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INTIMACY 30: Day 18 - Hinderances To Intimacy (Slothfulness) - Pastor Ayo Ajani

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INTIMACY 30: Day 18 - Hinderances To Intimacy (Slothfulness) - Pastor Ayo Ajani

This teaching, part of a series on building intimacy with the Lord, addresses slothfulness as a major hindrance to intimacy with God. Reading from Hebrews 6:12, the speaker explains that slothfulness means far more than laziness; it includes neutrality and passionlessness. A slothful believer still shows up and maintains the motions—praying in tongues like a machine, for example—but has lost the presence of mind and inner passion that once animated those actions. Slothfulness is something that has lost its speed or momentum: it is still moving, but without the same velocity, zeal, or aggression it once possessed. This is the lukewarm condition described in Revelation, which the speaker illustrates with the picture of spring water that arrived neither hot nor cold and was repulsive to drink. Slothfulness creeps into every life easily: anything done consistently long enough leads to showing up without truly being present, and the more knowledge a person gains, the more likely they are to operate by rote—like an experienced driver who no longer pays attention. While this may be acceptable for tasks, it is damaging in relationships, both natural and spiritual, because intimacy requires shared emotion, real connection, and intentionality. The remedy is to repent of being casual about God and to return to His presence, asking Him to fan the embers of passion into flame, since fire is only caught where fire is burning. The speaker closes by praying that the fire on the altar of each listener's heart be rekindled.

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Speaker 1Welcome to Day 18, Intimacy 30, and it's a joy to bring you again God's Word as we build our intimacy with the Lord. And we've been looking at, over the last couple of days, the hindrances to intimacy. We started out with sin consciousness, and I think yesterday we looked at what a lack of consistency is, how that is unfaithfulness in scriptures, you know, and all that. Now, today I want to get into something else that I think is extremely important. It is called slotfulness, the matter of slotfulness. Now, the truth of the matter is that until I studied this subject, I saw it in scriptures, but I didn't know how major it was. And the real meaning, the real impact of slotfulness, and that's what I want to share with you. Now, I'll start out by reading Hebrews chapter 6. Hebrews, the sixth chapter, and the twelfth verse were all acquainted with that scripture. He says that he be not slotful, but followers of them who through faith and patience inherit the promise. So he said, be not slotful, but be followers of them who through faith and patience. Now, when we read the word slotfulness, we see that it's a promise. Now, when we read the word slothful, we think many a times it's referring to laziness. We see that it's a promise. And whilst laziness is included in it, it means far more than laziness. It's talking about neutrality, passionlessness. Oh, yes. And that's where a lot of believers get to in their walk with the Lord, where we become passionless. Okay. In this case, you still show up, but you don't show up. And what I mean is that you are still there. You maintain the motions. How many of you know what I'm talking about? Pray in tongues. You can go one hour, just like a machine. But you know that you have lost that passion. You have lost that presence of mind, if I were to use natural terminologies. You've lost that presence of mind. You maintain the external emotions, but internally, that presence of mind is completely gone. And so, slothfulness is a major, major, major problem in building intimacy with the Lord. Now, what does slothfulness mean? It means something that has lost its speed or momentum. It's still moving, but it's not the same velocity, not the same passion, not the same aggressiveness, aggression that it once possessed. The zeal has waned off, and now you have become neutral. It is what John saw in the book of Revelations where he says that you are neither lukewarm, you are neither hot nor cold. Many years back, I did a teaching around this subject of slothfulness, and I was explaining to them that when he said you are neither hot nor cold, he was referring to actually a physical situation that they could see. The church he was writing to was in a city that had hot springs in another city beside it and cold springs here. And so the emperor of that city wanted the hot springs to come into his city. And so he created a tunnel or something like that. Well, by the time the waters came into the city, it was neither hot nor cold. and then he had um taking on the taste of the vessels the channels um maybe for example how you know water can have lead in it and it's taste tasting of lead or chlorine or something like that and so usually by the time they drink the water um try to deepen the water it's neither hot nor cold and then the taste was very unpalatable to the mouth so when he says that you're neither hot nor cold he says um you're lukewarm and he will spill you out of his mouth that's what he was referring to that was the picture of what he was referring to now but the point is this he says that that that water that was so um repulsive to the people that nobody wanted to have anything to do with it is that it's the same thing when a believer becomes lukewarm when a believer becomes slothful slothfulness is something we have to fight with all of our might and our strength and oh by the way slothfulness creeps on each and every one of us very easily by the time you do something long enough, you learn how to show up without showing up. You learn how to be there without being there. You learn how to continue the tongues without praying in tongues. Anything that has some measure of consistency in it will always lead to slothfulness if you're not intentional about it. Number two thing to notice is that the more knowledge you have, the more likely you're to be slothful about a thing now remember this even though in some cases naturally speaking it helps you but remember this when you are learning how to drive the car every action you took you took by heart you took with intent and desire you moved the gear and you were thinking okay so this is this and then you were turning everything but the moment you get used to driving in a car. The more knowledge you have about it, the more lack of presence you have. You can just do it. And that's what happens with a lot of us. The problem is that when it comes to actions, when it comes to activities, well, that might even be a blessing. That might be a plus so that you can multitask and do other things. But when it comes to relationship, that is a negative. And I'm not just talking about spiritual relationship. I'm talking about even natural relationships. That when you are, for example, date night, you just go on the date night. You are eating the meal together, looking at each other, and then we have done date night. No, it's not just about being at the table and eating the meal. It's the emotion shared, the conversations had, the intentionality to connect with the other person. And it's the same thing in our relationship with the Lord, that if we're not careful with time, the more knowledge you have, the more revelation in quotes you seem to have, the more you're exposed to the word of God, the more your passion and your zeal may die off. And that the more you do things on a regular basis, the more your passion and your zeal may die off. And so that's why it's important that we are intentional to rebuild our passion, to fan our passion to flame, fan our zeal to flame, and ensure that you are not just doing things by rote, by religious, just as religiously as expected of you. You open the Bible and you're looking at it and all the rest. You are intentional to keep your zeal and your passion alive. It takes passion to build intimacy. You see, in fact, one of the ideas of intimacy, one of the pictures of intimacy is passion, which means when you say two people are intimate together, you are saying that there's some form of sparks, there's some form of passion that they have between themselves. Now, what do you do when you realize you've come to a place of slothfulness? Let me tell you this, slothfulness is such a big deal with God that we must learn to repent. We must learn to say, Lord, I repent for being casual about you. And then you ask the Lord to fan the embers in your heart till they become a flame. Can I tell you something? The only place to catch fire is where fire is burning. And it's in the presence of the Lord that fire is burning. So you get back there and you ask that the Lord will rekindle a fire in your heart. Every now and then, every one of us has to get back to this place. Because if we continue doing what we're doing, easily and steadily, we come to a place of slothfulness. If we keep growing in knowledge easily and steadily, we come to a place of slothfulness. And so we always have to come back into his presence and ask that the fires will be rekindled. Now I pray for you. May the fire on the altar of your heart be rekindled in the name of Jesus. Please make sure you comment on this video. Make sure you share it. Make sure you subscribe to the channel. Tell somebody about it. Put it on your WhatsApp status. Let the algorithm do its thing by seeing you engage with it and let the world be blessed by what we're sharing here. I'll see you same time tomorrow. God bless you.

Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. The teaching identifies slothfulness as a major hindrance to intimacy with God, beginning with Hebrews 6:12, which warns believers not to be slothful but to follow those who through faith and patience inherit the promises.
  2. Slothfulness means far more than laziness; it includes neutrality and passionlessness, where a believer keeps showing up and maintains the motions outwardly while the presence of mind and inner passion are gone.
  3. Slothfulness describes something that has lost its speed or momentum—it is still moving but without the same velocity, passion, or zeal it once had, leaving a person lukewarm.
  4. The lukewarm condition echoes Revelation, where the church was neither hot nor cold; the speaker explains this with the picture of spring water losing its temperature and taste by the time it reached the city.
  5. Slothfulness creeps in easily
  6. The more knowledge and exposure a person gains, the more likely slothfulness becomes—just as experienced drivers operate without presence of mind, believers can go through spiritual routines by rote.
  7. While lack of presence may be acceptable in tasks, it is damaging in relationships, both natural and spiritual, because intimacy requires shared emotion, real connection, and intentionality.
  8. The remedy is repentance for being casual about God and returning to His presence to ask Him to fan the embers of passion into flame, since fire is only caught where fire is burning.

Summary:

This teaching, part of a series on building intimacy with the Lord, addresses slothfulness as a major hindrance to intimacy with God. Reading from Hebrews 6:12, the speaker explains that slothfulness means far more than laziness; it includes neutrality and passionlessness. A slothful believer still shows up and maintains the motions—praying in tongues like a machine, for example—but has lost the presence of mind and inner passion that once animated those actions.

Slothfulness is something that has lost its speed or momentum: it is still moving, but without the same velocity, zeal, or aggression it once possessed. This is the lukewarm condition described in Revelation, which the speaker illustrates with the picture of spring water that arrived neither hot nor cold and was repulsive to drink. Slothfulness creeps into every life easily: anything done consistently long enough leads to showing up without truly being present, and the more knowledge a person gains, the more likely they are to operate by rote—like an experienced driver who no longer pays attention.

While this may be acceptable for tasks, it is damaging in relationships, both natural and spiritual, because intimacy requires shared emotion, real connection, and intentionality. The remedy is to repent of being casual about God and to return to His presence, asking Him to fan the embers of passion into flame, since fire is only caught where fire is burning. The speaker closes by praying that the fire on the altar of each listener's heart be rekindled.

FAQs

Slothfulness is more than laziness; it means neutrality, passionlessness, and losing the speed, momentum, and zeal you once had. A slothful believer still shows up but is no longer truly present.

Slothfulness makes a believer lukewarm, like the church in Revelation that was neither hot nor cold and would be spit out. It is a major hindrance to intimacy, so it must be fought with all our might.

It creeps in through consistency: when you do something long enough, you learn to show up without really showing up. The more knowledge and routine you gain, the more likely you are to lose passion and presence.

No. The more knowledge and exposure to the Word you have, the more your passion and zeal may die off if you are not intentional. Knowledge can become routine, so you must deliberately keep your zeal alive.

Jesus was referring to water that traveled through channels and arrived neither hot nor cold, tasting unpalatable. Likewise, a lukewarm believer becomes repulsive and ineffective when they lose their passion.

You should repent, telling the Lord you are sorry for being casual about Him, and ask Him to fan the embers in your heart into a flame. Get back into His presence, where fire is burning, and ask Him to rekindle your passion.

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