How to Cancel Plans! w/ Kevin Ryan & H. Foley

What's up, everybody? Hope you guys had a happy 4th of July. The boys got jammed the F up this week and were unable to record an episode, but don't worry, we have a Patreon episode on deck for you. I hope you guys like it and we'll see you later this week. Thanks for the support. We love yous. Welcome to another exciting edition of Are You Garbage? The show where you find out if your favorite comedians are classy individuals or absolute trash. Now, here are your hosts, Kevin Ryan and H. Foley. Hey, everybody out there, and welcome back to everybody's favorite podcast. This is Are You Garbage? Trav, hit me. It's that little show where you sit down with your favorite comedians and we find out if they're good to be classy or if they're just a big old piece of trash. Basura. I'm your host, H. Foley, coming at you on a beautiful day. We're out back here at Tootie's in a new edition, but I've got to tell you folks out, why? Why is that, Kippy? Because they're the motherfucking homies. Get her. Well, I can't really get up there right now. Homies. Homies. Yeah, you think you can sing. I'm the true triple threat around here. I'm an alto, dickhead. All three arteries, partially clogged. I'm a tenor, I'm sorry, not an alto. You're a three at best. An Albuquerque two if he is me. How you doing? Hit me with a tenor, mate. Gang, we're here for a little bonus episode on the old Patrione. My coach is coming at you from across the table when he's not Kevin Ryan, everybody. Big dogs throwing heat today. I was going to make fun of you, but I decided not to. I start off on the same footing. I like that. Other than the abuse that I took in our pre-production meeting this morning due to my new boots and my weight problem, certain- You think that was, first of all, that was, listen, you're rolling over- There's not a lot to say. You're rolling over and playing turkey chicken already. The days of your psychobabble are over. That's not psychobabble. Yes, it is. Listen, we're now- You're always trying to put me on the couch. No, I'm not at all. I'm saying this- I'm in the backseat. I don't hate them. My legs are wrapped in pretzel style. You introduced all these people. The first introduction to me is that I've been being mean to you. That's what you just did to fucking 20,000 people. Kevin was being mean to me, which I was not. Fuck me. Shout out to, which I respect. What was the joke? The insult. I was going to call you Captain Dickhead. They would have killed me. What are we talking about? That's what pays the bills around here. I was working on that for about four hours yesterday. Captain Jerk. Captain Asshole. Nothing was clicking. But then as I was buying my new boots yesterday- These new boots. New boots. You got a boot cam? I think we do. Don't we have an ankle cam? Yeah, you do. Not on this. That's on the- Oh, okay. Hit him with the ankle cam. Go ahead. Take a look at him. Look at him. Nice new boots. $89 DSW. Genuine leather, folks. You can smell it from here. You can smell the blood from the blisters already. Here them dogs are. A barking. Oh, boy. A little break-in period. Sounds like a sheep dog down there. God damn. Shout out to the motherfucking homies, baby. The lifeblood of the organization. Goddamn boots on the ground. Sleeper cells, the undercover brothers, and them soul sisters. We fucking love you, gang. Truly, you know, this is a- All the stuff we've accomplished and we do, the fact that the fucking Patreon is still hitting new highs every month is fucking- It's not slowing down. It's crazy. It's like new highs every month. Year over- Month over month, year over year is fucking crazy. We fucking love you. Appreciate that you guys are digging, or picking up what we're putting down. This is really where it is. This is home here. Of course. Kind on the page. This is it, baby. Everybody else out there, whatever. Bozos. Yeah. Yeah, talk to this guy, that guy. Shut up. Yeah. I was talking about you. What? We'll be doing this from an underground bunker after the Terminators come. If you're listening to this, I have on new boots. I mentioned my new boots. I can't run. That would suck. What? New boots and then you get killed. There was a natural disaster or something now. And your new boots? I just got my new boots. Show off. Also, snow everywhere. Wild to wear new boots. That's the whole point, you idiot. Those aren't snow boots, idiot. Don't first of all call me idiot. I'm not wearing duck boots like I'm fucking going out on the chalet. A little bit of galoshes. Yeah, I mean, they're not- These are my winter boots. I'm going to let them get dirty. I'm not saying you're not going to let them get dirty, but- Oh, I'm going to let them get dirty. Believe you me. Yeah, that's more of like a dress boot, I would say. See, that's just because they're brand new. When they get weathered in, they're going to- Yeah, well, when you ruin them, they're going to be more ruined. Yeah. Respect the logic. Well, when I ruin them, sure. Well, I looked at like gaffer boots. You know, like the shit that the guys in the camera department usually wear. Like Tim's. No, not Tim's. Those rock climbing boots are whack. Yeah, those rock climbing boots. What are they all about? I know, but the cool dudes wear them. Cool dudes wear them. Guys that know shit. You just named gaffers. Guys that wear- Gaffers are cool. Uh-huh. They're the real gaffers. I'm not saying- Listen, okay. I'm not saying they're not cool gaffers. I'm just saying no one goes, I want to be cool like a gaffer. Race car driver. Instruction worker. Gaffers, grips, camera guys. Those guys are the- Hey, listen. You're not giving your Oscar speech. Relax. Those guys are the- Those guys are the line cooks of- Everybody gets that. Of the set life. Like the line cooks, they always scored with the waitresses. Uh-huh. The waitress is never hooked up with the waiter. So are the actresses the waitress? I don't think there's a lot of actresses dating the gaffers. Fucking Julia Roberts married a cameraman. Okay, no one's saying you're the listen. I'm just saying, I think the rule of thumb on the movie- Point is, I get no tail. The rule of thumb on a movie set is I don't think the gaffers are cool. They're swimming in gush. Well, I was going to buy a pair of- Nothing on- Swimming in gush? Ew. Super Bowl Sunday, you talk like that? You stink. Get your bets in, folks. Let's bet if those boots ever come off. Let's see if we ever- I got 20. He says we never see them things again. It's a two-man job to get them on. It really is. Why did you lie to me outside? Because you suck. I don't like your face. Fucking tell you what's up. Yeah, I'm going to give you that. Nothing. I mean, that's just a conversation. Wait, why? Did you ask me? Yeah. You go, they're actually very easy to get on. In that kind of tune. Yeah, three or four guys. Very easy. You're a boomerang system. I didn't think I needed the gaffer for. Julia Roberts did not marry a gaffer. She was a cinematographer. I say it's the same thing. Camera guy, working guy. Huh? What about Julia Louis-Dreyfus? What does that bozo do? Sit around and fuck his cool guy up. Hey, a real cool guy. Pussy. What does he do? Julia Louis-Dreyfus' husband. Brad Hall. Yeah. He's an actor, I think. Actor and comedian. Get him on a show? Check out my new boots. That happens a lot, though. Where did you get the boots? Can we get a right answer out of you? Because you've been lying. Not lying. You've been squirrely on the real information. They're Louboutin. It's a new designer. Uh-huh. Yeah. Tell me Louboutin's not a real designer. We know he is. Will Smith's kid just did a show with them. Uh-huh. France. That's where I got him. I went over there. Hung out with him. Mom's a bit of a bitch, to be honest with you. Makes a hell of a cup of hot chocolate, though. Nothing on it. Louboutin? I don't know. What? Huh? Am I nuts? I'm also a, you know. I got him at DSW. They were $89. And I got a belt that doesn't fit. But I had already taken the thing off, so I couldn't return it. And I tried to put it on in the store, and the security guy came over and said, Hey, man, what are you doing? Uh-huh. I said, I'm minding my own business. I'm cruising for shit. And I wore the boots out. Uh-huh. What'd you do with the other shoes? I had to bring them home. They're my only sneakers. Uh-huh. They're the ones you don't like. They're not the ones I don't like. You don't like them. Why you gotta get a good pair of shoes? I don't know, man. Because I suck. I know, but you. What does that mean? What's a good pair of boots? Not those. Those are not. Listen, they're nice boots. They're nice boots for now. Why you get a nice pair of Timberlands or Carhartts? Because I'm not there yet, man. I don't understand what there means. Because I'm going down. Once I get to, trust me, you'll know. But you used to have a nice pair of black boots, remember? You used to wear the tongue flapped down. Yeah. Like you're Adam Sandler. Basketball shirt. That's a pretty good look for you. I gotta give that to you. What, really? Nuh-uh. Yeah, well, yes. Big Jay wears them like that. Sure. But he wears like. I don't want to bite his style. His are like from a 90s rap video. Yeah. He's got like the red checkered one. You always make fun of those Timberlands because they fold it down on the sides. I need something to do to pass the time. We were tanking. Add some lollipops or something. Some hard candy. I don't know how to do a Sudoku. Get off my back. Those folded all the way down. Yeah, they folded all the way down. Those turned into like athletic boots. Like you can fucking play. You can run track in them. things. Yeah. I don't know. I don't know. You know, I saw these. I like these. I like Luke. boots but i don't want to get the same ones are these the avier lexington boot no all right they look they're like charlie and haley or something like that they're called all right some you shouldn't be buying you don't know the name of why because they're not that means it's not good right how do you know what's what's what nike's oh i don't know if you heard of them but they put they throw out a pretty good product tried and true tested i like them i like to try new brands small businesses dsw no but the but the uh earlier you told she got him in a place called leathers no i went there after show up show up my new boot you guys you guys got a pair christine and charlie's no yeah they hurt real bad too the boots oh my god it's like the batan death march i'm dying well i'm happy i'm happy you are i take them off but i would need some assistance sure i'm happy i think i think i think it is a very nice professional grown-up look for you i'm trying to take a little bit better you know care of myself obviously great swing you know losing weight i want to get there i just and i'm not criticized by no means criticized i just go you're you're spending a hundred bucks on boots you claim they're not super comfortable and i don't think so i would say not super functional for the the weather i i disagree with that i you would but they're you're wrong they're dress boots and there's fucking a foot of snow outside so i would say they're not the best functional option well i'm wearing them i'm gonna get them all scuffed up and trash them a little bit well you don't have to do that you can go buy a pair of boots that you can wear outside and those can be your nice boots that you wear to dinner or to a show or to whatever where am i going you could dinner in a show you are a performer oh you mean one of my shows anything okay one of your shows yeah i don't know what you meant all right you said you said a show like i was going to see broadway or like you could also do that show at lincoln center you labo m you live in new york you could do that i'm just saying you can only go with me sure you've never listen i've asked you to do a lot of things you don't come you've never asked me to do anything yeah you said can we go out to dinner i said yeah then you said no i don't want them so then we decided to go out to dinner and you got jealous i don't want to go to ruby rosa i don't want to celebrate my birthday this year i just want to think about it okay totally well adjusted normal way to act but if you made plans with me i would probably know why okay i would probably cancel which is what we're talking about on today's episode how to get out of plans with your dickhead friends you want to celebrate to celebrate your 50th birthday just do something nice for it in a celebration god damn death march death rattle jesus christ it's all perspective baby you got to change the lens i know man i'm kidding i feel great you're not you just feel great i feel absolutely fantastic how your toes feeling right now dying everything everything from the ankles up my right pinky toe is caught a ledge in the fall leather and it is rubbing there was a there was a period of time where i was wearing my mom's boots as a kid whoa they were waterproof she had like a pair of like girls they weren't timberlands they were like knockoff timber they were like i felt like they were like hard plastic and have like the fur around the top no but they didn't have like the cool black leather band you know what i mean they were they were a little foofy as my dad called a pair of charlie's and i was looking like the big dog and dancing look like travolta them johns did you find that brand charlie and hayley or something no they ain't got a website yeah i really think it's the out the avier lexicon boot it's the only zip up boot i could find on dsw's now they have plenty in stock what's what's the name what's the manufacturer uh avier av a dot v e oh my god there's no markings you're like a serial killer and listen they are not out they are not snow boots dude those things those things are like floor the treads off all the the salt's eating away at the solid and thing you're gonna break it no don't say that i think they got grip on them not a lot yeah they do no they i'm telling you they don't i'm gonna run a hot comb over them get some get some get these retreaded you're taking you're taking souls from other shoes like a tractor trailer you know what i'm gonna need though what's that ball i'm gonna need to go take a little visit to the doctor dr shoal get a couple inserts put in there i need some foam support dog these things are flat you're too big to be wearing not good shoes i'm too big to be wearing not good shoes and you know it's crazy we're on our feet too much we travel too much we're running around ubers airplanes all this shit you need my knee hurts that's the one thing you should that's i know i haven't walked like this in so long because they're because they go up high so like it's a whole new set of muscles more of a waddle yeah it's like when you go skiing for the first time in a long time you haven't used those muscles in a long time yeah my meniscus is killing me which was what it said on the box so warning we'll fuck up we'll fuck your shit up we'll jam you up bad cartilage boots planters warts kank toes whatever you play i saw a video about planters warts man that's brutal what's or no planter fasciitis what's that it's like when something stretches out on your heel or something it's bad planter fash yeah i would get for the longest time um the tendon that runs like on the bottom of your foot that would fucking do that would that was like something when it was inflamed or something and i had to freeze uh water bottles and like that was like the solution roll it on there wow i think my mom has the same thing she uses like a rack of ball or something yeah she was on her dogs for a long time short working she's probably a good nurse's shoes yeah always nursing shoes and uh scrubs nursing shoes yeah that's what she wore she ever wore scrubs now like around the house i don't know people keep those she's painting or something i don't think doing yard work or whatever gardening she has a candle and blood and urine and stuff i was in her free time uh yeah no i don't think she has any of the scrubs anymore she now dresses very much like a nurse and she's wearing scrubs yeah i don't think she has any of the scrubs much like she's got time on her hands and spends a lot of time at kohl's she dresses like tina fey from an snl sketch with a hundred percent a hundred percent will she throw on a an eagles uh sweatshirt uh not really really no maybe phillies no did she wear any of your of your stuff like a temple sweatshirt or anything like that no she was never really proud of my accomplishments sure understand rightfully so yeah five years to get out of college um where did you go to college what where did danny go to college uh rider and then temple rider bucks temple rider bucks temple natural progression similar train yeah yeah yeah um but she's very much like she's got something she's got the time to get like dressed now like when she leaves the house instead of like sure managing kids and working and i'm just throwing on whatever it's like she's she's putting stuff on and it's like she's right off she calls oh kohl's kohl's all day long at call where'd you get a kohl's get the present of kohl everything's kohl's kohl's kohl always has been campus get over to blue chew do yourself a favor get over to that blue chew and start taking the things you need to get back in the saddle if you know what i mean listen i'm a goddamn 50 year old man i'm sure i've slimmed down a little bit i'm working out a little bit more but things slow down the pumps aren't always working you go over to blue chew you get what you need you get straightened out and you're back in the game hit the 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I feel they're probably doing better than most because they were a little bit more, I don't want to say discounty. Stuck that Sephora in there. Is in the Kohl's? Oh, yeah. Well, someone's in Target now. Ulta? What's the other one? Someone's in Target. Ulta. Ulta? I went to a Korean. Kohl's beauty store yesterday. Okay. Like Korean supplies, like the stuff that they use. Ginseng, all that kind of shit. Sure. Stuff's hot right now. K-beauty. You know what I'm talking about? I'm not familiar, but. Oh, it's big. I'll check out. Big. A lot of collagen, vitamin C. That's big everywhere now. I just saw my wife's got collagen peptides for skin, joints, hair, and like fingernails. That's very good. I think she was doing it, maybe doing the pregnancy or after the pregnancy. You know what I started doing every morning is. Bacon, egg, and cheese. Western. Go with the boots. Big man's hot today, gang. Let me get some biscuits and gravy to go with these layers. I don't know if it's the boots or what, but the guy is cooking. I'm walking taller, I'll tell you that. I'll give you a little bit of pep in your step. I'm telling you. Not pep in your step. Your shoulders are high. Yeah, the shoulders are high. Chin's high. I haven't worn boots like this in a long time. I think it's great for. Listen, I'm pro. I feel like I'm about to get some vengeance. I'm pro-boot Foley. Just I think, you know, I think keep these boots. Great boots. Add another pair of boots. Be a boot guy. Well, shout me out. Somebody give me a good boot. Listen, that's a great idea. Not Timberlands or fucking whatever, but like a good. Well, Brunt, obviously, but not right now. Like a man's man's boot. You know what I mean? I think it would look good in Luke's boots. I'm not wearing those Williamsburg fluffies that he wears to brunch. What is pop collar? We stole it from like a working man. We stole that culture. Those are. Those are a working man's boot. It's like Carhartt. It's like Williamsburg guys wearing Carhartt. We're stealing that culture. Not those, though. Nobody would wear a suede boot. And I'm not. I mean, like I work at a that I'm working on a job site or anything like that. No, no one. Everyone knows I'm a song and dance man. My goddamn performer. Check me out at a show. Coles is experiencing a challenging period currently characterized by declining sales. Call up. He's been there. Fucking cold. Neasy sitting on a mountain of coal. I'm about to fuck these dudes up. Q1's not going to see her coming. Okay. All that aside. Love the boots. Thank you. We are talking canceling plans. A thing that a lot of us do specifically. Getting out of plans. Getting out of stuff. Canceling, you know. Maybe a friend you don't really want to hang out. And this isn't directed at you. Friends you don't want to hang out with. Your, I don't know, girlfriend or wives or husband's friends that you got to go hang out with. Which is. Which I just did. Which I, which I, uh, I enjoyed. You did. It was nice. You didn't know the husband. I know the husband. Yeah, yeah, yeah. You know him well? No. I know him as, you know. But the ladies are friends. Yeah. Huh. How long was that set up? Maybe a month ago. Something like that. Hey, this Sunday. Did the thought of bagging it ever cross your mind? Uh. Would you prefer, would you prefer not to go? Or are you so gone that like you were. What's gone mean? Just lost and. Is that what you. Is that what you're saying? Is that your take on me now? If I'm lost, what are you? I'm not found. Um, there was, I was in, I was just very, I'm very tired, obviously exhausted, mentally, emotional, spiritually, um, just exhausted. And like, I, if I would a cancel, I liked them and it was like, I was good to get out and do something. I've gotten to the point where I've like laying around when I'm, I know that the answer is through the thing I don't want to do. If that makes sense. Very good. I know I'm like, that's a lot of growth. I know the answer isn't laying here eating three slices of pizza, complaining about how tired and exhausted I am. I got to get through. I got to break through. Well, it's not jump to conclusions. Yeah. Um, depends on the Zod. And I said that to my wife when I was like, you know, she's like, you would like to cancel right now. And I was like, yeah, but I know that's not the, that's not going to make me feel better. Huh? You answered like that. I would have been like, what the fuck does that mean? Yeah, no, I know what you mean. You would have done fucking lose it. Then start a fight. Then you got, you're out. I ain't done. There you go. Um, I feel like I'm going to excel at this. Hi dude. And this goes back to, you think you're way better at this than you really at lying than you really are. Fine. Then I'm not coming. See, I'm out. I see the truth. Um, I, yeah, but my thing would have been not, I think not feeling well now post COVID is pretty wide open. Especially. Dude, if there's another spike in like the norovirus or something, oh, there's people are getting, there's something going on. Whenever something's going around, that's when the bug man. Yeah. Bug man. Yeah. Oh man. I mean, this Christmas time. Oh, well, do you not feel well? My uncle got out on Christmas. This was a pretty good one because he was going on vacation the following, like a couple of days. I can't, you're about to take it. And it went, I can't risk getting sick. Can't risk getting sick. I don't want to get sick. I want to get sick. I'm just not doing it. I don't want to get anybody else sick. All right. I'm sorry. You know, I think I came all the way home so I could lay in mom's house all day. Is that what you really think? Huh? No, that's stupid. Your brother on the other line going, you think I went to come slay my childhood bed and not, and I'm not going to get sick. answer the phone and watch Star Wars and hang out uh-huh rub my Fremulon yeah uh-huh you think I wanted to do that does it help that Patty has like all the stuff that she's not bringing over in the fridge like the things like the the cheese boards and all that stuff that she was preparing all those staples are now in the fridge and they got a shelf life on them and they got a shelf life on them and she might be saving those for like another Christmas party she has on like the 27th and 28th and what's gonna happen when she goes in there in the morning on the 28th to put that together and there's only half a block of cheese there there's only figs left we got the fucking apple slices bitching at me you left me here all day by myself no you're 50 year old son with no money you get the dog food ready uh-huh which was disgusting by the way he does pretty well you hit me with uh you you this was one dance move of yours that I didn't I didn't see you were canceling uh an event you know you were you were canceling a spot and you hit you were like you asked me we were you asked me just recently yeah I mean let's be vague okay protect the innocent um it was did I hit you with the hey you going to this uh I forgot I know exactly I think we were traveling together I think we were traveling and you had a spot we were coming back on like say a Sunday and you had a spot Sunday night and I was like or did I I was like that's I never put in on nights before I'm the worst with that yeah I say yes to stuff that that like in the moment I'm like you gotta go you gotta go and then that day I'm like what are you out of your fucking mind well when you put yourself somewhere at that time and it's cold and you're like this is all I you I also accept I I'm always a better version of with any event not spots with with anything I'm always the best version I've gotten I'm always the best version of myself in two weeks hey so and so wants to hang on Sunday I'm in line it up I'll drive to deep Brooklyn I don't yet Sunday afternoon I don't do I have a fucking are we working every five five 12 hour days that week sure lock it up and when that day comes do I have spots every night that week sure who cares it's like somebody else did it yeah brutal that happened to me yesterday because my cousin was in town and I made plans and I fucking hey you're looking forward to tomorrow fuck fuck is that why is that why yeah you were on the upper west side yeah that's right yeah I was all over that bitch the city not my cousin you're a lovely person um I've gotten better at because we did that when we first started touring a lot of the night before you leave and the night I return I don't do spot I don't even put in I go we're leaving that's a hard if we're leaving Tuesday I do not put in Monday because you're just just james you up they push my flight back you believe that that's what you did they did my flight it was on a weekend where one of those I don't know if there was a storm or that they shut down the terminal I know exactly what you're talking about and you went flight hey I can't make it they I'm all jammed up my flight's delayed you was like they had delayed a hundred chaos out there yeah delayed the whole eastern seaboard and I went you rat motherfucker that's a good one they don't think of that yeah that was a really good all systems down goddamn air traffic controller budget so see when a plane I woke up in Cleveland be there soon uh that was very um that was that was a really good one by you yeah yeah flight got pushed back uh-huh I got the baby coming back another one recently coming back from upstate I'm in gridlock traffic on the Taconic Parkway I don't even know where that is but I know it's bad I know I don't want to go I don't want to end up there on a Sunday afternoon I'll tell you that much yeah um that's a good one I now I have a pretty good out with the baby of uh yeah you have a get out of jail free card with and the good thing is anybody with kids a bajillion percent understands yeah they go oh of course yeah of course they nap teething whatever I had to cancel a couple of spots on a nice nice uh gentleman uh you say a baby's got a fever teething he's fucked bedtimes a nightmare oh my I was running late to something I went buddy my bad bedtime was a nightmare he goes don't even get me started I wish I could still get away with that stuff he lies you don't understand I'm teething a set of wisdoms coming in never had them pulled uh yeah yeah that's really good um what that's pretty good yeah the baby's great that's great and very understandable the thing is uh but I never here's the thing I never hold anybody accountable for that kind of stuff let's say um Super Bowl party's going on okay family friends all that kind of stuff let's say I'm hosting it um say you called me hey listen not gonna make it all right yeah I don't give a shit sure but I find that when I do that it's I'm getting ridiculed I'm getting my balls broke I'm getting I'm getting trashed you know when by my you know other people especially as my brother and my one cousin I get you he didn't make it I you're not gonna like this and I'm sorry and you're gonna call me a dick it is a wait wait can I call you dickhead first sure dickhead it's a lot it's a very recurring behavior to this point where it's like at some we're somewhere ever all that kind of stuff it was really it's relatively expected that you're gonna try to get out of something so now people are going like ah when you do it if you did it once a year totally understandable that's whatever it should happen be sick I don't even think about it though oh yeah that's right uh I don't know and Sheila's not here yeah and Sheila doesn't cancel every every other event man and yeah you know everything she's saying anything about my aunt Sheila I love you and Sheila sure that's all I'm saying that's why the people around you go ah fucking you get pushback because you don't know what's going on and you don't know what's going on and you don't know what's you flew too close to the sun speaking of which could use those spinach balls again you haven't made those in a long time and she'll if you're watching she's everywhere she does it doesn't miss an episode man I used to crush these things when I was a kid it's like little cheese and spinach little balls and she'd bake them in the oven never knew what was in them sounds like spinach and cheese fantastic sure a little bit of uh put them in a little bit of uh dill dip oh you got a stew going um I'm with you on that that's all I'm saying I'm not that it's not listen I've I cancel a bunch of stuff too it's not to I'm just saying I think that's why you get pushback from the ones closest to you who've been on the the end of you know that's all yeah that's all I'm saying I don't I don't know if I guns down baby had a fever I had a good run with the cat for a little while so you think yeah no one the cat was sick tonsils you get that maybe once a year you used it for a whole summer that's it I started believing there wasn't even a cat at one point the whole summer doctors don't know what it is flying in specialists canceled their flight you believe that uh yeah uh what do you got what do you got there what are the experts saying obviously some of the standards sickness which you know I think at this point people do respect and also here's another thing I wanted to talk about we don't do shit we don't plan stuff that people will cancel so we weren't we're never show up what to show up but we're never in a thing we should do more stuff like that we just tried you just got out of dinner not dinner I'm sick of dinners hang out at the house come over lay on my couch play some card games or something like that okay man no monopoly do you want to do that for your birthday we all play poker or something here huh we play cards here oh that'd be fun sure I like that I guys over here anytime yeah fuck the cat's gonna be sick did you cancel I'm yeah that's what you would do I got balloons hey you know I got the cat in a little cast blew out his rotator cuff and got him captured by Isis you got a bag on your who that was close I almost had to leave the house can't be they got me jammed up I'll see you I'll see you in 120 to 200 years um no I don't want to be that guy anymore what guy and I've been trying not to I haven't really canceled a lot of stuff lately sure I want to I want to I've never I'm sorry let me cut you this isn't just cancellation what they did I know you I know you have some some things there this is about what to do when when you don't want to go to begin with when you haven't committed and you don't want to go well yeah so uh I mean that cut you off sure no it's okay um but I think I got I worked a double and got a bad back kebby let's talk about quince quince 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know we don't understand uh uh the only things we plan are for work and this and when people cancel it's like it's obviously part of the thing with you know comic schedules and stuff it happens we've had to cancel stuff all that all that stuff happens but so it's like there's no personal but I think when you're planning a party and people say they're coming and then don't we don't really know I haven't planned anything social in a long time to know how that really feels you know what I mean so it's like we think oh we're canceling why can't you understand and people are like not that they don't understand but it's they don't know what they're doing they don't know what they're doing they don't believe you I think they believe you but there is still an emotional investment on the person's side who's Luke just tried to do this and everybody canceled on this party, remember? Canceled. They had to cancel the party. Still pulled through, bud. No, you didn't. Yeah, we did. Yeah, you had to go. We've talked about this. This is crazy. All his fucking bozo friends cancel. I'm still in. He tells me not to come. I don't feel like that's it. He tells me not to come, then still has the goddamn get-together with close friends. Absolutely. I mean, is that crazy? Is that not crazy? Listen. It's funny when you get away from something, you get some perspective on it. You really screwed me there. I was at a very vulnerable point in my life, too. I'm on your side here a little bit. You said there was some new people there that I could have met and build my network. Your network is your net worth. What? Your net worth is your net worth. Oh, I'm tanking. I got a sick cat. I got to start hanging out with other people that buy sick cat and Tommy cat. I don't know why Tommy caught us, Dre. He tends to. I'm on your side on that. I talked to Tommy seeing a little guy this morning. I think. I think. That's fucked up. To rescind the invitation. It's wild. I can see if he wasn't having. I understand that the thing changed, right? He's going, all right, it's no longer the bigger thing. It's going to be four or five people. But. I mean. Let me ask you this. Let's. It's crazy and I respect it. Let's take a step. Yeah. into chicken sandwiches. Uh-huh. into the vault, into the total trust tree. For the new people who might not know chicken sandwiches, chicken sandwiches, it lives and dies here. Don't fucking bring it up at a meet and greet. Don't be posting about it. This is chicken fucking sandwiches. You can be honest. Of course. It's not going to get back to anybody. No. I'm not going to hold any grudges or anything like that. The one I know is Lizard. Okay. I'm an old grub. What was the real. Hey, Kippy. Psst. What was. I'm pissed. What was the real deal behind that? I know there was a conversation with your loved ones. It was. Be honest. Not enough guys were coming. So there wasn't. That's a good ratio. It is me. Get my dick wet. You're telling me it was a bunch of broads? A bunch of rich, hot, young broads and I can't come hang out? Well, what am I? A fucking leper? Wait. You want to steal all the pussy? Are you jealous? I don't have the boots yet. So you would say. So we needed. There was one crucial glue guy that was not going to be there that really was like. I'm the glue guy. You haven't met this other guy. I'm Gorilla Glue. What are you talking about? You put me in the middle of the table. I got everybody laughing. The couples. I'm there to help you. Tell them about your cat. That cat's real sick. I probably got to get out of here. You don't have time to serve them dessert. I ran through about a thousand. Scenarios. How many people ended up going? It was two other guy friends, six girlfriends. Including me and my. I like these odds, eh, boys? I'll take the two little ladies on the left. You guys can fight over the rest. You two ain't gay by any chance, are you? If you are, that's fine. Just keep your dick away from me. If so, I'm going to be there. I'm going to be an ace by the end of this thing. I'll be teaching a top gun next week. And it wasn't even like that. I was protecting myself from being hurt, if I'm being honest. Be hurt from who? You. What? I started bragging. Girl falls in love with me, can't get her hands off me. You got to leave the show. What, that I wasn't going to show? Yeah. Fuck you. I'm bragging to my friends. I got a star, a Netflix star coming to my party. A little star power. Don't give me that shit. I've been hurt before. I know you trashed me and all your friends and family, rightly so. I suck. Don't try to butter me up or play to my affinity for celebrity. What did you say, though? Do you think there's any truth to that, where he was? No. There's got to be some, I would assume. We know you cancel on everything. But he's known to trash me all the time. Sure. He doesn't respect me. The two things can be true. What? Huh? No, they can't. Not in my world. Everything's a lie. My brain. My mind. You short circuit. Your boots blow off. It's not like anybody there is going to give a shit. You probably don't want me breaking your couch or pooping in there or something. We went over this. Huh? What? You got to go. You got to go. Seating is all fragile. And low. See, let's be honest. You didn't want me there. I wanted you there. Stop. Yeah. One of the girls there is a big fan of your appearance and set it up, which I've told you about before. That insult. You show up dressed as the delivery guy. What's up? They let me keep the they let me keep the vest in the hat. Sure. I put on a little bit of weight. I got Glenn Powell in a headlock with me. Hey, what are you talking about? Wasn't even like that. What? Some friends. Anyway, I didn't mean to go on that big sidebar about that. So that's covered ground. But you think you get away from it and we can have an honest conversation about it. I guess not. I guess you're going to continue to lie to me. But I didn't know there was only two dudes and six broads. Yeah. Not that that matters. But it don't hurt. I read a Ferrari. You got the keys you're swinging. You got driving gloves on. Yeah, it's double parked out front. This place is kind of lame. You just want to get heavy. I got to pick my cat up anyway. Whatever. So let's talk business. Sure. The standards, obviously. The sickness card. Prior commitments. But then the prior commitment is what? Hey, I totally forgot I got that. Like the prior commitment is something to get out of, like to decline. Hey, I can't. It's my mom's birthday. I can't. It's my anniversary. Whatever. You know. Work school obligations. Mention having to work late and early morning. Hey, things just shifted around. I got to be into work at 7 a.m. I can't make it. But some of those don't work in my fucked up family and friends. I use work a lot. So what? You got to get a big deal. Just come for a couple hours and hang out. I never do that to anybody. Again, but no one's canceled on you. That's what I would say. But like, I like if it was like my it was like a family party. Someone was like, I can't. I got to work early. Oh, come on. I never put the screws to anybody the way they put screws to me. I don't. I'm really the good guy. Everybody's fucking breaking my balls. All the time. Everybody's being a dickhead to me. You believe that? Every guy I've ever met is a fucking jerk off to me. Oh, man. You're fucking. I've been hit with that more than fucking. What? COVID. What? I got a lot. If everybody in your life says it's you, it's you. My mom used to hit me with that all the time. I get that five times a week. Well. Two and a half of that's from you. Rightfully so. I hit you with it yesterday. Yeah. First of all. You called us all jerk offs. And all I said was, do you think if the three guys in the room are all jerk offs? Maybe it's something you're. I'm not even saying it's all your fault. Yeah. Something you're putting into. You're putting into the fucking. You're putting into the stew. Also, between the four of us, everybody has their ingredients. You get a jerk off stew going, baby. It's true. I get why you don't want. Is your. Did you really not invite me because you don't want to talk me up and then not let me show up? There were. A hundred factors into why. And it was honestly because everyone fell through. And then the party really came together last minute. Like the day before. So it did. It came together last minute. He was lying. Anybody ask you about me? I assumed you had other social obligations. Sure. Friday night. I want to make it anyway. I'm multiple parties. I had to admit. I was hanging out at a pet store that night. Yeah. My cat sick. I was thinking about getting a bait of fish. The jerk off a fish. Even your even your fish is a dickhead bother another fish. That's what that is. You're a fucking. You're a. You can't put him in a tank with a fish. You'll annoy the shit out of him. I thought they eat each other. And I wouldn't just fucking choose their ear off. There's a lot of stupid fucking questions that he knows the answer to. Don't invite that fish to a party. You're going to count on him. He's not going to show. He owes the parakeets a lot of money. Oh, that's very funny. Very funny. I had to do this a little inside baseball. I got offered a spot on a show. Right. I said, yes. And then this was whatever, I guess, two weeks, whatever, two weeks ago, I guess the blizzard, like when the snow was hitting and I was getting out of Dodge. I just realized I have two spots on Wednesday. I went, hey, I can't. Hey, man, things changed. I can't make it. Well, hold on a second. It was supposed to be for that Saturday night. Right. Right. Which the blizzard didn't happen until Sunday. I know, but that was still up in the air. It was supposed to be hitting Saturday night. Maybe. Talking to me. No, yeah, I mean. I would have been out on Wednesday. This is on. I got to get to the grocery store. One, I was leaving town. Two, even if it was in the city, I probably would have been like, hey, man. Everybody was canceling shows that Saturday. A lot of clubs are going like, hey, whatever, this is canceled, this is canceled. And I got in the spot very early on. Or like, not early on. Let's say I got it Tuesday or Wednesday, the spot. This is now like Friday. I'm like, hey, man. That's practically day off. What? Day of getting it or day of show? Yeah, I mean. You just hit me with this. I'm out. Four days ago. One, they didn't advertise anything. So I'm not even really pot committed at this point. You think that that makes you committed when they throw you up on the flyer? If I share it, yeah. Sure. They don't let anybody down. No, well, it's just. I mean, that has happened specifically to you. I've gotten some blowback. The only reason we went to this fucking show is because you and Foley were on. I'm sick. Subjects. Line up subject to change. Based on the big man's cat. And other factors. So I was just like, hey, man, with the storm, things have changed. I'm not going to make it, but would love, you know, the way he hit me up on Tuesday was like, hey, man, we'd love to have you. Can you do this Saturday? I said, I'm in always looking to do spots. Of course. And I can't. So I go, but I'm available next weekend. Door closed. Yeah. At that opportunity came and went. Sure. Spots at that location, which I get. It happened. Oh, I think I know what you're talking about. On the west side of town. I guess. Downtown. Eastside. Harlem. I'm out everywhere. Little place in Soho. Fucking Staten Island. Yeah, I know the joint. That's very funny. So, yeah, that was I. I just, you know, there's there's also one of your when it comes to canceling plans with this is relatively business plans a little bit spots. Of course. Now, I understand. Like, let's say you have dinner plans with another couple. OK, which that's only ever happened once in my life. And it was with you. With me. Yeah. What? We had dinner. Well, we had the four of us went out. Yeah. And you left midway through to go to a spot. That's crazy. I forgot about that. I did. Yeah. One hundred percent there. We talked about it. You left me, your wife and my wife. At Nobu, right? At Nobu. I pick up the fucking check. Do you really? This is it. Disappeared. Fuck it. Fuck going to the bathroom. I got a spot. You're not even a comedian. Yeah. I got a shift downtown. Yeah. Did I? Crazy. Huh. See, I don't even remember that. Yeah. Man. You stink. I remember going, don't take any spots. And then you do the thing where I think you took it. You didn't want to tell me. And then like an hour before, you're like, I picked up a 10 o'clock or whatever. Was it the cellar? No. I really don't enjoy your company, do I? A fucking bar show in the Lower East Side. Don't give her too many shrimp. She's allergic. You're a karma lounge. Yeah. You don't remember leaving? No. You left and came back. Huh. Yeah. Couldn't have been drug-seeking behavior. No, I had a spot. No, you went. Yeah, you went. You had a spot at 4th Street, I think. Huh. Anywho. But yeah. Back in five minutes. I wonder why we didn't have another one. Quick spot, huh? I only did one. It was a couple's date. And I left midway through and left the other guy there to talk to the two women. And pick up the check. Something like that. No wonder why. I'm trying to set you up. No wonder why I didn't fucking. Hey, let's do that again. I got in the car going. Trying to set you up for a menage a trois. Thanks. That's how you thank me? Dickhead. I get in the car and look at my wife. I go, she was nice. Him, not so much. I don't think I'm going to do that again. I understand if, like, say if you have plans like another. Like, if you're real people. And you have plans like another couple. Like, that's fucked up. You know? I think when it gets closer. Yeah. To me. If they get a sitter. If they get dressed up. I wouldn't do something. Three days out. Three days? I think three days out you can get out of anything. Socially, to me. Like, with no whatever. Hey, if my wife has to go, hey. And I always tell her. I go, if we're just not. I go, just fucking believe. I'll be the fucking bad guy in every situation. I don't care. Tell her I fucking. Tell him I hit you. Tell him I fucking left. I ran away. I ran away. I ran away. I don't fucking care. I don't care. I tell him I got to work. I picked up a spot. I got. I'm on tour. I bought something. I don't care. But three days out. I feel socially. I mean, while that person might be upset. I was really looking forward to it. And sometimes they get really upset. I get. I mean, yeah. You know, it's 72 hours. Give you plenty of time to pivot, though. Yes. It's like, well, we did have a sitter lined up. So maybe. Well, let's see if Foley and whoever want to go. You can find it back. I got a whole thing going on with the cat. You can find another couple or go. You know, you can pivot. I think 72 hours is. Nobody should be hold a grudge of any kind. Well, I'm glad you brought this up. Now, back in my day when I was banging. Those babysitters, they were coming no matter what. I don't ever remember a time in the 80s and a little bit of the 90s where the babysitter fell through or. Or somebody else had to come. Nothing. But these babysitters today. Sure. They're always debate. And like, I don't know. My cousin's acting like they were trying to find a brain surgeon. I'm like, get some fucking high school kid. Yeah. Just sit and watch. The kids are 11 and nine or whatever they were. I mean, that's a little fucking different. I think. Yeah. I listen. I know. You know what I'm saying? These babysitters, they flake out on you. They do. I think they're. I think they're. It's been tough within the few times we've had. What are you dropping on a babysitter, too, by the way? Hunter. Let's say you're going to dinner. Okay. I think they're going. I would say they're going right in New York. Probably 30 bucks an hour. You're talking cash, right? Cash. Venmo. Venmo. So let's say three hours. That's 90. A little grease. Yeah. I don't. You're doing 100. I hope. The one time we did it when we did when we did the Met show in Philly. We brought somebody. I was like, I don't know what that night's going to look like. That's a little different. So I paid them. I gave them a flat rate of like, hey, you know, it's going to be at least it's going to be no more than this. 200. I think two or 300. I gave them. Well, that was also a big commute. There was a snowstorm. It was. That was. That was a night. Shit, though. What? You fed her. Yeah. That was a night long obligation and travel and stuff like that. But we have someone that helps out in, which is why we had to change the plans today. We have. Someone that helps out in New York. Yeah, that's what I thought of it. Yeah. She gets 30 an hour, but she's a little high. Google what the going rate in New York is. I think she's a little like a high school kid. Give her 150 bucks on a Friday night. But I don't think you want like I don't. I mean, we have a seven month old. It's like high school kids don't have a lot of unless they have a lot of experience with a seven month old high school. He can watch a six, five, six year old. I'm learning that. I throw in a pizza. Watch a movie. Yeah, it's like. But if you have a, you know. A teething baby, a 17 year old might not know how to might not have the experience. We did that all the time. Whenever like one of our like girlfriends were babysitting in high school, we always ended up over there. Yeah, that's all chain. Nanny cams, fucking. Oh, yeah. Yeah. All that fucking. We've been there rooting through the fridge, hanging out. No shit. They come home. They chase it through the yards. I mean, I remember we had babysitters bring. I told you that guy threw me down the stairs. Fucking rat. Fuck. Try that now. Huh? It was my king size baby. I was. I was the king of getting a run of my mouth one second too far. Who am I? Whoever I was with would typically run in their mouth. Danny. Danny was running his mouth and I went like, yeah, pussy or whatever. I would always get hit. I was like, I was tagging it. I was always tagging the punchline and get fucking suckered. Pussy. I had the idea you fall down the stairs. I was young too. I was really young. I was really young. Probably did a number on the drywall. That's probably like six years. And I'm from such a fucked up family. That wasn't that crazy. No. Like I got up. I'm like, fuck your problem. I'm like, now we got to fight now. Now we got to fight on our crack my neck. Put that pizza in the microwave, right? I was one of those things where I'm like, I remember being like, I don't even think mom needs to know about this. like, you know, let's just, it's going to be a bigger headache for everybody let's sweep this under the rug keep it moving listen everybody makes mistakes everybody beats children up and shake hands with the guy listen everybody said some things that didn't mean i didn't get a balls to do it i respect you yeah you're a fucking real one dude you know that you're willing to push a six-year-old down the stairs there's so many people that i've gotten into like fights with where and even got my ass beat where we were like better friends after it's crazy i always respect the especially like in high school the kids fight and then like a handshake afterwards you see it in the street or something not listen fight you shouldn't be fighting so i'm stupid yeah but uh i always i understand that it's like you know i think that's two people who are going i'm i want to this is how i want to do this i want to get this out and they're both agreeing to do it it kind of seems and they go okay we did that and i've told this before brian tomer fucking beat my ass street hockey game because i checked some smaller kid into the fence beat the fuck out of me good yeah lesson lesson learned gave me a nice handshake we worked together thanks for kicking my lips all lips all fat thank you sure he was like get the fuck away from you're getting blood on my skates i already had that coming didn't i that was close i'm with you and you did all fucked up yeah lucky uh i caught that one he's wrong here you're on the stretcher giving the thumbs up let me see you right here again he's talking to the paramount you should see the other guy he's getting his dick sucked got eyes on his knuckles it's too tough guy he figured it out too unfortunate you fucking all right let's run through a couple of these real quick average rate for a babysitter is like 20 to 27 an hour yeah experience sitter is like 30 to 40 and i'm gonna juice that they don't cancel on you prefer she doesn't know she had she hasn't canceled um things the timeline just shifted a bit um but uh even that i can't question that can't question what like when you got a kid you can just say that to anybody you want to know something it was a bit of a lie thank you it wasn't i would say that all the time listen the timeline shift that i apologize i say that because first of all you don't speak as the timeline shifted no so i know you're lying according to my calculations my cat's sick um but even that i wouldn't i wouldn't be like what do you mean well what happened today baby we were supposed family we were supposed to record and i and i do appreciate everybody on the team kind of you know being flexible with uh i try to throw you under the bus with that yeah you don't even know i know try to throw me under the bus no luke uh luke has planned or luke wanted to do later luke preferred i know yeah oh i caught i picked up on your cunty tone trust me i just nobody doesn't read anything you say not as a dickhead i don't know how to say and i did i did i know it's crazy it's wild your tone and tag your tone and i don't get it i'm not even trying to be like that i know you're just so naturally like that what charming the hottest guy um yeah you're a specific yeah you're i wasn't even trying to do that i even even you asking for smoothies i was like i know he's just trying to have fun i was like fuck this guy though no that wasn't i wanted a response from you guys i know and i wasn't i wasn't getting a response yeah i was driving i don't give a shit what you were doing fucking text me back um no i've i fucked i it's kind of funny this is unfolding in real time i fucked up because i didn't we were coming in later and i didn't tell nadine mm-hmm right so then we weren't we weren't going to come in till one or whatever and so then we weren't going to come in till one or whatever and i was like what the fuck is going on so she's like i can't uh or it was last night or something she couldn't tell the baby she couldn't she felt bad going to the babysitter saying hey can you carry we got to move your schedule around night of which i get and respect but uh so i that was me dropping the ball and then i lied and said hey it shifted around when it didn't shift it or i didn't shift around i just didn't plan shouldn't have told us you had us i know i had you that's the fun of hey you catch a fish you set them free you know what catch a release uh all right so real quick tips for declining be prompt inform the host as soon as possible you know you cannot make it to a lot of them adjust plans 72 hours i think even day of uh keep it short don't over explain as detailed lies often sound suspicious that's too much too much i fall into that you do sometimes i think i'm i'm mind fucking or they'll never believe that i'm going this deep into it stop you what you did perfectly earlier in the lie of i'm on the t-neck it's jammed or whatever it was the teconic thank you that was some of my best work that was not that much yeah a little hey i'm jammed up on the gwb i'm the tunnels gridlock leave that even the tunnel don't say the how the tunnels gridlock you know it works when you get back you know it works when you get back you know it works when you get back yeah the whole city's jammed up yeah yes it is from what i've heard whatever yeah just yeah blame something the weather the snow ah the snow's got me although i might have told you this one time that worked so well where i was this was 20 years ago i was crashed last week i was crashed out and i didn't want to go to work it was the winter i called my boss and i was like man i'm so sick i gotta go to the hospital i hung up with him i called him back acting like he was my dad thinking that i had called my dad yeah you said yeah yeah yeah hook line and hey sucker um i've always wanted to fire like a week later unrelated called me stealing uh all right let's see use text or email sending a message often easier than a phone call allowing to control the tone yes but sometimes people hit me with your tag you you cancel over text you don't call i'll get some depends who the person is if it's my mom you gotta call your mom your brother your sister and that's send her a letter yeah um yeah you gotta like hey i'll also do a thing you know because i live far away from you know we live an hour and a half or new york two hours new york to philly from our families so there's a lot of like hey kevin can you make it next friday whatever we're doing this and i go i know i probably can't and i go i don't know let me see i gotta see there's a few things of you know work gotta shake out and then timeline timeline shift it and then midway through the next week you go i can't it's just not gonna work out that's what i like to do yeah when i when i when i you know but uh i canceled my birthday dinner one time you just did it for us we had it planned no this was serious serious as well no this was bad well i didn't do this ain't great was that real that you guys were really planning that yeah oh i didn't know that we'll have to have a longer discussion about it i didn't know i didn't have to come up with a more in-depth lie i thought you were i thought you were joking around so we'll talk what is the what is the plan it was to go to dinner but if you want to have my birthday yeah but if you want to go to if you want to play cards or something here we can you're the birthday boy baby you just give me 50 bucks now all right 25. no my sister-in-law made dinner made meatballs which are meatballs as you know this was years ago talk about getting off on the wrong foot sure yeah she made dinner and i canceled you've been canceling for a long time haven't you big dog man had to give a lot of ayg merch to fucking oh i'm coming out of my ass uh all right we gotta wrap it up though gang gang good luck canceling your playing tonight. We love you. We'll see you next weekend. Peace!