How To Flirt With Women The Right Way - Game Sessions W King Dre

There's one thing you confuse and right now and it straight up stalling your results with women. And until somebody pulled you to the side and put you onto it, you're going to keep doing the same thing, thinking you're doing the right thing, scratching your head, wondering why they're not working. What you're doing is you're confusing compliments with flirting and listening to me. That is a huge difference. Huge is two completely different things and you've been out here doing one thinking it's the other and that's why nothing is moving for you with the ladies. So let's unpack it. Let me break it all the way down for you. A compliment is an expression of praise, admiration, or approval. Flirting this behavior or communication that shows romantic or sexual interest, do you see the difference? When it's praising or putting her on a pedestal and the other one is you letting her know you're feeling hurt, you put in your game down. Two totally different jobs. And here's where you fumble in the bag and it's causing you. You praising yourself right out of the game. You walk up, you stack and compliments on top of compliments and you think you're building something and you're going absolutely nowhere because a compliment is neutral. My God, it don't signal that you want her. She takes it. She says thank you and life goes on. Nothing move. Nothing happened. You can stack 10 compliments and be in the exact same spot you started in one good flirt does more than a whole month of compliments. Do you understand that? A compliment makes her feel good about herself. Flirting makes something happen between y'all. That ain't the same thing. And I'll finish show you exactly what I mean because I watch one of my students learn this the hard way. I gave them up and he ended up fixing it. But this is what happened. This man genuinely thought he was flirting with a woman. He came to me frustrated like Dre. I'm doing everything right showing up, staying consistent, saying all the night shit and she ended up. But nothing is moving romantically. I can't figure out how to get on a day. I can't figure out how to close it. I can't figure it out for the life of me. So I asked him to show me what he was saying to her. I go through the man textress and he just complimented her at the border. You look good. You're so funny. I love you energy all day every day and that right there told me everything that I needed to know. I had to let him know like bro you'd never flirted with her one time. You just praise to the death. There's a difference. The needle didn't move because you didn't move it. Compliments do not move the needle. You just kept making her feel good about herself. So what she do? She kept texting back because it felt good. Think about this. What woman don't like a man gassing them up all day. But romantically she ain't have a single signal from him. Not one and eventually with no tension, no direction, no nothing. The whole thing fills it out and died and that ain't even her fault. That's the compliment during exactly what compliments do. Which is nothing. So now let me show you what the difference sounds like in real time side by side. So you never get these two mixed up again. I'm gonna give you the compliment then I'm gonna give you the flirt and it's gonna click when you hear it. Now compliment you look nice today. Flirt you look nice today. I just got to get to know you. Do you hear that? Yes, it's basic, but you get the point. The compliment just dies right there. You said it. She said thank you. Y'all just standing there. But the flirt the flirt attaches something to it. You look nice and I want to get to know you. Now she know two things at once. You noticed her and you feeling her. That's you putting your game down. That's exactly what moves the needle. Now the next one compliment you have a beautiful smile. Flirt that smile is dangerous. It's gonna get me in trouble. Now you ain't just looking at her smile. That smile is doing something to you. You react into her. That's personal now. She ain't just catching a compliment. She's affecting a man and trust me. It lands a whole different way. My brother next compliment. I love your style. Flirt I love your style. You got taste. That's gonna look lovely next to me when we go out. That last part was doing all the heavy lifting when we go out together. You just told her flat out. No guessing. No riddle. No hurt trying to decide you or decode you. You let her know you feeling her and you said it with your chest like a man. Not a wini. That's clean and ain't nothing scary about it. Now the last one compliment you have good energy. Flirt I just can't get enough of your energy. Short simple but it says I want more of you. That's the part she actually listening for whether she will admit it or not. She want to know is she getting to you and that line won't tell her yes you are. And when you tell her you at her are you interested now she can make a difference. Do you feel the difference? The compliment closes the door. The flirt cracks it open and tells her to come on through. Now y'all got some going. See how that worked and that ain't even the whole picture. I'd be here all day because there's a whole system to this thing and it goes levels deep. Flirting has levels to it. Each one more intentional and more powerful than the last one. And I laid the whole formula out inside the escalation playbook that's dropping on July 13th. Click the link in the description and get on the wait list right now. Now before we go any further I need you to really get this next part. I really need you to pay attention and soak this up because this is what's going to flip the whole way you see flirting. You see most men dodge flirting because they scare to get rejected. They figure if they stay in that compliment lane they can keep it going with no risk. She can't reject the compliment right? She can't tell you know for saying she look good. So you camp out right there and you keep piling them on feeling safe. But you lose and doing that you lose and slow. Slow enough that it feels comfortable. So you keep on doing it because standing that compliment lane don't actually save you from rejection. All it does is drag the outcome out while your time bleeding out of the bottom. You're not avoiding rejection big dog. You avoiding clarity. Now here's what flirting really is when you understand it right. Flirting is a screening mechanism. It ain't just something cute you do to charm her. It's a tool that tell you exactly where you stand so you know whether to keep going or keep it pushing or when the exit stays left. When you compliment she stays neutral and not you clueless about where you stand. You sitting there hoping, guessing, re-enway too deep into every little text messaging me all night trying to figure out do she like me or she just being nice. But when you flirt she got a respond and how she respond tell you everything you need to know. She flirt back. Now you're in there you're in the game door open you keep moving or she don't catch it. She let it sit there and that's just as valuable because now you got your answer. She ain't feeling you like that. Now you ain't got to waste three more weeks texting a woman who was never gonna give you play anyway. You can keep pushing and go find the one who will give you some play either way you win. The compliment don't give you none of that. It just leaves you stuck guessing dumping your time and energy into something with no direction praying and magically turning to something one day on its own. And I'm here to tell you my guy it won't. The man who floats move faster and waste way less time than the man who complimented sit around wondering for weeks. So let me leave you with this and I want you to really sink in before you click off this video. When you compliment you walk away from that interaction guessing when you flirt you walk away knowing and knowing be guessing every single time no matter what the answer turned out to be. Think about all the time you're embearing sitting in that unknown texting a woman for weeks. No idea if she liked you or not showing up staying consistent dropping compliment out the compliment catching a thank you every time but never knowing where you actually stand that that their space that wondering that's what compliments leave you with every single time flirting though it kills that their space it forces the moment of truth and the truth sells at you free and the man who forced the moments move through his date in life a whole lot faster than the man who keep ducking them. He find the woman who actually is feeling him he finds the woman who actually feeling him a lot quicker he spent less time in the wrong spots and he ain't sitting on the bench for months behind a woman who was never going to choose him in the first place because he would have found out day one out the gate that alone should change how you start moving today knowing the difference between a compliment and flirting is crucial to your successful women not just some nice game to have crucial my brother because everything else in this game the attraction the connection the escalation all of it run through this right here you can't escalate off a compliments you can't build sexual tension off a compliments you need that flirt the crack to door first and if you want the whole system I teach all of this all the way through inside the escalation playbook flirting sexual tension and escalation the complete thing everything standing between you and closing the deal and get sex or the girl you want it drops July 13 the link is in the description get on the wait list right now but anyway guys like this video subscribe and hit the notification bell that way get this good good good game fresh off the press I'll know my slogan spread game Not negativity. Make sure you guys hit that height button so we can spread this game and not negativity. But anyway, that's been my time. I'm your gracious, gracious, gracious, gracious game invite to yours truly, King Dre. Till next time.