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How to prevent burnout (w/ Master Fixer Guy Winch) | from Fixable

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How to prevent burnout (w/ Master Fixer Guy Winch) | from Fixable

In this episode of Fixable from TED, host Anne Morris interviews psychologist Dr. Guy Winch about work hijacking our lives and leading to burnout. Winch explains that work follows us home through rumination, fantasy arguments, and strained relationships, often without our awareness. A key warning sign is operating on autopilot—just trying to "get through" the day—and feeling exhausted, cynical, and disconnected from passion for your work. He emphasizes that recovery requires more than passive rest; you need recharging activities and a sense of autonomy. Winch advises creating deliberate rituals to transition from work to home mode, such as changing clothes or listening to music, to train your brain to detach. He also recommends short vacations over long ones, arriving rested, and using anticipation and documentation to triple the pleasure of time off. Ultimately, he urges people to nurture parts of their identity beyond work to build resilience against burnout. The conversation underscores that while systemic issues matter, individuals have significant personal agency to manage stress and reclaim their lives.

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Happy Sunday! Happy Sunday! Elise, you here. Today we're bringing you a Sunday pick, where we share an episode of another podcast from Ted and picked by us for you. Do you feel like work is taking over your life? Today we're sharing an episode of Fixable to dig into something we all face. Burn out. Guy Witch is a psychologist and author of the book Mind Over Grind. How to Break Free When Work hijacks Your Life. In this episode, host Anne Morris sits down with Guy while they're both at Ted 2026 to discuss the insidious ways work can follow you home and how to set boundaries to avoid burnout. They dig into the harmful effects of after hours' rumination, share practical rituals to help you separate work from the rest of your life, and offer tips on how to take a truly restorative vacation. Whatever you're dealing with at work, Fixable is there to help offering actionable insights to create meaningful change in your life and workplace. Listen to Fixable wherever you get your podcasts, and if you have a problem you want fixed, you can call their hotline at 234 Fixable. That's 234-349-2253 to leave Anne and Frances a voicemail with your workplace problem. Learn more about all of Ted's podcasts at podcast. Ted.com. Now onto the episode right after a quick break. Welcome everyone. I'm Anne Morris and this is Fixable. This is the show where we tackle the problems that work that seem, uh, unfixable. Problems like burnout. There was a time when work was a place we went to. Now work follows his home, crawls into bed with us, and hijacks our minds. Today's master fixer believes we aren't just working too hard. We're letting our jobs hold our lives hostage. There's some strong language ahead folks and for good reason. Dr. Guy Winch is a psychologist, a best-selling author, and the man behind three TED Talks with over 35 million views. His latest book is Mind Over Grind. We recorded this conversation at the TED conference in Vancouver, the birthplace of big ideas and some of your favorite TED Talks. Guy and I sat down to deconstruct the autopilot state that leads to burnout, the specific brain hacks that can recharge your battery and why leadership's greatest responsibility isn't quarterly profits. It's protecting the human beings behind the work. Let's dive in. Guy, welcome to Fixable. Please save us from ourselves. Thank you for having me. I want to start with this idea of work hijacking our lives, which is such a vivid framing of the problem. How do I know if work has hijacked life? What does it look and feel like in practice when this happens? Some of it we know, but a lot of it we don't realize that's what's actually going on. For example, when you come home after a very challenging difficult day at work because this irritating thing happened and that frustrating thing happened and that really stressful thing happened, it's going to be very natural for you to ruminate about it, to brood about it, to dwell about it, to replay certain things after work when you're home to have fantasy arguments about telling someone off and all the mic drop moments you envision having, which you will never have because you're not going to do it. But that can take hours out of our evening. That's one of the ways work will hijack our thoughts. For example, there's research to chose it if one person is very stressed at work, their partner can develop symptoms of burnout. One of the ways work will hijack our relationships. Work also hijacks our leisure, our coping mechanisms, our emotional intelligence on and on and on. Tell me some of the warning signs to look for in ourselves and our loved ones. One of the warning signs to look for in yourself at work, for example, is do you approach your very difficult work days of, I need to get through it. This is the day I need to get through. You just put your head down on autopilot and you go from task to task to task, you're not actually thinking in any deliberate or intentional way about, well, how do I manage this day? How do I build in some actual useful breaks, non-useful ones, i.e. social media? So that's one thing, when you just feel like days that you have to get through weeks, periods, entire periods you have to get through, that's a warning sign. When you get home and you're not really present, you're checked out, you really have trouble switching off or the opposite thing and that all you can think to do is I need to veg out for 45 hours because I'm drained. Let me just plot myself on a couch and binge screens for however long. That's another sign that something is going wrong because that's not a very helpful thing to do. Why is that not just recovery from a hard days work? Because. How do I know when it tips into this idea of burnout? Well, first of all, those are two different questions. One or also one at a time. Please. Recovery, actually, the science of how to recover from the workday is a little bit more than just resting. That's one component and there are two others that you really need to hit. Resting will prevent your batteries from being depleted further, but it won't recharge them. You actually have to do an activity that you find to personally recharging. None of those happen on a couch. Unless we get a little bit more creative with the couch. Yeah, it's not happening. Yes, you can get creative with the couch and those are recharging things that can happen. But other than those, most things you need to do in a way that the kinds of activities you feel like doing that, but when you force yourself, you come back with a second wind because they actually recharge you. The third thing that you need to feel autonomy like you are in control of your time. And again, if you're mindless on a couch watching screens, you're likely to wake up feeling tired the next day. Burnout is a different thing that we can talk about. Yeah, I want to get to the definition and then we're going to get to some solutions. So you described kind of an autopilot mode at work. I'm coming home. I'm not reconnecting with the people that I love. Are there any other signs I should look out for? Yes. The way you feel about your job. If it was exciting, interesting, meaningful, engaging, it's not anymore, you're so overlaid them that you just want to get through it. You numb out to those sensations and those feelings that actually kept us motivated and going and made it exciting and something that we wanted to do. This is especially difficult for people who are very passionate about what they do because you lose the passion and then they're questioning what they're doing. It's the burnout. They've lost the touch, they've become numb to it. The main feature is this feeling of exhaustion, fatigue, you just feel tired and you feel cynical towards what you're doing and a good night's rest isn't going to do it. Even a weekend's rest, if you can get it, is not going to do it. There's something burnt out. I got burnt out in year one after one year of my profession. Somebody who's an early achiever and wants to achieve quick, I achieved burnout quick, for sure. The thing is, I felt like I'd been doing it for 30 years. This was your first year of practicing as a psychologist. Yes, and I thought like I'd been doing it for 40 years. I felt like I'm just going to the office again, more of this. I had just started. I was living the dream that I wanted to have for sort of, I lost all sentiment for it because I was so burnt out, jaded, exhausted. What I'm feeling that story and what I'm in touch with is that you have made such an extraordinary contribution to the world. The cost of leaving you in that state is a high cost for you and it's a high cost for the rest of us. Absolutely. I really question. Have you tried to quantify this at all, the kind of the stakes of this phenomenon for the world? Look, I don't know. I haven't done the research in terms of the numbers globally, but I've worked with so many people who are questioning, am I in the right? Am I doing the right thing? And they were doing important work and actually people who are doing really important work tend to get burnt out because it's important because they keep saying yes, because they really want to help and they want to do something meaningful. They're much more at risk for this burnout and then they start questioning, does it matter what I'm doing? Yes, it does, but you need to take care of yourself in order to keep going. When this subject traditionally comes up, we are quick to blame systems and organizations and the leaders of those systems. One thing I love about your message is you are also pointing out that we have a tremendous amount of personal agency too. So with the power and agency I do have, what is my first, if I suspect I might be in the state that you're describing, coach me through it, what's my first step? How do I think about pulling myself out of this? I want to be clear with people that I work with a lot of the employers, with the founders, with the CEOs, they're not having a great time. Many of them are also burnt out. Yeah, they're also burnt out. I mean, it's not like, oh, we don't work and we make a, they're working just as hard or more. So they're also very vulnerable to this. But one of the things that we need to catch is that when we are stressed out, the bell curve of how we deal with stress and performance is such that it goes the more stress we have, we start to perform better because if there's not enough, we don't have skin in the game, the stakes are low, we don't try as hard. There's this Goldilocks area. I love that. You know, in which kind of like the stress is just right for us to perform it our best without getting exhausted or the text. So once we pass that area, then we start to mismanage the stress. Then we start to make things worse for ourselves. We start the self-sufficiency. sabotage. We don't take the breaks we need to do. We don't recover well. We don't switch off. Is that because we're in that autopilot state where we're not making good decisions? Because when we're very stressed out, we need to allocate a lot of our mental and emotional resources towards handling the stress so we don't experience it in the moment. So our emotions don't flood us. So we don't become dysregulated. That leaves less left over with which to do our jobs. We start making mistakes. We start deferring to automatic coping mechanisms that just, you know, those are the ones that are going to tell you, oh, you have five minutes. You should look at social media. That will be the right thing to do. It is not. But that's what your unconscious mind is going to tell you. And your point, if I'm hearing you correctly, is that we actually don't have the cognitive bandwidth in that state to solve this problem. We don't have the awareness that we need to disengage the autopilot. If we knew what to do, we could actually take a moment. It takes five minutes before a day to look at your day and schedule like, here's what I need to do here. Here's what I need to do there. Here's this will be fun to do. That'll help me recover from that. It takes five minutes. We don't have the awareness. We just want to keep going. But our cognitive and all our abilities start going knee down the hill during the day. And then, you know, we're much less effective. We start to make mistakes from as less creative, less productive. So it's not a smart way to manage ourselves, but it's the autopilot way. So I let's imagine a world where I feel myself getting pulled in. It's it almost feels like a grab like a gravitational force that you're describing. I feel this happening. What is my first move? First move is understand that you need to put on a self-management hat. You need to have a role in your head of let me figure out how to manage myself and manage the stress and take a few minutes from my day, from my evening, the day before, the night before, from the morning to to strategize how to get through this specific day to figure out how to recover well when I'm at home to really prioritize my life. When talk about work life balance, people always say, "Oh, I added an hour of yoga." And I'm like, "Okay, that's great. I'm all for yoga." But that's not what the life part, the life part means being present and putting the kids to bed and having dinner with your partner and hanging out with your friends, just being present and being able to enjoy that. That's what people start to lose touch with. When you've done this research, what are the decisions that you see people make that have the biggest difference when it comes to burnout? Okay, so first of all, understand that in order to recover from the work day, the first thing that has to happen that you have to detach from work. In other words, if you are thinking about work when you're at home, you're at work. How do I stop thinking about work? Well, first of all, be aware that you need to. Okay. And so I mean, I have a very strict rule when I finish my day, I announce to myself the evening begins and by the way, doesn't have to be exciting at all. But I'm just announcing that the work day is over. So I'm setting up a barrier where I am resistant to the idea of dealing or thinking about work. So first of all, be aware, it's not useful for you to do that once you need some time off. I developed and I suggest developing a ritual to transition from your work mode, which is back already mindset, fight off light of the work day into a relaxed or it can be exciting, but it's not in fight off light. You're not feeling threatened, you're feeling engaged. So that's different. When CEO, I know you should just walk out of his house, walk around the block, come back in and that was his ritual. Great. It's one element. Yeah. Okay. And that's a starting place because what you're the ritual, the goal of the ritual is to train your brain. Our brain is a prediction machine. Yeah. If you can train it to anticipate what's coming next. And if it knows, oh, when you start doing this, I'm supposed to get into home mode. I'm supposed to relax. I'm supposed to re-engage with my family duties, my friend duties, my alone duties, whatever they are. But like that's a different mode. You can teach it. And so you want to involve as many of the senses. Music, sound, music is very evocative. Have the song, have the playlist, change clothes. We are very tactile and clothes are very, but like there's a reason, take off your battle gear. Yeah. There's a reason power suits the call power suits. It's supposed to make you and leisure, where it's supposed to make it feel like once you switch into that, we're in a different mode. You really have to train your brain to come down because when we are activated, we're in fight off light, no one leaves the battle field and switches on a dime. Yeah. And to relax mode, it takes a while. You know, and so you want to train your brain to do that, to see that that's what's coming. So that ritual is very important as well. These are end of day rituals. End of day rituals. What have you seen worked for end of week rituals? End of week rituals. Like, okay. So first of all, what are the things that, you know, the recharging activities and their activities are those so people? Yeah. Like our personal identity becomes shrunken when we're all about work because it's just duty, duty, duty, and we get home and if your parents is duty, duty, duty, where is us? Like, you know, where's the part of you that's funny or goofy or irreverent or whatever the thing is that you don't get to express during the work day, who are the people in your life that bring that out of you? You don't have time for anymore. It's not the people you don't have time for. It's aspects of yourself that you are allowing to with them. And so you want to give oxygen to those parts of yourself of your personality, of your identity, of your life that don't get an expression during the work day. That's what's going to fulfill you. That's what's going to create some kind of resistance to stress and burnout because there's another part of your life that's robust enough. You are not your work. Yes. You're not just your work. It's trying to be devoted to work. Most of us are. But it's not, I say to people, if work was taken away tomorrow, who would you be? Who are you if not work? And a lot of people struggle with that question. It's a massive question. What about longer breaks? How do you incorporate vacation or end of year rituals? How critical is it for me to take my two weeks off? How does this fit into your health science? Well, there's a whole science about vacations, actually. And how to make them restorative. Short vacations are better because the benefits of vacations start to fade after a week. So if you're taking two or three weeks at once, you're kind of missing out on the benefit of it's or shorter vacations are better. But also give some thought to what you need. A lot of people who have young kids are like, I am so burnt out. I'm taking the kids to some kind of theme park. It is. And I'm like, and that's the most stressful stress for you. That's the most stressful three days of my life. I know. That's not the right thing. The five-year-olds are not burnt out. Yeah. You're the one that's burnt out. Now you need to occupy them. But think of both your needs. But the biggest advice I have to people is that get to your vacation rested. Everyone likes to work up until the last hour to get ahead and this. And they get to, I know I was like that I got to take it took me three to four days to relax enough to be in vacation mode. I was still so hyped up and thinking about work. I couldn't enjoy really. I didn't feel relaxed. Now I relaxed a couple of days before I try to end work early, really have restful evenings pack ahead of time. So I don't to do it last minute. And it's amazing when I started doing it. The first day of vacation. I felt rested. I felt rested. I'm like, oh my god, I feel on vacation. And it's day one. It usually takes me half the vacation. Then it's almost over. So you want to really do that. You want to triple dip on vacations. Vacations can give you three times the pleasure. If you get excited about it as anticipate, you know, like get excited about what you're going to do, who you're going to see, where you're going to see, where you're going to go, you know, don't get too much spoilers in. If you're going to the Eiffel Tower, don't look at the panoramic views online. Say to those for yourself, but read some of the history, get excited, get the kids excited about the animals they're going to see in the animal park, whatever the thing is. So get the run up. And our brain interprets anticipation almost as good as the event. So it'll, you'll literally, you'll feel excited, you'll feel, you know, imagine the beach and the quiet and the sea. And you know, you'll literally start feeling calm. Then build in time to document. If you don't, you're going to document instead of being present. I've been to so many places where I see people march in, take pictures and leave another way of what they saw. Why they're there. They didn't get any of the benefit, but they can show to their friends. Schedule it. Yeah. Schedule. Now we want document. Then document. Documentation is important because then when you get back, you can relive the entire thing through that media create little albums. You can print them out. It's not expensive or create them online. But when you do that, two things happen. Number one, you have a great memory. And number two, if you had a headache, it's not going to be in the pictures. You know, if things went wrong with the hotel and you were irritable, you won't see it in the pictures. So we can quickly romanticize what a great picture is. It's not just that. You are relaying down memories. Yeah. That will remember the vacation without those things. You will literally in time forget the headache, the annoying, you know, bus boy, whatever the thing is, and you'll just be like, look how happy I was because you won't see the irritation. So you're curating your memories. I love all of this. Yeah. So take us back to a young doctor of winch. Your first year ends. You suspect something is not right. How did you pull yourself out of that? What happened was I could was my, literally my, my anniversary by first year in my practice, Friday night, get home. And I get in the elevator with a neighbor who was a doctor in an ER. And then elevator starts to rise and then it shutters and stalls between floors. And my neighbor who does deal with emergencies for a living went into a panic and he started hitting all the buttons. There were many and pounding the door and saying, "Oh, this is my nightmare. This is my nightmare." And I look at how many buttons now. I'm going to have to stop. But he's thought what came out of my mouth was and this is my nightmare. And it was funny in my head, but it was so cool. And he looked at me and he was so offended and I realized, "Oh, wow." That was very out of character. out of character when you find yourself, no matter what the situation, doing something that's out of character, be very curious about what's going on because something is going on. And I went home and I was like, what's going on? And I realized I was burnt out. I realized I felt like I've been doing it for so long. I wasn't enjoying it. I was jaded. I was just going through the motions and it was one here. But you can get burnt out very, very quickly. And that's what alerted me. And then I realized, oh wow, I really, really need to make changes. I am way too early in this. It took me a while to really figure out that I still liked it. But the minute I wasn't burnt out, I'm like, oh yeah, I love it. But when I was burnt out, I had no idea what I liked it at all. Today, fast forward, what are the rituals and practices that you rely on now to not become burnt out? I use a brain hack that's stupid. Telling you now, it's stupid. But it really works. Our brains, for some reason, take calendars super seriously. If it's in, if you say it, not so much, but if it's in your calendar, well, it's there. It's very serious. It must mean something. So I will write in my calendar in the evening, what the evening's about. And I'll just use an example of one of which there are no plans. And I'll say watch TV for two hours because you really, you know, binge the show that you really like for two hours and then I'll write, enjoy it. That last part's important. It actually sounds like the opposite of stupid. Okay, well, no, it does work. It's smart in that way. But, you know, like, really, right? Enjoy the TV show. I mean, it feels so. Yeah, yeah. Because when your brain sees it, it's like, oh, I actually have a task. Yeah. I have a thing to do now. Now I know what to do. Because your unconscious mind is like, yeah, let's enjoy it then. You know, and then it's, it's all games. So I use my calendar to direct my unconscious mind, my brain to like, here's what you're doing now. Here's, and I, and you know, be present, enjoy this. And I do a mindfulness exercise almost in everything I do. I did one before I came in to this studio. Like enjoy this podcast. We're at TED 2026. Will you do it with me? Can we do it right now? Yes. Whatever you did. Okay. Yes. Okay. We're at TED 2026. You may. Okay. It will help you. We're at TED 2026. This is our last year in Vancouver. It is a beautiful city. This is a beautiful convention center. This is the start of the week. It's an exciting week. And you're starting with an interview that's going to be really fun for both of us. So be present. Enjoy the interview. This is the kickoff of a really exciting, meaningful week. Did you speak or you just, that was just an internal I did that. I took a minute before, before working in to do it. I always like, and you're just thinking these thoughts. You weren't saying them or you were saying them. I know in my head that people around, you know, the mumbling allowed doesn't always look good. But if there are people around, you know, sometimes I'll say it allowed. Yeah. I work from home. There's a door I can close to the office. That's a little separate from the rest of the home. And so I will literally say evening time. As if I'm announcing an event. Yeah. And they're off, you know, evening time. So good. I announce it. You know, you know, I also announce again, lunch. I, you know, I take short lunches, but I really enjoy them. And I make sure to enjoy them. I don't do work during lunch. I really try and recharge. It's midday. And I have lunches that I like. And I enjoy and I'm like, oh, I'm looking for a lunch, enjoy lunch now. And I have a certain ritual that I do during lunch. I enjoy it. It's going to be 15 minutes. What is the ritual you do during lunch? The word, the spelling bee. Yeah. So, um, and I enjoy it. And it's relaxing and recharging for me. So I look for a lunch. And you will announce lunch. It's a lunchtime guy. I literally announce lunch. I like a battle with a bell in my head. Like, it's awesome. It's a sad kind of situation. Yeah. Yeah. It's so much more exciting that way. I love it. So a lot of people who listen to this show do have some power inside systems. But what is your advice to people who are responsible and do have some power to change the way we work? So, first of all, it's a win-win because the less stress and burnt out your workforces, the more engaged they are, the more loyal and the more productive. And therefore, they will stay longer. You have less retraining, rehiring costs, you know, and all of those things work in your benefit, right? And so you want to be smart about it. Again, our instinct is to think if you just keep going like overworking. If you just, you know, there's research, for example, the shows that when employers or managers are looking at two people who do the same task and end with the exact same product. And one of them stayed 10 hours to do it. And the other did it in the eight hours a lot. They will evaluate the person who needed 10 hours as a better employee because they put in the work. They're less efficient. So, you know, they're not the better employee. So to actually understand that like overworking is not helping. It's helping them get burnt out if that's what you want to do. That's terrific. But it's not really, really helping them. So really putting boundaries around the workday. Putting boundaries around the workday, encouraging breaks within the workday. The companies, for example, who screens go dark every 55 minutes. It's useful. Now, the employees get really annoyed. I was in the middle of something. Like, you know, they're embracing the idea of take the five minutes. Don't just say they're frustrated and reboot, you know, like kind of thing. But because it's useful and we have, you know, two, three or good hours of deep work in us a day, like unless we recover and we charge, it's super important to do. Yeah. Are you watching the pit? Do you know the show? I am. Yeah. What I think it's, I love the show. I do think it's directly how work feels for a lot of people, even who aren't in emergency rooms, that they are good people themselves. They're surrounded by good people, talented people. They're trying to get it right. And they are also at the mercy of forces beyond their control that have a major impact on their experience of work. Does that resonate with you? Yeah, but the thing about the pit that I'm more interested in when they get home, how quickly can they switch off? How much rest do they get? How do they recover from those brutal shifts? Is what really interest me? In an ER, you can't really plan your breaks, you know, unfortunately. And the characters who do the thing of smoking, which is not a good thing to do, but the smoking forces them to go outside and reboot for a minute. They have the excuse, I need to go smoke. I wish other characters will go outside without the cigarette. I think we need it ritual to replace cigarettes because I think that really, they really played that role inside of it. And social also because it's such pariahs unfortunately. You're connected to people. People like, so let me talk to you, even though I don't know you because we have this one thing in common. Now more than ever. Yeah, yeah, yeah. But it forces breaks, you know, and I wish we could do it without cigarettes. Yeah, we do a lot of work in healthcare and head of an ICU nurse came to us the other day. She said, I now have 110, I think, direct reports. A lot of organizations are moving to these flat organizations where suddenly they have a lot more people that they are technically responsible for. So in her case, and I think it's useful to learn in these extremes and then take the lessons back for the rest of it. But in her case, how does she even begin to mind overgrind her life? Well, it's much more important for her to do. At work, for example, if you have a hundred reports, you really want to try and create some, is spread across some real feeling and then find those people that you can delegate certain things to you. You can't do it alone. Yeah, you need lie. But if everyone's more bonded, then people will accept the authority of the lie. Get branded lie. Those duties because it helps, they'll be much more of a we're in this together vibe, which in healthcare, you are against the system, you are against regulations, you are against all these different shifting ground that is so difficult to manage. But also, again, take the breaks during the day. Be a leader in doing that. Have a open discussion about what do you find recharging in the book? I have sections about how do you charge in five minutes. But ask people, what do you do in five minutes that you actually find restful or recharging or revitalizing? Let's share our tips. Let's cool our resources. Let's have that as an open discussion. So if you get the five minutes, what do you do with it? If you get 10 minutes, what do you do with it? Like start a conversation, an open dialogue about we are under it, under the gun here, we're under pressure here. Let's help each other manage these pressures because let's pull our resources, let's pull our know how. Like really start working together, which would be good for us because the more bonded we feel, the more belonging we feel in the workplace, it is a great mental health boost to feel that sense of belonging and camaraderie and togetherness. So it works in all fronts. Yeah, and I think there are two points there that are really resonating. One, if you are in that situation, like that head nurse, you, there might not be formal structure, but you have to add some informal structure below you and put your high performers to work. And then the idea that isolation really is our enemy when we are deep in this experience. It's beyond enemy. It is incredibly painful and damaging. Yeah. People when they feel ostracized at work, not even ostracized, but they don't feel a part of the group. People will leave. I always say to people, when you're looking to jump, it is the people that matter more than your comp. If the difference in comp is minor, but the difference in camaraderie, in the feeling of who you're working with, it just matters so much for your mental health, for your physical health, for your longevity, truly, for your physical health. That matters a ton. So feeling bonded. And again, just find your work, tribe your mini work. your team within the team. That's why office politics when people are pitted against one another. And they are too much today because these companies merge, people see it coming like a year away and then you have two competing departments, half of the people are not going to survive. They know it and meanwhile you guys need to work together until we figure that out. So you're literally creating this gladiatorial situation which is so hostile and tense and people go to work, they're in a real battle mode all day. It is devastatingly bad for them, for their mental health, for their physical health, they will have they will get sick. They will, you know, like the World Health Organization for example says that around 750,000 people a year die from overworking. Just they overwork themselves to death. It stakes a high. Yeah. What advice do you have for people walking into systems like that or industries like that? First of all, your awareness needs to be higher but think about what weight people, because people don't challenge it. No one goes to the bosses and says, hey, this is not reasonable for us. It takes really, you know, literally acts of Congress kind of thing to challenge. But in fact, there could be more of a ground swell. Stress and burnout in the workplace are a higher levels now in 2026 than they were before. The pandemic still. It's been five or six years where the workplace remains very unhealthy. It remains unhealthy. There's room for people to organize and say like, this is not reasonable. This is not okay. And again, to the employers, I say, it benefits you to have healthier employees both physically and mentally and emotionally. You will get more out of them. You will save money in the long term. You really need to have that long-term vision now. What is your beautiful mind thinking about now after burnout? I think that I would like to go more towards how leaders and managers, you know, I see there, they're in the worst straights. You know, and I see these many of them are burnt out trying to solve this problem. Yeah, look, I talk in the book about a, you know, a major founder of a major company, everyone knows the name, I won't mention it, who got scurvy working on a startup. Scurvy is what the sailors got in 18th century, you know, when they were like sailing for 20 months, because vitamin C, the deficiency is what creates a Flintstones vitamin would have saved that person. But there's so many people that are so dedicated. They don't we see a lot of that. We work in a lot of founder like. Yes, you know what I have to ask a lot of my clients these days, which is embarrassing to ask, but I do like I'm sorry, Mr. Majorly famous CEO, when's the last time you saw a doctor? Yeah. And they always look at me like, I'll have to ask my assistant. I'm like, if you don't know, that's a problem. Yeah, that awareness is something that we, if we can instill it at the top, yeah, it will filter down, but it needs to be instilled at the top too. Yeah. Guy, what are you fixated on right now? Look, we're in April. And I live in New York. So new season. I'm a meds fan. And it's not easy to be a meds fan. It is. There's a lot of heartbreak. There's a lot, but there's also a lot of promise. Because every year is a new, every year is a new season. I believe in the team. I believe in the owners of the team, really wanting this team to succeed. And so I'm excited for the season. Some of my favorite people in my life are meds fans. There we go. And so I'm thrilled to add you to the list. For resilience, but also hope. Dr. Guy Winch, thank you for coming on Fixable. It's been such a privilege to have this conversation with you. Thank you so much for having me. Thank you so much for listening to this episode. Your participation helps us make great episodes. So if you want to help, please follow the show, share an episode with a friend, leave a review. All of those are free. And they totally help support us. If you want to figure out any questions about your workplace problem together, email us at [email protected]. This episode is a podcast from Ted. It's hosted by me and Morris and me, Frances Fry. This episode was produced by Rahima Nasa from Pushkin Industries. Our team includes Constanza Gallardo, Ban Ban Chang, Danielle Baloreso, and Roxanne Highlash. And our show was mixed by Louis at Storyyard. [BLANK_AUDIO]

Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. Work can hijack your life through after-hours rumination, strained relationships, and a loss of passion for your job.
  2. Warning signs of burnout include operating on autopilot, feeling exhausted and cynical, and being unable to recharge even after rest.
  3. Recovery requires more than rest
  4. Practical solutions include creating end-of-day rituals (e.g., changing clothes, listening to music) to train your brain to switch modes.
  5. For vacations, arrive rested, anticipate the trip beforehand, and document memories to prolong the benefits.

Summary:

In this episode of Fixable from TED, host Anne Morris interviews psychologist Dr. Guy Winch about work hijacking our lives and leading to burnout. Winch explains that work follows us home through rumination, fantasy arguments, and strained relationships, often without our awareness.

A key warning sign is operating on autopilot—just trying to "get through" the day—and feeling exhausted, cynical, and disconnected from passion for your work. He emphasizes that recovery requires more than passive rest; you need recharging activities and a sense of autonomy. Winch advises creating deliberate rituals to transition from work to home mode, such as changing clothes or listening to music, to train your brain to detach.

He also recommends short vacations over long ones, arriving rested, and using anticipation and documentation to triple the pleasure of time off. Ultimately, he urges people to nurture parts of their identity beyond work to build resilience against burnout. The conversation underscores that while systemic issues matter, individuals have significant personal agency to manage stress and reclaim their lives.

FAQs

Burnout is a state of exhaustion and cynicism toward work that doesn't improve with rest. Key signs include feeling tired, losing passion for your job, and needing to 'get through' days on autopilot.

Signs include ruminating about work after hours, being checked out at home, relying on vegging out or screens to recover, and losing interest in activities that used to recharge you.

Put on a 'self-management hat' and take a few minutes to strategize how to manage your day and recovery. This includes planning breaks and prioritizing being present in your personal life.

A ritual trains your brain to shift from work mode to relaxation mode. Using sensory cues like music or changing clothes helps you detach from work and recharge more effectively.

Arrive rested by easing into vacation mode a few days before. Build anticipation, document memories, and relive them afterward. Shorter vacations are often better, as benefits fade after a week.

Activities that you find personally fulfilling and that express parts of yourself not used at work are key. These should give you a 'second wind' and a sense of autonomy.

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