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How to Build a Business That Makes Money Without You

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How to Build a Business That Makes Money Without You

The speaker, Cody Sanchez, argues that the key test of a great business is whether it can survive without the owner. If not, it's a job, not a business, and this owner dependency is why 70-80% of businesses fail to sell. She introduces a "lifer" self-assessment with five red flags, such as no real vacations and blurred work-life boundaries; three or more yeses means you're an "inmate" of your own creation. She debunks the myth that money stops buying happiness at $75K, citing recent research showing it climbs past $200K for most, but for the unhappiest 20%, it plateaus—money amplifies a good life but can't rescue a broken one. Owners must choose one of three paths: freedom, domination, or escape, and align their actions with that goal. She identifies five common lies that keep people stuck, like "I'll hire when we hit X" or "My customers only want me," and offers a three-step solution: embed in the bottleneck, solve it with systems or hires, and exit the role without relapsing. She shares a success story where systematizing sales freed an owner and added $900K in revenue. Ultimately, the goal is "presence without dependence"—staying aware but not indispensable—so owners can be rich and free, not chained to their work.**Key Points** 1. Owner dependency is the top reason businesses fail; if a business can't run without you, it's a job, not a business. 2. The "lifer" gut check includes five signs, like no full week off in two years or blurred work-life hours; three or more yeses means you're trapped. 3. Money's happiness impact: new research shows it climbs past $200K for most, but for the unhappiest 20%, it plateaus around $100K—money amplifies a working life but can't fix a broken one. 4. Three ownership paths exist: freedom (lifestyle business), domination (scale and empire), and escape (build to sell); you can't chase all three at once. 5. Five lies keep owners stuck, like "I'll hire when we hit X" or "I'm the only one who cares"; the solution is "embed, solve, exit" to systemize and delegate. 6. Replacing yourself with systems (e.g., hiring, playbooks, rules) boosts value and profits; an example owner saved $750K and grew revenue by systematizing sales. 7. Freedom means "presence without dependence"—not neglect, but running the business without being indispensable, like Patagonia's management by absence. **Summary** The speaker, Cody Sanchez, argues that the key test of a great business is whether it can survive without the owner. If not, it's a job, not a business, and this owner dependency is why 70-80% of businesses fail to sell. She introduces a "lifer" self-assessment with five red flags, such as no real vacations and blurred work-life boundaries; three or more yeses means you're an "inmate" of your own creation. She debunks the myth that money stops buying happiness at $75K, citing recent research showing it climbs past $200K for most, but for the unhappiest 20%, it plateaus—money amplifies a good life but can't rescue a broken one. Owners must choose one of three paths: freedom, domination, or escape, and align their actions with that goal. She identifies five common lies that keep people stuck, like "I'll hire when we hit X" or "My customers only want me," and offers a three-step solution: embed in the bottleneck, solve it with systems or hires, and exit the role without relapsing. She shares a success story where systematizing sales freed an owner and added $900K in revenue. Ultimately, the goal is "presence without dependence"—staying aware but not indispensable—so owners can be rich and free, not chained to their work.

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There's one question that tells me immediately whether you run a great business or not. When was the last time you the owner or an important employee took a vacation? If you're proudly saying something like vacation, I don't take vacations, I grind. This place needs me. That your business is probably not a business, it's a job. So today, I'm going to give you all the secrets, the juice. So whether you work for somebody else or you work for yourself, you can steal them and implement them in your lives. We got the three paths every business is on right now, whether you know it or not. And the five lies that keep businesses changed to you. I'm Cody Sanchez, this is the Big Deal podcast. Let's get into it. Really quick. September 18th, every single thing you see in this episode, I am going to talk about live at the biggest event I've ever done in my whole life. I am going to give you $1 million dollars free in cash and prizes for people to win. Every single person who comes will get something from me that has helped me make my first six and seven figures. And I'm going to walk you through how this book will help your life. There's a question I ask everybody in business. I want you to answer it honestly. If your business lost you tomorrow, would it be a Tuesday or a funeral? Picture it. Like you step back from your job or team for two weeks. Does the machine keep humming? Or does it seize up freeze and are you getting non-stop slacks? The idea is I want to tattoo this line on the insides of your eyelids. If it can't survive without you, you don't own a business you want to job. And I bad wanted that with a terrible boss. And probably a salary where you pay yourself last. So I've got this gut check and I call it, "Are you the lifer?" It's five yes or no statements. One, you haven't taken a full week off in two years. Two, your work hours and your personal hours have blurred into one long smear. Three, your closest relationships took a backseat to the business and everyone involved knows it. Four, your business has quietly replaced most of your life outside of it. Five, selling or closing the business would feel like losing part of your soul. Count your yeses. Three or more, you're not an owner, you're an inmate. And that's okay because I know you might tell me it's fine, the business is doing well, I love my job. All of that is great. But if you want to make more money, then you need to make sure you are replaceable, actually. Whether you run the business or not. Because most people in business fail. 70 to 80% of businesses will never actually sell that are even listed for sale. Seven to eight out of every 10 owners who walk into the market to sell something, walk home with nothing. And we should know I own one of the biggest buying and selling business marketplaces in the world called Biscuit. And when we look at the autopsy of these dead businesses, the number one reason owner dependency, it's also why you won't get promoted in your job. Because if you can't build a team, then why would they give you more money and more opportunity and more people to manage and hire? So like just because you are an owner doesn't mean that you actually have a business. The thing is buyers don't buy jobs. They buy machines that make them money. Whether you the previous owner shows up or not. And people don't give you more money if you are the entirety of a division or a group. If the whole operation lives in your head, there's really nothing on the table to purchase or to pay you more for. So your freedom problem is also a valuation problem. And at some point you see it, you don't own this thing, it kind of owns you. And then here's the question that should really pause you and maybe make you a little angry. You got into this business to set yourself free. So why does it have you by the throat? Like I can just picture the objection, right? So like, all right, fine, Cody, I'm chained to it. But these chains are made of gold. I love it. You know, once the number gets big enough, I'll buy my way out. Super cute and theory. But science has basically said that that's not what happens. So what does money actually buy? In 2010, there's a Nobel laureate, Daniel Coniman, he's incredible. And he published with a fellow Princeton economist, one of the most quoted findings in modern social science. Day to day happiness rises with income, then flatlines around 75 K. You've heard this one. It launched like a thousand TED talks, gave a generation permission to stop asking hard questions about money. One problem, the study was bullshit. Because in 2021, a University of Pennsylvania researcher tested it with better instruments, better tools, and built an app that paying more than 33,000 working Americans at random moments and asked how they felt right then in the moment instead of for memory. Over 1.7 million real-time reports later, that famous $75,000 plateau was gone. How high was it? Well, it climbed a lot. Passed $200,000, with really no ceiling and sight up to 500 K. So who's right? I mean, here's the twist, I think. In 2023, the two rivals did something nearly extinct in academia. They put older data together, brought in a neutral referee, and published a joint answer on one of the top journals in the country. The finding? Both a right about different people. For most people, more money really does in fact buy more happiness. But for the unhappiest, roughly 20%, the benefit stops around 100 K. Passed that line, money can't touch what's actually hurting them. And I think this is important because the whole episode, basically, today that we're going to talk about, is in one data set. Money amplifies the life that is already working. It basically can't rescue a life that is completely not working. So if the machine you built is eating your marriage, your health, your weekends, the next is zero on the revenue line does nothing for you. You've enrolled yourself, and the one group money can't help. And I think this is important to say, because I work all the fucking time, but I really like it. And I choose when and how. And my employees work really, really hard, but they like it. And they choose when and how. And we don't, you know, police when they come in in the morning and when they leave. And how many vacation days they take a year. And we don't police if they want to build a new part of the business, if they want to grow a new part, if they want to try a new trade. Like, no. And so the question here is really, I think, what actually moves the needle? The University of British Columbia, basically, they ran six studies on about, I don't know, 5,000 people and found that people who value time over money are reliably happier. And actually held after controlling for how much money they had. A follow-up study found the same thing from the other direction. People who spend money to buy back time, they have a higher life satisfaction than people who buy more stuff. This is so important. Using your money to buy you more time makes you happier than buying things. And I think that's the thing most owners, they don't ever think about. Then neither do employees. Like, how many employees, I mean, if you're one right now, tell me in the comments for real, how many of you make over a hundred thousand dollars a year? And you haven't gotten yourself a VA or an agentic VA. Like, you're just doing everything all the time and it makes you really feel good to say you're busy nonstop even though you could just be productive as opposed to busy. I think money only pays off when you trade it for time and autonomy. If you leave it unconverted, like, it's just some arbitrary score that nobody really knows about and you can't take it with you. So you move the target, the goal isn't to end up rich on paper, it's to end up free to work on what you can do uniquely that you love to do that you'd have to pry out of your cold dead fingers. I have a mental model for you. I call this the three paths of ownership. And it could be of employment too. Every owner is on one of three paths. Now, whether you picked it or not is a different question. Path one freedom is really the lifestyle business. Like, you optimize for making as much money and profit as you can every year, but augmented by your life. The business exists to fund a life and the life is really the point. Path two domination. That means scale, market share, head count, empire. You work like a maniac for a decade and that's the deal you know and we signed and you love it. That's like my business. Path three, escape. You're building to sell. Like, every decision gets judged by one standard. Does this make the business worth more to somebody else? No, no one of those is better than anyone, but you need to pick which one matches the life you actually want. I fucking hate all this business advice out there and life advice. It's like, you should do this because I did. It's like, bro, you're miserable. You don't have a family. Like, you don't have friends. You don't have hobby. What? I don't, okay. Yeah, that worked for you to get to a billion dollars, but I don't want your life simultaneously. If you're like taking advice from a lifestyle person who just like to hang out, not work all the time, but you're a maniac, you're going to be miserable too. And I think this is the disaster that most entrepreneurs are doing, which is like chasing all three at once and not trying to filter advice through what you want for your life as an adult with the willpower to choose yourself. So you're like, no, I'll have freedom and an empire and a payday. And like, you can't pick all three at once. Because that's like basically saying, I'm going to go on a diet. I'm going to go on a bulk and I'm going to go on a juice cleanse all at the same time. You're like, what? Exhausted. A broke. It's actually impressive, you know? There's actually this quote from one of the best rodeo cowboys that exist. His name's Larry Mann. I think I'm saying that right. And he said, you can't ride two horses with one ass. OK, so how do you find out which horse you're actually riding? Well, I break this down in detail in this book. So I can give you every single segment of it on September 18th. Click the link below. It's totally free for you to register for the event where we'll go through it. But let me give you the cliff notes. First, pull up the last 12 months of your calendar and your bank statements. If you say you want the freedom path, but the calendar shows 70 hour weeks and every dollar of profit, go back into headcount. You're basically running a domination play. But you're running it accidentally, which means like your pay and full price and collecting none of the prize. Then if you want to see what a past audit looks like at the highest level, I think you could consider like Bill Gates, right? He used to memorize his employee's license plates at Microsoft, so he could scan the parking lot and know who came in early and stayed late. You know, he bragged it out barely sleeping. Then he got close to Warren Buffett and he saw Warren's calendar. And it was like this paper date book almost empty. Hold days with nothing on it. And one week in April had three entries. [laughs] Like Buffett's a billionaire. And his calendar was wide open. And Gates said it kind of rewired him. He'd packed every minute of his life and assumed that was like the only way for it to be done. And then here's the greatest investor and operator maybe. be a vault time guarding the blank days like that was the point because they kind of were for him. And not saying either one's right or wrong, but the lessons Gates took from it in his own words, you control your time. And Buffett's version would be like, "I can buy anything I want basically, but I can't buy time." So Buffett's calendar and Buffett's path sort of matched perfectly to his yours. And if you do choose the Breedham Path, change your scoreboard today. Like on this path, the metric that matters is profit per hour of your time. And I break this down specifically so you can see a nice little graph on it. Revenue for you would be a vanity number, like a $2 million business that nets you 500K on 15 hours a week would beat a $10 million business that nets you the same on 80. And so this is really up to you. Okay, so let's say that you've picked Freedom. How do you actually get out of the middle of everything without the wheels coming off? This is like a really important question. First we kill the bedtime stories. I call this the jailbreak. And these are like self-sullying little lies. The lies owners tell themselves to make the cage that you've built feel like a choice. There are five of them. The first one I hear the most is I'll hire when we hit X number. Like no you won't. The number's going to move every time you get close because it's more about control. Lie two. This quarter is the last hard one. You probably said that last quarter and like the 11 before that. So like maybe you've just decided to live on a hard mode. What could we redo? And why do we keep doing what Einstein says the definition of insanity is, which is the same thing continuously and expect in a different result. That seems dumb. Lie number three. I'm the only one who cares enough. We call this the murder complex. And if you haven't taken our avatar personality test in this, you're going to want it because it'll tell you where you are blocking yourself from making more money. It is true that nobody will ever care like the founder about your business in the same way. But it's also a relevant because the question was never if someone cares the same. It's like, have you built a system where carrying 80% as much still produces a great result for you and the person who works with you? Lie four. My customers, they only want me. Yeah, sure. Like a few of them. But most customers actually don't give a shit about you. They want your results. Like, and that's good because you're not everything to everyone and you can build yourself out of that process. And the last lie that we told ourselves is, it's not that bad. Right? This one's easy. Like your spouse, your sleep, your back. Your hot girl stomach with all the stress. Like that's telling you that it actually is kind of bad. And it's really three words that solves this. Embed, solve, exit. So I want you to go stand in the bottleneck. Like the one place where everything waits on you. You kind of probably already know where this is. Like even in your job, it's like, man, I'm the one source of truth because I've been here the longest and everybody's bothering me on stuff all the time. And can I just spend a day getting out of my head and every time somebody asks me a question. And I tell them to go look at this fucking thing. That was one of my employees, Lindsay, who like basically was being driven crazy because she is our longest standing ops employee and has like the passwords to everything. So I just get it. She's becoming a password keeper. What a miserable job. But that's her fault, which I told her. I'm like, then put it down on paper and stop letting people treat you like their password keeper. Tell them they're being lazy. Go look at this thing. And like, don't guess. Look at where the work stacks up when you take a day off. Look at where people are pinging you nonstop. That's your address. That's the thing you got to go after. Then step two, we're going to solve it. So like with Lindsay, we're going to build the thing that replaces you in that seat. Sometimes it's hiring somebody to backfill. We did that. Sometimes it's a playbook. Sometimes it's just a rule. Like you're not allowed to ask me about passwords until you've checked this file. And if I go find the password in there, you have to buy me a latte. Great rule. And that can be done by an employee or an owner because of every discount, every problem, every whatever crosses your desk, then you need to hand it to the person who should own the discount process instead. Now there are some that I think that you got to do. Like if you're in an early stage business, you probably have to hire every employee. You can have a scoreboard. You don't have to do every single employee hire at every step. But what you need to realize is that the knowledge in your head isn't an asset until it exists outside of your head. And step three is the exit. Like leave the seat. This is where all of us relapse. So hear me. Do not take the seat back. The first time someone runs it at 80% of your standard because they're going to. If you have five people running at 80% versus you at 95% guess who wins. Your 95% was costing you your entire life. I'm no mathematician. But five people do 80% that's higher. So you're going to repeat this again and again and again and bed solve exit and bed solve exit until nobody in the building has a single point of failure. You're going to free you and your employees. You need to hand every employee you have this book because at the end of every single chapter it says team handoff right here and you know, hey, give this to your marketing lead. And here's what the marketing leads going to go do. I run an advisory program for business owners called growth boardroom. One of the owners in there, this guy Jimmy had an incredible story about how he was the owner reliance issue and his business basically. He was spending on a 25 hours a week personally handling all sales and realized because we like to put a price tag on your pain and everything you do that that was costing him $750,000. So what did we do with him? We embedded in the problem. He recorded and transcribed every sales call for three months, turned it into a pitch, into a one-pager and a repeatable sales system. Then he hired for the system and boom, he solved with a founder dependency problem and he didn't just solve it for 750K. He actually signed contracts worth over 934,000 and annualized gross revenue I think and was like 50% already hitting the top line when published. His business grew when he removed himself from that problem. So I obsess over these frameworks and systems because I want every business owner to be rich and free. Will you guys all make $900,000 off of it? I doubt it. But will you have somewhere in your life where you are better and richer because you put a system in place, both richer and time and money? Probably. Like all of your time, all of your fun is what these problems cost you, but they can be solved with systems. And that is the entire reason I wrote this new book for you. More profit, less pain, to have more freedom with less chaos. So you're going to actually learn live at our launch about the real systems I used to scale multiple businesses to the nine figure mark. And the specific ways you can hand stuff off to your team, even if you're not the one in charge of everything, to help your business keep growing. I'm launching this on September 18th, free tickets in the link below. I'll see you there. Last thing I want to just check in with you on, everybody online is obsessed with passive income and handoff sales. Like that's not what I'm saying. I don't know how you can run a business at a small scale, free of everything, ignore everything, run without you. Those are different. You're not allowed to disappear. Freedom doesn't mean you neglect the business that gave it to you. The gold standard is presence without dependence. So you're close enough to sense when something bad's going on. You're far enough that it runs without you, like not absent or indispensable. And the best proof I know is a guy who built a multi-billion dollar company while barely being in the building. That's Ivan Schoenard, the founder of Patagonia. And he used to say he ran the company on his MBA, management by absence. And his term, he literally was like, I'm gone from May, November. And he would call a handful times while he climbed, served and fished. Like, for him, that wasn't neglect because he built a system around it in a team. Those months in the field were where he tested the gear, found the flaws, came home with the next decade of products. Then he hired operators he trusted, panned in one of them the CEO seat for 13 years, and reserved for himself the single job that only he could do, living inside of the product. When he finally let go completely, I basically gave the company away, Patagonia was worth $3 billion dollars, presence without dependence. And here's how you'll know it's working for you. The real measure of success is whether the business runs better in the weeks you're not there, or runs worse. That's what happened when I finally did this for real. I got my life back, and the business got better both at once. Not a trade-off. Now I have to warn you, getting free is one thing, staying free is another. And so I want to make sure you design your life before the business does. Like I want you to have to have your calendar set, like we've talked about before. Let the business quietly eat in every single part of you. Schedule the date nights ahead of time. I'm going to break this all down actually in the last chapter of the book. But let's leave you with this last thing. In business you can either listen to the hustle porn, the mania that you have to get up at 5 a.m., read 57 books, work 24 hours a day until you die, or you can work on getting better and building a system that's smarter with people who are better than you, because that's the entire purpose of a CEO. Your CEO, as a CEO, your real job is really three things, which is give a vision so big other people see their dream as bigger underneath you. Create systems inside of your business so that the business runs without you and be so delusually optimistic that other people believe you can succeed. That's the game. I'll see you guys on September 18th.

Podcast Summary

Key Points:

  1. Owner dependency is the top reason businesses fail; if a business can't run without you, it's a job, not a business.
  2. The "lifer" gut check includes five signs, like no full week off in two years or blurred work-life hours; three or more yeses means you're trapped.
  3. Money's happiness impact
  4. Three ownership paths exist
  5. Five lies keep owners stuck, like "I'll hire when we hit X" or "I'm the only one who cares"; the solution is "embed, solve, exit" to systemize and delegate.
  6. Replacing yourself with systems (e.g., hiring, playbooks, rules) boosts value and profits; an example owner saved $750K and grew revenue by systematizing sales.
  7. Freedom means "presence without dependence"—not neglect, but running the business without being indispensable, like Patagonia's management by absence.

Summary:

The speaker, Cody Sanchez, argues that the key test of a great business is whether it can survive without the owner. If not, it's a job, not a business, and this owner dependency is why 70-80% of businesses fail to sell. She introduces a "lifer" self-assessment with five red flags, such as no real vacations and blurred work-life boundaries; three or more yeses means you're an "inmate" of your own creation. She debunks the myth that money stops buying happiness at $75K, citing recent research showing it climbs past $200K for most, but for the unhappiest 20%, it plateaus—money amplifies a good life but can't rescue a broken one. Owners must choose one of three paths: freedom, domination, or escape, and align their actions with that goal. She identifies five common lies that keep people stuck, like "I'll hire when we hit X" or "My customers only want me," and offers a three-step solution: embed in the bottleneck, solve it with systems or hires, and exit the role without relapsing. She shares a success story where systematizing sales freed an owner and added $900K in revenue. Ultimately, the goal is "presence without dependence"—staying aware but not indispensable—so owners can be rich and free, not chained to their work.**Key Points** 1. Owner dependency is the top reason businesses fail; if a business can't run without you, it's a job, not a business. 2. The "lifer" gut check includes five signs, like no full week off in two years or blurred work-life hours; three or more yeses means you're trapped. 3. Money's happiness impact: new research shows it climbs past $200K for most, but for the unhappiest 20%, it plateaus around $100K—money amplifies a working life but can't fix a broken one. 4. Three ownership paths exist: freedom (lifestyle business), domination (scale and empire), and escape (build to sell); you can't chase all three at once. 5. Five lies keep owners stuck, like "I'll hire when we hit X" or "I'm the only one who cares"; the solution is "embed, solve, exit" to systemize and delegate. 6. Replacing yourself with systems (e.g., hiring, playbooks, rules) boosts value and profits; an example owner saved $750K and grew revenue by systematizing sales. 7. Freedom means "presence without dependence"—not neglect, but running the business without being indispensable, like Patagonia's management by absence.

**Summary** The speaker, Cody Sanchez, argues that the key test of a great business is whether it can survive without the owner. If not, it's a job, not a business, and this owner dependency is why 70-80% of businesses fail to sell. She introduces a "lifer" self-assessment with five red flags, such as no real vacations and blurred work-life boundaries; three or more yeses means you're an "inmate" of your own creation. She debunks the myth that money stops buying happiness at $75K, citing recent research showing it climbs past $200K for most, but for the unhappiest 20%, it plateaus—money amplifies a good life but can't rescue a broken one. Owners must choose one of three paths: freedom, domination, or escape, and align their actions with that goal. She identifies five common lies that keep people stuck, like "I'll hire when we hit X" or "My customers only want me," and offers a three-step solution: embed in the bottleneck, solve it with systems or hires, and exit the role without relapsing. She shares a success story where systematizing sales freed an owner and added $900K in revenue. Ultimately, the goal is "presence without dependence"—staying aware but not indispensable—so owners can be rich and free, not chained to their work.

FAQs

If your business can't survive without you for two weeks, you don't own a business—you own a job. Take the 'lifer' test: if you have three or more yeses (e.g., no full week off in two years, blurred work-life hours), you're likely an inmate, not an owner.

The three paths are Freedom (lifestyle business optimizing for profit and life), Domination (scaling for market share and empire), and Escape (building to sell). You must pick one that matches your desired life; chasing all three at once leads to exhaustion and failure.

The five lies are: 'I'll hire when we hit X number,' 'This quarter is the last hard one,' 'I'm the only one who cares enough,' 'My customers only want me,' and 'It's not that bad.' These self-sabotaging beliefs prevent owners from building systems and gaining freedom.

For most people, more money does buy more happiness, with no plateau up to $500K. However, for the unhappiest 20%, benefits stop around $100K. Money amplifies a life that's already working but can't rescue one that's failing—so trading money for time and autonomy is key.

First, embed yourself in the bottleneck where everything waits on you. Second, solve it by creating systems, playbooks, or hiring to replace you in that seat. Third, exit by leaving the seat and not taking it back, allowing others to run at 80% efficiency to free your time.

On the Freedom path, the key metric is profit per hour of your time, not revenue. A $2M business netting $500K on 15 hours a week beats a $10M business netting the same on 80 hours. Revenue is vanity; freedom and profit per hour matter.

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