Is Your Look Plain and Basic? Level Up Your Attraction
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The speaker, a self-styled relationship and beauty advisor, urges women to "level up" their appearance to attract men with money, particularly providers or sugar daddies. She asserts that plain, makeup-free looks—termed "Plain Jane"—cause women to blend into the background, appear low-maintenance, and even signal lower social class or a lesbian/butch identity, which she claims deters wealthy men. She emphasizes that makeup with color (e.g., red lipstick, liner, mascara) is necessary to catch a man's eye, citing nature's use of colors to attract mates. She also criticizes "dusty" men who discourage makeup, arguing they do so to keep women unnoticeable to rivals. Beyond makeup, she advises dressing femininely with well-fitted clothes, avoiding tight or sloppy attire like leggings and pajamas, and styling hair with wigs or ponytails instead of bonnets. She stresses being presentable in all public spaces—gym, errands, airport—since a potential provider could appear anywhere. If a partner prefers plainness, she suggests being plain only at home or with him, but dressing up when alone to maintain options. She also warns against showing up to a provider after significant weight gain, as it may end the arrangement. Overall, she insists that better looks lead to better treatment and more attention from affluent men, encouraging experimentation and practice to improve.
Speaker 1
Hey y'all, welcome to the channel.
I see a few of you guys are here.
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So how are y'all today?
So we're going to be talking about are you playing Jane, are you basic looking?
Do you need to level up your beauty and your looks?
The answer is yes.
I have seen lots of women, you know, wanting to do better and level up and attract men and attract men with more money.
And they're, you know, a lot of them are looking like very plain, and they're not having a lot of luck because they're very plain looking.
OK, Remember, when you go out to attract someone, you have to catch their eye, and plain does not catch your eye.
OK.
So you must put a little bit of color on, especially in your makeup.
If you don't, you're going to blend into the background.
So put makeup on.
You need makeup, ladies.
You need eyeshadow, lipstick, blush, liner, whatever it is that's going to make your features stand out and look more, you know, alluring.
That's what you need.
So you don't need a bunch of makeup, but you need some makeup, some colors, You know what I'm saying?
You can't go around looking like the wall, OK?
And when I say the wall, I mean all one color.
If everything is the same color on your face, you did it wrong, OK?
Because I see a lot of ladies out here with bare minimum on, bare minimum makeup on.
All they have on is foundation powder and gloss, maybe some some mascara.
To me, I don't know if you're a lesbian or if you're straight.
I don't know if you Butch, I don't know if you androgynous because you're giving, that's what you're giving, you know?
So you don't want to give that vibe when you're out there trying to get a man to pay bills.
OK, so you need to put some color on ladies, get you a red lipstick, a pink lipstick, something you need to have some liner or lashes or mascara or something.
You can't go out there looking, playing and then complain.
That rhymes.
You can't.
You can't go out there looking, playing and then complain, baby.
It does give a little bit of Butch vibes when your makeup looks like you're trying so hard to please dusties.
All right.
That's what it looks like to me.
When I when I see a lot of these plain looking ladies.
Y'all saw my pick Me should make up look when y'all.
When I see that it looks like you're trying too hard to please a dusty because they don't like makeup.
Okay?
Y'all are.
A lot of women are walking around looking like they're trying to attract a Dusty and then they get upset when a dusty comes over there because you don't have any makeup on, you know, you looking like plain Jane.
And so they know that you're low maintenance so they're going to come over there.
So that's why you have to do something with yourself, ladies, even if you just go on a run errands.
Look, I have this outfit on.
I have this cute little Ralph Lauren matching set on.
And then I have my little cute hat and I throw on some lipsticks and liner and I did.
I did my makeup and I went out right.
So you don't go out looking like who did it and why.
You don't look, go out looking like someone who's, you know, playing for the other team if you're trying to attract the opposite sex.
So you need to put some color on your face.
This is what makes people look twice.
This is what makes people notice you.
This is what attracts men.
I mean it's it's even in nature, when animals, before they made, you know, one of the animals, you know, shows something about themselves that attract attention and that will be colors, feathers, whatever.
A dance.
So ladies, put y'all's makeup on.
Don't be trying to out.
Don't be out here trying to please dust.
Dusty And now okay, because I know a lot of these picnicians out here are doing the least and wondering why they can't get, you know, attract better men because you look like low maintenance.
Okay.
You look low maintenance.
So stop doing that.
You need makeup.
You need a lot of makeup.
You need everything.
Okay.
Just buy it all, baby.
You'll figure it out.
But you can definitely shop on my store level of cosmetics.
I have glosses, lipsticks, liners, mascara.
I might have sold out the mascara, but I have powders, bullsh, all those type of things.
So you know you're going to need color in your face.
You're going to need also to, you know, make sure your hair looks pretty as well, not just the basic boring blah ponytail slick back.
OK, No thank you.
A G sprinkle sprinkle.
Appreciate that.
Not just the boring blah slick back ponytail.
OK, no, don't look like I did in my Pick Misha video.
That is an absolute no, no, don't look like that.
Back in the old days, women were, you know, trained to dress very plain to stay in their class.
OK, so like in the Victorian era, people of a certain class were not supposed to dress a certain way so that men and women could know their class.
But we don't have that rule anymore, you know, So if you were in a lower class, you would just dress really plain.
No frills, no thrills.
So people would know that you're of lower class.
Even the men wore different hats in order to let people know their class.
So the richer men would wear the top hats, and the middleclassmen or working class would wear the bowler hats, which are the rounder hats.
And then below that they would have like some type of news cap or no hat or whatever.
You know what I'm saying?
Or just so when we don't make ourselves look high maintenance, we're literally showing others that we are of lower class by dressing very blah and they even have this new aesthetic out.
I saw, I saw.
It's called recession Core, Recession.
Core is where people dress very plain, basic and look broke and they look just like Pigmentia now, Okay, which is sad.
So you know you don't want, you don't want to give off that vibe, especially if you're trying to attract a man with money.
If you're, if you're looking low maintenance, you're not going to attract someone who can, you know, give you more because you're going to only attract low maintenance.
So that's why you need more, more, more, more.
Put a little bit more on, even if it's just a brighter lipstick color or some liner or something, just do something else.
If you go around looking like very, very plain, people are going to start to think you, you know, might be a little curious.
You know what I'm saying?
Because that's what I always think.
And no offense to anybody, but whenever I see a certain type of woman with very plain looks, I automatically think she's gay.
I automatically think she's a lesbian because that's what a lot of lesbians look like.
So I mean I'm just going to put her in that category because if you don't want to look feminine or if you don't want to stand out and like look like a, you know, a woman that's trying to attract a man, then I'm going to just automatically assume that you are playing for the other team.
OK?
And I've I I know there's a lot of women out there that are very plain and don't play for the other team, but you look like you do.
So that's why I'm telling y'all need to do a little extra, put on some red lipstick.
Do something, get your nails done.
Do something.
OK.
Because y'all can't be out here looking just like y'all's man because that's exactly what y'all look like a man some of the time.
You can't even tell the difference if it weren't for your boobs or your longer hair, because that's why you have to do a little bit more in your face, OK?
And then your colors and clothing, things like that.
So I know a lot of feelings might be hurt, but, you know, I'm.
I don't care.
I'm trying to help.
Y'all If y'all want to go around looking like a man or, you know, a lesbian and you're trying to attract a man, you know, you might need to hear this.
You might need to hear it.
Because if you don't, you're going to keep trying to figure out what's wrong, OK?
You're going to keep like, well, what's wrong?
I can't attract no one.
Do you?
Do you look like a man?
Do you look like you play the little team?
That's why.
So put more color on your face.
Red lipstick is your friend if you want to attract people across the room.
All right.
It's not about makeup.
It's about how you apply your makeup.
Yeah, apply it and make sure you have some color in there.
Don't, just don't blend into the wall.
That's what I'm saying.
Don't blend into the wall, ma'am.
Okay.
And don't and don't look like you, you know, don't look like you're trying to please a dusty.
That's the number one.
A lot of these.
And I said this earlier, just a second ago, a lot of these women say, well, men say they don't like makeup.
No.
Dusty say they don't like makeup.
Okay.
Dusties don't like makeup because they want you to look the absolute plain, the plainest you can look, so no other man can steal you away from them.
OK, so stop doing that.
You don't have to go overboard.
But don't, don't.
Do you know, Don't try to please the dusty with this bare minimum look.
OK, don't do it.
Do you have to look feminine in the gym if you freestyle it in the gym?
If you're trying to pick up a man in the gym, yes.
If you're not, look however you want.
You know what I'm saying?
It depends on what your goal is.
What is your goal when you go out of your house?
Are you trying to attract a man or are you just going to do whatever you need to do?
Because I tell you guys sometimes, sometimes.
What if your man That was.
What if your potential sugar daddy is in the gym?
What if he's at the gas station?
What if he's in the grocery store?
You're gonna miss out because you're trying to plan when you wanna freestyle and when you don't freestyle.
If you're single, you need to be freestyle.
Every time you leave your house just to run an errand, you need to look like something.
You don't have to dress up.
If you're running errands, you don't have to do all that.
But you didn't look like something.
Not but don't look like who did it and why.
But you need to look a little bit better.
Because if your man is at the gas station that's supposed to pay your bills and you miss out on him because you looking like who did it and why in a bonnet, it's your fault.
Because he was there.
He was there.
He might have walked over if you look good.
Instead, he tried not to make eye contact.
Okay, sprinkle, sprinkle.
Thank you.
I appreciate.
I'm not okay.
I need to put this back up here.
Let's see.
OK.
And I'm going to tell you guys, there you go.
Not answering no dumb questions today.
Being very, very specific.
OK The better you look and carry yourself, the better your options.
Keep preaching and she.
Rob.
Thank you, Brent.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
So, you know, a lot of people are going to understand when they put more on and they're going to see the difference in how they're treated and how much more attention they're attracting.
OK, Thank you.
I'm not answering no dumb questions, so don't waste your money, OK, Sprinkle, sprinkle.
So it's just as easy to put on a hat wig, a headband wig instead of a bonnet.
We already know that, Okay.
We already know that.
It's just you got to do better.
And also you know when it comes to going out on a date, you know the way that you are going to make him work for you and want to give to you is how you look next to him and how you make him feel in public.
So you need to represent looking really good.
OK, if we wear wigs, what should we do to cover the corn rolls at the gym?
If the wig is too hot, it wear a hat with a ponytail.
Sparkle do a hat with a ponytail is it?
I do like if you got a hat, it doesn't have to be like a fancy hat, just any hat.
And put a ponytail in the back.
Your corn rolls can be out.
Just clip the ponytail in the back.
I don't know.
I mean, that's what I would do if if I have if I didn't want to wear a wig.
Shera is the mom I never had.
Thanks, Sprinkle sprinkle.
Friendly reminder to update.
Upgrade your wardrobe.
Yes, So if you already have a provider, then it doesn't matter.
But remember, a lot of men want you to look plain so you can't keep your options open.
Just letting y'all know, OK, if you already have a provider that likes you playing, then when you get home and you're not with him, then get back playing.
But when you go out alone or by yourself, do what you want.
If you're not with him, who cares if you're plain or not?
He's not there to like it or not like it.
So where would you want When you're not with him, When you go out with him, look super plain.
When you come home, take it off.
When you go out by yourself, put it on okay, that's that's the whole thing, is he's not going to be there to witness it.
So it really doesn't matter.
And this is another way that men try to keep your options low by making sure you look plain and no one notices you.
So he likes playing.
Be playing with him.
Be playing at home.
But definitely do what you got to do.
Okay.
No, no bald heads or shortcuts.
Yeah, okay.
Thanks for the donation.
Sparkle.
Sparkle.
Yeah, some Some men like longer hair.
Most men like longer hair.
There you go.
There's some women that can pull it off, but most men do like longer hair.
There you go.
You don't understand the video with makeup.
It makes you look better.
Grow up and put it on.
Yeah, agree.
Grow up and put it on.
If you don't, A lot of women are intimidated or scared to wear makeup.
So learn.
Get on YouTube, get some tutorials, Learn and just practice, practice, practice, practice.
You'll get better, I promise.
Okay.
So any clothes that make you look feminine, dresses, skirts if you like pants or whatever.
Like make sure that they fit you correct and you don't have them like you know, muffin top or anything.
They're not super tight.
Make sure they fit you correctly.
Don't wear overly tight clothing.
Overly tight clothing makes you look ratchet.
So make sure your clothes fit well even if you have to size up so nothing is looking crazy.
And also if you have shapewear.
If you want to wear shapewear under it, great, but don't wear stuff too tight.
That's all I can.
That's all I can tell you, okay.
And also you know, if you you know, if you're a teenager, you don't know any better.
If y'all are young, y'all supposed to look a little off, y'all supposed to look a little off because you're learning.
But when you're a grown woman and you're out here trying to attract you a provider, so then you need to realize that sometimes you got to class it up just a little batch a lot of it.
So just think about it like that.
Yup.
If your man like you natural, then go out there with nothing on, no stitch of makeup, no nothing.
See what he's saying?
He going to be mad because now he's paying to go out in public with some a woman that no one's even looking twice at.
But when you go out by yourself and you looking good, he can't say that because he's not going.
So hey, sure do what you want, ladies.
What about hair color?
Is blue too much?
No.
You know, providers are looking for women with blue hair every day.
They just sit there and be like, you know what?
I wish I found a woman with some blue hair.
That is their secret desire.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Now y'all know that y'all don't have to answer that question.
How about older ladies that have shorter hair?
More makeup, jewelry?
If, if, if, what?
You're if the type of man you're attracting like shorter hair, you have to think about it.
What type of man likes shorter hair?
It's going to be if older men are wanting a youthful looking woman, longer hair is more youthful.
So if you have shorter hair and you are attracting you know, men with money, great.
But I would do an experiment and try both to see which one is getting you the most attention and and traction of provider man.
So whenever you're unsure just do your experiment.
One day go out with longer hair, one day go out with shorter hair and see what happens.
OK cuz I can't really tell you cuz I don't know what your face looks like.
I don't know anything so it's up to everything involved, your features, your bone structure, the haircut.
So go experiment and see what happens.
And I know a lot of women have done the experiments and they'll they can probably help you out in the comments with their results.
I don't know, your old provider wants to come visit today.
The last time I saw him you were £70 a lighter.
Should I still see him or put it off until I lose weight?
Get it?
Honestly, does he know you've gained £70?
Because he might be upset and never see you again?
Sprinkle, sprinkle, You know it.
It could be, it could backfire.
So I really wouldn't.
I would just get some money from him online or with the phone or something.
But if you've gained 70 pounds and you are, you know if this was a real provider that provided all your bill money.
Do not see him like that.
And the reason I'm saying that is because if a man sees you like that, he's going to scratch you off his list.
OK, So don't do it.
It ain't worth it.
Because if you do, he's going, he's going to think that something happened to you or you, You know, that's how you're going to look if you ever get married to him.
And you know, it's like a it's like, oh, you let yourself go.
And so it's going to be a major turn off.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
I don't know how you couldn't find a provider.
I'm not from there.
Go find the man with the most money that likes what you look like.
Baby sprinkle, sprinkle.
Y'all need to ask me questions.
Y'all know I can answer.
OK, like, what am I supposed to say?
I don't know.
That culture.
Just go find the man with the richest, you know?
Just go find the richest man and see if he wants you.
I don't know.
I have no idea how y'all work out down there.
I don't know how y'all date.
I don't know how y'all go out.
So I couldn't tell you.
Yeah, no leggings.
No leggings.
If you are going out, you can wear it.
You can wear it like in your house doing errands, you know, to the gym and back.
But now when you freestyling or going out, okay.
If you really want to class it up, don't ever wear them.
Sometimes it's it's okay to wear them if you're going to the gym, working out, or just running a real quick errand and getting right back home.
But at least still put yourself together.
But I I don't recommend them unless you're in and out, you know what I'm saying?
Or you're going to the gym.
Okay,
okay.
What about the airport?
Still look good in the airport you can work.
I mean, if you want to wear ladies to the airport, that's fine.
But still look good and put together.
You know where you'll make up, be put together in the airport.
Still, I've seen so many who did it and whys in the airport.
It's sad.
The airport is not a place to look like you just rolled out of the bed.
It's not a place for that.
I'm sorry, because think about this.
Do you know a lot of people fly?
You could.
You could run into a celebrity.
You could run into a a, you know, an athlete you could run into like a rich businessman.
And a lot of them fly private, but a lot of them don't sometimes.
So you need to stop looking like Pignetia in the airport.
You need to stop being Bonnetta in the airport.
I don't care.
I don't care.
I'm going to wear a hat before I wear a bonnet.
I'm going to wear a track suit, or at least like a nice pair of jeans and you know, a cute shirt and something before I put on some pajamas.
Okay, y'all need to stop that because y'all making y'all stills look terrible.
Bad.
You make everybody look bad and we look over at y'all.
We're like disgusting, low class, rashish.
And so everybody thinks of anyone looking like that in the airport.
They think you're low class and bracket and they wish they didn't have to see you and they hope you ain't on their flight.
That is what they that is what they're thinking.
Literally.
I promise you they are.
Because I am.
And I know if I am, everybody else is okay.
Yes, disgusting.
You said you're a narcissist who hates men.
How that you probably get the bag faster If you're a narcissist that hate men?
Sparkle, sparkle.
Keep it up.
You got to pretend to like it for a second until you until you get their money.
Girl, okay, he said.
How do you make this lifestyle work for you?
You're a lesbian?
Well then if you're a lesbian, people need to know it, OK?
When you go out, you need to let them know, OK?
There can be no guessing, so I don't see your super check.
It's Remember, this is 60 seconds behind.
Oh OK, I see it.
Check my DM on Patreon.
OK, sprinkle, sprinkle.
And also how to freestyle Go out.
It's it's not that difficult.
Just go out and look like you want to be there.
That's it.
You ain't got to do nothing else.
Look good.
Go out, act like you want to be there and stop scrolling on your phone.
Pretty much it, OK.
You see a man with the money go accidentally bump into him, pretend like you spilled your drink, you buy another one.
It all right if you if you see.
If you see someone you can't let get away.
Or if you have the ability to attract a man across the room, sit there and bring him to you.
Either way, get your money, OK?
Okay provider women.
I don't think they care.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
I think.
I don't think women care what you have on your head.
You say you're fiance, prefers you in natural hair and makeup.
In low effort clothing.
We are engaged and I only dress up when we go out.
Oh, so then do I don't care what he wants.
You're already engaged.
So after you get married, do what you want.
Baby sparkle, sprinkle, get the ring, get done getting married and then dress.
Do what you want.
That's what you're supposed to do anyway.
After after he says I do, give him about 30 days, then do what you want.
Okay.
Because if you're getting married and all you're going to do is listen to him and what he wants and what he likes, then he's running you.
So you better do what you want.
If you want to be happy, OK, How to feel confident Flirting.
You find it terrifying.
Even though you always dress in a way that makes me confident.
I don't because I know they like it.
Men like it.
Make some eye contact, smile, give them a little sexy look.
They like it, All right.
Why would why wouldn't you be confident when you're doing something that they actually like?
You can date whatever you want, baby.
That's Frank Asparinkle.
So you know, a lot of people don't realize looking good gets you more than just attention and providers.
It also gets you opportunities.
It also gets you better treatment.
It also allows you to see how people really feel about you.
It also lets you know how you know who and who is jealous and who is not.
It lets you know a lot of things that you wouldn't really think.
It let you know.
So you need to see, you know, when you're looking your best or when you're looking really good.
See how people react with you, because a lot of people want you looking ugly and plain because they don't see you as a threat.
When you start looking your best, then all of a sudden you're a threat.
So now it's like you're going to you're going to weed out a lot of people in your life.
You said I'm an almond mom.
I'm not an almond mom.
What's an almond mom?
I'm not an almond mom.
Don't worry.
I do what I want.
If you're both from different countries, is it possible to meet providers on holiday?
Yeah, it is.
But you're not going to keep them.
I mean, most men like women who live near or they can visit at least more often.
So if it's hard to visit you, you may you know it may not last too long.
Okay, you said Gwyneth Paltrow is an almond mom.
Almond mom?
Are those that restrict kids eating Okay?
Well, then I'm not an almond mom.
How do I keep myself on topic when a man only wants to talk about me and ask personal questions?
You always change the subject or you always answer it in a nonchalant way.
Like they ask you a personal question, like, why aren't you married?
So you know, I've always wanted to get married, but you know, my the last person that I was with, you know, we had a brief engagement that they moved out of the country.
And so you know it was mutual.
You just make up a lie.
If you don't want to answer the question, just make up a lie and remember the lie.
In fact, write down all your lies before you go out, just in case they ask you a specific question.
You have a lie.
That way you'll remember it.
OK, so lie.
Whatever you don't want to answer, give them a lie to it to him or change the subject.
You can apply this advice to anyone.
You look good, look good, catch eye.
Here you go.
Be a little extra but not so crazy that you know you look like a clown but look better than being playing.
OK, OK, what if you wrote a book about your life and now you want a sugar daddy?
Well, you should have wrote under an alias name.
Baby sprinkle sprinkle right under an alias name.
Or if you wrote it on Amazon, you can go and change it.
It's only the 1st week with him.
Took me restaurant so said he's a provider talking about love, marriage, moving so fast.
Okay, he's trying to get you in the bed.
Make sure you get some money and bills paid.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Watch my video from yesterday.
It's game.
Get your money.
He's trying to rush you into the bed by telling you all the stuff he thinks women want to hear.
So if you tell him you need something and he doesn't come through, then y'all aren't going to get no closer to no love and marriage.
OK.
That's the game that men play to get you in the bid quick.
They always start trying to talk about love and marriage like that's what you want.
No, I want some money.
So.
Oh, I'm so glad that you think of me as wife material.
So you know, you're you're going to be willing to provide.
So, you know, I'm going to need you take care of these bills this month, since you want to be, since you already think of me as your wife and you've already so serious about marriage, let's get some, you know, serious about these bills.
That usually works and cuts them right off.
And you don't have to waste any more time.
You got a provider that pays all your bills in his household.
He wants to get married, but I told him I will marry him after he becomes a millionaire.
He agreed.
Is that the right decision?
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
I don't know if I would have used the word millionaire because he may feel some type of way about that, but I'm not sure.
I don't know.
If he thinks it's a positive thing, then great.
It's probably going to be more, you know, of an inspiration for him.
But it could also backfire.
Who knows?
Like she won't want to marry me unless I'm a millionaire, so he may dump you when he gets to his status and then see, you know, da da, da.
So I don't know.
I probably wouldn't have said that, but I don't know how long you've been with him, if it's if he thinks it's funny or cute.
So it just all depends on the mood of the conversation, I guess.
I mean, some women can get away with saying stuff like that and laugh it off and men won't care, but I don't know.
But it's a good thing that you're pushing him to the next level because if he does become a millionaire, then y'all be great.
How do we look?
Attractive With a mask on.
Eyes.
Yeah, do your eye makeup.
Definitely.
Sure, eye makeup is very attractive and people are drawn to them.
OK Please don't ask me about other countries that I'm not from.
I'm trying to help.
Y'all if if if I don't live there, I don't know the rules.
I don't know the customs, I don't know anything.
I just know what I know here.
If men are providers, then stop giving them free stuff.
Okay and me and our providers don't give them free stuff.
That's all I can tell you.
Okay.
Alright, sprinkle, sprinkle.
OK, so your problem is being fat and finding a provider.
You feel like men take me less seriously because I'm bigger.
Then you need to date older ma'am.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
I don't know how you say you're fat, I don't know how big you are, but you need to date older because a lot of older guys don't care.
But if you're like, if you're if you're at a size where even the old men are uncomfortable, you have to find someone who likes, actually likes a bigger woman who looks for one.
You know what I'm saying?
You have to find those guys that actually like bigger women.
What if I say like a Kylie Jenner who has all the money and maybe wants a van?
Is it bad to want a good relationship with?
It's not bad, but where's Kylie Jenner's husband?
Let me ask you that.
You can have a good man, You can have a good relationship.
You can do all of that.
But it may not last.
That's all I'm gonna tell you.
It's better, I guess it's better to have a relationship, a good relationship, then never have a relationship at all.
But it's not going to last, you know what I'm saying?
Because the man will always be intimidated by your money and never will feel like a real man unless he doesn't know you have money.
That's it.
You said how to manage being with someone, how to balance being very deep with someone who's not just use them for money.
Sparkle, sparkle.
That's basically it.
You can't really talk to him about anything.
So find a friend that's on your level, talk to them and just get the other ones money.
Yeah, if you're rich, you do today, man, that's richer or has the same O.
K or You need to lie about your money and make whoever you're with still pay O.
Speaker 2
K for everything.
Speaker 1
It's very dumb to tell men that you have money because men base their value or most men base their value on their ability to earn and provide and impress women with, you know, what they can give them.
So if you already have everything, they can't impress you so they give up quick.
Or if they're dusty and want your money, they'll just use you for your money.
So it's very important not to tell people about your money, that's your income.
It's very important to skip that conversation or to say that's my that's my family's money, it's not mine.
And and you think I only get a little amount a month or something.
Just lie.
They don't need to know.
And if you get married make sure as they sign a prenup okay even if they have what you have.
How to regain power and respect in a relationship with your child's father.
Sprinkle, sparkle.
Well first of all if you want him to respect you you need to get him to marry you.
If y'all are still together.
So the first, the first form of respect, unless he's broke, because I ain't gonna marry no broke man.
If he has money and deserves your hand in marriage, I'll say that the only way to get his respect is to get him to marry him.
Otherwise he just sees you at the baby model.
Always sparkle, sparkle.
And remember, they're always going to be out looking for other women.
If they're baby daddy.
If y'all are together and y'all just aren't married.
I like I said push towards the marriage.
Because if you don't, no respect.
Speaker 2
OK.
No respect OKA.
Speaker 1
Lot of really Rich women don't really get married because they can't find anyone on their level.
So they they may marry someone with less, but make them sign a prenup and be smart about it.
But, and you know, hopefully it'll work out.
Maybe it will, maybe it won't.
Your ex wanted to come back into your life.
You told him.
The only way I would speak to him is if he paid me a weekly for the emotional abuse he calls me.
Now he pays me 250 a week from his paycheck.
Well, that's that's something.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Good for you, girl.
You make them pay.
So he said he will only marry me if we get a prenup.
Then you know what to do girl.
Go visit your doctor, get you some prescriptions, get you some mind altering prescriptions and take them on that day and have your receipts from the pharmacy.
Have your visit to the doctor and film yourself on Instagram taking your meds, sprinkle, sprinkle.
Make sure the date is seen as well that it is posted.
Then the contract will be null and void.
There you go.
Okay.
How can you convince your husband to let you stay home?
Quit your job.
Sparkle, sparkle.
That's how I got fired.
And I'm getting sexually harassed at work.
I ain't going back.
I'm staying home.
Take care of me.
That's it.
That's all you got to say?
I'm getting sexually harassed at work.
I ain't going back.
You got to take care of me.
I'm going home.
I'm traumatized.
Can't do it no more.
There you go.
Just lie.
There is no discussion.
If when you decided for yourself there is no discussion, you just going to do it.
You said ladies lie about your body count.
Don't even answer the question about nobody count.
That's stupid.
If a man is asking you that question, he's broke or stupid or low class.
Real men don't ask that question.
You know, no one has ever asked me that question in my entire life.
New men has ever asked me that questions except the dusties and the comments Okay.
So if you answer that question, you are lowering yourself.
Don't even answer the question.
Just laughed and said what a question.
Only losers ask those type of questions.
What a dusty question.
Yeah, you don't answer the question if you want.
If you want to answer in a rude way then ask them about their bank account.
Well, let me see how many, how many dollars you got in your bank account.
So you know, yeah, we don't answer those questions.
If you're out with somebody like that, time to get up and walk, sorry.
Or if you're in the comments or in the DM's with somebody like that, time to block, time to go.
What if you don't have a body count?
Do you still answer.
No, you don't answer that question at all because that's a way for Ben to try to lower your self esteem.
Okay, it's a way It's it's it's a way for men to lower yourself esteem so that you can lower your standards along with it.
OK, so you don't answer the question.
You want to lower his self esteem?
Ask him about his bank account.
It's the same thing.
Because remember why they're asking these questions.
They're trying to get into the bed with you as fast as possible and y'all aren't remembering this.
Y'all still thinking that the men are trying to fall in love with you.
They're not.
They're trying to fall in bed with you so easier they can get you to lower your self esteem.
That's what they're going to do.
And if y'all keep falling for the okey doke y'all ain't get no money and y'all going to be looking stupid.
So stop answering dumb questions.
No dumb questions.
There's it over here.
Whatever it is.
No dumb questions.
Block, the guy told him it's not going to work out.
He texted me with another number saying, I mean, what's the smart comeback?
Cash out, baby.
That's the smart comeback.
Cash out that show how.
I mean you really are.
If you like me He going cash app you.
How was your level of experience?
It was wonderful.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
All right.
Thank you for the donations, so make sure you're not answering dumb questions from these men to lower your self esteem.
And if you do answer them, answer them in a way that hires your self esteem.
If you want to be slick, like if you want to be slick with it and someone says what's your body count?
Oh you know what, if I told you I wouldn't be getting away with murder now would I?
Because body count literally means how many people you've been killed.
Think about that.
Also, if someone asked, well, how many men have you slept with if they don't use the word body count, If they just said, well, how many men have you slept with?
I've slept with enough to know what I'm doing.
That's all I'm saying.
If you want to answer the question, but I don't answer that question.
I'm like you know it don't matter.
You ain't going to be next unless you pay Spark Sparkle.
You ain't going to be next unless you paying bills.
You ain't going to be next until you unless you get this car.
Note you ain't going to be next.
Don't worry about it.
So you know and it's so funny how all these women are so afraid to ask for something But a man will sit up and straighten your face on a date and ask me.
Ask you how many men you can slept with or on the phone, but y'all are afraid to send a cash out.
All right, someone says lie.
Say you're a virgin, but they won't believe you.
Most of them won't believe you anyway.
OK, what if sugar daddy starts to threaten you?
Threatening back?
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
You don't know how to make threats either.
You're tit for tat, baby.
I'll be threatening people all the time to threaten me.
Try if you want to.
That's what I would be threatening them back.
How do I stop obsessing over a guy I barely know?
Get to know another guy.
Sprinkle, sprinkle, that's how.
Get to know another one or find something that you like to do and focus on that.
But yeah, if somebody threatened me, I'm threatening them right back, period.
Like, how does he threaten you?
You say you go real dark.
Exactly.
They don't.
They don't want a threat for me because I don't do threat.
But what I do, you don't want them.
OK, OK, potential provider, but married.
I have gained a lot of weight since he's last.
So I think somebody asked just asked me this question.
So didn't you just ask me this question?
And I told you now don't look at don't no, don't see him sprinkle sprinkle.
There you go.
You're going to traumatize and he never going to come back Okay.
The reason I'm saying it so bluntly is because I've already answered the question and when a man sees that you let yourself go for £70, it's a red flag.
He's not going to want a future with you.
OK, it's too much.
Maybe if it was 10 pounds, £15.20 pounds maybe, but if it's a whole 70 pounds it's an issue because it means something is wrong, you know what I'm saying?
So you don't want him to see you like that.
So don't see him.
Does the financial advice you give work for finding ALTR?
Because I want to get married to a provider man.
ASFP because stay at home wife.
I'm 38 and I feel like I don't have a lot of time.
Well then you better date much older and I don't know what a LTR is, but you need to get a much older man.
You're 38, you need to go for somebody 55 and up.
It's breakfast parking.
Alright, get out there and get find some old man.
There you go.
Thank y'all the Does the financial advice work?
You give the priority answer.
I don't answer that.
Yeah, you got to give.
You got to get an older man.
Spring.
Spring, yeah, so.
And remember, you got to look good.
And the better you look, the more they're going to pay or the faster they'll pay.
The more you make eye contact and flirt with them and use the power of suggestion, the faster they're going to pay.
So it's a combination.
You got to look good when you ask for stuff.
You got to look good when you want to attract the provider.
You got to look good when you're angry and arguing, arguing, trying to get your way.
You have to look good because that's all they're seeing.
Okay.
The power of suggestion is always suggesting things until they get done.
Okay.
It doesn't matter if you look younger, just if you look younger and you're old.
Double added bonus?
You could get more money out of an older man, period.
So like, even if you look young, still go for older men.
You get way, way more money because you're mentally able to deal with them better and you look still young so you can get more money.
He said how can you quit when he's the CEO the same way you can quit when he's not the CEO.
Just say I quit.
You won't take care of me.
Was he going to say no?
You better stay at work.
Fine.
You know, I mean, I don't really.
I don't know.
I would quit.
I'm not going to work unless I want to.
Thank you.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Appreciate you.
All right.
So make sure y'all are just doing the most instead of looking all plain dreams.
The Plain Dream The only man that want you to look plain, Jane are men who are threatened and insecure.
Literally don't.
You can do that for them temporarily, but once you get in and get your money, look how you want ladies.
They're trying to keep your options closed and don't want you to be able to get attention from other men.
So of course they tell you to look modest, cover up, don't wear no makeup.
But you know what?
That's not their position in life.
That's not their position in life, baby.
They can't tell you what to do if you choose to do it to get the bag.
Once you get the bag, then do what you want.
They they tell you to do that in order to get the ring.
After you get the ring, then do what you want.
What about gift giving it to your provider?
Dollar Tree?
Gift basket, baby.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Make him a gift basket.
Do not do not buy him nothing expensive unless you're using his money to buy it for him.
That way you don't come out of pocket at all.
OK, the reason I'm saying that is because men aren't impressed by expensive gifts who actually have money, and if they are, then use their money to buy the expensive gift.
There you go.
If you buy a man an expensive gift, your Picnician now, if you like, if you've been married for years and years and years, you can buy him something decent.
You know, like I'll buy James a nice sweater or a nice, you know, tracksuit every once in a while.
But most of the time his stuff don't cost a lot of money at all.
You know what I'm saying?
I'm not.
I'm not going all out.
Thank you.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Because if you go all out, then it's a competition.
After that, provider gives everything.
But you don't want sex.
Aunt Ethel going to die?
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
All right.
A death in the family will occur when he starts pursuing you for sex.
OKA, fake death.
Get out of it and get you a free plane ticket to the funeral and tell him you'll be back and ready and then be depressed and in mourning and that'll buy you at least two months.
OK, What about?
OK, You already answered that question.
Y'all got to learn how to lie.
OK, lie, lie, lie.
Well, if you have whatever question that you're going to ask me, if a lie can't handle it, then ask it, OK?
Because I think a lot of people don't realize that they can lie.
You can literally sit there and make up whatever you want to tell that person.
OK, you can lie and my level up your appearance by makeup, hair and clothes put add more color to your makeup as far as like lipstick is concerned.
If you are like one of those natural bare faced type ladies, do more color in your face, especially on your lips.
Don't blend into the background is all I'm saying.
Don't look like a boy, don't look like you're androgynous or could be a lesbian.
That's that's the best thing I can tell you.
No offense to the lesbian, but don't look like you on the other team.
It look like you're trying to attract a man.
Okay, okay.
I don't know if that was a question for me or someone else.
If you got ghosted, you got ghosted.
Move on to the next page.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
I don't ever question ghosts.
You know what I'm saying?
Like if you if you got ghosted, let it be.
Just move it along.
No one should take offense to being ghosted.
That's what I'm always telling women.
If you are taking offense to being ghosting, then their manipulation is working on you.
Okay.
Y'all ladies don't realize this.
I told you I made the video yesterday.
If a man goes to you, he wants you to chase.
All right, it's it's a game.
Let ghosts stay ghosts.
They come back.
Charge them.
That's it.
It's not you.
If they're playing a game, right?
It's that easy.
If you already slept with them, then you ain't and you didn't get no money, then that's pretty much it if it goes to you.
So just on to the next Don't take offense to being close.
Don't take it personally.
It's just their game.
Thank you for everything you do.
You are appreciated.
Thank you, girl.
Appreciate you to these.
So yeah, don't.
Don't argue and don't spend your time worrying about no ghost, right.
Be done and move on.
So you know, a lot of people are asking, you know, how do you up your look.
Some people ask me to send ask to send me pictures and stuff, but I don't.
I can't really receive pictures on Patreon.
Look, if you look like a boy, a little girl or who did it and why, put the makeup on and and do your hair.
That's basically it.
That's basically it.
OK And if y'all need some makeup y'all go to a level up cosmetics, dot US and support Sprinkle sprinkle, thank you.
I even have lip gloss called sprinkle sprinkle.
I have lots of cute glosses and lipsticks and powders and all that kind of stuff.
Y'all go check it out.
Alright.
But definitely improve upon if you're trying to attract providers.
OK, Thanks.
All right, here we go.
Don't ask me if what you look like.
Cuz I can't see no pictures.
Baby, if your face look like a little girl.
Cuz you ain't got nothing on it, go put something on it.
That's that's what I'm saying.
OK.
What hue is sprinkle, sprinkle.
It's like, it's like this color, but it's more of a highlight for your lips.
Or if you can wear a lipstick or lip gloss under it and just highlight or you can wear it playing.
It's like a very sheer sparkly color.
Looks like that.
And I also have like colors like these.
These are like pigmented lip glosses like this.
I also have a lot of Reds on there, but they're not in lip gloss form, They're in tube form.
So you get like, and I also have some nudes and things in Browns in the tube form and I'm also getting some new Reds in very soon.
So we have like these Reds in the tube form and they're matte.
Some of them are like matte opaque and like matte creamy.
Just read the description on whatever you buy.
And I have like powders, blush, highlighters, etcetera, etcetera.
OK said my advice is kind of outdated.
Most men nowadays don't even have one provider bone in there.
But then go older baby both for the men who are out.
Go for the antique man stuff.
Stop dealing with men and wear do rags.
Stop dealing with a young man who don't have a savings account because, I mean, it's not outdated.
What's outdated is the fact that this new generation are more feminine and want to be the woman.
They want you to chase them.
They want you to provide for them.
They want you to go 5050.
What's outdated is them still trying to be a man and acting like a woman.
Okay.
If that's all you're attracting, you need to be more feminine.
If you're extra feminine, those type of man won't even deal with you.
If you're very feminine and you look good, you're not going to attract no 5050 man okay.
And if you date much older, or at least 10 to 15 years older, they're going to provide because you're younger than them and it would be stupid to ask a younger woman for half the rent.
Okay.
Because then you could just be with someone your own age.
So that's what I would say.
You know, if you have a, if you have a man who is, you know, 15 years older than you, 20 years older than you, he's not going to ask you for no rent.
What does he look like?
Young men who compete with young women who don't have a savings account or any type of money are going to want you to pay because they think they're the prize, because pick Misha out there are dealing with them.
If we don't deal with them as leveled up women, then all that, they're going to have to, you know, deal with this picnic out there or go get their passports, you know.
So stop dealing with them.
The advice is not outdated.
It's the thinking that's outdated.
The thinking is, oh, I've got to provide for my man and and and put in half and this is the only way I'm going to have one.
Yes, the only way.
You're going to have a dusty.
That's the only way you're going to have a 5050.
There's other options.
And so I'm here to present the options if y'all like dating men in your own age who make you reaching your purse, right?
And I bet it because we don't want them, y'all can keep them.
Because if we have to pay, no way.
Speaker 2
There you go and.
Speaker 1
He's not a provider.
If you get married, you're still going to be paying.
So no, can't do it.
Your boyfriend was once a provider, but due to a loss due to loss, his he's now dusty.
Been together for two years.
Okay.
Two years.
How long?
You ain't got no kids?
Goodbye.
Time to time to delete them.
Break up time.
Make a break up.
Don't.
Don't stay with him.
He won't respect you if you do.
If you can't pay them bills, get out.
Bye.
All right.
When to give intimacy to a sugar daddy?
When all your bills is paid and you don't have to work, or whenever you choose to.
But if if you want to keep them around longer and get more money, make sure he's invested a lot of money into you.
Such as bill paying, taking you out on to nice places, giving you money, all of that.
Make sure he wants to be in a committed relationship with you and continuously giving you money.
Otherwise, don't do it that they have to invest a lot.
Tips on sexual discipline.
Between sleeping with provider potential or someone you're attracted to, make sure whoever you sleeping with got money.
That's all I can tell you.
And don't get pregnant.
Whoever you sleeping with, make sure they got money and you don't get pregnant.
Now if you're attracted to somebody rich, maybe they're younger.
As long as they have money in case you get pregnant or whatever, great.
Then make sure they have money in case something goes wrong.
That's my only thing.
I'm Don't Don't be sleep with no Dusty.
Your cousin works two jobs and her man only works one.
What Your cousin is your cousin is pig.
Bea.
Show baby Spring.
Spring.
Alright, so you know, you said you combed out your shoulder, your starter locks, body wig and makeup.
And my boyfriend had a whole temper tantrum.
Thank you for revealing my inner pig, Bea.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
You said he had a shit potential.
You said your husband called.
She will appeal.
Y'all silly.
No, I'm just being.
It's common sense, you know.
You don't lay down with somebody and you can potentially get pregnant.
You need to get pregnant with the money, all right?
You need to be like that $0.50 song.
Have a baby by me and be a millionaire.
Okay not be a dusty not be no Pigmentia.
Have a baby by me and be a pigmentia.
That's not a good song.
Don't do that If you can help it, if you can avoid it, How can I imagine or initiate my first conversation with a provider?
They have to come to you, baby.
Look good and lure them in.
Look good and lure them in.
Be irresistible to their vision.
Make eye contact.
Smile, Drop something.
Walk into them.
Make them pick it up.
I don't know, but you, you're a woman.
This is supposed to be naturally within you.
Never approach a man.
Let them approach you and speak to you first.
You know what I'm saying?
You can.
You can cause a commotion to initiate them to speak to you first, but they speak first, OK?
Because if you do, it looks desperate.
And I'm suspicious.
If if I were a man, I would be suspicious if a woman came on to me, because that's not usually what feminine women do.
So I need to be the first one to make the move if I'm the man and just leave it like that.
Otherwise I'm suspicious.
Never have babies by man who make you work.
Yeah, if you can avoid it.
You don't have no kids.
If you have to work, find you a rich man.
If you can't find a rich man, find you a man that at least let you stay home until your baby is old enough to go somewhere safer.
Because some of y'all be going to work two days after y'all give birth.
Like some of these, Picnic is out here, so make sure you know when you go out.
Your look also depends on the type of man you're going to attract.
So if you're wearing all these crazy looking colors, you know and you know a lot of providers may like a more classy look.
So make sure you're not wearing all kind of like, you know, ratchet fashion or crazy colors or stuff like that.
Keep it simple and classy.
It can be sexy, classy, but don't be wearing autumn patters and colors and.
You know, logos and all that kind of stuff.
OK, don't do that.
I know you all know better.
I'm just maybe there's some new people in here that may not.
So you moved in with your older boyfriend.
He spoils you and has potential to do more, but his exwife will not let be.
How should I navigate this situation?
She'll she'll go away once she find a man.
She's just going to bother y'all until y'all find a man.
So she finds a man.
If there's a pregnancy scare and you might be pregnant, she might back home because you after that she's she's been realizing that.
You know I don't know if they have kids, but I would honestly, if they're not beneficial, I'm ignoring them period.
I don't.
I don't care.
Like I'm ignoring them and.
Blocking them, you know, Get your man's phone and block her numbers.
Sprinkle.
If they ain't got no kids together, what does it matter?
If they do have kids together?
Then say, you know, just have your kids call instead of her all the time.
Or have her text instead or something.
But I'm ignoring or getting his phone and blocking it.
If y'all.
If they ain't got no kids, okay.
So you're going to have to find another way.
Sprinkle.
Sprinkle.
That's it.
You're going to have to find another way.
Tips on raising self esteem and so forth.
OKI get asked this every day.
Main character energy.
Walk in like you own the place.
Walk in like y'all glad that I'm here.
You have to have this arrogance and this confidence.
Even if you have to fake it till you make it OK, you just fake it.
Until you make it and you start faking it, you're going to start really feeling it for real, OK?
And people are going to treat you a lot better and a lot different.
But the best thing that I can tell you is you're a goddess.
You know you're worth.
You are always surprised no matter what.
If there's something about yourself that you don't like, change it, work on it.
And don't listen to other people's opinions about you unless they handed you stacks of cash to listen to whatever they have to say.
And still you don't have to accept it, okay.
So you just have to know who you are in your own mind.
And stop caring what everybody else thinks.
Because if you keep doing that, you're always going to be comparing yourself, putting yourself down.
If you don't speak positive words to yourself, you're never going to raise your self esteem.
Just do it.
Who cares?
Who cares what other people think?
Get your money, Act like you're a goddess, Act like you're the main character.
If you can't do that, then I don't know what else to tell you.
Okay, It's just you have to make a choice and go do it.
That's literally it.
It's all a choice.
Just do it and never look back.
OK, yeah, it's that easy.
Do it and never look back and don't apologize for it.
And if somebody tells you you're doing too much, then tell them.
OK, well, goodbye and you.
You don't have to watch.
Goodbye.
How pretty do you need to be to get a man to buy you gifts?
10 times better looking at him.
OK.
If you look 10 times better than the man, you can pretty much get whatever you want.
Seven times better than a man You could, Yeah.
Yeah.
But you need to look way, way, way better to get what you want.
All you got to do is mention something you want.
Tell him you want it.
If you look 10 times better than him, he's going to go get it.
Okay.
That's literally it.
It's very simple.
A lot of women make it too complex because they're trying to find Prince Charming.
You need to go find a beast.
Like on Beauty and the Beast.
You go find him girl, and get all the money.
Then he turned into the Prince, which means she probably just thought he looked better after he spent money and gave her all that stuff in the in his castle and and whatnot and was nice to her.
So he probably really never turned into no Prince.
She just probably saw him in a better light.
Happy hours.
That's where you find sugar daddies.
Happy hours.
Golf clubs, lunch at nice restaurants in the bar area.
If you're a part of some time, go to the gym in the rich area.
Go do your errands in the rich area of town.
OK, sprinkle, sprinkle.
Sorry, you got to go to the rich area.
You said Lord Danbury was repulsive girl, That hair.
Yeah, that Queen Charlotte.
That was a good show.
Yeah, that hair, though.
But see, back in those days, they had different laws and rules.
These days you ain't got to do all of that.
So the women didn't have rights back then?
Now you got right, so you do what you want.
You have two dates this week from happy hour.
Yeah, see happy hour.
Y'all need to get up in happy hours trying to trail.
Y'all start to sparkle.
Y'all think I'm lying about happy hour.
Y'all better go find out, OK?
So and think about this.
Think about happy hour.
A man has just worked a long, stressful day and he goes to happy hour to have a little drink to socialize.
And there you are, just looking this beautiful, feminine, alluring, mysterious woman or whatever type of woman you are.
And you catch his eye.
He's been around men all day.
You know women that you know he works with every day and probably don't care what they look like because he see them every day.
But then then he all eyes are on you.
I'm just like he's going to come over there, buy your drink, talk to you and all this kind of stuff because that's what people do at happy hour.
They buy each other drinks and socialize.
So that's the perfect place to meet a man that has a career or decent career money, especially if this very nice office building.
So that's why y'all want to hit up them.
Happy hour.
OK, sprinkle sprinkle.
Husband of seven years won't pay more than just bills.
Three years ago he promised to start a biz girl.
I don't listen to potential for men.
Either he got it or he don't.
He got a degree.
OK, you stop paying the bills then.
Ohh wait.
You don't pay the bills.
So wait, wait, wait.
He don't.
OK, well then stop buying the groceries.
Or stop buying whatever you buy and make him get it.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
If a man is too lazy to get up and feed his family, then he too lazy to get up and feed his family, you're going to have to figure it out.
Sometimes you have to do tough love.
You have to just go on strike.
You got to stop.
Whatever you're paying for besides the bare essentials that you need, don't pay for it.
All right?
It's like, I can't do it.
You got it.
We better figure it out because he's not motivated, because he didn't have to do it.
We got to push him to do it.
Advice on how to slow down.
In a way, he's his ego isn't bruised.
Slow him down.
The only kiss.
But I want him to invest more.
They come up with a soft story so he can invest in you, Baby.
Somebody died.
You need a plane ticket.
You got to take time off work.
You need some money to pay these bills because you've been helping paying for the funeral girl.
You got to just lie, lie, lie, lie, lie, lie, lie.
He's going to feel bad.
You need some money.
He's going to slow down because now you're depressed because you just had a loss.
So you need to learn how to start lying to slow people down without bruising their ego.
And don't make it.
Don't make him think that you're not coming back.
You know, say, oh, I really feeling closer to you that I can talk to you about this kind of stuff.
Hold his hand when you're with him and just keep giving him compliments so that he knows you're not going anywhere so he's more willing to invest in you.
Because a lot of men also think you're going to go somewhere after they give you some money.
So you have to assure them like, well after I get back, you know maybe we can go and you know there's a really nice hotel.
Start talking about hotel rooms.
Then right before that something else is going to happen.
So just keep stringing them along Y'all got to string them along and along and along.
It's that easy.
I mean string them along as long as you can lie and get some money out of it at the same time it came in.
Best and keep it moving if you think that he's.
You know, getting frustrated and not going to stick around, that's when you start to go get another one.
So you have to lie and you have to string them along.
If you are unable to do that, then don't be bad and don't complain.
You got to do.
You got to string them along and lie you won't bruises ego.
How to start leveling up?
Go get you some hair.
Go get you some makeup.
Go get you some nice clothes.
Put it on.
Take some selfies.
OK, post them up.
See what happened.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Why do men and women call me a prostitute for wanting men with money?
Because they can't pull it off, baby.
OK, they wouldn't.
You know they're only calling you that because they can't do it.
And they can't have access to you for free.
So they're mad that they can't pull it off and they can't access you for free.
That's it.
Sprint, the Sprint phone, they at least they ain't calling you broke, right?
What to do if he talks about other girls, if he's like if he talks, he's trying to.
He's trying to also make you have low self esteem.
She's like, oh.
Really.
She sounds very nice.
Compliment the woman.
Always compliment the woman.
Never get mad.
So if you say, oh, you know, there's another girl and she's really nice and Oh well, she sounds like a really nice person.
Yeah.
This, this always take the woman's side.
It does.
It'll backfire and it won't work because what he's trying to do is just make you jealous.
Think he's a catch?
And that he has options.
So all you got to do is like, Oh yeah, that's nice.
She sounds very nice.
They'll be like, huh, It didn't work.
No, it didn't work.
Maybe then the next time you talk to him, ask her.
Ask him about the chick.
It's like, oh, how's if he told you her name, how's whatever her name is?
Oh, OK.
Act like you do not care.
They hate that.
They hate it.
And you're going to.
They're going to have to try a different tactic.
OK, what suggestions do you have for us older ladies?
You're 57.
Date someone.
Older 67.
Sprink, sprinkle.
How to stop my Rich Man from Marrying this girl.
Fake pregnancy.
Sprink Sprinkle if you slept with if you have slept with them recently.
Have a pregnancy scare but if he's don't mean he's still ain't going to cheat and give you no money there spark sparkle.
If he's already, if he's already been seeing you he's not going to stop cheating.
When he get married you're going to hide in places all get men.
Asking me to go home is first date is instead saying you're too, too old.
They say too old. 25 years OK, you need to go to happy hours.
Go to happy hours.
OK next to nice office buildings you're going to high in nice super nice nice places.
They may think you're high in Escort, so you need to just go to happy hours next to nice office buildings.
It's very social and that's what people actually go to do.
To mingle and drink and get to know other people and go to happy hours.
Stop going in places looking like a escort.
Sprinkle.
OK, if they're looking for an escort, they might want something young.
OK, so they think you're an escort, literally.
Because if they paying, they they want to get something young because they think you're an escort.
So go to another place where they don't think you're an escort, OK?
You can't do the pregnancy scare, but I will send a few cryptic texts to scare him.
Girl, OK, whatever you got to do.
He's still going.
He's still going to see you and give you some money.
Girl, they don't stop cheating because they get married.
You feel like makeup breaks your skin out.
They have makeup that's good for your skin, OK.
Okay.
If you still look good, then that's up to you.
You know what I'm saying?
If you're still pulling men and getting attention and getting providers can great do what you got to do.
But for many women, they, you know, looking more polished with makeup is going to help a lot with attracting men.
Okay.
So y'all better listen to she, right?
You're a Spanish lady who got introduced to her videos a month ago.
And baby, allow me to say that I've already landed a great guy and he is paying for everything.
All right.
Sparkle, sparkle, girl.
Good for you, girl.
Get your money.
So.
Someone says have an amazing skin care routine.
That's right, I wear makeup almost every day and I just take care of my skin.
And you got to eat right too.
Like skin care is not just on the outside, it's on the inside.
You got to drink water.
You got to make sure your skin care stuff doesn't have anything you're allergic to in it.
And you have to be like, do your masks, do your skin care, do your moisturizing and use a little scrubby brush and drink a lot of water and you should be fine.
If he goes, it didn't let him go.
Baby, sprinkle, sparkle.
He gone.
What you going to do, chase them?
I told you all why people go so you could chase.
Either you do so you could chase, or they don't want you.
Either way, you're not going to respond.
Let it go.
Stay Ghost.
They come back, charge them, send them a cash out.
That's the only thing you could do.
Because a lot of y'all get triggered by being ghosted and that's what they expect.
That's what they want.
That's why they do it.
So stop getting triggered by it and move on.
Some of these guys be sitting there crying in some of these comments talking about I tried to, I tried the ghost trick.
It didn't work.
She was already with another man by the time I text back.
Yeah, because it's a game and we know it.
So if you're like, if men are out there trying to ghost on purpose, women know it's a game.
Now you ghost you, you ghost will have fun ghosting.
We'll be over here doing what we normally do.
You want to come back and have some money?
That's literally it.
You're going to stop a lot of men playing games with you.
If you about your money pick me and have been playing games for years and still ain't winning OK?
And I know a lot of picnicians and Barbara the builders are mad at me.
I do not care.
Y'all can say what y'all want.
I still don't care.
Never will care.
Y'all keep telling y'all self lies if you want.
Have fun paying them bills.
Have fun claiming to be all distances and that but still having to pay them bills.
Y'all do what y'all want.
I'm saving my money.
It's been a years sprinkle sprinkle.
Thank you, Princess.
I don't care how big and bad you think you are, you boss.
Great.
I'm a boss too.
But I don't spend none of this boss money unless it's for something that I want.
But I'm not paying no bills with it.
And I'm not going 5050 with no man and I'm not holding no man down.
And I'm.
I don't care about none of that stuff.
I don't have no roommates.
I'm a wife, not a partner, not a 5050, Not no pick, Misha.
So y'all have fun over there and when your man cheat and leave you and go provide for another woman, don't don't get don't get mad because I'm telling y'all I'm telling you, don't get mad.
Keep them and claim them and then make you your excuses later on.
But don't get mad or y'all can level up and come get this money.
Either way, don't be mad at me for being honest.
Don't be mad at me for telling the truth.
Y'all already know y'all don't like paying bills.
Who going to sit up there and defend and who?
Who's going to sit up there and argue about they want to pay some bills that don't make any sense.
They don't want to pay.
They have to pay in order to have that man OK?
The the goal is to get him to pay or to get another one to pay.
Now, a lot of y'all, there's Gray area.
You can get a sugar daddy and still have a man.
You can give the sugar daddy's money to your man because he can't afford to pay the whole ranch or the whole mortgage.
But you still ain't paying and you still saving.
So what?
However way you do it, you do it, just do it, he said.
Being a ride or die does not benefit.
No, it sure doesn't.
Yeah, no high value only providers.
Stop using that high value or it's a trick.
You said a lot of them paying three for.
It's not 5050 or they they may must look better than them.
She just building him up for the next woman.
That's all right.
Because, you know, recycle.
It's like you got a water bottle and you recycle.
And they turn that water bottle into like a work of art that costs thousands of dollars for recycled materials or millions of dollars.
That's all y'all doing with these men When y'all pay for them, recycling them to the future woman that they're going to totally provide for after building on your backs, that's all they're going to do.
They ain't going to stay with you not that long or they're going to cheat and you're going to look like really silly.
It's like Pink Misha on the video looks really silly.
Okay, You said high value men means stingy.
High value man means stingy and barely making six figures after taxes, it's only 5 figures still.
OK, that's what high value man mean.
Smirkes.
World
Dusty's have entered the track.
Oh, hey Dusty.
How you doing?
You on your lunch break from the drive through?
Welcome.
All right.
How's your employee meal?
Tasty.
All right, all right, let's see.
High value, man.
I mean, $10.00 an hour.
OK, well, y'all.
Seen that Passport Bro video that I put in the community section with this dusty Mad at other, mad at the women and the other men who are giving these women in the the Dominican Republic more money?
And now he coming down there with $200.00 and can't get none.
Did y'all see that you walking around looking homeless for real?
That was hilarious, you said.
How do you how do you attract providers as a gay man?
Look, look extra good.
I mean, if I were a gay man and I was like a, I don't know, you're a feminine gay man or a masculine gay man.
If I were a feminine gay man, I would definitely, I would wear makeup as a man.
If I was a feminine gay man and wear makeup, not a lot.
But I'm wearing some because like, that's how they're going to know.
If you're a feminine, that's how they're going to know if you take care of yourself, if you're high maintenance, all that kind of stuff.
Don't take, don't take coffee dates.
It's the same.
It's exactly the same.
There's no difference.
If you're masculine then you need to be paying.
You said couchflation.
Yeah, so the the passport bro was mad because he can't get none.
And then he compared the women.
He says if if the women are raising their prices, you know, then they're they're going to be just like the American women.
But yeah, y'all might as well get your money up.
Because once women realize that y'all are not giving them much of nothing and y'all's money is worth or they're going to ask for more, that's just common sense.
So what you need to do is just go earn some more.
That's the solution.
Just go earn some more.
Go find some more money.
Go find another job.
Go start a business.
Go make a job.
Do something.
Okay.
So you know, you said those women especially and men who try to say slick comments to you in public.
When with a provider, should I lower myself to reply to the haters every once in a while?
Girl, I just asked.
I'll just say, well, so when are we going to the car lot?
When are we going to go get my car girl loud talk and act like you getting the most.
That's what I used to do when I went out with James.
There would be some people like I'll be like, so when are we going to go pick up my car from being serviced at the at the Mercedes-Benz place?
What did they say the the Mercedes call and say when my car is going to be ready, Say something like that or say something like, oh you know what, I need to get some new swimsuits for the trip.
We're going on to a BC&D place, whatever.
Next week, loud talk.
You know, I don't know what I'm going to do this week.
I don't really have anything to do.
I'm probably just going to stay home and relax and while you're at work, loud talk like that.
And if there's if you can't, if they can't hear you or whatever, then they're just literally just jealous because they know your bills are paid and you ain't struggling, baby.
All right.
Thank you, Daisy.
So they just know you're not struggling and they're a little bit jealous, that's all.
It used to happen to me all the time.
But guess what?
When I wasn't around and they saw him out and about, they tried to hollow.
So you already know, okay?
Believe me, if the if he goes out by himself the next time, then the same women that was talking trash going to be up in his face trying to get your money.
So don't even worry about it.
Okay.
Thank you.
So don't worry about it.
Because they'll try to get at him too the next time they see him without you.
How to get people to respect you, Respect yourself.
Sprinkle, sprinkle, Look good and don't take no BS.
That's how.
Don't be a people pleaser.
Don't take no BS and respect yourself and look respectable.
That's literally it.
People will respect you a lot more.
They may not like you, but they will respect you.
Don't take no BS from people.
They say you want to punish him by taking sex from him.
He's not.
Girl, I wouldn't be.
Sleep with no man that's not paying whole bills, period.
Ever.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Especially if you married to him or in a relationship.
No.
Cut them off girl.
You should have been cut them off.
What are you doing now?
If you can't afford to pay the bills, then you cut them off for nothing.
You know, unless unless he goes to get a second job.
But remember some of y'all married to or with men who can't afford you afford to be a provider.
So y'all are going to have to figure that one out.
Tell him he got to go get a second job or a higher paying job, Okay.
So a lot of women are like, you know what?
I'm listening to Sheer 7.
And I have a man my own age who's not paying the bills.
Okay.
Well, he can't.
And I said, I said this in the last video, this is more for provider men that already have the money to provide but choose not to.
So if you're a man, don't even have it.
You can't ask him to give it to you.
Now he you can motivate him to get up and go get it if he really likes you.
But if he's only with you because you can pay half the bills and not with you because he really wants to be, he may not go do it.
You know, he may not go and get extra money for you.
He might just be with you for half the rent.
So you need to figure that out.
Can you say stay away from them?
Dusty's unan so I can set it as my ringstone.
OKOK, stay away from them.
Dusty's unan or stay away from them Dusty's unan or else you going to be a pygmation.
Sprinkle sprinkle.
There you go.
What you do when he says he will buy you something in person instead of sending the cash out.
I'm telling to meet you at the mall.
All right, meet me at this mall you're going to go see.
He might buy you more if you take a dragon to the mall and y'all play them them songs I put on the community section when he's around or send them to him so oh, I love this song.
Subliminal messages to give you money and stuff.
So, you know, meet me at the mall, baby.
That's where we going.
We're not going on a date.
First, the date is the mall.
OK?
Would you let your man cheat on you or have an open relationship as long as he continues to provide for you?
Yeah, because you can go find 2 providers. 2 is better than one baby.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
But I wouldn't be sleeping with him no more.
Like if you if you want something else, then keep something else but pays my bills.
You know, like I wouldn't be eager to sleep with him ever again, but I'll go find me another man who can provide as well.
That way, if I get tired, then I can just make the transition very smoothly on to the next, you know?
And a lot of times that's why men want open marriages, because they want to have permission to go look for their upgrade.
That's why a lot of men want open relationships, because they're looking for your upgrade.
Remember that and they want you to be okay with it.
OK, see, men that that aren't looking for your I mean, men that cheat.
And men that have open relationships are just looking for the upgrade.
That's all they're doing.
Unless y'all are financially tied together where it would cost him more to leave.
So it just depends on the situation.
Make sure, yeah, yeah.
Make sure you're looking really good all the time.
And he may like if he does say okay, well, you want to open relationship.
If you look really good, he may not want to open relationship.
So you got to live with them looks if you do, if you already look really, really, really good, you know he might be trying to go get a man.
So you better, you better figure it out.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
If you figured it out, OK, so men are astonished at women for doing the same things that they do.
Doesn't matter if y'all do it, we do it.
Y'all.
Y'all should be more surprised at being surprised that women were going to start doing the same thing men are doing.
So why should it matter?
It seems to obviously be the thing, so we might as well do it too, right?
So you know, if you can do it, we can do it with no shame either.
If you want to cheat and go get you another one because he can't do what you need him to do, they go do it.
Men do it all the time.
They do.
How to How do you motivate for him to make more and provide more?
Tell him you can leave if he don't go get another job or a higher paying job.
Tell him he got six months.
If you can't do it, you out.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Start looking at apartments or new houses.
Ultimatum, baby.
That's it.
If you live with them, you got six months to level up, Sir.
Level up that wallet or you're going to be alone.
You need to go find pig leashing.
I mean, that's that's what I would do.
I didn't say that.
If you really love him, give him six months.
If you don't give him two weeks.
Speaker 2
I don't know.
Speaker 1
That's what I would do.
OK, so here's the thing.
Men may be appalled at this, but ladies, it's also y'all's fault for for agreeing to date a man at that level and then changing it up right in the middle.
You know, that would be like if you was a Barnetta or a Picknesha and a man married you.
And then he and then he started watching a video talking about, oh, well, you need to be dating these type of women who look like this and you don't look like that.
So then he starts saying, well, you need to look like this or else I'm leaving, you know.
So you're either going to have to level up real quick if you really love him, or are you just going to be like Bye Boy.
So it's literally the same thing that you're doing if you are already in agreement in that relationship with his financial status as it currently is.
If you change right in the middle, then you need to look like the type of woman that somebody's going to pay 100% for.
You know, if you don't look like the type of woman that gets all bills paid, then you're going to have a harder time getting him to change and to level up his money.
OK, So you got to look like you're worth it.
Thank you.
It's Jasmine Sparkles Particle.
What do you think about pursuing a music career as long as you got money to fall back on?
Do whatever you want so I can swag them?
You mean, do you pursuing a music career as long as you got somebody to provide for you so you can go do what you want.
Went out with potential provider for first time.
And he said he would pay for my nails.
Brought it up.
I want manicure today.
He didn't offer any advice.
He lied.
Sparkle.
You're not with the provider.
He's not a provider.
Move on to the next and go for more than nails.
Okay.
Go for bills.
Date up.
Date upper in age.
Go for more than nails.
Go for bills.
Go for, you know, something else.
A bill.
One bill.
Something.
Nails is nothing.
Baby.
Sprinkles.
Sparkle.
Shopping.
If you're not even going to pay for nails, he ain't going to pay for nothing.
Just always ask for more.
Then ask.
OK, well, can I just get my nails done?
So here's the thing.
If you want nails done, ask for ask for him to pay your bills.
If he says no, I can't pay your bills, say OK, what can you just get my nails?
So you always ask for bigger things and then negotiate down to the thing you really want.
OK, ask for something big, then go down to what you really want.
Otherwise, he's going to say no, and that's going to be it.
And he probably just lied to you so you could be nice for the rest of the day.
And then he's not trying to pay you nothing, girl.
And I think asking for nail money on the first date is a little tacky in my opinion.
I couldn't imagine, even though let me tell you, on my the first night that I met James, he actually wanted he said, do you want to get your nails done?
And I'm like, no, but I'll take them.
Like he.
He paid for so much other things.
But the first night that I met him, he asked if I want to get my nails done.
I'm like the nail plays closed.
No, let's go here.
Let's go here.
I want some.
I want this.
I want that.
I mean, he spent a lot of money on the first night we even met.
We spent over $1000 first night we met.
So he was offering.
That's how you know you got a provider, they will offer.
You ain't got to ask, OK?
And if you have to ask and you have to keep asking, They're not trying to give you nothing.
They're stringing you long.
So move on.
OK.
Thanks to your content, I've been great.
You have a great life in Mediterranean.
Five years with your generous provider husband.
Next week we go to Keynes.
You should make.
You should make documentary.
Thank you, girl.
Well, congratulations.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Well, have fun, yeah.
That's how you know they're a provider when they want to give, give, give, give, he said.
James was not playing.
He wouldn't.
And I, and you know what?
I was trying to, and I was literally pushing him to spend more and more money.
Right.
OK, you got money like that.
Let me just see.
OKI don't like the music in your car.
Back in those days, people had C D's.
So we went to buy a bunch of C D's like 100 and something dollars worth of C D's, right?
He did that, then went to a place where all drinks were $20 and valet.
He did that and pay to get in.
OK was live music valet, paying to get in $20 drinks and y'all know I'll be drinking.
So I had a couple or I used to drink.
So then after that went to another place, drank and then yeah, so he spent over $1000 the first the first time he met so and I was pushing him to see how much he was going.
If he's going, his wallet was going to run dry and he didn't.
So there you go.
Yeah, How do I freestyle without looking weird or desperate?
Go to happy hour.
Everybody goes to happy hour alone.
They don't go out with friends to happy hour, they go to happy hour.
You go to happy hour, you're going to be fine.
Sprinkle.
Everybody goes to happy hour alone.
Mostly to to drink, wind down from work and socialize.
So you're not going to look crazy?
Alright, how to actively target Richmond in the NYC area And you're out on live in New York at So if someone lives in New York, please help her out.
Where do y'all find the rich dudes in New York?
In Manhattan?
Go to the rich side of town?
How do you stay motivated when things are dry and slow?
By focusing on yourself, your level up and remembering it's about quality, not quantity.
OK?
Also put yourself out there to be available to be approached.
You got to go out a lot more.
Got to go out a lot more.
OK, you're you have 48 year old man.
OK, you have a 40 year old man.
Find me and DM me on IG Message every day.
First few days.
Now how do I get off I G and money and gifts.
And does he live in your city?
Ask him about a place.
If you all live in the same city, ask him about a place in the city.
Have you ever heard of this place or do you know where this is?
You know, keep asking him about different places until he gets the hint and clue to ask you out.
You know, then he asks you out.
Then you can start talking about the gifts and the money.
OK, so let's start asking about stuff in the city.
No, I'll show you.
Yeah, let's go out, you know, OK.
You said you never leave the house.
Well, you got to go.
Oh, my God.
You finally got alive.
Yes.
All right.
Sprinkle, sprinkle neurosurgery neurosurgeon.
Sorry it got cut off.
He lives in a different state.
Okay.
Well then how are y'all going to get on a date if he lives in a different state?
And is he an old neurosurgeon or a new neurosurgeon?
Does he have student debts and loans?
Does he have money to give?
You know, start talking about something that you lost or broke or need to be replaced that you can't afford and see if he offers.
So like, Oh my gosh, I just broke my favorite bottle of perfume when I was talking to you.
Oh my gosh, I love that perfume.
And it's so expensive.
He needs to jump right in and offer to buy you another one.
If he doesn't, then leave another clue.
It's like, Oh my gosh, like on a whole another day.
Like give it a couple of days talking about you lost a earring, a diamond earring or something.
He doesn't.
He doesn't offer to give you anything, you know.
Then say, you know what, I have to go put air in my tires.
It keeps leaking.
I think I need new tires.
I might have to get open another credit card, whatever.
If he doesn't offer to pay, he's not a provider.
Okay.
So you give him three times.
If they don't pay, be out.
He ain't going to pay.
It will Okay.
A lot of these guys are just in DM's and inboxes because they can talk to women for free and flirt and get flirted with back to boost their ego.
So that's what they're doing.
Thanks for showing me the woman to.
Thanks for showing you the woman to avoid.
Oh, you don't have to worry.
You went to Target, ma'am.
I mean, Sir.
Excuse me.
You're welcome.
Thank you for the donation.
Yeah.
Avoid all women that are high maintenance.
You can't afford them.
Go for pick.
Make sure she ain't going to have no makeup on.
She's going to be looking real plain, almost like a boy or a lesbian and she going to be the one.
She will take half the bills and pay them whether you like it or not.
Gave man at gym your phone number Monday and haven't used it or asked me out.
Should I disappear or keep going to the girl?
Keep going to the gym Sparkle.
If he ain't using it then don't.
Then no way out.
Did you make him work for that number?
Every man caught in a lie.
How do you handle it with a lie?
I'm too good.
Y'all know I'm too good.
The lie.
I'll have two lies to tell just in case one don't work out.
OK.
I can always connect everything back to whatever I need to connect it to.
I'm smart.
Got to get smart.
You got to be quick on your toes.
Would you give?
Sure.
Would you give to look for inspiration on clothes, especially to level up wardrobe?
Anything.
Not skin tight.
Anything that's more classy and sexy.
Sparkle, sparkle.
Like I can't tell y'all specifically because I don't know y'all's body types.
I don't know y'all's taste.
I don't know everyone's culture.
So nothing.
Skin tight, classy, sexy.
Best thing I can tell you.
Feminine, classy, sexy.
Nothing.
Skin tight.
OK, No leggings, No jeans on dates unless y'all are in a relationship and y'all don't care no more and y'all just going out to eat.
You know what I'm saying?
Okay.
No, I'm just saying, you know, you want low maintenance, go find low maintenance.
Low maintenance don't cost a lot.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
It's like going to buy a car.
You can't afford the maintenance on your car.
You ain't going to buy it.
You can be like, how much this nice car?
How much are the oil changes?
How much are the, you know, the annual or tuneups and modern kind.
Oh, I can't afford that.
Okay.
Don't buy the car, Sir.
Go get you something you can afford.
What could I have said to make him work for it?
I don't know if I should give you my number.
You could be a stalker, you know, you flirt with it a little bit.
He's like, oh, no, I promise I'm not a stalker.
Oh, really?
Well, let me ask you, if I gave you my number, what are we going to talk about on the phone?
Make them work for it.
Make them interested to call if he if he don't call you.
Because you just give your number away to anybody like this Willy nilly.
But you make them work for it so he know that he's special.
Girl, you gotta you gotta play games.
What?
Who says she ain't trying to pull pull?
Who?
Women in the comments, let me tell you.
I'll give you some advice, Shane, find the women that don't wear no makeup who dress very plain.
That's what you want, OK?
They don't cost a lot.
They'll pay half the bills and you'll be fine, he said.
Nobody here, won't you, Shane?
Shane, you're not the target, all right?
You could be if you got your money up.
No sprinkle, All right?
Hey, no position is permanent in life, so you can always level up and get your money.
OK?
Can you name some celebs With style?
We can refer to whichever one that you like, whichever one you like.
Baby, I really wouldn't go for celebrities for style because they get expensive clothes, you know, and they dress for the camera.
You're going to be in everyday life, so you might be doing too much.
If you follow a celebrity, I would say I would just go to Google or Pinterest and type in sexy, classy and see what pops up.
All right, all right.
Yeah, I'm getting ready to go.
I'm gonna wait exactly 60 seconds because it is on a 62nd delay.
But definitely if you look like the wall, if you're if all your makeup is the same exact color and you don't stand out in the crowd, go put some color on level up your wardrobe, your looks.
When you are trying to attract a man or a provider man, don't be out there looking like plain Jane okay plain Jane gets passed by with the eye.
Remember that if someone is looking through a crowd of women he's going to stop at the red lips or the the lashes or he going to stop at the beautiful hair.
He ain't going to stop at plain face slick back ponytail okay.
That's all I'm saying.
He ain't going.
He's not going to stop.
His eyes are going to keep going and he's going to stop on some color.
He's going to stop on something that's eye-catching.
He's not going to stop on plain Jane, all right.
Unless plain Jane is a target.
Unless plain Jane is the target to sleep with.
OK, all right, he said.
Why red lips?
Well, it lips with color.
Don't be wearing no plain lips and playing eyeshadow and playing everything to where you look like one color.
Did you blend into the back of the wall because they won't see you in a crowd.
Get the crowd attention.
Like if you're in a crowd of a bunch of people and you're blending into the background, you can't be seen.
They're not going to notice you.
But if there's a woman right next to you with red lifts on, he going to see her first can be drawn to her.
So if you are, you know, bring some extra lipstick.
If you going to hit get a happy hours, change it out after you get off work.
You know if pink lips okay.
If if pink lips catches attention to the crowd, yeah, sprinkle sprinkle.
Why are y'all arguing with these dudes in the comments Like they can't.
They don't Like high men is women.
We already know that Picnicia.
There's plenty of Picnicia channels.
There are plenty of Picnicia channels.
They all go look at the thumbnails.
No makeup, hair slick back, all monochrome, everything.
Okay.
They look like very low maintenance women.
Those are the videos y'all need to be on, Sir.
Those are the women y'all can afford because they pay 5050, you say You don't want to argue or hate women.
Some of y'all can continue to send the shots and throw beat under the okay.
Well, Shane, I don't know what you're talking about.
I don't know what they're talking about.
But you know, women like provider men.
Women like to look nice and women you know.
In order to be a provider man, you're going to have to provide.
If you don't like that information, find find one of them channels where the women are willing to pay 5050 and teach you how to get them all right from your youngest fan.
Oh, thank you.
God, it's wild.
Read.
This is your daughter.
Thank you, girls.
Frank Sprinkle appreciate you.
Yeah.
There's no tricks that you can pull unless it's the money.
Out your wallet.
That's it.
Now you can't really game a woman who's about her money and finding a provider.
You can't ever game a woman that wants a provider because she's going to tell you straight up, I need some money first before we do anything, before we go anywhere, before I commit to you.
You need to pay these bills.
You know, I need to see your provider.
So that's all we're saying over here.
Other women will date you six months without ever asking you for anything.
OK.
You said you respect the hustle.
Yeah.
Thank you, Sparkle.
Sparkle.
But, you know, a lot of, a lot of women will.
They're going to be people pleasers, and they're going to try to get you to come in and think that you're going to make them a wife because they're just good, wholesome, decent woman who doesn't ask you for anything, cooks, cleans, works, do us all the dishes and then, you know, pays half the bill.
Nobody wants that unless they're trying to build their savings account.
As a man, Sparkle, how can I play now that he's already my number?
Next time you see him at the gym, if you see him at the gym, then just look at him and see if he comes over.
If not, move along, move along.
OK, We don't.
We don't question why men don't call us.
We just go get another one and move on.
If you wonder what you did wrong, you didn't make him work for the number, OK?
You got to make him work for the numbers.
How do you deal with his mom that doesn't want to let him go?
Seduce him.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Once you seduce a man the right way he going to do whatever you say.
If he wants some O all right.
Yeah.
Go in and tell him straight the first thing on the day.
Hey, Sir, I'm depressed.
I just want you to know that right off the bat.
So that you know.
Yeah.
Start off with that.
See how well the date goes.
Thank you.
Dang, she's tall.
That's cute.
Dang, you said Happy Mother's Day.
Thank you, girl.
Spring sprinkle.
How to get a provider.
If you look too young.
For older men.
Make up.
Make up in classier clothes.
There you go.
Change your hairstyle a little bit to where you look more mature.
Do I wear red lipsticks every day?
No.
I have all different colors, lips.
But when I want to be noticed more, I'll wear red.
Definitely.
Did I miss the Super chat?
Hold on, go scroll back up, I said I saw Happy Mother's Day.
Thank you O KB You're sorry your body type is a pair.
I'm wondering if I should enhance the appearance of hips or leave a mystery.
Look, whatever makes you look the most appealing, the most classy.
Sexy.
Like you don't want men to just see you as a sexual object.
You want them to see you as a little bit more but still be sexy, classy.
So whatever look makes you allows you to look sexy.
Classy.
That's what you need to do.
OK, I I can't really tell you I don't have a pear shaped body, but find find a celeb with a a pear shaped body if you were looking for celeb inspiration and see how they dress and maybe just implement how they put together pieces and then you do the same with your wardrobe or something like that.
Okay.
So there are a lot of ladies that are also giving you information in the comments and tips.
All right.
Yeah, thank you.
Ave.
Ave.
Abby.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
So remember, ladies, make them work for them Numbers.
Don't be so blinded by Oh my gosh, someone's asking for my number.
Make them work for it, or otherwise they may not use it.
OK, And then, like, the thing was easy to get her number.
How many?
I wonder how many men she gets her numbers to.
How many men are calling her?
Very easy.
She didn't even ask me no questions, you know, So make up, work, work, work, sprinkle, sprinkle.
How do we find out what they do for work and how much income?
Ask, oh, ask them what they did today.
And then they'll If they want you to know what they do for a living, they will include that in their description of what they did today.
Oh, so how was your day?
What did you do all day?
What did you do all day today?
Then you'll get more details without having to ask them straight up.
All right, all right.
I'm beginning ready to get.
Don't ask no more questions.
OK.
I'm going to give y'all oh see they keep coming in.
I should have did it for 60 seconds 50 plus man has thing for black girl but he's just been compliment and say he take me country but just online so we in the same city.
Is it just manipulate if you if you're not getting no money out of them.
Yeah he manipulating you.
You know what I'm saying?
I can't really understand what you're trying to say.
But if you ain't get no money out of him and he ain't trying to spend, he's manipulating.
All right.
How does James feel about your different looks?
Can you talk about the difference?
Feminine looks.
James don't feel no type of way about what I look like because I have free will to do whatever I want, and he just has to deal with it and put up with it.
I don't care how he feels.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
That's basically it.
I do what I want.
He doesn't feel any type of way.
He's used to it.
Okay.
All right.
We've been together for over 20 years.
He's used to whatever I do.
Never, plain or basic.
Always.
Goddess energy exactly sparkles.
Sparkle.
I think he probably be gone if I look the same every day.
You want to get tired of looking at the same thing every day.
Like you don't even know what to expect tomorrow.
Like I wonder what you're going to look like tomorrow.
Keeps them on their toes, Keeps them excited.
You look the same every day.
You're predictable, boring.
And they don't even need to open their eyes to know what you look like.
Baby.
All right, You went on a date and he paid for absolutely nothing.
Girl, I would have left.
I wouldn't even got to the bill.
Tried to hold my hand and call me at my workplace, but paid for the first.
But pay for the first date.
Girl, why did you even stay?
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
I would have got up and left.
What kind of broke bum was that?
Did you ask him out on the date or did he ask you out?
Yeah, I'll check them today.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
My my Patreon message.
I'll check them today, girl.
Thank you.
How do you deal with a plain dream mother whose side eyes different looks?
Don't care.
She ain't got to wear it.
OK, I don't care.
You ain't got to wear it.
That's what I always tell people who got an opinion about what I look like on.
Good thing you ain't got to wear it now, right?
You said.
Does James still torture being stuck with you?
Yeah, but he liked being tortured.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
All right.
He likes the torture.
I make torture fun, though, you know, if I had to torture somebody, it would actually be fun.
You wouldn't even know you was being tortured till it was too late.
So, yeah, you know he loves it.
It's better to be tortured by a younger woman than be sitting up in recliners with an old woman his own age talking about arthritis.
All right.
So that's all he would be doing?
He can't.
He said Torture is attention.
It's a good thing, and it's fun.
Exactly.
He said if James found a younger and prettier woman, do you think he'll leave you?
No, I would just be very impressed.
I'll probably like why you do that, James.
Go ahead then, James.
I wouldn't be depressed, girl.
I got.
I got options, baby, sprinkle, sprinkle.
I'm like, oh, finally.
Fine.
Good for you.
So either way, I'm good.
Remember every which way, every and every direction.
I'm always going to be good.
Just trust.
All right?
You throw out all your hoochie, wear all your Gucci gear and leveled up.
Now I'm seeing a wealthy man all on shoes.
Advice.
Thanks.
Oh, Tanisha girl.
Yes.
Get rid of that hoochie.
What hoochie Here.
I don't run no TikTok accounts baby.
I'm only on here in Instagram.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Do I think he'll leave it out?
No.
He too old to leave girl.
He didn't hung up his.
He didn't hung up his hat.
All right, So I think when you've been with someone this long and you're used to doing whatever, you ain't going away.
You got to start all over.
If you do, then you'll be lonely.
So he's not going away.
How do you do it?
A stingy father who has to be forced to provide for you in grad school.
He's also, well, off.
So he's not struggling.
You got to talk trash, sprinkle, sprinkle or you got to use manipulation.
Thank you manifestation.
Now sprinkle, sprinkle.
You got to talk trash or or manipulate.
You got to be like, you know what, I think I'm just going to drop out.
Like he didn't invested all this money, right?
So whenever he stopped investing, just like, you know, I'm just going to drop out, then he'll be mad because he invested all this money.
You know you're going to finish or then send the money because I'm tired of having this client and put it on direct deposit.
So I got to ask you no more.
The same way, tell him to put it on direct deposit or you could have dropped it off.
He asked me out on a date.
I went on the date when the bill came.
He asked how we were going to split it.
The bill and I walked out.
Good for you, girl.
Because I would have walked out, laughed and everything.
There's a zero 100.
That's how we're splitting it.
I pay zero.
You pay 100%.
Okay, he said.
I will be using this.
My dad is instant.
You know this.
Sometimes you got to go hard or go home.
So you know what?
I'm just going to drop out.
All the money you didn't invested and spent is going down the garbage can or down the drain.
You don't pay.
Then I'm going to go be a stripper.
Tell him that I see what you do.
That buddy going to be there quick.
How to be with extra, extra feminine with husband who is 42 and you're 37 years old.
He looks younger than me, OK?
That's why you need to date much older.
Because I told y'all that's what's going to happen.
Marry somebody close to your own age.
You going to start looking way older than them before they even look old?
So you just you just got to work on yourself.
Start looking better.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Just work on it a day, every day until you get there.
He asked me out on a date.
OK, I already asked.
Answered that question.
You just got to look better, baby.
I'll go find your old sugar daddy.
Oh little sprinkle, sprinkle.
Once y'all start getting towards 40.
Y'all he going to start looking younger than y'all.
So I say don't date the same age, don't do it.
It ain't worth it.
Okay.
Have you always had this mindset or did you struggle with it when you were younger?
I think I always had this mindset, especially when I was like.
I developed this mindset when I was in my teenage years and mainly 20, around 20 to 21 years old is when I really was able to put it into play.
Okay.
Why do men prefer to date or mate with women that look mediocre or easy or cheap?
Because they're low maintenance and they don't cost a lot to maintain, sprinkle, sprinkle because of their wallets.
Thank you La La.
Alright, someone says skin care, workout water salads.
OK, here you go.
What do you say to a man that who says I view him as an ATM and say, well what do you view me as a slot machine say?
Well what do you view me as?
A human being, a person with feelings.
So you're not going to try to rush into sex with me at all.
And if you're already sleeping together, it's like, well, you know, you're the provider.
You're the man you're supposed to provide, right?
Remind him of this job.
Okay.
Remind him that he's the provider.
That's what I do.
Every time somebody start talking about somebody, I start talking about would you the man, you, the provider works every time start talking trash about men who don't provide and they will know that that's what you want.
So you know what I'm so glad that I met you lately.
I've been meeting a lot of beat them to the games.
Like lately I've been beating a lot of guys who've been trying to split the bill and looking for someone to go 5050 and like, oh, I'm, I'm so over there.
I love a man who's like, you know, provides.
You know, that's what a man's supposed to do provide.
Then he will like, Oh yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah.
You know, beat him to it then he going to look stupid if you try to split a bill or say that he can't provide.
He's 50 and playing next date but hasn't responded to nail request.
Should I ignore him?
Girl nails is ghetto.
Let me just be honest with you.
You asking a grown 50 year old man for some nails.
It's ghetto.
He's too old for nails asking for bill money.
OK, you need to be asking for bill money, tire money, something.
Money.
Nails is ratchet and you should be able to pay for nails on your own.
OK, just asking for a lump sum of money and then go take the money out of that and buy your own nails.
If you keep just asking for a nail, that's too small, that's something you ask a 20 something year old.
A 50 year old man is not going to sit there and let and let you drain him for some nail money and that come up with a real problem so he can rescue you.
All right, y'all y'all are asking for too little from an old man.
If he fit that, you need to be asking for bill money.
OK?
Nail money is from from men who sag and you can see their draws.
OK.
Bill money is from older men.
You're insulting him.
Don't ever ask for nail money from no 50 year old man ever again.
OK, you got to ask for big money.
Someone says use the funeral story.
Exactly.
Somebody died.
You need a ticket out of town.
Somebody died.
You got to help pay for the funeral and your bills can't get paid.
Can you help me out, Sir?
They can understand that better than some nails.
So you need you need to stop being so.
Like when y'all start dating older man y'all can't use the same tricks that you use on a Dusty or a younger man.
Dusty got nail money. 50 year old man, he got bill money.
Okay, you'll have to.
You'll have him do better.
Stop asking for that nail money.
That's ratchet okay.
Especially if you were an older man.
Don't ask for no nail and hair and lash money.
Ask for money.
Period.
Don't tell it what it's for.
And if they ask, make up a line, a story that seems sad and they have to help you out.
Don't.
Don't make yourself look irresponsible either.
An unfortunate event happened that messed up your finances.
Not that you were not able to pay something because you are not financially responsible, but an event came up that didn't allow you to afford all your monthly expenses.
OK, so that's all you got to do, girl.
Don't be with no wrinkly.
What old penis.
Wait for your wait.
Waste your youth years.
Well, I tell women right now, if they're very young, go fall in love, you know, have a few relationships and then when they ready to come get this money, come get it.
But yeah, go get you some youngsters first so you can know.
Have the experience, and then come get you some money.
You gave it up to a guy too quick and now he's switched up.
Please yell at me, Okay.
Next time.
Don't do that Now you know better.
Sparkle.
Sparkle.
The man I gave my number to was supposed to text Okay.
He ain't texting you, baby.
He's gone.
He's gone.
Bye.
Bye.
Next stop asking about this man who ain't texting you.
You will pick Misha for doing this.
Okay.
You will pick Misha for asking me 50 times about some man who ain't text you.
You didn't make it work for his.
Your number.
He ain't coming back.
Move along.
Go to the gym.
If he sees you, say hello and leave it like that.
Okay.
That's why he ain't calling you putting out pick Misha Energy.
Stop doing that.
Be confident.
You should have another one, right?
You should.
Somebody else should have your number.
Texting you already.
You know what I'm saying?
Go out and about.
Stop asking about a man who ain't going to call you.
He may call you.
He may not.
He may be just waiting and building up his courage or he may have found somebody else or he may have thought, well, I don't know, I changed my mind.
So let it be whatever it is and and just learn.
Learn your lesson and move along.
That's it.
We're not going to sit there and look and mold and stuff like that.
We're just going to move on and do better.
That's it.
This is what gets y'all into the Picnician relationships.
Y'all keep thinking about the what didn't happen, What could have happened?
Why didn't it happen?
Because it didn't happen.
And move on and learn and and do better.
That's it.
And some of y'all are very young, so I guess asking for nail money is all you know.
Maybe you don't have no bills.
Ask for phone bill money.
Ask for phone money.
I broke the phone there.
Go $1000 right there.
You know, get your nails done by 567 times, depending on what kind of nails you get done.
If you ask the phone money
just to start getting emotionally attached.
Exactly.
You are more Some people are already emotionally attached before the the guy even calls them.
That's not right.
He's supposed to be working for your attention, not the other way around.
So y'all don't do that.
Y'all making Shane laugh over.
He'll he laughing at you.
Work.
Make people work for your number.
Providers are not interested in taking plain Jane and leveling her up.
They want someone already, and they're feminine.
They're okay with maintaining.
Yes, sprinkle Sprint.
I agree.
Yeah, get your get your level up on advice for 24 year old woman with an older man.
Get his money and start a savings account and start a business.
Or invest your money or just save it until you figure out what you want to do with it.
But don't be with no old man with no empty bank account on your own.
So take his money, put it in your account, and then figure out what you want to do later.
Build yourself up while you're there.
Don't come out of there empty.
If y'all get married or whatnot, great, you still got your own money and his.
But you should always come out of every relationship, especially with the older man, with more than you went in with.
Always.
Because otherwise you just date someone your own age.
So your sugar, your daddy, you need real estate, class, money and good.
Hopefully he'll give it to you.
Sprinkle, sprinkle, he offered.
It's the principal.
Think I will ghost.
OK, well, I don't know what this means as long as you get your money.
I don't This all that matters.
What to do if he gets on the phone and doesn't even talk?
Like we just sit there and try to spark conversation.
Girls, run the bath water, sprinkle, sprinkle.
There go the conversation right there.
We're in the bath.
I'm going to take a bath, then ask the money.
All right, y'all just sitting on the phone running the bathtubs.
Oh, I'm going to take a bubble bath.
Oh, I need some new lingerie.
Will you take me shopping at Victoria's Secrets?
I need some new robe.
I need some new bath towels and robes.
I'm just going to have to air dry.
So get his imagination worker and get his money.
Y'all be sitting on the phone doing nothing but breathing.
Y'all better.
You better run some water and get your money, Your sprinkle.
Speaker 2
Sprinkle get your money.
Speaker 1
Y'all got to get creative.
Y'all need to put on y'all creative hats.
Start thinking more creative, OK,
OK,
y'all chicks be asking.
Really dumb.
Y'all stealing.
So yeah, you flirt with them on the phone.
Always be doing something sexy in the background.
So when you ask for money, they're willing to give.
All right, that's all you got to do.
What are you doing now?
I'm trying on swimsuits or something.
Or what are you doing now?
Oh, I'm getting ready to shave my legs.
You know, whatever.
Just make up something.
I'm changing clothes as we talking on the phone.
What's the most you've earned from these chats?
I don't know.
I never.
I never even thought about it.
It's all this goes into my savings.
Everything on these chats and in the everything on my YouTube goes right into my savings.
I don't even touch this money.
Sprinkle.
Sprinkle.
Do you mind sharing what James does for a living?
He works in the tech industry.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Tick.
Yes, so you said rubbing on your body.
I'm putting some oil on, put a lotion, made some oil on me.
My skin is really dry, you said.
Why do some people ask that?
They're nosy.
I don't know.
I it all goes into my savings, so I'm sure my kids will definitely benefit from it.
One day he told me when he comes back, we will do anything I want.
But I wanted him to take the lead.
And girl, he don't know what you like.
You got to tell him stuff that you like so he could know you.
If he doesn't know what you like, he can't plan any dates.
So if you just tell him to surprise you, say you know what?
I want you to plan it and surprise me.
You know me enough.
You know me well enough to know what I like.
And it'd be really romantic if you did all the planning and told me and, you know, told me to, you know, that you planned it.
So take the initiative to tell him that he needs to plant it.
If he's too lazy to plant it, then pick the most expensive place and then he'll plant it from there on.
If he doesn't, then keep picking the nice places that you want to go.
Okay.
Just pick a steakhouse okay how to level up my looks.
If I don't dye my hair straight hair I want to refresh my look, but I don't If I look cool using wigs, we'll try them on, get you some wigs or go to the wig shop and try them on.
You can try on wigs and watch a bunch of tutorials and videos on how to make the wigs look if you want.
If you don't want to dye your hair, definitely do wigs if you want, but go to the beauty supply shops.
They will definitely let you try on wigs.
You said you don't want headlights, you got to put a wig cap on.
They make you wear a wig cap.
There you go.
Yeah.
James gave me allowance while I was dating.
He he paid my car off, paid all my bills off, bought me a new car.
So yes, he did all of that and the and because I told him that that's what he needs to do for me to be with him.
And he did it, OK.
Was he raised well?
He was raised in the old days, where men had to be men.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Yes.
He was raised in the old days, where men had roles, OK, where men were men, where men had to go get a career and be providers and take out the trash and be a man.
That's when he he was raised in the old days.
He got them old school values and he's he's not trying to be a woman.
He's not comparing himself to a woman.
He's not asking what a woman brings to the table because he's the man.
If, you know, if you ever noticed a lot of these, you know, reels or tik toks of older men are always talking about, well, my woman don't have to pay for nothing and because they can afford it, they can't afford it.
So that's why I'm saying, you know, young guys can't afford it.
They don't have a reason to even aspire to afford it because y'all are paying 5050.
So even if you're dating a younger guy for fun and you still opening your wallet and paying 50%, he does not have the inspiration to try and do more to try and pay everything because you're enabling him.
Or a lot of women are enabling these younger guys by trying to pay, you know.
So if you are with a younger guy you want it don't want to be an enabler and say well I only got the tip if you instead of going 5050 so I only got 5 on it.
You know I'm not don't if you would a youngster you shouldn't even be in your wallet.
But if you have to be $5 is all you all you give it up.
What should a 23 year old man be providing with My ex wants to come back and he's saying he's willing to provide.
Well he unless he's making enough money to provide, I don't know how possible that is.
Sometimes men will lie to you to get back in, give you a few dollars and then go back to their old ways.
So a 23 year old, I don't know how he's going to provide unless he got two jobs.
Baby, spark sparkle.
You better make sure you got two jobs before he come back or a higher paying job or in just to go get you an older man that has the money already.
Or you just need to stay with him if you really love him and stick it out.
Because, I mean, I'm not trying to tell y'all to leave y'all's young boyfriends because there's no way they're going to be able to get no money if they don't have a career or a higher paying job because they're so young.
So younger women, if you want men to provide, go for older men.
That's it.
Stop trying to force these 20 something year olds to provide.
They can't do it.
They're not going to be able to do it.
All right?
So just go date older.
It's that simple.
Your friend said my child would set me back, but it was her dad.
Okay, that's true.
The dad set you back.
Not not the child.
The dad got money.
You good?
He said.
Would you?
What should you ask him to pay for if he scams a a ticket out of your life?
Don't deal with no scammers, girl.
Sparkle, sparkle.
Don't get so greedy with money that you're going to start dating criminals now.
Come on, do better.
Have some class.
How am I a dusty?
I don't know.
Sorry, Only you would know.
He said if he scams, he must get cash only.
Y'all silly.
Some of these questions.
Some of these people that are asking silly questions are very young or very inexperienced, so we got to give them that slack.
Unless they're just trolling you, don't you think?
Y'all really young or really inexperienced.
So that's.
I'm going to leave it at that.
Can you have a boyfriend and a husband?
Can you have a girlfriend and a wife?
As a grown man?
There's your answer.
Yes.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
What is this?
Accountability, responsibility, transparency, morals, integrity and character.
Oh, what you talking about?
Nothing on our list.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Where is the money at?
Money.
You could erase all that and put money.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Pick me in the house.
You got some good moral character.
That's all that matters.
Some good moral character.
As long as you have all these things, then I'll pay half the bills.
As long as you have integrity.
Accountability.
Girl, we say no therapist office where the money we ain't in marriage counseling.
Giving my money.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Yeah, we asked for stupid stuff that's free.
Earl has integrity and moral character.
Yes, he do.
Earl, might I suggest a dusty with nothing else to give but that.
And he still ain't going to give it to you.
He said.
Keep your boyfriend.
Just get a sugar daddy.
Yep.
So you know, a lot of a lot of picnicians will bash women for not wanting a man for stuff that he can lie about and get away with and use as an excuse or she can use as an excuse to be mad at him.
But honestly, you know what?
If he ain't paying all bills, he can't be there.
Sorry, Sparkle, I don't care about his moral integrity, accountability and all that.
If you have money and you know how to survive in this world and you're financially stable, usually you're going to have a brain and be smart enough to know right for wrong, to know what you're doing and to also provide OK, I'm not looking for no Bush driver.
I ain't looking for nobody with all the integrity in the world but nothing in a pockets, because that just means you're stupid as a woman.
If you're accepting that, OK, but y'all can have it though Y'all can have y'all good man with no money.
You say get out of jail free.
Half all the people in prison has has integrity and accountability and good moral character.
Now that they've been rehabilitated, what you going to do?
Take a prison ex prisoner going to be on love at the lock up.
But he's a good man.
Better have some good money then.
Some of the women asking silly questions are super young from Gen.
Z, but they might be super young.
They need to get.
They need to get their info too.
Girl finally got shelter?
Yep.
Who wants a real Picnicia versus she was?
I play to hear that.
Who wants a real pick?
Misha versus she right pick.
Misha can't tell nobody nothing because she because she paying bills.
OK?
There wouldn't even be a verse because she couldn't have convinced no woman to pay half the bills of a grown man.
Who with the You know who's smart anyway?
Don't nobody line up to pay bills, especially on a woman.
What's your opinion on truck drivers?
Nothing.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Unless you own a fleet.
Don't talk to me, all right?
You got to own the fleet, baby, on a fleet of trucks.
And then you don't have to drive.
You got drivers OK there an ex who cheated on you in the beginning is big where his money at?
Where he where he taking you shopping What Car lot y'all going to visit so he can put the down payment down.
You know if the ex trying to come back, they have to pay.
They're not paying.
They don't, they don't come back.
That's the only way you take men back when they pay and they offer you something that you can't do for yourself or that you don't want to do for yourself.
That's the only way they coming back.
You got to make make them invest.
Otherwise they're just going to say, oh, she'll always take me back so I can do whatever I want.
So you now have to make some pay.
And when a man invest, he has more to lose if he loses.
You think about it.
It's just common sense.
If a man invests a lot of money into you, if he mess up and mess up and lose you, he lost that money too.
And that investment, he has to start all over, he said.
My 60 seconds are the longest.
That's right, Okay, I forgot.
I'm supposed to be gone.
All right, y'all I usually actually, I got to leave in 10 minutes anyway, so I'll stay home for every 10 minutes for y'all because I know y'all don't want me to go.
All my books I recommend they're in the comments.
I mean, they're in the description bar.
You can't, he said.
You gained weight.
You gotta turn off the lights during six.
But my man wants them on.
Should I say I feel insecure?
Girl, if you want them on, put them on.
You don't care.
You don't care if you gained weight, you still want it, he said.
James have been on my channel.
Yeah, y'all need to go search you.
The old videos.
Y'all want to see James Sprinkle Sprinkle.
OK, so you know, I'm not one of them Youtubers that be trying to flaunt their relationship and neighborhoods with this stuff like that.
Because you know why?
I've seen all them videos and they always end up breaking up then they be crying on the screen.
You know what I'm saying?
He doing it.
What he's supposed to do?
Provide.
All right.
He ain't supposed to be up on my YouTube channel.
It's my YouTube channel.
I let him come on a few times, but that was about it.
How do I feel about marriage before sex?
I feel that it's normal in America.
Okay, that's what I feel.
It's normal in a lot of countries.
OK?
Your business is your business.
Exactly.
Your business is your business.
Exactly how to address attractive provider?
Classy.
Sexy, sexy, classy.
You're 34.
Keep attracting young men to me.
Then dress out of their league.
Sparkle, sparkle You need.
Your wardrobe needs to be up.
You need to dress out of their league so that they're uncomfortable approaching you.
You need to dress like your age, so nicer, classy or fitting clothes or heels, Makeup.
Don't be looking like you're trying to look 25, you know, So dress more mature if you want to attract older men.
Okay, you said James don't care what I'm doing.
Say James is older.
He doesn't care.
He thinks men are supposed to pay and supposed to be providers.
So he's not trying to ask for no 5050.
You don't care.
That's not in his mind.
All right.
You said, do I tell James that's nasty.
No, I just.
I just go to sleep early, say I'm sick and I don't feel that it spurts burn, just like all women do when they don't want to do that.
All right, spurts sparkle.
And plus, y'all know mayor people don't be doing nothing.
Once you get married, after a couple of years, after a few, after a certain amount of time, it's not even a big deal.
Y'all got to remember that.
Ask, ask.
Most married men.
They don't be getting, they don't be getting it like they think they supposed to be getting it.
You can't learn without asking questions.
That's right if you argue, is arguing with a man masculine?
Not if you look good or you naked.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Not if you look good.
Are you naked?
Not if you look good.
You can have some clothes on, but look good while you do it and be asking for something.
Because if you if you're arguing over nothing and you're not going to get any money out of it, then you're wasting your time.
Only argue to get something out of it if you if this.
If the argument is not beneficial, then shut up wasting time.
Don't argue over who's right and who's wrong.
Argue over if you going to get this money or not.
And if you argue naked, you get it faster, OK?
Or it it in something that's skimpy.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Thank you, girl.
What does James get out of the relationship to say that he's married to me?
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
He get clout.
All right, he get clout.
He gets clout.
He gets to say, oh, look, I have a beautiful wife.
I'm so lucky that's what he get.
Okay, what?
That's that's all he wanted just to claim get the clout.
How do you transition to move in?
Wait till it's raining real hard.
Pack a suitcase to show up in his Doric crying.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Make up a story, girls.
Speaker 2
There you go.
Don't y'all watch the movies.
Speaker 1
That's how I moved in with James.
Here.
I packed my suitcase.
Wait till it was raining.
He drove all the way over.
His house was on on the front porch.
Look at that.
That's how I moved in.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
It's a trick, OK?
You got a trick.
A lot of people sometimes.
Have you changed my opinion?
You have changed my opinion on me.
And thank you.
Oh sprinkle, sprinkle, I hope for the better.
I'm serious.
So got to get creative.
If they see you sitting there with a suitcase crying, what they going to do so they know you can come here?
If you already have your own apartment, then you could say, you know my lease is up at the end of the month and I don't want to repay and I hate my landlord and I hate the complex.
And there's a creepy guy that lives over there, you know that he might offer you to live in but you got to play the damsel in distress.
Moved in with your sugar daddy with plans of marriage but his exwife manipulating family, friends against it.
Not sure what to do.
Elope.
Or go get married anyway.
His his exwife and his family can't sleep with him.
Put it on a girl.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
I like sharing your content, but most of my following is men.
Is that a bad idea?
Because then I'm outing the strategy.
Yeah, it doesn't sound smart to me.
All you're going to do is make a mad sprinkle, sprinkle, share it to some women.
All it's going to do is make them upset and feel and adequate, especially if they're not rich men.
And then if you share it to rich men, they're going to know they're not really going to care because they probably not going to be watching it.
But it's funny how women want to share this to men.
It's like, oh, guess what?
I know all your secrets now.
So now you know that I know your secrets.
So guess what?
Now we have nothing to talk about.
Now.
I have no games to play with you, you know?
So it's like going over to the other team and giving them y'all's plays.
Guess what?
This is what we're going to do during the second quarter.
Here you go.
You think?
I mean, sometimes you got to really use common sense and save the best things for yourself.
OK, Your boyfriend lost his job and cannot provide it anymore.
Oops.
Time.
Find new boyfriends for Sparkle or a new job for him.
He need to find a new job if a new job.
OK, losing a job does not mean you don't have money anymore because you need to be finding another one immediately, right away.
You know what I'm saying?
And if he's young then he's probably going to lose a lot of jobs.
You need to have a career so he can just go get another position with a higher paying salary.
I skipped your question.
I don't see it.
Let me see.
He sold.
He said I need to immediately prove to him providing won't be 1 sided affair response or one sided okay.
Well pay about two months of bills and then you're going to see sparkle.
Sparkle.
He's just trying to get sex out of you.
I told you all men want sex.
All of them.
That's all they want.
That's all they want from you.
They want to know if they provide.
Are you going to give it up?
Then say of course if you're going to be taking care of me, I'm definitely going to be you know we're going to be in a relationship so why wouldn't it?
Why wouldn't it go both ways?
I'm going to.
I'm going to be there for you and you're going to be the provider.
Isn't that how this works?
Men provide.
Don't ever say you're going to sleep with them.
Just walk around.
The question I'm going to be there for you.
I'm going to be here.
Yes.
I definitely plan on spending a lot of time together to say that, sprinkle, sprinkle.
I mean, why would I want you to provide for me if I wasn't going to be in your life?
That would make no sense.
Drag it out as long as possible or as long as you want to drag it out, he said.
They don't know how to gatekeep.
It's it's you know what don't go and give away the information to all these men unless you're a pick Misha and you want to give it away so that you can watch out for these dusties or these guys with that are dating.
And you know if you're trying to warn a brother you you work for Warner brother, then you know I don't really care it's just going to bring me views.
But it's kind of silly as a woman to do that unless you're a Pigmentia, you know what I'm saying?
So I can't help what Pigmentia do with my videos, but I can definitely say it's a pigmentia move to share these type of videos with men, unless they're gay men that can use the information.
If men find my channel on their own, great, I don't care.
But like to share it with a bunch of men to say look what I know and look what these women are doing.
And look, look, look.
It's very pigmentiaish.
Now look at this one lady right here, she says this.
That's not a good, wholesome, decent woman.
All she wants you for is your men, your money men.
So stay away from women like this.
Yeah, Go find Pigmentia.
And I've been saying it.
I'm going to say it again.
Yeah, stay away from women like this and go get women like that, who looking like that and share that screenshot.
Sprinkle and share that, share that segment.
Stay away from me.
Go for women like her or her.
They pay 5050.
They work.
They will cut your toenails.
I will not.
All right.
There you go.
Y'all can y'all can play that segment weight.
How much do you weigh, Eddie?
Eddie, Eddo.
My weight is only my business and my business alone.
You can't afford to know my weight, Sir.
What you going to do?
Take Me Out to eat?
You going to pay for my gym membership, Sir?
You ain't even send a super chat bank account, Sir.
Bank.
Bank statement.
Balance.
Okay.
You're going to ask somebody for some information.
They need to be asking you for some too.
So what's your bank balance, Sir?
What's that savings look like?
Even if I did tell you my way, you still couldn't afford to date.
Okay.
I need to go down to the Dominican Republic.
But they raising their prices down there.
If you haven't seen my community section, they raising their prices up too because they watch these videos too.
Y'all hear me ladies raise them prices.
Especially if if you what fine, friendly and feminine you need to be charged 6 to 600 to 1000 baby no no 200 no no 306 it up.
Sprinkle, sprinkle, he said.
Weight in gold bars 24/7.
OK, Yup.
You see how men do they come in here to what's your weight?
My weight is £110, Sir.
What if I lie?
What you going to do then?
You satisfied with the answer?
I weigh 110 on the moon.
Sprinkle.
Sprinkle.
All right, Yeah.
They try to bring your confidence levels down, to try to get you on their level, to remind you that they're dusting.
It don't matter what your weight is.
All my bills are paid.
I don't work, OK?
Broke man can't negotiate to get what you can crown.
No.
What if the guy you're dating has excuses of why he can't go 5050 or he can only go then?
I'm not listening.
After I hear the word, after I hear 50 and 50, my ears close up and I walk.
I'm sorry.
I'm sorry you can't afford it.
But I got to go.
You can't afford me?
Then.
That's like going up to a car dealership and saying, I'm sorry, I can't afford these payments, but can I still have this card?
No, Sir.
Come back when you got the money.
That's how it works.
If you want to negotiate and cut your price, that's up to you.
I'm not doing it and you shouldn't either.
Then you need to come up with a counter excuse as to why you can't date no man and only go 5050 and see what happened.
So he come up with an excuse why he could only do 5050 will come up with an excuse why you can't do 5050 and see what happens.
He either.
Speaker 2
Why don't you?
Or he don't?
Speaker 1
It's like, what is that?
I don't even know what that is, Sir.
What you going to ask me next, Eddie?
My body count?
My dress size
Shera manufactured sex dolls start out at $2500 for the semi.
Well, good.
Go hump around on some plastic.
Ain't going to do nothing with me.
Yeah, go go hump around on some plastic and then go look in the mirror and call your Mama.
Mama, I just.
I just want to say hi.
Then go clean your doll out, Get you a little spray hole.
Go clean the doll out.
Make sure it's clean for the next time.
Put some clothes on it.
Don't let it lay around naked because that's kind of weird.
But yeah, if if if you want to buy a sex doll, go buy a sex doll.
Ain't nobody got nothing wrong with that.
But I could just imagine which I'll be looking like on top of them dolls.
I know that would be some comedy.
I know I'd be laughing.
I might even pay to see you.
Oh my God, look at him on that doll.
He trying to grab the doll Booty.
He's talking to the doll.
Y'all.
He named the doll Y'all.
Sure, Now he washing out the doll.
Y'all make sure you cleaning real good Sir.
Getting all the cracks and crevices get you a water holes and spray clean.
How you going to come in here and talk about you going to be with a man can buy six dogs Gray.
Have fun with them, baby.
Make sure you set her up next to you on the couch while you're watching TV.
I would never have come in there.
Admit that if I was a fan.
Like that's a secret.
Y'all ain't supposed to know that.
If you got to go, if you got to do all of that, then no more power to you.
Something wrong with you?
You think a real woman going to laugh at you or you can't afford one.
Yeah, you know, get you a doll.
Don't want to look my age.
Young and old men pay.
What do what to do, Okay.
Well, then get your money either way.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Dress young one day, Dress old one day, whatever.
Just get your money.
Doesn't matter.
Can you make a TikTok?
Nope.
Sprinkle, sprinkle.
Y'all just got to come to YouTube.
All y'all got to do is click one button to come on over here to YouTube.
Alright, And you still have to pay for the sex doll.
Yeah, but see, if they buy the sex doll, they don't have to pay for it one time.
They ain't got to pay rent.
Sex doll Ain't got no bills.
Can't get pregnant.
You know, because I told you all men wanted sex.
I don't know why y'all going to be listening to me.
So you got to make them pay.
Isn't a man size downstairs just as important as his wallet?
If he can't satisfy, well, she's a woman.
Can get everything else.
They can get another man.
Then go to the store and get a little, not a little.
Then you get toys at the store, if you know what I mean.
And then go get another man.
This woman should be okay with her having a man on the side.
Yeah, I think.
I don't think he will be okay with it.
As long as he don't know about it.
He might probably figure it, but as long as he don't know about it, he'll play dumb and act like he it's not happening, Correct.
Just just don't tell him to.
Just pretend like he doing something.
Girls, he doing something.
Might get some more money.
I got to go.
Y'all.
You didn't answer my question.
Uh oh.
Scroll back up.
I got to go though.
I didn't see it.
Sorry.
Your ex walk.
Is this it?
Your ex walk?
My home, girl home.
My friend invite my ex to her house.
What should I do?
Go get another one.
Baby.
Sparkle, sparkle your ex.
He's not your boyfriend no more.
Your friend took your leftovers.
Go find a new man with someone and go find a new friend, baby.
That's all you got to do.
Level up and they they can't really affect you anymore.
Okay.
Stop looking back to the past to do stuff.
If your friend wants your X-Men, let her have them and move on.
All right, I got to go.
Y'all.
Bye.
Podcast Summary
Key Points:
The speaker argues that women who want to attract higher-value or wealthy men must enhance their appearance, as a "plain" look fails to capture attention.
Makeup is essential—specifically color (e.g., eyeshadow, lipstick, blush, liner)—to avoid blending into the background or appearing low-maintenance.
Looking plain is associated with lower class or even lesbian/butch vibes, which the speaker claims repels potential male providers.
The speaker criticizes "dusty" men who prefer no makeup, as this keeps women plain and prevents other men from noticing them.
Advice includes dressing femininely, fitting clothes properly, avoiding overly tight or casual items (e.g., leggings, pajamas), and styling hair (e.g., wigs, ponytails) instead of wearing bonnets.
Women should look polished even in casual settings like the gym, running errands, or the airport, as potential providers might be encountered anywhere.
If a partner prefers a plain look, the speaker suggests being plain only at home or with him, but dressing up when going out alone to keep options open.
The speaker recommends experimenting with hairstyles (e.g., long vs. short) and avoiding drastic changes (e.g., 70-pound weight gain) before seeing a provider, as it could ruin the relationship.
Summary:
The speaker, a self-styled relationship and beauty advisor, urges women to "level up" their appearance to attract men with money, particularly providers or sugar daddies. She asserts that plain, makeup-free looks—termed "Plain Jane"—cause women to blend into the background, appear low-maintenance, and even signal lower social class or a lesbian/butch identity, which she claims deters wealthy men. , red lipstick, liner, mascara) is necessary to catch a man's eye, citing nature's use of colors to attract mates.
She also criticizes "dusty" men who discourage makeup, arguing they do so to keep women unnoticeable to rivals. Beyond makeup, she advises dressing femininely with well-fitted clothes, avoiding tight or sloppy attire like leggings and pajamas, and styling hair with wigs or ponytails instead of bonnets. She stresses being presentable in all public spaces—gym, errands, airport—since a potential provider could appear anywhere.
If a partner prefers plainness, she suggests being plain only at home or with him, but dressing up when alone to maintain options. She also warns against showing up to a provider after significant weight gain, as it may end the arrangement. Overall, she insists that better looks lead to better treatment and more attention from affluent men, encouraging experimentation and practice to improve.
FAQs
Freestyling is going out in public looking attractive and put-together to potentially meet a provider. The speaker advises single women to freestyle every time they leave the house, even for errands like the gym, gas station, or grocery store, because a potential sugar daddy could be anywhere.
She uses the 'wall' metaphor to describe a face where all features are one flat, colorless tone, which makes a woman unnoticeable. Just as animals use bright colors to attract mates, women need color in their makeup to stand out and catch a man's eye from across a room.
Recession core is a fashion trend where people dress very plain, basic, and look broke. The speaker criticizes it because it signals low status and unattractiveness, which repels wealthy providers and aligns with the 'Pigmentia' look she warns against.
She should look plain only when she is with him, but when she goes out alone, she should dress up and wear makeup to keep her options open. Since he isn't there to see it, it doesn't affect the relationship, and it prevents him from limiting her options.
She suggests wearing a hat with a ponytail clipped in the back. This keeps the cornrows covered and looks put-together without the heat of a wig, so you can still appear polished while working out.
No, the speaker advises against it because the provider might be turned off and scratch her off his list. She suggests getting money from him online or over the phone instead, as seeing him in that state could ruin the arrangement.
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