Just Trish Episode for Oct 01, 2026

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need to come out like when you told me you're like i met someone i was like okay i was shook i was like wow that's great because you know i haven't been talking about dating you're kind of like giving up on love her name is trish she's got the fish in her mouth hello welcome back to the just trish podcast it's a midnight sun if you're a audio listener you're missing out because the visual is me dressed as zara larson kind of in a crochet outfit because my hair is wet so i felt like a wet dog where i was like oh if i put a sexy body a wet dolphin uh-huh you're a dolphin but they don't have hair what okay and if you don't know clearly oscar is not here that's my sister chiming in so we're already off the rails today um i just got back i just got back i've been up since 12 30 a.m california time 3 30 a.m eastern time i had to catch flights not feelings uh i was at penn state yesterday we are penn state we are penn state i love going and like doing little mantras at school like that like it's fun like i love the nittany lions around anybody know what a nittany lion is here no no you don't what a nittany a nittany lion the hotel we said that was the nittany lion in they are the nittany lions wow i know something you guys don't know i'm wow nittany lions they're kind of like a mountain lion indigenous to the state college pennsylvania area but they are now extinct they no longer exist well how old do we know them because they've been around and then the little knockers are nittany lions and it's their mascot and penn state's a huge uh a huge school it's big they just had zara larson there actually they're like oh yeah we just had zara larson come by i was like oh my god okay you made it it's zara larson colin jose and me i was like oh i love this i was like thank you uh penn state for having me it's fun i love it i was i was a lecturer i had a little mug they gave me and it said like our spot a spot for me and i was a student program and it's like you're one of the lecturers so everyone's like enjoyed the lecture today i was like wow thank you uh it felt really it felt really good i had to leave uh midnight after our hot topics because after we did our last hot topics it was early in the morning i had a i didn't even tell you i i did a big i did a big thing promotion for my book and um no oh my god i know it was amazing it was that's huge yes oh my god i know i know i was like and it was everything i just was like it was late by the time i tested moses i thought oh quick whatever it got late i was like well like off the whim or what what do you mean off the whim like was it planned is that why you went it's like can i be on knock knock we did plan it yes yes it was it was a big one so i was like okay and then so you went to penn state and then that no i went to that then penn state oh my god let me give you a rundown okay and i love that sometimes i get rundown i can just see oscar's face being like i don't know i love it i love it because i everyone's like where's your where's your sister i'm like i don't actually know who asked you everyone always what do you mean where do you hang out with her all the time i'm like actually she's gone most of the time well i am gone most of the time i rarely see my husband i do see you a lot more though these days i haven't seen you a lot more that's true but i am like who asked you who asked where i was everyone i always but i'm always here oh you're always you're always i'm always at the podcast though they're asking that or they're like questioning no they're like oh you're always hanging out with her she's always home no who thinks you always hang out with me i don't know people think that i always go out too i'm like i don't leave my house that's so funny because people always just i was like where's your mom where's your sister and i'm like well i see them so that's why i have to like when i'm with my mom my mom we need to post a picture because people it's giving me i see moses more than you honestly that might be true i know one time i came home well you also get the girls mixed up i came home one day and callie's like that is true we're starting the podcast i'm like next tuesday i said to my sister tuesday september 22nd she shows up tuesday september 15th and i was like you said tuesday yes september 22nd so then she leaves like okay and then like thursday because my heart i see her walking in and i'm like oh are you he goes i'm so happy to see you are you like picking up something are you seeing malibu for her birthday like something happy to see you yeah he did he did i hope so so anyway it's not like him that's why i was like did you say it because that's nice if he did we're happy to see you oh okay i dropped off the present i was like well it's okay so you probably thought you were coming to stay and play yes and then i was like texting you're like are we doing my love line today because i'm not at all ready to do and he goes we're not filming today i'm like really so my sister is like annoyed at me i didn't want to say you're filming you were because you were stressed about your girlfriend coming we'll go to that later but you're like so then i'm like all right so you're still you are good for next like on tuesday september you're like i can only stay till five i was like oh okay and you're like on thursday and i was like no tuesday 9 22 like i don't know even after all that it was very i only read tuesday confusing but yeah it was thank you thank you no i'm saying hearing that i still don't understand what happened but she said tuesday 9 22 but that's a segue to the real hot topic you said girlfriend well before we get okay say queer i'm hosting a queer dating show and then we'll get to that we have to do a top of the show announcement and then we'll get to that there's a lot of queer happening here it is a very it's a queer thursday happy queer thursday everybody watching absolutely anywhere i go it's got to be queer or that should be a song like it's gotta be may but it's gotta be queer anyways um well anyways i gotta do it at the top of the show you guys i am hosting a queer dating show so excited so if you are queer single and in the la area this is not gonna be a gotcha exposed embarrassing no you and your bestie can come together and i'm gonna help you guys find another single and see if there's a love match i want to love connection i want to love connection it's not about the exploitation it's not about sex it's just real true love connection companionship so apply today i'll put the website here i think it's queer singles.castingcrane.com it's with a major streaming network we have a great production team behind it that have done multiple dating shows so they know what they're doing i'm the host i will also be dating with you helping you date um and it's for everybody all inclusive was it oscar who asked if there was if women could apply yeah i was like yes literally everybody in the umbrella i think they're a part of the queer it's yes it's men women non-binary trans pan any any all this any anybody in the queer umbrella can um can apply and because you know we we want to see that i watch these dating shows and i'm just like this is so one boring two not real not how we are in the world and i was just like we need to see more queer dating because that is beautiful and i'm very excited so apply today we are filming within weeks we're filming in just a couple weeks here and we're going to be doing a lot of weeks here in l.a. and it'll probably be like a one-day shoot it'll air really soon i think it's gonna it's gonna air around christmas time this year in december so it's gonna be a quick turn around and it's gonna be really really fun and i'm excited to help you find love and then i was texting my sister about it on the plane today and then she's like oh i don't know if we're saying her name but me and my my girlfriend come on jackie yes everyone i asked for hot topics today it was a renowning cali's girlfriend you if you watched picked up on nuggets people have picked up here and there but my sister has now uh announced her official relationship which is very exciting i have hard launched hard launched i love it do you love it how are you feeling about the hard launch so great how do you decide to be public with your relationship um god that's really hard because i'm just like i just want to show you off yeah i think that is it - Like that? - Yeah, I think the same when people ask about- I'm so proud. I'm so happy. Aww. You're like, I just got a show. I have to. I remember the first hard launch photo I saw on yours before I followed Jackie. I saw yours. And it was just like, was it, I needed this all along. Was that the caption? It was so pretty. And it was just like, I love, my sister, she is great at photos. She doesn't post a lot, but when she does, and it was just so cute. Just a butt squeeze. Just a little butt squeeze. I'm like, did we need the love or the butt squeeze? What did we need all along? Because both help. Just the love. Just the appreciation. But the butt squeeze helps too. But the butt squeeze does help. It does help. You should know. She's trying to poke my butt and not squeeze it. What? Moses loves, his kink is adjusting my tops and my underwear. I was like, always, always adjusting. I'm like, okay. I do love a butt squeeze. We love a butt squeeze. No, I'm just, I'm very happy. I'm very, very happy. This is so exciting. As all of you know that I was always like, oh, unfortunately I'm straight. I'm straight, I'm straight, I'm straight. Well, maybe that might be the case for me. Aww. Aww. Well, it's beautiful. You don't have to, we talked about this on Not Love Lying. There was a question that like resonated with you and it was like, you know, Tana Gray's great advice. Like the one thing about Tana, I think, and that's why I love doing the show with her. She gives actually great advice. She's so good. And so she's obviously, you know, very open. I think she's, I know there's, I think she's bi. And at least bi. But yeah, there's different things and stuff. But let's just go with pan. Pan, sure. Yes. And I consider myself pansexual. But it's like, at the end of the day, like, I don't, I love that you don't have, I don't have to identify as anything. I was talking about this yesterday at Wednesday too. It's just like, it's kind of nice if you don't feel like you need to come out. Like when you told me, you're like, I met someone. I was like, okay. I was shook. I was like, wow, that's great. Because you hadn't been talking about dating. You were kind of like giving up on love, marriage, all that stuff like that. And then I was like, all right, that's fine. You know, if you're happy being single. And then you're like, I met someone. Like, okay. And then I get to how. And then I can remember you looking. I am bald. Sob. You started sobbing. And you're just like, and I couldn't tell what kind of tears it was. And then you're like, it's with a girl. And I was like, oh, I love. Like, but I didn't even think anything of it. I didn't, it didn't make you have to tell me. It didn't matter. Like, and I was just like, oh, that's wonderful. But I think because you were so emotional and it made me so emotional. Were you just scared? Oh, are you okay? Yeah. Okay. What were you? I love you so much. No, it's just like, it's just so. It's, it's like weird to come out. Did you? Okay. You don't. Cause. Yeah. I can't. I. It's different. Yeah. I think it's, it's. I'm sure. Yeah. I'm sure it's scary. And obviously. You probably hear about it so much and you don't even think one day it's going to be me or something like that. Cause I think you didn't, you would have accepted, but I'm just like, I think that maybe, maybe it was like different for you to have a sister like that. I don't know. I said I couldn't have been. happier i said this is the best thing ever you sent me you sent me a tiktok a meme how does it feel to have a goaded lesbian sister and i don't know if you identify less but i don't i don't know and i don't care and i you know i i don't identify as anything because i'm just like i'm just like pan because i only want to like love the person we've always said that me and moses too with our we're fluid people identifying as water makes it so simple seriously like i know i get it i get it categorize it into smaller sections it's just one broad section moses was the most honest about his dating history and just everything when we first met and i like i thought that was like the coolest thing about him because he was just very open he's just like i'm just me and love who i love and so it's like yes you call it pan he calls it fluid or water whatever you know what i mean and i like the concept of that because i feel the same way um you're just attracted to who you're attracted to you know it's like and i i do think it's it makes me um it makes me sad that you were even worried or scared and i wasn't even worried i just like it's a big i don't know it's just like it's a big announcement especially because i was like i don't want to date anyone yeah do you think maybe it's because when you said you don't want to date anyone you dated like i would say horrible people the wrong people for you like wrong people um is that why you didn't want to date because for so long you did swear off dating i did so that's why you had you were always trying to hook me up with people i'm like no i'm okay yeah well then i just accepted i was like honestly some people are okay being single and like i don't need to push it or whatever i was i was i really was but um you thrive in a relationship you thrive when you're happy even in the i would say bad relationships you've been in i know you like like companionship and so it was a big uh i was just happy i was just i was so happy because i just know you just do well in uh in a partnership like you love being a girlfriend like you love being a partner you love having a partner so um i was just like really happy for you it was right before it was like i was like i was like i was like i was starting filming that love line minutes before tana walked in you just said i was like oh okay and it was like such a big moment i was so i was proud i was actually like relieved i was like and it was great that tana was there because she was very much like you know why being in a relationship with a girl yeah she's like it's such a different yeah better experience you know it's very uh i don't know it was it was great and she's you know she's obviously open about you know all the girls she's dated and stuff like that she was it's just such a it's so different when you're with like i never expected to be dating a girl um but uh it's the best it's the best thing i've ever encountered just love it's like it's straight up love you know and that's like pure you know i think that's so pure and your happiness and everyone everyone around me has been so supportive even my mom my dad oh i didn't know about your dad mom and i yeah mom and i she's like i've never i've never seen so happy she loves jackie my mom doesn't like jackie i love a lot of people so i didn't know you told you and i didn't know your dad your dad's like a little older he's so i didn't know oh so he's now everyone's just happy for you even mom's like oh my god i'm so glad you're not dating a guy can i tell you i was kind of relieved too i'm kind of like i mean i hate to be this person far between it's very very hard to yeah so i'm i'm so glad i feel like the men we've dated is just every time i talk about her i get emotional and i just like when she left she was here for a week and then the day she left she was here and i'm like are you okay just sobbing i was like what i just miss her i was like but how beautiful is it to have like a love to miss like that's like the best i just i'm glad that you're not being in love is the best feeling this is the best and i'm so happy i've never felt a little love like this wow it's like a first real love true mutual love respect and she shows you off and you show her off and you guys just look happy in the photos it's just like very much like you and your natural state in a t-shirt your hair up food on the bed i was like wait i love this so much it's like simple and beautiful and you guys are traveling back and forth already coast to coast we are long distance it's awful i hate long distance but do it for the one that you love i can't imagine yeah i think it's i think again going back to tana's advice too she's just like that long distance kind of like it does suck because it's like you want to be next to someone but you get to miss them you get to you know be excited to see them you guys love it it's just like it's just like you have lots of upcoming yes events planned we're coming to your vow renewal vow renewal trishmas maybe trishmas christmas christmas we got spring break planned oh oh my word i love it um well and then people online too obviously they all wanted to know i saw when you post the picture i just saw so much support and you know it's it's beautiful i think it's because i've so like you know i've been in love with you and i've been in love with you and i've like no no no i don't want a relationship i'm fine by myself and so i think this is such a different avenue for me what was the change that you were like time to open my heart again um i don't think it was a change i think it was the person i think it's when you know yeah and i think when you were closing it off for so long like love i was like damn you gotta really be open to it and if you've i wasn't even open to it that's what i'm saying i feel like you've known each other for a while but that's why i was wondering like where you were just like okay now i could be ready for love and i just i just called her one day and we just never hung up the phone oh my gosh i think it's so beautiful and i love it i just love seeing like hope and excitement in you and and you were and you were you were happy i like you were you were yourself but it's like a different level you get like a yeah but that was the step towards it yeah because once you're content by yourself you can yeah be somebody that's absolutely true yeah you were totally fine and i was like okay she's good she's happy and then now obviously we see it i think maybe when you stop yearning for that it just finds you yeah it's beautiful i'm so happy and i'm so happy and yeah i'm just so happy that every like that you don't have to be worried about anything you can be free and yourself and and i really she is like my safe person my whole time i know the pictures you send and just like i can tell i can just tell that you're like comfortable you guys just you know you're yourself you're you know i think that's the big thing is like i know even when i got with mosey like you're just like yourself you know and you saw me with other people where you're like not yourself you have to be a certain way and it's like in the pictures and everything like that you're not pretending yeah and mom just met her and she's like she's great and amazing so i think that's like i said mom's a tough cookie she is a tough our brother is girlfriends it was always you know she's it's tough you know she's like she's like you know but i know when she met her she goes oh my god you met your moses i know that made me cry It's so great. I'm sorry. I didn't know she was using that lingo. She said it to me, too. She actually texted me that, too. She did. Moses. I love that. I met my Moses. I think it's beautiful. I love that everyone was very excited. Thank you for sharing the update. Oh, my God. Thank you for being my sister. Oh, my God. I'm so proud of you. I've always been proud of you. I didn't think I could ever be more proud of you. I think I'm prouder than ever. You remember, I was appointed to tell everybody. I wanted to tell Naz and Moses. I promised I wouldn't tell anyone. Can I tell anyone? Yeah. I'm like, yes, you can tell everyone. I know. It's kind of exciting. I'm like, do you want to tell Glam? Because they were so excited. Naz texted you right away. I love that. I love that. She's like, I'm texting your sister right now. It's just great. It is scary. I'm blessed that it wasn't scary for me because I am in this environment. But I. Yeah, we're surrounded by beautiful love. Yes. It's amazing. I love to see it. I was so excited. I was so proud. I was so happy. I was so proud and so happy. Yeah, it is scary. I know dating people and girls, you just. Yeah, I always. I cut it off early because I just was like, I can't see myself. I was like, I can't see myself introducing my dad to a girl. You know what I mean? That's like, it holds you back sometimes. I love that you were just open and didn't care. You said that too. I love that you were open and didn't care. I don't care if people, other family and stuff, you're like, I don't care what they think. And that's how it should be. But luckily, our family's all. My dad didn't even blink an eye. I was like, oh, well, it's. Her name is Jackie. And he's like, oh, that's great. I was like, no more reaction? He's like, no. Yeah. I just am happy to tell you. He just wants to hear you happy. Yeah. So if he hears you happy, he's like, he doesn't care what. Mm-hmm. And that's beautiful. Because it is such a different generation. So it's like, obviously, like, older parents and stuff like that are like, could be a little more, oh, oh, you know what I mean? But I love that. And yeah, I think, again, yeah, just seeing you happy and in love, I think that's what everybody wants. I really lucked out in that regard. She's beautiful. She sounds so sweet. We're mutuals now. So I get to see her story. It's very exciting. I can't wait to meet her. Hopefully, I get to meet her before the wedding. But maybe that's the. I guess like a month away. Mm-hmm. It's going to be so soon. The wedding, though. Yes. It's going to be really exciting. The Valar Neill. The Valar Neill at Disneyland. It's very exciting. I can't wait for it. The outfits are all going to be matching me and the girls in the horse and carriage. What's the outfits? Thank you so much to NoCD for sponsoring today's episode of Just Trish. I have talked about for quite some time that anxiety has creeped in here and there lately with being a mom to three, under three, and worrying about them constantly. Are they okay? Am I doing enough? Am I present enough? Mixed with the work life. Yeah. Mixed with the work life balance of trying to take opportunities and chase after my dreams and also managing a relationship with my husband and trying to see my family and just really trying to balance that time. I always wonder, am I enough? Am I doing enough? Sometimes intrusive thoughts can creep in and I'm just like, okay, are we okay? Is everything okay? I just try and be a people pleaser and make sure everyone's okay. And lately, I was like, is this anxiety? Because anxiety usually can go away with my breathing techniques and I can usually combat it pretty easily. And then I started to think about it. I started wondering if it may be some symptoms of OCD. 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I've been pushing everyone to get married to say I want to go to a wedding. I was like, can we have a wedding? Me and Moses have never been to one. What? That's why we keep making so many. You're the only one. You're the only two invited. How about that? Love. I'll officiate. Where are you going to do it? No, it's not an official. Oh, my God. I thought you were going to tell me you got engaged. But it is. Is it like a promise ring? Dairy ring? A little bit. Not a dairy ring. You don't even know what that is. I do. We just talked about a dairy ring. Well, granted, I don't know what it is. Can you explain? Do you know? Did we talk about this? Yes, we did on Not Loveline. Oh. What is it? Okay. Is that that? It's not that. No. This is. You're wearing it. Are you sure you're not engaged? Is it an intention ring? I'm not engaged. This is like. Intention. An intention. I thought you said attention ring. I'm like rude. No, intention. Intention. Got it. Of getting married. I love it. My sister was like. I'm never getting married. I'm never having kids. That's so crazy. Well, I am happy. And I'm a firm believer. If you don't want to get married, you can just be in love for sure. I will say I do love an engagement though. I do love like give me that ring. We're engaged. Oh, my God. I do think it's in the works. So, don't worry. Oh, my gosh. So exciting. I know. I was very. Anyways, I'm very excited. No pressure. I know it's very like. It's very fast. But I have never felt like this in my whole life. I think when you know, you know. I think I was trying to get Moses to marry me in two weeks. I was like, let's get married. I almost broke up with him after three months. I'll never ever, ever forgive myself. I'm so sorry. I steered you wrong. What? In the whole engagement section. I was like. What did you say? I said. Oh. Well, when's the next time she's going to get glammed? It was you. I can't wait for Jackie to ask me. I'm like. Oh, I know a perfect proposal for Callie. I think the perfect proposal would be at Medieval Times. Oh, really? Yes. I think she would love that, actually. I would actually love that. I would love to be the princess. I'm trying to think of something you would hate. You would be down for anything. I'd be down for everything. No, you had good intentions. That's valid. I did. It was. To be fair, I didn't know it was going to be Jasmine and Aladdin. Well. First of all. Glam is glam. It was worse. We were Jasmine and Jafar. Which is like. Right, right, right, right, right, right, right. Okay. Well, why did you make. She's being held captive by him in the red outfit. So why was I Jafar? Because we were going to do a cosplay as Jafar. Because it's the sexy one. It was like the sexy red outfit where she's like his captive. So that's good. No, but he's like the villain. Did you want to get engaged or not? Period. I did. I did anyway. But those are more of my colors. Red and black. Like that's more of my colors. You were happy with your engagement outfit? Yeah. Great. Well, we manifest our Disney wedding. We're coming back now full circle. So maybe our wedding. Peter Pan will present you with the engagement ring. Okay. No, no. That's like my one big egg. I don't want to be engaged to. No. You don't want to be engaged? No, I do want to be engaged during a wedding. That's so egg. Why? It's just a ball renewal. I think it's kind of cute. Everyone's in the mood for love. No, it's not about me. It's about you. Well, first of all, everything's about me. So it's fine. It's a lot to get engaged. I think I know what you mean. Like in general, like at a wedding. No, it shouldn't be about. Yeah, it should be about you. Not me. If the moment strikes. Oh, my God. Maybe it's going to the fireworks at night and just don't let that happen. Do you like Disney? Are you a Disneyland person? I forget. Oh, band. You're not coming for the wedding. That face. What do you mean? That's crazy. If you're not automatic, like love Disney. A little bit. She came with us. I love it. But no, I won't be getting engaged at your wedding. Your third wedding. Yeah, I think it's OK. If anyone else wants to get engaged at my wedding. No, I'm not doing that. OK, well, I'm opening it up. Four teeth's OK, but not the third. I'm opening it up to other people. Oscar, anybody. Anybody else who wants to get engaged at my wedding. Imagine me and Oscar. Yeah. At the same time. Double wedding. I can officiate both. He wants me to perform at his and I can officiate yours. You can get married here. We offered it here to Oscar, too. But I don't have to get engaged at your wedding. Why not? You want something that's your own. That's fine. Whatever you want. No, I don't want to take away from you. Or we're having a Christmas party. Maybe Trishmas on stage. You never know. Jackie, call me if you need any ideas. That's a good environment to do it. Since my sister was so nice to help Moses help with the engagement, I'm here to help you, girl. Oh, my God. I'll never let that down. I'm so sorry. No, actually, I think it's very sweet because. He came to me. Yeah, I thought that was very sweet. And asked for permission. Yes. Come on, that's very sweet. It was very sweet. I really like that. He wanted to do it before Christmas, that's a whole thing. oh it's beautiful to get engaged around that time because i remember christmas morning just being like i'm engaged like it's just like the best because it's the holidays and it's just like slow anyways and you just you just want to be happy and merry and eat and celebrate and it's oh my god my hand is so heavy oh it was the best i love i was wearing it the other day and i was like i need to start wearing this more because it was kind of everything so it is you don't have it on i know i had it on the day i had all three sets on it was really pretty anyways we have not gone we got to the hottest topic honestly that was the hot topic everybody wanted to know and truly thank you for sharing with everyone i thought that was so sweet i was excited for you know i i would be the first to be like let me tell everyone my sister but i'm very i'm very happy and you can um identify if you want you don't have to identify you can just be who you are no well but also if you want to find your queer couple yes but yes a streaming service and i are going to find your love match queer love queer love especially but i am very excited for it because it is weird how there's no queer couples can i just say i've had so many people from my streaming like platform say oh my god should i apply for this i'm like absolutely me too the amount so many tiktoks so many tiktoks really handsome there's this one guy who has like this beautiful curly hair and like i always see him pop up anyways and he wanted to apply so i'm like i need to get in touch with the casting and see because there's just so many amazing people on tiktok and off tiktok i know it's gonna be hard we i think we're well first of all you're probably gonna have season two fall never arrives all at once first the air then the light and slowly the things you love begin to find each other a jacket meets a dress a hoodie slips beneath a blazer an old cap finds a new scarf because you don't simply step into the season you create it layer by layer until it finally feels like fall you find fall your way at ross hi there i am fully charged and here to tell you toy story 5 is now on disney plus it's been too long cowboy woody buzz and jesse are back for a brand new adventure with some seriously cool new tech what holy butterscotch you said it jesse so save your batteries and watch the global phenomenon at home and the best part it's perfect for the whole family power up your movie night and watch disney and pixar's toy story 5 now streaming on disney plus rated pg yeah i mean they're gonna keep growing and you're ready this season already looks like it could be the celebrity season oh my god yeah i would love and if someone gets married i'll perform at your wedding they might they might i love weddings i can't tell i need someone to get married oh my god i'm sounding like vanessa lachey and the love is blind like we need to have a baby i love this blind baby he has a girl calm down i was giving that okay so sorry my apologies but i'm going to do this but all right this is fun where do we go from there that's like the hottest topic spicy cubes that was a spicy cubes or slushy noobs no spicy cubes my sister texted me spicy cubes you know i have no idea do you know what this is wow one you don't know usually moses knows everything they have been on tiktok okay people are sharing like diabolical stories of like we're in a throuple now because spicy cubes like oh do you know what i'm talking about i'm talking about spicy cubes was spicy cubes on no it's so funny i have them in my pocket right is it a toy what is it no you take them and apparently like they're like a little legal i have no i have no idea what they are okay and why are people in a throuple because of them no there's like five stories on tiktok that i've heard like uh we've been in a throuple we got in a threesome i made out with my girlfriend because i was on spicy cubes oh okay so what it's it's like a enhancer or something it's legal yes it's like when they were selling bad salts at 7-eleven kind of thing a little bit yes absolutely okay is it safe no you have not heard about spicy cubes no my tiktok is all every time i hear a diabolical story on tiktok it always ends in spicy cubes okay and so are they trying to take them off the shelves are they here no no they're in the united states and they're not taking them off and people are just like this is not well i think that maybe you two should try it what it just it's just like why is that so prominent why don't you take them you're in a relationship i didn't take them you wanted us to but you're not going to no i'm in a long distance relationship why would i take them together you kids we're we're happily i don't know you could be really happily you know what is the i guess what is why would people take them i don't know why apparently this okay the one tiktok that i saw was this girl was out with this couple they're friends and they she put spicy cubes in the by your like dates because the date came here and she he goes i have to go i have to go my cat's sick whatever and then sorry my cat called he did he did he said my cat's sick i have to go and so her best friend who was in a relationship she goes hey i actually want i want my boyfriend to please you and i put spicy i'm not joking i'm not laughing no i'm where's it going i'm trying to figure out where this is going it's just the hot top it's just you're you're pissed or you're excited i'm or you just want people to be aware so that's the actual name of it like i'm looking up so that's the actual name of the thing i thought i have a feeling that it's some kind of a marketing scheme for the spicy no no it's not a marketing thing that's why i think that you guys should go boots on the ground here why can't you when you're with your girlfriend why us i'm long distance you guys are just like edibles yes basically yeah so i mean it's like he wants to i don't think so i think you barely have time to get it okay anyways so the girl the girlfriend slipped her best friend a spicy cube they both took spicy cubes so so she drugged her no they're not drugs they're not drugs i mean yes there's something in them if he put like rum in my coke that's that's drugging me it's she knew about it and then she goes she goes i feel so sad for you your your dates keep leaving you i'm gonna have your man my man please you that actually happened i gotta send this to you are you kidding me okay well let us know in the comments you guys i mean this person is like roofing people pimping her husband this is like that person is trouble that's what i've confused that like no they all know that we're taking it they all know that and they all knew first of all it's just like a vitamin it doesn't sound like it yeah vitamin d vitamin b okay all right okay never mind it sounds great and fun and hopefully legal hopefully legal it is legal yes yes you can okay i guess if everyone's like willing to take it i don't know it's probably i mean tomorrow you'll see courtney kardashian and be like lemmy oh my god that's what it gives when i look at it the packaging it gives that's exactly what her products look like it's like little gummies that are and you've never heard of spicy cubes i'm i'm out on this one i have heard every crazy story on tiktok and it ends up in spicy cubes i'm like i gotta boots on the ground you too well now that i looked it up unfortunately it will probably show unfortunately it's gonna be end up in i'm scared i didn't don't like to put anything in my body because i don't know how long it's gonna last it's just a vitamin it doesn't sound like just a vitamin if it's making you loosey-goosey like you said earlier you said earlier you said that i said it's like giving so that's not a vitamin that's very hardcore it's in cbs why would that be well so is nyquil but i still get blacked out from that for 48 hours if i take it that's what i'm saying i'd be careful i am anti spicy cubes i think fine but you don't like your anti because you're not trying to take it either my girl one's not here but if she was try spicy but then it's like but i guess you said earlier it's like a threesome throuple thing and that drew me off well every story on tiktok i hear it's like it ends in spicy so why would we want to take that i'm not trying to get a threesome no absolutely not no judgment but my least favorite thing oh okay oh well that was great though honestly what i had heard this is why i love you here no but But I am. Oh, my God. I appreciate that. Jamie, you've heard of it. I know Jamie's heard of it. I'll find out soon. Jamie, let us know. We'll text in a couple hours. Sunday UFO. Did mom see it? Did she think it was real? No, I don't think so. I wonder if she's like, wow, did that UFO happen? Because some people aren't. I don't think she watches her. I posted it. Who? Watches who? I don't think she watches herself. I posted it on TikTok, the UFO behind us, behind me and mom. Did she comment? Nope, I thought maybe she commented to you. No, she didn't. Well, you know. I thought it was real. I guess, yeah, if you're taking it, be careful. No, let us know. How is it? Thank you so much to Fabletics for sponsoring today's episode. I love Fabletics. I'm so excited that they're sponsoring these episodes because they're great. I wear them in my workout era, okay? I have been going up and down in sizes my entire life. And Fabletics has been there through it all. 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We talked about it on our extended episode this week, but it was early on. It was early on. Did you see The View talking about this? The seven. Like, insane. Shut the fuck up. Shut the fuck up. Okay, so she's talking. Yeah, she was basically being like, legally, she took the ketamine. And so, like, legally. And that's like, what the fuck are you talking about? Like, it's, even Joy Behar, who I feel like has, like, the worst hot takes, is kind of like. No, she is for the girls. Yeah, she's like, well, like, she still, like, didn't have, like, her, she didn't have, like, control over her autonomy and stuff like that. It's like, and also, that girl, she was like a lawyer, Sunny. She's like, well, if the law says, and it's like, well, the laws should change, then, if that's a law, like. Shut the fuck up, Sunny. It's crazy. It was insane. That's how when you're intoxicated, you're not. Exactly. You're not, like, you can't give consent. You cannot give consent. Because you also don't know what you're doing, how much you're doing, or, like, it happened to me once. When I was, like, basically intoxicated, somebody was like, hey, do you want some of this? I was like, sure. And it was the worst thing ever, like, what happened after. But it's like, you don't really know. Yeah, you lose control of your body, so. And if it's a, and also, it's not, it's a very strong substance. And she doesn't know how much she's taking. She doesn't know how it's going to affect her. The fact that that woman, Sunny, was like, well, she willingly let other men snort catamount for all. First of all. First of all, you can't give consent when you're drunk. You're intoxicated. Drunk, high. No. You also weren't there. Oh, she, she did this off of this person's member. No. Yeah. No. Uh-uh. I, that was. I lost all respect for her when she said that. That was insane. That was an insane take. Even if what she's saying is, like, legally, and she, her statement was this, it's like, well, her statement. First of all, there was seven men there. In the chat. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm. No, I know. And no one. No one. Yeah, said anything. Not one. The fact that she was, like, she consented. You think she consented to all being on Snapchat? You can't consent to that. Not even, like, even if it's, like, your boyfriend and someone that you're with all the time. It's like, if you're, if you're drunk, if you're anything, like, you can't, you absolutely cannot consent to it. And it's, I've been on, yeah, been on those substances. And it's, like, even if you remember or you're aware, it's, like, you're still. You still are not in your right mind. You still can't physically consent to it. It's insane that that's the same conversation that people are having. Not one of them. Not one of them even thought, like, even though she, maybe if she did consent, quote, unquote, not one of them was like, I don't think this is right. So, I heard, I heard one on the group chat showed her. That's why they gave, that's how she got the proof. I mean, obviously, it didn't stop it. Yeah, somebody showed her. come forward because that's insane a couple things obviously laws should change i mean why are frat houses a thing like oh this probably would happen way less because they're still hazing let's talk about that just happened in the same pretty much in the same time that came out i think this happens all the time i think it's because it's cornell and it's these seven boys that are like well to do and also like it's like obviously it's getting attention i think this happens at so many schools there's so many people and it's just not as high profile because it's you know it's not these kind of schools or whatever but it's well it is high profile that's why right but i'm saying it happens probably so often other happened two years ago so heartbreaking because now you see tiktoks of so many people coming out and saying what happened to them in college yeah it happens all the time and stories that nobody ever heard of they never complained they never went to the police with that with it or that's what i'm saying we're only hearing about this and it's great that people are supporting it but it just happens so much and people don't have i reposted something that says like 97 of like um cases don't go reported 80 go dismissed and then like it just like goes on and on i mean probably so many just get covered up and pushed aside oh why didn't you say anything because no one takes women seriously yeah it's or and then this happens like well legally legally this and legally you let them do this and it's like oh you're gonna ruin a man's life oh really yeah people don't want to do it because they don't want to do it because they don't want to do it because they don't want to do it because they don't want to do it because they don't want to do it because i mean her life was ruined she and you can see it she dropped off school she didn't continue her education so it's not like nothing happened to her so yeah their life should be affected the same way exactly worse worse also it's like not trying to like pivot too much but also i think like snapchat is the only platform that would like allow something like this if that's on tiktok or instagram it's like like it's weird that snapchat you're able because things are disappearing things are this it's like i feel also the audacity yeah that you can you can post that yeah well that says it all right there is like people just get away how can you post that well i mean it just i know and cornell is prestigious that's saying i think it's like money and power so they can cover up things i mean of course of course and i it makes me sick because their original punishment was just writing essays on what they did wrong which is like insane yeah it's really scary it's i don't know they probably messaged you yeah i don't know the essay it's going it's going up to a federal case though right now absolutely so that's you know they should be locked up 100 i think hopefully some justice will be served it's just sad that it just happens so much so it's like what do we do i'm so i'm so sick by it yeah that's disgusting i don't think there should be any sort of we just had me too movement yeah but that changed a lot of things like once that came out we had me too and now we have this president yeah that's what happened yeah no i agree it's like what what is the change like what is the thing that's gonna help shift all this you know um i think with the me too movement like at least people were aware women spoke up more and guys were held accountable and became a little more scared i guess i mean still people but now it's like reverted back yeah yeah we go we go way back and it makes me sad too i try to speak up just even like on like i don't want to bring up politics but like even women that have miscarriages and they're like oh you terminated that pregnancy like no they wanted that yeah they wanted that baby like why are you prosecuting this person yeah no i mean that's awful women's bodies a whole i mean women in general there's just yeah it's not there's no justice yeah i mean that's insane meanwhile there's a lonely male epidemic well i think that men can be lonelier they should be as i'm saying i think there should be no i think they should be absolutely lonelier maybe they need to be in like an island just castrated or something that should be legal it used to be during the game of thrones era castration that used to be illegal remember he was a eunuch on game of thrones lily allen's brother okay game of thrones is not what really You stop doing shit when you don't have a penis. sure you know what you know so that's i think the only real that in education i mean kids needs to be educated it starts at home parents i see a lot of that too i've been reposting is yeah like teaching our boys young yeah i did see your post that was a great one yeah but also sticking up for women as we do if you're silent you are complicit there was once um we had like a halloween party and because when this happened suddenly like this flash of memory of that and we we threw like this big party and it was a house party and i remember like in the living room somebody was intoxicated and some guy was like oh we should take her upstairs she should lay down in the bed and something my head just clicked and i was like no she's not moving from here like and the try the people keep trying to convince like oh no she should lay down and be more comfortable i was like no no like this person is staying here in the living room and it was a big part lots of people and like hundreds of people but but it was just weird that moment i was just like who are you and what do you have to do with this person why is that even something of your concern and it was so interesting that moment where i was like no no this person needs to stay here visibly where everyone can see her i think it was just a normal thing you that movie 16 candles um jake ryan the popular kid at school his girlfriend is like blacked out drunk in the convertible and he literally tells the little nerd to just like do what he wants with her and he like and she goes did we she has did it like she wakes up and she goes did we and it's like this and that's like in 16 candles like a john hughes like mainstream film and it's like i think it was like i think people just did that and it was just a thing and i mean i know i mean even in the early 2000s i mean people it happened all the time and she was like i think it was like i think people just did that and it was just a thing and i mean i know i mean even in the early 2000s i mean people it happened all the time and she was like i don't know what's going on people it happened all the time she says no if she's sleeping if she says it doesn't feel good even drunk if you're drunk you stop you that's that's no consent anymore i think it needs to be like an enthusiastic yes i think it can't be like i don't know i don't maybe i guess if you i needs to be like yes hell yes i think it's just like otherwise but i i i guess i mean my god malibu was playing oh this was years ago but like malibu was playing with someone and she goes oh you're a baby you're a baby i'm like get away from her yeah that's like the kind of protection that i think that people should be yeah doing i have hope that you know the more people talk about this the more it'll change like i said the me too movement helped in the sense that like it happened for so long in hollywood for like 100 years it was going on he did just get convicted by the way convicted and i think people got it and i think people got it and i think people get it and i think people got it scared and people are more like which rightfully so you know i think it's i think over all these things that's why i was talking about like to catch a predator too it's like i think people are at least aware that they could be caught i think back in the day like there was no hair that's a problem people don't but some yeah some people don't they won't stop yeah it's like a men are saying yes it's it's devastating it's crushing and i try to just uh you know be a voice because i think the louder we are the better you know and more supportive people will feel coming forward but it's awful but to sunny on the view like you're on the view you are liberal women looking out for women like what the are we doing like even if it's the law and you're a lawyer like even a joy behar is like okay no there's something wrong with that like what are you think if it was your daughter i think if it was you like it's actually it's uh your sister anybody like that's it's that was a disgusting take on her seven seven people violated this girl no 57 yeah 57 saw it happen and no one said anything and she had the the guts the goal yeah well luckily she had you know something the snapchats to show because it's a lot of girls no sonny had the goal to say oh that was absolutely disgusting and she should be off immediately because it's like this is kind of a i would hope she's a lawyer i know well that's the problem it's like that's why people get off it's like they have these lawyers and although i did see too that man who was found guilty of the the american idol singer the mistress he was found guilty thank god i don't know what's happening in this world but men period i'm with you i'm with you girl i am men yeah ben is happy to see how i was relieved when he said you're a dang girl thank god god i'm honestly my mom mom was relieved when i was saying she knows too i'm so glad you're dating a man or i'm dating a girl not a man yeah never never a man speaking of awful men oh god more then we'll get to some fun stuff like dancing with the stars or something but brian austin green you know him no i don't in line me i know him oh i didn't know what do you know i know him what do you know i'm from like what's your thing that you know brian austin green from uh wait first wait do you know brian austin green not yet oh okay really i know two and no names and then megan fox oh he's you know him as megan fox's oh he's dating someone new you might know him he dated brie on a season of desperate housewives he was like the young plumber that she dated he had three kids with megan fox he had a kid before megan fox he has a kid now with shauna burgess from dancing with the stars she's a pro she just returned this season she's paired with tyler cameron i think he's a bachelor pretty attractive guy has like a six-pack it's her first season back since having the baby with brian austin green i think like three years ago so she kind of was out of it for a minute they were partners on dancing stars brian austin green and sharna they went through it together he's busy he is a little too busy and no judgment but damn you know what happened woman huh what happened with him what happened with him well a lot of kids first again no judgment but the thing is people would judge a woman for having three baby daddies but he has three babies we're all that's what this episode is on trial brian austin green come up to the court yes uh you're on trial because he's been posting a series of tick tocks that have given me the absolute ick and so yeah so like i said he was a former star of like 90210 obviously the guest appearance is only desperate housewives uh had been uh had yeah most people know him as having babies with megan fox because megan fox is so hot and he was dusty crusty when they met she was like 18 and he was dusty crusty 90s has been attractive i suppose not anymore something's going on with him but so then he did dancing stars got with his partner they had a baby she's beautiful uh the his his partner i guess and so she's on the season she's crushing it like they're pretty good you know i don't really know the bachelor but she does great choreo she's won i think before i think sharna's won before um and he's been making tick tocks saying that he is um that he's lonely and he's like my wife has just been gone a lot and all her time is spent away and everyone's like work she's people are usually gone when they go to work in you oh and he's like she's supporting you and he's an out of here yeah bright house of green her last gig was dancing with the stars she's still on dancing with the stars as a pro which you know his last job was 90210 let's be real yes the relevancy of it all i guess he had the megan fox arc so that was not a job either by the way yeah he didn't seem great at that well so then he's making these tech talks he's like i'm at the movies again by myself and he's and everyone is like what the like why aren't you supporting exactly exactly like your white partner mother of your child is like back working 12 hours a day she's coming home she's like you're in l.a you're in l.a together she's coming home laying with you in bed like oh how are you not when's what's the last job that he did what's the last acting job that he did he just hasn't that's why oh he hasn't i think that well that's where it comes from it comes from time maybe well we do love a lifetime movie well i do love a lifetime movie but he hasn't even done that he has not even done that he's coming obviously insecure i mean he's definitely like she's spending all her time away and it's like it's just manipulative if a man is insecure it's just manipulative because it's like you know she was she did set out a few seasons she's back on it she's doing really well but i do love the comments because comments always pass the vibe check on tick tock they were saying like i'm just gonna vote more for tyler and jana so they stay longer and i do love that that everyone's coming together for that because she's she is crushing it and she looks great and it's like she's a mom she's working hard and it's like you said it's like you should be so happy that you are finding these beautiful women that want to be with you because you are musty dusty crusty you don't work and like how are you not being so supportive like you see all the other dance pro partners um i think her name's briley armstrong i think it's her name um she you know she's super supportive always being like vote for that but you know vote for it for our team he's with um i think he's with sierra and you know very very supportive and it's just like seeing this as very toxic masculinity like i have been with you for my whole life right literally and literally um and moses the first partner that's ever only been supportive and has found his only like his his own way he's like i'm gonna do cooking videos i'm gonna be i'm gonna be water okay yeah okay water before me but yes okay i can't take credit for that but like that's how you should be you should have your own sort of idea identity but like this guy is but even if you don't have the identity of a supportive husband like it's like whitney when connor started doing dance with stars she became connor levitt's number one fan because dancing with stars is quite it's the biggest story it's very hard especially for the pros it's the biggest show on tv it's it's having its moment all over again so it's like when you're on dance with stars whitney stopped everything to be with connor for a week it's like you be the most supportive spouse but especially when you're not doing anything like i said he's not doing cooking videos or podcasts he's not doing anything it's like now you need to be real supportive now you really need to be the most supportive and you should be with your baby cheering on look at mommy on tv like vote for her you know what i mean like just doing everything you can to campaign what do you want to be that because you're insecure but he's old you're too old to be insecure you're too old you're too grown you have too many children like to be this yeah the show is seasonal it's not like she has a talk show where she goes every day to work or something it's it's a few weeks and it's done a few months but yeah you are gone a long period of time you are gone like 12 hours a day but yeah everybody that goes on that show is doing that and it's for you get brand deals like she gets tons of brand deals they did one there's opportunities we had babies at the same time i think me and sharna when malibu was born and they were doing like these vitamins too so she's like getting great brand deals from this show it's she's very relevant and it's just something that everyone could see through it on social media so i was very happy but it's just like you're embarrassing stop doing that like oh my god i'd be so embarrassed if i was on dancing with the stars and most just being like i'm she's gone all the time or even when i'm traveling like right i do i love i love that you guys are both your own people i really do because your steaks look great with the the watermelon and you support you hype it up too well i mean i love eating them they are great no even even the stuff that you don't really want to eat either and you do end up liking it no like dumplings or you know what i mean i requested the dumplings i like the dumplings okay i also requested the tomato soup which i never had a chance to eat okay i requested the tomato soup which i never had a chance to eat okay i requested the tomato soup and i was like oh my god same we didn't even record that reaction because i was like to me even too i was like i don't know okay i love this though love yeah that was a scary one well no the first one though was the first one they were all right i love all of them first of all yeah but we couldn't imagine our life without I'm not the happiest. He's happy to be here. That's for sure. Are you watching Dancing with the Stars this year? No, I never watch it. I never watch it. But I only get the cliff notes from mom. So she watches what she say. I don't want to. I know. I know. When we did the extended Patreon, I had to be like, I'll be like, I know you love them. But I was like, mom, if I love them, let's not talk about them. I saw the guy with the Birkin. Is that another guy? He had the Birkin. In the audience? Oh, in the audience from Traders. Oh, he was there for Mara. Mara Higgins. Well, I love Mara's with Mark this season. I love Mara and I love Guillermo. Those are my two favorites. Yeah, I think the other ones are all good. Just not my fave. I like interesting. I like fun. None of them are fun or interesting. Guillermo's fun and Whitney's very pregnant. So it's fun to watch. And then, yeah, I read. I really like Mara Higgins because she's like, you know, not a dancer, but giving it her all. Taylor Hansen just went home and everyone was. Wait, was Julia Stiles on this one? Julia Stiles was with Ezra. Yes. She's off. No. Oh, she's on still. She's still on. Okay, good. She's with Ezra. There's, yeah, Taylor Hansen went home with Brit, who I love Brit as a pro. I feel like, I feel like she doesn't get paired. Like she, she should have been paired with like Harry from Glee, like Harry June. Like I feel like. She just doesn't get the right partners. And I do think that has a lot to do with it. I think if you don't give someone like the right partner, you kind of set them up. Although, you know, like Guillermo and Whitney are crushing it. But a lot of people just think it's like not fair, the judging system and the way that people are set up. Because Taylor Hansen was really good. Remember Hansen and Bup? He was at home. And Brit was really good. They were really good. Yeah, like it should have been someone like. The middle, younger or older? I do not know. Okay. I couldn't even tell you the name of the other Hansen brothers. But I love Hansen. I love Dancing with the Stars. And. Yeah, yeah, yeah. And everyone's just like, that's the greatest song that was ever written. It was the greatest. It was the greatest song ever. That's crazy. And now, like, looking back, you're just like, Jonathan Taylor Thomas got arrested down the street from us. Oh, my God. I sent that to you. I was like, where'd he go? Yes. I thought I sent it to you. I sent it to you. Naz sent it to me originally. Naz was the first to send it to me. No. Yeah, Naz, like, down the street from you. Shout out. Love you so much, Naz. I love Naz. Naz is my lesbian icon. I always say that, too. She watches the podcast. She goes, yeah, my friend was telling me today watching the podcast and sent my favorite photographer who's a lesbian. I was like, I just love her. She's just so fun. I just think she's, like, the best. She's my favorite, like, human being ever. Naz, if I ever get married, my sister's going to hire you to be my photographer. She's the best. Naz, sometimes I hire her just for the vibes because, honestly, like, even if it's not photos, I'm just like, can you just come hang out? But I guess we're going to hammer it over. She comes over to me. When I was, like, just, like, hanging out with the kids, she goes, okay, lesbo. I think she was the most excited. I was like, you know, it's just fun. I think it's just like, yay, welcome. You know, I think it's one of those things. I don't know. I love it. I love it. But then you were sending me the memes, too. You were like, don't you just love having a goated lesbian? I was like, actually, yeah. I want to post about it everywhere. She's the best. No, she's, like, an amazing person. No, her girlfriend actually messaged me on Instagram. She goes, do you want to double date? I'm like, yeah. I'm trying to. I, like, want to move over here. But I feel like I don't want them to feel pressure. You're not gay. First of all, I feel like I'm queer just because I have a male-presenting partner. You guys can come. We're queer love, too. You guys can come, too. That is funny. I saw a meme the other day that's like, oh, God, I forgot what it was. It was something like, if I'm dating a boy, I'm hetero. If I'm dating a girl, I'm lesbian. So it's like, bisexuality doesn't exist unless I'm dating two people at the same time, like a boy and a girl or something. Because people will be like, no, you're dating a man, so you're straight. Oh, you're dating a girl. And granted, I will say, I haven't had any serious. girl relationships. I tried once, but that was more like a throuple thing. And yeah, I don't think I was too scared. I think I was too scared to explore, because I really thought. I don't think that anyone has to identify as anything. Hot take. I don't know if it's a hot take. You don't have to identify. You don't have to label yourself. Because everyone's like, oh, so what are you? What are you? Are you bi? Are you lesbian? I'm like, I don't know. I just love who I love. You love who you love. And that's okay. But if you want to wear shit that says lesbian, you can do it. I have live love lesbian in there. I love that shirt. You can just be, I don't know. My friend Jenny's like, I think that you are always just pan. You just like who you like. And that's all right. I feel deep down, this is a real hot take, and people don't like when I say this. I think deep down, everyone kind of is pan, but they're too scared to maybe explore anything else. Because it's like, yeah, sometimes you fall. It's like, you know when people are married to a man, and then they transition to a woman, and they'll stay, and how could you stay? Or they don't stay, because they're like, what? It's like, if you fall in love with a person. I agree with that. If you transition to a woman, I'd be like, if you wanted to still be with me, I would, of course, yeah, I'd be like, I still love you. Like, that doesn't. So, you know, I do think there is a thing. I think some people are scared, too. And I was, too. I think I was scared, too, to really fully try, you know. But I've definitely dated trans people, and I've dated, you know, non-binary. And I've dated all types and stuff. And I think I was ever, yeah, I think I was scared when I was younger to fully, because, yeah, judgment. But I'm glad it's not like that. You had. And identity. Yeah, still do. Yeah, there's a whole, I have a big struggle with gender and sexuality and identity in general, just in the overall identity. You don't have to have a struggle with anything. Yeah. You just have to have a good support system. Yeah. I'm learning that. Finding who you are. As I said yesterday at Penn State, find out who you are, or, I don't know, just live life. Oh, my God. Just exist. You're a big hit in Pennsylvania. Pennsylvania actually is a very big, Philly specifically is very big. Very queer. Yeah. I feel like especially at these college talks, I'm always talking. Yeah. I love it. Because once again, I think people are just open. I think it's like really open. They love you. Oh, my God. You got mobbed. That was great. Oh, my. Seven Brew. Shout out Seven Brew, Penn State. It was a drive-thru. And I didn't want to go through a drive-thru because I was making a vlog. I was trying to go inside. I'd never been to Seven Brew, but I'd seen it all over. My driver, so sweet, but also got us lost at State College. And we were, it was supposed to be four minutes to Sheetz, across the way from Sheetz was supposed to be a Seven Brew. Drove 30 minutes to get to a Sheetz. Drove another 30 minutes to get to Seven Brew. Also, hot take, wait. I can't believe you didn't go to Wawa. Can I say, hot take? Sheetz is better than Wawa. They don't have fried mac and cheese at Sheetz, at Wawa. Their hot food isn't as good. Remember the Kale Lowry sound? It's like, and then you try to f*** me in a Wawa parking lot. Do you remember that? It's like, that is very Kale Lowry. I love her. She looks so good. Her body's so too. Go to Wawa's. Not my thing. Okay. I love a Sheetz. You haven't had the fried mac and cheese at Sheetz? I got a 20 piece. 20 piece of fried mac and cheese. It was. They're going to cancel you in Delco County. I'm just going to let you know. In Dorco? Delco. Where's Delco? Delco County is like Delaware. Oh. Like that whole county right here. You guys, let us know. Sheetz is, who's superior, Wawa or Sheetz? Oh my God, you're going to get flamed. I think you're going to get flamed. No, I think that you're going to get flamed. Sheetz is so much better. The hot food is so much better. And then I was trying to do my TikTok in my car, and they have pizza at Wawa. There's better pizza in Philadelphia than Wawa. Like, isn't the dish pizza? Is that a Philadelphia thing? That's Chicago. Oh. Okay. Never mind. Well, he doesn't know. Well, it's fine. You don't go there often to the East Coast Midwest. Whatever. Have you ever been to the Midwest? Chicago? He's been to Ohio. I mean, we've been with you in Cleveland. Okay. That's pretty Midwest. That's not Midwest. That's definitely Midwest. I think that's the East. It is close to it. Anyways, it's close to there, sort of, kind of. But then when I was doing my TikTok in the car, my driver, because they're so chatty. People in Pennsylvania love to talk. My driver thought I was talking to him, so he's answering me. I was like, okay, well, I'm doing my TikTok, but okay. Right, right, right. So you're a part of it. But he was great. He was very nice. He didn't have to take me everywhere, because he was waiting to take me to the Penn State. And I was like, hey, can I? I was like, if I Zelle you some extra, can you drive me around? He didn't even have Zelle. I was like, well, what did you think I meant when I said that? But anyways, I found some cash. I was able to get to him. But yeah, he drove me to all the places. And then I wanted to go to Seven Brew. I wanted to go inside to get merch or something. It was just a drive-thru. I was like, we just drove another 30 minutes to get to the Seven Brew. I was like, but anyways, they were really nice. I rolled out my window. The guy was like, oh, my God, you just paid us. And then everyone came running out. It was like a movie. It was honestly the most famous I ever felt. Someone at the Penn State. You were very famous. I was very famous. And then people were coming. People were coming out of the Seven Brew, but then people were coming out of their cars from the drive-thru. I was like, we're holding up the drive-thru. Then people were jumping out. And then you could hear in the back of my TikTok, I'm taking pictures with all the people at Seven Brew. And then someone's like, I don't work here, but can I get in the picture? I saw that. I saw that. No, can I just say, I'm just like, oh, people are like, oh, how is it like being Georgia Payne's sister? I'm like, she's a dork, first of all. Oh, that is true. I am not cool. We were just like swashbuckling, buckling. Buckling. Okay. I love Moses' reactions to, I love it. No, I love this why you're on there, my nostalgia moment. Okay, yes. It's true. I'm like, we were just dorks. We were from Dork County. That's what I thought you were saying earlier. I thought you were saying like Dork County. I was like, what? No, dork. Yeah, we had the things with the dorks because we had the little spinny hats, remember, in Dork County? The little propeller hats with our Frito-Lays. I mean, that's everywhere, but okay. The spinny hats? Yes. No one had that. We didn't wear them. We didn't wear those around. We did in Dork County. No, we did not. She just made that up. You want to go to Dork County, Wisconsin? Is it like Dorklandia or something? Like, is it like, are we talking about a place or are you talking about being dorks? First of all, I don't know. We lost the plot. No, I know, but I'm saying like, it sounds like that could be your show. They have ducks, like the boats that go on land and water. Anyways. I'll buy that. You'll buy it? I'll probably have one of those. You do love, yeah, you do love. It's a big one. It's a big one. People go in it, yeah. Anyways, everyone's like, oh my God, you have such a famous sister. I'm like, is she? Such a famous. When I see stuff like that, I'm like, oh my God, she is. Yeah, but that's like few, that's kind of rare because people ask me that yesterday. No, that's not fair because when I saw your interaction, sometimes I get recognized at work and I'm just like, we have the same interaction. I'm like, oh my God, hey, you're so beautiful. And you're like, oh my God, you're so pretty online, but you're prettier in person. I mean, that's always a compliment. I always love that. I was like, yeah, I'll take it. Thank you. I always love that. They always get, you're skinnier in person. Thank you. Or you're tinier. They say you're smaller. You're so, you're so fat. I love that. I was like, thank you so much. I always get that. People always think that I'm so tall. Oh, interesting. Well, you give like Khloe Kardashian like looks, so. I'm very, very short. I'm 5'3". But not too short. Did I ever tell you a story? I used to tell guys I was so short and then they'd be like my height and they're like, well, you're not that short. Okay. Because I think short is like 4'11". Right. But I used to be like, I'm so short. I'm like, embarrassing you're short. And then we're kind of just mid. No, but it's true. People are like, oh my God, you're so, you're so short. I thought you were so tall. Because when you see somebody on screen, you usually feel up the screen like you're. Moses is very tall, but we are very short. That's so interesting. I think Moses is not short. I don't think you're, I don't think very tall. You're tall. Okay. Calm down. That's rude. How is that rude? There's nothing wrong with being an average height. He's not average. He's very tall. I'm tall. And you're not short. You're. You're average. And then there's short. I'm not. We're 5'3". We're average. That's what I'm saying. They're short. People are like, oh, you're 5'8". I was like, that's my ex-boyfriends. I told Jackie, I was like, you're the tallest person I've ever met. I love that. You're like, you actually passed the height check. I love it so much. You're 5'8". 11 so i think that's i think that's like average i think over six foot's tall maybe you're above average a little bit just another inch from five eleven two yeah so but you're not six so i don't think that's bad that's what i'm saying i'm not i'm not i'm just tall right but the really tall is over six feet but you're not but there's not that many people you're very you're tall compared to there's not that many people everyone you're very tall but yes no i love i love i love our height i mean our brother is six four that's what i'm saying like in comparison of course but there's people who are like five foot like sabrina carpenter that short we're more like that's true we're like five four no average is like five six let's google where's my dad when you need to ask chat gbt my dad asked him everything like what is average height for a female five six it also depends which female because they'll be like you know european or like it depends also where oh american jeez you said that's so american is everyone i think it's oh you're one by race oh my god we're going all over the place well moroccan right moroccan we're all we're all a little moroccan what's the segue here um well one thing we can all agree on is reading is fundamental reading is fundamental alex earl just did an interview with i think interview and they said uh what's the last book you read she said i've never read a book maybe dr seuss she said maybe she's a visual learner i mean girl why are we admitting these things why are we saying ar ar remember ar what's that you had to like have so many points to moses like he definitely doesn't know ar i don't know i know yeah you don't remember ar like you had to have so many points to moses like he definitely doesn't know ar i don't know i know yeah you don't remember ar like you had to have so many points to moses like he definitely doesn't know ar like you had to have so many points no reading ar okay well what was it like it was like you had to read so many books and then you had to take a test oh yeah well i don't remember it called ar i mean i just remember like english classic you read fahrenheit 51 you took a test okay fine it was ar but i believe you i just don't i don't remember it called that yeah girl like how did you pass school why would we admit this do we need to go back she's never read a book yes i mean malibu is reading books like malibu but i'm saying like if she's an age of like phones and internet then i believe that you know like but like it's cool you have to read you have to read literature you have to read a mice men fahrenheit 51 cool cheat so easily that's what i'm saying like it's so easy to cheat nowadays and just get the summary of the it's not well and she didn't have a rich dad i'm just not to whatever but sometimes like rich parents no i'm shit on them shit on them let's go shit on them today for you um let's go rich dad i mean the thing is is like rich and the fact is you also kind of had a rich dad not growing up he became rich like he did not and he also didn't give me any money he also did not give you anything my dad told his company for like so much money it's like microsoft and i was like oh my god we're rich and then well it's not that i got nothing it's i didn't but you didn't in comparison with my brother car and then my mom bought me the car so i'm just shout out my mom respect but my dad three jobs we gotta explain it right no of course that's why i always owe mom everything till the day i know i can say that but what i will i will because mom really did she really did work so much like she i mean her body's worn out from being like a bartender for 30 years like she worked morning news she's driving a bus at 6 a.m she went and did like school aid work then she went and bartended at the country club like just she did she did busting her ass um and then she got me my car when i turned 16 it was like a two thousand dollar jeep cherokee and i loved johnny death and secret window he drove once mom got me one it broke down then she got me the shift stick car and so i was driving that to school like she really was so great and i think what perspective of this right i was like yes i my dad made a lot of money he didn't he was struggling for a very long time made a lot of money by selling his company my brother when he turned 16 got like a um and then yeah i turned 16 curve rickets and i was like okay and then like school my brother got like private college and a corvette i was like oh my god i can't wait to get my and nothing he's like you can go to the attic you can go live up there okay i guess fine but it was just yeah it was just uh it was you know not really fair treatment but you know we're getting past that my and um why do we get this oh you said because i have a rich dad i did not have one like alex where who knows who knows what she gave her i'm just saying if she's never read a book how she got through school uh assumption would be maybe that they can pay even like homeschool people i remember when i was in homeschool for a year and a half i did have my brother do my spanish you did i cheated yeah oh okay on school on school when what year did you finish i did i have my i have my diploma homeschool you went if you finish homeschooling yeah yeah we both did i i had to be okay so i was in chicago or like illinois and then mom got married and she's like oh we're going to michigan i'm like no we're not how old were you 14 i was 14 i was like i'm not going to school how did i end at 14 i do love that you were like no we're not i was like yeah okay well i was very independent at that time yeah yeah and so she's like okay i'll put you in homeschooling i'm like all right fine and then i was in homeschooling and my foreign language class was um on rosetta stone okay and i did not finish what'd you take spanish okay the way you said that was so funny like my foreign language class i'm going to take it was on rosetta stone and why is that a gag why are we why is that no because i didn't finish it and mom yelled at them and she oh you lied why is that a gag why is that no because i didn't finish it and mom yelled at them well okay so did you ever we're all cheating here what the why are you cheating get someone else in trouble you're like actually i did finish it they don't know what they're talking about the mom's like yelling at them and they're like okay well apologies to rosetta stone if you're watching she's like she literally flew in in spanish like i wish i was this is not going anywhere but anyways yes i also cheated in my own class but did you read a book oh my god i read many sid harfa is one of my favorite books you read it what's the name sinhartha no it's not a book okay oh he can't read the buddhism book oh i did read that too what was it called giva it's hard to say in english you read it okay that's why i became a vegetarian that's like many years ago that was the hardest part about me when i was trying to become a monk is the vegetarian part of the hari krishna i can't eat meat you can't eat the i have to eat meat i can let go of like pork and chicken but like fish and steak i love fish and steak you can look over chicken no chicken it's easy to like of chicken especially if you don't cook it because most places it's so bland but fish and steak i love well same oh segue here we go i was just gonna say i think we need to read more i think alex is admitting she doesn't read doesn't look good for her right i think alex is admitting she doesn't read doesn't look good for her right oh my god we were talking about that but is she dyslexic or something like there might be a reason too okay hopefully it's quite extreme to say i never read a book something generous i like that you're trying to see the bright side but or a positive side of this maybe maybe that is true but uh maybe she'll be a spokesperson she never read junie b jones or nancy drew nancy drew oh my god do you remember i love nancy oh my god we played that yep the hidden staircase oh my god that was so fun i loved i loved it yeah like just reading we re-encountered it in the house yep re oh yes we reenacted it yes well she's kind of a she knows she speaks okay for someone who's never read so i don't know girl i would start with uh maybe to kill a mockingbird to start yeah that's kind of like fifth grade level we were reading to kill a mockingbird maybe hungry caterpillar by dr seuss that is by eric that's not dr seuss that's another one is eric what i don't know do you remember um the one you read in first grade by shel silverstein oh my god start with that book 100 where the sidewalk ends i have the book for her what book crying on the kitchen floor i love crying on the chicken floor sorry chickens chicken floor is good though i like that yeah alex give me your if you want to give me your pr can she read i don't know maybe like you said maybe she can't and then we're just mocking her well you do have an audiobook too so that's true i guess listen to a book girl why are we saying that like i would just make something well i guess if you just never read then you don't have a book to even make up to harry potter twilight does she have a book did she write a book well i hope not if she's ever read a book but maybe she has one coming out next year she's like actually no but oh my god everyone does have a book these days i don't we should i mean you're this is like a life story right here we're getting all the part of my book is in there that is true luckily my sister goes uh unscathed my brother too was asking about it i was like you know it's good because you caused me no trauma both you and here's the thing i knew i didn't yeah you i never was scared you're sprinkled in there but it's you know in and as an accomplice you have you messaged during the writing process and oh yeah the story i cried i did cry and you're you cried too and you're like i never knew i wasn't aware yeah at the time yeah no it's emotional writing that especially like yeah talking about family and just things that you just kind of shove down or push aside or like you want to forget yeah it's a sad there's uh luckily like oscar was telling he's giving me live updates as he was reading he's like you know it's really funny which is great but yeah there's like some dark parts and shameful parts and um yeah especially my sister i was telling that's just like my brother this too because i was like oh my god i'm so sorry i'm so sorry i'm so sorry i'm so sorry i'm so sorry yeah especially my sister i was telling that's just like my brother this too because we were talking about mental health and i was just like yeah like my sister definitely got the brunt of my explosions and spirals and i'd do it all over again i'd be there all over again i wish i could do it all no everything's supposed to happen how it's supposed to happen and that's okay but when you have anxiety and stuff sometimes like oh i hope i was that's okay and not a cause of that because it can be a response to trauma and stuff so it's you know therapy no i love you you too i love you too why did you question it why oh i just didn't know if i was supposed to say i mean pem badgley's wife domino love the name oh said she was not the reason that he was not doing that doing sex scenes i don't know it was like why would she say that she's like uh i said you can do sex scenes oh she well i don't ask like how did i know it was like a i don't know if it was a on instagram but she's like for the record pen badgley my husband stopped doing sex scenes because hollywood is disgusting and he's been in it since 12 years old and they call actors puppets behind their back and it wasn't me it was his decision but i don't know if anyone was like blaming you girl and i think like it's fine no one no one questioned it at all yeah i remember that came out because it was a hot topic years ago it was like years ago by the way and also by the way can i just say he's been still doing sex scenes yeah the he missed one season the british season he's like i'm not doing sex scenes but then like went back to being all sex scenes yeah so i don't know why she said this i'm very confused i remember when he came out with it he said he wanted to be faithful and i remember thinking that was a weird excuse because i'm like well it's just acting but okay she's like actually you can have sex on screen yeah but also like you don't also need to announce i don't know i thought it was an interesting thing you know what's crazy we never we never watch all the popular shows we didn't watch dawson creek we didn't watch vampire diaries we didn't watch um those are very random shows because dawson creek is like little little liars we did not watch that either no what did we watch we watched full house full house say by the bell but we didn't even watch gilmore girls no i tried to get into it but i couldn't mr welding died that's really 75 i think it's sad when you're like so loved and yeah that's really sad you died yeah a lot of being big jeeps lady oh someone did say lindsey clancy trial moses if you want to go to that but let's we can go to what did you say no i'm not gonna talk about big jeeps you know you don't spicy cubes no the big jeeps lady is the big jeep lady yeah no jeeps jeepers creepers okay i'm literally listening to you you know what jeepers creepers of course jeepers creepers not the song but i know the movie okay the horror film well anyways she's like been riding hard she's been having a series on the big jeeps okay like oh he's got a hobby he makes his own clothes someone's been paying his registration on his car how is that possible like she's never mind this is so stupid context of who the big jeeps is jeepers creepers is a guy who is like kind of a scarecrow i think in the movie i know any praise on yes okay is there one in real life that they're talking about oh no so who's the big jeep it's the villain in jeepers jeepers yes and this girl's being like he's got a hobby he is a seamstress oh she's doing like a little dissertation on yes this fictional character yes exact oh my god that was a great okay well i'm trying to figure out where okay got it yes no this is so stupid okay all right all right all right anyways um she's like oh my god he's got family he's loved he has hobbies he did make his he's a seamstress seamstress i love that so like she's like where did he go wrong well like people are supporting him into killing people okay in the movie yes who's having this discourse where is this at is it on discord it's on day talk oh wow i don't want to even talk about this anymore it's so stupid to it you're like oh i'm kind of in support of this oh because i was just like this is so dumb i actually love it yep i love stories like that too i love when people are just especially if it's like a fictional character i'm not into horror films or anything like that but i do love not either i do love people like defending he is really scary but i just what's it look like he's wearing a mask let me hold on hold on hold on is that gonna be your halloween costume do you have a couple's halloween costume with jack no i did actually want to bring that up though what are you gonna be no don't be jeepers well you just said you love jeep the big jeep i don't love jeep jeepers creepers i think he's canceled honestly i uh i kind of said what we're gonna be we're gonna do peter pan most wants to be peter pan twice because he's gonna be captain hook in our family costume but then he wants to be peter pan for our couple's costume he wants me to be tony who's tony peter where you're on jeepers creepers tiktok but not peter pan what is tony who's tony he's talker from tiktok oh i'm sorry she's that's like the biggest story of the year she's too busy on jeeper creeper tiktok she didn't know about peter pan one time and spicy cubes i am gonna get you guys i'm gonna get you spicy cubes and you report back to me what happened okay you're not gonna take spicy cubes no no i'd rather watch this jeeper creeper thing that you're talking about no don't watch it it's horrible it's so scary are you going to but no scare go for that you know what's there fortnite is there is it scary is fortnite scary no why is it at horror nights you should go with jeff he's in town is he here oh my god i should text he's been doing all the horror conventions that's what made me think when he said jeepers creeper he's been like all over doing is thanksgiving there i don't know but he has been texting me i keep i tell him like i'll meet him at all garden i told him that too i'll take you to olive garden there you go so take him to all garden and horror nights and wear your scare pass the blinky one i had to wear a blinky necklace so i don't get scared it's kind of cool though they really do like not scary it's kind of cool no it's too scary still i'm too scared oh my god you really do i don't come on you know when you lived in hollywood i couldn't even go down the hollywood boulevard yeah you were a little traumatized that is that must be let's unpack that why are you scared of the horror nights let's unload my trauma here i don't know why i didn't know that trauma i thought you weren't you guys just watched some horror movies when you were too young wow we did more than us yeah which one oh way to go yeah we were too young i was like 13 but i still was scared this is so unhinged jimmy this is unhinged this is unhinged but honestly here for it i'm going on literally two hours of sleep from oh my god monday because the first world problems didn't lie flat so i can't sleep on a plane that doesn't lie flat so you can sleep on oh i cannot on monday the red eye i could not sleep and then i kind of yeah this morning i couldn't sleep either when there was fall never arrives all at once first the air then the light and slowly the things you love begin to find each other a jacket meets a dress a hoodie slips beneath a blazer an old cap finds a new scarf because you don't simply step into the season you create it layer by layer until it finally feels like fall find fall your way at ross no wi-fi so i was like on the plane for like five hours just like couldn't text couldn't sleep nothing and i was and no food no food i'm like you literally were texting me yeah here and there it would come up with like it would come with he literally was texting me sometimes the plane gets low enough that you get yeah because i was at the end of it look at these two i know i did buy it and then united was like hey we're uh you don't have to buy it on american well on united you do you know ali ali from ali and aj is now the voice of um united airlines oh my god i love them that's you and me which one are you uh definitely definitely aj you're ali what is i don't know the string is there's so many strings in this dress and outfit that's part of the design i had it hanging up for so long i'm like let me just wear it i didn't want to be frumpy because i feel frumpy with like not doing my hair so i was like i let me be cute but am i frumpy with my hair no you yours looks great mine doesn't fluff up like that it does not give volume you look beautiful i always wanted to be like you i just love you so much i just gas you up a little bit i love you too thank you i love you too i'm just thinking about jimmy watching this whole thing from start to finish and being so confused on where what to do he's gonna love it just like being with us on thanksgiving dinner or something it's like a family oh my god it's oh my god what are you doing you can come over what are you doing for thanksgiving i was just asking thanksgiving's such a silly holiday to me it's like there's always i know it's like it's colonialism well not even that i think just all of that but also colonizing i don't know i also was just like people make such a big deal about it turkey or what uh that moses he'd be making turkey as he's changing the camera he's gonna make two turkeys you know it's like a family it's like a family it's like a family it's like a family because he's gonna do a um his cooking video for thanksgiving and then probably make one on actual thanksgiving well i will be around because you're getting married again times right not on thanksgiving day but close yes no not on thanksgiving day yes are you gonna be oh maybe it was on thanksgiving was it nick that got engaged on thanksgiving i think he did did he because all the family was around so he's like do you want do you want it public or private just hypothetically speaking uh i don't know oh interesting i thought for sure you'd be like private just i think private uh but maybe in front of you guys i love that i mean you know i'd love to be a part of it you love to have a clip i okay i'm not gonna do the first to post it i mean i'd love to i would love to but um i yeah that's a tough one like i love the idea of like big proposals like in in front of everyone everyone cheering like wow like you know that'd be so fun i liked ours though too i liked ours just us because that's kind of special i don't know i don't know i don't know i don't know i never thought anyone would propose to me so i was i was just very excited i was honored that he asked me yeah i like that too that you guys like talked beforehand and you knew beforehand i thought that was nice yeah i think it's uh yeah it's so funny because it's so old school like you asked my dad too and i was like it's so like an old school thing but i liked it so cute it's really funny i i liked it because then you told me during the pros you like i asked your dad i was like oh my god that made me cry because i was like that's so nice like no one needs permission but you know cute old school yeah anyways love is love is in the air love is in the air and sisterly love is beautiful like frozen taught us true love is sometimes between two sisters there's multiple loves in life stop i will never forget we watched together it was like a time we were like both going through breakups or like hardships i think that i don't know what it was but we we watched that together and we just looked looked at each other and just sobbed i think it was also the betrayal of that asshole remember the one he's like you think i love you i was like because she thought she was frozen she was literally dying of a frozen heart and he's just like she kissed me and then he kissed and then nothing happened and she was just true love's kiss he's like you think i loved you i was like but then the sister came to warm the heart and that was the true love she needed and i was like i love it so much that we didn't even know also queer icon too right she's kind of she wore pants in the second one so i'm gonna kind of guess that she was do you remember everyone's like oh she's okay lesbian i mean i would love a lot of disney characters maybe i would love a lot of disney characters i would love a lot of disney characters maybe luca is gay but maybe not remember the little boy that was trying to find his self silencio bruno silencio bruno he was like a little water boy oh no yeah i think people thought of it as like you know he didn't know friendship he was like young so they're just like he had a really close friend that was a boy and it was cute it was cute i liked it i thought it was cute but anyways all right all that to say i love you oh thank you i love you go check her out in trishmas buy her book crying on the kitchen floor we're not ending yet oh yeah we can still plug it in cut that in anyway because moses had his last hot topic but that's a weird transition sorry so sorry go go go just update because some people want to know about the lindsey clancy update well i mean it's more than it just this whole thing was divided the internet i mean couples broke up over it family members broke up over it and the internet was divided it was pretty much tiktok was like lindsey's innocent and reddit was like she's a horrible monster and it was just interesting to finally get the real i don't know vindication or feeling some form of vindication when so they went back to court to figure out where this is gonna go and big red you know i love big red love that guy down it's her lawyer okay so the first in the first you know the internet was doing their own investigation they found out so many details that they were just like wait a minute you know the trial was about whether or not she had psychosis when if she killed him whether or not she had psychosis or not the trial wasn't about whether or not she did it so as everyone were watching the trial they were figuring out wait a minute things don't match up things don't line up the storyline the dna everything about the story just doesn't make sense and all of tiktok became you know everyone became in this investigators and lawyers and found out all of those details that didn't make sense and but you know it's out in the air everyone are just speculating it doesn't go anywhere but finally when they went back to court this time her lawyer came out and basically said we actually don't even know if she did it like he said it we don't know that she did the crime and the prosecution did a horrible job it and basically did not prove that she did the crime and then he listed one by one all those things that came up on social media and that people noticed and listed them all and said we don't even know that she did it you guys did not prove that she even did this and because what people don't understand before the trial started he asked the judge to have two trials one to see whether or not she did it and the second trial if she did it whether or not she was in psychosis and the judge said no it's the same trial it's the same evidence the same everything we just have it in one trial so basically and then after that her lawyer tried three times to dismiss the case and the judge wouldn't let it go so now he's saying look judge this is your fault you know it is his fault and it's all the respect about the mistrial by the way too yeah what do you think about that juror well of course yeah that in that case you know you have one juror that is holding up and he wouldn't say and he could have replaced him if he wanted to and there were many ways to fix it but um but the blessing that came out of all that is now they're at this place where they can say well we don't even think that she did it you know or you need to prove that she did it and there's so many details that are just when you look at it as far as evidence there's no evidence and when you look at the book for her supposedly to do all the things that they claim she did he brought one new detail that we didn't know was that um when they found her she only had socks on and there was no blood on those socks and we're talking about somebody that was in psychosis cutting herself in the bedroom that everything is bloody like how would she not have blood on her socks right um there's no print you know there's no the splatter pattern was not like all of it was cohesive to the yeah if you murdered three people like you would have you're walking through you're doing all this on your own it would be her own because she she strangled the kid in theory the kids were strangled and then she tried downstairs and then she was supposed to like have done this but the splatter pattern would have been different than what it was in the crime scene and the evidence was like oh she said to patrick like oh i i killed the kids but her her she was like her what was it her throat was hurt like her throat was collapsed so she would not have been able to talk and also she was like almost hyper hyper so yes that's the thing her the temperature of her body it would take two hours for a body temperature to go that low and the supposedly all this happened in 30 minutes that he was away and um they had to literally warm up her blood to bring her she she actually at some point expired and that to bring her back to life so i think i think in theory um whoever did this never thought she would survive it patrick allegedly whoever did it they never thought she would survive this so the fact that she survived it and is here that's what threw a wrench in the whole whatever plan was there i don't think she did and she never um she never admitted to it she woke up from a coma basically and was told that she did it she was on her deathbed and said change my beneficiary to my parents she didn't trust her husband anymore don't don't trust my husband and also what she did remember didn't happen so even if her memories were just not she had false memories so even if we go by what she remembers It's not the case. Even she said, "Yes, I did it," but her memories are not. because she said um she cut the screen and jumped but the screen was intact so she never cut the screen exactly so there's things so even her memories are not and also i'm sorry to say but that new never mind i'm not gonna say that okay say it and then we can cut it what were you gonna say why are you dating someone that looks exactly like it but like a teen version but no i did see that like i know a lot of people were commenting like their whole that whole 60 minute interview like why are you there like you were my there why would you do that with your new wife well they're trying to control the narrative but people analyzed all the everything they say you guys aren't looking innocent by the way she didn't even need to be there but anyway but she was she wants the thing and she was like well i was just a girl on a cold night like that's not the way you tell the story when this is what's happening and she referred to the whole case as a story so like people analyze every word she said is her sitting there i'm like bitch you weren't there i can't believe she's maybe i don't i can't believe she was md i cannot believe she's a medical but having said that it's like well she has the knowledge of all that stuff right how to make things look a certain way and stuff because it's like yeah the theory is like she was a part of it allegedly well like why is that it's like oh she wasn't there he's like well but like she's acting like she was like why are you giving like all this like play-by-play as if you knew what he was going through at that time he was a great father how would you know how would you know unless you were having an affair yeah why would you know all of this of course is just a legacy theories but and he said that everything that we do know is based on hearsay from patrick nobody basically the main thing is that there was no investigation nobody investigated the crime scene nobody so in theory right um patrick said you know he walked into the room he spent there one second no he didn't even walk into the room like he brought in the food put it on the plate and then went upstairs how do you not see a lady in the snow right i didn't see that and then he just glanced into the room and went down but in his testimony it was like there was a cup with crushed medication in it and so that supposedly she took nobody found the medication nobody found a place that there would be crushed a residue nobody found the thing that it would have been crushed with nobody checked what was in the cup and they took his word for it so just to show that the investigation was not even done properly to have all the evidence to say that she did it the way they said she did it why would she have to crush it up to take it why would you just take it right because she can she's an adult she can just swallow it it's giving i mean obviously now we're seeing a series of patterns of men killing their wives because they're having an affair which is oh my god the american idol guy too that's what i was talking about earlier yeah well did you hear his night because yeah he was just found guilty his 911 call came through of him finding his wife being like there's two shots to her head but he's like looking outside the door and i was like how would he know she had two shots to the heads he's like the kids are here the kids are scared it's like if your kids are there when's your first thing be like trying to get the kids out of the house if you know your wife's and i think the whole thing was so obviously he was found guilty but it's just like obviously we're seeing a pattern of men doing this to their wives that they're having affairs on and it's like very weirdly common nowadays and it's like they have hey guess what leave your wife i know we talk about that leave your wife if you want to i thought with someone else there is someone on instagram that's like hey on behalf of every married woman with a husband and kids like if you want my husband he's yours let me and my kids just go away we'll leave you alone forever like that is so sad it's very easy to divorce especially a man divorcing a woman like women aren't as insane as men like you divorce us we're okay we're gonna go on but these guys are like they think this is the only option kind of all the same kind of looking guys they're all kind of like these like you know middle class upper class like guys friends in a small town with everybody everyone's like covering up for them like this happens drew peterson scott peterson like i mean the list goes on and on and it's just like chris watts chris watts my god scariest of it all and it's like and these are their children i mean luckily like some of them keep their you know spare their children's lives a lot of them are not because like what the hell like it's a weird it's a weird epidemic that's happening i don't know it's very odd what's really weird about the lindsey clancy case is that karen reed just had the second trial go on she was like accused of killing her husband it was not true and but it was the same county as the whole lindsey clancy thing and her case was mishandled by police that's the problem yeah you get you just get people who don't care or it's guys protecting guys once again it's corruption yeah it is and especially everyone's like oh we love the little midwest like no they're corrupt it's corrupt everywhere but yeah i mean it's more profound small towns are like that small towns yes uh yeah it's um look at look at you and me we were in court cases yes yeah and and they were corrupt yeah there was corrupt yeah it's not um it's very scary it's very scary that it's like it's also people i don't want to like stereotype it's like it's very scary that it's like it's like you know people that you don't assume you're like oh they're their family person they have these kids like they have a nice house they have a nice like and these women the women that are with these men i mean luckily that one that was with the american idol guy like like can turn on him sometimes they turn on them which is great and then you can like also but like you're also a part of it but it's like you're a woman with this look at that why did you want to be with this guy person remember that tiktok girl that was like oh my my husband oh and then she yeah i i don't know but i the thing is you don't know and these people have been married like the chris watts i mean they get me they're married for 15 years and have kids like jesus like i don't know it's uh i guess it's once again good that the internet is here because obviously him now bringing up lindsey clancy's lawyer bringing up like hey let's do a actually a different trial for if she's even guilty because that was never even the case it was like okay we know she's guilty let's decide if she was like insane or not so i but because of social media and the internet and all of that stuff people are bringing up these points and be like actually so i think this is great not great i think it's like a step forward especially in the in the cordell case i think people i always thought like well why say anything like what is going to happen what are we going to do about it but it seems like a lot a lot is being done when you start making noise and people feel supported and um that man has not cried once no he scares the me that interview i was like you're scary sir he has not cried once yeah the way he talks about his kids and they also didn't so he found her laying outside freezing to death he didn't even take a jacket off to warm her up or do anything like he just right left her as she is like find a body and when the same thing when he found the kids supposedly took the thing off their necks but but but when the paramedics got there he was just sitting there on the sofa like that no that's a guy so bizarre like all of it is how are you not hysterical you're like and he refuses to release his cell phone data so we don't have like you know messages and things how can you refuse that or to make it public but they have access to it at the court including the call to the police that he made which most people in the court seems to think the call was very genuine but we never heard it and nowadays you don't know they're clearly not except for one juror they'll literally have you know influencers in the court to tell you what happened when you don't stephanie sue she's got more details but it was amazing to hear him cite all those things that we've been following and finding out during this time because it was just like because everyone was we're hoping like maybe in the closing arguments maybe at this point maybe at that point and it didn't happen because he's smart he knew exactly what he was doing and he went to do the right thing and it was it was just to hear all that everyone was just like in disbelief it was like a fever dream like i can't believe it's actually happening and he's actually bringing up all those details and it was it was just great to hear that and see and you saw her and her family her parents were there his family was there supporting her yeah and it was nice to see that everyone were obviously they know more than we do yeah what did you feel about when he goes oh i talk to them all the time i ask them for help you ask your kids your dead kids for help i didn't see that you didn't see that him saying that about yes i don't know he was asked about that in the 60 minutes interview he goes oh do you talk to your kids he goes yeah i do all the time and then the guy goes well what do you ask them he goes help me you're asking your kids for help that's odd that's really odd yeah i don't know exactly what i'm sorry you don't say i'm sorry because either way he failed them either way yeah the kids were failed but it's devastating yeah and they had just his reaction to it all like you said is um there is a man i follow on tiktok he it's been a one-year anniversary he does like a fox rescue they do like save a fox have you seen this on tiktok they have like a fox rescue and he's out there on the open with the foxes and he has a i think she's four now and he lost his uh wife who was like a big fox rescuer um and she she yeah she she took her own life last year and he's like and you can tell a year later like he's still and he cuts a lot because he's trying to like obviously not like cry but you know just the he found her right so he just talks about like that's all he thinks of and it haunts him and he's like you know i see a beautiful picture but it turns into that image he's kind of doing a pov from someone who's like a survivor and what you leave behind and stuff so i saw all the comments being like thank you for this like i won't do this to my family he's basically like i i didn't want to be a single dad i wanted her here i loved her so much i didn't i don't want these foxes relying on me but i have to be here he's like if i can show up so can you kind of like trying to motivate people to stay here because it's like not easy and all the stuff like that but you could just tell like how shaken he was right he sees his wife in that state and um that's how he'll always like remember her is what he's saying he's like i can't shake it and just you know you could just tell like just him holding back he had to like cut a bunch of times and stuff like that you just feel you feel it in his voice just this unshaken thing a year later so it's like when you watch someone like that versus someone like this who not only lost almost lost their wife but also their children like it's yeah i mean something is up and obviously everyone's seeing it and um yeah i'm glad i'm glad i'm glad you knew a lot about it and you too i you know i i don't i can't really read these things because it's like even hearing about it it's just like god i can't even when you're even saying he's taking the things off the kids i just oh it's a lot but i think it's important people talk about it because obviously it's changing the way this trial is being looked at and exposing people that could be covered by an otherwise small town corruption so um anyways and thank you so much for watching i hope you enjoyed this video and i'll see you in the next one bye oh my god and your kids will be so much better off you'll be better off everyone's happier everyone just go their separate way like it's i don't know i don't know what is happening and and hang on and um and just you guys hold on if you are you know struggling there is hot lines when i was at penn state it was really cool that there was they offer free peer-to-peer counseling so it's called i think like her clinic there there was another one called like cal clinic there and um yeah it's completely free and you just talk to someone because people always ask me like you know how how do you get out of depression or change your life and it's like the first step is really just like talking to someone obviously a therapist is great they're expensive medical professionals are expensive but even if you talk to a peer i always say that i like walked into like a church i'm not religious i didn't talk to a priest but there was just someone working at that church and they just like listen to me and they're like why don't you try this why don't you call this number all this stuff like that like sometimes you just need and they just sat and listened to me sometimes you just need someone to listen to you so reach out there's hotlines we'll put them here we'll put them down below um because obviously michaela's story too with the fox rescue like it really that really i could just see the pain and then his daughter and also it's it's hard and he's like obviously my daughter doesn't know but like one day she will and i'm scared to you know i hope she doesn't find out through like ai or something you know so just you know um ask for help someone wants to 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