How to Get What You Want and Not come off as a Gold Digger

Speaker 1 Hi. Speaker 2 Everyone, thank you guys for coming and. Speaker 1 Joining me this afternoon by popular request, I just got this request actually someone wanted. Speaker 2 To. Speaker 1 Discuss how to get what you want using the power of suggestion and another person asked How do you come off in public without seeming like a gold digger? You know like. Without being labeled a gold digger, how do you get what you want? So I'm here to give y'all some game because I sure did get what I want and I was not seen as a gold digger just so let's get into it. Okay y'all like my wig. If y'all like this wig. I have the details on my beauty channel, Ashira Star. Speaker 3 And y'all go jigger anyway, it's human hair, yeah. Speaker 1 So how do you get what you want from a man? Sugar daddy? Boyfriend. Whatever. Whatever. And how do you not come off as a gold digger in public when you're speaking to guys? OK, so first of all, let's start off with the public. How do you get someone to think that you're not a gold digger but still get things given to you? Well. You have to lie, of course, but we already knew that. So what type of lie do you tell? You are going to be the most giving person, the most charitable person, the most kindest person you know. You're going to have causes that you're really passionate about, and that's where most of your money and and time goes. Y'all Ever see that movie just right with? Queen Latifah and Paula Patton. Do you remember her game in the beginning of the movie where she was trying to land the basketball player, the NFL player, I mean the NBA player. Speaker 2 And she was like, oh, I donate to all these charities, Oh, you know, I love children. And oh, yes, yes. And then she like, left real quick. But but she had really good. Speaker 1 Taste. So when you want, when you want to come off as not being a gold digger, talk about charities you give to, talk about things that you want to really get involved with, talk about, hey, you know, I, you know, I have a really, you know? I love, you know, researching causes and trying to give to causes, you know, because I feel like I'm so fortunate and sometimes, you know, I get caught up and a lot of these charities call me and I end up donating and I never have anything left for myself. And you know, I like nice things, but I also feel a little bit guilty for having too much. And so I give a lot as well. So I really don't have, you know, like I never buy myself a new dress. Speaker 2 Unless it's on sale or thrifted, I never do this unless it's a discount, you know? So I I really just think that, you know, there's other things that are way more important than you know. Speaker 1 The things that I really like, but you know. Speaker 2 Sometimes you have to sacrifice, because I have. Speaker 1 Such a big. Speaker 2 Heart, you know? I'm just so loving and kind, you know? Speaker 1 So they want to give. Speaker 2 You more because you give so much to those children and those animals and you know they want to give you all. You know you deserve something nice too. Yeah. Well, you know I got you know I just. I feel guilty when I buy something for myself because I think this money could be going to charities you know and. Speaker 1 So I don't really get to spoil myself. Speaker 2 The way that I want. Speaker 1 To like this is my best friend's shirt like. I can't afford. I really don't buy expensive things. This is my best friend shirt that I had to borrow. You know, they'll be go like, Oh no, you need your own clothes. OK, I'm going to take you shopping. You deserve some you know. And you know I've been. Speaker 2 Driving the same car for 10 years because of the same reason. Like, I just like every time I go and look for cars, I'm like, you know, there's. Speaker 1 People out here that have to walk. 30 miles a day to get water, you know, And I feel just terrible for spending that type of money on a vehicle, you know, and and it's just, it just hurts my heart. And so I just say, you know what? It's not that important. I can drive this car for until it gives out. You know, even though people are embarrassed to ride with me or be seen with me or have me meet them somewhere, they're like girl, you need a new. Speaker 2 Car I'm like, I know, but I just can't. Speaker 1 I just can't, you know, some people have to actually gift me in order for me to accept anything because I'm just so, you know, passionate about these things and it just, the guilt just gets to me. They're going to. Speaker 3 Gift you. Gift you. Gift you hey. Speaker 1 You want this? You want that? Speaker 2 Oh, that's so sweet. Oh my gosh. Would you mind also donating to one of my charities? Speaker 3 OK. Speaker 1 Be that sweet, innocent, guilty person that can't spend a lot of money and has to borrow things and you know it's passionate about things like that. Then they will want to give you. Speaker 3 More. Speaker 1 Even though you look good, you got nice things on. They're. Speaker 3 Borrowed. They're thrifted. Speaker 1 You feel guilty for even thinking about buying. Speaker 3 It. Speaker 1 So what are they going to do? They're going to give, give, give gift to you because you can't. You give so much to the world, but don't do anything for yourself and oh, you're going to make a good mother because your heart is so big. You're so kind. You're you're a very loving person. You're going to give me a lot of attention. You're going to be passionate about me just as you are about other things. And I can feel that in you. So guess what? Speaker 3 I'm going to give to you. I'm going to give to you since you give. Speaker 1 So much to everybody else. So that's how you come off without seeming like a gold digger, but saying that you like nice things, so you borrow and thrift and drive an old car. If you drive a nice car, you know, you can just say this is my friend's car or my mom's car because I don't even want to buy a car, you know? Thank you, Emory, Night Sky Goddess for the donation. I appreciate that. OK, so now that you have that trick down, if that doesn't work, you can say that you're helping out a parent. Always say a parent because if you say anyone else, people don't feel sorry for you or that other person you know, you can say I'm. Speaker 2 Oh, you know my mom. Speaker 1 You know, she's older and she can't take care of herself anymore. So most of my free money goes to her and her, you know, care for, you know, and nurses and things like that. I'm, you know, I'm working really hard. It doesn't have to be true. You can even say grandmother that way. You know, you don't really if he ever wants to meet your mom. So that's what you got to do. Always be the giver, and people will want to give to you more. The faith giver Okay. So let's move on to the power of suggestion how to get what you want out of somebody. Okay. A lot of women are asking how do I ask for stuff? You don't ask, you suggest. If you do ask, the guy has to like you a lot more than you like them. And if that's not the case, you're going to have to use the power. Of suggestion, you're going to have to use your body language, you're going to have to use your words. You're going to have to use eye contact and, you know, quick movements. So for example, if you meet somebody and you're out for lunch or whatever, and there's a shopping center in the same area or right next door, or there's a store there that you want to go look in. Speaker 2 Play it up, you know. Oh my gosh. I don't want our lunch date to end. I'm enjoying your company so much. How about we take a walk? Speaker 1 Hold his hand and I think y'all heard this in the other video. Hold his hand and smile. You know then when you see the store that you want to go into, grab his hand. Like you know a child does it to their parent and like. Walk fast. Speaker 2 To it like, Oh my God, I. Speaker 1 Love this store. Let's go in and see, you know? But drag him. Don't let go ahead. Drag him in. Drag him in like he doesn't know that you're dragging him into the store. He thinks you holding his hand because you like him, but you're holding your your, his hand to drag him in the store. OK, it's a setup. Speaker 3 But. Speaker 2 So you have his hand and you're walking. Speaker 1 And walking and walking. Speaker 2 Oh, it's such a beautiful day. Speaker 1 You know, hold his hand tight. See the? Speaker 2 Store. Oh my God, I love this. Don't. Speaker 1 Run. He gonna have to keep up. Pull him in the store. Speaker 2 And say, Oh my God, this dress is so cute. Look at this. Look how you know, look how it makes me look. Speaker 1 Just love it, then keep holding his hand. Don't let him go. Don't. Speaker 3 Let him go. Oh God. Speaker 1 Don't let him go. Keep walking and holding his hand. Then go put something else up to you. Oh my God, don't you love this? Isn't this cute? Keep walking. Keep holding his hand. If the place has a sales associate, the the woman will come up to you and try to sell you something or ask you if you need help. Speaker 3 And da da da da. Speaker 2 And. Speaker 1 Just hold his hand and say. Speaker 2 Oh, I'm just looking right now. I don't know, you know, I'm just. Speaker 1 Looking, just looking, you know, and then. Say I'm having so much fun with you. This is so fun. I love. I love hanging out with you. I love hanging out with you. Look him in the eye. I love hanging out with you. You're so much fun. Speaker 2 Da da da da. Speaker 1 Don't ask him to buy you nothing. Just keep walking and holding his hand. Then stop and turn around and give him a hug and say, Oh my God, rub your boobs against him, hug him and whisper in his ear. Thank you so much for a wonderful lunch. You know, I really enjoyed myself so much, you know, And then just linger in the store in public with your arms around and be like thank you so much, you know, and then y'all. Speaker 2 Are in the middle of the. Speaker 1 Store. What is he going to do? He's going to be like, did you want that? Speaker 2 Dress that you liked? Or did you want this? Or did you want that? I bet you would look good in this. I think I would. Can I can I try it on for you? OK, you wait right here. Speaker 1 Come and go, try it on. Or you want to come in the dressing room. No, you can't. I don't think that's. Speaker 2 Legal. Speaker 1 Let me go try it on and then I'm going to come model. Speaker 2 It for you, Okay. Just for you. Just for you. Speaker 1 So go and put the dress on, or whatever you're trying on, whatever, and come out and be like if it has a zipper, don't zip it up all the way out. Speaker 2 Seeing this in the movies. Speaker 1 Don't zip it up all the way. Come out with the back unzipped or the side unzipped I. Speaker 2 Can't get this zipper. Can you get it? Oh, OK. Oh, thank you. So how does it look? Speaker 3 Is it? Do you like it? These gonna buy? Speaker 1 Out for you. Speaker 3 You want some shoes to match? Speaker 2 Thank you so much then. Speaker 1 When he offers to buy it for you, get excited like you were not expecting it. Speaker 2 Really. Oh my gosh, you. I can't ask you. Speaker 1 To do that. But it's so cute, right? If I don't buy it, you know, it would be a it would be sad because I look so cute and it not going to wear it on our next date. Now, you've already said that you're going to go out with him again, so he's definitely going to buy it. If you're already going to go out with him again, you don't even have to wait to see if you liked him for the first day. And if you're going to call back, blah blah blah blah blah. Speaker 2 And you've already, you know, hugged him. Speaker 1 Rubbed your boobs against him, held his hand some you loved, hanging out with him, having fun. You dragged him into the store, tried on clothes for him, help. He helped you zip up stuff. So now he's pulled in. He's in, he's in it. It's too late for him. It's it's over, you know. So when you go up to the register to purchase the item and he pulls out his credit card or his cash, whatever, say, you don't know how much this means to me. I mean you are so. I mean I really like hanging out with you. Gummy I I've had such this is like been the perfect day I don't even want. Speaker 2 It to end, you know. I really don't want it to end, but unfortunately, I know it has to. But hey, maybe we I can wear this dress next time we meet out do. Speaker 1 You want to go, where do you want to meet, blah blah blah. Then he might not want it to end, so he might suggest another place. He might suggest something else to do. It's up to you to go and do it or not, but do the same thing at a car lot, like when y'all have been dating a while and this is becomes a habit. Speaker 3 You want a new car? Speaker 1 Go eat next to the car lot at a restaurant park, next to some type of car lot, you know and but build, you got to build up to that. Y'all got to be like further, further along, you know, But you got to have that. Speaker 2 Baby boy. So you got to look him in the eye. You got to tell him that you love hanging out with him. He's so much. Speaker 1 Fun, and that is that. And if he's old, you're going to make him feel young. You're going to make him feel vibrant again. You're going to make him feel like he's hip and fun and you're not embarrassed to be seen out in public with him and hug him and hold his hand And you know he feels young when he's with you, so he doesn't think that there's this huge age difference because you just made him feel young and he doesn't even feel his age anymore. He's forgotten that he's old and he thinks he's young again and that's how you get them. You just suck them on in. You know, but you don't comment on how old they are or, you know, you don't play inappropriate music. That's going to make them come back into reality. You don't point out the differences. That is going to make him feel old. You try to pull the similarities and what you do have in common and how much funny is together. You know what I'm saying? Don't. Point. Don't try to play track music and you know he's 65 years old or 55 years. And don't try to put that stuff on. Put something mellow on like, you know, you know the channel that has like music from the 80s and then the 90s. Put that on. At least you'll be. Speaker 3 Comfortable with that, yeah. Speaker 1 So listen to that in your car, Okay. How much do you prostitutes charge for a blowjob? Well, we're not prostitutes, darling. Okay, There's a difference. You can afford those Us, You got to invest heavily. We're gold diggers. Speaker 3 So. Speaker 1 You can must invest. There's the difference. Prostitutes, they get paid right up front. Gold diggers, you must invest longterm. OK, so once you've gotten that done, you're going to be able to basically suggest anything to him that you like because he's. He's already given to you. He's used to giving to you in exchange for affection. That's not asked for, not demanded, not pressured. You know what I'm saying? So that's why you do the handholding, the hugging, the whispering and the ear, the seduction and you know, the holding of the hand, because he can't escape and he's mistaken this as companionship and. You want to feel close to him and a connection rather than you ain't finna go nowhere until you buy me this and that. Oh God, is Michael Jackson okay to play? I mean, I think so. But you just kind of got to get a feel of what type of music he likes and then maybe play something in that genre. You know, Michael Jackson's, you know he's. Over 5 generations. So play some older by him. So you know, remember men that are on here, We're not talking about y'all, we know y'all can't afford to. Speaker 3 Just. Speaker 1 Drag into the store. This is for older guys who have money and are willing to spend, you know? So don't get mad. You are not the target. I promise. Maybe your grandfather, maybe your daddy, but not you. OK, you were good. So and especially if you go to a high end place, like a high end, if you know the man has money, take him to a high end place, not super high end. Work your way up to that. Go to a nice place you know and. When you walk in there with an older man, the sales girl already knows the deal. She's going to work for you. She's going to help you get this money. She knows what to say to old man and young women to get her sale, Okay. So try to go to places that are a little bit high end. And the woman already knows what the situation is. Okay, she will help you. She will try to sell more. She will try to convince the man. Oh, you should buy her that too, you know. Speaker 2 Y'all look so cute together or Oh my God, y'all are such a cute couple. So you want this dress, ma'am? Yes. You know what? You should get the shoes. Let me show you some shoes that go with it now. Speaker 1 It's not even in your control anymore. Now the lady is using the power suggestion to sell stuff. So you just go along with it and you drag the man with you and you're like, oh these are cute shoes. What do you think honey? Speaker 2 Call him honey. Speaker 1 And now he feels like he's in a relationship and his opinion matters and you're just a kid in a candy shop. Okay. Speaker 2 What do you think? Speaker 1 Call him Honey. Call him Babe, whatever Jim, whatever his name is. Speaker 2 What do you think? You think this would look good on me? Do you want me to try him on? Speaker 1 For you, if he has a foot fetish, he'll, you know, okay. Speaker 2 Well, let me just try them on the other side. Whatever. Whatever. Whatever. Oh. Speaker 1 OK, you know, try them on. Walk around in them in the sexy walk. And if they're heels, walk the sexy walks. I love these. Oh my gosh. Why did you show these to me? Speaker 3 Oh my God, I have. Oh my God, I love these shoes. Speaker 2 Don't you love these shoes, honey? They are so comfortable. Speaker 1 So anyway, that's how you get stuff. If you want money, like cash, you know you have to do the same thing, except you have to ask for it. Like, say, oh, let's go take a walk, make sure the ATM is close. Speaker 2 By let's go take a walk, hold his hand, and like, Oh my God, I got to get some cash out. I got to do, Oh my God, I forgot my ATM card. Speaker 1 Oh my gosh. I need like, I have to go pick up my car, you know? I know I have to go pick up, you know, something. And it cost this much to get it out. Or I have to go bubble pay on something or whatever. And I need cash. And I forgot my ATM card at home. And I'm just really in a predicament. Speaker 3 Well, how much do you need? Speaker 2 Oh, you know it's only like $400.00 and you know it's only $400.00. Don't say I'll pay you back, don't even say it. Speaker 1 If he's old and he's walking hand in hand with a young woman, he already know what it is. Oh, okay. Well, I'll give it to you. If he says loan or borrow, just like, oh, I don't know when I'm going to be able to pay you back, baby. So pause. Let him say, oh, don't worry about it. You don't have to pay me back. Considered a gift or you owe me or something. Like maybe you can make it up to me another way. Suggest. Well, maybe I can make it up to you another way. What do you think? Then whisper in his ear something and then get your money. OK, but y'all have to know how to do this. Y'all have to be smart. Y'all have to be seductive. You can't just show up, look like this. Does it work like that? OK, you got to play the game, you got to be an actress, you got to do the walk, the talk and all that kind of stuff. Speaker 3 Throw the wig on. Put the makeup. Speaker 1 On put the baby boys on all of that put together. You can't just show up and ask. Ask for the money. Doesn't work that way, like I learned from the old school. Speaker 3 Chicks. Speaker 1 I learned from the chiefs from the 90s, and this is how they did it. And it worked, because I saw women getting Cartier watches, saw women getting trips, saw women getting jewelry, saw women just getting, That's how they do. They drag the old man into every store. They go out to eat in the very nice area of town where there's all these shops, just, oh, it's a luxury area of town. You're dressed cute. They want to be seen out with you in public. They want to seem successful around their peers and other people. They want to show off their. Date or their woman. So they're going to keep going wherever you're dragging them. Okay So that baby boy song. Go to the nice area, drag him by his hand. Make him think that you're holding his hand because you like him. Give him a little peg on the cheek, you know, whisper in his ear. Give him a hug in public in front of everyone. Rub your boobs against him. Make him feel young and he will give you whatever. You ask for I promise you, unless he's broke and don't have it, but he will give you anything because you're making him feel like nobody else can. Nobody. OK? Nobody is doing this to this old man who look like he belongs in Lord of the Rings or something. No one is doing this for him but you. He feels like you're special. You don't. There's not that cringy look on your face when you get close to him, even though he he knows he smells like being gay and denture cream. And you know his clothes are probably 10 years out of style. You think he's special. OK, because his money is special. This is how you get it. Then you can go shopping and buy him some new clothes or have him buy himself some new clothes. But you pick him out. You know, you could upgrade him with his own money. While you upgrade yourself at the same time, OK. Speaker 3 I don't know. Speaker 1 OK, so it's not like you're shopping for you alone, you picking out stuff for him too, so you got to buy it. Speaker 2 Oh, baby, you look so good in this shirt. Ooh, this makes you look sexy. Oh, I love this color with your eyes. Here you go. OK oh, and we would match perfect if I got this dress and go with this shirt with you. And you know you need this tie. It's going to match my dress. Look at this dress. So cute. Speaker 1 Before you know, you got a whole new wardrobe. And he's And so does he. OK, so make sure you're a fast talker, a quick actress, and use that baby voice. Use the power of suggestion. Hold his hand. Give him his little public affection. Don't care what people think. People can be jealous when he sits there and pays all that crap. They saw the crap at the register, and they got to pull a credit card out and pay for the crap out of their own paycheck they worked hard for. They're going to be jealous that you're getting everything free just because you can act okay. Speaker 3 Okay. Speaker 1 And he's not even going to really you know he's going to be very excited that you're. Speaker 2 Treating him like this and. Speaker 1 Really. Speaker 2 Attracted to him? And then, you know, at the end of the day, it's going to be like, so, you know, you want to come back to my place for a drink or do you want to go do something else Or do you want to do this thing? Oh, baby, I would love to. You know what? How about tomorrow? That way I could stay. Speaker 3 Long a long time. Speaker 2 And we can watch a movie and get comfortable and you know. Speaker 1 We can have drinks and and chill at your place, but then you're not really. Speaker 2 Going to go. Speaker 1 Okay, you're not really going to go, you're just going to get them off your back, just for a second. Speaker 3 Okay. Speaker 1 Then when he. Speaker 3 Calls and says hey, you ready to come over? Speaker 2 Oh my God. Speaker 1 My job called me in tonight and I really need the money because I'm, you know, I have. I got to pay bills. You know, I hate this job. Guys are always trying to touch me. They're always asking me, you know when you can meet me after work? I hate this job. My boss is always sexually harassing me. I wish I could quit and come just lay next to you, but I got to go in and deal with these dudes, these dusty dudes trying to touch me. But so annoying. But I'll call you when I get home, baby Okay. Speaker 3 Well, how much? How much are your bills? Oh, you. Why? Well, maybe I can help you out. Maybe you don't. Maybe you don't have to work there anymore if you don't like it. Speaker 2 Oh, really? Oh, you're so sweet, baby. OK, well, you know what? Let me count, let me add up all my bills, and then I'm going to call you right back, OK? Speaker 1 That way he really thinks you got to go add them up. Don't. If you have the number off the top of your head, it's a lie, and he know it's a lie. So add them up, then text it to. Speaker 2 Him back or call them. It's like baby, did you get my text call? Keep calling them baby or honey. Don't call them by us to call them baby or honey because they like that Baby. Did you get my text? Okay, okay. Well, I added all the bills up and this is about how much they equal out. Speaker 1 To, you know, give or take. Speaker 2 So is this too much? This is too much. Oh no, I got that. That's. Speaker 1 Fine. You know what? You know you don't. Even you don't go to work, you don't need to go to work. Speaker 3 Anymore, you don't go to work anymore. Speaker 2 Really. Oh, my gosh. Well, you know, I don't feel like, you know what? I don't want to, like, depend on you. So you know, what if something, You know what if something doesn't go right? Then I'm stuck. So. Speaker 1 You know, if you're going to help me out, would you mind? You know. Paying my bills up like. Speaker 2 A month in advance as well. That way it's. Speaker 1 You know, you know, God forbid if something did happen that I would have enough time to get back on my feet. Speaker 3 Oh, sure, baby. Speaker 1 Then give them twice the amount of your real bills. OK, That way you got four months in the hole, four months ahead. OK, give them twice the amount. Oh, I owe student loans. Stick that up in there. Speaker 3 So make sure you're doing this and make sure. Speaker 1 That he's following you, falling behind you, falling behind your every word, and he believes you. And if you use the baby voice, they less likely question you than if you use the woman voice. If you use the woman voice and you use this voice, they're going to think you're lying. If you use the baby voice, you sound innocent, so you don't like the baby voice. Then you mix truth with it. Speaker 2 Like, do you remember I told you about the honesty? Sandwich okay. So you you do the baby voice. You call him baby. You hold his hand. You give him public affection where he doesn't have to beg for it or chase you. You're actually going to stop and give him some in front of people like give him a hug. Speaker 1 A pick on the cheek, you know, Call him baby in front of people. Yes, you have to do this. If you want money, you got to lie. You got to you got to act. Stay close to him when you're out public so people know you're his. That way he starts to feel claim to you if you stick close by on his arm, on his shoulder. Speaker 2 Hold his arm. Hold his. Speaker 1 Shoulder. He will start to claim you because other men are going to put you 2 together, Not. Oh, here's some gold digger out with her sugar daddy. She look like she really don't want to be there. Speaker 2 If you're all up on him and hugging him like. Speaker 1 You know, people are going to respect that, respect him, give him looks like, oh, wow, he's the man. He's the man that's going to build up his ego. OK, so he's the man you're all over. Speaker 2 Him. He's not going to let you go. He's going. Speaker 1 To pay and pay everything to keep you right there on his side. OK. That's how you become the, you know, taken care of. Yeah. Yeah. You grab on, you latch on. You don't let go, OK. But it's not clingy if he's an old man. Speaker 2 He will like it. Speaker 1 Believe me, and especially if you're doing the baby talk, you hate affection, but you? It's an act, you guys. It's an act. You can hate affection all you want, but you can pretend you love it. For, you know, to get all bills paid, to be able to quit your job, to be able to get stuff you know given bought to you and blah blah blah blah blah. This is how you get them. They won't want to be without you. When you leave, their world becomes depressed because you brightened their world up so much. Speaker 2 You called him Babe. Speaker 1 You showed him, you latched on. You are proud of him. And when he's alone, he's not going to get that feeling. You know when he goes home, it's going to be alone and boring. When he goes out, it's going to be blah because you're not there. So guess what? He's going. He's going to want you there. In order for you to be there, he's going to have to take care of you. So it's kind of like. Speaker 2 Drugs. Speaker 1 When people smoke too much weed or do too much drugs and then they come down to reality, reality seems like, you know, blah. And until you get that next high, you're not happy. So you want to be their drug. You want to make them feel. Speaker 3 Good. Speaker 1 Whenever they're in your presence, and that way you have suggested that they need you, they need you. Speaker 3 Okay. Speaker 1 And once they've invested enough into you and they have started to claim you back? Speaker 3 This is my girlfriend. Speaker 1 You know, then if you want, you know, sleep with, sleep with them. You know, after they spent a lot of money, paid your rent, paid your car, note, whatever, giving you cash, you know you don't have to work anymore. You're taking, being taken care of by this dude. If you got to give it up to him, make sure it is an experience that he will never ever forget and that no one else will be able to top what you just done. Okay no matter what okay unless they a man. So make sure you you get the outfit, the lingerie, like make it special like no other woman has ever done this, you know. He's probably going to be done in 2 seconds anyway, so you'll be done. Speaker 3 Okay, yeah so and after your little, after 2 seconds, you're good. I'm hungry. Speaker 1 Baby, let's go out to eat. Get dressed. I'm hungry. You wore me out. Speaker 3 Come, you got to feed me, you said. Yuck, 2 minutes. Speaker 1 Take you 2. Speaker 3 Shots of patrol three. Shots of patrol some. Speaker 1 Champagne. Get it over with in less than two minutes and then you're out to eat, OK? Speaker 3 OK. Speaker 1 And then you make up. Start all over to get it again. Okay, you want some more. You want 2 minutes worth of. Speaker 2 Heaven again, Okay? Speaker 3 Let's go let. Speaker 1 Me take you to the mall. Let me take you somewhere, okay? Speaker 2 You know what, baby? I've been thinking. It would be so fun if we went on vacation. You know, I could wear this and that and. Speaker 1 We could walk hand in hand on the beach. Speaker 2 It's so romantic. Speaker 1 Right. See, you got it. He's going to be like, especially if he's old, been married forever and just divorced. Or, you know, if he's older and women aren't, like, interested in him like that except for just to ask him for some cash and favors and then disappear. If he's like that and you do all this, he's going to probably write you in his will. Okay, I'm trying to tell you. OK, and even if you don't plan on marrying this person or wanting to even be with them very long, all you have to do is make them think you do. Speaker 3 OK and. Speaker 1 When you want out of this situation, when you're done with this person. If you ever be done, who wants to be done with somebody paying all their bills, ask them to help you start. Like, like, when you're ready to start exiting, ask them to help you start your own business. Like, baby, I've been thinking, you're so successful and smart, you know, I think you could help me, like really be like, start my own name, like a frivolous business that would like, doesn't even, you know, make a lot of money. But you just need the, you know, the startup. I would love to sell this as a matter, you know, open a little boutique or you know, da, da, da. Would you help me, baby? Would you help me? I just want to be, you know, I just don't want to feel like I'm doing nothing with myself. I want to contribute, you know? Speaker 2 Blah blah blah blah blah. Speaker 1 So get your money and start your little business. Make sure it's in your name and just become so busy with it that you don't give him any more time. And then there you have your own business. He's still in the background sometimes. Just go see him like maybe once or twice a week. Keep your little business going and you know. Speaker 3 Make sure. Speaker 2 You keep him. Speaker 1 Eager you got to maintain it, but if you don't, if that's not the person you want to be with, then. Speaker 2 Thank him, baby. Thank you so much for all that you've done for me, blah blah blah blah. But I want to get married and have kids one day. And you know, I don't know if. Speaker 1 That's what you want. Just like name. All this impossible stuff that he couldn't do because he's too old. I'm going to go hiking and camping. You know, he got arthritis. He can't clam. He can't climb nothing. I just want to be more. Speaker 2 Active And you know, I want to like bike. Speaker 1 Start naming a bunch of athletics that you want to do. Speaker 2 Like I want to go to the gym, you know? And you know, I don't. I really love you. But you know, I think it's just better if we just remain very close friends. And you know, I will always love you and always come see you, but. You know, if I'm going to be serious about having babies in in marriage someday, I really got to focus, you know, on. Speaker 3 That, but I will always. Speaker 1 Be your girl, I promise you. Then you're going to start making him feel old and he's going to back away himself because you don't make him feel young no more. And then you're reversing everything. You're reversing when he calls you. So do you need? Speaker 2 Anything. No, baby, I'm good. Thanks for asking. Hang up. Speaker 1 If you just start reversing everything, you just reverse it. Don't call him babe no more. Speaker 2 Call him by his name. Speaker 1 Just reverse everything. Just do everything you reverse. Speaker 2 Oh, no thanks. Speaker 1 John, I'm good. And talk to him like someone's around and you can't do the baby talk. Switch up to the adult voice. No, John, I'm good. No, Jim, I'm good. Thanks. Speaker 2 Jim, I'm. I'm going to call you back later. Speaker 3 Jim, I have a client. I have a customer. What happened to my baby? She grew up. Speaker 1 Jim, I feel like you're calling me too much. I'm at work, Jim. I told you I'm going to come by and see you tomorrow. Did you forget? Maybe you should make a doctor's appointment, because you're forgetting a lot of things lately. Like I I asked you not to call me while I'm at work. Start making feel old, like you don't want them, and he'll dismiss himself. So go and find another one to make him feel young. OK, recycle. But if he's a good one, keep him, keep him and get married and get some money and get some estates and get some land and stuff. Y'all. Speaker 3 He will become your stalker now he's too old to stalk. Speaker 1 Girl, I'm trying to get dressed. Hey, Mama D y'all you like my technique? You are helping me change my life for the best. Thank you. You're welcome. Y'all. It's just a matter of acting right. You just got to. Speaker 2 Act you? Speaker 1 Got to be like, I mean mostly y'all. Speaker 2 I want to be a model or I want to be. Speaker 1 Actress or I want to be a musician. But then when you get in front of a man, you can't do nothing. This is the true test. This is the real audition. Life is a stage. Am I being real? Yes, I'm being real. You think I'm wasting my breath this long on a live video to Has James ever asked if I was acting, If I act this good? If I've been acting forever? He doesn't know it's an act. I think when I I think he probably is on to it by now, but he just don't care anymore. It's like she didn't already got me or will. You still think he's young though? Because he got a young woman. So I guess. Speaker 3 That's still working in my favor, so. Speaker 1 And remember, you're not going to be talking about yourself a lot. You're always going to be complimenting him, talking about you know him and how great he is. You're not going to bore him to death with your blah boring crap Okay. Speaker 3 Not going to do that. Talk to your girls. Speaker 1 About that, you know you can't control a rich man. That's where the problem starts. Speaker 3 You're not controlling. You can control an old man, though. An old rich man. Yes, you can. Speaker 1 All you got to do is be old and you just make them feel young, O. Speaker 3 K. Speaker 1 And like I said, do that baby boys. Children can control adults with the baby boys in the innocence, that's the same thing women got to do. Get you an old man, do the baby boys grab his hand? You got him? He's not going to say. Speaker 3 No, let go of my hand. I'm not going into a store with you. You must be crazy. I mean, what are you going to do? Speaker 1 Just look at him Crazy like, OK. Speaker 3 Well, I'll just go by myself. Speaker 1 You know he's going to have to start all over. He didn't already paid for expensive dinner and. You cute and you're out in public with him not trying to be embarrassed and he's he's going to go with the flow. I promise you. And guys that are on here. I'm not talking about young men. I'm talking about old men who. Speaker 3 Will fall for most of the tricks. Okay, we know y'all don't want to pay for nothing. We know y'all ain't going. Speaker 1 To do nothing so we're not even waste our time with y'all the baby. The baby voice does not work on younger men because they do the baby voice too. Okay. Get you a old man. Speaker 3 If you. Speaker 1 Try to do this with young man. You're going to look stupid because they're going to expect something. They going to go longer than two minutes. And if they're not going to buy you the dress, the shoes, the purse and other stuff, they just going to buy you the shirt that's on sale on the 50% off clearance. OK, go for the old man with the long money. This is not true. Young dudes spend that check, too. Yeah, but we don't want to spend his rent up. Okay, If you want to spend his rent up, go ahead. Don't be mad. Women need accessories, Okay, You can't just buy one thing. And if you do, you're going to have to buy something else next week. Can you do that? Get your money ahead on that? You start buying. You can't stop. It's not just a special occasion. One time thing you you take some a woman shopping. That's y'all weekly chore. Y'all like my kids cook. So yes, you can't I I would feel guilty for, you know, asking a young man to spend on me because I know he can't keep it up. So I wouldn't even bother. That's why I I like older men because they have what I want. It's like having that credit card that only has a 200 dollar $200.00 limit versus that credit card that doesn't have a limit or a $5000 limit. You know what I'm saying? Why would you want to go shopping with someone with the $200.00 limit when you can go shopping with someone that has multiple credit cards with over $5000? Own it and now it's willing to spend on you. So that's the difference. You know, I'm not saying anything against young guys. I'm just saying women don't want to exploit you because they know you really can't afford it, which is nice that you think we're not gold digging on the ones that can't afford it. We're only doing it to the ones we know have it. OK, that's the difference. Speaker 3 Occur. Speaker 1 Gold is good to have. Make him buy jewelry. See. Get some jewelry. So you're a gold digger, okay. But that's a good thing. Now, it's a good thing to have standards and date men with financial abundance. It's a very good thing. What if he's young but still can spend? Okay? If he's willing to spend on you, great. Go for it. I like older men because they're easier to control, manipulate and get more things out of for longer periods of time before they want something back in return. Okay. That's what I'm saying. Yes. And they like buying you stuff. They like it. They enjoyed your face. When you get what you want, you know they enjoy it. The younger guys don't. Enjoy buying stuff for women? Older guys do so if you want it to be an enjoyable experience, a. Speaker 3 For older guys, Shira, how can I tell if clothes or accessories are high couture? Speaker 1 I'm leveling up. Go to nice areas of town. They're not going to have rainbow up in the rich area of town. Okay go to rich area of town. Speaker 3 Over. When are you going to show us your man? He's been on here so many times, you just keep missing it. Go back. Speaker 1 Let me see. Two videos ago. Not the last one I did, but the one before that. He's on there. OK? How can I get my boyfriend to call me baby girl again? Baby girl again D? Speaker 3 Stop bossing them around. Act brand new. He, he, he, He. Speaker 1 All this stuff works on my boyfriend, all right. How do you make bangs look good? Like I don't cut bangs. I would just get some clip in bangs and see how they look first. Speaker 3 Or we. Or something. Okay, you talked on the phone. Speaker 1 Last night a guy said he wouldn't buy me a hat without us being together. Dating nowadays. Is that a hat? What kind of hat did you want? How much did this hat cost? Oh shoot, that reminds me, I sold a hat on Poshmark. I got to ship it out tomorrow. That sipping cup tells me that she's not following her own advice. Y'all know my I have a nice cup too. I'm just using this one today. Or maybe pull out my chalice. I had to prove nothing to a dusty. Speaker 3 OK, just go watch my old video. Go watch 3 videos. Speaker 1 Ago. And watch all of that. OK? Maybe trying to find something, don't they? OK, I'm drinking water, I see. I wish I didn't need a man to be happy. You don't need a man to be happy. I don't need a man to be happy. You shouldn't need a man to be happy. That's the problem. That's why girls are so desperate and make so many mistakes because they think that this man is going to bring them happiness. You're already supposed to be happy. That's just the added bonus. He's just there to pay for your happiness and your lifestyle, OK? He's not the one that makes you happy. I mean, you will have happy moments together. You will share happy moments together, but he's not going to make you happy. Thank you, someone says. That's why your skin is so It's perfection. Speaker 3 That's why. Because I drink water. Speaker 1 They say soft drinks cause wrinkles. If you drink a lot of soft drinks, carbonated drinks it causes. Speaker 3 Wrinkles. Don't drink that Kitty. Speaker 1 My cat's down here. Come here. Speaker 3 Kitty. Come on, velvet. Come on, baby. Come on. Just my baby. Yes, velvet. Speaker 1 How to find direction in life? Well go see my video Where do you want to be in five years? The last video I did yesterday on this channel, it says where do you want to be in five years or where will you be in five years or. Speaker 3 Something like that. Speaker 1 That means every choice you make should be headed in the direction of where you want to be in five years. Do you want to be married? Have kids? Do you want a nice life, nice lifestyle? Do you want to live in a nice house in a nice area for every decision that you make from here on out? Has to move in that direction. That means no more dating. Dusties. That means dating and going out in very nice areas to meet men with this type of money. It means not making excuses for yourself and only moving into the direction that you want to be in five years. Do you accept women with locks into the level of group? I do, and most of the women that do come in that group end up cutting them off? I'm just going to tell you most of the women that are. In the group that came in with locks end up cutting them. So because they've watched other ladies come in looking crazy, then they leveled up and gotten a lot more response and a lot more, you know, action made from these men. And yet the other ladies with the dreads are not moving at all. Like they're not getting the type of men that have money, They're just contracting more dusty. So you yes, I do allow anybody in the group with, you know, whatever hair you got, but eventually they end up cutting them after they realize it's not working. Like no matter how many. Speaker 3 Tips and tricks you use. Speaker 1 You're not going to be able to get the same as the chick with, you know, the hair like this, okay. It's just how it is. That's just how it is. It's nothing personal. It's not anything like it's not. I'm not trying to be politically incorrect. That's just what most of these guys with money prefer. Speaker 3 And that's just it. Speaker 1 We tend to try to go for looks that men actually like so that it's easier to get money out of them. You know, if they like what they looking at, they're easy to give you money. OK. If they're like, well, I don't need to give her money out. There's, you know, other girls that will, you know, fit much better into my my circle. So, you know, so you got to play. Hey Shape world, thank you for the donation. You got to kind of play up with men like, wealthy men like. Speaker 3 OK. How do you? Speaker 1 Reverse the distance. After you push them away and make them feel old. You can't or you have to say a baby. I was just stressed. I had a bunch of people trying to return stuff. I was so mad. I was mad at you because you didn't call me yesterday. You got to make it into their fault, you know, I was so mad because you didn't call me yesterday and I felt like maybe you were seeing someone else and I kind of, I kind of distanced myself because I was feeling hurt. Blame it on him. He don't. He won't. Speaker 3 Know what to do? Speaker 1 He'll he'll be so happy you're calling him. He'll take the blame. I'm sorry, baby. I didn't call you. The text didn't get through. Are you serious? The Wi-Fi in this building is terrible. My signal. Thank you. Mama D Mama D. Thank you for the the donation. Y'all go subscribe to Mama D's channel. She has a channel too. OK, Shera is going on 2 weeks. I asked this guy, you know I'm giving because you know, like with that, if it's been 2 weeks and 500 was too much, he's broke. Move on. OK. I wouldn't even waste two days. What you doing? That's just desperate if you hang. If you hung on that long, I'd be straying you along too. OK, get out of that. Go level up some more. You'll get more money. You know, asking a man for allowance, is that good or bad? If he likes you a lot, he can give you whatever you ask for. Make sure he's old and you do the baby voice and you get whatever you want. OK, I'll give a female and allowance as long as she does her chores. Speaker 3 Silly. Have I ever climbed the Sequoia tree? Last time I climbed the tree, I was in Elementary. Speaker 1 School, so I don't think so, unless that was some kind of code for something else. You meant how to get everything out of a scent without coming off as a gold digger. Well, I would say an older man. I'll just say an older man because they're more likely to give. Give whatever you want. Like I don't want you. I want your daddy. I don't want you. I want your granddaddy. OK. You're going to be my stepson. I have I have a nephew that is my age. Speaker 3 How you doing? OK. Speaker 1 Your opinion on a wealthy man who wants a sister wife. If he can take care of you and give you whatever you want, and it's legal. If it's legally married, don't do no fake marriage, Okay. That's where they get you. Unless you get a large lump sum before you enter into that. That way, if you don't want to stay you out, okay, because when he dies, guess what? If you're not the legal wife, you're stuck like Chuck. You'll get any of the insurance. Unless you take out your own insurance policy on him, you know when to ask for things. Shoot. You can ask for stuff on the first date if you do it right. Do what I said in the video. Seduce him. Grab him by the hand. Take a walk. Pull him into a shop. Give a public affection. Tell him you're going to try on this dress for him. He's going to buy you something. He's going to give you something. Walk next to the ATM. Speaker 2 Oh, I need to get cash out for something. Look in your purse. Oh my God, I forgot my ATM card. Oh, my God. I really need to get this money out, and I have to pay something today. Oh, my God. Can you help me? I'll make it up to you, baby. Speaker 1 There you go. That's how you do it. You got to act. You can't just. Speaker 2 Sit there and. Speaker 1 Ask What are y'all doing? Unless this man is old and ugly and is offering and saying, look, how much do you want? If you're trying to make an arrangement, yes, but you don't even have to make arrangements. If you do it right, you could just get it and go and I'll see you. Next time I'll see you on the date #2. Date #3, You have to. Speaker 3 Act. Speaker 1 Y'all are so afraid of acting. A lot of you ladies are so afraid of acting and getting what you want. It's a character you're playing, OK? You're playing. The character to get what you want. A lot of you ladies are mistaking gold digging as trying to be in a real relationship. Do you want to be in a real, real relationship with this person? Great, You still have to act just like everybody else does in the beginning. You're going to act to get what you want. Speaker 3 Act. Act. Act. Speaker 1 Okay, stop thinking too hard. It's not that hard. Okay, Just act like. You're in a movie and you got to seduce this old man that is your character. You got to get him to buy you stuff. How are you going to do it? Grab his hand, do the baby talk. Pull him into stores. Act animated with him. Make him feel young. That's all you got to do. It's very easy. If you're shy, start practicing. Practice in the mirror. Practice on camera. Record it. You have nothing to lose. Speaker 2 Nothing. Nada. Speaker 1 Where does it work? Kentucky works everywhere. Shoot, I bet you I can do it right now. Right now, today. I can go. I'm gone now. If I wasn't married, I could get all that stuff done today. I can go online, find me some sucker, meet him out, do and do exactly what I just said and get him to come. I will come home with some bags, I promise you. Or something. Or some cash. Something. I will come on with something. Speaker 3 Maybe a new week? Speaker 1 Because I'm. I have nothing to lose. What do I have to lose? Tell me what I have to lose. Nothing. You know, I'm going to come home with something. Pack of gum or something. My morality. Oh, I don't have any morality that's already gone. So I have nothing to lose, really. Speaker 3 Like gone I don't I. Speaker 1 Don't care. Look, if I need something, I want something. When I was young, before I met James, I, you know, if I wanted something, if I wanted money, if I want to do this, I'll. How you doing? You know, old man, see me. Speaker 2 What are you doing? I need some school supplies. I'm going to college and I'll go back to school next month. I don't have money for school supplies. I have to buy books. Speaker 1 This is when I was young. Speaker 3 Well, how much do you need, baby? I would. Speaker 1 Double the price and I will go shopping. I'll be like right across the street from the mall. Speaker 3 Go right in there, my friend. Be laughing at me. How do you get this month? I lied. Seducing your boss tomorrow. Wish you look good luck. Speaker 1 Hope you. I hope it doesn't backfire. Speaker 3 You got to be savage. It's the only way that's so true. Get even if you don't. Speaker 1 Look the best. Even if you're not a supermodel. It is your attitude. It is your voice. It is your dragging and holding up the hand. It is your. Making him feel good about himself. It is your willingness to show him public affection like no other girl will, even if she looks like a supermodel and she's skinny and she's going to be like. Speaker 3 How do I ask for money? Speaker 1 But you're sitting up here. Speaker 2 Come on, baby, let's go in the storm. Oh, you smell so good. Oh, I love. Speaker 1 I love spending time with you, you know. And he's going to want to be with that chick if, even if she's not perfect versus the other chick sitting up there. Speaker 3 Why don't I get this money? I know I look good. Speaker 1 But I don't know how to ask. He's sit up there afraid to ask you, pulling him in the store as you as you know, let's go take a walk, baby. You're tricking him. And she's sitting up there trying to figure out how to ask. Trickle. That's what I'm doing. If you believe in karma, you won't want to be a gold digger. Gold digger is a user. People who worry about karma is not are not users exactly. It's not really using people either, because if they're they're going to give it to you, it's their free will. Okay so. Speaker 3 As soon as the Can you make me a moderator? No. I like the trolls. The trolls bring me more money. Believe it or not, y'all know I'm a. Speaker 1 Gold digger. So I need to keep controls. Like, y'all have to think, OK, I was. I was going to make a video on my on my other channel about Kanye. You know, everybody's bad at Kanye because he's what a stupid Donald Trump had and he's this and he's that. Y'all got to understand the deeper meaning of things, you know what I'm saying? It's not about right and wrong. It's about benefit. OK? Can you benefit from something? All publicity is good publicity. Think about it. Nobody was talking about Kanye. They he was crazy. Now he's going to. Now he's in the studio. Now he's all over YouTube, TMZ, Twitter. OK, he's sucking up all y'all's energy and going to use it and get paid. So This is why I keep my trolls. I like my trolls. I need my trolls. The reason I'm here, half the reason I'm here is trolls. But I need y'all. Thanks. Thanks for showing up every day. Need y'all. OK. Speaker 3 Anyways, you see how good Kim is at patting Kanye's ego? Speaker 1 She will gas Kanye up. Yeah. He thinks he really is a God. Exactly. I think I'm married to Kim Kardashian. You know my. Speaker 3 My role model is not Michael Jordan. It's Disney, OK? It makes sense. He got more money, OK? Speaker 1 I don't have to agree with everything. I don't agree with everything, Donald Trump says. Of course you don't. You agree with how he makes money and how he did what was seemingly the impossible. You can like somebody. For their accomplishments, but not for their moral values. Just like the trolls like me, but they don't like my morality. They hear everyday faithful and true, just as someone who really likes what I'm speaking. They're here, You. Speaker 3 Know what I'm. Speaker 1 Saying they don't have to like what I'm saying, but they're here to disagree. They're here to share with me their anger, and I am here to accept it. Thank you. I accept your anger. Speaker 3 And your money. So y'all need to think about this. It's not who's right or who's wrong. It's who's here, who's talking, who's commenting. Both Everybody. I might be helping people. I might be helping men. Speaker 1 Avoid gold diggers who can't afford a gold digger. I might be helping women get a man and become a gold digger at the same time. I'm helping two people on the opposite ends. Opposite end of the spectrum. Speaker 3 Right. All right. I still need a young thing on the side of a sugar daddy. I got needs. Speaker 1 You you must be a young thing yourself if you got needs. My needs are financial needs only. Is it okay to ask to be in someone's will or should I let them bring that up? It's easier to get a life insurance, a life insurance policy on someone. You just pay up on it and like, hey, you know what? I, you know, I really love you. I've become to depend on you. And, you know, if something were to happen to you, I would be, like, so out of luck. So, you know, what do you think about us getting a life insurance policy? Have him get one on you too. So it seems fair, You know, I heard it's a good idea. So I appreciate all of your chips ordered. My copy of Whole Tact is living. You need to get my book too then I hope. Do you have my book? It's on Amazon.com and it's an ebook you can download. It's called Too Pretty to Pay Bills. Get that one too. It's really short. It's not long and drawn out. It's like a guide versus a novel So guide. What if it takes 6 days for him to call you? If he's a sugar daddy, it doesn't matter because he's not your boyfriend. If he's your boyfriend, then that's a problem. Remember Sugar Daddy's pay for. Speaker 3 Your just so they don't have to find a girlfriend, OK? You're there when they need you, whatever if they don't. Speaker 1 Call you back, they're probably done with you. That's why I would say have Plan B. Oh, you got my book. Thank you. Oh, you got a book? I should put the link in the description box. All you got to do is type in two pretty to pay bills. It will pop up. I promise you, if my video pops up, the link is in that video description. Just put it in Google. It'll come up. I can't believe Whole Tactics was written by a man LOL. C men know the truth. No matter how much they deny it, they know. Speaker 3 The truth. Speaker 1 They know how. They know what will make a woman. They know what a woman does that can make them do certain things. They know what a woman has to do to make them do something. So just like I know what a man has to do to make me do something, You know I'm not. Invincible to Dusty. I mean, there's a secret formula that a Dusty could do that, you know, might might get me. I don't, you know, you know, of course might get anybody. But I'm not going to tell you all that there's a secret Dusty formula. Everybody has a weakness. Every woman has a weakness. And like y'all y'all haven't figured out mine. That's why can't get at me. Yeah, I know. Y'all already know. Speaker 3 Figured out the weakness, but see if y'all can figure it out. Speaker 1 The only way I would ever get with a Dusty. I'm going to tell y'all my weakness because I doubt anyone would even attempt it. The only way I would even bother with a Dusty is if he was. Now I ain't going to say it. Let's see if y'all can get see how well y'all know me. Michael Jackson, if he was AM J impersonator, but he had to look like him. He can't be like one. And ones that don't look like nothing like him got to look at talk, be the same height, had the nose job and everything. He got to have all of that going on. He then he wouldn't really be a dust because he'd be making money. So maybe if he was like a older version, like the 80s version of them, the Thriller era version, yeah, I can work with that. That would be the. Speaker 2 Only. Speaker 1 Exception. But you have to look like can't be like off. You gotta have, you gotta have like at least 85 percent, 90% looks. That's my only. Speaker 2 Weakness, I say. Speaker 1 Come on, come on, come on. Sequence gloves. Oh, and you have to be able to dance. Speaker 2 And sing okay. Speaker 1 I forgot to add, that party got to be able to have the MJ talent. What do you do for ex. Come back in your life after he's seen you with another? I don't. I don't bother with ex's y'all unless he has money and unless he has real money. Not little play money, but real money. Unless he adds real money. Don't bother. And and even then get a bunch of money out of him before you do anything you want to get. Speaker 3 Used. Speaker 1 But only within a certain limit. Tell her you're only in town for the weekend or tonight. That way she can't use you in the future and you just did the number and block hers. If only 419, that's how you can do it. Speaker 2 I don't live. Speaker 1 Here I'm from out of town. Then you can't ever go back to that place again. Or you can say you're visiting if she sees you again. Oh, I might be moving here, but I'm engaged. Speaker 3 La. Speaker 1 Then she'll be mad and she'll never bother you again. Have you ever been blocked by a man? Speaker 2 Blocked. Speaker 1 By a man me only when I'm in groups on Facebook and I'm talking trash and they can't. Speaker 3 Really have a comeback because I I'm too good at trolling. That's the only way and I don't even know the person. I just be commenting. Speaker 1 I'm too savage for them, so they have to block. Speaker 3 Me on Facebook. Speaker 1 I feel cheesy when I try to scam those men. I feel like they know what I'm up to. How can I overcome that? Baby boys, Really. Speaker 3 Act. You got to act. Speaker 2 They don't know if that's your real personality, they just meeting you. Speaker 1 You know what I'm saying? They don't know who you are. This could be the real you. Speaker 2 They don't know, You know what I'm saying? Speaker 1 Acting is fun. Exactly. My sugar dad is a jealous man. What should I do? Become possessive over him. You can only fight fire with fire. Start being jealous about him. Where you been? Speaker 3 Oh, how come? Speaker 1 You didn't answer your phone when I called. Oh no, I'm going with you. We're going to go together. Did I see you talking to a girl when you went to the restroom? Why are you looking at the waitress Do the same thing, Then he might feel more secure and stop being jealous over you because now he thinks. Speaker 2 You're in love. Speaker 1 Because you're jealous, but it's really an act. OK, if your ex has money, then you know, get it, get paid. Do you believe in soul ties? No, I believe in money ties. OK, the only soul ties that I would truly believe in are family soul. Speaker 2 Ties. Speaker 1 Because think about it. Why would you be so tied to another person that is expendable? You know, not someone that's going to be with you forever, but expendable. Or if you cheat, I don't want to be with you no more. Oh, if you do this, I don't want to be with you no more. A soul tie would mostly be with someone like a child, a mother or something like that, not some random dude who is a dusty and trying to sell you a hotel dream. Okay, no. Speaker 3 OK. Speaker 1 Disposable. Exactly. Random dude. Whole tip. Dream. Yes. Don't need it. Don't want it. I don't believe that. Like, no man can walk up to me, not even Michael Jackson, and say. Speaker 2 We're meant to be together, you and I. We have a soul tie. Speaker 1 I would just think he's scamming on me. Speaker 2 Oh really? We got a soul tie, Okay? Speaker 1 So since we have the soul. Speaker 3 Tie. Let me get on that wheel. Speaker 1 Use it to your advantage. If a if a dusty comes up to you to you talking about a soul tie, take advantage of it. Speaker 2 You know you're. Speaker 1 Right. Maybe we should. Maybe you should marry me. Maybe you should buy me a nice ring, since we're supposed to beat our Galvel. Speaker 2 Maybe you should invest in me. I'm your soul tie. There's no one else. Bring me that money. I'm the only one. You're not going to find anyone better. I. Speaker 1 Am the soul tie. You can use it to your advantage. If you want to believe in soul ties, use it to your advantage. I mean, I would if I if I had met a a rich dusty hotel who got money, I would use the I would use the soul tie line too, just to get money. I will make him believe it. I'll finish the sentences before he did. See, we're connected. Honey. I got to the bathroom. I knew it. Speaker 3 But what's for dinner? Where were you taking me? I finish your sentences. Yes, but what time is it? 3:00, O'clock. Speaker 2 We're sold. Speaker 3 Highs, yes. Don't don't leave any toilet paper in the bathroom And when he goes in there, hey. Speaker 2 The toilet papers under the sink. We're connected. Speaker 1 I will use it for my advantage. I don't use like. Because think about it. So you have a soul tie with some dude who cheats on you, beeps on you, lies to you, gives you diseases. But that's your soul tie. OK, you stupid, a soul tie is the same thing as. Speaker 2 Your twin flame, you're soul mate. Speaker 1 The figure of speech that has been taken too far and instead of meaning what it really means, it's a term of endurement now. And that's it's just like saying baby. You're not a literal baby, but that's just your pet name, yes. Speaker 3 Do I talk? Speaker 1 About black empowerment? No, I talk about financial empowerment because that's the only way. Ever going to get some black empowerment? It's to get financially empowered. Any race you need money. Point blank, straight up. I ain't going to lie to you. You need some money. That's it. Don't come talking to me on my channel about black empowerment and stuff like that. But you broke, get some money and then you talk. Speaker 3 OK, there you go. Can't do nothing without money you can't do. Speaker 2 Nothing without money. Speaker 1 What if you meet a hot, hot, Really hot. Sugar Daddy, am I not supposed to fall in love? No. That's how you get more when you don't fall in love. If they hot, they know they're hot and they know you're going to fall in love so you don't fall in love. You're the one that they have to work extra hard for. OK? When they're ugly, that's when you fall. Fall in love. Speaker 3 OK. Speaker 1 You don't fall in when they're you treat them like they're. Speaker 2 Ugly. Speaker 1 Why? Speaker 2 Because they know they have to work extra. Speaker 1 Hard for you. And even though they think you're treating them that way, because they are. Speaker 2 Attractive. All you have to do is say, oh baby. Speaker 1 I don't like pretty boys. I like, you know, you know? Speaker 2 I'm like, rough, masculine. Speaker 1 Looking man, Rugged Man, you know. Find pick out traits on men that are not what he has. I mean like if he's not super tall, I like, I like guys like 6-5 and up. You know, give him an insecurity and that's why you're not falling for him, because you're always trying to see if something better comes along and so he has to. Speaker 3 Prove himself to y'all. Speaker 1 Like, like a billionaire. Yeah. Talk about men with more money than him. Talk about, you know. Guys that are. Speaker 2 Taller than him. Like, oh, did you see what such and such did? He was on the news yesterday. Have a secret crush on someone like famous and every time they come on TV like, you know, don't give him that. Speaker 1 Don't give him that. He can be as cute as he can be, but if he gets you, the money is going to decrease. He's going to get bored of you. Speaker 3 I had to put on the shoe, OK? You wish your wife wouldn't create some insecurities on you sometimes. Why 'cause you tired of the her being. Speaker 1 So attached to you and you don't think you have to work for anything and that it's boring? Mmhmm. It's always good to have a little jealousy, a little competition, a little, you know, leaving the house looking so good that you're just happy she came home. You know what I'm saying? Speaker 2 Oh my gosh. Speaker 3 She looks so nice. I'll be here when you get back. All her okay. Speaker 1 All I hear them talking about is getting money. What about your? Women don't really care about sex that much. We just want we just like shopping. We like to look cute. We like to go out. We like to go on vacation. If the sex comes in between that with that, we're good. But that's not all we think about. That's why we have the advantage, because we're not all thinking about sex. We have the advantage because it's not as important to us as it is to y'all. Perhaps. Some women do they have higher sex drives because they're seeking validation. But those women who are happy with themselves love themselves. They don't really seek validation from men through sex. So you know they have more leverage and we they get more and they know what they want and they don't really have any type of they don't nothing is driving them sexually. It's only materially or. Whatever their goal is, you know, it could be marriage, it could be commitment, it could be money, it could be affection, it could be whatever. But most of the time it's not sex. And I think that's what men love about women, because it's not about sex. Just think about it. If women were as sexual as men, the men would not like it. They could really think about it. If the women were as sexual as men, the men would not like it. Not as much. It would be like that's all you want from me is some sex. You don't want to go do nothing. You don't want to eat. You don't go to movies. You don't want to show. You just want to have sex with me and leave and not call me back. I'm tired of getting up and pumping for 20 minutes and you don't call me back. I just put in all that work and sweat it. I'm losing weight over here. You know what I'm saying? You don't even, you don't even stick around. You know? I got to go. I got to feed myself and take care of myself and I'm being drained. Y'all taking all my energy and you just leave me like that. Go on to the next dude. What if you get pregnant? You gonna call me and tell me you're pregnant? It's going to be the opposite, you know? Baby. I they're going to be calling baby. Did you take a pregnancy test this month? Do you think you pregnant? Speaker 3 You sure? Just go. Speaker 1 Buy one occasion so you can know. Speaker 3 Okay. Hey, you want to go have lunch? No. You can come by. What time? 11:11 at night? Speaker 1 That's late. What? So you going to leave right after? You're not going to even spend the night? Speaker 3 Darn it. Speaker 1 Well, I guess. Speaker 3 You could come through. All right. Can we watch a movie first? What? You mean you'll have time to watch a movie with me? Speaker 1 All right, just come. Just come. I'm going to change your. Speaker 3 Mind, I'm going to give it to an extra good Wake up. Nobody's there. She's. Speaker 1 Gone again. Thank you, Kala Duke. Ooh, she gave me a nice donation. I appreciate you. So if women like sex just as much as men, men would resent it. Men would use it to get what they wanted as well. Okay, if you come over and pick me up and take me to lunch or I'll take you to lunch, then I'm going to give it to you real good later on. I mean real good. I've been studying. I got. Speaker 3 Some new tricks, you know. Okay. Come, come, come through. Speaker 1 Let's go to lunch. I need my energy for later. See. See how it would work in your advantage if we were. As crazy about sex as y'all with blood? OK, but since it's not. Speaker 3 That's how it is what does blocking. Speaker 1 Do to a man if he likes you a lot, it will make him crazy. If he don't care then it will be a relief, you know. So if he likes you a lot, it will drive him crazy. And if he doesn't care, he probably won't even notice he's blocked. All right, I got to go. Y'all. But young women, I think very young women, they're more intersex. And women who need validation are very much intersex. So finding a woman who is less, you know, likely to to get. You know the type of man she wants and to be spoiled, they're probably going to be more into sex. A younger woman who's just figuring out her sexuality and exploring she's going to like sex, okay. But the women that know their value and word and know what they want and know how value their sex is and that they're not going to value it as much, only what it can do for them. But like I said, when pygmy women. Women who have hard times getting men attention and young women, they all be very happy to give you some OK, They might even show up early. Speaker 3 Hey, how you doing? What? But after that it's like OK. Speaker 1 I got to trick him, get what I want, let him think I'm going to give him some, OK? What is what if you just spending money on her but she has no interest and she just after you're to benefit? OK, if you want to make her want you, well, I you know I don't like giving, I don't like giving advice to men. But if you want someone who's just using you to finally give it up. Speaker 2 Pretend like you found someone else to replace her. Speaker 1 Just be like, I'm not going to be able to see you tomorrow because you know, I have other plans. Don't be afraid to risk it and lose it all. I promise you, she's going to be like, like, thinking, OK, well, I might need to give it up now because he's finding interest somewhere else. OK? You have other plans tomorrow, so I'm not going to be able to take you out tomorrow, but call me next week. Say next week. Don't say tomorrow. Like you're basically being. Oh, thank you, Frankie Roberts. And gave me some money. Thank you, Thank you. Basically five. I'll see you in five days. That means don't call me. I'll call you. I'm busy. You're being replaced. If she feels like she's losing you, she's going to do something. OK, But you can't be afraid to risk it all. And then if nothing happens, call her back in five days and be like, hey. Speaker 3 What are you doing? Speaker 1 Act like it was only one day. Like you don't even miss her then she's going to be trying to cater to you. Speaker 2 So, you know, how about you Take Me Out? How about you take me shopping? Oh, no. Speaker 1 I'm not going to be able to do that, but if you want to come by and see me tomorrow, I'll be home between this time and this time click. You got to hurry up and get it done. Like I don't need you no more. I got somebody else. If you want to come through, come through. If you don't, you're lost. So you got to do it. Same as a woman. Except you have to not be afraid to risk it all. You people at risk it all. Get it all. Thank you, Sarita Graham. Appreciate it. OK, But I got to go for real now. I'll see y'all later. I might come back on tonight, I'm not sure. Or. Definitely going to be back tomorrow, so bye.