that means is you lift a heavy weight and then right after lifting a heavy weight while your central nervous system is primed you go directly into an explosive jumping mechanic movement so that all of your muscles and nervous system are ready to jump as high as possible so you're like training your system to recruit as many muscle fibers to to uh train to be able to jump higher so this is like similar to a baseball player putting like a donut on the end of his bat and warm-ups like he's going to make the bat feel heavier so that when he takes the donut off the bat feels lighter and he can swing it faster so that was what I was attempting to do there Travis is only 200 and maybe 70 pounds tops um so you knew you could squat him you had confidence in that yeah I I injured my quads squatting 670 pounds so I felt pretty confident I could squat them two and a half Travis yeah yeah that was not gonna be hard now you also uh another question about the other podcast live show this week yeah um what did Kylie think of her husband's leotard goalie fit now um this outfit that you're wearing is absolutely you're actually your bobsled you know that is my unitard now you've had quite a few viral outfits I have been known for outfits yes so I would love um I would love to discuss what maybe your top three would be and queen I was asking me to say a top three Jason viral outfits that I'm going to choose here some options yeah yeah you're not choosing okay that makes sense do you want to pass is there an outfit in particular that comes to mind that you would like to pat yourself on the back for um my favorite outfit that I've worn as like a dress as I don't even know what led to it I'm trying to remember why I did it uh please tell me it's 50 First States it was I knew as soon as he said dress ass that was my favorite yeah I mean you nailed it and also the amount of like investment that you had in that costume first of all it was because the game was on Halloween I believe I'm pretty sure that's why but still it was a very unique I don't know I think you referenced it on the podcast as well is that what it was I believe so okay um now some of the options here are uh the cowboy look from the Johnson's wedding yeah when you were in all black that was looking like yeah fly it was viral on tick-tock viral um the bluey two-piece outstanding last year in can um the green velour track suit shout out to Big Dom nice great choice um the NASCAR outfit that you just wore the pit being a pit crew member with the the helmet no the the pit crew suit oh the actual suit yeah people like that one okay um the mummer suit OG that's the OG yes um the speedo from last year Shorebirds event um and your first Monday night football broadcast with the shirt I'm assuming that's the shirt that yeah where your buttons were screaming a little on your chest because your chest was like popping out yeah yeah yeah do you have one here that that particularly stands out because I got to pick a top three from this list and I mean the 50 First Dates isn't on this woman that's my is it 50 or why do I always think it's 30. I mean the 51st dates isn't on this woman that's my is it 50 or why do I always think it's 30. it's 50 or why do I always think it's 30. I don't know the bluey two piece I love because it's like hot dad the blue one was good that was a shout out and I also think it like surprised people that was a shout out to um Jason Sudeikis he turned me on to that uh company Roosevelt's or Roosevelt's or something like that and I looked it up afterwards and saw that I was like that's a good one um the green velour track suit now I feel like it haunts you a little because it is painted on the wall in Philadelphia down on uh jeweler's row and one other place of him dancing on the stage in the velour track suit that was probably the best gif I've ever been a part of for sure and lastly uh what's your favorite date night agenda agenda yeah like what's the what's the what's the move I mean going to dinner but like what is agenda so I I'm gonna throw a plot twist on here okay what's our date night agenda for the shore because I feel like there's one in particular that I find to be there we do it maybe once a summer maybe twice a summer and it excites my soul once or twice a summer we wait until our kids go to bed and then I have our niece come over and walk and just sit in the house so that there's an adult in the house and then we sneak out and go to the arcade because the arcade's open until 11. yeah and that makes me happy I love going to the arcade for date night okay because it's a great time it is uh and it doesn't get to happen often because quite frankly I feel a little bit but it's with kids you're you're there and you're trying to let Ellie or why or Benny win something so it's more for that kid focus yeah I like parents night out at the arcade yeah I'll play pinball all day that's it for ask us some things part two last thing before you go and I bring Ryan in we actually have a surprise doom scroll clip this is related to the surprise game we mentioned uh which we're still nervous about Queen Emma can you play him the clip please wife is boss I know what game this is there's no way in hell that this man agrees to this game I'm telling you right now essentially what happens is is that you stand there with your mouth open and get drinks thrown at you and then you have to like and and figure out what drink it is do you think you can guess different beers like blind taste test beers for sure yeah you think you could figure out which beer I don't know if I could do it this way I don't this he's not going to agree to this way I don't I still don't know what's happening there okay so you literally stand there and then I would throw a drink and you would basically like it would hit you and as it hits you you would guess what it is I mean it sounds pretty yeah do you want to play this now is that what we want to do we have drinks oh mckenna has a snorkel mask for you a blindfold snorkel mask we're doing this oh we're you're agreeing to this it sounds fun oh my god now as you can see we're standing because that's right jason agreed to do this game i'm not sure i'm here to support you and they're not gonna lie yours real one real ones yep okay all right he's ready i have a shot glass here of our first item oh i'm hoping that's garage beer any other feedback no you're just guessing garage beer that's what i'm guessing this and my hesitation should give you um it's leading it's leading my hesitation is leading okay so it's not garage beer well is it maybe a little okay the whole thing garage beer line wow okay good job jason sorry i thought all right yeah oh god okay oh that one was actually a great shot um oh my gosh i know that looked good um give it to me again is it buttery no no i have i have it i have it again same thing oh that was good i'm sorry that went up your nose a little okay it only helps only helps oh my gosh gosh why can't i think of the name of this this is very easy this is upsetting i cannot get this let me know if you want to hit it give me a hand um it is buttery buttery it's buttery it would be described as buttery with notes of um butter it is a glass of champagne okay was it bubbly uh chardonnay there we go there we go now we're there um chardonnay i would not i know people say it's butter i would not say it's better okay sorry that's not helpful sparkling wine it was not chardonnay is not chardonnay yep okay there we go here we go uh this one i apologize ahead of time all right okay nope it's pickle juice zoom in there's someone who's weird dude that was such a good throw but i actually feel better about that okay all right now i got another one okay let's cleanse the palette open wide that was good one that was good one why'd you spit it out um is that beer again what kind garage beer correct okay oh no i'm reading these before you drink them and wow that was good that was good that was a direct hit that's uh wine yes i'm gonna go some type of red correct that's about as close as i'm gonna get i don't even know yeah we're not a wine family we're not a wine house we like it at dinner box wine uh bronzia um how about a cabernet sauvignon wow nice sure yep that's that's definitely a red wine okay okay ready nope somehow got my eye that's not good yeah that's burning um i went up too much i'm sorry that is uh it's got some sting stinging to it oh i got my eye um um i'm gonna say it tastes almost like gatorade vodka you picked the alcohol correct yeah vodka yes okay um now i will tell you it's just an infused version of that oh so this isn't like a product no it almost tasted like fruit punchy okay um strawberry i don't know uh that was blue raspberry svedka way off so take you right back to college huh so there's a blue raspberry yeah i swear to god i can smell it from here that's that'll get you okay last one ready sorry that was your name is atrocious i'm sorry um is this another beer yes another beer what kind so we've already done lime and garage so i'm assuming we're going in a different path uh but would we do that i would hope not okay so what might it be garage beer but it is lime and it is in a bottle yeah there we go that's it you did it nailed it now how many did he get right five of seven jay i would i was just oh okay thank you i was gonna say i was just about to put my hand up for a high five but i don't wanna stand there asking for a high five okay five out of seven that's great um thank you so much for coming on thanks for having me i love you so much i love you so much fun i want can we zoom in on the garlic right there that piece of garlic or is it a garlic a pickle or maybe it's a seed from a picture that wasn't that was a pickle uh it was pickle juice yeah it was definitely grillos though because i could see the dill in it floating in it um thank you so much for coming on the show today uh thanks for having me i should have got chardonnay quicker i don't know what uh the vodka infusion threw me off yeah is your eye okay yeah definitely stop singing now okay great um once again you can donate to eif for our 48 hours of fun that we're about to endure tomorrow yes 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So she'll let me have it. I'd rather just get the milk and DoorDash help with that. Came in clutch. Order now. I'm back and now I'm joined by a long overdue guest. For her first NGL appearance, not only is she a great friend, but basically family at this point. She also has dedicated her life to incredible work for the autism community. She's the mother of my nieces, the executive director of the Eagles Autism Foundation, and now she's not going to lie, Ryan Hammond. Ryan, welcome to the show. So happy to be here. First, how did we meet? So we met because when we were launching Eagles Autism Foundation, I went to a team meeting, talked to the team about our mission, how we were going to work together, how I needed their help. And Jason shared your email with me. And he said my fiance would like to get involved in some way and handed me a piece of paper with Kylie McDevitt on there. And I reached out. At that point, we had one staff member and you were volunteer number one. Yes, I was. And then she couldn't shake me. Because I just kept coming back, volunteering so much so that I then ended up eventually working for the foundation in an official capacity. Yes. Senior event consultant. Yep. Which entailed emailing the city of Philadelphia, closing down streets, ordering signage, wearing a walkie talkie at all of our events. And it was amazing. And now, now I have three nieces that are not by blood, but by choice. And sometimes they claim me don't. Well, one in particular. Yeah. We're talking about you, Peyton. She likes to pretend we're not related, but we are now. And I talk about them on the show as my nieces because they are my nieces. Charlie, we just, we just messaged her during one of our last episodes about the latest Gen Z slang because she is, as she describes herself, brain rot. Brain rot. Yes. Yes. So she told us. I am living your future with these teenagers. Yes. And it's nice for me to reflect with, you know, your girls as well. Now, Ryan had three daughters in 37 months. Correct. So they're all very close together, much like ours. They have similar personality types because of birth order. So I really get like the most wonderful glimpse into the future by hanging around her girls. And also my girls are obsessed with her girls. So that is just a lovely tradeoff that we get. And I get to reminisce with the little ones. And I mean, we had an impromptu dance class last night. Yes. On the driveway. In the driveway. Yeah. I mean, yeah, it's the best of both worlds. But let's get to what we're really here to talk about. EAF and everything we're doing here with Team 62 at the shore this week with shorebirds here at the O.D. Beer Bowl over at the Yacht Club of Sea Isle. We're doing an Eagles takeover on excursion. Right before that, we're We definitely don't take on more than we should. Yeah. Us? Never. What are you most proud of when it comes to this event? I think the idea that we can have this destination in a place that we love, that we spend a lot of time with, and it brings the community together, I think is the most magical thing. It's so authentic in a way where we already go to the Ocean Drive. We spend time here. We know all of the staff. And to be able to partner with them and have them buy in and then share this experience with our players and celebrities, we're so excited. You know, Dan Orlovsky is coming this year. So we keep adding new people who, you know, hear about the lore or maybe see Jason Despido. I'm not sure which one, but they want to be here. And I think everyone understands the assignment, probably because of your really scary talk of like no one drinks for free. No one gets a photo for free. It's for donation. I might do that. But yeah, I think that's what it's all about, is this is an event that's like not as structured. It's about people coming together, raising money, and everyone is lining up. The town is buzzing and you'll talk to all the businesses and they're like, oh, we know your event's coming. Everyone in this town is wearing green this week. So I think that's what's been amazing. And it continues to grow every single year. People want to get more involved. People are celebrating 21st birthdays here. And it's been awesome to see just a culmination of what the last five years have been. And I can't wait for, you know, this year to top that. If you had the opportunity to talk to parents of kids who are on the autism spectrum, what would you tell them about seeking help or any advice that you could give based on your years of work with the autism community? Yeah, I've been with this community. It found me back in 2009 when we cut the ribbon at the Kinney Center for Autism Education Support. So I've been with families on this journey a long time. And I think the most important thing is to get there and get the diagnosis so you understand what your roadmap may look like. So do you need speech therapy? Do you need to have a speech therapist? Do you need services? Do you need behavior analysis? What are things that are going to help your child live their best life? It's really about this picture of like meeting them where they are and then helping them grow and thrive. So I think for families to recognize that there's a community out there of practitioners and schools and the education system and teachers and therapists that are going to help you. And then the flip side is I would lean in to these other parents who have been there to see a mom mentor a newly diagnosed mom. Family. It's just something that I've never seen such kindness and just generosity and a vested interest in like I want to help you because I've been through this and I'm going to share all the tips and tricks. I like to think our Nordiverse employment program is a great testament to that. We piloted it with three adults with autism who wanted to have a job. Eighty five percent of people with autism are unemployed. We've never marketed this program. We just found people that we've connected with through our community and started it. And that's the other thing. You have to start somewhere. We now have over 50 employees who self-identify with autism who tap in for resources from the time they interview. And that's because the parents talk to the other parents. So we have some kids that are friends and coming from the same school district or, you know, they have this pathway for a future that maybe was uncertain to them because of these communities that we're building. So I would say, you know, seek the intervention to get access to the services that you need. Be an advocate for your child. Be relentless in the process. Be proactive in the pursuit of making sure they get everything that they deserve to live their best life and that it feels positive, that it feels celebrated. And because we need people that think different and communicate differently. It teaches empathy and so many different things that it makes our world so much brighter. Now, before we do anything else in the spirit of guest bartending, we played this game with my college best friends, Amber and Gab. So Queen Emma thought we should bring it back for one of my other closest friends. From adulthood. We're going to. Oh, yeah. OK, we're going to get some red cups. So give us a second here. That's right. Real ones. Red cups means one thing. Ryan and I are playing the special NGL version of Flip Cup called Truth or Flip, which makes no sense at all. But our production team is pumping their fists behind the camera because it's just the best way to have a good time. And we're going to have people answer questions to embarrass me. So. And it's aligned with the event. Sure. It's aligned with the event. Mm hmm. People donate a thousand dollars. People donate a thousand dollars to play Flip Cup against Jason and Brian. Whatever. We need to bring you into the mix with Shirley Temple. OK, well, we're thank you for saying that. We're playing this game with a pitcher, Shirley Temple, not beer, obviously, but the stakes are as high as ever because in Ryan's hand, we have a pile of questions. Yes. Written by the NGL team. God, this can't be good. I feel like this is just like when we had to have a conversation on the way home from New York. Like, let's reimagine your role. So now I'm in charge. So let's go. Oh, no. OK. All right. Here we go. I got to get myself together here. I hope you don't. Oh, hold on. Are we doing down, up, down? Yeah, I think so. Down. I gave myself so much. You did. I won. Winner. Wow. OK, this is a softball. Kathy, outstanding Shirley Temple. Incredible. God, that's a good Shirley Temple. That is the right ratio. Yeah. Wow. That's a good ratio. Which is important. Wow. OK. Kathy is a cocktail specialist. God, she's a queen. OK. OK. OK, push this in. Push that in. Push that in. OK, I'm back, guys, because I'm in charge now. What rules do you have when it comes to spoiling each other's kids? Oh. You can spoil your kids. Yes. Buy them bikes, you know. What else? Ice cream. And I get to spoil your children. Take them to the arcade. Yeah, as long as it's reciprocated. Yeah. This is the whole idea of, like, fun aunt situation. Like, as parents, we can't really spoil our kids because we want our kids to be well-rounded and humble and understand the value of a dollar. And mom needs to say no or I'll think about it. Exactly. Yeah. But aunt? Yes. Yeah. Aunt Ryan and Kylie, they can do what they want. There we go. reason yes but it's it's a pretty it's a pretty broad highly may have impersonated me to call my child out of school before um that happened i did that i 100 did that i did that and i said hi i'm charlie's mom she did admit it though she was like i'm actually her aunt can i still take her and they let you yeah that's what happened i did send an email though to co-sign ryan had to send the email yeah but it started with their impersonation i said i can't get a hold of my daughter would you mind having her call me and then charlie called me and this was because school was technically over and they were watching movies and she was like having fear of missing out because we were together to be fair it's happened one time yeah that ryan knows of we'll leave it at that uh okay all right ready you you I should have given you more i know this could really i could have done like a tactical thing here and filled your cup more yeah well you're a jerk kylie claims she can't sing can you confirm that's not true that's a lot of negatives they're absolutely false in fact kylie is a recording artist millions of copies of her such a butthole original not that she wrote the song but it was an original it was written by beave christmas song that she sang a duet with jason um and your children claim it's not you because they do because it doesn't sound like me because they auto-tuned it so hard shout out to nick can you sing a verse of it for us i can't next here we go oh god that's bad you're mean oh my god there we go jump that was even holding the cards so i know you're you're welcome oh what is kylie's most toxic trait where shall i begin oh no um well should i start with the most obvious one sure she doesn't think she's famous um oh because that's easy yeah and we will go places and um and i'm fine she'll she should have security or um but she's so kind and remembers people who we've met over and over again and um it's a it's a joy to see you take on celebrity kylie um which but that is why she did have her performance evaluation that required her to change her role from senior event consultant they decided as an ambassador they decided that when i needed a security uh person dedicated to me at the eagles autism challenge that it was no longer cost effective to have me there as uh trying to get a job done but even though you hate to admit it like i feel like you're one of those people like the right person got famous because you use your platform for good women in sports um obviously you continuously show up as volunteer number one for the eagles option foundation going i can't let anybody take my i can't let anybody take my spot on that yeah um no it's been awesome to watch um except when you know we're in situations that you might need a little support what's my other toxic trait um it's really challenging when you get to a register and she tries to physically fight you to pay um so we will go to a place down here called shore break dana can confirm and when we get to the line we physically box people out and people around us are terrified and concerned and the person taking our money is like i don't know what to do to believe um i will tell you that if anyone else wants to play this game or maybe you do this with your family members because i also play this game with my father and by game i mean serious and uh life-threatening uh uh competition if you need to you can always look at the person the cashier and tell them that the other person's card is stolen yeah if you so choose um okay one more okay oh we're already filled oh i did it i'm that was a tie that was a tie i don't even know i don't even know if that like because as i said i'm in charge yep when is jason going to let kylie get the damn cat ryan's actually not allowed to answer this what we say on this show is that if you can't answer honestly yeah then you're not allowed to talk yeah i can't i'm not gonna lie i have no comment thank you so much you're welcome we've said nothing here how has kylie been like a sister to you well first she's been like a sister to me because we get confused for sisters all the time um in fact we were at a store down here a couple weeks ago and a woman came up to me and it was kylie and i my husband chuck and jason and we're standing there and the woman comes right to me and she's like can i get a photo with your husband and i was like oh my god sure chuck would love a photo and she's like what and i was like chuck would love a photo with you and jason's like smirking because he thinks it's funny and i was like i'm not kylie my husband is chuck do you mean kylie and she's like are you guys sisters and i was like well we get it all the time but we're not we we must just like give that vibe off um but no as far as like sentimentally how has kylie been like a sister to me um just consistently shows up for me as i mentioned like she's continued her life has gotten bigger it's probably a good way to put it um with her having less control about circumstances that surround her and um regardless of that she continues to show up um the fact that we're doing this event for the sixth year and uh i mean how many people can raise a million dollars in 48 hours um like she carries us on her back here and uh what she is to my girls is something that you know you can't replace i have sisters i have nieces i have a nephew he's the prince um but i get this chosen family here with kylie and it's been an amazing journey so far now um because it's because it's an ngl episode and you're my guest i need you to tell me what's your best mom advice you've ever gotten so it's not sleep while the baby's sleeping that it's not that no no no silly i mean i think like the best mom advice is just to like i don't know don't let kids like being a mom is the greatest gift i've ever been given but i think like being like having kids allowed to serve as a motivation for me to build a career and to serve a community and i think bringing them along on my journey with me is probably the best advice that i've been given because as a working mom you feel sometimes you're making a choice to either you know be with your kids and show up for whatever expectation they have or to do your job really well and i think as women we have to like contemplate that a lot but i feel like for me it's just like i'm a mom for me i've had the privilege of building two organizations and i think one of the things i tell my team even because i've learned it is if you can share these experiences with your family and my kids get to come and volunteer which they'll be volunteering throughout you know the next two days when i have to maybe miss something they understand because from a young age they were like well my mom's helping people and so that's where you know if you have opportunities to blend your family into your passions and most importantly your career i think it just makes life so much easier in when you have to make those choices um this year my daughter charlie uh had her junior prom the same night as the eagles autism challenge kickoff party so i made chuck uh drive her to the stadium so i could dress her and have that experience with her in the stadium bathroom and then send her off to her prom date and she facetimed me to meet him and um that's like what it's all about right so having you know not being afraid of blending and uh overachieving in both of those areas being a mom and and working um now i cannot thank you enough for coming on i cannot thank you enough for the work that you've done you have like you were saying you started your work with the autism community at the kinney center but then you continued it when jeffrey lurie brought you back to really bring his vision to life on making sure that he was leaving a legacy here in philadelphia and really touching all corners of the world with the work that you guys are doing in autism and the work that you're supporting i cannot thank you for letting me come along for the ride and being the tiniest part of of eaf and also for letting me enjoy your family and getting to enjoy life together and it has been the absolute best and i'm so glad that jeffrey wanted to do this because it would not have ended up i was gonna say should we like toast to jeffrey honestly maybe i mean the fact that he was bold enough to use this organization with the best fans in the world um to bring people together to raise 56 million dollars at this point um that's truly changing people's lives and best fan experience from an inclusion standpoint nor diverse employment program so maybe we just you know shout out jeffrey seriously um you guys can donate to the event and help us on our 48 hour journey uh by watching this episode checking the link in the description and donating i'm telling you even five dollars makes a difference it moves us even closer towards our goal we need to make sure that we make over a million dollars this is year six and every single one of us is going to be a part of this single year we have beat the previous year's total so don't let us we're competitive we're so competitive we're so competitive yeah so let's make it happen i know the real ones can help us out. I have faith. You can find even more clips for my longer conversation with Jason and Ryan on my YouTube channel on More Shit Monday. We'll be back next week with a brand new, very French, very magical episode of Not Gonna Lie. Follow us on social media at NGL with Kylie for clips throughout the week. Listen and subscribe wherever you get your podcasts. Not Gonna Lie is a Wave original brought to you by Allstate. Thanks again to The Real Ones for tuning in. Wave. That's why I use DoorDash because when life gets crazy, DoorDash just helps bring some order to it. Like this past week when yet again, we ran out of whole milk. And you know, Finn needs whole milk because, well, she's a tank and she'll get mad at me and she figured out how to yell now. And DoorDash. Help with that. Came in clutch. Order now.