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IG Boudoir Photographer Loves "Cheesecake" Caught for 80,000 Hrs of CSAM & Sexual Conduct w/ Animal

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IG Boudoir Photographer Loves "Cheesecake" Caught for 80,000 Hrs of CSAM & Sexual Conduct w/ Animal

Talia, a young survivor of years of abuse by John Nethers, details a decade-long pattern of psychological and physical manipulation, including threats of violence, forced intimacy, and coercive photo sessions, beginning when she was just a child. The abuse, which occurred two to three times a week, involved isolation, control, and emotional coercion, with John threatening harm to family members or using manipulation to pressure her into compliance. Despite reporting the abuse to her mother and later to authorities, the case was ignored for years, with no meaningful investigation until John and Brianna were arrested on unrelated charges. Talia confirms that John’s abuse was systemic and deeply damaging, and she expresses relief at his arrest, noting that the emotional trauma has significantly diminished. However, the lack of accountability and delayed justice reflects broader failures in how such cases are handled. Brianna is charged with similar offenses, though her role remains controversial—some community reports suggest she may have been groomed or involved in exploitation, though no verified evidence exists. Talia remains emotionally impacted, with ongoing PTSD and guilt, but finds strength in speaking out and believes her testimony brings closure. The case underscores the dangers of toxic step-parent relationships, the importance of early intervention, and the need for systemic reform in abuse reporting and prosecution.

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This is part two of the audio podcast of the case of John and Brianna and others. If you haven't listened to part one, please go ahead and listen to that first. We went through all of the, well briefly, we went through the body cam footage that was released on YouTube from this case, as well as the connection to an email that we got of someone who had a lot more information about the real, basically the charges that Brianna and John and others were charged with seemed to be just scratching the surface. The prosecutors are looking for more victims to come forward that may have been victimized by this couple and we got an email from an individual that we are calling Talia and she was explaining, it's not something recent, this is not a new development. Yes, he was arrested this year in June, but this has been going on for over a decade. And that is where we start part two. It is always tricky when a step parent joins a family with children. I'm sure everyone has their own ways of handling it, but I would imagine most parents want their child to decide what they want to call their step parent, which is exactly the case for Talia. She never feels pressured by her mom to call her mom's boyfriend, John nether's dad or step dad. She never did, she never felt the need to until one day, Talia says that John had taken her out to run errands. They end up at like a hobby lobby and the cashier just trying to make small talk and be nice, asks her, "Do you like shopping with your dad?" Talia didn't really respond because she's so young and she's not going to say, "Well, actually he's not my dad, he's maybe at most my step dad, but I don't even really think like that." So she just didn't respond, she didn't have anything to say to this adult who's asking her, "Do you like shopping with your dad?" When they get back into the car at a hobby lobby, she says he locked her in there with him until she called him dad and told him she loved him. She said she was forced to call him dad. She says, "I did not like calling him dad, I didn't like it, it just didn't feel right to me, but even before the abuse started, I was never comfortable with calling him dad, it just didn't feel right." And now he's locking her in the car, forcing her to call him dad, and this becomes part of the abuse that she endures. For years, she's living with John Nethers. Her mom has three children with him, so three half siblings. Her mom has no idea about the abuse. The abuse would occur two to three times a week. At this point, John is a photographer and Talia says, "A lot of the pictures, not all of them, but a lot of the pictures, I was there to take, you know, I was there to help make props or whatever, so he would take her to take pictures." And for Talia's pictures, that was also part of the abuse. Talia says, "There was one night he had dragged talking hills, but kind of smaller, it's kind of like an outdoor landmark, trails, that kind of stuff, like a public park, but almost like a forest, very secluded, there was one day that he had taken me there, it was nighttime to take these Lake Moon pictures, and I still can't go back there, because I remember I'm basically laying me down on a rock, and I don't know if he took pictures of me, but I do remember being abused at the park. There were even times where he would take pictures of me and the kids, he'd pull us into the room and take little portraits of us, it seemed like very family-friendly portraits, but there was one time where one of the pictures only had me and a leather jacket, not zipped up, just naked underneath, and I was taken in the same hour of taking the other family photos. Out of all the years that this was going on, Talia says there wasn't really a moment where he stopped to reflect, not that that would absolve him of literally anything, he should still rot in prison for the rest of his life or what he did, preferably, you know, until the day he dies. That's my opinion based on Natalia told us, but she says that there was only one time that she could get him to stop the abuse. She had took me into our bathroom and had me strip naked and stand on the step ladder and told me to bend over it. I was crying, sobbing, and I kept asking him why he was doing this. And he kind of stopped and said, "It happened to him as a kid, and there was some kind of mental illness that causes it. He said that if it happens to you, you basically have to do it too. Your brain forces you to do it to other people." And then he said it would become stronger. And then he just walked out of the bathroom and I put my clothes back on and left. That was the only time I could get him to stop. Side note, none of that is true, just because you are a victim of abuse as a child does not mean that you will become an abuser, that you will become a perpetrator, clearly evidenced even by Talia herself, that is not true, that is irrevocably false, and John Nethers is brain dead. But I will say that his father is allegedly in prison as well for abusing children. But Talia is unsure if it is from John's dad abusing John or other children. Talia says that she was told John was abused by his mom's boyfriend as well when he was a child, but she is not entirely sure. I think one of the big questions that we had was originally, before we knew, did Talia's mom know what was going on, because she was telling us the video that she watched in that case, unfortunately Lisa Plum's mother was complicit, but she said it was very different. Talia says she hid it really well from her mom, because she felt like she had to. It's not just essay, it's like deep mental abuse. This started when she's six or seven years old, the threats started that young. Talia says there was a time where my cousin, she's like a year younger than me, but obviously we were both very little at the time, and my cousin would come over and hang out, and there was this one time everyone was hanging out in the backyard. He had me locked in the bathroom with him, and he was like if you don't do these things I will go get your cousin, and I'm going to do them to her instead. Talia says that he would tell her if she were to tell anyone about the abuse, he would kill either her grandfather, which is the person she's the closest with, or her mother, or any of her siblings, who also happened to be his own children, and she says, especially with him being ex-military, which I saw his TikTok videos, he works out a lot, and I'm like a full grown adult, he does have a very imposing figure, but imagine if you're seven years old, like this man must look like a freaking mountain. She said it was just terrifying to me as a kid. She says it wasn't necessarily physical force all the time, usually something would be held against me, whether it would be my siblings or something of mine that I owned, or it would be something like if you don't do this, I'm going to do it to someone else, so I'm going to do this to your mom or kill your family, and then I would just feel obligated to do it. There was one time he did choke me up against a wall, he was like renovating his mom's basement, he had rope and an unfinished basement, there were beams in the ceiling and he had tied the rope to one of those beams, it was one of those like BDSM rope things, I don't know how to explain it, but he was trying to get me into it, like basically trying to suspend her from the ceiling, and I told him no, and he grabbed me by the throat and slammed me up against the wall and was screaming in my face for giving attitude and saying no, and the only thing I remember was just blacking out. I remember looking at one of the windows in the basement when I woke up and just thinking about how maybe I could run away that night if I could crawl through the window in the basement, and just thinking about if I could do that. There were times where Talia's mom was also going through a lot, so the first child she had with John seems to have been planned, the second and third child were twins, and her postpartum was really intense after, she did attempt to self exit, but John uses that to manipulate Talia, telling Talia that Talia owes him everything, because he's the one that found Talia's mom, and so he must have saved her. But eventually, the whole relationship between Talia's mom and John and others falls apart. She says that he would just try to pull these like crazy stunts over the years, Talia says near the end, he tried to tell me and my mom that he had skin cancer, like a special type of skin cancer, that he only had a month to live and that we needed to be nice to him, and I needed to call him dad and stuff like that. My mom was just really tired, I mean after a while, she kicked him out of the house, finally, and he was not living with us the entire time, it was like a week with my mom and then a week with him, because they have kids together, so it'd be a week on a week off, and it actually got a lot worse, the abuse, even though he's no longer living with Talia, because she and her siblings who are biological children of John others would go to his house for an entire week without her mom present. So two weeks of the month they were there, Talia says he had this apartment downtown in the city, and I feel like it got really bad there, I guess with no other adult in the house, he felt really free to do things, but I remember it was the first night that I was helping him move in, there was nothing in the apartment, only thing I think was like a futon, and he had me sitting on the futon, and it was just me and him, and he was like, if you don't do these things tonight, I'm gonna bring your siblings here, I mean my siblings, they were probably like four or five, six at the time, he would say that he would bring them there and do it to them instead, and she's like ten, right, she says, I told him on the futon that I would kill him if he did that, obviously I probably couldn't do that, kill him, he's ex-military and I'm like a ten-year-old, but I didn't want my siblings to go through the same stuff. So we asked like, what was his reaction to you threatening to kill him, and she says, I remember him finding it funny and laughing at the idea, and then it did not really go very well for me, but I didn't really have a choice either way. But then eventually all hell just breaks loose. And she reaches close to like her teenage years 1213, she had been a whole holding it in for the past six years. And finally, it starts coming out. She said that she started getting into a lot more arguments with her mom and Talia and her mom would get into fights over different things, like random things, right? And Talia would just be screaming at her mom and one day she just says we were arguing and we'd been arguing a lot. And there's one point where we were arguing in the hallway. And I guess I just snapped. And I told my mom, John had picked me up and choked me up against a wall. So she blirts out the physical abuse. She actually doesn't tell her mom about the sexual abuse for a while. And immediately, her mom was like, stop. What are you talking about? What are you saying right now? What is going on? Talia says she still didn't want to open up about the other abuse. It takes months. But she tells her more about the physical abuse. And at this point, Talia's mom who just thinks it's physical abuse, she decides, okay, yeah, no, it's over. She's going to bring the kids one last time to John's house. They're going to gather up all of their belongings and they're never going back to John's. They're never going to see John, nothing. Like, John is basically dead to her, okay. She does ask Talia if Talia is okay with going. Now, there wasn't like, it seems from the interview that we had, it doesn't seem like there was an over usage of physical force, which is very similar in a lot of cases like this. It's mainly a lot of the threats, the manipulation, and it's the physical violence, not physical force. Of course, there's physical force, but physical violence, right? And so it seems like maybe her mom was asking because it seemed years ago, and perhaps she wanted to go get her things from John's house, right? It seems like a reasonable thing. And so she asks Talia and Talia says, you know, when you're a kid, you're not really thinking, like, oh, what could happen when I go? You're just thinking, I guess I do need my stuff. And like, who's going to get it if I don't get it? And like, yeah, that is my stuff. So she agrees, but then she gets there and she says, I just remember I was freaking out because I thought that he would find out somehow that I said something. I was just freaking out. I was sobbing, crying the whole day. And he came up to me and he was like, why are you depressed? What's wrong? And of course, I didn't tell him. I was just like, I don't know. And I don't remember if anything happened that night. I can't be completely sure. But I just remember being so scared that he was going to find out while I was there that I had said something to my mom. Then immediately when they're safely home, Talia's mom informs John Neathers that he will never be seeing their kids again, that he has to stay away from the children. So she will never be seeing John ever again, do not come near any of them ever again. John does not listen. He tries to go see the kids. They have to call the cops. Neighbors were coming out as witnesses. John is freaking out, demanding to know what's going on. He's pissed. He cues his Talia's mom of sleeping with one of the neighbors. And that's why she won't let him see the kids. But at the same time, Talia says she was so scared to tell her mom about the essay. Because it's like, Talia's mom's reaction is really unfortunate that they're even in this situation. But Talia's mom is doing the right things when she finds out about the physical abuse. But she says that I think it was just a lot of shame. I felt like it was my fault when it was all going on. He would tell me that my mom hated me. He would try to put me up against my mom. He said that my mom hated me and told him that I was a slut, which definitely she did end. But she says, and all these things, I just didn't really trust anyone as a kid because I didn't know what to believe. She says the only place that she felt safe growing up was her grandparents' house. It was like a full town away. And it was up on this hill. And it was pretty quiet. It's just grandpa and grandmother. And that felt like home. But even that, John tried to ruin and tried to fully isolate Talia. She says, he was really big on the isolating thing. I was really close to my grandpa. And I would stay maybe like every other weekend at his house, go to the church with him on Sundays and all that stuff. And there was a point in time where John even tried to tell my mom that my grandpa was drugging me and then selling me off to the church of Masonry, like selling her off her body while she's drugged. John would even try to convince Talia that her grandpa is doing this to her. Like you're being drugged and sold off at night. And Talia was like, no, not. But she also didn't know what happened because she didn't see her grandpa for like a year or so after that. But she didn't see him again after. But it was like a year or two gap. I'm not seeing him. But one day Talia just decides to tell her mom the full extent of what's been happening. She says, I don't remember exactly what caused me to tell my mom about the essay. I remember it was really late at night. I think it was winter. I honestly think I was watching YouTube or something. And I had seen someone open up about theirs. It was like it had been getting to me for a while, just having it kind of pent up and no one to tell about it. It was in the middle of the night. And I went and I woke her up. And I laid down and I told her. She says it was like back then, like the YouTube videos where people do the note cards of like the abuse, like their trauma. And it's like written on note cards. She says that her mom called off work the next day. And they walked into the police station together the next day to make a report. They moved houses to get away and make sure that John Neathers never knew where they lived. But even then he would constantly find out and send them stuff like flip books of pictures of him and the kids. Talia says it was insane. So Talia and her mom, they go to the police station. And Talia says they gave it over to a detective. And we had the detective's phone number. We were communicating and eventually, we just didn't hear anything back. I mean, I didn't really go anywhere to begin with. It was just immediately kind of like brushed off. Later, Talia gets in touch with the prosecutor about something else. And Talia had mentioned like, oh yeah, I mean, I talked to a police before because of something unrelated. And they're like asking about the abuse. And the prosecutor finally, someone, like, does something. She gets really upset. And she's like, what do you mean the detective never reached out? And so she's like, yeah, they never reached, like, nothing came of it. So then she brings in a second detective who's known for handling cases like this. He actually was known for arresting a music teacher from Talia's school that had abused one of the students. So Talia says, I trusted him. And he looked through it for a bit. And eventually, we didn't hear from him either. And then it was like two or three years since we heard anything from him. We got a call from now, a new detective. So this is the third detective. And he said the second detective had recently retired. And as he was cleaning out his desk and his file cabinets, he saw Talia's file. And he felt like shit. He went to the detective that's taking over his new cases because he's retiring and said, you need to get on this one. ASAP. Talia says, I mean, it's crazy. My mom is definitely still upset about it. I've kind of accepted it. I think after a certain amount of time, I just didn't really think anything was going to happen at all. And it didn't really. Like the third one didn't go anywhere either. It's not until they get arrested for completely separate crimes that they are calling to ask if Talia wants to testify. So no one really looked into her specific case. And it seems like it's unclear if Talia is the only victim in this regard clearly with the CCM. There are victims there, probably, yes, because there are videos that were found so. And they have been classified as CCM publicly by the detective so. But maybe there could be more victims. Talia says, she doesn't really know. She does think that after they broke up that John would date other people with children, like single moms, but she doesn't really know. That's just like a thought. I will say that there is this Instagram post that he had of a woman. And she's in red lingerie. Her face is not showing. And the caption reads, the mystery mistress. If only she came with cheesecake. And with what Talia thinks could be his track record of dating single moms, it feels like cheesecake could mean something else, right? And if cheesecake is, in fact, a code word. And the police find CCM in their devices that appears to have been hidden camera footage from public restrooms, the footage of Brianna violating a 13-year-old boy. Are they selling that footage? We asked Talia if she has any knowledge or anything about the selling of CCM. And she says, that's something I mean, I don't know. When I was younger, he would talk about going on the dark web. And he would talk about all of this. But I mean, there were times where he would show me gore and stuff from forechan and stuff. And then he would show me gore, and he got to some point where he had gotten a laptop, and he set it up so he could go on the dark web tour, basically. And he'd go on there and look at crazy stuff. So that was one of the things that my mom discussed, actually. Like it might have just been, maybe he could have sold it on there or somewhere. Especially because he's editing it, which is a thing. What do you mean the police were saying he's editing the footage? Why would you need to edit the footage? And so right now, both John and Brianna are being held on a $500,000 bond each, so a million collectively. And it just seems like, I don't know if it's a lot more is going to unravel during the trial process. But the emotional trauma that's left behind is, I don't know if anyone does. But it's not like it's just the story is over, because they're in jail and they're going to face charges. In Talia's email, she says that through a lot of the work that RM does, it helped her in a way. And she says, quote, I had the courage to come forward in my case, and I'm finally getting justice after 10 years. And watching RM report about people getting the justice they deserve made me realize I'm not the exception, and I deserve to be able to live my life freely with no fear. Which I feel like we don't really deserve a part in her story, but we feel very honored to be part of it. I really also appreciate the way that she's so transparent with us on this phone call about how she feels even now that he's in jail and he's going to face charges. It just, I think knowing these very specific feelings takes away a lot of the shame. I think people in similar situations might have certain nuanced feelings that you don't see, like being reported on abc.com, right? She says that she never saw him as a father figure, obviously, never saw him as her father, but it is kind of weird sometimes. She says, you know, somebody will be talking about their parents, and then I'll subconsciously say, oh, my parents did this when I was a kid. And then I'm like, what? No, he's not my father. Like, that's weird. I don't even see him as my father. I don't think my brain even understood the concept of a father figure, I felt like I needed one. And to me, a father figure was always my grandfather, honestly. So she said, like, she has these weird moments. Yeah, yeah, yeah. She says, you know, more than the sexual or the physical abuse in her day to day now. She says, she remembers, like, random things he said to her. Like, that's what pops up. She says, I'll think of something that he said to me. And then it'll just rewrite how I'm going about my day. She says that John took a lot of seemingly just, you know, innocent family pictures. And she says, I can't even look at them. Like, even though it's not him in it, it's just like her and her siblings. It was still taken by him, so it's weird. Yeah, but they were like normal kid pictures. She remembers, he forced her to take a picture. And again, this is a legal picture. But he forced her to make it her Facebook profile at the time. And he told her that she needs to make it her profile picture so that her classmates or their parents would see it. And maybe want to reach out to him to get their kids, school photos, graduation photos done too. Our researcher asked her, like, do you think he was doing it for money? Or do you think he was-- tell you how they think of his both? Or do you think it was both? I think it was more of a test to see if he could, like, what could happen? It was really weird. Of course, I never advertised it. I think somebody asked me. And I was like, oh, it's this random photographer. But it was just, like, stuff like that he would do. She is in her early 20s now. And he had been free up until this year. Yeah. And she says, I guess, after a certain amount of time, I just lost hope. And I didn't really think anything would come of it. It was just all very sudden that all of this is happening. I was thinking about actually moving into my friends like tiny room that's out of town and just be away. Because I realized that being in the city and even going to Walmart or anywhere out of the house, I was just so scared of running into him that it would basically start me from doing anything up until he got arrested. And up until he got arrested, he was stalking my accounts on TikTok and Instagram and whatnot. And there was one time maybe a year ago, I'd posted on my TikTok story. It was just, like, a rant about my PTSD and how it was affecting me and it was just like a really bad time. It felt like everything was really like caving in at that time. It was after getting ghosted from the second detective that was supposed to investigate. And my brain just kind of shut down. I was posting something about my PTSD and how it was really bad. And how it felt like I would never be able to be a normal person or function normally again. And he just viewed that one story. And I remember freaking out and, like, immediately blocking him. And that was eight years since the last time she saw him. So he's been stalking her TikTok for eight years. Talia says her mom is also going through a lot emotionally and she says she has a lot of guilt. She feels really bad and it does eat her up. I've never held it against her at all. She didn't know. And it was such a weird situation. Even sometimes, I'll blame myself for keeping her in that situation by not saying anything because she says because it was also not good between them. Talia is basically saying, like, she feels guilty because if she had said something earlier, her mom would have spent less time in a toxic relationship. And, like, you hear a lot of stories where mothers don't believe their daughters or knew all along and never did anything. And it was just really emotional to hear that Talia's mom stood by her daughter and to hear how I think part of their process of having these complicated emotions of guilt and the way that they're so compassionate towards one another is depressing and unfair because obviously, they should be living a version of their lives where none of this had even happened in the first place. But it does show a lot of, I mean, I don't even know the appropriate words that could fit something like this. But I imagine the way that they are compassionate and so graceful towards each other contributes a lot to their ability to be able to heal themselves and one another. Talia says, with John, finally facing charges, even if they aren't for what he did to her, she says he is finally put away and I'm finally able to leave my house with no fear. Even going to Walmart or the mall without worrying about seeing him is, like, such a relief. And there's already been such a huge improvement in my healing, so I hope I'm able to get full closure so that I can completely close off that portion of my life and just move on. As for Brianna, she says, she's complicated feelings about Brianna. One time Talia was forced to help John with a photo shoot and she says, I remember helping him take Brianna's school photos. - Really? - Yeah, and she just remembers holding the reflector. And we asked you personally, no, Brianna, and she says, I actually went to high school with her. I'm 99% sure it was her that I helped take photos of. - So, it is very complicated of where like the, what the reaction is to Brianna and others. 45 minutes away, actually, there is a case where just the 16 kids case, right? Yeah, 45 minutes from them is the 16 kids case in Ohio, the House of Horrors that everybody was talking about found in that 12 by 12-foot room. We covered the case and the Siders Family House of Horrors. This is like a few episodes ago. Four adults, mom, dad, dad's parents were arrested after 16 kids were found locked in a single room, and to put that into perspective, it's like 16 dogs living in one cage 24/7, just like size-wise, not comparing animals in humans, but size-wise, right? The mother in the case, Siders, Elizabeth Siders, was 15 when she married and began having babies, basically back to back, bringing 16 living children into the world, and initially just a minority of netizens very much sympathized with Elizabeth, considering her age and the physical toll the pregnancies probably had. When netizen commented about Elizabeth, everything about her body language suggests that she's a victim, not a perpetrator. This started when she was 15 years old, a child. However, she along with her husband recently, the father of the 16 kids, were just recently in the past few weeks indicted on child sex abuse charges. They were both charged with two counts each of sexual battery and two counts each of unlawful sexual conduct with a minor less than 10 years younger than their own age. Unsurprisingly, the sympathy for Elizabeth has reduced drastically. The coverage of this case has as well, but I think the sex abuse charges seem to slash a lot of the public sympathy for Elizabeth Siders. And there's vast differences between the two cases, obviously, but I guess a good question would be, how is Brianna another as a victim and how much of a victim? Some netizens are wondering if she was because how long was she groomed before she turned 18? Some people say that she was pregnant a few months before they got married before she was 18. But others disagree in saying, the minute that you create your own victims, you're not just a victim. You're also a perpetrator. And to add a little more weight to the second theory and opinion that people have, I was kind of lurking on local Facebook groups and I mean, again, I don't know if these are true, so take it with a grain of salt, but some people are coming forward and saying that people had reached out to Brianna and others warning her that your husband, the man that you're marrying, was trying to do things to me when I was a child. Like he is a PDF file and that Brianna would screenshot these conversations, post them on her Facebook being like, "No, he's not, you guys are liars." Something in that vein. There are also rumors that another young individual has come forward saying that when he and Brianna were children that Brianna tried to do things to him, so he's not shocked by the new charges. And again, these could be people making things up on Facebook, but these are local groups. This is not a case that has gained a lot of widespread attention where anyone on the depths of the internet, I mean, they could, would go and make up these lies for attention. It seems like, it seems like a conversation being had by members of the community and not people reacting to viral news. Yeah. And it's interesting because Brianna and others doesn't at least in the body cam footage depict much remorse for anything that she's been charged with. In fact, she just keeps asking to give John her husband a hug. I don't know what the fuck is up with people getting arrested and then asking to hug their partners. She's crying in the car, sobbing, am I able to see him before we leave? They're like, who? John, can I at least give him a hug? The officer, I think maybe he's like flabbergasted, okay? The officer shows Brianna a picture of something on his phone telling her that's the male and middle school. The same year, you had sex with him in the bathroom. Like, kind of, maybe it's like a get it together. Like, this is weird. What do you mean done? That's what his response to the hug question? A little bit later, yeah. And so she's crying and she says, I didn't know any different. Yeah. I don't know. There are additional rumors that John was dating Brianna's mom before dating Brianna. That's unclear. It's just a rumor on Facebook, but I mean again, it's Facebook. Anyone can comment anything But Talia says she suspects Brianna could have been groomed since she was 13 up until she was 18 But she's not entirely sure Now one source did tell us that there are potentially like 80,000 hours of videos found on the devices So we're not really sure how much of that also shows Brianna how much of that Brianna helped create if any at all Well, at least the one Yeah, so I mean, I don't know They've been very quiet about this case publicly. There's not a lot of reporting on it But right now they are being held on a $500,000 bond Talia says when John and Brianna are finally arrested. I just lost it. I think there's a lot of I suffer with OCD as well So there's a lot of guilt issues for the longest time I would even blame myself for Brianna being with him And I was like maybe if I had really pushed for a bigger investigation like sooner and done a better job at advocating for myself and for The investigation maybe Brianna wouldn't be in that position Which I'm learning to ignore that part of my brain, but of course it's always there So they actually just added a ton of charges and so we went through all the charges and she says that She was really concerned because she was told ahead of time that the detectives are gonna do a search warrant And she was concerned that they would find nothing and release him so she was so scared that she couldn't eat her sleep for four days About the charges she said you know, we were reading through the charges and we saw that two of the victims were three and five years old And we asked Talia if she thinks Brianna will turn on John and testify against him and she says she doesn't really know but she says Okay, I feel like he will turn on Brianna in a way too I don't think he sees her as a person probably more of a pawn than anything And that was one of the things I was actually really worried about for a while after you got arrested And when I heard about the fact that they were making those kinds of videos in my head I was like maybe he did it in a way where he wasn't shown or there's no way to prove that he did anything and it'll all end up on her So for a while I was like what if he just gets away with it and blames all of it on her and then they have nothing to kind of back up But he was kind of orchestrating it the whole time Both John and Brianna have been charged with one count of cruelty to animals as well as one count of sexual conduct with an animal Talia says that she remembers after John moved out There was this dog that he kept at his mom's house She says the dog was like this little pit bull mix She says the dog was left outside on I think it was like a four-foot chain at the time It was covered in bugs and flybites and was just being eaten away at His mother would smack the dog nobody would pay attention to that dog I would sit in the kitchen at the door Um, and like the dog is on the other side of the door and she said I would sit and play with the dog through the door I don't know what happened to that dog because I got out before then but There was definitely a lot of animal neglects and other kinds of animal cruelty She says that she wouldn't be surprised if you know with the sexual charge with animals She says that was something my mom had actually brought up before the charge was added She said that she wouldn't be surprised if they had done something to animals because he had tried to force her to do the same thing She said that he tried to convince her to put peanut butter down there and let the dog lick it off That was something that she mentioned before the charge was even brought up and she said that she wouldn't be surprised about it And then there was actually someone in one of the comment sections of like a Facebook group saying the same thing before the charge was added There's also an ex post where we found on Brianna's ex account that is dedicated to just promoting her only fans account And she posted a picture with a little pit bull puppy and she writes good morning babe Guess what I got a puppy yesterday. He'll be with me on live tonight at 8 p.m Come join us and have some fun. Can't wait to see you guys there And it is a link to her only fans account now I'm not saying that anything inappropriate took place on that live stream, but And I justice is great, but when it takes so long it is hard not to get frustrated knowing how it impacted Talia her family, but also that 13 year old boy in the bathroom and who knows how many other people One person comments on Facebook. He was my photographer when I was younger and I used to model He even asked me to do nude photos for a project he had and I told him no He told me that he was starting to have feelings for me and I got very uncomfortable and I stopped doing photo shoots for him It was just unreal Another one reads he dated my best friend in high school. The thing she told me were terrible He was scum. I hope he gets the max. He's a sicko One alleged local comment on Facebook says her boyfriend is weird too So this is about Brianna's rest and he cheats on her all the time and tried to mess with all of us as miners Even messed with her as a miner. So this doesn't really surprise me Another person comments. I was literally 16 and he was trying to get me to do only fans He is a predator and has manipulated her. I don't care Another person says I used to work with Brianna at a club prior to her getting arrested and while I'm Disgusted. I'm not at all shocks She essayed a dog had incestuous tendencies Would prostitute herself and would constantly try to exploit and pimp out other girls in the club, especially the young naive ones Again, this is just a Facebook post, but another netizen comments about Brianna She tried to groom me when I was 16 and then went after my family member and roofied her Again, I couldn't verify right anything of that But one person writes this makes me want to go to jail request to be in the same block with him and I would fucking mall that dude Another person comments john nuthers was deployed with my ex-husband in Iraq And I was informed that he was always on his computer and he was always able to talk people into exploiting themselves He hid behind the idea of things being art His wife was in his first victim He's been doing this for years and it evolved into what he became today I say lock him up and throw away the key maybe other violators should be exposed As for Talia, I hope that testifying against john will give her the closure she needs and not pose a risk of further trauma Because sometimes defense attorneys are literal assholes But I just hope that she there was um it was interesting. So during the interview She is so genuine and so transparent about everything and there was this one time where she was getting really emotional and it was About roses She said that um she's growing up and she says my grandpa. He had roses. He had like over a hundred and fifty rose bushes like he Loved his roses. He also loved his cars He had these old cars and I loved going over and just like helping him take care of the roses and just spending time with them and helping where I could And she starts getting really emotional for one of the first times in the interview and she says So honestly, I loved like christmas over there my grandma lived on the hill and then at top on the top You know the house was on the side and then at the top there was like a log cabin and a barn and a fire pit And it was just like every family event was held there. So all my good memories are with my grandpa Unfortunately um in 2023 he passed from bone cancer And she says when he passed the one thing that stuck with me was he he he was dementia ridden He couldn't talk couldn't see he was in hospice. I remember sitting at the side of his bed just crying And he asked me if I had everything I needed And I was just like well and she says my grandpa was great. I think he knew something was going on There was actually one time he asked me if John had done anything to me And of course I didn't tell him because I didn't want him to know that it was just one of those things where I think he knew But he didn't want to press further And she started getting emotional and apologizing for her emotions and she says he's just amazing He was the father for me. He was my father And that is where I leave you with the case for today We're going to be keeping up with the legal process for John and Brianna and others and we'll be keeping you updated but Yeah, let me know your thoughts And please stay safe And I will see you in the next one

Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. Talia, a victim of prolonged abuse by John Nethers, recounts years of emotional, psychological, and physical abuse starting when she was six or seven, including threats, manipulation, forced calls to "dad," and coercive photo sessions.
  2. Abuse occurred 2–3 times weekly, often in secluded locations like forests or private homes, with incidents involving physical restraint, choking, and exposure, especially during photo shoots.
  3. John manipulated Talia's mother by falsely claiming he saved her life, created a toxic dynamic, and isolated her from support systems, including her grandparents.
  4. Talia’s mother was initially unaware of the abuse and only learned about physical violence when it was reported; she later separated from John and moved the family away to ensure safety.
  5. Despite the abuse, no formal investigation or prosecution occurred for years; only after John and Brianna were arrested on unrelated charges did Talia come forward to testify.
  6. John and Brianna are charged with cruelty to animals and sexual conduct with minors; evidence suggests John had a history of animal neglect and grooming, with one Facebook post by Brianna showing her with a puppy and promoting an OnlyFans account.
  7. There are rumors and community reports suggesting Brianna may have been groomed by John since age 13, or even that she participated in exploitative behavior, though these remain unverified.
  8. Talia feels deeply traumatized by the lingering effects of abuse, including PTSD, stalking, and guilt over not speaking up earlier. She finds healing in the process of coming forward and believes justice is vital for closure.
  9. The case highlights systemic failures in reporting and investigating abuse, with multiple victims potentially involved, and raises concerns about accountability and public perception, especially in light of similar high-profile cases.

Summary:

Talia, a young survivor of years of abuse by John Nethers, details a decade-long pattern of psychological and physical manipulation, including threats of violence, forced intimacy, and coercive photo sessions, beginning when she was just a child. The abuse, which occurred two to three times a week, involved isolation, control, and emotional coercion, with John threatening harm to family members or using manipulation to pressure her into compliance. Despite reporting the abuse to her mother and later to authorities, the case was ignored for years, with no meaningful investigation until John and Brianna were arrested on unrelated charges.

Talia confirms that John’s abuse was systemic and deeply damaging, and she expresses relief at his arrest, noting that the emotional trauma has significantly diminished. However, the lack of accountability and delayed justice reflects broader failures in how such cases are handled. Brianna is charged with similar offenses, though her role remains controversial—some community reports suggest she may have been groomed or involved in exploitation, though no verified evidence exists.

Talia remains emotionally impacted, with ongoing PTSD and guilt, but finds strength in speaking out and believes her testimony brings closure. The case underscores the dangers of toxic step-parent relationships, the importance of early intervention, and the need for systemic reform in abuse reporting and prosecution.

FAQs

Talia experienced repeated physical and emotional abuse, including being locked in cars, forced to call John 'dad,' and subjected to threats of violence against family members. He also took photos of her and her siblings in inappropriate, non-consensual ways, often in secluded locations like forests or parks.

No, Talia’s mother was unaware of the abuse for many years and believed it was limited to physical violence. Talia hid the full extent of the abuse from her mother, fearing she would blame herself or react with shame.

He used threats, blackmail, and psychological manipulation, such as telling her he would harm her family members if she spoke out, and he isolated her from her grandparents and other safe environments to increase his control.

Talia finally came forward during her late teens, after years of internalizing the trauma. She told her mother during a heated argument, and later, after seeing online stories of other survivors, she shared the full details with her mom and reported the abuse to police.

The initial police response was dismissive, and multiple detectives failed to take the case seriously. However, after a third detective discovered Talia’s file while cleaning out his records, he reactivated the investigation, which eventually led to John and Brianna being arrested on separate charges.

Talia suspects Brianna may have been groomed by John since age 13, and there are rumors of her being involved in inappropriate relationships or grooming. However, no conclusive evidence has been provided, and the situation remains complex and disputed.

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