How to Quantum Leap...Using Neuroscience.

Welcome back to the Infinite Woman podcast. Today we are talking about something that I used to talk shit about. Okay, I'm just gonna be real. I used to talk shit about people who said quantum leaping. You can find me talking shit about if you scroll back far enough into my threads. If you scroll back far enough into my feed, you can see me talking some shit queen. Okay, I was very skeptical for a while. Because as you know, if you've ever listened to this show before, I went from all masculine all the way into way, way, way feminine, and then kind of swung back into the masculine until I finally sort of found my home in between and realized you actually need both the masculine and the feminine. You need the strategy and the science and the spirituality and the energetics all fucking out once. But I was a hardcore shit talker when it came to quantum leaping, collapsing time. All these phrases that the energetics beuses. But I realize now looking back that what really warranted the shit talking was people who are teaching these things incorrectly. And people who are teaching these things while being uninformed. But today I'm gonna teach you how to quantum leap using neuroscience, legitimate brain science with how your brain rewires, how reality changes, with of course a side of the magical parts of life, faith, incredible divine things. That just there's no other way it could be anything but God. But also we are still a human who has a brain that works a certain way. So we are gonna talk quantum leaping today, but not like, you know, just think positive way. I don't fucking know, just that's not me. Okay. But it is possible to collapse time. It is possible to quantum leap, quantum jump, whatever people are calling it these days. The quantum field is real. I did not use to believe that it was, but it is. And I have literally quantum leaped quantum leaped, whatever it is, like a motherfucker this year. Okay. So here's my receipts around this time last year. I believe I was sitting around 15K in sales. Now what's worth noting is around this time last year, I was like a hundred months pregnant. Okay. I was pregnant as fuck. I was about to give birth. My due date was May 19th. And it is currently the day that you're listening to this as May 1st. Happy Fab is Fuck Friday. So that is worth noting. I was kind of scaling back because honestly at my core, I was like, I don't really know if I can do a ton of these sales while also, you know, like having a baby. You know, no biggie. So I think I was sitting at like 15K for the year. This year, I am sitting over $130,000, $135,000. And it is April at the time I'm recording this. So I don't believe that that is a normal amount of growth. That is not just strategy optimization, or here's this five step thing. Okay. But what I want to say before we talk about how to actually leverage quantum leaping is that the way it is taught in the online space is missing the entire fucking point. Okay. I am in full belief of that. Your ability to shift into a completely different reality faster than anything that logic, quote unquote, logic, could explain. I don't give a fuck about logic. Okay. But here's where people get it twisted because a lot of people are out here thinking that quantum leaping is about like, oh, just think positive or I just need to say affirmations. Or if I just detach and don't think about it, it'll happen. And like if that were true, then anyone with a Pinterest account would have every single thing on their Pinterest board or boards. But that's not how it is. So what's really missing in the way that quantum leaping is taught is that first of all affirmations are ways to be your time unless you have a huge emotional connection to them. And I am happy to do an episode on that. I will stand ten toes down on talking shit about affirmations. And thinking the right thoughts is only half of the equation because your brain is not the only thing running the show. It is your conscious mind, your subconscious mind, and your body altogether. And here is the truth that I wish I had known years ago, years and years ago would have saved me a lot of ups and downs, lots of income rollercoaster, and honestly a lot of contemplating like living off-grid with goats instead of selling my shit on Instagram. And the truth is you cannot quantum leap into a reality your nervous system doesn't feel safe in. Okay. That's it. That's really what you need to know before we get into it today. That is all because your brain's job and your nervous system's job is not to make you successful. It is not to jump timelines. It is not to have insane results. Your brain's job is to keep you safe. Chill where it's familiar, where it's safe, where it's comfy comfort zone, and to avoid anything that feels scary. And guess what? If you're going to quantum leap, it's going to fucking feel scary bitch. It's not going to feel live laugh love the whole time. It's going to feel scary. It's going to feel like a threat. Why? Because it's going to require more of you and it's going to require more visibility and growth and doing things outside of your comfort zone. Because if you are doing things outside of your comfort zone, that means your identity is shifting. Your identity is not shifting if you're comfortable all the time. If you feel great all the time and you are a high vibe all the time, hate to break it to you queen, you're not growing. Your identity is staying firmly planted in the same fucking place. And that is exactly why so many people get stuck and they wonder what the fuck is going wrong. And all of a sudden when things start to seem like they're working out, one thing goes well, right? Like one client comes in or we start to gain a little traction on our posts. Maybe we're getting a little bit of a following. All of a sudden it goes away because you procrastinate it or you were overthinking the shit out of something so you just didn't do it. You're just burnt the fuck out because you went too hard and then you pull back and you're like what the fuck just happened. Your nervous system pumped the brakes is what happened. It was not anything to do with literally any circumstance. It was your capacity. And so if you want to quantum leap, it is nervous system expansion and capacity expansion. That is the missing piece. Yes, shift your mindset. Of course, shift the way that you're thinking. Duh, that's like, hello. Have you ever listened to the show before? Duh. But I had to change what my body believed about success, what my subconscious mind believed about success. I had to stop thinking that I was going to burn the fuck out and oh my god, what if I can't handle it? And all this mind drama shit. I had to stop worrying about like anything that was required of me and not allow anything like that to scare the shit out of me. Or even if it did scare the shit out of me, I could be like, well, it's still safe. It is still safe for my shit to be seen by more people. It is still safe. If people disagree with me on the internet, it's safe. It is safe to work a little more and put in more effort for something that you give a fuck about. That doesn't mean you're going to be burned out. And I had to stop allowing my fears that my body remembered from the past to hold me back. Because every single time I got close, my nervous system was like, absolutely not. We're not doing that again. And I had to cut that shit out, frankly. So what really got out, got me out of that loop of like, okay, we're winning and then we're losing and then we're winning and then we're losing. I had to rewire the experience that I was having. So every single time growth was happening before I would get stressed the fuck out, scared of her not. I would go, go, go, and then I would hate my life and be so exhausted. I had to become the version of me who wasn't doing that, who could feel safe making more money, but also being more responsible for more clients, who could organize things, who could accept more support from my team so that I could actually handle things. And that is what changed everything. So I want to talk about like the process now of how to actually quantum leap using neuroscience because it is real. And it is honestly kind of simple. It's a process, but it's not like this complicated thing. So I've kind of broken it down for you into about five stages. And this is a direct reflection of my neuro manifestation method. This is what I teach and set my programs, but this is a boil down version specifically for quantum leaping. Implement this and then come back and think me later. So the first thing you need to do is you need to recognize what you actually want and why. I had to deepen my purpose for the money that I wanted to make and I also had to get fucking real about what I wanted. I don't like water down like, oh, this seems realistic like no bitch. I want to make fuck you money and raise my baby at the same time. I want to be here for my clients and also not treat my body like shit. I want to sleep at night. I want to eat well. I want to love my life. I want to have a great marriage. Like, I had lots of specific things that I wanted and why. And the reason this is important is because your brain needs a clear target. Not to mention in just energetic teaching. Like, if you say, oh, I just want to make more money. Okay, well, if you find a fucking quarter on the ground, that's more money. You need to get real and get clear and get specific. So once you have that down path, perfect. We know what we want. What is your body and brain going to think about getting this? What's the problem going to be? You have to identify and anticipate what the fucking problem is going to be. So if it's going to come up like, oh, but I'll burn out or I won't be able to handle it. People are going to judge me. Oh, my God. I won't be able to handle that much money. I'll just spend it all. Okay, that's your mindset block and your energetic block and your nervous system block. It's blocking you. Okay, it's cock blocking you from what you want. And this is gold because this is what a lot of people don't understand about themselves. They don't know their own patterns. They don't actually know to anticipate what their nervous system and their subconscious mind is going to think is happening in a negative way when good shit starts to happen. And when you can learn to identify and anticipate what this sort of like wound is going to behave like when you learn how to do that, bitch, the fucking world opens up for you. Okay, because then comes the next phase, which is rewiring. Okay, you have to teach your brain. It's safe here now. We can do this. We can handle this shit. We're good. We're Gucci. And this happens through repetition. That is how the brain rewires. You have to regulate and we're getting to this next, especially, and you have to create new experiences. This is why I hate shit like affirmations like affirmations don't actually create change in your brain unless you have a huge emotional connection and you also take action accordingly. Because you need actual embodied evidence for your brain to think that anything is different about your identity. Otherwise, it's just thinking happy thoughts. That's nice. How lovely. Nothing's going to change for you. Okay, maybe it feels nice in the moment, but long term change is not going to happen and then you're going to go around talking shit about manifestation when the problem is actually you. Okay? Love you. Sorry. That was a little spicy, but I mean it with with love. So after that, after you rewire and you teach your brain like, work a girl. Okay, we don't need a sabotage. This good shit. We can relax. It's okay. This is where regulation and expansion go hand in hand. And this is kind of a multi-pronged situation. We're going to say two parts here. The first thing is going to regulate while you're expanding. This means that when shit starts to pick up for you. Okay? And more clients are coming in. More money is coming in. You are able to ground yourself in growth. You are able to normalize more money, more responsibility, more visibility. And you can let it feel safe for your body and your brain to have more of this. You're teaching your brain and body like it's cool to expand. We can experience this without losing our shit. We can't experience this and everything's going to be okay while we do it. So that's part one and part two is to increase your capacity for what you can maintain. And what I mean by that is there are going to be things that challenge you. And can you actually handle it? Because I talked about this today actually with my penthouse queens. That's my mastermind. And my penthouse queens and I were talking about how the depth of which you can handle shit hitting the fan. And the depth of which you can handle what may feel chaotic at times inside your business, more clients, more things, more programs, whatever. That is the depth at which you can handle the good shit too. It's a mirror. So if you can manage shit hitting the fan, if you can have duality when shit hitting the fan near personal life, but business is great or vice versa, if you can manage more clients coming on and keeping organized there, the depth of good shit that you get to experience and have is going to explode. But that comes from increased capacity. So it's not just like, oh, I can bust my ass. Blah blah blah. No, it's like, I've worked my muscles. My capacity muscles to be able to do more without even feeling like I'm busting my ass. That's what capacity is. So that is my basically quantum leaping 101 for you. And I really just want to encourage you. If you listen to nothing else, please just hear me when I say this. If you are taking manifestation advice, that's just like, just, you know, stay positive, stay high vibe. And you're like sitting there doing everything right and whatever and you're wondering when nothing is working, it is because they're not actually teaching you genuine manifestation. They're not. They're teaching you whatever regurgitated bullshit they read on the internet or heard from someone else. And that simply is not how it works. But if you want a legitimate process for quantum leaping for manifestation of any kind, especially money manifestation, it is real. Quantum leaping is real. I have lived it. And I'm living it now and you absolutely can shift your reality faster than feels logical. But you have to do it in the way that I teach it, which is including your brain and body in the equation. You work with your subconscious mind with your nervous system, you rewire your identity, you expand your capacity, you regulate your nervous system, and you become the version of you who is able to create insane, limitless realities for herself and doesn't have to freak the fuck out along the way. So if you loved this episode, please feel free to leave me a little review, follow me on Instagram @carlygriner would love to have you. And of course, join six figure summer where you're going to master quantum leaping into your 100K self. You can DM me the word summer on Instagram, that is the way to get in on it. And if you tell me that you came from the Infinite Woman podcast, I will let you in on the presale pricing, which by today is over. But if you came from the podcast and you want to get in today, queen, I'll let you. So DM me, that's a little podcast perk for you. And with that, my queens, I love you so much. By the time you hear this following episode, I'll be on a cruise ship. So I'll be reporting live from the seas and I cannot wait to talk to you. But in the meantime, hit me up on Instagram and go quantum leap some shit. All right. See ya.