How to throw a cheesecake party and the sources behind it.
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The speaker explains cheesecake parties as a practical tool rooted in Jewish tradition for anchoring the mind during crises. The concept originates from the *Sudat Hoda* (meal of thanksgiving), which sages advised after problems resolve, but the speaker innovated by using a specific anchor—cheesecake and a song—to visualize a positive outcome *before* the problem ends. This method was developed during a stressful IRS audit of seven companies, where the speaker repeatedly imagined celebrating with cheesecake to a chosen song, thereby coping with panic and manifesting a successful resolution. The practice is supported by several sources: a Gemara in Berachot 63a promising doubled livelihood to those who make God a partner in distress; the Kabbalistic idea that joy facilitates spiritual elevation and redemption; and the principle that faith draws salvation from the future into the present. The speaker argues that challenges are tests of free will, meant to transform victims into co-creators. By embracing joy and gratitude, one leverages adversity for growth, turning "lemons into lemonade." Key to success is surrendering doubt, low self-esteem, and a stingy view of God, adopting instead an abundant perspective. The cheesecake party serves as a tangible anchor, redirecting energy from fear to trust, and has been applied by the speaker and others to various life challenges, from financial loss to health crises, with reported positive outcomes.
So I've got a popular request to explain the cheesecake parties. Okay, explain the cheesecake parties. How does it happen? Why does it happen? Today we're going to talk about the sources. I'm going to give you about 7 to 8 sources of this concept of a cheesecake party. I myself have been throwing cheesecake parties for years. Once I got the formula for victory, I applied it. Very, very powerful concept. And what is it basically a cheesecake party in Hebrew terms? It's a Sudat Hoda. Our sages used to tell us whenever you used to go to rabbis. They would tell you, just start planning a meal of Thanksgiving. This would be a constant constant. They would tell you, do a Sudat, do a meal of Thanksgiving once the problem is over. But they would just tell you to do it. They wouldn't tell you to anchor it. I'm going to get really, really into the details on why it works and what a cheesecake party is, et cetera. I myself chose cheesecake because at the time I was really into cheesecake. Just as a tool in order to anchor your mind. You could say, by a $5,000 bottle of tequila, or, and say, this is the 1922 Pedro Marl. Whatever it is in your mind, but you need something to anchor your mind when you're going through a very difficult situation in life. Because what's happening is, there's many sources. There's people that tell you, some people watch things happen. Some people make things happen. And some people say, I don't know what happened. So we want to be part of the people that say, I made it happen. Versus, I watched it happen to me. Versus, I don't even know what happened. We don't want to be in the other two states of, I don't know what happened to me. I don't know what happened. How did I get here? Just like a boat. There's a reason why we have an anchor. Why do we have an anchor on a boat? Because you don't anchor the boat down, God knows the winds that can take you. And that's what happens with the it's aura. You know, it'll take you to very, very dark places in life. The it's a heart. If you don't have an anchor, so this is what today's class is all about creating an anchor. How it started, the quick two-minute story, how did these cheesecake started? Parties started happening. It's basically one time I had a seven company IRS audit. I came back after Ouman. I was like freaking out. How in the world do you want me to deal with a seven company IRS audit in the middle of going through work dealing with a bunch of things at the one time? So I said, you know what? There's two ways to deal with this. I'm going to think of the best case scenario. I can think of the worst case scenario. If you think of the worst case scenario that's very fear oriented. If you think of the best case scenario, it's very trust oriented. So this is not something I picked up by learn. It's something I invented. I'm going to start obsessing in my his bodidude. I'm going to start manifesting and picturing myself having a cheesecake party with a specific song. So I would replay it over and over and over and over again. I would play the same song over and over again with the same visualization and smiling and picturing myself like I was free. The reason why we want to add song when you visualize something is song, song brings the emotion of the avid. I could just picture something, but through music, music arouses emotion. And that's what we want to do. Really, Moon is all about that state. You know, getting into that state, getting into that state, which is really something that we're not taught this. You know, Jews are taught to worry. They're not taught to manifest. I have no idea what happened, but it is what it is. So what happens is I replay it over and over again. And any time I would get that panic attack, any time I would get the emails triggering, oh my god, you got to go right away. Cheesecake Party. So I was able to cope with stress, not give any energy to the fear because we know whatever energy you give to fear, fear ends up manifesting. So I didn't want the fear to happen. I wanted the cheesecake party to happen. So I would be constantly triggered through the day. Oh, you got to do this. You got to do that. And those triggers really, really put you down. So I said, now, wonderful. I'm going to cheesecake party. So it basically was a great tool to put my mind already in the in the in the salvation, et cetera. And that tremendously helped me not only deal with the situation, because I was so positive in the R.I.R. Everything went amazing. Thank god. And it happened when when true. And the same thing just happened to my friend Michael. He just had a heart attack. He had a problem with his heart. He was worrying. I said, no, anchor your mind here. You got a great news. And I've seen many, many people have emailed me and told me about cheesecake parties, et cetera. But what we're trying to do, again, is practice, amuna, practice, bittahom. We need to practice it. If you don't, whatever you don't practice, you end up getting the opposite. And the reason why we're doing this is because we want to anchor our mind. We also need to understand how the world works. Before I'm going to talk to you about the logistics of the cheesecake, what to do exactly? I'm going to explain to you the sources behind it and why and the signs behind it. The job dispends the model, but in a spiritual way. The reason why you have to go through this test in life in the first place is because God created the world through free will. And you have to get tested in life. It's part of life. Shem tests you with the name 86, which is the name of Teva. So Ramakhan says, everything you've seen in the world is there to test you. So don't take all of these things so personal. Sometimes we go through the sorrows, we go through the situations, we go through these challenges. And we take a way to personal. And because we're taking a way to personal, we fall into a victim mindset. And then we start developing, we can't even think of the solution because you're too stuck in the problem. So number one, you have to understand you're not here as a just a customer in the world. You're here to co-create, but in order to co-create, you need free choice. And in order to have free choice, unfortunately you need darkness and you need a contraction. So need to understand that. This is exactly what Ramakhan tells us, unless it's five in a second half. He says, anybody who makes, there's a Gammara that says, anybody who makes heaven, the name of heaven, is a partner in distress. So here you go. I have to have the distress in order to put heaven as a partner. They double his livelihood. This is a Gammara. It's a Gammara in Brahat 63/8. Anybody who puts heaven as a partner in distress, they double his livelihood. So you're adding a source here that pretty much, Rashi says, wherever makes the name of heaven, a partner in distress, referring to somebody who blesses him, even if he's having a misfortune or a double times, what happens, he gets double. He gets double Yeshua. I would tell you what happened to me a year ago, one of my companies lost a six million dollar clients. And at that time, that was a big deal. That was a situation that could really affect the company. And it lost three months, no explanation, cancel contract, etc. Oh, I did. Hashem, thank you for this. Your partners would mean my distress, your partners would mean my Zadaka. So whatever you want, if it's meant to happen, I was a partner and I visualized the best-case scenario of something better happening. And I celebrated the cheesecake, started thinking about thanking Hashem, thanking Hashem. And what happened, I ended up getting a much bigger customer that would have never gotten, because I would never look to change things in my company if it wasn't for the distress. So the distress created the double, but you would have never created the double if it wasn't for the distress. So because we're too comfortable, sometimes Hashem has to get you out of your comfort zone in order to create that. So it's almost like when the stock has to really go down in order for you to buy more. So you end up making more when it goes up. Pretty much the same concept that it has to, you have to have a tymsum in Kabbalah called a contraction in order to double up. And you can look at this this concept, but you could do two things. You can have a contraction, you can make it about you, you can get the press, you can get anxious, you can lose your mind. Oh, you can put heaven as a partner in distress. This is a Gammara. This is a Gammara 63A, Brahut, you can look it up. And this is what it means, double. It doesn't mean you're going to be okay. It means you're going to get double. So there's obviously a lot more light that you get. For example, you have a bad relationship, it doesn't go through. Thank you Hashem, I'm putting you in distress. You'll get a better Zivogan the next time. If the attitude and the intention is right. So there's one source of there that the contraction is for the sake of going up, but you don't even only go up one time. You go up double. Imagine if every addict came to me and said, Hashem, I'm so grateful that you gave me this addiction. It's going to give me spiritual awakening. And if you really believe that, that person comes out 10 times better than would have come out before. Without the addiction, he comes out as a completely different person. So every case in life, life is happening for you, not to you. This is of this concept. It's also the same concept on why we hear the concept, saying thank you and see miracles. We're a bad ruchus book. Because people had the contraction. They were thankful for that contraction. And because they were thankful, they ended up getting double. It gives a beautiful story on a guy who buys a Mercedes. A red Mercedes, he got it in an auction. Next thing you know, the guy's driving the guys parked the Mercedes, he gets robbed. All the guys you need to have insurance to go. Why you should about a red Mercedes in the first place, that's a whole different story. But he gets robbed in all of a sudden. He hears about Rabbi Rouch. He starts thanking Hashem for the situation. And what happens, he finds the car, souped up in black. So imagine, imagine somebody takes your car that's red. He upgrades it, and he finds it in black. Now I'm not telling you to go try this situation. But if you are faced with somebody robbed your car, what are you going to do? Cry, home, cry, and be bitter. And that doesn't work. We know that already.
That's only going to lead you to anger, anxiety, and depression. So that guarantees not to work. You're going to tell me, "Duy, how do I know it's going to work?" "I know it's not going to work." Well, this guarantee does not work. So that's why you need to understand that. So same thing you see in Miracle is putting Hashem as a partner in prescription. You can take that Gamara, it tells you you're going to get double. I've done this a thousand times. A thousand times. Because I know where to anchor my mind when there's stress. I know how to turn problems into opportunities. That's one specialty that I think God gave me. To turn a mess into a message. Somehow that's a gift that I was able to have a lot of resiliency. They're not just looking at the problem as me, I'm a victim, self-pity, quiet everybody. Let's go. How do we turn this lemon into lemonade? And that's really a moon, by the way. But you need the lemon in order to get the lemonade. So we can't just avoid lemons. We can't avoid problems. We can't avoid situations in life. Because otherwise you never get the reward for the test itself. So when you ask God, please, God, give me no problems. That's the problem. That's the problem itself. Because then you become soft. If you ask God for no problems and you become soft. And you become soft, what happens when the problem comes, you get run over. So you can't become soft also. You can't become weak. Because that's not going to help you long run. Because then you don't have a system in order to deal with situations. Any time we're dependent on situations that work out without us making a change, that itself is a problem. Less than 24 and a second half of the Kutamu and the first half. There's another concept in Kabbalah that says, "Through joy you will go out." Okay? It's a simple mantra. Through joy you will go out. Joy is a principle factor in elevation of holiness, what Bakun says. In the future, the forces of impurity will be nullified completely due to the enormous joy that people will have. And this is where the Puzzle of Can Isaiah says, "Puzzle of Can Isaiah 5512, "For in joy you will go out." You see, when you approach God with that Puzzle through joy you will go out. It's not like you're just manifesting to some rainbow in the sky. No, you got sources. This is real sources here that I could say, "Create the world." You created, you taught me through joy or will out. I'm going to be the Simha. Now it's your turn to get me out. I'm going to put you as a partner in distress. Now it's your turn to double the money. You can make the man's because you have a real source. This is not some blah, blah, blah, blah I said I'm dealing with. This is that I have a real source for this situation. Not only that, but what happens is when you, God, when you, when a person embraces his joy ahead of a situation, what happens? He's taking the schrinum, the feminine aspect of God out of the exile. That's a very big deal because today when a person walks around with sadness and depression anxiety, it's almost like saying there's no God. It's almost like saying where there's no God. There's no God. Because you believe that not everything is for the best. So then you're sort of sort of pretty much denying the God's doing this for your benefit. So that's where we say that's why sadness and depression and the state's so bad is because you're taking the schrinum out of exile. You're taking the schrinum out of the schrinum as an exile. When a person says, I don't believe in this. I don't believe in this. That person's mind is an exile. What do you do? Is mind's in jail. Is no hope. Is no chance of nothing. Is mind's an exile. What's the sigull of hell? What are you out of? This is where the placebo effect has changed so much. You can see that the research behind the placebo effect will start believing things. Then you can stick them with other things. But without the belief itself, nothing happens. But there's a puzzle that says through joy you will go out. That's simple things. Put yourself in a situation. I promise you. I promise you. Now in order to do this, you need to understand. You need to have a lot of simplicity, a lot of faith, and you cannot complicate your life. The more complicated you are, the more you're looking for things for you, not to work out. You understand? You have to be able to do this. Now once you're able to understand, why can I get into this mode? Then we have to surrender a lot of stuff. We have to surrender a lot of unconscious guilt, a lot of low self-esteem. All of these programs that are not allowing you to go into that state do not allow you to receive. And this is where we spoke about David Hawkins yesterday. What does he say? Instead of desiring something, picture it lovingly and allow it to happen. Where is the message here? Just picture it lovingly, but simmh-hah. Look at your create change your mind set from a stingy parent to an abundant father. And then you can start asking for more things. You don't come to a place where I don't deserve it, I don't deserve it, etc. In the lower state of consciousness, like we said yesterday, the world has seen as negative and denying and frustrating and reluctant. It's like a bad stingy parent. Higher state of consciousness, our experience of the universe changes and now becomes like a giving loving, unconditional proving parent, allows us to have everything we want and it's ours for the taking. Another concept that we have. So take a day off of a spiritual heart. You open up your hands and you give to a person according to his desires. Okay, imagine you go into the place, guy opens up his hand, okay, what do you want? I don't know. You need to have desire. You need to desire. You need to tell your creator, this is what I want. It's very, very important. Desire. Another source. Because this is any kind we do these classes with these cheesecake parties and all that. People are going to, "Oh, what source do you have? What source do you have?" So I wanted to shove enough sources so you can finally believe it because we're so programmed to question anything that doesn't, it's not meeting potatoes in your dish. If it's not a meeting a potato, you're going to question it. This is unfortunately another problem with the way we're thinking. We're too stuck in a box. Oh, it's not a meeting potato. It can't work. It's because of your limited imagination and you've not used your imagination properly. So you're connected to this control and I can't think outside the box mentality. Another source from the sparks of a dish of levied, levied, it's a corporate dish of. Okay, so you're getting all kinds of sources here. So what he's telling us here is we know that God's name is, has three words, right? Hayah, Hove, and Yehyeh. What was, what is, and will be. Hashem is the creator of time and time exists above its parameters. For him there is no distinction between the past, present, and the future. We await for salvation our areas of our existence, praying for our palms to be solved in the near future. From the perspective of Hashem, who exists beyond time. Remember, the biggest issue in life is when you're going through something, is look, is you're viewing the amount of weight that you have on the permanence of that situation. Many people are going through the reason why they're so distressed, because they believe this is a permanent problem never going to get out of it. From our perspective, it looks like our prayers will steer our father in heaven and cause him to send down we want. In truth, Hashem's perspective, so to speak, the salvation is already there. The salvation is already there. You're saying, I need to do something to create that salvation. What you need to do is what he's going to say here is believe in it. What does he say here? It already exists in the realm of potential. Our soulmates, our children, our financial stability, and emotional health are all packaged ready to go. All we need to do is draw these holy packages into the world. The only question is how, how do we make this portal? Reblevy Yitzekov Redictive says, "Emona, faith, the way to bring down something from the future into the present is by believing with utter certainty that you will see the salvation and our problems will be solved." So this is where you can throw a cheesecake party, because you believe in it so much that you know it's going to happen. That belief and that trust that you have makes things happen. It's the fear and the guilt and the unconscious things in the low self-esteem that you're so afraid to try it. So you don't even try it. So then you need to do it to shoot on this. Because if I'm so embarrassed to go to my creator and ask, because I don't feel it's going to work out, because nothing else has worked out. It's not worked out. Because you come in there and saying, "Things never work out for me. There's the problem." I mean, the problem is when you walk around, and again, David Hawkins is telling the same thing. I'm giving you from a Jewish source. This is from the Levy Yitzekov Redictive. We must not remain even the slightest bit of doubt. We must stand firm in our faith with the Master who loves us, and this is exactly what Rebnachun tells us. Faith is a channel for all bounty and blessings. Again, faith is a channel. Imagine you had 100 channels. And only one worked. The other channel's fear doesn't work. The other channel gives you anxiety. The other channel gives you faith is the only channel that brings down bounty and blessings. And this is where our sages are always telling us, "Serve God, even the Chabad." What is Chabad? What is Chabad?
Say the about time you says, think good and it will be good. Because the arousal, that means the solution is already there, you just have to bring it down. This is according to Revelation, you take a prediction. So you already have David Hawkins, you already have this, you have that. What is Rebnochman saying in Lesson 62 and wisdom? About the power of visualization. He tells us human thought has tremendous potential. Thoughts can even bring many things like inflation. Look at that. If I would tell you, you just read the book. This book is 250 years ago. The first line he says, thoughts can even bring so much things like inflation. They didn't have Biden back then. Instead, 200 years ago, I could show you the past. Read the book called Wisdom. Read page 162. It's exactly what it says. Even inflation. We could have actually created inflation from our fear. Unbelievable. When thoughts are intensely concentrated, it creates great influence. Every faculty of the mind, both conscience and unconscious, down to the innermost point, must be focused without distraction. So there he's telling you here. By the way, if you want to throw whatever you want to get there. If you're distracted, if you're not focused, if you're not focused, both unconscious, conscious, it's not going to work. Tonight you're explaining why you have to replace something over and over. Russian athletes, before they even did the Olympics, they would rehearse winning. Because the research is, is when you rehearse something so much, it becomes part of you. So if you're there with like a-- if you're trying to lose 25 pounds, and you're trying to imagine yourself throwing a cheesecake party after you lose a 25-- and you're holding a Snickers bar on your left hand, that's not-- you can't manifest when you're holding a Snickers bar, and you're trying to manifest losing 25 pounds. You have to hold a salary stake or something. You almost have to already live-- you have to live the part. You have to live the part. But what is it telling you when thought is intended to concentrate, create great influence? Every faculty of the mind has to be. Do this. When many people do this, their thoughts can actually force something to fake place. To accomplish this, the concentrated thought must spell out in every detail and every desire result in detail. You know what I'm saying? I was from not from telling us here. So when I was throwing the cheesecake party, I was already thinking what supermarket I'm getting it, what type of cheesecake? I was so obsessed with the details, blueberry, this, that who cares what? Because I was so obsessed with the Yeshua, it almost packaged. It was almost like watching a movie. I almost co-created that event. It was a very powerful thing to do that. It was very powerful. But in order to do this, you have to rehearse. Because sometimes we can't see it because we don't believe it. And that's where our lives is. I want to believe it. Then I'll see it. I'm sorry. I want to see it. Then I'll believe it. No, no, no, no. That's not-- remember, you need the ability to take your mind already past the problem. That is where the test is. Look what he's saying here. Every detail. So when you're doing a party, so that's where you're going to get the cheesecake, how many you're going to get the cheesecake? Be obsessed with the details. Be obsessed with the details of where you're going to get it, how, et cetera, where you're going to do it, how many people now, Burech Hashem, my new cheesecake party is on my new extension. That looks like right now a disaster with all these contractors. So now I really am already picturing the cheesecake party, exactly where I'm going to throw it, how many. Because any time you get frustrated, it puts you back into-- it puts the brakes on everything. So you need constant-- you need more gas. So you need to go back into that place. The reason why is because when you get frustrated, usually people, when they get frustrated, they abort the missions at a frustration. But Nachman tells us this black and white. He tells us this in less than 18. Tells us this is that the hardest thing from making potential to actual is the frustration and anger. And if you can control the patience, you're going to end up getting it. You can also make the same use of your studies. You can focus on something so strong it becomes true. For example, let's say you want to study, what did you do? Where Nachman was able to already program, he already pictured himself doing four pages of this, five pages of this, seven pages of this. Imagine before you walk into the day, you already have a vivid picture of what you're going to do. Now tell me if that's not discipline. Instead of waking up, where's the coffee, where's the espresso, what time is it? You got pajamas in your head. You just got up like you've been on vacation for two years. He was already programmed. Now, obviously we all get up like that, but then you have to get into that zone. We all get up like that, but you have to get up into the zone. The nights that I wanted to wake up exactly at Hathout, it would have to be envisioned the night before. You can just wake up into that hour. You have to do a lot of training before to get what you want. And if you can't visualize things in life, it's because there's an unworthiness, there's a little self-esteem that you have to deal with and you have to let that go. It's not that it doesn't work, it's the story you're telling yourself and the amount that you don't believe in it. And if you don't believe in it, you cannot bring things down. Very simple, but Ramnafam tells you here, let's say 62, says, "If you want to focus on money, you can actually have money come to you." Even says the word money. He even says the word money. This is sources from Ramnafam 250 years ago. So let's talk about now how to practically do it. Again, the whole point of this is to anchor your mind where you're going through a stressful situation. Our job is to focus on what we want to happen, not what we don't want to happen. Fear makes you focus on what you don't want to happen. Trust makes you focus on what you want to happen. But in Munah, it's a place you go to. It's not something you have or you don't have. It's a place you go to. Place of calmness. Be to home, a place of calmness. These are places you go to. So when I am in a cheesecake party and I'm visualizing it, I'm in Munah. I'm already in that higher state of conscious where I see everything is good, et cetera. You also have to recognize sometimes God gives us challenges. It's not even what you get. It's who you become. You should be more excited about the fact that you have a new tool in order to get out of any stressful situation than about the cheesecake party itself. Now I was more excited about, oh my God, I have the greatest tool in the world. I have the power to take my mind where I want to take it. And I'm not going to be stuck by reality, whatever happens. I have the greatest tool in the world. And when I don't, when it doesn't work, and when I see it's weak, there's a problem. Like with my son, I couldn't get it. Couldn't get it. It was not working. I tried, I tried, it wasn't working. Sometimes in Heaven there's been, but I couldn't get it. I couldn't get it. I wasn't normally, I can get into that state really quick. Rob Cheneydeb and Doza says, how does he know that his prayers were answered? When the prayers came out of his mouth with energy, with fluid, with like, they were very, they were easy. They came out. They came out. And the ones that were not answered is the ones that it couldn't barely get them out. So we know this concept. The Veruch Akkoda's creates this energy, this light. Some things in Heaven, there's a din. But we can't say 'cause one thing didn't work, I never try again. If you should go 95% on your cheesecake parties, it's pretty good. But what we do today is we take that 1%, that 5%, and it doesn't work. That's the mentality of today. We take the one thing that didn't work. And I saw the difference. I saw the difference. I couldn't get to that space. I normally can get to that space where I see everything clear, couldn't get that space. Couldn't not get to that space. Again, there's things in Heaven that we don't understand. But the bottom line is, we are all co-creators. We are not here to be victims. We are not here to walk around with anxiety all day long. We're not here to walk around with sadness and depression all day long. We are here to be co-creators. And in order to create, you need to have something. Obviously, Nessayon, the word Nessayon, means a test. In order to have a Ness, you have to go through the Nessayon. Nessayon is a test. Test. And the miracle is the miracle itself. So start visualizing, look at the situation you're under. Start visualizing the best case scenario. And start rehearsing where you would have this party, who you would invite to the party. How many cheesecakes? Start getting into the obsession. And start training this. Do start doing this 5 to 10 minutes a day with music. Close your eyes, get into a good place, get into a place of Sinh-ha. And it's going to be hard for you, you're going to see. And the amount of resistance that you have getting to that space is showing you the amount of doubt that you have in your life. And fear. That means if you can get there right away, you've already surrendered a lot of doubt and belief. But you're going to see the beginning of this. It's almost like a. you have to see what comes up. Why can't I get into that space? And then you're going to see. Because you have fear. You have guilt. You don't believe you deserve it. It's never worked out for you. So there's a lot of stuff that comes up. The reason why we want to do this is because you're recognized, "Hey, what's coming up? Why can't I envision things? Do I have a, do I not believe that my creator wants to give me?" Like, I don't have those things when I envision. I go, I go, "I picked a target." I said, "We're hitting it. We're hitting that target. We're hitting that target." I know the formula. So you need to understand that. You have to, in the beginning, it's going to be a little difficult for you to get to that space. It's because of this accumulation, just the same thing. How in the world can you get married so quickly? That person is, think about two people that get married quickly. They've surrendered a lot of guilt. They've surrendered a lot of doubt. They have higher doubt. But think about people that have a hard time getting committing. There's a lot of fear there. There's a lot of uncertainty there. There's a lot of questions whether it's going to work out. So like we said, many times, when you get rid of the resistance behind the question, the answers come up. Same thing. When she starts seeing, get rid of all the schmutz and getting rid of all these things and the issues that you have, get rid of them and then you're going to be able to go in there. And now once you have the more you practice something, like there's a concept that if you practice something 10,000 hours, you become like an expert in the same thing with this. You're able to go into this visualization very quickly. I recommend the same. I recommend find your favorite song. It should be a positive song. Now I got 99 problems. The instant, don't put J.Z. when you're visualizing something with caducia. Put a very nice song. If you want to get married, visualize yourself getting married. And now let's take that example. Let's say you're not married. You want to get married. So would you visualize at the wedding having five cheesecakes and celebrating with everybody. Picture yourself celebrating with everybody and adding five, telling the caterer. I need five cheesecakes on my table. And if you want to even get to a greater, even more obsessive, practice the speech you're going to give on how this happened through that. That means the more details and the more crazy you get into the situation, you're already there. So when somebody, when you go on a bad date, you're going to, you're not going to be upset because you're going to say, I know it's going to happen. It's just a matter of time. Nothing will upset you in the details. I mean, practice the speech. You would say at the wedding, I'm going to throw a wedding. This is how you this happened. I heard a class from Gidalia. He told me about the cheesecake. I started practicing 15 minutes a day and I started practicing exactly what I was going to say. And you're actually going to say that exact exact speech. When you're doing this, basically you're starving fear because fear has no place when there's, when you're very envisioned. There's no place. There's no place to get you. Remember, there's a concept in life called fallen fears. Fallen fears make things happen. All problems are not telling us less than 154 that all problems in our life come from fallen fears. That we've given energy to things that are not godliness. And those things have now have jurisdiction and put this on us. So the right way to do this is by literally say, but the bride in the wedding, she's going to have five cheesecakes. She's going to start practicing her speech. She's going to practice a song and she's going to do it. She's going to publicize the miracle of Amuna. That's how you do this. You could take this with business. I've done this with again, I've done this with insurance things. I've done this with a situation in New York with my insurance. Next thing, you know, I celebrate it. I'm constantly celebrating the solution. And you're giving the other thing is you're giving energy to Amuna. You're bringing down the salvation as they're already. All you're doing is bringing it down, bringing it down is believing it. According to our lovely district, from now on since you have to picture it. Again, through joy you will go out. For I've been ruse is telling you all day long, say thank you for your problems. There's a source behind all of this because the whole point is anything in spirituality, it's the same rule. You have to already put yourself in the place where you want. And that attracts it. It's exactly what Kabbalah is. So above is below. Dove in Amalach. Right? God is your shadow. They treat you exactly the way you vibrate. To mention help us all. So you could do this with any pick a trigger, pick something that's happening in your life that you're that's struggling financially, whether it could be a new home that you're you want to buy a new house. You want to see yourself in the bigger house. And you want to see with more room and more able to do this. But it has to be from a place of joy. Cannot be from a place of sadness and depression. Remember joy is the batteries for this all of this. It cannot be from a place of if I don't get this I'm going to be sad. That's why it's not working. Joy is is prophecy or say just tell us black and white. A person will only get prophecy if he's in a state of joy. This is a part you you need you you have to understand the rules. So this is why Ramachman made the emphasis of borrowing happiness. Faith it to you make it. Do whatever you can. Just get your mind out of your limited mind sense. Get your mind out of Egypt. I want to take you out of it. But you have to believe you're going to get it. What was the what was the problem with Egypt? 80% of the Jews did not even believe in it. They didn't believe in it. They got stuck in Egypt. They'd rather be institutionalized. They got they didn't believe in it. It was not a the doors were opened. The gates were open but they didn't believe in it. God to help us that we were getting to such a point where I have these immature belief systems. My wife has used this believer not. She's used this visualization. She told me I know and I'm a witness to it. She told me she was going to have twins. She had twins. She told me she was going to open up two stores in Vegas in the Caesar's palace and the Caesar's palace and I told her you're out of your mind. How are you going to open up two stores in Vegas? Next thing you know two stores in Vegas. She told me she was going to open up a clothing line where she's going to sell to celebrities and etc. She opened up. I mean I've seen it black and white. The simplicity of this manifestation. I mean I've seen it. I've seen it my own eyes. So let's anchor our minds where we want to go. I have another big cheesecake party. God willing planning. God soon on my book wants to get going. But you need fuel in order to get to pure put your imagination in the right place. And if we stop if we don't have any fuel that means we're not we're not aggressive enough. We're not aggressive enough. So again picture that any item you want in your life or any construction that you're going to first put your creators apart and ruin it. Be grateful for the challenge. Very important. The attitude has to be I'm grateful for the situation. I can't be I'm throwing a cheesecake party but I'm angry with God. That doesn't work because that doesn't act that doesn't agree that doesn't get you into a monomote. That doesn't get you into manifestation mode. That gets you into fixed this problem. Imagine telling God I'm angry with you. Now I'm going to throw a cheesecake party and fix it. That is not going to work. Can I come from a place of anger? It cannot be come from a place of depression. You know what I mean first you have to clear out the mess. Just pretend you're in a construction site. You have a broken house. First what do we need to do? demolish the house clear out the mess build a new one. You can't build a new house if there's a house that's broken in the middle. That's what you need to do in your mind. demolish the mess that's in there that's created clean it out and go into rebuilding. It's exactly like a construction project. And now picture it picture it picture it picture it picture it the more you do it the more it is sometimes the goal state more but the more you rehearse it the more it will come true because you're not giving energy to the other stuff. Imagine help us all I want to see I'm now I have to start visualizing tons of tons of of of people sending me emails of cheesecake parties and Facebook posts of cheesecake parties etc that's the next thing I need to vision in my mind because again when you focus on something that can make it control that can make it control and what we're doing is we're bringing more moon into the world right now the world needs more moon now because if you look in the world you walk outside everything's a mess everything's a mess you can't even take your kid to watch that movie with the toy story. Shamir Khem I can't even take my kid to a movie because there's a scene in there even they can't even Disney you can't even use your imagination anymore for guys goodness sake even Disney we thought Buzz Light was at least we can at least we can lose our imagination to the Buzz Light. Can't even do that now. Shamir Khem God help us oh yeah yeah God help us but again let's begin the parties but remember guys if there's a big mess clean out the mess first let go of all these little unconscious guilt let go of the anger towards God let go of this this could be the first obstacle on getting building that house you have to clear the land clear the land have a great day
Podcast Summary
Key Points:
Cheesecake parties are a modern application of the ancient Jewish concept of a *Sudat Hoda* (meal of thanksgiving), used to anchor one's mind during difficult times.
The speaker invented the practice during a stressful IRS audit of seven companies, visualizing a successful outcome with a specific song to trigger positive emotions and cope with fear.
The method is rooted in sources like the Gemara (Berachot 63a), which states that making God a partner in distress doubles one's livelihood, and the Kabbalistic principle of "through joy you will go out" (Isaiah 55:12).
Key ideas include transforming problems into opportunities, using joy and faith to draw salvation from the future into the present, and avoiding a victim mindset by co-creating with God.
The speaker emphasizes that faith, simplicity, and surrender of unconscious guilt or low self-esteem are essential for the practice to work, citing both Jewish texts and modern concepts like the placebo effect.
Summary:
The speaker explains cheesecake parties as a practical tool rooted in Jewish tradition for anchoring the mind during crises. The concept originates from the *Sudat Hoda* (meal of thanksgiving), which sages advised after problems resolve, but the speaker innovated by using a specific anchor—cheesecake and a song—to visualize a positive outcome *before* the problem ends. This method was developed during a stressful IRS audit of seven companies, where the speaker repeatedly imagined celebrating with cheesecake to a chosen song, thereby coping with panic and manifesting a successful resolution.
The practice is supported by several sources: a Gemara in Berachot 63a promising doubled livelihood to those who make God a partner in distress; the Kabbalistic idea that joy facilitates spiritual elevation and redemption; and the principle that faith draws salvation from the future into the present. The speaker argues that challenges are tests of free will, meant to transform victims into co-creators. " Key to success is surrendering doubt, low self-esteem, and a stingy view of God, adopting instead an abundant perspective.
The cheesecake party serves as a tangible anchor, redirecting energy from fear to trust, and has been applied by the speaker and others to various life challenges, from financial loss to health crises, with reported positive outcomes.
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A cheesecake party is a personal celebration of thanksgiving (Sudat Hoda) where you anchor your mind on a positive outcome during a difficult situation. It's a tool to shift from fear to trust by visualizing and celebrating the best-case scenario.
The speaker invented it during a stressful seven-company IRS audit. He visualized having a cheesecake party with a specific song to cope with stress and manifest a positive result, which eventually worked out.
It helps you focus on trust and the best-case scenario instead of fear, preventing fear from manifesting. By repeatedly visualizing success and using music to evoke emotion, you anchor your mind in salvation rather than panic.
It's based on a Gemara in Brachot 63a that says anyone who makes Heaven a partner in distress will have their livelihood doubled. It also draws on the verse 'Through joy you will go out' (Isaiah 55:12) and the idea of faith as a channel for blessings.
Choose a specific celebration (like eating cheesecake) and a song. During a challenge, repeatedly visualize the best-case outcome while playing the song, smiling, and feeling gratitude as if the problem is already solved.
Joy is essential because it elevates holiness and helps nullify negative forces. By embracing joy ahead of a situation, you take the feminine aspect of God out of exile and align with the principle that through joy you will go out.
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